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Supernanny will help families get their behavior back on track- but it won’t be easy!! 😭 Expect lots of extreme tantrums, fighting kids and broken rules!
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00:00Hi, we're the Silva family. I'm Danielle. I'm Tom. Tom and I have seven kids.
00:06When Tom and I got married, Tom brought in two children from his previous marriage.
00:12Megan, who's 17, Allison, who's 7. I brought in Cheryl, who's 8, Mackenzie is 6,
00:18and together we have Riley is 2, Kasiya is 1 1⁄2, and Caden is 6 months.
00:25I work full-time for the Army National Guard.
00:27My current duty assignment takes me away from home.
00:30I leave Monday mornings. I come home Friday nights.
00:33So I'm gone all week.
00:36What are you guys doing?
00:39People don't really understand what it's like with seven kids.
00:44They're stepsisters, and we hate each other.
00:47You're not going outside.
00:48Yes, I am.
00:49No, you're not.
00:50Yes, I am.
00:51Husband gone all week and seven kids.
00:55You've got your hands full here.
00:57We'll also kill you, you idiot.
01:00Every single child in this house swears.
01:02You shut the...
01:04Ah!
01:07Oh, my word.
01:08Megan, her oldest child, there is some distance growing between us.
01:12The relationship between my father and I has kind of been indifferent.
01:17Sometimes I just don't feel that Megan and I are even on the same planet.
01:22Go. In the other room and play.
01:24I yell a lot at the kids.
01:26Get your butt back in here.
01:28Hang it up where it belongs.
01:30I think this is going to be the worst house Superdanny has gone to.
01:35Too good.
01:36Cut up, you idiot.
01:37I'm going to be deployed to Iraq for a year and a half.
01:43Danielle is pretty much going to be on her own with these kids.
01:46Superdanny, please come here and help out my family.
01:49Superdanny, I really need your help.
01:51You guys are in a crisis.
01:54I'm on my way.
02:03Well, this is going to be interesting to see exactly how Mum copes with seven kids while Dad's gone for the whole week.
02:10Come on in.
02:16Hiya, pleased to meet you.
02:17Hi.
02:17Jo.
02:18I'm Danielle.
02:19Hi, and who's this little one?
02:20This is Kasaya.
02:21Hi, Kasaya.
02:22Say hi.
02:24How are you?
02:25When I first saw Jo, the first thing I thought was, oh, kids, please behave.
02:28Don't get me started off by yelling at you when she first walks in the door.
02:33And who are all these children over here?
02:36That's Riley.
02:38Can you say hi?
02:39Let me have this.
02:40Say hi.
02:42What's your name?
02:44Hi, Cheryl.
02:45Pleased to meet you.
02:46When I first saw Jo, I was like, oh, my God, she's finally here.
02:51What's your name?
02:52Mackenzie.
02:53Mackenzie.
02:54Hi, Mackenzie.
02:54Pleased to meet you.
02:55I'm Jojo.
02:56Hi, Allison.
02:59Pleased to meet you.
03:00How are you?
03:01Yeah, she looks Scottish.
03:03Scottish.
03:06This is baby brother.
03:07A baby brother.
03:09He's the handsomest little baby I've ever seen.
03:12And the tiniest.
03:14Yeah, he's about, like, this big.
03:15Do you want to quickly show me around the house so I can get a rough idea where everyone sleeps?
03:20Mum was giving me a tour of the house, and all I could see was just clothes everywhere.
03:24They were in the cupboards.
03:25They were spilling out of the drawers.
03:27They were on the beds.
03:28There's a great big pearl in the hallway.
03:34I mean, you just have to kind of shift through the clothes to get from one room to the next.
03:38Half the time, I think I am washing clean clothes.
03:41Because I'll look at something and go, I just folded this.
03:45No cleaning's been done at all.
03:48Mum is obviously finding it hard to keep on top of this situation.
03:52When we finished the house tour, I wondered where the rest of the girls had gone.
03:56I found it in here.
03:57There she was.
04:02Hi.
04:03You know what Riley thinks you are?
04:05She thinks you're.
04:07She thinks I'm.
04:08This was one to add to the list when I had Mackenzie come up to me and, um, and say that Riley thought I was...
04:18What does that mean, that word?
04:20That means she doesn't like you.
04:23It just made me realise these children must hear this language all the time.
04:31I think Mum must have panicked a little bit because after showing me how unorganised she was, she went on this frantic cleaning spree in the kitchen.
04:40She was scraping with her knife all the dirt and she pulled the dining table out.
04:44And she said, all I do is spend my time cleaning.
04:47I thought, there's no way.
04:48Normally, I would be up until midnight cleaning the house.
04:53Danielle was in there mopping the floor and it looks like it hasn't been cleaned for absolutely months.
05:00Whilst Mum was doing her best maid impersonation, I thought somebody better check on the kids.
05:07Mummy, I hate you.
05:10The kids were just beating up on one another and their potty mouths...
05:15Well, Mum, she didn't care at all.
05:23I couldn't believe my eyes.
05:41Riley, who's two years old, was driving around Kasaya, who's a year and a half, in a toy tractor, without helmets!
05:53Next thing I know, Riley walks through the door alone and I thought, somebody's missing.
05:58So, where's Kasaya?
06:02Coming up on Supernanny, it's a mad dash to find Kasaya.
06:07Kasaya's stuck.
06:08It's hard.
06:10It's okay.
06:10It's a serious situation.
06:12And desperation sets in as Mum prepares for Dad's departure.
06:15What am I going to do about myself?
06:19When Supernanny returns.
06:23So, where's Kasaya?
06:29She's been left somewhere.
06:31So, Mum and I are, like, running everywhere to try and find Kasaya.
06:36Kasaya's stuck.
06:37Did you get left here?
06:44Riley just left Kasaya on the back of the tractor.
06:48She's only one and a half years old.
06:49Come on.
06:51I was shocked that Mum had to go looking for Kasaya.
06:54I mean, if she can't manage the kids now, what's she going to do when Dad's gone for 18 months?
06:58Stop it.
07:01Do not unfold, though.
07:04The chaos continued inside whilst Riley was putting up a fight.
07:08Riley Catherine, out of my kitchen now.
07:11No matter what Mum said, Riley did the opposite.
07:14Stop.
07:15Go play.
07:17Don't jump off that couch.
07:19No.
07:21Stop it.
07:22I can't just go and sit down for 20 minutes because it's Mommy this, Mommy that.
07:27Straighten up.
07:29Come back here.
07:31Riley.
07:32I just feel like I'm always running around, picking up somebody's mess.
07:35Hang it up.
07:38Stopping somebody's fight.
07:39If you can't play, then you'll need to come out and sit on the couch.
07:42Mum's definitely got her hands full with seven kids, but I can tell by the way she's acting,
07:49it's really taken a toll on her now.
07:54Actually, let me grab you for a moment.
07:56I pulled Danielle aside because I was really curious just to see how she was feeling,
08:01knowing that Tom was going off to war.
08:04It's harsh.
08:05Oh, it's OK.
08:06It's a serious situation that's about to happen and change the dynamic of your family.
08:11And it changed.
08:12It's tough for Mum right now.
08:13She's a ball of emotions.
08:15She's got her partner who's going off to Iraq.
08:18I mean, I told him I got married.
08:21I love having a big family.
08:22I'm part of a big family.
08:23I just didn't think I was going to have to raise them by myself.
08:26And it's not fair to the little ones because they don't understand.
08:30She's feeling overwhelmed with the fear that she's going to be left to raise the children
08:35for a year and a half, possibly, without any support.
08:39And I can't blame her for feeling scared and anxious.
08:45How am I going to do it by myself?
08:47You know, I'm not going to have, that's 18 months, no break.
08:51Nobody else to be responsible for them.
08:54And it's going to be me.
08:56Later on, Megan got home from school and I managed to say hello.
09:03Hi, yeah, pleased to meet you.
09:04Joe.
09:05I love her accent.
09:06Just meeting her, she seemed really nice right off the bat.
09:10How was school?
09:10There were three finals today.
09:12Megan is 17 years old and I know she doesn't have the best relationship with her dad,
09:17but I wanted to know how she felt about it.
09:20Hi.
09:22Let me talk to you while we've got no interruptions.
09:26What's that like, the new relationship with dad?
09:29We don't usually talk, so he's not very understanding.
09:34I don't like talking to him because he doesn't grasp what I'm trying to say.
09:38He likes twisting it around, which really irritates the crap out of me.
09:41What do you need from your dad, Megan?
09:43I don't really want anything from him.
09:46But he's going away and he's going to be gone for a year and a half.
09:51And if I could turn around and say to you that I could make a difference in being able
09:57to change your relationship with your dad, what would it be?
10:02I don't know if anything could change.
10:04He's one of the most stubborn people.
10:06We're both stubborn people.
10:07That's why we can't get along.
10:08We're going to improve that.
10:10Joe is definitely someone that I felt I could trust.
10:12I mean, she seemed like she genuinely cared to hear what I had to say.
10:16So I found it easy to confide in her.
10:20Megan's relationship with her dad clearly needs a lot of work.
10:24But I'm committed in making sure that before I leave, these guys are talking to one another
10:28and more importantly, before dad goes off.
10:33Ray, Ray, look!
10:34Hi, girls.
10:35I spent the whole day with mum observing.
10:43And for the first time, just before we sat down to talk, I met Tom.
10:48Pleased to meet you, Joe.
10:49Oh, nice to meet you.
10:51Which is different for me.
10:52I would love to just grab the pair of you and go through the issues that I feel need to be addressed.
10:57Great.
10:58Hopefully we can do that now and sit down and have a talk.
11:00Sure.
11:02Let's get straight to the point because we don't have time.
11:08Tom, you're off to Iraq very, very soon.
11:11Yes, in three weeks.
11:12Danielle, you're going to be left to look after and raise seven children.
11:20For how long, Tom?
11:21A year to 18 months.
11:23And I'm not going to pull any punches with you guys.
11:26I walked through the door, Danielle, and I was shocked.
11:30Absolutely shocked.
11:32There is food all over the place.
11:35There are toys in every corner.
11:37There are clothes from one room to the other.
11:41You've got seven kids.
11:44It's not a choice.
11:45It's mandatory.
11:46You have to be on top of things.
11:49I agree.
11:50We both agree.
11:51But it's not happening.
11:53Why isn't it happening?
11:55I just don't get any cooperation from the kids.
11:57And other than yelling at them or swearing at them, they don't listen.
12:02What part of you, as parents, think that it is acceptable to swear in front of your children?
12:10Well, I don't think either one of us view it as acceptable.
12:14And we don't want our children to use that kind of language.
12:16While I was observing, Mackenzie came up to me.
12:21And what she said to me was, Riley thinks you're ****.
12:26That would be Riley.
12:28Riley thinks everything is ****.
12:30I'll tell you what, it's totally unacceptable in my book.
12:33Everything you're teaching these children when you swear at them is how to communicate with others.
12:38That's not right, isn't it?
12:41No, it's not.
12:42You guys need to raise the bar.
12:44You don't see the potential in any of your children at all.
12:48You just see the bad things that they do all the time.
12:51I want to.
12:52I really want to fix it.
12:53And I go to bed and cry because I don't know how to fix it.
12:57And that's what I'm trying to bring to the forefront.
12:59You will need a strategy of how you are going to cope for when Tom goes off to Iraq.
13:06And you need to be pulling out that strength from somewhere.
13:10Dad, what's Megan like?
13:12Megan is a lot like me.
13:15I see a lot of myself in her.
13:18A lot of my virtues and a lot of my faults.
13:21You've got to open up the gates.
13:23She wants to be able to receive your love.
13:25She wants to be respected by you.
13:29You have the power to resolve that and to make that better.
13:33She was very insightful.
13:34In just a few short days of observation, she knew my family.
13:38So you guys really willing to put in all of that strength,
13:41all of that courage, that determination to be able to turn around your family?
13:47Yes.
13:48I can see that there's hope and she really can help us.
13:51And there's things that we can do.
13:52We're not a lost cause.
13:53I'm ready to go.
13:54I want my kids to get all they deserve.
13:58You ready to start some good hard work then?
14:00Yes, we are.
14:01Let's go.
14:02No time to mess around.
14:04Coming up on Super Nanny.
14:06Any trash talk, you're going to lose one of these.
14:10And they're going to end up in here.
14:13When Joe puts the lid on the family's trash talk.
14:16I don't know.
14:17It's just not that fun to just sit here.
14:20Mom's not in the mood to play.
14:22Your kids want you.
14:24When Super Nanny returns.
14:26But first, a tip from Super Nanny.
14:28Parents and child carers, be mindful of the language you use.
14:32Negative phrases like, you're horrible, you're just stupid,
14:35are all demeaning words that will break a child's spirit and self-esteem.
14:40So make sure that you set that example
14:42and use positive language around your children.
14:44This house seriously needs a routine.
14:54It doesn't have one, any shape or form.
14:58And if there ever were a house that needed a routine, it was this one.
15:01Come over here.
15:02Come on.
15:03JoJo's got something I want to show you.
15:05I'm willing to try what Jo's got.
15:07I'm really hoping that, you know, with the advice she gives us,
15:11we can get some kind of routine going and survive until Tom gets back.
15:15And not just survive, but flourish while he's gone.
15:19So let's move on now that we have that in place.
15:22When Jo walked in with a plan and said,
15:24this is our schedule and this is what we need to stick to,
15:27right away the sergeant in me is going, yes, yes, let's go do it.
15:31Everybody happy with that?
15:32I can't sugarcoat this.
15:43The house's a mess.
15:45Mum's overwhelmed.
15:46She can't do it alone,
15:47so the kids are going to have to step up and help her get organised.
15:50What we're going to do is have a big clearer.
15:54OK, we're going to get organised.
15:56Then we're going to use these name cards
15:58and we're going to place them on our drawers where our clothes go.
16:03Let's go, girls.
16:04OK, are we ready?
16:05OK, let's get us some fun.
16:08We already know which room we go in.
16:11We already know what chubby we have.
16:13Ready?
16:14Let's go.
16:15The time is there, so when they're clean,
16:17it's an incentive to beat their best time the next time.
16:21It's important that they get lots of praise from you.
16:24Mackenzie, keep going.
16:25Come on.
16:26Mum was having a real hard time trying to motivate Mackenzie.
16:29She doesn't want to pick up anything.
16:31She wants to sit in the middle of the floor and sit there and help.
16:33And you know why?
16:34Because this is all so overwhelming for her.
16:36Because since day one, they've never picked up a thing.
16:40I hate cleaning up.
16:42So the way about doing this is to be positive.
16:45As long as you can take care of your stuff,
16:48all your other sisters are going to have to do that job too.
16:50Let's make a headway, OK?
16:53I'm not having a...
16:54It took a little nudging,
16:56but the kids caught on
16:58and Mum did really well at encouraging them.
17:00Good job.
17:01Give me five.
17:03Yeah!
17:04Let's face it,
17:05these are children who have never picked up after themselves.
17:08I think they did well.
17:09So, let's go outside and have some fun with the kids.
17:11After the kids had done some cleaning,
17:16I asked Mum to take the kids out to have some fun.
17:18But I was so surprised.
17:20Because whilst they were playing,
17:21she was on the side just watching.
17:24I'm not used to sitting outside with them.
17:26It's just...
17:27I don't go to the park.
17:28I don't sit there.
17:29Tom does.
17:30I just don't have the patience.
17:31It's just not that fun to just sit here.
17:33So, if you don't like sitting there,
17:35why don't you get up and play with the kids then?
17:36They've got, like, $2,000 worth of toys
17:40sitting in front of them.
17:41Yeah, good.
17:42I'm really pleased about that.
17:43There's not anything to do.
17:44I'm really pleased about that.
17:45But you know what your kids want?
17:46Not two Gs worth of bikes.
17:49Your kids want you.
17:51What do you expect from them?
17:52Because they're giving you, Danielle,
17:54everything unconditionally right now,
17:57but you're giving nothing back.
17:59This materialistic thing needs nothing.
18:01You can't buy what I'm giving you, Danielle,
18:04because it comes from in here.
18:07If you don't step up to the plate
18:09and be the mother that you know
18:11you're going to have to be,
18:12who is going to do it for these kids?
18:14What kind of mom are you going to be, Danielle?
18:17The kind of mom they deserve.
18:20She's not here to tell me I'm a bad mom
18:23or do everything wrong.
18:24She's here to help.
18:26Don't want to always start today.
18:31I really want to make it better for my kids.
18:34Learning to play on their own
18:43is not the only thing they've been taught by their mother.
18:46Their language is atrocious.
18:49Jojo's brought this into this house
18:50because there is too much bad words.
18:53I'm putting a stop to this immediately
18:55with a trash talk technique.
18:57Ten mouths.
18:59Any trash talk, bad words, cursing,
19:02you're going to lose one of these
19:05and they're going to end up in here.
19:09We want everybody setting good examples here.
19:11I was pissed.
19:12I'm trying to choose another word.
19:14Does that count?
19:14Is that a bad word?
19:16Pissed.
19:17And mom and dad are going to give you coupons
19:20to do very special things as rewards.
19:23Come on, not being able to say shut up
19:26without getting one of your mouths taken off?
19:27This is for a week.
19:28So if we see these mouths on the board,
19:33then mom will be dishing out these coupons.
19:35If you lose one of them,
19:37you don't get it back and you don't get a coupon.
19:40You need to go take down a mouth and put it in the jar.
19:45Right away, Alison lost a mouth
19:46for calling somebody a name.
19:48Seven, eight, nine.
19:49Five, nine.
19:50Everybody else has ten.
19:52Bye-bye.
19:53Actually, because we didn't say a bad word.
19:55She called her a name
19:56and so I made her take down the card.
19:59You've got to think about what you say
20:01before you say it.
20:07I noticed that Riley loves her binky.
20:10She's got tons of them.
20:17To wean Riley off her binky,
20:19I told mom the story
20:20about the binky fairies
20:22who need to give the binkies
20:24to the babies who need them more.
20:26Are you going to tell it, all right?
20:28Remember, it's big, it's big.
20:30Riley, guess what?
20:33Passy fairy came?
20:34There's babies that need passies.
20:37And you've got lots and lots of passies
20:39you don't need anymore, huh?
20:41Can you help mommy collect all the passies
20:42and put them in this bag?
20:44Okay, let's go look.
20:46Look what I found.
20:47Yay.
20:48Put it in there.
20:49And Riley got really excited.
20:51She ran around the house
20:52looking for all of her binkies.
20:53Hey, is that all the passies there are?
20:56Now, we've got to take this outside
20:59and we're going to go try it in the tree
21:01and the binky fairy's going to come
21:03and get it tonight.
21:04I really honestly didn't think
21:05the one that was in her mouth
21:06was going to be given up,
21:08but Jo told her to put
21:09the last passie in there.
21:10I'm going to put that binky
21:11in there too.
21:12Good girl for cleaning it.
21:15All right.
21:15Oh, good job.
21:17Oh, for the binky fairy.
21:19And when you're sleeping,
21:21the binky fairies are going to come
21:23and they're going to take the binkies
21:25and they're going to leave you
21:27a special present.
21:29Are you excited?
21:30Come on, let's go.
21:40The next morning,
21:41we went out to the tree
21:43and then she saw the binky fairy
21:45had left her her reward
21:46and she was...
21:47It says Riley.
21:54She was so excited.
21:55Her little face.
21:57Oh, good job.
21:59Wow.
22:00What's inside?
22:00Go inside and get it.
22:04That's for big girls and you're a big...
22:05When Riley saw her new doll,
22:07she completely forgot
22:08all about the binkies
22:09and I think mum started to realise
22:11that a little praise and encouragement
22:13will go a long way.
22:14Coming up on Super Nanny...
22:17Come on.
22:18Get those knees up.
22:19Knees up.
22:19You're slacking.
22:21Dad aces Joe's basic training.
22:23Daddy, your turn.
22:25But misses the target
22:26when it comes to complimenting Megan.
22:29Tell me I'm pretty or something nice.
22:32When Super Nanny returns...
22:36Even though things have started to change,
22:38there's been an overwhelming feeling
22:40of negativity in this house.
22:42So to boost the positive energy,
22:43these children need to hear
22:45a lot of praise and encouragement
22:46from one another
22:47as well as their parents.
22:48So I'm sending them out
22:50on an obstacle course.
22:52And we're going to cheer on
22:53the person
22:55that is going to be doing
22:56the obstacle course.
22:58And you know what?
22:59We're going to get Gabby
23:00to do it her.
23:02We're going to be there now.
23:02We're going to be there now.
23:02We're going to be there now.
23:02We're going to be there now.
23:03We're going to be in section.
23:04Come on.
23:05Get those knees up.
23:06Knees up.
23:07You're slacking.
23:08If Joe was never in the army,
23:09she certainly could have been.
23:11You're slacking.
23:12Come on.
23:14I knew they would be really excited
23:17to do this obstacle course.
23:19They were cheering on each other.
23:21Mom and Dad got involved.
23:23Go, go, go.
23:24Jackie, go, go.
23:24It made me smile
23:26because they're not normally
23:27cheering each other on.
23:29We all had fun.
23:31And the most important part
23:33was the point that Joe made
23:34of everybody encouraging each other.
23:36We need to do that as a family.
23:38Go, go.
23:43Okay, so let's have a circle.
23:45Let's just go on our knees
23:46so we can form.
23:47Now that the family
23:48have had a taste of encouragement,
23:49I think it will be really good
23:51for this family
23:52to start saying nice things
23:53to one another
23:54because they need to hear it.
23:56So I'm going to sit them down
23:57for the circle of praise.
23:58We're going to say one thing,
24:00okay, something really nice
24:02in a nice tone of voice
24:04and we're going to take turns
24:06in doing it.
24:06I set the example
24:08by passing comment to Cheryl.
24:10Cheryl, you're a fantastic listener
24:13and I love those inky frankles
24:15on your nose and your cheeks.
24:18Riley, you're a very good dancer.
24:24I like your hair.
24:26Okay, Daddy, your turn.
24:34You have to actually pretend
24:35you like something about me.
24:38Tell me I'm pretty or something,
24:40now.
24:40Fine.
24:42It was awkward.
24:43You could have cut the atmosphere
24:44with a knife.
24:46And I thought, time out.
24:47These two need to talk.
24:49Come with me.
24:49Come with me.
24:50Take a pew.
24:57This cut to the chase,
24:58your dad's going off to Iraq.
25:00He's going to be away
25:01for a year and a half.
25:03Life's too short
25:04and I want you guys
25:05just to sit
25:06and talk
25:07about what you feel
25:09needs to be resolved.
25:10These two had never sat down
25:12and communicated
25:13with one another.
25:14So right away,
25:15all of Megan's
25:16built up emotions
25:17just started to pour out.
25:20I don't even know
25:21how I'm supposed to feel
25:22about you leaving.
25:22I can't imagine
25:28what kind of anxieties
25:31you're going through
25:32right now,
25:33what kind of worries
25:33you have
25:34knowing where I'm going.
25:36I mean,
25:37that just tops off
25:38everything else
25:38that I worry about
25:39and think about
25:40all the time.
25:41I mean,
25:42as nice as it would be
25:44to go and, you know,
25:45talk to you,
25:46I can't because
25:46every time I tell you
25:47that, oh,
25:48I made this choice
25:49and it kind of
25:50wasn't the best one,
25:51it's, oh my God,
25:52what a bad kid I am
25:53and that's not fair.
25:57That's not the message
25:58I'm trying to give you.
25:59If I disagree
26:00with the choice you make,
26:01it doesn't mean
26:01that I think
26:03you're a bad kid.
26:04I have to hope
26:05that everything
26:08I've taught you
26:09about life
26:11is going to apply.
26:14You know,
26:14you will always
26:15be my baby girl.
26:18Sometimes I wonder.
26:19Today was a very
26:22important moment
26:23for me
26:24with my daughter.
26:27Megan and I
26:27both said things
26:28to each other
26:29that needed to be said
26:31for a long time
26:32and if they didn't
26:33get said today,
26:35weren't going to be said.
26:37Love you.
26:38I love you too.
26:39Girls, come over here.
26:45Come over here
26:46and say goodbye to me.
26:48With Jill leaving,
26:49I'm going to try
26:50to get the kids
26:51to keep the positive talk up.
26:53Mwah!
26:54I think we've all
26:55gotten so used to
26:56her being there
26:57and kind of
26:57being a, you know,
26:59cheerleader.
27:00Okay.
27:02Take care of yourself.
27:04I'm going to do my best
27:04to keep it together.
27:06Grandpa,
27:07this is about
27:07empowering you.
27:08So use everything.
27:11Who knows,
27:12but I tell you,
27:12I just hope
27:13that Danielle
27:14just sticks to everything
27:15and puts 100% in.
27:21Coming up
27:22on Super Nanny.
27:25Open the
27:26door.
27:27When mom thinks
27:29the cameras are dark.
27:30Instead of unlocking
27:31the door,
27:32you stood there
27:32and went,
27:33Who is it?
27:34Her true colors
27:35come to life.
27:35You know that
27:36I'm watching you.
27:37When Super Nanny returns.
27:39But first,
27:40a tale from Super Nanny.
27:42Parents,
27:43it's so important
27:44to spend time
27:45bonding with your children.
27:46So for example,
27:47take one night a week
27:48where you all stick
27:49to that date
27:50and come together
27:51as a family.
27:52But remember,
27:53turn off that television
27:54and your computer
27:55and switch off
27:56the cell phone
27:57and start having
27:58some fun.
28:04Mom's going to be
28:05on her own
28:05for 18 months.
28:07So let's just see
28:07how she gets on
28:08with this practice run.
28:09You did it
28:09in 33 minutes yesterday.
28:11See if you can get faster.
28:12You ready?
28:14Set,
28:14go.
28:16Great.
28:17You're using
28:17the task timer technique.
28:21White baskets
28:22are clean laundry.
28:23Come over here
28:25and put your clothes
28:26in the basket.
28:27Mom,
28:27keep it upbeat.
28:28Try and make it
28:28real fun for them.
28:29Sia,
28:29please don't.
28:31This is yours.
28:33Excuse me?
28:34Did you just say
28:35a naughty word?
28:37Did you just say
28:37a naughty word?
28:39You need to go
28:40take down a mouth
28:41and put it in the jar.
28:43Right here.
28:44Put your mouth
28:44in that jar.
28:45Good.
28:45Stay on top
28:46of that trash talking.
28:50Hurry.
28:51Way to fire up
28:52the kids, Mom.
28:53Hey,
28:5330 minutes today.
28:55That was pretty good.
28:57I love that
28:58positive energy.
28:59That was very impressive.
29:02Let's just see
29:03if Mom can keep
29:04up that enthusiasm.
29:05I don't care
29:06what you want.
29:07They're hers.
29:08Can I have one?
29:08Can I open it?
29:10What's going on here?
29:12Where are you
29:13in the routine, Danielle?
29:17Mom,
29:18you've been
29:18on that couch
29:19for hours.
29:19That's ridiculous.
29:23Oh,
29:24I think that Danielle's
29:25forgot that
29:25my surveillance cameras
29:26are still running.
29:41Danielle,
29:42is that you
29:42banging the door?
29:43open the door.
29:49I cannot believe
29:50what I have just
29:51heard from you.
29:53Mackenzie,
29:54I don't want to hear you.
29:55You are just as guilty
29:57because instead
29:58of unlocking the door,
29:58you stood there
29:59and went,
30:00who is it?
30:01Who is it?
30:02You both are grounded.
30:05You're scary, Mom,
30:06and you've lost it.
30:08I asked her
30:08what the f***
30:09was going through
30:09her f***ing head
30:10to lock the door
30:11with that baby
30:12inside of me.
30:13In front of your
30:14two-year-old.
30:16My trust
30:17will come right
30:17out the window.
30:18Tom's leaving soon
30:19and your lack of effort
30:21is not helping you
30:22or your children.
30:23Okay, let's take a look
30:35at the footage
30:36and see what we've got here.
30:39We're going to pick up
30:40all the toys in here
30:41and then we're going to
30:42put our clean clothes
30:43in our basket.
30:45Okay, 30 minutes today.
30:48That was pretty good.
30:50There's a much more
30:51cheery mom there,
30:53which is marvelous.
30:54Good to see.
30:58Open the f***ing door.
31:02You both are grounded.
31:03I mean, is that
31:07what goes on then
31:08without the cameras around?
31:10Because, I mean,
31:11you know that
31:12I'm watching you.
31:13Not normally.
31:14I have surveillance cameras
31:15in this house,
31:16so I watch you
31:17when I choose to do so.
31:19You are scary.
31:21And if I were them,
31:22I wouldn't have
31:22opened the door.
31:24Because I don't know
31:25what I would have got.
31:27I was very angry.
31:29And you showed
31:29loss of control there.
31:30And that loss of control
31:32made you very mean,
31:33very angry.
31:35And it was a very
31:36ugly picture.
31:38I should have
31:39calmed down first
31:40and then dealt with them.
31:42Mackenzie,
31:43I don't want to hear you.
31:45You are just as guilty.
31:46Because instead of
31:47unlocking the door,
31:48you stood there and went,
31:49Who is it?
31:50Like it mattered
31:52who it was.
31:55I will not allow you,
31:57Danielle,
31:59to continue like this
32:00with the children
32:01and think that it's OK.
32:04You are going to make
32:05an emotional scar
32:06on these kids
32:07if you do not change
32:08your attitude.
32:11I know it's not OK.
32:14Tom, I'd like to hear
32:15what you're saying
32:15because I'm sitting here
32:17talking to Danielle
32:18very straight about
32:19what I'm seeing
32:19with your children as well.
32:21And I'm not happy with this.
32:23We feel that that is
32:24the worst kind of parenting.
32:26That was a really bad night.
32:28OK, but from this point on,
32:30we have no excuses, OK?
32:33Now we've had somebody
32:34come in
32:34and give us a clue.
32:37Let's move on
32:38with this footage.
32:39Why?
32:40She knew that they're hers.
32:42Say bye-bye, Mommy.
32:47That routine was placed
32:49up on your wall
32:49because you needed
32:51a routine.
32:53A routine's hard, though,
32:54especially with everybody around.
32:55Of course it's hard
32:56because we didn't have
32:57a routine before.
32:58But it's not going to get better
33:00if we don't try.
33:01Lack of effort
33:02will always cause failure.
33:04And that's not acceptable.
33:06But you've got to try.
33:07And we're not seeing
33:09effort here.
33:11And I think this is about you.
33:14And how you're going to survive
33:16with these children
33:18when Tom's gone.
33:21The children
33:22never got an apology
33:23from you
33:25with the way you behaved.
33:28We need to change this
33:29as soon as possible.
33:32So,
33:33are we ready?
33:35If she did nothing else
33:37in the house,
33:38that was enough.
33:39She
33:40made me
33:41think about
33:42how I affect
33:44my children.
33:46And you close that DVD
33:46and let's go.
33:49Coming up on Supernanny.
33:52Dad's off to war.
33:53This is a watch
33:54that
33:55my grandfather gave to me.
33:58But can he and Megan
33:59make peace
33:59before time runs out?
34:02When Supernanny returns.
34:05Time was running out.
34:10And it's important
34:11that if we're to make
34:11any progress here
34:13that mum sits
34:14these kids down
34:15and explains
34:16that she's made
34:17some mistakes.
34:18The other night
34:19when mummy yelled
34:20at you guys,
34:21I'm sorry.
34:22I shouldn't have yelled
34:23at you guys.
34:24Okay?
34:25And it's really hard
34:26to admit you're wrong
34:26to your kids
34:27because I was ashamed
34:28of the way I acted.
34:30Mummy's going to try
34:32not to yell
34:33anymore.
34:34And try to be
34:36a better mummy.
34:37I think it took
34:38a tremendous amount
34:39of courage
34:39for Danielle
34:40to sit down
34:41in front of the
34:41entire family
34:42and admit she was wrong
34:43and then to tell them
34:44that she was going
34:46to do better.
34:47Mummy wants to be
34:48a good mummy
34:49and she wants you guys
34:50all to know
34:51that she loves you.
34:52I could tell
34:52that she really
34:54had seen her faults
34:54and she really
34:55did mean to do better.
34:57I have to be
34:58a better parent.
34:59I have to be
34:59mom and dad
35:00to these kids
35:01for the next year
35:01and a half.
35:02And that's going
35:03to be hard.
35:05But I can do it.
35:07I have to do it.
35:08I need to do it
35:09for them.
35:09I love you too.
35:11I love you too.
35:13The next order
35:14of business
35:15was to see
35:16exactly how the girls
35:17had done
35:18with the trash talk
35:18technique
35:19whilst I was gone.
35:20Yeah,
35:21Macon.
35:22Danielle said,
35:22ooh, you said
35:23the word three times.
35:25So I just figured
35:25it was easier
35:26just to take
35:26all the males down
35:27at that point.
35:28It's hard
35:30to keep up with.
35:32Cheryl, Mackenzie.
35:34Me and Cheryl
35:35have all of our
35:37males on the board.
35:38Alison,
35:39you got two off.
35:40So you're going
35:41to try very hard
35:42next week.
35:43I barely even
35:44use bad words.
35:45Only two times.
35:47And bad words
35:48are bad.
35:50That's why
35:51they're better.
35:51Mommy and Daddy,
35:52what does Cheryl
35:53get as her reward?
35:56One special gift.
35:59Well done,
36:00well done.
36:01Good job.
36:01Well done.
36:02The language
36:03in the house
36:03has completely
36:04reduced.
36:06Cheryl and Mackenzie
36:07have put 100% effort
36:09into thinking
36:10before speaking.
36:11I got a coupon today
36:12because I had
36:13all my males
36:13on the board
36:14and when I go
36:15to Disneyland
36:15on Monday,
36:16I get to bring
36:17something back.
36:18A souvenir.
36:19A souvenir.
36:19A souvenir.
36:20Megan's absolutely
36:23petrified
36:23that her dad's
36:24going to go off
36:25to war
36:25and he's not
36:26going to come back
36:26and that must be
36:27just absolutely
36:28horrific for a teenager
36:31and I suggested
36:33to dad that
36:34it would be lovely
36:35if he could
36:36leave Megan
36:37something of
36:38sentimental value
36:40and make her
36:41realize how
36:42much she's
36:44very much loved
36:45and how special
36:45she is.
36:47This is a watch
36:49that my grandfather
36:53gave to me.
36:54Anytime that you
36:56know you're going
36:56off to a war,
36:57there's that chance
36:58that you may not
37:00come home
37:00and so for me
37:02this was a terrific
37:03opportunity
37:04knowing that this
37:05may be the last
37:06chance that I ever
37:07get to get it right.
37:08I want you to keep
37:10it for me
37:10while I'm gone
37:11because I intend
37:13to come back
37:14for it
37:14but while I'm
37:17gone
37:17I want you
37:19to hold this
37:19for me.
37:21I saw that watch
37:22and I knew
37:23what it was
37:23because I knew
37:23it meant something
37:24to him
37:24and I knew
37:26he was leaving
37:27so it meant
37:28something to me
37:29and it's so hard.
37:32I hope you
37:32coming back
37:33could be able
37:33to take this.
37:35I plan on it.
37:36I have so much
37:40to come back
37:40for.
37:42I'll be fine.
37:44If Joe
37:45hadn't come
37:45into my house
37:46and opened up
37:47that window
37:48of opportunity
37:49for Megan
37:50and I
37:51to come to
37:51an understanding
37:52with each other
37:53then I would
37:55have left
37:55not having
37:56made peace
37:57with my oldest
37:58daughter.
37:59I love you.
38:00I love you too.
38:06Mackenzie.
38:08Where's that?
38:08Jojo's going
38:09home now.
38:10Cheryl come
38:10and give me a hug.
38:11The Silva family
38:13was a very
38:14challenging family
38:15but I do feel
38:16the outcome
38:17has been
38:18tremendous
38:19because
38:19mum
38:20has become
38:21aware
38:22of what
38:23she needs
38:23to do
38:24in order
38:24to be a better
38:25mother.
38:26The children
38:27are happier
38:28because they're
38:28getting more praise
38:29from their parents
38:30and more attention.
38:32Dad
38:33has really
38:34stepped up.
38:36Be careful.
38:37Be careful.
38:38What's so amazing
38:39about the way
38:40Jo works
38:41there's no magic
38:43in what Jo does.
38:45She comes in
38:46and she shows you
38:47who you really are
38:48and that's what
38:49I really want
38:49to thank Jo for.
38:51Give me a hug.
38:52I want to thank
38:52Jo for
38:53coming in
38:55and showing me
38:56how to be
38:57a better mother
38:58to my girls.
38:59Be safe.
39:01No doubt
39:01there's been
39:02some positive
39:02changes
39:03with this family
39:04even though
39:05they are still
39:06walking that
39:07long road.
39:09I think
39:10Danielle's accepted
39:10the fact that
39:11Tom's going to leave
39:12and she now
39:13has found the
39:14confidence
39:14to be a better
39:15mother
39:16and she's more
39:16determined
39:17to make it work.
39:24Jo gave my
39:25family the
39:26confidence
39:27to be the
39:28kind of family
39:28we've always
39:29wanted to be.
39:31Everybody gets
39:31one piece of
39:32paper.
39:33My girls are
39:34getting along
39:34a lot better
39:35now.
39:35My boys want me
39:36to show you
39:37what you can do.
39:38I already see
39:39that the kids
39:39are yelling less.
39:41I'm not raising
39:41my voice as much.
39:43Now we've got to
39:43put this back
39:44with the games.
39:45There's a lot
39:46less cussing
39:46in the house.
39:47No more
39:48bad words.
39:51It has turned
39:51into a house
39:52with more love
39:53in it.
39:55It's almost like
39:55a peace
39:56between everybody.
39:59My children,
40:00they're miracles.
40:02I hug them
40:02more and give
40:04them more
40:04compliments.
40:05And each one
40:06of them is special
40:07and each one
40:07of them needs
40:08to feel that
40:09way.
40:09I can leave
40:17knowing that
40:18my children
40:18are in good
40:19hands.
40:20That's really
40:20important to me.
40:23Thank you,
40:24Joe.
40:29Thank you for
40:30coming,
40:31Joe.
40:32Bye!
40:33Thank you,
40:34Joe Joe.
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