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When Supernanny leaves one of her TV families, can the parents stick to the new rules or do the kids go back to their wild ways? Does the Naughty Step work when the cameras are gone? Are Supernanny's techniques still effective many months on? What would you ask Supernanny if she arrived in your neighborhood today?
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00:01Tonight on Super Nanny...
00:03Rylan!
00:04Joe gets a progress report from the families she's visited.
00:07Rylan does not want to brush his teeth.
00:09I am still struggling a little bit with craft time.
00:12And dishes out new tips when the questions start flying.
00:15He's always trying to manipulate his way around his neck.
00:18She's learnt how to get her away from having a temper tantrum.
00:21So just remove the child away from the situation.
00:30Today I'm on my way to the Gorbia household.
00:54You may remember a couple of months ago I helped them with some rather challenging issues.
00:59So I'm going to see how they're getting on.
01:03How things are for them.
01:05And at the same time I'm going to be checking in on those other families that I helped too.
01:10So before I arrive at the Gorbias, let's take a look back at one of those families.
01:18Hi, we're the Jeans family.
01:20I'm David.
01:21And I'm Barbara.
01:23We have three daughters, Andra, who's four and a half.
01:26And twins, Jessie and Leah, who just turned three.
01:29Andra gave her parents the hardest time.
01:32Help me!
01:33Andra, stop!
01:34She was very aggressive, confrontational.
01:37Andy!
01:38You hurt me!
01:40Hey, hey!
01:41And a real handful of trouble for mum and dad.
01:43Mom!
01:44Come with me!
01:45I'll be Instagram with you!
01:46Give me a donut!
01:47Yeah, right.
01:48Oh dear.
01:49There was no such thing as a peaceful meal time in the Jeans household.
01:57David was constantly on edge.
01:59Jessie, sit down!
02:00No!
02:01Don't get it!
02:02Hey!
02:03And I don't want that!
02:04Yeah, bro.
02:05Once Barbara gained confidence in the techniques I taught her.
02:10No, that's unacceptable.
02:11That is not acceptable.
02:12That is very good.
02:13That is very good.
02:14Behave yourself.
02:15Behave yourself.
02:16That was brilliant!
02:18She no longer felt overwhelmed by the girl's bad behaviour.
02:22This is where you're going to be if you do that again.
02:25Do you understand?
02:26I won't.
02:27And I want an apology.
02:28Sorry.
02:29Okay.
02:30The creative structure added to the girl's day.
02:33They weren't bored and misbehaving as often.
02:35We're absolutely going to miss Jo.
02:37It's been amazing.
02:38It's been wonderful to have her here.
02:39She has been very supportive.
02:41I feel quite tearful.
02:43Me too.
02:45You've been a real inspiration.
02:47Take care.
02:50Now let's see how they've been getting on since my last visit.
03:00Hi Jo!
03:02Thanks for checking in on us.
03:05I miss you.
03:06I miss you too.
03:07I miss you too.
03:10I think the biggest change that I have noticed in the girls since Jo has left has been in our daily routine.
03:17See Jo?
03:18They're sharing and they're not fighting over the balloons.
03:20They're taking turns.
03:21Uh oh.
03:22When we're at home, we're not in free play all day.
03:26So they're not bored.
03:27They're not getting into trouble.
03:29This is really fun!
03:30Really fun!
03:31See Jo?
03:32They're playing really well together.
03:33Super nanny is Jo!
03:34Super nanny is Jo!
03:35Super nanny is Jo!
03:36Really fun!
03:37It's fantastic.
03:38Our routine that you provided for us is still up.
03:39We still use it every day.
03:40It really has revolutionized how I get through the day with the kids.
03:41When Jo came along and organized everything, it's like day one day.
03:44Because we had no idea what we were doing.
03:45The biggest change in our family is to sit down and enjoy a meal.
03:46Believe it or not, mealtimes really are a big improvement.
03:49Thank you, Jo.
03:50This way I can have dinner with my lovely family, my three girls and my beautiful wife.
03:51I think the biggest thing that Jo gave me was my life back.
03:58I'm a little bit emotional.
03:59I feel better now than I have at any point since my kids were born.
04:01We're using the kids volunteer as well.
04:02They're not, so I don't know what we were doing.
04:03The biggest change in our family is to sit down and enjoy a meal.
04:04Believe it or not mealtimes really are a big improvements.
04:05Thank you, Jo.
04:06This way I can have dinner with my lovely family, my three girls and my beautiful wife.
04:11I think the biggest thing that Jo gave me was my life.
04:18Oh, I feel that emotional!
04:21And then I'm glad I felt better now than I'd have at any point since my kids were born.
04:26We're using a lot of your techniques still. I do have some questions.
04:31I am still struggling a little bit with craft time. It's hard for me to find activities that all three of my kids can do at the same time.
04:38Do I always have to keep all three of them together? And if you have any suggestions about that, that would be great.
04:43When it comes to the art class, put everything in the middle of the table and let them decide now.
04:49Now you have structure in your day, it's important that the girls lead their activity.
04:56The fact is, you've got them all together being creative, and that's the main thing. So keep up the good work.
05:02Bye! We miss you!
05:08Now the Gorbea's had their fair share of challenges too, so let's take a look back at that.
05:15Hello, we're the Gorbea family. I'm Robert. I'm a service technician for a local phone company.
05:21And I'm Evelina, and I'm a collection rep for the phone company. We have three children.
05:25Demetrius is nine, Mia's eight, and Adam is two and a half.
05:31Adam was a very clingy child. He was attached to Evelina's hip 24-7.
05:37Oh, he's clinging on for dear life, then.
05:43But Evelina also had a problem letting go of Adam, too.
05:46I'm almost crying. I can't handle his face.
05:49I don't understand why it's so hard for me. It's something so simple.
05:53Here, Adam, you stay there. Why is it so hard for me?
05:56Because Adam was so needy, Demetrius and Mia felt like they really didn't get enough of Mum's attention.
06:02Do you get time with Mummy?
06:04Not that much.
06:05No, why is that?
06:06Because Adam.
06:07Oh, how does that make you feel?
06:09I just wish that we could go on a vacation without Adam.
06:14Putting Adam to sleep was an absolute nightmare.
06:17I'm not sleeping in bed now.
06:19What we're establishing is that if Adam comes out, that he goes straight back into his crib,
06:24because that's where he sleeps.
06:28Okay, he's coming for a minute.
06:36When it came to helping out around the house, Robert, he was just plain lazy.
06:40It's the weekend, and that means it's Mr. Mum time.
06:45What's that?
06:47No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
06:49Come on, Robert, get real.
06:50I am going to teach you how to put a hoover over the house.
07:02Give Dad some praise.
07:03Yeah.
07:04Because it wasn't easy for him today, and he broke out of hard sweat.
07:06I know, I can see.
07:07I actually feel good.
07:09Like I really accomplished something.
07:11Robert, you've gone from caveman to modern man.
07:15Give us a hug.
07:16Hi, Andrew.
07:17Hi, Andrew.
07:18I'm so excited to see Mum and Dad and the kids.
07:21I really miss them.
07:25We're here.
07:39That's fantastic.
07:41Hi.
07:42Hi.
07:43Nice to see you again.
07:44How are you?
07:45Oh, I forget it.
07:46You guys, look who's here.
07:47Hi, Andrew.
07:48Hi, Andrew.
07:49Hi, Andrew.
07:50Hi, Andrew.
07:51Hi, Andrew.
07:52Hi, Andrew.
07:53Hi, Andrew.
07:54Good to see you.
07:56Oh.
07:57Sweet.
07:58Hi, Andrew.
07:59How are you?
08:00Awesome.
08:01Come here.
08:02How are you?
08:03How are you?
08:04Oh, it's so good to see you all.
08:05I was so happy to be back at the Gorbias' house because I couldn't wait to see how much
08:17they'd got along since my last visit, especially with Adam.
08:20How's this little one been?
08:21He's been doing excellent.
08:22Yeah, he's not so clingy.
08:23He's a lot more independent and seems like he's not bothered when I'm in a different room
08:29and he's keeping busy with his toys or his brothers and sisters.
08:33It's been really good just because I realise how much space it allows myself and he's just
08:40grown so much since.
08:41It's great to see that Adam isn't clinging to Evelina like he used to.
08:46And she's let go as well.
08:48Do you sleep in your bed?
08:49Yeah.
08:50Well, all by yourself?
08:51Yeah.
08:52Give me five.
08:54Yeah, give me a cuddle.
08:56Our life has changed.
08:58Adam goes to sleep on his own now, all night long in his own bed.
09:01He doesn't put up a fight.
09:02We've been sharing the duties.
09:04I bathe them and then get them cleaned up and then I hand them off to her and she puts
09:08him to bed.
09:09You've stepped it up.
09:12You know, you've set a president now for every man.
09:15Before I met him, Robert used to laze around and he's thrown all day.
09:20But we fixed that now.
09:22And I'm really proud of Robert because he's continuing to play an active role in his family.
09:27What's so lovely is to come back.
09:29I know that you guys have been motivated to keep it going.
09:33Definitely, it's completely just turned everything around for us.
09:37I am most proud of Robert's commitment to us as a family and the fact that he carried
09:45through with this and he's so much more helpful than before.
09:49I'd love to show you some footage on the DVD that I've brought with me.
09:55I thought it would be useful for Evelina to take a look at some of the footage of the other
10:00families that I had visited.
10:02She's certainly not alone with some of the issues that she had.
10:06OK, so let's take a look at this DVD footage with the Wishmyer family.
10:09OK.
10:10And they had a similar situation to what you had with Demetrius and Mia.
10:14And it was about Jared.
10:15Oh, I see.
10:16And he felt left out really with his mum and dad.
10:19Oh, yeah.
10:20And how they communicated.
10:21OK.
10:22Hi, we're the Wishmyers.
10:25I'm John.
10:26And this is my wife, Malora.
10:27We have three children.
10:29Jared, he's nine.
10:30And then our twin daughters, Ashlyn and Aliyah are four.
10:34Jared felt that he was getting blamed for the girl's bad behaviour.
10:37And when he tried to explain himself to mum, it just felt like he wasn't being heard.
10:41Uh-uh.
10:42OK, I'm asking them nicely to leave.
10:44I asked them nicely five times?
10:45No, you didn't.
10:46It's your tone of voice, Jared.
10:48It's really important that you always tell mummy what's going on in here.
10:53Any time he has something that he wants to share, put it into the box.
10:59I want you to feel like you can come and talk to me about anything.
11:02OK?
11:03And that is the same situation that you had with Demetrius and Mia.
11:07Yeah.
11:08Jared didn't have time.
11:10With Malora because of the girls.
11:14Yeah.
11:15Ashlyn and Aliyah had big attitudes.
11:17They would hear you.
11:20And they would yell all the time.
11:21Yeah!
11:22They would talk back.
11:23Seeky butt.
11:25You know what?
11:26I don't know what to do.
11:27Na-na-na-na-boo-boo.
11:28Why do you have the toaster out?
11:30Oh, my God.
11:31And I have three kids that are totally out of control.
11:34And they wouldn't sleep unless it was on their terms.
11:37You could find yourself doing this 50 times.
11:48I can see that.
11:50Once I showed Malora and John how to be consistent with the discipline.
11:56It's getting quieter.
11:57Do you notice that?
11:58Uh-uh.
11:59Things got a lot better.
12:01The bed technique is wonderful.
12:03I think it should be handed out at birth to every mother and dad in the world.
12:08Hey.
12:09How's that going with Adam?
12:10It saved us.
12:11I don't have to tell him to go back in his bed because he does not get out of bed once.
12:16Fantastic.
12:17Let's see.
12:18I have the wish of mine to do it now.
12:20Hi, Joe.
12:21Thanks for checking in on us, Joe.
12:23We're all doing fine.
12:24See, Carly knew I would run.
12:27Ow.
12:28I almost got her there.
12:30Things in my family since Joe left have been wonderful.
12:36Life before was nuts.
12:38I mean, I was trying to work two part-time jobs and raise three kids and work at home.
12:42Can you believe you're going to be in the fifth grade?
12:44No.
12:45She has time for us now.
12:47I can talk to her.
12:49And I have Jared's thought box that you made for him to put all of his thoughts and ideas
12:53in for him to talk to me about.
12:55It's been working out well for both him and I.
12:57I feel like Jared and I are becoming very close now.
12:59And he feels like he can come to me with anything.
13:01What position do you think you'll play?
13:04Teaching me.
13:06You think?
13:07Maybe.
13:08See?
13:09Quality time together.
13:10Look at them.
13:12Me and Mom get to talk.
13:14I feel like I don't have to hide anything from her anymore.
13:17We have Joe to thank for that.
13:19The biggest change since Joe was here is getting the girls to go to sleep.
13:24I hear nothing, so that's a good sign.
13:34I do think Joe's transformed me as a parent.
13:36I think I'm a better mom.
13:38I think I'm a better listener.
13:40Oh, the big coloring book?
13:42Yeah.
13:43And when you were here with us, I think they were going to the Naughty Corner four to five
13:47times a day each.
13:48Now that you've left us since Christmas, Elias only been to the Naughty Corner one time,
13:53and Ashlyn's been to the Naughty Corner zero times.
13:55So yay for the naughty technique.
13:57It's working for us great.
13:58Thanks a lot, Joe.
13:59We're just a better family.
14:01Hi, Joe.
14:02I have a question for you.
14:04The girls will be going to kindergarten next year, which will be full-time school for them.
14:07And I was just wondering if you have any suggestions on implementing the discipline technique at school,
14:13if the teachers should do that, or if that's something that I should do only in my home.
14:18Hmm.
14:19That's a really important question that Melora's brought up here, because you're going to have that
14:23situation with Adam soon.
14:24I think it's really important that you communicate with Adam's teacher.
14:30Make sure that there's consistency running in your home and at school.
14:35If Adam knows that there's a discipline in place in his home, and if he knows that there are consequences
14:41for his unacceptable behaviour at school, then you're both on the same page.
14:45And that's what you want.
14:49So what are you guys doing today?
14:50We're going to go to the park.
14:51I'm going to take them to go and play with their cousins.
14:54So would you like to come with us?
14:55I'd love to come.
14:56All right.
14:57It's absolutely beautiful outside.
15:04I'm going to go on the slides.
15:05Hi.
15:06When we got there, I met Irene and her daughter Carolyn.
15:09She's here one second, she's gone.
15:11That's good.
15:12You're in the playground having fun and she's playing.
15:14I mean, of course you have to watch and see where she is, but every parent does.
15:17Every parent needs to have eyes at the back of their head to know where their children
15:20are in the playground.
15:21What about a temper?
15:23She yells at me, she yells at her brother, she yells at whoever.
15:27She's learnt how to get her own way from having a temper tantrum.
15:30So you need to make sure that you show her that you're in charge.
15:35And the way you do that is to be consistent with how you set expectations for her and
15:40also how you discipline her.
15:42That's why she thinks she's boss, because she says one thing and you laugh and then she
15:46gets away with it.
15:47While we were playing around in the park, some mums and dads started to approach me with
15:52some questions they had about their kids.
15:54He's very smart and he's always trying to manipulate his way around everything and he just really
16:00knows how to work us and we just wanted to know how to beat him at his own game.
16:04You know why he manipulates?
16:06Because you can.
16:07Because you allow it.
16:09So don't look at it like a game.
16:11He's seven years old, he's a bright boy and he just knows what buttons to push because
16:15he's been getting away with it so long.
16:17It's up to you as the parent to always have a firm line so that they know what's expected
16:22of them and you'll see that your children will deliver.
16:25Because they want to please, that's what they want to do.
16:28Aren't you the super nanny?
16:34I am.
16:35Is this your little one?
16:36This is one of my little ones.
16:38How old?
16:39Two years old.
16:40Two years old?
16:41I have two other two year olds.
16:43Triplets?
16:44Triplets.
16:45Check mine!
16:47You've got your work cut out for you.
16:49I have a question for you.
16:50One of our triplets goes into violent rages and we're just afraid that she might hurt herself
16:56or one of her siblings sometimes.
16:58What can we do about that?
16:59She bites, hits her head on the walls.
17:01I think it's important to make sure that you understand why she's doing it.
17:07A lot of times it's because somebody comes up and takes a toy from her and she wasn't
17:12ready to give up the toy.
17:13Exactly.
17:14So what's important, because you've got three of them, make sure that she has her own special
17:19toy.
17:20Teach them how to share.
17:21Set up games so they can learn how to play together.
17:24Be careful, because that's what they're going to have to do anyway.
17:26Right.
17:27Because it's three of them, you know?
17:28When dad went to chase one of the triplets, I got a chance to talk to mum.
17:32Aww.
17:33And he's the one who's got the bite marks all over him because he's the one who usually
17:37gets bitten.
17:38Yeah, yeah.
17:39Your children do need to know that that behaviour is unacceptable because little ones like this
17:45end up being on the brunt of it all.
17:47We usually put them in time out, but it's like ten minutes later they seem to forget
17:52that...
17:53Well, how old are your children?
17:54They've just all turned two.
17:55They've all turned two.
17:56So at the moment for them it may be still young to grasp that concept.
18:00Okay.
18:01Remove the child away from the situation that they're trying to manipulate so that they
18:06realise, oh, when I behave like this and I bite, it means I can't play and have fun
18:10with my brother and sister.
18:12Okay.
18:13Okay?
18:14And be consistent with it.
18:15Sweeties, look at them.
18:16Oh, yeah.
18:17Exactly.
18:18They are all sweeties, but it's always going to be juggling.
18:21It is.
18:22It's always going to be finding that balance between the three of them because you've got
18:24your hands full, that's for sure.
18:26Since all the children were playing nicely, I thought it would be a good opportunity to
18:32pull Evelina aside and check in on another family.
18:35Ah, nice and peaceful.
18:36So how's Dad been getting on with the kids?
18:39Good, good.
18:40He's been a lot more involved.
18:41Well, I can see him over there with a bucket and spades.
18:43Yeah.
18:44Mind you, it gives you a chance to breathe, doesn't it?
18:45Oh, yeah.
18:46It means you haven't got Adam clinging and it means that Dad's taking more his time
18:51out with the kids and they're having some of his time.
18:54Yes, definitely.
18:55Let's take a look at the Ryrie family.
18:57Let's see what they're up to.
18:58Hi, we're the Ryries.
18:59I'm Jen.
19:00This is Scott.
19:01I'm Scott.
19:02We have four children.
19:03Our daughter, Celia, is nine.
19:06Halden is seven.
19:07We've also got a three-year-old, Blake, and Brody, our one-year-old.
19:12Blake caused the most grief for Mum.
19:14Blake!
19:15Because he was always wandering off.
19:18And it left Jen fearing for his safety.
19:21Hey, stop, Blake!
19:22Did you see that car?
19:24Oh.
19:25It was a huge ordeal taking Blake out in public.
19:28Blake, this way.
19:33Do not run.
19:34No.
19:35No.
19:36No.
19:37Do...
19:38This is not working.
19:39No.
19:40No.
19:41No.
19:42No.
19:43No.
19:44No.
19:45No.
19:46No.
19:47No.
19:48No.
19:49No.
19:50No.
19:51No.
19:52No.
19:53No.
19:54No.
19:55No.
19:56No.
19:57No.
19:58No.
19:59No.
20:00No.
20:01No.
20:02No.
20:03No.
20:04No.
20:05No.
20:06No.
20:07All gone.
20:08So how do you guys resolve your conflicting opinions as a couple?
20:13We really don't, do we?
20:15No.
20:16So they've got a disagreement in parenting like Robert and I did,
20:19trying to see eye to eye on different issues,
20:22and yet they don't come to an agreement.
20:23Exactly.
20:24Let's take a look at them now.
20:27Hi, Jojo. We're the Ryrie family.
20:29We just wanted to say hi.
20:31I miss Jojo.
20:34I don't think there are enough words to describe
20:36how happy I am since Jo has come.
20:39It's truly made me just a completely different person.
20:42He was in it first.
20:44Jo empowered Jen with the authority
20:46to tell the kids what they can and can't do,
20:48and it's definitely helped our family.
20:50This is your warning.
20:51If you don't get out of this car,
20:52you're going on the naughty circle.
20:54One, two.
20:59The new Jen is in control.
21:02Wee, nice, Blake.
21:04She knows what she's doing,
21:06and I'm much more confident in parenting.
21:09What's great about the naughty circle
21:12is that we don't really have to use it that much anymore.
21:14Huh, Blake?
21:15Usually all we have to say is,
21:17okay, Blake, one more time,
21:18and you're going on the naughty circle,
21:19and that's about it.
21:21Are you tired?
21:22No.
21:23The roaming technique has been amazing for me.
21:26Blake does extremely well with it.
21:28You stopping? Good. Thank you.
21:30The stop signs are great.
21:32They keep Blake in the house,
21:33safe, where he should be.
21:34Huh.
21:35And he's being a great teacher
21:36to his younger brother, too, aren't you?
21:38Yeah!
21:40It's given me a whole new freedom now
21:42that I can actually take the kids out in public.
21:44We're doing really, really well
21:45with all the techniques that you taught us.
21:48We've got our family routine
21:50that we follow religiously,
21:52and it's working out really well.
21:54The kids know when it's time for snacks,
21:56and they're doing great at mealtime,
21:58so I think you'd be really proud of us.
22:00I don't see them snacking as much anymore,
22:02especially on junk food,
22:03so I think it's been better for their health
22:05that they eat better food now.
22:07Paula, bring me your plate.
22:08One of the amazing things that Joe did for us
22:10was to improve my relationship with Scott.
22:12Here's our same page,
22:13and Jenna and I are still using it.
22:14Yeah, it's working out really well.
22:16We're taking time to discuss any issues that might come up.
22:20Never in a million years did I think
22:21that the impact on our family would be this dramatic.
22:24I never thought that it would change as much as it has.
22:27Having Joe come and work with us
22:29has just changed our family tremendously.
22:32I really feel like she saved us.
22:34Brody's entering, you know, the terrible twos,
22:36and I feel like we've just kind of escaped those with Blake,
22:40and now Brody's coming upon them,
22:42so I would just wonder what I could do
22:44to prevent, you know, Brody from getting to where Blake was.
22:49That's an important question.
22:52She actually was worried and anxious
22:56that she wouldn't be able to enforce any form of discipline
23:00with her younger son
23:02because she went through such a nightmare with Blake,
23:05and that's all about confidence.
23:09That's something that I see shine from you now.
23:11I'm a lot more confident, yeah, definitely.
23:14I carry through with what I threaten,
23:17and if I tell Adam he's going to go to the naughty chair,
23:19then if he continues, he goes.
23:22So, keep confident.
23:24That's right.
23:25Bye, Joe!
23:26Bye!
23:31After a full fun day in the park,
23:32we were finally ready to go home.
23:34Joe, there's somebody here to see you.
23:44Hello!
23:45Hi, how are you?
23:46I'm okay, how are you?
23:47Hi!
23:48My cab gave me away!
23:52So, I'm sure you guys are here because you've got questions for me, right?
23:57Yes!
23:58I'm going to try and answer all of your questions today, okay?
24:01So, who wants to start first?
24:04I have a question.
24:05My name is Lisa, and I have two children at home.
24:07I'm expecting a third child.
24:09Congratulations.
24:10And how do I prepare my children so they don't become incredibly jealous
24:13when I bring the other child home, considering I have a one-year-old?
24:17I think it's important that you make sure that you involve your other two children
24:21as much through the pregnancy as you can.
24:23Because sometimes, when a new baby comes on the scene,
24:26they start worrying, where's my place in the family?
24:28But also, equally, when you have had the child,
24:31make sure that other people around you support you
24:34so you can give your other two children attention
24:36so they don't feel like they've got to fight for your time.
24:39Okay.
24:40Thank you so much.
24:41Good luck.
24:42I appreciate it.
24:44Hi.
24:45Hi.
24:46My name is Terry.
24:47I'm a single mom.
24:48I have four children and work two jobs.
24:49One of my jobs takes me away overnight as a flight attendant,
24:51and when I come back, my children are acting out,
24:54and I'm just wondering what I can do to make that time of re-entry
24:58less stressful for all of us.
25:00Who looks after them when you're away?
25:02I have a babysitter, but in addition, one of my children is 17 years old.
25:06I think it's important that you make sure that you have a schedule
25:09that works for when you're home and for when you're not at home
25:13so that the co-carers, when you are away, are on the same page as you
25:17so that your children get that consistency,
25:19but also be realistic with how much you're giving that 17-year-old to do.
25:24I've got to say foremost, you need some you time,
25:27because what you do is just absolutely amazing.
25:32Hi, Joe.
25:33My name is Diane, and I have three kids.
25:35My question for you is regarding my youngest son.
25:37He's recently developed the habit of waking up in the middle of the night
25:41around 3 a.m.
25:42He jumps out of his bed and runs frantically for the front door.
25:45He's hysterical.
25:46Sometimes it takes us 15, 20 minutes to calm him down.
25:49First, establish whether he's asleep or whether he's awake.
25:53If he's awake, then he's got himself into a bedtime habit
25:56that needs to be broken.
25:58If he is asleep and he keeps going down, make sure the doors bolt.
26:02If he wakes up, then reassure him as a mother that, you know,
26:05everything is okay.
26:06But if you find that this is going on for months,
26:09then I would recommend to you take him to a sleep consultant
26:12so they can look deeper into it.
26:14Okay, thank you.
26:15Whilst you're all here, I just want to say that parenting is meant to be fun.
26:20It's meant to be a wonderful experience in your life.
26:23So that is, that's what you want to achieve.
26:25Thank you, I'm going to go in now.
26:27Bye.
26:28Bye.
26:29Dinner's ready.
26:30After feeding the children, Evelina and Robert had plans to go out for dinner.
26:35But Adam wasn't feeling well at all.
26:37Adam's got an ear infection.
26:39He's been bothering him, so that's why I was kind of reluctant.
26:42I know you wouldn't normally go out because he's not well.
26:45But the fact that you have got family looking after him justifies it in your own heart.
26:49And you're only going to be gone for a couple of hours.
26:51Yeah, if that.
26:52Yeah, and I have a question too because when Adam's not feeling well,
26:55of course he gets irritable and he whines a lot and he doesn't want his brother and sister next to him.
27:00Do I discipline him in that instance?
27:02It was a good question that Evelina asked me because many parents have the same concerns.
27:07Can you discipline your child when they're sick?
27:09If you find behaviour from Adam that is unacceptable because he kicks them and he pitches them and he starts acting aggressive,
27:17yes, you do have to put him on the naughty chair because if he was really truthfully sick with fever and vomiting and having an affection,
27:25you won't get that from him because you know what your child's like when they're really poorly.
27:29So what I am going to say to you is go out and enjoy yourself this evening and have a good time because you truly do deserve it.
27:37Oh, thank you so much.
27:38I'm proud you did really well.
27:40Oh yeah, we're moving forward.
27:42We've moved forward.
27:43Look at that smile, huh?
27:45Come and play with Toto.
27:47Come on.
27:48Let's go and play.
27:50We're going to let mummy get dressed.
27:52See you in a minute.
27:53Okay.
27:54As Evelina was getting ready to go out for dinner,
27:56her relatives came over to look after the children.
27:59All right, guys.
28:00I'm out of here.
28:01Oh, okay, guys.
28:02Bye.
28:03Have a good time.
28:04When they were saying their goodbyes, Adam threw a fit.
28:07It's okay.
28:08Hugs, cuddles, don't delay it and then just get up when you go, darling.
28:12They'll be fine.
28:13This was a big step for them because in the past, Adam has always been so clingy
28:18that it's always been hard for Evelina to separate herself from him.
28:22Tonight will be a big test for her and for Adam.
28:26Okay, if he's doing that, just say to him, mummy coming back soon.
28:31They've gone for something to eat.
28:32And if he wants to be like that, then he'll come away and give me space.
28:35No.
28:36He'll come round.
28:37He'll be fine.
28:38I'm going to set some toys up for you.
28:40Right, Adam.
28:41We're going to play some games now.
28:43No.
28:44No?
28:45Will you come over when you want to, okay?
28:46No.
28:47No.
28:48No.
28:49No.
28:50What did he say?
28:51You want to do the card game?
28:52Show me what game you want to play.
28:53I'll play with you.
28:54Say, Tim, I can't hear you when you're making this noise.
28:58You need to talk to me properly.
28:59Adam.
29:00Adam.
29:01What?
29:02You need to talk to me properly, honey.
29:03Look at me.
29:04What do you want to play, honey?
29:05The race card game.
29:06The race card game?
29:07The race card game, okay.
29:08I hope mum gets to see this, because in five minutes he calmed down.
29:12This is so common that parents when they leave to go out for the evening, it pulls at their
29:17heartstrings because their kids are like, oh, don't go, don't go.
29:21And literally, look, Adam within five minutes had calmed down.
29:25Look at the door for you.
29:26You sure worried about the kids?
29:27Yeah.
29:28I'm worried about Adam, mostly.
29:29I wonder how he's doing.
29:30He's fine, right?
29:31The super nanny watching him.
29:32He's in good hands.
29:33Good night, chairs.
29:34Good night, locks.
29:35Good night, socks.
29:36See, Tim, good night.
29:37Good night, snow.
29:38Mm-hmm.
29:39Good night, snow.
29:40Whilst the kids are winding down and getting ready for bed, let's take a look at another
29:57family.
29:58Okay, hi, we're the Bullards.
30:00I'm Jen and this is Bryce.
30:02Hello.
30:03And we're here to talk about our two kids, Bricey, who's six, and Rylan, who's two.
30:09Dad!
30:10The Bullards had their hands full running a 24-hour business from home.
30:16Businesswoman now.
30:17Jen was constantly answering the phone.
30:20Bullard, plumbing.
30:21Something doesn't stop ringing.
30:23Because of this, the children were lacking the attention they needed.
30:27So, Jen, you get to eat tonight?
30:29I do get to eat tonight.
30:32Just a little later.
30:34Okay, here we go.
30:35Bullard, plumbing.
30:38The Bullards needed to get their priorities straight.
30:41Where you see red, it means that you need to have the phone off.
30:45It's because they're crucial to your family.
30:47Once we had established the schedule with the phones, the next big issue was to get Rylan
30:52sleeping in his crib.
30:53Come here.
30:54Bricey, hold on a second, please.
30:56Rylan just does not want to go to bed at night.
30:59Come on.
31:00Come on.
31:05Jen and Brice were going to use the sleep separation technique with Rylan to get him off to sleep.
31:11Okay?
31:12You keep calm.
31:13Daddy's sleeping.
31:14Rylan, it's time for a night.
31:16And you sit down.
31:17So he can see the side of your face, but you're not giving him eye contact.
31:29I honestly could not have done that without Jill.
31:33Once the phones were turned off, the kids became their priority.
31:36And Jen and Brice found the balance that they desperately needed.
31:40It's been such a great experience for my whole family.
31:45Let's see how they're coming along.
31:50Hi, Joe.
31:51Hi, Joe.
31:52Thanks for checking in on us.
31:55The schedule that Joe gave us has been working really well.
31:58We've been sticking to it.
32:00Probably my favorite part of the schedule is the begin bedtime routine.
32:04The sleep separation technique has probably made the hugest impact in my household.
32:10Good for you.
32:11We all get so much more sleep now, and Rylan just goes to bed beautifully.
32:15The schedule is important to our family because it gives us the time with our kids,
32:21and we know that we have that time blocked out for our children only.
32:25The phones don't get answered.
32:26Business is not done.
32:27That is our children's time.
32:29And that's very important, and I think it's made a huge difference in my kids.
32:33I think Brice has gotten used to the phones as well because now instead of turning the phones off, we have them forwarded to his.
32:41Yeah, I just have all the calls forwarded to my cell phone now.
32:44We still have the naughty mat as you can see.
32:46I know you gave us two, but we went down to one.
32:49I just found that it was easier just to have one visual for the kids for time out.
32:54It's been working awesome, and we really appreciate it. Thank you.
32:58With Bricey and the naughty mat, it usually just takes a warning.
33:02I really don't even recall the last time he actually had to go.
33:06Yeah!
33:07Rylan's doing a lot better. As you can see, he's not running around the kitchen anymore.
33:10So we're really happy about his table manners now.
33:13Go!
33:14Her techniques don't just change you as a parent, they really change you as a person.
33:20Okay, throw it back!
33:21I love Super Nanny's techniques. I can't imagine life without them now.
33:26It really worked, and we just want to say thank you.
33:29I'd like to say thank you too, Joe. We really appreciate everything you've done.
33:33You're welcome.
33:34We love you, Joe. We miss you.
33:36Hi, Joe. I have a question for you.
33:39Rylan does not want to brush his teeth, and I've been trying to put him on the naughty mat, and he does go.
33:46But after the two minutes, he still doesn't want to brush his teeth.
33:49So at this point, I'm lost, and I don't know what to do, and I would love it if you could help us with that.
33:55Teeth brushing, it's got to be done. It's a life skill.
33:58So make sure that you make it fun for the boys, okay?
34:02Don't put Rylan on the naughty mat. Instead, encourage him to do it. Make it fun.
34:08So play with it. Move it around a little bit within his bedtime routine, and good luck.
34:13Sleep tight. Night-night.
34:15Adam's asleep. He's gone down in his crib. It's really fantastic to see.
34:20Sleep tight, okay?
34:22It was getting late, so I said my goodbyes to the kids.
34:26When it came to Demetrius, he gave me a beautiful letter thanking me for helping his family.
34:34Thank you. It's just beautiful writing. To keep in touch.
34:38Aw, thank you very much. Thank you.
34:42Good night.
34:52Now the children are all asleep, let's take a look at the Orn family.
34:56Hi, we're the Orn family. I'm Tammy.
34:58And I'm Sean.
35:00And we are here to talk about our three little boys. Chandler, who's eight.
35:04Kaden, who's six. And Declan, who is three.
35:08With three boys, this house was full of chaos.
35:16Chandler would back chat his mum.
35:18Clean up the toy room.
35:19No.
35:20Chandler.
35:21You know what I want to do alone? Because of you.
35:23Hayden made mealtimes a headache.
35:25No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
35:28Honey, we're not having pretty couples for dinner.
35:30I make him something different almost every night.
35:33And Declan would just continuously wander into the street.
35:36The boys, they pull Tammy in every direction.
35:39They share with them, but they never share with me.
35:41Now, sit on your butt.
35:45I can't.
35:47What did you say?
35:48Tammy's soft approach and discipline.
35:50Kaden, Chandler, honey, don't yell at me, sweetheart.
35:54Clashed with Sean's lack of tolerance.
35:57You yelled at me in the first grade.
35:59No yelling, Daddy, okay?
36:01Okay.
36:02Once the boys realized there would be consequences for their actions,
36:05Explain to him why he put me in the room.
36:07Mommy warned you not to hit your brothers.
36:11Their behavior changed dramatically.
36:14I'm super proud of you, honey.
36:16That was the best dinner I think we've ever had.
36:20How to be a wager.
36:23Good. That was very good.
36:25To actually see her come in here and work wonders on our family
36:29was more than I could have ever hoped for.
36:32It was an amazing experience for all of us.
36:36Aw.
36:37Just take a look at them now.
36:39Hi, Joe.
36:42Thanks for checking in on us.
36:44Life has changed a lot for us since the Super Nanny came.
36:51A lot more peace in the house.
36:53I'm back.
36:54And I brought gifts.
36:55Not of a need to yell anymore, which was really, really a big thing for me.
37:00I think more than anything, as parents, we've come together.
37:05I spent all my money that you gave me.
37:08And learned to communicate a little bit better.
37:10The kids are actually listening, sitting down, eating.
37:13All right, guys.
37:14Turn on the TV.
37:15It's time for lunch.
37:16Thank you, Mom.
37:18Sitting down at the dinner table was an important part of the day for us,
37:20and it wasn't a peaceful time before Joe got here.
37:23But now it is.
37:24Thank you, Mom.
37:25You're welcome, sweetheart.
37:26Katie needs his food.
37:28That's a really big thing for me.
37:29You guys eat your yogurt.
37:31Then you get to have special lollipops that you made because they're ready.
37:34We still buy snacks, but we don't need to buy snacks like we used to
37:38because they're not eating snacks all day and going through them.
37:41It's been a positive experience for Tammy and I.
37:43I think it's brought us closer together as a whole family.
37:46Kids.
37:47This here is the naughty room.
37:49It's a really effective place for us.
37:52The naughty room is for when we be very naughty.
37:56Yeah.
37:57When we be very naughty.
37:58And you sit in there for six minutes.
38:05There you go.
38:06It's changed their attitudes.
38:07I mean, all you do is pre-warn them with it.
38:10You know, if you do something wrong, you're going to the naughty room.
38:12Going the wrong way.
38:13There you go.
38:14Time out was not working for us.
38:15The naughty room works for us.
38:20I'm extremely thankful for Jo's visit.
38:22Jo was extremely helpful to us.
38:25Not only was she a wonderful person to meet and my kids absolutely loved her
38:29and they were sad to see her go,
38:31she just left us with so much.
38:34We love you, Jo.
38:36She's really good at what she does.
38:38Bye-bye, Jo.
38:39We miss you.
38:42Aww.
38:47Hi.
38:48Hello.
38:49It's quiet. I don't hear no kids.
38:51When Evelina and Robert had come home from dinner,
38:54they expected to hear that Adam had given us a hard time.
38:57Good. Everything went really good.
38:59Adam, did you do a spasmo when we left?
39:01A little bit, but not even...
39:03Five minutes.
39:04I don't even think it was five minutes.
39:05Yeah.
39:06We had a great time.
39:08This is a good learning curve for Robert and Evelina.
39:11They now know that they can go out for the evening and their kids will be fine.
39:14And after all, parents need to make time for themselves.
39:17This is for you to show our appreciation.
39:20Aww.
39:21Can I put it now?
39:22Sure.
39:27Oh, I need a tissue now.
39:28It's pretty on you.
39:29It's so good to see you.
39:30It's really good to see you.
39:31I'm so proud of you.
39:32You've come far.
39:33Yeah.
39:34You've come really far.
39:35Take care.
39:36I'm incredibly proud of the Golbia family and the other families.
39:41They've all come a long way because they put the sheer heart in it.
39:46It's so good to see you.
39:49Oh, I need a tissue now.
39:50It's pretty on you.
39:51It's so good to see you.
39:52Really good to see you.
39:53I'm so proud of you.
39:54You've come far.
39:55Yeah.
39:56Because they put the sheer hard work into it.
40:00I also look forward to meeting the other families out there that need my help too.