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Kids running off outdoors are a worry. Supernanny helps Mom implement the Roaming Technique to stop the habit and teaches Mom and Dad the Same Page Technique to bring them together in their parenting.
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00:00Tonight on Supernanny, Joe meets the Ryries, whose four kids are wearing mom down, especially
00:10their three-year-old wild child, at home and out in public.
00:16Mom and dad are at odds and desperate for help.
00:21Joe has two weeks to tame the quartet of kids and bring this family back to home.
00:29Let's take a look and see who we've got here.
00:59Hi, we're the Ryries.
01:01I'm Jen.
01:02This is Scott.
01:04Scott and I met on my first and only blind date.
01:07And that's when I fell in love with her.
01:09I knew at that point we'd be together forever.
01:12And we have four children.
01:14Our daughter, Celia, is nine.
01:18Halden is seven.
01:21We've also got a three-year-old, Blake, and Brody, our one-year-old.
01:27I'm in investment sales and I leave early in the morning about 4.30 and I'm home about 2.30.
01:33Hello!
01:34How's it going?
01:35Good to be home.
01:36While Scott's working, I stay home and look after the kids.
01:38This happens pretty much every day.
01:40Blake's the biggest problem we have right now.
01:42Blake!
01:43Oh my goodness.
01:44Blake!
01:45Whoa!
01:46Blake tends to run off all the time.
01:48It scares the life out of me.
01:50That little boy just went into the street.
01:52I'm truly afraid for his safety.
01:54Blake!
01:55But I don't think it's a problem.
01:56He's just being a kid.
01:58Blake!
01:59It's a huge trial to take Blake out in public, especially with four children.
02:03Blake, stay here.
02:05Mealtimes at our house are a disaster.
02:07Stop!
02:08Isn't that funny?
02:09I'm finished eating.
02:10All of them are up running around.
02:12Jen and I disagree on our parenting style.
02:14We're not having snacks.
02:16I don't want something for you.
02:17Has a snack or not?
02:18Then he doesn't eat dinner.
02:19That's the problem.
02:20Behavior in the house makes me feel horribly frustrated.
02:23I obviously feel that I'm failing as a mother.
02:26Whoa!
02:27Supernanny, I've hit a brick wall.
02:29I don't know what to do.
02:30I'm at a loss.
02:31Please, please, we need your help.
02:34Guys, you really do need my help.
02:36I'm on my way.
02:48Say hello!
02:50Hi, welcome.
02:51I'm Jen.
02:52Nice to meet you.
02:53Very close.
02:54Pleased to meet you.
02:55Hi, I'm Scott.
02:56Hi, Scott.
02:57Joe seems just amazing.
02:58I was very surprised when she came in so warm and kind.
03:01This is Celia.
03:02Hi Celia, pleased to meet you.
03:03This is Halden.
03:04Hi Halden, pleased to meet you.
03:06I'm JoJo.
03:07And this is Brody.
03:08Hi Brody.
03:09Say hello.
03:10Say hello.
03:11When I first met Joe, I was a bit apprehensive, but hopefully she'll be able to help the things
03:16we need help with.
03:17And this guy in here.
03:18Ah, who's hiding?
03:19That's Blake.
03:20Hi, Blake.
03:21Are you going to shake my hand and say hello?
03:23It's JoJo.
03:24Okay, come on in.
03:25Yay.
03:26All right.
03:27So whilst we're here, I know that you've got issues that need to be addressed.
03:31Yes.
03:32And I'm going to help you resolve those.
03:35But for now, what I want you to do is just carry on as normal.
03:38I'm going to be a fly on the wall and just observe and take mental notes.
03:42Okay?
03:43Wonderful.
03:44Great.
03:47This morning, Mom was getting those kids ready for school and she was helping them get
03:52dressed.
03:53Okay, where did Blake go?
03:54Did you see him?
03:55Come here.
03:56Let's go find Blake.
03:57Blake!
03:58Blake!
03:59You don't know where Blake is.
04:01My first thought was, oh my God, he's gone outside the door.
04:02He's gone across the road.
04:03A car might hit him.
04:04Blake!
04:05He's where?
04:06That boy just runs across.
04:07He doesn't look left or right.
04:08It is so dangerous.
04:09Blake!
04:10Where are you going, darling?
04:13Look, Mommy's here now.
04:14You want to go with Mommy?
04:15Honey, Mommy only has two eyes.
04:16I can only keep track of a few of you at a time.
04:17Okay?
04:18You know I was very busy.
04:19Is this something that happens all the time?
04:20All the time?
04:21All the time.
04:22Yeah.
04:23I mean, his friend lives here and they play all the time.
04:24And I mean, they're great, great friends.
04:25Yeah.
04:26But see?
04:27But don't eat the milk.
04:28Scott, do you know he was over there, clear across the street?
04:42Yeah, he was returning a toilet, I think.
04:56i think okay but don't you think it's a problem that he's just running outside on his own
05:01and running across the street without letting me know i'll talk about it if you want i don't
05:07think it does any good jen tells scott that their son runs across the road but he just
05:15laughs at her i worry about their safety a lot scott's much more lax about that so we tend to
05:20argue or disagree about that how does that great on you it's hard because he feels very strongly
05:26that he's right and i feel very strongly that i'm right and unfortunately with our types of
05:31personalities there's not a lot of compromise sometimes scott has his job that he works at
05:37and i have my job and my job is really being a mom and i feel like i'm not doing a very good job how
05:43do you think you'll ever make him listen to you i truly don't know it was like hitting my head
05:48against a brick wall all the time mom and dad are having a struggle communicating between the
05:54pair of them and right now jen is not feeling like she's being heard what are your plans today we're
06:04going to try to go to the mall the for all of us we'll keep our fingers crossed that that works out
06:10okay okay so that's troublesome then i have no control whatsoever so um it just scares me to death
06:17okay okay come on blake guys out of the road out of the street please okay stop blake did you see
06:32that car come on on the sidewalk please blake what's wrong as soon as we arrived at the mall blake was
06:41just running off in every direction he went into every shop he didn't want to listen blake this way
06:53blake blake blake blake seriously okay blake come here do not run do not run there he goes
07:05at one stage i thought i'd have to take off my heels myself and run for him i just had to run
07:10off because blake was going by the elevator and i was scared he was going to get in and go down
07:14and leave mom up here step back you've got to let the people get out first no no no no you cannot run
07:22into a store without me do you understand blake blake no step away do not blake went from refusing to stay
07:33still to refusing to move get up get up come on let's go the longer we stayed at the mall the worst
07:43things got stay here stay here stay here we've got a mother that's just left two children including
07:52a baby that's three children here while she's had to run off and get blake from the toy shop no look
07:57what's had to happen i've had to leave all the kids this is not working the kids snack all the
08:05time there you go i don't even know how many times i saw those children go into the pantry this is
08:11the biggest candy pantry i've ever seen i've just been in the pantry and it's like candyland in there
08:18there are so many treats and sweets and cookies and candies i mean my god it's packed no wonder why
08:26jennifer's having problems with the children eating they're filling themselves up on that old
08:29rubbish nope no more done done no no more snacks so scott with jennifer you both agree with the
08:41children when it comes to snack times no we do not agree no i don't think we agree no we completely
08:47disagree scott feels it's fine for them to come and get a snack and it's fine for me too as long as
08:51there's a limit set it's our problem is agreeing on that limit so i can pretty much say that you are
08:58definitely on separate pages when it comes to snack time yeah you can say that that's a fair statement
09:03you can say that snack time needs to be sorted out asap
09:15as soon as they sat down at lunch time the children were up out of their seats one was getting a drink the
09:20other one didn't want their food stay here yes
09:27hold it hold it come here i'd like to have us all sit down at the same time this is typical of meal
09:35times oh absolutely and i'd really like us to be able to all sit down together
09:39you have some cheese chew it and swallow it please
09:48yeah
09:54blake decided that he didn't want to eat his food so he started to get up from the table and spit
10:01everything into the trash can is this common for blake yeah he'll uh stuff his cheeks pretty much full
10:08and go spit it out if he doesn't eat it's not a big deal because he'll drink his chocolate milk
10:13and it's so he's nourished he's healthy i don't have a problem with it blake doesn't eat his food
10:18and he survives on chocolate milk i mean what kind of kid can survive on chocolate milk that doesn't
10:22think it's a problem that's ridiculous so that conflicts with jelly's point of view um yeah i mean
10:29i think she wants him to stay and sit down and eat lunch but he's active he's always up and down
10:35it's just the way he is so how do you guys resolve your conflicting opinions as a couple
10:43we really don't do we no
10:49when i first meet a family i watch how the family dynamics work the writery family had issues that
11:04needed addressing right jen and scott i've observed your family so let's go into the next room and
11:10discuss what i've seen okay great having joe come in and critiquing us i'm stressed out i'm anxious i'm
11:16scared but i'm definitely looking forward to getting as much help as we can wow you are as an
11:26english woman i can sit here and say the american dream thank you your children are absolutely adorable
11:32and i think as parents you should be very proud of that and what you've achieved thank you however
11:38i can see this going down to a road of a nightmare if you guys are not careful i would like to talk
11:46about blake running across this road where he could be hit by a car i mean that's dangerous
11:56here one minute gone the next yeah he's three years old he has free reign at all times
12:03scott you're laughing why are you laughing that's the way i was when i was younger well we can all
12:12thank our lucky stars you're still living yeah cars do come and go down the street but generally he's
12:19let's see the problem is scott it's just not at home that he does it let's talk about blake out in
12:25public running off why has it become a situation where you think it's very important but scott you're
12:36relaxed about it and that to me is shocking it's shocking that you both as parents are not doing
12:42enough to make sure that your child is protected from harm's way and that's not something to be laughed
12:48at it's really not and you need to come together on the same page let's talk about snacks the children
12:57can freely go and help themselves in the pantry to snacks and meal times are now becoming a situation
13:03where you have no control they're telling you what they're going to eat and when they're going to eat
13:07it that's got to stop discipline you both need to be in control of that so your children are not running
13:16right on the pair of you the pair of you are equal as far as child rearing and jennifer needs to feel
13:25that her husband is on the same side as her you undermine what jennifer's feeling correct me if i'm
13:33wrong jennifer it's true it's true scott you need to respect what jennifer is feeling
13:39you're devaluating every opinion she has as a parent and you need to support her as she supports
13:49you all right and jennifer as much as i sit here and tell scott oh i'm just as much as to blame you
13:57need to pull your weight as well definitely you need to stand as a solid united front for your children
14:04scott are you up and willing to put the hard work in and and do this and change it jennifer i'm ready
14:14good let's get started as soon as possible great the meeting with joe was pretty rough i felt picked
14:23on i really think she pretty much hit the nail on the head with all of the issues that you know she
14:28brought up i mean it's kind of a slap in the face but it's one that we scott and i both needed
14:35i'm excited to go into the writerie family and make changes for them in a positive way because
14:40there's a lot of stake here a lot at stake family routine okay very good joe brought in a routine
14:48that really categorized basically just our time throughout the day putting the snacks at these
14:53times are going to keep the children going right it's not going to take them away from them but at the
14:58same time it's going to keep them going and fuel because they do engage in activities they do need
15:04a snack to keep going right what it won't do now is mess up your meal times yeah so that your children
15:10are not going to want to eat their dinner i think the structured snack times will have an incredible
15:15effect on our family i think meal times are just going to get better and better
15:21blake likes to push over the boundaries
15:23and when it comes to mum and dad disciplining them they never follow through so that needs to change
15:28completely blake you have to respect your mummy and daddy and listen to what they are saying
15:37any smart mouthing which is talking back and being rude that's not acceptable behavior blake can you
15:45turn around please and listen to jojo when your mummy and daddy say to you no stop that
15:53if you don't listen to mummy and daddy they're going to make you sit on this
15:57all right and this is called the naughty circle and you'll stay there for three minutes because you're
16:03three years old i think the naughty circle will work for blake because he hates being confined to
16:09any type of an area i'm now going to show you guys the naughty room since the naughty circle is
16:13inappropriate for celia and horden i've introduced the naughty room and that's where they will go
16:19if they behave unacceptably this is the naughty room huh don't want to be in here right
16:23blake you stay right there later that afternoon blake went to run across the road and mum said stop
16:36he actually looked round at her and carried on
16:39listen to me listen to me i told you to stop you do not stay in the road you do not run in the road
16:53and you do not tell me no come on no mom gave blake a warning but he didn't listen to her so she put him
17:00straight onto the naughty circle you cannot run in the road why because it's dangerous and a car
17:10could come and hurt you roads are for cars they're not for people because you didn't listen to mummy
17:17you now have to sit on the naughty circle for three minutes and when you go back jennifer i want you to
17:25explain to blake why you put him there say i want an apology please because you did not listen to me
17:32okay
17:38okay blake you had to come on the naughty circle because you didn't listen to mommy
17:44right blake look at me i want an apology i want you to tell me you're sorry for not listening to me
17:50okay he said he's sorry up you get from the circle hugs and kisses come on thank you kisses hold no
18:00grudges let's move on to the next thing okay the next step is vital that locks go on the doors
18:07to prevent him from running out blake look we've got here okay this is a lock this is a lock that's
18:14going to go on this door okay when you want to go across and play with your friends you have to ask
18:19mommy and daddy first because it's dangerous outside when you see this sign stop okay
18:27big sign and every time you come to this door you'll see that sign stop you go and find mommy
18:34and daddy say mommy i want to play i want to play with my friends
18:42definitely the stop will at least give blake the connection he needs that oh i see this sign that
18:46means i have to go ask mom and dad and then obviously the locks being there will prevent
18:50him from leaving the house i think it should have been done a long time ago i think this will be very
18:54effective it's so crucial that jennifer maintains control over blake when she's out in public because
19:04there's safety that needs to be considered here so we went to the park today and i taught jennifer the
19:11roaming technique now that we're here i want you to come down to the children's level and explain
19:18we're at the park now we're going to have fun all right but what i want you to do is stay by mommy's
19:23side okay this is the sign stop and when mommy says with a low toned authoritative voice stop and
19:31puts her hand up and get the boys to do the same i want you to stop where you are so your children know
19:37that they have to stay quite near to you but you're also giving them freedom that they don't have to
19:42be tied completely to you okay if you carry on running then mommy will ask you to come back and
19:48you'll have to hold on to the buggy here's the deal okay while we're walking you can walk right next to
19:54me but if mommy says stop and puts her hand up do this you guys do it too stop say stop stop stop good
20:03stop i really am hopeful that this technique will work because it's it's vital that we go out in
20:09public yeah you just hold on no you can't run yet no no Blake stop Blake stop Blake stop stop Blake
20:21come over here come over to you Blake come on come here Blake real quick
20:27whoo he saw the bench and he wanted to go on it but that's going to happen when he sees a cuddly toy
20:35or a toy in the shop and he's going to want to go in it right you did say stop and he didn't listen
20:39yeah come here listen okay and a low tone voice with this listen to mommy two times mommy said stop
20:46and you kept going for the bench i need you to hold on now for a little bit because you should have
20:50listened you should have listened to me the first time okay thank you let's go hold on get him to hold
20:55hold on as soon as his hand goes off you say hold on thank you okay so you can walk beside now if
21:00you want to go off you can walk on your own now sweetie you don't have to hold on when i say stop
21:03it's stop okay stop stop Blake put your hands out so he recognizes your hand good job i'm so impressed
21:13that he's listening to me i don't know how to react good job Blake you can keep running very good
21:19this technique is great i'm very impressed just because this is the most relaxed i've been at the
21:24park for i ever as a mom definitely Blake you listened so well thank you Jennifer and Scott allow
21:33their children to have snacks 24 7. it's really important that snacking becomes regulated these jars
21:41are your snack jars and this is where your snacks are going to go having snacks is a good idea because
21:51i like to eat this is the key thing if you don't ask mommy and daddy first if you can have your snack
21:59then there'll be no snacks for the rest of the day i'm about to go through some serious snacks because i
22:07am going to clear the snacks that i think are absolute trash okay and in this clear box we're
22:15going to put all the remaining snacks that are left over that are good okay so you can keep filling up
22:22the jar we're not having those right now we're cleaning with jojo no oh yeah all gone
22:33you're only allowed to have three snacks a day choose three snacks to go in your snack jar okay
22:43i love it we'll switch cookies for an apple apple or do you want the cheese
22:52good job thanks guys oh it's very important that the snack technique works i definitely hope to see a
23:01benefit with meal time mom and dad are not on the same page when it comes to parenting mom wants
23:10things a certain way and dad wants things his way jennifer oh okay scott what i would like you both to do
23:19is to write down what you need from one another
23:22this is going to help them validate their feelings and then appreciate and see what each other is
23:31thinking and how they want to resolve it okay i'd like you to explain to scott okay exactly what you
23:39need from him okay i need scott to talk to me away from the kids about parenting issues that he doesn't
23:45agree with me on i need scott to support me in my discipline of blake especially concerning his safety
23:52yeah i agree i mean there's we really don't discuss parenting that often it's nice we sit down and
23:59discuss these things so it seems we need to work out i agree i thought the same page was a good idea
24:05because the kids won't be confused about how they're getting parented i like what's happening here yeah
24:11because what i'm seeing is is you two for the first time coming on to the same page and yeah and that's
24:19what this is about i think it's a great idea and it's something that forces us to really sit down
24:23together and actually discuss you know what's bothering us or what's going on
24:31you must be starving now scott
24:35now that the kids aren't snacking all day long when it comes to meal times they sit down with no fuss at all
24:41blake you really need a piece of pizza the next step was to encourage blake to eat the food that
24:46was prepared for him in this case it was pizza i want you to have three bites do you think he could
24:51survive on three bites until tomorrow morning well no okay so be real with it and then just give all
24:57the kids praise encouragement because they also need to know when they're doing well because it
25:01encourages them to carry on that behavior okay get back up there we're not done yet you have to eat
25:07the pizza before you leave the table blake is a really fussy eater he will only eat his carrots but
25:17he doesn't want his pizza little things that will help you so if you see he's going for one item of
25:22food first watch just say two more carrots and then you have to have two bites of pizza before you
25:28can have some more carrots if you eat pizza you can either have carrots or chocolate milk whichever you
25:32prefer here no open no no hey take a bite no did you take a bite no bro good boy give christ
25:38up good job meal time went well blake actually ate things that he normally wouldn't eat let's see take a
25:48big bite big big big bite all right meal time was fantastic blake would eat all the kids were really
25:56polite so it was it was one of the best sinners we've had in a long time all right this is uh where
26:03i say goodbye i'm leaving the family for a couple of days so that they can carry on with the techniques
26:09that they've learnt number one discipline give a warning first out in public jennifer i want you to
26:17really really practice that roaming technique and the last but not least is keep talking address the
26:23situations together work as a team thank you you're welcome you take care and i'll see you in a couple
26:29of days okay scott take care thank you see you in a couple of days thank you you're welcome we'll be
26:35counting the hours really no really i'm scared to be without joe she just offers so much insight and i feel
26:45just much more confident when she's around i hope i can do it i hope i am strong enough to handle it
26:51they do need to learn as parents have to do this on their own so let's see how to get on
26:58i'm nervous to not have joe here uh she does tend to give me a little confidence boost when she's
27:04around this isn't to go around your neck that's not safe no you tell me no one more time and you're
27:09gonna go on the naughty circle do you understand me come on let's go discipline for blake you're going
27:19on the naughty circle sit you're going in the naughty room exactly you didn't obey mommy and you lied to
27:31mommy mom's doing discipline for horden how come dad isn't doing any of the discipline here hey scott
27:44can i talk to you for a minute about the same page stuff good i'm glad mom's using the same page
27:51technique is there something you wanted to talk about um i had holden in the naughty room twice and
27:58then i had blake on the naughty circle and you were just kind of wandering through the house
28:05sad hello i mean what was going on it seemed like whenever something went wrong that you were
28:11there to discipline them no sometimes i think you just try to ignore what's going on because you don't
28:16want to deal with it is really what i think so well i wasn't ignoring i was just i wasn't even aware
28:22okay come on guys bring it together i feel totally all this pressure on me you know when i'm the one
28:30doing everything well they've been trying to push their limits with you because they know that you'll
28:35say oh let me get your dad if you don't stick together how are you going to run your household effectively
28:44wait for mom oh good job yay hi honey
28:57Blake where are you going
29:02how is work hello lock the door you forgot
29:06now he's running out of the house wake up this is dangerous Blake what did i just talk about
29:16what did i just say about not leaving Blake look at me didn't i just say don't leave look at me
29:24why are you grabbing him by the face you do not walk out the front door without me we're intimidating
29:31him get down to his level you hold on to the stroller while we're in the parking lot just like
29:39that perfect oh this is good mom's taking the kids to the mall again like i asked her to let's see
29:44how she gets on with the roaming technique you guys you can stand right next to the stroller would you
29:49please stop that it is a huge deal going to the mall by myself without joe it's horrifying to me
29:55Blake's running off stop Blake stop mommy's not listening to you
30:06get him back and make him hold on to the stroller and Blake's behavior in the mall
30:11frustrates me to no end and i'm just constantly anxious constantly stressed out and scared
30:20you're never going to be able to go out in public i've got to get back to your house now
30:25when i come back i show them footage of themselves whilst i've not been there
30:42i've been having a look so let's go through and talk about what's on this okay okay great it's an
30:48important part of the journey that i go through with the families so they can see where they've
30:54made mistakes you're going on the naughty circle sit
31:06talk to me that is so you that's not how it was what's happening with the same page i was really
31:12frustrated scott was just kind of wandering through the house totally oblivious to what was going on
31:18with the children and the discipline let's not get lazy here scott make sure you do that as well then
31:24you won't have a wife who thinks that she's taken on all the responsibility in the house both pull
31:29together and pull your weight yeah it is exactly how it was yeah it is
31:43how was work Blake what did i just talk about didn't i just say don't leave look at me you do not
31:53walk out the front door without me what happened did you tell me totally spaced it just shut the
31:58door and walked away didn't follow through you are lucky the pair of you yeah that your little boy
32:05didn't run out don't need to be looked yeah and on top of that the poor little fella gets his cheeks
32:10squashed like a hamster come down to their level because then they're looking up like this and then
32:15you're saying you're not looking at me and then you grab you guys you can stand right next to the
32:21stroller Blake stop if i say stop and you go beyond that i'm going to have to pull the reins back in
32:32again and you're going to have to hold on to the handles of the stroller the roaming technique you can
32:38go off or you can stay by the side but when i say stop then you must stop short and simple
32:45if you do anything less you're going to lose control of the situation today what i'm going
32:50to do is i'm going to stick around and watch you guys and i'm going to help you both reinforce all
32:55those techniques that need tweaking i was really surprised at how many times we messed up because
33:02i really thought things were going so much better i felt that it was very important that i reinforce the
33:08roaming technique today i went with jennifer and all four children and off we went to the mall for another
33:15test run i'm still a bit insecure i guess about my parenting skills so i'm still not a hundred
33:25percent confident but it's getting better definitely all right get blake and tell him to hold on because
33:30you hadn't said he could go mommy didn't say you could leave come on you're stronger than him put his
33:36hand up along the railing okay lift him up stand up stand up hand let's go let's go let's go come on
33:49okay excellent excellent blake sit down mommy's gonna go get cookies i want you guys to sit here
33:55and don't leave that chair while i'm gone blake's doing much better you're more direct jennifer yeah and
34:01your tone of voice is different now when you drop your tone of voice he knows you're being serious yeah
34:07this is amazing this is manageable i'm very proud of jennifer she's done a very very good job with
34:16managing all four children this means we can come out and we can go to the park we can do all kinds of
34:20fun things the technique has just worked amazingly well and now i feel like i can totally take the kids
34:27out on my own and we're having yeah a great time it's great give me five if scott and jennifer don't
34:40come together on the same page then they'll find themselves back to square one again so i brought you
34:46guys together today because i want you to concentrate on communicating and developing that scott i'd like
34:54you to tell jennifer things that you feel honestly she needs to work on um i think you need to work
35:02on just the way you talk to all around blake you like force them to go places if i tell halden or
35:10blake to go do something they do it they do you are a bit bigger and scarier than me but still i need to
35:17know that you're backing me up 100 percent with what i do you know okay the whole same page ideas
35:24made us realize you know we really just want the same things for our children i think the same page
35:29will help jen and i become better parents because it gives us a chance to sit down and actually have
35:34a discussion about how things are going i am very proud of the pair of you of what you are achieving here
35:39today with the same page and everything it's important to have encouragement from one another
35:45definitely i love you i love you i'm only going there before i can all stop it and leave me to get on
35:54now that jen and scott are on the same page it's important that scott helps out with the discipline
36:00blake don't jump on the furniture i had a tendency to be lazy about parenting in the past and this is
36:05definitely helping you know me get more involved with the kids blake if i have to ask you again
36:11you're going to go on the naughty circle all right scott if you can just follow that through with blake
36:15okay that's it blake come on let's get on the naughty circle
36:22find me i asked you not to play in the furniture and you didn't listen
36:27it was amazing for me to see scott put blake on the naughty circle he took that initiative and that for me
36:33was just absolute triumph so can you tell me sorry for jumping on the furniture when i asked you not
36:38to okay okay putting blake on the naughty circle i feel in control of the situation because i think
36:46he's learning the discipline and the rules of the household your time's done good job fantastic scott
36:54when i first arrived at the ryrie household they had no discipline for the children
36:58now the children know there is a consequence for unacceptable behavior and because of that
37:06we have happier parents and we have children who know where they stand and these are from the kids
37:12and all of their little artists that's me that's you and that's brodie and he's pointing at your shoes
37:19well i'm going i'm going take care darling take care bye bye you be good children okay bye bye joe thanks
37:30for coming bye bye bye sweetie my children you'll be a good boy now okay listen to mommy and daddy okay
37:43okay i'm very proud of jennifer and scott they've come a long way thank you thank you it was very
37:53emotional saying goodbye to joe there are not enough words to express the gratitude that we feel you're
37:59welcome take care thank you scott keep talking to the wife open up i was skeptical before joe came but
38:08overall all the things that we wanted joe to help us with she's been very helpful bye bye bye thank you
38:15thank you joe take care bye bye in comparison to what it was like in the beginning there's been major
38:23milestones that have happened here and they deserve it
38:26come pick your snacks for tomorrow our family is just it's a different family it's just it's like
38:39invasion of the body snatchers i don't know who these people are it's wonderful what else blake's
38:45behavior has improved tenfold looks good he's definitely starting to listen to me which is
38:51just monumental you can't even imagine the kids eat their meals rather than the snacks throughout
38:56the day meal time definitely worked out fabulous i am so proud of scott i just feel like i've got a
39:04total partner and i don't have to carry everything on my shoulders now i can share it with him i do
39:10think this experience has made us better parents i think when we're on the same page and working
39:14together the kids see that and they see that jen and i are on one side this has affected us so much
39:21more than i ever ever thought it would one of the first times that i had met with joe she said you
39:26know wow you're really living the american dream but after this experience you know it's joe gave us our
39:33life back and and that's our american dream and she did i mean she she gave us she gave us our family back
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