- 07/07/2025
Os Weinsteins precisam de ajuda. O pai caminhoneiro David às vezes fica fora de casa por até 10 dias seguidos, e a dona de casa Chia não consegue controlar as crianças. Quando ela tenta corrigir os filhos temperamentais, eles reagem batendo e chutando-a, xingando e praticando outros comportamentos agressivos. Jo tenta domar os filhos Weinstein e ajudar os pais.
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00:01Tonight, Joe meets the Weinstein family.
00:04Hi, pleased to meet you, I'm Joe.
00:05I'm Shia.
00:06With four kids who have no respect for their parents.
00:10Shut up, you idiot!
00:11I didn't even say anything.
00:12Do you want to get spanked?
00:14Or the house.
00:15I feel like I'm in a subway.
00:17So do we.
00:18Dad's a raging bull.
00:20Julia!
00:21Move!
00:22Hurry it up!
00:23Shut it!
00:24Lay down!
00:25And mom's waving the white flag.
00:26What am I supposed to make her do?
00:28This is your house and this is your life.
00:30Can Joe get mom to toughen up?
00:32He doesn't dictate when he says sorry.
00:33You're in charge of that naughty stuff.
00:35And turn dad from a big bully.
00:37No, dad, I don't like that.
00:38Oh, you don't like that?
00:39To a gentle giant.
00:44That's not a pretty sight watching you grab up your kid.
00:47I'm sorry.
00:58Let's take a look and see what family gets my help this week.
01:19Hi, we're the Weinstein family.
01:21And my name is Chia.
01:22And I'm David.
01:23We have four children.
01:24Our daughter, McKenna, who is seven.
01:26Baby.
01:27Christina, who is six.
01:28What's up?
01:29Julia, who is five.
01:30And our son, Robert, who is two.
01:33Happy.
01:35I'm a truck driver and I'm gone anywhere between five to seven to maybe even ten days straight.
01:41Love you, daddy.
01:42Love you, daddy.
01:43Love you, daddy.
01:44The kids are kind of uncontrollable when I'm not around.
01:48What are you doing with my curtains?
01:50Say you're sorry.
01:51Sorry!
01:52Don't torture the hamster.
01:55Kenny, she will just fly off the handle with emotion.
01:59You smashed my lunch!
02:01I hate you!
02:02Julia, you push her butt the wrong way and luck out.
02:05It matters.
02:07Tina's the aggressor out of the family.
02:10Now you stay in here for time out.
02:12Shut up, you idiot!
02:14Robert, you blink, he destroyed something.
02:17I have to discipline the kids and show them the difference between right and wrong.
02:22Sit down.
02:23Do it now.
02:24Get your hands off my face.
02:26And then I turn into the bad guy.
02:28You don't tell your mother, bye-bye sucker.
02:30Do you understand?
02:31That is enough.
02:33Shut up!
02:34Bedtime is next to impossible.
02:36They scream.
02:38They will hit me.
02:43They will try to scratch me.
02:46It stings.
02:47Now this is what I call a nightmare.
02:50Eventually, I end up giving up.
02:52And I'm here now.
02:54And look how quickly you calm down.
02:56These kids are getting away with everything.
02:58You won.
02:59It's come to a point now, we've got to get these kids in line, not only for the kids' sanity, but for our marriage.
03:05Super nanny, we are in a desperate situation.
03:10And we really need your help.
03:12Wait, you certainly called the right person.
03:15So I'm on my way.
03:16Hello.
03:17Hello.
03:18Hi, pleased to meet you.
03:19I'm Jo.
03:20I'm Chia.
03:21Come on in.
03:22Hi.
03:23Hi.
03:24I'm Chia.
03:25Come on in.
03:26Hi.
03:27I'm so glad you're finally here.
03:28I want to give you a hug.
03:29I'm sorry.
03:30I couldn't wait.
03:31When Jo walked through that door, I thought, thank God.
03:32What's your name?
03:33Daddy's driving the car.
03:34Can you tell me your name?
03:35Hi, Christina.
03:36Pleased to meet you.
03:37I'm Jojo.
03:38Hi.
03:39Hi.
03:40Hi.
03:41Hi.
03:42Pleased to meet you.
03:43I'm David.
03:44Nice to meet you.
03:45Joe.
03:46Hi, David.
03:47Joe's presence in the beginning kind of made me a little bit intimidated, a little uncomfortable.
04:00I was extremely nervous.
04:02Hi, Julia.
04:03I'm Jojo.
04:04Julia.
04:05Come on.
04:06Be nice.
04:07Hi, Kenny.
04:08Pleased to meet you.
04:10I'm Jojo.
04:11Hi.
04:12How old are you?
04:13Yeah.
04:14I'm seven.
04:15Pleased to meet you.
04:21This is our kids' room down here.
04:24Okay.
04:25I kind of let them do what they will, so to speak.
04:29As I went downstairs to look at the children's playroom, I thought I was going to see this playroom,
04:36very colourful with artwork on the walls.
04:39I saw a different kind of artwork on the walls.
04:43The children had just gone mad.
04:46They put holes in the wall down here.
04:48They were throwing toys up against the wall.
04:50I feel like I'm in a subway.
04:52Yeah.
04:53So do we.
04:54It's very, very barren downstairs, and it's uninviting.
04:59It's stale, and it's not a nice place to be.
05:02This is disgraceful.
05:03How come I've left it for so long?
05:05I just got settled in with the family, and then Robert went missing.
05:14Robert!
05:16Oh, frickin' frack.
05:18Where's Robert?
05:19Robert is so young.
05:21How did they lose him?
05:22Robert!
05:23Robert!
05:24I gotta find Robert.
05:26Robert!
05:27It could be outside, in the road, anywhere.
05:31Robert!
05:32Mom, where's Robert?
05:34I don't know.
05:35I'm trying to find him.
05:36Sorry?
05:37Here he is.
05:38No, we're gonna take this in the house, okay?
05:40Mom was lucky this time, because Robert was found in the driveway.
05:44But next time, it could be a lot worse.
05:46Who was the last parent outside with the kids?
05:50Me.
05:51I was walking in the car.
05:52You weren't, were you?
05:53Okay.
05:54Did you bring Robert in, or did you even tell me that he was out there?
05:56I didn't even know he was outside.
05:58I didn't even see him.
05:59I went to the car.
06:00Thanks, David.
06:01What, he was out?
06:02Yeah, he was outside.
06:04Well, quite clearly, there's not a lot of teamwork going on between Cheer and David.
06:10Play clean up a little bit, Kenny, or turn TV on.
06:12Robert, go.
06:13I don't wanna play camp, and I don't wanna go downstairs.
06:17Look at me.
06:19What kind of look do you see on my face?
06:21It's called, I don't care.
06:22Go.
06:23No.
06:24Go.
06:25No.
06:26Tina, come on.
06:27I'm not playing any games.
06:28Let's go.
06:29On three, Tina.
06:30Move.
06:31One, two, and three.
06:32Done.
06:33I was gonna give her time out.
06:34I'm giving her times up.
06:35Come on.
06:36Help Daddy pick up.
06:37Tina!
06:38Look at me.
06:39Now sit down and play.
06:40She said I don't like you, stupid head.
06:44I don't want my children to be disrespectful to me or to anybody else.
06:48And I do what I feel I have to do to correct them.
06:50Now you say you're sorry and get down and play.
06:53What?
06:54Say it.
06:55Say it.
06:56And I better not hear it come out of your mouth again.
06:58I want you down and playing.
07:00No.
07:01Play.
07:02No.
07:03Tina may be getting mouthy, but that's no excuse for Dad to grab her by the face and scare her.
07:08Julia!
07:09Move!
07:10No, that's ten dang times.
07:13Move!
07:14Kenny, I'm not joking with you, man.
07:16You're seven years old.
07:17Get up.
07:18And pick a toy up.
07:19Pick it up.
07:20I love David very much.
07:22But I feel a lot of times that David is aggressive about how he talks to the kids.
07:29And how loud he actually is.
07:31And how harsh his voice is.
07:34Kenny, use your hands.
07:37All night since I got home at supper you've been wanting to do absolutely nothing.
07:41I wouldn't want to be on the other end of David barking.
07:43It's way too intimidating for the kids.
07:51The kids had just finished eating dinner and Mom and Dad wanted to start clearing the table.
07:55Come on.
07:56Why don't you help Mommy do the dishes?
07:58Daddy will put the stuff away and Mommy can take a break.
08:02Huh?
08:03I don't want to do nothing.
08:04Just sit down.
08:05Kenny, stop.
08:06Man, I hate that.
08:07You're telling everybody you want to do nothing.
08:08Huh?
08:09Go.
08:10Go upstairs.
08:11Why?
08:12She doesn't want to do anything.
08:13She doesn't want to do anything.
08:14Don't you think that's a problem if I'm telling her not to do it and now she's doing
08:15it?
08:16That's half the reason she's up if you're giving in and I'm telling her she can't do something.
08:17She shouldn't be up in that room all day.
08:18What am I supposed to make her do?
08:19Make her do what you want her to do.
08:20She doesn't want to play.
08:21This is your house and this is your life.
08:22If you tell her to stay out of the room, it's out of the dang room.
08:25David and I don't communicate at all and I think that we both push a lot of responsibility
08:31for whatever it may be.
08:32On the other person.
08:33How long have you two been at local heads with one another?
08:34Since Kenny was born.
08:35Yeah, day one.
08:36How long's that?
08:37About seven years.
08:38I'm not mad at her.
08:39I'm really mad at her.
08:40Do your mom and her mother do what you want her to do.
08:41She doesn't want to play.
08:42Do what you want her to do.
08:43This is your house and this is your life.
08:44If you tell her to stay out of the room, it's out of the dang room.
08:45David and I don't communicate at all.
08:46And I think that we both push a lot of responsibility for whatever it may be on the other person.
08:51How long have you two been at local heads with one another?
08:55Since Kenny was born.
08:56Yeah, day one.
08:58How long's that?
08:59Seven years.
09:00seven years. I'm not mad at her, but no, not a seven-year-old is going to tell me or my wife
09:05what they're going to do if it's wrong. A lot of our issues are because of what to do with the
09:11kids. Cher and David both have two very different approaches when it comes to raising their
09:17children, and it's been going on for just too long. Too bad. Mommy spent a half hour reading
09:28to you. That's fair enough. Lay down. Julia, get up by the pillow. Lay down. Come on, Kenny, in your room.
09:34Tina, no, no, no, no, no, no. Not again. Not another night. Let's go. Lay down. Don't. Into bed. Stay. Tina,
09:43stay. Tina, lay down. Get in bed. Do you want to get spanked? If I come back in here, I'm not kidding.
09:53Tina, I kid you not. I don't want to go to sleep. You got to go to sleep. Good night.
09:59I can't sleep. I just wanted to touch you. Mom! Robert, you don't need any more. No, no more. Get
10:08in bed. Everything's sparring out of control. It's getting later. People are tired. The kids just
10:15weren't listening to Mom and Dad. It was crazy time. Robert, enough. Get in bed and leave Julia
10:23alone. Mom. Tina, just do it. Mom! Get in bed. Mom, do you sleep with me? No, absolutely not. It is
10:32physically exhausting, but it's also mentally exhausting. I don't know what I'm doing anymore.
10:37Shut up, Tina. She told me to shut up. I didn't even say anything. Tell her not to tell you to shut
10:46up. You're here tonight. I do this every night. It was just ludicrous. There's Mom and Dad standing
10:54at the top of the stairwell waiting for a fight with the kids. Do you want to give me an apology
10:58for saying shut up? All right. Thank you. Shut up. She just told me she was sorry and now she tells me
11:07to shut up again. You're here tonight. I'll try and calm Kenny down. I already got kicked. I get bit
11:15and scratched and gouged. I don't want to hear about how you already get kicked. You're done. Say it
11:21again. You understand? Why did he come and leave? You went in the room for an argument. No, you will
11:29listen to Mommy and me. You will listen to Mommy. It is bedtime. Okay, it's your problem. Mommy. No. Penny, lay
11:39down. I'm going to put you to sleep in a minute. Shut up. Lay down. No.
11:51You have got to stop. You're seven years old. It is so getting out of hand now. Lay down,
12:02Kenny. Two and a half hours later, it was 10 p.m. and there was still no resolving sights. I could
12:10see by the way Mom was behaving that she was just going to surrender to it all and go and lay on that
12:15bed, and I'd seen enough. Tomorrow morning, we'll talk. Okay? Take care. Sleep tight. Thanks.
12:22Tomorrow morning, I'm going to sit Mom and Dad down after we've got a lot to discuss. Lay down.
12:35You have beautiful children who are very loving, very articulate, have amazing sense of humour.
12:42They're good kids. Thank you. Thank you. But when you're at home with the kids, everything is go
12:52down to the basement, go and play, go and play, go and play, down in the Holden cell. That basement
12:57doesn't create an environment of creativity. It's a joke. It's disgusting. If they're going to do
13:05something, writing on the wall, painting on the ceiling, or ruining the carpet, I'd much rather it be
13:11down there. Put them in a basement. Let them play with the toys. They get a lot of room down there,
13:16carpet, air, heat, whatever they want, and TV. Put them down there.
13:19They don't want toys. Cheer, David. What do they want? What do they want?
13:27Us.
13:28They're bored. That basement could be full of energy that is a joy. They could have their
13:37paintings and their drawings up on the wall to feel proud of, instead of looking at really
13:43their artwork that's just destructive boredom. I noticed how there is a complete contrast in
13:55your parenting styles. David, you bark and you demand from them. You are up in your kids' faces.
14:03There. That's scary. Explain to Cheer, why do you feel that you have to be that way?
14:12You're a good mother, but you're a passive mother. You let them do things, and then I've got to step in.
14:20By the time I step in, I'm mad, because I'm mad because you and I have been fighting or arguing.
14:26I'm mad because you're crying, and I'm mad because I've got kids running this house.
14:30She's looking at you like you're a bully.
14:32Yep.
14:34So she wants to protect them on one hand, but also doesn't know how to stand up for herself
14:40and be authoritative. Right, Chia?
14:45I've tried to take control, but I do like your food.
14:51Let's talk about bedtime. No consistent bedtime routine exists.
14:58But what does exist is the anticipation, the adrenaline, the sword and the shield ready
15:08for bedtime. That's not a pretty sight watching you grab up your kid.
15:13It's not a pretty sight watching her bite everybody either and kick.
15:16No, it's not.
15:17And that's what I was holding her down from doing, because she likes to bite and she likes
15:20to kick. I'm just holding her, trying to get two points across, and then I walk out
15:25and I feel like a jack-in, or jerk.
15:27But that is what's coming across, David. We are seeing that. We are seeing you be a real meanie.
15:37Relax. That's why we're here.
15:51I'm sorry.
15:52I'm not here to pussyfoot around. I'm here to tell you how it is.
15:59I just was kind of hoping maybe a few things Joe would overlook, but she didn't.
16:05It was rough on me seeing my wife cry. It was rough on me. It was a very intense meeting.
16:10So it does mean having a very open mind, changing some old behavior patterns, and making choices
16:18that are completely different.
16:21I've got to start standing up for myself and start showing some control over the kids.
16:27I think it will be really hard.
16:29Are you guys up for doing that?
16:30Yes.
16:30Absolutely.
16:31Mm-hmm.
16:32You sure about that?
16:33I'm positive. And we do have a good family.
16:37And I know that you love your children very much.
16:40It's my life.
16:40And you need to start showing them.
16:43So let's get cracking the whip and start straight away.
16:47I appreciate it.
16:48Okay.
16:49The first thing I needed to do was to get mum and dad on the same page.
17:00So rules needed to go into this house because it had been lacking big time.
17:06One piece of paper.
17:08And as you can see, it's got the rules on it.
17:12You see?
17:13There are none.
17:14You see the rules?
17:16There are none, exactly.
17:17You need rules in this house so that the children know what's expected from them.
17:23Yes, ma'am.
17:24Okay.
17:25I don't want to strictly be the good guy or the bad guy on the team.
17:28It's going to be up here that whether I'm here or I'm not here,
17:32you can't keep them making me look like the bad guy.
17:35Doesn't trust you.
17:36You don't trust me, honey.
17:39Certain things, no.
17:41So what do you want from your life?
17:42Commitment, just like a marriage commitment.
17:44I stick by you no matter what.
17:46And that's all I want out of you because I love you.
17:49Here.
17:49What?
17:50I promise to support you and us in all the decisions that we make.
17:55Together.
17:56Together.
17:57That's fair for me.
17:59Now we can go on to one, two, and three.
18:01All right.
18:04No jumping on furniture.
18:08Well, I got a good one too.
18:09No eating anywhere but the kitchen.
18:12It was really great to watch mom and dad communicate with one another and write down the rules.
18:16And what they realized is throughout that process, they were recognizing the things that they hadn't done.
18:22You know what that says?
18:23House rules.
18:25That's right.
18:26The first rules was no jumping on the furniture.
18:30Number four.
18:31It's a big one, Tina.
18:33Are you listening?
18:34We're not going to be calling each other names anymore.
18:36That was the first time that Chia and I had ever sat down with the kids and talked about good things like that.
18:42Like, here's our home, our policy, we're all one, and this is what we should do.
18:47That was the first time it ever happened in this house.
18:51Next, I took David aside so that I could do some 101 on voice coaching.
18:55When you communicate with the children, this is what they're seeing.
18:59Right?
18:59Right.
18:59If I come down, don't you know what we're just chatting?
19:05What's my body language saying?
19:08That you're comfortable.
19:09You're not a threat.
19:10It made me realize that I'm putting fear into my kid.
19:13The four-year-old just sees a big, brulee man standing over her and not knowing what's coming next.
19:17That made me upset at what I did, and it hit me right where I didn't really want it to hit.
19:23But if I'm in your face like this...
19:25No, that I don't like.
19:26Oh, you don't like that?
19:27No.
19:27How uncomfortable is that?
19:28That's actually more uncomfortable than standing up like you were.
19:32Right.
19:33That's what your kids get.
19:35They got the point.
19:38One example that she gave me is going to change my life as far as my tone and my presence and my attitude towards my kids or anybody's kids for that fact.
19:45The Weinstein bedtime is a complete nightmare, full stop.
19:53Now, the first time that the child comes out of the room, I want you to say, it's bedtime, darling.
20:00Okay?
20:01And usher them back upstairs and put them back into bed.
20:04The second time they come out, you say, it's bedtime.
20:08Okay?
20:09The third time they get out of bed, you say nothing.
20:13What's important is not to reward the child with communication or fan the flames if they start kicking off.
20:18Okay, low-key, 7 o'clock, Mom.
20:21Let's start bedtime routine.
20:23Lady, you're in for a shock because it's not going to fly.
20:27It will not work.
20:28Okay, let's tuck him in.
20:30Yeah?
20:32Love you, Tina.
20:33Good night.
20:36I love you.
20:36I love you.
20:41Mom!
20:43Tina's down in her room!
20:45Bedtime, darling.
20:46Bedtime.
20:47She already had that.
20:48I got her.
20:49I got her.
20:49Straight bedtime now.
20:50Turn it around.
20:57Bedtime.
21:03Okay, come on, bye.
21:05What do you need?
21:12I just told David not to give the kids attention, and there he is, switching the light on and off in confrontation with Tina.
21:19What are you doing?
21:20What are you doing?
21:21Huh?
21:21What are you doing?
21:22Shutting the way off.
21:23All right, come here.
21:25Don't play that game with her.
21:26You're fanning into the flames straight away.
21:28That's what she wants.
21:29Straight away, you walk out the door, and she's guaranteed she's got your attention.
21:33Mommy!
21:34Mommy!
21:36Mommy!
21:37No!
21:38No!
21:41This was going to be war.
21:45Tina was not going to let mom and dad off easy, that's for sure.
21:48I didn't give in.
21:58I just, I did what I was told to do.
22:01I just kept walking her to bed, as much as I hated it.
22:05And I'll tell you, I'm not going to lie.
22:06I hated it.
22:07Come in, let's regroup.
22:09Regroup.
22:09This is what you need to do.
22:11Keep your tempers.
22:13Okay?
22:14She's going to slap, punch, Tina's going to do what she can to make you guys do what you used to do, and let's have a fight with her.
22:21Okay, she starts to slap, turn her around, so that she hasn't got her arms to be slapping you.
22:29Tina was just chaotic.
22:31She really was.
22:32She kept coming in and out, in and out.
22:34She started to swear.
22:35She slapped her mom and dad.
22:37She did everything she could possibly think to do.
22:41It was exhausting.
22:59It really was.
23:00I didn't like the plan that Joe put together for me to have to be nice.
23:08It was very hard.
23:09This game.
23:09Sleeping and Robert's sleeping.
23:11And Kenny's sleeping.
23:12So it's just Tina?
23:13Just Tina.
23:15I want to watch TV.
23:23After two long hours, we were waiting, but we heard nothing.
23:30You'd flipped the script completely.
23:32You've worked together.
23:34You've supported one another.
23:36We can still smile.
23:37I know.
23:38Give me five, girl, I'll tell you.
23:41It certainly wasn't perfect, but it was a victory for mom and dad.
23:45Three kids in bed, one kid on the landing, who they will put in bed later.
23:50Well done.
23:51Hugs and promises about the tomorrow part.
23:54Yeah, definitely.
23:56Listen, get some sleep, yeah?
23:57Good night.
23:58Good night.
23:58See you tomorrow.
24:00Today I was going to introduce a technique that would encourage the children to start tidying
24:07up their playroom.
24:09But look what Jojo's got, look.
24:11Busy bee outfits.
24:12I've got skirts.
24:15Oh, I like that.
24:16You like that?
24:17There you go then, Tina.
24:19The honeybee costumes the kids absolutely loved.
24:23That looks cool.
24:24Once they got their costumes on, there was no stopping them.
24:28They could wait to get downstairs.
24:30You see these boxes here?
24:32We're going to label them and put certain things in them so we know what goes in those boxes.
24:40These little busy bees were really keen and cleaning up was going to be fun.
24:44So we'll put all the dolls in this box.
24:46Can you help me, Robert?
24:47Look, we got a purse box.
24:48Let's put purses in the purse box.
24:50There you go.
24:52Each child did their own particular job of writing the labels down.
24:57A.
24:58Sorting out the boxes.
25:00Out.
25:00Good job, Kenny.
25:02Where's the praise, Mom?
25:03Good job.
25:04Busy bees cleaned up all the mess.
25:06Once the busy bees had completed part one of their mission, it was now time for Dad to bring
25:11some folks in to paint their walls.
25:14And we were ready for phase two.
25:15Let's get going.
25:17Get the stuff clean of those animals, animals, animals.
25:21The hard part is pushing the boxes.
25:24What I really love about the children all coming together and helping here is that already
25:29I'm seeing Kenny start to use her imagination.
25:32For doctor's appointments.
25:34Doctor's appointments.
25:35Okay, that's good.
25:36Well done, busy bees.
25:41Look at you all working well together.
25:43Well done.
25:44All into the play area.
25:45Very good.
25:46All in.
25:47Look what you created.
25:49This wonderful play area.
25:52I would like to say that I'm very, very, very, very proud of all of you.
25:57I'm good.
25:59Daddy?
26:00I want to talk right now.
26:01Dad's tough guy exterior.
26:04I think I'm breaking down bit by bit.
26:06And I'll make a softie out of him yet.
26:08I'm very happy with everybody.
26:10Come down.
26:11Talk to your, talk to your girls.
26:13Tell them how proud you are.
26:15Daddy's very happy with everybody.
26:17You guys did a great job.
26:20My little bees.
26:21What are we doing now?
26:26Lunch.
26:26Lunch.
26:27Ready for lunch.
26:28After cleaning the basement, Chia went up to make the kids some lunch.
26:32But Robert didn't listen to her because he didn't want to finish off his food.
26:35You need to eat your food.
26:36And after you eat your food, you can have some pudding.
26:39But you cannot have pudding if you do not eat your food.
26:42We need to finish eating first.
26:48I was waiting for Chia to take control of the situation, but it didn't happen.
26:54I'm not quite sure what I need to do here.
26:56Good.
26:57I'm glad you're asking me.
26:58Brilliant.
26:58It was a perfect opportunity for me to show Chia that these kids cannot just walk all
27:03over her.
27:04They turn around.
27:05Bring him back around.
27:08Okay.
27:09Come down to his level.
27:10And then tell him what you want him to finish and then you can get down, okay?
27:13Say to him, Mummy wants you just to finish that bit and then you can get down.
27:18He still wasn't having it, so it was off to the naughty stall for him.
27:22On here, and you're looking at him, and Mummy's put you on the naughty stall because you
27:27are misbehaving and being naughty, Robert.
27:30And you did not listen to Mummy when she asked you to eat your lunch.
27:34Now you stay there.
27:39Don't tell me.
27:41Robert?
27:42Don't tell me.
27:43Sorry.
27:43Not to me.
27:44Sorry.
27:47I'm sorry.
27:49Robert was quick to apologize, but Chia needs to follow through and discipline him.
27:54He doesn't dictate when he says sorry.
27:55You're in charge of that naughty stall, so continue with what you were doing.
27:59If I was trying this on my own, I wouldn't have been able to do it.
28:02You put him back onto the stall.
28:05Back onto the stall.
28:09Mummy!
28:13Robert realized that Mum was serious and he stayed for his two minutes.
28:17What do you say to Mummy?
28:19What do you say?
28:20Oh, I'm sorry.
28:22Sorry.
28:22Oh, okay.
28:23Hugs and kisses.
28:26Thank you, little man.
28:28Using Robert on the naughty stall actually wasn't as hard as I thought it was going to be.
28:33I stuck it out, and I got it accomplished.
28:37I love you.
28:42Chia and David have learned a lot over the last couple of days.
28:45Say night, night.
28:47And it's now time for me to leave them on their own.
28:49Support one another.
28:51Stay calm and composed.
28:53Keep up the strength of Chia.
28:54And wish you farewell, and I'll see you soon.
28:58You're welcome.
28:58You're welcome.
28:59Oh, thank you, Zay.
29:00If I got questions, you're not going to be here.
29:03Write them down.
29:05Stick with it, okay, David?
29:06Oh, I will.
29:07Joe's a security blanket for me.
29:08Without her, I'm not sure.
29:09I'm hoping for the best.
29:11I'll see you soon.
29:11Whilst I'm gone, I hope that David and Chia don't forget every little thing I've taught them.
29:16But I'll be back in a few days to find out.
29:19Bye.
29:19Bye.
29:20Bye.
29:29I've been away for a couple of days, and it's now time for Chia and David to face the music.
29:33Are you both ready to take a peep?
29:36Good boys.
29:44Be good boys.
29:45Door open.
29:47That good?
29:49Good night.
29:53He's out.
29:56Come on, Julia.
29:58Let's get comfy land.
30:00Tina's coming.
30:01Come on, Julia.
30:02I want to see you guys try and go to sleep for yourselves.
30:07No.
30:08Tina, get in your bed.
30:11Here's your cooling.
30:12I want to...
30:13Relax.
30:13You're stupid.
30:16I want the door open.
30:18I want the door open.
30:20I want the door open.
30:22I want the door open.
30:25Tina's going to put a hole in that wall.
30:26She puts a hole in the wall and takes the door down.
30:28Do you hear that?
30:44It's silence.
30:46What time is it?
30:478.15.
30:50It blew our minds.
30:56Did I hear 8.15?
30:57Yes.
30:588.15.
30:588.15.
31:0045 minutes after they laid down, that was the end of it.
31:04Yes!
31:07I'll high five that one.
31:10How wonderful!
31:12Well done.
31:17Okay, now.
31:18All of you, grab a lid and be creative.
31:22That's a dragon neck?
31:23Wait, I'm going to make this thingy.
31:25This is a leg for it.
31:27May I shut it down?
31:30That.
31:31Mommy, look!
31:32A dragon feet!
31:33Cool!
31:34See?
31:35That's using your imagination.
31:37That's very good.
31:38I know.
31:38The leg.
31:41Fantastic!
31:42The kids enjoying it.
31:44The arts and crafts.
31:46Giving lots of positive praise there.
31:48You're using your imagination.
31:50I am so proud to see that.
31:53Thank you very much.
31:55Well done.
31:59Hey, Kenny.
32:00Kenny, I told you to turn that TV off.
32:03Do it.
32:03Move!
32:04Do it again and I'm going to spank you.
32:05Kenny, trampoline only.
32:07No driveway.
32:08Ty?
32:11Hmm?
32:12Come on, talk.
32:13What are you saying?
32:15My tone.
32:16I can hear it right away.
32:19Tina, go play.
32:20Robert, get up here and play.
32:22Daddy, look!
32:23We don't have any Band-Aids.
32:24Shake it off.
32:25Be a man.
32:26Julia.
32:27Julia.
32:29Julia.
32:29Robert, come here.
32:30No cookies.
32:31Who said you can have a cookie?
32:32Julia, come on.
32:33Down the stairs and play.
32:34We're not negotiating with you.
32:36Go now.
32:37What, you want everybody to think you're a little baby?
32:39Hurry it up!
32:40I meant that nicely, Kenny.
32:41Hurry it up.
32:42Just turn it down.
32:43Sorry, turn it down.
32:44Sorry, David.
32:45Turn it down.
32:45I can hear it.
32:47Where was you last week?
32:50Where was I?
32:51I was here.
32:53I beg to differ watching this piece of footage here, David.
32:56Tone of voice.
32:58Too harsh.
33:00Seriously, we do need to work on your tone of voice.
33:02Real drill, Sergeant, stuff going on there.
33:05And it's not necessary.
33:07I didn't know it was like that, though.
33:09It's good for you to have seen this, because now you know what your kids receive.
33:13Yeah.
33:14I didn't think that I sounded that way.
33:16I was shocked.
33:18I didn't like it.
33:19You've seen it for what it is, and we'll work on that today.
33:22Okay.
33:22Some great stuff on this DVD footage that I'm very proud of, and you should be very proud
33:31of, too.
33:32And what I'm going to do today is be here just to go through anything that I feel needs tweaking.
33:36That's what we are going to do.
33:38Okay.
33:39All right?
33:39Okay.
33:40Okay.
33:40Brilliant.
33:41Okay, I've got a plan.
33:43Okay.
33:43We watched the DVD footage.
33:45Mm-hmm.
33:46And we saw the Sergeant up there giving off his commands.
33:50After watching the DVD footage, I could still see that that was being very threatening with
33:54his voice.
33:55So I wanted to put David to the test.
33:57I am going to get David to take the kids out, but I'm going to get you to call him.
34:04Okay.
34:04All right?
34:05Pull everything out the bag to keep that man on the phone.
34:10Okay.
34:11It might have been a little bit off key, yeah, but I just wanted to see if Dad was going to
34:15keep his call, even with all the distractions he was going to get.
34:19Chia.
34:20Hello.
34:21Yes?
34:22Chia.
34:22Chia's not around.
34:23Chia's busy.
34:23I was just wondering if he helped with the job.
34:25Bye.
34:27Chia.
34:30Danny's got the kids.
34:31We're all going for riding our bikes.
34:33Come on, you guys.
34:34Down the driveway this way.
34:35Where's Kenny?
34:36Kenny, wait up.
34:38Oh, and right off the bat?
34:40Daddy's hands full, that's for sure.
34:41Come on.
34:43Let's go for a walk.
34:45Hello?
34:46Hi.
34:46Are you leaving at like four in the morning?
34:48No.
34:49Are you leaving at like seven in the morning?
34:51Robert.
34:51You're shouting.
34:52Robert, honey.
34:53You're shouting.
34:53Don't.
34:54That is not for you.
34:55David, Julia's down here.
34:57Julia, wait.
34:58Julia, wait up.
35:00You're shouting, Dad.
35:00Oh, Julia, honey, wait up.
35:02There was David.
35:03What do I do?
35:04Do I put the phone down?
35:05What do I do?
35:05What do I do?
35:06Ah!
35:07Tina.
35:08Hey, Tina.
35:08You're shouting at Tina.
35:09Hey, honey.
35:10Tina, honey.
35:11That was a bad, bad walk, man.
35:13I wanted to scream.
35:15I need to organize myself really quick.
35:17Just hang on.
35:18Tina, would you come with Daddy, please?
35:20I want you guys all in front of Daddy.
35:22Come on, Robert.
35:22Be a big one.
35:23Good boy.
35:24Nice tone.
35:26Tina, slow down a little bit.
35:28OK, now, what's up?
35:29David did a really good job using the tone of his voice, and he got it.
35:33But there was a few people at home that just wanted to remind him of what he was like when
35:38he was angry.
35:39When Daddy gets frustrated, what does he do?
35:41What's his face look like?
35:42Does he go to its...
35:43What does he sound like?
35:44Child!
35:45That was a good...
35:46Yeah.
35:47Yeah.
35:47Oh, God!
35:54Being intimidating to a kid is not being a man.
35:58I'm not going to raise my voice anymore.
36:00Point taken.
36:01Very well.
36:03Yeah.
36:03Now we're seeing Big Bag Dave turn into quite a teddy bear.
36:11So, I had one last exercise for Mom and Dad to do, and for it to really work, Mom needed
36:16to be blindfolded.
36:18Obviously, I hear something, but what?
36:20When I first arrived, I really did see a lack of trust between Chia and David with regards
36:27to raising their children, and I hope this will just show them how far they have come.
36:31You guys have to rely on one another, which means you have to work together.
36:36With his voice only, David is going to lead Chia to these scattered blocks, and when they're
36:42arranged correctly, they're going to spell out a very important, meaningful word.
36:47Ready?
36:48Walk straight ahead.
36:49Say, come on, Mommy.
36:51Ready?
36:51Stop.
36:52Stop, stop.
36:52Come on, Mommy.
36:54Turn it on the right.
36:55Mommy.
36:56They did it very well.
36:57Mommy.
36:58They listened to one another.
36:59They took direction.
37:00Get right there.
37:01And they worked together.
37:03Keep going.
37:04Give me some encouragement.
37:04Right there.
37:05Get right there.
37:06Stop.
37:06Come on.
37:07Mommy.
37:08Mommy.
37:08I don't understand what it's supposed to be.
37:10What letters do we have?
37:11We have an S-R-T-U and a T. I can't figure it out.
37:16Trust.
37:17David.
37:18No.
37:19Well, I was looking for something else.
37:21I wasn't the spelling bee champion in high school, if you want to know.
37:25So, there.
37:26Thanks for making me look bad.
37:28It was a very good game as far as it's faith and trust.
37:31I think that your wife or your husband's really out there for your best interest to lead you
37:35in the right direction.
37:35I wanted to say goodbye.
37:36I wanted to say to you, just work some miracles around here.
37:51It's not a lie.
37:51that's coming from the heart.
37:53You did some fabulous stuff.
37:55She gave us our life back,
37:56our life together as a couple back.
37:58Something that was desperately needed
38:00and it couldn't have been a better gift.
38:03Keep it up, okay?
38:04Well, I promise you.
38:05Keep it up.
38:05I definitely will.
38:06I'm getting, can I have a hug?
38:09I know that Joe has brought me a lot closer to my children.
38:13It's really nice to know that my kids respect my authority.
38:18Let's have you all stand behind it then.
38:20Working with the Weinsteins has been an amazing experience for me
38:24because I really have seen two parents open up
38:29and be completely vulnerable.
38:31Ready?
38:32But at the same time, there's communication,
38:36there's love, there's warmth, and yes, there's trust.
38:38We're all going on a walk together.
38:50We have literally gone from yelling, fighting, and profanity from our kids
38:57to love, respect, and enjoyment.
39:04Daddy, can you paint mine?
39:05Yes, Daddy can do that.
39:07And it's a beautiful thing.
39:09Look at Robert.
39:11Good boy.
39:12Everything's changed.
39:13They're happier.
39:14All my kids are enjoying different activities.
39:16They're wanting to participate.
39:18They got that extra burst of enthusiasm and energy.
39:22I can swim.
39:24Ready?
39:25One, two.
39:27We all enjoy our time together.
39:30Look at the ball.
39:32Oh, no.
39:32Oh, no.
39:33It's right.
39:34Everybody actually wants to be there and have fun together.
39:37Oh, ho!
39:39Oh!
39:39First time in seven years that I've actually seen my wife, Chia,
39:44have a backbone and not let these kids push her around,
39:48and I love every minute of it.
39:49Daddy, come on!
39:50Daddy!
39:54We've actually become a family.
39:57Your mark, get set, go!
40:00Thanks for giving me my life back.
40:02I have peace now.
40:03I have my nice little family.
40:05It's really nice to know that we all respect each other.
40:10My daughters and my son all respect each other,
40:14and to see that with your children is a proud moment in your life.
40:31Daddy!
40:32Daddy!
40:35I have one of his children!
40:36I have two kids!
40:38Mommy!
40:39I have a chair!
40:40I have a chair of a chair!
40:42Yes, please!
40:43Yes, please!
40:46Okay,게요.
40:47Wait!
40:48No!
40:48No!
40:49You want to have a chair?
40:52I'm a busy bee!
40:54Is that one of your kids best?
40:56Okay, watch your dad!
40:58Yeah?
40:59Yeah?
41:00Yeah?
41:01Yeah?
41:01Yeah, it's a fan of whiskey,
41:02that's not acting!
41:02Oh!
41:03I'm not busy, Karen!
41:04No!
41:04Hey, Li, can't try too, wha!
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