- 15/07/2025
The Quinn-Davises are a blended family divided against itself. The kids are acting out and the parents are on the cusp of divorce. Jo whips them into shape but when a child ends up in the hospital and another receives devastating news, will Jo be enough?
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00:00:00Every family has a framed portrait,
00:00:03but behind that photo lies the real truth.
00:00:07I've had times where I've had 27 calls from Don.
00:00:10You're stonewalling me, running away all the time.
00:00:12Call me, call me, call me, call me.
00:00:13Can I finish?
00:00:14I feel smothered.
00:00:15Stop it.
00:00:16And you want to split your own marriage up?
00:00:18That's one thing.
00:00:19But now you're six kids in the process.
00:00:22I am going to stop drinking,
00:00:24and I don't know how to tell you that again.
00:00:26What else do you want from me?
00:00:27I need you to calm down and talk to me a little.
00:00:29I need you to calm down and talk to me a little.
00:00:31Amber.
00:00:32Do you actually think it's okay underneath your breath
00:00:33to call your .
00:00:34Yeah.
00:00:35It's okay.
00:00:36Do you?
00:00:37Yeah.
00:00:38Really?
00:00:39It just took its toll.
00:00:40And people are like, I'm messing around,
00:00:42but it's not funny.
00:00:45Dang.
00:00:46It's not funny.
00:00:47Come here.
00:00:48Come here.
00:00:49I feel as if Joe is for .
00:00:52Like, so TV show.
00:00:53Chad, you wanted to keep it real?
00:00:55Yeah, but I don't think this is real.
00:00:56I think this is just...
00:00:57Well, I do believe this is real,
00:00:58and trust me, this is real.
00:00:59Keep running off.
00:01:00Yeah.
00:01:01Keep disrespecting you.
00:01:02You know what's not okay?
00:01:03This thing goes on.
00:01:04Yeah.
00:01:05Emily, you need to come back here.
00:01:06Emily!
00:01:07Don't test me, Emily.
00:01:09Don't, because I will go there with you.
00:01:11Trust me.
00:01:12I don't know where she is now.
00:01:13There she is right there.
00:01:14Emily!
00:01:15Stop!
00:01:16I hate you!
00:01:178911!
00:01:19Behind the portrait is the truth, and I'm here to deal with the truth.
00:01:32I'm in Huntington Beach, California, to help a family who live here.
00:01:38When Don and Julie met four years ago and got married, Don brought two boys from his previous
00:01:43marriage, Derek and Justin, and Julie brought four kids from her previous marriage, Ashley,
00:01:49Chad, Amber, and Emily.
00:01:51I'm Don Quinn.
00:01:52I'm 55 years old.
00:01:54I'm Julie Pooley.
00:01:55I'm 49 years old.
00:01:56Our wedding in Hawaii was the best you could ask for.
00:02:00When we posed for our whole family portrait, I felt like, wow, I always wanted a big family.
00:02:05So three boys, three girls, three cats, three dogs, and we were on our way.
00:02:10And it was going to be great.
00:02:11It was going to be a great ride.
00:02:12The Quinn Davis family are a blended family who are, uh, not quite blended right now.
00:02:17Aren't we going to do...
00:02:18I disagree.
00:02:19Oh, the rule only applies for everybody else, not Chad.
00:02:24That's exactly what you did.
00:02:25I went into this thinking I would feel the same, and I found out, no, it's different.
00:02:29These are my children.
00:02:30These are his children.
00:02:31We can love them all the same, but it's a different feeling that you're going to have regardless.
00:02:35If anybody tells you different, they're lying.
00:02:37It's not true.
00:02:38You were picking on my son.
00:02:39I disagree.
00:02:40You were.
00:02:41They always want to battle about whose kids are better.
00:02:43Your kid, your kid, your kid.
00:02:44My kid's better than yours.
00:02:45I can't believe your kid called me this.
00:02:47No, my kid's better than yours.
00:02:48And that division between Don and Julie.
00:02:50I can't believe I'm putting up with this.
00:02:52And I can't believe that I'm putting up with what you do.
00:02:55Okay.
00:02:56Has all the kids acting out.
00:02:58Mom!
00:02:59Get out of my room right now.
00:03:01I'm about to break that camera.
00:03:03Get the camera out!
00:03:05Push me.
00:03:06My kids don't do what your kids do.
00:03:09I'm going to be a power trip.
00:03:10I'm going to tell you this.
00:03:11In the future?
00:03:12We're going to agree.
00:03:13Don't touch me.
00:03:14We're going to be in an agreement to disagree.
00:03:15Get out!
00:03:16Get out!
00:03:17Get out!
00:03:18Please, get out!
00:03:19Please, get out.
00:03:20Okay, okay.
00:03:21Please, get out.
00:03:22We're throwing something at them.
00:03:23I hate them.
00:03:24Get out.
00:03:25They've got a lot of issues and a lot of challenges.
00:03:30Chad has problems with his mom.
00:03:32with his mom you're such a drama TV person okay Chad what cares I'm saying
00:03:37goodbye and then I'm turning my phone away everybody knows I've had a tough
00:03:41time with drugs and alcohol in the past and I have two years sober but they still
00:03:47treat me and look at me as the same person that I used to be I'm struggling
00:03:52with her girls they are giving her attitude and she doesn't know what to do
00:03:57with them oh you know I watch every good girl ever innocent and good girl doesn't
00:04:02end up in the ER with an IV in there so what I don't follow the rules never
00:04:06wait a minute why do you put some shorts on I sometimes call my mom names you're
00:04:16so stupid Amber that's not okay to talk to me that way it's like a love-hate
00:04:20relationship I want you to listen to not pushing on me that's not okay I hate this
00:04:24house but I can't I know it's like I can't run away okay don't call me I want
00:04:28to say you're not gonna come back and that's for Derek he's lost I mean he's
00:04:33so emotional he's broke no one realizes how tough it is on me I think if another
00:04:40divorce happened it would crush everyone because we've already been through one
00:04:43every one of us I don't know how we can handle the second one and Don and Julie
00:04:48I mean they're just ripping each other's throats out right now
00:04:52why do you care I don't really appreciate how you're talking to me are we done talking about
00:04:57this I heard you just stay away from me I have got to get them back on track
00:05:04sit down if this process doesn't work it's over we're moving I've been told that if I can't help
00:05:15this family in one week and put them on track that they are going to divorce and I pressure on I think
00:05:19but they do need my help and so the process starts now the first step is to get into this house I mean
00:05:26I've heard that there are lots of issues that need to be resolved but step one of this process is a
00:05:32meeting I need to talk to the Quinn Davis family to find out from themselves what's pulling their
00:05:37blended family apart
00:05:38I want this to be the room that you feel you can just
00:06:00be blatantly honest I'm here because I want to be able to help everyone's too scared to talk
00:06:10that's what I'm saying unless we can get past that hump right now how are we gonna move right now I'm
00:06:17really ticked off it the way Amber has been talking to me lately you never leave us alone
00:06:21well all you do is nag and be annoying everything she's too cool for this family now okay dad grow
00:06:27up you're the worst one in the family I can't believe I gave birth to you you should be in hell
00:06:32by the way that you just told me she said you're a blank what the males in the kitchen pound in their
00:06:39chest we're supposed to just let them do whatever they want because I'm just no surface I've heard
00:06:44this whole time we've been doing this it's my house you all gotta grow up see it's like come on
00:06:49dude enough the reality is is that you've all got different feelings right now you've all got
00:06:55different emotions you know but the one thing you are all sharing is actually you're all feeling very hurt
00:07:03dad I love you but stop coming to me with your all every single one of like your fights it's like
00:07:14hard because I have to be your like mentor it's tough like I can understand every so often but
00:07:24every single one can't take it see I feel like you're feeling a lot of pressure
00:07:29I just don't mind I know what you don't want I know what you don't want it'll be all right
00:07:36do you contribute towards that sure absolutely absolutely I'm probably not as warm and loving
00:07:46as I should be why I'm frustrated all the divided loyalties I feel like Don picks on my kids so much
00:07:52I have a hard time showing love towards his kids there's so much frustration that it's hard for me
00:07:57to find love in my heart for these other kids and that's really sick it makes me sad this was
00:08:04painful obviously for you guys to sit together and actually have this conversation what I do is come
00:08:11in and I help the reason why I help is because I give a damn Chad I'm asking you to trust me and
00:08:18to give me a chance so the stuff that's gonna feel really uncomfortable actually is the stuff that's
00:08:25gonna move you forward okay I feel like that's just gonna cause a fight it's not that's why I'm
00:08:29here that's why I'm here I don't think this is real I think well I do believe this is real and trust me
00:08:34this is real this is just like we're just getting everybody annoyed this is what makes me think it's
00:08:39TV show but you don't see no script in my back pocket I know you don't see no earpiece in my ear
00:08:45I feel as if Joe is so TV show it's just like so let me tell you like I don't know if she is just
00:08:54super nanny and I don't know if it's just coming out of her house I don't know it's just hard
00:08:57especially with the cameras Julie and Don seriously seriously need to be on the same page
00:09:06having a healthier compromising conversation right now mum she's got no respect from her girls
00:09:13them girls are not listening to her for love or money Chad I might as well not be here right now
00:09:20Chad thinks this is all fake thinks I've come in to sit here and talk about a Mickey Mouse story with
00:09:26him and as for Derek he's lost I mean he's so emotional he's broke love him he's broke he can't
00:09:33even talk to his dad I'm gonna have to work really hard in getting mum and dad communicating with
00:09:38one another they need to be in agreement about something it's gonna take work
00:09:43why would you ever do that get the camera away from me why would you ever do that
00:09:52why would you do that get the camera out of my face
00:10:03what are you doing she's going crazy like almost like insane I feel bad that I have a kid that talks
00:10:25that way this is out of control don't you think get the out of my room right now I'm about to break that camera
00:10:32that's not why you talk to your mother
00:10:33me
00:10:34hey Amber the alcohol's got to stop and I'm not going to allow you to hang out with friends whose parents
00:10:49allowed the drinking in their home it's not okay for them to have a bunch of teenagers over when
00:10:53they're not there then you excuse me
00:10:55oh you know I watch every good girl innocent and good girl doesn't end up in the ER with an IV in
00:11:05their arm so what number one it's illegal number two it's unhealthy and number three you're just going
00:11:11down a road to destruction that could lead to more problems we'll be talking more about this later
00:11:15it seems like with these teenagers I'm always dealing with something addiction runs in our
00:11:24family so I'm very concerned went down the same row with my son Chad and now he's doing awesome now
00:11:29I'm trying to nip amber in the bud before it gets worse so I'm gonna go in and just step back you
00:11:40know through my experience observation is absolutely key to helping families things rise to the surface
00:11:48and you know you get to see how families handle one another in tricky situations and that's what
00:11:54I'm going to do now hold on Justin I haven't seen Amber and Emily and Amber has to work today so we
00:12:02probably want to get together with her and talk about what happened last night yeah she didn't let
00:12:06me know where she was so I found out where she was and I went and got her brought her back here and
00:12:10she was acting very erratic it was real obvious that something was going on so we took her to the
00:12:14emergency room she threw up quite a bit we drug tested her there's no drugs but she did have some
00:12:19alcohol and so she's grounded for a while she's grounded how long is she grounded for well as far
00:12:24as I'm concerned about a month what I want you to do is is go in and deal with Amber as you see fit
00:12:29and I'm gonna step back and I'll jump in if I feel it's necessary okay I know you love me I know I
00:12:37love you or we love each other and we both know that and I I'm tired of this back and forth between
00:12:45us okay Amber right now I need your um your eyes on me eyes on me thank you anyway Amber listen to
00:12:56me I'm very concerned just don't talk to me okay well that's not gonna work so that's kind of a
00:13:02lesson that's a block like right now you're blocking the conversation and I want to encourage
00:13:07you I just don't even want to talk to work through it you guys are just like attacking me and it's
00:13:12annoying I'm not attacking you I'm just trying to clear up what's happening Amber what can I do
00:13:17on my end in order for you and I to have a better communication together stop going to my friend's
00:13:23house you're oh my god I hate you so much okay Amber you're so stupid Amber I hate you guys okay so now
00:13:32I need to go after her no where is she right now she's probably I mean I know she's gone out that
00:13:37window but where is that window she she went out this door and the problem is that she's probably
00:13:41just gonna walk to work and we won't be able to finish the conversation that's my concern Amber
00:13:45come on let's just finish this okay I want to get you to work come on what do you want to hear mom
00:13:50let's just finish it it's okay you got to get through it
00:13:53now she's trying to go to work Amber Amber Amber well you know what I'm canceling work I'll ring
00:14:01them up myself then and you won't go in today can I have the number Amber this isn't gonna work
00:14:06Amber Amber unless you come back in 10 minutes there'll be no work
00:14:1010 minutes or no work love I want to talk it out I'm telling them I am going to do it
00:14:17if she wants to act like a big woman and hold down the responsibility of a job
00:14:23then she can hold down what she needs to do here first yes okay it's not happening
00:14:27come on in okay okay Amber I hate you so much okay come inside I hate you I hate you guys so much
00:14:44I hate you Amber all you have to do is calm down Amber you do have to calm down this is she where
00:14:49she's at right now okay this is uncomfortable for obviously all right but I just want just have
00:14:55a resolution yes what can we do right now I have I don't know how many times I've told you
00:15:01that I am going to stop drinking okay and I don't know how to tell you that again what else do you
00:15:06want from me I need you to calm down and talk to me a little Amber that kind of language I don't
00:15:12care I do I don't um so do you think it's okay do you actually think it's okay underneath your
00:15:17breath to call your mama you think that's okay do you yeah really she's called me no I think that's
00:15:23okay yeah I have it that's just seriously degrading you want to be treated like a 16 year old
00:15:30yeah not a 7 year old number one enough enough of the disrespect okay number two I'm not acting
00:15:37like your mum because I'm not your mum I'm acting like someone who cares about you and your family
00:15:43oh my god do you need five do you need five minutes to calm down before you know I need to go
00:15:49to work right then I'm telling you right now you're going in your room five minutes calm down
00:15:54act like the age you are responsibly and maturely come out here so we can have 10 minutes of
00:16:01resolution okay and then go to work okay thank you 10 minutes and then resolution otherwise what I've
00:16:10done rang up work and cancelled it okay okay just calm down okay calm down it's not okay oh I'm going
00:16:21off to work and I'll come back no no no do what you're supposed to do as a mature teenager then you
00:16:27can go off to work you have to go to extremes that she's never feel that you're going to go to
00:16:32okay okay
00:16:34no no I just said I was trying to tell her to take deep breaths and calm down but she's she needs her
00:16:41time I hate you daddy 9-1-1 it's just not okay I would have been laid out who talks that way to
00:16:49their parents the reactions like that around here are a lot of because of the way you yell and scream
00:16:57it's not all the time running around slamming doors screaming about this and screaming about
00:17:02that what are you talking about oh my gosh you don't know no I don't and you don't yell
00:17:09not like you and you don't get angry not like you don't think I get doesn't yeah my kids don't do
00:17:17what your kid on you know what I'm gonna leave see it's like I'm the bad guy just speaking the truth
00:17:23I know everyone hates fighting but I hate it more than anything I just feel trapped pretty much in
00:17:33my own house and I don't feel like I can move around the house freely she's just not receptive
00:17:38got Amber in the bedroom mom in the living room Don's gone out I don't know where the boys is I mean
00:17:49all this turmoil you could cut it with a knife and where's Derek what's up you look mopey today
00:17:57I'm just tired of everything really school family if you think about your family and how they all
00:18:05let out their steam and their frustration they all do it on the outside you know you think about Amber
00:18:11Amber gets really angry and she cusses and she swears and she freaks out whereas you take the knocks
00:18:18you take that so your silence is making you feel invisible yeah you've been the guy who's just been
00:18:28you know working hard academically doing your thing do you not feel like your dad doesn't notice that
00:18:34do you not feel that that's been acknowledged then not really
00:18:39I don't feel appreciated ever I do so many things there's so many people
00:19:04and I don't get the respect I deserve I don't know I can't remember the last time I was happy
00:19:17I really can't
00:19:21everything went on yesterday everything Amber freaking out Derek being so upset it's been a few
00:19:36days and today we've got to move this family forward and get everyone to be honest with each
00:19:40other when there's bad behavior in the house is usually coming from the top at the end of the
00:19:46day it all trickles down from mom and dad I'm very concerned with how these kids continue to
00:19:54communicate with you and how you both come together with respects to being united you love each other I
00:20:03feel like I love him but am I in love with him that's a tough call because of everything we've been
00:20:19through and so I don't know I think you have respect for each other nope we lack respect so really this is
00:20:28your opportunity right now to come together and to truthfully and honestly say what you feel and to
00:20:35be able to resolve this
00:20:37John I'd like you to start first please this one it's probably the most awful one it's the stonewalling
00:20:47you know it's just like yeah I call the silent night no I'm not going to talk to you and literally
00:20:53not a word for weeks it's not weeks by the way oh it's been it's been yeah are you both aware that
00:21:01that's a means of control and and emotional abuse I run when things get bad because I don't want to
00:21:07say something I'll regret what'll happen can I finish yeah go ahead in the mornings when you're up and
00:21:11running you're you don't even want to talk in the morning because you're so busy trying to get out the
00:21:14door I gotta go I can't talk you want to continue to talk right there can I talk to you because
00:21:18after work if I can't communicate to you from 8 till 5 how can I get anything done when there's
00:21:25certain things that you need to be part of I don't need to be part of it just answer the question
00:21:29John I feel like this is an excuse that's what I'm feeling bills that have to be done during the day
00:21:36certain bills I resent when you resent me spending time with my kids well it's very convenient to go
00:21:41out every Friday night with Emily I don't like it when you call my kids names I have messages from
00:21:47you recall my daughter I feel that Don calls me constantly obsesses over me follows me around
00:21:53the house I mean I've had times where I've had 27 calls from Don maybe that whole thing goes back
00:21:58to the fact you're stonewalling me running away all the time I'm sitting there thinking to myself
00:22:02is someone going to take accountability for their behavior here we have had this discussion I know
00:22:07we got married excuse me and you call me call me and I feel smothered are you kidding me
00:22:11absolutely disgusting stop it stop it if the two of you as grown adults you want to split your own
00:22:17marriage up that's one thing but no six kids in the process is that fair for them is it no it's not
00:22:24who's backing them up right now who's being their voice right now like this is the reality okay
00:22:30it's ugly and it's destroying your marriage and how you raise these kids as parents we've sat and
00:22:38we've spoke about these grudges you've got to let them go now you've got to look forward just take 15
00:22:45go and take a walk around the block some embarrassing so I want my life back yeah this is not good you think
00:22:56it's funny no I don't you actually laugh every time I say it it bothers me when you do that because
00:23:01you know it's not the case it's like you're trying to turn it on me end it you know what
00:23:11unless there's conflict you can't get to resolution that's how it is yeah so mom and dad are in the
00:23:17bedroom right now probably deciding whether they still want my help or not I need them on board plain
00:23:24and simple for this to work for me to be able to help them I need them both on board I want to look
00:23:29like an idiot in front of a bunch of people watching television you're vulnerable you know
00:23:33no one wants to be uncomfortable it's an uncomfortable feeling you know you're you're on edge I'm proud of
00:23:38you for sitting there through it though that's tough I'm sorry about it okay this a realization for
00:23:49you yeah big time because believe me during day go wide I don't regret a lot of the things that I've
00:23:54done but don't live in that regret no well I got to move on I got to do better and that hopefully
00:24:01will transfer into the house and make the kids a lot better so do we continue yeah that's good news
00:24:15so for right now mom and dad are going to commit to the process of what we're doing here which is
00:24:26pretty damn good to say the least because normally if there's any conflict they won't now I want to
00:24:31work with mom talking to Amber because mom does need to address the meltdown that happened yesterday
00:24:37Emily can you please stop and let me come in what do you want I want to talk to Amber and I need you
00:24:46to get out of the way please I don't want to talk to you okay Amber when do you want to talk to me
00:24:49never because we're going to sit down okay so we're going to sit down when you're done painting
00:24:52I'm never talking to you okay nope okay come on yes Amber yes we are and Emily stop getting in
00:24:58the middle of it it's not your business go away Amber I need to have a conversation with you
00:25:03I really do want mom to talk to Amber because in my experience when a teenager has attitude like
00:25:21Amber's got it's normally because they're really angry about something or they're incredibly hurt
00:25:26about something and Julie needs to find out exactly what that is the way you've been treating me has
00:25:33to stop it has to stop all you want to say no it's not all I want to say I'm not going to allow you to
00:25:39talk to me that way anymore Amber look at me look at me I just you know what Amber a little bit of
00:25:46respect wouldn't wouldn't hurt would it Amber I'd like to hear from you right now what are some of the
00:25:51things that you feel so angry about with your mom because she's disrespected in a mature fashion
00:25:58okay I feel like she puts all the other kids above me every single time me and Emily fight she's
00:26:03always on Emily's side give me an example of what you're talking about because I don't understand
00:26:06when I start taking Emily's stuff you freak out and say Amber I can't believe you would do that
00:26:13I can't believe you're my child I can't believe I gave birth to you
00:26:16so you what you're feeling right now is that she sighs with Emily all the time and you're always
00:26:24the bad cop I'm looking at a girl right now that's getting emotional about this so let's get this
00:26:32resolved let's get it resolved because I obviously my perception is different Emily says it herself
00:26:39she says mom loves me more than you I don't love she says it all the time I love you okay Amber do you
00:26:45do you believe what Emily says sometimes I have to believe it when you act like that I'm loving the
00:26:56fact that you're both talking all right it has to be hashed down because Amber when there are things
00:27:03that need to be said and you don't feel like you have the opportunity to talk your truth all it does
00:27:07get built up inside get angry this is a perfect time for you to have open communication and talk
00:27:13with your mom so you can work through this we've never really had a conversation like that like I
00:27:18guess there is a time when enough is enough and I should just give up and stop acting like I'm like
00:27:25too good to respond to my mom and stuff I do tell her she's a bad mom when I'm fighting with her but
00:27:32like I wouldn't want anybody else as my mom in a house where everyone was talking but no one was
00:27:41listening I've got mom dad and the girls actually hearing one another the boys however are another
00:27:47story Chad seems to be blowing off the whole process this time to get him back on board quite
00:27:53frankly and come up with some rules for the whole family he just leave he just exited the premises he's
00:27:59did he say anything so I guess someone's gonna deal with Chad right yeah I guess I'll have to
00:28:03deal with Chad because he's my boy this family is learning that this process isn't going to be an
00:28:09easy one for each step forward there's two steps back Chad what get back here I'm saying goodbye
00:28:15say goodbye goodbye you're such a drama TV person okay Chad who cares I'm saying goodbye and then I'm
00:28:22turning my phone no you need to walk back this following me you would never do this no Chad you
00:28:26were called to come in staged okay Chad great see he's doing his stuff I really probably wouldn't
00:28:31chase him I've kind of been told that I should just let him go what do you want to do right now I don't
00:28:37know what I want to do Joe well you better know what you want to do come on so I'll follow Chad if you
00:28:43want him to do that then you've got to be proactive okay got it that's what I'm doing this is just
00:28:49ridiculous I mean the kids are coming in and out when they feel like it and doing what they want
00:28:53I mean mum and dad have got no grip on anything they just need to go back to basics and just be
00:28:59educated about the simplicity of putting in rules in this house having chores giving people
00:29:04responsibilities and Don and Julie getting together on the same page and implementing this
00:29:10in order for me to be able to help you the way I know you need yes okay it needs to come from you
00:29:18both first I need you guys okay to set the premise so this is what we're going to do you guys are
00:29:24going to come together you're going to work out the rules work out the chores and then together as a
00:29:28united front you're going to present that to the kids the kids crave structure and they need it they
00:29:34need it no foul language no shut up no name-calling use respectful language I'm good with that we're
00:29:44two families living in a house we want to be one family yeah this is every day every night do the
00:29:49dishes complete your weekly chores do you like that yeah feed dog two times daily okay yes sir can we
00:30:00round up the kids out here let's just go through everything okay go rally up if you want to be this
00:30:07independent mature teenager in this home then you're going to show that you can take on responsibility
00:30:12because emotional maturity can handle responsibility so we've got take out the trash clean leaves out of
00:30:20pool take care of the dogs which feeding walking pick up poop clean bathroom fold towels feed fish
00:30:25water plants take care of cats feed clean litter do dishes including loading unloading dishwasher clean own
00:30:32rooms you guys said you wanted a better family this is how it gets there okay okay so amber you're
00:30:38going to take the trash out every day so that's seven days a week sunday monday all the way through
00:30:41saturday okay you got that are we going to get an allowance or something for this you got an allowance
00:30:46you're looking at it that's the funniest thing i've heard all day now that's part of being a family you
00:30:54know i don't like going to work every day we have to amber amber please sit up amber seriously amber
00:31:00you're behaving like you're so entitled you're behaving like really spoiled like like you're too
00:31:06good to do housework i don't know i'm just tired like i'm just laying my head down well not when you're
00:31:12being spoken to we're spoken about the chores and you put your head down it's like a sign of disrespect
00:31:16with what we're saying because you don't want to hear it i know you don't like it but like it's really
00:31:21necessary and by the way when you get money from your parents it's a privilege if you ask them for 20 bucks
00:31:27ten bucks it's a privilege that they give you that money out of their pocket okay it cuts both
00:31:31ways it's two-way street like truthfully the reality is is that you're a big family and it's
00:31:37about you all chipping in as a family and doing your bit it's not um you guys skated out on it
00:31:43we didn't force it can you just keep going with it sure i'm sure going to emily this week she's
00:31:47going to take care of the cat she's very familiar with that doing that she did it for me earlier in
00:31:50the week she will clean out the the cat litter and she'll feed the cats okay okay and then justin
00:31:58quinn do the dishes including unload well yeah good practice yesterday unloading and loading dishwasher
00:32:04that's just for the you have a short week this week i know but people just leave their dishes if they
00:32:09make their lunches well if everybody cleans up after themselves that's another but if they don't i have to
00:32:13take care of it no no everybody's gonna be accountable that's a good point justin everybody will be
00:32:18accountable if we were all on the ship together how would the ship get done if he was driving and
00:32:22i was cooking all the meals we haven't talked about how would all this other stuff get done unless you
00:32:26guys all pitched in what happened did chad walk away you you carry on okay we'll carry on
00:32:36you all right chad can you shout yeah
00:32:48chat come on here oh my god here's the camera crew god god blimey
00:33:04how old was he he just turned 18. he used to tell me to stop and i was going too fast and then i got sober and
00:33:13then he fell off the wagon i can i just know i would have been him if i would have stayed because i was
00:33:21worse than him me and him got into drugs and alcohol at the same time i wanted to do like gnarlier stuff and
00:33:30he didn't and then it got bad enough doing that and then i got sober and then after i got sober he
00:33:39wanted to do the gnarly stuff obviously and then he ended up dead from it this is a serious wake-up call for
00:33:46you serious wake-up call just sucks it was good to talk to somebody about it that was really cool that
00:33:55made me trust her more that like she's real about it i believe that just trying to help me and my family
00:34:01i got some emotion going on
00:34:10hey hey hey
00:34:11it's so hard let it out stop burying here chad tragically losing a really good friend has
00:34:21stirred a lot of emotions up for mom when i've done my homework with this family
00:34:26almost 20 years ago mom lost a baby son herself so she knows what that feels like 17 years ago i lost my
00:34:35first son in a tragic accident in the home he pulled the dresser over on him and it killed him he was
00:34:41almost two when he passed away 23 months and 12 days i probably carry a lot of guilt because
00:34:46i went through so much pain just stop sabotaging yourself okay you know what you need to do you
00:34:54just have to find the courage to do it you can't keep punishing yourself you can't live life raising
00:35:02the kids and not doing what the right thing is to do for them because they were in that circumstance
00:35:08as a family you can't you're doing a disservice to them oh absolutely i agree
00:35:13i need some fresh air okay yes okay okay thank you
00:35:23the situation is devastating for this family but how profound for them at a time like this
00:35:30they're recognizing truly how important it is as a family to be together and i've seen don
00:35:39and encouraged him to go over and talk to derek i mean take this time right now to talk to your son
00:35:45and maybe even tell him something that he needs to hear right now under the circumstances hopefully
00:35:51people people start changing after this because life's too short you don't get second chances
00:35:58you know derek i didn't realize how you felt until the other day and and i was been given a lot of
00:36:09thought and um i didn't realize the burden that you felt you had to carry in this family and i'm real
00:36:16sorry that you felt that way that's not your job and uh you know i just love you for just being who you
00:36:25are and how you have come along over these 18 years and we're real proud of you yeah
00:36:34i feel like this experience made me realize i can talk to my dad more even though i knew i could
00:36:40always talk to him i just didn't that's one of the reasons we're uh dealing what we're doing right now
00:36:47so that we can strengthen our family and stuff like that doesn't happen to our kids because they
00:36:51have a tighter bond with their family this family really do need to be together i mean under the
00:36:59circumstances of this tragic death we've made some good connections you know right now don's talking to
00:37:04derek and i've had a chance to talk to chad but they need to be together as a family i need to call it a
00:37:10day for today and come back in tomorrow and we can start off fresh
00:37:13so this is one of these exercises that allows a family to truly see how they all work nicely
00:37:24together each one of you will stand okay in front of this string and together you both have to be able
00:37:36to hold your string and balance that water on the board so that it doesn't fall over sick okay the
00:37:44two cones are what you need to be able to reach so that you can do a figure eight and go around it
00:37:52okay and come together as a family and do that extra water you all have to listen before talking
00:37:59all right and you've all got to work together emily and my dad switch why
00:38:04because you two aren't the most coordinated now this is going to be fun one two three wait wait
00:38:14everybody back yeah we're good we're good careful careful watch the person across
00:38:21i'm walking backwards this is a good little exercise for them right because they get to listen
00:38:27to each other work together shout at each other and hopefully achieve the exercise everyone
00:38:34don't let no walk okay wait wait wait wait wait wait Emily left derrick just hold just nobody left
00:38:44i was confused it's okay we'll do it again everybody don't yell at each other let's all support each
00:38:50other like that careful slow down we don't need to go so fast pull on the string you're lifting up
00:38:55you have to pull back okay there you go there you go okay just keep it hot keep it level keep your arms
00:39:04straight up justin we got this guys as long as we just keep cruising
00:39:08go to the middle a little farther back okay slowly slowly slowly slow slow slow slow slow slow slow
00:39:20there's nothing like it that confidence you feel when you actually come together as a family and you make it happen one two three
00:39:33three four five
00:39:37the family is coming together but today is all about seeing if they can sustain it
00:39:47so far so good the tension's down we've got the boys all playing video games with one another we've
00:39:54got amber in her bedroom mom and dad and not each other's throats so i want them to have dinner
00:40:00together at this dining table i think it's absolutely crucial for them to socialize and spend time
00:40:06together someone's gonna have to help us set the table that's a good idea emily you want to help
00:40:12cook and help in the kitchen cooking or stay in the table no you're gonna help setting the table let's
00:40:16not do this right now emily emily don't walk away where are you she's in the right corner of my room
00:40:26because we already said the boys are doing the dishes the girls are helping with dinner
00:40:30stand up and stay in the table come on let's go it's not funny anymore
00:40:34paul we'll tell you we're going to do the um setting the table if i make this right now that
00:40:39means get out wait mom if i make this that means i have to do no it doesn't mean anything it means
00:40:45that you're going to stop you need to stop right now you know what i don't care you are going to do
00:40:49the setting the table like i asked okay you need to stop right now you're done please don't do that to
00:40:55me i've asked you to help set the table and that's what you're going to do right now mom shut
00:41:00emily you need to come back here where's emily i'm going to give her five minutes and hopefully
00:41:04she'll come back and we have to sit down and talk about her poor behavior and if you don't come back
00:41:08well then i guess i'll have to go i reckon you go and get her now that's what i reckon okay keep
00:41:12running off keep disrespecting you you know it's not okay no it's not okay and now she just walks off
00:41:18emily you need to come back here emily you need to go back to the house right now and i want to explain
00:41:26to you that i'm not okay with your behavior and i need you to go back and wash your hands
00:41:31and set the table simple request what did you do that your mother was angry about i threw a basketball
00:41:37in the basketball hoop did your mom tell you to stop yeah did you choose not to listen to her i wanted to
00:41:43shoot it that's funny is it so should i tell you what you're gonna do now unfortunately i'm asking you
00:41:51now to have to go to your room at 20 to 7 which is earlier than i would put a two-year-old to bed
00:41:59okay you need to learn to respect what your mother's saying to you because right now you're being
00:42:03totally disrespectful it's not okay you take a smug smile off your face as well don't test me
00:42:10don't test me emily don't don't test me because i will go there with you trust me i've got all day
00:42:17all day all night tomorrow all day all night do not defy your mother and what she is trying to put
00:42:26in place here so you can walk your mom back to the house and then go straight into your room oh i was
00:42:33hoping she could wash her hands make the set the table and then go yeah whatever she needs to do in
00:42:37that retrospect that's what she needs to do before she goes into her bedroom this is what you're going
00:42:53to say to her the next time you and i okay have a disagreement you are not to walk off and go down
00:43:01the road and have me chasing you and i want a severe consequence for her okay okay so it's not
00:43:10okay chasing around everybody around the house no no more of that now we're not playing cat and mouse
00:43:17next time i agree
00:43:24emily emily that's not good enough emily
00:43:29this is her idea of making setting the table it's not okay she just threw everything and then left
00:43:34i don't know where she is now there she is with it emily stop
00:43:42what's funny huh what's funny right now that's your mother who's asked you to lay the tables i know
00:43:51i did and then i was going to come back but you didn't do an adequate job you threw the the silverware
00:43:54you didn't do it like i showed you how to do it it's not okay so let's go in there let's set it
00:43:58correctly and then you're going to come back in here i put the knives and forks and not emily come on
00:44:02let's go i hate this you know how to do it better than that and you've done it many times like that
00:44:09left side forks right side knives this needs to be fixed
00:44:18okay that look at the knife come on girl let's do a little better job
00:44:30you're making yourself look stupid you're making yourself look like a fool you're making yourself
00:44:44look like a spoiled brat don't do that okay don't do that you're making yourself look like a right
00:44:50fool seriously show me sit properly mom's just got to get tough with these kids because if she
00:45:02doesn't they're gonna walk all over her they're just gonna treat her like a doormat it's ridiculous
00:45:08i want to be strong but i'm weak right now because my kid is bullying me i don't get it i never bully her
00:45:14i'm just gonna get some air here i don't want to be here anymore emily's gonna make this big scene
00:45:22and i'm so terrible because my kid acts this way it only takes so much
00:45:38so it's the next day and i'm going to go in and see how mom's getting on with emily
00:45:42in light of what happened last night this is a big test for mom how much has she learned how
00:45:48tough is she going to be because she's got to give emily consequences this is also the last day i'm
00:45:53going to be with them for a while so i want to give them some homework because hopefully they'll
00:45:57be able to follow through while i'm gone okay so i don't like the way that went down but i don't like
00:46:03how you just ran off and i don't like the way you're talking to me right now disrespectfully you are
00:46:07going to do what i asked you to do do you understand me go in your room cool yay
00:46:16so here's the deal she just back talked to me i just sent her to her room so what you do about it
00:46:21told her to go in her room for now because she's back talking me and i wanted to take a moment
00:46:25and she's going to have a consequence i typically take the phone away that hasn't been working
00:46:29as far as i'm concerned she's not going to have a weekend she's going to go to her game
00:46:33what game she has a soccer game oh what the privilege of playing soccer well you know i have
00:46:38a hard time with that joe because she's on a team so i think she should go and do her part and then
00:46:43she comes home and sits in a room oh good because that's what she wants just to sit in her room all
00:46:47day and not have to deal with you okay so she can back chat you and still kind of the privilege of
00:46:51playing on a team i get your point it's just hard for me with the team well you better get tough
00:46:55because quite frankly you've got a girl in there that's acting like a sport little brat i totally agree my
00:47:00struggle is the team thing but maybe that's what i should do do what you need to do well i'm just
00:47:06still not sure about that joe because i'm not sure i think that that's um adequate to take away her
00:47:11soccer um can you just come out here for a minute not if you're gonna yell at me out the other day
00:47:16because i didn't like it you're always gonna have a hard time giving these kids consequences because
00:47:23all it is is you thinking of other people and how it's going to affect them and the reality is until
00:47:29these kids realize that you're prepared to go that far and you're prepared to be consistent with
00:47:36that then they'll start to behave you see they know that you will never go as far as doing that
00:47:43because it hurts my pocketbook because i paid for this why can't you do what you need to do yeah i do
00:47:49have a hard time taking away soccer i'll be honest with you you have a hard time taking away anything that
00:47:53you can follow through well i took away the phone and i followed through on that but obviously not long
00:47:58enough no okay okay okay do what you're supposed to do because you know it's going to make a
00:48:03difference with emily okay should i warn her first let me just show you how it is because it's pretty
00:48:08extreme that seems to work just as effective and then the next time i will say to her okay look
00:48:13it i'm serious now i think you know what you need to do okay so basically what you're telling i think
00:48:18you know what you need to do okay i'm gonna leave you with that i know you know what you need to do you
00:48:23you don't need me at this stage you know what you need to do you need to get in there and just do it
00:48:27i know i have to do it for her best interest but i no buts
00:48:33so basically what you're telling me i'm telling you that you know what you need to do
00:48:40of course i know do what you need to do the kids need structure i need it sometimes being a parent
00:48:48means you have to do things that you don't want to do oh absolutely but you're doing for a short
00:48:53while and then you see things turn around okay gotcha i know all that i know everything you've
00:48:58told me this week and i know i just haven't put it into practice emily
00:49:04yeah we all know so i just wanted to let you know that this is probably really hard for me because
00:49:12i'm a team player and i don't like excuse me excuse me can i just have you for a minute yes sorry emily
00:49:17i just want to borrow your mom for a moment something's just happened here can you just come
00:49:20out here please yes my approach is wrong it was all the deliveries it's all in the delivery and i
00:49:25shouldn't say it that way you don't even have to tell me i know i never apologize never apologize i know
00:49:31i totally know i i gotta suck it up here for a second i know that
00:49:34i get it definitely not gonna apologize i'm starting over rewind emily
00:49:45round two nope you're not going to your soccer game i'm done i'm done with you talking
00:49:50disrespectfully to me i'm over it you're missing this saturday soccer game that's it and in the
00:49:55future if you continue to talk to me this way and use foul language and act the way you've been acting
00:50:00towards me and going out of control and running off it's going to happen again and again okay
00:50:05emily look at me and say yes yeah let's go
00:50:13good julie thank you yeah joe really empowered me in making the decision i needed to make about
00:50:18emily because she basically just kind of said it's okay you're not gonna be a terrible parent
00:50:24done i'm trying to decide um emily came to me and asked if she'd go to soccer practice tomorrow even
00:50:29though i'm not letting her go to the game do you think i should let her go no she's getting the
00:50:33perk after she's acting up that's how i feel the one thing about this experience that i enjoy is the
00:50:37fact that julie and i think we're way more communicating but the fear is when this all goes
00:50:43away is that is that regress that's the concern so guys i'm pleased with the progress that i've seen
00:50:50so far so i'm going to step back for a few days and give you some homework whilst i'm away i'm leaving
00:50:55you with these gratitude boxes what i want you to do is to be able to find the good in each family
00:51:01member and give an encouraging note and stick it into the mailbox that's appropriate with where you've
00:51:05seen it so that you can get used to giving compliments and recognizing the good that you're
00:51:09seeing and i've got something really neat set up for you guys all right that you're going to be doing
00:51:14so you spend time together and just hang out all right the last one here which is incredibly important
00:51:19is both yourself don and julie i want you to be conscious of spending some good time together
00:51:25good about that yeah oh very good thanks joe yeah you're welcome see you in several days bye so i've
00:51:34just left this family with some homework to do whilst i'm gone for several days and i think it's really
00:51:39going to test them but do they have it in them to pull out what's necessary to be successful and for me
00:51:47to come back and see some serious improvements i really do hope so this is freaking gross i've never
00:51:58owed you a cat i swear to god you can make your bed i don't he didn't make you can make your bed make
00:52:04your bed make your bed i'll get him to make his you get yours if you don't remove yourself from this
00:52:10room you're going to be sorry get in there and do your work get out of my room now get out of my room
00:52:23because i don't want you in here you're invading my privacy i want you out i was making doing a
00:52:29present for chat i don't want you involved in it stand up and move let's go
00:52:32go not letting emily go to soccer today i think it hurt her a lot and i think you know i don't
00:52:39know if she's internalizing all that right now or how she's processing it but my prayer
00:52:45and my hope is that this will be the only game because i don't want to go through it again but if
00:52:50i have to i will i will
00:52:59did you get some sleep last night yeah well i want to sit down and talk to you chad's friend
00:53:05passing away of a drug overdose made me realize that could have been my son that could have been
00:53:09chad and him and i had this place that wasn't good and it makes me want to cry when i think about it
00:53:15because i love my son i mean he's my only living biological son so i wanted to rectify that i wanted
00:53:23to um make it better i wanted to talk to you because i want you to know that i love you you know
00:53:31i gave up about a year and a half of my life with you you know that so you know i don't just love you
00:53:38it's a horrible way to say it but you know i love you chad okay there's that part of me that just wants
00:53:43to give you everything you want because i'm a mom and i love you and i feel guilty for stuff you've
00:53:48been through in life but in my mind i'm going to stick with that little voice in my head that i've
00:53:52ignored and i'm not going to let you sweet talk me anymore i'm going to just say this is it i am
00:53:57doing you a disservice this is one thing i've learned in the last week i am doing you a disservice when i
00:54:03give in to you and i'm not helping you to become the man that you could be okay i've been craving for you
00:54:09to be like this since i first got sober for you to just say something and me not be able to persuade
00:54:17you in the moment it sucks but like i know eventually it's like good for me so i'm going to be stronger
00:54:24because i know it's better for you and the one look at emily how she's been acting her and i are going
00:54:30to battle did she go to her game today nope she missed her soccer game good job i feel like i get it
00:54:38i get this whole thing now i get where i've done wrong and i basically was taking my own wounds and
00:54:45not able to follow through because i would give in and i would always come back to bite me later
00:54:50so this time i followed through and even like chad said this is what they need this is what they want
00:54:57this is what they're craving
00:54:58i think we should hold the kids accountable for who's cleaned or not clean right okay good let's go do
00:55:10that okay this room is not clean this room is not clean it's pretty easy to do
00:55:21okay all the rounds are not clean how do you want to handle i think that they should have their
00:55:30consequences if they don't play in the room you want to talk to them or just leave them alone just
00:55:34let them fall how do you want to do it well since we're new at it i think we should probably talk to
00:55:39the ones that are here that all goes on hold just clean your room take your five minutes make your bed
00:55:47pick up your stuff that's not what we said what we said we're going to do is let you guys know
00:55:51this week since it's new i thought we're trying to do it now no that's what you're doing that's not
00:55:56i'm sorry that's what i thought we talked about but i guess there was a misunderstanding
00:55:59obviously i think between julie and i we both knew that we both wanted the same thing but we just
00:56:06it's sometimes it's hard to get there just because we're stubborn let's unplug this
00:56:10and then it gets into a for a lack of a better term of match i'll see you later
00:56:18you know what you sit there you don't back me on that
00:56:22old habits died hard i gotta tell you old habits die hard and uh this isn't going to be an easy
00:56:27transition they just love their walks the other day that i found myself stepping back into an old
00:56:45habit i'll see you later you know what you sit there you don't back me on that but i caught myself
00:56:52like wow man i just went backwards you know as much as you want to go forward sometimes you go
00:56:56backwards so it's a work in progress okay poochies come on i got a peanut i definitely think it's
00:57:04important for marriage to carve out time to spend together don and i would both find excuses and i
00:57:08think life gets so busy and you get so caught up in the everyday activities that you don't really
00:57:13focus on each other i got mail all kinds of mail so read them out loud i appreciate your courage
00:57:22lately thank you for going the extra mile for our family they are worth it i love how you've been
00:57:28making strides to be closer with me and i appreciate it well that's cool i think if both people want it
00:57:36it can happen and that's really what the biggest point is and uh we want to make this family better
00:57:43ready this is easy what don't you do in the evening time for me for us cook what dinner
00:57:51that's right you got that in record time i i love don and we have a good time when we're together and
00:57:57um it would be nice to be able to spend more time together in the mood we could appreciate each other
00:58:01more give me a kiss all right oh my god this is pretty killer see i'm not so bad after all no i'm
00:58:17actually shocked i thought you're gonna miss like every shot but since we've been through this experience
00:58:22i feel like the family is closer i feel really happy that there's more harmony around here
00:58:29julie i love how you're trying to work out things with me because that's what i've needed
00:58:38i hope we can grow closer definitely there's been some shift there's been some growth it's kind of
00:58:45rallied the troops in a way if you will you know everybody had to kind of step up and do something
00:58:50instead of just hiding out in the rooms like they were doing so it's kind of brought everybody out
00:58:55dad sometimes i feel like i don't have anyone after our chat the other day and after this week
00:59:00i know you're always there for me you're my dad you're my best friend really truly my best friend
00:59:05and i feel better i feel closer to the family i feel uh julie and i are definitely closer uh julie
00:59:12julie you're my inspiration
00:59:22this is such a turning point man
00:59:30so i've been gone for about a week now i want to talk to this family about the techniques that they
00:59:36are following through on i'm going to see whether this family have done their homework
00:59:40i mean the fact is i can tell whether a family really wants this or not based on the homework
00:59:46they've done you know when i'm not around when i'm not there to tell them so let's see
00:59:54hello hi oh hi joe how you doing hey um come on in
00:59:59you look great nice color on you thank you so how's it been it's been better but it's still you
01:00:06know change is hard true but not impossible no not impossible how have you been good good enough
01:00:13fill me in fill me in what's been happening let's start with the homework the homework let's go talk
01:00:17about it i posted everything here's our homework we've been really good about our gratitude mailboxes
01:00:22my compliments on getting up and finishing homework fantastic you're treating me like a brother
01:00:28and not a stepbrother i love you that's lovely we focused hard on having dinner every night
01:00:33so everyone really consciously made an effort everybody became mindful yes and then you brought
01:00:37everybody together okay that's awesome and then we've got here the date night yeah you guys get
01:00:43out yep we had um a nice little we had a nice little lunch and talked we did we talked about our
01:00:48experiences here and how much it's been an impact on us and how um it's been difficult but good the actual
01:00:57point of the exercise is just for you to spend that time isolated together to feed your marriage exactly
01:01:02you know there's no two ways about it if you don't water it no sunflower coming up
01:01:10hi hi you all right yeah what's been happening um nothing really just doing my homework so i'm
01:01:21watching my hour of tv so what happened with um follow through and stuff like that did you do your
01:01:27soccer did you go what happened oh no i didn't go you didn't go okay you think you've been behaving
01:01:32better or yeah yeah getting along better with anyone i think i am my mom at least well that's a good
01:01:38thing right yeah i am actually leaving so can i just say to all of you thank you for giving me the
01:01:51opportunity to come in i know in the beginning it was quite a rough ride for you all but i hope
01:01:57having spent time with me that you truly have been able to work out for yourself that you know what i
01:02:02really love and what i'm very passionate about is being able to help you all as a family so chad i'd
01:02:07like to say thank you for calling it out for what it was we're just getting everybody annoyed this is
01:02:12what makes me think it's a tv show i hope you feel different emily i think you've done a bit of
01:02:18growing up this week girl i really do john i hope now you feel more like a blended family than a divided
01:02:26one you have a family here that really look up to you and your role is very important julie tough call
01:02:34for you i hope really working with me you've realized that sometimes you have to do as a parent
01:02:39what you don't want to do but you have to do it anyway rewind amber thank you for me getting the
01:02:45opportunity to actually get to meet the real amber when she's off i really hate everybody here and i
01:02:52want you guys to shut up what it did do was allow me to be able to help you and your mom derek bravery
01:02:59and being able to come forth and articulate how you've been feeling it takes courage i hope that
01:03:07what you have seen is enough for you to stay committed and carry on and i'm always on the
01:03:11end of the phone so i'm hoping that we can keep in touch as well so um amber this is from me to your
01:03:16family and i hope that you'll stare at that when you walk through the door and when you leave and
01:03:20remember it all as a family
01:03:27no matter how hard the past you can always begin again and you can i mean i had your names written
01:03:32all over it it's beautiful nice thank you joe thank you more than welcome thank you for giving
01:03:37me the courage to do what i knew i needed to do you're more than welcome you've been a godsend to
01:03:42our family thank you for saving the family because there's no way we would have survived without you
01:03:50oh yeah no way well this is just the beginning really no it has to continue we get that but it
01:03:56it takes sometimes a big jolt to right the ship uh the joe i would be yeah take care of yourself okay
01:04:05a couple weeks ago when we sat here i felt very distant from don very unsure of don lack of hope
01:04:12there was many conversations before you guys arrived that um it wasn't gonna work i actually feel
01:04:19like i like don again well that's that's great i guess i guess i was a little worried about that
01:04:28one thank you i'm about to take care my love joe helped me realize that i can't do whatever i like
01:04:37just want to do kind of and like i have to listen to my mom even though i don't want to
01:04:41take care thank you thank you when joe first got here i thought she was full of the whole tv show
01:04:49is full of but there was some good out of it uh there was benefit can i can i ask you to when i
01:04:56leave to take a family portrait just as i leave just take as just as you are now okay okay take care
01:05:04thank you lots of love thank you thanks joe thank you so much for everything bye joe
01:05:09this is your average family this is your family who goes through their troubles and strives every
01:05:17day and most families will be able to relate to the quin davises i certainly feel that they still
01:05:24have work to do there's no two ways about it you don't just put a technique in place and say you're
01:05:29fixed as a family i think it's really about recognizing what parents need to do in order to
01:05:34stay connected with their kids and to be able to remain open so that the communication is clear
01:05:41the boundaries are clear and the love is very clear and in abundance okay quick go emmy go
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