- 07/07/2025
Jo resgata uma família presa num padrão de agressividade, violência e infelicidade. Jennifer e Thad Bowersock são pais atormentados de três crianças descontroladas. Jo está determinada a ajudar os Bowersocks a quebrar o ciclo e ensinar-lhes que a disciplina eficaz não precisa incluir agressões.
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00:01Tonight on Supernanny...
00:03Get off.
00:04Joe tackles the issue of spanking head-on.
00:07It's taken all I have not to whip up.
00:09You know what that feels like? Break the cycle.
00:12These three kids push Mom and Dad's buttons.
00:14Bring it on.
00:15No.
00:17Come on, pick up!
00:19And when they wind Mom up...
00:21Get up!
00:22She lashes out.
00:23Do I eat soap?
00:24Mom thinks her way is the right way.
00:26I spank. I yell. That's me.
00:29But Joe's got a very different opinion.
00:31What I'm hearing at this table is excuses.
00:34I do not accept that.
00:36Can Joe stop Mom from hitting her kids?
00:39What's this picture of Mom doing?
00:42A lot of beating.
00:43And overcome the demons of her past?
00:46Or will Mom revert back to her old ways?
00:49I will snap your mouth off.
00:51And shut the door on Supernanny.
00:53This happy naughty corner is not working.
00:59It's how it makes the drugs happen.
01:00I'm going to take care of her clothes.
01:01I'm going to pass it.
01:02It's not a miracle.
01:03You should take care of her clothes.
01:04It's not a miracle.
01:05It's not a miracle.
01:06It's not a miracle.
01:07We'll be the kids.
01:08I'm going to someone with the kids and my sweet kids.
01:09I'll be the kids.
01:10All right.
01:11well let's see what i mean for this week hi we're the bower socks i'm jennifer i'm thad
01:30we have three children madeline who's seven
01:34hayden who's six and lily grace who's four stop go play in the raw i've been working as juvenile
01:42correction officer i spend a lot of my time with kids are locked down and not as much time as i
01:47like to with my own kids at home the kids are running the show around here
01:52madeline or maddie as we call her is seven going on 20. you're driving me crazy maddie you're driving
02:02me crazy hayden is bad anything he can do to aggravate hayden will do get off no lily grace
02:12she can be sweet but then she can be evil my children do not respect me we play big mouth
02:20dear mom i don't say that okay die when your dad gets home that's it he hits a lot harder than i do
02:28i try discipline to the best of my ability beat down now now up the road now get in there yes sir
02:34i spank don't move dirt cleaning now don't hit me what's she thinking i have not found anything
02:45that works for my kids on the roof of your mouth so you can't get it out no drinks no nothing
02:51hayden you can taste the soap oh it's very hard i swear hayden i will smack your mouth off do you hear
03:00me i hope that super nanny can come in and help put our family back together this family definitely
03:07need my help step on it
03:25hi pleased to meet you i'm joe i'm jenny hi come on in thank you when i first saw super nanny i was happy to see her
03:32but i was also very scared so who do we have here hayden hi hayden you're gonna shake my hand and say
03:39hi hi hello and how old are you six who are you lily lily and how old are you giggling lily
03:48four pleased to meet you i'm jojo and who's this over there maddie hi maddie pleased to meet you
03:54how old are you maddie seven seven so you've got your hands full then yes i do
04:00in no time mom's little sweeties turned sour
04:03ah the kids started acting up a bit too rough and then mom started acting even more aggressive
04:14if i get hit in the head you're gonna get whipped
04:16quit pinching stop
04:21find the lid or i'm taking it down to the garbage
04:24get out of the road now get in the trash and you're gonna get whipped i was getting angry
04:40don't spit okay you can have some soap if you want to spit you can eat soap
04:48yeah oh yeah your sister ate it i didn't tolerate her spitting and i'm not tolerating you spitting
04:54good there i was watching mom put soap in hayden's mouth
05:00i couldn't believe it what's the lesson in using soap and spanking your kids
05:06that's what you hear from people 30 years ago that's ridiculous if you ask me
05:12i've never once felt bad the way i discipline my kids whether it be spanking soap putting them in
05:20the corner don't spit again was that not enough you want some more no then go
05:27was that good get out or you're gonna get soap
05:31how about you clean your rooms
05:38in the afternoon while mom was making lunch
05:42she asked the children to tidy up their bedrooms but they didn't want to
05:45i don't like to clean my room go pick up now no girls are you cleaning no you
05:55better clean if i come in there you're gonna get your butt spanked
05:57yeah you will
05:59how much cleaning going on get down the problem is my kids don't listen to me
06:06it's not funny you want me to throw everything away
06:10it's not kitten i will throw kitten away you got kitten take well where's kitten at
06:15this is kitten oh i see her
06:20no you don't get kitten until the room's clean
06:24no
06:24you want to eat soap
06:29they really couldn't give a hoot what she has to say
06:34pick up
06:35and they laugh in her face and they don't take her seriously
06:39eat me and i will smack you look at the mess lily aren't you embarrassed
06:43get up i was at my breaking point get off bye bye kitten give her a kiss bye
06:51i'm not surprised that the kids are not listening to her
06:56jen had lost it come on pick up
06:59now now it's clear to me what the problem is in this house
07:03and it's jen
07:05jen had pretty much lost it to be honest with you i was just hoping that she would open
07:20up to me so that i could find out where all this frustration and anger was coming from
07:24what are you thinking i'm thinking why do i even try i just wish i could drive and leave
07:30they think i'm a joke these kids hate me there's nothing i could say or do to make them listen
07:36to me
07:37are you really at a stage where you feel you could just get in the car and leave them
07:41i am
07:45it's hard
07:47i know jen believes that she's in a desperate situation right now but there's no excuse for
07:52the way she treats her kids spanking is not the answer
07:56i don't know what to do
07:57and i don't know where to go from here
08:00you're my last hope
08:02i want to make sure we can get this right then
08:05i hope so
08:06i have faith in you
08:08i feel like there is hope for my future
08:10i have to move forward i can't keep going backwards
08:13wow we're making progress you've done nothing
08:19daddy should be pulling in any second
08:21and i'm letting him deal with you
08:23you'll listen to daddy
08:25no
08:26mom's been trying to get the children to clean their rooms all day
08:30she's waiting by the window
08:32she's hoping dad's coming home soon because she's used him as a threat
08:35wait till your father gets home
08:37i won't listen to you
08:39i'm the boss of this past
08:41okay go in the corner
08:42get your feet off the wall and stand in the corner now
08:45i'm at the end of my rope
08:47oh yeah lady
08:48put it on
08:49Hayden you're driving me crazy
08:51i am ready to strangle all three of the kids
08:53quit screaming
08:54mom was like a time bomb just ready to go off
08:57and i'm afraid that if dad doesn't come home quick
08:59she's gonna result in spacking those kids again
09:01stop that hurt
09:02there's your dad
09:03dad's home
09:05oh yeah
09:06hi please meet you
09:09hi name's dad
09:10hi
09:11as soon as i heard super nanny
09:13i thought to myself here we go
09:15dad she's out of yours
09:17dad walks through the door
09:19there you go dad
09:20clock in clock out
09:22you take care of the kids
09:23yeah
09:24their bedroom's trashed still
09:26come on let's go
09:27it's wrong stay
09:28come on
09:29come here come here i'll show you what to pick up
09:31and in dad goes to the bedrooms and starts to help them tidy up their rooms
09:35come on let's clean up
09:36come on
09:37put the hat in your drawer
09:38come on let's pick up
09:39so do you normally do this that you'll help the kids tidy up their rooms and stuff
09:43you know i try to encourage them not even get down you know help them out you know try to help them pick up
09:47it was just ridiculous jen was battling with the kids all day to clean up their rooms and then thad walks in and he does it for them
09:54because i want to break
09:57you want a break
09:58either them or us there's no helping
10:03she wants you to do it
10:04i know that's what you're doing
10:05i'm helping the girls clean the room and here comes jenny and yelling at me
10:09sit the bag here and let her clean it up thad
10:11she's fine
10:12she can do it
10:13see it's not hard is it
10:15you're looking at thad and i can see you're shaking inside
10:18yeah it's aggravating because he knows that they are supposed to come in here and do it
10:25she'd cut the atmosphere with a knife right now
10:28i'm going to swim in now
10:31go ask your mom
10:35i'm getting ready to leave
10:37where are you going dad
10:39i'm going to work out
10:40dad came home from work and very briefly
10:43he was around
10:45and then he went again
10:46did i hear you say you're going to work out
10:48yeah i'm getting ready to here in a few minutes probably
10:50i usually work out probably about an hour and a half
10:53i'll probably get ready to take off
10:55i didn't care what joey was thinking when i went to the gym
10:57you know i was just ready to just get the hell out of there
10:59all right guys see you in a little bit
11:01make a kiss
11:02make a kiss
11:04bye
11:06bye
11:07so jen's been at home all day with the kids
11:10thad's only been home for an hour
11:12and then he leaves to go to the gym
11:15the choices that these parents are making are not working
11:18things have got to change now
11:21i'm not happy
11:33i'm really not happy with what i'm seeing
11:39and i'm extremely concerned with the way that the pair of you are raising your children
11:49the first thing that i noticed
11:53discipline
11:55you spank
11:57you yell
11:59you grab
12:01as a means of being able to get your children
12:05to do as you ask
12:07i do
12:09why
12:11we got our butts spanked when we were little
12:13we knew not to do it again
12:15so does it work
12:17it does not work
12:19but that that is what
12:21i continue to do until i find something that's going to work
12:24why
12:25do you see it fit
12:27to place disinfectant
12:30into your child's mouth
12:32soap does not
12:34it's not going to kill them
12:36does it work
12:37i feel it does
12:38it's not working jen
12:40the discipline you're using
12:42and what i'm hearing at this table
12:44is excuses
12:46the spanking
12:47the yelling
12:48the hitting
12:49the way the children are spoke to
12:52i find it appalling
12:54i really do find it appalling
12:56what about me
12:58i mean i am trying
13:00i am doing what i know to do
13:02i don't have this whole loving mother background
13:06i'm doing with the best i have
13:09i'm not here to sugarcoat
13:11oh yeah
13:12no i don't stay
13:13i think
13:14i yell
13:15that's me
13:16if you can show me something else that works better i am open to that
13:20i'm bringing to you what i know
13:23i don't
13:25think for one minute that you don't love your children
13:28but
13:29patterns need to be broken
13:31otherwise cycles are gonna continue
13:34it's not a good enough excuse to say i was raised that way i don't know what else to do
13:41it's not a good enough excuse
13:44to spank your kids because you don't know what else to do
13:48i do not accept that
13:50and neither do your children
13:52but they have to put up with it
13:54it's got to stop
13:56i mean now
13:57it's got to stop
13:59let's talk about the support in this house
14:03how much do you give jen
14:06not much
14:10whilst you're in and out
14:12and not here
14:14spending time with your family
14:16jen's given up
14:21correct
14:22i have given up
14:24clearly you've made a choice not to do anything
14:26she can't clock in and clock out of being a father
14:29it's 24-7
14:31as a family you're all suffering
14:33what i want to see in this house is affection
14:37wouldn't you like to open up your heart
14:39i just don't know how
14:43i'm talking about changing lifestyle
14:47changing the way that you parent and adopt a positive manner and not a negative one
14:54we're so used to yelling and spanking the kids it's really gonna be hard to change that but i'm up for it
14:58we need some serious love back in this house
15:01we need some affection
15:02some of the things that joe said made sense and she was right and others i'm still firm on
15:09i don't see what's wrong with spanking your child if they need it
15:13both are going to be open-minded
15:16you're going to open that front door to me and your hearts to your family
15:22alright let's get going then
15:29the bow socks need to get back to some basics and they need to start putting discipline in their house
15:34hello how's everyone
15:36come and follow me children i want to show you something here
15:38and it starts with rules for the kids
15:41jojo's putting something up on this wall
15:44for all three of you
15:47and it's called kids rules
15:50the first one is to play nicely together
15:56speak kindly to each other
15:59listen to your parents
16:01do you do that?
16:02yeah
16:03not all the time
16:05please do as you are told
16:09if they ask you to go into your bedrooms
16:12and tidy up
16:13then you do as you are told
16:15seeing the kids' rules up there now i think
16:17it's a piece of paper
16:19with things wrote on it
16:20i'm thinking why did i not do this
16:22mommy and daddy expect
16:24you three
16:26to stick to those rules
16:28now that the kids know the rules
16:30the next thing that we need to tackle
16:32the next thing that we need to tackle
16:33is them cleaning their own rooms
16:37jen uses intimidation and threats
16:40to get them to clean their room
16:41but this time i wanted to show her a different way
16:44ok guys come here
16:45we're going to go outside and we're going to play a game
16:48but there's something we have to do first before we can go out and have fun ok
16:53we have 15 minutes to tidy up our room
16:57the point here is really to set achievable goals in a set amount of time
17:02so that she can continue to give them encouragement
17:04ok so let's get the toys first
17:06mommy will pick up a few of them and you pick up a few of them
17:09we've all got to do it together
17:11it's a start it's showing that they are doing it
17:15but always have something else to do afterwards
17:18so that they see there's give and take
17:20all right see that was easy wasn't it
17:23three minutes
17:24compromise you do the pillows she does the throw
17:26i'll do the pillows and you do your blanket
17:29i can't believe it
17:31we never clean our room
17:33now we're cleaning it
17:35the girls got the room done in 15 minutes
17:37it wasn't the way i wanted it
17:39but i knew we were making progress
17:41good job
17:43good job
17:44i see a floor
17:45good job for lily
17:46now we get to have fun
17:49later on in the afternoon
17:57maddie had made a decision to break the rules
18:00because she didn't listen to mum when she was told to
18:03you want respect from your daughters
18:04yes
18:05then right now you better stand up as a mother right that demands that respect
18:10this was going to be a big test for jen whether she could discipline without spanking
18:17she's getting ready to go into the corner
18:18well let's go
18:19let's go
18:20let's sit
18:21calmly
18:22come on
18:23no don't talk
18:24calmly just put it back
18:25she wants your attention and that's how she's getting it by pinching back and being physical
18:36keep your patience keep it because i'm with you all the way
18:40maddie was doing anything to test mum to the point where she would revert and go back to smacking
18:48i was so frustrated with maddie
18:50he's taking all i have not to whip him
18:52what's it going to do if you get out your hand make you feel better
18:56there's only one way that goes harder because the more you get angry the harder your slap is going to become
19:03you know what that feels like break the cycle pick your kid up and put them back in the corner
19:09take the bottle take the bottle
19:17it's taking everything i have not to whip her
19:23i know she knew she was getting to me and it was starting to show on the outside
19:28i can't do this
19:30what do you mean i can't do it you're doing it
19:33right now she's just testing to see if you're for real so go out there and continue
19:38ok
19:39ok
19:40oh
20:00don't talk
20:01Jane got really wound up so I decided to step in and really coach her to calm down as she could
20:24feel the aggression really building up I thought about it but after three grueling hours it took
20:36every ounce of mom's patience not to raise her hand and spank Maddie and that was a massive
20:45achievement a massive one I want you to tell mommy you're sorry give me a hug I'm surprised
20:53by me not flying off the handle and screaming and spanking and flipping out I'm actually calm
20:59and I like it I'm proud of myself I felt there was a lot I wasn't actually getting from mom so I wanted
21:10to get to the heart of matters with Jen who's this me what's this picture remind you of not fun times
21:20lots of fear that's why that's the only picture of me as a child in this house childhood thought what
21:30fear a lot of beatings and a lot of negativity there was a lot of dysfunction in this family and a lot
21:38of past issues that had never been laid to rest this little girl couldn't change the way her parents were
21:46towards her but she's grown up to become a woman a mother who can make sure that her own children never
21:56feel how you feel as a little girl I love my kids and I want to make a better life for all of us I
22:04didn't have that as a child I do see the courage that it has taken for you to be able to break this cycle
22:13and to be able to move forward the light bulb finally did go off my kids are not me they're
22:21not the the kid I was and and I can I can change things so what we're going to do today is do big
22:29bear hugs and kisses okay it's going to free you from feeling restricted from your own children
22:37mom and dad just really need to feel comfortable with showing affection so that's the next thing I'm
22:42going to work on so this is what we're going to play we're going to play a game called stuck in
22:46the mud okay this game is just like freeze tag but with a little twist I believe it will allow the
22:55whole family to give and receive lots of hugs and kisses in a really playful manner a hug and a kiss and
23:02that's the only way you can be free yeah I don't think I ever hugged my mom never she didn't want
23:13it she pushed me away and I felt myself doing that to my kids pushing them away this technique allows the
23:25power socks to give and openly receive affection from one another as a family
23:30then somebody tag us in the mud you get to stay in the mud and do it like that
23:39I feel guilty for pushing them away and not hugging them and telling them I love them and doing things
23:49with them the only thing I can do now is make up for what I did do and making their lives better
24:01and Hayden got me a hug
24:03I enjoyed the game we played it makes you feel pretty good when your kids come up and hug and kiss
24:11you and then they'll laugh and have a good time at it it's good excuse to kiss my wife
24:15seeing this family finally giving each other lots of affection I know was a move in the right
24:25direction all right I could see that the stuck in the mud exercise was having a real golden touch on
24:35Jen when another human being embraces another human being especially one who is your partner and your
24:41husband but that is a very good sign of love and affection I felt like we needed a lot of help
24:49I knew there was things we weren't doing right I just didn't know how to change them he just wants
24:55to be close to you look there he is there they say that way I'm a big hug go on I dare you go on
25:04eh Thad walked up to the porch and I said just just go over to him just open up your heart because
25:13he's not there to hurt you he loves you as me and Jenny were hugging and she started to cry yeah I
25:19just think just because she's letting her emotions come out more now why don't you tell Thad how good
25:25that felt like getting hugs from you it was just very emotional to watch because I just felt so much
25:39for her so many troubles and and worries and she opened up which was which was very brave and courageous
25:47of her it just made me feel very emotional to see her make those steps forward yeah maybe too
25:55okay I'm going away for a while to leave you guys to soak in all the information and when I get back
26:03hopefully that naughty corner's got cobwebs on it keep talking to one another Jen and dad all right
26:09and I'll see you soon feeling really nervous about Joe not being around because she was there to help
26:15me through all these emotions and now I'm going to be on my own and that's scary
26:20that's okay mate all right I will do the really big test for Jen and dad whilst I'm away is going
26:33to be to stop the spanking this is the first time that Jen and Thad are going to watch themselves they're
26:48going to get to see how they behave how they resolve situations and maybe how they don't resolve
26:53situations but what they are going to see is truth so Jen and Thad have been gone for a few days
26:59and whilst I've been away I've been taking a good look at some footage so are you ready to take a look
27:07with me yes all right let's go then just little pieces Lily look at look at your heads tucked in
27:16there look do like this little balls throw it out there can't go too fast yeah higher your tummy
27:30this is fun love it I loved your tone of voice you were just like really relaxed as well
27:42I've been trying that's what I've been working on well it was good to see very good to see
27:46go turn the water on go turn on and you're not doing nothing Maddie no no no no no put the water
27:56down now go turn it off knock it off get away no no Maddie go turn the water off where are you at work
28:06now where's your tone of voice aggressive mmm turn the hose on do this do that do that it's
28:15commando I was mad because they were picking at each other and I was trying to get the pool set up
28:20that was my that was my top priority so your priority was to get the pool done but you're
28:25missing everything in between instead of it being a fun activity with you all chipping in
28:30everybody's moody just think about how you address people how you deliver the inflection in your voice
28:35and what that carries because that will create a certain atmosphere okay move on to the next one
28:42you're in the naughty corner because you won't help me pick up your room
28:45there's not going to be no three hours of walking her ass back to that corner
29:05I'm gonna lose it if I go back out there she's gonna get her butt spanked I'm getting very fed up
29:11very much fed up come out here now
29:14this happy naughty corner is not working
29:33Jenny I was at my boiling point but I've calmed down
29:43hey let's get away mom we need some relaxation time
29:46the only thing I can do is keep doing the techniques she's taught me and keep showing my kids everyday that I love them and I'm doing this for them and I'm never giving up that was the old Jenny and the new Jenny is not giving up
30:01alright yep sorry that I got mad but I had to go in my room and be by myself because I didn't want to I didn't want to yell at you guys and I knew if I stayed out here that I would and I'm not that mom anymore
30:20and I love you guys
30:27but mommy's not spanking you anymore okay what did you get from that I did not want to resort back to the spanking and screaming and I knew if I stayed there Maddie would get spanked I needed to get away I just needed time by myself and I had to go in my room and I knew if I stayed there Maddie would get spanked I needed to get away I just needed time by myself and I had to go in my room
30:49that's a breakthrough you've grown you've realized that there are things that you don't want to do anymore
30:56mm-hmm you did make a choice not to spank okay we did see you lose it okay because you got you know you got physical with her by squeezing her cheeks but it's recognizing what you do with your anger and that's a very good thing Jen okay you have made a choice to not be that parent anymore
31:16but you're very powerful and you should be proud of yourself for that okay and this is going to take time but recognize the journey
31:23I was really scared when Joe came back because I figured she would rip me apart but when Joe put her hand out and held my hand to tell me how great of a mom I was that was like a really proud moment I knew I had done it
31:39you've had to grow up in a way and this process has all been a part of that let's get busy with today and continue and we'll just work through it okay
31:54after the DVD meeting things were going fine and then Hayden decided he wasn't going to listen to dad and eat his lunch
32:06all right I'll leave the table till you take two more bites you do need to insist that he eats those two bite full and you have done by asking him and he's chose not to listen to you so they're going to follow through with the naughty corner okay it was the perfect opportunity for Thad to just step up back Jen up and really get down to discipline
32:33two arms
32:38use both his arms okay so that his weight he's not going to pull his arm out his socket
32:43you're a naughty corner because you did not listen
32:45you did not listen to daddy when I told you to eat take two more bites of your sandwich
32:57so it's locked
32:58so it's locked
33:00so this is what you're going to do
33:02okay
33:03okay turn around
33:04Hayden rushed off into the bathroom and he locked the door
33:07the most important thing was for Thad not to lose it
33:10you're going to walk away because right now how are you feeling?
33:12a little bit how are you feeling?
33:13because I can see it
33:14tell me share it with me
33:15yeah getting a little aggravated
33:16frustrated
33:17right so are we going to go there?
33:18no
33:19Hayden will you please open the door up please
33:21just understand that you're going to stay in there as long as you want
33:25but as soon as you come out you're going to stand back in the naughty corner
33:27okay walk away
33:29walk away
33:30walk away
33:31we don't negotiate
33:32one because you're the parent and two because he's in discipline
33:37Hayden's going to be awfully hungry isn't he?
33:42daddy
33:43daddy
33:44I don't want the naughty corner
33:47daddy
33:49daddy
33:51daddy
33:53daddy
33:54I think that Hayden in the end got tired of being ignored
33:57so he came out of the bathroom
33:59and that's when Thad put him straight back into the naughty corner
34:09I was really proud of Thad he didn't raise his voice
34:12he stayed composed and he didn't lose it at all
34:15oh dad
34:16cause you did not listen to daddy
34:18now tell me you're sorry
34:19no
34:20give me a hug
34:21give me a hug
34:22you give hugs too
34:23give me a hug
34:24give me a hug
34:25alright hugs and kiss
34:27okay
34:28good job there
34:30it felt good
34:31I knew I was the one in control
34:33and I wasn't going to lose my cool
34:38alright let's have some fun with this
34:40when I was walking around mum's bedroom I saw a little something that gave me an idea
34:45I saw this on the wall and I thought oh okay so Jen used to do cheerleading
34:49so I was thinking that what we could do is have mum teach Maddie some cheerleading moves
34:56I can do that
34:57Jen and Thad have made some real progress with controlling their anger
35:01so I thought it was time for some positive reinforcement and it starts with Maddie and mum
35:06today was just a time for me to be the mum and Maddie to be the kid and just go out and play
35:12one
35:13two
35:14three
35:15four
35:16come on
35:18both guys
35:19let's score
35:20I'm very pleased this has happened
35:22mum's very open to the idea they're having fun with it and as you can see Maddie's doing a little wriggle
35:27so I'm glad they come out
35:29who do we appreciate
35:32Joe
35:33Joe
35:34Joe
35:36Joe
35:37Jen does need to realize how important it is going to be for her to spend one-on-one time with each child
35:43because those special moments make such a huge impact
35:47I'm happy spending this time with you
35:49and it's been really fun
35:51have you had fun?
35:53and we're gonna do this a lot more often
35:56just me and you
35:58I never really talked to Maddie like a person before
36:01it was always do this do that
36:02I was barking orders and
36:04you do it or you get your butt spanked
36:07it was a real special moment
36:08and I have never
36:10ever had a moment like that
36:12and it felt good
36:14give me a hug
36:15you love me
36:16yeah
36:17you want me to do a cartwheel?
36:18yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
36:19can I have a hug and a kiss?
36:32because Jojo's going now
36:34you take care of yourself
36:36we're never gonna forget Jojo
36:38Hayden, can I get a high five?
36:41yeah
36:42where'd it go?
36:43Thad, with that hand
36:45listen, take care of yourself, alright?
36:47thank you
36:48I liked what I saw with you and Jen
36:50I tell you what
36:51if she can make a believer out of me
36:52she can make a believer out of anybody
36:54Jen, be positive
36:57head up high
36:59be proud of who you are
37:01I never expected Jo to be able to change
37:04my family in this short of
37:06amount of time
37:07take care
37:08she's helped us
37:09in so many ways
37:11Jo showed me
37:12that there's a part
37:13of me that
37:15I didn't know I had
37:16Lily's completely crashed out
37:18well I'm off
37:21take care of all of you, okay?
37:23nice, wait
37:24come on
37:27well you watch this family
37:28you see the before and the after
37:30they really have made progress
37:31before my eyes
37:32I think ultimately
37:33what's been brought into this house
37:34is love
37:35there's no other way really
37:36of explaining it
37:37to see a family
37:38and so much
37:39anger
37:40to a family that have grown
37:42to love, respect one another
37:44and create a completely different
37:46energy in that house altogether
37:48okay
37:56I didn't know how to be a loving mom
37:58I didn't know how to express myself
37:59the only thing I knew how to do
38:00was express
38:01anger
38:02and yelling
38:03and hitting
38:04because that's how I knew
38:05it's hard to change that
38:07but I feel like I'm doing good
38:09I'm proud of myself
38:11did you get me?
38:13yes
38:14me and Jenny aren't screaming
38:16or yelling at the kids
38:17like we used to
38:18it feels pretty good
38:2045 miles per hour
38:21the best parts have been
38:22just watching how the kids
38:23have changed
38:24they're happy
38:25I didn't notice before
38:27how they truly weren't happy
38:29and now they're happy
38:30good job
38:32you're doing it
38:34we're beating daddy
38:36mommy's talking nice now
38:38cause she's talking softly
38:40not screaming
38:41I thought this could be our girl time
38:44to go and do something special together
38:46I think that's changed a lot
38:49he listens to me now
38:51and he's been telling me he loves me
38:54and hugging and kissing me
38:55and I'm not used to that
38:57tell you how much I loved you
38:59I don't believe we'll go back to old ways
39:02but it's just definitely going to be challenging at times
39:05but I have confidence in myself and Jenny
39:08that we can do it
39:09I really feel like our lives
39:13have changed for the better
39:15the way to get love and respect from your children
39:17is to show them love and respect
39:19I'm glad mom and dad don't speak anymore
39:23I know my kids are never going to have to experience
39:26what I've experienced
39:28and that makes me feel really good
39:30that I'm breaking the cycle
39:32what is this under bed?
39:38quackle?
39:40nasty
39:42been a bed for years
39:44no?
39:45yukie
39:55what is yukie?
39:56he paused
39:58Oh little star, how I compare to what you are.
40:05Yucky, yucky, yucky.
40:08What is yucky?
40:09He paused.
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