MJTV: Roxanne Lets Her Daughter Wear 2 Dress at Once... What Do Listeners Think?

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00:00what do you guys follow rules in the villages give me a break you're as crazy as they get out there

00:04i'm gonna have to inject myself on something you know it's not like me to inject my oh not at all

00:12like you this isn't a good idea yeah it's it's not it's it's really not my style to inject myself

00:18into uh matters or to opine on on much that's are you are you snickering like

00:25are you doing a mumbly over there i mean that's not how you roll at all you're like

00:29snickering like mumbly like that hey i can't even do that you're mumbly from the old cartoons

00:34yeah that's it it's more of a wheeze yes um so what was that catch that catch that pigeon

00:45catch that the wacky racers wasn't that the with dastardly and all those remember that i i recall

00:52them i wasn't all right so you're laughing about me saying that i don't normally inject myself into

00:58other people's business you are one to historically hold your tongue and reserve judgment

01:04and not necessarily share your opinion especially where your opinion is a not wanted or b not

01:10appreciated that's not my style no it's not i don't i don't do that much never roxanne yesterday

01:17this is all fair why did this come up well is this about the dresses yes it's about the dresses

01:25oh my gosh and i i have saved this i clung on to this are you kidding me this is a big deal to you

01:31you're losing sleep well first of all did you did you hear the promo did you hear the teaser i did i

01:35know i i try not to listen to when it's so after the show every day as soon as we finish the show just

01:41before 10 o'clock every day i come up with something that we're going to talk about the next day and i

01:47do a little like 10 12 second little promo for the program coop do you have the promo from yesterday

01:52do you have it all right roll it you know it's not my intention to get in the middle of roxanne's

01:56parenting for her four-year-old daughter but sometimes things are so egregious i gotta jump in

02:01tomorrow morning eight o'clock mj morning show here on q105 hey look at that i'm paying it off baby i said

02:08eight o'clock we're talking about it at eight o'clock hi all right so yeah put that in your

02:13pipe and smoke it well all right so what'd you say well ted's very happy about it well i mean mj you

02:21did it one day out of 20 so good well all right so how'd this come up you you mentioned well doug was

02:29mad well doug was mad at me because he was trying to get my daughter dressed for school yesterday and she

02:36was giving him a hard time and it's because we were off for a week and i have a little bit of a

02:41different style with her and when it comes to wardrobe all right first of all you gotta stop

02:48this you have got to nip this right now you gotta stop this if this is going to be problematic this

02:55is going to be psychologically damaging this is a this is a problem so here's the deal so roxanne

03:02you what you allow your daughter to do this but yeah doug doesn't didn't really know about

03:08it's a little it's a little different on school days here's the deal my daughter has her own fashion

03:14sense she likes to put dress herself that's a big thing for four-year-olds that can do it yeah half of

03:19them are in dress or princess dresses yeah so precisely froggy so she likes to wear two dresses at

03:26once because that's her style okay that's weird that's her thing this is but listen this is

03:32screwed up okay okay let her finish let her finish you're acting like look i'm strict in my household

03:38when it comes to manners please and thank yous obedience running out in front of a car i'm strict

03:43with safety but when it comes to dressing you don't let your kids run out in front of cars i'm not like

03:48oh be creative when you cross the street put on a blindfold and walk backwards no that's where you have

03:53to follow laws and and be obedient but when it comes to how you want to dress that is creativity

03:59that is style so i am preparing my child to think outside the box you're letting her wear two layers

04:05of clothes so she's got dress number one yes she's wearing dress number one and then you allow her to

04:11put dress number two over dress number one the thanksgiving photos were beautiful she had on like

04:16dress number one and then a big princess dress over it and it was very creative but she's going to

04:21school with two dresses on hold on her child identifies as a dual dress dresser yeah thank you

04:28big deal thank you so what's the big deal my kid wears his shirts on his legs and his pants on where

04:34his shirt would be so it's not even a big deal i don't know i wear i wear my tidy whities on my feet

04:38seriously if that's how you identify there's no wrong anymore there's no right either no and here's

04:45the thing our children everyone in this room our kids even yours mj they're going to be competing

04:50against robots are robots going to come up with the idea to wear what the hell are you talking about

04:56time for competition give me my dresses give me two dresses give me two dresses two dresses

05:02it's not normal for you to allow your daughter it's creativity it's free-range thinking don't

05:10cloud yourself with with boundaries of clothing she's four and a half years old and you probably

05:16need to stop this before it gets out of hand that she's she's putting dress number one on and then she

05:22puts number dress number two over top of that and goes to school with two dresses it's not like she's

05:28wearing a shirt sweatshirt with obscenities on it what is the what is the purpose what is the

05:33justification for her wearing two dresses she's learning to feel good about herself and mixing and

05:38matching and putting styles together she could be like the next fashion designer again creative

05:42pursuits are going to help you later in life when you she's going to crack through the algorithms

05:47of life you know instead of be stuck in this robotic crazy world is she gonna wear two dress

05:52girl is she gonna wear is she gonna wear two bras is she wear two sets of panties you know i used to

05:57wear two bras when i was in eighth grade because more padding made me look like i had more mommy i

06:01want to wear three dresses today then what yeah yeah where does it end you know what we ought to go to

06:07phones on this five dress day am i being a busy body do i do i have do i have like a uh a reason

06:16here do you think it's exactly roxanne claims that her kid is wearing two sets of clothing one on top

06:21of the other two dresses two and i think it's bizarre and i think you ought to stop this now that

06:26this could potentially be psychologically damaging you should see what i let her do in the kitchen

06:30because that's another area of creativity hold on to that thought hold on let's go to phones on

06:36this am i overstepping my bounds here folks am i injecting my business where it doesn't belong

06:42or am i right to point this out to roxanne that you got to stop your four-year-old from wearing two

06:49dresses to school two dresses two sets of clothing that this is not okay this is not going to end well

06:56let me be clear that's doug's problem he's got to figure out what she's got to wear to school

07:00this is just for us let me give out the phone number 800-990-1047 i want to go to phones on this

07:05are my am i overstepping my bounds here does my nose need to get out of this business or do i have

07:11the right to say hey roxanne that's not normal and you got to stop this now all right i want to hear

07:16from uh want to hear from listeners right now on this 800-990-1047 is this normal behavior should

07:23roxanne let this continue and encourage this or should roxanne stop this now 800-990-1047 that's

07:32the number to get in am i being a busy body do i need to mind my own business or do i have the right

07:39to be concerned 800-990-1047 we'll go to phones here in just a second 800-990-1047 and then the other

07:47thing we learned is roxanne lets her daughter fry up salmon on a hot stove at four years old in the

07:53kitchen oh that's training standing right there and if the kid's wearing two dresses she's actually

07:58fine i mean what's the splatter there's two dresses you're fine no problem funny if the water's boiling

08:03that's when it's okay to drink next she's gonna wear that padded dog bite suit that the cops train

08:07with you know that yes yes the dog attacks or that fire suit the fire suit i got attacked by those

08:14those work remember the three dogs they're a lifesaver oh man right look at the phones the phones

08:18have exploded here listen at that age mj don't you remember it's all about keeping the kid happy

08:22all right 800-990-1047 let's go to phones 800-990-1047 andrea is in saint petersburg andrea do i have a

08:32right to be concerned that roxanne's daughter is wearing two dresses to school every day no absolutely

08:39not so i don't have a right to be i i should what i should butt out i believe you should butt out and

08:47here's why i have a five-year-old daughter who dresses the way that she wants to in a world where

08:53we have way too revealing clothing for little girls of their age group so she wants to layer up

08:58more power to her but is that normal to wear two separate dresses one and then one on top of it

09:05absolutely my five-year-old daughter does the same stuff thank you andrea you can't even explain that

09:12you need to get these weirdo kids together for a play date yeah let's do it weird weirdo play dates

09:16with roxanne andrea you're working in a steel mill sounds like you're in a foundry hey andrea thanks

09:25for the call that could be the worst hands-free ever heard ever andrea thanks for the call thanks

09:29for listening all right chelsea is in newport richie hello chelsea you're on the mj morning show hi

09:35hi um i mean i think it's completely normal um people up north double up on clothing when it

09:42gets cold outside so you're wearing double shirts double pants double socks yeah but this is not up

09:47north this is florida now granted we have some chilly mornings sometimes in the winter but a four-year-old

09:54thinking it's normal to put on two dresses we're not talking about layering we're not talking about

09:59wearing a dress and then maybe having a sweater over the dress and then maybe a parka

10:04we're talking about two of this two that's it that's a construct we've created why is it not

10:09normal why is it not normal four years old their brains are developing and not only that they're

10:15very finding their sense of self right now but that's the point the point is the brains are

10:19developing and if you if if you normalize wearing multiple layers of dresses that might be odd

10:25it's not odd at all all right okay all right dressing like mary todd i guess i'm just a dopey wiener over

10:36here mary todd lincoln i mean back in those days didn't they wear like 50 dresses my grandmother tells

10:41a story that when she came to america on the boat she would only bring one suitcase so she wore four

10:46dresses see there you go all right back to the phones oh look it's eric and eric you know where eric's

10:52calling from villages nice guest

10:57eric is in the villages hello eric you're on the mj morning show welcome hold on a second i got the

11:08wrong button to push all right eric you're on go ahead rockin i'm sorry i have to side with mj that's

11:13ridiculous oh wait what do you guys follow rules in the villages give me a break you're as crazy as

11:17they get out there let them show to be where i'm passing through i don't live in the villages i'm

11:22just passing through right now but i raised four daughters and my children were not allowed to go

11:26out of the house unless they were appropriately dressed they only wore two layers of clothing

11:30up top of it was below 30 degrees i i love you rockin but i gotta disagree i think that's asinine

11:35absolutely ridiculous it's the craziest thing i've ever heard you can call doug and you guys can

11:39commiserate eric eric where are you from if you're driving through the villages now where you're

11:43from oh i'm from tampa i'm just passing through the villages right now and our signal 104.7 is

11:49coming in nicely up in the villages oh clear and crisp of course i have a signal booster in my 18

11:54wheeler for that oh i got you all right so you drive it what are you hauling today uh well right now

11:59i've got uh some fertilizer but i'm the driver if you remember that had the bestie ross flag shoes

12:04about three years ago uh remember me what remember when i called your your snitcho i had that load

12:10of betsy ross flag shoes oh that oh that oh that's right yeah yeah eric you sound like a nerd he

12:17no that's right he called my snitcho he had and what was the story the betsy ross flag shoes were

12:23they being recalled or something what was nike had recalled them after they had shipped out uh 22

12:28million pairs it was related to kaepernick that he came out against nike because they came out with

12:33these shoes yeah the betsy ross flag shoes and he had a whole tractor trailer loaded with the nike betsy

12:39ross flag shoes hey thanks for the thanks for the call eric and thanks eric just kidding keep in

12:44touch i i i love you uh participating all right stacy's in st petersburg stacy you're on the mj

12:50morning show roxanne's daughter four years old wearing two dresses is that normal you know i i love

12:57all you guys and mj you're the best but you are completely in the wrong on this if she wants to let

13:03her wear two dresses and this child is four years old and she's teaching her those things like those

13:09morals those values those behaviors those rights wrongs don't you know run out in the street um

13:13eventually allowing her to have these choices at four years old is going to make her confident

13:18enough that when she is of age to make the important decisions the the fact that she was

13:25allowed to have choices and be able to make choices and know that it's okay to do that

13:28i fully believe that if she's brought up the other way that was all those morals and values

13:33and everything as well are you getting are you getting pulled over over man pull over

13:38there's an ambulance i'm sorry that's all right i just want to make sure you're not getting pulled

13:43over talking morals and values that's deep stacy i love all that thank you stacy listen i'm getting

13:48dressed down by all these callers now i'm speaking of dress i'm getting dressed up stacy thanks for the

13:53call karina is in clearwater hi karina you're on the mj morning show hey mj listen i'm a um

14:01preschool teacher going back to school to be um kindergarten teacher i'm going to tell you that

14:07roxanne's raising one of the more brilliant children the more creative you're going to allow them

14:14um at a young age the the more outside the box thinkers we're going and we need those right now so you

14:20think that her daughter wanting to wear two dresses one on top of the other that that's brilliance

14:27yeah that's giving her um the kids have to follow enough rules as it is if you're giving

14:32them some autonomy on what they're getting to dress in it's it's raising an outside the box critical

14:39thinker and that's what we need look at lady gaga she wore a dress of meat and now she's the star

14:44of what show is it gucci gucci you see the thing that i would um suggest roxanne is that you let her

14:52help do laundry oh instead of cooking salmon and yeah karina before i let you roll where where are

14:59you going to get your education degree to become a kindergarten teacher st petersburg college go

15:05titan fantastic listen good luck with that and uh let us know when you get your degree and let us

15:10call us back when you get your first kindergarten gig i will thanks thanks all right stacy's in

15:15tampa man i'm getting smacked down here yeah you are all right stacy is in tampa hello stacy

15:21uh stacy are you there is that me yes are you stacy it's what cc yeah cc hey it's cc not stacy

15:39sounded like cc not that far off all right cc you're on the mj morning show go ahead hi guys

15:46thanks for having me so um i find it interesting that right before me a teacher called because i'm

15:51also a teacher a preschool teacher and um kids who come in with those layers and layers of clothes

15:57that has got to be the most annoying most difficult thing to deal with in the world from a mother's

16:02perspective i also don't let my child do that because i send her to daycare i don't want to

16:06what that starts to look presentable all the time she's a reflection of me if you're talking

16:12about creativity i could see her maybe trying to create a piece of clothing or something but

16:17layering it on just sounds unnecessary yep two but it's not even layered separate clothing items

16:22it's two dresses wearing one dress and then the other dress on top which i think is one for the

16:28after party for the for the after party uh hey cc thanks for the call look at the phones on this

16:35all right a few more shannon is in seminole shannon you're on the mj morning show hi shannon

16:40hi good morning good morning i just wanted to say i have i have 10 year old twins boy girl twins and

16:49my son has absolutely he couldn't care less what he wears my daughter has a very very strong opinion

16:56on what she wears and i let her pick and choose and ultimately it really has made my life easier we're

17:01getting ready to go to new york i have to pack for my son because he would probably throw in a t-shirt

17:07and a pair of shorts my daughter already has her her suitcase packed and is ready to go all right she

17:13knows what she wants to wear and it it makes her feel confident and and confident in her own

17:19decisions i just think that you know my intuition was this is just gonna screw up roxanne's daughter

17:24in the head but shannon thanks all right let me grab two more and i gotta move on here uh here's

17:29another one i'm gonna get smacked down donna's in saint pete hi donna hi welcome i agree with

17:36roxanne thank you i remember as a child wearing a kremlin and a t-shirt and then a dress and so

17:44that's about the same thing wearing a kremlin like a like like the the russian government like the slip

17:51like the slip that goes underneath and it poops your dress out oh yeah oh i know what you're talking

17:57about all right hey thanks don appreciate the call all right one more and i gotta move on

18:01donna's in lakeland donna you got the last word on this this is gianna oh i'm sorry oh did i say

18:09donna yeah i'm sorry gianna gianna you have the last word on this that was my fault oh i love having

18:15the last word oh come on take control of the situation baby take control baby my personal

18:23opinion if you can even get a two to four year old to keep one set of clothes on without running

18:30around buck ass naked you're doing good sounds like you got a whole other problem wear two more power

18:38to her she's on the proper side right now so we'll keep her there thank you gianna uh she sounds like

18:44she just she she's in control

18:46she just she she's in control

18:46she just she's in control

18:48she's in control

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