90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 12 -Dear Diary, I Think I'm Ready...
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00:00I'm really nervous, I haven't been on a date in like two years, let's see what happens.
00:15Ready to go to the plane, ready to head out, let's go.
00:19I have like a serious question, can I pee in the shower?
00:29When I think of the wow factors, I think wow, they're dirty, it's been quite a lot.
00:34How are things with you and Jason?
00:37Yeah, how is my boy?
00:39He is going to be re-stationed.
00:42Would you do long distance?
00:44Um, I don't know.
00:48Oh my god.
00:50I haven't been on a date in forever, so got the little butterflies in the stomach.
00:55So I grab the balls, right?
00:57Balls, balls.
00:58When you haven't had sex in two years, every single thing seems like an innuendo.
01:03Are you going to go with me?
01:05Yeah, I'm going to come with you, I'm coming with you, I'm coming with you.
01:09There she is.
01:11Shannon drove down from L.A. to hang out with me, she gave me my first kiss.
01:16I'm about to tell off.
01:18I'm hoping that if today goes well, we can take things further.
01:21I'm trying to open my mouth and say something, but nothing's coming out.
01:38Just made it to the airport, got my bags.
01:43Got 20 minutes to check in.
01:45So let's see if I can do it.
01:47My name is Tyrae, I'm 34 years old, and I live in Modesto, California.
01:51Okay, just made it to, uh, made it through security.
01:55I'm at the bar.
01:57Getting a little bit of fizzle before I fly.
02:01So yeah.
02:03Cheers.
02:05I'm on my way to San Diego to visit some friends and have some fun, but also I want to see if I can potentially move there.
02:13Getting ready to get on the plane.
02:15It's hot.
02:17I shouldn't have worn this big old sweater, but oh well.
02:19In two months I'm scheduled to have major weight loss surgery, and I'm thinking maybe it's time to make another big change in my life and move to a different city for a fresh start.
02:29I love San Diego.
02:31It's beautiful, it's by the ocean, it has the mountains, but I also have some pretty cool friends out there.
02:35Made it to the plane, ready to head out.
02:37Let's go.
02:39My journey began four years ago when I received a message from a beautiful girl named Carmela from Barbados.
02:45Carmela and I talked almost every day.
02:47She became my online girlfriend, and we decided to meet.
02:51I flew to Barbados, and she never showed up.
02:55And then later on I found out that I was being catfished.
02:59And then later on I found out that I was being catfished.
03:03The person you've been messaging with for the last several years is a man.
03:11Wow.
03:13And then I ended up meeting Shannon.
03:15Shannon is super cool.
03:17I met her when I was in New Orleans, and then we hit it off.
03:21She ended up coming to the tell-all, and she gave me an amazing first kiss.
03:25I don't know what to do.
03:27I don't know what to do.
03:29I'm so into it.
03:35Oh, God.
03:37We stayed in touch a little bit, but things kind of stalled out.
03:41Mainly because she's in L.A., and I'm in my desktop.
03:43Right now I'm currently single.
03:45I am still a virgin, but we're trying to figure that out, so stay tuned.
03:53Just landed in San Diego.
03:55Hopefully my ride is here.
03:57Let's see.
03:59Oh, I see someone.
04:05Hey!
04:07My San Diego buddy.
04:09What's up, Kimberly?
04:11Long time no see.
04:13Are you ready to go?
04:15I'm ready.
04:17Oh, my God. I'm so excited to see you. Let's go.
04:19My name is Kimberly. I'm 54 years old, and I live in San Diego, California.
04:23I met Tyrae last year at the Single Life Tell-All, and we became really close ever since.
04:29I'm so excited. Tyrae is here for a visit. Tyrae in San Diego.
04:35So now we're going to go to brunch. I'm excited because I have a surprise special friend.
04:39Oh, and thank you for picking me up.
04:41Yeah, I got you.
04:43Hey, I do San Diego pick-ups. Ask anybody.
04:45Well, I don't do it for everybody.
04:47Just my friends.
04:49My three-day journey began when I met Usman, a.k.a. Soldier Boy, on social media.
04:55I really liked his charm. I thought he had a really cute smile.
04:59And then I went to Nigeria, and I just fell in love with Usman.
05:05You're so crazy.
05:11We just had this weird connection that was really hard to explain to people, and we had this love.
05:17But I feel like it was just way too many sacrifices I was making.
05:21We were arguing all the time. We couldn't agree on anything.
05:25And I just felt it was better for me just to walk away.
05:27I don't even want to be around you, seriously.
05:29And until you do, you won't get this s*** back.
05:31When you prove it to me, then you'll get it back.
05:33I'm not giving it back.
05:35Oh my, this is funny.
05:37Oh, is it funny?
05:39Very funny.
05:41Is this f***ing funny too?
05:43And it just blew me away.
05:45And it took me the whole two years to find my worth again, and to find what kind of woman Kimberly is.
05:51So what are your plans while you're in town?
05:53I'm going to look at some apartments, hopefully.
05:55I'm thinking of moving out here, actually.
05:57Really?
05:59All right, all right.
06:01Let's go.
06:03Tyree in San Diego.
06:05All right.
06:07Ooh, ooh, ooh.
06:09Ooh, the bar.
06:11Why would you say ooh, the bar?
06:13Of course you would say that.
06:15Of course you would say that.
06:17Hi!
06:19What's up?
06:21How are you?
06:23What's up?
06:25What's up? How are you?
06:27Hi, I'm Liz.
06:29I am 32, and I'm from San Diego, California.
06:31How was your flight?
06:33It was nice.
06:35I had a little bit of champagne.
06:37$40.
06:39Yeah, I'm ready.
06:41The wow factors consist of me, Kim, and Tyree.
06:45I met Liz at our season of Happily Ever After at the Tell All, and she's a San Diego girl.
06:51Kim and I both live in San Diego, so it was very easy to become friends.
06:57Tyree and I met at a party.
07:01I went to San Diego last year for my birthday, and we all just kept saying wow.
07:05Because we're all like, wow, we're all so amazing.
07:09When I think of the wow factors, I think about, wow, their journeys.
07:13Oh, I'm so happy you guys made it.
07:15I know.
07:17I did order us a surprise.
07:19A surprise.
07:21Oh, my gosh.
07:23My 90-day journey started four years ago when I met at waiting tables.
07:27We fell in love quickly and very soon got engaged.
07:31Will you marry me?
07:37Wow.
07:39Yes, I will marry you.
07:41I upgraded my life for him.
07:43We both moved to Arkansas in one month before we were supposed to get married and called off the wedding.
07:47I just, I want to be single.
07:51Work on my career.
07:57I'm stuck with you through everything.
08:01I was devastated.
08:03Then I moved back to San Diego, and about a month later, I met Jason.
08:07When Ed and I broke up and I met Jason, I went through a transformation.
08:13I lost a ton of weight, and I feel so much better about myself.
08:17My confidence is up.
08:19I'm smiling.
08:21And I let no man tear me down anymore.
08:23Jason is in the military.
08:25We met at a run club.
08:27We hit it off very well, and then we have been dating for the last 11 months.
08:35I don't have much to say to you, first of all.
08:37You're in the past.
08:39We're going to move forward.
08:41Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.
08:43Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.
08:45Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.
08:49I finally made it back.
08:51It's been almost a few months.
08:53Last year was fun.
08:55How's your sex life?
08:59I haven't really been putting myself out there.
09:05None.
09:07I've been talking to Shannon on and off.
09:09That's a blast from last year.
09:11You're closer here than in San Diego.
09:13Do you think so?
09:15Yeah.
09:17So Shannon and I tried to start dating,
09:19but because I live six hours away in Modesto,
09:21we just didn't see each other.
09:23And we couldn't figure out a way to make it work.
09:25Which is sad, because I felt like we could have had something.
09:27This could have been my real first relationship.
09:29But maybe if I do decide to move to San Diego,
09:31we could make things work.
09:35It's good dating practice.
09:37You need to get out there, sir.
09:39No, I'm preaching to the choir over here.
09:41I'm not doing anything.
09:43It's just so crazy.
09:45No dating apps?
09:47No.
09:49There's a guy from my past I used to date.
09:51We've been DMing,
09:53but now he wants to go out.
09:55I'm just like, ugh.
09:57I just don't want to go.
09:59The guy that slid into my DMs,
10:01his name is Benjamin, but he likes to be called B.
10:03We dated before I met Usain.
10:05I've known him five, maybe six years.
10:07He is very handsome.
10:09And the sex is good.
10:11So there's that.
10:17He's cute.
10:19I really just don't want to go out with him,
10:21because I don't know if Benjamin
10:23is like husband material right now.
10:25Like he doesn't have any kids.
10:27You know, he's like a bachelor, you know?
10:29And I really just don't want to get my heart broken again.
10:35I say, hang out.
10:37You hang out with Shannon.
10:39You hang out with B.
10:41You've already gotten the D before.
10:43Please get the D in.
10:45I gotta wax up some stuff first.
10:47But yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
10:49I'll spread it right now.
10:51I'm gonna get you slippery.
10:53Oh my God!
10:55I'm gonna make you like a slip and slide for your date.
10:57Oh God, I would love it, yeah.
10:59Oh my God, that's so funny.
11:01How are things with you and Jason?
11:03Yeah, how is my boy?
11:05That's my boy, you know.
11:07And you just look like a whole different woman.
11:09I know.
11:11I wasn't expecting a relationship like this at all.
11:13I've almost been together for a year.
11:15But he is going to be
11:17re-stationed.
11:19Really?
11:21Oh wow.
11:23There's no option of him staying in San Diego.
11:25So it's like a gamble.
11:27He's leaving.
11:29You don't know where.
11:31I will not do long distance.
11:33I feel like
11:35even though I love him so much
11:37and I've grown, things are good
11:39and I feel like that would mess it up.
11:41I'm really hoping that Jason's gonna be
11:43stationed somewhere close by
11:45because if that isn't the case
11:47I really have to figure out if I want to
11:49hang on to this relationship.
11:51This is the happiest I've been in years
11:53and right now I don't even know if it's gonna work out anymore.
11:55You've been through so much.
11:57Yeah.
12:01I know.
12:13I'm thinking about taking water aerobics.
12:15I think it would be fun for me.
12:17I actually used to do that.
12:19Really?
12:21There would be a lot of older ladies there.
12:23Hey!
12:25I'm trying to decide if I want to live here.
12:27So Kim and I are on our way to look at a potential apartment for me.
12:29I've spent my whole life living in Central California
12:31and I feel like I need to leave my hometown
12:33in order to grow as a person.
12:35It's beautiful here.
12:37Tiny, look!
12:39The type of apartment I'm looking for
12:41is at least a studio.
12:43Something nice and clean.
12:45Hopefully something new and modern.
12:47Right now I have a white refrigerator
12:49and I would love something that doesn't have that.
12:53Hello!
12:55Wow!
12:57Wow!
12:59This is your prospective renter.
13:01Hey, Tyree, nice to meet you.
13:03Wow, this is really nice.
13:05So pretty.
13:07Okay.
13:09Wow.
13:11Okay.
13:15Compared to the apartment I live in now,
13:17this apartment in San Diego is just
13:19out of this world.
13:21Wow, Tyree, look!
13:23Oh, this is perfect.
13:25Yeah.
13:27Oh God, this would be perfect for me.
13:29I like this.
13:31I see you here, though.
13:33I really like you.
13:35Tyree really does not want to
13:37push himself out of his comfort zone.
13:39So I'm proud of him for
13:41taking the first step to leave his hometown
13:43and explore life out of Modesto.
13:45I can imagine myself here,
13:47you know, having family and friends over,
13:49maybe some ladies.
13:51I think being here away from his family
13:53is going to give him so much more
13:55confidence. He's going to become so independent
13:57and he can focus on being in a
13:59real relationship.
14:01How much is this a month?
14:03So this is $2,050.
14:05Oh, $2,050? Wow.
14:07I rise on the 15th floor in downtown San Diego.
14:09That's a steal.
14:11Where I live,
14:13the normal average for a one bedroom is
14:15like $1,600.
14:17I would like to stay under the $2,000
14:19if I can, you know?
14:21Okay.
14:23Oh, okay.
14:25I know rent is higher
14:27in San Diego than it is in Modesto,
14:29but I really don't want him to
14:31use that as an excuse or
14:33to make it an obstacle because
14:35I feel like he has trouble following
14:37through with things and I don't want anything
14:39to hamper him not coming here
14:41or just living his own life.
14:43Now with the price where it's at,
14:45I think we're getting a lot more interest.
14:47Yeah, of course. Listen, you need
14:49some life decisions. You're right.
14:59Hey.
15:01Hi, baby. Are you eating without me?
15:03I did. I started eating already
15:05on Sunday. What'd you make?
15:09Caldo de pollo.
15:11Uh-oh.
15:13I made soup.
15:15Soup? Caldo de pollo.
15:17Caldo. Caldo.
15:19Caldo. Caldo.
15:21Caldo.
15:23Where did the
15:25de come from? Cal
15:27de.
15:29Calde. Calde
15:31pollo. It's fine.
15:33It's fine.
15:35Dating Liz
15:37has definitely been a journey.
15:39It's been a great one.
15:41I love everything about her. She's funny.
15:43We can be ourselves. We can be super silly together.
15:45We just have a great time together.
15:47And I love her.
15:49I really do see a future with us.
15:53So...
15:55Remember that thing about work?
15:57About
15:59finding out where I might
16:01be getting moved?
16:03Happened today.
16:11Do you have options or...
16:15Got three options.
16:17Japan,
16:19Spain,
16:21or Seattle.
16:23So...
16:25I mean,
16:27Seattle could work.
16:29It's only like a two or three hour flight
16:31from San Diego. Right.
16:33But that's still long distance.
16:35Obviously, I have to go to
16:37one of those three. I can't just, like, not go.
16:39So...
16:41I think
16:43Seattle would be the most
16:45beneficial
16:47in case you wanted to move with me.
16:51I feel like our relationship is
16:53so healthy to where we're
16:55always supporting each other, whatever it is.
16:57That this move
16:59for both of us would be
17:01very healthy.
17:03But is that something you're willing to do?
17:07It being
17:09stateside makes it a lot easier
17:11because I just don't feel like there's any way
17:13I can move to another country.
17:15But ultimately,
17:17I have to talk to Riley about this.
17:21She's my daughter and this impacts her as well.
17:25I can't just move and...
17:29Like, the relationship fail.
17:31I just...
17:33I just want to make sure I'm not going to be making
17:35a decision for another...
17:37Like, man again, just to, like,
17:39get my heart broken.
17:45If I move, I need to know that
17:47you're
17:49not just giving me words,
17:51that you actually mean a future.
17:53I wouldn't be asking you
17:55to move if I didn't see a future with you, so...
17:59Love you.
18:03I made a lot of mistakes for Ed, like,
18:05uprooting my life for him, and I'm very
18:07worried to do that again
18:09with my relationship with Jason.
18:11Not only was I affected
18:13in my relationship with Ed,
18:15so is my daughter Riley.
18:17So Riley's opinion really does matter
18:19to me with the decision that I'll be making
18:21for the both of us.
18:23If Riley does not approve of this move,
18:25then my relationship with Jason is not going to work.
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18:51Mommy?
18:53Yes, baby?
18:55Where are we going?
18:57We are on our way
18:59to a bridal store to donate
19:01Mommy's wedding dress.
19:03I'm donating my wedding dress today.
19:05It has been in the back of my trunk
19:07for months from the moment I left
19:09Arkansas.
19:11It's going
19:13to be a bittersweet moment for sure.
19:15Even though it's for the
19:17best that Ed and I are over,
19:19I had a lot of hopes and dreams for this dress.
19:21But it's also a big trigger
19:23for a tough time in my life.
19:25I don't want to hold on to a dress that I
19:27was going to wear for somebody else
19:29when I am madly in love
19:31with somebody new.
19:33I wonder who's
19:35cleaning Ed's dishes.
19:39It's not Mommy.
19:41Are you happy we did it together?
19:43Yes.
19:45Just happy to move on? Yes.
19:47Me too.
19:49I'm bringing
19:51Riley with me to
19:53donate my wedding dress.
19:55I would like her to see
19:57that that chapter is closed.
19:59It will not be reopened again.
20:01Ready baby?
20:03Riley deserves
20:05to see her mom in a healthy relationship.
20:07To be loved.
20:09Riley just saw the worst.
20:17I do want her to know that
20:19she'll never see that again.
20:23We're going to move forward together.
20:25I have the dress.
20:27I'm just ready to let go of the past.
20:33Brides for a cause.
20:35Hi.
20:37Welcome to Brides for a Cause.
20:41I'm going to
20:43donate this.
20:47Can I take a look? Yes.
20:57That's beautiful.
20:59You must have looked so
21:01gorgeous in it.
21:03It's actually never been worn
21:05before.
21:07Only when I tried it on.
21:09We did not go through with the wedding.
21:11I'm so sorry. That's okay. We're good.
21:15I hope to make another bride happy.
21:17It's a really nice dress.
21:19I know.
21:21I know.
21:23It feels absolutely
21:25amazing to get rid of this dress.
21:27This was the last piece of
21:29mine and Ed's relationship and it's gone.
21:31It feels just like another
21:33fresh start of just starting my life
21:35for myself and with Jason
21:37and with Riley.
21:39Do you want to go around the store?
21:41Over there. We have a bunch of jewelry.
21:43If you want to just play.
21:47So,
21:51Mommy has
21:53something to talk to you about.
21:55So,
21:57Mommy and Jason are getting
21:59serious and
22:01Jason's
22:03asked Mommy to move with
22:05him
22:07to Washington.
22:09How
22:11would you feel about that?
22:13I mean,
22:15it would be fun.
22:17West Washington does have a lot of vegan food.
22:19Vegan food?
22:21You're in it for the vegan food?
22:23Yes.
22:25Okay.
22:27Okay.
22:29You don't have any
22:31questions for me?
22:33No.
22:35No concerns?
22:37I miss my friends, but
22:39other than that,
22:41not really.
22:43He's nice.
22:45You got good vibes around him?
22:47If not, we'll kick him
22:49to the curb.
22:51I'm kidding.
22:53Mommy's pretty happy right now.
22:55And you tell me if you're not comfortable with that, okay?
22:57Okay.
23:05Alright, so today
23:07I'm going to
23:09meet Tyree and Liz
23:11at my spa. I'm so excited to
23:13show them where I work.
23:15So, it'll be nice to have a little relaxing
23:17day, talk about our love lives.
23:19It'll be fun.
23:21I got a new job.
23:23I'm a spa manager at a wonderful
23:25spa. I told Tyree
23:27and Liz to come to the spa because I wanted them
23:29to see where I'm working.
23:31Hello!
23:33Hi!
23:35How are you?
23:37Hi, Tyree!
23:39Since Tyree is considering moving to San Diego,
23:41I thought, what better way
23:43to convince them than a spa
23:45day? Who doesn't love to
23:47be pampered and spoiled?
23:49Alright, so
23:51I picked out some robes for you guys.
23:53Yeah, these will give you a
23:55pink one after a big boy.
23:57If it doesn't fit, I might be naked.
23:59Oh, God.
24:01So, I've never
24:03been to a spa like this before.
24:05Totally new experience to me.
24:07All the lockers. I'm not sure what to do.
24:09Like, do I just put this robe on?
24:11Do I keep my underwear on? Do I take it off?
24:13I have no idea. This is so weird.
24:15I feel a little anxious.
24:17So, this is the spa.
24:19Look how beautiful it is.
24:21That is our
24:23jacuzzi. Isn't it beautiful?
24:25Yeah.
24:27Then we have the dry
24:29sauna.
24:31And this is our wet sauna right here.
24:33Beautiful.
24:39The sauna sex campaign
24:41story was
24:43with Ed.
24:45And it was a couple hours.
24:47Long story short,
24:49it ended with the UTI.
24:51I'm not as innocent.
24:53I haven't had sex in two years. Let's don't rep it.
24:55No, you have not. Two years?
24:57Two years.
24:59Girl.
25:01We need to catch up
25:03on this.
25:05Rub it down. Something. I don't know.
25:07I have not been this
25:09celibate since high school.
25:11I'm starting to think, like, am I turning into a nun?
25:13When is this dry spell going to end?
25:15It's been two years.
25:17But hopefully, my dry spell will end soon.
25:19So, I got us these
25:21bold masks.
25:23Put these under your eyes and you can just
25:25relax, yeah?
25:27Like a sardine.
25:29Like a sardine.
25:31I have no idea what I'm doing.
25:33Sorry.
25:35Like slime.
25:37Stop moving!
25:39Sorry.
25:41Don't you feel pretty?
25:43Yeah.
25:45It's not wrong to relax.
25:47How is everybody doing?
25:49I feel good, actually.
25:51It smells so good in here.
25:53Make my eyes sexy.
25:55Okay, sexy.
25:57So, what's going on with you?
25:59I'm officially moving
26:01to Washington.
26:05That's good, though. I'm happy for you.
26:07That's good. You know, it's showing that
26:09the relationship is going somewhere.
26:11You know me, I'm older, right? So, you know, I gotta
26:13stop a little bit of...
26:15Mama can't.
26:17You moved to Arkansas
26:19to be with that, right?
26:21Do you feel like you're moving for the man
26:23or do you feel like you're moving
26:25because you want to move?
26:27I guess there's no
26:29waiting in sugar-coated.
26:31I am moving for Jason, but
26:33I'm still looking
26:35for myself, too.
26:37I think
26:39Liz moving all the way to Washington
26:41with Jason is a little too soon.
26:43And I really don't want
26:45her to rush into another bad
26:47situation where she has to come
26:49back to San Diego with her tail between her legs.
26:51I just...
26:53He just makes me want to be
26:55such a better person.
26:57I'm excited for him.
26:59Speaking of, I sent you guys
27:01his advice, and I'm gonna go on the date
27:03tonight, so...
27:05I'm really, like, excited.
27:07I am excited. So, I haven't seen him
27:09in, like, a couple years, you know?
27:11That's gonna be good. Black.
27:13The light to the fullest. I know. I deserve it, too.
27:15I went through so much
27:17with my heartache and
27:19gaslighting and
27:21I went through a lot of
27:23self-worth stuff,
27:25you know? And I really had to, like,
27:27check myself and be like, you're better than this.
27:29Like, you're flawless. You're beautiful.
27:31I deserve the love.
27:33Look at it as a whole new opportunity.
27:35Yeah.
27:37Speaking of that, Ty...
27:39Speaking of that... Any dating life
27:41for you? Uh, you know,
27:43um, kinda, you know,
27:45me and Shannon have been talking on and off.
27:47Um... Have you asked her out
27:49yet? No.
27:51I think
27:53you should text her and be like, hey, what's
27:55your bandwagon? Let me send you some gas money
27:57and take you out to dinner.
27:59Yeah, say that. Okay.
28:01Okay. I'm gonna go. Let me text her.
28:03Oh! The texting!
28:05Physical teddy bears
28:07growing up.
28:09Because I don't have a lot
28:11of experience dating, I always think the worst.
28:13Like, oh, maybe she's not interested.
28:15Maybe she's with someone else.
28:17Maybe she's too busy.
28:19Is she texting back?
28:21Let me see.
28:23So, Kim is right.
28:25I'm not gonna find love if I don't take
28:27risk and put myself back out there.
28:29So, here's to me shooting my shot
28:31and hoping it pays off.
28:33Okay,
28:35she texted back.
28:37She said, yeah.
28:39Yeah!
28:41I love it.
28:43I love us right now, though.
28:45Like, we're all doing this just, like, cool stuff.
28:47You know what I mean? Like, we came from
28:49such, like, despair, honestly.
28:51Yeah.
28:53We've all had our struggles and heartbreaks.
28:55And it's great that we're all here to support
28:57and push each other to move on.
28:59But if I'm being honest, in the back of my
29:01mind, I really hope we just didn't push
29:03each other too far.
29:05All right, let me know if I can get ready.
29:07I gotta get ready.
29:09It's so scary
29:11anything can happen. Liz has been
29:13with Jason for 11 months, and
29:15they could be moving too fast, and that ends in
29:17disaster. Tyrae could
29:19go out and get hurt again. Hell, I could get
29:21hurt again. But I guess we'll have to
29:23see.
29:25Wow.
29:27I love you guys. I love you guys so much.
29:41Okay, so I'm a little nervous
29:43going on my date with
29:45Benjamin.
29:47I knew him
29:49before I met Usman, and
29:51we just kind of reconnected, so
29:53we have to see what's going on.
29:55But I'm really nervous. I haven't been on a date
29:57in, like, two years.
29:59So we'll see what happens.
30:03There he is!
30:05There's the man of the hour.
30:07Hey!
30:09Hey!
30:11Oh, my gosh. It's been, like, two years.
30:13Oh. Hi, honey. How are you?
30:15Good.
30:17You look good.
30:19Thank you, thank you.
30:21I remember you like
30:23margarita. Yes.
30:25So I got you one.
30:27Cheers. To reconnecting.
30:29Yes.
30:31Me and Kim, we met on social media
30:33about five and a half, six years ago.
30:35We talked briefly.
30:37She started dating.
30:39I mean, life happens.
30:41You got the same?
30:43You got more glow. Really?
30:45You're glowing a lot.
30:49You're so sweet.
30:51Yeah.
30:53Just recently, I slid into Kim's DMs
30:55because I was trying to see what
30:57she's been up to, and
30:59she hasn't been up to none lately, and so I
31:01asked her to come out on a date, and here we are.
31:03Are we gonna go?
31:05I'm gonna bowl. I'm gonna beat your ass at bowling.
31:07Let's go bowling.
31:09Let's just get our stuff, okay?
31:11I don't think B knows what he's
31:13getting himself into, bowling with me.
31:15I'm quite the competitor.
31:17I love competition. I love
31:19racing. I love bets.
31:21And, you know, I used to be quite the bowler back in the day.
31:23It's all in the wrist, and it's all
31:25in the nails. You gotta claw the ball
31:27a little bit. Bloop! Just one, two,
31:29three, bowl!
31:31That's my technique.
31:33How are you?
31:35Good. Good. We're bowling in the private
31:37dining room.
31:41How long do we want to go for?
31:43You mean bowling.
31:45Bowling. Bowling, Benjamin.
31:47When you haven't had sex in two years,
31:49every single thing seems like
31:51an innuendo. Anyway,
31:53let me go play with some balls.
31:57I shouldn't have said that.
31:59Better, better, better, better,
32:01better, better, hey, better, better,
32:03better, strike! Hey, better, better!
32:05Oh, my God!
32:09You made me laugh.
32:11You suck.
32:13It's all right. You need me to
32:15walk you up there? Why don't you
32:17help me bowl? Yeah, I was about to say, girl,
32:19you know, I could
32:21walk you up
32:23there. Okay. You know what I'm saying?
32:25So I grab the balls, right? Ball, ball.
32:27You grab the
32:29instrument. Are you gonna go with me? Yeah, I'm gonna come
32:31with you, I'm coming with you, I'm coming with you.
32:37I'm coming with you, I'm coming with you. Okay, ready?
32:39Yeah, I'm ready for you. One, two,
32:41three. Yeah. Roll that mug!
32:43Look at that, look at that,
32:45look at that, look at what we got, look at what we got.
32:49That was good, B.
32:53It's really fun to be around B again.
32:55We always did have a good time when we would go out.
32:57He used to make me laugh, he's very touchy,
32:59he's holding my hand, he's hugging me.
33:05Oh, my God!
33:07And I like that. I mean, I kind of
33:09missed that male attention
33:11for a couple years, so it's nice to have it back.
33:15Thank you for meeting my first date. Absolutely,
33:17absolutely. How do you feel? I feel good,
33:19yeah, I'm happy to see you. I'm always happy to see you.
33:21Do you think we should go out again?
33:23Absolutely, absolutely.
33:25I love being around you.
33:27I love your energy, I love
33:29the chemistry we have.
33:31It's like being a kid again.
33:33Aww, you're so sweet.
33:35Alright, so how about you come over to my house
33:37and I'll cook you a traditional Italian dinner.
33:39Can our dinner go to breakfast?
33:41We'll have to wait and see what happens.
33:43But I'm happy
33:45to see you, though. I'm happy to see you too.
33:47It's amazing
33:49to me to be 54
33:51years old and just
33:53finding, like, I'm excited for my future.
33:55I don't want to get all teary-eyed, but I'm excited for
33:57my future, and I just feel like
33:59the best I've ever felt, and I want that to
34:01continue with someone.
34:03Alright, here's my car. Here's your
34:05car. Alright.
34:07I don't know if it's going to be with B. I hope
34:09it is, because he knows me so well,
34:11you know, but we have to get to know each other
34:13too, and I need to know that, like, he
34:15appreciates me, and I deserve that.
34:17I totally deserve that.
34:19Good to see you. Good to see you too.
34:23I'll see you soon. Always.
34:25Alright, bye.
34:27When you get a little older,
34:29you get a little bolder.
34:31And you don't really
34:33care what the people gotta say to you.
34:35We're heading
34:37to the cafe right now to meet Shannon.
34:39We shall see what
34:41happens.
34:43This is a cute spot.
34:45Let's check it out.
34:49Just two? Oh yeah, just two.
34:51Shannon drove down
34:53from L.A. to hang out with me before
34:55I go back to Modesto tomorrow.
34:57She and I met in New Orleans and hung
34:59out at the Tell All, where she gave me my first
35:01kiss.
35:03I'm hoping that if today goes well,
35:05and I end up moving to San Diego, we can
35:07take things further. So yeah,
35:09there's a lot riding on today. I'm nervous as
35:11hell.
35:13There she is.
35:15Hello.
35:17Hi.
35:21How you doing?
35:23Good to see you.
35:25Oh, thanks.
35:27Welcome, my friend.
35:29Let me know when you decide on lunch, okay?
35:31Okay, thanks.
35:37It was pretty good.
35:39Yeah, it was good.
35:51Bye.
35:55Okay, this is so awkward.
35:57I'm trying to open my mouth and say something,
35:59but nothing's coming out.
36:01There's so many questions in my head.
36:03Does she like me? Does she not like
36:05me? I'm just kind of a mess.
36:07I brought you a little
36:09gift.
36:11I brought you a little gift.
36:13Oh, thank you. I appreciate it.
36:15Let me see.
36:17Let me see.
36:19Let me see.
36:21Let me see.
36:23Oh, okay.
36:25Oh, let me see.
36:27Oh, that's gorgeous, right?
36:29Hello.
36:45That's really sweet that she
36:47gave me a gift. You know, maybe she does
36:49like me. I'm just getting into a negative headspace.
36:51I just need to breathe
36:53and enjoy the moment and not get too much into my
36:55head.
36:57I don't even know
36:59about this. I'm actually so excited.
37:01I know. I'm actually thinking of moving out
37:03here.
37:05You're thinking of moving out here? Yeah.
37:07That is
37:09the right thing to do. Yeah.
37:13To be closer to me.
37:15That is perfect.
37:17How long are you going to be here?
37:19Maybe like the next
37:21four to six months.
37:23That's actually really exciting.
37:25When we come down here, when we move out here,
37:27that's a drive.
37:31I'm feeling really good about
37:33Shannon. She seems so excited about me
37:35potentially moving here. It seems like
37:37she genuinely wants to get to know me and hang
37:39out more. It's making me really happy
37:41and also helping me in making
37:43the decision to move here.
37:45This was fun though. I guess we should
37:47try to find something else.
37:51We had so much fun.
37:53We had so much to catch up on.
37:55We better get out of here. I'm going to
37:57go back. Let's do it.
37:59He also let me know that
38:01he's considering moving to San Diego
38:03and I love that. He's going to be closer
38:05to me. I'm really excited for what the
38:07future holds, you know?
38:09Thank you so much for this. I got you.
38:11Now you'll remember me forever.
38:25You have to let me know when to turn.
38:27I think we have to go right here.
38:29Woman!
38:31The light's right there.
38:33You can't tell me last second.
38:35Jason and I are
38:37on our drive to Seattle. It's about
38:3916 to 20 hours long.
38:41I
38:43don't know how I'm going to get through it
38:45but I definitely brought a lot of snacks.
38:51Riley is with
38:53her father at the moment. This is allowing
38:55Jason and I to move
38:57and get settled in before she comes up
38:59and puts together her bedroom.
39:01I have like a
39:03serious question. Now that
39:05we're officially living
39:07together, how
39:09long can I go without
39:11having to shave my legs?
39:19Two to three days.
39:21I'm not trying to feel like a tarantula
39:23or anything.
39:25It's so much work and Washington
39:27is cold.
39:29Am I allowed to pee in front of
39:31you or leave the bathroom door open?
39:33Yeah, that's fine.
39:35Am I peeing in the shower?
39:39No, absolutely not. It's disgusting.
39:41Okay.
39:45I'm so excited to create a home.
39:47I'm so excited to put it together.
39:49And I love that I get to call
39:51it home. And with Jason.
39:59We're here.
40:01We did it. We are in our
40:03first spot. You ready for this?
40:05I'm ready. Let's do it.
40:09When I think about the past year and a half,
40:11I cannot believe where I'm at today.
40:13I went from being dumped by
40:15my fiancé in Arkansas to
40:17moving back to San Diego and falling in love
40:19with Jason.
40:33That's pretty nice. It's real.
40:35Now we're starting our lives in a new
40:37city and a new state.
40:39It's a huge risk for me to leave everything
40:41behind in San Diego again.
40:43I have already dealt with the consequences
40:45of it once before.
40:47And I don't want to have to deal with that again.
40:49But I know right now in this moment
40:51it feels like the right move.
40:53Let's do it.
41:03Here we go.
41:05Hello.
41:07Hey, Kim, what's up?
41:09How are you?
41:11What are you doing?
41:13Nothing. Drinking something.
41:15Oh, I'm drinking coffee.
41:17I'm being good today.
41:21Liz, what's up?
41:23Hey, what's up, girls?
41:25How are you?
41:27I'm good. How are you guys?
41:29I'm good. Liz got the haircut.
41:31How are you guys?
41:33I'm good. Liz got the hair changed up.
41:35I love it.
41:37It's a lot blonder.
41:39I know.
41:41So what's been going on?
41:43Well, let me tell you guys about my date first.
41:45So it was really good.
41:47It was the first time I've had
41:49male attention
41:51in two years.
41:53So being with somebody like,
41:55what's his name?
41:57And then going to a date
41:59I'm not saying Usman wasn't a gentleman because he was.
42:01But it was nice.
42:03I always felt like we just had this chemistry.
42:05That's awesome. So the feelings never left.
42:07That's good.
42:09We've been texting and calling ever since then.
42:11We're supposed to go for a walk on the beach
42:13tomorrow, actually.
42:15So we'll see how that goes.
42:17I'll keep my wow factors posted.
42:19Good thing you work at a spa.
42:21You can get your...
42:23You can make yourself all
42:25beautiful and snatched up there
42:27right before.
42:29See, that's where I was getting at.
42:31I keep it tight and right.
42:35What's going on with you, Tyrae?
42:37How was your date?
42:39You know, it was chill. We talked a lot.
42:41And then she actually got me a gift.
42:43Ooh.
42:45Let me go get it real quick.
42:47What the f***?
42:49Did he sleep with her?
42:51Did he lose virginity?
42:53No.
42:55Still haven't unpacked yet.
42:57Damn.
42:59I know.
43:01I can't with you, Tyrae.
43:03We need to be his mom, Liz.
43:05I know.
43:07Oh, it has my name on it.
43:09Oh, how cute!
43:11That is very thoughtful.
43:13It says,
43:15Nothing happens by chance.
43:17And then she has the exact location
43:19where we met at in New Orleans on here.
43:21How cute and thoughtful is that?
43:23That's cute.
43:25So, give us details.
43:27Did you kiss her?
43:29Did she stay the night?
43:31Did you get any...
43:33Did you kiss her, Liz?
43:35No.
43:37Oh, Tyrae!
43:39I was just talking to her about San Diego.
43:41She was saying it's closer to Long Beach and whatnot.
43:43Like 90 minutes?
43:45Yeah, she was like, I can come down anytime.
43:47I'm like, okay, maybe.
43:49What about the move down here?
43:51Have you given any more thought?
43:53Yeah, so I'm going to do it.
43:55I decided, you know, I thought about it.
43:57Yeah, I'm definitely going to come to San Diego.
43:59I'm so happy,
44:01but I'm so sad because I'm not there anymore.
44:03I know, right?
44:05I'm really excited to move to San Diego.
44:07And once I get my feet on the ground,
44:09I'm going to hit up Shannon's and hang out again.
44:11And who knows, maybe there's a future here for us.
44:13So, what's going on with you, Liz?
44:15Yeah, what is going on?
44:17It's an adjustment being out here,
44:19but I love it because I love
44:21waking up and cooking
44:23and having dinner ready when he comes home.
44:25Riley was like,
44:27Mommy, like, you're so different.
44:29She goes, Mommy, like, you don't cry anymore.
44:31Yeah.
44:33Liz, I got so tired of seeing your damn face cry.
44:35This poor girl.
44:37Is she me?
44:39I love this little support bubble.
44:41Who would have thought that the three of us
44:43would be so cool?
44:45Big life changes and
44:47go team
44:49wow factor.
44:51Look at our wow glow.
44:53I know, it's so crazy. We do have the glow.
44:55Kim, you're almost smiling like
44:57you got it in, but...
44:59No.
45:01Okay, there she is.
45:03It was just a hype talk.
45:05I'm like, are we sure they didn't like...
45:07Not yet, not yet. It's coming.
45:09Ha ha!
45:11It's coming.
45:13I'm really excited for the next
45:15catch up. Let's make a pact.
45:17Put the pinky up. Y'all know how I am with the pinky swear.
45:19All right, guys.
45:21I love you. Tell Jason I said hi.
45:23Love you guys so much.
45:25So happy for you guys.
45:27Bye!