- 5/20/2025
90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 8 -Dear Diary, Let This Be The One
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00:00I'm so excited, I cannot wait to see my little titty, tiny baby beans.
00:16Special day, got to pull out all the stops, a little bit of champagne.
00:21Here I come.
00:22I hope you're ready for me.
00:23I would have a threesome with two girls, no penis involved, it's too much.
00:29I identify as bisexual, which means that I also find women attractive.
00:33Tonight we're on a mission to find two girls.
00:35We're going to find one girl.
00:36I'm going to do it.
00:37Are you ready?
00:38I'm going to do it.
00:39I'm out of your bubble.
00:40It's like, out of your comfort zone.
00:43You met my mom.
00:44Yes.
00:45You met my daughter, and now I'm in your town.
00:49Nati is a 33-year-old single mom from Bogota, Colombia.
00:55I want to be in a fully committed relationship with her.
00:58I just hope she feels the same way.
01:00Do we have a label of my girlfriend, or what is the label?
01:13I don't know if we're going to have your mom's green card in time for the birth.
01:18This is not good news.
01:19Neither of us have the family nearby to help with the baby.
01:23We have to move back to Thailand.
01:26Do you open for Thailand?
01:28Um...
01:48Time for some chili.
01:50Hello, my love.
01:51What are you doing?
01:52Oh, I was trying to surprise you.
01:54I was going to make you chili dog, peanut butter and jelly, and some pickles.
01:57Oh, one of my new favorites.
02:01I'm David.
02:02I'm 56 years old, currently living in Fountain Hills, Arizona, with my incredible wife, Annie.
02:07I am Annie, 31 years old, originally from Bung Kan, Thailand.
02:12How many do you want?
02:13I just want five for now.
02:15You're doing good.
02:16Do you know how to shop, Annie?
02:17Oh, I don't know how good I am at it.
02:22When I was 45 years old, I moved to Thailand.
02:26I met Annie, fell in love, and in just 10 days, we were engaged.
02:43We moved to the U.S. and got married.
02:46After seven years later, we decided to have a baby through the IVF.
02:51So I know you're really anxious about it, but I'm beyond happy to report that your pregnancy
02:58test was positive today.
03:01Congratulations.
03:03We're having a baby!
03:06Sad about, sad about, sad about.
03:11Thank you for taking care of me.
03:13Oh, my pleasure, my love.
03:15I need you nine months.
03:17I'm currently six weeks pregnant, and I feel like a sloth, you know?
03:22I can't sleep anywhere, anytime.
03:25And always hungry for veggie and fruit and noodle and salad.
03:31An occasional chili dog.
03:33Yeah.
03:34I just like something really flavorful in my mouth.
03:37Cannot eat spicy like I used to.
03:40Yes, she farts like a machine.
03:41That wasn't me.
03:42That's your baby.
03:43Oh, you blame the baby.
03:46You know what's funny is my mom talks about my dad coming back, and you know he loved chili dogs.
03:51I think David want my baby to be his dad.
03:56My mom, talking to her medium, said that my father wanted to come back as a grandchild.
04:02My dad used to love chili dogs, and so every time that Annie says she's craving a chili dog,
04:09always reminds me of my dad.
04:11It's not your dad!
04:14Dad, if that's you, kick twice.
04:22Mmm.
04:23That's good.
04:25Is it good?
04:26Because we've got to head to the butcher's now.
04:30Oh, you can take your hot dog with you if you want.
04:32No, I'm good.
04:33I eat only one bite at a time.
04:36I'm going to buy my chili dog.
04:39They'll still be here when you get back.
04:41Don't laugh at me. I'm very emotional.
04:48We're here for our second to last check-up.
04:51Today's a big day.
04:52Yes, I'm so excited.
04:54I cannot wait to see my little, teeny, tiny baby beans.
04:59Aww.
05:00And I cannot wait to go outside.
05:02When can I get my boom boom back?
05:05We have our priorities.
05:07That's also important.
05:08Heartbeat and boom boom.
05:09I never thought we'd say that in the same sentence,
05:11but let's go do this, my love.
05:13Today is very important.
05:14We have our first ultrasound at the IVF center.
05:17Are you ready to sign in?
05:19Yes.
05:21Hopefully everything's looking good, going good,
05:25baby on the good track.
05:27I'm so excited.
05:29Everything we've been planning for seven months,
05:31we're now like, oh, the doctor's here.
05:33Oh, thank you.
05:34Come on in.
05:35Good morning.
05:36Good morning.
05:37How are you guys?
05:38How are you feeling?
05:39Very good, fantastic.
05:41So today what we're going to do is we're going to look
05:43to see how the heartbeat looks.
05:45Sometimes we can hear it, sometimes not,
05:47because it's pretty small.
05:49The fetus will measure somewhere around a centimeter
05:51or something like that.
05:52Wow, so it's pretty small.
05:53Any questions or concerns before we do the ultrasound?
05:55So when can we have our boom boom back?
06:03Boom boom time is going to be on postponement, okay?
06:06You're not ready.
06:07So boom boom with each other.
06:09Maybe give it a few more weeks.
06:11Let's go ahead and start our ultrasound.
06:13Go ahead and lay back.
06:14Okay.
06:15And Angela's going to help me, and you can get a good view.
06:18How are we doing?
06:19Good, good, good, good, good.
06:21There's the baby coming in right there.
06:23Oh, my gosh, so big.
06:25Yeah.
06:26Let me see if I can get the heartbeat for you
06:28while we're here.
06:30Oh!
06:34Oh!
06:38Amazing.
06:39There's another heart inside me.
06:42Oh, my God.
06:46Oh!
06:47That little bitty life.
06:49I know.
06:50Dee, dee, dee, dee, dee.
06:52There's some souvenirs.
06:54Be able to hear the heartbeat is like, wow,
06:57it hit me for real.
06:59Like, oh, my God.
07:03I am going to be a mom in real life.
07:09Everything looks great.
07:10Good heartbeat, good fetal growth.
07:12The gestational sac looks good.
07:13The yolk sac looks good.
07:15And we'll see you again in about a week or two.
07:17Okay, thank you.
07:18Thank you so much for everything.
07:19Thank you so much.
07:20So much love.
07:22You know, after Annie became pregnant,
07:24we knew that it would be difficult
07:26to basically have the child by ourselves
07:28without any help nearby.
07:30So we've decided to put in for my mother-in-law's green card
07:33so she can come to America to assist us in raising the baby.
07:37It is very important for me to have my mom here
07:40to be around and give us some help
07:44when I have my first child.
07:46That's what we do in Thailand,
07:48grandmother raising the baby.
07:50It's so beautiful.
07:52Look at this.
07:53The little baby is growing.
07:55If you look up close, look.
07:57It's got my chin.
07:59But it has better hairline.
08:01Stop! Give my baby back.
08:04We better go.
08:11Oh, we're beautiful.
08:13I love this.
08:15Today we are going to Carefree Arizona
08:17to the English Rose Tea Room,
08:19which is an authentic tea house.
08:22It's one of our fun premium proper.
08:25Have a spot of tea and high tea today.
08:28It's my favorite place to go.
08:30The tea is so good.
08:34Would you like a lump of sugar?
08:36One lump or two, is what the old saying is.
08:38Really? Oh my God, I love this.
08:41I cannot wait for my mom to arrive
08:44so I can bring her here.
08:46I have talked to her.
08:48She said,
08:50I'm so happy that you guys decided to have a baby
08:53and we don't have family around here.
08:56I would be grateful to have my mom here.
08:59It's important, obviously, to have help.
09:01Yeah, of course.
09:03Let me go to the bathroom real quick.
09:05Okay.
09:07I love seeing Annie so happy
09:10and I don't want to ruin her mood.
09:12But I did some research last night
09:14and I don't have good news on the green card.
09:18Oh my God.
09:24I'm ready to have a good afternoon tea time.
09:32So for your mom to come,
09:34we can put in, obviously, for the green card
09:37because you're a U.S. citizen.
09:39But some sites say it could take a year, year and a half.
09:44So I don't know if we're going to have
09:46your mom's green card in time
09:48because it's not like they say by this date
09:50it'll happen by this date.
09:53This is not good news.
09:55Neither of us have the family nearby
09:57to help with the baby
09:59and I am a new mom.
10:01I don't know what I am doing.
10:03We absolutely need help
10:05and if we cannot get my mom here on time
10:08to help with the baby,
10:10we might need to look at another option.
10:14If by the time that I'm giving birth
10:17and she couldn't get her green card on time,
10:20do you open for Thailand?
10:28I mean, having the baby here,
10:29we have the comforts of home.
10:31We have the routine, the stability.
10:33Even though we have the condo there,
10:35it's not really set up for a baby.
10:36Then buy me a house.
10:39My main concern is my work.
10:42Things have gotten better and better
10:44and we're in a better position.
10:46I know.
10:47We'd love to have a baby here
10:49if my mom could be here.
10:51Because we have our house,
10:53a comfortable night house.
10:55But in the other side, in Thailand,
10:57my mom, my aunt will come down to help.
11:00But in America, you know,
11:02I don't have anybody
11:04and that's why, you know,
11:05to have a baby in Thailand,
11:07that might be a good option.
11:12We have to move back to Thailand.
11:14I just have my concerns.
11:16What will I do for work
11:18and how long we're going to be away for?
11:20I'm not ready to leave America forever yet.
11:22Maybe we will see about being there for the birth.
11:26It is very important for me to get some house,
11:28so we have to do it.
11:30You know, it is not another option.
11:33It's a decision we have to make soon.
11:35We have to.
11:36Because if we decide to have in Thailand,
11:38we have to prepare for the room,
11:40for the stuff, you know, for everything.
11:58Come on, baby.
12:02You're a good boy.
12:05You're a good boy.
12:07My name's Sophie.
12:08I'm 25 years old from London
12:09and I now live in Austin, Texas.
12:12Yay, you want to go out?
12:14This is my son.
12:16He's my new puppy.
12:17His name's Timothy.
12:19He's like Timothy with an H,
12:20but I call him Himmy.
12:21For some reason, it's like I turned 25
12:24and then it's like I really wanted to be a mom
12:26out of nowhere.
12:28And so I'm like,
12:29okay, I'm not going to have a baby right now.
12:31Who am I going to have a baby with?
12:32And so I was like, let me start with a dog.
12:34So yeah, he definitely makes me feel like a mom.
12:38Why is the bag wet, Mimi?
12:40Did you pee in the bag?
12:41It got Himmy when my relationship with Rob
12:43officially ended.
12:45I was about 20 years old
12:46when I had seen Rob on like
12:48one of those social media model pages.
12:50And I decided to follow him
12:52and that's when he decided to then slide in my DMs.
12:55I flew to America to see him.
12:57After like a week, he asked me to be his girlfriend.
13:02I love you, baby.
13:04After two years of us dating,
13:05I then came to America on the K1 visa to get married.
13:09It's my very pleasure and delight
13:11to now pronounce you husband and wife.
13:22And yeah, then I found out that
13:24he was online cheating throughout the whole relationship.
13:27I'm not perfect,
13:28but I'm definitely not trying to
13:30with nobody else but you.
13:32I saw the messages,
13:33even the ones that you didn't say.
13:34So I don't care what you keep saying.
13:36It's a liar.
13:38But he ended up convincing me to try therapy
13:41and see if we could make it work.
13:42But I feel like Rob
13:44didn't listen to the advice of the therapist
13:46and apply it to our relationship.
13:48So ultimately I decided to end it for good.
13:53I don't know what I'm doing.
13:56We're just not good together.
14:01I promise you I've really tried.
14:03And I'm just not happy.
14:06Neither am I.
14:08And I know that.
14:10And I want us both to be happy.
14:14Yeah.
14:16After things ended between me and Rob,
14:18Rob moved back to LA pretty quickly
14:20to live with three roommates in his basement.
14:24But I decided to stay in Austin.
14:26And I recently moved into my place
14:28and just signed a lease in my cute apartment.
14:32Kimmy is ready to go!
14:35In his little bag.
14:37So cute!
14:44Just pulling up to the cafe now
14:46to meet one of my best friends, Kay.
14:48I have a really good friend group in Austin.
14:50A lot of people that have been there for me
14:52since the breakup,
14:53which has been really helpful.
14:55Kay's been one of them
14:56who's kind of got me through
14:57and you can go see Kay.
15:00Go see your friends.
15:03Oh my goodness.
15:04How have you been?
15:06I've been good.
15:07How have you been?
15:08Good.
15:09I'm just in the process of moving soon.
15:11Yeah.
15:12I miss having this little nugget around
15:13coming home to you.
15:14Thanks for bringing a stroller.
15:16Yeah, you're welcome, girl.
15:18Do you want to get some food?
15:20Yes.
15:21I'm actually a little hungry.
15:22Same.
15:24I'm really grateful for my friend, Kay.
15:26She let me stay with her
15:27after I moved out of Rob's house
15:29and let me stay there as long as I needed
15:30while I kind of figured things out for myself.
15:33Cheers to us for making it look easy to be roommates
15:37because a lot of people do not survive friendships
15:39when they live with their friends.
15:41Cheers.
15:44So now that you're single,
15:45how's your new love life going?
15:47Have you dated anyone or tried talking to anyone?
15:51For the most part,
15:52I've just been reflecting and healing for me
15:54because I can't jump out of a marriage to a relationship
15:57because I'm just going to bring in the same problem
15:59into the new one and have the same issues.
16:01No, that's the way to do it.
16:02Yeah, I think now I'm at a point
16:03where I do think I'm in a headspace where I can date.
16:07You know, I think my new relationship is like
16:08I don't want to be ghastly.
16:09I don't want to be lied to.
16:10I just want to be treated kindly and sweet and romantic.
16:14I don't know.
16:15That's why I'm still open to like,
16:17okay, maybe I should try dating again.
16:21I identify as bisexual,
16:23which just means that I also find women attractive.
16:26I've just never had a relationship with a woman.
16:29It's always just been like, you know,
16:31like having fun or like a hook-up.
16:33I mean, I'd definitely be interested to at least try it,
16:35especially after having such a bad experience with men.
16:39I just feel like, too, in general,
16:41like, oh, I want a guy to just, you know,
16:43be nice to me and buy me some flowers
16:45and take me on a date, you know?
16:46And it's like, this is like the bare minimum stuff.
16:49That's what women want.
16:50So I'm like, if I date a woman that wants that,
16:53it's like, maybe I don't have to beg for it, you know?
16:56And I think until I try it, I won't.
17:00What cracks me up is we're over here talking about,
17:02you know, you and your bisexuality
17:04and you like women,
17:05but all I'm seeing is you eat this wiener.
17:09I still like them.
17:12There's another thing, too.
17:13Like, will I miss that?
17:15That's why you really have to explore.
17:17Women make women f*** more than men.
17:20It's a study.
17:21Oh, really?
17:22It's a fact.
17:23There's such a small percentage of men
17:25that can make women actually f***.
17:27Well, damn.
17:29Well, f***.
17:30Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
17:31Maybe you'll get better experiences than me.
17:33It might be better.
17:34This is, like, your new era of Sophie.
17:37It's your time to go out there and explore
17:39and figure out what you like.
17:40Go flirt, go mingle, get some numbers, you know,
17:43go on some dates.
17:44You've gone through so much,
17:45You've gone through so much,
17:46it's time for you to shine.
17:59So, I'm going out tonight
18:01with my best friends,
18:02Aaliyah, Tiffany, Savannah, and Jasmine.
18:06Bye.
18:08I have a great group of friends in Austin
18:10that have really helped me through the breakup
18:12and I'm hoping that they can help me
18:13meet someone tonight.
18:14What's up?
18:16While I'm not squaring off men,
18:17I am also kind of looking forward
18:19to exploring my sexuality a bit, too.
18:23Hey, guys.
18:24Cheers, y'all.
18:25Cheers.
18:27Yeah, it's my first night out since,
18:29you know, I've been single, so.
18:31How does it feel?
18:32It feels nice.
18:33I'm ready to, like, meet new people
18:35and just, like, vibe.
18:36I'm going to try, like, dating women.
18:38Okay.
18:39So, what's your type?
18:40I would say very feminine girls.
18:42I don't want, like, too masculine.
18:44Okay.
18:45Yeah, just dress cute.
18:46Like, I like, like, curvy, kind of.
18:50Okay.
18:51Imagine, like...
18:52She's dressed in the waters.
18:53Yeah.
18:54Okay.
18:55You're single.
18:56You're ready to mingle.
18:57Yes.
18:58You want to have fun.
18:59I'm open to anyone that is healthy for me
19:01and makes me happy.
19:02So, I think...
19:03But what about something, like, kinky?
19:05Just saying.
19:06Or something like that.
19:07Sorry, Mom.
19:08Like, a threesome, maybe?
19:10Ooh!
19:11Ooh!
19:12We're going there.
19:13I guess we are.
19:15I would have a threesome with two girls.
19:18Okay.
19:19Okay, yeah.
19:20Okay.
19:21No penis involved.
19:22That's too much.
19:23I think you should try that.
19:24Yeah, I would say...
19:25Well, tonight we're on a mission to find...
19:27We're going to find it.
19:28I'm trying to do it.
19:29I'm trying.
19:30Get out of your bubble
19:31and, like, get, like, out of your comfort zone.
19:35I guess it'd be in a place where, you know,
19:37like, I have my dog, my apartment,
19:39and my life's going well.
19:41Let's make some moves.
19:42And I'm definitely in a place
19:43where I'm ready to meet someone new.
19:45It's also exciting to get out there
19:47and talk to women
19:48and explore my byside
19:49and kind of just figure out that part of me.
19:55Even if I don't find the right person
19:57tonight or tomorrow,
19:58it doesn't matter.
19:59It's about just finding someone
20:01that is what I want.
20:03I'm not going to settle
20:04till I find the one who I actually deserve,
20:06and I'm just going to keep enjoying my life.
20:37So, I think I have met
20:39the most perfect person for me.
20:41A little shorter than I thought.
20:44But definitely, definitely my heart.
20:49The most beautiful woman in the world.
20:53My granddaughter.
20:55How are you?
20:56Good.
20:57I'm Brian.
20:58I'm 52 years old,
20:59and I'm from Harvard, Illinois.
21:01You want to race?
21:02Yeah.
21:03Wait a minute.
21:04You want to race?
21:05Yeah.
21:06Wait a minute.
21:07I got to take this off.
21:08Okay.
21:09That's good.
21:10One,
21:11one,
21:12two,
21:13three.
21:16I'm serious.
21:18I'm going to win.
21:22You guys got me tearing up already.
21:25How are you?
21:26Hey.
21:27Ah, it's always nice to see you guys.
21:29How are you?
21:30Good, good.
21:31How are you guys?
21:32Good.
21:33My 90-day journey started when I met
21:35a beautiful Brazilian woman named Ingrid
21:37on a dating app.
21:46After two years of talking to Ingrid online,
21:48I was head over heels.
21:49I was crazy for her.
21:50So I booked my ticket to Brazil
21:52because I felt in my heart of hearts
21:55that she was the one.
21:57What?
22:03So that first meeting was teary and emotional,
22:07but things got really weird
22:09and really bad fast.
22:12You're not being real with me.
22:29Coming back from Brazil,
22:30I felt defeated.
22:31I felt deflated.
22:32My confidence was shaken,
22:34and I wasn't sure if I'd ever find love.
22:36But things have started to look up,
22:38and I want to share some exciting news
22:39with my family.
22:41Emily, if you want to go play
22:42and relax a little bit.
22:43Yeah, you don't got to ask me twice, huh?
22:45Wow.
22:46Or you can sit here and talk with us.
22:48Oh, my goodness.
22:50How you been?
22:51Good.
22:52What's going on?
22:53Everything.
22:54Oh, my God.
22:55I'm crazy.
22:56You guys remember Nati that I brought
22:59to Graham's birthday party?
23:02So she was here for two, three months,
23:04and we spent a lot of time together,
23:07almost every day.
23:09I met Nati a couple of months
23:11after coming back from Brazil
23:13on a dating site.
23:15Nati is a 33-year-old single mom
23:19from Bogota, Colombia.
23:21Super beautiful.
23:22After talking for a couple of months,
23:24she lets me know that she's spending
23:26three months in Chicago
23:28at her sister's house.
23:29I wasn't sure if I was ready
23:30to open up to somebody again,
23:33but after spending time with Nati
23:36day in and day out for three months,
23:39it gave me hope again
23:40that there's somebody that cares for me.
23:44So we've been talking for the four months
23:46that she's been home,
23:48and I'm going to Colombia next week.
23:56I feel like we were just
23:58having this conversation about Ingrid.
24:01I'm just a hopeless romantic,
24:02and I just have those dreams
24:04of finding that romance.
24:07The only thing is,
24:09don't get married.
24:12How about a gay?
24:13No, none of that.
24:15How many times has it been
24:16that you've proposed to somebody
24:17or gone through?
24:18I've been engaged seven times.
24:21Oh, jeez.
24:22But married four.
24:24Let's not do that anymore.
24:26Slow it down.
24:27Don't carry a ring in your back pocket.
24:29No, definitely not.
24:32Well, I actually don't have
24:34a return ticket.
24:35I got a one-way ticket
24:36to Bogota, Colombia,
24:38and no return.
24:45I think he approaches everything
24:47too quickly
24:48because he wants a relationship,
24:50and his emotions get away with him.
24:54So he goes too fast.
24:59You want a new grandma?
25:01I already have a lot of grandmas.
25:05So that's a no?
25:08I think we're all on the same page.
25:17Okay, so,
25:19cannot forget my medical supplies.
25:22When Nati was here
25:23during those three months,
25:25even though we spent
25:26almost every day together,
25:28we never put a label
25:29on our relationship.
25:31And that's fine with me,
25:32but when she left,
25:34that just left me wondering,
25:36you know,
25:37can we be something more?
25:38Can we be
25:39that what I'm looking for?
25:52I bought a one-way ticket
25:53to Colombia
25:54because if things go well
25:55with Nati,
25:56I'd like to stay
25:57as long as I can.
25:58We are all set.
26:00And I'm going to ask Nati
26:01to be my girlfriend,
26:02but I'm worried about Nati
26:04not being ready
26:05for a relationship
26:06with a guy in a wheelchair
26:08or even a guy
26:09that lives in another country.
26:10So I don't know
26:11what's going to happen.
26:13Either I'm going to get
26:14heartbroken on this trip,
26:16or I'm going to end up
26:17with a girlfriend.
26:18We'll see.
26:19Nati,
26:20Nati,
26:21here I come.
26:22I hope you're ready for me.
26:36Super excited.
26:37I'm here finally.
26:40Wish me luck.
26:41Here we go.
26:51Um...
26:54I think I found her.
26:56I think I found her.
27:00Joanne, it's my dad.
27:01How are you?
27:03I want to stay here.
27:06To finally hold Nati
27:07in my arms
27:08and feel her close to me
27:09feels incredible.
27:10It's just amazing.
27:11How do you feel
27:12right now
27:13to see me again?
27:15Yeah.
27:16Six months?
27:17Nervous.
27:18Crazy.
27:19Crazy.
27:21Let's go.
27:22Let's go.
27:23To the hotel?
27:24Yes.
27:25Yeah?
27:26I'm very excited
27:27to spend time with Nati
27:28because I want to be
27:29in a fully committed
27:30relationship with her.
27:31I'm excited to tell her
27:32I just hope she feels
27:33the same way.
27:36I, I,
27:37I want to
27:38show in my city
27:40what do you
27:41wanna,
27:42what do you do?
27:43Anything.
27:44Anything.
27:45Okay.
27:46You know me.
27:47We spent time in Chicago.
27:48We did many things.
27:49You met my mom.
27:50Yes.
27:51You met my daughter.
27:52And now,
27:54I'm in your town.
27:56And it's my turn
27:57to know you.
27:58Yes.
27:59Like you know me.
28:01You know?
28:02Meeting with my family.
28:04I, I'm not sure if
28:06it's available.
28:11I heard this story before
28:13in another country.
28:14They were too busy
28:15to meet me.
28:16Never wanted to come out.
28:17And I started to feel like
28:18maybe they don't like me.
28:21It feels a little convenient
28:22that her family's
28:23not available to me.
28:25I don't like it.
28:26I feel like she's hiding me.
28:27She's embarrassed of me.
28:28It makes me feel like
28:29s***.
28:30It makes me feel like
28:31she's not into me as much
28:32since I'm into her.
28:48I just got to my dad's house.
28:50And I'm gonna be helping him
28:51with some chores.
28:54He just moved his business
28:55to a different location.
28:57So,
28:58gonna help my old man.
29:00And we're also gonna do
29:01some wedding planning.
29:03I'm Luke.
29:04I'm from Los Angeles.
29:05And I am engaged
29:06to my wonderful fiancé,
29:07Madeleine,
29:08from Colombia.
29:09Two years ago,
29:10I went to Colombia
29:11on a boys trip.
29:12And I met Madeleine
29:13on the first night.
29:15I thought she was stunning.
29:16Gorgeous.
29:17I couldn't keep my eyes off her.
29:19After six months of dating,
29:21I decided to propose.
29:23She said yes.
29:24And we've been doing
29:25long distance ever since.
29:26I've been traveling
29:27back and forth
29:28with the hopes of someday
29:29moving to Colombia permanently.
29:32But then last year,
29:33I was let go from my job
29:35and lost hundreds of thousands
29:37of dollars on tough investments.
29:39Eventually,
29:40I confessed my financial
29:42situation to her.
29:44I'm going all in.
29:45I'm going all in
29:46on these businesses.
29:47I'm trying every single day,
29:49but I don't have
29:50any money coming in.
29:52I don't know if this time
29:53is the trip
29:54that I fully move here.
29:59We worked through it,
30:00and I decided to come back
30:01to the U.S.
30:02to make some money
30:03for our wedding
30:04and for our future
30:05so I could move to Colombia.
30:07But it's taken a lot longer
30:08than I expected.
30:10He hates when I do that.
30:21Hey, Dad.
30:22How's it going?
30:23Yeah, not bad.
30:24Is that you ringing the bell?
30:25Yeah.
30:26Hey, I might be getting
30:27up there in years,
30:28but I'm not deaf yet.
30:29How's it going, Dad?
30:30Welcome to Dad's house.
30:31Hi.
30:32Welcome.
30:33Come in.
30:34Come on in.
30:35I love my dad.
30:36He's like a best friend.
30:37We talk every single day.
30:38He's a successful entrepreneur.
30:40He's funny.
30:41We get along really well,
30:42and he's just the best.
30:46All right.
30:47You ready for some
30:48wedding planning?
30:50Yeah, boy.
30:51Yeah, for sure.
30:52I'm just trying to wrap
30:53my head around
30:54how much each of these
30:55items cost, right?
30:57So venue, flower, food, tux.
31:01Madeline wants three dresses.
31:03Why does she need
31:04three wedding dresses?
31:05I'm only taking one suit.
31:09Content, a drone guy.
31:11I mean, we need
31:12a photographer as well.
31:15Just a photographer
31:16can cost you six grand
31:17if he's a decent one.
31:19No ****.
31:20Oh, yeah.
31:21That's without the doughs
31:22and the food he's going to eat.
31:27I don't know if my budget
31:29will allow for all of these
31:30high-ticket items,
31:32but I'm going to try
31:33all of these high-ticket items.
31:35The DJ might be an iPhone
31:38hooked up to an aux cord.
31:39Let's do a karaoke.
31:40We can all sing.
31:44Are you paying for it all?
31:46Yep.
31:49Here in America,
31:50it's customary for
31:51the bride's parents
31:54to pay for the wedding.
31:56Yeah, well,
31:57it's kind of my sole role
31:59in the wedding planning
32:00right now is just
32:01to pay for it.
32:02But is it money you have?
32:04Or have you got to
32:05borrow more money
32:06or take out another loan
32:07to be able to fulfill that?
32:11I don't want you getting into debt.
32:13Yeah.
32:14I hear you.
32:15Because, you know,
32:16I've got good money management.
32:20You're not so good.
32:22You like to spend
32:23what you haven't got.
32:24I am.
32:26I feel for my son, Luke.
32:28I'm worried for his
32:30financial future.
32:32I think he's battering off
32:33more than he can chew right now.
32:35I understand why he's doing it.
32:37It's to please Madeleine.
32:39But it is a worry for me.
32:42But I don't want you to
32:44go bankrupt
32:45trying to please her
32:47and
32:49create a wedding
32:50that you're not really
32:51ready for right now.
32:54I get what my dad's saying,
32:56but he doesn't understand
32:57Madeleine's expectations.
32:59It's only two weeks away
33:00from our two-year anniversary
33:02and she expects
33:03to be married by now.
33:04I don't even have enough money
33:06to move to Colombia
33:07and that needs to happen first.
33:09I told Madeleine
33:10that I would at least be there
33:11for our two-year anniversary,
33:13but now I'm thinking
33:14that traveling might not be
33:15the best financial decision.
33:17So,
33:19I don't know.
33:23Yeah, I just want to let you know
33:24I'm here for you
33:26any way you need me
33:27except for my wallet.
33:30If it's love you want
33:33Give me all you got
33:35Give me all you got
33:40So today's my two-year
33:41anniversary with Madeleine
33:43and
33:45I was supposed to be there
33:46with her today,
33:48but I wasn't
33:50because of money
33:51and
33:53money
33:54and more money.
33:55I scheduled a phone call with her
33:57so we could celebrate
33:58so we could celebrate
34:01together.
34:02Got a bad haircut
34:03and I'm trying to
34:05grow it out
34:06and
34:07try and make it not lift as a
34:14All right.
34:15So,
34:16special day.
34:18Got to pull out all the stops.
34:20Got a bunch of
34:21decorations,
34:23new backdrop,
34:24a little bit of champagne.
34:26Got to try and keep it romantic.
34:29I'm going to get her on the phone
34:30and we can have our video chat.
34:37Happy anniversary, baby.
34:38Hi, my love.
34:40Happy anniversary.
34:46I love you so much.
34:48Do you like the decoration?
34:50I love the decoration.
34:51It's so amazing.
34:53I'm excited that we get to
34:55celebrate today.
34:56So,
34:57let's cheers to that, huh?
35:02Cheers, baby.
35:16All the time with you
35:17has been amazing.
35:19I just hope
35:20and wish
35:22are you here
35:23and I cannot
35:24touch you,
35:25kiss you.
35:26I know, baby.
35:27I wish I could be there too.
35:29I'm so sorry I wasn't there.
35:31Where do you think
35:32you're going to move here?
35:36More soon.
35:37Very soon, hopefully.
35:40Do you think
35:41soon is a correct
35:42response?
35:45You've been telling me
35:46soon for two years.
35:50I mean,
35:51it really comes down to money,
35:52but
35:55sooner is better than later.
35:56But as soon as possible
35:57would be fantastic.
36:00I don't think you respond
36:01is sufficient.
36:02Like, we are adults.
36:04We have a schedule.
36:07How more long do you think
36:08I'm going to do waiting here?
36:12I mean, sure.
36:13I would love
36:14to just
36:16f*** off to Colombia
36:17and be with you
36:18and hopefully it works out.
36:20But how are we
36:21going to sustain
36:22the lifestyle
36:23that we both like?
36:25I need to be sure
36:26that I have
36:28sufficient money coming in
36:30or it's going to be
36:31bad news bears.
36:33This is the last chance
36:34do you have
36:36to make this through.
36:38Do you come here
36:39to live with me
36:40like you promised?
36:41Because
36:43if you don't move
36:44this year,
36:45this is over.
36:48I can't do this
36:49I can't do
36:50live with this anymore.
36:56I'll try and make it work.
36:59I understand
37:00her frustration.
37:02And honestly,
37:03I'm frustrated too.
37:04All I can do
37:05is the best that I can
37:06make as much money
37:07save as much money
37:09so I can move to Colombia
37:11as fast as possible.
37:13You know
37:14I love more
37:15than anything but
37:19love is not sufficient.
37:22And you know that.
37:38Good morning.
37:39No.
37:41At least a good morning.
37:43Look at this woman
37:44so shy.
37:46Don't talk to nobody
37:47in the morning.
37:48I'm Brian.
37:49I'm 52 years old
37:50and I'm from
37:51Harbor, Illinois.
37:53I arrived yesterday
37:54in Colombia
37:55to meet Nati
37:56somebody I had met
37:57on a dating app.
37:58So I flew to Colombia
37:59to see if we could make
38:00our relationship official.
38:02You're going to help me
38:03pick my clothes.
38:04Okay.
38:05But
38:06for me,
38:07we didn't get off
38:08to a great start
38:09because she said
38:10I wouldn't be
38:11meeting her family.
38:12But we had a great
38:13night last night
38:14so I'm still hopeful.
38:15Well...
38:18Take your time.
38:19Enjoy your coffee.
38:20Please.
38:35It's not a great feeling
38:36when Nati has to
38:37help me out.
38:38I mean, it sucks.
38:39When we were in Chicago
38:40because she was
38:41staying with her sister
38:42I mean, I didn't have
38:43to rely on her at all.
38:46Where?
38:47Over there?
38:48I don't know.
38:49Okay.
38:50Okay.
38:53But this is my reality
38:54and
38:55I hope that she
38:56doesn't see her help
38:57being as a burden
38:58or a chore.
39:07You gotta be careful
39:08not to
39:09depend on somebody
39:10too much.
39:11I really like Nati
39:12and I hope this
39:13doesn't scare her off.
39:15Yeah?
39:16I think so.
39:17Uh-huh.
39:34Things are really
39:35going great right now.
39:36It feels like I'm
39:37in a relationship finally.
39:41In the end
39:42I am a hopeless romantic.
39:45Okay.
39:46Cheers.
39:49I'd like to ask her
39:50if we can talk
39:51more serious
39:52and put a label on this.
39:53But
39:54I don't know if she's
39:55ready for that.
39:56So I'm nervous.
39:57I'm nervous about
39:58if she has the same
39:59desire and commitment
40:00as I do.
40:03I had a good time.
40:04Nice time.
40:08For me
40:09it's not simple, right?
40:10Because the situation
40:11wheelchair and everything
40:12but
40:13I really look for
40:14somebody
40:16to grow old with
40:18to spend my life
40:19to share my life.
40:42But you're looking
40:43for a serious relationship
40:44for somebody to be with.
40:46Yes.
40:47But
40:48step by step.
40:49Not tomorrow.
40:50Okay.
40:51Yes.
41:13Your girlfriend.
41:14Okay.
41:15But
41:16I don't
41:18want to
41:19only label
41:20if
41:21only words
41:22but
41:23no real
41:24menu.
41:25Yeah.
41:26What's the deal?
41:28It's our deal.
41:29Okay.
41:30Yeah, for sure.
41:33It's a great feeling
41:34to feel wanted
41:35to feel loved
41:36to feel cared about
41:37and finally
41:38I can start thinking
41:39of a future with her
41:40and more days
41:41and more vacation
41:42more time.
41:43For me
41:44I like to
41:45stay some months
41:46six months
41:47five months
41:48one country
41:49and then another time
41:50go to USA.
41:51Yes, but
41:52in my case
41:53I
41:54can't
41:56stay
41:57in the United States
41:58six months.
41:59You?
42:00Only?
42:01Only Mary.
42:02Oh, Mary, yes.
42:03Yes, yes.
42:04Oh my goodness.
42:05Okay.
42:06But
42:07but
42:08it's an option
42:09you know, options.
42:10Options.
42:11I'm going back home
42:12with a girlfriend
42:13not a fiancé, mom.
42:14I'm ready to see
42:15where this goes.
42:16I mean, this is just amazing.
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