- 5/20/2025
90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 4 -Dear Diary, Things Are Changing
#CinemaJourney
#CinemaJourney
Category
🎥
Short filmTranscript
00:00Let me grab this camera.
00:13Almost fail.
00:14Okay.
00:15Let's go.
00:16Let's go.
00:17You ready for bang bang time?
00:18Daddy's always ready.
00:19It's just a little scratch.
00:20It's all better.
00:21It's too tight.
00:22This has to go.
00:24Elizabeth Sondrayaske.
00:25Happy birthday my love.
00:26Are we ready to celebrate your next birthday in Moldova?
00:27Oh my gosh, you're scaring me.
00:28Andrei has been trying to convince me that we should move our entire family to Moldova.
00:29Moldova.
00:30Oh my gosh.
00:31Moldova.
00:32Moldova.
00:33Well, I think that my daughter is ready for it.
00:34I think she's ready.
00:35And if you're ready, let's go.
00:36Let's go.
00:37Let's go.
00:38Let's go.
00:39Let's go.
00:40Let's go.
00:41Let's go.
00:42Let's go.
00:43Let's go.
00:44Let's go.
00:45Let's go.
00:46Let's go.
00:47Let's go.
00:48Let's go.
00:49Let's go.
00:50Let's go.
00:51Well, I think that my water broke.
00:55How are you feeling?
00:57If it's really my water broke.
00:59Oh, it is, baby.
01:00How are you?
01:01The baby's head got stuck.
01:03It's not going any further.
01:06So now they're planning a C-section.
01:08God help us.
01:10Zied has been acting so strange lately.
01:14OK.
01:15Check his location.
01:17Oh my god, he's with a woman.
01:19I'm going to throw up.
01:20This is not happening.
01:22Why would he do this?
01:39Zied's home.
01:40Hey.
01:41Hey, babe.
01:43I'm back here.
01:45How was your day?
01:46Hi.
01:47I'm just tired.
01:50I'm sorry, baby.
01:50How are you?
01:51I'm good.
01:52I ordered pizza.
01:53Oh, cool.
01:54I'm Rebecca.
01:55I'm 53 years old, and I live in Smyrna, Georgia.
01:59I'm Zied.
01:59I'm 31 years old, and I'm from Tunisia.
02:04You want to sit down?
02:06About to?
02:07I want to go take a shower.
02:09I know, baby, but I missed you.
02:10What happened to your finger?
02:12It's just a little scratch.
02:14That is not a little scratch.
02:17Oh, thank you.
02:19It's all better.
02:20I feel better now.
02:23So me and Zied, we met on social media.
02:26We have a 22-year age gap, and I don't know.
02:30I kind of thought it might be a problem,
02:31but it never bothered me.
02:33Me too.
02:35Never mind for me.
02:39Good morning, sexy.
02:41I want to kiss you now.
02:45After talking for nine months, I flew to Tunisia.
02:48We met and fell in love.
02:51A year later, Zied moved to the US on a K-1 visa,
02:54and we got married.
02:56Let me kiss you, Raj.
03:01We just celebrated four years of wedded bliss.
03:04We're happy.
03:05Yeah.
03:06Say it.
03:07I am so happy.
03:08I'm happy.
03:11So you want to take a shower, and I'll get the pizza ready?
03:14Yes, please.
03:15But about six months ago, we decided
03:19to look into whether or not we wanted to have children.
03:22I'm not able to carry them because
03:23of my partial hysterectomy.
03:25I'm sad, actually, because we don't have a kid.
03:30But Rebecca is enough for me, so we're happy.
03:36Here's your pizza.
03:37Thank you, babe.
03:38I made it.
03:39Ah.
03:42So do you have any plans for this weekend?
03:44You have anything you're going to do?
03:45I'm going to go to the bar.
03:48So who are you meeting tomorrow night?
03:53Oh, I'm going to meet one of my friends who work with me.
04:02You want to go, babe?
04:03Yeah.
04:04Get ready for bed.
04:06OK.
04:15So Zied has been acting so strange lately.
04:21I'm not sure what's going on.
04:25But like every single night, he's like,
04:28do you want to go to bed?
04:29And it's not even late.
04:31Like what, is he an old man or something?
04:34So watch what will happen.
04:36He's outside right now doing God knows what.
04:39And then he'll get in the bed, play on his phone,
04:43don't know what he's doing on his phone.
04:44He's got a privacy screen on his phone,
04:47and then get back up and disappear
04:49for another 30 minutes.
04:52And if I'm lucky, he only does it once.
04:54Most nights, he does this two or three times.
04:59And that's what I know while I'm awake.
05:04And now he's going to a bar.
05:06He never does that.
05:08I don't know.
05:10Something's not right.
05:34He's already gotten up and gone outside.
06:04I wonder if I can catch him.
06:06I can actually see what he's doing.
06:14I don't want to be paranoid, but my ex-husband from Morocco
06:17cheated on me.
06:19And now everything that's happening with Zied
06:21is starting to feel like deja vu.
06:28So he's sitting out under the canopy, and he's on his phone.
06:33I'm scared he's going to see me.
06:36I know Zied said that it doesn't matter that we can't have kids
06:40together, but it's still a huge insecurity for me.
06:44And I can't help but worry, is he
06:46talking to a younger woman that maybe can give him children?
06:50Is that something that he's decided he wants?
06:53When he goes out tomorrow night, I'm going to follow him.
06:56I need to know what is going on right now.
07:00I'm going to find out tomorrow night.
07:13So Zied just left.
07:14He is going to meet his friend at a bar.
07:19So this is what you're wearing to meet your friend?
07:22Yeah, I'm wearing it.
07:24You look really, really nice.
07:28It's a guy, right?
07:32I'm just saying.
07:37He 100% looks like he's dressed up for a date,
07:39and I feel sick.
07:41So one thing that people may not know about me
07:44is that I was a private investigator for four years.
07:48I'm going to go put the tracker on.
07:49All right.
07:53Look, there he is.
07:55I know he's cheating.
07:56We are busting him.
07:58During my time as a PI, I learned that the clear signs
08:03that someone is cheating is they will start caring
08:06about their appearance.
08:07They'll start running errands frequently,
08:09and they'll use that time to call the person
08:12they're having an affair with.
08:14Zied has started doing all of this.
08:16Like, he checks all the boxes.
08:20Hey, come on in.
08:21How are you?
08:22I'm OK.
08:23I'm OK.
08:25I have not checked his location yet.
08:28He didn't tell me where he was going.
08:29When did he leave?
08:30Like, 8 o'clock.
08:31He definitely looks like he's dressed for a date.
08:34It's ridiculous, but I'm going to watch my phone,
08:37see where he's going.
08:39Fingers crossed that it is just going
08:41to be ridiculously overthought, and everything's fine.
08:46When I first met Zied, he seemed genuine.
08:48He seemed completely in love with Rebecca.
08:52And I'm not saying that he isn't now.
08:54It's just there are certain things
08:56that he's doing is suspicious.
09:00Check his location when we get in the car,
09:03and we'll see how far it is.
09:05Him leaving tonight, looking the way that Rebecca said he looked,
09:09I think it's important that we go out and see where he is.
09:12So that's why I'm here, and we're
09:14going to figure out the truth.
09:16OK.
09:17Check his location.
09:20He's in Canton.
09:21He's going to a bar.
09:25OK.
09:26Let's go.
09:29Are you OK?
09:33Are you effing kidding me right now?
09:36What?
09:37That is the place I caught my ex from Morocco.
09:40Cheating.
09:42I just got chills.
09:45He had better be with a f***ing man.
09:52Here we are.
09:55Can I turn these off?
09:56Yeah.
09:58The Jeep is over there.
09:59My Jeep is right there.
10:06Do you want me to go and walk?
10:08Yeah.
10:09Yeah?
10:11OK.
10:12Well, if you see him, I don't give a f*** if he sees you.
10:15Because he's not going to be sitting in a freaking car
10:17with one of his workmates.
10:18Because he's not going to be sitting in a freaking car
10:20with one of his work friends.
10:22OK.
10:23I'm going to take this one.
10:39Oh, my God.
10:44Oh, my God.
10:45He's with a woman.
10:47I'm going to throw up.
10:50Why would he f***ing do this?
10:52What the f***?
10:57Laura, come on.
10:59This is no f***ing happening.
11:01Same f***ing place.
11:16Today is Mama's birthday, right, Winston?
11:20We have to be quiet.
11:21She's still sleeping.
11:23What does it say here?
11:25It says happy birthday.
11:26What do you say in Romanian?
11:27How do you say happy birthday in Romanian?
11:33Surprise.
11:34Surprise.
11:35Yeah, we're going to do a surprise for her.
11:40I'm Elizabeth, I'm 34 years old, and I live in Tampa, Florida.
11:43You have a glazed one?
11:45About that one, it's for Mama.
11:47I'm Andrei.
11:48I'm 38 years old.
11:50I'm from Tampa, Florida.
11:51Originally, I'm from Kishinev, Moldova.
11:54Hold on a second.
11:55Hold on a second.
11:56Let me grab this camera.
11:58Almost fell.
11:59OK.
12:00I'm grabbing it.
12:02I met Andrei on a dating app.
12:07I was planning a trip to Dublin, Ireland,
12:09where Andrei was living at the time.
12:11We both swiped right on each other.
12:13We planned to just spend a couple days together,
12:15but it ended up being my entire trip,
12:18and he ended up traveling through Europe with me
12:21as my tour guide.
12:23Correction.
12:24Ended up being your whole life.
12:28After half a year of dating,
12:29I decided that I need to put a ring on this finger over here,
12:34and so I did.
12:37We applied for the K1 visa,
12:38and then Andrei came to America,
12:40and we had our wedding here in Florida.
12:49Now we have two children.
12:50Ellie is five and a half,
12:51and Winston is almost two years old.
12:54Let's go.
12:55Let's go.
12:56Shhh.
12:57Winston.
12:58Come on.
12:59Whoa.
13:06Mama, look what we've got for you.
13:10My babies.
13:16Thank you, baby.
13:17What is it?
13:18Are we ready to celebrate your next birthday in Moldova?
13:21Oh, my gosh.
13:22You're scaring me.
13:23We need to switch positions.
13:25You need to learn how to be in a different country.
13:29For the past six months,
13:30Andrei has been trying to convince me
13:32that we should move our entire family to Moldova.
13:36Six months ago,
13:37when I took a trip to Moldova,
13:39I just realized I had such great memories,
13:42and that's actually the first time when I was thinking
13:45about my grandparents being involved more
13:48in my children's life.
13:50Come on.
13:51Teach Ellie some Romanian phrases.
13:54You know what I mean.
13:55You know how to do it.
13:56Come on.
13:57A couple of phrases.
13:58Ellie.
13:59I love you.
14:00I love you.
14:01There we go.
14:02I love you, too.
14:03I love you.
14:04Very nice.
14:05Very nice.
14:06Very nice.
14:07We can have such a better life there.
14:10Cost of living is better.
14:12My family is better.
14:13My friends are better.
14:14And I think the schools are better there, too.
14:17Are we really talking about this on my birthday, babe?
14:20Yes.
14:21Moldova.
14:22Moldova.
14:23Come on, babe.
14:24My birthday.
14:25Moldova.
14:26My birthday.
14:27Moldova.
14:28Moldova.
14:33I think Lindsay just arrived.
14:36Oh, she's here.
14:38Hi.
14:39Welcome.
14:40Thanks for coming.
14:41Of course.
14:42I've known Lindsay for about 10 to 15 years.
14:46She's been a really close family friend.
14:49And she's an incredible photographer.
14:52She's going to take some really cute family photos of us
14:55in our home.
14:56Cheese.
14:57I'm a princess, baby.
14:58I'm a princess.
15:01We like to do it every six months or so.
15:05Gorgeous.
15:07Get your big butt out of here.
15:10Cheese.
15:13Beautiful.
15:16Ready?
15:17Cheese.
15:18Cheese.
15:19Cheese.
15:22I cannot wait to see the pictures that you took.
15:24They're going to be so pretty.
15:25I know.
15:26They always are.
15:30Wow.
15:31We've done so many shoots together.
15:33I can't even count how many.
15:38So Andres decided that he wants to move to Moldova.
15:44I don't know how I feel about it yet.
15:46Because I just feel like if I was 25, whatever.
15:50No responsibilities.
15:53But when you have kids and you're starting to grow roots,
15:58you can't just uproot them.
16:01I just can't even fathom moving to another country like that.
16:07I just don't see that panning out well for y'all.
16:11And then you'll have to come back and start over again.
16:14I can't even think about it right now.
16:16Hey.
16:17Morning.
16:18Morning.
16:19What do you think?
16:20Hi.
16:21Hi.
16:22Well, that's a good wake up call.
16:23Listen.
16:24Got some links over here from some houses in Moldova.
16:25Check this out.
16:26Babe, you're really freaking me out.
16:27Listen.
16:28Listen.
16:29Want a coffee?
16:30Yes.
16:31I think I need a coffee before I deal.
16:32So.
16:33So.
16:34So.
16:35So.
16:36So.
16:37So.
16:38So.
16:39So.
16:40So.
16:41So.
16:42So.
16:43So.
16:44So.
16:45Yes, it will happen.
16:51You're really so serious?
16:52Of course I'm serious, babe.
16:53I'll save literally 3,000 square feet house.
16:55Like, triple less for price, but luxurious even more.
17:00Don't get me wrong, I love Moldova.
17:02I just don't know that I can live there.
17:05I've never lived in another country before.
17:08I'm just, I'm concerned about our kids.
17:11We're just going to uproot him, literally,
17:13and to another country at that.
17:15Not even just a different house.
17:16Like, that's a big decision when you have kids.
17:21I see your point of view, and I understand it.
17:25But at the same time, I get to experience
17:28like where their dad is from.
17:33I don't know that I would fit in there.
17:38I think you will adapt really quickly.
17:39I think it's just an anxiety.
17:41But I think you're more afraid just
17:43like how you're going to portray yourself in that society.
17:46Because that's how I felt when I came here.
17:49I understand it's a lot, and I understand it's a big move.
17:53But I did the same when I moved to the US,
17:55and I did it for you.
17:57We're in this together.
18:01This is just like a whole other life, having to be here.
18:03Yeah, that's right.
18:04Because we need changes.
18:05Changes is fun.
18:06Changes is good.
18:09We need to be very, very cautious.
18:18Yes?
18:19It's not a no.
18:21Let's do it, baby.
18:22Let's do it.
18:23Let's come on.
18:24Let's go.
18:24Let's make it happen.
18:28I can see how serious this is for Andrey
18:32and like how much it means to him right now.
18:34I am definitely more excited about the idea.
18:38It would be a good move, ultimately.
18:39It is a great country.
18:41It's cheaper.
18:42It's more family-oriented.
18:43It's smaller.
18:44The food is better for you.
18:46It's healthier.
18:47I feel like the lifestyle in general
18:49just would be a lot healthier and better for us.
18:52But I'm not really excited about leaving
18:55my life behind and my family.
18:59If I move there and see that it was the wrong decision,
19:05that will just eat away at me.
19:08Let's do it.
19:08I'm telling you.
19:09Come on.
19:10You're really, really doing this?
19:11Yes.
19:27Baby.
19:29You ready for baby time?
19:30To get this baby on with me?
19:32Daddy's always ready.
19:34Come to papa, baby.
19:36My name's Sam.
19:38I'm from Cameron, Missouri.
19:39And I'm 31 years old.
19:41Come to papa.
19:46I'm Siter.
19:47I'm from Indonesia.
19:48And I'm 27 years old.
19:50So we're trying everything to get this baby out of me.
19:55Plus, it's just fun doing it.
19:56I'll take any excuse I can to do it.
20:00Isn't this how we got into this mess?
20:03We met in the most unlikeliest of ways
20:05on a very sketchy, scammy dating app that most likely
20:10ends in losing money and, like, you know,
20:13one of those romance scams.
20:15But I just happened to get lucky finding the love of my life
20:199,000 miles away.
20:36I'm glad I was just a good, bored moment,
20:39happened to catch you at the right time.
20:44After a year and a half of waiting,
20:47her K1 visa finally got approved.
20:52Oh my god.
20:58We ran into a few little problems here and there,
21:02like, kind of nonstop.
21:04Citra and her family worried about my drug past.
21:09I was still weaning off Suboxone,
21:11which is the drug you take to stay off opiates
21:14and not go through withdrawals.
21:16Everything's been on the up and up.
21:17So I think they found out I'm not a bad guy
21:20and I'm worthy of a chance.
21:23I now pronounce you husband and wife.
21:25After I eased Citra and her family's
21:27minds about my drug past, we really bonded together
21:30as two families became one.
21:32And we're able to have a beautiful wedding.
21:35Woo!
21:38Baby, you look so good pregnant.
21:39I don't know, maybe it's because you're carrying my baby
21:41and it just makes me love you more.
21:4520 days after getting married, Citra got pregnant.
21:49I knew for sure it was a boy.
21:51But girl daddy all the way now.
21:57She's eight and a half months pregnant, probably
21:59just a couple more weeks.
22:01I think the baby's pretty much ready.
22:31I think that my water broke because when I woke up
22:43and I need to pee and I take my time to sit down
22:49and it feels like pee coming out, but it wasn't pee.
22:53How are you feeling if it's really my water broke?
22:57Oh, it is, baby.
22:59I know that little baby girl inside there.
23:02She's anything like me.
23:03She's going to be a little ass that's inconvenient.
23:06Chose to open it at like 3 in the morning,
23:084 in the morning.
23:10She's definitely into labor.
23:12She's handling it like a champ so far, though, for real.
23:16Pray for her, pray for the baby.
23:20It's all going down.
23:22They're about to give her Potassin
23:24because her water definitely broke.
23:25She's four centimeters dilated.
23:27And it's definitely going down today.
23:31The plan, definitely, is to have a natural birth.
23:35I mean, it's always best to go natural, right?
23:37But I can't stand the thought of seeing her go through pain
23:40and I can't do anything about it.
23:43Go, go, go, go, go.
23:44You can do it.
23:451, 2, keep going, 3, keep going, 4, keep going, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9,
23:5310.
23:54Good job.
23:54Good.
23:58Eventually, the baby's head got, it's like, not stuck,
24:04but it's not going any further.
24:06So now they're planning a C-section.
24:10God help us.
24:13They're about to do the C-section, waiting to go in.
24:18I'm not really looking forward to seeing her open,
24:21but baby's about to be here finally.
24:28Oh.
24:29Oh.
24:33Mama and baby have been doing good.
24:36Her hemoglobin, iron levels, basically, was real low.
24:41They had to give her blood, actually.
24:44How tired are you?
24:46So tired.
24:47It's all worth it for this cuteness.
24:51We named her Ares, because Sam has a favorite character
24:54from his video.
24:55You make it sound so dorky and dumb, saying it like that.
24:58It's a beautiful name.
25:01When I saw her in person, I was speechless.
25:04I was so, like, happy, like, emotional.
25:10Oh, it's so weird seeing you.
25:13You watching that?
25:16Holding Ares for the first time, it
25:19was better than any drug I've ever done,
25:22any high I've ever had.
25:24I knew, like, this is what I was made for.
25:26It's just pure love.
25:30Hey, guys, we're home.
25:31Oh, my goodness.
25:32Whoa.
25:33Wow.
25:34This is the baby.
25:36Not your first grandbaby, but your most special grandbaby.
25:4013 grandbabies.
25:42Oh, my gosh, she's so beautiful.
25:45It used to be I'd get high because I
25:47didn't care about what I'd possibly
25:49lose from getting high.
25:51And now, the love I got from her and Ares,
25:55honestly, I just feel like I was a dumb kid,
25:57and I finally grew up.
26:01Wait until you have one.
26:02God, Sam, the weird lips.
26:05These are sexy lips.
26:10Man.
26:11This is the moment that we always talk
26:14about when we were dating.
26:16Now, this is our life.
26:18Told you we'd have a cute baby.
26:22Good night, Ares.
26:23Good night.
26:24We'll see you in the morning.
26:25We'll see you.
26:26Yes.
26:28I've been giving, well, you just take it all.
26:32You've been faking love.
26:35I've been fooled by you.
26:38Ooh, a package.
26:39Yes.
26:39Finally.
26:42Been waiting for you, baby.
26:45Go ahead.
26:45Cut you open.
26:47See what's in here so I can look fresh for Mexico.
26:51My name is Tyre.
26:52I'm 34 years old, and I live in New York.
26:56OK.
26:56Ooh, I like this.
26:57I've been waiting for it.
26:59Let's try this bad boy on.
27:01My journey began four years ago when
27:03I received a message from a beautiful girl named
27:05Carmela from Barbados.
27:07Carmela and I talked almost every day,
27:10and she became my best friend and my online girlfriend.
27:14We decided to meet.
27:16I flew to Barbados, and she never showed up.
27:19And then later that day, she called me.
27:22She never showed up.
27:24And then later on, I found out that I was being catfished.
27:28The person you've been messaging
27:30with the last several years is a man.
27:36Wow.
27:39Since then, I put myself back out there.
27:42So I ended up meeting a few women who weren't
27:44ready for relationships.
27:45And then I met Shannon.
27:46Shannon was really cool.
27:48I met her in New Orleans.
27:50She ended up coming to the tell-all,
27:52and she ended up giving me that magical kiss.
27:56I don't know what to do.
27:57Yeah, why not?
27:58I'm so into you.
27:59All right.
28:00I said it.
28:01I don't know what to do.
28:02Oh, no.
28:05Oh, God.
28:06We stayed in touch a little bit,
28:08but things kind of stalled out, mainly because of the distance
28:11and also because of my lack of confidence.
28:14Let me try on this shirt.
28:23Doesn't fit good.
28:26Looks terrible.
28:26Looks absolutely terrible.
28:28Too tight.
28:29Oh, God.
28:32This has to go.
28:35So I made some big plans recently.
28:37I have to do something about my weight,
28:40my clothes fit so weird.
28:42I just look not like I should be.
28:45I need to lose weight.
28:46I need to get healthy.
28:48I want to be able to wear my clothes
28:49and not have to gamble on if something's going to wear.
28:54Like, look how big this shirt is.
28:56It's like a sheet.
28:57It's humongous.
29:00I'm tired of my weight holding me back
29:02from relationships and love, which
29:04is why I've decided to have gastric sleeve
29:06surgery in Mexico.
29:08It's scary to have a major surgery that
29:10It's scary to have a major surgery that far from home.
29:12But having that kind of negative vibe
29:15isn't something I want to live with.
29:26Hey.
29:27Hi.
29:28Hey, Mom.
29:29No one in my family knows that I've decided
29:31to have weight loss surgery.
29:33And today, I decided to tell my sisters and my mom.
29:36I feel nervous.
29:40You guys want a drink?
29:41Yeah.
29:42You want a drink?
29:43All right.
29:44I don't want to do anything that's going to hurt them
29:46or something that they don't approve of.
29:51Thank you so much.
29:52This looks yummy.
29:53What is this dude trying to tell us?
29:55It's not even really news.
29:58OK, so I put a deposit down to have gastric sleeve
30:02surgery in Mexico.
30:05Ah!
30:06Yeah.
30:07Wait, Mexico?
30:08What did you just say?
30:09I'm going to have weight loss surgery.
30:10In Mexico?
30:11In Mexico.
30:12Are you taking votes on this?
30:13Is this a no?
30:14Wait, where in Mexico?
30:15Tijuana.
30:16Tijuana?
30:18Why do you want to go to Tijuana and have surgery?
30:21It's cheaper there.
30:22I can get it faster.
30:23Let me stop right there.
30:24Cheaper?
30:25That's the wrong word.
30:26Cheaper is not always better.
30:28It's more affordable in Mexico.
30:31Because they're killing you down there.
30:33No, that facility doesn't have any deaths.
30:35How do you know?
30:36Because I looked it up.
30:38Because they hid them.
30:41Who's going to go with you?
30:43Because none of us have passports.
30:45Nobody's going with me.
30:46I'm going alone.
30:47So you're going to go all the way down there to Mexico
30:50by yourself.
30:51And it's called, and then what?
30:54I mean, I don't know.
30:55You know, they'll call you guys if it's a problem.
30:57Call us, and then what?
30:58What are we going to do?
30:59But we can't get there.
31:00I just can't believe that he wants
31:02to go all the way to Mexico.
31:03Like, I've heard nothing but horror stories
31:05about people going to Mexico to have surgeries.
31:07I just feel like, no.
31:08It's risky.
31:09It's a red flag.
31:10Mexico is a red flag.
31:12And you trust these people?
31:13Trust them?
31:14I trust them.
31:15I did a lot of research on them, the facility.
31:16Now we really can't trust it, because we know
31:18your online research sucks.
31:20Oh, my God.
31:22No, this place is good.
31:23It's not the same as the Carmela situation.
31:25It's not catfish or scam.
31:26I'm sure.
31:27We need to look it up ourselves.
31:28When do you want to have it?
31:30I'm supposed to go next week.
31:32Huh?
31:34If you're going to do it,
31:35I would rather you do it here.
31:36These doctors know you better.
31:38They know your history.
31:39You got all your people here.
31:41You go out of the country.
31:42They don't know anything about you.
31:43They just want your money.
31:44Cut you and smack you on the ass
31:45and send you out the door.
31:48Wow.
31:50I thought my sisters would be
31:51a little more open-minded about the situation.
31:54They don't understand the position
31:55I'm in financially.
31:57And they don't know how desperate
31:58I am to lose this weight.
32:01This is not solid.
32:02It's not solid at all.
32:05I'm absolutely positively against it.
32:23Oh, man.
32:25Today is a big day for me.
32:27I've taken my family's concerns
32:28into serious consideration
32:30about me going to Mexico for surgery.
32:32Let's go.
32:35I think they were being
32:36a little dramatic.
32:38But I do understand
32:39where they were coming from.
32:40It is scary, you know,
32:41going to a foreign country
32:42by yourself.
32:43You know, there's a lot of unknowns.
32:45And my family will be
32:46really far away.
32:48That's why I've decided
32:49to look at the doctors
32:50here in California
32:51to see what my options are.
32:58Hello.
32:59Hello.
33:00Hi.
33:01Go ahead and sign in for me.
33:02Okay.
33:03So I have officially
33:04canceled my surgery in Mexico.
33:06And now I actually found
33:07a local doctor here
33:09who actually takes my insurance.
33:11We're gonna start with a scale.
33:12Oh, scale, no.
33:13Okay, go ahead.
33:14Just look up your first name, please.
33:15Okay, you ready?
33:16No.
33:18I wouldn't know.
33:19All right.
33:20Got you at 407.
33:23Okay.
33:24Wow.
33:25I thought it was 207.
33:26Currently, I'm at 407.
33:28Currently, I'm at 407 pounds.
33:30You know, I had weighed myself
33:31a few months ago.
33:32I was nowhere near that.
33:33You know, I'm just ready
33:34to get back on the right track
33:36and to, you know,
33:37get healthy
33:38and to be in a good spot.
33:42Hi there.
33:43I'm Dr. Hubert.
33:44Nice to meet you.
33:45Very nice to meet you.
33:46How are things going for you?
33:47Going good.
33:48Good.
33:49Thanks for coming in today.
33:50You're welcome.
33:51I see right here
33:52you're weighing up
33:53407 pounds today.
33:55Do you have in mind
33:56what would be like
33:57a goal weight for you
33:58at all, what you'd like
33:59to get down to with surgery?
34:00Oh, maybe like 215.
34:01Okay.
34:02The sleeve is the most
34:03common surgery done
34:04for weight loss.
34:05That means you have
34:06about 247 pounds
34:07right now
34:08of extra body weight.
34:09With that,
34:10I'd expect you to lose
34:11roughly 50 to maybe
34:1260 percent
34:13of your extra weight.
34:14Okay.
34:15So it'd be important
34:16after surgery
34:17there's still work to be done
34:18keeping up with your diet
34:19and once you lose
34:20some more weight
34:21you can be more active
34:22and exercise more
34:23and help out with that weight loss.
34:24You know, we change
34:25the size of your stomach
34:27but then people adapt
34:28to it and so
34:29instead of having
34:30a couple of large meals
34:31they'll have
34:32more meals
34:33throughout the day
34:34that are
34:35smaller in size.
34:36Okay.
34:37But do you know
34:38what the timeline is
34:39for me having surgery
34:40right now?
34:41Yeah, so hopefully
34:42in about four or five months
34:43we can get you
34:44on the schedule, okay?
34:45Okay.
34:46This is a life-changing
34:47altering surgery.
34:48I'm excited.
34:49It's been a long time coming
34:50and I'm ready to
34:51start this next chapter.
34:52Yeah.
34:53I feel like I found
34:54the perfect doctor
34:55but it does make me nervous
34:56because surgery isn't
34:57the end of the road
34:58for me.
34:59I still have to change
35:00my eating habits.
35:01I have to exercise.
35:02If I don't
35:03then I can end up
35:04gaining weight again
35:05and I can end up
35:06being in a worse
35:07position than I am now.
35:08I really need to
35:09make these changes
35:10and do whatever
35:11I can to keep
35:12the weight off
35:13because my life
35:14depends on it
35:15and hopefully
35:16this will be the start
35:17to a new beginning.
35:18You know,
35:19I'm ready to look
35:20like a snack
35:21and not eat them.
35:22What?
35:23What?
35:24What?
35:25What?
35:26What?
35:27What?
35:28What?
35:37Oh my god.
35:38He's with a woman.
35:41What the ****?
35:42He is walking over here.
35:45Oh my god.
35:46He just walked by
35:47the car with her.
35:49Are you
35:50kidding me right now?
35:52So, I met Ziad on social media.
35:54We fell in love.
35:55He moved to Georgia from Tunisia.
35:58We got married, and we've been building a life together.
36:02And now I've caught him hanging with another woman.
36:10Oh, I feel like I'm gonna throw up and pass out.
36:21What do you want me to do?
36:22What do you want me to do?
36:26Do you want to call him?
36:26No.
36:27Hell no.
36:36Oh, my God.
36:36I'm f***ing shaking.
36:39Seeing Ziad walk outside with a woman, a girl, his age,
36:49I feel like I want to die.
36:53He just texted me on my way home, babe.
36:57F*** him.
37:00There is no excuse that he can come up with.
37:04Is that him?
37:05I don't care.
37:08Okay, listen.
37:09I'm the first one to, like...
37:12I don't trust anybody, but it's Ziad.
37:17It's Ziad.
37:18Like, we have to keep that in mind.
37:21He is a man.
37:24Oh, my God.
37:26Oh, my God.
37:30Given my age and everything that I've been through,
37:33I cannot imagine having to start over.
37:38Ziad was supposed to be the one, the last one.
37:43That was it.
37:48Hello.
37:50Hi, man.
37:53Let's go outside.
37:55Okay.
37:57Obviously, my husband is cheating on me,
38:00and I just need a minute.
38:03I just need to try to figure out what I'm going to do next.
38:08Can I stay with you guys for a couple of days?
38:10Obviously.
38:11But he is not getting a house.
38:15I'm just giving him a couple of days to get his s*** out.
38:19So, we just got back to my house.
38:21We left the bar.
38:23And we saw what we saw.
38:25And her phone has been going off.
38:30I'm assuming she didn't turn off her...
38:33He's here?
38:36He's here now, so...
38:40We'll see what happens.
38:43Can I be your roommate?
38:44Can I stay with you?
38:45Ziad's a bad man.
39:16They saw you with a female.
39:22Yeah.
39:27Where was your friend?
39:37Can I see her?
39:40It's her choice, honestly.
39:46She was outside last I checked.
39:49You need to wait.
39:52Wait.
40:10Did you just follow me for real?
40:13I saw you, Ziad.
40:14You were with a woman.
40:22I was right.
40:23You were with a f***ing woman.
40:33So, now you're telling me that it was just...
40:35There was her husband there.
40:39I didn't see him.
40:42Because maybe you left before he get out.
40:48F***, man.
40:55The fact that Rebecca and Laura follow me,
40:58it's really pissed me off.
41:00And this makes me feel like she doesn't trust me.
41:06Where are you going?
41:13Oh, my God.
41:15What did he say?
41:16He's lying, of course.
41:19If he cheated on you,
41:21so many puzzle pieces are gonna fall together
41:24throughout your entire life.
Recommended
42:01
|
Up next
42:56
49:06
1:24:59
1:28:39
1:23:23
2:12:03
44:35
1:37:03
4:05:56
1:13:47
1:38:33
41:31
42:28
42:52
42:28
2:12:02
45:25
1:39:01
1:34:49
43:02