90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 6 -Dear Diary, Love Hurts
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00:00I haven't had a haircut like this in about five years.
00:13It's exciting.
00:14It's an exciting day.
00:15Baby coming.
00:16Baby coming very soon.
00:17This is the bod right now.
00:20I've lost over a hundred pounds.
00:23She's snatched, darling.
00:24She's snatched.
00:25Give me a little oak.
00:26We need a shot of espresso.
00:29I know.
00:30Bridget is my agent.
00:32She's really trying to help my career as a model.
00:36You aren't 5'11.
00:37You aren't this like high fashion runway type.
00:40I might not be cut out for this.
00:45I haven't really been in communication with my mother.
00:48You should go see her.
00:49You need to call.
00:50My mother, Debbie, we had a falling out two years ago, and as a result my mother and I
00:56just stopped talking.
00:57I'm going to go see my mom.
00:59I'm afraid that my mother and I are just going to fall back in our old ways and start fighting
01:03again.
01:04Maybe when I get my paperwork, we can move from Arizona.
01:10It's been three years waiting for a CUNY screen card, so today we are going to meet a immigration
01:17attorney.
01:18I went through a website online.
01:20I spent somewhere around $5,000 or $6,000.
01:24I don't see anything else that's been filed.
01:28Was he duped by somebody?
01:41Hi.
01:42Hi there.
01:43It's just another day in the ditch.
01:48Hello.
01:50My name is Colt.
01:52I'm 39 years old, and I live in Morgan, Utah.
01:57Good morning, ladies.
02:00Ciao.
02:02Two weeks ago, I left Reno to live in Utah with my mother's brother, John, on his farm.
02:08You guys want a bath?
02:10It's been a hard life recently, and I really just needed a fresh start.
02:13How's it like being a farmer?
02:23My 90-day journey started when I met Larissa six years ago.
02:27She came to America.
02:29We got married.
02:30Larissa, I love you more than anything in this world.
02:35I will do anything to make you happy.
02:38And after six months of constantly fighting, we got divorced.
02:43Soon after, I started to date my friend Vanessa, and we both bonded over our recent divorces.
02:50We started messing around physically, and somehow, I thought proposing to her was the right idea.
03:01To Mrs. and Mr. Johnson.
03:04Aw, that's so sweet.
03:06After Vanessa and I got married, we moved to Reno, and we spent three years there together.
03:12But she came to me one day and told me that she wasn't in love with me anymore, and we filed for divorce.
03:20Now, that's a day's work.
03:23It's just 12.
03:28Hey, Cole, we've loaded all this. Let's take a break for a minute.
03:32That sounds good.
03:33Okay.
03:38I didn't know you could get hay everywhere.
03:41Yeah, it'll get in your pants, too.
03:45You're working hard, and I think you're reclaiming your life.
03:50You've gone through divorces, and you've moved.
03:55I lost my job.
03:56You lost your job.
03:57Yeah, this year has really been bam, bam, bam.
04:01I just want you to know we love you.
04:04I'm glad you're here.
04:05You could have gone up to Canada.
04:07Well, I haven't really...
04:11been in communication with my mother.
04:13I don't think she knows you're here yet.
04:15Yeah, I haven't really kind of told her exactly where I'm at.
04:18Yeah.
04:20My mother and I have lived together most of my life, and even though she was always kind of overbearing,
04:26she's been with me through the ups and downs of my life.
04:29Mom, look at me, Mom. I don't resent you.
04:33I love you. You're my mother. I'm your son.
04:36But we did have a falling out two years ago at the single life tell-all.
04:41You've raised me to be just a subservient person to you.
04:44I shouldn't be bothered with your life. This is your life.
04:48What are you doing, Cole?
04:49What am I really doing here?
04:51I just want to talk. I want to sit down. Let's talk about this.
04:55I was just fed up, and as a result, my mother and I just stopped talking.
05:01And that was pretty much the last time I saw her.
05:05We've been texting here and there, but I haven't told my mother directly that Vanessa and I have split.
05:11You should go see her. You should take a week, two weeks, whatever.
05:14Get your chores done before you go.
05:16Okay. Yeah, yeah.
05:20Then you can go, okay?
05:23I understand where my uncle is coming from, but he doesn't quite understand my relationship with my mother.
05:28And I'm afraid that my mother and I are just going to fall back in our old ways and start fighting again.
05:34Well, let's finish up this hay.
05:35Okay.
05:36And get out of here.
05:37Okay.
05:38Get out of the rain.
05:46Oh, my leg.
05:48I got a cramp.
05:51I need to get my...
06:00I feel so good.
06:02Oh.
06:04I like to think I'm a guy that's pretty much kind of aware of what's going on around him
06:08when the universe is trying to tell him something.
06:12But looking back, I can see the same choices leading to the same mistakes.
06:18And I want to be someone different, someone better.
06:22And I think I'm at the cusp of that.
06:26My mother has invited me more than once to go visit her in Canada.
06:35But I have yet to take her up on that offer.
06:41I was just trying to build my own distance between us.
06:47But now I feel like I need my mother.
06:52I need to see her.
06:56My Uncle John really thinks I should go see my mom.
06:58So I booked a plane ticket to go see her.
07:01And I haven't seen her in two years, so I have no idea what's going to happen.
07:05Can't lie, though.
07:06I am a bit nervous.
07:09And the last time seeing her, we kind of argued.
07:13I just don't want to fight.
07:15Good night.
07:17Oh, here he is.
07:21Gonna go see my mom.
07:24And her dude.
07:26In Canadia.
07:28I'm really nervous about going to Canada.
07:30I've never visited her up there.
07:32I don't know how my mother's going to take the news that
07:34I live with her brother on his farm.
07:37She might take offense to that.
07:38And then I never know what's going to happen.
07:41I don't know.
07:43My mother doesn't know that I'm divorced from Vanessa.
07:46And I really don't know how Tony and I are going to interact together.
07:50So I feel like there's a lot of things that could go wrong really quick.
08:13Today's going to be a fantastic day.
08:18We need clearing energy, cleansing energy.
08:22We need all the good vibes that we can get today.
08:26I'm Ashley.
08:28I am 34.
08:30And I'm from Rochester, New York.
08:32This is the bod right now for you.
08:36I'm going to show you a little bit of my body.
08:39I'm going to show you a little bit of my body.
08:41This is the bod right now, fam.
08:44I've lost over a hundred pounds.
08:47Look at the waist, baby.
08:48Look at the waist.
08:49She's snatched, darling.
08:50She's snatched.
08:52Rico Suave, come on.
08:53Come on.
08:55I'm waiting for my honey to get home from work.
08:58Yes, you heard that right, friends.
09:01He working.
09:03Oh, I love you.
09:05Hi.
09:07I am Manuel.
09:09I'm 37 years old.
09:12I'm from Puyo, Ecuador.
09:15Hi, boo.
09:17Oh, hey, baby.
09:19How's it going, mi amor?
09:21Oh.
09:23No, I'm just waiting for you.
09:25You're very sexy, aren't you?
09:28I like the color you're wearing.
09:30It's like you want something.
09:32Manuel and I first met when I was 16.
09:35Manuel and I first met over 10 years ago when I took a trip to Ecuador on New Year's Eve.
09:40We only spent a few weeks together before we got engaged.
09:43But I was 21 years old and Manuel was 24 years old.
09:47And we had to realize that we were just too young to be engaged or married.
09:52Like, holy s***.
09:54This is too much right now.
09:56And I called off the engagement.
09:58But then, about 10 years later, we reconnected.
10:02Estamos aquí.
10:04Finalmente.
10:06The day I flew back to Ecuador to visit him, we got engaged and started the K-1 visa process.
10:14Once he had it, Manuel came back to Rochester to be with me and we got married.
10:22¿Cómo estaba el trabajo?
10:24¿Cómo estaba el trabajo?
10:26Oh, my God, mi amor. Muy duro.
10:29Mira como estoy quemadito. Mucho sol.
10:31Yeah, yo lo sé. Pero me gusta su calor.
10:34Estoy bronceadito.
10:36Gracias a Dios, ahorita tengo el permiso de trabajo. Estoy feliz.
10:39Estoy trabajando aquí en remodelación de casas, pintura, lo que son terminados.
10:43Muéstrame tus músculos.
10:45Muéstrame tus músculos.
10:47Las mujeres se van a enamorar de mí.
10:49Oh, Dios mío.
10:51Okay, baby, what are we eating?
10:55Rice, fish, with lemon and onion.
10:59¿Limón en inglés?
11:01Lime.
11:03Lime.
11:05Lime.
11:07Lime.
11:09Yes.
11:11We are planning our trip to Ecuador to see his boys.
11:15Manuel's first trip back since he's been here.
11:19Es muy importante eso.
11:21Porque ella es mi esposa, mis hijos son mis hijos, pero ahora son hijos de él también.
11:26Y me gustaría que ellos comiencen a trabajar entre los tres, una bonita confianza, como debería ser.
11:34Suelta ese perro, baby.
11:36Es que no me gusta estar en la cocina con la mascota.
11:38Él no está haciendo nada.
11:40Por eso mismo, pero no quiero perros.
11:42Él es todo mentira aquí.
11:44No quiero perros de aquí en la comunidad.
11:46Get out.
11:48Get out of the kitchen.
11:58How's the walk looking?
12:00You like the shoes? They're pretty, right?
12:03Why are you walking in heels today?
12:05It's supposed to be sultry and sexy.
12:09It's supposed to give that vibe.
12:11Right?
12:12I love it.
12:14I met the team with my sister.
12:17I have been working out like a fiend, eating healthy, counting my macros,
12:23and so far I've lost 126 pounds.
12:27I'm feeling really good about my body and I'm excited to show it off.
12:31I'm even thinking about signing up for a bodybuilding competition in a few months,
12:35which is why I'm in heels.
12:37It's a part of the look, if you will.
12:43You ready?
12:45So you can place your hand on this side and then let the kettlebell go down
12:50and lift up with that other oblique.
12:53So, Manuel really wants to go to Ecuador for like a month or six weeks.
12:58And I agree, you know, it's been a while.
13:01He needs that.
13:03He needs that.
13:04But, you know, I'm also thinking I stay in Ecuador for two or three weeks
13:08and then I go to Tulum and do a spiritual retreat in Mexico.
13:12Oh my, without your husband?
13:14I don't really want Manuel to come with me. He's going to mess up my diet.
13:17I don't know.
13:19You're a whole mom and you talk about I want to be with the kids for three weeks
13:22and then bounce to Tulum.
13:24I mean, here's the thing.
13:26I'm going there to find my zen and work on my shadow self.
13:33I personally don't think it's that big of a deal.
13:36I can go to Mexico and go on this spiritual retreat
13:42and Manuel can have alone time with his family,
13:45which I think is really good for them.
13:48You know, he hasn't seen his family in two years plus.
13:52Does he know?
13:54No, I haven't said anything to him yet.
13:56I just think you need to have a conversation with Manuel
13:59about all your ideas.
14:01I'll consider it.
14:03I'm so bad.
14:05You just do what you want.
14:07So does my mom.
14:12You just hate on me because I'm winning.
14:16Social media says that I'm trending.
14:20I'm not trying to tell you what to do, Boo,
14:22but you're going to have to get over to the other plane.
14:24When people do it, that's to go.
14:27When they do their prayers, that's...
14:30No, no, no.
14:32That's because I'm teaching you the language of traveling in America.
14:39Are you stressed?
14:41I'm telling you that you need to know.
14:46Oh, my God.
14:48Okay, okay.
14:50Sorry.
14:53Yes.
14:55Let's bounce.
14:57Okay, let's go.
14:58Bounce.
15:04Bounce. Let's bounce.
15:06Let's bounce.
15:07Yeah, baby.
15:09Today, Manuel and I are going to play mini golf.
15:12Manuel and I both have been working super, super hard,
15:15so we're going to play some mini golf
15:17to blow off some steam and spend some time together.
15:24I have to tell Manuel
15:26that I'm going to leave Ecuador early
15:29to go on a spiritual retreat in Mexico,
15:32and I'm a little worried how he's going to take this.
15:39I knew you'd suck at this.
15:40Oh, wait.
15:41Oh, wait.
15:43Okay.
15:44It's me, Terno.
15:46Okay, baby.
15:47Dale.
15:55Wow!
15:56Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
15:59Wow.
16:00Do you want me to teach you how to put the ball in the hole?
16:03Yes.
16:04You like dirty things, don't you?
16:06Yes.
16:07I love you, amor.
16:11Yes!
16:17Okay.
16:22Okay.
16:37No.
16:48Oh.
16:50Well, that didn't go like I had planned.
17:07Okay.
17:21Okay.
17:27I don't really know what to say.
17:31I have nothing to say.
17:34Okay.
17:57Let's agree to disagree
18:00Put you in the right one
18:03I am on a business trip to Miami.
18:06I'm on my way there to meet my friends.
18:09I love to get work there because I can also see my friends.
18:12I no longer live there.
18:13I live in New York.
18:14A lot of things have changed.
18:15I am Fernanda.
18:16I am 26 years old, and I'm from Guanajuato, Mexico.
18:22Seven years ago, I met my ex, Jonathan, in Mexico.
18:26Hello, everybody.
18:29And despite the age gap of 12 years,
18:33we got engaged, and I moved to the U.S.
18:37But after getting married,
18:38things quickly turned down south.
18:41Pay for your college.
18:42Pay for your apartment.
18:43Pay for your boobs.
18:44What else do you want me to do?
18:46I'm sorry.
18:47I don't have the money you have.
18:52I felt very isolated and controlled.
18:55He didn't really support my dreams and career.
18:59So we got divorced, and I moved to Miami
19:02where I met my roommate, Noel, who I started dating.
19:06Where are you from?
19:07Germany.
19:08Ever been to Germany?
19:09No, I haven't.
19:10Are you going to take me?
19:11We will see how this goes.
19:14After a three-year relationship,
19:16he had to move to Germany without me.
19:19I felt like his career was more important
19:22than our relationship, so we decided to part ways.
19:29Here I am, Miami.
19:31I just got to my best friend's house.
19:33I am here for a couple of days.
19:35I have some work,
19:37but I'm excited to see my friends in Kachau.
19:39They're waiting for me.
19:42Yes!
19:46Hello!
19:49I'm so happy you're back!
19:51Welcome back!
19:52I know, right?
19:53Let me take your bag.
19:55I'm so excited to see you!
19:58I'm so excited you're back.
19:59I'm so happy.
20:00No, really.
20:01I mean, it's just...
20:03I can't even imagine.
20:04I know.
20:05We want to hear everything.
20:07This year has been something else,
20:09but, you know, obviously work has been like...
20:12Yeah, how has work...
20:13Have you been getting jobs booked
20:15while you're out there?
20:16Not really.
20:19Not as much as Miami.
20:24Right now, I am not making enough money
20:27to be living in New York,
20:28so that's why I'm traveling back and forth
20:30from New York to Miami.
20:32I really don't know what I'm going to do,
20:34whether I stay in New York and keep trying,
20:37or I come back to Miami.
20:41Right now, I feel drawn to kind of coming back.
20:45I'm just conflicted.
20:46I have to figure out what's the best move,
20:49financially, for the rest of my career.
20:52But in general, I'm just so happy to be here.
20:56I'm going to serve you the whole wine
20:57so you can stay here forever.
20:58Cheers.
21:00To the amazing things coming our way.
21:02Yes.
21:10So I'm in Miami.
21:11I just got to my agency office.
21:15I'm going to have a meeting with my agent.
21:17Bridget is my agent.
21:18I met her seven years ago in Chicago,
21:20and she's been my agent for my entire career.
21:23Looking forward to our meeting.
21:25Yeah, where have you been?
21:26Good.
21:27She taught me how to do everything I know
21:29within the model industry, walking, posting,
21:31even speaking English,
21:32because when I first met her,
21:34my English was really bad.
21:36So come on in.
21:37She has a little bit about the shoot tomorrow.
21:41I'm excited.
21:42Yeah.
21:43So it's a Montreal-based luxury resort
21:46wearing swimwear brand.
21:48Okay, good.
21:49Body needs to be on point.
21:52I'm like, those extra pounds, it's okay.
21:55But it will be, especially for New York.
21:57New York.
21:58How is it?
21:59We miss you.
22:00Good.
22:01I know.
22:02I miss Miami too.
22:03Every time I come back,
22:04I feel conflicted, though.
22:05I'm like, I had it so good here already.
22:07But in a way, I felt stuck.
22:09Like, you know, my comfort zone.
22:11And New York challenges me.
22:13New York is extremely competitive,
22:15so you're messing with the big dogs.
22:17And with that being said, you know,
22:20you aren't 5'11".
22:22You aren't this, like,
22:23high-fashion runway type.
22:25How's the walk?
22:26It's gonna need some work, for sure.
22:30I'd much rather to do print work,
22:32but I do know that I have to work
22:34in expanding my skills
22:35if I want to make it to New York's caliber.
22:39Loosen up, girl.
22:40I'm a little bit nervous.
22:41All right, let's see.
22:44Give me a little oomph.
22:45You need a shot of espresso.
22:47I know.
22:48New Yorkers are boom-ba-boom.
22:55I know Bridget is really trying to help me
22:58and give me the skills that I need
23:00to be successful in New York.
23:02But to be honest,
23:03it does make me feel a little bit lonely.
23:06I feel like I don't belong here.
23:08I feel like I don't belong here.
23:10I feel like I don't belong here.
23:12It also makes me feel a little bit like
23:14I might not be cut out for this.
23:16And maybe I have to re-evaluate my dreams.
23:20I know.
23:21It was horrible.
23:22But you guys, you guys have shaped me.
23:25Um, all right.
23:26So I will keep practicing at home, for sure.
23:29It's on you, girl.
23:31I know.
23:32I commit, I promise.
23:34Hi.
23:35Hello.
23:36How are you?
23:38I am so grateful that I'm able to work here in Miami
23:41so somehow I can make money
23:43to pay the crazy rent in New York
23:45while I try to make it there.
23:49One, two, and three.
23:51Travis.
23:52One, two, and three.
23:53Okay, one step.
23:56Travis.
23:57Travis.
23:58Travis.
23:59Travis.
24:00Travis.
24:01Travis.
24:02Travis.
24:03Beautiful.
24:04Up.
24:06Okay.
24:08Ah, like this.
24:09I love it.
24:11Good.
24:13That was easy.
24:15Okay.
24:16Those are so nice.
24:17We got it.
24:24I really had a blast today.
24:26I do enjoy, um, working and modeling.
24:30I think it's, like, always been one of my passions
24:34and something that I really, really enjoy doing.
24:37But managing a career from two cities
24:40has become incredibly difficult.
24:44So, um, I have to make a choice.
24:47I do believe that I want to give New York a chance.
24:52I'm gonna give New York a chance.
24:54Um, but I'm not ready to give up New York just yet.
25:00I'm not.
25:13Hey, everybody.
25:14It's me, Rob, just heading to the barbershop.
25:18My name is Rob.
25:19I'm 35 years old, and I live in Los Angeles, California.
25:23I haven't had a haircut like this in about five years.
25:26It's exciting.
25:27It's an exciting day.
25:29Do still have the long hair.
25:33We'll see how long that lasts.
25:37My 90-day journey started about five years ago
25:40when I met Sophie online.
25:41I was living in Los Angeles,
25:42and she was living in London at the time.
25:45I love you, baby.
25:46Sophie and I were long-distance,
25:47but then we decided to apply for the K-1 visa
25:50and get married.
25:51It's my very great pleasure and delight
25:53to now pronounce you husband and wife.
25:58We moved to Austin right after getting married,
26:00but there were a lot of trust issues in our relationship,
26:03so we ended up fighting all the time.
26:05I agreed to try and make things work
26:06by going to a therapy retreat,
26:08but to my surprise,
26:09Sophie decided that she'd be the one leaving me.
26:24Yeah.
26:26The divorce isn't final,
26:27but it's pretty much, you know,
26:29that's where it's headed.
26:31And I'm back in L.A.,
26:34and she's still in Texas.
26:36Oh, boy, Paco.
26:37What's up?
26:38What's good, bro?
26:39Man, it's been a minute.
26:41How many years has it been?
26:42It's been too long,
26:44and I gotta get the fresh cut.
26:45You see, I've been walking around here
26:46and clearly not getting my haircut.
26:48Getting rid of it?
26:49Yep, yep, yep.
26:50We're gonna get into it.
26:51I've been growing my hair out since I met Sophie,
26:55and I think I'd been growing it our entire relationship,
26:57which was like a 4 1⁄2, like 4 1⁄2 years.
27:00So this hair represents a bad relationship
27:03and a bad time in my life.
27:05Yo, y'all see what's going on right now?
27:09Paco.
27:10Oh, my God.
27:11It's gone.
27:12No!
27:15It's gone, just like that.
27:17It's kind of sad.
27:18It's kind of sad.
27:19I'm looking at it like, damn.
27:20This hair was through it with me.
27:22This is the hair that's holding the trauma right now.
27:24This is holding the trauma right here.
27:25This is that hair.
27:27But it's just like, damn, man,
27:28this is the last four years right here.
27:31It's crazy.
27:32So how you been, Paco, man?
27:33Things been good for you out here while I've been gone?
27:36Good, bro.
27:37Chilling.
27:38That's good.
27:39You know, man, taking care of business.
27:41Yeah?
27:42I saw you got married.
27:44Sir.
27:45Man.
27:46Paco's a married man.
27:48It was about that time, bro, 38 years old.
27:51Oh, you tried it?
27:52I tried it.
27:53I did try it, you know.
27:54Things just didn't work out, man.
27:56Like, as soon as we got to Texas, it was like,
27:58her priorities completely changed.
28:00I mean, I was willing to keep trying as long as she was.
28:03And then once it was like I wasn't getting that from her,
28:05then OK.
28:07Like, now I feel OK to just move on.
28:10Just let it go.
28:11And that's pretty much what happened.
28:13Things were pretty dark there for a little bit.
28:15But luckily, I made a great friend at therapy,
28:18someone who could shine a little light on that darkness.
28:22And we've been hanging out in our free time,
28:25doing just fun stuff together.
28:27And this week, we have a trip to Vegas planned.
28:32All right.
28:33Paco got me right.
28:35I appreciate it, brother.
28:44Good morning.
28:45Good morning.
28:46Even though we're in Vegas, having a good time,
28:48still got to get that workout in.
28:50So yep, Brian never stops.
28:52So here we are.
28:53We're going to go get a workout in.
28:55The person that I've been hanging out with a lot
28:57is actually Josh.
28:59We met during couples therapy at last resort.
29:02Initially, I did not have a very good first impression of Josh
29:05since he was kind of shooting his shot at Sophie a little bit.
29:09Her man has been, like, messaging me on Instagram.
29:12What?
29:13He was, like, floor inviting me to, like, Vegas.
29:16No way.
29:17Now I need alcohol.
29:20This plan will fire.
29:22But in the end, we bonded over our failed relationships
29:25and became really good friends in the process.
29:27So this gym, it's a pretty cool gym.
29:30Check out what we got going on back here.
29:33Nice.
29:36All right.
29:37Found us a little prop on the wall.
29:39The camera.
29:41We'll start with one real quick.
29:44Just a little warm up.
29:46All right, let's get a hammer.
29:48Sophie.
29:49She called me yesterday.
29:51Yeah.
29:52When we were walking through the casino.
29:53What'd she say?
29:54You don't miss me?
29:55And I'm like, you didn't miss me for a whole two years
29:59while we were living in Austin
30:00and you were just living with your friends.
30:03That's terrible.
30:04Yeah, and it's like, I don't know if it's because now I'm single
30:06and now I'm, like, living my life
30:08that she just feels some type of way all of a sudden.
30:11Yeah.
30:12She's just giving me these honestly concerning messages
30:14where I'm like, why are you acting
30:16like you care all of a sudden?
30:18Like, you caring now, it's just not good for either of us.
30:21Right.
30:22And she went out and she found out,
30:23well, Nelly Brass is not greener on the other side
30:25kind of thing.
30:28Sophie's been hitting me up a lot lately.
30:30Maybe she's feeling guilty about ending our marriage
30:33so she wants to be friends and make herself feel better.
30:36I really don't know, but I don't like it
30:38because it's making it harder for me to move on.
30:42I feel like Sophie thinks she wants to remain friends,
30:44but I kind of feel like...
30:46Some type of way.
30:47She doesn't deserve that.
30:49And I agree, like, just outside looking in, man,
30:52like, you know, it is time to live for you, man.
30:55It is time for you to get out there and, you know,
30:58find what makes you happy and who makes you happy.
31:01You know, besides me, of course, like...
31:03Yeah.
31:05I mean, like, relationship-wise, you know?
31:09As low as it got, as dark as it got, man,
31:12it's so much brighter now.
31:14Josh, he's helped me to not be in a negative place,
31:17and I'm, you know, I'm indebted to him for that
31:19because breaking up, splitting from a marriage,
31:21that shits up.
31:22I'm gonna do what the girls do.
31:24I'm gonna go out there and get snatched.
31:26I'm gonna go be the best version of myself.
31:28Yeah.
31:29It's my, it's my, uh...
31:31What's that term?
31:33The drizzle drizzle era?
31:35But you know what?
31:36To the ladies out there,
31:38I'm available, I'm available, I'm trying to move on.
31:40So don't be shy.
31:42Shoot your shot.
31:44Yeah, let's get this.
31:45Let's get, let's find Rob's team now.
31:48We're gonna get this ball rolling.
32:02Today's the day we are moving.
32:04We are moving because we need more space.
32:06I'm not really used to this much space.
32:09Me too.
32:10But we are making space.
32:14Baby coming.
32:15Baby coming very soon.
32:17I'm so excited,
32:18but I'm at the point where my feet are now swollen,
32:20so I'm gonna need to sit, babe.
32:22Okay.
32:23Can you help me?
32:24This is my beautiful wife, Akini.
32:26And this is my husband, Benjamin.
32:28We live in Phoenix, Arizona.
32:30I'm originally from Kenya.
32:32Oh, let me put my feet up.
32:35There we go, babe.
32:36All right, I'm gonna keep working on these boxes.
32:39I'm just going to chill here.
32:41This is what I get for being pregnant.
32:43I just chill while Benjamin is doing most of the moving.
32:48I first met Akini in 2018 on a dating app,
32:53and she was gorgeous.
32:55So I sent her a message.
32:57I didn't think she was gonna respond,
32:59but fortunately she did.
33:01She had a great smile,
33:04and I just was blown away.
33:07He forgot the dimples.
33:11Once we started talking, he was very respectful.
33:14He was a very nice guy,
33:15and it didn't take very long for us to start our process
33:17with the K-1 visa.
33:20Oh, my God.
33:28You're real.
33:29You're real.
33:31Oh, baby, you're so hairy.
33:34Oh, wow.
33:37As soon as the K-1 was approved,
33:39Akini came to the U.S., and we were married.
33:41Today I chose you,
33:43and forever I will always choose you.
33:45Benjamin, give me a kiss.
33:51We've been waiting to be pregnant since we got married.
33:55It has been something that has been delaying.
33:59I've gone through so much tears and crying,
34:02and finally we're having a baby.
34:05Akini came to me and told me
34:07that she had seen this thing on social media
34:11about using a decongestant to get pregnant.
34:17So what the decongestant does is
34:20it loosens up any mucus inside of...
34:26The coochie?
34:27The coochie, the vagina, if we're gonna be correct.
34:31But a week after we tried it,
34:33we just got pregnant.
34:35Yeah.
34:37I can't wait to be a mommy.
34:41I can't wait.
34:44I have three months left with this pregnancy.
34:47We don't know the gender of the baby yet,
34:49but I want it to be a girl.
34:51And I'm thinking it's a boy,
34:54going off of being gassy.
34:57Wow.
34:59We're getting gassy lately.
35:00Wow.
35:03I'm just hungry.
35:04Oh, that looks so nice. Can I see?
35:06Yeah, try it out.
35:09Oh my goodness.
35:11This is so...
35:12You can sit there and just...
35:13You know what? You can leave me here.
35:18Thank you, babe.
35:19You're welcome.
35:20This is so nice.
35:24I love you.
35:30How have you been feeling, babe?
35:32My belly is growing.
35:37Have you been feeling sick at all?
35:39And my hands have been getting very swelling lately.
35:44So Benjamin and I have been talking about
35:47what I want for my push gift.
35:49And I want a car.
35:51Now that we're having a baby,
35:53I think it's going to be the perfect time,
35:55especially if we're having a girl,
35:57so that we can always just go shopping
35:59without him having to drive us everywhere.
36:02So we're going to look at a car
36:04and see what we can get
36:06before the baby gets here.
36:09Do you have anything specific or anything?
36:11Yeah.
36:12I would like something big,
36:14something that stays attached.
36:16As long as it's about gravity.
36:18I have a SUV that just got in
36:21and all the bells and whistles,
36:22and it's got a lot of radio.
36:24So here's the car right here.
36:26Come take a look at it.
36:28Oh my gosh.
36:29Yeah.
36:33It has three rows.
36:35Yes, babe.
36:36Oh, that's so cool.
36:38Okay, babe.
36:39I found a dream car.
36:40Oh, yeah?
36:41Yeah.
36:42This car is big.
36:44It's nice.
36:45That's what I'm going for.
36:46I love everything about it.
36:48So this one is $46,500.
36:52That's a lot.
36:55Babe, $46,000 is a bit over budget.
37:00I was thinking something more like $20,000.
37:03With the new house, there's added expenses,
37:07and being the single income provider for the house,
37:11it's a bit difficult right now.
37:17It's a really expensive car.
37:22It's really expensive to have in LA.
37:26Well, you can't even drive right now.
37:29I don't have my driver's license
37:31because I need my green card fast,
37:33but it's been a long wait.
37:36I use an online service,
37:38and every time I check on the adjustment,
37:41it just keeps saying processing.
37:44Don't worry.
37:45I'm going to get you taken care of,
37:47and it'll happen.
37:51Days go up, down.
37:54Good ones, bad ones.
38:00Where do you want to go to?
38:05Today, we are going to meet an immigration attorney.
38:10It's been three years waiting for Hakimi's green card,
38:13so we're going to see what's happening.
38:16Three and a half years.
38:18Three and a half years.
38:20There she is.
38:22Hey there.
38:23How are you guys?
38:24Good, how are you?
38:25Good to see you.
38:26All right, let's get set right over here.
38:29How's your day going?
38:31It's hot outside.
38:33It's hot, yes, very hot.
38:35Okay, so what's going on today?
38:38What are you guys here for?
38:40I don't have a valid ID.
38:43I am still not able to walk.
38:46I'm not able to travel.
38:48I'm not able to go see my family.
38:52Okay, so let's start from the beginning.
38:54Once you guys get married within the 90 days,
38:57which you guys did, right?
38:58Yes.
38:59You're supposed to file paperwork
39:00to get your work permit, your travel document,
39:02your social, and your green card,
39:04which you have filed.
39:06I did that.
39:07I went through a website online.
39:09I think I spent somewhere around $5,000 or $6,000
39:14with this company.
39:16When you try to check up on it,
39:18what does the website say?
39:20One of the things they recently told me,
39:23because I've been reaching out to them,
39:25is that they actually need more money from me.
39:31Okay, so as far as I can see,
39:34I just see the K-1 approval.
39:36Since then, I don't see anything else that's been filed.
39:41Was he duped by somebody?
39:45Yes, and unfortunately, it is something that I see a lot
39:48where somebody thought the paperwork was filed
39:50and they relied on those assurances,
39:53and I see nothing at all on my end.
39:55So all that money we spent on that website
39:58is just gone like that?
40:00I don't think there's anything I can do to get it back.
40:07It's embarrassing and it's disappointing.
40:11It's been so much money, and I'm sorry.
40:18It sucks. I'm so sorry.
40:20But we can fix it.
40:22You're still protected by being married to a U.S. citizen,
40:25but we can get it filed ASAP, and then once we file it,
40:28it normally only takes about two to four weeks
40:30to get a receipt notice.
40:32We can get you an I.D. pretty quickly at the MVD
40:34here in Arizona once we file.
40:36Then I can start driving?
40:37Yes, you can start driving.
40:39Yeah, all of that, you'll see real things this time.
40:43Okay.
40:44I'm honored that he didn't do this years ago,
40:47but I'm glad that it's now starting to happen.
40:50The milk has already been poured on the ground as they...
40:53Do you say that in America?
40:55You can't cry over spilled milk.
40:57What he said.
40:58Even though I dropped the ball with this,
41:01and at this point, we would have saved money
41:03if we had just come and done this at the beginning.
41:05Yeah.
41:06But I will always fight for you,
41:09and I'm always going to take care of you.
41:11That's so sweet.
41:13I am expecting a really good push present, finally.
41:16Okay.
41:18We should be ready to file in the next week.
41:20Okay.
41:21Okay.
41:22It was so good to meet you in person.
41:24Great to meet you.