- 5/20/2025
90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 4 -Dear Diary, Things Are Changing
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00:00♪♪
00:10Hold on a sec. Let me grab this camera.
00:13Almost fell. Okay.
00:14Let's go, let's go.
00:16You ready for bang-bang time?
00:18Daddy's always ready.
00:20It's just a little scratch.
00:22Oh, thank you.
00:24It's all better.
00:26It's too tight.
00:27This is... This has to go.
00:30Elizabeth Zadrajewska.
00:33Happy birthday, my love.
00:35Are we ready to celebrate your next birthday in Moldova?
00:38Oh, my gosh. You're scaring me.
00:40Andrei has been trying to convince me
00:42that we should move our entire family to Moldova.
00:46Moldova.
00:47Oh, my gosh.
00:48Moldova.
00:49Moldova.
00:51Well, I think that my water broke.
00:55How are you feeling?
00:57If it's really my water broke.
00:59Oh, it is, baby.
01:01The baby's head got stuck.
01:04It's not going any further.
01:06So now they're planning a C-section.
01:09God help us.
01:11Zied has been acting so strange lately.
01:14Okay.
01:15Check his location.
01:17Oh, my God, it's with a woman.
01:19I'm gonna throw up.
01:21This is not f***ing happening.
01:23How did he f***ing do this?
01:39Zied's home.
01:41Hey, babe.
01:43I'm back here.
01:45How was your day?
01:47Hi. I'm just tired.
01:50I'm sorry, baby.
01:51How are you?
01:52I ordered pizza.
01:53Oh, cool.
01:54I'm Rebecca.
01:55I'm 53 years old, and I live in Smyrna, Georgia.
01:59I'm Zied.
02:00I'm 31 years old, and I'm from Tunisia.
02:04You want to sit down?
02:06Don't you?
02:08I want to go take a shower.
02:10I know, baby, but I missed you.
02:11What happened to your finger?
02:12It's just a little scratch.
02:14That is not a little scratch.
02:17Oh, thank you.
02:19It's all better.
02:20I feel better now.
02:23So me and Zied, we met on social media.
02:26We have a 22-year age gap, and I don't know,
02:30I kind of thought it might be a problem,
02:32but it never bothered me.
02:33Me too.
02:35Never mind for me.
02:39Good morning, sexy.
02:41I want to kiss you now.
02:45After talking for nine months, I flew to Tunisia.
02:48We met and fell in love.
02:50A year later, Zied moved to the U.S. on a K-1 visa,
02:54and we got married.
02:56You may kiss your bride.
03:00We just celebrated four years of wedded bliss.
03:03We're happy.
03:04Yeah.
03:05Say it.
03:06I am so happy.
03:08I'm happy.
03:11So you want to take a shower, and I'll get the pizza ready?
03:14Yes, please.
03:15But about six months ago, we decided to look into
03:19whether or not we wanted to have children.
03:21I'm not able to carry them because of my partial hysterectomy.
03:25I'm sad, actually, because we don't have kids,
03:29but Rebecca is enough for me, so we're happy.
03:36Pizza.
03:38I made it.
03:42So do you have any plans for this weekend?
03:44Do you have anything you're going to do?
03:45I'm going to go to the bar.
03:48So who are you meeting tomorrow night?
03:53Oh, I'm going to meet one of my friends who works with me.
04:02You want to go to bed?
04:03Yeah.
04:04Get ready for bed.
04:15So Zied has been acting so strange lately.
04:22I'm not sure what's going on.
04:25But, like, every single night, he's like,
04:29do you want to go to bed?
04:30And it's not even late.
04:32Like, is he an old man or something?
04:34So watch what will happen.
04:36He's outside right now doing God knows what,
04:39and then he'll get in the bed, play on his phone,
04:43don't know what he's doing on his phone,
04:45he's got a privacy screen on his phone,
04:47and then get back up and disappear for another 30 minutes.
04:52And if I'm lucky, he only does it once.
04:54Most nights, he does this two or three times.
04:59And that's what I know while I'm awake.
05:04And now he's going to a bar.
05:06He never does that.
05:09I don't know.
05:10Something's not right.
05:13I don't know.
05:44Okay.
06:01He's already gotten up, gone outside.
06:04I wonder if I can catch him.
06:07And actually see what he's doing.
06:14I don't want to be paranoid,
06:15but my ex-husband from Morocco cheated on me.
06:19And now everything that's happening with Zied
06:21is starting to feel like deja vu.
06:28So he's sitting out under the canopy,
06:30and he's on his phone.
06:33I'm scared he's going to see me.
06:36I know Zied said that it doesn't matter
06:38that we can't have kids together,
06:40but it's still a huge insecurity for me.
06:43And I can't help but worry,
06:45is he talking to a younger woman
06:47that maybe can give him children?
06:49Is that something that he's decided he wants?
06:52When he goes out tomorrow night,
06:54I'm going to follow him.
06:55I need to know what is going on right now.
06:59I'm going to find out tomorrow night.
07:11So Zied just left.
07:13He is going to meet his friend at a bar.
07:18So this is what you're wearing to meet your friend?
07:23You look really, really nice.
07:26It's a guy, right?
07:30I'm just saying.
07:35He 100% looks like he's dressed up for a date,
07:38and I feel sick.
07:40So one thing that people may not know about me
07:43is that I was a private investigator for four years.
07:46I'm going to go put the tracker on.
07:48All right.
07:52Look, there he is.
07:54I know he's cheating.
07:55We are busting him.
07:57During my time as a PI,
07:59I learned that the clear signs
08:01that someone is cheating is
08:03they will start caring about their appearance,
08:06they'll start running errands frequently,
08:08and they'll use that time to call the person
08:11they're having an affair with.
08:13Zied has started doing all of this.
08:15Like, he checks all the boxes.
08:19Hey! Come on in.
08:21How are you?
08:22I'm okay.
08:24I have not checked his location yet.
08:26He didn't tell me where he was going.
08:28When did he leave?
08:29Like, 8 o'clock.
08:30He definitely looks like he's dressed for a date.
08:33It's ridiculous.
08:34I'm going to watch my phone, see where he's going.
08:37Fingers crossed that it is just going to be
08:40ridiculously overthought, and everything's fine.
08:44When I first met Zied, he seemed genuine.
08:47He seemed completely in love with Rebecca,
08:51and I'm not saying that he isn't now.
08:53It's just there are certain things that he's doing
08:56is suspicious.
08:58Check his location when we get in the car,
09:01Check his location when we get in the car,
09:03and we'll see how far it is.
09:05Him leaving tonight,
09:07looking the way that Rebecca said he looked,
09:09I think it's important that we go out and see where he is.
09:12So, that's why I'm here,
09:14and we're going to figure out the truth.
09:16Okay.
09:17Check his location.
09:20He's in Canton.
09:21He's going to a bar.
09:23It's 39 minutes away.
09:25Okay.
09:26Let's go.
09:29Are you okay?
09:32Are you effing kidding me right now?
09:36What?
09:37That is the place I caught my ex from Morocco.
09:40Cheating!
09:42I just got chills.
09:45He had better be with a f***ing man.
09:54Here we are.
09:58Can I turn these off?
09:59Yeah.
10:01The jeep is over there.
10:03My jeep is right there.
10:09Do you want me to go and walk?
10:11Yeah.
10:12Yeah?
10:14Okay.
10:15If you see him, I don't give a f*** if he sees you.
10:18Because he's not going to be sitting in a freaking car with one of his work friends.
10:22Okay.
10:23I'm going to take this one.
10:31Beep.
10:35Beep.
10:37Oh my God.
10:43Oh my God.
10:44He's with a woman.
10:47I'm going to throw up.
10:49Why would he f***ing do this?
10:52What the f***?
10:56Laura, come on.
10:58Laura, come on.
11:00This is no f***ing happening.
11:02Same f***ing place.
11:16Today is Mama's birthday.
11:19Right, Winston?
11:20We have to be quiet.
11:21She's still sleeping.
11:23What does it say here?
11:25It says happy birthday.
11:26What do you say if it's in Romanian?
11:27How do you say happy birthday in Romanian?
11:29La mulțan.
11:31La mulțan.
11:33Surprise.
11:34Surprise. Yeah, we're going to do a surprise for her.
11:40I'm Elizabeth, I'm 34 years old and I live in Tampa, Florida.
11:43You have a glazed one?
11:45That one is for Mama.
11:47I'm Andrei, I'm 38 years old.
11:50I'm from Tampa, Florida.
11:51Originally, I'm from Chisinau, Moldova.
11:54Hold on a second, hold on a second.
11:56Let me grab this camera.
11:58Almost fell.
11:59OK, I'm grabbing it.
12:02I met Andrei on a dating app.
12:04That was a few years ago.
12:07I was planning a trip to Dublin, Ireland,
12:09where Andrei was living at the time.
12:11We both swiped right on each other.
12:13We planned to just spend a couple of days together,
12:16but it ended up being my entire trip
12:19and he ended up travelling through Europe with me
12:22as my tour guide.
12:23Correction, ended up being your whole life.
12:28After half a year of dating,
12:30I decided that I need to put a ring on this finger over here.
12:35And so I did.
12:37We applied for the K1 visa and then Andrei came to America
12:41and we had our wedding here in Florida.
12:50Now we have two children.
12:52Eli is five and a half and Winston is almost two years old.
12:55Let's go, let's go.
12:57Winston, come on.
13:08Mama, look what we've got for you.
13:11Thank you, my babies.
13:13Mucan Trajaske.
13:15Happy birthday, my love.
13:17Thank you, baby.
13:19What is it?
13:20Are we ready to celebrate your next birthday in Moldova?
13:23Oh my gosh, you're scaring me.
13:25You know, like we switch positions.
13:27You need to learn how to be in a different country.
13:31For the past six months, Andrei has been trying to convince me
13:35that we should move our entire family to Moldova.
13:39Six months ago when I took a trip to Moldova,
13:41I just realized I had such great memories
13:45and that's actually the first time when I was thinking
13:47about my grandparents being involved more
13:50in my children's life.
13:52Come on, teach Eli some Romanian phrases.
13:56You know, you know how to do it.
13:58Come on, a couple of phrases.
13:59Eli, you're the best.
14:02You're the best.
14:03There you go, I love you too.
14:05I love you.
14:06Very nice, very nice.
14:08We can have such a better life there.
14:10Cost of living is better.
14:12My family's better.
14:14My friends are better.
14:15And I think the schools are better there too.
14:18Are we really talking about this on my birthday, babe?
14:20Yes.
14:21Moldova.
14:23Moldova.
14:24Come on, babe.
14:24My birthday.
14:26Moldova.
14:28Moldova.
14:34I think Lindsey just arrived.
14:37Ah, she's here, hi.
14:40Welcome.
14:41Thanks for coming.
14:42Of course.
14:43I've known Lindsey for about 10 to 15 years.
14:47She's been a really close family friend
14:49and she's an incredible photographer.
14:52She's gonna take some really cute family photos
14:55of us in our home.
14:57Cheese.
15:02We like to do it every six months or so.
15:05Gorgeous.
15:08You're too big to walk out of here.
15:10Cheese.
15:14Beautiful.
15:17Ready?
15:18Cheese.
15:23I cannot wait to see the pictures that you took.
15:25They're gonna be so pretty.
15:26I know, they always are.
15:31Wow, we've done so many shoots together.
15:34I can't even count how many.
15:38So Andres decided that he wants to move to Moldova.
15:45I don't know how I feel about it yet.
15:47I was gonna just feel like, if I was 25, whatever.
15:51No responsibilities.
15:52But like when you have kids
15:54and you're starting to grow roots,
15:58you can't just like uproot them.
16:01I just can't even fathom
16:05moving to another country like that.
16:07I just don't, I don't see that panning out well for y'all.
16:10And then you'll have to come back and start over again.
16:13I can't even, I can't even think about it right now.
16:16I can't.
16:21Hey.
16:23Morning.
16:23Morning.
16:24What do you think?
16:25Coffee?
16:26Hi.
16:27Hi.
16:28What makes a good wake up call?
16:30Listen, got some links over here from some houses
16:32in Moldova Bay.
16:34Check this out.
16:35Babe, you're really freaking me out.
16:35Listen, listen, look.
16:36You want a coffee?
16:38Yes.
16:38I think I need a coffee before I deal.
16:39So, so.
16:47You're really so serious?
16:48Of course I'm serious, babe.
16:49I was saying literally 3,000 square feet house,
16:52like triple less for price, but the luxury is even more.
16:57Don't get me wrong.
16:58I love Moldova.
16:59I just don't know that I can live there.
17:02I've never lived in another country before.
17:05I'm just, I'm concerned about our kids.
17:08We're just gonna uproot them literally
17:10and to another country at that.
17:12Not even just a different house.
17:14I see your point of view and I understand it,
17:19but at the same time,
17:20I get to experience like where their dad is from.
17:26I don't know that I would fit in there.
17:31I think you're gonna adapt really quickly.
17:33I think it's just an anxiety that you have.
17:34I think you're more afraid just like,
17:37you know, you're not gonna be able to do it.
17:39You're not gonna be able to do it.
17:40You're not gonna be able to do it.
17:40You're not gonna be able to do it.
17:41You're not gonna be able to do it.
17:42I think you're more afraid just like
17:43how you're gonna portray yourself in that society.
17:46Because that's how I felt when I came here.
17:49I understand it's a lot and I understand it's a big move,
17:53but I did the same when I moved to U.S.
17:55and I did it for you.
17:57We're in this together.
18:01This is just like a whole other life
18:03that we would be living.
18:03Yeah, that's why, because we need changes.
18:05Changes is fun.
18:06Changes is good.
18:08We need to be very, very cautious.
18:18Yes?
18:19It's not a no.
18:21Let's do it, baby.
18:22Let's do it.
18:23Let's come on.
18:24Let's go.
18:24Let's make it happen.
18:27Yeah.
18:28I can see how serious this is for Andre
18:31and like how much it means to him right now.
18:34I am definitely more excited about the idea.
18:38It would be a good move, ultimately.
18:39It is a great country.
18:41It's cheaper.
18:42It's more family oriented.
18:43It's smaller.
18:44The food is better for you.
18:46It's healthier.
18:47I feel like the lifestyle in general
18:49just would be a lot healthier and better for us.
18:52But I'm not really excited about leaving my life behind
18:57and my family.
18:59If I move there and see that it was the wrong decision,
19:05that would just eat away at me.
19:08Let's do it.
19:08I'm telling you.
19:09Come on.
19:10Are you really doing this?
19:11Yes.
19:25Boing, boing, boing.
19:27Baby.
19:29You ready for baby time?
19:31Get this baby out of me.
19:32Daddy's always ready.
19:34Come to papa, baby.
19:36My name's Sam.
19:38I'm from Cameron, Missouri, and I'm 31 years old.
19:41Come to papa.
19:46I'm Siter.
19:47I'm from Indonesia, and I'm 27 years old.
19:50So we're trying everything to get this baby out of me.
19:55Plus it's just fun doing it.
19:56I'll take any excuse I can to do it.
20:00Isn't this how we got into this mess?
20:03We met in the most unlikeliest of ways
20:05on a very sketchy, scammy dating app
20:08that most likely ends in losing money
20:12and like, you know, one of those romance scams.
20:15But just happened to get lucky
20:17finding the love of my life 9,000 miles away.
20:22It was like a really random time when I was at work.
20:26And then I found his profile.
20:27I was like, this guy have baby face.
20:31So I text him, and then he text me back.
20:33And since then, we've become really like soulmates.
20:36I'm glad I was just a good, bored moment
20:39happened to catch you at the right time.
20:44After a year and a half of waiting,
20:47her K1 visa finally got approved.
20:52Oh my God.
20:54I've missed you so much.
20:56Hey.
20:58We ran into a few little problems here and there,
21:02like kind of nonstop.
21:04Citra and her family worried about my drug pass.
21:08I was still weaning off Suboxone,
21:11which is the drug you take to stay off opiates
21:14and not go through withdrawals.
21:16Everything's been on the up and up.
21:17So I think they found out I'm not a bad guy
21:20and I'm worthy of a chance.
21:23I now pronounce you husband and wife.
21:25After I eased Citra and her family's minds
21:28about my drug pass, we really bonded together
21:30as two families became one,
21:32and we're able to have a beautiful wedding.
21:38Baby, you look so good pregnant.
21:39I don't know, maybe it's because you're carrying my baby
21:41and it just makes me love you more.
21:4520 days after getting married, Citra got pregnant.
21:49I knew for sure it was a boy,
21:51but girl daddy all the way now.
21:55How big my belly is.
21:57She's eight and a half months pregnant,
21:59probably just a couple more weeks.
22:01I think the baby's pretty much ready.
22:04This is my first child.
22:05I never have child before.
22:08I never prepare myself, like try to practice anything.
22:12So it's just like, okay, when it's time to go in labor,
22:16just go in labor and give birth.
22:18But I feel a bit nervous.
22:21Everything is gonna be okay, hopefully.
22:25It's gonna be easy delivery.
22:38I think that my water broke
22:42because when I woke up and I need to pee
22:46and I take my time to sit down
22:49and it feels like pee coming out, but it wasn't pee.
22:55If it's really my water broke.
22:57Oh, it is, baby, I'm telling you.
22:59I know that little baby girl inside there.
23:02She's anything like me.
23:03She's gonna be a little ass that's inconvenient.
23:06Chose to open at like three in the morning,
23:08four in the morning.
23:10She's definitely into labor.
23:12She's handling it like a champ so far though, for real.
23:16Pray for her, pray for the baby.
23:20It's all going down.
23:22They're about to give her Potassium
23:24because her water definitely broke.
23:25She's four centimeters dilated
23:27and it's definitely going down today.
23:31The plan definitely is to have a natural birth.
23:35I mean, it's always best to go natural, right?
23:37But I can't stand the thought of seeing her go through pain
23:40and I can't do anything about it.
23:43Harder, harder, harder.
23:44One, two, keep going, three, keep going, four,
23:48keep going, five, six, seven, eight, nine, 10.
23:54One, two, cut.
23:59Eventually the baby's head got,
24:02it's like not stuck, but it's not going any further.
24:06So now they're planning a C-section.
24:10God help us.
24:13They're about to do the C-section.
24:16Just waiting to go in.
24:18I'm not really looking forward to seeing her open,
24:21but the baby's about to be here finally.
24:33Mama and baby have been doing good.
24:36Her hemoglobin, iron levels basically was real low.
24:41They had to give her blood actually.
24:44How tired are you?
24:46So tired.
24:47It's all worth it for this cuteness.
24:50We named her Eris
24:52because Sam has a favorite character from his video game.
24:55Don't make it sound so dorky and dumb saying it like that.
24:58It's a beautiful name.
25:01When I saw her in person,
25:03I was speechless, also like happy, like emotional.
25:10Whoa, it's so weird seeing.
25:13You watching that?
25:15Holding Eris for the first time,
25:19it was better than any drug I've ever done,
25:22any high I've ever had.
25:24I knew like this is what I was made for.
25:26It's just pure love.
25:30Hey guys, we're home.
25:31Oh my goodness.
25:32Whoa.
25:33Wow.
25:34So this is the baby.
25:36Not your first grandbaby, but your most special grandbaby.
25:40They're twin grandbabies.
25:42Oh my gosh, she's so beautiful.
25:45It used to be I'd get high
25:46because I didn't care about what I'd possibly lose
25:50from getting high.
25:51And now the love I got from her and Eris,
25:55honestly, I just feel like I was a dumb kid
25:57and I finally grew up.
26:00She's got citrus nose.
26:01Wait until you have one.
26:02God, Sam, weird lips.
26:05These are sexy lips.
26:07Put a little peach fuzz in their nose
26:09and maybe she'll just like it, man.
26:11This is the moment that we always talk about
26:14when we were dating.
26:16Nowadays, it's all real life.
26:18Told you you'd meet up with cute baby.
26:22Good night, Eris.
26:23Good night.
26:24We'll see you in the morning.
26:25We'll see ya.
26:30♪ I've been giving well, you just take it all ♪
26:35♪ You've been faking love, I've been fooled by you ♪
26:41Ooh, a package.
26:42Yes, finally.
26:43Ooh, they're waiting for you, baby.
26:47Go ahead, get you open.
26:49See what's in here so I can look fresh for Mexico.
26:53My name is Tyre.
26:54I'm 34 years old and I live in Modesto, California.
26:59Okay, ooh, I like this.
27:00I've been waiting for it.
27:02Let me try this bad boy on.
27:04My journey began four years ago
27:06when I received a message from a beautiful girl
27:08named Carmela from Barbados.
27:10Carmela and I talked almost every day
27:13and she became my best friend and then my online girlfriend.
27:17We decided to meet.
27:19I flew to Barbados and she never showed up.
27:22And then later on, I found out that I was being catfished.
27:26The person you've been messaging with
27:29the last several years is a man.
27:35Wow.
27:36Wow.
27:39Since then, I put myself back out there.
27:42So I ended up meeting a few women
27:43who weren't ready for relationships.
27:45And then I met Shannon.
27:46Shannon was really cool.
27:48I met her in New Orleans.
27:50She ended up coming to the tell-all
27:52and she ended up giving me that magical kiss.
27:55I don't know what to do.
27:57Yeah, why not?
27:58I'm so intrigued.
27:59All right.
28:01I don't know what to do.
28:05Oh, God.
28:06We stayed in touch a little bit,
28:08but things kind of stalled out,
28:10mainly because of the distance
28:11and also because of my lack of confidence.
28:17Let me try on this shirt.
28:25Doesn't fit good.
28:27Looks terrible, looks absolutely terrible.
28:30It's too tight.
28:34This has to go.
28:36So I made some big plans recently.
28:39I have to do something about my weight.
28:42My clothes fit so weird.
28:44I just look not like I should be.
28:47I need to lose weight.
28:48I need to get healthy.
28:50I want to be able to wear my clothes
28:51and not have to gamble on if something's gonna wear.
28:56Like, look how big this shirt is.
28:58It's like a sheet.
29:00It's humongous.
29:02I'm tired of my weight holding me back
29:04from relationships and love,
29:06which is why I've decided to have
29:07gastric sleeve surgery in Mexico.
29:10It's scary to have a major surgery that far from home,
29:13but having that kind of negative vibe
29:16isn't something I want to live with.
29:27Hey.
29:28Hi.
29:29Hey.
29:30No one in my family knows that I've decided
29:32to have weight loss surgery.
29:34And today I decided to tell my sisters and my mom.
29:37I feel nervous.
29:39You guys want a drink?
29:41Yeah.
29:42You want a drink?
29:42All right.
29:43I don't want to do anything that's gonna hurt them
29:46or something that they don't approve of.
29:51Thank you so much.
29:51This looks yummy.
29:52What is this movie you're trying to tell us?
29:55It's not even really news.
29:56Like, okay.
29:58So I put a deposit down to have gastric sleeve surgery
30:02in Mexico.
30:04Huh?
30:05Yeah.
30:06Wait, Mexico?
30:07What'd you just say?
30:08I'm gonna go to Mexico and have weight loss surgery.
30:10In Mexico?
30:11In Mexico.
30:12Are you taking votes on this or is this a no?
30:14Wait, where in Mexico?
30:15Tijuana.
30:16Tijuana?
30:18Why do you want to go to Tijuana and have surgery?
30:21It's cheaper there.
30:22I can get it faster.
30:23Let me stop you right there.
30:24Cheaper?
30:25That's the wrong word.
30:26Cheaper is not always better.
30:28It's more affordable in Mexico.
30:30And...
30:31Because they're killing you down there.
30:33No, that facility doesn't have any deaths.
30:35How do you know?
30:36Because I looked it up.
30:38Because they hid them.
30:42Who's gonna go with you?
30:43Because none of us have passports.
30:45Nobody's going with me.
30:46I'm going alone.
30:47So you're gonna go all the way down there to Mexico
30:50by yourself.
30:52And then what?
30:54I mean, I don't know.
30:55You know, they'll call you guys if it's a problem.
30:57They'll call us and then what?
30:58But we can't get you.
31:01I just can't believe that he wants to go
31:02all the way to Mexico.
31:03Like, I've heard nothing but horror stories
31:05about people going to Mexico to have surgeries.
31:07I just feel like, no.
31:08It's risky.
31:09It's a red flag.
31:10Mexico is a red flag.
31:12And you trust these people?
31:14Trust them?
31:15I trust them.
31:15I did a lot of research on them, the facility.
31:17Now we really can't trust it
31:18because we know your online research sucks.
31:20Oh my God.
31:23No, this place is good.
31:24It's not the same as the Carmela situation.
31:25I'm not a catfish or a scam.
31:27Sure, we need to look it up ourselves.
31:29When do you want to have it?
31:31Let's go next week.
31:33Huh?
31:35If you're gonna do it,
31:36I would rather you do it here.
31:38These doctors know you better.
31:39They know your history.
31:41You got all your people here.
31:42You go out of the country.
31:43They don't know anything about you.
31:44They just want your money.
31:45Cut you and smack you on the ass
31:47and send you out the door.
31:49Wow.
31:51I thought my sisters would be a little more open-minded
31:54about the situation.
31:55They don't understand the position I'm in financially
31:59and they don't know how desperate I am to lose this weight.
32:03This is not solid.
32:04It's not solid at all.
32:06I'm absolutely positively against it.
32:09Oh, man.
32:11Today is a big day for me.
32:13I've taken my family's concerns into serious consideration
32:16about me going to Mexico for surgery.
32:20Let's go.
32:23I think there are being a lot of questions
32:24about my situation.
32:26I'm not a doctor.
32:27I'm not a model.
32:28I'm not a model.
32:29I'm not a model.
32:30I'm not a model.
32:31I'm not a model.
32:32I'm not a model.
32:33I'm not a model.
32:35I'm not a model.
32:36I'm not a model.
32:37I'm not a model.
32:38being a little dramatic, but I do understand where they were coming from.
32:42It is scary, you know, going to a foreign country by yourself, you know, there's a
32:46lot of unknowns, and my family will be really far away. That's why I've decided
32:51to look at the doctors here in California to see what my options are.
33:00Hello. Hi. Go ahead and sign in for me. Okay. So I have officially canceled my surgery in
33:07New Mexico, and now I actually found a local doctor here who actually takes my
33:12insurance. We're gonna start with a scale. Oh, scale, no. Okay, go ahead and just fill out your first name, please.
33:16Okay, you ready? Ah, no.
33:19You wouldn't know.
33:21Got you at 407.
33:25Okay. Wow. I thought it was 207.
33:28Currently, I'm at 407 pounds. You know, I had
33:31weighed myself a few months ago. I was nowhere near that. You know, I'm just
33:34ready to get back on the right track and to, you know, get healthy and to be in a
33:40good spot.
33:41Hi there. Oh, hey.
33:43I'm Dr. Hubert. Nice to meet you.
33:45How are things going for you?
33:47Going good.
33:49Thanks for coming in today. You're welcome.
33:51I see right here you're weighing 407 pounds today.
33:54Do you have in mind what would be like a goal weight for you at all?
33:58What would you like to get down to with surgery?
34:00Oh, maybe like 215.
34:02Okay.
34:03The sleeve is the most common surgery done for weight loss.
34:05That means you have about 247 pounds right now of extra body weight.
34:09With that, I'd expect you to lose roughly 50 to maybe 60 percent of your extra weight.
34:14Okay.
34:15So it'd be important after surgery, there's still work to be done.
34:18Okay.
34:19Keeping up with your diet and once you lose some more weight, you can be more active and
34:22exercise more and help out with that weight loss.
34:24You know, we change the size of your stomach, but then people adapt to it.
34:28And so instead of having a couple of large meals, they'll have more meals throughout
34:33the day that are smaller in size.
34:35Okay.
34:36But do you know what the timeline is for me having surgery right now?
34:39Yeah.
34:40So hopefully in about four or five months, we can get you on the schedule.
34:42Okay?
34:43Okay.
34:44This is a life-changing, altering surgery.
34:46I'm excited.
34:47You know, it's been a long time coming and I'm ready to start this next chapter.
34:50Yeah.
34:51I feel like I found the perfect doctor, but it does make me nervous just knowing that
34:55this surgery isn't the end of the road for me.
34:57I still have to change my eating habits.
34:59I have to exercise.
35:01If I don't, then I can end up gaining weight again and I can end up being in a worse position
35:06than I am now.
35:07I really need to make these changes and do whatever I can to keep the weight off because
35:12my life depends on it.
35:14And hopefully this will be the start to a new beginning.
35:18You know, I'm ready to look like a snack and not eat them.
35:27Oh my God.
35:28He's with a woman.
35:29What the f**k?
35:30He is walking over here.
35:31Oh my God.
35:32He just walked by the car with her.
35:33Are you f**king kidding me right now?
35:34Six years ago, I met Zied on social media.
35:35We fell in love.
35:36He moved to Georgia from Tunisia.
35:37We started dating.
35:38I was like, oh my God.
35:39Oh my God.
35:40Oh my God.
35:41Oh my God.
35:42Oh my God.
35:43Oh my God.
35:44Oh my God.
35:45Oh my God.
35:46Oh my God.
35:47Oh my God.
35:48Oh my God.
35:49Oh my God.
35:50Oh my God.
35:51Oh my God.
35:52Oh my God.
35:53Oh my God.
35:54Oh my God.
35:55Oh my God.
35:56We fell in love.
35:57He moved to Georgia from Tunisia.
35:58We got married.
35:59And we've been building a life together.
36:02And now I've caught him hanging with another woman.
36:05Oh, I feel like I'm going to throw up and pass out.
36:15What do you want me to do?
36:22Just leave.
36:23What do you want me to do?
36:24I don't want to go to your house right now.
36:25I don't want to f**king be here.
36:26You want to call him?
36:27No.
36:28Hell no.
36:29I f**king knew it.
36:30I f**king knew it.
36:31Please go.
36:32I don't want him to see me.
36:33Oh my God.
36:34I'm f**king shaking.
36:35Seeing Died walk outside with a woman, a girl, his age, I feel like I want to die.
36:54He just texted me on my way home, babe.
36:57F**k him.
37:00There is no excuse that he can come up with.
37:04Is that him?
37:07Okay.
37:08Okay.
37:09Listen, I'm the first one to like, I don't trust anybody, but it's Zied.
37:17It's Zied.
37:18Like, we have to keep that in mind.
37:20He is a man.
37:29Given my age and everything that I've been through, I cannot imagine having to start
37:35over.
37:38Zied was supposed to be the one, the last one.
37:43That was it.
37:44Hello.
37:45Hi.
37:47Hello.
37:48Hi.
37:49Hi.
37:50Let's go outside.
37:51Okay.
37:52Obviously, my husband is cheating on me and I, I just need a minute.
38:03I just need to try to figure out what I'm going to do next.
38:06Can I stay with you guys for a couple of days?
38:11Obviously.
38:12Obviously.
38:13But he is not getting a house.
38:14No.
38:15I'm just giving him a couple of days to get his **** out.
38:19So we just got back to my house.
38:21We left the bar and we saw what we saw and her phone has been going off.
38:30I'm assuming she didn't turn off her, he's here.
38:36He's here now.
38:37So we'll see what happens.
38:38Can I be your roommate?
38:39Can I stay with you?
38:40Zied's a bad man.
38:43Can you tell us what happened?
38:57Where were you?
38:58What?
38:59Where were you?
39:00I was with my friend, right?
39:01What's going on?
39:02What's going on?
39:05Yeah, right.
39:07What's going on?
39:07Which friend?
39:13Female?
39:16They saw you with a female.
39:22Yeah.
39:27Where was your friend?
39:36Wait.
39:36Can I see her?
39:40It's her choice, honestly.
39:46She was outside last I checked.
39:49You need to wait.
39:52Wait.
40:05Did you just follow me for real?
40:13I saw you, Ziad.
40:14You were with a woman.
40:15What woman you talk about?
40:17She's wife, my friend.
40:19How you follow me?
40:20You do this so you not trust me.
40:22I was right.
40:23You were with a woman.
40:25She is wife, my friend.
40:28My friend in the bathroom.
40:30I'm waiting for her to come out.
40:33So now you're telling me that it was just
40:35there was her husband there.
40:38He's my friend.
40:39She is wife.
40:40I didn't see him.
40:41Because maybe you left before he get out.
40:55The fact that Rebecca and Laura follow me,
40:58it's really pissed me off.
41:00And this makes me feel like she don't trust me.
41:06Where are you going?
41:15What did he say?
41:16He's lying, of course.
41:19If he cheated on you, so many puzzle pieces
41:23are going to fall together throughout your entire life.
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