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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Couples Tell All.
00:00:04I'm ready.
00:00:05Let's do it.
00:00:07Wyoming has made it to New York.
00:00:10I did see some cruise ships, and that
00:00:13reminded me of my own job.
00:00:14And I might run away and get on one of those boats
00:00:17and just get back to work.
00:00:19Shekinah and Sarpwork, how is married life treating you?
00:00:23We slept in separate rooms in the hotel yesterday.
00:00:29Wait a minute.
00:00:31The honeymoon was over really fast.
00:00:33And I still only have an engagement ring.
00:00:36So are we really married?
00:00:38Oh, my god.
00:00:41Sean and Aaliyah, on a scale of 1 to 10,
00:00:44how are things between you today?
00:00:47Like 8.
00:00:48That's a good number.
00:00:49But the sexual relationship is not so great.
00:00:53We're not really having sex anymore.
00:00:56Wow.
00:00:57That's a 1.
00:00:58Exactly.
00:01:02I asked a mini question, and it was personal.
00:01:05Shekinah asked if Ani was trans.
00:01:08Wait, what?
00:01:10And told me not to tell Ani, but of course I told her.
00:01:14Come on, girl.
00:01:15You're not trustworthy.
00:01:16My loyalty is to my girlfriend.
00:01:18But is your loyalty to hurt her feelings?
00:01:20I didn't hurt her feelings.
00:01:22You did.
00:01:23You needed a crusade.
00:01:24It looks like I gave you one.
00:01:25So now you can go off.
00:01:26You're so annoying, and you're so fake, and I'm tired of it.
00:01:30It's a show.
00:01:31You're calculated as you.
00:01:41Unbelievable.
00:01:42Unbelievable.
00:01:43It's very easy, honey.
00:01:46You need respect.
00:01:47I'm not your honey, and also I never called you trans.
00:01:50I asked your girlfriend if you were, because we were talking on a personal level.
00:01:56And she took it personal, and you have to respect her feelings.
00:01:59You know what?
00:02:00Because you told her, and I asked you not to.
00:02:02I'm not going to hide that from her.
00:02:05Come on.
00:02:06I literally asked a question, and I'm so upset that this is even a topic.
00:02:09You offended me.
00:02:10You did messages behind me.
00:02:13I did not disrespect you.
00:02:15Shut up.
00:02:16You shut up.
00:02:18Honey.
00:02:19You're so offended by a question.
00:02:23I think if I was wondering if somebody is trans, I'll keep the to myself.
00:02:28Okay, I want to talk something, because I'm a trans woman.
00:02:31So I can talk better than everyone here.
00:02:34For trans people, people are always trying to find, like, the masculinity in that person.
00:02:42For me, that means, like, oh, trans people look like men.
00:02:45It's not, like, woman enough.
00:02:47It's not feminine enough.
00:02:48So that's, like, quite a weird, like, comment.
00:02:52But do you think that was a rude question for Shekinah to ask Ameni?
00:02:59I don't think that was a rude question.
00:03:03But I don't know, like, I don't know why you're trying.
00:03:05I don't feel like it was a necessary question.
00:03:08Yeah.
00:03:09Yeah, there you go.
00:03:09And this is the point.
00:03:11Okay.
00:03:12Let's everybody take a breath and put this debate behind us so we can get back to talking
00:03:20about Ani, Matt, and Ameni.
00:03:23In the midst of the group's confusion and her feelings, Matt reached out to his friend Eric,
00:03:29who has also been in a polyamorous relationship.
00:03:33Now Eric is here to share his perspective on the group.
00:03:36Please welcome Matt's friend, Eric.
00:03:38What a cult they are.
00:03:44How are you?
00:03:45Good, man.
00:03:46Aw.
00:03:47Hi, Eric. How are you?
00:03:48Good. How you doing?
00:03:49I'm fantastic.
00:03:50So you warned Ameni and Matt that jealousy ultimately broke up your thruple relationship.
00:03:56Correct.
00:03:57You've been listening to the conversation.
00:03:58Yeah.
00:03:59Do you see the same patterns in their relationship?
00:04:02You know, you're not having sex with Ani, which is interesting, you know, because usually
00:04:06the thruple, everybody's engaged, so you might have some jealousy and problems there.
00:04:10You know, it just can't be Matt having all the fun with the two girls.
00:04:13You know, the girl's got to have fun with the girls and Amani.
00:04:16You're into her, but is she into you that way?
00:04:19And that's all that goes through my head.
00:04:29I know I'm very busy in my schedule, but we're going to have sex this weekend.
00:04:32I'll fly out.
00:04:33Okay?
00:04:36Being in a thruple is complicated and it's hard.
00:04:39Do you think it's worth it?
00:04:40For me, I think so.
00:04:42I promise myself to, like, always be true to myself and at least be honest.
00:04:48At least give this a try.
00:04:50Okay, but we're hearing now that you and Ani aren't having sex alone and we know you've
00:04:57had some pretty explosive fights.
00:05:00Let's watch.
00:05:01I just want you to make me feel that you want this, that you want to be with us.
00:05:10Like, do you tell people you're even in a relationship?
00:05:14Now we know.
00:05:15I am done.
00:05:16Honey.
00:05:17This is ridiculous.
00:05:20Like, you can't turn a hoe to a housewife.
00:05:23That's what the is going on.
00:05:25You're used to controlling men left and right at your job with your little dancers.
00:05:30Hey, hey, hey.
00:05:31I don't get control.
00:05:32I see through your bull , okay?
00:05:34You can laugh all you want.
00:05:36I wish you have some self-respect.
00:05:38You have zero self-respect.
00:05:39Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:05:40At least I have some self-respect.
00:05:42When I was poor, I never danced for money.
00:05:45I'd rather be homeless than to do that.
00:05:47When I'm not paying, it don't work for you.
00:05:49That's what's going on.
00:05:50You don't like to be told no.
00:05:51All right, I'm not going to be able to stop this.
00:05:56You're thinking, oh, I am the queen.
00:05:58No.
00:05:59With me, no.
00:06:00Oh, you act like that when I'm paying.
00:06:03But when I'm not paying, it's like, oh, I'm controlling because it's not going.
00:06:08You are crazy.
00:06:09You're crazy.
00:06:12Bipolar, bitch.
00:06:17I'm literally shaking from watching that.
00:06:19I'm sorry.
00:06:20I remember these days.
00:06:23It's hard.
00:06:26Cool.
00:06:27That was hard to watch.
00:06:29Yeah.
00:06:33Like, I know for me, like, the harsh language, I instantly shut the down.
00:06:37Like, nobody, you know what I'm saying?
00:06:38Like, that just strikes a chord that, like, nothing, no matter how much you apologize.
00:06:42And it's not just like, you didn't do it just once there.
00:06:45You did it, like, two other times, I think, throughout the whole season.
00:06:47So it's like, what's going on that we don't see?
00:06:51What happened?
00:06:53Ani, how about you explain?
00:06:56Ani, how about you explain?
00:06:57Ani, how about you?
00:06:58Ani, how about you?
00:07:00There were some little things that made me hurt
00:07:03from different people?
00:07:04But what?
00:07:05What?
00:07:06I saw on her.
00:07:07I saw that a question that went on.
00:07:08So, what happened?
00:07:09Can we get him broken?
00:07:10Are we talking about that?
00:07:11Did this condition?
00:07:12What happened?
00:07:13Ani, what happened here?
00:07:14On was suffering and what happened here...
00:07:15So if you don't understand, if there weren't you going on,
00:07:18what happened here, that happened, is it they're going on.
00:07:20Um, I tried to send almost $4,000 that month.
00:07:24About $4,000.
00:07:25Yeah.
00:07:26You didn't get the money, Ani.
00:07:27You were upset.
00:07:28And so Ani was trying to break off the relationship
00:07:31with both you and Matt.
00:07:33Is that right?
00:07:34That's what it sounded like.
00:07:36That's what it sounded like to you.
00:07:37Yes.
00:07:37That is why I went a crazy.
00:07:40So many times we fight for little things.
00:07:45I don't like the reaction.
00:07:47She's reaction is so bad.
00:07:51It came out in anger how she really feels.
00:07:55I was really rooting for you, but you lost me when you said,
00:07:58you can't take a whore and make her a housewife.
00:08:01So painful, so hurtful.
00:08:03You can never take that stuff back.
00:08:04And then when you doubled down on this day,
00:08:06you know she's working as an exotic dancer.
00:08:10You probably met her in that arena.
00:08:12And then you smash it in her face and then go,
00:08:14Lo, love me.
00:08:15I just had a bad day.
00:08:16I was just like, I mean, I'm shaking with all this.
00:08:20And it's not even my life.
00:08:22I know my words were terrible, were so hurtful.
00:08:25And even I watching this, like, I felt embarrassed
00:08:27that I said that stuff to her.
00:08:29And did you ask it sorry for her?
00:08:31Of course I did.
00:08:32And that was-
00:08:33Yes, she should, she have a look at-
00:08:35Many times.
00:08:36Many different ways.
00:08:38However, the money thing, she knows now.
00:08:41She has a screenshot.
00:08:41I tried to send money five times, but my bank kept canceling it.
00:08:47Amini, how much money in total have you and Matt sent Ani?
00:08:53I don't know.
00:08:54Ani, how much do you think it is?
00:08:55I don't-
00:08:56So, I think so for a month, she sent me $2,000 in the month.
00:09:00You don't want to be a fourth?
00:09:02You don't want to be a fourth?
00:09:04She buy me dresses, gifts, purse, shoes, and clothes for my daughter, and travel.
00:09:14Some of our troops are like $20,000 in the trip.
00:09:17It's more than that, yeah.
00:09:18In general, she sent me money.
00:09:21$60,000 maybe?
00:09:22Oh.
00:09:24I heard it's $4,000 you were going to send her.
00:09:26And when the money didn't go through, she got really mad.
00:09:29And then that's where this fight started, right?
00:09:31To me, it's a red flag.
00:09:33Look at you.
00:09:35You're wrong with your wife?
00:09:39Yes, it's okay.
00:09:40For me, you're in this sport for money.
00:09:43Amini, has Ani ever asked you for money?
00:10:07When she really needs it.
00:10:09At least she knows she has somebody she can count on.
00:10:12But she makes money, that's what she said, she makes money.
00:10:16I still think the issue boils down that she left when you said you couldn't give her money.
00:10:21Yes.
00:10:22The one time I said no, the relationship almost ended.
00:10:26Okay, who thinks there's a scam going on here?
00:10:30And Ani is in this relationship just for money.
00:10:37I mean, partially.
00:10:38Oh, well, really?
00:10:39I mean, mostly, yes.
00:10:41Mostly, yes.
00:10:42Yes.
00:10:43Yeah.
00:10:44No.
00:10:45Yes.
00:10:46Yes.
00:10:47Yes.
00:10:48Yes.
00:10:49Yes.
00:10:50Yes.
00:10:51Yes.
00:10:52Yes.
00:10:53Yes.
00:10:54Yes.
00:10:55Yes.
00:10:56she knows i'm a jealous person i don't want her to go work so i'm like okay stay then i'll give
00:11:09you the money instead of you working do you still dance honey no not anymore not recently let's ask
00:11:15her yeah of course oh my god what else is she withholding from you exactly
00:11:22you're crying right now this scares me you're attacking here by your lies why are you even
00:11:31even in this why are you commenting you commented about every thing if you put your finger in my
00:11:36face again put your finger down ameni let me ask you one more time are you afraid to say no to ani
00:11:50when it comes to money because you think she will leave the relationship
00:11:53yes i don't want to lose her
00:12:00if she's willing to leave you just for saying no to money how is that even trustworthy at all in any
00:12:09way shape or form because if she truly loves you she would be okay cool you don't have money to give
00:12:14be fine i i'll still be here i'm not gonna walk away
00:12:17it's very very very hard for me to talk about it but that's what i feel right now
00:12:36like the more i listen to this where's love it doesn't seem like there is any love there it's
00:12:42just like a big power play i don't know people can say the same thing about your relationship
00:12:45actually they can't oh yeah you're right because yours is just like shallow there's nothing in it
00:12:50says who you yes i've never heard anyone else say that about us
00:12:55in the beginning of the relationship did you give any promises to her that i will give you that
00:13:02amount of money every month i will pay your rent oh i promised minimum to pay her rent and i still do
00:13:07that to this day she knows i'm a jealous person i don't want her to go work so i'm like okay stay
00:13:13then i'll give you the money instead of you working do you still dance honey no do you none no not
00:13:22we're not resolving let's ask her honey do you still dance in the club yeah of course
00:13:29oh my god there it is there it is she does yes of course okay you said before she's not dancing
00:13:37she says she's dancing she told juan he's not asking you for money she told us she is asking
00:13:42you for money so it's like these little lies these little things here and there what else is she
00:13:46withholding from you you know what i'm saying exactly is she just telling you guys stuff just to tell
00:13:51you guys stuff is she really being truthful to you guys i'm worried about that yeah it's hard
00:13:56because it's in the back of my head it's like what other things is she not telling me but hopefully
00:14:01we'll figure it out yeah it's all crazy so are you two going to divorce we've already actually hired a
00:14:10divorce lawyer that's why i'm not wearing my ring because i'm getting ready mentally to not be a wife
00:14:19that's a huge risk don't rush it like why don't you give it like two more years you're willing to
00:14:27go ahead and get a divorce to do all this it's so complicated right now we do want to live under
00:14:33the same roof together guys full time you've been a wife for 10 years why would you want to give that
00:14:39up most people give that up if they're not happy in that role you know it's a sacrifice i'm willing
00:14:44to do for love i love ani yeah all right well eric you have been a great friend thank you for sharing
00:15:05your time and thoughts with us thank you so much thank you guys thanks all right matt amini and ani this
00:15:14is a complicated relationship but we wish all three of you the best of luck with whatever the future
00:15:21holds anybody want to be in a thruple no not for everybody it's tough okay we're going to take a quick
00:15:29break and then we'll come back stretch could you guys do the thruple thing i i couldn't man i really
00:15:46couldn't i don't think so it's a lot of work man their relationships are different than like
00:15:50yes hours yes for me it's not possible i'm an impulsive woman i'm very jealous me i don't bring
00:15:59another woman in my bed i could never
00:16:02so can i talk to you guys really quick can i talk before you talk please um separate i wanted to say
00:16:13thank you so much for today i thought you would be an asshole but you weren't you you came off very
00:16:18supportive and you've had really valid questions so thank you i like you so much after today actually
00:16:23be careful she said that to me too i told you not to open your mouth until i finish oh i don't take
00:16:30orders from you so you don't get to tell me not to open my mouth you're the sourest person here she is
00:16:34i'm sour apple candy i really thought you was starper the whole time i don't know how he does it with
00:16:40you i don't even need to be here you guys have your conversation well if you didn't open your mouth
00:16:44i would have said something to you she's not talking to me i'm leaving she's just nasty
00:16:49she's just nasty anytime she can and i like women i'll never put up with that i'll be like
00:17:09it's just somebody else's problem well she's she definitely someone else's problem how do you make
00:17:13it work with her because i tried to come to her try to like let's talk about it and then she claps i
00:17:17mean and i know if you don't have something closer to save just don't say you know female energy
00:17:23fans she's just stubborn i cannot solve you i mean i am that experience about girls i cannot
00:17:30solve you i do want to come to some type of agreement with her because i don't want this like energy and
00:17:35animosity like can you just drop it can you just drop it i would say sorry just say sorry because
00:17:39i like i'm ready to move on from this you know i'm just gonna tell her no don't do that don't don't
00:17:45i just wanted to tell you i'm sorry i don't care what you want to say i do not care about your
00:17:49fake apology please leave please shut the curtain this is my dressing room please go out she's
00:17:54butthurt it's okay honey all right i tried and my conscience is free so great she's so immature
00:18:00yeah damn how do you make this work good luck good luck bro you need to stick up for me more
00:18:07no you don't no you don't she was telling me to shut my mouth and you just stood there
00:18:11i did i just put the finish angle i just finished you need to defend your wife period
00:18:16thank you everybody here for showing respect and thank you for caring yeah thank you for listening
00:18:23to us and like i mean like i know it wasn't easy yeah all of y'all's comments came from like
00:18:28like caring you know yeah i always date protective people so i'm not used to this
00:18:38go find me on
00:18:40trouble it's a mess she kind of made a mistake i've ordered never takes anything to any cast member
00:18:48that you don't know but the way they came to she kind of it's too hard you know
00:18:54um it's so fake it's okay stand it
00:19:01she started to say you didn't stand up for me you don't protect me i didn't want to involve
00:19:09because if i involve it could go to physical that i didn't want that but it up my relationship
00:19:14and she kind of
00:19:15here we go everybody take the seat please
00:19:21hello and welcome back before we move on shekinah and sarper i'm hearing that something
00:19:40went on backstage can you tell me what it was
00:19:42yeah i mean armani wanted to talk to
00:19:46it's emeni
00:19:46what it's emeni
00:19:48emeni wanted to talk to us and so we gave her you know the opportunity to speak and she
00:19:56started out by telling me to keep my mouth shut until she found a thing
00:19:59please let me finish
00:20:01can i please finish
00:20:02and so she started talking and she was directing her entire focus to sarper complimenting him how
00:20:09great he is thank you so much for your support blah blah blah and i was thinking why am i standing
00:20:14here like she just wants to talk to sarper so i excused myself and um you know then i heard the
00:20:21insult start that she had a lot of things to say about me that was negative if you waited a little
00:20:26bit i was going to also talk to you as well but you know you threw a fit went into your i did not
00:20:31throw a fit at all you throw a fit a lot i excuse myself more than my four-year-old i said this
00:20:35conversation is for how you're patient with this please don't take everything personal we're not a
00:20:40high school
00:20:41unbelievable
00:20:43let's do like this let's ignore each other because there is no way that you can get along
00:20:50do not communicate
00:20:51yeah but i feel like sarper you're not protecting me and you promised to defend me
00:20:58yeah i know i'm aware of this in every fights that we have you always said you don't you didn't
00:21:04keep promises also you don't care about my feelings when i'm telling you i'm hurt or something
00:21:09like that you get angry at me i told you something i keep promises because i love you
00:21:15i love you yes look okay you're skipping me a little
00:21:22i just want to give you something
00:21:26what what is happening what the heck is going on
00:21:33megan you threatened to ruin juan's life uh does that threat still stand
00:21:43absolutely forever yeah this is our business you step aside no bitch bye
00:21:54what is happening
00:22:01what
00:22:11i hope you like it whoa oh my god what is this wait this is not just a wedding
00:22:19band this is a wedding ring and wedding bed as you wished good job man wow
00:22:24oh my man that looks so pretty that is amazing this is so pretty yes this is half of my savings
00:22:35in turkey oh and don't say that i don't keep my promises
00:22:40thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you
00:22:48listen i haven't seen no love for between y'all two until just now that's a beautiful thing
00:22:52congratulations guys let's see shekinah so pretty and can you like to spin it
00:22:57i know this is huge what the hell don't show me yeah it hurts
00:23:04it really hurts oh my god i guess i'll stay married to him i mean like
00:23:11until the next problem
00:23:13well shekinah and sarper that certainly was a surprise a big sparkly one
00:23:22and this is your witness please guys
00:23:25all right thanks so much congratulations guys
00:23:28okay let's take a five minute break to give shekinah and sarper a chance to savor this moment
00:23:36everybody can stretch their legs
00:23:38congratulations
00:23:41thank you guys so beautiful
00:23:45it's so pretty i'm i'm like shaking and i'm can't believe it
00:23:52it's giant
00:23:54i don't need any more rings after this ring
00:23:59you are my precious
00:24:00this is the ultimate
00:24:00precious
00:24:01oh my god babe
00:24:02do you do you get the joke
00:24:03yes i get the joke
00:24:04lord of the things come come come
00:24:06be like this with me i mean i do everything for you
00:24:12please speak to me i'll be sweet to you
00:24:13okay i do everything for you
00:24:15i love you too
00:24:18let's move on now to jessica and juan
00:24:35you ready
00:24:35let's do it
00:24:36first of all how is little david doing and the boys
00:24:40they're doing good they're all growing up so fast
00:24:43david's almost two
00:24:45wow
00:24:46dawson's really big into sports so he keeps all of us going and dayton got a horse
00:24:52oh yeah so technically we all got a horse
00:24:54she's lovely though
00:24:56that's tess
00:24:57juan uh wyoming seems like a beautiful scenic place how are you settling in
00:25:06it's it's tough it's been tough on my mind and
00:25:10economic wise my life is like falling apart
00:25:16back home in colombia i was investing in real estate i was building apartments i don't have
00:25:22money to finance the construction no more wow are you in debt yeah i'm in debt how much are you in debt i don't even want to look at it right oh wow i am happy to help him but he's independent and does not want i don't really want her to pay for my help how much i understand i don't want any of that
00:25:39i don't want any of that so you have your work papers yeah he has his green card i got my green card what have you been doing
00:25:46what have you been doing i've been finding small jobs like delivering and stuff like that it's been hard finding a job that i like
00:25:55we saw you get in touch with your cruise ship boss are you considering going back to work on the ship
00:26:02we talk about it it's our last resort option yeah typically his contracts are like six to eight months
00:26:09whoa so he'd be gone and then he gets like two months home and so that's why i say it's the last resort
00:26:15i mean it's your dream job that you always wanted you know i'm a pilot it would be hard for me to leave
00:26:21it's something i worked so hard to get so i understand him not being able to take another job
00:26:27right away how difficult that is not having that anymore it's being hard on me yeah let's continue this
00:26:34conversation we have a 90-dayer here who has watched jess and juan's journey very closely and has a lot to say
00:26:42about their relationship please welcome danielle oh my god that's my girl
00:26:50fellow paradise and we're like matching our dresses are so similar they're the same dress
00:26:56they're the same dress wow hi danielle good to see you good to see you sean you come from a similar
00:27:02background yeah and cheating was a big issue in their relationship and yours too i see a lot of myself
00:27:10and my relationship with johan in them i think you know the nature of being in the hospitality industry
00:27:16requires you to be very charming and to get along with everyone and flared a little bit i was a
00:27:21bartender once i know what that's like um but i think when you're in a committed relationship and
00:27:27you have a child with someone and you're married it creates a lot of problems we went through this
00:27:33journey with you with your relationship with johan last you and i saw each other you guys were done
00:27:41kaputs are you back together yeah let me tell you i am shocked me too but all i ever wanted from him was
00:27:51acknowledgement and being like yeah i did this and i hurt you and i'm sorry and once i was able to get
00:27:57that from him i was able to move on well we're excited to hear more from you danielle but first i want to
00:28:04add another strong voice into the mix jess's friend megan is very protective of her and her unwavering
00:28:11support has sometimes led to combative encounters with juan has megan backed off since they got
00:28:18married let's find out please welcome jess's friend megan megan megan hi megan hi hi hi
00:28:29juan megan megan you threatened to ruin juan's life uh does that threat still stand absolutely
00:28:42forever it does yeah i don't find it cool you're her best friend and i understand you are overprotective
00:28:50but this is our business and if someone has to ruin my life it has to be her because she's the one getting
00:28:58hurt you don't have anything to do with it step aside and just let us be i mean no bitch bye
00:29:13danielle and shekinah do either of you feel that you owe the other an apology hell no absolutely not
00:29:21shekinah i'm telling you you have too many haters i don't know how i got so many people so riled up
00:29:29how are you a victim because you're attacking here while you're lying
00:29:33girl get your husband this is shekinah we weren't talking about our own experiences
00:29:37you said you said finger in my face again step aside and just let us be
00:29:51no bitch bye okay
00:29:55wow try to look at it from his perspective i understand you want to be supportive to your best friend but one has nobody here
00:30:05no support system nothing and it's like you it feels like you're just ganging up on him
00:30:09juan do you think megan and jessica are too close
00:30:13they are definitely too close okay but jessica do you like that megan is so protective of you
00:30:21i appreciate that it comes from a good place but i don't need her to protect me i'm a grown woman
00:30:27well we definitely saw megan's protective side come out when she learned about juan's infidelity
00:30:35let's take a look so you know probably what's coming but it's because you haven't answered my questions
00:30:41yet when juan was on his last cruise he had allegedly cheated with a woman did you sleep with that girl
00:30:53i don't know what's going to happen
00:30:55it's taken a year for you to admit this to me juan when i confronted you in columbia a year ago
00:31:07my bad yeah my bad
00:31:11so i mean i do want to say like i did know this like at that time i was not in my best place either
00:31:17the same time that juan was feeling weak in our relationship i found myself kind of catching
00:31:23feelings for like an ex-boyfriend he even asked me about that guy like do you have feelings for this
00:31:27guy i mean he was your ex-boyfriend but what what yeah whoa
00:31:38i felt our relationship being disconnected and we both felt that distance was really hard on us
00:31:48and then obviously we both had weak points you know he physically cheated i emotionally cheated
00:31:54for me like regardless of whether she emotionally cheated or physically cheated if she lied to him
00:32:01that's the betrayal it's the lie it's not about what you do it's can i trust the words that come out of
00:32:06your mouth but it is different i mean he physically cheated on her actually literally a week after
00:32:13we went on the cruise for her bachelorette party i mean that's like a problem right like that's a
00:32:20problem i'm sorry but i didn't understand why megan was crying so much like she's part of the
00:32:27relationship i mean i've been a part of their relationship since literal day one when we met
00:32:41juan and i mean i was holding the phone when david was born like i was holding mon's face so he could
00:32:45watch his birth of his child like i'm that friend like i've been in it so i think it was just more
00:32:51emotional and the fact that they had lied to me which one's lie affected you more emotionally
00:32:56just because it just hurt me because i never thought that she would like hold that for me like
00:33:01at least just tell me like freaking tell me so why do you think she chose to not tell you i don't know
00:33:07their relationship has to be more important to each of them than either of their relationship with
00:33:13you and that's going to be hard for you to swallow but like he's more important to her than you are
00:33:18he's the father of her kid they're like sisters though they behave like sisters not like friends
00:33:25and i have three and if it was my sister i would have thrown a glass at him thank you stevie i feel
00:33:31like if i can really trust my friend and they're my best friend and like my right hand there is nothing
00:33:37i don't tell them right so if she doesn't tell you yeah it's because she feels like you're gonna judge
00:33:43juan and you're gonna up i mean yeah partially probably that like i'm trying to protect him
00:33:47i'm also trying to protect her okay so megan what do you think about juan's work situation
00:33:53i could be a little bit better because my husband and i were both references for him
00:33:59like they'll send us a referral because jess applied him for a job and then me and my husband send
00:34:03in like a really positive referral like yeah hire this guy he's a good great work ethic he's like i don't
00:34:07want that job what to the best of your knowledge how many jobs has juan said no i don't i'm not
00:34:19interested how many jobs has he turned down i mean
00:34:2750 maybe 50 i mean that he's actually like turned down like where they've reached out i'd say probably
00:34:33like five how is there that many places in your town to apply to i mean there's like smaller
00:34:38communities nearby yeah like even nebraska's only like 30 45 minutes away like he could go work there
00:34:43at a car dealership and sell so many cars why are you staying in wyoming yeah that's that's a good
00:34:50question i mean i will answer that happen i mean every every someone has to lose something someone has to
00:34:57sacrifice i mean we have my kids my boys they're with me four days they're with their dad three days
00:35:02i'm open to moving and time juan what do you want to do work on the cruise i would really like to ask
00:35:10juan my my dream job has been the cruise ship so you really want to work on the cruise ship so your
00:35:18wife and her friend are applying for all these jobs that you don't want you want to work on a cruise ship
00:35:23why are we talking about anything else than juan working on a cruise ship i mean you can talk you can
00:35:27i mean even the jobs we apply for even the car selling thing they never come back let's talk
00:35:32about the cruise ship let's talk about why can't you do the cruise ship from your opinion the only
00:35:37problem about the cruise ship is leaving my son for six months yeah i'm sticking to this place because
00:35:43of him and there's no other reason i don't know he sits there and says the only reason i'm here is
00:35:48because of david like you should have said the only reason i'm here is because of david and jessica like
00:35:52i want to be here for my wife that's hurting that's for her that's what i'm saying she doesn't
00:35:56get mad she just lets that's her yeah i mean i agree juan how much do you make in tips on a cruise
00:36:04ship probably in a good day probably 900 dollars just in tips and just in tips bravo because he's so
00:36:12cute speaking of that juan we've heard you get a lot of attention online are you getting a lot of dms
00:36:21from women quite a bit quite a bit look at that little grin juan do you respond to the women
00:36:35sometimes that's why why do you respond you should just i'm a nice person no that's that's not being
00:36:44nice you should just not respond it's different responding to someone that says oh i love you guys
00:36:50you're my favorite couple yeah hey i want to screw you leave your wife that's a problem but has
00:36:55anybody said that to you one that they want to screw you to leave your wife yes and that they made 20
00:37:01an hour like just makes a hundred you too well she has my social media in her phone
00:37:09he he was like came up with that well when when we went through the cheating type of thing and we were
00:37:16talking these things over and trying to work everything out i proposed her to give her my
00:37:21instagram profile johan did the same thing with me i always had control over his instagram when you
00:37:28deal with infidelity it puts everything you do into question and so it could be like yeah well she has
00:37:33control of my instagram but you have some other way of communicating with people that you meet
00:37:37so anytime someone's reaching out to you ignore it you don't have to be nice to anybody the only person
00:37:44that you need to be nice to is your wife is there something i tell him when girls invokes him he
00:37:50replies i'm like don't i reply to everybody men women i mean whoever that's who i am what these
00:37:55people say no stop megan thank you so much for being such a good friend to jessica and for spending
00:38:02time with us thank you for having me thank you so much take care jessica and juan thank you for being
00:38:10so open and honest with us best of luck navigating whatever the future holds thank you thank you all
00:38:16right and danielle before i let you go uh i want to ask you about uh an online interaction you had with
00:38:26shekinah what happened another one there have been a few okay what has it been about oh my god um i think
00:38:35the first time i had an interaction with shekinah online she had suggested that i reached out to
00:38:41sarper before the tell-all and wished him luck and didn't reach out to her which was not accurate
00:38:47she did message sarper and not me please nothing is ever going to come out of my mouth that i don't
00:38:52have evidence for we also have evidence you're right let them talk you spoke you're right let them talk
00:38:58you're right let them talk you're right let them talk you're not nobody's talking to you
00:39:01shut up you're always interrupting everyone matt so you interrupted me i was literally in the middle
00:39:07of speaking danielle because you were lying you're you're speaking with lies people liars and stuff
00:39:11like you need to be less rude she's kind of she's literally lying about me i have a right to defend
00:39:17it's her perspective imani nobody's talking to you don't talk to people like they need to shut up
00:39:23inside your hollow there's nothing you're shallow shallow as a puddle period
00:39:26oh yo she always brings the new york out of me always always whatever i don't even care okay
00:39:35danielle go ahead so what happened so what actually happened i said i'm really sorry about the tell-all
00:39:42i wish you and shekinah both the best and that was literally the whole thing it was after the filming
00:39:47of that day it was not before and then she does these like press interviews that she probably pays for
00:39:52oh my god oh my god what is she talking about and she says these things that are not true
00:40:02wow she said that i was trash i was for the streets that i was hitting on sarpa
00:40:10i don't think you should have called her trash and all these things like that you should have heard what
00:40:14she was saying about me online she was said that i paid for bots to put mean messages on her instagram
00:40:20people are mean to you because you're a nasty person nobody is paying for bots to send nasty
00:40:25comments to you you're getting them all by yourself from real people i'm not desperate because i don't
00:40:29have to work out of my house you are desperate girl your opinions are out of line because you're
00:40:36commenting on things you know nothing about so you do that too what what makes my opinions out of line
00:40:42but your opinions are within the lines because you just accused us of paying for interviews that's insane
00:40:48shekinah um danielle do either of you feel that you owe the other an apology
00:40:56hell no absolutely not no way
00:41:03okay danielle yeah it's great seeing you again thank you for stopping by to share uh your unfiltered
00:41:11opinions thank you very much thank you bye-bye take care we're glad to see you leave bye-bye okay
00:41:18everybody we're gonna take a break oh my god crazy day of reckoning
00:41:28i've survived yeah yeah yeah yeah shekinah i'm telling you you have too many haters yes i don't
00:41:37understand it it's all shocking to me danielle like i know she wants attention
00:41:44and the lies that she comes up with about me i mean today it was just like mind-blowing
00:41:52i want to say i think there's a lot of fake people in here but you are just real to yourself
00:41:56say it how it is and i'm just like that so thank you yeah it's a new york thing i think
00:42:01i want to show up danielle was attacking shakana she was just mentioning every single thing that
00:42:08she's jealous of and there were four people attacking her did you think she was getting ganged up on
00:42:13yeah like and and i hate the lying i don't know what happened but one thing that i know is that she was
00:42:18lying that she was paying for those interviews and it's sad to see like somebody is manipulating
00:42:24everyone and nobody's talking about her i'm not a really um confrontational person but something's
00:42:30really bothering me and one of them is like lying i hate lying and lawyers i can't just see that lie
00:42:37and just be quiet your mom is like every single lady i know in long island every single like she's
00:42:44not the only one i got a question for you sure you said she kind of pays for those interviews no she
00:42:51said she didn't know if she pays for them yeah exactly that's not what she said i'm not talking to
00:42:55you first of all i'm gonna defend her you're a man approaching a woman i'm gonna defend her
00:43:01he asked a question so anybody who works in la who understands how this works knows the deal
00:43:08i actually don't know what she pays for and what she doesn't and you're assuming i have no idea i don't
00:43:13i have no idea if you have no idea why are you manipulating me i'm just saying what is your reason
00:43:19that you said that because she kind of presents as the kind of person that wants to put herself
00:43:25into anything and she also fights with people who don't really deserve it she gets on stage she comes
00:43:31for every girl and she's nasty and i've seen it too many times and i have to open my mouth okay okay
00:43:37okay okay no no no no i'm hearing that sorry one minute one minute okay my sentence oh hold
00:43:44up my sentence is exactly like yours she's the most hated girl i'm not a mean girl i do teach yoga and
00:43:51meditation but one of the things that is really important to me that is that i'm honest and she's a
00:43:56bitch can i tell you something you're a complete liar but this scares me okay i'm nervous as right now
00:44:09this is the thing you're crying about right now i have never seen you shed a tear
00:44:15how are you a victim because you're attacking here by your lies he is getting more attention and you
00:44:21wanted it and you lied about it why are you even even in this why are you commenting okay i'm sorry
00:44:26the girl get your husband this is a girl seriously you commented about every
00:44:31thing in the hotel shut the out
00:44:36i have a problem with you until you interrupt everybody
00:44:40we were talking about our own experiences
00:44:43hold on you you said something here's the thing if you put your finger in my face again
00:44:47i'm not i'm not i'm not hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on hold your finger down
00:45:03put your finger down put your finger down
00:45:05just go away from her no no no no you teach meditation and you act like you lied and you need
00:45:11to apologize you need to apologize you need to apologize no no no no you need to apologize that
00:45:17you lied i can never call her a you're just listening to her lies i'm not listening to anything
00:45:25you say because you're highly disrespectful he was being respectful until everyone started screaming
00:45:30this looks like a circus i was like oh no i wouldn't need to waste my time i just want to have my food
00:45:35because i'm hungry get her out of here get her out of here i'm leaving the building
00:45:40if you don't get that bitch out that's it i'm done thank you so much for lying and we know who's
00:45:45a liar here thank you you have no business in this period you don't have business in everyone's
00:45:50conversation it is exactly what you just did right now you both are trying to be political
00:45:54getting in that oh look at us you're doing the same technique i hate lying i know daniel the
00:46:03thropel they were all coming at shekinah unfortunately i really couldn't help calling them out
00:46:09i don't start but i can finish it and that's exactly what i was trying to do all right guys this
00:46:14has been fun i always love to tell all that i gotta get out of here nice meeting all of you
00:46:21shekinah has a history of not being a girl's girl i don't think it's possible to know the real
00:46:26shekinah i think there are so many layers of plastic laid over her real personality that it's
00:46:31hard to figure out who she really is oh yeah i cannot believe um everything that they said i know
00:46:39i mean she made a research about you whatever you said all things yeah that took some reason and
00:46:45she found something and she came in she made a lift oh my god i never saw fetch a cleaner me either
00:46:51and she hosts meditating retreats i felt like i could knock it up and go to the bathroom all right
00:46:57yeah i got a piece so bad man this one's screaming at this one she's yelling at her i don't know what
00:47:02the was going on it was crazy this just became too toxic already like i never wanted this to escalate
00:47:09this way like this just got so ugly there was a lot of really hostile moments i don't know how i got
00:47:16so many people so riled up i don't want to listen to them anymore me either okay
00:47:26you're a snake snake you're a snake everyone's snake look how they all switch back as it's nothing
00:47:42here we go five four three two let's move over to mark and mina while it was very hard to not have
00:47:53her son clayton attend the wedding in person mark and mina made it to the altar and got to celebrate
00:47:59their happily ever after so how is life now after that very special day let's get right to it mark and
00:48:06mina are you ready yes okay good mina we learned earlier that you now spend most of your time in
00:48:13boston instead of new hampshire so you're liking boston better than new hampshire oh yeah
00:48:18and do you plan to stay there long term you know we're kind of keeping open to all options i'm
00:48:26going to long term have the place in new hampshire or we're going to have that but boston right now
00:48:31but we also love paris and the south of france so you know we're both open to the idea possibly going
00:48:38back there wow wow okay so let's dive more into your relationship now mina
00:48:48we saw some rumors about your past there's like an online post that claims eight years ago
00:48:58you were an exotic dancer and that's how you met mark is that true
00:49:18oh yeah welcome for the team did you work in a strip club i was bartending like juan i was bartending
00:49:37so this was los angeles 20 30 years ago so mina when you worked at the club you were dancing at a club
00:49:44yeah okay but you did not meet mark at that club also mina online there were rumors about your stage
00:49:54name do you want to tell us what your stage name was do you want to tell us all the way around to look at
00:50:05you don't we all have stripper names he's like ready mine was a lake alex yeah oh alex is my sister name
00:50:14because you might play divine divine wow so how did you come up with the name divine because my cousin's name
00:50:25is divine ah you use your cousin i love that so how did you come up with alex i don't know i mean there was
00:50:36a soccer player called alex famous at the time i loved his name so because my family doesn't know i
00:50:43have to be confidential as much as possible so let me put alex i thought you know aren't stage names
00:50:50though supposed to be sexy alex isn't sexy in turkey it's sexy for you it's for america maybe it's not
00:50:57annie so your stage name i think uh you need to add matt to the 90 day stripper club he used to be
00:51:06stripper too wait matt used to be a stripper uh-huh really yeah he would do bachelor parties everything
00:51:12no kidding uh-huh matt uh now that uh you have been out it what was your stage name matt hudson hudson
00:51:21yeah y'all thought annie was the only one not us yeah so back to uh mark and mina now that you have
00:51:31been married for a while let's go back to one of the big issues leading up to the wedding mark's
00:51:36daughter jordan was initially skeptical of mina's intentions with her dad let's bring her out to see
00:51:43if she's currently getting along with her new stepmom please welcome mark's daughter jordan
00:51:48hi oh you look beautiful you look beautiful baby girl good to see you good to see you too
00:51:57hi nina hi nice to meet you welcome jordan i hear that you recently got engaged yes i did congratulations
00:52:04thank you congrats did you get to celebrate with your dad yeah they came to our engagement party it was
00:52:10really special it was a good time for all the family to be together good good okay we know jordan
00:52:16had several concerns about mina and she wasn't shy about voicing them let's watch we're thinking about
00:52:23having another baby i mean i already accepted that you had one baby so i don't think i'm ready to accept
00:52:35you having another one yet you think i come here for the green card for the house for yeah you're coming
00:52:43into my family and having babies and like how do i know you're not just with my dad for his money
00:52:50i have a impression with jordan and me is a competition no it's not competition her concern
00:52:57is just about does dad really need to have more kids baby i'm sorry for me jordan is a hypocrite i don't
00:53:09know i'm i'm not comfortable for talking with jordan because now i say i same snake you know no no no no
00:53:18don't compare my daughter my daughter is not a snake yeah come on you don't come in the bed okay
00:53:26seriously yeah
00:53:33well oh my god
00:53:38uh jordan how do you feel about being called a hypocrite a snake
00:53:43tough words yeah i mean it doesn't feel good but i think that i was probably pretty quick to
00:53:53judge her pretty harshly too i think we both kind of did that and i really created this situation
00:54:00between the two of them mina told you something in confidence and jordan told you something exactly
00:54:05and you shared blew it on both times yeah i did too much talk you're an over share yeah
00:54:11i think whenever she came here it was probably really hard for her because she left so much behind
00:54:16so coming here she really was hoping to be like fully accepted and because she didn't get that
00:54:22that's why it like made her say the things that she said to you yeah exactly your dad's happiness is
00:54:30what matters the most and if he's happy you should be happy for him yeah i know i think it was a hard
00:54:36adjustment seeing you know your your father at at his age having a new baby it was nothing against
00:54:42maria but we're 25 years apart i've always just felt like she's looking out for my best interest
00:54:48i wanted there to be peace and i knew eventually jordan is going to see mina's heart it just needed time
00:54:54i don't think either one of you guys handled that well but it looks like you've both figured it out so
00:54:58yeah you're super but jordan what would be so bad if they had another child i mean you know i pictured
00:55:07this time of my life you know to have him be like a grandfather to my children
00:55:11so i think that that is an adjustment you had mentioned like what if you guys got pregnant
00:55:15together like kind of at the same time like how would that be yeah i mean that would be kind of
00:55:19awkward i mean it's not the end of the world but i would i prefer that i mean probably not i feel
00:55:29like she doesn't have the right to decide whether they should have more kids or not is it okay for
00:55:33them to have kids yes and reena i'm sorry if i made you feel like i was trying to tell you what you
00:55:39can and can't do i was just trying to protect my dad and voice my concerns about him having kids
00:55:45at his age but it's completely your decision it's your life and you know whatever makes you both happy
00:55:51thank you that's great because she's pregnant oh my god what whoa really jesus no
00:56:04let's move on to sean and alia calling sean and alia's wedding i'm sorry i just can't i can't do this
00:56:15it's weird
00:56:19i can't put up with this
00:56:20i mean it's pregnant
00:56:38she's pregnant
00:56:39no i'm kidding no it's not true it's not sorry sorry yo you got me bro you got me good man
00:56:48it's about to be so happy she'll give you a hug man how'd you feel about that joke
00:56:53bad joke jordan bad joke
00:56:57so are you actively trying to have another baby we're actively not not trying so you know we're
00:57:07not actively uh
00:57:09wait actively not not trying you're not using any protection i guess you can say that yeah
00:57:16so eventually you probably will have another child if you're not using protection right i mean that that
00:57:23is what can't happen yet it's tmi all right so what is next for you two
00:57:35yeah we saw how crushing it was for you uh when you realized that clayton couldn't come to america
00:57:45how long has it been since you've seen your son
00:58:01it's tough for her to talk it's tough for her to talk about
00:58:03oh
00:58:05Oh, the last time I saw them, it was by taking my plane
00:58:11to come to the United States.
00:58:13Personally, my heart breaks my heart,
00:58:15because I tell myself, even if it's a very intelligent,
00:58:19very mature, but it's still a child.
00:58:22So all of that, it takes me to make sure
00:58:26that I'm missing half of my heart.
00:58:30Are you able to visit your son?
00:58:34We're going very soon.
00:58:36Yeah.
00:58:37She just got the green card last week.
00:58:39So now we have the freedom.
00:58:40Congratulations.
00:58:42That's amazing.
00:58:42We're so happy for you.
00:58:46We're going to see Clayton as soon as possible
00:58:48within the next few weeks.
00:58:49And our goal, our hope, Jasper, is
00:58:53that we're bringing Clayton back to the US with us at that time.
00:58:56Hope that works for you guys.
00:58:57Yeah.
00:58:59Well, Jordan, we appreciate you being here.
00:59:02Yes, thank you.
00:59:03Thanks, Jordan.
00:59:04We'll see you soon.
00:59:07Mark and Meena, we're glad to see that your marriage is,
00:59:11pardon the pun, flying high.
00:59:15All right, before we move on, how about a little comic relief?
00:59:17Sure.
00:59:18Absolutely.
00:59:19Absolutely.
00:59:20Yeah, why not?
00:59:21Yes.
00:59:21So, Sarper, are you still writing jokes?
00:59:24Yeah, sure.
00:59:24You are?
00:59:25All right, would you like to share
00:59:26some of your jokes with us?
00:59:28Huh.
00:59:29Where do you want me?
00:59:29Oh, my God.
00:59:31Wait, can we have a microphone for Sarper?
00:59:33Wow.
00:59:34There we go.
00:59:35So we are your audience, Sarper, and that is your stage.
00:59:40Hey!
00:59:41Hey!
00:59:42Hey!
00:59:43Wow.
00:59:44No pressure.
00:59:45Hi, guys.
00:59:46Hi.
00:59:47It's OK.
00:59:47When we all saw the trouble.
00:59:49I mean, everyone, every man texted me, even my friends from Turkey.
00:59:54Did you see that lucky mother with two cheeks?
00:59:57Ah!
00:59:58And I'm sure every man watching me right now thought the same way,
01:00:00you know?
01:00:01But, guys, is he really that lucky, hmm?
01:00:05What are advantages of such a relationship in man's perspective?
01:00:11Two, three times per week, 20, 30 minutes at most.
01:00:15And I'm sure it doesn't last that long.
01:00:17No offense.
01:00:18But this is the only advantage.
01:00:20And is it really an advantage, by the way?
01:00:22Isn't it just like playing golf, guys?
01:00:25Does it matter how many holes are out there?
01:00:28When you have only one stick to play?
01:00:30You got it.
01:00:33And let us look at the other scale.
01:00:35Disadvantages, fights, arguments, multiplied by two.
01:00:40Neverending requests, complaints, multiplied by two.
01:00:45PMSing, don't touch me, hmm?
01:00:48Multiplied by two.
01:00:50I have only one, just one at home.
01:00:53And I cannot deal with her.
01:00:55Guys, please stop feeling jealous about him.
01:00:59Feel sorry.
01:01:00And you know what?
01:01:01Not only once, but...
01:01:03Multiplied by two.
01:01:05Multiplied by two.
01:01:06Thanks for listening, guys.
01:01:07All right.
01:01:08Sarper.
01:01:11Okay, let me ask your castmates.
01:01:13I told you you laughed.
01:01:14I cracked.
01:01:16Let me ask your castmates.
01:01:18Does Sarper have a future in comedy?
01:01:21Definitely.
01:01:22You think he does?
01:01:23I think he does.
01:01:24He's very passionate about it.
01:01:25Very, very passionate.
01:01:26You would come to see him?
01:01:28He's got a lot of...
01:01:29Yeah, why not?
01:01:30I'm buying him.
01:01:31Yeah, we just got a free chance.
01:01:36All right, let's move on to Sean and Aaliyah.
01:01:39Calling Sean and Aaliyah's wedding turbulent.
01:01:41I'm sorry.
01:01:43I just can't.
01:01:44I can't do this.
01:01:45I...
01:01:47I don't feel right.
01:01:48I just...
01:01:49It's weird.
01:01:51I can't put up with this.
01:01:58Okay.
01:02:03Oh, thank you.
01:02:04He's a hairdresser.
01:02:08Thank you so much.
01:02:11I didn't know what was happening.
01:02:14I always...
01:02:15I always had a heart attack now.
01:02:21Sean, nicely done.
01:02:22Oh, boy.
01:02:23That will go down in 90-day history.
01:02:26Okay.
01:02:27Oh, my gosh.
01:02:28Hi, Connie.
01:02:29So, once again, we're going to move on to Sean and Aaliyah.
01:02:33Now, calling their wedding turbulent would definitely be an understatement.
01:02:38Have things smoothed out since then?
01:02:41That is what we are about to find out.
01:02:44So, Aaliyah, how are you adjusting to life here in the States?
01:02:50I would say that I'm adjusting pretty good and pretty nice.
01:02:54I don't think that relationship, the marriage, it's like my dream.
01:02:59But I think we are moving forward.
01:03:03What was your dream?
01:03:06I think it's just like a last chance.
01:03:09I think you're both not expecting that.
01:03:13The only thing constant in our relationship is huge change.
01:03:18Your story is so fascinating.
01:03:21We've never had a situation like this.
01:03:24Yeah, it's all been unfolding.
01:03:26Well, there are two other 90-dayers who have strong opinions about Sean and Aaliyah's relationship.
01:03:33Let's bring them into the conversation.
01:03:35Speaking to us remotely from Mexico, please welcome Kenny and Armando.
01:03:41Hi, guys.
01:03:42Hi.
01:03:44How are you?
01:03:45Good.
01:03:46How are you guys doing?
01:03:47We are doing fine.
01:03:49And I'm sure you have a lot to say about Sean and Aaliyah's relationship.
01:03:55Yes.
01:03:56But, first off, Sean probably wants to get a hold of my hair.
01:04:00That's a given.
01:04:02But he doesn't let you touch it.
01:04:04But you can't touch it, you can just look.
01:04:06Yeah.
01:04:08Well, when Aaliyah moved to the U.S., their mutual friend Jackie became someone that Aaliyah could rely on.
01:04:14Well, Jackie is here tonight to give her take on these newlyweds.
01:04:18Please welcome Sean and Aaliyah's friend Jackie.
01:04:22Hi, Jackie.
01:04:23Hi, how are you?
01:04:24Good.
01:04:25Welcome.
01:04:29Jackie, you want to say hi to Sean and Aaliyah?
01:04:32You guys look great.
01:04:33Mm-hmm.
01:04:34Well, Aaliyah, you look great. Sean, you look very handsome, but I'm loving this fit, Aaliyah.
01:04:39So, Jackie, you met Sean and Aaliyah in the infancy of their relationship.
01:04:44Correct.
01:04:45Before Aaliyah transitioned.
01:04:47How different is Aaliyah today from when you first met?
01:04:53Um, Douglas was scared, quiet, timid.
01:04:58Aaliyah is, like, beautiful, bold.
01:05:00I'm really proud of the differences because she's becoming who she was meant to be and, like, I love this person, you know?
01:05:07She's comfortable in her own skin.
01:05:09Yeah, yeah.
01:05:11This is perfect for her. I'm so happy for her.
01:05:13Yeah, I'm so happy for her.
01:05:14Because this is what she is.
01:05:15Yeah.
01:05:16But Sean's perspective, you signed up and then everything changed.
01:05:21I couldn't keep going with the K-1 process, everything. The thing that you did was great.
01:05:27It's navigating how do you support somebody who's going through a lot of changes in order to continue on in this relationship.
01:05:35Okay, but I want to confirm something shocking that my producers told me.
01:05:40Sean, you ended up going on a honeymoon without Aaliyah.
01:05:45I didn't, actually.
01:05:48You did. You literally went on your own honeymoon by yourself.
01:05:56He left me, like, for a month.
01:06:00Wait, what?
01:06:01What's so wrong?
01:06:02Oh, my God.
01:06:04It wasn't a month.
01:06:05Yeah, it was.
01:06:06Let me ask you this, Sean. Do you find Aaliyah physically attracted, like you are sexually attracted to her?
01:06:21The impression that we get is that you're not.
01:06:24Uh...
01:06:25Sean, you ended up going on a honeymoon for a month by yourself?
01:06:41I went to go visit my best friend since I was 12 in Florida and I bailed and I told Leah I was leaving because I was still, like, irate.
01:06:47And you went out of the country.
01:06:48And then you went to the Dominican Republic, yeah? You went on, like, a little mini vacation by yourself.
01:06:52I did. I was very selfish about that, yes.
01:06:54You needed a vacation.
01:06:56And the reason you did not take Aaliyah with you was because?
01:07:00He was mad at me.
01:07:02Correct.
01:07:04I held the grudge for months.
01:07:06You still have it even now?
01:07:08Yeah, I think so, in a weird way.
01:07:11I think I'm not just over it.
01:07:14That is childish.
01:07:15Yes.
01:07:16Okay, so, as we know, that anger was stemming from their disastrous wedding day.
01:07:21Let's look back at exactly what went down.
01:07:26Ah!
01:07:28Mom?
01:07:36It's painful at the moment.
01:07:38I'm hoping it'll get better quickly.
01:07:41But...
01:07:42Like, am I taking you to the hospital now?
01:07:44No.
01:07:45And I, uh, will be fine by 5 o'clock.
01:07:48I guarantee it.
01:07:50Ah!
01:07:51Hey, Mom!
01:07:52It says it's gonna start at 5 o'clock.
01:07:55Oh, no, there's no way.
01:07:56It's not going to.
01:07:57No.
01:07:58It's 6 right now.
01:08:00And it was my last words to him was, do not let this be like the engagement.
01:08:06Yeah.
01:08:07Two hours late.
01:08:08Yeah.
01:08:10Time is going and going and going, and there's still no sign or even word from Aaliyah.
01:08:19And finally I just said, you know, no.
01:08:22Like, no more.
01:08:23I'm done.
01:08:25I've been ready to go for an hour and 45 minutes.
01:08:26You're not supposed to see her!
01:08:28I don't give a .
01:08:29Aw!
01:08:31Not happy.
01:08:32So I say, walk in the thing.
01:08:34Say I do really quick.
01:08:35I'm gonna go have food.
01:08:37And then throw everybody out.
01:08:41Thanks for coming.
01:08:42Aaliyah, hey, thanks for coming too, hey.
01:08:45So, uh, finally coming.
01:08:47When you got around to it.
01:08:48All right, cheers.
01:08:49Bye.
01:08:51Oh, my God!
01:08:58Whoa.
01:08:59I think the situation with your mom probably heightened everything.
01:09:04So it wasn't like you were just waiting there for two hours and...
01:09:08Yeah.
01:09:09Every five minutes was like a lifetime.
01:09:12What was the diagnosis of your mother, if your mommy is asking?
01:09:14She had fractured her foot on both sides and she was immobile for months.
01:09:21That's pretty justifiable to be pissed off.
01:09:23And Jackie, you are a big part of my pain.
01:09:27You were the person I relied on to get her and help her get there.
01:09:32You were the only one there.
01:09:33So my mom is my prized possession in this earth.
01:09:37And so I need her in the hospital.
01:09:39More than I need a wedding.
01:09:40More than I need to wait for Aaliyah to put on a wig that I had pre-styled.
01:09:45Pre-had her hair braided to put on.
01:09:47Pre-had her dress me.
01:09:48I did everything I could to make that as easy as possible.
01:09:50Char, I get why you were upset.
01:09:52I just feel like that there were...
01:09:53Where were you?
01:09:54There were a million other ways that Dan could have gone.
01:09:56Joking around, joking around in your air-conditioned private suite.
01:09:59I got dressed in a public bathroom with no air conditioning, sweating bullets.
01:10:03That's not...
01:10:04Okay.
01:10:05Shush.
01:10:06And then you go to the venue with her.
01:10:08Even if my mom wasn't in a wheelchair, even if my mom didn't have an accident,
01:10:11you should have been like, we're two hours late.
01:10:14We're not talking 15 minutes, 30 minutes.
01:10:17We kept giving her time checks.
01:10:19I kept telling her.
01:10:20Can I tell my side of the story now?
01:10:23Yeah.
01:10:24I want to hear from Aaliyah.
01:10:25Do you think that Jackie could have done more or was it out of her hands?
01:10:29I think it was out of her hands.
01:10:35Jackie told me something happened with Sean's mom.
01:10:38I was like frozen and I just felt like, oh my God, I think the wedding's not happening
01:10:43anymore because she cannot be here.
01:10:46And then someone said, oh, don't be worried because she's there.
01:10:50She's fine and everything's fine.
01:10:52So the person like calls me down.
01:10:55And then I just was a time that I like continue like doing the makeup and doing all these things.
01:11:00And the time was passing.
01:11:01My phone was not there.
01:11:02Like in my side, you did not call this my phone, I think.
01:11:07And everyone saw like calls for you.
01:11:09Maybe you should have communicated with him.
01:11:11Let's all understand where Sean is coming from.
01:11:13He's upset.
01:11:14I do understand where he's coming from.
01:11:16I do, but...
01:11:17Maybe you had to call me.
01:11:18That's totally enough.
01:11:19No more makeup.
01:11:20No more hair.
01:11:21We have to go.
01:11:22No matter what Jackie said, wasn't going to drag her out of that makeup chair because
01:11:27she was going to look perfect.
01:11:29But no wedding goes off without a hitch.
01:11:32Our wedding was an hour late.
01:11:33We had problems too.
01:11:35I think every wedding does.
01:11:37Okay.
01:11:38So you got married even after that crazy wedding day.
01:11:42But then, as you told us earlier, your sex life since has not gone well.
01:11:47Have you two been intimate?
01:11:50Yeah.
01:11:51After the wedding, we were intimate like twice.
01:11:56And I feel like I don't want to be in a position that I'm forcing him that.
01:12:00So it's just like, are you waiting?
01:12:02Do you guys like kiss or hold your hands, cuddle?
01:12:05Yeah.
01:12:06Let me ask you, given that this is an open marriage, since the wedding, has either one of you been intimate with another person?
01:12:14I have.
01:12:17Oh, wow.
01:12:18Cool.
01:12:19So do you both have an open marriage or just you, Sean?
01:12:22We both have an open marriage, but she is in the middle of her transition and isn't acting on it, as far as I know.
01:12:29She wants to be loved by you.
01:12:31Aliyah, do you think he prefers the body of a man?
01:12:38Do you feel that they have lost the sexual connection?
01:12:41Yes.
01:12:42I think I really do like masculine bodies and…
01:12:48I think it's just hard like in this process that I'm changing.
01:13:04My body is changing.
01:13:06I don't feel attracted, wanted.
01:13:10My love language is physical touch.
01:13:14And I really don't have that.
01:13:17Oh.
01:13:22Let me ask you this, Sean.
01:13:25Do you find Aliyah physically attractive, like you're sexually attracted to her?
01:13:32I'm worried because I don't really know where we're landing at the end of it all.
01:13:43Only Aliyah knows what's going to make her truly whole and truly at what she feels she is.
01:13:49So is Sean going to be attracted to Aliyah if she chose to have bottom surgery?
01:13:55The impression that we get is that you're not.
01:13:59Is that just crossing the line for you?
01:14:03It's her body, her situation.
01:14:06I don't want her to do something just to save this relationship.
01:14:14It wouldn't save it.
01:14:16No, if she chose not to and she doesn't, it's not going to ruin your relationship for sure.
01:14:21Like when you did marry Aliyah, I mean, did you think I'm in love with this person?
01:14:27Well, the person that I originally fell in love with isn't next to me anymore.
01:14:33So, Sean, are you truly in love with Aliyah?
01:14:41So...
01:14:42All right, get out of here.
01:14:51That light bulb clicked in my head. I was like, wait, Ani says she loves me, but not the way I love her.
01:14:58After all of that, I have 100% hesitation divorcing the most beautiful and amazing woman that I've ever met in my life.
01:15:04So, I don't know what our future is.
01:15:06Sean, are you actually in love with Aliyah?
01:15:15Um...
01:15:21Yes.
01:15:25And I know I'll be there for Aliyah forever.
01:15:30Good.
01:15:31Sweet.
01:15:36I think Sean was put in Aliyah's life for Aliyah to become Aliyah.
01:15:41And even if it doesn't work out romantically, he will always be there for you.
01:15:47Man, you two...
01:15:49For me, it's hard when I'm emotional to express my feelings.
01:15:53So, I wrote a text and I want to share.
01:15:57Does anyone have Aliyah's phone?
01:15:59I remember when it was just me and you.
01:16:10When talking for hours on the phone and seeing you on a screen wasn't enough.
01:16:17How I wanted to make time stop when we were together.
01:16:21And how painful it was to say goodbye.
01:16:29I remember the night I looked at the stars praying for us to be very happy.
01:16:36And today I cried inside.
01:16:41I cried because we have chanted.
01:16:43I did.
01:16:49Babe, I love you.
01:16:51And I lived with you in all of my versions.
01:17:02And you know I love you, Aliyah.
01:17:04And I'm always gonna be here for you.
01:17:07And we'll figure life out.
01:17:11And do it together.
01:17:13Okay?
01:17:15Mm-hmm.
01:17:17Love you.
01:17:18Love you too.
01:17:22I'm crying.
01:17:24Gosh.
01:17:28One more thing.
01:17:29I'm sorry that I was awful to you at the wedding.
01:17:31It was grumpy.
01:17:33And it was a hard day for me for obvious reasons.
01:17:36But I'm sorry about that.
01:17:38And I was wrong for that.
01:17:40So I just want to let you know.
01:17:42I appreciate that.
01:17:43I just want to see y'all have that day over again.
01:17:44I really do.
01:17:45Can we get a redo for the 10-year anniversary, please?
01:17:47We all need an invitation if that happens again.
01:17:49Aw.
01:17:51All right, Jackie, thank you so much for joining us.
01:17:53We can see how much you love your friend.
01:17:56Thank you so much for having me.
01:17:58Love you guys.
01:17:59Love you.
01:18:02Kenny and Armando, we always love having you guys.
01:18:05Hope to see you again soon.
01:18:07Nice to see everybody.
01:18:08Thank you, everyone.
01:18:10All right.
01:18:11Sean and Aaliyah, we certainly wish you a world of happiness.
01:18:19Well, we have reached the end of 90 Day Fiance.
01:18:22The Couples Tell All.
01:18:24A big thank you to everyone who participated today.
01:18:27From the couples to their family and friends to our past 90 Dayers.
01:18:32We've learned a lot.
01:18:33And I'm excited to see where all of your journeys take you next.
01:18:36I'm Sean Robinson.
01:18:37Thank you so much for watching.
01:18:40We survived.
01:18:46Oh, my gosh.
01:18:48We did it.
01:18:50Now we can go take this off.
01:18:52And get our wedgies out.
01:18:56What's up?
01:18:57Let's go eat that.
01:18:58Let's go eat.
01:18:59Oh, yeah.
01:19:00Eat.
01:19:01You want to go have dinner with us?
01:19:02We're all eating right there.
01:19:03No, no.
01:19:04I mean, I'm eating for Shekinah.
01:19:06Oh, okay.
01:19:07We won't eat.
01:19:08You guys want to join us or no?
01:19:09No, no.
01:19:10Okay.
01:19:11Well, it was such a pleasure meeting you again if I don't see you.
01:19:12Okay.
01:19:14I'm sorry you want, like, picking up on you, but hopefully we'll work it out eventually.
01:19:17Hopefully.
01:19:22It's so hard.
01:19:23I'm gonna make a toast.
01:19:24Ending on a high note.
01:19:25Oh, wait.
01:19:26I don't even drink, but I'm thinking about it.
01:19:29I'm almost drinking.
01:19:31Jessica.
01:19:32Jessica.
01:19:33We're leaving.
01:19:35High five.
01:19:37We survived the table and no one came for our next.
01:19:40We're gonna go home to our baby.
01:19:41Aw.
01:19:42How dare you.
01:19:43Pleasure meeting you.
01:19:45Hi.
01:19:46Hi and bye.
01:19:47I know where I am.
01:19:48Sorry about what Ani said.
01:19:49Don't take it personal.
01:19:50Don't take it personal.
01:19:51Okay.
01:19:52I already texted her.
01:19:53She's nothing cool.
01:19:55I mean, I think the next thing for us is definitely, one, finding a job.
01:19:58We should all the luck.
01:19:59Thanks, man.
01:20:00You too, you too.
01:20:01Stay in touch and maybe look into the private yacht.
01:20:03Yeah, I'll have to make it work somewhere.
01:20:06I mean, sometimes I feel bad, like I should take a job, whatever it comes, and just take it
01:20:10and work and make the money.
01:20:11And if that doesn't work, then it's like, he'll take a cruise contract or two.
01:20:16It's still last resort, but like, it's on the table.
01:20:21It's on the table, yeah.
01:20:22But I think my son is the priority now.
01:20:24Guys.
01:20:25We're heading out.
01:20:26You guys leaving?
01:20:27Sure time, guys.
01:20:28I see you guys.
01:20:29It was nice to see you.
01:20:30You too.
01:20:31Well, say trip home.
01:20:33Say trip home, bro.
01:20:34Bye.
01:20:35Bye, sweetie.
01:20:37We'll be in touch.
01:20:38See you.
01:20:39Bye.
01:20:40Bye, sweetie.
01:20:42All right.
01:20:43We'll be in touch.
01:20:44See you.
01:20:45Stop.
01:20:46I used to go for it.
01:20:48Okay, buddy.
01:20:49Play date for the dogs.
01:20:50Yes.
01:20:51Show.
01:20:52All right.
01:20:53Wait.
01:20:54There, a kiss for you.
01:20:58Bye, guys.
01:21:00Oh.
01:21:02You tried.
01:21:03You tried.
01:21:04Imani, stop trying.
01:21:07I know.
01:21:10I know very clearly now that Imani was coming into this tell-all, having it out for me.
01:21:15That was crazy.
01:21:16Like, I'm like, ugh.
01:21:18But they can go on with all their drama and their toxicity.
01:21:23I'm never going to associate with her.
01:21:25You escaped.
01:21:26That's what they can serve.
01:21:27They totally prefer that.
01:21:28With me and Shigayna, we are so inconsistent.
01:21:33I just want calmness, peaceful life.
01:21:35And I love her.
01:21:36I think everything will be better by time.
01:21:38You have the drinks.
01:21:40It's enough for you.
01:21:41I know that we arrived in separate cars.
01:21:44We slept in separate hotel rooms.
01:21:46But I want us to reconnect.
01:21:48And I think that this gesture that he made by giving me this is a sign that, you know, he wants that, too.
01:21:54Yeah.
01:21:55My personal future with Sarper, I want to move out of my place and get a place of our own.
01:22:01I want Sarper to work on his anger, and I want us to get into therapy.
01:22:08Bye.
01:22:09Bye, guys.
01:22:10Bye.
01:22:11Hey.
01:22:12I wanted to give you guys a quick hug.
01:22:13I don't know when I'll see you again, so.
01:22:15Bye.
01:22:16Bye.
01:22:17If I don't see you.
01:22:18I don't like how I'm a judge girl, Matt.
01:22:19It's okay.
01:22:20I just wanted to wish you guys best of luck.
01:22:21Good night.
01:22:22I can't have a conversation with Imani.
01:22:24I'm not sorry for standing up for myself, and I'm not sorry for standing up for Maddie.
01:22:28Hi.
01:22:29No way.
01:22:30Love you, love you.
01:22:31Bye.
01:22:32You're like a really fun person.
01:22:33You are, too.
01:22:34I love you guys.
01:22:35Okay.
01:22:36It was so draining today, and I think Stevie and I have a lot to work on.
01:22:42She didn't answer the question that if she has ever kissed a girl, but, like, I know her.
01:22:47I'm fine.
01:22:48Like, if you're okay with it, I'm okay with it, too.
01:22:50I think anything that has to do with sexuality is something that Maddie can ask me behind closed doors.
01:22:55I have fully accepted Maddie as he is, and I hope that he would be fully accepting of me throughout the years forward.
01:23:01We'll see.
01:23:06Hey, third time is a charm.
01:23:09You guys are going to tell us goodbye, right?
01:23:11We had two couples reject our goodbyes.
01:23:14Really?
01:23:15Yeah.
01:23:16Yeah.
01:23:17Shekinah Sarfer.
01:23:18Maddie and Stevie.
01:23:19Thank you so much for being so supportive.
01:23:21I know you're very independent.
01:23:22You also have that soft spot in you.
01:23:24I know.
01:23:25Have that soft spot so hard.
01:23:27Thank you, my love.
01:23:28Bye, my love.
01:23:29Well, nice meeting you guys, too.
01:23:31I know.
01:23:33I love them.
01:23:35Good night.
01:23:36Good night, guys.
01:23:37You know, after today, realizing that mom wants us out sooner rather than later.
01:23:42You know, we are saving money being there, stacking money.
01:23:46You know, we definitely have enough money to move out.
01:23:48I guess we're just going to have to expedite that situation a little bit more.
01:23:51It's got to go on the top priority.
01:23:53I think if I went home and tested and found out that I was pregnant, in one month, I'll
01:24:00be telling Gris that we need to get out of the house.
01:24:02If he doesn't want to get out, I'll leave him there and I'll get out on my own.
01:24:06Ready?
01:24:07Hiya.
01:24:08Hey.
01:24:09You're out.
01:24:10So nice to meet you.
01:24:11Nice to meet you, too.
01:24:12You know, as tough as today was and, you know, digging in a little bit to some issues,
01:24:23if anything, all it's taught us is that our relationship and our marriage is worth fighting
01:24:27for.
01:24:28We got the green card.
01:24:29We got Mary.
01:24:30We're going to go get Clayton.
01:24:31You know, we got a lot of positives coming.
01:24:33Yeah.
01:24:34For now, yeah.
01:24:35All is positive.
01:24:36This is good.
01:24:37Whew.
01:24:38Bye.
01:24:46Today was fun.
01:24:47It's hard to talk about our relationship, but like, I do feel that I'm confident and I
01:24:54can speak up for myself and that makes me feel like I have, like, joy.
01:24:58I feel happy.
01:24:59I think my biggest worry is if he doesn't like my body anymore.
01:25:07I want him to love me as a trans woman.
01:25:11What's immediately next for me and Aliyah is I'm going to take her on the honeymoon that
01:25:17we never had.
01:25:18She will be frolicking with no doubt a little itty bitty teeny weeny.
01:25:23Maybe not polka dotted bikini, but something thereof.
01:25:33All right.
01:25:34Get out of here.
01:25:35It was an honor.
01:25:37Good night, y'all.
01:25:38Bye.
01:25:39Bye.
01:25:40It took me a while to, like, sit down and, like, that light bulb click.
01:25:46In my head, I was like, wait, Ani.
01:25:48She says she loves me, but not the way I love her.
01:25:53I don't want to be left out.
01:25:54And people are so harsh on me, like, oh, you asked for this.
01:25:56Yes, I asked for this, but I learned the hard way by doing mistakes.
01:26:00So, um, we'll see.
01:26:05After all of that, I have 100% hesitation, you know, divorcing the most beautiful and
01:26:10amazing woman that I've ever met in my life.
01:26:12Ani, she's a wonderful person, but I don't think I could ever care about Ani the way that
01:26:18I do a mini unless she goes to the lengths that a mini would go for our relationship.
01:26:22So, I don't know what our future is.
01:26:24Let's.
01:26:27Let's see.
01:26:30Let's go.
01:26:32Get started.
01:26:34Let's go.
01:26:35Gordon Parker.
01:26:37Can you see the.
01:26:39Want to know what your future is?
01:26:40jedem that .
01:26:41do you believe.
01:26:42Hands on you.
01:26:44Will!
01:26:45Hope your strength.
01:26:47You.
01:26:48Go.
01:26:49Two mistakes...
01:26:50You.
01:26:51That's fantastic.
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