‘90 Day Fiancé’ Season 11 Episode 6 Recap

DHLTV

Transcript

00:00I'm telling you right now that I don't want to get married unless it's forever. I mean

00:05it. It was just a thought. Okay, don't think it. The hardest thing I've ever done was leaving

00:12my family, but I can't even be honest with her about that. I know what I want, but I

00:17just want to know what you want.

00:21On 90 Day Fiance, Shekinah and Sarper are getting used to living with each other, but

00:25he wishes that her home were a bit bigger.

00:28Frankly, the house is a little smaller than I expected. I was hoping bigger, especially

00:36the upstairs because there is just a bed and a bathroom. That's all. I don't know if it

00:44would change my decision to come, but it wouldn't probably, but at least I could prepare myself.

00:50We picked back up with Mark and his daughter Jordan, who isn't happy about his relationship

00:55with Mina.

00:56I'm trying to find happiness again, and I did fall in love with somebody. She does happen

01:00to be younger.

01:01I want you to be happy. I do, but I really just wish that it was a different situation.

01:07I would be so much more comfortable if you found someone like your age and who lived

01:12in the U.S. and like.

01:14So what? You want me to break up with her right now, not get married and go find somebody

01:18who's 45 or 50. That's your idea of fixing all this?

01:21Well, no, because you already have a baby, so you can't really fix anything now.

01:24Right. So we don't have more. That's my first thing. Don't have more.

01:27You're literally trying to dictate how my happiness going forward. You're judging something

01:33that I can't change.

01:34Imani's still upset about what happened with Ani and Matt, and she opened up about how

01:39she was feeling.

01:40You're walking into a new relationship like to us, but there's a relationship there of

01:4610 years. And when you walk into a relationship of 10 years, we have our own problems already.

01:51This is like becoming kind of my nightmare where our own problems are resurfacing in

01:55this relationship as well. I feel I'm working twice as hard than I was in my previous, just

02:00our relationship now. Like, this is a lot on me.

02:06So if you already have a lot of issues and it's shaking, you bring in a third person,

02:10it's probably not going to go well.

02:14You know, we have a family and this is, you know, a chance for us to see if we can get

02:20what we need to make that decision. I mean, we don't want our family to be at risk.

02:27The biggest fear for me, what can come out of bringing somebody else to our relationship

02:34and our marriage, our life is, is losing you. I don't know how I can exist in a life without

02:42Matt. I don't know who I am without you.

02:45They decided to set up some rules going forward.

02:48Is everyone allowed to have sex with each other without the other person's permission?

02:54I don't want it to be that restricted. This is why initially I never wanted rules, but

03:03I couldn't help what I felt that moment, which is a little bit of jealousy and disrespect.

03:09So I would like you guys to let me know as soon as you can. I would like to be in the

03:15known.

03:17So what you're asking for is for permission.

03:22I think so.

03:27That's good for me. Now it's out there. I understand.

03:31For me, it's okay.

03:33Sean and Aaliyah reunited in the States and we're so excited to see each other.

03:38We are now one big happy hairy family.

03:41Yeah, very hairy for sure. Oh my God.

03:45I think the baby, it's really cute. I got a little nervous about the licking, but I

03:51need to damage that with that.

03:54I'm so happy. Everything worked out. Now we can live finally together.

04:03So now we have each other.

04:05It's official.

04:06It's official.

04:07It's happened. Officially happened.

04:11But back at Sean's place, Aaliyah wasn't happy when the topic of their open relationship

04:15came up and Sean isn't sure how to navigate things going forward.

04:19I think Aaliyah had visions of the happily ever afters where everything was easy and

04:26people just stayed monogamous and no problem came and everything was fine.

04:32But of course, the last time we saw Aaliyah in Brazil, there was no Douglas and our sex

04:39life changed.

04:41So as much as I love Aaliyah, at the end of the day, I didn't sign up to be in a relationship

04:46with a woman.

04:47So if she's fully going to be a woman, then I know that I'll be missing the company of

04:54being with a man.

04:55So I don't know how to navigate it where we're both like happy.

05:00Joan was shocked to find out how much debt Greg was in.

05:03I guess like $8,000, a little bit more than that in debt.

05:08I knew Greg had a debt, but I didn't think it was that big, like $8,000.

05:14I'm very shocked to hear about that.

05:17I have a different opinion on what I think about America.

05:20I thought people living in America were stable, but they're not.

05:25I'm not really happy about this.

05:28Later Joan met with his friends, and they're not sure that he's going to be able to get

05:32his life together enough for what Joan wants.

05:35Greg needs to be extremely realistic about what it's going to take to simply get a roof

05:39over their heads, let alone a roof that's large enough to supply children.

05:45Realistically, what is the next step here?

05:47Are you going to take a standard job?

05:48Are you going to try to move out of your parents' house?

05:50Are you going to move into a rental?

05:54You know, I have to figure out something that's going to support the both of us, at least

05:57until she can get a job, and then we can figure it out from there.

06:00But right now, I am the sole proprietor, I am the sole caregiver, I am everything.

06:06I am worried that things are not going to work out, and she's just going to kick him

06:11to the side, to be honest with you.

06:13Maddie and Stevie were talking about their future together, when he said something that

06:17left her shocked.

06:19I'm really sorry, but I've thought about it when I was in Iran.

06:23If one day you don't want to be with me, I would still stay in the U.S.

06:31And now, I don't feel like that anymore.

06:40So before, you were okay with thinking that if we broke up, you would stay here?

06:44Yeah.

06:45Now she's questioning their future together.

06:48This is the first time I've ever heard Maddie talking about if we didn't work.

06:54I honestly can't believe that Maddie is telling me that he had already planned on staying

06:58in America even if we didn't work out, because I've never thought about what it would be

07:03like to not be with Maddie.

07:06This is probably the first time in our whole entire relationship that I've ever questioned

07:10Maddie's motive.

07:12And for the first time in our whole entire relationship, I'm starting to question whether

07:17this is something that I want to do or not.

07:21She says that she's never once questioned whether they would work out prior to that

07:24moment.

07:25For me, it's forever or nothing.

07:29Honestly, I don't hear anything that he's saying because all I can hear is the part

07:34where he's talking about if we don't work out.

07:37And this is really shocking to me because I would have never went through with all of

07:42this if there was ever a doubt that Maddie and I weren't going to work out.

07:47She told him because of her past relationships, she doesn't want to get married unless they're

07:50absolutely certain that they're going to work out.

07:53Your thoughts are a huge deal.

07:57I have been so hurt in my life that I'm not willing to be hurt again.

08:01So if you love me at all, just make sure it's what you want, because I'm not going to do it.

08:07That's why I love you so much.

08:10You're not making me feel reassured that these things are not true when you say things like

08:15that, which is the first time you've ever said anything like that, ever.

08:23You're not making me feel reassured that these things are not true when you say things

08:25like that, ever.

08:27You're not making me feel reassured that these things are not true when you say things like

08:29that, ever.

Category

Transcript

Recommended