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90 Day Fiancé Uk Season 4 Episode 1
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05:59Yeah, it was a really nice night, really nice
06:02I feel really lucky to have met him, really lucky
06:06He's just...
06:11Mette is like, like, my ideal man, and he loves football, which is perfect.
06:19I'm a football man.
06:26I love being out on the pitch with the lads, because when they see the girl on the pitch, they just don't think they're going to be as good, but I always show them how it's done.
06:45After a game, after a game, we always head down to the pub for a pint or two, it's like a ritual.
07:02Let's go.
07:03Good game this week, guys. Cheers.
07:09Cheers. Cheers.
07:11I deserve that.
07:15My mate, Che, is like a big brother.
07:19You know, the door's always open. Like, you can come round when you want.
07:23I always count you as one of my closest friends.
07:25And I just see you as someone I know.
07:28You know I love you.
07:30Yeah.
07:30You could come round a little bit more.
07:32I know, I should do.
07:33But then, because I'm in a relationship that's long distance, I want to FaceTime him and spend time with him.
07:40But the jealousy thing is a big issue.
07:42Yeah.
07:45Mette gets quite jealous about other boys.
07:49It is really just being around lads.
07:51That's going to cause some problems.
07:53Especially when I talk about J.
07:55How would Mette feel about you being out with me tonight?
07:59Yeah.
07:59Mette is not the biggest fan of Maya and Shannon's friendship.
08:03It's probably just because we're so close.
08:06I've known you for five years.
08:08I was here first.
08:09But then, I do actually really love him.
08:13Yeah.
08:14Yeah.
08:29You're going to make me handsome, yeah?
08:41Hi guys.
08:42I am Mette.
08:43I am the 32.
08:44I am from Turkey.
08:49I'm the positive person.
08:51I like the smile.
08:52Because life is short.
08:55We don't need the stress.
08:56Hello, my friend.
09:00I love boxing.
09:04I love all the sports, actually.
09:08But boxing works with all our muscles.
09:15I work with a lot of hotels with the entertainment team.
09:19We have a really good time.
09:21We are the party people, really, really party people.
09:28I used to go out with my friends.
09:32But now, not too much.
09:35Because I meet Shannon.
09:41Shannon, my love, darling.
09:44She is coming to the reception.
09:49All my work friends say, oh, good, beautiful girl coming now.
09:54I am saying, guys, it is mine.
09:57But Shannon, not like other English girl.
10:01You want?
10:02Come, go out, drink.
10:04She say, no.
10:05Everyone tried.
10:06No, no, no, no, no.
10:09But eventually,
10:10she said yes to me.
10:17Me and Shannon, really similar.
10:19We both like the travel.
10:21Oh, my God.
10:23We both like the history.
10:25We both like the onion and garlic.
10:28Do you know, too many people don't like the smell,
10:30but we both like the onion.
10:31I love everything about Shannon.
10:35Very hard ways, guys.
10:38But sometimes argument really, really big.
10:41Because I am jealous.
10:45What does make me jealous?
10:47Everything makes me jealous.
10:49Anyone interested in my girlfriend, I am jealous.
10:52My girlfriend, who had really, really sexy, I am jealous.
10:57Going out with the guys, I am really jealous.
11:02We have later big problem.
11:05I love showing off, and I love looking perfect, and I love mirrors.
11:19But sometimes when I look in the mirror,
11:22I think, I wish I was born rich instead of beautiful.
11:25But you can't have it all, can you?
11:27My name's Zena, and I live in Oxford, Surrey.
11:35And Oxford, Surrey's a very nice place to live.
11:40I wanna have a dinner with you.
11:42My favourite music is reggae music.
11:48I listen to classical music.
11:52I listen to soul.
11:55I listen to jazz.
11:57I just love music, full stop.
12:05I mean, look how old she is.
12:07I have known Lisa about 48 years.
12:11I'm waiting to get my teeth screwed in.
12:12Oh, God.
12:13I've had the screws put in.
12:14Very painful, very painful.
12:16I'd rather give birth ten times than have them screws in.
12:19I've had a few procedures, you know,
12:21boob job, tummy tuck, nose job.
12:24I'm just about getting screwing teeth,
12:27so I'm a bit of a bionic woman.
12:30You're like next Chris Jenner.
12:31I'm sure.
12:34Any more surgery on the cards?
12:37Bum lift, fanny tuck?
12:38I thought about a design of a vagina,
12:41but I did go and see a doctor,
12:44and on examination he said, no, no, no, you...
12:46Can't do nothing with it.
12:47No.
12:47You're glamorous.
12:51You are.
12:51You're in good nick.
12:52Trust me, you are.
12:53A fella could meet you in here tonight,
12:55and you fall in love and live happily ever after.
12:57Yeah, but I don't really fancy men my own age.
13:00Yeah, I'm 65.
13:01You don't look it.
13:06Men in their 60s, I'm not attracted to.
13:09They're all bald and got big fat guts.
13:12They're like washed up coleslaw now.
13:13I don't like them.
13:14And I don't really fancy young men either,
13:17so I like an in-between.
13:18A lot of young men have got auntie fetishes.
13:21Shut up.
13:21No, it's true.
13:22I've never heard that.
13:23Yes, you can Google it.
13:25Google it, yeah.
13:26Now, please go through my phone.
13:27I have met someone.
13:31Right.
13:31And he's really nice.
13:33Any pictures of him?
13:33Look on my phone and see if you can find Ibrahim.
13:37I can't find him.
13:39E?
13:40Yeah, E.
13:41E-B-R-I-H-A-M.
13:43Oh, my God.
13:47How old is he?
13:4844.
13:50Your daughter's older than that?
13:52Yep.
13:53Never mind tip procedures and neck lifts.
13:56You need to get that sorted.
13:58Does he work?
13:59He's a waiter in a hotel.
14:01Where?
14:02In the Gambia.
14:03Ibrahim lives in the Gambia.
14:09And I met him when I was in Africa on holiday.
14:13He asked me out a few times.
14:15And I thought, oh, he's rather nice.
14:17He's tall.
14:17He's handsome.
14:18And we had a few dates.
14:20And we've had a relationship ever since.
14:22Zina.
14:24Hmm?
14:24You're travelling halfway across the world for a bit of cock.
14:27Ha, ha, ha.
14:28You not.
14:33Hi, Ibrahim.
14:40Looking well.
14:40What have you been doing?
14:42Ibrahim's 20 years younger than me, so there is an age gap.
14:45I'm missing you.
14:46Are you missing me?
14:47Of course.
14:48But I don't really see it as an age gap because he has a very high intellectual outview on life.
14:55Still hot there, then?
14:57Yeah, it's hot.
14:57He speaks Arabic, French, English, and Gambian.
15:02Very good, very good.
15:04We like this one.
15:06And he's extremely fit.
15:08And so, yes, I'm very attracted to him.
15:10When I put a few posts up on my social media, a lot of people said, oh, you're just a visa vagina.
15:18You're just a sex tourist.
15:20Bye-bye, then.
15:21Love you.
15:21Bye-bye, bye-bye, bye-bye.
15:22No, I'm not a sex tourist.
15:25Because if I wanted to get sex in England, I could, even at my age.
15:34Hello, Mum, it's me.
15:36I've got your shopping here.
15:38I'm going to see my mum.
15:40Yeah, I've got you some milk and bread and, you know, odds and ends what you have, ham.
15:44That's what I want.
15:45Mashed potato.
15:46I've got to take her shopping.
15:48Come on, I'm gagging for me cup of tea.
15:50I've done myself a while.
15:51Have a little chat with her.
15:53See, let me put it down.
15:54Okay.
15:55She's going blind.
15:56She's 95, so she can't really do her own cleaning.
15:59So later on in the evening, I'll clean all her flat for her.
16:04Are you still seeing my steed in Gambia?
16:07Ibraham, his name is, he's nice.
16:10He's such an ugly bloke, Xena, when I see his picture.
16:16Mum's really rude, and a lot of people say she might have dementia, but she's got no dementia whatsoever.
16:22It's just always the way she's been.
16:24I think he's good looking, myself.
16:26Oh, yeah.
16:27Well, you must be bloody blind, then.
16:28You must have shit in your eyes if you think he's nice looking.
16:31That's rather rude.
16:34Ibraham is definitely not my mum's type.
16:37My mum only really likes men that are English or men that she's known all her life, really.
16:45I would like you to meet Ibraham, Mum, because you've got the wrong idea of him.
16:48He's a very, very, very nice man.
16:51I'm 20 odd years older, but he treats me like a queen.
16:55He does everything for me.
16:57Age is no...
16:59What's the name nowadays?
17:00I don't take any notice of age.
17:01Look at all the old ladies, got young men.
17:03Yeah.
17:04Wish I could get one.
17:05Well, come to Africa and you can get one.
17:07No!
17:08The only thing you've got to be careful of is if you did go there, is you'd get a lot of geckos running across your feet.
17:13Why are they?
17:14I don't know.
17:14They're like rubbery and they run across your feet like that.
17:17Are they alive?
17:18Yeah, they're alive.
17:19Good.
17:20So when are you going back then?
17:22Soon.
17:22Soon as I've sorted all the flights out on that.
17:26I'm going to miss you if you go.
17:27I really will.
17:28I've got to go and see it through.
17:33You think you'll marry him?
17:35I hope you don't, but...
17:36Well, I love him.
17:38No!
17:38I can read between the lines.
17:43She says she loves him and all that, but I don't think she does.
17:48Not really.
17:50Nothing won't come of her with him.
17:52I hope it does for her sake.
17:54I really do, because I love her.
17:56I love her to bits, but...
17:57I love her.
17:59Nah.
18:26Hi, I'm Shona.
18:27I'm 45.
18:29Age is just a number.
18:30I don't feel like I'm in my 40s.
18:34The secret is going to the gym,
18:37eat healthy, don't drink, don't smoke,
18:40and a lot of water.
18:43When I have my daughter at the age of 21,
18:46it looked like I was 15, 16.
18:48So I used to get all the looks.
18:50I'm like, I'm actually old enough to have a child.
18:52Oh, I'll be there soon.
19:00Don't worry.
19:01I met Adnan on holiday.
19:05He's from Albania, but working in Greece.
19:08I went to COS last year,
19:09and the hotel that we stayed in, he worked there.
19:13I had problems with my keys to get in,
19:15and he came over, he helped me.
19:17From there, we start texting and stuff like that.
19:20Oh, thank you, babe.
19:26This is something I would never do,
19:27but we went out together in town.
19:29He was so warm, loving.
19:31He held my hands right throughout,
19:33and I've begun to have feelings for him.
19:36I know it sounds strange, though,
19:38in that short time period,
19:40but, yeah, it does happen.
19:43Love you.
19:44It was the best time of my life.
19:49We were all over each other.
19:50We were touching, kissing, hugging.
19:54There's a lift to get to the rooms,
19:56and every time we go in that lift,
19:58we get up to staff in the room.
19:59Our relationship was quite physical.
20:06Because, obviously, he's young.
20:07He's 25, but love is love.
20:10It doesn't matter the age.
20:13It just felt real.
20:18Myself and my daughter, Kayla,
20:20we're like sisters.
20:23You are a MILF.
20:26I love my mom. It's my mom.
20:27Can't change your mom.
20:28But, you know...
20:30If you could change me, would you change me?
20:31Be honest.
20:33I would change things about you.
20:35You're like the girl with a banging body.
20:37She's not sure about Adnan,
20:39but I would like her to support me
20:41with the person I love.
20:43Women over 40 do have a life.
20:44Of course, I never said that.
20:46Why can I not take a chance in love?
20:48Because he's 25.
20:50OK.
20:51Age is just a number.
20:53OK, sugar mama.
20:54Sugar mama?
20:55How am I a sugar mama?
20:56You're going to be his sugar mama.
20:57To be honest, I don't care about the age.
20:59I've never felt this way about anyone else before.
21:01Even, yes.
21:03Oh.
21:04And even though he's young,
21:05I don't see age.
21:06I see his personality.
21:07When's the last time you saw him?
21:09August, last year.
21:10August.
21:11You think that he's been syllabate
21:12from August to now?
21:14Of course, yes, he has, yes.
21:15How do you know?
21:16Because we speak every day.
21:17I just think that you're living in a fairytale.
21:23I'm being serious.
21:24I just think there's going to be drama
21:26because he doesn't know the real you.
21:28What is the real me?
21:30Like, the real you.
21:32Be prepared.
21:33He might have some secrets.
21:34When you meet someone for the first time,
21:36they're always going to be their best version of themselves.
21:39Or, you know, he could be a murderer.
21:41You don't know that, though.
21:42You don't know nothing about him.
21:43Do you know what I mean?
21:44This is what happens.
21:45People, you hear it all the time on TikTok.
21:48He might be hiding something
21:49because you're hiding something.
21:58Hey, Ben.
21:59It's been really hard
22:00because a long-distance relationship
22:02can be quite tedious.
22:04Have you had something to eat?
22:06To me, this is not enough.
22:07Yeah, I eat spaghetti.
22:11Something inside me wanted more
22:13and I realised that Adnan couldn't have filled that void.
22:17And I've met someone.
22:22It's just, like, a different feeling.
22:27He protects me.
22:29He shows me unconditional love.
22:32And I know that he's there for me all the time.
22:35Who is he?
22:40He's God.
22:42I'd become a Mormon.
22:50He will lose the bands of death
22:52and bear sins of his people.
22:54Those who repent are baptised.
22:57I want a church that was family-orientated.
23:01And one day I was on social media
23:03and I saw this post from the Mormons
23:05and it kind of draw me in.
23:08Filthiness cannot inherit the kingdom of God.
23:12To be a Mormon,
23:13I had to re-evaluate my life.
23:17Oh, it was fun being a party girl.
23:19Drinking, the attention,
23:23my balm, tits, everything on show.
23:28But my days of part is over.
23:33The Mormons believe that we have to just keep our body pure.
23:37We can't have alcohol.
23:40Cigarettes.
23:40And I have to keep my chastity.
23:53Obviously, I'm in a relationship with Adnan
23:55for he's not aware
23:57that we can't have sex anymore.
24:00Amen.
24:10I need to tell Metay
24:23that I was out with the lads last night
24:25and I am getting a bit nervous.
24:28Last night felt like a dream.
24:30I had a good time.
24:32Yeah, well, it's nice to see you.
24:33I know, well.
24:34Did you tell Metay that
24:35you were out with the lads last night?
24:37No.
24:39Right.
24:40It shouldn't be an issue.
24:43Well, no, you should be able to
24:44go for a pint with your mates.
24:46Yeah, exactly.
24:49Oh, he's calling.
24:51I'm just gonna...
24:52I'll be back in a bit.
24:55See you in a bit.
24:56See ya.
24:59You okay?
25:01We live next door to each other.
25:03Yeah, I can hear you breathing from your bedroom.
25:05Stop listening to me breathe, you big weirdo.
25:08I'm good. How are you, darling?
25:09How are you, darling?
25:11Hello?
25:12Yeah, how's your day going?
25:15Really good.
25:16Your day, how is your going?
25:18Really good, darling.
25:20Really good.
25:21Good, darling.
25:22When Metay and I first met,
25:23his English wasn't as good as it is now.
25:26He's definitely improved loads
25:29since we first met.
25:30What are you doing?
25:32I am sitting on the coffee, darling.
25:34I think he's just got comfortable
25:36with talking English to me.
25:37You miss my face.
25:39True, darling.
25:41Where have you been before?
25:42Er, we are, I'm just in the J's.
25:46What happened?
25:48Nothing, darling.
25:50Why, what's wrong?
25:52Did I say anything wrong?
25:54No, darling.
25:55I'm wondering if his mood's off
25:57because I've just left J's house, maybe.
26:00What did you do last night, darling?
26:02Er, last night we are just going to play the football.
26:06Anything else?
26:07No, I don't really want to cause an argument.
26:12So I'm not going to mention I was with a load of guys.
26:15You want to say anything?
26:18I don't think so, darling.
26:20You don't think so?
26:22I think so, darling.
26:26Jealousy is obviously a big part
26:29in long-distance relationships.
26:31You're not with that person.
26:32You don't know what they're up to, what they're doing.
26:35What happened last night?
26:36We are going to pubs, celebrate.
26:39With the girls?
26:42I'm just with the lads.
26:44Huh?
26:44With the boys' team.
26:50That good.
26:52Really cold on the football.
26:56It comes with the long-distance.
27:01If you don't want to talk to them, you close the phone,
27:03or if you don't want to reply to the message,
27:05you don't reply.
27:06You're not just in front of that person.
27:09You have to confront it.
27:10In four days, I'm going back.
27:13I do think this trip is going to be really important.
27:16If me and Mete can't work on our communication,
27:19I don't know how this is going to go forward.
27:22If I feel stress, I am boxing with my cousin.
27:43His name is Ur.
27:45Also, he's my best friend.
27:46Good training today, guy.
27:51How is your English girl?
27:52Shannon.
27:54She's good, but I am jealous.
27:56Tipic Türk erkeği işte.
27:58Do you trust your friends?
27:59Do you trust Shannon's friend?
28:01Yeah, I am trusting Shannon, but I am not trusting other people's.
28:06My girlfriend going out, just different male.
28:10Sorry, I can't accept this.
28:14You know me, I am the Turk.
28:16We say in Turkey,
28:18because bin kişi ister, bir kişi alır.
28:21That's mean, one girl,
28:24one thousand people want this girl,
28:27just one man take this girl.
28:28Last time she called me, she had a football match,
28:32and later they have to celebrate.
28:35That's problem.
28:36Daha önce böyle olaylara ciddi karşılıklar verdiğini hatırlıyorum.
28:41Absolutely, I have trusting problem all the pupils.
28:44Shannon, beautiful girl.
28:46If she go out, just sitting the male friends,
28:50I make a problem.
28:52We don't make a problem.
28:53If I don't love her, I am not jealous.
28:56Shannon the same, Shannon jealous me.
29:00It is just love.
29:02Shannon kıskandığı için mi bizimle artık dışarı çıkmıyorsun?
29:05It is relationship rules.
29:07I have big rules.
29:09She have rules.
29:12Last summer,
29:13Shannon got really jealous.
29:16She said,
29:16I don't want you to work in entertainment.
29:19She don't want,
29:20I am meet the different girls,
29:22English girls.
29:24I say, okay, no problem for me.
29:26I am leave this Marmaris work.
29:28I am come to live in Istanbul,
29:30and don't go out.
29:32But now,
29:33I don't know.
29:34I couldn't stop Shannon going out,
29:40meet friends.
29:42But if she go out with her friends,
29:45I am going out with my friends,
29:47the party boys.
29:48I go out and she couldn't stop me.
29:58I am going out.
30:18Hey!
30:19Hey!
30:19You all right?
30:20Yeah, I am good.
30:21How are you?
30:21Yeah, I am good.
30:23When I talk to my friends about Adnan.
30:25Oh, that looks lovely.
30:26They were like, what are you doing?
30:28So you don't think he's genuine?
30:30No, I don't.
30:32What? Look at that. Aren't we a lovely couple?
30:40You might think that the connection that you two have is perfect.
30:46However...
30:48Nah, sure not.
30:50Nah.
30:52No one can tell me how to live my life.
30:56People are going to have opinions, they're going to say stuff.
30:59He'll be in the UK before you could even blink.
31:01That's good though, isn't it?
31:03No. Why?
31:04It's not good because...
31:06You don't know Adnan, you don't know a relationship, so I just don't care.
31:11How does he feel about the religion side?
31:13Oh, he doesn't know.
31:15What? You haven't told him?
31:17He doesn't know about that.
31:19Adnan doesn't know that it'll become a moment.
31:22We just have to wait and see when I tell him.
31:25Obviously, we can't have sex.
31:27You've been talking to him for months and you haven't brought that up in the conversation.
31:30No, I'm scared.
31:32What do you think he's going to say when he finds out?
31:35I don't know.
31:36He's not going to like it.
31:37100%.
31:38He's 25.
31:39So when you go and see him...
31:41We can't live in the same household.
31:43What do you mean?
31:45Because we're not married, so we cannot be together in the same house.
31:49To stay in the same house or to stay in the same bed?
31:51Yeah.
31:52Same house, we have to be married, yeah.
31:57I think he wants to go up and down in the lift.
31:59Up and down in the lift, you...
32:01Up and down, up and down, up and down.
32:03We're allowed to date.
32:04You can hold hands, but we're not allowed to kiss
32:06because obviously kissing can lead on to other stuff.
32:08Up and down, up and down, up and down.
32:09Up and down, up and down.
32:10Oh, my God, no.
32:11He's going to be...
32:12He will hate it.
32:13Mm-hmm.
32:14Tell him about the religion.
32:16Tell him what to expect.
32:19You need to try and get things, um...
32:22made clear.
32:23I'd rather tell him face-to-face.
32:24Right.
32:25Rather than do it over the phone.
32:26It's something that's so sensitive that I have to, like,
32:29rather go and see him and say,
32:31because of my faith, we can't have sex.
32:34So you're going to go to Greece?
32:36Yeah.
32:37Oh, OK.
32:38Yeah.
32:45Good luck.
32:46So, I am Adnan.
32:56I am 25 years old.
32:58I am Obelian, and I live in Greece.
32:59Greece has a special place in my heart because I meet my love here.
33:11But it's my dream to live and create life in the UK.
33:12Most of young people are moving from Albania.
33:21We dream of UK because money is good, standard life is good.
33:22Standard life is good.
33:23I would love to take some pictures in London Bridge, in Rochard.
33:31I would love to go to the stadium to see Arsenal.
33:32I would love to go to the stadium to see Arsenal.
33:44I would love to use a bus because it looks nice.
33:45I've never been, but I heard about Nando's chicken, and I would like to go.
33:58My dream, yeah, life in UK.
34:01And now that I meet Shorna, I will come.
34:07I miss her.
34:08I miss her.
34:09I miss her smile.
34:10I miss her hugs.
34:11I miss her cook.
34:12Yeah, everything.
34:14Just give me a second.
34:16Giuliano is calling me.
34:20Oh, what a start.
34:21I will smoke you.
34:22Never mind, never mind.
34:23I never did that.
34:24My best mate, Giuliano.
34:25Are you looking forward to seeing Shorna?
34:26Yeah, yeah, yeah.
34:27Was saying to me, you can find a lot of beautiful girls here.
34:28So what are you doing?
34:29Are you in love with Shorna?
34:30Unfortunately, yes.
34:31Unfortunately?
34:32Yeah.
34:33Why is that?
34:34Because she is more older than me.
34:35I like, uh...
34:36I like, uh...
34:37I like, uh...
34:38I like, uh...
34:39I like, uh...
34:40I like, uh...
34:41I like, uh...
34:42I like, uh...
34:43I like, uh...
34:44I like, uh...
34:45I like, uh...
34:46I like, uh...
34:49I like, uh, older woman.
34:51Shorna has a sexy body.
34:53First, I saw her from behind.
34:55Oh, yeah, yeah.
34:56Oh, yeah, yeah.
34:57Trick shot, trick shot.
34:58We have a lot of kisses, hugs,
35:00and of course, uh...
35:02a lot of sex.
35:10Cheers.
35:13If you move to London...
35:14I will go soon.
35:16So you're welcome in their house?
35:18Of course, yeah, yeah.
35:19What will be the first thing that, uh...
35:20you do there?
35:21In London?
35:22Yes, sir.
35:23Just I will go walking around.
35:25I will enjoy, uh...
35:26enjoy the town, you know?
35:28Yeah.
35:29I will go on the shore.
35:30Yeah.
35:31I will eat some Nandos.
35:33Nandos?
35:34Yeah.
35:35Nandos chickens.
35:36Spicy.
35:37After I will spend a lot of time with Shorna.
35:41Yeah, we will be close.
35:43Shorna is super hot.
35:47Good boy.
35:49She's a good kisser.
35:54I can't wait for her.
35:56Something special will happen.
35:58Like what?
35:59Like maybe any children.
36:04Maybe any baby boy.
36:05I can't wait to spend time with Shorna.
36:11First I will hug and I will kiss her.
36:14And in future I will move.
36:16I will go in UK.
36:17I will go in UK.
36:18I will go in UK.
36:19I will go in UK.
36:20I will go in UK.
36:21I will go in UK.
36:22I will go in UK.
36:25I will go in UK.
36:26I will go in UK.
36:27So, you packing them?
36:29I am.
36:30I've not got a suitcase big enough.
36:32So, are you packing, then?
36:43I am. I've not got a suitcase big enough.
36:47How have things been?
36:48Things were looking good. Yeah.
36:50And then they've kind of...
36:52Since my phone call with Mete,
36:54he's messaged saying he now wants to spend some more time with his friends,
36:58which he hasn't done for a long time.
37:01It's just a bit childish, really.
37:04You'll get to go see your friends, I'm going to go see my friends now.
37:07Shouldn't be like that. It's almost like tit for tat.
37:09Yeah. Like, you're doing it, he's specifically going out and doing it.
37:13Yeah, which is just like... It's not great, like...
37:15As long as it's not a bunch of girls.
37:18Well, being devil's out of the bit here,
37:21could you not think that, you know, maybe something could have happened?
37:26Like, the more he tells me, oh, I'm worried about this,
37:30I'm worried you're doing this, the more I...
37:31You worry about him doing it. Yeah.
37:33Yeah. He's not answering my calls, he's not answering my texts,
37:36maybe to make me jealous.
37:38Yeah.
37:39I know he is methamarmerous, obviously.
37:41I know he worked the bar scene,
37:43and, like, we've seen this, like, social media group.
37:47It's called Love After Marmarous.
37:49It's about, like, cheaters and scammers
37:51and, like, basically just, like, names and chains, stuff.
37:53So it's like, if you just, like, had a look, like...
37:55I'm not interested.
37:58No, look, that's fine.
38:02He's not like that.
38:04But...
38:05I don't think he would be on there.
38:07Like, I don't think he's that kind of guy.
38:09I know he did the entertainment thing,
38:11but that was his first season in Marmarous,
38:13so it's not like he's got this big, like, backstory
38:16that I don't know about.
38:17He's left Marmarous as well, so, like, enough.
38:20OK?
38:21You know, I don't want you to think I'm...
38:23Just leave it. Yeah.
38:24Just leave it.
38:26I'd describe you as, like, a little sister.
38:29Yeah.
38:29I'm there for you when you need me.
38:31Yeah.
38:32It makes you think and makes you realise, you know,
38:34how many people are out there, like...
38:38like, scamming and, you know, looking for a visa and...
38:42Yeah.
38:43That was a thought that I had,
38:45but I really don't think that he's in it for a visa at all.
38:49I do want to get him a visa to come here,
38:52at least visit him.
38:53Maybe he comes here and he finds a nice English girl
38:57and he runs off and doesn't come back, like...
39:00But anything's a possibility, isn't it?
39:03You know, anything could happen.
39:05I mean, I don't think there's...
39:07I just want you to be careful
39:09and I want you to know what you're getting into.
39:11Mm-hmm.
39:13And...
39:14Yeah, just...
39:16Just, you know.
39:17I'll see.
39:21Be good.
39:23Of course.
39:24And I hope you have a wonderful time.
39:25Oh, I will.
39:26Bye!
39:27Bye!
39:28Bye!
39:28Jaron, good luck.
39:32You're going to need it.
39:39Do you think we're going to make it on time?
39:41Not sure.
39:42My relationship's on the line
39:45and it's fucking snowing.
39:48Mete's got my flight details,
39:50but he's not done through my calls or texts.
39:53I'm...
39:53I'm so stressed.
39:58I don't want to say the message I'm going to need it.
40:02No answer.
40:04How far away are we?
40:06We're getting closer now.
40:07It looks like it's stopped now.
40:09I don't want to say the message I'm going to need it.
40:20Mete is not answering my calls.
40:22Not hearing from him before I get on this plane
40:25is giving me heaps of anxiety.
40:29All I can hope for is that when I land,
40:31we can finally talk about the things that we need to.
40:33Oh, yeah, it's nice in here, isn't it?
40:56You've been here before?
40:57I've had three relationships long-term.
41:01I'll sit here.
41:02I've got four children, all grown up.
41:05That's it.
41:05Ooh, lovely views.
41:07I've got seven grandchildren
41:08and I've got one great-granddaughter.
41:11Does your boyfriend have a beach near his house?
41:14No, he lives more or less in the bush.
41:16He has to get a boat for an hour and a half
41:18to where he works,
41:19and then he's got the beach there.
41:20Where he lives, they're very poor.
41:23They don't even...
41:24The children don't even wear clothes
41:25for their boy or girl.
41:27They just wear anything.
41:28Yeah, but Ibrahim's not got kids, has he?
41:30No.
41:31Don't you think he might want kids?
41:32Well, I won't be able to have kids.
41:33Will I?
41:33Well, exactly.
41:35Do you think that's...
41:35How old is he?
41:36You could donate an egg.
41:37I don't think none of us are donating.
41:39You're crazy.
41:40How has he stayed single all this time?
41:43He's not had a kid.
41:44Because he said he hasn't got any money,
41:45so he can't have a wife or a child
41:47because he doesn't want to have a child
41:48if he can't provide for it.
41:50No, but how do you know this relationship
41:52isn't all, you know, to get money out of you?
41:56I am a generous person,
41:58and if I think someone needs money or something,
42:00I'll give it to them
42:01because, you know,
42:03you can only keep so much for yourself, can't you?
42:05I bought him an iPhone
42:06only because that we could contact each other,
42:09and I bought him a mattress
42:10because he was sleeping on a concrete floor,
42:13and I did send him money for his birthday and Christmas.
42:17To me, it doesn't seem like he gets a lot out of this,
42:19apart from money.
42:20Like, he doesn't have to see you for months on end.
42:22He could be doing anything out there.
42:24He's a young guy, you know, looking for women.
42:29I think that he's sort of possibly maybe even targeted you.
42:32You've got him a mattress, you've got him a phone.
42:34What will you be getting him a car next?
42:36He could have four ladies, exactly like you,
42:42all sending him money.
42:44He might live in a mansion in the middle of the Gambia,
42:46and he's got this little house that he's bringing you all to,
42:49doing the Poor Me Act.
42:51He could be a fraud star.
42:52That's far-fetched.
42:53What, you mean like a stage?
42:55Yeah, I'm serious.
42:56You don't know.
42:56You could be one of four.
42:58He knows I haven't got any money because I told him.
43:01There's a lot of Gambian men that are, like, hustlers,
43:04and they do that.
43:05They get a lot of women,
43:06and they get all the gifts and all the monies,
43:08but Ibrahim's not like that.
43:10I've sent Ibrahim probably about £400,
43:13but he hasn't asked for it.
43:15I volunteered to give it to him.
43:17He never asked for his mattress, but I offered.
43:19He doesn't ask for food, but I offer.
43:23He doesn't ask.
43:25I've always trusted your instincts.
43:27You are a bit of a whip sometimes with these things,
43:30but, you know, there's always that one person
43:33that gets through our guards.
43:36You can tell the hustlers.
43:37He could be one in disguise.
43:39You don't never know, do you?
43:40But I hope he's not, and I don't think he is.
43:43Let's hope not.
43:44Let's hope not.
43:45I don't think she's thinking straight,
43:54but I hope, for her sake,
43:57he's going to, you know, prove us all wrong.
44:00If he does ask for money,
44:02that is definitely a red flag.
44:08Fear is in love.
44:11Fear is in love.
44:14Dear Holy Father, once again,
44:24we come in your presence to worship and praise you.
44:27I find it very soothing to read the Book of Mormon.
44:32We thank you for giving us the strength and wisdom
44:35to be where we want to be today.
44:38It just teaches us never lose faith.
44:40Whatever problems I have,
44:41I just put it to God's hands,
44:43and then he will just pave a way for me.
44:52I'm getting ready, getting packed,
44:54to go and see Adnan.
44:55And in terms of intimacy,
44:59that's not going to go well.
45:02He's a very romantic person,
45:04and it's going to be really upsetting for him.
45:08But it's about suppressing those feelings.
45:13Hopefully he can come around and understand.
45:17That is my new faith.
45:19He's Muslim,
45:21but he doesn't practice Islam.
45:25So that's a great start for me,
45:28because I can easily convert him
45:32to Mormonism.
45:33I'm pretty confident that he will convert to Mormonism.
45:46What is the problem?
45:48So what have you got to say?
45:50I'm just not going to say it with a close.
45:52I think that you are delusional.
45:55I do value Kayla's advice,
45:58because in the day she's my daughter.
46:00I'll take it on board,
46:02and I'll reflect on it.
46:04Just be honest.
46:06You don't take anything, I say.
46:07If you listen to what I said,
46:08I said I will take it on board.
46:10I didn't say I will follow through.
46:13So you are going to jump on a plane?
46:14Yes.
46:15And make Adnan change his God.
46:19Yes.
46:20Good luck.
46:23Christ will be born of Mary.
46:26Those who repent are baptized
46:28and keep the commandments.
46:32Now I say unto you
46:33that he must repent and be born again.
46:36For the Spirit saith,
46:38if he are not born again,
46:40he cannot inherit the kingdom of heaven.
46:45Amen.
47:05Yeah, that's nice.
47:07Right.
47:09Just bang on this door,
47:10place to send me rats.
47:11Oi, oi, rats, get out.
47:12I live in a retirement flat,
47:15so a lot of people
47:16are in their 70s and even older.
47:19Oh, get out, you bastard.
47:21I am the youngest one,
47:23and when I first moved there,
47:25I don't think they really liked me
47:26because I had a bit of loud music planned
47:29and I had friends in making a lot of noise,
47:31and so they moaned about me.
47:34But since I took up the gardening,
47:36the Ellsbury people really love me
47:38because they know
47:38that I keep their garden really nice.
47:40Right.
47:50Oh, hi, Ibrahim.
47:52How are you?
47:52Hi.
47:53How are you doing?
47:54Not bad, you?
47:55It's fine.
47:56I'm great.
47:57Listen, your internet is going down a bit.
48:00It's always a struggle
48:01to speak to Ibrahim in the Gambia
48:03because the Wi-Fi is not really that good.
48:06Is the electricity still all right in your house?
48:10Yes.
48:11Yes, it's working.
48:12My old friend from Newcastle,
48:14he got the speech for me.
48:16Oh, that's good.
48:16When I come,
48:17I can put all my wine in it.
48:19You should stop drinking alcohol now.
48:22I am going to stop.
48:23Yeah, I've been reading the Koran,
48:24so I might stop.
48:25I'll see.
48:27Ibrahim is a practicing Muslim,
48:29which I accept.
48:31I mean, he could have four wives
48:33and four sex slaves if he wanted to.
48:36I miss you as well, babe.
48:37It's lonely on my own here.
48:40But Ibrahim says he never would
48:41because he couldn't really put up
48:43with all the trouble that goes with it.
48:45And I forgot to tell you
48:48and I told you about
48:50letting me money to buy a taxi.
48:52Mm-hmm.
48:53How much do you need?
48:58Can I have 3,000 pounds?
49:01What?
49:053,000 pounds.
49:08No, buy a taxi for business.
49:11It's OK.
49:13No.
49:15Business.
49:15I told you before.
49:17I know you did.
49:183,000 pounds is a lot of money to me.
49:20And even though I look like I've got money,
49:23I haven't got any money.
49:25I would like to give you the money,
49:26and I really would.
49:27It's just that,
49:29will it be a good business?
49:31Of course, yeah.
49:32How do you know?
49:33It's just a commercial taxi.
49:38Mm-hmm.
49:38Is that all right?
49:40Well,
49:41I would like to help you with the money.
49:44OK.
49:45But I don't know
49:46if I can raise it.
49:48If Ibrahim could guarantee
49:50that he would pay me back,
49:52then I might consider getting a loan
49:53and giving him the money.
49:55But if I get a loan in my name
49:57and he doesn't,
49:58then I've got to pay it all back,
49:59haven't I?
50:00I...
50:01Not for good.
50:03I haven't got the money
50:04at the moment.
50:05Oh.
50:06But...
50:07It's cutting off again.
50:08No, it's not.
50:09Oh, it's breaking down again.
50:11Now you're going dark
50:12and I can't see you.
50:14Wait, wait.
50:16It's cut off now.
50:17I would really like to help him,
50:23but once I've handed over £3,000,
50:26then that's gone, isn't it,
50:28from me forever
50:29and I'd need that for my retirement
50:31because I haven't really got
50:32much source of income coming in,
50:34so I am a bit dubious.
50:36But I would really like to help him.
50:40I definitely would.
50:42Today has been really stressful
50:58and I just want to see Mette now.
51:02this relationship
51:08means everything.
51:13Yeah, it means everything to me.
51:17I love him lots.
51:18I really love him
51:20and I just want
51:22everything to be okay.
51:24Where is he?
51:25He's not here.
51:38He's just going to voicemail.
51:42I've called him
51:43so many times now,
51:45I can't even count.
51:48Oh, my phone's going.
51:49Hello?
51:52Hiya.
51:53He's not here.
51:55My God, that's really bad.
51:59I'm really angry.
52:00I'm really upset.
52:02But I really love him.
52:03I know, but I'm just...
52:04Connection's gone.
52:06I'm so pissed off.
52:14Humiliating.
52:14It's embarrassing.
52:16I wouldn't do that to anyone.
52:17Just leave them
52:18in a foreign country
52:19by themselves.
52:20Like...
52:21Yeah, it's...
52:23I'm trying to think
52:24of what I'm going to do
52:25because I'm just
52:27full of anxiety.
52:29I can't even...
52:30I don't know
52:32what I'm going to do.
52:35Yeah.
52:36I just want to be happy.
53:02She has had a jealous side.
53:04We don't want that anymore.
53:05Whoa, whoa, whoa.
53:06You're not convincing us.
53:09It's small stages.
53:10I don't think
53:11our family will
53:12accept you.
53:14I'm happy about that.
53:16Fuck, say...
53:17Come on.
53:18I'm traveling 30 hours
53:20across the world
53:21to meet somebody
53:22I've never met.
53:23I'm thinking that
53:24he wants to propose you.
53:26It's too rushed.
53:27Wait.
53:28She don't respect me.
53:30Loser!
53:31Loser!
53:32Are you for real?
53:33Oh, shit.
53:34I'm reading the Koran
53:36learning your religion
53:37and then you're here.
53:38Yeah.
53:41Make us flash these lights.
53:43This means
53:44don't be moving.
53:45Woof, woof.
53:47Oops, sorry, darling.
53:51Go on, kissy, kissy.
53:52Kissy, kissy, kissy, kissy.
53:53Fuck.
53:56Disgusting.
53:58I'm so sorry.
54:00What did your nephew
54:01call you?
54:01Freda.
54:02Things I don't think
54:04are adding up.
54:05But this could be
54:06my last chance for love.
54:07Why don't you just go...
54:09I can't have sex.
54:11You're a little fuck.
54:12You are joking.
54:12No.
54:13I don't know how to show
54:14affection the way
54:15that you want.
54:15Maybe he's your
54:18next door, darling.
54:20I want to watch
54:20my best friend
54:21and my boyfriend
54:22argue.
54:30Welcome to the day job.
54:31Yes.
54:45Welcome to the day job.
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