90 Day Fiancé UK Season 4 Episode 2

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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.

00:16Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance, but he's so hot.

00:20I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.

00:23She's perfect for me in every single way. She's beautiful. She's smart.

00:33Everyone just falls in love with this man. He makes me feel amazing.

00:38She has a sexy body.

00:42I am really excited now.

00:45Oh, my God.

00:53We are the party people. We're really, really party people.

00:59You're traveling halfway across the world a bit.

01:03Oh, my God.

01:04You can have six wives. You will be my first.

01:07Yeah, first and last.

01:09It's true love.

01:12What could go wrong?

01:13Shit.

01:17I'm not ready to be a stepdad.

01:20The idea actually makes me feel a little bit sick.

01:22I just want everyone to be happy.

01:24Are we supposed to live together if you can lie?

01:26Oh, come on.

01:28Don't even bother.

01:29It's all musky and mother, isn't it?

01:31Do you think she's real?

01:32Maybe she's drinking me along.

01:33What if this ain't real?

01:35She has asked me for £3,000.

01:38I just want to knock this right on the head right now.

01:40Is your sister really your wife?

01:43You've got a promo with me. I'm done.

01:47I'm a Muslim. She is Christian.

01:49We don't drink alcohol.

01:52I met Adnan on holiday.

02:00He's from Albania, but working in Greece.

02:02Yeah, you're first time today.

02:04Aww.

02:05Adnan's not aware.

02:06I've become Mormon, and we can't have sex anymore.

02:10Hopefully, he can understand.

02:12I have met someone.

02:14How old is he?

02:1544.

02:16I'm 65.

02:17Abraham lives in the Gambia.

02:19And I have £3,000 in my taxi.

02:22How many people are out there looking for a visa?

02:26I just want you to be careful.

02:27My mate Jay is like a big brother.

02:29Oh, he's calling.

02:32I'll be back in a bit.

02:33Where have you been before?

02:36Um, just in the Jays.

02:38Mete's message saying he now wants to spend some more time with his friends.

02:45He's not here.

02:49He's just going to voicemail.

02:50I'm so pissed off.

02:54I'm just trying to think of what I'm going to do.

03:20I'm waiting for ages for my sake, and he's not come.

03:27I, I, I, I guess he's just not coming.

03:42I don't know what I'm going to do.

03:43I'm just going to go home.

03:45I, I can't stay here without him.

03:47There's no point.

03:50Oh my God!

03:55Hi.

04:08Hi.

04:20Hi.

04:22It's amazing to be back together. I can't even stay mad at him. I've missed him so much

04:29Yeah, I am she you my

04:37Why you don't I am forget to my phone my cousin Scott last night

04:44Yeah, I don't have the battery now

04:46Yeah, I am really sorry darling, okay, baby. I don't have to know

04:54How can I be angry at you when I haven't seen you for so long?

05:01You like your flower they are dead on the way

05:09It feels so good to just feel and touch and be back with Matt a and just not have to look at him

05:16Through a phone anymore. It's just it's really good

05:19You're doing it good

05:21Let's go Istanbul. How are you how are you?

05:29My baby colleague

05:34Can't wait to get home, but I've still got a few questions in my mind the last thing I heard from Mette was that he was going out with his mates

05:43You show you with your cousin last night

05:46Yes, that I am sure

05:48Really? Yes, that you don't never time. You don't answer your phone or answer my text

05:56Yes, that it's the first time I know it is really bad. I am thinking what I do what happened. Did I do anything?

06:06Nothing darling. I love you

06:08I love you did that then

06:11Mette seems genuinely sorry, so I think I'm gonna have to forgive him this time

06:16Really I am happy to be back my favorite city on the world really because I have you

06:28Thank you

06:30You know

06:36Welcome

06:38Thank you to your

06:40Come on darling

06:42Come on darling

06:44Darling can you?

06:46Yes

06:47Shoes please

06:48I am take off

06:49Don't worry darling

06:50Every time

06:51Yeah

06:52Yeah

06:53Ah, thank you

06:54I am by for you

06:55Ah

06:56Ah

06:57It's been a long stressful day and I'm just ready to go to bed

07:02Ah

07:03Ah

07:04I can't wait to have a cuddle with him tonight because he's just gonna feel like a big fluffy teddy bear

07:09I love you more than everything darling

07:12If you love me, you turn the light off

07:15You go

07:16You go

07:17Okay, tomorrow you

07:19Oh

07:20Hush

07:34Who is that?

07:35I don't know

07:36Who else?

07:37Are you looking at her?

07:39I'm looking at her

07:40Just looking at her.

07:41The Gambia

07:42Okay

07:43You know like

07:44If I see any little clothes or

07:46For yourself or?

07:47Or shorts

07:48Well, for me or for Ibrahim's family.

07:50Just have a look.

07:54Today I'm shopping with my bestie friend, Lisa.

07:57I'm going to the Gambia in a couple of days,

07:59so I want to try and get some bits and pieces

08:01to take to Ibrahim's family.

08:03What are you looking for in your way in particular?

08:05Oh, his children's clothes.

08:06Well, Ibrahim's got a niece of 13,

08:09a niece of three and a nephew that's two.

08:12Sure they're not his children?

08:14No.

08:15He's thinking, oh, look, good old Zina's bringing this

08:18and bringing that.

08:19But we're all different and you do you.

08:21That's nice.

08:22Yeah, that is sweet, actually.

08:24I'm not sure because we've got 40 kilos in a case

08:26and 10 kilos in another small case.

08:30But the small case...

08:31Yeah, it's cute.

08:32The small case is already full to the brim.

08:34With what?

08:35Children's clothes for his nieces and nephews.

08:38You've lost the plot, girl.

08:39The long and short of it, mate, is just an old ponce.

08:42And if it wasn't you, it'd be some other old woman.

08:44You calling me old?

08:45No, any woman, regardless of her age.

08:48Hello.

08:49Here, I'll take these, please.

08:50I know you can't feed the world,

08:52but Ibrahim's family don't really have much.

08:54If I've got a little bit of money, I don't mind treating them.

08:57I know, but you don't have to be their cash cow.

08:59My name is Ibrahima.

09:15sometimes people call me Ibrahim I live in the Gambia you have nice people here

09:22smiley people I like to be fit because I feel good under healthy gonna get

09:32running with Zena oh Zena I don't think Zena is fit to run ahead I think she is

09:39a little bit heavy I meet Zena in a hotel where I was walking the incomes very low

09:55so you depend on the tips that's why everybody's struggling to have English

10:03people those English people gifted enjoy your cocktails thank you very much

10:09so have a good day thank you very good lady then I was very good to every stuff

10:24and she was smiling so I say oh this lady it seems very good so you let me go for

10:32her I take a flower from the flowers then I like you take this flower I come with

10:38her to go out with me to visit some places like the crocodile pool the monkey park

10:43then from there we carry on

10:49go into the place where I grow up to visit my mom and my sisters and brothers life in the village is

11:04simple

11:09jenna is very good for my family

11:12jenna is very great because of the

11:19the

11:34I feel very excited for me to introduce Zeynab to my family, I'm very sure they like Zeynab.

11:46I feel very happy, I feel very happy.

12:05Between me and Zeynab, the difference is that I'm a Muslim, she's a Christian.

12:11We don't drink alcohol, and I don't like Zeynab drinking.

12:21I'm trying to convince her to stop the drinking, totally.

12:26I always pray for Zeynab. I told her I'm praying for you, because you are so generous to me.

12:35Oh, this looks nice, Zeynab, she'll go in there.

12:41Oh, thank you.

12:42Oh, thank you very much.

12:43Thanks.

12:44Thanks.

12:45Has he sent you money for any of that stuff?

12:46He hasn't got any money.

12:48You're going to go out there with all these gifts, alright, and that's only two quid here.

12:52No, I bought new stuff as well.

12:54Yeah.

12:55I think Zeynab's blinded by the love, got good art, she's kind, she's generous.

13:03I just think there's a motive behind things.

13:06I don't think so.

13:07All I've really bought him is a mattress.

13:09I gave him £200, and then he was struggling a bit, so last week I sent him £500.

13:19But he has asked me for £3,000, because he wants to get a bush taxi.

13:25A what?

13:26A bush taxi.

13:27Please don't tell me you're giving him £3,000.

13:29I haven't said yes.

13:30How do you know he's not going to squander that £3,000 or something else?

13:34Why would you do that, though?

13:36I think she's foolish.

13:38It just all seems a bit far-fetched.

13:40Is he really genuine?

13:42He's definitely genuine, but he has said a few things that's got me a little bit worried.

13:46Like, he says, he really, really wants to get to England.

13:49Zeynab, you just want to knock this right on the head right now, honestly.

13:53All these love rat stories, like, come on, man.

13:57You should be like a detective all over it, finding out more about him.

14:00Yeah, but how can I?

14:01I don't know.

14:02You read it all the time, mate.

14:04Love rats.

14:05He just, he doesn't fit the criteria.

14:07What is the criteria?

14:08He's asked you for £3,000.

14:10You've sent him this, you're buying him that.

14:12But he's not.

14:13You can just tell when you look at him.

14:16Lisa's very concerned, because she doesn't want to see me lose my money

14:20or wrap too much into the relationship.

14:22But I hope she's wrong.

14:24God, mate.

14:25I will.

14:26We'll see.

14:27We'll see.

14:28I'm on my way to see Adnan.

14:29I'm gonna meet him at the hotel.

14:30I'm so excited.

14:31I'm a bit nervous though.

14:32I don't know what he's thinking, how he's feeling.

14:33There's so much to tell him.

14:34There's so much to tell him.

14:35I'm so excited.

14:36I'm so excited.

14:37I'm a bit nervous though.

14:38I don't know what he's thinking, how he's feeling.

14:39There's so much to tell him.

14:40There's so much to tell him.

14:41There's so much to tell him.

14:43I'm so excited.

14:44It's a horrible feeling.

14:45I've got, well, my son, I've got a bit nervous.

14:46I've got a bit nervous.

14:47And I'm so excited.

14:48I'm so excited.

14:49I'm so excited.

14:50I'm so excited.

14:51I'm so excited.

14:52I'm so excited.

14:53I'm so excited.

14:54I'm so excited. I'm a bit nervous though.

14:57I don't know what he's thinking, how he's feeling.

15:00There's so much to tell him.

15:11It's a horrible feeling. I've got a bog in my stomach.

15:15This is quite a big thing to say to somebody.

15:18But I think it's best for me to speak to him face-to-face.

15:20It's going to be a challenge for myself and Adnan because the last time I saw him,

15:26we were literally all over each other and now we can barely do anything apart from holding hands.

15:32It could make us or break us.

15:37I miss Shona. I can't wait to have her in my arms.

15:43When we are alone, we make a lot of fun and a lot of sex.

15:47When I will see her, I will kiss her.

15:57Finally, she is coming.

15:59When I try to kiss her lips, she's like hiding me.

16:22What the fuck?

16:23How are you?

16:24I'm good.

16:25Are you?

16:25I'm good.

16:26How is it going?

16:27It's going good?

16:28Yeah.

16:30Let me get my suitcase out.

16:32Okay.

16:41How are you?

16:41I'm good.

16:42Are you good?

16:43I'm hoping Adnan is not sensing anything weird about myself.

16:56Where are we going?

16:57In a little way.

16:59It's not like last time that I meet her.

17:01Not the same chemistry, not the same passion.

17:05What's wrong?

17:06Oh, wow.

17:08Oh, my God.

17:10Look at this bed.

17:13This is amazing.

17:16It might be a big bed, but it's just me in it tonight.

17:19This is so exclusive and private, isn't it?

17:21Yeah.

17:21You've got your own space.

17:23You can do anything.

17:24I am excited to be in close to Shorna.

17:29It's been so, so long.

17:34What do you want to do now?

17:38It's awkward.

17:39He is excited.

17:41Please don't let him kiss me.

17:42Please, please, please.

17:44Give me a hug.

17:45Oh, nice to meet you.

17:46Nice to meet you, too.

17:47Okay, we've got a hug now, but I'm not going to get away with this much longer.

17:54Hi, I'm Finn.

18:04I'm 33.

18:05I'm a radio presenter from Bath, but I'm also a member of the Monster Raving Loony Party.

18:11Would you vote for me?

18:13I decided to run as an MP against Jacob Rees-Mogg, the MP for my home constituency, just outside

18:19Bath, because I wanted to highlight just how bonkers politics is.

18:23I got a few votes, more than I expected, and if it made one person smile, then I've done

18:29my job.

18:30Right.

18:31The man behind the mask.

18:32The big reveal.

18:37Let's go.

18:38I think that I am funny, warm-hearted.

18:45I can be sort of quite cartoony.

18:47Lots of physical, body language kind of thing.

18:50I'm tenacious, although my friends would say persistent and annoyingly so.

18:55Come on then, Maya.

19:01Nearly there.

19:03Nearly there.

19:08Hello.

19:12Hello.

19:13Hi.

19:14This is Maya.

19:15Hi, I'm Pinnett.

19:16Nice to meet you.

19:16Hi, nice to meet you, and I'm Finn.

19:18Hi.

19:19My cat Maya is really my world day-to-day, because I live by myself.

19:24Oh.

19:25Oh, yes.

19:27She occasionally has some problems with her urine.

19:30She will just start urinating.

19:34The reason I'm here today is she started losing hair, and I don't really know what's going on.

19:39I hope it's nothing huge.

19:41Maya is a rescue cat.

19:42I rescued her when she was three.

19:44She's now eight, and I sometimes think of her as a person, if I'm honest.

19:49She's got nice white teeth.

19:51Good.

19:52When I come home from work, she's often running out to greet me with a cry, and I think that's just really special.

19:59When I'm looking at the hair loss on her abdomen, the skin underneath it doesn't look too bad.

20:04So this looks like she's stressed.

20:07Sometimes you being anxious, she can also pick up on that as well.

20:11Oh, interesting.

20:12Is there anything worrying you?

20:14I'm in a long-term relationship with someone in Brazil, and we're trying to work out a way of how we can be together,

20:21because we're at a stage where it's either make or break.

20:24I've never had much success with women in my life.

20:28And maybe it's because I've always had Sandra in the back of my mind.

20:34Sandra and my cat are probably the most important things in my life.

20:38If one of them wasn't there, I would feel incomplete.

20:45You can get a new cat, but you can't get a new Sandra.

20:49Sandra's very beautiful, and I know that I'm incredibly lucky.

20:52We've been together for over two years, and it's the longest relationship I've been in so far.

20:57But we've known each other for 17 years, so it's a bit of a weird one.

21:06We first met in a really unexpected place.

21:10In 2007, I flew with my mum to Brazil to visit my sister, who was volunteering in an orphanage.

21:16It was actually my sister who introduced me to Sandra.

21:20She was 17, I was 16, and she was living in the orphanage.

21:24Sandra told my sister, in Portuguese, that I was cute, and I had a nice smile, and my sister translated that.

21:31It was an unforgettable moment.

21:33It was the first time in my life that a girl had actually paid me a compliment and said something nice about me.

21:37Nothing romantic happened between us.

21:41We didn't kiss or anything when we were there.

21:44But I got her email address, and we wrote to each other once I got home to England.

21:49We were both just kids, really.

21:51There was a spark there at the beginning, but I think in my head I thought, no, it's not going to work.

21:57Over the years, we lost touch, but that first crush always stayed with me.

22:01I returned home and focused on succeeding academically.

22:08And then, two years ago, completely out of the blue, Sandra called me.

22:17And I was like, right, why'd she just call me?

22:20She says she didn't mean to.

22:22She was just clicking on her phone, and it started calling.

22:26This chance missed call was just, you know, one in a million.

22:31And we just started messaging, and that message turned to message every day.

22:35And we've never stopped messaging since that point.

22:38Was it love at first sight?

22:39Who knows?

22:40It was something.

22:43When I kissed Sandra for the first time, it's something that I think I wanted to happen.

22:47For 17 years, that's the honest truth.

22:50And it's almost like a fulfillment of a schoolboy crush that turned into something more.

22:56And I think that's quite special.

22:58So it felt really good.

23:01Hey, how are you?

23:12I'm fine.

23:13How are you?

23:13Yeah, fine.

23:14How nice to you.

23:15I miss you too.

23:17I'm going out to Brazil to meet Sandra.

23:19It's been so long.

23:20I'm so excited.

23:21I'm counting down, not just the days, but I'm counting down the hours.

23:27Really?

23:28Uh-huh.

23:30I'm so excited to see you.

23:32Same.

23:33And do you know what?

23:34This is a big milestone.

23:36Two years.

23:37That's going to be so special.

23:38I've got you an anniversary gift.

23:40But what's the best gift in the world?

23:43You.

23:43I wish I could believe that.

23:47You know what?

23:49You could get me.

23:51What?

23:53It rains.

23:55I'm waiting.

23:56There's a lot of expectation and weight behind this trip.

24:02I just can't wait to spend the next few weeks together.

24:05But I'm also really nervous about what's to come.

24:08Anyway, see you.

24:09Have a good day.

24:12Love you, Tate.

24:29Morning.

24:31Morning, darling.

24:32Really, I missed your face.

24:36I love waking up with you.

24:38I love waking up with you.

24:40Oh, the best.

24:41But you are waking up too much early, darling.

24:44Yeah, you want to sleep.

24:46You need this butter.

24:49You see how I am a professional, darling.

24:53I am a good chef, I am thinking.

25:00Mete's a fucking mess in the kitchen.

25:03There's shit everywhere.

25:06Beautiful.

25:07Yeah.

25:08But I miss Mete's cooking so much.

25:11I just can't replicate it in England.

25:14What do we do today?

25:16We'll go to the park, maybe.

25:18By the water.

25:19We buy water.

25:20No, we walk by the water.

25:23By the water.

25:24Yeah, yeah.

25:24Okay.

25:27It's a beautiful day in Istanbul,

25:29and I just want to walk and see the sea.

25:31We use the clean, yeah.

25:33Rock, scissor, pepper.

25:35Rock, scissor.

25:38It's not the pepper.

25:39Pepper, bibber.

25:41Yeah.

25:41Paper.

25:43Paper.

25:43This type.

25:44Card.

25:45Card.

25:45Yeah.

25:46Okay, go.

25:47On free.

25:48One, two, free.

25:49Then go.

25:51One, two, free.

25:53Really?

25:54Like free?

25:54One, two, free.

25:56Then go.

25:57No.

25:58Yes.

25:58One, two, then go.

26:00Okay.

26:01One, two, free.

26:02Oh.

26:04Again.

26:05No.

26:06I won.

26:12Thank you, darling.

26:13It's a nice day.

26:20We go out.

26:22Shannon happy to be back in Istanbul.

26:25I am really, really miss my girl.

26:28It's not a cloud.

26:29And we are together.

26:31Really good.

26:31Yeah.

26:32Shannon's favorite area here.

26:35Shannon liked the beach side.

26:37Shannon liked the sunny weather.

26:40Ah.

26:40It's really good to be back.

26:44Long distance is really hard for us.

26:46Really, I'd love to come live here.

26:49Yeah.

26:49You think you could come to Liverpool?

26:51Yeah.

26:52I need to meet your family.

26:54What's my friends you don't meet yet?

26:56Yeah.

26:57Which friends you want to meet?

26:59Jay, my longtime friend.

27:02You care about him?

27:03Yeah, of course.

27:05Shannon talked about this.

27:06Jay, who is Jay?

27:07Shannon say, he is my best friend.

27:10I don't know.

27:12You don't talk me about him too much.

27:14Because he is a boy.

27:16Maybe you think the wrong thing.

27:18You think I am jealous of your best friend?

27:21Yeah.

27:22Why do you think I am jealous?

27:25When I am FaceTiming you last time, I am a Jay pal.

27:29Your mood maybe not good.

27:32It is not jealous.

27:34I am calling you.

27:35He said bye.

27:37You say bye.

27:38You go home.

27:39Hi, darling.

27:40Why you can't say, Mette, hi.

27:42Blah, blah, blah.

27:43I just think maybe it's a more problem I am around my friends.

27:48I don't know.

27:49I hate having tough conversations, especially with Mette.

27:53I've come here to have quality time with him.

27:55But I need to talk to him about some things Jay has said to me before I left.

27:59Uh, I'm speaking with Jay.

28:01He is worried.

28:02Maybe he is just for the visa.

28:07He don't know me.

28:08They think this, they have too much prejudice.

28:11Sorry, your friend's just the basic people, I think.

28:15It is making me angry now.

28:18Okay.

28:18And I don't like Jay now.

28:20This guy talk about me, not good.

28:23Now, really, this Jay, he need to say, sorry.

28:29Come on, man.

28:31This Jay putting idea, Shannon's hat.

28:35Maybe he fancy Shannon.

28:37Why he is doing this?

28:39I think he is the story.

28:41He looks like a woman.

28:43Shannon, I think Mette wants the visa, huh?

28:46He looks like a devil, this story.

28:49If he is a man, we call, we talk.

28:56Mette's pissed off with Jay now.

28:58We're getting absolutely nowhere here.

29:00We don't need this negative thinking.

29:03Really, let's be God.

29:09Really.

29:09So, obviously, I'm heading to Brazil next week.

29:31Yes.

29:32You've got your flight booked?

29:34Obviously.

29:35Yeah.

29:35That's good.

29:37Mum keeps her cards close to her chest.

29:40But now I'm about to head out to Brazil.

29:42I want to find out what she really feels

29:43about my relationship with Sandra.

29:46Obviously, it would help if I knew a little bit more Portuguese.

29:49Have you started learning?

29:50Yeah, I can say hello.

29:52Goodbye.

29:52Well, yeah, I mean, I've not put a huge amount of effort

29:55into learning it.

29:56I think part of it is like a defence mechanism.

29:59If I don't know the language,

30:00then I don't have to take the step of going any further.

30:03Yes, so you have to work through that.

30:05There is a bit of pressure on her side, I think,

30:07to sort of move things forward.

30:09Yes.

30:10I mean, what's your sense of everything?

30:13Well, I know Sandra says that she's very much attached to you,

30:17but I wonder whether that is you, the person,

30:21or is it the lifestyle that you could have together?

30:24Is Sandra wanting just an exit card?

30:32I think there is a genuine love there.

30:35But in your heart, you think that Sandra has a fondness,

30:39a love for you as the person,

30:42and not you as a vehicle to come to the UK.

30:45Well, then, there's that, but I don't think that's a real worry.

30:51Do you think this could work?

30:53Because a lot of people are saying it's not going to work.

30:55The concern is, how can you hold something together

31:01if you are still in England and Sandra remains in Brazil?

31:05You've created so many hurdles for yourself.

31:08Well, that's the thing.

31:09Why am I doing that to myself when I could just meet someone here?

31:13But the point is, I haven't met someone here.

31:16Yeah.

31:16My mum is a protective parent,

31:18so she has concerns and questions that she's raised with me,

31:22and a lot of questions that don't have answers yet.

31:25I'm incredibly worried about this trip.

31:27I'm incredibly worried about how it's going to go.

31:29I think if you move forward,

31:31all these areas are problematic.

31:35And they are fairly major.

31:36Yeah.

31:38Well, then, it's really how determined both of you are

31:42to make it work.

31:45It's a lot of work.

31:46Yes.

31:59My name is Sandra.

32:08I live in Brazil.

32:09I have two kids.

32:12Elisa and Lorenzo.

32:18It is hard to be a single mom.

32:22I have to do everything all by myself.

32:26I don't have any help.

32:28Oh, it's me.

32:30Mom, all the time.

32:31Mom, mom, mom, mom.

32:36I have eight brothers and sisters,

32:39and we have a lot of fun together.

32:44We always have barbecues,

32:49have parties at my sisters' house.

32:54We are so close.

32:56We support each other.

33:00Growing up together in the orphanage was really hard.

33:07I went there when I was nine months old.

33:10My mom didn't choose to put us there.

33:16My father left her with nine kids,

33:20so she doesn't have money to take care of nine kids

33:23or by herself.

33:25That's why I'm so close to my siblings,

33:28because in the orphanage,

33:30we just have each other.

33:32We don't have an easy life in that time.

33:38Finn and his mom come to visit.

33:47I was 70 years old at that time.

33:53He's a nice guy.

33:55He treats me very well.

33:58Growing up in the orphanage

34:00made me a strong woman,

34:02made me do everything for my kids.

34:05Everything's so expensive,

34:09but I don't want my kids has the same life

34:12that I has before.

34:14Like we are in a dream.

34:31So I'm walking down the beach,

34:33the sun's setting,

34:35Adnan looks so lovely,

34:36holding his hand,

34:37thinking,

34:38I don't want to lose this moment.

34:39You know,

34:39it's so perfect.

34:40I know I have to tell him

34:43that I've been baptised

34:45and we can't have sex before marriage.

34:48Shall we sit down?

34:50I hope Adnan can accept

34:52what I'm about to say to him.

34:56You know, like today,

34:57you say to me

34:58why I'm not affectionate towards you.

35:00Yeah.

35:01There is a reason why.

35:02It's because I got baptised.

35:06Yeah.

35:07And become a Mormon.

35:10One of the rules

35:11is that we can't have sex.

35:21We can hold hands.

35:22Yeah.

35:23We can hug.

35:24Yeah.

35:25But we can't kiss

35:26and we can't be intimate.

35:28I know it sounds weird

35:33that we had

35:33an intimate relationship before

35:35and then we can't.

35:36Yeah.

35:39You are joking about this one?

35:41No.

35:43I think it was a joke.

35:45Oh, no.

35:47I am angry with Shorna

35:48because she didn't tell me

35:50before about her regia rules.

35:52How many months

35:53do you have in a church?

35:55I was baptised

35:56last year in September.

35:57Why you don't tell me before?

35:59I wanted to tell you

35:59face to face.

36:01You look so weird.

36:02You understand?

36:03I'm at peace with God.

36:04Which God?

36:05Like, what?

36:06He has any name?

36:08Yeah, God.

36:10I'm the witch, which origin?

36:11Mormon.

36:12What is Mormon?

36:13That's what she is.

36:14Tell me again, Mormon.

36:16Mormon.

36:17She's a Mormon.

36:18What is?

36:20Oh, it's so upset.

36:22You was not...

36:24Honest.

36:24Okay, that's fine

36:25and I apologise.

36:26I'm sorry.

36:27I am very disappointed

36:28and I don't know

36:30what to do

36:31and what to think.

36:34Sorry, I didn't tell you before

36:36but I am Muslim.

36:38I can have six wives.

36:40Sorry?

36:41My region is...

36:42But you don't practise it anyway.

36:44I will start to practice the model.

36:46No, it's not tick-to-tock.

36:47I need to respect my region.

36:49That's a bit cloudy.

36:50I will practice my region.

36:52You're kidding me.

36:53I told you something

36:54that's important to me.

36:55Six wives,

36:56I was like, what the fuck?

36:57You will be my first?

36:58Yeah, first and last.

36:59You're just overreacting now.

37:01No.

37:02Yes, you are.

37:02No.

37:03Stop.

37:04It's too different.

37:05It's okay in my region.

37:07I'm so sorry.

37:08That's the case.

37:08You're wasting my time.

37:10Is he fucking serious?

37:11I wonder where he's gonna get

37:12his six wives from

37:13because, boy,

37:15it's gonna take a long time

37:16to find six wives

37:17so good luck to him.

37:19Make sure you practise it.

37:20Make sure it goes to the bus.

37:21Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

37:22Make sure you pray.

37:23It's up to you.

37:24You can be first or sixth.

37:26Yeah, if that's the case,

37:28then we just call it a day, innit?

37:33I've seen a different side

37:34to Adnan tonight.

37:35It didn't take me seriously.

37:37I never thought

37:39in a million years

37:40that he would say

37:41what he said.

37:42It's not looking great for us.

37:43I'm not happy.

37:45So are you happy

37:46to continue the relationship?

37:47I will think for everything tonight.

37:50You think about it?

37:51It's gonna be a long night for me.

38:13So Sandra and I,

38:18we've reached the two-year milestone

38:20and it's make or break.

38:25This trip was gonna be a real test

38:26for me and for her.

38:28It's gonna be the first time

38:29I've met her family.

38:33So looking forward to seeing you.

38:36So on the one hand,

38:36I'm very excited about going,

38:38but on the other hand,

38:39I know the reality is

38:40there's gonna be some challenges there

38:42because her kids can be annoying.

38:46So, oh, here we go.

38:50Jeez.

38:54I've got to look forward to that.

39:01Looking forward to coming out there?

39:04I'm not sure if I am, actually.

39:06Are you ready for this?

39:08Are you my kids?

39:10I'm having my doubts.

39:12That's so crazy right now.

39:14Hi!

39:15What are they doing?

39:16What's going on?

39:17Hi, David.

39:19And what...

39:20Hi!

39:21Hi, David.

39:22Hi!

39:23All right.

39:24Good to see you.

39:25Hey, how are you?

39:26All right.

39:27Love you.

39:28All right.

39:28Bye.

39:29Bye.

39:30Bye.

39:31Bye-bye.

39:31Bye.

39:32God, glad that's over.

39:35Yeah, that's a lot of screaming.

39:37Headaches just from that.

39:39Don't go all the way to Brazil

39:40to see that.

39:42If that's a taste of what's to come,

39:44then that is going to take a while to get used to.

39:49I'm not looking forward to that.

39:51I'm not ready to be a stepdad.

39:53The idea actually makes me feel a little bit sick.

39:55Check for bikinis.

40:15I'm travelling to the Gambia today,

40:17so I'm just finishing off some last-minute packing.

40:19Hi, Nan.

40:23You all right?

40:23Oh, hello, too.

40:24Yeah.

40:24I've got so much stuff with you.

40:26I know, I know.

40:27I can't believe it.

40:28You're taking all this?

40:29Yeah.

40:30Bikinis, Nan.

40:31Bloody hell.

40:31Look at all these.

40:32Ah!

40:33Ah!

40:33A bit skimpy in it.

40:34That'd fit me.

40:35You could flush your teeth with that.

40:36Ah!

40:37I am excited for my Nan.

40:39Bye.

40:39I'm really nervous for her to go to the Gambia

40:40because she's seen a man she barely knows,

40:43and a lot of the family think that it's not all what it seems.

40:47Are you looking forward to it?

40:49I am excited, but I had coffee with Lisa the other day,

40:54and she's made me a bit apprehensive

40:56because Lisa thinks that he could be a bit shady.

41:02Oh.

41:02Hmm.

41:03Do you think he's taking advantage of you?

41:05You know, I know how generous you are.

41:07He did ask me for £3,000.

41:11You didn't give him any money, though, did you?

41:13No, I haven't given him any money so far.

41:14If we're being real here, there's a lot of red flags

41:17that are coming up.

41:18Hmm.

41:20Lisa said researching, but I don't know how.

41:22He hasn't got a social media account or anything.

41:24What's his name?

41:26Ibrahim.

41:27Lives in Baku, Gambia.

41:29Yeah.

41:29This is him.

41:30Oh!

41:32What a cheek!

41:34I'm furious, really.

41:36He said he never had one.

41:39His profile says he's single, Nan.

41:41I wonder why he said he never had one.

41:44I know, and I wonder why he said he's single on that.

41:46Yeah, that is a bit conspicuous, isn't it?

41:48It's not what I would want my partner to say.

41:51No.

41:53Perhaps Lisa's right.

41:55I don't think...

41:55What?

41:56What?

41:57Nan, look at his friends on Facebook.

42:01Do you know her?

42:03No!

42:04She looks like a prostitute.

42:06There's more on there.

42:07It's getting worse by the minute.

42:08They don't look like very religious women, either.

42:11Oh, mate.

42:12Do you know who any of these people are?

42:13No.

42:14I don't know women like that.

42:16Why do you think he's got these on there?

42:19I don't have a clue.

42:21Want to chat with me?

42:22My room feels lonely.

42:25That's the one with open legs.

42:28Drive-through.

42:29Click here.

42:30Don't look good, does it?

42:31No, it doesn't look good.

42:32You don't know what he's up to over there.

42:34No, you don't.

42:35He could be getting up to any sort of skullduggeries.

42:39What the actual fuck, Ibrahim?

42:40You're wrong, mate.

42:42I don't want you to get upset,

42:43but I don't think you should go.

42:45Well, I don't know.

42:47It's dangerous, Nan.

42:48You can't just go out there

42:49and meet a man you don't trust.

42:52I feel sick.

42:53He's totally deceived me.

42:55I'm not going to fall for any big £3,000

42:57or all this business.

43:00I feel like I'm not even going.

43:01I'm not going to fall for any big £3,000

43:31adnan about my chastity he's not taking it very well but i don't want to choose between god or

43:37adnan i really hope we can overcome this okay i am okay because you've been told me before

43:46i wanted to tell you the right time i will not marry with you after this you know i don't get

43:53it we can hug we can hold hands but we can't kiss as long as you know that boundary then that's fine

44:00we cannot enjoy each hour we cannot have a passion night we cannot have a passion morning

44:07rules doesn't work for me we cannot stay just to touch each other then we say hello this is for you

44:14but we still can hold hands we can go for walks but why is sex important it's not up to sex yesterday

44:21when you arrived you were so cold i was just trying to put the boundaries in it's just

44:26perfect cold i understand disrespectful don't know where that comes from i feel used used yeah

44:36i'm using you for what you need to think out i think that she take advantage about me because

44:43i have a lot of feelings for her she hurts me but i can say using me as soon as you're here we can't

44:49have sex until we're married you're trying to change the plans that we've made use how did i use it

44:57i'm not choosing god over you adnan this is my faith i don't know maybe you have someone else in

45:10your care someone else in the uk what the hell yeah where did that come from things are getting out of

45:17control i'm being accused right left and center where is this coming from all i said to adnan was

45:22i got baptized i could say the same thing about you how you you react yesterday it's it's difficult

45:33well i guess we can't move on then adnan it's difficult well you need to go back think about it

45:40you're wasting my time you weren't wasting my car everything i say you have to repeat back after

45:45me are you winding me up when would you be able to talk about it within a couple days days yeah i

45:52always thought we're going to resolve it today okay i'm going to give you the end of today to

45:57decide what you want i've got nothing else to say have you got anything else to say

46:04well i guess i should go back inside then

46:06i feel rejected i feel like he's not interested and maybe this relationship

46:17will be over

46:36hello

46:51i am buy some food for us

46:55okay

47:00this morning i'm got a little hungry i want to be sorry

47:04i am god shannon's favorite food uh lahmacun sorry darling today

47:11i am annoying because i am getting angry okay yes

47:18let's see i think you are the missed our food yeah good good some lemon

47:27looks like a tequila

47:28got a tequila

47:29okay

47:29what he said sorry and he's brought my favorite food maybe he does feel bad about earlier

47:39how is it

47:39what

47:40mm

47:42very good

47:43oh jay he is calling what he said oh i don't know nothing yeah yeah what is this this guy

47:57calling you oh my god shannon if you want to you put him here we talk together

48:03why you don't answer we are eating the dinner why you don't want i talk with him i don't want

48:19this is terrible timing i'm not having my friend and my boyfriend argue while i'm trying to have a

48:26nice meal maybe he like you have i need to meet him you call him i don't want to call him now i am

48:38start to think something wrong because if your best friend call you you are answered the phone

48:45i don't understand you hide something you don't want to talk i don't want to talk after today

48:51you are the getting angry what do you think i am shout him i i don't want any problem you don't need

48:59to talk with each other i'm getting upset because i'm trying to keep the peace but

49:06methe keeps pushing me if he's calling you this night absolutely we talk no

49:14is your best friend why you don't we don't need a talk

49:17what do you hide darling nothing really nothing i just don't want to start arguing each other

49:28it is not good if you want this holiday we are happy do you need to finish my questions

49:35what for what do you think what for are you kidding me

49:39we are having the meal okay meal finished darling we wait till jay call you onto this and you are here

49:48maybe he is your next door darling your door open your window open maybe he asks something for you

49:56you think this yeah i think this yeah it's not good darling

50:02do you answer you go speak the room no i don't want i am go out no no problem you are here i just

50:10don't want to speak to him now okay darling it is your treason

50:20sorry i need two minutes

50:21i don't want to sit there and watch my best friend and my boyfriend argue with each other

50:36over something so stupid

50:38the ball is in your court you're the one that has a problem so you need to decide what you want

50:52who want to have a girlfriend and who can't kiss her girlfriend i'm done

50:59fanny's gonna come and he does not want to be your stepfather lisa the bed come on

51:05this is gonna be my reality and do i want that i've got nothing to hide

51:11the suspect things are a bit frosty between us

51:14the monomitark of the chevalier one bit of a letter of the telephone of melephone

51:17it is still in my head

51:21ibrahim have you got social media no you're lying you've put single it's a joke man i like joking

51:29i'm happy about that and you say joke man sorry come on

51:35i'm happy about that and i'm happy about that and i forget that i was

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