90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 19

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00:00:00tonight part one of an unbelievable two-part event let's do it I'm not ready

00:00:08for another drama again are you nervous no I just might sweat crazy you notice

00:00:17these or is it bad yeah cool as a cucumber shekinah what happened between

00:00:27you and a many before coming to the tell-all she sent me a message and said

00:00:32I'm sorry in advance for the things I'm gonna say about you I tried to talk to

00:00:36you in private about it shut up Amani nobody's talking to you you're

00:00:43calculated you Sean you ended up going on a honeymoon without Aaliyah I just can't I

00:00:56can't do this I just it's weird I can't put up with this okay

00:01:05we'll be joined by some 90-day OGs who have been watching this spicy season good

00:01:10to see you Sean please welcome big Ed you've been following Joan and Greg what

00:01:19do you think about their situation I'm gonna be completely honest Joan you give

00:01:23this gentleman a 90-day notice to put a roof over your head that's bull quit screwing

00:01:29around you know be a man are you still in trouble right now please welcome Jess's

00:01:34friend Megan Megan how many jobs has Juan said I'm not interested 50 maybe 50 that's

00:01:43insane why can't you do the cruise ship from your opinion the only problem about

00:01:48the cruise ship is leaving my son he sits there and says the only reason I'm here

00:01:52is because of David like you should have said the only reason I'm here is

00:01:54because of David and Jessica this is our business step aside Danielle and Shekinah do

00:02:03either of you feel that you owe the other an apology how the no absolutely not

00:02:08she kind of I'm telling you you have too many leaders I don't know how I got so

00:02:15many people so riled up how are you a victim because you're attacking here but

00:02:20you're lying girl get your husband this is shut up we were talking about all the experiences

00:02:25guys guys put your finger in my face again enough put your finger down and it all starts get that

00:02:33that child now hi how are you I'm okay today sucks sarpa and I are not coming in as a unified

00:02:56friend it's not the way that I would have wanted it to be but we're not good I feel

00:03:06like everything changed once we got married and this is just my biggest fear coming to life

00:03:12honestly getting here today I'm starting to feel a little bit aggravated I'm tired of these questions

00:03:21about my sexuality and if he decides one day that he wants to walk out of the relationship that is a

00:03:26choice that he'll make our marriage has been good but also there are some things that I never

00:03:34thought we would have problems with well we're here at least whenever I feel like I'm gonna say

00:03:42something that Steve is gonna be mad I try not to bring it up but today we both cannot escape these

00:03:49problems I feel like with me on river he tries to be a good husband but I feel like he needs to grow up

00:04:06we got everything right you made sure just double check triple check so you're training him yes

00:04:14I'm definitely feeling a little anxious today if anybody comes to me I mean it's on I definitely

00:04:27got some Long Island in me I'm a little nervous that might come out a little bit heavy you know I don't

00:04:33know but also too like Joan definitely has some fiery opinions I think other couples should beware

00:04:38I don't have any clue I hope she's here before me who knows

00:04:58sometimes I feel regret about this decision to get married because it wasn't K1 thing if we want

00:05:08to be together we need to get married but if we had no obligation like this we wouldn't be married

00:05:14for sure I mean and we would be happier you might need another chair don't put your stuff on my dress

00:05:25please what do you want me to do I don't know whatever

00:05:31nice to see you man to see you man yeah good to see you in person yeah same year how's it going

00:05:39good good how you been brother good you taller than me or oh I'm 6'4 I'm 6'3 so oh seriously

00:05:45almost the same yeah hey the G good to see you man good to see you man my brother what's up team

00:05:53so bro are you nervous no I just my armpits sweat oh my god for no need to be I'm here to make you

00:06:01comfort you got some beautiful eyes man yeah thank you I'm not I'm not hitting on you or anything

00:06:052,502 yeah let's see it supper is my boy you know I'm ready to back him I'm gonna war for that

00:06:18mother man seriously I don't agree with everything he says 100% but he's awesome let me give you some

00:06:25advice about tello maybe if you have something to say about anyone do it spill it out don't think

00:06:31that if they are upset or not who gives a right just yes it's called cancellation method I give

00:06:37first a compliment then a insult yeah you are so cute but you are sweating too much for example

00:06:44and that's so stunning are you ready I'm ready let's do it

00:07:00since you bless us a lot of things happened and not all happy or wonderful we've had so many

00:07:11changes within our relationships like big huge changes so going in it's like will I just be

00:07:16thoroughly transparent and let the world judge me or will I try to hold back a little

00:07:22how's it going Sean how are you man nice looking good man they came like a celebrities bro yeah man I

00:07:33felt like myself like a peasant yeah guys can you notice these or yeah yeah I'm really not nervous

00:07:40so I gotta figure out this situation before it gets worse go do whatever do you need it bro see

00:07:51he's so cute yeah who's a cucumber

00:08:02Wyoming has made it to New York this is very different there's more builders in this corner than the whole

00:08:16town thank you being married it's beautiful but it's not easy as well so you know did you see

00:08:22the big cruise ships on Hudson when you were coming in uh I did see some cruise ships and that reminded

00:08:29me of my old job and I might run away and get on one of those boats and just get back to work

00:08:34uh obviously we're on a time crunch um so within the next 20 minutes so if we can like do this good

00:08:42dress for sure hi there hi how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you nice to meet you too welcome

00:08:51thank you you guys look great I'm gonna sit here don't ruin our bromance hey you look so gorgeous

00:09:00nice to meet you nice to meet you too oh my gosh how are you feeling nervous you've done this before I

00:09:08haven't but like I have this life slogan that's like if you don't start there won't be no so there's

00:09:14no one you want to start a little with I mean I can't be a starter I'm sure you can I honestly

00:09:20I'm curious if you and Imani will go head to head why um I think you're like very different but also

00:09:26have very big personalities so I'm like I wonder who's gonna come for first can I tell you something

00:09:31yeah sure tell me okay so she messaged me on Instagram uh-huh and she's like I actually really

00:09:37love you but I'm sorry in advance for everything I'm gonna say about you at the tall I don't like

00:09:42that and I was like whoa like you're planning ahead to be a bitch to me I need happy I felt it

00:09:49I know girls okay so my intuition might be right I think it is yeah I'm nervous you know

00:09:58Jordan I'm sure we'll be here I'm not ready for another drama again I'm down for the drama

00:10:04since the wedding we're at a good spot yeah yeah but uh there's definitely some struggles and some

00:10:12things going on hey how's it going and uh sometime we have a ego it's a dream life bro I mean you

00:10:21run away just in front of your house man that was the most gangsta things yeah get on my private

00:10:27plane yeah yeah oh it's cold I know welcome to New York smiley on the West Coast thank you baby

00:10:38can you hurry you've had a bit of work done oh that's what you're comfortable sharing with us

00:10:43of course um I like did couple of surgeries like I got a BBL um I've gotten a nose job I feel the

00:10:52pressure to go do all these surgeries to fit into this box that society created and in the process

00:10:59of doing so I lost pieces of myself these muffins are so good do you want to get the chocolate

00:11:06you sure I'm nervous as hell where Ani Matt and I left off it was crazy so it's gonna be hurtful

00:11:17to kind of talk about everything but it's time to hash it out I'm telling you you're coming at me

00:11:22hard I'm gonna clap back so much has happened that it's gonna be a surprise where we're at today

00:11:27I mean I just personally it's really hard to work out a throuple so you know I don't I don't highly

00:11:32recommend it the juggles real see if you like I want to ask why do you always have like many

00:11:38like blue pictures in your house because that's what I do I paint boobs

00:11:42I don't like want one I think you're so talented you have a problem with boobs no

00:11:48oh my gosh TV looks so beautiful this TV is like my 90 day fiance like girl crush

00:11:58so I should be careful oh hi I'm Emily nice to meet you nice to meet you hi I didn't meet you

00:12:06yet nice to meet you nice to meet you well you guys look so beautiful together thank you oh hi I

00:12:13didn't meet you either I'm so sorry how are you nice to meet you wait they tell you I'm also wearing

00:12:18green no they're different colors of green it's fine we know you and she kind of had some tension

00:12:26pre this I tried to correct Levy reach out to her to try to build you know friendship and she's always

00:12:33one word with me so brief it's like I know you don't want to talk to me for some reason I don't know

00:12:38why so yeah bring it all right everyone it's time to go to set okay all right come on through

00:12:45okay I'm perfectionist and that's like a little bit of trouble sometimes this is my dreaded moment I

00:12:59have not been looking forward to this I'm sure we'll be getting the death glances when we walk

00:13:05into the room with everybody else who's been waiting I don't look forward to being grilled

00:13:09are you guys always light are you nervous no I think I'm like more excited and nervous I'm more

00:13:22nervous hey guys hello okay here we go ready five four three two welcome to 90 day fiance the

00:13:51couples tell all I'm Shawn Robinson we're joined here tonight by six couples and for the very first

00:13:58time one thruple everyone here believed they had found their true love but before they could walk down

00:14:05the aisle each of them faced problems with intimacy trust cultural differences and more tonight we'll

00:14:12uncover shocking revelations about the past the present and what the future holds plus later on we will be

00:14:19joined by a few familiar faces from 90 day who are ready to fire off questions of their own I want to

00:14:26also mention that we have an interpreter for both Ani and Mina so their points don't get lost in

00:14:31conversation all right are you ready to begin yes ready as I'm ever gonna be okay I'm gonna start with Stevie

00:14:41and Maddie very good to meet you so you surprisingly did not take the full 90 days you expedited your

00:14:49marriage to save money now looking back was saving on everything all the expenses worth the extra stress um probably not

00:15:03this stress was like too much but it helped me I got my uh green card and now I'm working congratulations

00:15:15okay now you are working yes that must feel great for you yeah it is and for me yes and for you okay we're

00:15:22going to talk more about that but right now I'm going to say hello to the other couples Shekinah

00:15:28and Sarfer good to see you again good to see you so Shekinah you look beautiful did you change your look

00:15:35a little of course I did of course my under eyes were bothering me so much mainly because I had all of

00:15:41my filler dissolved so I needed a little lift okay here we have the before and after so the last time you

00:15:50were here you were saying you were going for a more natural look mm-hmm and so this surgery you

00:15:55feel made you look more natural I do I look more like myself before all the fillers so here's what I

00:16:01want to know how is married life treating you you tell you go ahead roller coaster up and downs

00:16:10hmm it's difficult the honeymoon was over really fast and we actually didn't even have a honeymoon so you

00:16:17didn't oh and I just still only have a engagement ring so are we really married oh my god so there's

00:16:25that so you're missing the wedding band yeah I know I'm aware of this every argument was every fight

00:16:31she reminds me that I'm blessed that when my wife married me I put a stainless steel band around her

00:16:37finger it was like a hundred bucks not even I mean I'll say it right now and I mean I'm privileged to

00:16:43be next to her today it's not about you guys this time I'm talking about you there is so much to dig

00:16:50into with the two of you but right now we're gonna go on to Mark and Mina how are you good to meet you

00:16:56um how is married life for you it's been amazing uh Mina's perfect I think Mina you gave Mark a

00:17:08deadline of six months to leave New Hampshire and move someplace else did he make that deadline yeah

00:17:16translator so he thought Boston would be a good fit oh so you moved to Boston oh she loves Boston

00:17:31you're welcome that's exciting I can't wait to hear more and Mark your daughter Jordan will be

00:17:38joining the conversation later are you nervous for that yeah a little bit yeah a little bit right

00:17:45now I want to turn to Matt Ameni and Ani it is good to meet the three of you now this love triangle

00:17:52certainly had some unexpected twists it's true and when we talk later we want to find out if you were

00:18:00able to work things out but first Ameni let me ask you Shekinah was just talking about little zhuzhing

00:18:09up that she did since I last saw her you look gorgeous a little bit different did you have anything

00:18:16done I did I'm actually six weeks post-op um I got a nose job um like a temporal lift I got a BBL

00:18:25and then uh I got a mini tummy tuck um and lipo yes whoa okay so it's kind of like a body overhaul

00:18:35there yeah Matt and Ani what do you guys think I think so she's crazy because it's okay if you make

00:18:45little change but she make all in the same time yeah unlike Shekinah it's not necessarily something I'm

00:18:53proud of um actually I kind of got pressure from like social media image you did it for the wrong

00:19:01reason what are your reasons my reasons are I wanted to change certain things that bothered me

00:19:07and you it sounds like your reasons were you wanted to fit society's standards so those are two very

00:19:14different things anyways I went and got a lot of surgeries and after the surgery I've went through

00:19:19a huge identity crisis to be honest I feel like they don't look like me anymore but you didn't

00:19:26want to look like yourself that's why you got the surgery right well I don't want to lose who I am and

00:19:31not look like myself but then what was the point of getting surgery you're rude I don't know what your

00:19:40problem is oh my god okay wait hold up Shekinah Amini it seems like there's some hostility here did

00:19:50anything happen between the two of you before coming to the tell-all well initially she reached out and

00:19:55said I'm you know on the same season as you and then we started talking about plastic surgery and

00:20:01whatever and we you know continued the conversation a little bit and then she sent me a message and said I

00:20:07do really like you but I'm sorry in advance for the things I'm going to say about you at the tall

00:20:11wall and I thought that that was very calculated because for me I don't plan what I'm going to say

00:20:18I just am authentic to how I feel in the moment and for you to premeditate kind of like to be

00:20:24mean to me was low I think it says a lot about your character so I reached out to her because I'm a

00:20:31girl's girl and I respect my cast members so much and I told her hey listen ahead of time listen I like

00:20:36you but on the towel whatever I'm gonna say you know please don't take it too personal like I tried

00:20:42to give her a heads up versus like coming in here and like being rude and bashing her like she is

00:20:47she's just so thirsty for like screen time I tried to talk to you in private but of course you had to

00:20:54come here and create drama about it you are so calculated

00:20:57say that I'm calculated

00:20:59calculated is the perfect word for you

00:21:02you're calculated

00:21:03you

00:21:05if you ask me I don't like the marriage

00:21:10wait you don't like

00:21:14the marriage

00:21:15no

00:21:16just everything changed after we got married

00:21:21Stevie why not just say no I'm not bisexual

00:21:27it's a yes or no question and you haven't told him yes or no

00:21:30I'm not sorry for that

00:21:33wow

00:21:33oh whoa now see that's a big deal

00:21:36I think Matthew deserves to know the truth

00:21:38you're calculated as you you wanted to start and you did congratulations

00:21:52I don't even want to get catty with women

00:21:55they don't they don't peace

00:21:57yeah for real for real absolutely

00:21:59hold up guys

00:22:00okay

00:22:01all right

00:22:03we're gonna move on and say hello to the rest of our couples

00:22:07Sean and Aaliyah good to meet you

00:22:09how are you

00:22:10nice to meet you

00:22:11so your wedding was a lot different than that dream wedding you had envisioned

00:22:19that just though

00:22:21so on a scale of one to ten how are things between you today

00:22:28one being the worst ten being the best

00:22:31what number would you pick

00:22:33like eight

00:22:39yeah that's what I was gonna say seven eight

00:22:41that's a good number

00:22:41because we live in peace

00:22:43because we're not fighting

00:22:45but the sexual relationship is not so great

00:22:49we're not really having sex anymore

00:22:52what

00:22:54yes

00:22:55damn

00:22:57does anybody here look at that as an eight

00:23:00that's a one

00:23:01that's a one

00:23:02sex is so important in a relationship

00:23:04yeah absolutely

00:23:06I'm gonna circle back to the two of you

00:23:09now I want to go to Jessica and Juan

00:23:14hi

00:23:15hi

00:23:15hi there

00:23:16good to see you

00:23:17good to meet you

00:23:18good to meet you

00:23:18Jessica we saw Juan ask you to make an attempt to learn Spanish

00:23:23have you done that

00:23:25um it's hard it's hard to find time

00:23:29it is still very much a goal of mine

00:23:32I feel like I can read okay

00:23:36I can now get a restaurant fairly well

00:23:38why does it matter he speaks English

00:23:40who cares

00:23:41it matters for his kids probably

00:23:43he wants to keep the heritage going

00:23:45I think the main point is like

00:23:47I would love if my wife can come to Colombia and talk to my family

00:23:51yeah

00:23:52sometimes it is better not to talk

00:23:54with the family believe me

00:23:56you might have been right

00:23:57now Greg and Joan

00:24:00very good to meet you

00:24:01nice to meet you

00:24:02nice to meet you

00:24:03how have things been since the wedding

00:24:05I feel like we've been married like forever

00:24:10so is that a good thing

00:24:14yes I feel like

00:24:15he treats me the same way

00:24:17okay

00:24:18we know everyone's curious

00:24:19whether the two of you are still living with Greg's mom

00:24:23we're going to bring her into the conversation

00:24:25right now

00:24:27in a bit

00:24:28that's going to be interesting

00:24:30Greg you excited about that

00:24:32I'm super excited

00:24:33now it's time to dive into discussions about each of your relationships

00:24:38let's kick things off with Shekinah and Sarper

00:24:42first off

00:24:42we need to see a picture of this very unique ceremony

00:24:48that the two of you had the day that you got married

00:24:50there you go

00:24:53in the bed

00:24:54wow

00:24:55those are very beautiful pictures

00:24:56what do you remember about this moment Shekinah?

00:25:00it was perfect

00:25:01and I loved how intimate it was

00:25:04there was no one else there

00:25:05and it was just really special

00:25:07but no

00:25:09I feel like I'm going to get emotional

00:25:12just everything changed

00:25:18after we got married

00:25:20and that was my biggest fear

00:25:25and it just like came true

00:25:26mine too

00:25:29how did they change Shekinah?

00:25:36Sarper changed

00:25:37our dynamic changed

00:25:39because now we're in the US

00:25:41and like

00:25:42he moved into my place

00:25:44which I know is hard

00:25:45because you know

00:25:47it does feel like it's my place

00:25:49you know

00:25:50but um

00:25:51Sarper went through a really bad depression

00:25:54then it brought up

00:25:56just a lot of anger

00:25:57from him at me

00:25:59Sarper from your point of view

00:26:03what changed after the wedding?

00:26:05I am always the control freak

00:26:08so I have to

00:26:09control things

00:26:10and when I don't control things

00:26:12I feel depressed

00:26:14if you ask me

00:26:15I don't like the marriage

00:26:17what?

00:26:21Sargo

00:26:21wait you're saying

00:26:23you don't like the marriage

00:26:25no

00:26:26because it's

00:26:28brought a lot of new responsibilities

00:26:30and duties to my life

00:26:31every morning

00:26:33I mean take the garbage out

00:26:34Sarper

00:26:35take the dog out

00:26:36Sarper

00:26:36yeah Sarper doesn't like

00:26:37responsibility

00:26:38we need to go shopping

00:26:38Sarper

00:26:39drive me here

00:26:40Sarper

00:26:40carry this Sarper

00:26:41fix that Sarper

00:26:42with her rules

00:26:44I feel dependent

00:26:45in Turkish

00:26:45we have a saying

00:26:46instead of

00:26:47feeling dependent

00:26:48to a butcher

00:26:49I cut my penis

00:26:50and eat it

00:26:51what?

00:26:51oh my gosh

00:26:52think about it

00:26:56it's a good saying

00:26:57it's a good

00:26:58yes

00:26:58being dependent

00:26:59is the biggest

00:27:00nightmare of mine

00:27:01and we have egos

00:27:03when we start to fight

00:27:05or something

00:27:06it starts from

00:27:07a small thing

00:27:08like an avalanche

00:27:09it gets bigger

00:27:09and bigger

00:27:10then it explodes

00:27:11but one place

00:27:14that you've typically

00:27:15gotten along

00:27:16very well

00:27:17is in the bedroom

00:27:18now I want to know

00:27:20after marriage

00:27:21how is sex

00:27:22between the two of you

00:27:23today?

00:27:24today?

00:27:25before coming

00:27:26usually that's

00:27:29the best part

00:27:30she loves it

00:27:32oh shut up

00:27:33I'm good at it

00:27:34oh my goodness

00:27:35yeah

00:27:37but we slept

00:27:39in separate rooms

00:27:40in the hotel

00:27:41yesterday

00:27:42what?

00:27:45wait a minute

00:27:46you ask the question

00:27:47how is marriage going?

00:27:49this way

00:27:50please welcome

00:27:55Shekinah's friend

00:27:56Dan

00:27:56hi guys

00:27:57Dan

00:27:58did you see the picture

00:28:00of the wedding day?

00:28:01yeah

00:28:01that was cheap

00:28:02oh

00:28:03he was the cause trouble

00:28:04I don't know

00:28:05if he's

00:28:05a thousand percent

00:28:06in love with her

00:28:07he says something

00:28:08you don't say anything

00:28:09because she knows

00:28:09I'm right

00:28:10I know

00:28:11he doesn't

00:28:12truly love me

00:28:13what the

00:28:13oh my god

00:28:15last night

00:28:24you slept

00:28:24in separate rooms

00:28:25yes last night

00:28:25and it was

00:28:26her decision

00:28:26I miss

00:28:28the Sarpa

00:28:29from Turkey

00:28:29and I miss

00:28:30the Shikine

00:28:31from Turkey

00:28:31I was never

00:28:33from Turkey

00:28:33but the one

00:28:35that I know

00:28:35from Turkey

00:28:37okay so

00:28:39when Sarpa

00:28:40moved from Turkey

00:28:41to California

00:28:42Shekinah hoped

00:28:43he would fit right in

00:28:44but he struggled

00:28:45to get along

00:28:45with her friend group

00:28:46we invited

00:28:47one of those friends

00:28:48to help give us

00:28:49more insight

00:28:50into their relationship

00:28:51please welcome

00:28:53Shekinah's friend

00:28:53Dan

00:28:54Dan

00:28:55hi Dan

00:28:56hi

00:28:57hi guys

00:28:58hi Dan

00:29:00hi

00:29:01hi

00:29:01Shekinah

00:29:02long time no see

00:29:03hello Dan

00:29:04so Dan

00:29:06did you see

00:29:07the picture

00:29:08of the bedding

00:29:09of the bedding

00:29:11yeah

00:29:11I saw a couple

00:29:12of photos

00:29:12yes

00:29:13what did you think

00:29:13that was cheap

00:29:15oh

00:29:16cheap

00:29:18yeah

00:29:19cheap looking

00:29:20or inexpensive

00:29:21yeah like

00:29:21why doing a bedding

00:29:23like I don't

00:29:23understand that

00:29:24we don't have

00:29:25a castle

00:29:26yeah

00:29:26you don't need

00:29:27a castle

00:29:28but you can

00:29:28do better

00:29:29oh

00:29:30alright Dan

00:29:34have you spent

00:29:35time

00:29:36with Shekinah

00:29:36and Sarper

00:29:37since their wedding

00:29:38uh no

00:29:40so it's been like

00:29:42a couple of months

00:29:43now

00:29:43four months

00:29:44four months

00:29:45yeah

00:29:46that's a long time

00:29:47do you think

00:29:48that Sarper

00:29:48holds back

00:29:50Shekinah's social life

00:29:51I think he does

00:29:52he does

00:29:53in what way

00:29:54last week

00:29:57was my birthday

00:29:57yeah

00:29:59and you didn't

00:29:59even like

00:30:00send me a text

00:30:01you didn't even

00:30:01send me a text

00:30:02like

00:30:03I did

00:30:03no

00:30:03I had to text

00:30:05you first

00:30:06then you text

00:30:06me back

00:30:07but

00:30:07you didn't even

00:30:09like say

00:30:09oh

00:30:09I'm sorry

00:30:11let's

00:30:12let's

00:30:12let's go for

00:30:12a lunch

00:30:13let me

00:30:14let me

00:30:14take you

00:30:15for lunch

00:30:15let me

00:30:15take you

00:30:16I'm married now

00:30:16I can't just

00:30:17go to lunch

00:30:18with you

00:30:18sorry

00:30:18and you've

00:30:19made a big

00:30:20you cannot

00:30:20go

00:30:20she cannot

00:30:21go to lunch

00:30:22with you

00:30:22why not

00:30:23why not

00:30:25why not

00:30:25she can have

00:30:26lunch with me

00:30:27where's the

00:30:27problem

00:30:28she's married

00:30:30now

00:30:30she's just

00:30:31trying to

00:30:31respect

00:30:32she can have

00:30:32friends

00:30:33so because

00:30:33she's married

00:30:34she cannot

00:30:34have friends

00:30:35you're not

00:30:35really just

00:30:36a friend

00:30:36this is what

00:30:37you're trying

00:30:37to say

00:30:38come on

00:30:38it's been like

00:30:38you're an ex-boyfriend

00:30:39you're an ex-boyfriend

00:30:40no I'm not an ex-boyfriend

00:30:42first of all

00:30:42I'm not an ex-boyfriend

00:30:43well you dated

00:30:43then you dated

00:30:44I'm not an ex-boyfriend

00:30:44we've been dating

00:30:46but it was like

00:30:47many years ago

00:30:48so I'm not an ex-boyfriend

00:30:49but we did more than

00:30:50just kissing

00:30:51no we didn't

00:30:53come on

00:30:55yeah okay

00:30:56whatever

00:30:57but today

00:30:58we are friends

00:30:59so he can

00:31:00kind of chill out

00:31:01this guy is just

00:31:03controlling your

00:31:03social life

00:31:04and by the way

00:31:05you change a lot

00:31:06like I haven't seen

00:31:07you for four months

00:31:08I think you lost

00:31:09a lot of weight

00:31:10and I think maybe

00:31:11a little too much

00:31:11oh my god

00:31:13I will give you

00:31:14targets too

00:31:15your belly is going up

00:31:17I'm okay with my belly

00:31:18don't worry

00:31:18I have a brain

00:31:19you have the bad

00:31:20why do you always say

00:31:21that I have to be nice

00:31:22when he says something

00:31:24you don't say anything

00:31:25he's not insulting

00:31:26your peers

00:31:27he went out

00:31:28dates with

00:31:29a lot of girls

00:31:31in the friends group

00:31:31not only with Chikina

00:31:32what's the issue

00:31:34with this

00:31:34when there are no

00:31:37horses left

00:31:37in the ranch

00:31:38a donkey

00:31:39sees himself

00:31:40as the unicorn

00:31:40you know

00:31:40he sees himself

00:31:41as the unicorn

00:31:42he sees himself

00:31:45as the unicorn

00:31:45right now

00:31:46because of them

00:31:47because our Dan

00:31:48poor Dan

00:31:49he's so upset

00:31:50I have to

00:31:51don't do that

00:31:52you are like

00:31:53a spare tire

00:31:53I mean

00:31:54when you

00:31:55you have a flat tire

00:31:56till you go

00:31:57to the repair shop

00:31:58you put the spare tire

00:31:59you are that one

00:32:00you are always

00:32:00in the trunk

00:32:01waiting

00:32:01don't be mean

00:32:02I'm not meaning

00:32:03but he says

00:32:04why didn't you come

00:32:04and go

00:32:05take me to the lunch

00:32:06what the

00:32:07he wants to cause trouble

00:32:09Shekhana

00:32:10let me ask you a question

00:32:12if a girl

00:32:13told the exact same

00:32:14things to Sarper

00:32:15as an ex

00:32:16how would you feel

00:32:17wouldn't you like

00:32:18ask him to cut off

00:32:20that friendship

00:32:20I guess I just see

00:32:21Dan is harmless

00:32:22like

00:32:22that's the thing

00:32:23that I'm mad at

00:32:24I mean girls

00:32:24don't understand

00:32:25he gives a vibe

00:32:26that he's a good boy

00:32:27but I know

00:32:29a man to man

00:32:29understands

00:32:30you know

00:32:30if a man is a danger

00:32:32or not

00:32:33I mean I think

00:32:33every time he gets

00:32:34a chance

00:32:35he's hitting on her

00:32:35you know

00:32:36and I can see it

00:32:37like he still wants her

00:32:38Do you think Dan

00:32:38is really interested

00:32:39in Shekhana?

00:32:40He just wants girls

00:32:41that don't want him

00:32:42that's the problem

00:32:43you want when you can't have

00:32:44Dan loves rejection

00:32:45that's why he still

00:32:46likes me

00:32:46I don't love rejection

00:32:47I like challenges

00:32:48Shekhana

00:32:49Shekhana you know

00:32:50I'm always respectful

00:32:51even if we have

00:32:52a one-on-one lunch

00:32:53you know

00:32:53But you make little jobs

00:32:54No but you know

00:32:55I'm going to be

00:32:56always respectful

00:32:57I'm never going to

00:32:58do anything bad

00:32:59Oh my gosh

00:33:01What did you say to Sarpur?

00:33:02He loaved jobs

00:33:03I heard the

00:33:04What did you say to Sarpur?

00:33:05I heard the

00:33:06What did you say to Sarpur?

00:33:07I don't know

00:33:08I don't know

00:33:09I don't know

00:33:09All right

00:33:10Well Shekhana and Sarpur

00:33:13admit their relationship

00:33:14after marriage

00:33:15has been a rollercoaster

00:33:16of ups and downs

00:33:17Shekhana actually sent us

00:33:20a video after one of their

00:33:22fights last Christmas

00:33:23This has never been seen

00:33:25before

00:33:26Let's take a look

00:33:27It's Christmas morning

00:33:31Sarpur's usually

00:33:32sitting here in the morning

00:33:33but he's gone

00:33:35and he left his ring

00:33:37and his air tag

00:33:39Merry Christmas to us

00:33:42Sarpur

00:33:46Why did you take off

00:33:48your ring?

00:33:49She kicked me off

00:33:51the house

00:33:51So I left the ring

00:33:54and I went out

00:33:55I rented

00:33:57to the rental

00:33:58and I went there

00:33:59Oh

00:33:59Oh my God

00:34:01How long were you there for?

00:34:0410 days

00:34:05This is less than a month

00:34:06after we got married

00:34:07And what led to this fight?

00:34:11It's not a big thing

00:34:12It's not cheating

00:34:12Nothing

00:34:13You know

00:34:14It starts with small things

00:34:15and it gets bigger

00:34:16and then we forget

00:34:17what was about

00:34:18Because I'm yelling at her

00:34:20and it turns into

00:34:21you are not behaving well to me

00:34:23You know

00:34:24It's my fault

00:34:25I have to be

00:34:25more calm

00:34:26but I cannot

00:34:27It's not my character

00:34:29Even if you're upset

00:34:30that's not cool

00:34:31If a man start to

00:34:33go

00:34:34and try to

00:34:35have argument

00:34:36and tell her

00:34:37back and stuff like this

00:34:38this is not okay

00:34:39Whenever we fight

00:34:42he says the same things to me

00:34:43I will go back to my country

00:34:44I will

00:34:45everybody else in the country

00:34:46No, Sarper

00:34:47this is very bad words

00:34:49My concern about

00:34:51their relationship

00:34:52is the respect

00:34:53Because if there is no respect

00:34:55there is no relationship

00:34:56And this is the foundation

00:34:58of a relationship

00:34:59Even when you fight

00:35:02let her say what she has to say

00:35:03and let it go

00:35:05That's how a man

00:35:06has to act

00:35:07Dan, you have very strong feelings

00:35:10about their relationship

00:35:11and you've never held back

00:35:13So do you think that

00:35:14Shekinah should leave Sarper?

00:35:16or stay and make

00:35:17the relationship work?

00:35:19I don't know if he's

00:35:21a thousand percent

00:35:22in love with her

00:35:23and I want a guy

00:35:24who would be

00:35:24a thousand percent

00:35:25in love with her

00:35:26and not

00:35:2870 percent

00:35:29Because getting on a fight

00:35:31doesn't mean getting a flight

00:35:33back to your country

00:35:34Getting in a fight

00:35:35does not mean

00:35:36getting on a flight

00:35:38Hey, I like that

00:35:38That rhymes

00:35:39That rhymes

00:35:40Shekinah, what do you think

00:35:41about your friend Dan

00:35:43and his assessment of

00:35:44Sarper's feelings

00:35:45towards you?

00:35:46I think it's good

00:35:46because I also

00:35:47wonder the same thing

00:35:48I feel like

00:35:49he doesn't truly love me

00:35:50if he can so easily

00:35:51get up and pick

00:35:52you know, leave

00:35:54Oh my God

00:35:55Well

00:35:55Oh my God

00:35:57Well Dan

00:35:59we are so glad

00:36:01that you were able

00:36:02to participate

00:36:02in this conversation

00:36:03Thank you for sharing

00:36:04your opinions with us

00:36:05Take care

00:36:06Thank you so much

00:36:08Shekinah and Sarper

00:36:15Despite your ups and downs

00:36:17we hope you can find

00:36:18your way to a lasting

00:36:19marriage together

00:36:20We certainly wish you

00:36:21the very, very best

00:36:22Thank you

00:36:23Okay, everybody

00:36:25We are going to take a break

00:36:27All right

00:36:28Thank you

00:36:31Right now

00:36:41We are just like

00:36:43enemies to each other

00:36:44I mean

00:36:45she doesn't want

00:36:46to sit with me

00:36:47I feel that

00:36:48you know

00:36:48then

00:36:49that feeling

00:36:50sucks

00:36:50I just feel like

00:36:58I can't make him happy

00:36:59Nothing I do

00:37:00can make him happy

00:37:01and he's not

00:37:01he's not a supportive

00:37:02partner

00:37:03period

00:37:03So

00:37:05I just started feeling

00:37:06like really upset

00:37:07I'm not okay

00:37:09I'm having a moment

00:37:10I feel alone

00:37:11I'm going to get

00:37:13these things for you

00:37:13for right now

00:37:14if you'd like

00:37:15I just want to get

00:37:16this day over with

00:37:17Thank you

00:37:22It feels like

00:37:24he doesn't care about me

00:37:25Wow, I'm the guilty one

00:37:27Yeah

00:37:28You are actually

00:37:29the guilty one

00:37:30Of course I am

00:37:31He has zero compassion

00:37:32No

00:37:33She's upset

00:37:34I am upset

00:37:35He was upset at me

00:37:36When she's mad

00:37:37I am more mad

00:37:38You know

00:37:38I mean

00:37:39her mood

00:37:40affects me so much

00:37:42I always say

00:37:44I always say

00:37:45what I am

00:37:46I'm the

00:37:46honest

00:37:47you're the most

00:37:48honest person

00:37:49that you can ever see

00:37:50Okay

00:37:50I always say

00:37:51I always say

00:37:52what I am

00:37:53Okay

00:37:54I have a short temper

00:37:55but you make me crazy

00:37:56You're mad at me

00:37:58for having emotions

00:37:58Naughty

00:37:58You are so naughty

00:37:59No, I'm not

00:38:01You need so much therapy

00:38:02It's insane

00:38:03Yes, you make me crazy

00:38:05then

00:38:05listen to what

00:38:06I'm talking

00:38:07Why?

00:38:07Because I have emotions

00:38:08that I'm expressing to you

00:38:09how you make me feel?

00:38:10You will lose me

00:38:11You will lose me

00:38:12just because of you

00:38:13and you will regret

00:38:14like a dog

00:38:15You will regret

00:38:16like a dog

00:38:17You call me a dog?

00:38:24Please welcome

00:38:25Maddie's friend

00:38:26Saeed

00:38:27After a year

00:38:28what is he doing?

00:38:29I mean

00:38:30I've told him

00:38:31several times

00:38:31you can come to California

00:38:32and he can stay with me

00:38:34Wait, wait, wait

00:38:35He told you

00:38:37that you could go live with him

00:38:38and you didn't tell me that?

00:38:40I mean

00:38:40And you still communicate with him

00:38:43Bye, Belle

00:38:44You will lose me

00:38:50You will lose me

00:38:51just because of you

00:38:52and you will regret

00:38:53like a dog

00:38:53You call me a dog?

00:38:56Like a dog

00:38:57I don't call you dog

00:38:58What's wrong with you?

00:38:59You will regret like a dog

00:39:00How can you talk to me that way?

00:39:01It's a saying

00:39:02The way that I treat you

00:39:04You are completely naughty

00:39:06You are completely spoiled

00:39:08and everyone sees that

00:39:10Not only me

00:39:11No, I'm used to seeing

00:39:12protectors

00:39:13and people that care

00:39:14I don't want to be around you

00:39:16You're always doing

00:39:17this kind of

00:39:18It's so toxic

00:39:23and I'm sick of it

00:39:24Leave me the

00:39:26alone

00:39:27She is

00:39:41impossible

00:39:42Everything is

00:39:48up

00:39:48What do you need

00:39:51from him today?

00:39:53No, he's not capable

00:39:54of what I need

00:39:55from him

00:39:55He's not capable

00:39:58You know, Safer and

00:40:02Shekinah, man

00:40:03They seem to be arguing

00:40:04Are they?

00:40:06I heard it

00:40:07I just have a red

00:40:08dressing room next to them

00:40:09All right, everyone

00:40:09is already interrupted

00:40:10It's time for us to go to set

00:40:12Uh-oh

00:40:12Here it comes

00:40:13It's fun

00:40:14All right, here we go, guys

00:40:24One, two, three, two

00:40:26All right, right now

00:40:28I want to move on

00:40:29to Stevie and Maddie

00:40:31Dun-dun-dun

00:40:32Before the wedding

00:40:35Maddie struggled

00:40:36being so far away

00:40:38from his family

00:40:38in Iran

00:40:39and wondered

00:40:40if he could ever

00:40:41truly assimilate

00:40:43to American life

00:40:43Now that they are married

00:40:45let's see how things

00:40:46are going

00:40:47Maddie, you have

00:40:48your green card

00:40:49So what is your plan

00:40:51for work?

00:40:52I've been working

00:40:53as a personal trainer

00:40:54Do you have female clients

00:40:57that you train?

00:40:58Yes

00:40:58I send them his way

00:40:59Yeah

00:41:00You send the women

00:41:02his way?

00:41:02Absolutely, yeah

00:41:03Like, that's his job

00:41:05One thing a lot of people

00:41:06here probably don't know

00:41:07about me

00:41:07is I was like, what?

00:41:09Like, way over

00:41:09200 pounds

00:41:11Maddie actually

00:41:13would do workout plans

00:41:14for me

00:41:15Um, and I

00:41:17I've lost an extreme

00:41:18amount of weight

00:41:19and I feel so much

00:41:19better about myself

00:41:20I think we have

00:41:21a photo of you

00:41:22before you lost the weight

00:41:23Oh, I like that

00:41:25You look amazing

00:41:26Yeah

00:41:27Wow

00:41:28Wow

00:41:29So you went through

00:41:30a big transformation

00:41:31I did, yes, I did

00:41:32When Maddie first met me

00:41:33I was much larger

00:41:34I wanted to just, like

00:41:35make her a better

00:41:37version of herself

00:41:38and I think we did it

00:41:40and we are still

00:41:41working on it

00:41:41Yeah, it's still in progress

00:41:42Okay, so let me ask

00:41:44Maddie, uh, this question

00:41:46Maddie, Stevie shared

00:41:47with you

00:41:47her fair share

00:41:49of quirks

00:41:50that she had

00:41:51about herself

00:41:52getting nauseous

00:41:53when going over bridges

00:41:54nightmares

00:41:55OCD

00:41:56and not wearing

00:41:57pants

00:41:58in the house

00:41:59Oh

00:42:00Have you managed

00:42:02to get used

00:42:02to all of these things?

00:42:04Yes

00:42:04Like, one thing

00:42:05that I liked

00:42:06about our relationship

00:42:06was that we talked

00:42:08about, like,

00:42:08almost every single

00:42:09one of these

00:42:10I already knew

00:42:11that she has

00:42:13narcolepsy

00:42:14and most of these

00:42:16symptoms are for that

00:42:17I'm always tired

00:42:19So I have extreme fatigue

00:42:21Like, it's definitely been

00:42:23I'm sure hard

00:42:24for Maddie at times

00:42:25because I will

00:42:26drop things sometimes

00:42:27and break them

00:42:28Or I never can stay awake

00:42:30in a whole entire movie

00:42:31But Maddie

00:42:32he'll turn the movie off

00:42:34Like, I'll wake up

00:42:35and I'm like

00:42:35you didn't have to stop

00:42:36the movie

00:42:37For me, it's like

00:42:38um, wow

00:42:40Like, he didn't mind

00:42:42pausing his life

00:42:43until my life

00:42:44you know, came back

00:42:45too, you know

00:42:46Um, so that means

00:42:47a lot to me

00:42:48That is really sweet

00:42:51Well, right now

00:42:53we are going to bring on

00:42:55a 90-dayer

00:42:56who's been pillow-talking

00:42:58all of our couples

00:42:59She's come to share

00:43:00her unfiltered opinions

00:43:02about Stevie and Maddie

00:43:03and she has

00:43:04an interesting connection

00:43:05that she is going

00:43:07to reveal tonight

00:43:08Please welcome

00:43:09Veronica

00:43:10Hey, Veronica

00:43:12Hey, Sean

00:43:13Good to see you

00:43:15Good to see you, too

00:43:16How are you?

00:43:17You look lovely

00:43:17Thank you

00:43:18Hey, everyone

00:43:19Hi

00:43:20Oh, thank you

00:43:24Wow

00:43:25Veronica, how do you know that?

00:43:28So I am actually

00:43:30dating a Persian boy

00:43:31Oh, seriously?

00:43:32An Iranian man, yes

00:43:33That's cool

00:43:33And we have been

00:43:35watching your story

00:43:36and he has given me

00:43:37so much insight

00:43:38Oh, I'd love to know that

00:43:40Really? Okay, so you

00:43:40have a lot to say

00:43:41about their relationship

00:43:42Oh, I sure do

00:43:42Okay

00:43:43Part of what's broken

00:43:45my heart seeing your story

00:43:46is knowing how close

00:43:48you must be with your family

00:43:49and knowing that, you know

00:43:51you haven't been able

00:43:52to see them

00:43:53you weren't able to have them

00:43:54you know, even remote

00:43:56into your wedding

00:43:57I know that must have

00:43:58been very difficult

00:43:58because my boyfriend

00:43:59and I see his family

00:44:00twice a week

00:44:01every week without fail

00:44:02Yeah

00:44:03Veronica, so

00:44:05what did you think

00:44:06when at one point

00:44:08Stevie suggested

00:44:08Maddie should maybe

00:44:09call his family less?

00:44:12Girl, let me tell you

00:44:14dating a Persian man

00:44:15101, do not come

00:44:16between a Persian man

00:44:17and his mama

00:44:17Okay

00:44:18You are never gonna win

00:44:19I've learned that

00:44:22But to be fair

00:44:23where we're at now

00:44:24is I have to be

00:44:26the one to remind

00:44:27Maddie to call his mom

00:44:28all the time

00:44:29like I am the one

00:44:30that's like

00:44:30call your mom

00:44:31call your mom

00:44:32That's good to hear

00:44:33Okay, feeling homesick

00:44:34thousands of miles

00:44:35away from his family

00:44:36Maddie turned to

00:44:37his friend Saeed

00:44:38Let's see how he feels

00:44:40about all of the changes

00:44:41in Maddie's life

00:44:42Please welcome Saeed

00:44:44Hi Saeed

00:44:47Hi, I hope you are

00:44:49Good to meet you

00:44:50So you had a chance

00:44:55to see how Maddie

00:44:57has settled in

00:44:58What do you think

00:44:58about the state

00:44:59of their relationship

00:44:59today?

00:45:01Well, I'm glad

00:45:02that today

00:45:03I see him happy

00:45:04next to his wife

00:45:05But obviously

00:45:08I could see him happier

00:45:09How could you

00:45:12see him happier?

00:45:13He came to the U.S.

00:45:15with a lot of dreams

00:45:16He has a lot

00:45:17of potentials

00:45:19and all that

00:45:22potentials

00:45:23will be unleashed

00:45:24if you are

00:45:25next to someone

00:45:26who gives you

00:45:27support

00:45:28How do I not

00:45:29support him?

00:45:30She's so supportive

00:45:31What the hell?

00:45:32But after a year

00:45:32what is he doing?

00:45:34I mean

00:45:34who is going to pay

00:45:35for a personal

00:45:36trainer in Mississippi?

00:45:38People pay for that

00:45:39You haven't been

00:45:40a very supportive

00:45:40friend the whole time

00:45:42You've been here

00:45:43for 10 years

00:45:43and you could have

00:45:44helped him figure out

00:45:45how to assimilate

00:45:46but instead

00:45:46you've been

00:45:47on her and

00:45:48on them

00:45:48since the second

00:45:49they got here

00:45:50So this is what

00:45:51I've told Mahdi

00:45:51I've told him

00:45:52several times

00:45:53you can come

00:45:53to California

00:45:54where life

00:45:55is more diverse

00:45:55That's not where

00:45:56she lives

00:45:56So do you want

00:45:57to be like this?

00:45:57His home is where

00:45:58she is

00:45:59Let me speak

00:45:59So where is

00:46:00Mahdi's home then?

00:46:02His home is Stevie

00:46:03Exactly

00:46:04Exactly

00:46:04Well, Saeed

00:46:05what do you want

00:46:06them to do

00:46:07in California?

00:46:08So this is

00:46:09what I'm thinking

00:46:09and I've told

00:46:10Mahdi

00:46:11you can come

00:46:11in the first few

00:46:12months

00:46:13he can stay

00:46:13with me

00:46:14until she can

00:46:16Her family and friends

00:46:18are in Mississippi

00:46:19Honestly to me

00:46:20in Mississippi

00:46:21like I have

00:46:21almost like

00:46:22zero friends

00:46:23Well with friends

00:46:24like this

00:46:24I mean

00:46:25you're probably

00:46:25better off

00:46:26Wait, wait, wait

00:46:27He told you

00:46:28that you could

00:46:30go live with him

00:46:30and you didn't

00:46:31tell me that?

00:46:32I mean

00:46:32And you still

00:46:33communicate with him

00:46:34Wow

00:46:35Mahdi

00:46:36when did Saeed

00:46:37offer

00:46:37to let you

00:46:38stay with him?

00:46:40I mean

00:46:40maybe a couple

00:46:41of months ago?

00:46:42And you never

00:46:43told Stevie?

00:46:43Um

00:46:44I was like

00:46:46thinking that

00:46:46maybe he's saying

00:46:47you all

00:46:48can come

00:46:49stay here

00:46:49What was your answer?

00:46:54I thanked him

00:46:56but I didn't

00:46:56say yes or no

00:46:57so I just said

00:46:59yeah, thank you

00:46:59so much

00:47:00But now it sounds

00:47:00like he's trying

00:47:00to convince you

00:47:01And also

00:47:02I'm not living

00:47:02with anyone

00:47:03That's weird

00:47:05Y'all are too

00:47:06grown for that

00:47:07No offense

00:47:08So let's be honest

00:47:12Mahdi has taken

00:47:13every risk

00:47:14to leave family

00:47:15friends

00:47:15everything behind

00:47:16And guess what

00:47:17is the biggest risk

00:47:18Stevie has made?

00:47:19Crossing that bridge

00:47:20to pick him up

00:47:21from the airport

00:47:22Wow

00:47:23That is so

00:47:25rude

00:47:26You don't know

00:47:27what I've done

00:47:28True friends

00:47:29support each other

00:47:30and you haven't

00:47:30done that

00:47:31since the moment

00:47:31you met her

00:47:32He is destructive

00:47:33Questioning me

00:47:37about my sexuality

00:47:38is not necessary

00:47:41I think Mahdi

00:47:42deserves to know

00:47:42the truth

00:47:43I feel like

00:47:44she's into girls

00:47:45because she never

00:47:46gives a direct answer

00:47:48Would it change

00:47:49anything now

00:47:50if he found out?

00:47:51Um

00:47:51It's a yes or no

00:47:52question and you

00:47:53haven't told him

00:47:54yes or no

00:47:54Wow

00:47:55Oh

00:47:55He is destructive

00:48:04He's not a

00:48:04constructive friend

00:48:05You know

00:48:06Some friends

00:48:06are like this

00:48:07brother

00:48:07If you knew me

00:48:08and knew how

00:48:09I do not allow

00:48:10people to get

00:48:11close to me

00:48:11you would know

00:48:12that I sacrificed

00:48:13everything by

00:48:14allowing him to

00:48:15step foot into

00:48:15my house

00:48:16because I could

00:48:16have gotten

00:48:17more than broken

00:48:17but I allowed

00:48:18him into it

00:48:19Okay

00:48:19I pay my bills

00:48:21I don't have

00:48:22to have Mahdi

00:48:23to survive

00:48:24I chose to have

00:48:25Mahdi here

00:48:25because I wanted

00:48:26to be with him

00:48:27Not because I

00:48:27needed him for anything

00:48:28You would have done

00:48:29that without Mahdi

00:48:30You were working

00:48:31I was doing it

00:48:32but I loved him

00:48:33so I wanted him

00:48:34to be with me

00:48:35So you're telling me

00:48:36that you're feeding

00:48:37Mahdi

00:48:37you're accommodating

00:48:38him and he should

00:48:39be grateful

00:48:40for all that?

00:48:40Hell no

00:48:41Mahdi feeds himself

00:48:42like he makes

00:48:42his own money

00:48:43I'm saying

00:48:44I didn't need him

00:48:45to do anything

00:48:46for me

00:48:47I chose to be with him

00:48:48He's done enough

00:48:49right?

00:48:50And I have too

00:48:51Let's let Mahdi

00:48:53speak about

00:48:54this situation

00:48:55because I would

00:48:55love to hear it

00:48:56Sayed

00:48:57you said

00:48:57Stevie didn't

00:48:58make any sacrifices

00:48:59In the first

00:49:00weeks and months

00:49:01that I was here

00:49:02I was so depressed

00:49:04She has done a lot

00:49:05She has helped me

00:49:06a lot

00:49:07I don't think

00:49:08anyone in this world

00:49:10has helped

00:49:10more than Stevie

00:49:11And he didn't move

00:49:12here to work

00:49:13in the United States

00:49:13He moved here

00:49:14to marry her

00:49:14So he moved

00:49:16to the US

00:49:16to marry her

00:49:17and that's it

00:49:18and then the life

00:49:19ends?

00:49:19No

00:49:19we have a life

00:49:20together

00:49:20That's what you do

00:49:22after you get married

00:49:22I agree

00:49:24One major point

00:49:26of contention

00:49:27that kept arising

00:49:28was Mahdi's

00:49:29suspicion

00:49:30that Stevie

00:49:31was bisexual

00:49:33But every time

00:49:34he mentioned it

00:49:35Stevie refused

00:49:36to give a definitive

00:49:37answer

00:49:38Stevie

00:49:38Why not just say

00:49:40Honey

00:49:41No

00:49:42I'm not bisexual

00:49:43So let's stop

00:49:44talking about it now

00:49:45Um

00:49:46That probably

00:49:47would have been

00:49:47easier right

00:49:48But again

00:49:49I think

00:49:50questioning me

00:49:51about my sexuality

00:49:52when I choose

00:49:53to be with him

00:49:53is

00:49:54not

00:49:55necessary

00:49:56Um

00:49:57And

00:49:58I'm not sorry

00:50:00for that

00:50:01Do you not want

00:50:02to put a label

00:50:02on your sexuality?

00:50:04Yeah

00:50:04Because there is

00:50:05no label

00:50:05Like there is

00:50:06no label

00:50:07All right

00:50:08Stevie

00:50:09I want to ask you

00:50:10Have you ever

00:50:12kissed a woman?

00:50:16Um

00:50:17Like

00:50:18Ooh

00:50:19I'm not going

00:50:21to answer it

00:50:21I feel like

00:50:23she's into girls

00:50:24because she never

00:50:25gives a direct answer

00:50:26I think I'm into

00:50:27souls and personalities

00:50:29and who people are

00:50:30more than their body

00:50:31And this question

00:50:33is not about

00:50:33my sexuality

00:50:34It's about

00:50:35if I've ever

00:50:35kissed someone

00:50:36and I don't kiss

00:50:37and tell

00:50:37So

00:50:38But you also

00:50:39don't think

00:50:39that he deserves

00:50:40to have a straight

00:50:41answer

00:50:42and he deserved

00:50:42that before

00:50:43you guys got married?

00:50:44I don't owe him

00:50:44anything about

00:50:45my sexuality

00:50:46You owe him

00:50:46honesty

00:50:47Maddie

00:50:48In your gut

00:50:49Do you think

00:50:51Stevie has ever

00:50:52kissed a woman?

00:50:56Yes

00:50:59I think

00:51:00she has kissed a woman

00:51:01There's nothing

00:51:03wrong with that

00:51:03Okay

00:51:05So Stevie

00:51:06doesn't want

00:51:07to answer

00:51:07but I'll ask

00:51:08the other women

00:51:09here

00:51:09Maddie

00:51:10I already know

00:51:11your answer

00:51:12Okay

00:51:12Shekinah

00:51:15Have you ever

00:51:15kissed a woman?

00:51:16I've done more

00:51:17than kissed women

00:51:17Yes

00:51:18Okay

00:51:19Joan

00:51:20I've never

00:51:21and I don't think

00:51:22I'll ever

00:51:22Mina

00:51:24Uh

00:51:25No

00:51:26I don't have

00:51:28a problem

00:51:29with it

00:51:29Aaliyah

00:51:30Have you kissed

00:51:31a woman?

00:51:33No

00:51:33Have you been

00:51:34interested?

00:51:36No

00:51:36Jessica

00:51:39I've kissed

00:51:40many of my friends

00:51:41Women

00:51:43A romantic

00:51:44intimate kiss?

00:51:45Um

00:51:45No

00:51:46I would say

00:51:46more like

00:51:47drinking

00:51:49and

00:51:49We were drunk

00:51:50last night

00:51:51kiss

00:51:51Does that include

00:51:52Megan

00:51:52your friend?

00:51:53I've kissed

00:51:53Megan

00:51:54I'm not surprised

00:51:55Torrington

00:51:56Torrington

00:51:56options are limited

00:51:57Torrington

00:51:58I've never done

00:51:59more than kiss a woman

00:52:00but I have kissed women

00:52:01Okay

00:52:02This was very interesting

00:52:03So back to

00:52:06Stevie and Maddie

00:52:07You both said

00:52:09you know everything

00:52:10about each other

00:52:10Why is this the one thing

00:52:13that you don't want

00:52:14to give him a direct answer

00:52:16I did give him an answer

00:52:16and the answer was that

00:52:17I chose you

00:52:18It wasn't

00:52:19I don't think he gave her

00:52:20the safe space

00:52:21for her to feel comfortable

00:52:22to say

00:52:23maybe I am bisexual

00:52:24or maybe I don't know

00:52:25because

00:52:25if she says that

00:52:27he already made a big deal

00:52:28about it

00:52:28and even said

00:52:29I'm not gonna get married

00:52:30if you are bisexual

00:52:30So do you think

00:52:33Stevie's bisexual?

00:52:35I'm like

00:52:36I have this feeling

00:52:38but she would never

00:52:39give me an answer

00:52:40and we have stopped

00:52:43talking about that

00:52:44It's a yes or no question

00:52:46and you haven't told him

00:52:46yes or no

00:52:47and again

00:52:48relationships are built

00:52:50on honesty

00:52:50and open communication

00:52:52I think Matthew

00:52:54deserves to know

00:52:54the truth

00:52:55and everything about you

00:52:56before making a decision

00:52:57once he knows

00:52:58the decision is up to him

00:53:00but he deserves

00:53:01to know the truth

00:53:02I have the information

00:53:02I agree

00:53:03Would it change anything now

00:53:05if you found out?

00:53:09I can't answer that

00:53:11Oh whoa

00:53:12now see

00:53:13that's a big deal

00:53:14Wow

00:53:15Please welcome

00:53:21Big head

00:53:22Oh man

00:53:24It's big head

00:53:26What the is about

00:53:27to happen to you?

00:53:28I'm gonna definitely

00:53:29recommend Joan

00:53:30that you give this gentleman

00:53:32a 90 day notice

00:53:34to put a roof over your head

00:53:36That's bull

00:53:37It's time to be a man

00:53:38Oh my God

00:53:40Maddie

00:53:45Today if Stevie

00:53:47said to you

00:53:48Yes

00:53:49I am bisexual

00:53:51Would you care?

00:53:53Maybe

00:53:53Because before marriage

00:53:55I could have like

00:53:56researched

00:53:57and asked her

00:53:58What would you need

00:53:58to research?

00:54:00What is bisexuality?

00:54:02It is so like

00:54:03uncover this truth

00:54:05because if you don't

00:54:06something might happen

00:54:07like

00:54:08couldn't I wake up tomorrow

00:54:09and like

00:54:10maybe you want to do something

00:54:11with another man?

00:54:12Anything could happen

00:54:13Maybe the answer matters

00:54:14to Maddie

00:54:15That's how you think

00:54:17I didn't ask you

00:54:17Let me ask you a question

00:54:20Imagine the whole situation

00:54:21was about me

00:54:22like

00:54:23would you have

00:54:23the same concerns

00:54:24or no?

00:54:28Honestly

00:54:28no

00:54:29I don't care

00:54:29about your past

00:54:30It's not about the past

00:54:32it's about

00:54:32now

00:54:33I just feel like

00:54:34if I was in

00:54:35your position

00:54:36I would want to know

00:54:39just because

00:54:39I would need to

00:54:40kind of know

00:54:41if I should be

00:54:42on the lookout

00:54:42for

00:54:43just women

00:54:44or men too

00:54:45She's worried about

00:54:45half the room

00:54:46now she's worried

00:54:47about the whole

00:54:48you know

00:54:49so it's kind of like that

00:54:50Exactly

00:54:51yeah

00:54:51Relationships are built

00:54:52on honesty

00:54:53and open communication

00:54:54and I hope Maddie

00:54:55that you get

00:54:56a clear answer

00:54:57on that one day

00:54:57Maddie

00:54:59if you walked

00:55:00into her place

00:55:01and it was

00:55:01a bunch of

00:55:02she painted

00:55:03would you have

00:55:03made a big deal

00:55:04about it?

00:55:05Yes

00:55:06I see beauty

00:55:07in women

00:55:08and their body

00:55:08that I do not

00:55:09see in that

00:55:10like thing

00:55:10so

00:55:12I even didn't

00:55:13know about

00:55:14like that many

00:55:14boobs also

00:55:15But I guess

00:55:18you are getting

00:55:18used to her

00:55:19painting

00:55:19the boobs

00:55:20Yeah

00:55:20Maddie buys

00:55:22my canvases

00:55:23he purses

00:55:24my paint

00:55:25I love that

00:55:26That's good

00:55:27Alright

00:55:28well

00:55:29Saeed

00:55:30thank you

00:55:30for sharing

00:55:31your thoughts

00:55:31with us today

00:55:32please take care

00:55:33we can see

00:55:33how much

00:55:34you love your friend

00:55:35My pleasure

00:55:35And Veronica

00:55:36as always

00:55:37we enjoy

00:55:38having you with us

00:55:39Thank you so much

00:55:40and congratulations

00:55:40on the new relationship

00:55:42Thank you

00:55:42it was great

00:55:43seeing you guys

00:55:43Hope everything

00:55:43works out

00:55:44Thank you

00:55:44We'll have to get

00:55:45together

00:55:45and learn

00:55:45some Persian dishes

00:55:46Definitely

00:55:47Thanks guys

00:55:48Stevie and Maddie

00:55:51I hope

00:55:52the longer

00:55:53your marriage

00:55:53goes on

00:55:54the happier

00:55:54you both become

00:55:56Thank you

00:55:56Thank you so much

00:55:57Thank you

00:55:58Alright everybody

00:56:00that's lunch

00:56:01Thank you

00:56:02We survived

00:56:06Yeah

00:56:06Yeah let's get some food

00:56:08Take a break

00:56:09I'm going to my

00:56:10rest area

00:56:11I'm going to bed

00:56:12Do you think you have

00:56:16a pillow

00:56:16for her?

00:56:17Yeah thank you so much

00:56:18I just need like

00:56:19ten minutes

00:56:20Hey Jessica

00:56:21So wait

00:56:23so you guys kissed

00:56:24me and Megan kissed?

00:56:24Yeah

00:56:25At my bachelorette party

00:56:26I was like really

00:56:27Is that the first time?

00:56:28No

00:56:29I've like always kissed

00:56:31my friends

00:56:31Like it feels very

00:56:33platonic for you

00:56:34Like it doesn't feel

00:56:35like anything

00:56:35I don't think I could ever

00:56:36have a relationship

00:56:38with a woman

00:56:38because women are too much work

00:56:39So you're not tripping

00:56:41that she kissed her friend

00:56:42right?

00:56:42No

00:56:43It's fine

00:56:44Yeah

00:56:44We'll do just fine

00:56:46in a couple

00:56:47No question

00:56:48So did Stevie

00:56:51kiss a girl?

00:56:52What is it?

00:56:53I think we never know

00:56:54I probably love to eat

00:56:56She's not comfortable

00:56:57I'm joking

00:56:58You're married now

00:57:00but I don't think

00:57:01so you sleep good

00:57:02because you don't know

00:57:03That is exactly why

00:57:05I'm just trying

00:57:06to get this answer

00:57:07Can I ask you

00:57:08a personal question?

00:57:09Right

00:57:09In those 14 years

00:57:11that you were

00:57:12with your wife

00:57:12Did you feel

00:57:14this is not what I like

00:57:15I wish I had something else?

00:57:17I think I fall

00:57:18also for the person

00:57:19Mm-hmm

00:57:20And it's scary

00:57:20for all of us

00:57:22to expose

00:57:22every detail

00:57:23about our inner thoughts

00:57:25You guys have

00:57:26an age difference too

00:57:27Yes

00:57:27Not that I should talk

00:57:28because I'm like

00:57:29a few years older than mine

00:57:30So does it make sense to you

00:57:32that she's waiting

00:57:33for me to catch up

00:57:34with like the

00:57:35cultural gap

00:57:36age gap

00:57:37and everything

00:57:38then she opens up to me

00:57:39or

00:57:39Hey

00:57:42Were you talking

00:57:43about my age?

00:57:44I heard that

00:57:45I was

00:57:45I was saying

00:57:45You know that old bitch

00:57:47you're married to?

00:57:48You better drop her ass fast

00:57:50I don't know why

00:57:50you're worried about

00:57:51the sex stuff

00:57:52That age stuff

00:57:53is a killer

00:57:53Oh my gosh

00:57:54Did you know I'm good?

00:57:56Yes

00:57:56You okay?

00:57:59Got really quiet

00:58:00when I entered

00:58:01I give zero

00:58:04what people say about me

00:58:07but I just don't understand

00:58:09why everybody

00:58:10is so curious

00:58:10about my sexuality

00:58:11Maybe I owe Matty

00:58:13a few more answers

00:58:14but he clearly

00:58:15established today

00:58:16that if I were

00:58:17to give him those answers

00:58:18it could jeopardize

00:58:19our marriage

00:58:20so um

00:58:21that's a conversation

00:58:22we'll have to have later

00:58:23Is that normal?

00:58:25Alright

00:58:26I'm going to see you guys

00:58:27back on set

00:58:27Hello

00:58:28Welcome

00:58:29I'm going to meet you

00:58:30Okay

00:58:30Let's go

00:58:33Ready?

00:58:39Five

00:58:40Four

00:58:41Three

00:58:42Two

00:58:43And now

00:58:45we are going to turn

00:58:45our attention

00:58:46to Greg and Joan

00:58:48Are you ready?

00:58:49Absolutely

00:58:50Alright

00:58:50Well

00:58:51I've got a big question

00:58:52for you

00:58:52Shoot

00:58:53Are you still living

00:58:55at home

00:58:55with your mom?

00:58:58Right now we are

00:58:59yeah

00:58:59You are

00:58:59Unfortunately

00:59:00Okay

00:59:00Wow

00:59:01Joan

00:59:03How do you feel

00:59:03about that?

00:59:04Very sad

00:59:05I want to move out

00:59:07immediately

00:59:08It's stressing

00:59:09You have no privacy

00:59:10sometimes intimacy

00:59:12so it always affects us

00:59:14me and him

00:59:15Yeah

00:59:16I'm a married man

00:59:18and you know what I mean

00:59:18I want to give her a home

00:59:19Yeah

00:59:21That is not an easy situation

00:59:23to navigate

00:59:24But right now

00:59:26I would like to bring out

00:59:28someone who has

00:59:29some experience

00:59:30pursuing love

00:59:31while living at home

00:59:32with his mother

00:59:32He is a big guy

00:59:34with a big personality

00:59:36and he's been paying

00:59:37close attention

00:59:38to Greg and Joan's journey

00:59:40Please welcome

00:59:41Big Ed

00:59:42Oh man

00:59:45It's Big Ed

00:59:46Yo dude

00:59:48The s*** about to happen

00:59:49Hey Big Ed

00:59:50How are you doing?

00:59:52Good to see you

00:59:52How's everybody

00:59:52Big Ed?

00:59:53What's up man?

00:59:54Good to see you Big Ed

00:59:56I like that color suit

00:59:57Thank you

00:59:58Yeah

00:59:59It has been a while

01:00:00You've been following

01:00:01the journeys of our couples

01:00:03especially Joan and Greg

01:00:06What do you think

01:00:07about their situation?

01:00:08I really like you guys

01:00:09Thank you

01:00:10And I hope it's going to work out

01:00:12But I'm going to be

01:00:14completely honest

01:00:15I had my mom move in with me

01:00:17and it caused a lot of angst

01:00:19So I'm going to definitely

01:00:22recommend Joan

01:00:23that you give this gentleman

01:00:27a 90 day notice

01:00:28that he has 90 days

01:00:30to put a roof over your head

01:00:32outside of his mom

01:00:34because I don't think

01:00:35it's fair

01:00:35you know

01:00:36to you

01:00:36or to his mom

01:00:38That's bull

01:00:40I know that sounds

01:00:44kind of harsh

01:00:44No no no

01:00:45I'm just kidding

01:00:45That was a good one

01:00:50Of course

01:00:50Yes I feel I should do that

01:00:53Yeah

01:00:54Time to kind of

01:00:56you know

01:00:56be a man

01:00:57You guys need your own space

01:00:58where you can run around

01:00:59and be naked

01:01:00100%

01:01:01You need your own privacy

01:01:02All right

01:01:04Greg's mom Lucille

01:01:05has made it clear

01:01:06that she loves

01:01:07her baby boy Greg

01:01:08very much

01:01:09Well she is here tonight

01:01:10to give her take

01:01:11on her son's

01:01:12very new marriage

01:01:13Please welcome

01:01:14Greg's mom Lucille

01:01:15Jesus

01:01:16Hi Lucille

01:01:18Hello

01:01:19How are you

01:01:20You look lovely

01:01:21Oh thank you

01:01:22So do you

01:01:22Nice meeting you

01:01:23Hello bigot

01:01:24How you doing

01:01:24I love your accent

01:01:25Hey how you doing

01:01:27How you doing

01:01:27Hey how you doing

01:01:29100%

01:01:30Okay

01:01:31Tension was bound

01:01:33to run high

01:01:34with Joan

01:01:34Greg and his mother

01:01:35all living under one roof

01:01:37Take a look

01:01:38at how the three

01:01:39handled their

01:01:39tight living situation

01:01:41What is my mom

01:01:48mowing the lawn

01:01:48Oh yeah

01:01:54Hey mom

01:01:56Hi Greg

01:01:59So is there

01:02:03anything you're not

01:02:04liking here

01:02:05you can tell me now

01:02:06need privacy

01:02:10Oh privacy

01:02:13Yeah

01:02:14You're always

01:02:15home

01:02:16I'm always home

01:02:17Most of the times

01:02:18I think you should

01:02:20go more

01:02:21Why would she say

01:02:25something like that

01:02:26That sends off

01:02:28all signals that

01:02:29maybe she isn't

01:02:31an appreciative person

01:02:32We live this house

01:02:33on

01:02:34Yeah

01:02:35So I bet you'll be

01:02:37happy about that

01:02:38huh

01:02:38I'll be very happy

01:02:40Ooh

01:02:44Okay

01:02:45I never saw Joan

01:02:47in that type of light

01:02:48like so demanding

01:02:49I thought that was

01:02:50a little disrespectful

01:02:52Yeah

01:02:52I just couldn't believe

01:02:54that

01:02:54you had the nerve

01:02:56to tell

01:02:57his mom

01:02:58to leave her own house

01:02:59That seemed so

01:03:01out of line

01:03:02and just

01:03:03disrespectful

01:03:03I wasn't telling

01:03:04Carla

01:03:04leave your own house

01:03:05so give your own house

01:03:07to us

01:03:07When I came to the house

01:03:09she was there

01:03:10like all day

01:03:11That's her house

01:03:12You know

01:03:13bless your heart

01:03:14Colt

01:03:14I mean

01:03:15I'm Greg

01:03:16Wow

01:03:17That's a

01:03:17I'm sorry

01:03:18but look

01:03:19you created this whole situation

01:03:21I think it's

01:03:21you're being

01:03:22very unfair to your mom

01:03:23as well as Joan

01:03:25I think you

01:03:26put them in that situation

01:03:28and they're not

01:03:28at fault at all

01:03:29Lucille

01:03:31I'm your biggest fan

01:03:33You are doing your best

01:03:34Yeah

01:03:34You know

01:03:35and sometimes

01:03:36Joan

01:03:36is so ruthless

01:03:38to you

01:03:38Yeah

01:03:39Just a little difficult

01:03:41for me to get used to

01:03:42I think like

01:03:44if you guys need

01:03:45some privacy

01:03:45take her out

01:03:46to a hotel

01:03:47or motel

01:03:47sometimes

01:03:48and you know

01:03:49and do it in the car

01:03:50sometimes

01:03:51you know

01:03:51get creative

01:03:52Well you make it work

01:03:55you know

01:03:55Yeah

01:03:55It's just

01:03:56I don't see no issue

01:03:57We don't have doors

01:03:58so you know

01:03:58We get really creative

01:03:59We have to get creative

01:04:00too you know

01:04:01You two mentioned

01:04:04that you would

01:04:05like to have kids

01:04:06eventually

01:04:07Have you actively

01:04:08started trying?

01:04:10She is

01:04:11Sounds like it

01:04:12I'd say yeah

01:04:15So wait

01:04:16Does that mean

01:04:17that you two

01:04:18are not using

01:04:18protection now?

01:04:19No

01:04:20Why?

01:04:21I mean

01:04:21I wanted to

01:04:22ask them that

01:04:23Now I know

01:04:24why Lucille

01:04:25need to separate

01:04:26you and Greg

01:04:28In her culture

01:04:32they don't believe

01:04:32in contraceptics

01:04:33We do

01:04:34but

01:04:34why should we

01:04:35we married?

01:04:37What happens

01:04:38if

01:04:38you know

01:04:40she happens

01:04:40to get pregnant?

01:04:42There is a possibility

01:04:43that you two

01:04:44could get pregnant

01:04:46while living

01:04:47at Lucille's house

01:04:49Yeah

01:04:49Absolutely

01:04:51it's a very strong

01:04:52possibility

01:04:53I mean

01:04:54Joan could be pregnant

01:04:55now for all we know

01:04:56I really don't want

01:04:57to start all over again

01:04:59in the house

01:04:59raising children again

01:05:01But nothing's going to

01:05:03stop me from trying

01:05:03to get a child

01:05:04So disrespectful

01:05:06Greg

01:05:08put a roof over her head

01:05:09and quit screwing around

01:05:11Yeah

01:05:12not that I wouldn't love

01:05:13to have another grandchild

01:05:14I just don't want this

01:05:15all

01:05:15In your house

01:05:16Yeah

01:05:16all starting up again

01:05:18in the house

01:05:18So I mean

01:05:20she's doing her best

01:05:21I'm also doing my best

01:05:23But you're not

01:05:24because you just said

01:05:25I am

01:05:26You just said

01:05:27after she told you

01:05:28she's not comfortable

01:05:29with a new family

01:05:29starting in the house

01:05:30you just said that

01:05:31there's no reason

01:05:32for you to use protection

01:05:33and you're living

01:05:34in her house

01:05:34I'm not using protection

01:05:35because you're married

01:05:36What?

01:05:37He's also fine with it

01:05:38But you shouldn't

01:05:39be fine with it

01:05:39As a woman to another woman

01:05:40you shouldn't be fine

01:05:41with that

01:05:41What?

01:05:42This is her house

01:05:43You have a right to decide

01:05:44if I have to get pregnant

01:05:45or no

01:05:45That's not

01:05:47She does

01:05:47You're living in her house

01:05:49She does

01:05:50She did just say it to you

01:05:53and your response to it

01:05:54By the time I get pregnant

01:05:54I'll be out of her house

01:05:56So calm down

01:05:57Then use protection

01:06:00Calm yourself down

01:06:01Okay?

01:06:01Girl I am calm

01:06:03You look a little riled up

01:06:04Jesus

01:06:07Use protection

01:06:19while you're in her house

01:06:20I'm not

01:06:21I'll take her into it

01:06:23I think, Joanne, you're hoping

01:06:28if there's a baby

01:06:28that's going to push him

01:06:29to get out of the house

01:06:30but what if it doesn't

01:06:31and it turns to a complete nightmare

01:06:33I know you're going to move out of the house

01:06:34I trust him

01:06:35I trust his words

01:06:36so I know

01:06:36I wouldn't want to have a child in her house

01:06:40It's, I mean, I'm working 14 hour days now

01:06:42I'm stacking whatever paper we have

01:06:44you know, whatever money we can get

01:06:45Dude, I'm sorry, you're a man

01:06:47You're not a 21 year old kid

01:06:49Use that money for a down payment

01:06:51on an apartment

01:06:52He says where he works

01:06:55There's a nice trailer home park

01:06:58If you buy something like that

01:07:00to start off like a starter thing

01:07:02I said, you know, that might work

01:07:04That might be good for you

01:07:05to start off with

01:07:06Would you agree to that?

01:07:08It definitely was an option at the point

01:07:10but then I started looking at the condominiums

01:07:12and co-ops and stuff like that

01:07:13and there actually is like

01:07:14some affordable stuff out there

01:07:15so

01:07:15You start wherever is best for you

01:07:18Yeah

01:07:19But you have to start

01:07:20Absolutely, yeah

01:07:22If you want privacy

01:07:22you start wherever you can start

01:07:24You could put mirrors on the ceiling

01:07:26You could have ropes

01:07:28I mean, it would be a lot of fun

01:07:30These are ideas

01:07:34Did you ever consider moving over to Uganda?

01:07:37Well, that was the plan originally

01:07:38Yeah

01:07:38The plan originally was for us

01:07:40to actually move to Uganda

01:07:41And live there full time

01:07:42Yeah, and then COVID started happening

01:07:44and all these things

01:07:46and it was just like

01:07:46you know what?

01:07:46It's easier if she just comes here

01:07:48Yeah

01:07:48Are you still considering moving to Uganda

01:07:52at some point in the future?

01:07:53Absolutely

01:07:54Lucille, how would you feel

01:07:56if they did move to Uganda?

01:07:59I don't see myself traveling there

01:08:02The hours to get there is like

01:08:05forget about it

01:08:07But if this is where they want to be together

01:08:10I really can't stop them

01:08:11And do you feel

01:08:13do you want to be close

01:08:15if they have like babies in the future?

01:08:17Do you want to be close to them?

01:08:18Well, um

01:08:20What's important now

01:08:23maybe I could find somebody

01:08:25No, instead of worrying about

01:08:33taking care of more grandchildren

01:08:35I mean

01:08:36Now I feel like the reason

01:08:38she wants us out

01:08:39immediately

01:08:39I mean, I don't feel my life's over

01:08:42and just want to think of having grandchildren

01:08:45you know, I would like

01:08:46Your mom wants to bring a hot guy home

01:08:48How would you feel about that?

01:08:49That's her life, man

01:08:50She could do that

01:08:51She's a grown-ass woman

01:08:52She could do whatever she wants

01:08:53I totally support her

01:08:54I'm a grown-ass woman

01:08:55You're a grown-ass woman

01:08:55And then what if she tells you guys

01:08:57you're spending too much time at home

01:08:58you need to get out

01:08:59because, you know

01:08:59she got stuff to do

01:09:01Ed, are you single now?

01:09:09Or are you seeing anyone?

01:09:10I'm single

01:09:11Oh, you're single?

01:09:13You guys, it's so much

01:09:14I did not expect that

01:09:18We're going out

01:09:19I'm dating your mom

01:09:20That's why I'm here

01:09:21Oh, God

01:09:22Hey, how you going?

01:09:22You gotta get out in 30 days now

01:09:24I really gotta get out now

01:09:26for sure

01:09:26For sure

01:09:27If your mom brings Ed home

01:09:31that is one way

01:09:32to get you guys out, right?

01:09:33If you do that

01:09:34you'll be

01:09:34I'm out

01:09:35right tonight

01:09:36Hey, Greg

01:09:38do you want to see me naked?

01:09:40I already have, man

01:09:41I already have

01:09:42All right

01:09:45Lucille

01:09:46we appreciate you

01:09:47taking the time

01:09:48to be here today

01:09:49Please take care

01:09:50Thank you so much

01:09:51Thank you

01:09:52Same to you

01:09:52And Big Ed

01:09:53Yes

01:09:54Thank you for your

01:09:55spirited conversation

01:09:56It's always great to see you

01:09:57We wish you

01:09:58the very best

01:09:59Thanks for having me

01:10:00Good luck, you guys

01:10:02I hope you make it

01:10:03Thank you, Ray

01:10:03It was a pleasure

01:10:04meeting you, man

01:10:04Seriously, brother

01:10:05Thank you

01:10:06I like that suit, man

01:10:07Love you, buddy

01:10:07God bless you

01:10:08Thank you

01:10:08God bless, man

01:10:09Nice family

01:10:10Bye, Big Ed

01:10:11Love you, Mom

01:10:12I'll see you guys tonight

01:10:13I'm coming over for dinner

01:10:14Let's do it, man

01:10:15Let's do it

01:10:16All right

01:10:17Greg and Joan

01:10:18Best of luck

01:10:19achieving all of your goals

01:10:21that you have for the future

01:10:22We're excited to see

01:10:23where your journey

01:10:23takes you next

01:10:24Thank you so much

01:10:25Thank you, Sean

01:10:26Thank you

01:10:27Okay, we're gonna take

01:10:28a quick break

01:10:29and then we'll

01:10:30come back

01:10:31Oh, God

01:10:32Thank you, man

01:10:34Thank you

01:10:35Ed, Lucille

01:10:41How do you think it went?

01:10:42I like your honesty

01:10:43and your directness

01:10:45You know, it brings people out

01:10:47to talk more

01:10:48Yeah

01:10:49And I'm glad you had my back

01:10:51Anytime

01:10:51and listen

01:10:52in 90 days

01:10:53if they're not gone

01:10:54call me

01:10:54Okay

01:10:55Okay, I'll call you

01:10:56I'll call you

01:10:58Hey, I'll call you

01:10:59You're getting into

01:11:00a relationship with Big Ed?

01:11:01Don't even say that

01:11:03Oh, my God

01:11:04You look great, Mom

01:11:06I do?

01:11:06Sorry

01:11:07Sorry to get you worked up

01:11:08No, no, no

01:11:09Big Ed was making me laugh

01:11:10He's a nice car

01:11:12You know

01:11:12Yeah, all right

01:11:14So, seeing Big Ed

01:11:15next to my mom

01:11:16some sexual tension

01:11:18and my mom

01:11:18touching his shoulders

01:11:19I did not have that

01:11:21on my bingo card today

01:11:22Yeah, uh

01:11:23sexual tension with Big Ed

01:11:24Bingo

01:11:25Nah

01:11:25Totally unexpected

01:11:27We're gonna go have a drink

01:11:28Oh, we are?

01:11:30Yeah

01:11:30Oh, no

01:11:31They're taking me back

01:11:31to Rhode Island

01:11:32I mean, at the end of the day

01:11:33Listen, my mom's a grown woman

01:11:34If that's what she wants

01:11:36out of life

01:11:36I can't be mad

01:11:37I don't think Big Ed

01:11:38would be a good dad

01:11:38Hell, nah

01:11:40It's not happening

01:11:40Let's go, Ed

01:11:42Let's go

01:11:42Everything comes out

01:11:43on the teller, all right?

01:11:44Oh, yeah

01:11:45When we got into this

01:11:50it was very much

01:11:51a goal of mine

01:11:52to give Amini a dream

01:11:54to live that gay lifestyle

01:11:55Bro, you look like

01:11:57hypnotized, you know?

01:11:58What do you mean hypnotized?

01:12:00Because I want her to be happy?

01:12:01I mean, it's her fantasy, right?

01:12:03But here's the thing

01:12:03Me and her

01:12:04still haven't had sex

01:12:05just me and her

01:12:06Wait, what?

01:12:09Wow

01:12:09Four, three, two

01:12:17All right, Matt, Amini, and Ani

01:12:21it is your turn

01:12:22When a couple adds

01:12:23an extra partner

01:12:24it's not surprising

01:12:26to have extra drama

01:12:27We witnessed many highs and lows

01:12:29between the three of you

01:12:30And the last time we saw you

01:12:32it seemed like

01:12:33the relationship was over

01:12:35You guys had that big blow up

01:12:38at the airport

01:12:39Yes, yes

01:12:40It took days

01:12:41for us to figure out

01:12:42what happened

01:12:43It was tough

01:12:44Today, are you still a thruple?

01:12:52Of course

01:12:53You are

01:12:54You're back together

01:12:54We never broke up

01:12:56You never broke up

01:12:57How long were you not talking?

01:12:58We took like

01:12:59a week and a half

01:13:00of not talking

01:13:01We don't talk, maybe one month

01:13:02No, for a week

01:13:04We didn't talk for a week

01:13:04after we went back

01:13:06Or maybe two weeks

01:13:07A couple weeks

01:13:07I believe one of you

01:13:08and everything

01:13:10It took like a week

01:13:11We didn't see each other

01:13:12but it took like

01:13:13a week and a half

01:13:14for us to talk

01:13:14I did reach out to her

01:13:16via text

01:13:16and we chatted a little bit

01:13:18I also sent her flowers

01:13:19for her birthday

01:13:20She sent me flowers

01:13:22for my birthday

01:13:22It's two bouquets

01:13:23and I said

01:13:24everything is double

01:13:25when you're in a thruple

01:13:26She understands

01:13:28sometimes she's too much

01:13:30dramatic

01:13:31but

01:13:32I love her

01:13:34I am staying with her

01:13:35So

01:13:37when was the last time

01:13:39you saw each other?

01:13:40So we spent

01:13:41Christmas together

01:13:43as a family

01:13:44We spent New Year's

01:13:45together as a family

01:13:47both kids

01:13:48both parties

01:13:48the kids

01:13:49and then we did

01:13:50my daughter's birthday

01:13:51in Cancun

01:13:52and we spent that

01:13:53all together

01:13:54as a family as well

01:13:55I believe we have

01:13:56some photos

01:13:57of that trip

01:13:58Can we see those?

01:14:00Cute

01:14:00And how do you

01:14:06explain all of this

01:14:07to the kids?

01:14:10What they understand

01:14:11is love

01:14:12And we care about it

01:14:13And they know

01:14:13that Ani loves them

01:14:15and they love her so much

01:14:16and they know

01:14:17there's love

01:14:17between the three of us

01:14:19The hardest thing

01:14:20is explaining it

01:14:21to people

01:14:22when we go on

01:14:23family trips

01:14:23so they think

01:14:24she's a nanny

01:14:25or it's hard

01:14:27So talk us through

01:14:30what made you want

01:14:30to be a part

01:14:31of a throuple

01:14:32in the first place?

01:14:33When we got into this

01:14:34I mean

01:14:35it was very much

01:14:37a goal of mine

01:14:38personally

01:14:38to give

01:14:40Amini a dream

01:14:41that she's had

01:14:42since childhood

01:14:43She's always wanted

01:14:45to live that gay lifestyle

01:14:46and I wish

01:14:48that I could give it to her

01:14:49you know

01:14:50I'm not a female

01:14:51but that was

01:14:51our original goal

01:14:52Bro

01:14:53you look like

01:14:54hypnotized

01:14:55you know

01:14:55with Amini

01:14:56whatever she says

01:14:57okay

01:14:58right

01:14:58I am fully supportive

01:15:00Explain yourself

01:15:01No offense bro

01:15:02nothing bad

01:15:03I'm saying

01:15:04But what do you mean

01:15:05hypnotized

01:15:06because I want her

01:15:06to be happy?

01:15:07I mean

01:15:07it's her fantasy

01:15:08right?

01:15:09It's not a fantasy

01:15:10bisexuality

01:15:11is not a phase

01:15:12I want to be

01:15:13with women

01:15:14but I also

01:15:15love my husband

01:15:16I don't know

01:15:17how y'all

01:15:17figured this stuff out

01:15:18I'm telling you

01:15:19Amini

01:15:20we saw you

01:15:21get very upset

01:15:22once

01:15:22when Ani and Matt

01:15:23had sex without you

01:15:24So

01:15:25what are the rules?

01:15:28So

01:15:29the rules have changed

01:15:30Initially

01:15:31we're doing

01:15:31everything together

01:15:32So

01:15:33that was the first

01:15:34time I felt

01:15:35a little bit

01:15:36of jealousy

01:15:37because

01:15:37it was more

01:15:38about not being

01:15:39considered

01:15:39and

01:15:41we were like

01:15:41okay

01:15:41let's set up

01:15:42the rules

01:15:42and the rules

01:15:43are like

01:15:43for them

01:15:43to ask me

01:15:44for permission

01:15:44and

01:15:45Ani did that

01:15:46every single time

01:15:47until I felt

01:15:48like okay

01:15:49let's not

01:15:49do the permission

01:15:50anymore

01:15:51so they don't

01:15:51ask for permission

01:15:51anymore

01:15:52in fact

01:15:52it's even

01:15:53more developed

01:15:54now

01:15:54they spend

01:15:55quality time

01:15:56together

01:15:56and they have

01:15:56sex without me

01:15:57a lot

01:15:58Yeah

01:15:59it's a mess

01:16:01That's interesting

01:16:02because he said

01:16:03he was doing

01:16:04it for you

01:16:04Yes

01:16:05Um

01:16:06and

01:16:07here's the thing

01:16:08me and her

01:16:09still haven't had

01:16:09sex

01:16:09just me and her

01:16:10just so you know

01:16:11only been

01:16:15the three of us

01:16:16or just

01:16:16her and him

01:16:17Wait

01:16:18what?

01:16:20That's so bad

01:16:21I asked Amani

01:16:25a question

01:16:26and it was

01:16:26personal

01:16:27and she answered

01:16:29and I asked her

01:16:29not to tell anyone

01:16:30My priority

01:16:31and my loyalty

01:16:32is to my

01:16:33girlfriend

01:16:33But you're not

01:16:34trustworthy

01:16:35You're so

01:16:36annoying

01:16:37and you're so

01:16:38fake

01:16:38and I'm tired

01:16:39of it

01:16:39So the only

01:16:49sex that goes on

01:16:50is between

01:16:51the three of you

01:16:52or between

01:16:53Matt and Ani

01:16:54Yeah

01:16:54it seems like

01:16:55it always involves

01:16:56me

01:16:56Yeah

01:16:57Oh God

01:16:58What?

01:17:00I don't know

01:17:01Sometimes I feel like

01:17:02she's more into

01:17:03male than female

01:17:04Ani

01:17:06Do you want

01:17:08to have sex

01:17:08with Amani?

01:17:11Yes of course

01:17:12She's very

01:17:14very beautiful

01:17:14I love her

01:17:15I don't mind

01:17:17them having sex

01:17:18I love that

01:17:18they're building

01:17:19like

01:17:19relationship

01:17:20and spending

01:17:21quality time together

01:17:21in fact

01:17:22he's been going

01:17:23to see Ani

01:17:24and I can't

01:17:25go because

01:17:26of my job

01:17:27So you go

01:17:28see Ani

01:17:28by yourself

01:17:29Matt

01:17:30Wow

01:17:32Aren't you

01:17:34jealous?

01:17:36Not at this

01:17:36point

01:17:37No

01:17:37Do you love him?

01:17:38Of course I do

01:17:39Honestly

01:17:39I'm so lazy

01:17:40I work so hard

01:17:41Physically

01:17:41you are still

01:17:42passionate to him

01:17:43I do

01:17:44but my brain

01:17:45is all about

01:17:45business

01:17:46and making money

01:17:47I can't be a mom

01:17:48and a business owner

01:17:49and also

01:17:50be able to have sex

01:17:51I just can't

01:17:51do it all

01:17:52I understand

01:17:54And so

01:17:55you give a toy

01:17:56to Matt

01:17:57It's not a toy

01:17:59It's not like

01:18:00I went and

01:18:01recruited Ani

01:18:01because I'm so busy

01:18:02and I need to find

01:18:03like somebody

01:18:04to do what I can't

01:18:04do

01:18:05That's not the case

01:18:06I'm sure

01:18:07Matt

01:18:09Let me ask you this

01:18:20after plastic surgery

01:18:22What do you think

01:18:24about the way

01:18:25Amini looks now?

01:18:26You know

01:18:26I support her

01:18:27every day of my life

01:18:28no matter how

01:18:29she looks

01:18:30or what she decides

01:18:31to do

01:18:31But let's be honest

01:18:33you and Ani did say

01:18:34that I didn't have an ass

01:18:35I didn't look attractive

01:18:36Wait, wait, wait

01:18:37wait

01:18:38But I was too skinny

01:18:39Amini will always hear

01:18:40the worst of it

01:18:41We were concerned

01:18:42about her

01:18:42because she was

01:18:43not healthy anymore

01:18:44They sent me down

01:18:45like an intervention

01:18:46and they were like

01:18:46well

01:18:47you look too skinny

01:18:48It was just like

01:18:49stuck in my head

01:18:50like I need to

01:18:50change something about it

01:18:51So you had to

01:18:52impress Matt and Ani

01:18:54to do the surgeries

01:18:55No, they didn't say

01:18:57go get a surgery

01:18:58but

01:18:58they said like

01:19:00I didn't look attractive

01:19:00as I used to

01:19:01That never got mentioned

01:19:02You both said

01:19:04that I lost my ass

01:19:05That's what you presumed

01:19:07100%

01:19:08Okay, Ani

01:19:09what do you think

01:19:10about the way

01:19:10Amini looks?

01:19:14I'm so poor here

01:19:15but

01:19:16it's

01:19:17it's too much for me

01:19:19I begged her not to go

01:19:21I begged her not to

01:19:22You told her not to

01:19:22go through with it

01:19:23They don't listen

01:19:23I had five plus surgeries

01:19:26like

01:19:27my daughters would ask

01:19:28oh mommy

01:19:28why did you change your nose

01:19:30and

01:19:30I was ashamed

01:19:31to even answer them

01:19:32Well I'm sure

01:19:32especially having little girls

01:19:34Yeah

01:19:34That's hard too

01:19:35because they look like you

01:19:37and then to have to say

01:19:38no I changed

01:19:39my appearance

01:19:41because I don't feel

01:19:42I mean I guess

01:19:43you wouldn't say

01:19:43exactly that

01:19:44but you don't feel beautiful

01:19:44but they're beautiful

01:19:45you know

01:19:46I don't want anybody

01:19:47to feel that way

01:19:47especially my daughters

01:19:48To me

01:19:49plastic surgery

01:19:50is not a flex

01:19:51you're going to get it

01:19:52and then

01:19:52you're going to find

01:19:54more flaws

01:19:54and then you keep

01:19:55getting it

01:19:55and getting it

01:19:55and that's how

01:19:56you're going to end up

01:19:56with three facelifts

01:19:58and three nose jobs

01:19:59or whatever

01:20:00like

01:20:00she kind of

01:20:00but

01:20:01it seems she kind of

01:20:03is very happy

01:20:04with her results

01:20:04I mean she's done

01:20:05multiple surgeries

01:20:06oh my god

01:20:07okay

01:20:08I'm still sensing

01:20:10tension between the two of you

01:20:12what's going on

01:20:13for me I think

01:20:14Shakaina misunderstood

01:20:15that time I messaged her

01:20:16about the towel

01:20:17that's the image

01:20:18she formed about me

01:20:18and she's never going to

01:20:19change it

01:20:20I asked her a question

01:20:23and it was personal

01:20:24and she answered

01:20:26and I asked her

01:20:26not to tell anyone

01:20:27do you want to say

01:20:28what that question is

01:20:29I don't

01:20:29because I didn't want

01:20:30it exposed

01:20:31what was the question

01:20:33she asked if Ani was trans

01:20:37and told me

01:20:39not to tell Ani

01:20:39but of course

01:20:40I told her

01:20:41you're not trustworthy

01:20:42I literally asked

01:20:43my priority

01:20:44and my loyalty

01:20:45is to my girlfriend

01:20:46but are you

01:20:47is your loyalty

01:20:48to hurt her feelings

01:20:49I didn't hurt her feelings

01:20:51you did

01:20:52I'm sorry

01:20:52but why is that shameful

01:20:53if I asked any

01:20:54any woman here

01:20:55if you were trans

01:20:56would you

01:20:56would you be offended

01:20:57no because I think

01:20:59trans women are beautiful

01:21:00you clearly have a problem

01:21:02with trans people

01:21:02like that's messed up

01:21:03what

01:21:04of course

01:21:07I love the trans

01:21:07but you tell me

01:21:09I am trans

01:21:10I didn't tell you

01:21:11you were

01:21:11I asked her

01:21:12look at you

01:21:13and you make

01:21:14new surgery

01:21:14for changing your face

01:21:16you are the

01:21:17look the trans

01:21:18come on girl

01:21:19that's insane for me

01:21:22girl you are

01:21:22fired up over nothing

01:21:25you needed a crusade

01:21:26it looks like

01:21:27I gave you one

01:21:28by asking a simple question

01:21:29so now you can go off

01:21:30you're so

01:21:31annoying

01:21:32and you're so

01:21:32fake

01:21:33and I'm tired of it

01:21:34what

01:21:35next time on 90 Day Fiancé

01:21:39the couples tell all

01:21:40I was really rooting for you

01:21:42but you lost me

01:21:44when you said

01:21:44you can't take a whore

01:21:46and make her a housewife

01:21:47yeah

01:21:47you know she's working

01:21:49as an exotic dancer

01:21:50honey

01:21:51do you still dance

01:21:53no

01:21:53yeah of course

01:21:55oh my god

01:21:57to me it's a red flag

01:21:58exactly

01:21:59Juana are you getting

01:22:02a lot of DMs

01:22:03from women

01:22:04quite a bit

01:22:05quite a bit

01:22:06look at that little grin

01:22:08I mean

01:22:10they at least think

01:22:11that they're getting

01:22:12into him some way

01:22:13somehow

01:22:13which they are

01:22:14you're her best friend

01:22:17but this is our business

01:22:19you don't have anything

01:22:20to do with it

01:22:21you step aside

01:22:23bitch bye

01:22:24Jackie is here

01:22:28to give her take

01:22:29on these newlyweds

01:22:30you were the person

01:22:32you were the person

01:22:32I relied on

01:22:33to help her

01:22:34shush

01:22:36when you think about

01:22:38a marriage

01:22:38you're like

01:22:39missing a key component

01:22:40that key component

01:22:41would be

01:22:42being in love

01:22:43well the person

01:22:44that I originally

01:22:45fell in love with

01:22:46isn't next to me

01:22:47oh my god

01:22:48please welcome

01:22:53Danielle

01:22:54that's my girl

01:22:55I want to ask you

01:22:57about an online interaction

01:23:00you had with

01:23:01Shekinah

01:23:02oh

01:23:03she said that

01:23:04I was trash

01:23:05that I was hitting

01:23:06on Sarker

01:23:06what is she talking about

01:23:09you don't know

01:23:13anything about me

01:23:14she called her a bitch

01:23:15you're just listening

01:23:17to her lies

01:23:18get your husband

01:23:19this is

01:23:19shut the f*** up

01:23:20enough

01:23:21you're attacking here

01:23:22you said something

01:23:24here's the thing

01:23:24if you put your f***ing

01:23:25finger in my face again

01:23:26enough

01:23:27what do you think

01:23:27hold up

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