90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 20 - Full - video Dailymotion

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90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 20 - Full

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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiance, The Couples Tell All.

00:00:04I'm ready.

00:00:05Let's do it.

00:00:07Wyoming has made it to New York.

00:00:10I did see some cruise ships, and that

00:00:13reminded me of my own job.

00:00:14And I might run away and get on one of those boats

00:00:17and just get back to work.

00:00:19Shekinah and Sarpwork, how is married life treating you?

00:00:23We slept in separate rooms in the hotel yesterday.

00:00:29Wait a minute.

00:00:31The honeymoon was over really fast.

00:00:33And I still only have an engagement ring.

00:00:36So are we really married?

00:00:38Oh, my god.

00:00:41Sean and Aaliyah, on a scale of 1 to 10,

00:00:44how are things between you today?

00:00:47Like 8.

00:00:48That's a good number.

00:00:49But the sexual relationship is not so great.

00:00:53We're not really having sex anymore.

00:00:56Wow.

00:00:57That's a 1.

00:00:58Exactly.

00:01:02I asked a minute question, and it was personal.

00:01:05Shekinah asked if Ani was trans.

00:01:08Wait, what?

00:01:10And told me not to tell Ani.

00:01:12But of course, I told her, come on, girl.

00:01:15You're not trustworthy.

00:01:16My loyalty is to my girlfriend.

00:01:18But is your loyalty to hurt her feelings?

00:01:20I didn't hurt her feelings.

00:01:22You did.

00:01:22You needed a crusade.

00:01:23It looks like I gave you one.

00:01:25So now you can go off.

00:01:26You're so annoying, and you're so fake.

00:01:28And I'm tired of it.

00:01:30This is a show.

00:01:31You're calculated as you.

00:01:41Unbelievable.

00:01:42Unbelievable.

00:01:44It's very easy, honey.

00:01:46You need respect.

00:01:47I'm not your homie, and also, I never called you trans.

00:01:50I asked your girlfriend if you were,

00:01:54because we were talking on a personal level.

00:01:56And she took it personal, and you have to respect her feelings.

00:02:00You know what?

00:02:00Because you told her, and I asked you not to.

00:02:02I'm not going to hide that from her.

00:02:05Come on.

00:02:06I literally asked a question.

00:02:07And I'm so upset that this is even a topic.

00:02:13I did not disrespect you.

00:02:16Shut up.

00:02:17You shut up, honey.

00:02:20You're so offended by a question.

00:02:24I think if I was wondering if somebody is trans,

00:02:26I'll keep the to myself.

00:02:28OK, I want to talk something, because I'm a trans woman.

00:02:31So I can talk better than everyone here.

00:02:34For trans people, people are always

00:02:36trying to find, like, the masculinity in that person.

00:02:42For me, that means, like, oh, trans people look like men.

00:02:45It's not, like, woman enough.

00:02:47It's not feminine enough.

00:02:49So that's, like, quite a weird, like, comment.

00:02:52But do you think that was a rude question

00:02:56for Shekinah to ask a many?

00:02:59I don't think that was a rude question.

00:03:03But I don't know, like, I don't know why you're trying.

00:03:05I don't feel like it was a necessary question.

00:03:07Yeah.

00:03:08Yeah, there you go.

00:03:09Exactly.

00:03:10And this is the point.

00:03:15OK.

00:03:16Let's everybody take a breath and put this debate behind us,

00:03:19so we can get back to talking about Ani, Matt, and Ameni.

00:03:22In the midst of the group's confusion and hurt feelings,

00:03:26Matt reached out to his friend, Eric, who has also been

00:03:30in a polyamorous relationship.

00:03:32Now Eric is here to share his perspective on the group.

00:03:35Please welcome Matt's friend, Eric.

00:03:37What a cult they are.

00:03:39How are you?

00:03:40How are you?

00:03:45Good, man.

00:03:46Aw.

00:03:47Hi, Eric, how are you?

00:03:48Good, how are you doing?

00:03:49I'm fantastic.

00:03:50OK, Eric, you warned Ameni and Matt that jealousy ultimately

00:03:54broke up your thruple relationship.

00:03:57Correct.

00:03:58You've been listening to the conversation.

00:03:59Yeah.

00:04:00Do you see the same patterns in their relationship?

00:04:03You know, you're not having sex with Ani, which is interesting,

00:04:06you know, because you're in a thruple.

00:04:08Everybody's engaged, so you might have some jealousy

00:04:10and problems there.

00:04:11You know, it just can't be Matt having all the fun

00:04:13with the two girls.

00:04:14You know, the girls got to have fun with the girls and Ameni.

00:04:17You're into her, but is she into you that way?

00:04:20And that's all that goes through my head.

00:04:30I know I'm very busy in my schedule,

00:04:31but we're going to have sex this weekend.

00:04:33I'll fly out, OK?

00:04:37Being in a thruple is complicated and it's hard.

00:04:39Do you think it's worth it?

00:04:41For me, I think so.

00:04:43I promised myself to, like, always be true to myself

00:04:48and at least give this a try.

00:04:51OK, but we're hearing now that you and Ani aren't having sex alone,

00:04:56and we know you've had some pretty explosive fights.

00:05:00Let's watch.

00:05:01I just want you to make me feel that you want this,

00:05:07that you want to be with us.

00:05:09Like, do you tell people you're even in a relationship?

00:05:12Now we know.

00:05:16I am done.

00:05:17Honey.

00:05:20This is ridiculous.

00:05:21Like, you can't turn a hoe to a housewife.

00:05:24That's what the is going on.

00:05:26You're used to controlling men left and right at your job

00:05:30with your little dances.

00:05:31I don't get control.

00:05:32I see through your bull , OK?

00:05:35You can laugh all you want.

00:05:37I wish you have some self-respect.

00:05:39You have zero self-respect.

00:05:39Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.

00:05:42At least I have some self-respect.

00:05:43When I was poor, I never danced for money.

00:05:46I'd rather be homeless than to do that.

00:05:47When I'm nothing, don't work for you.

00:05:50That's what's going on.

00:05:50You don't like to be told no.

00:05:52All right, I'm not going to be able to stop this.

00:05:53You're thinking, oh, I am the queen.

00:05:59No, with me, no.

00:06:01Oh, you act like that when I'm paying.

00:06:03But when I'm not paying, it's like, oh,

00:06:07I'm controlling because it's not going.

00:06:09You are crazy.

00:06:10You're crazy.

00:06:13Bipolar, bitch.

00:06:17I'm literally shaking from watching that.

00:06:20I'm sorry.

00:06:21I remember these days.

00:06:24Oh, is it?

00:06:26It's hard.

00:06:27Who else is hard to watch?

00:06:30Yeah.

00:06:34Like, I know for me, like, the harsh language,

00:06:36I instantly shut the down.

00:06:38Like, nobody, you know what I'm saying?

00:06:39Like, that just strikes a chord that, like, nothing,

00:06:41no matter how much you apologize.

00:06:42And it's not just, like, you didn't do it just once there.

00:06:45You did it, like, two other times, I think,

00:06:47throughout the whole season.

00:06:48So it's like, what's going on that we don't see?

00:06:52What happened?

00:06:54Ani, how about you explain?

00:06:57Um, she told me she held me with my rent.

00:07:11She sent me the money in front of me,

00:07:14but I don't receive any money.

00:07:16So you were supposed to send her some money.

00:07:18How much were you supposed to send her?

00:07:20Um, I tried to send almost $4,000 that month.

00:07:24About $4,000.

00:07:25Yeah.

00:07:25You didn't get the money, Ani.

00:07:27You were upset.

00:07:28And so Ani was trying to break off the relationship

00:07:31with both you and Matt.

00:07:33Is that right?

00:07:34That's what it sounded like.

00:07:35That's what it sounded like to you.

00:07:37Yes.

00:07:37That is why I went crazy.

00:07:40So many times we fight for little things.

00:07:44I don't like the reaction.

00:07:47She's reaction is so bad.

00:07:50It came out in anger how she really feels.

00:07:53I was really rooting for you, but you lost me when you said,

00:07:58you can't take a whore and make her a housewife.

00:08:01So painful.

00:08:02So hurtful.

00:08:03You can never take that stuff back.

00:08:04And then when you doubled down on this day,

00:08:06you know she's working as an exotic dancer.

00:08:10You probably met her in that arena.

00:08:12And then you smash it in her face and then go,

00:08:14Lo, love me.

00:08:15I just had a bad day.

00:08:16I was just like, I mean, I'm shaking with all this.

00:08:20And it's not even my life.

00:08:21Just it's.

00:08:22I know my words were terrible.

00:08:24We're so hurtful.

00:08:25And even I watching this, like, I felt embarrassed that I said that stuff to her.

00:08:29And did you ask it sorry for her?

00:08:31Of course I did.

00:08:32And.

00:08:33Yes, she, she, she, she, she have a look at.

00:08:35Uh, she.

00:08:35Many times, many different ways.

00:08:38However, the money thing, she knows now she has a screenshot.

00:08:41I tried to send money five times, but my bank kept canceling it.

00:08:47Amini, how much money in total have you and Matt sent Ani?

00:08:53I don't know.

00:08:53Ani, how much do you think it is?

00:08:55I don't.

00:08:56So, I think so for a month, she sent me 2,000 in the month.

00:09:04She buy me dresses, gifts, purse, shoes, clothes for my, for my daughter, and trouble.

00:09:15Some of our troops are like 20,000 of troops.

00:09:17More than that, yeah.

00:09:18In general, she sent me money.

00:09:2160,000 maybe?

00:09:22Oh.

00:09:23I heard it's $4,000 you were going to send her.

00:09:26And when the money didn't go through, she got really mad.

00:09:29And then that's where this fight started, right?

00:09:31To me, it's a red flag.

00:09:33Look at you.

00:09:33And then that's where it's $4,000 you're going to send her to $4,000 you're going to send her to $4,000 you're going to send her to $4,000.

00:09:44It's more than you earn more than you earn a year than you earn a year than you earn a year than you earn a year.

00:09:49My love, I know what they earn a cashier.

00:09:53If you're saying that you earn so much money, she should not give you a bit of money.

00:09:58I don't ask her for money.

00:10:00Never.

00:10:02Amini, has Ani ever asked you for money?

00:10:07when she really needs it.

00:10:09At least she knows she has somebody she can count on.

00:10:12But she makes money.

00:10:13That's what she said.

00:10:14She makes money.

00:10:16I still think the issue boils down that she left

00:10:18when you said you couldn't give her money.

00:10:21Yes.

00:10:22The one time I said no, the relationship almost ended.

00:10:26Okay, who thinks there's a scam going on here

00:10:30and Ani is in this relationship just for money?

00:10:37No.

00:10:38I mean, partially.

00:10:39Really?

00:10:40I mean, mostly, yes.

00:10:41Mostly, yes.

00:10:42Yeah.

00:10:44No.

00:10:47Ameni, are you afraid to say no to Ani when it comes to money

00:10:51because you think she will leave the relationship?

00:10:58Um...

00:11:00She knows I'm a jealous person. I don't want her to go work.

00:11:07So I'm like, okay, stay then. I'll give you the money

00:11:09instead of you working.

00:11:10Do you still dance, Ani?

00:11:12No, not anymore. Not recently.

00:11:14Let's ask her.

00:11:16Yeah, of course.

00:11:17Oh, my God.

00:11:19What else is she withholding from you?

00:11:21Exactly.

00:11:22You're crying right now?

00:11:25This scares me.

00:11:27You're attacking here by your lies.

00:11:29Why are you even in this?

00:11:31Why are you commenting?

00:11:32You comment about every thing.

00:11:34If you put your finger in my face again,

00:11:37I'm not.

00:11:38Put your finger down.

00:11:39Put your finger down.

00:11:40Put your finger down.

00:11:45Ameni, let me ask you one more time.

00:11:47Are you afraid to say no to Ani when it comes to money

00:11:50because you think she will leave the relationship?

00:11:56Yes.

00:11:59I don't want to lose her.

00:12:02If she's willing to leave you just for saying no to money,

00:12:05how is that even trustworthy at all

00:12:08in any way, shape, or form?

00:12:09Because if she truly loves you,

00:12:11she would be, okay, cool.

00:12:12You don't have money to give me? Fine.

00:12:14I'll still be here. I'm not going to walk away.

00:12:20She's the gold digger.

00:12:22Ellos pueden pensar lo que ellos quieran.

00:12:24Si ella tiene miedo de eso,

00:12:26ella lo puede hablar conmigo,

00:12:28pero ella nunca me dice nada.

00:12:30It's very, very, very hard for me to talk about it,

00:12:34but that's what I feel right now.

00:12:36Like, the more I listen to this, where is love?

00:12:39It doesn't seem like there is any love there.

00:12:41It's just like a big power play.

00:12:43I don't know, people can say the same thing

00:12:44about your relationship.

00:12:45Actually, they can't.

00:12:46Oh, yeah, you're right,

00:12:47because yours is just, like, shallow.

00:12:49There's nothing in it.

00:12:50Says who? You?

00:12:51Yes.

00:12:52I've never heard anyone else say that about us.

00:12:56In the beginning of the relationship,

00:12:58did you give any promises to her

00:13:00that I will give you that amount of money every month,

00:13:03I will pay your rent?

00:13:04Oh, I promised Minimum to pay her rent,

00:13:06and I still do that to this day.

00:13:09She knows I'm a jealous person.

00:13:10I don't want her to go work,

00:13:11so I'm like, okay, stay then.

00:13:13I'll give you the money instead of you working.

00:13:15Do you still dance, Annie?

00:13:18No.

00:13:19Do you? None?

00:13:21No, not anymore, not recently.

00:13:23Let's ask her.

00:13:24Honey, do you still dance in the club?

00:13:27Yeah, of course.

00:13:29Oh, my God.

00:13:31There it is, there it is.

00:13:33She does?

00:13:34Yes, of course.

00:13:35Okay.

00:13:36You said before she's not dancing.

00:13:37She says she's dancing.

00:13:38She told Juan, he's not asking you for money.

00:13:40She told her she is asking you for money.

00:13:42So it's like these little lies,

00:13:43these little things here and there.

00:13:44What else is she withholding from you?

00:13:46You know what I'm saying?

00:13:47Exactly.

00:13:48Is she just telling you guys stuff

00:13:49just to tell you guys stuff?

00:13:51Is she really being truthful to you guys?

00:13:53I'm worried about that.

00:13:54Yeah, it's hard because it's in the back of my head.

00:13:57It's like what other things is she not telling me,

00:14:00but hopefully we'll figure it out.

00:14:03Yeah, it's all crazy.

00:14:04So are you two going to divorce?

00:14:08We've already actually hired a divorce lawyer.

00:14:13That's why I'm not wearing my ring,

00:14:14because I'm getting ready mentally to not be a wife.

00:14:21That's a huge risk.

00:14:23Don't rush it.

00:14:24Like, why don't you give it, like, two more years?

00:14:26You're willing to go ahead and get a divorce to do all this?

00:14:29Yeah, why don't you wait for that?

00:14:30It's so complicated right now.

00:14:31We do want to live under the same roof together, guys, full time.

00:14:35You've been a wife for 10 years.

00:14:37Why would you want to give that up?

00:14:39Most people give that up if they're not happy in that role.

00:14:41It's a sacrifice I'm willing to do for love.

00:14:45I love Ani.

00:14:46Yeah.

00:14:57Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, together, yeah, absolutely.

00:14:59And the threesome, yeah.

00:15:01All right.

00:15:02Well, Eric, you have been a great friend.

00:15:04Thank you for sharing your time and thoughts with us.

00:15:07Thank you so much.

00:15:08Thank you, guys.

00:15:09Thanks.

00:15:11All right, Matt, Amini, and Ani,

00:15:14this is a complicated relationship, but we wish all three of you

00:15:19the best of luck with whatever the future holds.

00:15:22Anybody want to be in a throuple?

00:15:24No?

00:15:25Not for everybody.

00:15:26It's tough.

00:15:27Okay.

00:15:28We're going to take a quick break and then we'll come back.

00:15:41Could you guys do the throuple thing?

00:15:44I couldn't, man.

00:15:45I really couldn't.

00:15:46I don't think so.

00:15:47I think so.

00:15:48It's a lot of work, man.

00:15:49Their relationships are different than, like, ours?

00:15:51Yes.

00:15:52I know.

00:15:53Yes.

00:15:54For me, it's not possible.

00:15:55I'm an impulsive woman.

00:15:57I'm very jealous.

00:15:58Me too.

00:15:59I don't bring another woman in my bed.

00:16:01I could never.

00:16:02Me too.

00:16:03I don't think so.

00:16:04I don't think so.

00:16:05I don't think so.

00:16:06Can I talk to you guys really quick?

00:16:07Can I talk before you talk, please?

00:16:11Um, Sebra, I wanted to say thank you so much for today.

00:16:15I thought you would be an asshole, but you weren't.

00:16:17You came off very supportive and you've had really valid questions, so thank you.

00:16:21I like you so much after today, actually.

00:16:23Be careful.

00:16:24She said that to me, too.

00:16:25You know, you're real catty.

00:16:26I told you not to open your mouth until I finish.

00:16:28Oh, I don't take orders from you, so you don't get to tell me not to open my mouth.

00:16:32No, you're the sourest person here.

00:16:33She is.

00:16:34That's .

00:16:35Sour apple candy.

00:16:36I really thought you was Sarpy the whole time.

00:16:38You get what you get.

00:16:39I don't know how he does it with you.

00:16:40I don't even need to be here.

00:16:41You guys have your conversation.

00:16:42Well, if you didn't open your mouth, I would have said some to you.

00:16:46She's not talking to me, I believe it.

00:16:48She's just nasty.

00:16:52Are you doing okay, Shekinah?

00:16:53No.

00:16:54them.

00:17:01them.

00:17:05She's just nasty any time she can.

00:17:06And I like women.

00:17:07I'll never put up with that .

00:17:08I'll be like, she's somebody else's problem.

00:17:10Well, she's definitely someone else's problem.

00:17:12How do you make it work with her?

00:17:13Because I try to come to her, try to like, let's talk about it.

00:17:16And then she claps.

00:17:17I mean, no.

00:17:18If you don't have something else to say, just don't say, you know?

00:17:22Female energy.

00:17:23Fence.

00:17:24She's just stubborn.

00:17:25I don't even know it.

00:17:26I cannot solve you.

00:17:27I mean, I am that experienced about girls.

00:17:29I cannot solve you.

00:17:30None of you.

00:17:31I do want to come to some type of agreement with her

00:17:32because I don't want this, like, energy and animosity.

00:17:35Like, can you just drop it?

00:17:36Can you just drop it?

00:17:37I would say sorry.

00:17:38Just say sorry.

00:17:39Because, like, I'm ready to move on from this.

00:17:41You know?

00:17:42I'm just going to tell her.

00:17:43No, don't do that.

00:17:44Don't do that.

00:17:45I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry if I offend you.

00:17:47I don't care what you want to say.

00:17:48I do not care about your fake apology.

00:17:50Please leave.

00:17:51Please shut the curtain.

00:17:52This is my dressing room.

00:17:53Please go out.

00:17:54She's butt hurt.

00:17:55It's okay, honey.

00:17:56All right.

00:17:57I tried.

00:17:58My conscience is free, so.

00:17:59All right.

00:18:00She's so immature.

00:18:01How do you make this work, Harper?

00:18:03Yeah, bro.

00:18:04Good luck.

00:18:05Good luck, Harper, bro.

00:18:06You need to stick up for me more.

00:18:07I do.

00:18:08No, you don't.

00:18:09She was telling me to shut my mouth,

00:18:10and you just stood there.

00:18:11I'm two feet away from you.

00:18:12I'm two feet away from you.

00:18:14You need to defend your wife.

00:18:16Period.

00:18:18Thank you, everybody here, for showing respect,

00:18:21and thank you for caring.

00:18:22Yeah, thank you for listening to us.

00:18:24I mean, like, I know it wasn't easy.

00:18:26Yeah.

00:18:27All of y'all's comments came from, like, like, caring.

00:18:31You know?

00:18:32Yeah.

00:18:33All right.

00:18:34We're gonna get you guys back on sale.

00:18:35I always date protective people,

00:18:37so I'm not used to this .

00:18:39Go find me, Don.

00:18:41Trouble, it's a mess.

00:18:43She kind of made a mistake.

00:18:45I warned her.

00:18:46Never text anything to any cast member that you don't know.

00:18:50But the way they came to Shekinah, it's too hard.

00:18:54You know?

00:18:55Um, she can answer, but, oh, it's so fake.

00:18:58Right.

00:18:59It's okay.

00:19:00Stand it.

00:19:04She started to say, you didn't stand up for me.

00:19:06You don't protect me.

00:19:08I didn't want involved, because if I involved,

00:19:10it could go to physical that I didn't want that.

00:19:12But it up my relationship with Shekinah.

00:19:19Here we go.

00:19:20Everybody take the seats, please.

00:19:23All right.

00:19:24Here we go, guys.

00:19:25Mmm, I wish she was here.

00:19:30In three, two...

00:19:33Hello, and welcome back.

00:19:35Before we move on, Shekinah and Sarper,

00:19:38I'm hearing that something went on backstage.

00:19:41Can you tell me what it was?

00:19:42Yeah, I mean, Armani wanted to talk to...

00:19:45It's Emeni.

00:19:46What?

00:19:47It's Emeni.

00:19:48Emeni wanted to talk to us,

00:19:50and so we gave her, you know, the opportunity to speak,

00:19:55and she started out by telling me to keep my mouth shut

00:19:58until she found a thing.

00:19:59No, I said, please let me finish.

00:20:00Can I please finish?

00:20:02And so she started talking,

00:20:05and she was directing her entire focus to Sarper,

00:20:08complimenting him, how great he is,

00:20:10thank you so much for your support, blah, blah, blah.

00:20:12And I was thinking, why am I standing here?

00:20:14Like, she just wants to talk to Sarper,

00:20:16so I excused myself.

00:20:17And, you know, then I heard the insult start,

00:20:21that she had a lot of things to say about me that was negative.

00:20:24If you waited a little bit, I was going to also talk to you as well.

00:20:27But, you know, you threw a fit, went into your...

00:20:30I did not throw a fit at all.

00:20:31You threw a fit a lot.

00:20:33I excused myself.

00:20:34More than my four-year-old.

00:20:35I said, this conversation is for you too.

00:20:36I don't know how you're patient with this.

00:20:37Please don't take everything personal.

00:20:39We're not a high school.

00:20:43Unbelievable.

00:20:44Let's do like this.

00:20:46Let's ignore each other,

00:20:47because there is no way that you can get along.

00:20:50Do not communicate.

00:20:52Yeah, but I feel like, Sarper,

00:20:54you're not protecting me,

00:20:55and you promised to defend me.

00:20:57Yeah, I know.

00:20:58I'm aware of this.

00:20:59In every fight that we have,

00:21:01you always said you don't...

00:21:03you didn't keep promises.

00:21:04Also, you don't care about my feelings

00:21:06when I'm telling you I'm hurt or something like that.

00:21:08I know, okay, let me tell it.

00:21:09You get angry at me.

00:21:10I told you something.

00:21:13I keep promises because I love you.

00:21:15I love you.

00:21:17Yes, look.

00:21:20Okay, you're scared.

00:21:21You're scared of me a little.

00:21:22Do you believe me?

00:21:23I just want to give you something.

00:21:28What?

00:21:30What is happening?

00:21:32What the heck is going on?

00:21:36Megan, you threatened to ruin Juan's life.

00:21:41Does that threat still stand?

00:21:45Absolutely.

00:21:46Forever.

00:21:47Yeah.

00:21:48Yeah.

00:21:49This is our business.

00:21:50You step aside.

00:21:52No.

00:21:53Bitch, bye.

00:21:54What is happening?

00:21:59What?

00:22:00I hope you like it.

00:22:01Whoa.

00:22:02Oh, my God.

00:22:03What is this?

00:22:04Wait, this is not just a wedding band.

00:22:05This is a wedding ring and wedding band as you wished.

00:22:06Good job, man.

00:22:07Wow.

00:22:08Good job, Serper.

00:22:09Aw.

00:22:10Come on, man.

00:22:11That looks so pretty.

00:22:12That is amazing.

00:22:13This is so pretty.

00:22:14Yes, this is half of my savings in Turkey.

00:22:16And don't say that I don't keep my promises.

00:22:18Yeah, here's tip.

00:22:19He's from.

00:22:20Oh, my God.

00:22:21Oh, my God.

00:22:22Oh, my God.

00:22:23What is this?

00:22:24Wait, this is not just a wedding band.

00:22:25This is a wedding ring and wedding band as you wished.

00:22:26Good job, man.

00:22:27Wow.

00:22:28Good job, Serper.

00:22:29Aw.

00:22:30Come on, man.

00:22:31That looks so pretty.

00:22:32That is amazing.

00:22:33This is so pretty.

00:22:34Yes, this is half of my savings in Turkey.

00:22:36Aw.

00:22:38And don't say that I don't keep my promises.

00:22:41Aw.

00:22:43Yeah, here's tip.

00:22:44His promise.

00:22:45Aw.

00:22:47Listen, I haven't seen no love between y'all two until just now.

00:22:51That's a beautiful thing.

00:22:52Congratulations, guys.

00:22:53Let's see Shekinah.

00:22:55So pretty.

00:22:56Can you, like, spin it this way?

00:22:58I know.

00:22:59Show that.

00:23:01This is huge.

00:23:02What the hell?

00:23:03Don't show me.

00:23:04It hurts.

00:23:06It really hurts.

00:23:07Oh, my God.

00:23:08I guess I'll stay married to him.

00:23:10I mean, like, until the next problem.

00:23:16Well, Shekinah and Serper, that certainly was a surprise.

00:23:21A big, sparkly one.

00:23:22I did.

00:23:23And this is your witness.

00:23:24Please, guys.

00:23:25All right.

00:23:26Congratulations.

00:23:27Thanks so much.

00:23:28Congratulations, guys.

00:23:31Okay, let's take a five-minute break to give Shekinah and Serper a chance to savor this

00:23:36moment.

00:23:37Everybody can stretch their legs.

00:23:41Congratulations.

00:23:43You guys get a ring?

00:23:44Good job.

00:23:45That's so beautiful.

00:23:47It's so pretty.

00:23:48I'm, I'm like shaking and I'm, can't believe it.

00:23:53It's giant.

00:23:55One more rings.

00:23:56Okay.

00:23:57I don't need any more rings after this ring.

00:23:58You are my precious.

00:23:59This is the ultimate ring.

00:24:00Precious.

00:24:01Oh, my God, babe.

00:24:02Do you, do you get the joke?

00:24:03Yes, I get the joke.

00:24:04Lord of the Rings.

00:24:05Yes.

00:24:06Come, come, come.

00:24:09Be like this with me.

00:24:10I mean, I do everything for you.

00:24:11Be sweet to me.

00:24:12I'll be sweet to you.

00:24:13Okay, I'll do everything for you.

00:24:14I love you, babe.

00:24:17I love you, too.

00:24:20Welcome to the show.

00:24:21Back to set.

00:24:32Let's move on now to Jessica and Juan.

00:24:35You ready?

00:24:36Let's do it.

00:24:37First of all, how is little David doing and the boys?

00:24:40They're doing good.

00:24:41They're all growing up so fast.

00:24:43David's almost two.

00:24:45Wow.

00:24:46Dawson's really big into sports, so he keeps all of us going.

00:24:50And Dayton got a horse.

00:24:51Oh, okay.

00:24:52Yeah.

00:24:53So technically we all got a horse.

00:24:55She's lovely, though.

00:24:56That's Tess.

00:25:00Juan, Wyoming seems like a beautiful scenic place.

00:25:04How are you settling in?

00:25:06It's tough.

00:25:08It's been tough on my mind, and economy-wise, my life is like falling apart.

00:25:15Back home in Colombia, I was investing in real estate.

00:25:20I was building apartments.

00:25:22I don't have money to finance the construction no more.

00:25:25Wow.

00:25:26Are you in debt?

00:25:27Yeah, I'm in debt.

00:25:28How much are you in debt?

00:25:30I don't even want to look at it right.

00:25:31Oh, wow.

00:25:32I am happy to help him, but he's independent and does not want...

00:25:37I don't really want her to pay for my stuff.

00:25:39My help?

00:25:40How much I understand, you know?

00:25:41I don't want any of that.

00:25:42So you have your work papers?

00:25:44Yeah, he has his green card.

00:25:45I got my green card.

00:25:46What have you been doing?

00:25:47I've been finding small jobs like delivering and stuff like that.

00:25:52It's been hard finding a job that I like.

00:25:57We saw you get in touch with your cruise ship boss.

00:26:00Are you considering going back to work on the ship?

00:26:03We talk about it.

00:26:05It's our last resort option.

00:26:07Yeah.

00:26:08Typically his contracts are like six to eight months.

00:26:10Whoa.

00:26:11So he'd be gone and then he gets like two months home.

00:26:13And so that's why I say it's the last resort.

00:26:16I mean, it's your dream job that you always wanted.

00:26:19You know, I'm a pilot.

00:26:21It would be hard for me to leave.

00:26:22It's something I worked so hard to get.

00:26:24So I understand him not being able to take another job right away.

00:26:28How difficult that is.

00:26:29Not having that anymore is being hard on me.

00:26:32Yeah.

00:26:33Let's continue this conversation.

00:26:35We have a 90-dayer here who has watched Jess and Juan's journey very closely

00:26:41and has a lot to say about their relationship.

00:26:44Please welcome Danielle.

00:26:47Here we are.

00:26:48Oh my God.

00:26:49That's my girl.

00:26:51Fellow paradise.

00:26:53And we're like matching.

00:26:54Our dresses are so similar.

00:26:55Same dress.

00:26:56They're the same dress.

00:26:57Yeah.

00:26:58Wow.

00:26:59Hi Danielle.

00:27:00Good to see you.

00:27:01Good to see you, Sean.

00:27:02You come from a similar background.

00:27:03Yeah.

00:27:04And cheating was a big issue in their relationship and yours too.

00:27:09I see a lot of myself and my relationship with Johan in them.

00:27:13I think, you know, the nature of being in the hospitality industry requires you to be very charming

00:27:19and to get along with everyone and flared a little bit.

00:27:22I was a bartender once.

00:27:23I know what that's like.

00:27:24Um, but I think when you're in a committed relationship and you have a child with someone

00:27:29and you're married, it creates a lot of problems.

00:27:33We went through this journey with you, with your relationship with Johan.

00:27:38Last you and I saw each other, you guys were done kaputs.

00:27:43Are you back together?

00:27:44Yeah.

00:27:45Let me tell you, I am shocked.

00:27:48Me too.

00:27:49But all I ever wanted from him was acknowledgement and being like, yeah, I did this and I hurt you and I'm sorry.

00:27:56And once I was able to get that from him, I was able to move on.

00:28:01Well, we're excited to hear more from you, Danielle.

00:28:04But first, I want to add another strong voice into the mix.

00:28:07Jess's friend, Megan, is very protective of her and her unwavering support has sometimes led to combative encounters with Juan.

00:28:16Has Megan backed off since they got married?

00:28:19Let's find out.

00:28:20Please welcome Jess's friend, Megan.

00:28:22Meg!

00:28:24Hi, Megan.

00:28:25Hi, hi, hi, hi.

00:28:30Juan, did you say hi to Megan?

00:28:32Hi, Megan.

00:28:33Hi, Juan.

00:28:34Megan, you threatened to ruin Juan's life.

00:28:39Does that threat still stand?

00:28:41Absolutely.

00:28:42Forever.

00:28:43It does.

00:28:44Yeah.

00:28:45I don't find it cool.

00:28:46You're her best friend, and I understand you are overprotective.

00:28:50But this is our business.

00:28:52And if someone has to ruin my life, it has to be her.

00:28:57Because she's the one getting hurt.

00:28:59You don't have anything to do with it.

00:29:02Step aside.

00:29:03And just let us be.

00:29:06I mean, no.

00:29:07Bitch, bye.

00:29:08Danielle and Shekinah, do either of you feel that you owe the other an apology?

00:29:19Hell the no.

00:29:20Absolutely not.

00:29:21Shekinah, I'm telling you, you have too many haters.

00:29:26I don't know how I got so many people so riled up.

00:29:30How are you a victim?

00:29:31Because you're attacking here, but you're lying.

00:29:34Girl, get your husband.

00:29:35This is Shekinah.

00:29:36We weren't talking about our own experiences.

00:29:38You said .

00:29:39Put your finger in my face again.

00:29:40Enough.

00:29:47Step aside.

00:29:48And just let us be.

00:29:53No.

00:29:54Bitch, bye.

00:29:55Okay.

00:29:59Wow.

00:30:00Try to look at it from his perspective.

00:30:02I understand you want to be supportive to your best friend.

00:30:04But Juan has nobody here.

00:30:06No support system.

00:30:07Nothing.

00:30:08And it's like, it feels like you're just ganging up on him.

00:30:10Juan, do you think Megan and Jessica are too close?

00:30:14They are definitely too close.

00:30:17Okay.

00:30:18But Jessica, do you like that Megan is so protective of you?

00:30:21I appreciate that it comes from a good place.

00:30:24But I don't need her to protect me.

00:30:26I'm a grown woman.

00:30:27Well, we definitely saw Megan's protective side come out when she learned about Juan's infidelity.

00:30:35Let's take a look.

00:30:37So you know probably what's coming.

00:30:39But it's because you haven't answered my questions yet.

00:30:43When Juan was on his last cruise, he had allegedly cheated with a woman.

00:30:52Did you sleep with that girl?

00:30:57No, I didn't.

00:31:00It's taken a year for you to admit this to me, Juan, when I confronted you in Columbia a year ago.

00:31:06My bad.

00:31:08Yeah.

00:31:09My bad.

00:31:11So, I mean, I do want to say, like, I did know this.

00:31:13Like, at that time, I was not in my best place either.

00:31:17The same time that Juan was feeling weak in our relationship, I found myself kind of catching feelings for, like, an ex-boyfriend.

00:31:24He even asked me about that guy, like, do you have feelings for this guy?

00:31:27I mean, he was your ex-boyfriend.

00:31:29But...

00:31:30But what?

00:31:33Yeah.

00:31:37Whoa.

00:31:38I felt our relationship being disconnected, and we both felt that.

00:31:45Distance was really hard on us.

00:31:48And then, obviously, we both had weak points.

00:31:51You know, he physically cheated, I emotionally cheated.

00:31:54For me, like, regardless of whether she emotionally cheated or physically cheated, if she lied to him, that's the betrayal.

00:32:01That's the betrayal.

00:32:02It's the lie.

00:32:03It's not about what you do.

00:32:04It's, can I trust the words that come out of your mouth?

00:32:07But it is different.

00:32:08I mean, he physically cheated on her, actually, literally a week after we went on the cruise for her bachelorette party.

00:32:17So, I mean, that's, like, a problem, right?

00:32:19Like, that's a problem.

00:32:20I'm sorry.

00:32:21But I didn't understand why Megan was crying so much like she's part of the relationship.

00:32:28That's...

00:32:29You're not the...

00:32:30Oh, no.

00:32:31I mean, it was...

00:32:32They cheated on you.

00:32:34Last time I checked, she's the wife.

00:32:36I mean, I've been a part of the relationship since literal day one when we met Juan.

00:32:41And, I mean, I was holding the phone when David was born.

00:32:43Like, I was holding Juan's face so he could watch his birth of his child.

00:32:46Like, I'm that friend.

00:32:48Like, I've been in it.

00:32:49So, I think it was just more emotional.

00:32:51And the fact that they had lied to me.

00:32:53Which one's lie affected you more emotionally?

00:32:56Jessica's.

00:32:57It just hurt me because I never thought that she would, like, hold that for me.

00:33:00Like, at least just tell me.

00:33:01Like, friggin' tell me.

00:33:02So, why do you think she chose to not tell you?

00:33:05I don't know.

00:33:06Their relationship has to be more important to each of them than either of their relationship with you.

00:33:13And that's gonna be hard for you to swallow.

00:33:15But, like, he's more important to her than you are.

00:33:18He's the father of her kid.

00:33:22They're like sisters, though.

00:33:23They behave like sisters, not like friends.

00:33:25And I have three.

00:33:26And if it was my sister, I would've thrown a glass at him.

00:33:29Thank you, Stevie.

00:33:31I feel like if I can really trust my friend and they're my best friend and, like, my right hand, there is nothing I don't tell them.

00:33:37Right.

00:33:38So if she doesn't tell you, it's because she feels like you're gonna judge Juan and you're gonna up their relationship.

00:33:44I mean, yeah, partially probably that. Like, I'm trying to protect him. I'm also trying to protect her.

00:33:48Okay, so, Megan, what do you think about Juan's work situation?

00:33:52That could be a little bit better because my husband and I were both references for him.

00:33:58Like, they'll send us a referral because Jess applied him for the job and then me and my husband send in, like, a really positive referral.

00:34:04Like, yeah, hire this guy. He's a great work ethic. He's like, I don't want that job.

00:34:08What?

00:34:12To the best of your knowledge, how many jobs has Juan said, eh, no, I don't, I'm not interested?

00:34:20How many jobs has he turned down?

00:34:22I mean...

00:34:2650, maybe?

00:34:2850?

00:34:29I mean, that he's actually, like, turned down, like, where they've reached out, I'd say probably, like, five.

00:34:34How is there that many places in your town to apply to?

00:34:37I mean, there's, like, smaller communities nearby.

00:34:39Yeah, like, even Nebraska's only, like, 30, 45 minutes away.

00:34:4245 minutes, you have to...

00:34:43Like, he could go work there at a car dealership and sell so many cars.

00:34:46Why are you staying in Wyoming?

00:34:49So...

00:34:50That's a good question.

00:34:51I mean, I will answer that happily.

00:34:52I mean, every...

00:34:54Someone has to lose something.

00:34:56Someone has to sacrifice.

00:34:57I mean, we have my kids, my boys.

00:34:59They're with me four days, they're with their dad three days.

00:35:02I'm open to moving and time.

00:35:05Juan, what do you want to do?

00:35:08Work on a cruise.

00:35:09I would really like to ask Juan.

00:35:11My...

00:35:12My dream job has been the cruise ship.

00:35:14Yeah.

00:35:15So you really want to work on the cruise ship.

00:35:17So your wife and her friend are applying for all these jobs that you don't want.

00:35:22You want to work on a cruise ship.

00:35:23Why are we talking about anything else than Juan working on a cruise ship?

00:35:26I mean, you can talk.

00:35:27You can explain yourself.

00:35:28I mean, even the jobs we apply for, even the car selling thing.

00:35:30They never call me back.

00:35:31They say not to me.

00:35:32Let's talk about the cruise ship.

00:35:33Let's talk about why can't you do the cruise ship?

00:35:35From your opinion...

00:35:36The only problem about the cruise ship is leaving my son.

00:35:39For six months?

00:35:40Yeah.

00:35:41I'm sticking to this place because of him.

00:35:43And there's no other reason.

00:35:45I don't know.

00:35:46He sits there and says, the only reason I'm here is because of David.

00:35:49Like, you should have said, the only reason I'm here is because of David and Jessica.

00:35:52Like, I want to be here for my wife.

00:35:53That's not your business.

00:35:54That's for her to get married.

00:35:55That's what I'm saying.

00:35:56She doesn't get married.

00:35:57She just lets him text him.

00:35:58That's her business.

00:35:59Yeah.

00:36:00I mean, I agree.

00:36:01Juan, how much do you make in tips on a cruise ship?

00:36:05Probably, in a good day, probably $900.

00:36:08Just in tips?

00:36:09Just in tips.

00:36:10Oh.

00:36:11Bravo.

00:36:12Because he's so cute.

00:36:15Speaking of that, Juan, we've heard you get a lot of attention online.

00:36:20Are you getting a lot of DMs from women?

00:36:25Quite a bit.

00:36:26Quite a bit?

00:36:28Look at that little grin.

00:36:31Juan, do you respond to the women?

00:36:35Sometimes.

00:36:36That's wild.

00:36:39Why do you respond?

00:36:40Mm-hmm.

00:36:41You should just...

00:36:42I'm a nice person.

00:36:43No, that's not being nice.

00:36:45You should just not respond.

00:36:47It's different responding to someone that says,

00:36:49Oh, I love you guys.

00:36:50You're my favorite couple.

00:36:51Couple, yeah.

00:36:52Then, hey, I want to screw you.

00:36:53Leave your wife.

00:36:54That's a problem.

00:36:55But has anybody said that to you, Juan?

00:36:56That they want to screw you to leave your wife?

00:36:58Yes.

00:36:59And that they made $20 an hour.

00:37:01Like, Jess makes $100.

00:37:02You too.

00:37:04Well, she has my social media in her phone.

00:37:09He was the one that came up with that, by the way.

00:37:11Let's be clear.

00:37:12Well, when we went through the cheating type of thing, and we were talking these things over

00:37:17and trying to work everything out, I proposed her to give her my Instagram profile.

00:37:23Johan did the same thing with me.

00:37:25I always had control over his Instagram.

00:37:28When you deal with infidelity, it puts everything you do into question.

00:37:31And so it could be like, yeah, well, she has control of my Instagram,

00:37:34but you have some other way of communicating with people that you meet.

00:37:37Mm-hmm.

00:37:38So anytime someone's reaching out to you, ignore it.

00:37:41You don't have to be nice to anybody.

00:37:43The only person that you need to be nice to is your wife.

00:37:46Is there something I tell him?

00:37:48When girls inbox him, he replies.

00:37:50I'm like, don't.

00:37:51I reply to everybody, men, women, I mean, whoever.

00:37:54That's who I am.

00:37:55I don't give a what these people say.

00:37:56No, stop.

00:37:58Megan, thank you so much for being such a good friend to Jessica and for spending time with us.

00:38:03Thank you for having me.

00:38:04Thank you so much. Take care.

00:38:08Jessica and Juan, thank you for being so open and honest with us.

00:38:12Best of luck navigating whatever the future holds.

00:38:16All right, and Danielle, before I let you go,

00:38:20I want to ask you about an online interaction you had with Shekinah.

00:38:27What happened?

00:38:28Another one?

00:38:29There have been a few.

00:38:31Okay, what has it been about?

00:38:34Oh, my God.

00:38:35I think the first time I had an interaction with Shekinah online,

00:38:39she had suggested that I reached out to Sarper before the tell-all and wished him luck and didn't reach out to her, which was not accurate.

00:38:47She did message Sarper and not me.

00:38:49Please.

00:38:50Nothing is ever going to come out of my mouth that I don't have evidence for.

00:38:53We also have evidence.

00:38:54You're right.

00:38:55You're right.

00:38:56Let them talk.

00:38:57You spoke.

00:38:58You sent a DM to.

00:38:59You're right.

00:39:00Let them talk.

00:39:01You're right.

00:39:02Let them talk.

00:39:03Matt.

00:39:04You're not.

00:39:05Nobody's talking to you, Matt.

00:39:06Shut up.

00:39:07You're always interrupting everyone, Matt.

00:39:08You interrupted me.

00:39:09I was literally in the middle of speaking.

00:39:10Okay, Danielle.

00:39:11You need to be less rude, Shekinah.

00:39:13She's literally lying about me.

00:39:15I have a right to defend myself.

00:39:16It's her perspective.

00:39:17Shut up, Imani.

00:39:18Nobody's talking to you.

00:39:19Do not talk to people like they need to shut up.

00:39:21You need to behave inside your hollow.

00:39:24There's nothing.

00:39:25You're shallow.

00:39:26Shallow as a puddle.

00:39:27Period.

00:39:28Yo, she always brings the New York out of me.

00:39:30She's so rude.

00:39:31Always.

00:39:32Always.

00:39:33Whatever.

00:39:34I don't even care.

00:39:35Okay, Danielle, go ahead.

00:39:36So what happened?

00:39:37So what actually happened, I said, I'm really sorry.

00:39:40I'm really sorry about the tell-all.

00:39:42I wish you and Shekinah both the best.

00:39:44And that was literally the whole thing.

00:39:46It was after the filming of that day.

00:39:48It was not before.

00:39:49And then she does these, like, press interviews

00:39:51that she probably pays for.

00:39:52Oh, my God.

00:39:53Ugh.

00:39:54Oh, my God.

00:39:55What is she talking about?

00:39:57Yeah.

00:39:58And she says these things that are not true.

00:40:01Ugh.

00:40:02Wow.

00:40:03She said that I was trash.

00:40:05I was for the streets.

00:40:07That I was hitting on Sarpra.

00:40:08I don't think you should have called her trash

00:40:11and all these things.

00:40:12Like, that's...

00:40:13You should have heard what she was saying about me online.

00:40:15She said that I pay for bots

00:40:17to put mean messages on her Instagram.

00:40:19People are mean to you because you're a nasty person.

00:40:22She's desperate.

00:40:23Nobody is paying for bots to send nasty comments to you.

00:40:25You're getting them all by yourself from real people.

00:40:27I'm not desperate because I don't have to work out of my house.

00:40:31You are a desperate girl.

00:40:34Your opinions are out of line

00:40:35because you're commenting on things you know nothing about.

00:40:38So are you.

00:40:39You do that, too.

00:40:40What makes my opinions out of line

00:40:41but your opinions are within the lines?

00:40:43Because you just accused us of paying for interviews.

00:40:46That's insane.

00:40:48Shekinah, Danielle, do either of you feel that you owe the other an apology?

00:40:56Hell the no.

00:40:58Absolutely not.

00:40:59No way.

00:41:02Okay.

00:41:04Danielle.

00:41:05Yes.

00:41:06It's great seeing you again.

00:41:07Thank you for stopping by.

00:41:08Thank you so much.

00:41:09To share your unfiltered opinions.

00:41:12Thank you very much.

00:41:14Bye-bye. Take care.

00:41:15We're glad to see you leave.

00:41:16Bye-bye.

00:41:18Okay, everybody.

00:41:19We're gonna take a break.

00:41:20Yeah.

00:41:21Oh, my God.

00:41:23Crazy bitch.

00:41:24Day of reckoning.

00:41:25I've survived.

00:41:28Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:41:30Yeah.

00:41:31Shekinah, I'm telling you, you have too many haters.

00:41:36Yes, I don't understand it.

00:41:38It's all shocking to me.

00:41:40Oh.

00:41:42Danielle, like, I know she wants attention,

00:41:44and the lies that she comes up with about me,

00:41:47I mean, today was just, like, mind-blowing.

00:41:49Hi!

00:41:50I'm a fan.

00:41:51Yo, what's up?

00:41:52I wanna say, I think there's a lot of fake people in here,

00:41:54but you are just real to yourself, say it how it is,

00:41:57and I'm just like that, so...

00:41:59Thank you, yeah.

00:42:00It's a New York thing, I think.

00:42:01Yeah, exactly.

00:42:03Danielle was attacking Shikana.

00:42:05She was just mentioning every single thing

00:42:07that she's jealous of,

00:42:09and there were four people attacking her.

00:42:11Did she think she was getting ganged up on?

00:42:13Yeah, like, and I hate the lying.

00:42:15I don't know what happened,

00:42:16but one thing that I know

00:42:17is that she was lying

00:42:18that she was paying for those interviews,

00:42:21and it's sad to see, like,

00:42:22somebody is manipulating everyone

00:42:24and nobody's talking about her.

00:42:25I'm not a really confrontational person,

00:42:29but some things really bother me,

00:42:31and one of them is, like, lying.

00:42:33I hate lying and lawyers.

00:42:35I can't just see that lie and just be quiet.

00:42:38Your mom is like every single lady I know in Long Island.

00:42:42Every single...

00:42:43Like, she's not the only one...

00:42:44Danielle, I got a question for you.

00:42:47Sure.

00:42:48You said she kind of pays for those interviews.

00:42:50No, she said she didn't know if she pays for them.

00:42:52That's not what she said.

00:42:53That's not what she said.

00:42:54That's not what she said.

00:42:55I'm not talking to you, first of all.

00:42:56I'm gonna defend her, though.

00:42:57I'm gonna defend her.

00:42:58If you're a man approaching a woman,

00:42:59I'm gonna defend her.

00:43:01He asked a question.

00:43:02Okay.

00:43:03So anybody who works in L.A.

00:43:05who understands how this works,

00:43:07knows the deal.

00:43:08I actually don't know what she pays for

00:43:10and what she doesn't.

00:43:11And you're assuming?

00:43:12I have no idea.

00:43:13I have no idea.

00:43:14Okay, so if you have no idea,

00:43:15why are you manipulating me?

00:43:16Why are you so pissed?

00:43:17I'm just saying,

00:43:18what is your reason that you said that?

00:43:20Because Shekinah presents as the kind of person

00:43:23that wants to put herself into anything,

00:43:26and she also fights with people

00:43:28who don't really deserve it.

00:43:30She gets on stage,

00:43:31she comes for every girl,

00:43:32and she's nasty,

00:43:33and I've seen it too many times,

00:43:35and I have to open my mouth.

00:43:36Okay, okay, okay.

00:43:37You are over the top.

00:43:38No, no, no.

00:43:39I'm hearing that.

00:43:40You are over the top.

00:43:41One minute, one minute.

00:43:42Okay.

00:43:43My sentence,

00:43:44hold up.

00:43:45My sentence is exactly like yours.

00:43:47She's the most hated girl.

00:43:49I'm not a mean girl.

00:43:50I do teach yoga and meditation,

00:43:52but one of the things that is really important to me

00:43:54is that I'm honest,

00:43:55and she's a bitch.

00:43:57Can I tell you something?

00:44:04You're a complete liar.

00:44:06But this scares me, okay?

00:44:08I'm nervous as right now.

00:44:09This is the thing you're crying about right now?

00:44:12I have never seen you shed a tear.

00:44:14How are you a victim?

00:44:16Because you're attacking here by your lies.

00:44:19He is getting more attention,

00:44:20and you wanted it,

00:44:21and you lied about it.

00:44:22Why are you even in this?

00:44:24Why are you commenting?

00:44:25Okay, I'm sorry.

00:44:26Girl, get your husband.

00:44:27This is a girl.

00:44:28Seriously.

00:44:29You commented about every thing in the hotel.

00:44:32Shut the up.

00:44:34Stop pretending to be whistling.

00:44:36I don't have a problem with you

00:44:37until you interrupt everybody.

00:44:39Shut up.

00:44:40We weren't talking about our own experiences.

00:44:42Hold up.

00:44:43You said something.

00:44:44Here's the thing.

00:44:45If you put your finger in my face again,

00:44:47enough.

00:44:48Put your finger down.

00:44:49Put your finger down.

00:44:50Put your finger down.

00:44:55You said something.

00:44:56Here's the thing.

00:44:57Just pick your finger in my face again.

00:44:58Enough.

00:44:59I'm not.

00:45:00Put your finger down.

00:45:01Put your finger down.

00:45:02Put your finger down.

00:45:03Put your finger down.

00:45:04Put your finger down.

00:45:05Just pick away from her.

00:45:06No, no, no.

00:45:07You teach meditation and you act like that?

00:45:10You lied and you need to apologize.

00:45:12You know, literally.

00:45:13You need to apologize.

00:45:14You need to apologize.

00:45:16Enough.

00:45:17Enough.

00:45:18Enough.

00:45:19Enough.

00:45:20Enough.

00:45:21She calls her a bitch.

00:45:22I can never call her a bitch.

00:45:23You're just listening to her lies.

00:45:24I'm not listening to anything you say

00:45:25because your hell is disrespectful.

00:45:27He was being resentful until everyone started screaming.

00:45:30This looks like a circus.

00:45:32I was like, oh, no.

00:45:33I don't need to waste my time.

00:45:34I just want to have my food because I'm hungry.

00:45:37Get her out of here.

00:45:38Get her out of here.

00:45:39I'm leaving the building if you don't get that bitch out.

00:45:42That's it.

00:45:43I'm done.

00:45:43Thank you so much for lying, and we know who's a liar here.

00:45:46You have no business in this period.

00:45:48You don't have business in everyone's conversation.

00:45:50It is exactly what you just did right now.

00:45:52You both are trying to be political as f***ing.

00:45:54Getting in that.

00:45:55Oh, look at us.

00:45:56You're doing the same f***ing technique.

00:46:00I hate lying.

00:46:01I know.

00:46:03Daniel, Dathropo, they were all coming at Shekinah.

00:46:06Unfortunately, I really couldn't help calling them out.

00:46:09I don't start f***ing, but I can finish it,

00:46:11and that's exactly what I was trying to do.

00:46:14All right, guys, this has been fun.

00:46:15I always like to tell all that I've got to get out of here.

00:46:18Nice meeting all of you.

00:46:21Shekinah has a history of not being a girl's girl.

00:46:24I don't think it's possible to know the real Shekinah.

00:46:26I think there are so many layers of plastic laid over her real personality

00:46:31that it's hard to figure out who she really is.

00:46:33Oh, you know, I cannot believe everything that they said.

00:46:37I know.

00:46:39I mean, she made a research about you, whatever you said, all things.

00:46:43Yeah, that took some reason.

00:46:44And she found something and she came with it.

00:46:47She made a lift.

00:46:48Oh, my God.

00:46:49I never saw such a cleaner.

00:46:50Me neither.

00:46:50And she hosts meditating retreats.

00:46:55I felt like I could knock it up and go to the bathroom.

00:46:57All right, yeah, I got to pee so bad, man.

00:46:59This one's screaming at this one.

00:47:01She's yelling at her.

00:47:02I don't know what the f*** is going on.

00:47:03It was crazy.

00:47:05This just became too toxic already.

00:47:07Like, I never wanted this to escalate this way.

00:47:09Like, this just got so ugly.

00:47:12There was a lot of really hostile moments.

00:47:15I don't know how I got so many people so riled up.

00:47:21I don't want to listen to them anymore.

00:47:23Me either.

00:47:26Okay.

00:47:31Snake, snake, snake, snake, snake.

00:47:33You, snake, snake.

00:47:34Everyone, snake.

00:47:36Look how they all switch back like it's nothing.

00:47:42Here we go.

00:47:43Five, five, four, three, two.

00:47:48Let's move over to Mark and Mina.

00:47:51While it was very hard to not have her son Clayton attend the wedding in person,

00:47:56Mark and Mina made it to the altar and got to celebrate their happily ever after.

00:48:01So, how is life now after that very special day?

00:48:05Let's get right to it.

00:48:06Mark and Mina, are you ready?

00:48:08Yes.

00:48:08Okay, good.

00:48:09Mina, we learned earlier that you now spend most of your time

00:48:12in Boston instead of New Hampshire.

00:48:15So, you're liking Boston better than New Hampshire?

00:48:17Oh, yeah.

00:48:21And do you plan to stay there long term?

00:48:24You know, we're kind of keeping open to all options.

00:48:26I'm going to long term have the place in New Hampshire or we're going to have that.

00:48:30But Boston right now.

00:48:31But we also love Paris and the south of France.

00:48:34So, you know, we're both open to the idea possibly going back there.

00:48:38Wow.

00:48:39Wow.

00:48:41Okay.

00:48:42So, let's dive more into your relationship.

00:48:46Now, Mina, we saw some rumors about your past.

00:48:54There's like an online post that claims eight years ago, you were an exotic dancer.

00:49:01And that's how you met Mark.

00:49:03Is that true?

00:49:28Oh, yeah.

00:49:30Welcome for the team.

00:49:31Did you work in a strip club?

00:49:34Why are you not dancing?

00:49:34I was bartending like Juan.

00:49:36I was bartending.

00:49:37So, this was Los Angeles 20, 30 years ago?

00:49:4030 years ago.

00:49:41So, Mina, when you worked at the club, you were dancing at a club.

00:49:44Yeah.

00:49:45Okay, but you did not meet Mark at that club.

00:49:49Also, Mina, online, there were rumors about your stage name.

00:49:55Do you want to tell us what your stage name was?

00:49:57Mark, do you know what her stage name was?

00:50:02Mark, do you know what her stage name was?

00:50:03He turns all the way around to look at you.

00:50:05Wait, wait, wait.

00:50:06Don't we all have stripper names?

00:50:07He's like ready.

00:50:10Mine was Alex.

00:50:11Alex?

00:50:11Yeah.

00:50:12Oh, Alex is my sister's name.

00:50:14Because you might play Divine.

00:50:18Divine.

00:50:19Wow.

00:50:21So, how did you come up with the name Divine?

00:50:24Because my cousin's name is Divine.

00:50:26Ah.

00:50:27He's your cousin.

00:50:28Yeah.

00:50:28You use your cousin.

00:50:30I love that.

00:50:33So, how did you come up with Alex?

00:50:35I don't know.

00:50:36I mean, there was a soccer player called Alex.

00:50:38Famous at the time.

00:50:39I loved his name, so, because my family doesn't know, I have to be confidential as much as

00:50:45possible, so let me put Alex, I thought.

00:50:49You know, aren't stage names, though, supposed to be sexy?

00:50:51Alex isn't sexy.

00:50:53In Turkey, it's sexy.

00:50:55For you, it's sexy.

00:50:56For America, maybe it's not.

00:50:58Ani, so, your stage name?

00:51:01I think.

00:51:02You need to add Matt to the 90 Day Stripper Club.

00:51:05He used to be a stripper, too.

00:51:07Wait, Matt used to be a stripper?

00:51:08Uh-huh.

00:51:09Really?

00:51:09Yeah, he would do bachelorette parties, everything.

00:51:12No kidding.

00:51:13Uh-huh.

00:51:14Matt, now that you have been outed, what was your stage name, Matt?

00:51:20Hudson.

00:51:21Hudson.

00:51:24Y'all thought Ani was the only one, huh?

00:51:25Yeah.

00:51:27So, back to Mark and Mina.

00:51:30Now that you have been married for a while, let's go back to one of the big issues leading

00:51:34up to the wedding.

00:51:36Mark's daughter, Jordan, was initially skeptical of Mina's intentions with her dad.

00:51:41Let's bring her out to see if she's currently getting along with her new stepmom.

00:51:46Please welcome Mark's daughter, Jordan.

00:51:51Hi.

00:51:52You look beautiful.

00:51:53You look beautiful.

00:51:53Hi.

00:51:53Baby girl.

00:51:54Good to see you.

00:51:55Good to see you, too.

00:51:56Very cool.

00:51:57Hi, Mina.

00:51:57Hi.

00:51:58Nice to meet you.

00:51:58Hi, Yana.

00:51:58Welcome, Jordan.

00:52:00I hear that you recently got engaged.

00:52:03Yes, I did.

00:52:04Congratulations.

00:52:05Congrats.

00:52:07Did you get to celebrate with your dad?

00:52:09Yeah.

00:52:09They came to our engagement party.

00:52:10It was really special.

00:52:11It was a good time for all the family to be together.

00:52:13Good, good.

00:52:15Okay, we know Jordan had several concerns about Mina, and she wasn't shy about voicing them.

00:52:21Let's watch.

00:52:23We're thinking about having another baby.

00:52:25I mean, I already accepted that you had one baby, so I don't think I'm ready to accept

00:52:35you having another one yet.

00:52:37You think I come here for the green card, for the house, for...

00:52:42Yeah, you're coming into my family and having babies, and, like, how do I know you're not

00:52:46just with my dad for his money?

00:52:48I have an impression that Jordan and me is a competition.

00:52:55No, it's not competition.

00:52:57Her concern is just about, does dad really need to have more kids?

00:53:04Baby, I'm sorry.

00:53:07For me, Jordan is a hypocrite.

00:53:09I don't know, I'm not comfortable to talk with Jordan, because now I say, I say I'm a snake,

00:53:16you know?

00:53:17No, no, no, no, no.

00:53:18Don't compare my...

00:53:19Oh, I don't go.

00:53:20My daughter is not a snake.

00:53:22Yeah.

00:53:23Come on, girl.

00:53:24You don't come in the bed, okay?

00:53:26Seriously?

00:53:27Yeah.

00:53:29Oh, my God.

00:53:35Jordan, how do you feel about being called a hypocrite, a snake?

00:53:44Tough words.

00:53:46Yeah, I mean, it doesn't feel good, but I think that I was probably pretty quick to judge her

00:53:53pretty harshly, too.

00:53:54I think we both kind of did that.

00:53:57And I really created this situation between the two of them.

00:54:01Mina told you something in confidence, and Jordan told you something in confidence.

00:54:04And you shared what each other said.

00:54:05I blew it on both times.

00:54:07Yeah, I did too much talk.

00:54:09You're an overshare.

00:54:10Yeah.

00:54:11I think whenever she came here, it was probably really hard for her, because she left so much

00:54:15behind.

00:54:16So coming here, she really was hoping to be, like, fully accepted.

00:54:20And because she didn't get that, that's why it, like, made her say the things that she

00:54:25said to you.

00:54:26Yeah.

00:54:27Exactly.

00:54:28Your dad's happiness is what matters the most, and if he's happy, you should be happy

00:54:32for him.

00:54:33Yeah.

00:54:34I know.

00:54:34I think it was a hard adjustment seeing, you know, your father at his age having a new

00:54:41baby.

00:54:41It was nothing against Maria, but we're 25 years apart.

00:54:45I've always just felt like she's looking out for my best interest.

00:54:48I wanted there to be peace, and I knew eventually Jordan is going to see Mina's heart.

00:54:53It just needed time.

00:54:54I don't think either one of you guys handled that well, but it looks like you've both figured

00:54:58it out.

00:54:58Yeah, you are super.

00:55:01But Jordan, what would be so bad if they had another child?

00:55:05I mean, you know, I pictured this time of my life, you know, to have him be like a grandfather

00:55:10to my children.

00:55:11So I think that that is an adjustment.

00:55:13You had mentioned, like, what if you guys got pregnant together, like, kind of at the

00:55:16same time?

00:55:17Like, how would that be?

00:55:18Yeah, I mean, that would be kind of awkward.

00:55:21I mean, it's not the end of the world, but would I prefer that?

00:55:26I mean, probably not.

00:55:28I feel like she doesn't have the right to decide whether they should have more kids

00:55:31or not.

00:55:33Is it okay for them to have kids?

00:55:35Yes.

00:55:36And Mina, I'm sorry if I made you feel like I was trying to tell you what you can and

00:55:40can't do.

00:55:40I was just trying to protect my dad and voice my concerns about him having kids at his

00:55:45age.

00:55:46But it's completely your decision.

00:55:48It's your life and, you know, whatever makes you both happy.

00:55:52That's great because she's pregnant.

00:55:57Oh, my God.

00:55:58What?

00:55:59Whoa, really?

00:56:01Jesus.

00:56:02No.

00:56:04Let's move on to Sean and Aaliyah calling Sean and Aaliyah's wedding turbulent.

00:56:09I'm sorry.

00:56:10I just can't.

00:56:12I can't do this.

00:56:15It's weird.

00:56:19I can't put up with this.

00:56:22I can't do it.

00:56:30Mina's pregnant.

00:56:32Mina's pregnant.

00:56:37What did she say?

00:56:38She's pregnant.

00:56:40No, I'm kidding.

00:56:43No, it's not true.

00:56:44It's not true.

00:56:45Sorry.

00:56:46Yo, you got me, bro.

00:56:47You got me good, man.

00:56:48She's about to be so happy should give you a hug, man.

00:56:50How do you feel about that joke?

00:56:53Bad joke, Jordan, bad joke.

00:56:55Sometimes you need to say, serious.

00:56:56I knew he was joking.

00:56:59So, are you actively trying to have another baby?

00:57:03We're actively not, not trying.

00:57:06So, you know, we're not actively inhibiting.

00:57:09Wait, actively not, not trying, meaning you're not using any protection.

00:57:14I guess you could say that, yeah.

00:57:16So, eventually, you probably will have another child if you're not using protection, right?

00:57:21I mean, that, that is what can happen yet.

00:57:26All right, so what is next for you two?

00:57:35Yeah.

00:57:37We saw how crushing it was for you when you realized that Clayton couldn't come to America.

00:57:45How long has it been since you've seen your son?

00:57:5411 months?

00:57:55Ouais.

00:57:5611 mois?

00:58:01It's tough for her to talk, it's tough for her to talk about.

00:58:03Are you able to visit your son?

00:58:32We're going very soon.

00:58:36Yeah.

00:58:37She just got the green card last week.

00:58:38Yeah.

00:58:39So, now we have the freedom.

00:58:40Congratulations.

00:58:41That's amazing.

00:58:42We're so happy for you.

00:58:46We're going to see Clayton as soon as possible within the next few weeks.

00:58:49And, and our goal, our hope, Jesper, is that we're bringing Clayton back to the U.S. with us at that time.

00:58:56Hope that works for you guys.

00:58:57Yeah.

00:58:59Well, Jordan, we appreciate you being here.

00:59:02Yes, thank you.

00:59:03Thanks, Jordan.

00:59:04We'll see you soon.

00:59:07Mark and Mina, we're glad to see that your marriage is, pardon the pun, flying high.

00:59:14All right, before we move on, how about a little comic relief?

00:59:17Sure.

00:59:18Absolutely.

00:59:19Absolutely.

00:59:19Yeah, why not?

00:59:21Yes.

00:59:21So, Sarper, are you still writing jokes?

00:59:24Yeah, sure.

00:59:24You are?

00:59:25All right, would you like to share some of your jokes with us?

00:59:28Where do you want me?

00:59:29Oh, my God.

00:59:31Wait, can we have a microphone for Sarper?

00:59:33There we go.

00:59:34So, we are your audience, Sarper, and that is your stage.

00:59:40Hey!

00:59:41Hey!

00:59:43Hello.

00:59:43No pressure.

00:59:44Hi, guys.

00:59:45Hi.

00:59:46Hi.

00:59:47Okay.

00:59:48When we all saw the trouble, I mean, everyone, every man texted me, even my friends from Turkey.

00:59:54Did you see that lucky mother with two cheeks?

00:59:58And I'm sure every man watching me right now thought the same way, you know?

01:00:02But, guys, is he really that lucky, hmm?

01:00:06What are advantages of such a relationship in man's perspective?

01:00:11Two, three times per week, 20, 30 minutes at most.

01:00:16And I'm sure it doesn't last that long, no offense.

01:00:19But, this is the only advantage.

01:00:21And is it really an advantage, by the way?

01:00:24Isn't it just like playing golf, guys?

01:00:26Does it matter how many holes are out there?

01:00:29When you have only one stick to play?

01:00:33You got it.

01:00:34And let us look at the other scale.

01:00:36Disadvantages.

01:00:38Fights, arguments.

01:00:39Multiplied by two.

01:00:43Neverending requests, complaints.

01:00:45Multiplied by two.

01:00:47PMSing.

01:00:48Don't touch me.

01:00:49Multiplied by two.

01:00:50I have only one, just one at home, and I cannot deal with her.

01:00:57Guys, please stop feeling jealous about him.

01:01:00Feel sorry.

01:01:01And you know what?

01:01:02Not only once, but...

01:01:05Multiplied by two.

01:01:07Thanks for listening, guys.

01:01:08All right, Sarpur.

01:01:12Okay, let me ask your castmates.

01:01:14I thought you left.

01:01:16I cracked.

01:01:18Let me ask your castmates.

01:01:20Does Sarpur have a future in comedy?

01:01:22Definitely.

01:01:23You think he does?

01:01:24I think he does.

01:01:25He's very passionate about it.

01:01:26Very, very passionate.

01:01:28You would come to see him?

01:01:29He's got a lot of fun.

01:01:29Yeah, why not?

01:01:30I'd buy it.

01:01:31Yeah, we just got a free chat.

01:01:32I would come to Wellington as a tour.

01:01:36All right, let us move on

01:01:38to Sean and Aaliyah,

01:01:40calling Sean and Aaliyah's wedding turbulent.

01:01:42I'm sorry.

01:01:43I just can't.

01:01:44I can't do this.

01:01:46I don't feel right.

01:01:49I just, it's weird.

01:01:52I can't put up with this.

01:01:59Okay.

01:02:03Oh, thank you.

01:02:05He's a hairdresser.

01:02:05Thank you so much.

01:02:12I didn't know what was happening.

01:02:15I always, I always had a head attack now.

01:02:21Sean, nice to be done.

01:02:23Oh, boy.

01:02:24That will go down in 90-day history.

01:02:27Oh, my gosh.

01:02:28Hi, Connie.

01:02:29So, once again, we're going to move on to Sean and Aaliyah.

01:02:34Now, calling their wedding turbulent would definitely be an understatement.

01:02:39Have things smoothed out since then?

01:02:41That is what we are about to find out.

01:02:44So, Aaliyah, how are you adjusting to life here in the States?

01:02:49I would say that I'm just in pretty good and pretty nice.

01:02:55I don't think that relationship, the marriage, it's like my dream.

01:02:59But I think we are moving forward.

01:03:03What was your dream?

01:03:04I think it's just like a lot of change.

01:03:10I think we're not, you're both not expecting that.

01:03:14The only thing constant in our relationship is huge change.

01:03:19Your story is so fascinating.

01:03:22We've never had a situation like this.

01:03:25Yeah, it's all been unfolding.

01:03:27Well, there are two other 90-dayers who have strong opinions about Sean and Aaliyah's relationship.

01:03:34Let's bring them into the conversation.

01:03:36Speaking to us remotely from Mexico, please welcome Kenny and Armando.

01:03:42Hi, guys.

01:03:43Hi.

01:03:44How are you?

01:03:46Good.

01:03:46How are you guys doing?

01:03:48We are doing fine.

01:03:50And I'm sure you have a lot to say about Sean and Aaliyah's relationship.

01:03:55Yes.

01:03:56But first off, Sean probably wants to get a hold of my hair.

01:04:01That's a given.

01:04:03But he doesn't let you touch it.

01:04:05But you can't touch it, you can just look.

01:04:08Well, when Aaliyah moved to the U.S., their mutual friend, Jackie, became someone that Aaliyah could rely on.

01:04:15Well, Jackie is here tonight to give her take on these newlyweds.

01:04:19Please welcome Sean and Aaliyah's friend, Jackie.

01:04:23Hi, Jackie.

01:04:24Hi.

01:04:24How are you?

01:04:25Good.

01:04:26Welcome.

01:04:30Jackie, you want to say hi to Sean and Aaliyah?

01:04:32You guys look great.

01:04:34Well, Aaliyah, you look great.

01:04:36Sean, you look very handsome, but I'm loving this fit, Aaliyah.

01:04:39So, Jackie, you met Sean and Aaliyah in the infancy of their relationship.

01:04:45Correct.

01:04:46Before Aaliyah transitioned, how different is Aaliyah today from when you first met?

01:04:53Um, Douglas was scared, quiet, timid, Aaliyah is, like, beautiful, bold.

01:05:01So, I'm really proud of the differences because she's becoming who she was meant to be and, like, I love this person, you know?

01:05:07She's comfortable in her own skin.

01:05:09Yeah, yeah.

01:05:11Yeah.

01:05:12This is perfect for her.

01:05:13I'm so happy for her.

01:05:14Yeah, I'm so happy for her.

01:05:15This is what she is.

01:05:16Yeah.

01:05:17But Sean's perspective, you signed up and then everything changed.

01:05:22I couldn't keep going with the K-1 process, everything.

01:05:24The thing that you did was great.

01:05:27It's navigating how do you support somebody who's going through a lot of changes in order to continue on in this relationship.

01:05:35Okay, but I want to confirm something shocking that my producers told me.

01:05:40Sean, you ended up going on a honeymoon without Aaliyah.

01:05:46I didn't, actually.

01:05:48You did.

01:05:49You literally went on your own honeymoon by yourself.

01:05:57He left me, like, for a month.

01:06:00Wait, what?

01:06:02What's so wrong?

01:06:03Oh, my God.

01:06:05It wasn't a month.

01:06:06Yeah, it was.

01:06:10Let me ask you this, Sean.

01:06:13Do you find Aaliyah physically attracted, like you are sexually attracted to her?

01:06:21The impression that we get is that you're not.

01:06:25Uh...

01:06:26Sean, you ended up going on a honeymoon for a month by yourself?

01:06:39I went to go visit my best friend since I was 12 in Florida, and I bailed, and I told Aaliyah I was leaving because I was still, like, irate.

01:06:48And then you went to the Dominican Republic, yeah?

01:06:50You went on, like, a little mini vacation by yourself.

01:06:52I did.

01:06:53I was very selfish about that, yes.

01:06:55You needed a vacation.

01:06:57And the reason you did not take Aaliyah with you was because...

01:07:01He was mad at me.

01:07:02Correct.

01:07:03I held the grudge for months.

01:07:07You still have it even now?

01:07:08Yeah, I think so, in a weird way.

01:07:12I think I'm not just over it.

01:07:14That is childish.

01:07:16Yes.

01:07:16Okay, so, as we know, that anger was stemming from their disastrous wedding day.

01:07:22Let's look back at exactly what went down.

01:07:25Mom?

01:07:37It's painful at the moment.

01:07:39I'm hoping it'll get better quickly.

01:07:42Like, am I taking you to the hospital now?

01:07:45No, and I will be fine by 5 o'clock.

01:07:49I guarantee it.

01:07:51Hey, Mom.

01:07:53It says it's going to start at 5.

01:07:56Oh, no, there's no way.

01:07:57It's not going to.

01:07:58No.

01:07:58It's 6 right now.

01:08:00And it was my last words to him was, do not let this be, like, the engagement.

01:08:07Yeah.

01:08:08Two hours late.

01:08:11Time is going and going and going, and there's still no sign or even word from Aaliyah.

01:08:19And finally, I just said, you know, no.

01:08:23Like, no more.

01:08:24I'm done.

01:08:25I've been ready to go for an hour and 45 minutes.

01:08:28You're not supposed to see her.

01:08:29I don't give a f***.

01:08:30Aw.

01:08:32Not happy.

01:08:33So I say, we'll walk in the thing, say I do really quick.

01:08:36I'm going to go have food.

01:08:37And then throw everybody out.

01:08:41Thanks for coming.

01:08:43Aaliyah, hey, thanks for coming too.

01:08:44Hey, so, uh, finally coming when you got around to it.

01:08:49All right, cheers.

01:08:50Bye.

01:08:51Oh, my God.

01:08:58Whoa.

01:09:00I think the situation with your mom probably heightened everything.

01:09:04So it wasn't like you were just waiting there for two hours and...

01:09:09Yeah.

01:09:09Every five minutes was like a lifetime.

01:09:11What was the diagnosis of your mother, if your mommy asked me?

01:09:15She had fractured her foot on both sides, and she was immobile for months.

01:09:22That's pretty justifiable to be pissed off.

01:09:24And Jackie, you are a big part of my pain.

01:09:28You were the person I relied on to get her and help her get there.

01:09:33You were the only one there.

01:09:34So my mom is my prized possession in this earth, and so I need her in the hospital more than I need a wedding, more than I need to wait for Aaliyah to put on a wig that I had pre-styled, pre-had her hair braided to put on, pre-had her dress me.

01:09:49I did everything I could to make that as easy as possible.

01:09:51Char, I get why you were upset.

01:09:52I just feel like that there were...

01:09:54Where were you?

01:09:54There were a million other ways that day could have gone.

01:09:56Sitting around, joking around in your air-conditioned private suite.

01:10:00I got dressed in a public bathroom with no air conditioning, sweating bullets.

01:10:04That's not...

01:10:05Okay.

01:10:06Shush.

01:10:06And then you go to the venue with her.

01:10:09Even if my mom wasn't in a wheelchair, even if my mom didn't have an accident, you should have been like, we're two hours late.

01:10:16We're not talking 15 minutes, 30 minutes.

01:10:18We kept giving her time checks.

01:10:20I kept telling her.

01:10:21Can I tell my side of the story now?

01:10:24Yeah.

01:10:24I want to hear from Aaliyah.

01:10:25Do you think that Jackie could have done more, or was it out of her hands?

01:10:33I think it was out of her hands.

01:10:36Jackie told me something happened with Sean's mom.

01:10:39I was, like, frozen.

01:10:40And I just felt like, oh, my God, I think the wedding's not happening anymore because she cannot be here.

01:10:46And then someone said, oh, don't be worried because she's there.

01:10:51She's fine.

01:10:52And everything's fine.

01:10:53So the person, like, calms me down.

01:10:56And then I just, was the time that I, like, continue, like, doing the makeup and doing all these things.

01:11:00And the time was passing.

01:11:02My phone was not there.

01:11:03Like, on my side, you did not call this, my phone, I think.

01:11:08And everyone saw, like, calls from you.

01:11:09Maybe you should have communicated with him.

01:11:11Let's all understand where Sean is coming from.

01:11:14He's upset.

01:11:14I do understand where he's coming from.

01:11:16I do, but so me, I should have told Aaliyah, no, no more makeup, no more hair.

01:11:21We have to go.

01:11:23No matter what Jackie said, wasn't going to drag her out of that makeup chair because she was going to look perfect.

01:11:29But no wedding goes off without a hitch.

01:11:32Our wedding was an hour late.

01:11:34We had problems, too.

01:11:35I think every wedding does.

01:11:38Okay.

01:11:39So you got married even after that crazy wedding day.

01:11:43But then, as you told us earlier, your sex life since has not gone well.

01:11:49Have you two been intimate?

01:11:50Yeah.

01:11:53After the wedding, we were intimate, like, twice.

01:11:58And I feel like I don't want to be in a position that I'm forcing him that.

01:12:01So it's just, like, are you waiting?

01:12:03Do you guys, like, kiss at all or hold the hands, cuddle?

01:12:06Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:12:07Let me ask you, given that this is an open marriage, since the wedding, has either one of you been intimate with another person?

01:12:16I have.

01:12:18Oh, wow.

01:12:19Oh.

01:12:19So do you both have an open marriage or just you, Sean?

01:12:23We both have an open marriage, but she is in the middle of her transition and isn't acting on it, as far as I know.

01:12:30She wants to be loved by you.

01:12:32Alia, piensas que él prefiere el cuerpo de un hombre?

01:12:38Sientes que por eso han perdido la conexión sexual?

01:12:42Sí.

01:12:43I think it's just hard, like, in this process that I'm changing.

01:13:04My body's changing.

01:13:06I don't feel attracted, wanted.

01:13:11My love language is physical touch.

01:13:14And I really don't have that.

01:13:18Oh.

01:13:23Let me ask you this, Sean.

01:13:26Do you find Alia physically attractive, like you are sexually attracted to her?

01:13:32Uh, I'm worried because I don't really know where we're landing at the end of it all.

01:13:39Only Alia knows what's going to make her truly whole and truly at what she feels she is.

01:13:50So is Sean going to be attracted to Alia if she chose to have bottom surgery?

01:13:56The impression that we get is that you're not.

01:14:00Is that just crossing the line for you?

01:14:03It's her body, her situation.

01:14:07I don't want her to do something just to save this relationship.

01:14:16It wasn't saving it.

01:14:17No, if she chose not to and she doesn't, it's not going to ruin your relationship for sure.

01:14:22Like, when you did marry Alia, I mean, did you think, I'm in love with this person?

01:14:27Well, the person that I originally fell in love with isn't next to me anymore.

01:14:34So, Sean, are you truly in love with Alia?

01:14:42So...

01:14:44All right, let's get out of here.

01:14:52That light bulb click in my head, I was like, wait, Ani says she loves me, but not the way I love her.

01:14:58After all of that, I have 100% hesitation divorcing the most beautiful and amazing woman that I've ever met in my life.

01:15:05So, I don't know what our future is.

01:15:11Sean, are you actually in love with Alia?

01:15:15And I know I'll be there for Alia forever.

01:15:30I think Sean was put in Alia's life for Alia to become Alia.

01:15:42Then, even if it doesn't work out romantically, he will always be there for you.

01:15:46Man, you too.

01:15:49For me, it's hard when I'm emotional to express my feelings.

01:15:54So, I wrote a text and I want to share.

01:15:58Does anyone have Alia's phone?

01:16:00I remember when it was just me and you.

01:16:11When talking for hours on the phone and seeing you on a screen wasn't enough.

01:16:18How I wanted to make time stop when we were together.

01:16:22And how painful it was to say goodbye.

01:16:25I remember the night I look at the stars, praying for us to be very happy.

01:16:37And today, I cry inside.

01:16:41I cry because we have chanted.

01:16:49But I love you and I love you in all of my versions.

01:16:55And you know I love you, Alia.

01:17:05And I'm always going to be here for you.

01:17:09We'll figure life out and do it together.

01:17:14Okay?

01:17:16Mm-hmm.

01:17:17I love you.

01:17:18I love you, too.

01:17:22I'm crying.

01:17:24Gosh.

01:17:25One more thing.

01:17:29I'm sorry that I was awful to you at the wedding.

01:17:32It was grumpy.

01:17:34And it was a hard day for me for obvious reasons.

01:17:37But I'm sorry about that.

01:17:39And I was wrong for that.

01:17:41So, I just want to let you know.

01:17:42I appreciate that.

01:17:43I just want to see y'all have that day over again.

01:17:45I really do.

01:17:45Can we get a redo for the 10-year anniversary, please?

01:17:47We all need an invitation if that happens again.

01:17:49Aw.

01:17:50Aw.

01:17:51All right.

01:17:52Jackie, thank you so much for joining us.

01:17:54We can see how much you love your friend.

01:17:56Thank you so much for having me.

01:17:59Love you guys.

01:18:00Love you.

01:18:03Kenny and Armando, we always love having you guys.

01:18:06Hope to see you again soon.

01:18:07Nice to see you, everybody.

01:18:09Thank you, everyone.

01:18:10All right.

01:18:11Sean and Aaliyah, we certainly wish you a world of happiness.

01:18:16Well, we have reached the end of 90 Day Fiancé.

01:18:23The Couples Tell All.

01:18:25A big thank you to everyone who participated today,

01:18:28from the couples to their family and friends

01:18:31to our past 90 Dayers.

01:18:33We've learned a lot,

01:18:34and I'm excited to see where all of your journeys take you next.

01:18:37I'm Sean Robinson.

01:18:38Thank you so much for watching.

01:18:41We survived.

01:18:46Oh, my gosh.

01:18:49We did it.

01:18:50Now we can go take this off

01:18:51and get our wedgies out.

01:18:56What's up?

01:18:57My dad is going in.

01:18:59Oh, yeah.

01:18:59Eat.

01:19:01You want to go have dinner with us?

01:19:03We're all eating right there.

01:19:04No, no.

01:19:05I mean, I'm eating for Shekinah.

01:19:07Oh, okay.

01:19:08We won't eat.

01:19:08You guys want to join us, or no?

01:19:10No, no.

01:19:10Okay.

01:19:11Well, it was such a pleasure meeting you're going

01:19:12if I don't see you.

01:19:13Okay.

01:19:14I'm sorry you went, like,

01:19:15hand up on you,

01:19:16but hopefully we'll work it out eventually.

01:19:19Hopefully.

01:19:22It's so hard.

01:19:23I'm going to make a toast,

01:19:24ending on a high note.

01:19:25Oh, wait.

01:19:26I don't even drink,

01:19:27but I'm thinking about it.

01:19:28I'm almost drinking.

01:19:31Jessica.

01:19:32Jessica.

01:19:33We're leaving.

01:19:34We're thinking about.

01:19:36High five.

01:19:37We survived the tunnel,

01:19:38and no one came for our next.

01:19:40We're going to go home to our baby.

01:19:42Aw.

01:19:42How dare you.

01:19:43It was so great.

01:19:43It was such a pleasure meeting you.

01:19:45Hi.

01:19:47Hi and bye.

01:19:48I know where I am.

01:19:49Sorry about what Ani said.

01:19:50Don't take it personal.

01:19:51Don't take it personal.

01:19:52Okay.

01:19:53I already texted her.

01:19:54She's not going cool.

01:19:55I mean, I think the next thing for us

01:19:57is definitely, one,

01:19:58finding a job.

01:19:59We should all the luck, right?

01:20:00I like that.

01:20:00You too.

01:20:01Stay in touch,

01:20:01and maybe look into the private yacht.

01:20:04Yeah, I'll have to make it work somewhere.

01:20:07I mean, sometimes I feel bad,

01:20:08like I should take a job,

01:20:09whatever it comes,

01:20:10and just take it and work

01:20:11and make the money.

01:20:12And if that doesn't work,

01:20:13then it's like,

01:20:14he'll take a cruise contract or two.

01:20:17It's still last resort,

01:20:18but like,

01:20:19it's on the table.

01:20:22It's on the table, yeah,

01:20:23but I think my son is the priority now.

01:20:29Guys.

01:20:30We're heading out.

01:20:30You guys leaving?

01:20:31Good job, guys.

01:20:32Hi.

01:20:32Thank you, guys.

01:20:34It was nice to see you now.

01:20:36You too.

01:20:37Well, safe trip home.

01:20:39Safe trip home, bro.

01:20:40Bye.

01:20:40Bye, sweetie.

01:20:42All right.

01:20:42We'll be in touch.

01:20:43Stay travel.

01:20:44I'm going to hit trip home.

01:20:45Me and I.

01:20:45Stop.

01:20:47She's the girl for me.

01:20:48Okay, buddy.

01:20:50Play date for the dogs.

01:20:51Yes.

01:20:51Show.

01:20:52Oh.

01:20:53Bye.

01:20:53Wait.

01:20:55Oh, bear.

01:20:55Kiss for you.

01:20:58Bye, guys.

01:21:01Oh.

01:21:01You tried.

01:21:03You tried.

01:21:04I know very clearly now

01:21:12that Imani was coming into this tell-all,

01:21:14having it out for me.

01:21:15That was crazy.

01:21:16Like, I'm like, ugh.

01:21:18But they can go on with all their drama

01:21:21and their toxicity.

01:21:23I'm never going to associate with her.

01:21:25She escaped.

01:21:26That's what they deserve.

01:21:28They totally deserve that.

01:21:30With me and Shigana,

01:21:32we are so inconsistent.

01:21:33I just want calmness, peaceful life.

01:21:36And I love her.

01:21:37I think everything will be better by time.

01:21:39You have the drinks.

01:21:41It's enough for you.

01:21:41I know that we arrived in separate cars.

01:21:45We slept in separate hotel rooms.

01:21:47But I want us to reconnect.

01:21:49And I think that this gesture that he made

01:21:51by giving me this is a sign that, you know,

01:21:54he wants that, too.

01:21:55Yeah.

01:21:56My personal future with Sarpur,

01:21:58I want to move out of my place

01:21:59and get a place of our own.

01:22:01I want Sarpur to work on his anger

01:22:03and I want us to get into therapy.

01:22:09Bye.

01:22:10Bye, guys.

01:22:11Bye.

01:22:12Hey.

01:22:13I want to give you guys a quick hug.

01:22:14I don't know when I'll see you again, so.

01:22:16Bye.

01:22:17Bye.

01:22:17If I don't see you,

01:22:18I don't like how I'm going to touch your own map.

01:22:20It's okay.

01:22:21I just wanted to wish you guys best of luck.

01:22:22Good night.

01:22:22I can't have a conversation with Imani.

01:22:25I'm not sorry for standing up for myself

01:22:27and I'm not sorry for standing up for Maddie.

01:22:29Hi.

01:22:30No way.

01:22:30Love you, love you.

01:22:31Bye.

01:22:31Love you.

01:22:32You're, like, a really fine person.

01:22:33You are, too.

01:22:34I love you guys.

01:22:34Okay.

01:22:37It was so draining today.

01:22:39And I think Stevie and I have a lot to work on.

01:22:43She didn't answer the question

01:22:44that if she has ever kissed a girl.

01:22:46But, like, I know her.

01:22:47I'm fine.

01:22:48Like, if you're okay with it,

01:22:49I'm okay with it, too.

01:22:51I think anything that has to do with sexuality

01:22:53is something that Maddie can ask me behind closed doors.

01:22:56I have fully accepted Maddie as he is,

01:22:58and I hope that he would be fully accepting of me

01:23:00throughout the years forward.

01:23:02We'll see.

01:23:09Hey, third time is a charm.

01:23:10You guys are going to tell us goodbye, right?

01:23:12Well, we had two couples reject our goodbyes.

01:23:15Really?

01:23:15Yeah.

01:23:16Yeah.

01:23:16Shekinah, Sarfer.

01:23:18Maddie and Stevie.

01:23:19Thank you so much for being so supportive.

01:23:22I know you're very independent.

01:23:23You also have that soft heart in you.

01:23:25I know.

01:23:26Have that soft heart.

01:23:27Thank you, my love.

01:23:30Bye, my love.

01:23:31Well, nice meeting you guys.

01:23:32Me, too.

01:23:32Good to go.

01:23:34Ah, I love them.

01:23:37Good night.

01:23:38Good night, guys.

01:23:39You know, after today,

01:23:40realizing that mom wants us out sooner rather than later,

01:23:43you know,

01:23:44we are saving money being there,

01:23:46stacking money.

01:23:47You know,

01:23:48we definitely have enough money to move out.

01:23:49I guess we're just going to have to expedite that situation a little bit more.

01:23:52It's got to go on the top priority.

01:23:54I think if I went home and tested and found out that I was pregnant,

01:24:00in one month,

01:24:01I'll be telling Greg that we need to get out of the house.

01:24:03If he doesn't want to get out,

01:24:05I'll leave him there,

01:24:05and I'll get out on my own.

01:24:09Ready?

01:24:10So nice to meet you.

01:24:15Nice to meet you, too.

01:24:17You know,

01:24:18as tough as today was,

01:24:20and, you know,

01:24:21digging in a little bit to some issues,

01:24:24if anything,

01:24:24all it's taught us is that our relationship

01:24:26and our marriage is worth fighting for.

01:24:28We got the green card.

01:24:30We got Mary.

01:24:31We're going to go get Clayton.

01:24:32You know,

01:24:32we got a lot of positives coming.

01:24:34Yeah,

01:24:34for now,

01:24:35yeah,

01:24:35all is positive.

01:24:37This is good.

01:24:38Whew.

01:24:39Bye.

01:24:46Today was fun.

01:24:48It's hard to talk about our relationship,

01:24:51but, like,

01:24:52I do feel that I'm confident

01:24:54and I can speak up for myself,

01:24:56and that makes me feel like I have, like, joy.

01:24:59I feel happy.

01:24:59I think my biggest worry is

01:25:03if he doesn't like my body anymore,

01:25:08I want him to love me as a trans woman.

01:25:12What's immediately next for me and Aliyah

01:25:14is I'm going to take her

01:25:16on the honeymoon that we never had.

01:25:19She will be frolicking with, no doubt,

01:25:21a little itty-bitty, teeny-weeny,

01:25:23maybe not polka-dotted bikini,

01:25:25but something thereof.

01:25:26All right, get out of here.

01:25:35It was an honor.

01:25:36Yeah.

01:25:38Good night, y'all.

01:25:39Bye.

01:25:39Yeah.

01:25:41It took me

01:25:42a while

01:25:43to, like,

01:25:44sit down

01:25:45and, like,

01:25:45that light bulb click

01:25:47in my head.

01:25:47I was like,

01:25:48wait, Ani?

01:25:49She says she loves me,

01:25:50but not the way I love her.

01:25:52I don't want to be left out.

01:25:55And people are so harsh on me,

01:25:56like,

01:25:56oh, you asked for this.

01:25:57Yes, I asked for this,

01:25:58but I learned the hard way

01:26:00by doing mistakes.

01:26:01So,

01:26:03um,

01:26:04we'll see.

01:26:06After all of that,

01:26:07I have 100% hesitation,

01:26:09you know,

01:26:10divorcing the most beautiful

01:26:11and amazing woman

01:26:12that I've ever met in my life.

01:26:13Ani,

01:26:14she's a wonderful person,

01:26:15but I don't think

01:26:16I could ever care

01:26:16about Ani the way

01:26:19that I do a mini

01:26:19unless she goes

01:26:21to the lengths

01:26:21that a mini would go

01:26:22for our relationship.

01:26:23So,

01:26:23I don't know

01:26:24what our future is.

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