90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 20

Show Film 98

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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiance, The Couples Tell All.

00:00:04I'm ready.

00:00:05Let's do it.

00:00:07Wyoming has made it to New York.

00:00:10I did see some cruise ships, and that reminded me

00:00:13of my own job.

00:00:14And I might run away and get on one of those boats

00:00:17and just get back to work.

00:00:19Shekinah and Sarpwork, how is married life treating you?

00:00:23We slept in separate rooms in the hotel yesterday.

00:00:29Wait a minute.

00:00:31The honeymoon was over really fast.

00:00:33And I still only have an engagement ring.

00:00:36So are we really married?

00:00:38Oh, my god.

00:00:41Sean and Aaliyah, on a scale of 1 to 10,

00:00:44how are things between you today?

00:00:47Like, 8?

00:00:48That's a good number.

00:00:49But the sexual relationship is not so great.

00:00:53We're not really having sex anymore.

00:00:56Wow.

00:00:57That's a 1.

00:00:58Exactly.

00:01:02I asked a mini question, and it was personal.

00:01:05Shekinah asked if Ani was trans.

00:01:08Wait, what?

00:01:10And told me not to tell Ani.

00:01:12But of course I told her, come on, girl.

00:01:15You're not trustworthy.

00:01:16My loyalty is to my girlfriend.

00:01:18But is your loyalty to hurt her feelings?

00:01:20I didn't hurt her feelings.

00:01:22You did.

00:01:22You needed a crusade.

00:01:24It looks like I gave you one.

00:01:25So now you can go off.

00:01:26You're so annoying, and you're so fake, and I'm tired of it.

00:01:29This is a show.

00:01:31You're calculated as you.

00:01:41Unbelievable.

00:01:42Unbelievable.

00:01:43It's very easy, honey.

00:01:45You need respect.

00:01:47I'm not your homie, and also I never called you trans.

00:01:50I asked your girlfriend if you were, because we were talking on a personal level.

00:01:56And she took it personal, and you have to respect her feelings.

00:01:59You know what?

00:02:00Because you told her, and I asked you not to.

00:02:02I'm not going to hide that from her.

00:02:05Come on.

00:02:06I literally asked a question, and I'm so upset that this is even a topic.

00:02:09You offended me.

00:02:10You made messages behind me.

00:02:13I did not disrespect you.

00:02:16Shut up.

00:02:17You shut up, honey.

00:02:20You're so offended by a question.

00:02:24I think if I was wondering if somebody is trans, I'll keep the to myself.

00:02:28OK, I want to talk something, because I'm a trans woman.

00:02:31So I can talk better than everyone here.

00:02:34For trans people, people are always trying to find, like, the masculinity in that person.

00:02:42For me, that means, like, oh, trans people look like men.

00:02:45It's not, like, woman enough.

00:02:47It's not feminine enough.

00:02:48So that's, like, quite a weird, like, comment.

00:02:52But do you think that was a rude question for Shekinah to ask Ameni?

00:02:59I don't think that was a rude question.

00:03:03But I don't know, like, I don't know why you're trying.

00:03:05I don't feel like it was a necessary question.

00:03:07Yeah.

00:03:08Yeah, there you go.

00:03:09And this is the point.

00:03:15OK, let's everybody take a breath and put this debate behind us so we can get back to

00:03:20talking about Ani, Matt, and Ameni.

00:03:23In the midst of the group's confusion and hurt feelings, Matt reached out to his friend Eric,

00:03:29who has also been in a polyamorous relationship.

00:03:33Now Eric is here to share his perspective on the group.

00:03:36Please welcome Matt's friend, Eric.

00:03:38What a cult they are.

00:03:44How are you, man?

00:03:46Hi, Eric. How are you?

00:03:48Good. How are you doing?

00:03:49I'm fantastic.

00:03:50OK, Eric, you warned Ameni and Matt that jealousy ultimately broke up your thruple relationship.

00:03:57Correct.

00:03:57You've been listening to the conversation.

00:03:59Yeah.

00:04:00Do you see the same patterns in their relationship?

00:04:03You know, you're not having sex with Ani, which is interesting, you know, because you're

00:04:07in a thruple.

00:04:08Everybody's engaged, so you might have some jealousy and problems there.

00:04:11You know, it just can't be Matt having all the fun with the two girls.

00:04:14You know, the girls got to have fun with the girls and Amani.

00:04:17You're into her, but is she into you that way?

00:04:20And that's all that goes through my head.

00:04:21I know I'm very busy in my schedule, but we're going to have sex this weekend.

00:04:33I'll fly out, OK?

00:04:37Being in a thruple is complicated and it's hard.

00:04:39Do you think it's worth it?

00:04:40For me, I think so.

00:04:44I promise myself to, like, always be true to myself and at least give this a try.

00:04:51OK, but we're hearing now that you and Ani aren't having sex alone.

00:04:56And we know you've had some pretty explosive fights.

00:05:01Let's watch.

00:05:01I just want you to make me feel that you want this, that you want to be with us.

00:05:09Like, do you tell people you're even in a relationship?

00:05:15Now we know.

00:05:16I am done.

00:05:18Honey, this is ridiculous.

00:05:21Like, you can't turn a hoe to a housewife.

00:05:24That's what the is going on.

00:05:26You're used to controlling men left and right at your job with your little dances.

00:05:31I don't get control.

00:05:32I see through your bull , OK?

00:05:35You can laugh all you want.

00:05:37I wish you have some self-respect.

00:05:39You have zero self-respect.

00:05:40Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.

00:05:42At least I have some self-respect.

00:05:43When I was born, I never danced for money.

00:05:46I'd rather be homeless than to do that.

00:05:48When I'm nothing, it don't work for you.

00:05:50That's what's going on.

00:05:50You don't like to be told no.

00:05:52All right, I'm not going to be able to stop this.

00:05:57You're thinking, oh, I am the queen.

00:05:59No, with me, no.

00:06:00Oh, you act like that when I'm paying.

00:06:03But when I'm not paying, it's like, oh, I'm controlling because it's not going.

00:06:09You are crazy.

00:06:10You're crazy.

00:06:13Bipolar, bitch.

00:06:14I'm literally shaking from watching that.

00:06:20I'm sorry.

00:06:20I remember these days.

00:06:24Oh, it's hard.

00:06:27Cool.

00:06:27That was hard to watch.

00:06:28Yeah.

00:06:34Like, I know for me, like, the harsh language, I instantly shut the down.

00:06:38Like, nobody, you know what I'm saying?

00:06:39Like, that just strikes a chord that, like, nothing, no matter how much you apologize.

00:06:42And it's not just like, you didn't do it just once there.

00:06:46You did it, like, two other times, I think, throughout the whole season.

00:06:48So it's like, what's going on that we don't see?

00:06:52What happened?

00:06:54Ani, how about you explain?

00:06:57Um, se dijo muchas cosas que me dañaron y tal vez yo en algún punto la dañé a ella.

00:07:08But she told me she held me with my rent.

00:07:11She sent me the money in front of me, but I don't receive any money.

00:07:16So you were supposed to send her some money.

00:07:18How much were you supposed to send her?

00:07:20Um, I tried to send almost $4,000 that month.

00:07:24About $4,000.

00:07:25Yeah.

00:07:26You didn't get the money, Ani.

00:07:27You were upset.

00:07:28And so Ani was trying to break off the relationship with both you and Matt.

00:07:33Is that right?

00:07:34That's what it sounded like.

00:07:35That's what it sounded like to you.

00:07:37Yes.

00:07:37That is why I went a crazy.

00:07:40So many times we fight for little things.

00:07:44I don't like the reaction.

00:07:47She's reaction is so bad.

00:07:51It came out in anger how she really feels.

00:07:53I was really rooting for you.

00:07:56But you lost me when you said you can't take a whore and make her a housewife.

00:08:01So painful.

00:08:02So hurtful.

00:08:03You can never take that stuff back.

00:08:04And then when you doubled down on this day, you know she's working as an exotic dancer.

00:08:09You probably met her in that arena.

00:08:12And then you smash it in her face.

00:08:14And then go, love me.

00:08:15I just had a bad day.

00:08:16I was just like, I mean, I'm shaking with all this.

00:08:20And it's not even my life.

00:08:21Just it's.

00:08:22I know my words were terrible.

00:08:24We're so hurtful.

00:08:25And even I watching this, like I felt embarrassed that I said that stuff to her.

00:08:29And did you ask it sorry for her?

00:08:30Of course I did.

00:08:32And that was.

00:08:33Yes, she should.

00:08:34She, she, she have a look at.

00:08:35Uh, she.

00:08:36Many times.

00:08:36Many different ways.

00:08:37Yeah.

00:08:38However, the money thing, she knows now.

00:08:40She has a screenshot.

00:08:41I tried to send money five times, but my bank kept canceling it.

00:08:47Amini, how much money in total have you and Matt sent Ani?

00:08:53I don't know.

00:08:54Ani, how much do you think it is?

00:08:55I don't.

00:08:56So I think so for a month, she sent me $2,000 in the month.

00:09:01You don't want to be a fourth?

00:09:02You know.

00:09:04She buy at me dresses, gifts, purse, shoes, clothes for my, for my daughter, and travel.

00:09:15Some of our trips are like $20,000 a trip.

00:09:17It's more than that, yeah.

00:09:18In general, she sent me money.

00:09:21$60,000 maybe?

00:09:22Wow.

00:09:22I heard it's $4,000 you were going to send her.

00:09:26And when the money didn't go through, she got really mad.

00:09:29And then that's where this fight started, right?

00:09:31To me, it's a red flag.

00:09:33Look at you.

00:09:35You're wrong with your wife.

00:09:39Yes, it's okay.

00:09:40For me, you're in this for money.

00:09:43I produce much more money than you earn in a year.

00:09:47How do you know how much I earn in a year?

00:09:49My love, I know what they pay in a cruise.

00:09:53If you say that you earn so much money, she should not give you so much money.

00:09:58I've never asked her for money.

00:10:00Never.

00:10:02Amini, has Ani ever asked you for money?

00:10:07When she really needs it.

00:10:09At least she knows she has somebody she can count on.

00:10:12But she makes money.

00:10:13That's what she said.

00:10:14She makes money.

00:10:16I still think the issue boils down that she left when you said you couldn't give her money.

00:10:21Yes.

00:10:22The one time I said no, the relationship almost ended.

00:10:26Okay, who thinks there's a scam going on here?

00:10:30And Ani is in this relationship just for money?

00:10:33I mean, partially, really?

00:10:39I mean, mostly, yes.

00:10:41Mostly, yes.

00:10:42Yes.

00:10:42Yeah.

00:10:44No.

00:10:46Amini, are you afraid to say no to Ani when it comes to money because you think she will leave the relationship?

00:10:53She knows I'm a jealous person.

00:11:07I don't want her to go work.

00:11:07So I'm like, okay, stay then.

00:11:09I'll give you the money instead of you working.

00:11:11Do you still dance, Ani?

00:11:13No, not anymore.

00:11:14Not recently.

00:11:14Let's ask her.

00:11:16Yeah, of course.

00:11:18Oh, my God.

00:11:20What else is she withholding from you?

00:11:21Exactly.

00:11:24You're crying right now?

00:11:26This scares me.

00:11:27You're attacking here by your lies.

00:11:30Why are you even in this?

00:11:31Why are you commenting?

00:11:32You commented about every thing.

00:11:35If you put your finger in my face again, enough.

00:11:37Put your finger down.

00:11:38Hold on, hold on.

00:11:39Put your finger down.

00:11:45Amini, let me ask you one more time.

00:11:47Are you afraid to say no to Ani when it comes to money because you think she will leave the relationship?

00:11:57Yes.

00:11:59I don't want to lose her.

00:12:00If she's willing to leave you just for saying no to money, how is that even trustworthy at all in any way, shape, or form?

00:12:10Because if she truly loves you, she would be, okay, cool.

00:12:13You don't have money to give me?

00:12:14Fine.

00:12:14I'll still be here.

00:12:16I'm not going to walk away.

00:12:16It's very, very, very hard for me to talk about it, but that's what I feel right now.

00:12:37Like, the more I listen to this, where is love?

00:12:39It doesn't seem like there is any love there.

00:12:42It's just like a big power play.

00:12:43I don't know, people can say the same thing about your relationship.

00:12:45Actually, they can't.

00:12:46Oh, yeah, you're right, because yours is just, like, shallow.

00:12:49There's nothing in it.

00:12:51Says who?

00:12:52You?

00:12:52Yes.

00:12:53I've never heard anyone else say that about us.

00:12:57In the beginning of the relationship, did you give any promises to her that I will give

00:13:01you that amount of money every month?

00:13:03I will pay your rent?

00:13:04Oh, I promised Minimum to pay her rent, and I still do that to this day.

00:13:10She knows I'm a jealous person.

00:13:11I don't want her to go work.

00:13:12So I'm like, okay, stay then.

00:13:13I'll give you the money instead of you working.

00:13:16Do you still dance, Ani?

00:13:19No.

00:13:20Do you?

00:13:21None?

00:13:21No, not anymore.

00:13:22Not recently.

00:13:23Let's ask her.

00:13:24Ani, do you still dance in the club?

00:13:28Yeah, of course.

00:13:30Oh, my God.

00:13:31There it is.

00:13:32There it is.

00:13:33She does.

00:13:34Yes, of course.

00:13:35Okay.

00:13:36You said before she's not dancing.

00:13:37She says she's dancing.

00:13:39She told Juan, he's not asking you for money.

00:13:41She told her she is asking you for money.

00:13:42So it's like these little lies, these little things here and there.

00:13:45What else is she withholding from you?

00:13:46You know what I'm saying?

00:13:48Exactly.

00:13:49Is she just telling you guys stuff just to tell you guys stuff?

00:13:51Is she really being truthful to you guys?

00:13:54I'm worried about that.

00:13:55Yeah, it's hard because it's in the back of my head.

00:13:58It's like, what other things is she not telling me?

00:14:00But hopefully, we'll figure it out.

00:14:03Yeah, it's all crazy.

00:14:05So are you two going to divorce?

00:14:09We've already actually hired a divorce lawyer.

00:14:13That's why I'm not wearing my ring because I'm getting ready mentally to not be your wife.

00:14:21That's a huge risk.

00:14:23Don't rush it.

00:14:24Like, why don't you give it, like, two more years?

00:14:26You're willing to go ahead and get a divorce to do all this, and it's so complicated right now.

00:14:31We do want to live under the same roof together, guys, full time.

00:14:36You've been a wife for 10 years.

00:14:37Why would you want to give that up?

00:14:39Most people give that up if they're not happy in that role.

00:14:42It's a sacrifice I'm willing to do for love.

00:14:45I love Ani.

00:14:57Oh, yeah.

00:14:57Yeah, yeah.

00:14:58Together, yeah.

00:14:59Absolutely.

00:14:59In the threesome.

00:15:00Yeah.

00:15:00All right.

00:15:02Well, Eric, you have been a great friend.

00:15:04Thank you for sharing your time and thoughts with us.

00:15:07Thank you so much.

00:15:08Thank you, guys.

00:15:08Thanks.

00:15:12All right, Matt, Amini, and Ani, this is a complicated relationship, but we wish all three of you

00:15:19the best of luck with whatever the future holds.

00:15:22Anybody want to be in a thruple?

00:15:24No?

00:15:24Not for everybody.

00:15:26It's tough.

00:15:28Okay.

00:15:28We're going to take a quick break, and then we'll come back.

00:15:40Could you guys do the thruple thing?

00:15:43I couldn't, man.

00:15:45I really couldn't.

00:15:46I don't think so.

00:15:48It's a lot of work, man.

00:15:48Their relationships are different than, like, ours.

00:15:52I know.

00:15:52Of course.

00:15:52Yes.

00:15:53For me, it's not possible.

00:15:55I'm an impulsive woman.

00:15:57I'm very jealous.

00:15:58Me too.

00:15:58I don't bring another woman in my bed.

00:16:00I can never.

00:16:02Me too.

00:16:05So, can I talk to you guys really quick?

00:16:07Yeah, singers look like me.

00:16:08Can I talk before you talk, please?

00:16:11Um, Sebra, I wanted to say thank you so much for today.

00:16:15I thought you would be an asshole, but you weren't.

00:16:17You came off very supportive, and you've had really valid questions.

00:16:21So, thank you.

00:16:22I like you so much after today, actually.

00:16:23Be careful.

00:16:24She said that to me, too.

00:16:26You know, you're real catty.

00:16:27I told you not to open your mouth until I finish.

00:16:29Oh, I don't take orders from you.

00:16:31So, you don't get to tell me not to open my mouth.

00:16:32God, you're the sourest person here.

00:16:34She is.

00:16:34That's .

00:16:35Sour apple candy.

00:16:36I really thought you was sharper the whole time.

00:16:38I don't know how he does it with you.

00:16:40I don't even need to be here.

00:16:41You guys have your conversation.

00:16:42Well, if you didn't open your mouth,

00:16:43I would have said some to you.

00:16:45She's not talking to me.

00:16:48I'm leaving.

00:16:48She's just nasty.

00:16:52Are you doing okay, Shekinah?

00:16:54No.

00:16:55them.

00:17:01them.

00:17:05She's just nasty any time she can.

00:17:06And I like women.

00:17:07I will never put up with that .

00:17:08I'll be like, she's somebody else's problem.

00:17:10Well, she's definitely someone else's problem.

00:17:12How do you make it work with her?

00:17:13Because I tried to come to her, try to like, let's talk about it.

00:17:16And then she claps.

00:17:17I mean, and I know if you don't have something

00:17:19because you're safe, just don't say, you know?

00:17:22Female energy.

00:17:23Fence.

00:17:24She's just stubborn.

00:17:25I cannot solve you.

00:17:26I mean, I am that experience about girls.

00:17:29I cannot solve you.

00:17:30None of you.

00:17:31Come to some type of agreement with her because I don't want this, like, energy and animosity.

00:17:36Like, can you just drop it?

00:17:37Can you just drop it?

00:17:37I would say sorry, just say sorry, because I'm ready to move on from this, you know?

00:17:42I'm just going to tell her.

00:17:43No, don't do that.

00:17:44Don't, don't, don't.

00:17:45I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry if I offend you.

00:17:47I do not care about your fake apology.

00:17:50Please leave.

00:17:51Please shut the curtain.

00:17:52This is my dressing room.

00:17:53Please go out.

00:17:54She's butt hurt.

00:17:54It's okay, honey.

00:17:55All right.

00:17:56I tried.

00:17:56And my conscience is free, so.

00:17:58Great.

00:17:59She's so immature.

00:18:00Yeah.

00:18:00Damn.

00:18:01How do you make this work, Sarper?

00:18:03Good luck, Sarper, bro.

00:18:06You need to stick up for me more.

00:18:07Yeah.

00:18:07I do.

00:18:08No, you don't.

00:18:09She was telling me to shut my mouth and you just stood there.

00:18:11I did.

00:18:11I just pulled the finish angle.

00:18:13I just finished.

00:18:14You need to defend your life, period.

00:18:18Thank you, everybody here, for showing respect and thank you for caring.

00:18:22Yeah, thank you for listening to us.

00:18:23I mean, like, I know it wasn't easy.

00:18:26Yeah.

00:18:26All of y'all's comments came from, like, like, caring, you know?

00:18:31Yeah.

00:18:33All right, I'm going to see you guys back on sale.

00:18:35I always date protective people, so I'm not used to this .

00:18:39Go find me, Don.

00:18:42Trapple, it's a mess.

00:18:43She kind of made a mistake.

00:18:45I've ordered never text anything to any cast member that you don't know.

00:18:50But the way they came to Shekinah, it's too hard, you know?

00:18:54Um, she can answer, but oh, it's so fake.

00:18:59It's okay.

00:18:59It's standard.

00:19:04She started to say, you didn't stand up for me.

00:19:07You don't protect me.

00:19:08I didn't want to involve because if I involve, it could go to physical that.

00:19:12I didn't want that.

00:19:13But it up my relationship with Shekinah.

00:19:20Here we go.

00:19:20Everybody take a seat, please.

00:19:24All right, here we go, guys.

00:19:26I wish she was here.

00:19:30In three, two.

00:19:33Hello, and welcome back.

00:19:35Before we move on, Shekinah and Sarper,

00:19:38I'm hearing that something went on backstage.

00:19:41Can you tell me what it was?

00:19:43Yeah, I mean, Armani wanted to talk to...

00:19:45It's Emeni.

00:19:46What?

00:19:47It's Emeni.

00:19:48Emeni wanted to talk to us, and so we gave her, you know, the opportunity to speak.

00:19:56And she started out by telling me to keep my mouth shut until she found a thing.

00:19:59No, I said, please let me finish.

00:20:01Can I please finish?

00:20:03And so she started talking, and she was directing her entire focus to Sarper,

00:20:08complimenting him, how great he is.

00:20:10Thank you so much for your support, blah, blah, blah.

00:20:12And I was thinking, why am I standing here?

00:20:14Like, she just wants to talk to Sarper.

00:20:16So I excused myself.

00:20:18And, you know, then I heard the insult start,

00:20:21that she had a lot of things to say about me that was negative.

00:20:24If you waited a little bit, I was going to also talk to you as well.

00:20:28But, you know, you threw a fit, went into your...

00:20:30I did not throw a fit at all.

00:20:32You threw a fit a lot.

00:20:33I excused myself.

00:20:34More than my four-year-old.

00:20:35I said, this conversation is for you two.

00:20:36I don't know how you're patient with this.

00:20:38Please don't take everything personal.

00:20:39We're not a high school.

00:20:43Unbelievable.

00:20:45Let's do like this.

00:20:46Let's ignore each other, because there is no way that you can get along.

00:20:50Do not communicate.

00:20:53Yeah, but I feel like, Sarper, you're not protecting me,

00:20:56and you promised to defend me.

00:20:58Yeah, I know.

00:20:58I'm aware of this.

00:21:00In every fight that we have, you always said, you don't...

00:21:03you didn't keep promises.

00:21:04Also, you don't care about my feelings when I'm telling you I'm hurt,

00:21:08or something like that.

00:21:09I know, okay, let me tell you something.

00:21:10You get angry at me.

00:21:10I told you something.

00:21:13I keep promises, because I love you.

00:21:16I love you.

00:21:19Yes, look.

00:21:20Okay.

00:21:21You're skipping me a little.

00:21:22Do you believe me?

00:21:23I just want to give you something.

00:21:28What?

00:21:30What is happening?

00:21:32What the heck is going on?

00:21:36Megan, you threatened to ruin Juan's life.

00:21:41Uh, does that threat still stand?

00:21:45Absolutely.

00:21:46Forever.

00:21:46Yeah.

00:21:49This is our business.

00:21:51You step aside.

00:21:52No.

00:21:53Bitch, bye.

00:21:54What is happening?

00:22:10What?

00:22:12I hope you like it.

00:22:13Whoa.

00:22:15Oh, my God.

00:22:16What is this?

00:22:18Wait, this is not just a wedding band.

00:22:20This is a wedding ring and wedding band, as you wished.

00:22:23Good job, man.

00:22:23Wow.

00:22:24Good job, Serper.

00:22:27Aw.

00:22:27Come on, man.

00:22:28That looks so pretty.

00:22:29That is amazing.

00:22:32This is so pretty.

00:22:33Yes, this is half of my savings in Turkey.

00:22:36Aw.

00:22:38And don't say that I don't keep my promises.

00:22:42Yeah, he has kept his promise.

00:22:44Aw.

00:22:48Listen, I haven't seen no love between y'all two until just now.

00:22:51That's a beautiful thing.

00:22:52Congratulations, guys.

00:22:53Let's see Shekinah.

00:22:55So pretty.

00:22:56And can you, like, spin it?

00:22:57My eyes, baby.

00:22:58I know.

00:22:58Start to eat.

00:22:59Show that.

00:23:01This is huge.

00:23:02What the hell?

00:23:02Don't show me.

00:23:03It hurts.

00:23:06It really hurts.

00:23:08Oh, my God.

00:23:09I guess I'll stay married to him.

00:23:10I mean, like, until the next problem.

00:23:13Well, Shekinah and Sarpur, that certainly was a surprise.

00:23:20A big, sparkly one.

00:23:22And this is your witness.

00:23:24Please, guys.

00:23:24All right.

00:23:26Congratulations.

00:23:26Thanks so much.

00:23:27Congratulations, guys.

00:23:31OK, let's take a five-minute break to give Shekinah

00:23:34and Sarpur a chance to savor this moment.

00:23:37Everybody can stretch their legs.

00:23:41Congratulations.

00:23:43You guys get ready.

00:23:43It's nice to be right.

00:23:44Good job.

00:23:45That's so beautiful.

00:23:45It's so pretty.

00:23:48I'm, like, shaking, and I'm, can't believe it.

00:23:52It's giant.

00:23:54What's this?

00:23:55No more rings.

00:23:56OK.

00:23:57I don't need any more rings after this ring.

00:23:59You are my precious.

00:24:00This is the ultimate ring.

00:24:00Precious.

00:24:01Oh, my God, babe.

00:24:02Do you get the joke?

00:24:03Yes, I get the joke.

00:24:04Lord of the Rings.

00:24:05Yes.

00:24:05Come, come, come.

00:24:09Be like this with me.

00:24:11I mean, I do everything for you.

00:24:12Be sweet to me, I'll be sweet to you.

00:24:13OK, I'll do everything for you.

00:24:14I love you, love you.

00:24:17I love you, too.

00:24:19Thank you, God.

00:24:20Welcome to the show.

00:24:21Back to set.

00:24:32Let's move on now to Jessica and Juan.

00:24:35You ready?

00:24:35Let's do it.

00:24:36First of all, how is little David doing and the boys?

00:24:41They're doing good.

00:24:41They're all growing up so fast.

00:24:43David's almost two.

00:24:45Wow.

00:24:46Dawson's really big into sports, so he keeps all of us going.

00:24:50And Dayton got a horse.

00:24:52Oh, OK.

00:24:52Yeah.

00:24:53So technically, we all got a horse.

00:24:55She's lovely, though.

00:24:56That's Tess.

00:25:00Juan, Wyoming seems like a beautiful, scenic place.

00:25:04How are you settling in?

00:25:06It's tough.

00:25:08It's been tough on my mind.

00:25:10And economy-wise, my life is, like, falling apart.

00:25:16Back home in Colombia, I was investing in real estate.

00:25:20I was building apartments.

00:25:22I don't have money to finance the construction no more.

00:25:25Wow.

00:25:26Are you in debt?

00:25:27Yeah, I'm in debt.

00:25:28How much are you in debt?

00:25:30I don't even want to look at it, right?

00:25:31Oh, wow.

00:25:32I am happy to help him, but he's independent and does not want...

00:25:37I don't really want her to pay for my stuff.

00:25:39My help?

00:25:39How much I understand, you know?

00:25:40I don't want any of that.

00:25:41So you have your work papers?

00:25:44Yeah, he has his green card.

00:25:45I got my green card.

00:25:47What have you been doing?

00:25:49I've been finding small jobs, like delivering and stuff like that.

00:25:53It's been hard finding a job that I like.

00:25:57We saw you get in touch with your cruise ship boss.

00:26:00Are you considering going back to work on the ship?

00:26:04We talk about it.

00:26:05It's our last resort option.

00:26:08Yeah.

00:26:08Typically, his contracts are, like, six to eight months.

00:26:10Whoa.

00:26:11So he'd be gone, and then he gets, like, two months home.

00:26:13And so that's why I say it's the last resort.

00:26:17I mean, it's your dream job that you always wanted.

00:26:20You know, I'm a pilot.

00:26:21It would be hard for me to leave.

00:26:23It's something I worked so hard to get.

00:26:24So I understand him not being able to take another job right away,

00:26:28how difficult that is.

00:26:30Not having that anymore has been hard on me.

00:26:33Yeah.

00:26:34Let's continue this conversation.

00:26:36We have a 90-dayer here who has watched Jess and Juan's journey very closely

00:26:41and has a lot to say about their relationship.

00:26:44Please welcome Danielle.

00:26:46There we are.

00:26:48Oh, my God.

00:26:49That's my girl.

00:26:51Fellow paradise.

00:26:53And we're, like, matching.

00:26:54Our dresses are so similar.

00:26:56Same dress.

00:26:56They're the same dress.

00:26:57Yeah.

00:26:58Wow.

00:26:58Hi, Danielle.

00:26:59Good to see you.

00:26:59Good to see you, Sean.

00:27:01You come from a similar background.

00:27:03Yeah.

00:27:04And cheating was a big issue in their relationship and yours, too.

00:27:08I see a lot of myself and my relationship with Johan in them.

00:27:13I think, you know, the nature of being in the hospitality industry requires you to be very charming

00:27:19and to get along with everyone and flared a little bit.

00:27:22I was a bartender once.

00:27:23I know what that's like.

00:27:24Um, but I think when you're in a committed relationship and you have a child with someone

00:27:29and you're married, it creates a lot of problems.

00:27:31We went through this journey with you, with your relationship with Johan.

00:27:39Last you and I saw each other, you guys were done kaputs.

00:27:44Are you back together?

00:27:45Yeah.

00:27:47Let me tell you, I am shocked.

00:27:48Me too.

00:27:49But all I ever wanted from him was acknowledgement and being like, yeah, I did this and I hurt you

00:27:55and I'm sorry. And once I was able to get that from him, I was able to move on.

00:28:01Well, we're excited to hear more from you, Danielle.

00:28:04But first, I want to add another strong voice into the mix.

00:28:08Jess's friend Megan is very protective of her and her unwavering support has sometimes led to

00:28:14combative encounters with Juan. Has Megan backed off since they got married? Let's find out.

00:28:20Please welcome Jess's friend, Megan.

00:28:22Meg!

00:28:24Hi, Megan.

00:28:25Hi, hi, hi, hi.

00:28:26Juan, did you say hi to Megan?

00:28:32Hi, Megan.

00:28:32Hi, Juan.

00:28:33Megan, you threatened to ruin Juan's life. Does that threat still stand?

00:28:41Absolutely. Forever.

00:28:43It does?

00:28:43Yeah.

00:28:44I don't find it cool. You're her best friend. And I understand you are overprotective. But this

00:28:51is our business. And if someone has to ruin my life, it has to be her. Because she's the one

00:28:58getting hurt. You don't have anything to do with it. Step aside. And just let us be.

00:29:06I mean, no. Bitch, bye.

00:29:13Danielle and Shekinah, do either of you feel that you owe the other an apology?

00:29:20Hell the no.

00:29:20Absolutely not.

00:29:21Shekinah, I'm telling you, you have too many haters.

00:29:27I don't know how I got so many people so riled up.

00:29:30How are you a victim?

00:29:31Because you're attacking here, but you're lying.

00:29:34Girl, get your husband. This is with Shekinah.

00:29:36We weren't talking about our own experiences.

00:29:38You said .

00:29:39Put your finger in my face again.

00:29:47Step aside. And just let us be.

00:29:53No. Bitch, bye.

00:29:55Okay.

00:29:56Wow.

00:30:00Try to look at it from his perspective.

00:30:02I understand you want to be supportive to your best friend, but Juan has nobody here. No support

00:30:07system, nothing. And it's like, it feels like you're just ginging up on him.

00:30:10Juan, do you think Meghan and Jessica are too close?

00:30:14They are definitely too close.

00:30:17Okay. But Jessica, do you like that Meghan is so protective of you?

00:30:21I appreciate that it comes from a good place, but I don't need her to protect me. I'm a grown woman.

00:30:29Well, we definitely saw Meghan's protective side come out when she learned about Juan's infidelity.

00:30:36Let's take a look.

00:30:37So you know probably what's coming, but it's because you haven't answered my questions yet.

00:30:43When Juan was on his last cruise, he had allegedly cheated with a woman.

00:30:52Did you sleep with that girl?

00:30:58I didn't.

00:31:01It's taken a year for you to admit this to me, Juan, when I confronted you in Colombia a year ago.

00:31:07My bad.

00:31:08Yeah.

00:31:11So, I mean, I do want to say, like, I did know this. Like, at that time, I was not in my best place either.

00:31:18The same time that Juan was feeling weak in our relationship, I found myself kind of catching

00:31:23feelings for, like, an ex-boyfriend. He even asked me about that guy, like, do you have feelings for

00:31:27this guy? I mean, he was your ex-boyfriend, but...

00:31:30What?

00:31:32What?

00:31:33Yeah.

00:31:37Whoa.

00:31:40I felt our relationship being disconnected, and we both felt that. Distance was really hard on us.

00:31:48And then, obviously, we both had weak points. You know, he physically cheated, I emotionally cheated.

00:31:54For me, like, regardless of whether she emotionally cheated or physically cheated, if she lied to him,

00:32:01that's the betrayal. It's the lie. It's not about what you do. It's, can I trust the words that come out

00:32:06of your mouth? But it is different. I mean, he physically cheated on her, actually, literally,

00:32:13a week after we went on the cruise for her bachelorette party. So, I mean, that's like a problem,

00:32:19right? Like, that's a problem. I'm sorry.

00:32:22But I didn't understand why Megan was crying so much, like, she's part of the relationship.

00:32:28That's, I, you, you're not the...

00:32:30Oh, no. I mean, it was, it was...

00:32:32They cheated on you.

00:32:33Yeah.

00:32:34Last time I checked, she's the wife.

00:32:36I mean, I've been a part of their relationship since literal day one when we met Juan. And,

00:32:41I mean, I was holding the phone when David was born. Like, I was holding Juan's face so he could

00:32:45watch his birth of his child. Like, I'm that friend. Like, I've been in it. So, I think it was

00:32:51just more emotional. And the fact that they had lied to me.

00:32:53Which one's lie affected you more emotionally? Jessica's.

00:32:58It just hurt me because I never thought that she would, like, hold that for me. Like, at least just tell

00:33:01me. Like, friggin' tell me.

00:33:02So, why do you think she chose to not tell you?

00:33:05I don't know.

00:33:07Their relationship has to be more important to each of them than either of their relationship

00:33:13with you. And that's going to be hard for you to swallow. But, like, he's more important to her

00:33:17than you are. He's the father of her kid.

00:33:22They're like sisters, though. They behave like sisters, not like friends. And I have three.

00:33:27And if it was my sister, I would have thrown a glass at him.

00:33:29Thank you, Stevie.

00:33:31I feel like if I can really trust my friend, and they're my best friend,

00:33:35and, like, my right hand, there is nothing I don't tell them.

00:33:38Right. So, if she doesn't tell you,

00:33:40Yeah.

00:33:40It's because she feels like you're going to judge Juan, and you're going to

00:33:44up their relationship.

00:33:45I mean, yeah, partially probably that. Like, I'm trying to protect him.

00:33:47I'm also trying to protect her.

00:33:48Okay. So, Megan, what do you think about Juan's work situation?

00:33:53That could be a little bit better. Because my husband and I were both references for him.

00:33:59Like, they'll send us a referral because Jess applied him for the job. And then me and my

00:34:02husband send in, like, a really positive referral. Like, yeah, hire this guy. He's a good, great work

00:34:06ethic. He's like, I don't want that job. What? To the best of your knowledge, how many jobs has

00:34:16Juan said, eh, no, I don't, I'm not interested. How many jobs has he turned down?

00:34:21I mean, 50 maybe? 50? I mean, that he's actually, like, turned down, like, where they've reached

00:34:32out. I'd say probably, like, five. How is there that many places in your

00:34:36town to apply to? I mean, there's, like, smaller communities nearby.

00:34:39Yeah. Like, even Nebraska's only, like, 30, 45 minutes away. Like, he could go work there at

00:34:43a car dealership and sell so many cars. Why are you staying in Wyoming?

00:34:48That's, that's a good question. I mean, I will answer that happily.

00:34:52I mean, every, every, someone has to lose something.

00:34:55Someone has to sacrifice. I mean, we have my kids, my boys. They're with me four days.

00:35:00They're with their dad three days. I'm open to moving and time.

00:35:04Juan, what do you want to do? Work on the cruise? I would really like to ask Juan.

00:35:10My, my dream job has been the cruise ship. So you really want to work on the cruise ship?

00:35:16So, your wife and her friend are applying for all of these jobs that you don't want.

00:35:21You want to work on a cruise ship. Why are we talking about anything else than Juan working

00:35:25on a cruise ship? I mean, you can talk. You can explain yourself.

00:35:27I mean, even the jobs we apply for, even the car selling thing, they never call me back.

00:35:31They say nothing. Let's talk about the cruise ship.

00:35:33Let's talk about why can't you do the cruise ship, from your opinion.

00:35:36The only problem about the cruise ship is leaving my son.

00:35:39For six months?

00:35:40Yeah. I'm sticking to this place because of him, and there's no other reason.

00:35:45I don't know.

00:35:46He sits there and says, the only reason I'm here is because of David.

00:35:49Like, you should have said, the only reason I'm here is because of David and Jessica.

00:35:52Like, I want to be here for my wife.

00:35:53That's not your business. That's her, that's for her to get mad at him.

00:35:55That's what I'm saying. She doesn't get mad at him.

00:35:56She just lets him, texts him.

00:35:58Yeah. I mean, I agree.

00:36:01Juan, how much do you make in tips on a cruise ship?

00:36:06Probably, in a good day, probably $900.

00:36:08Just in tips?

00:36:09In just in tips.

00:36:10All right.

00:36:11Bravo.

00:36:12Because he's so cute.

00:36:14Speaking of that, Juan, we've heard you get a lot of attention online.

00:36:20Are you getting a lot of DMs from women?

00:36:25Quite a bit.

00:36:26Quite a bit?

00:36:28Look at that little grin.

00:36:31Juan, do you respond to the women?

00:36:35Sometimes.

00:36:36That's wild.

00:36:39Why do you respond?

00:36:40Mm-hmm.

00:36:41You should just...

00:36:42I'm a nice person.

00:36:43No, that's not being nice.

00:36:44You should just not respond.

00:36:47It's different responding to someone that says, oh, I love you guys.

00:36:50You're my favorite couple.

00:36:51Couple.

00:36:51Yeah.

00:36:52Then, hey, I want to screw you, leave your wife.

00:36:54That's a problem.

00:36:55But has anybody said that to you, Juan?

00:36:56That they want to screw you to leave your wife?

00:36:58Yes.

00:36:59And that they made $20 an hour.

00:37:01Like, Jess makes $100.

00:37:03You too.

00:37:05Well, she has my social media in her phone.

00:37:09He was the one that came up with that.

00:37:11Well, when we went through the cheating type of thing and we were talking these things over and

00:37:17try to work everything out, I proposed her to give her my Instagram profile.

00:37:23Johan did the same thing with me.

00:37:25I always had control over his Instagram.

00:37:28When you deal with infidelity, it puts everything you do into question.

00:37:31And so it could be like, yeah, well, she has control of my Instagram,

00:37:34but you have some other way of communicating with people that you meet.

00:37:36Mm-hmm.

00:37:37So anytime someone's reaching out to you, ignore it.

00:37:42You don't have to be nice to anybody.

00:37:43The only person that you need to be nice to is your wife.

00:37:47Is there something I tell him?

00:37:48When girls inbox him, he replies.

00:37:50I'm like, don't.

00:37:51I reply to everybody, men, women, I mean, whoever.

00:37:54That's who I am.

00:37:54I don't know what these people say.

00:37:56No, stop.

00:37:58Megan, thank you so much for being such a good friend to Jessica and for spending time with us.

00:38:03Thank you for having me.

00:38:04Thank you so much.

00:38:05Take care.

00:38:08Jessica and Juan, thank you for being so open and honest with us.

00:38:12Best of luck navigating whatever the future holds.

00:38:16All right.

00:38:16And Danielle, before I let you go, I want to ask you about an online interaction you had with Shekinah.

00:38:27What happened?

00:38:28Another one?

00:38:29There have been a few.

00:38:31Okay.

00:38:32What has it been about?

00:38:34Oh, my God.

00:38:35Um, I think the first time I had an interaction with Shekinah online, she had suggested that I

00:38:41reached out to Sarpur before the tell-all and wished him luck and didn't reach out to her,

00:38:46which was not accurate.

00:38:47She did message Sarpur and not me.

00:38:49Please.

00:38:50Nothing is ever going to come out of my mouth that I don't have evidence for.

00:38:53We also have evidence.

00:38:55You're right.

00:38:56You're right.

00:38:56Let them talk.

00:38:56You spoke.

00:38:57You're right.

00:38:57Let them talk.

00:38:58You're right.

00:38:59Let them talk.

00:38:59Matt, Matt, it's not you.

00:39:01Shut up.

00:39:02You're always interrupting everyone, Matt.

00:39:04You interrupted me.

00:39:06I was literally in the middle of speaking.

00:39:07Okay, Danielle.

00:39:08Because you were lying.

00:39:09You're speaking lies.

00:39:10Stop telling people liars and stuff like that.

00:39:12You need to be less rude, Shekinah.

00:39:14She's literally lying about me.

00:39:16I have a right to defend myself.

00:39:17It's her perspective.

00:39:18Shut up, Imani.

00:39:18Nobody's talking to you.

00:39:19Don't talk to people like they need to shut up.

00:39:21You need to be-

00:39:22I'm gonna be done.

00:39:23Inside, you're hollow.

00:39:24There's nothing.

00:39:24You're shallow.

00:39:25Shallow as a puddle, period.

00:39:28Yo, she always brings the New York out of me.

00:39:31She's so rude.

00:39:32Always.

00:39:33Whatever.

00:39:33I don't even care.

00:39:34Okay.

00:39:35Danielle, go ahead.

00:39:36So what happened?

00:39:37So what actually happened, I said, I'm really sorry about the tell-all.

00:39:42I wish you and Shekinah both the best.

00:39:44And that was literally the whole thing.

00:39:46It was after the filming of that day.

00:39:48It was not before.

00:39:49And then she does these, like, press interviews that she probably pays for.

00:39:52Oh, my God.

00:39:55Oh, my God.

00:39:55What is she talking about?

00:39:57Yeah.

00:39:58And she says these things that are not true.

00:40:02Wow.

00:40:03She said that I was trash.

00:40:05I was for the streets.

00:40:07That I was hitting on Sarpra.

00:40:10I don't think you should have called her trash and all these things like that.

00:40:13You should have heard what she was saying about me online.

00:40:15She said that I pay for bots to put mean messages on her Instagram.

00:40:20People are mean to you because you're a nasty person.

00:40:22She's desperate.

00:40:23Nobody is paying for bots to send nasty comments to you.

00:40:26You're getting them all by yourself from real people.

00:40:28I'm not desperate because I don't have to work out of my house.

00:40:32You are desperate, girl.

00:40:34Your opinions are out of line because you're commenting on things you know nothing about.

00:40:38You do that, too.

00:40:39What makes my opinions out of line but your opinions are within the lines?

00:40:44Because you just accused us of paying for interviews.

00:40:47That's insane.

00:40:49Shekinah, Danielle, do either of you feel that you owe the other an apology?

00:40:56Hell the no.

00:40:58Absolutely not.

00:40:59No way.

00:41:02Okay.

00:41:04Danielle.

00:41:05Yes.

00:41:06It's great seeing you again.

00:41:07Thank you for stopping by to share your unfiltered opinions.

00:41:12Thank you very much.

00:41:13Bye-bye.

00:41:14Take care.

00:41:14We're glad to see you leave.

00:41:16Bye-bye.

00:41:18Okay, everybody.

00:41:19We're gonna take a break.

00:41:20Oh, my God.

00:41:23Crazy bitch.

00:41:23Day of reckoning.

00:41:26I've survived.

00:41:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:41:30Yeah.

00:41:31Shekinah, I'm telling you, you have too many haters.

00:41:36Yes, I don't understand it.

00:41:38It's all shocking to me.

00:41:42Danielle, like, I know she wants attention, and the lies that she comes up with about me,

00:41:47I mean, today was just, like, mind-blowing.

00:41:49Hi!

00:41:50I'm a fan.

00:41:51Yo, what's up?

00:41:52I want to say, I think there's a lot of fake people in here, but you are just real to yourself.

00:41:56Say it how it is, and I'm just like that, so.

00:42:00Yeah, it's a New York thing, I think.

00:42:01Shore island, Shore island.

00:42:02Yeah, exactly.

00:42:03Danielle was attacking Chikana.

00:42:05She was just mentioning every single thing that she's jealous of, and there were four people attacking her.

00:42:11Did she think she was getting ganged up on?

00:42:12Yeah, like, and I hate the lying. I don't know what happened, but one thing that I know is that

00:42:18she was lying that she was paying for those interviews, and it's sad to see, like, somebody

00:42:23is manipulating everyone and nobody's talking about her.

00:42:26I'm not a really, um, confrontational person, but some things really bother me, and one of them

00:42:32is, like, lying. I hate lying and lawyers. I can't just see that lie and just be quiet.

00:42:38Your mom is like every single lady I know in Long Island.

00:42:42Every single, like, she's not the only one.

00:42:45Danielle, I got a question for you.

00:42:47Sure.

00:42:48You said Chikana pays for those interviews.

00:42:51No, she said she didn't know if she pays for them.

00:42:52Yeah.

00:42:53She exactly said.

00:42:53That's not what she said.

00:42:54That's not what she said.

00:42:55I'm not talking to you, first of all.

00:42:56I'm gonna defend her, though.

00:42:58I'm gonna defend her.

00:42:58You're a man approaching a woman.

00:43:00I'm gonna defend her.

00:43:01He asked a question.

00:43:03So anybody who works in LA who understands how this works knows the deal.

00:43:08I actually don't know what she pays for and what she doesn't.

00:43:11And you're assuming.

00:43:12I have no idea.

00:43:13I have no idea.

00:43:14If you have no idea, why are you manipulating me?

00:43:16But why are you so pissed?

00:43:17I'm just saying, what is your reason that you said that?

00:43:19Because Chikana presents as the kind of person

00:43:23that wants to put herself into anything.

00:43:26And she also fights with people who don't really deserve it.

00:43:30She gets on stage.

00:43:31She comes for every girl.

00:43:33And she's nasty.

00:43:34And I've seen it too many times.

00:43:35And I have to open my mouth.

00:43:36Danielle, you are over the top.

00:43:38I mean, I'm hearing that you are over the top.

00:43:40Sorry, sorry.

00:43:41One minute.

00:43:42Okay.

00:43:43My sentence is exactly like yours.

00:43:47She's the most hated girl.

00:43:48I'm not a mean girl.

00:43:50I do teach yoga and meditation.

00:43:52But one of the things that is really important to me that is

00:43:55that I'm honest and she's a bitch.

00:44:03Can I tell you something?

00:44:05You're a complete liar.

00:44:06But this scares me, okay?

00:44:08I'm nervous as right now.

00:44:09This is the thing you're crying about right now?

00:44:12I have never seen you shed a tear.

00:44:15How are you a victim?

00:44:17Because you're attacking her by your lies.

00:44:19She is getting more attention.

00:44:20And you wanted it.

00:44:22And you lied about it.

00:44:23Why are you even in this?

00:44:24Why are you commenting?

00:44:25Okay, I'm sorry.

00:44:26Girl, get your husband.

00:44:27This is a girl.

00:44:28Seriously.

00:44:29You commented about every thing.

00:44:31I don't know what you're telling.

00:44:33Shut the out.

00:44:34Stop pretending to be whistling.

00:44:36I don't have a problem with you until you interrupt everybody.

00:44:39Shut up.

00:44:40We were talking about our own experiences.

00:44:43You said something.

00:44:44Here's the thing.

00:44:45If you put your finger in my face again, enough.

00:44:47Put your finger down.

00:44:48Hold on, hold on.

00:44:49Put your finger down.

00:44:50Put your finger down.

00:44:51Put your finger down.

00:45:02Put your finger down.

00:45:04Put your finger down.

00:45:06No, no, no.

00:45:07You teach meditation and you act like that?

00:45:10You lied and you need to apologize.

00:45:12You need to apologize.

00:45:14No, no, no.

00:45:16You need to apologize that you lied.

00:45:18Enough.

00:45:18She called her a bitch.

00:45:20I can never call her a bitch.

00:45:22You're just listening to her lies.

00:45:24I'm not listening to anything you say

00:45:25because you're highly disrespectful.

00:45:27He was being respectful until everyone started screaming.

00:45:30This looks like a circus.

00:45:32I was like, oh, no.

00:45:33I wouldn't waste my time.

00:45:34I just want to have my food because I'm hungry.

00:45:37Get her out of here.

00:45:38Get her out of here.

00:45:39I'm leaving the building if you don't get that bitch out.

00:45:42That's it.

00:45:42I'm done.

00:45:43Thank you so much for lying.

00:45:45And we know who's a liar here.

00:45:47You have no business in this period.

00:45:48You don't have business in everyone's conversation.

00:45:50It is exactly what you just did right now.

00:45:52You both are trying to be political as .

00:45:54Getting in that.

00:45:55Oh, look at us.

00:45:56We're the good ones here.

00:45:57We're the sweetheart.

00:45:58You're doing the same technique.

00:46:00I hate lying.

00:46:01I know.

00:46:02Daniel, the throuple, they were all coming at Shekinah.

00:46:06Unfortunately, I really couldn't help calling them out.

00:46:09I don't start , but I can finish it.

00:46:11And that's exactly what I was trying to do.

00:46:13All right, guys.

00:46:14This has been fun.

00:46:15I always like to tell all that I got to get out of here.

00:46:17Nice meeting all of you.

00:46:19Shekinah has a history of not being a girl's girl.

00:46:24I don't think it's possible to know the real Shekinah.

00:46:26I think there are so many layers of plastic laid over her real

00:46:30personality that it's hard to figure out who she really is.

00:46:33Oh, you know what?

00:46:35I cannot believe everything that they said.

00:46:37I know.

00:46:38I don't know.

00:46:39I mean, she made a research about you, whatever you said, all things.

00:46:43Yeah, that took some reason.

00:46:44And she found something and she came with it.

00:46:47She made a lift.

00:46:48Oh, my God.

00:46:48I never saw such a cleaner.

00:46:50Me neither.

00:46:51And she hosts meditating retreats.

00:46:55I felt like I could knock it up and go to the bathroom.

00:46:57All right.

00:46:57Yeah, I got a piece over it, man.

00:46:59This one's screaming at this one.

00:47:00She's yelling at her.

00:47:02I don't know what the was going on.

00:47:03It was crazy.

00:47:05This just became too toxic already.

00:47:07Like, I never wanted this to escalate this way.

00:47:09Like, this just got so ugly.

00:47:12There was a lot of really hostile moments.

00:47:15I don't know how I got so many people so riled up.

00:47:21I don't want to listen to them anymore.

00:47:23Me neither.

00:47:25Okay.

00:47:31Snack, snack, snack, snack, snack.

00:47:33You snack, snack.

00:47:34Everyone's snack.

00:47:37Look how they all switch back like it's nothing.

00:47:42Here we go.

00:47:44Five, four, three, two.

00:47:48Let's move over to Mark and Mina.

00:47:51While it was very hard to not have her son Clayton attend

00:47:54the wedding in person, Mark and Mina made it to the altar

00:47:58and got to celebrate their happily ever after.

00:48:00So, how is life now after that very special day?

00:48:05Let's get right to it.

00:48:06Mark and Mina, are you ready?

00:48:07Yes.

00:48:08Okay, good.

00:48:09Mina, we learned earlier that you now spend most of your time in Boston instead of New Hampshire.

00:48:15So you're liking Boston better than New Hampshire?

00:48:17Oh, yeah.

00:48:21And do you plan to stay there long term?

00:48:23You know, we're kind of keeping open to all options.

00:48:26I'm going to long term have the place in New Hampshire or we're going to have that.

00:48:30But Boston right now.

00:48:31But we also love Paris and the south of France.

00:48:34So, you know, we're both open to the idea possibly going back there.

00:48:38Wow.

00:48:39Wow.

00:48:41Okay, so let's dive more into your relationship.

00:48:46Now, Mina, we saw some rumors about your past.

00:48:54There's like an online post that claims eight years ago, you were an exotic dancer.

00:49:01And that's how you met Mark.

00:49:03Is that true?

00:49:23Oh, yeah.

00:49:29Welcome for the team.

00:49:31Did you work in a strip club?

00:49:33I was bartending like Juan.

00:49:36I was bartending.

00:49:37So this was Los Angeles 20, 30 years ago?

00:49:40So, Mina, when you worked at the club, you were dancing at a club.

00:49:44Yeah.

00:49:45Okay, but you did not meet Mark at that club.

00:49:49Also, Mina, online, there were rumors about your stage name.

00:49:55Do you want to tell us what your stage name was?

00:50:02Mark, do you know what her stage name was?

00:50:03He turned all the way around to look at you.

00:50:05Wait, wait.

00:50:06Don't we all have stripper names?

00:50:07He's like ready.

00:50:08Mine was Alex.

00:50:11Alex?

00:50:11Yeah.

00:50:12Oh, Alex is my sister's name.

00:50:15Because you might play Divine.

00:50:18Divine.

00:50:19Wow.

00:50:21So, how did you come up with the name Divine?

00:50:24Because my cousin's name is Divine.

00:50:26Ah.

00:50:27He's your cousin.

00:50:27Yeah.

00:50:28You use your cousin.

00:50:31I love that.

00:50:33So, how did you come up with Alex?

00:50:35I don't know.

00:50:35I mean, there was a soccer player called Alex, famous at the time.

00:50:40I loved his name.

00:50:41So, because my family doesn't know, I have to be confidential as much as possible.

00:50:45So, let me put Alex, I thought.

00:50:49You know, aren't stage names, though, supposed to be sexy?

00:50:51Alex isn't sexy.

00:50:52In Turkey, it's sexy.

00:50:55For you, it's sexy.

00:50:56For America, maybe it's not.

00:50:57Ani, so your stage name?

00:51:01I think.

00:51:03You need to add Matt to the 90 Day Stripper Club.

00:51:05He used to be a stripper, too.

00:51:07Wait, Matt used to be a stripper?

00:51:08Uh-huh.

00:51:09Really?

00:51:09Yeah, he would do bachelorette parties, everything.

00:51:12No kidding.

00:51:13Uh-huh.

00:51:14Matt, now that you have been outed, what was your stage name, Matt?

00:51:20Hudson.

00:51:21Hudson.

00:51:24Y'all thought Ani was the only one, huh?

00:51:28So, back to Mark and Meena.

00:51:30Now that you have been married for a while, let's go back to one of the big issues leading up to the

00:51:35wedding. Mark's daughter, Jordan, was initially skeptical of Meena's intentions with her dad.

00:51:41Let's bring her out to see if she's currently getting along with her new stepmom. Please welcome

00:51:46Mark's daughter, Jordan.

00:51:51Hi.

00:51:51Oh, you look beautiful.

00:51:52You look beautiful.

00:51:53Hi, baby girl.

00:51:54Hi.

00:51:54Good to see you.

00:51:55Good to see you, too.

00:51:56All right, cool.

00:51:57Hi, Meena.

00:51:57Hi, nice to meet you.

00:51:58Hi, you all.

00:51:59Welcome, Jordan.

00:52:00I hear that you recently got engaged.

00:52:03Yes, I did.

00:52:03Congratulations.

00:52:05Congrats.

00:52:07Did you get to celebrate with your dad?

00:52:09Yeah, they came to our engagement party.

00:52:10It was really special.

00:52:11It was a good time for all the family to be together.

00:52:13Good, good.

00:52:15Okay, we know Jordan had several concerns about Meena, and she wasn't shy about voicing them.

00:52:21Let's watch.

00:52:23We're thinking about having another baby.

00:52:28I mean, I already accepted that you had one baby.

00:52:32So I don't think I'm ready to accept you having another one yet.

00:52:38You think I come here for the green card, for the house, for...

00:52:42Yeah, you're coming into my family and having babies.

00:52:45And like, how do I know you're not just with my dad for his money?

00:52:50I have an impression that Jordan and me is a competition.

00:52:55No, it's not competition.

00:52:56Her concern is just about, does dad really need to have more kids?

00:53:02Baby, I'm sorry.

00:53:05For me, Jordan is a hypocrite.

00:53:09I don't know.

00:53:10I'm not comfortable for talking with Jordan because now I say, I say I'm a snake, you know?

00:53:17No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:53:18Don't compare.

00:53:19I go or I don't go.

00:53:20My daughter is not a snake.

00:53:22Yeah.

00:53:22Come on.

00:53:23You don't come in the bed, okay?

00:53:26Seriously?

00:53:27Yeah.

00:53:27Oh, my God.

00:53:34Uh, Jordan, how do you feel about being called a hypocrite, a snake?

00:53:43Tough words.

00:53:44Tough words.

00:53:46Yeah, I mean, it doesn't feel good.

00:53:48But I think that I was probably pretty quick to judge her pretty harshly, too.

00:53:54I think we both kind of did that.

00:53:57And I really created this situation between the two of them.

00:54:01Mina told you something in confidence and Jordan told you something in confidence.

00:54:04Exactly.

00:54:04And you shared with each other.

00:54:06I blew it on both times.

00:54:07Yeah, I did too much talk.

00:54:09You're an overshare.

00:54:10Yeah.

00:54:11I think whenever she came here, it was probably really hard for her because she left so much behind.

00:54:16So coming here, she really was hoping to be, like, fully accepted.

00:54:20And because she didn't get that, that's why it, like, made her say the things that she said to you.

00:54:26Yeah.

00:54:26Exactly.

00:54:28Your dad's happiness is what matters the most.

00:54:30And if he's happy, you should be happy for him.

00:54:33Yeah, I know.

00:54:34I think it was a hard adjustment seeing, you know, your father at his age having a new baby.

00:54:41It was nothing against Maria, but we're 25 years apart.

00:54:45I've always just felt like she's looking out for my best interest.

00:54:48I wanted there to be peace.

00:54:49And I knew eventually Jordan is going to see Mina's heart.

00:54:53It just needed time.

00:54:54I don't think either one of you guys handled that well,

00:54:56but it looks like you've both figured it out, so.

00:54:59Yeah, yeah, super.

00:54:59But Jordan, what would be so bad if they had another child?

00:55:04I mean, you know, I pictured this time of my life, you know, to have him be like a grandfather to my

00:55:10children.

00:55:11So I think that that is an adjustment.

00:55:13You had mentioned, like, what if you guys got pregnant together, like, kind of at the same time?

00:55:17Like, how would that be?

00:55:17Yeah, I mean, that would be kind of awkward.

00:55:23I mean, it's not the end of the world, but would I prefer that?

00:55:26I mean, probably not.

00:55:27I feel like she doesn't have the right to decide whether they should have more kids or not.

00:55:33Is it okay for them to have kids?

00:55:35Yes.

00:55:35And, Mina, I'm sorry if I made you feel like I was trying to tell you what you can and can't do.

00:55:40I was just trying to protect my dad and voice my concerns about him having kids at his age.

00:55:46But it's completely your decision.

00:55:48It's your life and, you know, whatever makes you both happy.

00:55:52That's great.

00:55:53Because she's pregnant.

00:55:57Oh, my God.

00:55:58What?

00:55:58Oh.

00:55:59Whoa, really?

00:56:01Jesus.

00:56:02No.

00:56:04Let's move on to Sean and Aaliyah.

00:56:07Calling Sean and Aaliyah's wedding turbulent?

00:56:09I'm sorry.

00:56:11I just can't.

00:56:12I can't do this.

00:56:15It's weird.

00:56:19I can't put up with this.

00:56:27What's your name?

00:56:36She's pregnant.

00:56:37What did she say?

00:56:37She's pregnant.

00:56:40Oh, no.

00:56:41I'm kidding.

00:56:42Park.

00:56:43No, it's not true.

00:56:44It's not true.

00:56:45Sorry.

00:56:45Yo, you got me, bro. You got me good, man.

00:56:48She's about to be so happy she'll give you a hug, man.

00:56:50How'd you feel about that joke?

00:56:53Bad joke, Jordan, bad joke.

00:56:55I knew he was joking.

00:56:58So are you actively trying to have another baby?

00:57:02We're actively not not trying.

00:57:05So, you know, we're not actively inhibiting.

00:57:09Wait, actively not not trying, meaning you're not using any protection.

00:57:13I guess you could say that, yeah.

00:57:15So eventually, you probably will have another child if you're not using protection, right?

00:57:20I mean, that that is what can happen yet.

00:57:25All right, so what is next for you two?

00:57:35Yeah.

00:57:36We saw how crushing it was for you when you realized that Clayton couldn't come to America.

00:57:44How long has it been since you've seen your son?

00:57:5311 months?

00:57:54Yeah.

00:57:5511 months?

00:57:5611 months?

00:57:57It's tough for her to talk.

00:57:58It's tough for her to talk about.

00:58:00It's tough for her to talk about.

00:58:03Oh.

00:58:04Oh.

00:58:05The last time I saw her, it was by taking my plane to come to the United States.

00:58:12Yeah.

00:58:13Yeah.

00:58:14Yeah.

00:58:15So now we have the freedom.

00:58:16Congratulations.

00:58:17That's amazing.

00:58:18We're so happy for you.

00:58:24We're going to see Clayton as soon as possible within the next few weeks.

00:58:25And our goal, our hope, Jasper, is that we're bringing Clayton back to the U.S. with us at that time.

00:58:30Hope that works for you guys.

00:58:31Yeah.

00:58:34Well, Jordan, we appreciate you being here.

00:58:35Yes, thank you.

00:58:36Thanks, Jordan.

00:58:37We'll see you soon.

00:58:38We're going very soon.

00:58:39We're going very soon.

00:58:40Yeah.

00:58:41She just got the green card last week.

00:58:42Yeah.

00:58:43So now we have the freedom.

00:58:44Congratulations.

00:58:45That's amazing.

00:58:46We're so happy for you.

00:58:49We're going to see Clayton as soon as possible within the next few weeks.

00:58:50And our goal, our hope, Jasper, is that we're bringing Clayton back to the U.S. with us at that time.

00:58:55Hope that works for you guys.

00:58:56Yeah.

00:58:58Well, Jordan, we appreciate you being here.

00:59:01Yes, thank you.

00:59:02Thanks, Jordan.

00:59:03We'll see you soon.

00:59:06Mark and Mina, we're glad to see that your marriage is, pardon the pun, flying high.

00:59:13All right.

00:59:14Before we move on, how about a little comic relief?

00:59:16Sure.

00:59:17Absolutely.

00:59:18Absolutely.

00:59:19Yeah, why not?

00:59:20Yes.

00:59:21So, Sarper, are you still writing jokes?

00:59:23Yeah, sure.

00:59:24You are?

00:59:25All right.

00:59:26Would you like to share some of your jokes with us?

00:59:28Where do you want me?

00:59:29Oh, my God.

00:59:30Wait, can we have a microphone for Sarper?

00:59:32Wow.

00:59:33There we go.

00:59:34Oh, my God.

00:59:35So, we are your audience, Sarper.

00:59:36And that is your stage.

00:59:41Hey!

00:59:42Wow.

00:59:43No pressure.

00:59:44Hi, guys.

00:59:45Hi.

00:59:46Hi.

00:59:47Okay.

00:59:48When we all saw the trouble, I mean, everyone, every man texted me.

00:59:52Even my friends from Turkey.

00:59:54Did you see that lucky mother with two cheeks?

00:59:57And I'm sure every man watching me right now thought the same way.

01:00:00You know?

01:00:01But, guys, is he really that lucky?

01:00:04Hmm?

01:00:05What are advantages of such a relationship in man's perspective?

01:00:11Two, three times per week, 20, 30 minutes at most.

01:00:15And I'm sure it doesn't last that long.

01:00:17No offense.

01:00:18But, this is the only advantage.

01:00:20And is it really an advantage, by the way?

01:00:22Isn't it just like playing golf, guys?

01:00:25Does it matter how many holes out there?

01:00:28When you have only one stick to play?

01:00:32You got it.

01:00:33And let us look at the other scale.

01:00:35Disadvantages.

01:00:36Fights.

01:00:37Arguments.

01:00:38Multiplied by two.

01:00:42Never ending requests.

01:00:43Complaints.

01:00:44Multiplied by two.

01:00:45PMSing.

01:00:46Don't touch me.

01:00:47Multiplied by two.

01:00:50I have only one.

01:00:52Just one atom.

01:00:53And I cannot deal with her.

01:00:56Guys, please start feeling jealous about him.

01:00:59Feel sorry.

01:01:00And you know what?

01:01:01Not only once, but...

01:01:05Multiplied by two.

01:01:06Thanks for listening, guys.

01:01:07All right.

01:01:08Sarper.

01:01:12Okay, let me ask your castmates.

01:01:13I told you you left.

01:01:14I cracked.

01:01:17Let me ask your castmates.

01:01:18Does Sarper have a future in comedy?

01:01:21Definitely.

01:01:22You think he does?

01:01:23Yeah, he's good.

01:01:24He's very passionate about it.

01:01:25Very, very passionate.

01:01:26You would come to see him?

01:01:28Yeah, why not?

01:01:29Why not?

01:01:30Yeah, we just got a free chance.

01:01:31I will come to Purrington as a tour.

01:01:36All right.

01:01:37Let's move on to Sean and Aaliyah.

01:01:39Calling Sean and Aaliyah's wedding turbulent.

01:01:41I'm sorry.

01:01:43I just can't.

01:01:44I can't do this.

01:01:45I...

01:01:47I don't feel right.

01:01:48I just, it's weird.

01:01:51I can't put up with this.

01:01:53Okay.

01:02:03Oh, thank you.

01:02:04He's a hairdresser.

01:02:08Thank you so much.

01:02:11I didn't know what was happening.

01:02:14I always, I always had a heart attack now.

01:02:21Sean, now she's done.

01:02:22Oh, boy.

01:02:23That will go down in 90 day history.

01:02:26Okay.

01:02:27Oh, my gosh.

01:02:28Hi, Connie.

01:02:29So, once again, we're gonna move on to Sean and Aaliyah.

01:02:33Now, calling their wedding turbulent would definitely be an understatement.

01:02:39Have things smoothed out since then?

01:02:41That is what we are about to find out.

01:02:44So, Aaliyah, how are you adjusting to life here in the States?

01:02:50I would say that I'm adjusting pretty good and pretty nice.

01:02:54I don't think that relationship, the marriage, it's like my dream.

01:02:58But I think we are moving forward.

01:03:03What was your dream?

01:03:06I think it's just like a lost chance.

01:03:09I think we're not, you're both not expecting that.

01:03:13The only thing constant in our relationship is huge change.

01:03:18Your story is so fascinating.

01:03:21We've never had a situation like this.

01:03:24Yeah, it's all been unfolding.

01:03:28Well, there are two other 90 day-ers who have strong opinions about Sean and Aaliyah's relationship.

01:03:33Let's bring them into the conversation.

01:03:35Speaking to us remotely from Mexico, please welcome Kenny and Armando.

01:03:42Hi, guys.

01:03:43Hi.

01:03:44How are you?

01:03:45Good.

01:03:46How are you guys doing?

01:03:47We are doing fine.

01:03:49And I'm sure you have a lot to say about Sean and Aaliyah's relationship.

01:03:54Yes.

01:03:55Yes.

01:03:56But first off, Sean probably wants to get a hold of my hair.

01:04:00That's a given.

01:04:02But he doesn't let you touch it.

01:04:04But you can't touch it, you can just look.

01:04:07Well, when Aaliyah moved to the US, their mutual friend Jackie became someone that Aaliyah could rely on.

01:04:14Well, Jackie is here tonight to give her take on these newlyweds.

01:04:18Please welcome Sean and Aaliyah's friend, Jackie.

01:04:22Hi, Jackie.

01:04:23Hi.

01:04:24How are you?

01:04:25Good.

01:04:26Welcome.

01:04:29Jackie, you want to say hi to Sean and Aaliyah?

01:04:32You guys look great.

01:04:34Well, Aaliyah, you look great.

01:04:35Sean, you look very handsome.

01:04:36But I'm loving this fit, Aaliyah.

01:04:39So Jackie, you met Sean and Aaliyah in the infancy of their relationship.

01:04:44Correct.

01:04:45Before Aaliyah transitioned.

01:04:47How different is Aaliyah today from when you first met?

01:04:52Um, Douglas was scared, quiet, timid. Aaliyah is, like, beautiful, bold.

01:04:59I'm really proud of the differences because she's becoming who she was meant to be and, like, I love this person, you know?

01:05:07She's comfortable in her own skin.

01:05:09Yeah, yeah.

01:05:11This is perfect for her. I'm so happy for her.

01:05:13Yeah, I'm so happy for her.

01:05:14Because this is what she is.

01:05:15Yeah.

01:05:16But Sean's perspective, you signed up and then everything changed.

01:05:21I couldn't keep going with the K-1 process, everything. The thing that you did was great.

01:05:26It's navigating how do you support somebody who's going through a lot of changes in order to continue on in this relationship.

01:05:34Okay, but I want to confirm something shocking that my producers told me.

01:05:40Sean, you ended up going on a honeymoon without Aaliyah.

01:05:46I didn't, actually.

01:05:47You did. You literally went on your own honeymoon by yourself.

01:05:56He left me, like, for a month.

01:06:00Wait, what?

01:06:01What's so wrong?

01:06:02Oh, my God.

01:06:04It wasn't a month.

01:06:05Yeah, it was.

01:06:06Let me ask you this, Sean. Do you find Aaliyah physically attracted, like you are sexually attracted to her?

01:06:21The impression that we get is that you're not.

01:06:24Sean, you ended up going on a honeymoon for a month by yourself?

01:06:39I went to go visit my best friend since I was 12 in Florida and I bailed and I told Aaliyah I was leaving because I was still, like, irate.

01:06:47And you went out of the country.

01:06:48And then you went to the Dominican Republic, yeah? You went on, like, a little mini vacation by yourself.

01:06:52I did. I was very selfish about that, yes.

01:06:54You needed a vacation.

01:06:56And the reason you did not take Aaliyah with you was because?

01:07:00He was mad at me.

01:07:02Correct.

01:07:04I held the grudge for months.

01:07:06You still have it even now?

01:07:08Yeah, I think so, in a weird way.

01:07:11I think I'm not just over it.

01:07:14That is childish.

01:07:15Yes.

01:07:16Okay, so, as we know, that anger was stemming from their disastrous wedding day.

01:07:22Let's look back at exactly what went down.

01:07:28Mom?

01:07:37It's painful at the moment.

01:07:38I'm hoping it'll get better quickly.

01:07:42Like, am I taking you to the hospital now?

01:07:44No, and I will be fine by 5 o'clock.

01:07:48I guarantee it.

01:07:49Hi, hey, Mom.

01:07:54It says it's gonna start at 5.

01:07:55Oh, no, there's no way.

01:07:56It's not going to.

01:07:57No.

01:07:58It's 6 right now.

01:08:00And it was my last words to him was,

01:08:03do not let this be like the engagement.

01:08:06Yeah.

01:08:07Two hours late.

01:08:10Time is going and going and going,

01:08:14and there's still no sign or even word from Aaliyah.

01:08:19And finally, I just said, you know, no.

01:08:22Like, no more.

01:08:23I'm done.

01:08:25I've been ready to go for an hour and 45 minutes.

01:08:27You're not supposed to see her.

01:08:28I don't give a .

01:08:30Aw.

01:08:31Not happy.

01:08:32So I say, we'll walk in the thing.

01:08:34Say I do really quick.

01:08:35I'm gonna go have food.

01:08:37And then throw everybody out.

01:08:40Thanks for coming.

01:08:42Aaliyah, hey, thanks for coming too, hey.

01:08:45So, uh, finally coming.

01:08:47When you got around to it.

01:08:48All right, cheers.

01:08:49Bye.

01:08:51Oh my God.

01:08:58Whoa.

01:08:59I think the situation with your mom probably heightened everything.

01:09:04So it wasn't like you were just waiting there for two hours and...

01:09:08Yeah.

01:09:09Every five minutes was like a lifetime.

01:09:12What was the diagnosis of your mother, if your mommy asked?

01:09:14She had fractured her foot on both sides,

01:09:17and she was immobile for months.

01:09:21That's pretty justifiable to be pissed off.

01:09:23And Jackie, you are a big part of my pain.

01:09:27You were the person I relied on to get her and help her get there.

01:09:32You were the only one there.

01:09:33So my mom is my prized possession in this earth.

01:09:37And so I need her in the hospital more than I need a wedding,

01:09:40more than I need to wait for Aaliyah to put on a wig that I had pre-styled,

01:09:45pre-had her hair braided to put on.

01:09:47Pre-had her dress me.

01:09:48I did everything I could to make that as easy as possible.

01:09:50Sean, I get why you were upset.

01:09:52I just feel like that there were...

01:09:53Where were you?

01:09:54There were a million other ways that Dan could have gone.

01:09:55Drinking champagne, sitting around, joking around in your air-conditioned private suite.

01:09:59I got dressed in a public bathroom with no air conditioning, sweating bullets.

01:10:04That's not...

01:10:05Okay.

01:10:06Shush.

01:10:07And then you go to the venue with her.

01:10:08What was I supposed to do?

01:10:09Even if my mom wasn't in a wheelchair,

01:10:10even if my mom didn't have an accident,

01:10:12you should have been like,

01:10:13we're two hours late.

01:10:15We're not talking 15 minutes, 30 minutes.

01:10:17We kept giving her time checks.

01:10:19I kept telling her.

01:10:20Can I tell my side of the story now?

01:10:23Yeah.

01:10:24I want to hear from Aaliyah.

01:10:25Do you think that Jackie could have done more,

01:10:27or was it out of her hands?

01:10:33I think it was out of her hands.

01:10:35Jackie told me something happened with Sean's mom.

01:10:38I was like frozen.

01:10:40And I just felt like,

01:10:41oh my God, I think the wedding's not happening anymore

01:10:43because she cannot be here.

01:10:46And then someone said,

01:10:47oh, don't be worried because she's there.

01:10:50She's fine.

01:10:51And everything's fine.

01:10:52So the person like, calmed me down.

01:10:55And then I just,

01:10:56was the time that I like,

01:10:57continue like doing the makeup and doing all these things.

01:11:00And the time was passing.

01:11:01My phone was not there.

01:11:02Like in my side,

01:11:03you did not call this my phone, I think.

01:11:06And everybody saw like calls for you.

01:11:08Maybe you should have communicated with him.

01:11:10Let's all understand where Sean is coming from.

01:11:13He's upset.

01:11:14I do understand where he's coming from.

01:11:15I do, but.

01:11:16Maybe you had to call him.

01:11:17So me, I should have told Aaliyah,

01:11:18no more makeup, no more hair.

01:11:20That would be better.

01:11:21We have to go.

01:11:22No matter what Jackie said,

01:11:24wasn't going to drag her out of that makeup chair

01:11:26because she was going to look perfect.

01:11:28But no wedding goes off without a hitch.

01:11:31Our wedding was an hour late.

01:11:33We had problems too.

01:11:34I think every wedding does.

01:11:36Okay.

01:11:37So you got married,

01:11:39even after that crazy wedding day.

01:11:42But then,

01:11:43as you told us earlier,

01:11:44your sex life since has not gone well.

01:11:47Have you two been intimate?

01:11:50Yeah.

01:11:51After the wedding,

01:11:53we were intimate like twice.

01:11:56And I feel like I don't want to be in a position

01:11:59that I'm forcing him that.

01:12:00So it's just like,

01:12:01are you waiting?

01:12:02Do you guys like kiss?

01:12:03Or hold your hands?

01:12:05Cuddle?

01:12:06Yeah.

01:12:07Let me ask you,

01:12:08given that this is an open marriage,

01:12:10since the wedding,

01:12:11has either one of you been intimate with another person?

01:12:15I have.

01:12:17Oh, wow.

01:12:18Cool.

01:12:19So do you both have an open marriage

01:12:21or just you, Sean?

01:12:22We both have an open marriage,

01:12:23but she is in the middle of her transition

01:12:26and isn't acting on it,

01:12:27as far as I know.

01:12:29She wants to be loved by you.

01:12:31Alia,

01:12:32piensas que él prefiere el cuerpo de un hombre?

01:12:37Sientes que por eso han perdido la conexión sexual?

01:12:41Sí.

01:12:43I think you really do like masculine bodies

01:12:47and...

01:13:01I think it's just hard like in this process

01:13:03that I'm changing,

01:13:04my body's changing,

01:13:06I don't feel attracted,

01:13:09wanted,

01:13:11my love language,

01:13:12it's physical touch,

01:13:14and I really don't have that.

01:13:17Oh.

01:13:22Let me ask you this, Sean.

01:13:25Do you find

01:13:27Alia physically attractive,

01:13:30like you are sexually attracted to her?

01:13:34I'm worried

01:13:35because I don't really know

01:13:36where we're landing at the end of it all.

01:13:38Only Alia knows what's going to make her truly whole

01:13:43and truly at what she feels she is.

01:13:48So is Sean going to be attracted to Alia

01:13:53if she chose to have bottom surgery?

01:13:55The impression that we get is that you're not.

01:13:58Is that just crossing the line for you?

01:14:01It's her body, her situation.

01:14:03I don't want her to do something

01:14:06just to save this relationship.

01:14:10It wouldn't save it.

01:14:11No, if she chose not to and she doesn't,

01:14:13it's not going to ruin your relationship for sure.

01:14:16Like when you did marry Alia,

01:14:18I mean, did you think I'm in love with this person?

01:14:21Well, the person that I originally fell in love with

01:14:25isn't next to me anymore.

01:14:29So, Sean, are you truly in love with Alia?

01:14:43So...

01:14:44All right, let's get out of here.

01:14:52That light bulb clicked in my head.

01:14:53I was like, wait, Ani says she loves me,

01:14:56but not the way I love her.

01:14:58After all of that, I have 100% hesitation

01:15:01divorcing the most beautiful and amazing woman

01:15:03that I've ever met in my life.

01:15:05So I don't know what our future is.

01:15:11Sean, are you actually in love

01:15:14with Aaliyah?

01:15:16Um...

01:15:17Yes.

01:15:26And I know I'll be there for Aaliyah forever.

01:15:31Good.

01:15:32Sweet.

01:15:36I think Sean was put in Aaliyah's life

01:15:40for Aaliyah to become Aaliyah.

01:15:42And even if it doesn't work out romantically,

01:15:44he will always be there for you.

01:15:48Man, you too.

01:15:49For me, it's hard when I'm emotional

01:15:52to express my feelings.

01:15:54So I wrote a text

01:15:55and I want to share.

01:15:58Does anyone have Aaliyah's phone?

01:16:00I remember when it was just me and you.

01:16:11When talking for hours on the phone

01:16:13and seeing you on a screen

01:16:16wasn't enough.

01:16:18How I wanted to make time stop

01:16:20when we were together

01:16:22and how painful it was

01:16:24to say goodbye.

01:16:29I remember the night

01:16:31I looked at the stars

01:16:33praying for us to be very happy.

01:16:36and today I cry inside.

01:16:41I cry because we have chanted.

01:16:49But I love you

01:16:51and I loved you

01:16:53in all of my versions.

01:16:54And you know I love you, Aaliyah.

01:17:03And I'm always going to be here for you.

01:17:07And we'll figure life out

01:17:11and do it together.

01:17:13I love you, Aaliyah.

01:17:14Okay.

01:17:16Mm-hmm.

01:17:17I love you.

01:17:18I love you, Aaliyah too.

01:17:22I'm crying.

01:17:24Gosh.

01:17:28One more thing.

01:17:29I'm sorry that I was awful

01:17:31to you at the wedding.

01:17:32It was grumpy

01:17:33and it was a hard day for me

01:17:36for obvious reasons.

01:17:37But I'm sorry about that

01:17:39and I was wrong for that.

01:17:41So I just want to let you know.

01:17:42I appreciate that.

01:17:43I just want to see y'all

01:17:43have that day over again.

01:17:45Can we get a redo

01:17:45for the 10-year anniversary, please?

01:17:47We all need an invitation

01:17:48if that happens again.

01:17:50All right.

01:17:52Jackie, thank you so much

01:17:53for joining us.

01:17:54We can see how much

01:17:55you love your friend.

01:17:56Thank you so much for having me.

01:17:59Love you guys.

01:18:00Love you.

01:18:03Kenny and Armando,

01:18:04we always love having you guys.

01:18:06Hope to see you again soon.

01:18:07Nice to see everybody.

01:18:09Thank you, everyone.

01:18:10All right.

01:18:11Sean and Aaliyah.

01:18:13We certainly wish you

01:18:14a world of happiness.

01:18:20Well, we have reached

01:18:21the end of 90 Day Fiancé.

01:18:23The couples tell all.

01:18:25A big thank you

01:18:26to everyone who participated today

01:18:28from the couples

01:18:29to their family and friends

01:18:31to our past 90 Dayers.

01:18:33We've learned a lot

01:18:34and I'm excited to see

01:18:35where all of your journeys

01:18:36take you next.

01:18:37I'm Sean Robinson.

01:18:38Thank you so much

01:18:39for watching.

01:18:41We survived.

01:18:46Oh, my gosh.

01:18:49We did it.

01:18:50Now we can go

01:18:51take this off

01:18:51and get our wedgies out.

01:18:53Oh, my gosh.

01:18:56What's up?

01:18:57My dad is going in.

01:18:59Oh, yeah.

01:18:59Eat.

01:19:00You want to go have dinner with us?

01:19:03We're all eating right there.

01:19:04No, no.

01:19:05I mean, I'm eating

01:19:06for Shekinah.

01:19:07Oh, okay.

01:19:08We won't eat.

01:19:08You guys want to join us

01:19:09or no?

01:19:10No, no.

01:19:10Okay.

01:19:11Well, it was such a pleasure

01:19:12meeting you again

01:19:12if I don't see you.

01:19:13Okay.

01:19:14Sorry you want, like,

01:19:15hanging up on you,

01:19:16but hopefully

01:19:17we'll work it out

01:19:18eventually.

01:19:19Hopefully.

01:19:22It's so hard.

01:19:23I'm going to make a toast

01:19:23and then on a high note.

01:19:25Oh, wait.

01:19:26I don't even drink,

01:19:27but I'm thinking about it.

01:19:28I'm almost drinking.

01:19:31Jessica.

01:19:32Jessica.

01:19:33We're leaving.

01:19:34We're thinking of.

01:19:36High five.

01:19:37We survived the tunnel

01:19:38and no one came for our next.

01:19:40We're going to go home

01:19:41to our baby.

01:19:42Aw.

01:19:42How dare you.

01:19:43It's such a pleasure

01:19:44meeting you.

01:19:45Hi.

01:19:47Hi and bye.

01:19:48I know where I am.

01:19:49Sorry about what Ani said.

01:19:50Don't take it personal.

01:19:51Don't take it personal.

01:19:52Okay.

01:19:53I already texted her.

01:19:54She's not going cool.

01:19:55I mean, I think the next thing

01:19:56for us is definitely,

01:19:57one, finding a job.

01:19:59We should all do luck.

01:20:00Thanks, man.

01:20:00You two, you two.

01:20:01Stay in touch

01:20:01and maybe look

01:20:02into the private yacht.

01:20:04Yeah, I have to make

01:20:05the work so much.

01:20:07I mean, sometimes I feel bad.

01:20:08Like, I should take a job,

01:20:09whatever it becomes,

01:20:10and just take it

01:20:11and work and make the money.

01:20:12And if that doesn't work,

01:20:13then it's like,

01:20:14he'll take a cruise contract

01:20:16or two.

01:20:17It's still last resort,

01:20:18but like,

01:20:19it's on the table.

01:20:22It's on the table, yeah,

01:20:23but I think my son

01:20:24is the priority now.

01:20:29Guys.

01:20:30We're heading out.

01:20:30You guys leaving?

01:20:31It's your time, guys.

01:20:32Hi.

01:20:32Thank you, guys.

01:20:34It was nice to see you now.

01:20:36You too.

01:20:37I'll save your home.

01:20:39I'll save your home, bro.

01:20:40Bye.

01:20:40Bye, sweetie.

01:20:42We'll be in touch.

01:20:43Stay child.

01:20:43I'll get you.

01:20:45Me now.

01:20:45Stop.

01:20:46Stop.

01:20:47Kiss the girl for me.

01:20:48Okay, buddy.

01:20:50Play date for the dogs.

01:20:51Yes.

01:20:51Choke.

01:20:52Oh, bye.

01:20:53Wait.

01:20:55Oh, there.

01:20:55Kiss for you.

01:20:58Bye, guys.

01:21:01Oh.

01:21:02You tried.

01:21:03You tried.

01:21:04I know very clearly now

01:21:12that Imani was coming

01:21:13into this tell-all

01:21:14having it out for me.

01:21:15That was crazy.

01:21:16Like, I'm like, ugh.

01:21:18But they can go on

01:21:20with all their drama

01:21:21and their toxicity.

01:21:23I'm never going to

01:21:24associate with her.

01:21:25She escaped.

01:21:26That's what they deserve.

01:21:28They totally deserve that.

01:21:29I know that we arrived

01:21:44in separate cars.

01:21:45We slept in separate hotel rooms.

01:21:47But I want us to reconnect.

01:21:50And I think that this gesture

01:21:51that he made by giving me this

01:21:52is a sign that, you know,

01:21:54he wants that, too.

01:21:55Yeah.

01:21:56My personal future with Sarpur,

01:21:58I want to move out of my place

01:21:59and get a place of our own.

01:22:02I want Sarpur to work on his anger,

01:22:03and I want us to get into therapy.

01:22:09Bye.

01:22:10Bye, guys.

01:22:11Bye.

01:22:12Hey.

01:22:13I want to give you guys

01:22:13a quick hug.

01:22:14I don't know when

01:22:15I'll see you again, so.

01:22:16Bye.

01:22:17Bye.

01:22:17If I don't see you.

01:22:18I don't like how

01:22:19I don't touch girl Matt.

01:22:20It's okay.

01:22:21I just wanted to wish

01:22:21you guys best of luck.

01:22:22Good night.

01:22:23I can't have a conversation

01:22:24with Imani.

01:22:25I'm not sorry

01:22:25for standing up for myself,

01:22:27and I'm not sorry

01:22:28for standing up for Mattie.

01:22:29Hi.

01:22:30No way.

01:22:30Love you, love you.

01:22:31Bye.

01:22:31You're like a really fine person.

01:22:33You are, too.

01:22:34I love you guys.

01:22:34Okay.

01:22:37It was so draining today,

01:22:39and I think Stevie and I

01:22:41have a lot to work on.

01:22:43She didn't answer the question

01:22:44that if she has ever kissed a girl,

01:22:46but, like, I know her.

01:22:47I'm fine.

01:22:48Like, if you're okay with it,

01:22:49I'm okay with it, too.

01:22:50I think anything

01:22:51that has to do with sexuality

01:22:53is something that Mattie

01:22:54can ask me behind closed doors.

01:22:55I have fully accepted Mattie

01:22:57as he is,

01:22:58and I hope that he would be

01:22:59fully accepting of me

01:23:00throughout the years forward.

01:23:02We'll see.

01:23:09Hey, third time is a charm.

01:23:10You guys are going to tell us

01:23:11goodbye, right?

01:23:12Well, we had two couples

01:23:13reject our goodbyes, so...

01:23:15Really?

01:23:15Yeah.

01:23:16Yeah, Shekinah Sarfer.

01:23:18Mattie and Stevie.

01:23:19Thank you so much

01:23:20for being so supportive.

01:23:21I know you're very independent.

01:23:23Mattie also have that soft heart in you.

01:23:25I know.

01:23:26Have that soft heart, so...

01:23:27All right.

01:23:27Thank you, my love.

01:23:30Bye, my love.

01:23:31Well, nice meeting you guys.

01:23:32Me, too.

01:23:32I know.

01:23:34Ah, I love them.

01:23:37Good night.

01:23:38Good night, guys.

01:23:39You know, after today,

01:23:40realizing that mom wants us out

01:23:42sooner rather than later,

01:23:43you know, we are saving money

01:23:45being there, stacking money.

01:23:47You know, we definitely

01:23:48have enough money to move out.

01:23:49I guess we're just going to have

01:23:51to expedite that situation

01:23:52a little bit more.

01:23:52It's got to go on the top priority.

01:23:56I think if I went home

01:23:58and tested and found out

01:23:59that I was pregnant,

01:24:00in one month,

01:24:01I'll be telling Greg

01:24:01that we need to get out

01:24:02of the house.

01:24:03If he doesn't want to get out,

01:24:05I'll leave him there

01:24:05and I'll get out on my own.

01:24:09Ready?

01:24:10Hiya.

01:24:12Hey.

01:24:13Nice to meet you.

01:24:15Nice to meet you, too.

01:24:17You know, as tough as today was

01:24:20and, you know,

01:24:21digging in a little bit

01:24:22to some issues.

01:24:24If anything,

01:24:24all it's taught us

01:24:25is that our relationship

01:24:26and our marriage

01:24:27is worth fighting for.

01:24:28We got the green card.

01:24:30We got married.

01:24:31We're going to go get Clayton.

01:24:32You know, we got a lot

01:24:33of positives coming.

01:24:34Yeah, for now, yeah.

01:24:35All is positive.

01:24:37This is good.

01:24:38Whew.

01:24:39Bye.

01:24:40Bye.

01:24:46Today was fun.

01:24:47It's hard to talk about

01:24:50our relationship,

01:24:51but, like,

01:24:52I do feel that I'm confident

01:24:54and I can speak up

01:24:55for myself,

01:24:56and that makes me feel like

01:24:58I have, like, joy.

01:24:59I feel happy.

01:25:00I think my biggest worry

01:25:02is if he

01:25:04doesn't like

01:25:06my body anymore.

01:25:08I want him to love me

01:25:10as a trans woman.

01:25:10What's immediately next

01:25:13for me and Aaliyah

01:25:14is I'm going to take her

01:25:16on the honeymoon

01:25:17that we never had.

01:25:19She will be frolicking

01:25:20with, no doubt,

01:25:21a little itty-bitty,

01:25:22teeny-weeny,

01:25:23maybe not polka-dotted bikini,

01:25:25but something thereof.

01:25:33All right.

01:25:34Get out of here.

01:25:35It was an honor.

01:25:36Yeah.

01:25:38Good night, y'all.

01:25:39Bye.

01:25:39It took me

01:25:42a while

01:25:43to, like,

01:25:44sit down

01:25:45and, like,

01:25:46that light bulb

01:25:46click in my head.

01:25:47I was like,

01:25:48wait, Ani?

01:25:49She says she loves me,

01:25:50but not the way

01:25:51I love her.

01:25:53I don't want to be left out,

01:25:55and people are so harsh on me,

01:25:56like, oh, you asked for this.

01:25:57Yes, I asked for this,

01:25:58but I learned the hard way

01:26:00by doing mistakes,

01:26:01so,

01:26:03um,

01:26:04we'll see.

01:26:06After all of that,

01:26:07I have 100% hesitation,

01:26:09you know,

01:26:09divorcing the most beautiful

01:26:11and amazing woman

01:26:12that I've ever met in my life.

01:26:13Ani,

01:26:14she's a wonderful person,

01:26:15but I don't think

01:26:16I could ever care about,

01:26:17uh,

01:26:17Ani the way that I do a mini

01:26:19unless she

01:26:20goes to the lengths

01:26:21that a mini would go

01:26:22for our relationship.

01:26:23So,

01:26:23I don't know

01:26:24what our future is.

90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 20

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