90 Day- Hunt for Love Season 1 Episode 2- The Boy Who Fell in the Hot Tub

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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Hunt for Love.

00:00:04Oh my gosh, it's so nice.

00:00:06I'm here at this gorgeous beach resort

00:00:10to try and make a connection with a man

00:00:13that has the whole package with the package.

00:00:18Oh, it's hot out here.

00:00:21Hi.

00:00:22I think we've met before.

00:00:23Do we need before?

00:00:24Maybe.

00:00:25Maybe a little bit.

00:00:27I was in Turkey for like a month with Usman,

00:00:31but after the trip, I wasn't sure how he felt about me.

00:00:34I'm like, could this be fate bringing us back together?

00:00:36Cheers guys to a really good night.

00:00:38Yes.

00:00:40I was kind of like, okay,

00:00:40there's going to be other 90 day people.

00:00:43But I had zero clue who the hell was going to be here.

00:00:49Oh my gosh.

00:00:50You gotta be kidding me, man.

00:00:53Jennifer is my ex-girlfriend.

00:00:55Out of all the people, why is she here?

00:01:00Every single time someone sees me in a bikini

00:01:02and they see my ass, they're like,

00:01:03holy , you have a huge ass.

00:01:05Let me see.

00:01:06Do you want a kiss or anything there?

00:01:08I'm trying not to like go too crazy

00:01:11on the first interaction, but like, damn.

00:01:15Yeah.

00:01:17That is a very nice ass.

00:01:18You know, that's my ex-ass here, right?

00:01:23Why'd y'all break up?

00:01:24Is that true?

00:01:25She's a golden .

00:01:27He feels so entitled to talk about me with everybody,

00:01:32but he better watch out because I know a couple of secrets

00:01:35he wouldn't like anybody to know about.

00:01:37We're gonna do some speed dating while in a hot tub.

00:01:44Have you been married before?

00:01:45I have, yeah.

00:01:46I have a thousand thoughts running through my head

00:01:49because right before I came to the resort,

00:01:52I was hanging out with my friend Ashley.

00:01:54One thing led to another, and Ashley kisses me.

00:01:58Gosh, where's your dating couch when you need one?

00:02:03I really, I liked it.

00:02:06But at the same time, I was so overwhelmed

00:02:10at what it all meant.

00:02:11Does this mean that I'm a lesbian?

00:02:15I came here for love.

00:02:19Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:02:21See if I'm a prostitute, man.

00:02:23I came here for love.

00:02:25Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:02:27See if I'm a prostitute, man.

00:02:28Look at that.

00:02:28Slow.

00:02:37He'll do it.

00:02:47Let me do it.

00:02:52Get out of there.

00:02:52holes.

00:02:55Here.

00:02:56Here.

00:02:57I'd like to be the air that you breathe

00:03:01I'd like to be the road that you walk

00:03:04It's the sweat that slides through your skin

00:03:07Oh!

00:03:09Welcome, everyone, to your very first workshop

00:03:12here at this retreat, Flirting 101.

00:03:17We all know that flirting is hard, right?

00:03:19What works for you one time might not work another time.

00:03:22I signed up for the flirting workshop

00:03:24just because I actually don't know how to flirt.

00:03:26It would feel so unnatural for me to come up to a guy

00:03:29and say, like, hey, sugar, how you doing?

00:03:33Like, no.

00:03:35Last night at the masquerade, I met Pornstache.

00:03:39And that guy caught my eyes.

00:03:41But he's not here today.

00:03:43So I want to challenge myself to, like,

00:03:46open myself up a little more to people

00:03:48that I wouldn't usually date and give them a chance.

00:03:51I would love to see a show of hands

00:03:53who thinks that they might need a little guidance

00:03:56in their flirting game.

00:03:58Hi, everyone.

00:03:59How about this guy?

00:04:00Let's be honest.

00:04:03Oh, my God.

00:04:04I'm so, like, awkward and embarrassed,

00:04:06like, flirting so usually.

00:04:07I'm just like, yeah, and, like, smile and nod.

00:04:09What do you think could change that?

00:04:10What do you think could shift that for you?

00:04:13Alcohol.

00:04:13I hate this flirting workshop already.

00:04:19Usually my go-to opener is, like, hey, buy me a drink.

00:04:24That's flirting?

00:04:25Yeah.

00:04:28All right.

00:04:30We're going to practice that with you today.

00:04:31We're going to break down your game

00:04:33and give you some feedback

00:04:35on what's working for you and what's not.

00:04:38So I'm going to choose two of you at random.

00:04:40I'm not trying to set you up, okay?

00:04:42So don't get scared.

00:04:44So I am going to go with...

00:04:48Usman, come have a seat, please.

00:04:53And...

00:04:54Cassidy!

00:04:56Yes, girl!

00:05:00Turn on that southern charm, girl.

00:05:02I'm such a laugher.

00:05:04Okay, sorry.

00:05:05You got this, girl.

00:05:06Are you here by yourself?

00:05:07Actually, I wasn't here by myself

00:05:09because that's it that was waiting for you.

00:05:10It was for me?

00:05:11Oh, perfect!

00:05:14Perfect.

00:05:14You were waiting for me.

00:05:16Yeah.

00:05:17I do not know what's going on

00:05:19between Usman and I right now.

00:05:20I'm waiting for him to make a move,

00:05:22show me he's interested.

00:05:23So watching Usman flirting,

00:05:25with another moment.

00:05:28This sucks.

00:05:30What's your name?

00:05:32My name is Usman,

00:05:32but they call me Soulja Boy.

00:05:34Soulja Boy?

00:05:34Yeah.

00:05:35Okay.

00:05:35Not the American rapper.

00:05:37Not the rapper.

00:05:37The Nigerian singer, so yeah.

00:05:39Gotcha.

00:05:40You look beautiful, I must say.

00:05:42You look good, too.

00:05:43What do you like to sing?

00:05:45I mean, all my songs

00:05:46are all about love.

00:05:48I preach about love.

00:05:49Beautiful women.

00:05:50You want to sing one for me?

00:05:53I mean, you want to?

00:05:54Yeah.

00:05:55Like right now?

00:05:56Yeah.

00:05:57Ah, okay.

00:05:59Make up one about me.

00:06:01On the spot.

00:06:02On the spot?

00:06:03Yeah.

00:06:03What's your name?

00:06:04Cassidy.

00:06:08I love you.

00:06:09I love you.

00:06:10I love you.

00:06:11You love me?

00:06:12I love you, my baby Cassidy.

00:06:15I love you, I love you, I love you.

00:06:18I love you, my baby Cassidy.

00:06:21I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you.

00:06:24I love you, Cassidy.

00:06:25I love you.

00:06:27Usman's song is a banger.

00:06:29I swear, when he started singing that,

00:06:30I was like, all right, there's no way

00:06:31he's not getting this girl.

00:06:33I'm being super sarcastic.

00:06:35There ain't no way that's impressing anyone.

00:06:40This song sucks.

00:06:41I love you, I love you, I love you, okay, great.

00:06:43I don't think anyone would be impressed

00:06:45by his lyrics ever tell you.

00:06:48I had to listen to the guy I like

00:06:50sing that he loves another girl.

00:06:52And he's like, Cassidy, I love you, I love you.

00:06:55I'm like, you don't even say you like her

00:06:57or you're cute, just straight, I love you.

00:06:59If this is Usman's idea about how he falls in love,

00:07:02I'm worried about how he approaches sex.

00:07:05Is he just like, hi, I'm Usman, can I stick it in you?

00:07:09I'm sorry, I'm not gonna give you like

00:07:11basis like that.

00:07:12Well, once you get to know me more,

00:07:13you can add in the later stuff.

00:07:15Yeah, I mean, I mean, why not?

00:07:17Okay, cool.

00:07:19This was fun.

00:07:19Okay, guys, sorry to interrupt you.

00:07:22Usman, great job, you were engaging,

00:07:23you were definitely making eye contact,

00:07:25you're very, very charming.

00:07:27However, where you fell down a little bit

00:07:29is that you didn't ask Cassidy enough about her, right?

00:07:31So you could have asked her, what are you into?

00:07:33What kind of music do you listen to?

00:07:35Keeping that conversation and that energy there,

00:07:37especially on your first encounter,

00:07:39that's when the true connections happen.

00:07:41But both of you did a fantastic job, good job.

00:07:46You guys can have a seat.

00:07:48Good job.

00:07:59Welcome to the party, gentlemen.

00:08:01What's going on?

00:08:02Come on in.

00:08:03Feel free to pick a hot tub of your choosing.

00:08:06Hey, how you doing?

00:08:07Hi.

00:08:09Come on this side.

00:08:10I really wanted the speed dating to go well,

00:08:14but my head's not in it.

00:08:16I feel like I'm coming across a little bit awkward,

00:08:19but it's probably because I can't stop thinking

00:08:24about what happened before I came here

00:08:26between me and my friend Ashley.

00:08:29It's complicated.

00:08:30I don't know.

00:08:31Like, I've never dated a woman before.

00:08:34I grew up in an environment

00:08:36where I never considered dating the same sex

00:08:40or even saw it as an option.

00:08:43How are you?

00:08:44I'm doing very well.

00:08:45I'm doing very well.

00:08:46A little bit better now.

00:08:48I'm still attracted to men.

00:08:51I am still attracted to men.

00:08:54And I don't know if kissing Ashley was a one-time thing.

00:08:58It's hard for me to put a label on something

00:09:01that I don't even understand right now about myself.

00:09:04So coming here and meeting so many different kinds of people

00:09:08seems like the best way to find out what's right for me.

00:09:12Your two minutes starts now.

00:09:17You know, I think I want to know more about Chantelle.

00:09:20Tell me about you.

00:09:21It's very important for me to have fulfillment in life.

00:09:25You know, I'm doing my dream job right now.

00:09:27What's your dream job?

00:09:28Botox and filler, aesthetic.

00:09:30That's my dream job?

00:09:31Yeah, it's my dream job.

00:09:33I love everything beauty.

00:09:35I don't know a ton about Botox and that kind of stuff.

00:09:38Well, raise your eyebrows.

00:09:40Okay, and then frown.

00:09:42Make an angry face.

00:09:43And then smile real big.

00:09:46Okay, yeah.

00:09:47Okay, so you could use...

00:09:49Well, it's all relative to what a person wants.

00:09:56So if you want to wear your wrinkles, fine.

00:09:58You're telling me I have wrinkles right now?

00:10:00What are you telling me?

00:10:02You got one, but you're very handsome.

00:10:03Yeah, you're very handsome.

00:10:05Oh, thank you.

00:10:05You're handsome.

00:10:05Yeah, you're very handsome.

00:10:05Joe.

00:10:07He's so cute.

00:10:09I could just melt.

00:10:11He's tall, got beautiful eyes.

00:10:14I love the accent.

00:10:16I think there could be something there with Joe.

00:10:18If I'm honest, he could use a little Botox,

00:10:21but it feels good that I could make a connection here.

00:10:40Now, Kourtney, you are going to approach Chad

00:10:44as he sits here at this lovely table, dining.

00:10:47Yeah, Chad.

00:10:48Yes, Chad.

00:10:49Can I be the one sitting at the table?

00:10:52Oh, ****.

00:10:52Yeah, I have to go approach Chad.

00:10:57Oh, my God.

00:10:59Like, this is my worst nightmare.

00:11:01Like, why I never approach guys?

00:11:04Like, I don't know.

00:11:10You got this, Kourtney.

00:11:13I'm, like, shaking.

00:11:18I like your red shirt.

00:11:19Hey, I'm Chad.

00:11:28What's your day?

00:11:30Can I offer me to sit with you?

00:11:32Yes.

00:11:32Or do I have to ask?

00:11:34Okay.

00:11:34So, where are you from?

00:11:41Atlanta.

00:11:41What about you?

00:11:42Orlando.

00:11:42Orlando?

00:11:43Orlando?

00:11:51You go to school there?

00:11:51Um, I went to school in Illinois.

00:11:53Yeah.

00:11:55What did you go to school for?

00:11:57So, what are you, oh, finance.

00:11:58What did you study?

00:11:59Uh, football.

00:12:00Oh, nice.

00:12:01I mean, I think we're all insecure a little bit.

00:12:06There's definitely anxiety I have when meeting new people, and especially the ladies.

00:12:10So, watching Kourtney fumble and get nervous about role-playing is so sweet.

00:12:14We kind of have that in common, honestly.

00:12:16She seems very genuine.

00:12:17I know, this is so awkward.

00:12:21So, what are you drinking?

00:12:22A strawberry margarita?

00:12:25See, yep.

00:12:26Oh, my God.

00:12:27Double.

00:12:31Okay, this flirting exercise is horrible, embarrassing.

00:12:35I never want to show my face at this resort again.

00:12:38I'm just sitting there, like, okay, this is so awkward.

00:12:41Like, I want to curl up and bawl in the sand and, like, cry and bury myself.

00:12:46Okay, guys, thank you so much.

00:12:47I would love to hear from all of you what you observed.

00:12:50Give them some feedback on what you saw go down.

00:12:53Very.

00:12:54I feel like, sorry, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

00:12:55I was going to say very interview-ish.

00:12:59Chat, it felt a little bit forced, and I could see where the pauses were that you were trying

00:13:02to think of the next thing to say.

00:13:04And, Kourtney, don't take it so seriously.

00:13:06You guys didn't do a lot of laughing.

00:13:07Yeah.

00:13:08Okay.

00:13:11When Kourtney and Chad are having the role-play, it's not really that romantic.

00:13:16It's not cute.

00:13:17But at the end of the day, I wanted to end ugly because I wanted to end good with me.

00:13:23All right, you guys can have a seat.

00:13:25Good job.

00:13:26Good.

00:13:27Good, Chad.

00:13:27Good job.

00:13:28Good job.

00:13:29Good job.

00:13:30Good job.

00:13:31Good job.

00:13:32Good job.

00:13:33Good job.

00:13:34Good job.

00:13:35Good job.

00:13:36Good job.

00:13:37Ladies, welcome to the party.

00:13:39Come on in.

00:13:43So, hot tub speed dating sounds fun except for the hot tub part.

00:13:49I'm not super comfortable like in a bathing suit with my shirt off in front of strangers.

00:13:55It's super awkward.

00:13:56Really freaking awkward.

00:13:58And now it looks like I'm going to be sitting in a hot tub with Jen.

00:14:01And this is what I've been dreading the entire day.

00:14:04How are you doing?

00:14:05How are you enjoying?

00:14:06Jennifer, nice to meet you.

00:14:08Chosen, chosen.

00:14:09Awesome.

00:14:09Yeah.

00:14:11You're really hard to meet.

00:14:12You're really hard to meet.

00:14:13I give that a lot.

00:14:14I'm Southern.

00:14:14I'm slow, man.

00:14:15Like, I'm really slow.

00:14:18I'm old, too.

00:14:19You get old before you go on?

00:14:20I was just dating a 65-year-old back at holiday.

00:14:26So why are you looking fine?

00:14:28I'm looking for what's looking for me.

00:14:31Oh, so anything.

00:14:32Not necessarily any.

00:14:34I'm the only old guy here.

00:14:36And also, I'm the only guy here with an exterior.

00:14:38You know what?

00:14:39This is like your time.

00:14:40You know, I think it's going to be good for you guys to sit and just have a talk whenever

00:14:43that happens.

00:14:44Y'all do that?

00:14:44I think they do that, yeah.

00:14:45Not at all.

00:14:47All right, ladies and gents.

00:14:49Our two minutes has come to an end.

00:14:51I need to see myself.

00:14:52Yeah.

00:14:55Oh, my God.

00:14:56We are.

00:14:58Bye-bye, darling.

00:15:03Be careful.

00:15:05Look at me.

00:15:06Oh.

00:15:07Do I really have to do this?

00:15:08Why should I endure this situation with a guy that has been just spreading bad rumors about

00:15:18me?

00:15:19For him to say that I am a gold digger, it's so wrong.

00:15:23When he actually didn't give me anything.

00:15:26I think that that is the way that men can try to feel better with themselves trying to shame

00:15:32women.

00:15:33It's so disrespectful, I don't even want to look at him.

00:15:40Oh, my f**k.

00:15:42Oh.

00:15:46You almost killed me.

00:15:49It's really necessary.

00:15:50That's only two minutes, so I'm sure this will get over quick enough.

00:15:59I mean, there's an empty one.

00:16:00You can just jump in.

00:16:01I mean, it's just insane, right?

00:16:06Like, I came here to do something I've never done, trying to find a partner, and I've got

00:16:10to do this now with literally the only ex that I'm not on cordial terms with.

00:16:14Honestly, Jen being here is making me think about going home real fast.

00:16:22But, you know, I try my best to be a good person, and, you know, I deserve to be happy like anybody

00:16:31else, and the only way I'm ever going to find somebody to share that with is to put myself

00:16:35out there.

00:16:36I don't really have any will towards you.

00:16:39I find to be nice, good like you're not.

00:16:43Papa, did you remember the things that you have said?

00:16:45I think that your version of history is different than mine.

00:16:52It's not like you were an angel to me.

00:16:53You're like, we both say some bad things.

00:16:55Look, stop.

00:16:59You're like taking little bites that's giving the impression to the other girls that I'm like

00:17:04this horrible dude.

00:17:06I don't think that you're a guy in cordial.

00:17:08I'm not saying that you're right.

00:17:10Well, but again, that's not...

00:17:11I'm talking the jury's not up to mind.

00:17:12I think you're right, but I don't think that what you're saying is...

00:17:15It's about 100% for me.

00:17:18The team attacks like a woman.

00:17:20He likes to gossip and, like, bring rumors.

00:17:23You cannot be talking negative and saying bad things about me and then expect that I'm

00:17:28going to be nice in a hot tub with you.

00:17:32I'm sorry.

00:17:33I'm sorry.

00:17:45Chantel and Usman, they kind of had, like, a conflict before we even went to the room.

00:17:50I never talked to her.

00:17:52So why would she call me Scama?

00:17:54Because she's a woman.

00:17:55I cannot punch her.

00:17:56So why are you able to...

00:17:56I'm not going to punch her.

00:17:58Usman said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.

00:18:02I'd take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.

00:18:04I bet.

00:18:11You guys ready for the next couple?

00:18:18So ready.

00:18:19Yeah.

00:18:19Okay.

00:18:21Lexi, I'm going to invite you to have a seat, please.

00:18:23Okay.

00:18:24Go, Lexi.

00:18:25And Colt.

00:18:28Oh.

00:18:29I'm going to ask you to come up and introduce yourself to Lexi.

00:18:32See what feels natural.

00:18:34Let's see how it goes.

00:18:35Okay.

00:18:36Come on, Lexi.

00:18:37Girl.

00:18:38You got this, Colt.

00:18:40I mean, some would say I have game.

00:18:42I think I have at least some game.

00:18:44Maybe half of a game of something.

00:18:46I don't know.

00:18:47Hello.

00:18:48Hi.

00:18:50I do have some magnetism here.

00:18:56But I think everyone will tell you how they want to be treated.

00:18:59You just have to listen and just kind of go with the flow.

00:19:05Oh, you have very interesting piercings and all that.

00:19:07Really?

00:19:08Yeah.

00:19:08Yeah?

00:19:09Why do you think they're interesting?

00:19:10I guess I'm just not really familiar with that.

00:19:12I don't have any piercings myself.

00:19:13You don't have any piercings?

00:19:14Did you ever want to get piercings?

00:19:15I did, yeah.

00:19:16You should take a seat so we can talk about it.

00:19:18I would love to talk about it.

00:19:19Yeah.

00:19:21So you into that type of stuff?

00:19:23I see your tattoo as well.

00:19:24Into what type of stuff?

00:19:26Oh, like piercings and stuff.

00:19:29You know, like a nose or like a nipple or something.

00:19:32Yeah.

00:19:35Is your body like a canvas pretty much?

00:19:39Accessorizing yourself?

00:19:39I mean, let's draw that back.

00:19:41Yeah?

00:19:41Yeah.

00:19:42Tea on that, bro.

00:19:43Oh, my God.

00:19:47I don't even want to look.

00:19:48Don't ever say that to nobody.

00:19:50Okay.

00:19:51Don't talk about my body.

00:19:52That's a lie.

00:19:54That's so awkward.

00:19:55Yeah, hold on.

00:19:58Wait.

00:20:02I'm so sorry.

00:20:03I'm not trying to laugh you out.

00:20:05Woo.

00:20:07I feel bad for Colt.

00:20:09Like, that's embarrassing.

00:20:10Like, he's getting laughed at in his face.

00:20:13But at the same time, I think my role play was a lot worse.

00:20:16So, I'm giving Colt a pass on that one.

00:20:19I feel like you could have stopped at, like, you like the piercings.

00:20:22Oh, sure.

00:20:22Don't talk about my body the first time you see me.

00:20:24Sure.

00:20:25Yeah?

00:20:25Yeah.

00:20:26All right.

00:20:28Let's reset that.

00:20:29Okay.

00:20:30Okay.

00:20:31So, why are you here today?

00:20:32What brings you here?

00:20:32Oh, well, the weather's beautiful, you know, by the beach.

00:20:35I love coming here.

00:20:36Yeah?

00:20:37I love to travel.

00:20:37You love to travel?

00:20:38Oh, super.

00:20:39Are you solo traveling when you do it?

00:20:41Oh, yeah.

00:20:41Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:20:42Oh, me too.

00:20:43I love to solo travel.

00:20:43Yeah.

00:20:44Okay.

00:20:44Because otherwise you're on another person's schedule.

00:20:47Yeah.

00:20:47You're going to bring in conflicts.

00:20:48You can't do your own thing.

00:20:50I'm on vacation, man.

00:20:51All right, guys.

00:20:53Fantastic job.

00:20:56Yes, girl.

00:20:57Colt, what did you see happen?

00:20:59I feel like my start was a little rushed.

00:21:01Yeah.

00:21:01Right?

00:21:02I got a little nervous.

00:21:03I'm in front of a pretty girl, you know, obviously.

00:21:05You got it, though.

00:21:06You got it, too.

00:21:06I believe in you.

00:21:07I believe in you.

00:21:08Good job, guys.

00:21:12I like Lexi's energy a lot.

00:21:15I feel like Lexi and I have some kind of connection.

00:21:17All right.

00:21:19Great job.

00:21:19That was great.

00:21:20But I'm not sure where that will go.

00:21:24Is there someone you would have rather?

00:21:26Oh, yeah.

00:21:26Like you're playing with?

00:21:28I actually kind of like Courtney.

00:21:31She's very sweet.

00:21:32She's actually a pretty interesting woman.

00:21:34I was kind of hoping I get to flirt with her a little bit.

00:21:38Yeah, I don't know.

00:21:40But, huh.

00:21:41Okay.

00:21:45Carlo, have a seat, please.

00:21:50And, Tiffany, you are up.

00:21:52Let's see what you got.

00:21:53Good luck, Tiffany.

00:21:54Ready?

00:21:54Let's go.

00:21:55All right.

00:21:55So, I never do this, but my name is Tiffany.

00:22:00Oh, hi.

00:22:00I saw you, and I think you're really handsome.

00:22:03Is anyone sitting here?

00:22:04No, take a seat.

00:22:05Nice to meet you.

00:22:05I'm Carlo.

00:22:06Carlo.

00:22:07Carlo, actually, I spoke to him very briefly yesterday.

00:22:11I didn't get a feel for, like, who he is.

00:22:15So, I'm a little nervous.

00:22:16Oh, don't be nervous.

00:22:18I don't usually come up to guys, but you're very cute.

00:22:20That takes a lot of confidence.

00:22:21You have a beautiful eye.

00:22:23You have pretty eyes, too.

00:22:25When I walked up to him and he first made eye contact with me, immediately I just felt,

00:22:31and then I felt safe to approach him.

00:22:35He's a handsome guy.

00:22:37He's cute.

00:22:38Where are you from?

00:22:41Born and raised in Jersey.

00:22:42No way.

00:22:43Me, too.

00:22:43No, what part of Jersey?

00:22:45Red Bank.

00:22:45Are you south or north?

00:22:46It's, like, central.

00:22:47Okay, and what's your background?

00:22:49Well, I'm Italian and Irish.

00:22:52Okay.

00:22:52Are you Italian?

00:22:53I love Italian and Irish boys.

00:22:54So, I'm Colombian and Cuban, but born in the U.S.

00:22:59So, mom's Cuban, dad's Colombian.

00:23:01All right.

00:23:01Well, bienvenidos.

00:23:02Oh, okay.

00:23:03Check.

00:23:06Colombian, Cuban, crazy and crazy.

00:23:07Are you okay with that?

00:23:08Very cool.

00:23:09Very cool.

00:23:09Irish-Italian is a little crazy, too.

00:23:11Are you?

00:23:12Yeah.

00:23:12I can't tell.

00:23:13You seem very sweet.

00:23:15Well, you may tell soon.

00:23:18All right, guys.

00:23:19Good job.

00:23:20All right.

00:23:22So, did you guys feel the connection here?

00:23:25Yeah, that was good.

00:23:26What would it take to get the number or to the first date?

00:23:32Ask her.

00:23:32I think, well, hey, we have a lot in common.

00:23:35Why don't we continue this?

00:23:37Mm-hmm.

00:23:37Um, on a night out.

00:23:39Was that you actually asking Tiffany out on a date?

00:23:45Yeah.

00:23:46I mean, I would definitely take you out on a date if you're up for it, Tiffany.

00:23:51Yeah.

00:23:51I'm down.

00:23:52Let's do it, then.

00:23:54There we go.

00:23:54Good job, guys.

00:23:56I was going to say, I felt like I was interrupting.

00:23:58That was the best place.

00:23:58I did.

00:23:59I felt like I was interrupting.

00:24:00I just seen this problem every while.

00:24:01Me too, my whole little world.

00:24:01Good job.

00:24:03When Carlo asked me out, I was like, yay.

00:24:06Like, oh, my God.

00:24:07I was excited because I was like, I didn't expect it.

00:24:11I definitely still have my eye on Rocky, but Carlo's tall.

00:24:14He's got a nice body.

00:24:16I want to date around and keep my options open.

00:24:18I want to see who works best for me.

00:24:20And that's what I'm going to do.

00:24:21I think what you guys all learned today, that if you just let go and allow the connection

00:24:26to feel organic, flirting doesn't have to be that serious.

00:24:30And now that you guys have all gained some more flirting skills, I want you to go out

00:24:35tonight and apply them.

00:24:37Mingle, meet each other, use your body language, and most importantly, have fun.

00:24:45I'm just not a natural flirt because I just felt so, like, nervous and awkward.

00:24:50And, yeah, it was not good.

00:24:54I think I learned a lot of helpful tips and tricks today watching the other people go.

00:24:59I was just in my head too much.

00:25:01Good job, guys.

00:25:03I think if I could do it again, I would have taken tequila shots before I showed up to this.

00:25:09Yeah.

00:25:10Oh, how late are we going to be up tonight?

00:25:12Yeah, we did a dream, man.

00:25:13I want to know.

00:25:14We earned it.

00:25:15I don't know.

00:25:15I think we're going to break it.

00:25:16I do everything for me now.

00:25:19Spirit feeling free.

00:25:20I don't know if I'm on my way to close the dream house.

00:25:24You can't eat your teeth, though.

00:25:25Daniel, what a lethal.

00:25:27Had to go in deep down and make it back to me now.

00:25:30Everything all right over here?

00:25:42The longest two minutes of the day.

00:25:44The longest two minutes of the day.

00:25:46Seems like a mutual readiness to be done.

00:25:49I know, like, done.

00:25:51You're good.

00:25:52Yeah, because I mean, obviously, I don't know.

00:25:55Yeah, you were all this zombie to go hang out at the beach.

00:25:58Okay.

00:25:58Let her have her space.

00:25:59Seems like that's the solution.

00:26:00That's super sweet of you.

00:26:03That's what I aim for, Jennifer, being sweet all the time.

00:26:06I'm so happy that Tim got the hand and left the bathtub.

00:26:21He wants to tell me what to say or not to say about him, like it's his business.

00:26:26I don't know how the next three weeks I'm going to be, but Tim definitely needs to stay in his lane and leave me alone.

00:26:36Hello.

00:26:37I love that.

00:26:37I got you.

00:26:38I got you.

00:26:38Hey.

00:26:39What's up, guys?

00:26:40Hey.

00:26:42So how was it?

00:26:44You look so off.

00:26:47What happened?

00:26:49Well, I'm over here because me and Jennifer didn't want to talk to each other.

00:26:54And I was like, I'm going to go down to the beach now, y'all.

00:26:56That was very uncomfortable.

00:26:57And I'm hoping that this tension goes away because it's kind of like bumming out my trip.

00:27:04Jennifer has already made Tim feel uncomfortable here.

00:27:09I'm not going to let her cut my friend down in front of me.

00:27:13I will always have Tim's back because I'm like super protective of my friends.

00:27:19And if you cross them, watch your back.

00:27:26Gentlemen, welcome back to the party.

00:27:34Pick a tub.

00:27:36Get yourself settled.

00:27:38You guys already know the drill.

00:27:39Elise and I, we kissed.

00:27:47It was a good kiss.

00:27:48And I did want to see her butt.

00:27:51But, I mean, it's only day two.

00:27:54So I would hope that the other women here don't, like, assume that I'm locked in with Elise.

00:28:00I mean, I got to see where her head's at.

00:28:02I'm still kind of watching to see who she is.

00:28:04How are you?

00:28:06How are you?

00:28:08How are you?

00:28:08How are you doing?

00:28:09I'm doing like this.

00:28:10What do you mean?

00:28:11Like this thing was two minutes of your school.

00:28:14I don't know.

00:28:15I'd worry about it.

00:28:15I mean, more comfortable talking one-on-one.

00:28:17I don't know.

00:28:18You're excited.

00:28:18I'm like, I mean, like, this is a pleasure.

00:28:20I heard you guys were talking about me.

00:28:22I'm a boss.

00:28:23Thanks.

00:28:24Who told you that?

00:28:25Yeah.

00:28:26Yeah, I'm a student.

00:28:27I'm a small business.

00:28:28I don't want to keep bringing it up.

00:28:30I would kiss her to get up.

00:28:32And I'm like, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill.

00:28:35Don't say too much about it.

00:28:36Leave it alone.

00:28:38So, don't you like one more round?

00:28:40Yeah.

00:28:40Yes.

00:28:41Give me the one that's most full.

00:28:43That one, yeah.

00:28:44That's the one.

00:28:46And I'm going for you, lady?

00:28:48How are you getting it for me?

00:28:49How are you being on this one?

00:28:50I just gave it to you.

00:28:51I give it back.

00:28:52Okay.

00:28:53Here, you want it?

00:28:54I like candy bottles.

00:28:55We can have the most full one.

00:28:56I want it to make you happy.

00:28:58I don't know.

00:29:01There's this deep connection that we have that I've definitely not experienced with anyone

00:29:05else here at the retreat.

00:29:07But, like, not knowing where his head's at is kind of making me a little nervous, especially,

00:29:11you know, we had some fun last night.

00:29:13Obviously, some alcohol was involved, and we ended up talking the rest of the night.

00:29:17And then this morning, I called him, and we talked a little bit.

00:29:20Now, I kind of want to see what he feels.

00:29:22I'm choosing to process and see where it goes, and to make any connections.

00:29:33That brings a question.

00:29:35Have you made any connections today with anybody else?

00:29:38Obviously, I'm happy to get with you today.

00:29:45I'd be like, if you weren't here, I'd probably be like, if you need to be thinking about me.

00:29:50Probably.

00:29:51And not so comfortable meeting other people with me.

00:29:53I'm a good 100%.

00:29:56Like, I'm either, like, 100% or zero.

00:29:59I'm not really in between.

00:30:02And she's tripping.

00:30:05She's tripping like, this doesn't make any sense.

00:30:09We've only known each other for two damn days.

00:30:11And I thought we were having fun.

00:30:14But she's just jumping in headfirst.

00:30:17This is bad.

00:30:18Oh, you look so cute.

00:30:25Oh, thank you.

00:30:26Oh, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.

00:30:29So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.

00:30:33Cheers first.

00:30:34Okay, salud.

00:30:35Tomamos.

00:30:36I'm actually shocked.

00:30:39Oh, that's sexy.

00:30:48Trouble, trouble, trouble.

00:30:50I'm leaning on a level, level, level.

00:30:59Oh, hi.

00:31:00Hi, how are you?

00:31:01How are you?

00:31:01Very good.

00:31:02What drinks do you have available?

00:31:03I have a margarita, mezcalita.

00:31:07Margarita.

00:31:08Margarita?

00:31:09Por favor.

00:31:10After the Flirting 101, I got a text from Carlo.

00:31:13And it says, hey, I wasn't kidding about that date.

00:31:15Do you want to meet up and have a drink?

00:31:19But in my mind, I'm like, oh, no.

00:31:20I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.

00:31:24So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.

00:31:27Okay.

00:31:38Hey.

00:31:39Hi.

00:31:40Oh, you look so cute.

00:31:41Oh, thank you.

00:31:43Yeah, yeah, you're totally dressed up.

00:31:45And I feel a little underdressed, but you look great.

00:31:48All right.

00:31:48What are you drinking?

00:31:49A margarita.

00:31:50Margarita?

00:31:51Okay.

00:31:52Getting on these chairs is not easy.

00:31:54No, it's not.

00:31:54It's not.

00:31:55And you're tall, so.

00:31:56Well, thanks.

00:31:56Thanks.

00:31:57How tall are you?

00:31:58Five to six.

00:31:59Five to six, okay.

00:31:59How tall are you?

00:32:00Six to one.

00:32:01Oh, I like that.

00:32:03Same thing.

00:32:04Margarita, please.

00:32:05Yeah.

00:32:06The Flirting Workshop went really, really well.

00:32:09I was happy that Tiffany and I got paired together.

00:32:13Basically, we were the best flirts.

00:32:15I'm attracted to Tiffany because she's, like, a real person.

00:32:19She's really cute.

00:32:20I really like her eyes, and I think she's feeling my eyes as well.

00:32:24So, I'm just excited to see what comes of it.

00:32:27Yeah.

00:32:28I feel really nervous.

00:32:29I'm, like, I don't, like, date a lot.

00:32:31So, like, this is weird for me.

00:32:33Do you go on a lot of dates or no?

00:32:35You can be honest.

00:32:36I do.

00:32:37I have my waves of going on dates and kind of just being, like, I'm done with dates.

00:32:44Why?

00:32:44Like, if you go on a few bad dates, it's exhausting.

00:32:47It's time consuming.

00:32:48I want to hear a bad date story.

00:32:51A bad date story.

00:32:53You need to.

00:32:53I feel like that's...

00:32:54Come on.

00:32:55I'll just tell a brief story.

00:32:56I went out with another girl from Jersey, and I thought, like, we were clicking based on that.

00:33:01Yeah.

00:33:01And I get there, and I hear her voice, and it's, like, the actress from White Lotus.

00:33:10Oh, wait.

00:33:11Jennifer Coolidge.

00:33:12Jennifer Coolidge's voice in, like, hot girl's body, and I'm just, like, I feel so shallow right now, but I just, like, am instantly turned off.

00:33:21So, that was a turn off for you.

00:33:21Instantly turned off.

00:33:23That was it for me.

00:33:24So, when you're on the dating apps, and you're, like, you know, scrolling through, trying to find your person, what do you go for, really?

00:33:30Okay, what's your type?

00:33:32Um, so I do, like I said, like, exotic, like, bilingual is really nice.

00:33:37Okay.

00:33:37Like, a little, uh, you said Cuban and Colombian, right?

00:33:40So, that's a good mix for me.

00:33:42You're just describing me, Paulo.

00:33:44That's it.

00:33:45That's it.

00:33:45I'm actually learning to speak Spanish.

00:33:48Okay.

00:33:48So, that's what's nice.

00:33:50I'll be a teacher.

00:33:51Uh, yeah, I'm learning.

00:33:53I'm very teachable.

00:33:54Yeah?

00:33:54Yeah.

00:33:56Behave yourself.

00:33:57Yeah.

00:33:59Spit some game to me in Spanish.

00:34:01Well, cheers first.

00:34:02Okay, salud.

00:34:04Primero, salud.

00:34:05Salud.

00:34:06Okay, that's a good one.

00:34:09Tomamos.

00:34:11I'm actually shocked.

00:34:13I thought you'd be like, hola, come on, it's tough.

00:34:15No, no.

00:34:16I estoy aprendiendo dos veces por semana.

00:34:18Hold on.

00:34:19You, like, know Spanish.

00:34:21Sí.

00:34:21Carlos is not generally my type.

00:34:26He kind of looks dorky, but he's sweet.

00:34:28He seems sweet.

00:34:30And there is something sexy about him.

00:34:32He's tall.

00:34:33He's got a nice body.

00:34:34He starts speaking Spanish.

00:34:36And I was like, oh, that's sexy.

00:34:38This guy's smart.

00:34:39He knows a whole other language fluently.

00:34:41So, I feel like he's, like, top contender right now.

00:34:45And I'm actually really excited about it.

00:34:51All right.

00:35:03It is time to wrap up your speed date.

00:35:07Close up shop.

00:35:08And, gentlemen, you're going to rotate to the next hot tub.

00:35:11So, say your goodbyes however you see fit.

00:35:14And then move on to the next young lady.

00:35:16Even though we have a compatibility,

00:35:21I may have jumped the gun making out with Elise.

00:35:23I feel like I need to dial it back a little bit.

00:35:27And now Jen is on my mind.

00:35:30I mean, from the moment I saw Jen at the party,

00:35:32I've been interested.

00:35:33And, I mean, since breakfast this morning,

00:35:35I've been waiting for a chance to talk to her one-on-one.

00:35:37Like Usman said, she is hot, man.

00:35:41She's hot.

00:35:42She is.

00:35:43I've got two minutes to shoot my shot

00:35:53with the hottest girl at this retreat.

00:35:54The pressure's on.

00:35:56I haven't got her two minutes.

00:35:58Actually, I don't know if you pulled.

00:35:59I mean, I didn't expect.

00:36:02I got into it.

00:36:03When you walked into the room yesterday,

00:36:06I started to ignite the shit.

00:36:09I'm like, man, what the fuck?

00:36:10You had your mask on, though.

00:36:11I don't know if I was a beautiful woman.

00:36:15I don't know if you can see it.

00:36:17I don't know if you can see it.

00:36:18Definitely Rob feels so much better than having Tim in the hot tub.

00:36:22The first gleams that I had from him, it was like,

00:36:25oh, no, he's a player.

00:36:27Because he was making out with Elise the first night.

00:36:30I see a lot of arrogance,

00:36:32but maybe it's just a lot of confidence, which is sexy.

00:36:34Rob and Jen are, like, super close,

00:36:48and then not knowing where Rob's head's at

00:36:50is kind of making me a little nervous.

00:36:52I think Jen needs to stop flirting around with every single man

00:36:55because I don't like competition,

00:36:57and no one competes against me.

00:36:59If I want something, I get it.

00:37:03I'm looking very keen, very early.

00:37:06I love to do adventure.

00:37:08I'm just like, see the world.

00:37:11Like, I would do it, like,

00:37:13if I go to the Everest, like, to Manchester.

00:37:16Oh, my God.

00:37:17I would do it, like, if I go to the Everest, then I'll put it there, yeah.

00:37:23Yeah?

00:37:24Have you made love in any amazing places?

00:37:27Have you?

00:37:28Ha!

00:37:28Did you say that?

00:37:29You have.

00:37:30I don't know.

00:37:31It's about time to be a yes to me.

00:37:35Damn.

00:37:36She's telling me all the right things.

00:37:38What are you trying to do to me?

00:37:39Like, you sure are you trying to, like,

00:37:41you're in my head, aren't you?

00:37:43Like, you can't be that girl.

00:37:44Like, that girl doesn't exist.

00:37:46What are you talking about?

00:37:47That's what I've been looking for.

00:37:49So now I have a goal at the Everest.

00:37:53Jen is the only speed date where I'm like,

00:37:56I don't want to get out of this hot tub.

00:37:59I just want to see what this is.

00:38:02And if Jen is interested in me,

00:38:04that I might want to put more interest in Jen

00:38:07and distance myself from Elise.

00:38:09I'm hoping Elise picks up that, you know,

00:38:11I do want to take it slower with her.

00:38:13I had a good time with her.

00:38:15I had a good time with her.

00:38:17I love you.

00:38:18Okay.

00:38:18Yeah?

00:38:25What do we do now?

00:38:27I'm going to eat.

00:38:28I'm so hungry.

00:38:29I'm tired.

00:38:29I don't know.

00:38:30Are you coming?

00:38:31I'm kind of stuck in the middle

00:38:34between these guys that I'm interested in.

00:38:38So what does that imply?

00:38:39Woo!

00:38:39I thought I'd be more drunk and much with all of them.

00:38:58I have.

00:38:58Yay!

00:39:00We're about to take shots, y'all.

00:39:02We're about to take shots.

00:39:02Yeah.

00:39:03We need two more.

00:39:03Add two more to the situation.

00:39:05Two more.

00:39:07Hi.

00:39:07Good to see you again.

00:39:09Hey, brother.

00:39:09What's up?

00:39:10Yeah, I've never taken tequila before in my life, so.

00:39:12How does it taste?

00:39:13Is it sugar, bitter, or salt?

00:39:15It's going to be better.

00:39:15It's going to be salty.

00:39:17It's a little stingy, but it's going to be good.

00:39:18You'll be fine.

00:39:19Okay.

00:39:20Courtney and Usman showed up together at the bar,

00:39:22and I'm not surprised at all,

00:39:25although they want to keep saying

00:39:26that they've never done anything.

00:39:28I'm like, you guys haven't hooked up,

00:39:30and there's nothing there?

00:39:32I call bull .

00:39:33I think Courtney's not going to hold that secret for long.

00:39:35I'm just going to sit back and sip my tea.

00:39:44Cheers to your first shot.

00:39:46Ready?

00:39:46Go.

00:39:46Get it.

00:39:47Three, two, one, go.

00:39:50Take the lime.

00:39:51Take the lime.

00:39:52Don't throw it.

00:39:53Chew on the lime.

00:39:57Okay.

00:39:58Are you okay?

00:39:59Yeah, I'm good.

00:40:00Yeah.

00:40:01See, it's not that bad.

00:40:02Yeah.

00:40:02You got this.

00:40:04Tequila.

00:40:04It's so bitter.

00:40:09I don't know.

00:40:10It didn't do me anything yet.

00:40:12Maybe it has to go with the process.

00:40:14I hope it's not going to make me go so wild and crazy.

00:40:17Just watch out.

00:40:19Congratulations.

00:40:20Congratulations.

00:40:22Woo!

00:40:23That's coming.

00:40:24Yay!

00:40:27I got it.

00:40:28Oh, that was so cute.

00:40:29Ladies and gents.

00:40:38Hi.

00:40:39How are you?

00:40:40All right.

00:40:41Let's hang out over here.

00:40:42I got some things to chat with you about.

00:40:45Oh, no.

00:40:45All right.

00:40:45Some good.

00:40:46Some not so great.

00:40:48But we're all learning here.

00:40:50That's the whole point, right?

00:40:51All right.

00:40:51Sure.

00:40:53Some of you look excited.

00:40:54Some of you look terrified.

00:40:55So this will be fun.

00:40:57So the first thing is I'll tell you the lowest four rated folks based on these scorecards.

00:41:04And I want to preface this by saying this doesn't mean that you aren't worthy of being here or anything like that.

00:41:12It's just, you know, objective scoring.

00:41:14So if you are in this bottom four, this is about growth.

00:41:19And you have an opportunity to finding the person that you're meant to be here for by the end of this, okay?

00:41:24So those bottom four people are...

00:41:32Chantal.

00:41:33Chantal.

00:41:34Chantal.

00:41:36Nicky.

00:41:36Oh.

00:41:38Tim.

00:41:40And Jennifer.

00:41:42Oh, me?

00:41:46Yes.

00:41:46Like, I don't think that's fair.

00:41:48Who made this?

00:41:49Who came out with those results?

00:41:52It's insane.

00:41:54Now we're going to talk about some specifics.

00:41:56This is just to have a conversation, get some feedback, and we'll move on and have some fun.

00:42:01Okay.

00:42:01Chantal, as mentioned, you were in that bottom four realm, but also looking at some of your scores, you also rated others pretty low.

00:42:10There may have been, like, awkwardness with my interactions with other people.

00:42:16It's a tricky situation because we're trying to accelerate a process that usually happens over six months to a year.

00:42:24It really hurts.

00:42:25I don't feel like I deserve such a low score.

00:42:33Maybe I'm delusional.

00:42:34Maybe I'm delusional.

00:42:35I really did bad in the hot tub.

00:42:37Let's be honest.

00:42:39But I'm still curious about what Joe thought of me, though.

00:42:43Hopefully he didn't rank me too low.

00:42:45He is a little younger.

00:42:47But I could teach him a few things.

00:42:52Rob, here's what I wanted to ask a question about.

00:42:55You rated the six dates that you had as threes.

00:42:59I rated all the dates the same.

00:43:02Okay.

00:43:02To me, it was like every date is us sitting in a hot tub for two minutes, so it all just felt like the same date over and over and over and over and over.

00:43:09So I just kind of rated them all the same.

00:43:11I'm trying to kind of make the least understand that I'm just trying to keep my options open without hurting anyone's feelings.

00:43:18And at the same time, nobody got a different number, so nobody gained favor or lost favor.

00:43:25Because I can't be acting like I'm just going to jump right into trying to get at Jen.

00:43:30I don't want to look like that flaky guy who just, like, one day I'm all over this girl.

00:43:35The next day, just like, it's nothing.

00:43:37I'm all over that girl.

00:43:38So, like, let me put a little pause on where's Rob at?

00:43:42I guess I'm confused because I don't even understand.

00:43:45I guess I'm lost.

00:43:47About what?

00:43:48What you asked Rob.

00:43:50So what Rob was kind of saying was that every date was exactly the same.

00:43:54It's cookie cutter.

00:43:55You get in, you talk to people for two minutes.

00:43:57Yep.

00:43:58Does that make you feel any kind of way to be described as, like, you're the same as everybody else he talked to?

00:44:03I feel like when I feel it, I feel it.

00:44:06Yeah.

00:44:06I don't know if I, like...

00:44:07Okay.

00:44:08That's fair.

00:44:09I don't know.

00:44:09Maybe I need to work a little harder.

00:44:10I don't know.

00:44:11It was the same date six times.

00:44:13So everybody got the same number.

00:44:15I don't understand.

00:44:18Okay.

00:44:19Who wants to go next?

00:44:21Just kidding.

00:44:22We can keep moving forward.

00:44:23But a little bit of homework.

00:44:25Think about the person that you feel like you have the biggest connection with here tonight.

00:44:29And within the next day or so, I just want you to take that vulnerable step.

00:44:33Doesn't mean that you have to fall in love tomorrow.

00:44:36It just means I'd like to get some coffee with you one-on-one.

00:44:39I'd like to go on a date with you.

00:44:41Take a deep breath.

00:44:42Let yourself be yourself.

00:44:43You can't go back and change today.

00:44:45But here we are.

00:44:46So it's been a lovely day of getting to know each other on a deeper level.

00:44:52Why don't we grab our things and we'll hit the rope.

00:44:54Sound good to you?

00:44:55Sounds great.

00:44:55All right.

00:44:56Absolutely.

00:44:57All right.

00:45:02Rob was just so disrespectful to me.

00:45:04My entire night last night was with him, between us kissing, and making me feel special, and then giving me a score as just another girl.

00:45:15You know.

00:45:18Rob messed with the wrong woman.

00:45:25Rob.

00:45:26Yeah.

00:45:26So after kissing me last night, and you were trying to get me to go f*** you last night.

00:45:31Yo, this chick is crazy.

00:45:35She might be a f***ing up case.

00:45:37You just want to put your f*** in me?

00:45:53Amigo.

00:45:54Dos mas por tu?

00:45:56I think it's so attractive that you speak like granite.

00:45:59Have you ever, since it's hard for him to get out of the country, have you ever thought about going to Nigeria?

00:46:03I want to go.

00:46:04Would you be open to that?

00:46:05Yeah, he invited me.

00:46:06I would love to.

00:46:07Oh, you've already talked about that?

00:46:08Yeah.

00:46:09Yeah.

00:46:09Okay.

00:46:09I see.

00:46:09I mean, I'd possibly be like that.

00:46:11But I'm like, how many secret wives does he have in Nigeria that I'm going to have tonight?

00:46:15Sounds like trust might be an issue here after you've heard that song.

00:46:18No, you have nothing to worry about.

00:46:19We're getting another drink.

00:46:20We're getting a Long Island.

00:46:21Hi.

00:46:22Hey.

00:46:22Hey, how you doing?

00:46:23Good.

00:46:24How are you?

00:46:24Pretty good.

00:46:25Oh, the happy couple.

00:46:26What's your poison choice?

00:46:32I think it's always tequila.

00:46:33Tequila?

00:46:33Yeah.

00:46:34Okay.

00:46:35You want to do a shot of tequila or something?

00:46:36Just a shot, but we can do another one.

00:46:38Yeah, no, no, no, because you missed the shot.

00:46:39So, because you missed the shot.

00:46:40Okay.

00:46:40Right now, I feel super awkward around Lexi.

00:46:44Said some things that kind of made her upset or triggered at the Flurry Workshop.

00:46:48I feel more comfortable talking to women online.

00:46:51It's definitely nice to have a buffer when you're communicating with somebody.

00:46:54Time delay, texting, you can think about it.

00:46:56You know, have a tea, whatever.

00:46:58Take a and come back to it, you know.

00:47:00But, you know, in this real-time scenario here, time is not an option.

00:47:05I feel like Lexi and I have no romantic interest in each other, but really, this could be an

00:47:10opportunity to improve my skills talking to women in person.

00:47:14I'm going to use a bath.

00:47:14That's right.

00:47:15I'll be right back.

00:47:15Okay.

00:47:16I heard something about people going back to her room.

00:47:19What happened with that?

00:47:20Yeah.

00:47:20So, last night, like, maybe six of us went back to the room and we were, hey, we went

00:47:24back to Tiffany's room last night.

00:47:26Oh, come over.

00:47:26Come over.

00:47:27Yeah.

00:47:28So, yeah, it got heated in her room last night.

00:47:31Like, I felt like Chantel and Usman, they kind of had, like, a conflict before we even

00:47:35went to the room.

00:47:36And she told me, like, be careful.

00:47:37He's a scammer.

00:47:38And then he got, like, a little butthurt about that.

00:47:39I'm like, oh, I'm a bitch and it's all.

00:47:40Yeah, but even though I heard about that, she said, oh, be careful, I still want to

00:47:43like it.

00:47:43That was the main reason why I called her attention yesterday.

00:47:46I was like, hey, what's up?

00:47:47Yeah.

00:47:47You know, I want to hear the reason why she have that perception about me.

00:47:50Yeah.

00:47:50Because I never talked to her, so why would she call me a scammer?

00:47:54I've had a fight last night with Chantel.

00:47:57I am still feeling so angry over it.

00:47:59Chantel opened her mouth and said to Courtney in Istanbul that she should be careful with me.

00:48:03I'm a scammer.

00:48:04And I feel like she owe me an apology because why would you call me a scammer for no reason?

00:48:08That's no fair.

00:48:09Well, like, I don't say that because she's a woman.

00:48:11I can no punch her, so why are you going to say that?

00:48:13I don't want to punch her.

00:48:14Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

00:48:15Like, if it's a man, then...

00:48:16You've got to take a stand, though, in some way.

00:48:17What I'm trying to say is that she's a female.

00:48:19What I'm trying to say is that...

00:48:23Hey.

00:48:24Oh, hello.

00:48:24Hey.

00:48:25Hey.

00:48:26Hey.

00:48:26Hi, friends.

00:48:28Where were you guys at?

00:48:29Hey.

00:48:30I couldn't even tell you, like, on a beach or something the whole time.

00:48:34I haven't seen you the whole time.

00:48:35Hey, guys.

00:48:36Yo, how you doing?

00:48:37How you doing, bro?

00:48:37I haven't met you yet.

00:48:38Cole.

00:48:38Cole, Rob.

00:48:39Rob, I've been hearing your name all day.

00:48:41I'm like, who's wrong?

00:48:42Really?

00:48:42In your guys' thing or just amongst you guys?

00:48:45I did.

00:48:46I guess Cole and Jen hit it off at the masquerade ball, but I ain't worried about Cole.

00:48:53Like, there's different versions of a good-looking guy.

00:48:55There's me.

00:48:57And then there's the good-looking guy that looks like Jack Sparrow before bed.

00:49:02Or lost at sea look.

00:49:04I don't know.

00:49:05It's, like, an odd choice.

00:49:08Did you guys have a good day?

00:49:09Yeah, it was all right.

00:49:10I mean, it was a...

00:49:11Where were you at last night?

00:49:12I was in my room last night.

00:49:14With who?

00:49:15Pamaso.

00:49:16Good.

00:49:16Hola, bonita.

00:49:18Muy bien, you two.

00:49:19Good.

00:49:20How was your day?

00:49:20Good.

00:49:21It's so loud.

00:49:23It is.

00:49:23It's so hot here.

00:49:27After the speed dating activity, I feel attracted, like, physically attracted to Rob.

00:49:34He has, like, this sexual magnetism, but now it is super nice to see Cole tonight.

00:49:41I see that he's a little nervous around me, and that is super cute.

00:49:46These two men are very attractive, but they're very different from each other, like, two different flavors of ice cream.

00:49:53Now I have to choose which one I want to taste.

00:49:56Do you have a big family?

00:49:58Yeah, I do.

00:49:59You want to tell me a little bit about that?

00:50:00But I am a single, actually.

00:50:02A single...

00:50:04Come on?

00:50:04Kid.

00:50:05You have a single kid?

00:50:06Yeah.

00:50:06How old is your kid?

00:50:08He's seven years old.

00:50:09It's my girl.

00:50:10It's a girl.

00:50:11That's true.

00:50:11I'm happy.

00:50:12Well, I'm happy that you told me that.

00:50:14She's a beautiful girl.

00:50:16I have no doubt that's true, looking at mom.

00:50:19Does that make you nervous to tell people that?

00:50:24It's something that has to be put on the table.

00:50:27It's very important.

00:50:28Somehow, and at some point, I think it's important.

00:50:33Being a mom changes everything when it comes to dating.

00:50:36You have to be sure that you're thinking not just about yourself, but what is best for the future as a possible future family.

00:50:44So it's a lot of pressure.

00:50:47Cole seems to not freak out about the fact that I am a single mother, and that is actually a super, super positive sign

00:50:54that I may be able to build a relationship with him.

00:50:58I really love to talk to you.

00:51:01I always, like, I don't know, like, when it has been, like, really short, I'm like, it feels so comfortable talking to you.

00:51:07I love that.

00:51:08I feel the same way.

00:51:08I think from the very start when I saw you last night, with eye contact and the mask, there was a spark there for me,

00:51:13and I'm happy to hear that maybe that was the same for you.

00:51:17Jen's no doubt a powerful, sexy woman.

00:51:19I am a little nervous to talk to her just because the previous night when we met, it was a little awkward just given the fact that we had the masks on,

00:51:27and it was hard to hear, and I wasn't used to her accent, so I kept having to say, like, what, what, what are you saying?

00:51:32Please repeat yourself.

00:51:34When I came to the retreat, I was open-minded to the idea that somebody might have a kid.

00:51:38So when Jen said that she had a kid, this isn't a deal-breaker for me.

00:51:41I think I'd be a good father.

00:51:43I'd love to give it a shot.

00:51:44And I'm super excited to see where it goes from here.

00:51:49Okay, my biggest, one of my biggest things that I want to do is, like, go to a renaissance fair.

00:51:53To a renaissance fair?

00:51:54Anyone?

00:51:55Anyone.

00:51:55I've been to, like, at least two.

00:51:57I've been to any.

00:51:58They're great.

00:51:58You can throw axes.

00:52:00Hi.

00:52:01How was your day?

00:52:02It's out of, like, you're like, all right.

00:52:03It's out of, like, right away.

00:52:07Anyone you like?

00:52:08No.

00:52:08I think you said that last night.

00:52:11I think I was talking, Rob.

00:52:13Huh?

00:52:13Rob.

00:52:14See, ours was fun, but we had to, like, rape everybody in our day.

00:52:18Ross.

00:52:18Yeah.

00:52:18Why did you say that our day was the same as everyone else's?

00:52:22You just, I knew you didn't get it.

00:52:24Everybody got the same.

00:52:25Okay.

00:52:26So, after calling me last night.

00:52:27You guys are dating each other.

00:52:28Wait, wait, wait.

00:52:29We didn't have to date each other.

00:52:30You guys are dating each other.

00:52:31Okay, so.

00:52:32Yeah, but I didn't really like that particular question.

00:52:34Okay, but, Rob, I don't really care what you like.

00:52:35Okay.

00:52:36So, after kissing me last night, calling me on the phone for an hour and a half, and you're

00:52:42trying to get me to go you last night on the phone.

00:52:44You're upset because I gave every girl the same number on one particular.

00:52:49We kissed last night.

00:52:53You're here for the wrong reasons.

00:52:54You're telling me to go you last night?

00:52:56I did not say that.

00:52:57Yeah, you did.

00:52:58You told me to come to your...

00:52:58No, I didn't.

00:52:58I said, I said you could hang out.

00:53:00No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:53:00You told me to come to your place.

00:53:02Pull up your receipts.

00:53:02Pull up the receipt then.

00:53:03Did I not just say, I want to hang out?

00:53:05Show me, show me.

00:53:06Yeah, show the receipts.

00:53:07Show the receipts then.

00:53:07Elise is a model for Miami, and you're going to give her a three?

00:53:12Are you kidding me?

00:53:13Like, his game.

00:53:14Like, I could help him with his flirting.

00:53:16Elise is throwing herself at you, like, showing her ass, making out with you, and you still

00:53:21managed to this up?

00:53:22How?

00:53:23How did this conversation start?

00:53:25She's like, she's like, something happened.

00:53:28She's mad that I rated everybody the same, so she's pissed off at me.

00:53:32But I think that's ridiculous.

00:53:33Really?

00:53:34So why did, why were you...

00:53:35Because you're refusing to understand my perspective and why I rated everybody the same.

00:53:39You should rank her number one.

00:53:46I was going to give Elise the benefit of the doubt.

00:53:49I mean, at least for now, it's only been a couple days.

00:53:51But after acting like this, I mean, I'm, like, certain that this girl is not somebody that

00:53:58I could be with.

00:53:59Like, that is the biggest, the biggest red flag for me.

00:54:02The absolute biggest, worst thing that you could do if you think that I'm going to be

00:54:07interested in you is accuse me of what I haven't done in front of people that don't know.

00:54:11Do you see where she's saying, though?

00:54:13No, I see her being childish.

00:54:14How would you feel if she ranked all the equal, but you guys have, like, a little...

00:54:19I don't get, I don't get why, because I'm not a emotional person that can't get why.

00:54:23You just want to put your me.

00:54:24You want to take me behind doors and me so no one thinks you're a dog.

00:54:28There you go.

00:54:29It's a thing, too.

00:54:31Hence why your relationship's going to work out.

00:54:33I'm not a f***ing emotional person that can't get why.

00:54:45You just want to put your d***, see?

00:54:47There you go.

00:54:49It's a thing, too.

00:54:50You're an a**hole.

00:54:51I'm not doing anything.

00:54:52You're here for the wrong intention.

00:54:54You hurt me.

00:54:54It's rude.

00:54:55This altercation right here.

00:54:57You're making me feel like a no one more explosive.

00:54:58I have a feeling that you're going to do this.

00:54:59No, I'm going to hear this, too.

00:55:00In 24 hours, we've gone from, we're vibing, we have a connection, but because I ranked

00:55:12her a three, she is now yelling at me in my face, just yelling at me, and I'm just like,

00:55:18yo, this chick is crazy.

00:55:21She might be a f***ing nutcase.

00:55:22Look at the, look at these time calls.

00:55:25FaceTimes me.

00:55:2610.43 a.m.

00:55:28Calls me at 2 a.m.

00:55:30Incoming call for an hour and 20 minutes.

00:55:32Wow.

00:55:33But I'm just another girl, right?

00:55:34On the, on the ranking board.

00:55:36Jesus Christ.

00:55:38I don't know why.

00:55:39I was like, yes, we talked on the phone.

00:55:48Yes, I told her, like, yeah, we should probably not be baking out on the first day, and it

00:55:52is a bad look, and let's not do that, and let's kind of, like, slow it down.

00:55:56And now she's saying, you want to f*** me behind closed doors?

00:55:58You want to hide me?

00:55:59You, you, like, I broke her heart because I put a three for everybody.

00:56:04Because you didn't have sex with her.

00:56:08Probably, I don't, which is fine, and not, so not going to make me into the dog who wanted

00:56:13to f*** when I didn't want to f***.

00:56:15Elise is upset because Rob didn't sleep with her.

00:56:18She wanted to get f***ed, and Rob didn't f*** her.

00:56:24She wanted her cheeks clapped, and, um, is let down because Rob didn't do it.

00:56:31I think.

00:56:34But, yeah, I was just, I was just not expecting this.

00:56:38Maybe take it as a red flag and run.

00:56:40Oh, I'm definitely not interested anymore.

00:56:42Like, I'm, I could not talk to somebody like that.

00:56:44You goshed the bullet.

00:56:45It's only the second day, so, right, I'm glad that this is what happened on the second day

00:56:48because this is way too excessive.

00:56:52I think I'm going to go to bed.

00:56:54All right.

00:56:55Sweet dreaming.

00:57:01So, you're not going to say bye to her?

00:57:03F***, no, I'm not going to talk to her ever again.

00:57:05Why?

00:57:05Because that was f***ing insanity.

00:57:10That's f***ing crazy.

00:57:11Why can't I not have f***ing drama?

00:57:14I didn't even do anything.

00:57:15I f***ed.

00:57:17I just got here, man.

00:57:18I don't even know.

00:57:19I'm tired of being taken advantage of.

00:57:24I feel like when I start liking a guy a little bit, he does this to me.

00:57:30After all this time that he's tried to talk to me and make me feel special as just another girl,

00:57:36you know, I know that was fake.

00:57:39Sometimes I speak quickly and I should think probably before I speak and I get ahead of myself,

00:57:46but I'm a real lovable human with a big heart that's just really scared of getting hurt,

00:57:53and it just happened.

00:57:54They get mad because you don't want to f*** them,

00:58:00and then they start, you know, blah, blah, blah, speaking all this nonsense.

00:58:03It happens all the time.

00:58:03Because, like, if that's what she wanted, she really just tanked it and shot herself in the foot.

00:58:08Like, that is never going to happen.

00:58:09Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:58:10Why would you do that if that's what you want?

00:58:12I was not envious of you during that, bro.

00:58:14My day was the worst one, I think, like, out of everybody.

00:58:19No, no, it wasn't.

00:58:19No connection.

00:58:20No, because I felt, like, so awkward.

00:58:23Just, like, anxiety.

00:58:24You do well.

00:58:25Yeah, but...

00:58:26I feel like I did the worst.

00:58:28I really don't know if I am good at flirting or I'm not,

00:58:31but I am honestly better than Courtney,

00:58:33because at the flirting one-on-one, she was crushing.

00:58:38Oh, my God.

00:58:39So I'm just trying to be that gentleman,

00:58:41because I like Courtney, and I don't want her to feel bad about it.

00:58:45I'm really surprised, Rob, that you got into something,

00:58:48because I really thought it would have been Chantel and Usman.

00:58:51Yeah.

00:58:52Right?

00:58:52Because he said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.

00:58:56Damn.

00:58:56He said, well, yeah.

00:58:57What?

00:58:58Calling him a scammer.

00:58:59Yeah, calling him a scammer and all that

00:59:01we're talking about.

00:59:02I take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.

00:59:05I bet, yeah.

00:59:05She's ready to choke him up.

00:59:06Yeah, I wouldn't want to mess with you.

00:59:09I understand where Usman's coming from,

00:59:11being offended or hurt by what someone's saying,

00:59:13but he escalated too far,

00:59:16and it goes to show you that

00:59:17you're just going to be an asshole for no reason.

00:59:21And I'm hoping Courtney realizes that

00:59:23because I don't want that flower to blossom.

00:59:26I'm trying to throw as much interference in there as I can.

00:59:29I mean, it's all about deflating.

00:59:33They say deflating 101, so, like, if you don't know how to flee...

00:59:36Can I interrupt for a little bit?

00:59:38I want to talk to you, Usman.

00:59:40Okay.

00:59:40Because I heard that you said something behind my back

00:59:43that wasn't very nice.

00:59:44Actually, it was very aggressive.

00:59:47You told people that you would want to punch me.

00:59:51If you're a man, I will.

00:59:52If I was a man.

00:59:53Yeah, but you're a woman, so I can't.

00:59:55I would never touch a woman in my life.

00:59:56Why would you say that?

00:59:58Why would you say something to her about me

01:00:00in an allegation that you don't know?

01:00:02Because I felt like they were true.

01:00:05How is it true?

01:00:06Like, what do I ask?

01:00:07I'm very protective of my friends,

01:00:09and I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to them.

01:00:12You act so, like, childish.

01:00:14I don't know.

01:00:15Me? Childish? No.

01:00:16Never.

01:00:16No, you did.

01:00:23You're going to punch me in the face,

01:00:25or, like, she's like,

01:00:26what's up?

01:00:28You guys are not fighting.

01:00:29Do you want to fight me?

01:00:31No, I don't want, please,

01:00:32I don't want to fight you.

01:00:33Do you want to fight me?

01:00:35No.

01:00:35He's not, he's not, come on.

01:00:36All right, I gotta go to bed.

01:00:37Yeah, go to bed.

01:00:38All right, good night.

01:00:38You're early.

01:00:39You okay?

01:00:40I'm done.

01:00:41I'm tired.

01:00:41I'm fine.

01:00:42Boy, you just come here.

01:00:43You just calmer.

01:00:44I don't like you.

01:00:46This is some bull

01:00:47You know what?

01:01:08Yes.

01:01:09I tried to own up to my

01:01:12misunderstanding,

01:01:14and some man says

01:01:15that they want to punch me

01:01:16in the face.

01:01:17I didn't come here for this.

01:01:19I have every right

01:01:20to believe he's a scammer.

01:01:22He did target

01:01:24older American women.

01:01:28I've never been so disrespected

01:01:31by a man in my life.

01:01:34Usman better check himself,

01:01:36or he's going to be in

01:01:37for a world of hurt.

01:01:39Pow, pow.

01:01:44I feel like you're

01:01:48going to kill the mood

01:01:49if you guys don't make up

01:01:51the rest of the trip.

01:01:52You guys just need to

01:01:52I'm not trying to deal with this.

01:01:54I want to be having fun.

01:01:55Like, you guys are killing my back.

01:01:57Yeah, but the thing is

01:01:57that I'm just not taking

01:01:58anything that has to do

01:01:59with coming easy.

01:02:00We don't think that

01:02:01about yourself.

01:02:02Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:02:02I mean, I don't,

01:02:04I didn't say you,

01:02:05you know, like,

01:02:05but a lot of people

01:02:06think that

01:02:07and that's fighting.

01:02:08It doesn't matter.

01:02:10It doesn't matter.

01:02:11This is bull****.

01:02:13I feel like Chantelle

01:02:14is kind of like

01:02:15trying to ruin

01:02:16the whole trip for me

01:02:17on finding someone.

01:02:20I'm dipping too, man.

01:02:23You want to go too?

01:02:24Yeah, I'm going to go back

01:02:24to the room.

01:02:25Okay.

01:02:25You have a good mix.

01:02:27But I mean,

01:02:28I'm just having my time

01:02:29to shoot my shot

01:02:30and then

01:02:31Courtney is right here

01:02:32and then you keep on

01:02:33saying all these

01:02:34negative things about me.

01:02:35It's not my fault

01:02:37that Chantelle

01:02:38picked the wrong guy.

01:02:40Maybe he's still out

01:02:40because of green card.

01:02:43She should be smarter

01:02:43than that.

01:02:45Good night.

01:02:46Good night.

01:02:47Good night.

01:02:48All right, bro.

01:02:48You safe?

01:02:49Yeah, man.

01:02:50Hey, ma'am.

01:02:51What's up?

01:02:51What a night.

01:02:53Yeah, it's hot.

01:02:55You just need

01:02:56to just let it all go.

01:02:57But you're here

01:03:02being like

01:03:03negative now to you.

01:03:05I'm going to be

01:03:06negative to you?

01:03:07Okay, I'm sorry.

01:03:07You're like,

01:03:08yeah, you're fighting

01:03:09with my friend.

01:03:10I want you guys

01:03:10to all be cool.

01:03:11I want to have a great

01:03:12vibe and get along.

01:03:13Okay, I'm sorry.

01:03:13This is not a situation

01:03:20I want to be in.

01:03:21Like, I'm kind of stuck

01:03:22in the middle

01:03:23between my friend

01:03:24and a guy

01:03:25that I'm interested in.

01:03:26Usman's mad.

01:03:28Chantelle's mad.

01:03:30And Chantelle's

01:03:31terrified when she gets mad.

01:03:33I don't want to be caught

01:03:34in the crossfires

01:03:34because I don't want

01:03:35to go to Mexican jail.

01:03:38Good night, guys.

01:03:42Buenas noches.

01:03:43Bonita.

01:03:46Good night, Jennifer.

01:03:47Good night.

01:03:50It's here.

01:03:51Yeah.

01:03:52Hey, Jennifer.

01:03:53Mind if I walk you home?

01:03:55Um, yeah.

01:03:55Can I come in?

01:03:56Yeah, sure.

01:03:57Where do you live?

01:03:59Um, I think it's

01:04:00these ones.

01:04:00Do you know how to do that?

01:04:01I'm trying to figure out.

01:04:02Okay.

01:04:03It's a maze out here.

01:04:05Cole is the hottest pilot

01:04:07I've ever seen.

01:04:08And he's already, like,

01:04:09locked in on Jen

01:04:10and just following her around

01:04:12like a little puppy.

01:04:13But at the same time,

01:04:14I'm curious how genuine

01:04:16and sincere he is

01:04:18because most pilots,

01:04:19you know,

01:04:20have girlfriends

01:04:20in every city.

01:04:22I need to feel him out

01:04:23a little bit

01:04:24before I judge him.

01:04:26This time of night,

01:04:27you've got to be careful.

01:04:29Yeah, of course.

01:04:29I just want to make sure

01:04:30you're safe from these

01:04:31Mexican raccoons.

01:04:33You're too cute, though.

01:04:37It's very clear

01:04:38that I'm going to have

01:04:39a lot of competition

01:04:39when it comes to

01:04:41dating Jennifer.

01:04:42I'm not the type of guy

01:04:43to give up easily.

01:04:44I'm not afraid to spite

01:04:46for what I want out of this.

01:04:47Jen is like a Greek goddess,

01:04:48and that's the one

01:04:49I'm all in on.

01:04:51Is this where you're staying?

01:04:53Yeah, this is my place.

01:04:55Okay.

01:04:55Yeah, so thank you.

01:04:57Yeah, of course.

01:04:58I'm so happy

01:04:58that we had the opportunity

01:04:59to get a little long time

01:05:01and talk about things

01:05:03other than...

01:05:03You're a great job.

01:05:04I like it.

01:05:05I appreciate it.

01:05:07All of nice.

01:05:07And of course.

01:05:08I'm so happy to talk to you all.

01:05:10Sleep well.

01:05:10Hopefully see you tomorrow.

01:05:11All right.

01:05:12Bye.

01:05:12Yeah.

01:05:19Oh, my God.

01:05:20It makes me really happy

01:05:25to hear Cole's feelings

01:05:27and thoughts towards me

01:05:30because I really like him.

01:05:33Rob and I definitely

01:05:34had a good night

01:05:35to be dating,

01:05:36but I have to say

01:05:37my favorite is Cole.

01:05:39I love how we are talking.

01:05:41Also, like,

01:05:42it's very sweet of him

01:05:43to take me to my door

01:05:45and say goodnight

01:05:46and protect me

01:05:47from the Mexican raccoons.

01:05:49All right.

01:05:53You guys have a good night.

01:05:54All right, cool.

01:05:57Love is in the air.

01:05:59They had the best date

01:06:00of all of us, though.

01:06:01They did.

01:06:02So I'm happy for the...

01:06:03Well, what do we do now?

01:06:05I'm gonna eat.

01:06:06I'm so hungry.

01:06:07I'm tired.

01:06:08I don't go home.

01:06:08I just wanna go to my room

01:06:09and just go to bed straight.

01:06:10Okay.

01:06:11Are you coming?

01:06:15You said you wanna go

01:06:16to bed straight.

01:06:17Yeah, but...

01:06:17So what does that imply?

01:06:19Maybe you should dial it down

01:06:22a little bit

01:06:23and be more subtle

01:06:24about things.

01:06:24I don't know.

01:06:25I'm just trying to enjoy

01:06:26Courtney's company,

01:06:27get to know her,

01:06:28and if he's trying to

01:06:29take her away

01:06:30and keep her all to herself,

01:06:32well, good luck, Usman.

01:06:34The last night was

01:06:40kind of feeling like

01:06:41this Jen and Rob thing.

01:06:43Anytime you talk about Jen,

01:06:44the only thing I remember

01:06:45is what she told us yesterday.

01:06:47What?

01:06:48So, you know, like,

01:06:49it's not something

01:06:49that I actually should tell you?

01:06:51No, tell me.

01:06:53I think if people are coming

01:06:54to tell me a rumor,

01:06:56they want it to get out.

01:06:57I'm tired.

01:07:09I wanna go home.

01:07:10I just wanna go to my room

01:07:11and just go to bed straight.

01:07:12Okay.

01:07:13Are you coming?

01:07:16You said you wanna go

01:07:17to bed straight.

01:07:18Yeah, but...

01:07:19So what does that imply?

01:07:20No, you didn't get the point.

01:07:21I have my laptop.

01:07:21Look at which movie.

01:07:23That's like 1 o'clock, dude.

01:07:25I'm just gonna go to my room

01:07:27and eat and go to bed.

01:07:28I don't...

01:07:29I'm tired.

01:07:30Okay.

01:07:30That's fine.

01:07:34I feel like me and Courtney

01:07:36already have the connection.

01:07:38And I'm kind of trying

01:07:40to see what will happen tonight.

01:07:42And the cold has been so weird.

01:07:44It's so annoying.

01:07:46I don't feel threatening from cold.

01:07:48But I start to think, like,

01:07:49what's going on here?

01:07:53So what'd you think?

01:07:54I think the night was good.

01:07:56It was eventful.

01:07:56There was a lot going on.

01:07:58My favorite part was our date.

01:08:00Yeah.

01:08:00It's a great date.

01:08:02I felt very attracted to Tiffany

01:08:04and, like, everything

01:08:06that she was giving off.

01:08:07And I'm just excited

01:08:08to see what comes of it.

01:08:10I think there may be a kiss

01:08:11in the future

01:08:11if things keep progressing this way.

01:08:14This is you here?

01:08:15Yeah.

01:08:16All right, cool.

01:08:16Right here.

01:08:17Cool.

01:08:17That was so much fun.

01:08:19Aw, I had so much fun.

01:08:19It's a great first date.

01:08:21Aw, thank you.

01:08:21Aw, thank you for being

01:08:25so respectful

01:08:26and so easy to talk to.

01:08:28I really, really enjoyed myself,

01:08:31honestly, genuinely.

01:08:32Same.

01:08:32And I hope to keep

01:08:33getting the night more.

01:08:35Okay.

01:08:35Yeah?

01:08:35We will, yeah.

01:08:37Night.

01:08:38Night.

01:08:39All right.

01:08:40All right, bye.

01:08:41Bye.

01:08:42Bye.

01:08:43Bye.

01:08:44Bye.

01:08:45Bye.

01:08:46Bye.

01:08:47Bye.

01:08:48Bye.

01:08:49Bye.

01:08:50Bye.

01:08:52He's cute.

01:08:53I want to learn more about him

01:08:54before I can say I like him,

01:08:56like him.

01:08:56But do I get excited around him

01:08:59and happy around him?

01:08:59Yes.

01:09:00I feel like, I don't know,

01:09:02it's always nice to know

01:09:03that someone's like into you.

01:09:04I'm going to change.

01:09:06What a weird, bizarre ending,

01:09:19ending to the night.

01:09:32What a weird, bizarre ending to the night.

01:09:36I was not expecting that.

01:09:40Um, I think it was pretty insane.

01:09:45I mean, we just got here.

01:09:46I just met this girl

01:09:47and I'm really caught off guard.

01:09:49I don't know why I'm defending myself

01:09:51against a girl that I just met.

01:09:53Hopefully today's, or tomorrow's a better day

01:09:55and we can, uh, forget all about tonight

01:09:59because, I don't know,

01:10:01I need some sleep.

01:10:04Alone, for sure.

01:10:05It's day three.

01:10:29We did a hot tub speed dating yesterday

01:10:32and that did not go so well

01:10:35because, you know,

01:10:36I'm sure that everybody has realized

01:10:39that my ex is here

01:10:40and that has been super awkward.

01:10:44Uh, man, talk about, like,

01:10:46the last person on earth

01:10:47I expected to see here.

01:10:49So far, I don't think there's any girl

01:10:51that is, like, super into me.

01:10:54And I get, I'm like a very acquired taste.

01:10:57But, um, I'm really hoping

01:10:59that things turn around

01:11:00and, you know, maybe I can, you know,

01:11:02connect with somebody

01:11:03because so far, I don't know,

01:11:05it just feels like, like,

01:11:06people aren't getting my vibe.

01:11:08And I'm not feeling down,

01:11:09but I'm starting to get a little worried.

01:11:20Oh, my God.

01:11:21This way, this way, this way, this way,

01:11:22so we're gonna hide from the...

01:11:24Yeah.

01:11:24Rain, yeah.

01:11:25I've had a fight last night with Chantel.

01:11:27I'm worried that I...

01:11:28with Courtney.

01:11:30And I'm scared that I'm gonna lose her

01:11:32for another guy.

01:11:35Woo!

01:11:36So I asked Courtney

01:11:38to meet me this morning.

01:11:40And then I'm trying to see

01:11:42what I can get from Courtney

01:11:43if she would say yes to me.

01:11:45Yesterday, we were having some argument

01:11:46and misunderstanding with Chantel

01:11:49because I feel like

01:11:50when I was trying to explain myself

01:11:52over there,

01:11:53nobody would understand me.

01:11:54And everybody was like,

01:11:55ah, I'm tired of this guy.

01:11:56Yeah, you're being annoying after that.

01:11:57Despite that you are her close friend,

01:12:01you still, you know, like, being...

01:12:03You on her side,

01:12:04you are still at the same time

01:12:05on my side.

01:12:06Yeah, I do appreciate it.

01:12:06I feel like a love from you.

01:12:08I feel like you're showing me love.

01:12:09Like, I don't mean, like, love, love,

01:12:11but I'm saying that

01:12:11when everybody's trying to, like,

01:12:13pull back,

01:12:14you're still being there.

01:12:15So, you know, like, for me,

01:12:16I feel like, yeah.

01:12:17So, I appreciate that.

01:12:18That is giving me, like, a glow light.

01:12:20But I don't know.

01:12:20I don't want to be, like, assuming.

01:12:23I would like to know

01:12:24if what I think is what it is.

01:12:30I mean, like, let's see

01:12:31where things go.

01:12:34What do you feel about...

01:12:40all these guys?

01:12:45Right now, I'm not having

01:12:46anything romantic.

01:12:47Like, no guys have taken me on dates.

01:12:48Nobody's done anything.

01:12:49Like, I'm just talking

01:12:51and getting to know everybody

01:12:52at this point.

01:12:54I want to ask you this question.

01:12:57What are we?

01:13:01So, you're trying to DTR right now?

01:13:03What DTR means?

01:13:05To find the relationship.

01:13:07Oh, I mean,

01:13:09it's early,

01:13:10but I didn't know you before now.

01:13:11I know you know me before here,

01:13:13so, I mean, we're in a different level

01:13:15compared to them.

01:13:18So, what do you think?

01:13:21I don't think there's anybody

01:13:23who is beautiful more than you.

01:13:24Like, they are all below you.

01:13:25That's how I see you.

01:13:26You are more beautiful than anyone.

01:13:27You're sweet.

01:13:28Okay, Undana, can I kiss you?

01:13:33Um, you haven't even taken me on a date.

01:13:36You're kissing me something

01:13:36because I think I was showing so much...

01:13:38Um...

01:13:40...effort on moving forward.

01:13:45So, can I kiss you?

01:13:45Oh, my cheek.

01:13:52Cheek?

01:13:53You haven't done anything romantic for me.

01:13:55I mean, you just say that you're taking it.

01:13:57Okay.

01:13:59Let me give you...

01:14:00Yeah.

01:14:05Right now, Usman's my number one.

01:14:07He just needs to step up his game.

01:14:09He needs to do more than just talk.

01:14:11Talk is cheap.

01:14:12I think he's a smooth talker

01:14:15and he may just want something physical.

01:14:17I don't want to just hook up.

01:14:18I want something more

01:14:19and he needs to figure out

01:14:21if he feels the same.

01:14:23So, what's up with Rob and Jen now?

01:14:25I was like, what the hell happened?

01:14:26Like, kind of feeling like this

01:14:28Jen and Rob thing.

01:14:29Yeah.

01:14:30But then it's like Jen and Cole

01:14:31and I like Cole and Jen,

01:14:33like, they were liking each other too.

01:14:34So, I'm like...

01:14:35Yeah.

01:14:36What do you think?

01:14:37So, like, well, yesterday,

01:14:39anytime you talk about Jen,

01:14:40the only thing I remember

01:14:41is what she told us yesterday.

01:14:43Yeah.

01:14:44Yesterday, me, her, and Rob

01:14:47were sitting down over there

01:14:48having breakfast.

01:14:50You know, she was saying a lot about Tim.

01:14:53I was like, what?

01:14:54What?

01:14:55So, you know, like,

01:14:56it's not something that I actually should tell you?

01:14:58No, tell me.

01:15:00I cannot say that.

01:15:01Like, I don't know if I should say that.

01:15:06Tell me.

01:15:07Okay, okay.

01:15:08You know she's his ex.

01:15:09Yeah.

01:15:09She said he don't want to torture her.

01:15:13Wait, she told you about this?

01:15:15Like, tell me what.

01:15:16But he traveled to her country,

01:15:17he made her there,

01:15:18but he refused to torture her.

01:15:20It's like, what?

01:15:21I don't...

01:15:21Why, though?

01:15:22Why?

01:15:24So, she was saying that he was ready

01:15:25to pay for somebody.

01:15:27Like, because it's a male strippers, right?

01:15:29So, he was ready to pay

01:15:31for somebody to give her, like, lap dance.

01:15:35And he did it.

01:15:36And you watched it happening,

01:15:38and he liked it.

01:15:40No way.

01:15:45You know, Elise,

01:15:47the way that she's been coming at me,

01:15:49it's way too early for all this.

01:15:51I mean, yesterday,

01:15:52the tensions are probably high.

01:15:54Well, hopefully,

01:15:55she doesn't continue to come at me

01:15:57about anything.

01:15:57Elise,

01:15:58she's just a wrecking ball

01:16:00of who knows

01:16:01what you're gonna get.

01:16:03You're on.

01:16:12Conversation is an art

01:16:14in which very few excel.

01:16:16So, few know

01:16:17when to proceed

01:16:18and when to stop.

01:16:19I like that.

01:16:22Right now,

01:16:23I'm reading, uh,

01:16:24my book on etiquette.

01:16:25It's called

01:16:25Etiquette of Today.

01:16:27Looks like it was published

01:16:29in, um,

01:16:321806

01:16:34and 1896,

01:16:35something.

01:16:36Before the 1900s, at least.

01:16:39I don't know.

01:16:39There's some things in here,

01:16:41like tip your hat

01:16:41when you meet a lady,

01:16:42you know?

01:16:43That makes sense,

01:16:43you know?

01:16:44So,

01:16:54he was ready to pay

01:16:55for somebody

01:16:56to give a, like,

01:16:56lap dance.

01:16:58And he did it

01:16:59and he watched it happening

01:17:00and he liked it.

01:17:03I wonder if he's a cuckold.

01:17:06What cuckold?

01:17:07It's, like,

01:17:09a guy

01:17:09that wants

01:17:10to watch

01:17:11their woman

01:17:12have sex

01:17:13with another guy,

01:17:14basically.

01:17:15You do that in the state?

01:17:16That's, like, something.

01:17:18We don't do that in Africa.

01:17:18I don't do that.

01:17:19I don't do that.

01:17:20Yeah, you shouldn't do that.

01:17:21Like, no,

01:17:22I'm not doing that,

01:17:23but that's something.

01:17:24It's, like,

01:17:24if he's not

01:17:25wanting to sleep with her,

01:17:26but then he's

01:17:26paying other guys

01:17:27and, like,

01:17:28enjoying watching

01:17:28other guys

01:17:29be with her.

01:17:30Probably.

01:17:31It's just so weird,

01:17:32the whole story.

01:17:33Like,

01:17:33I just don't understand it.

01:17:36No.

01:17:36I'm not shocked

01:17:40that Tim

01:17:41is into

01:17:41some kinky stuff

01:17:43sexually.

01:17:44I wonder

01:17:44if they take

01:17:45the stripper

01:17:46back home

01:17:47because I could see

01:17:48Jen, like,

01:17:49dominating both the men.

01:17:50I can't believe

01:17:56you waited 24 hours

01:17:57to tell me

01:17:58Tim is a cuckold.

01:17:59Like,

01:17:59when you find out

01:17:59this s***,

01:18:00you guys come,

01:18:01like,

01:18:01tell me.

01:18:02I didn't tell you anything.

01:18:03I did not tell you anything.

01:18:05Okay.

01:18:06That I came to the ocean.

01:18:10I'm sorry,

01:18:11but there's

01:18:11very little chance

01:18:12I'm gonna keep this a secret.

01:18:14I think if people

01:18:15are coming

01:18:15to tell me a rumor,

01:18:17they want it to get out.

01:18:19Everybody here

01:18:20is gossiping

01:18:20and this is some hot tea.

01:18:22Do you think

01:18:22I'm not gonna share this?

01:18:23Also,

01:18:24Tim's a friend.

01:18:25I would want to know

01:18:25if people are s***

01:18:26talking to me

01:18:27behind my back

01:18:27and then,

01:18:28honestly,

01:18:29I want to know

01:18:29if this rumor is true

01:18:31so I'm gonna go

01:18:31directly to the source.

01:18:36Man,

01:18:37it's starting

01:18:37to really rain out here.

01:18:38Yeah,

01:18:38you guys brought

01:18:39in the storm last night

01:18:40then you're bringing

01:18:40it back today.

01:18:41It's not my fault.

01:18:41We need to fluff your energy.

01:18:43Have you guys seen that?

01:18:44Yeah,

01:18:44do that,

01:18:44let me see.

01:18:45Do that,

01:18:45do that,

01:18:46let me see.

01:18:47Oh, yeah,

01:18:47I receive it.

01:18:48I receive it.

01:18:49I receive it.

01:18:50Good energy,

01:18:50good energy.

01:18:51I receive it.

01:18:52All right,

01:18:52help me out.

01:18:53I saw this,

01:18:54it's like fluffing your aura,

01:18:56they call it.

01:18:57Don't do too much,

01:18:58it's okay,

01:18:58it's okay.

01:18:58It's okay.

01:18:59It's okay.

01:18:59I'm kind of jealous,

01:19:00yeah.

01:19:01He's like,

01:19:01stop fluffing his aura.

01:19:02That's crazy.

01:19:04I appreciate her positive vibe,

01:19:08but I don't know if Courtney's ever heard the word fluffer before.

01:19:13I feel like that word is used in other ways that sounds kind of crazy for her to walk up to two guys and go,

01:19:21I'm going to fluff you guys.

01:19:23It sounds crazy.

01:19:26So I fluffed your aura.

01:19:28Do you feel better now?

01:19:30I guess so.

01:19:30I mean,

01:19:31this thing just started,

01:19:32so I'm going to try not to feel negative about it.

01:19:35But,

01:19:35you know,

01:19:37Elise,

01:19:37the way that she's been coming at me,

01:19:39like,

01:19:39it's been so messy,

01:19:41it's way too early for all this.

01:19:42Yeah.

01:19:43It's just,

01:19:43it seems like another messy situation.

01:19:45Yeah.

01:19:46Where I'm,

01:19:46I don't know,

01:19:47I don't know what to,

01:19:48what to do or what to think or,

01:19:50or where to go with it.

01:19:51I mean,

01:19:51yesterday the tensions are probably high.

01:19:53It's like a weird situation that somebody I like,

01:19:55and you're watching them flirt with multiple,

01:19:56like,

01:19:57hot girls and do stuff.

01:19:58Like,

01:19:59I think you might be like,

01:20:00And,

01:20:00but at the same time,

01:20:01that,

01:20:02that reaction is way too extreme.

01:20:04Too much out.

01:20:05I was interested all the way up until she blew up on me over here last night.

01:20:09Personality over beauty,

01:20:10you know?

01:20:11Hey.

01:20:11Yeah.

01:20:12Especially if it's going to be like that.

01:20:14Well,

01:20:15hopefully she doesn't continue to try to,

01:20:17to like,

01:20:18to come at me about anything.

01:20:20And hopefully she doesn't bad mouth me about,

01:20:23to other people.

01:20:24I think you guys should go.

01:20:26Well,

01:20:27yeah,

01:20:27she needs to talk to the dating person.

01:20:28I think she needs to talk to the dating coach.

01:20:30I think she's got some really unhealthy dating habits.

01:20:33Yeah.

01:20:33I don't want to give her more ammo,

01:20:34to,

01:20:35to attack me with.

01:20:36Like,

01:20:37clearly she is very unstable and ready to attack somebody that she barely knows over things that are trivial.

01:20:42Like,

01:20:43Oh,

01:20:43you talked to me on the phone this morning.

01:20:45As if I'm like wrong to do that.

01:20:48I came here to find love,

01:20:50like to find a real connection with somebody that brings me peace.

01:20:53And it's like on the second day I got somebody yelling at me in my face and it's like, that's, that's what my marriage was.

01:20:59And moving on from that, I don't want to waste my time again.

01:21:03I can't be with somebody like that.

01:21:05Somebody who doesn't, who just like turns on me.

01:21:08Elise, she's the wrecking ball of who knows what you're going to get.

01:21:12And she's very demanding and very like aggressive.

01:21:15I don't want extra drama for no reason.

01:21:18She's going to figure it out one day that if she did like me, she shot herself in the foot.

01:21:24Hopefully I can redeem myself with some of the other ladies here and we'll see what happens.

01:21:30Just,

01:21:31just take it easy,

01:21:32you know?

01:21:32Yeah.

01:21:38You're on.

01:21:40Hi.

01:21:40Next time on 90 Day Hunt for Love.

01:21:50Talk to me about the pillow.

01:21:52This pillow.

01:21:54Is that you?

01:21:55That is me.

01:21:55I love that you have that with you,

01:21:57knowing that you were going through a rough time.

01:22:00Dwayne 101 was a disaster,

01:22:02but I still got game when it comes to turning on the charm.

01:22:05Do you think you have the courage to ask me out tonight?

01:22:09Or Courtney?

01:22:10Let's go.

01:22:14Party time.

01:22:15Yes.

01:22:18Rocky, Rocky, do your hand skit.

01:22:23I need a porn set.

01:22:26I love Margarita.

01:22:28Yeah, I do too.

01:22:29Hey guys, how's it going?

01:22:31With Jin,

01:22:32I feel like there's definitely like a connection,

01:22:34like we're vibing.

01:22:35I like Jin a lot,

01:22:36but Cole's not letting anybody talk to Jin.

01:22:39Hopefully he has good intentions,

01:22:40but yeah,

01:22:41it seems like it's pretty messy.

01:22:42Motherf*****.

01:22:47Even though I feel like I'm not in my league,

01:22:49I'm going to ask me out on a date.

01:22:52But I'm still keeping my eyes on Courtney.

01:22:55Do you have any dates planned?

01:22:57No, not yet.

01:22:58I heard that you paid for a stripper and you'd like to watch.

01:23:05For six years, I've been having to defend my sexuality.

01:23:10It's like low-hanging fruit.

01:23:11She knows that that's an easy way to upset me.

01:23:15Wasn't you going around saying all this about me to everybody that I like men?

01:23:19Everybody knows the truth.

01:23:20No, because you're telling everybody stuff.

01:23:23You've been talking about me too for the last seven years,

01:23:26and now it's my turn.

01:23:28Throw the f**k up.

01:23:29Throw the f**k up.

01:23:30Throw the f**k up.

01:23:31Throw the f**k up.

01:23:32Throw the f**k up.

01:23:33Throw the f**k up.

01:23:34Throw the f**k up.

01:23:35Throw the f**k up.

01:23:36Throw the f**k up.

01:23:37Throw the f**k up.

01:23:38Throw the f**k up.

01:23:39Throw the f**k up.

01:23:40Throw the f**k up.

01:23:41Throw the f**k up.

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