- 5/20/2025
90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 2 -Dear Diary, I'm Stressing Out
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00:00I'm so excited, nervous.
00:13I don't know what's next.
00:16What's next is sleeping on the plane.
00:18The whole family is in town.
00:20Everybody say hola.
00:21Hola.
00:22Hola.
00:23Hola.
00:24Hola.
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00:35Hola.
00:36Hola.
00:37Hola.
00:38Hola.
00:39Hola.
00:40Hola.
00:41Hola.
00:42Hola.
00:43I love you.
00:44I love you.
00:46I love you.
00:47I love you.
00:48Hi everybody.
00:49Last time, you guys saw us, we only had two beautiful babies, and now we have...
00:54Three.
00:55I love you.
00:57Back home, we always have something called
01:00one house party when you have a baby.
01:03It's just like a baby shower.
01:04There's going to be lots of food, goat meat,
01:07pepper soup, goat, some fried rice for the Americans.
01:13We have decided to have a baby.
01:15Are you kidding?
01:18You need to spend time with him.
01:19You've got to remember that.
01:20My childhood with my father was very distant.
01:26I wouldn't see him for months on end.
01:28Past mistakes don't want to repeat itself.
01:33I'm very, very serious with being a parent.
01:36I already put my two weeks notice in my job.
01:39You're going to quit your job?
01:40You're going to go to school, make zero dollars?
01:43For him to make this decision without consulting his wife
01:47is shocking.
01:49Everything's focused on me to carry this whole family
01:51all the time.
01:51I'm just over it.
01:56I'm over it.
02:06Well, we're at the airport heading to California,
02:09and today is the beginning of what could be an amazing journey.
02:13Yes.
02:14We are going to the fertility clinic.
02:16It's definitely a life-changing moment.
02:17Wish us luck, because we're definitely going to need it.
02:21I am David.
02:22I am 56 years old, currently living
02:24in Fountain Hills, Arizona, with my amazing wife, Annie.
02:28I am Annie, 31 years old, originally from Thailand,
02:31and this is my sweet potato king husband, David.
02:36Aw, I love you.
02:40Well, that was pretty quick.
02:41Made it through security on our way to the gate,
02:43and life is about to change as we know it.
02:47So excited, nervous.
02:49I don't know what's next.
02:52What's next is sleeping on the plane.
02:55When I was 40 years old,
02:57I was divorced after 20 years of marriage.
03:01At the age of 45, I moved to Asia to take a job,
03:05and I met and fell in love with Annie,
03:08and proposed after just 10 days.
03:14After we were approved for the K-1 visa,
03:16we moved to the United States,
03:18where I hoped to be closer to my family.
03:20That didn't work out so great.
03:22You walked out of his life and left him with mom.
03:25You got with her, you did this,
03:26you be-bopped around China and Thailand.
03:27He's 18 years old.
03:30Come on, bitch.
03:33It was not an easy transition.
03:35Yeah, David's family didn't welcome me,
03:38but we still got married.
03:41I now pronounce you husband and wife.
03:43You may kiss your bride.
03:50After Mary, I am ready to start a family,
03:53but David keep putting it off.
03:56I had a vasectomy 24 years ago
03:58after Jacob was born, my youngest son,
04:00never thinking that I would be divorced
04:02and remarried to somebody of childbearing years.
04:05I told David that he need to have a vasectomy
04:08reversal right away, or I can have it someone else.
04:13No, that will not happen.
04:18We're on our way to the HRC clinic
04:20to see Dr. Maison, who is going to do the sperm extraction,
04:23which is, yes, not the fun way to have a child.
04:27When I looked into having the vasectomy reversal,
04:29they said it would really be virtually impossible
04:31because it's been 24 years and the scar tissue buildup
04:35would not allow for a proper reversal.
04:38Good morning.
04:39Doctor said there's one of two places
04:41that we can get the sperm from,
04:43either the epididymis or the ball sacs.
04:46You really want it from the epididymis
04:47because they don't have to cut into your balls
04:50and it's less painful.
04:51Let's hope they can do it from the epididymis.
04:55Hi David, how are you feeling today?
04:56Nervous.
04:57Yeah, I mean, you're going to be just fine.
05:00This is a very straightforward procedure
05:01for people that have had a vasectomy.
05:03What we're going to do is make sure you're comfortable.
05:05After you're comfortable, I'm going to nub you up down there
05:08and I'm going to take a small needle
05:09and insert it into the epididymis.
05:11It's a small needle for sperm.
05:12You need to do this a couple of times
05:14until they are happy with your sample.
05:18And Amy will save you 30 minutes.
05:20She already shaved you last night, so we're good.
05:21All right, good stuff.
05:22Yeah.
05:24We'll do any fine-tuning back there, okay?
05:26See you in a bit.
05:27Yes.
05:28Well, I'm just a few minutes away
05:29from being wheeled back there in pre-op.
05:32My nerves are off the chart.
05:34Hopefully the outcome is what is desired, but we'll see.
05:43Hello, doctor.
05:44Hi, how's it going?
05:45So, everything went well?
05:47Everything went great.
05:49Oh, that's amazing.
05:51So, the quality...
05:52We found some good swimmers.
05:54Oh, yes.
05:55Hopefully I find some Olympic.
05:57Yeah.
05:58Olympic.
05:58More than enough to please.
05:59Hopefully this will help you guys go with your family.
06:04Thank you so much.
06:06My pleasure.
06:10I have a need for coffee.
06:12Can I have a need for coffee?
06:13Oh, your days of coffee are done.
06:16How do you feel, Tina?
06:18I'm excited and yeah,
06:21let's see what they're going to do to me today.
06:27Hey, good morning.
06:27Good morning.
06:28Annie, good morning.
06:29How are you feeling?
06:30Aye.
06:31Okay, so here's our plan this morning.
06:34We're going to go in there in a few minutes
06:36and extract the eggs before the ovulation occurs.
06:40And what's the next step after the egg retrieval?
06:43They'll thaw the sperm and do the fertilization process.
06:46Tomorrow we'll update you,
06:47let you know how many fertilized.
06:48Awesome.
06:54I'm interested to find out how many eggs that you've had.
06:57I know.
06:58How many viable ones?
07:00Well, let's keep our fingers crossed
07:02so much riding on this today.
07:08How you feeling?
07:09I'm done again.
07:10You're done?
07:11I'm done.
07:12That's amazing.
07:14The doctor was able to extract 20 eggs
07:16and the next day they were able to be fertilized
07:18with my sperm.
07:20We got some embryo.
07:21We have some embryos.
07:23Of the 20 eggs, we had 12 embryos
07:26of which after genetic testing, four are viable.
07:30Now we are waiting for my next period
07:33for the embryo transfer and just waiting for the best.
07:40Oh my God, I'm so tired.
07:42Tired.
07:43We are heading to New Jersey to my-
07:45Wedding.
07:46Yes, my niece's wedding, my only niece's wedding.
07:51Oh my God, Tito, we made it to Michelle's wedding.
07:53It's so beautiful.
07:54I'm so excited.
07:57We're at my niece Michelle's wedding
07:59and it's absolutely amazing.
08:04Gorgeous wedding.
08:07They do Jewish national dancing.
08:14You sound like you're in Hawaii, not New Jersey.
08:17It's...
08:35Oh my God, what a wedding, I'm gonna snore.
08:38Hey guys.
08:39Hi everybody.
08:41We made it.
08:42We made it, we got everyone here.
08:44We're gonna be talking to my family today
08:46to give them an update about the IVF process.
08:49Mom, hi.
08:50Long time since last night.
08:52I'm most nervous to tell Jacob
08:53that Annie and I are trying to have a baby
08:56because we haven't had the smoothest relationship.
08:58Oh, what a night we had last night.
09:00It was beautiful.
09:02Gorgeous.
09:04I have to say, I think Ma was out dancing.
09:06She was the best dancer.
09:08With two titanium hips, you should be the best dancer.
09:13Oh my God.
09:20You know, the energy of family is so important
09:25and with that being said,
09:27I wanted to let you know where we're at, what is happening.
09:31Over the last several months, Ma is familiar with it.
09:34We've been going through the IVF process.
09:38We have decided to have a baby.
09:43What?
09:48Are you kidding?
09:49No, I am not kidding.
09:51To actually be honest with you,
09:52we are very close to the embryo transfer.
09:58Wow.
10:00I haven't heard this family so quiet in a long time.
10:07I don't want to miss the opportunity to be a mom.
10:12I understand, like, yeah, your clock is ticking real loud.
10:17You're 31 now, right?
10:19And you want a kid.
10:21But you are not 31 now.
10:23That is correct.
10:2556.
10:26That is correct.
10:27Okay, you had your kids.
10:29I worry about your health.
10:34I mean, you have valid concerns, but you know,
10:37I don't want to deny Andy the right to motherhood.
10:39It would be unfair.
10:41And you look at several other celebrities,
10:4381 years old, they just had a job.
10:47Ultimately, this is the decision we've made
10:51and we are going through with this.
10:53It will be very interesting to see David be a father
10:56because I never see that.
10:58I mean, you seem to be a parent to them,
11:00but not to a baby.
11:01You have to spend time with them.
11:02You have their back.
11:04I've been here a lot of years without a father.
11:07It's hard to hear Jacob say he's concerned
11:10how David's going to be a dad.
11:12And it's not the first time that I heard that.
11:14Do you want kids?
11:15Yeah.
11:16You see the relationship he has with us, right?
11:20Do you expect that it would be different for your child?
11:23I don't know.
11:25Maybe you should think about that.
11:28That was a different chapter in life.
11:30I can't change what was.
11:33Just worried about what's going to happen.
11:35Just worried about what ifs, what's the possibilities,
11:38because past mistakes don't want to repeat itself.
11:41Absolutely.
11:43My childhood with my father was very distant.
11:48I mean, the few times that I would see him,
11:50it would be maybe an hour or two
11:52and I wouldn't see him for months on end.
11:55So I do have concerns with my father raising the child.
11:59Words can only mean so much.
12:01He can say he wants to do better, he can do better,
12:03but you got to prove it.
12:05He's there, wonderful, hip-hop, kind of predicted.
12:09Well, hopefully, I think everything works out
12:11much better than it did last time.
12:13I can't change what was, you know,
12:14but I will do everything I can
12:16to make a stronger, better family.
12:30Nico, you ready to play?
12:33Say yeah!
12:35Go, go!
12:39My name's Kara, I am 32 years old.
12:42My name is Guillermo, I'm 26 years old.
12:44And we have been married for three years.
12:57Guillermo and I met six years ago in the Dominican Republic
13:00when I was on a work trip.
13:02It all went hard and fast
13:03and he came over on a K-1 visa
13:07to start our lives in Charlottesville, Virginia.
13:18And 90 days later, we decided to get married.
13:27Wow, look at that.
13:31Shortly after we got married, I got pregnant
13:33and gave birth to our son,
13:36who is wonderful and beautiful.
13:39And he is growing so fast.
13:42Nico is 20 months old.
13:44He loves playing, he loves screaming, he loves music.
13:47And he always goes,
13:48cheers, with his water bottle, cheers.
13:50So we're just trying to keep up
13:52and navigate all the twists and turns of a growing family.
13:59But trying to balance all of it
14:01is incredibly overwhelming at times.
14:08Did you get the list of houses that I had sent to you?
14:10Oh, thank you.
14:12Nico.
14:15Chicken.
14:17Awesome.
14:18Yeah, did you get the list of houses that I had sent to you?
14:20I've been a realtor now for three years.
14:23I've been able to build up a really solid
14:26real estate business, which has been great.
14:27But during that time, I've also had a child.
14:30But if you want, I can definitely look into that property
14:31and just see what the selling instructions are,
14:33see if the time works for you and me,
14:37and then we'll go to the property, if that's okay.
14:40Is there anything else that wasn't super clear
14:42on how that's gonna be?
14:43Got it.
14:44So it's definitely been a push to try to grow a business
14:50and also be a mom and a stay-at-home mom.
14:56Hey, hey, what's going on?
14:58Usually Guillermo's at work all day managing a hotel,
15:01but even when he's around to help with Nico,
15:03I do feel like I'm bearing the brunt of everything.
15:05There's never an uninterrupted moment in this house.
15:08You know I'm trying to work here.
15:09Fine.
15:12I just need a second, you know, to do the things.
15:14I didn't know.
15:15I didn't know you were in a call.
15:17That's it.
15:18I mean, look, Nico is crying and needing your help.
15:23My help?
15:24But you're here.
15:25Yeah, because he gets happier when he's with you.
15:27I just feel like, apart from our regular jobs,
15:30I'm also managing the house and getting the groceries
15:33and cooking the food
15:34and making sure that he hits his nap times on schedule.
15:36It's not-
15:37Being in a hotel is hard as well.
15:39I know.
15:39You know, as a supervisor, you gotta be managing people,
15:43dealing with people, taking the time.
15:47You know, it's a lot of mental stress as well.
15:52I'm very happy to be working
15:53and actually very happy to be contributing financially
15:57to my family.
15:58But having a demanding job, a one-year-old,
16:03and a relationship, it's definitely been
16:06a huge rollercoaster.
16:08And I'm not proud of this,
16:09but sometimes I bring the work stress home.
16:13It's unfair for Kira and Nico.
16:15So I need to change.
16:18I need to change something on here.
16:20Mommy.
16:21Mommy, mommy.
16:23Nico, Nico.
16:24Hey, listen, it's very obvious to me
16:25that you've now pooped your pants
16:26cause it smells really strong.
16:28So we're gonna go, ah!
16:30Clean your butt.
16:31Let me help you.
16:32How about that?
16:32Oh my God, stop it.
16:33How about that?
16:34Vincent, I help you.
16:37♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh. ♪
16:40♪ Don't lose another eye, eye, eye. ♪
16:43♪ Ooh, eye, eye. ♪
16:45Good morning!
16:46Morning.
16:47Today's the day.
16:48Today is the day.
16:50I'm finally gonna put her in a Kaliak
16:52and she's gonna get wet, vertical, horizontal.
16:55I can't say that I'm like super pumped,
16:59but I'm excited to share the day with you and reconnect.
17:03Oh my God.
17:04We dropped Nico off.
17:05We have child care.
17:06We took the day off.
17:06We've blocked our schedule.
17:08I'm so thankful with you.
17:10All right, get in.
17:13Nice.
17:15Bye.
17:18It's gonna be a good day.
17:20I'm gonna tell myself that I really like water.
17:22I feel like recently Guillermo and I
17:24haven't really been seeing eye to eye.
17:29You look good.
17:30Nice.
17:31Good girl.
17:32This is the coolest I've ever felt.
17:35And I love my husband and I want us to connect
17:38and I want us to try to get back to where we used to be.
17:41So we're just gonna go with the flow.
17:43Thank you so much.
17:44You're so welcome.
17:46Are you feeling good?
17:48I feel like I'm sitting in a kayak.
17:51All right.
17:52Thanks kayak.
18:03Oh, I like it.
18:06All right.
18:12To me, this is a perfect day between us
18:15because I can finally show her what I like to do
18:19and the beauty of the river.
18:20Woo!
18:21You nailed it.
18:22Water, trees, birds, and us.
18:26I mean, it's actually, if you think about it, very romantic.
18:32I got you.
18:38Are you OK?
18:45Yeah.
18:50I'm going to be honest.
18:50It looks like you're drowning.
18:53Can we go, like, over there?
18:57I'd really like to spend this beautiful time
19:01in the river with Kara, but I brought her actually
19:04to tell her something important.
19:06The past few weeks have been tough between us,
19:09and I've made a big change in my life.
19:14And honestly, I don't know how she is going to take it.
19:18Well, that was cute.
19:19How do you feel?
19:22Yeah, that was so nice.
19:24In your new boat.
19:27So I need to talk to you about something.
19:35So I'm getting very serious with being a pilot.
19:39You want to be a pilot?
19:40I've been getting in contact with some people,
19:43and yeah, I think I'm actually very serious about it.
19:48My father was an aeronautical engineer,
19:52but because of the economical crisis in Venezuela,
19:56that was never an option for me.
19:58In America, becoming a commercial pilot,
20:02it's something that I can pursue.
20:04But I cannot do it alone.
20:06I need her to be my side.
20:09Have you, I mean, isn't it expensive?
20:14Yeah, but I can get a loan, I can, you know.
20:17I don't, I, you know, logistically,
20:20it might be a big undertaking.
20:22Why, why not?
20:23Well, a big fat student loan that's in our name.
20:25Uh-huh, and?
20:26Time, holding down your full-time job
20:28while going to pilot school, simultaneously.
20:31Well, that's going to end in two weeks, actually.
20:34Maybe before that.
20:35What?
20:37I already put my two-weeks notice in my job.
20:41Are you joking?
20:43No.
20:44You're not joking.
20:45Have you thought about this?
20:46Yeah.
20:47So you're going to quit your job?
20:49You're going to go to school, make zero dollars?
20:52What's your plan?
20:53How are we going to pay the bill?
20:56I'm furious because he is one of the two people
21:00contributing to our household,
21:02and the only one that has given our family insurance,
21:05and so for him to make this decision
21:08without consulting his wife,
21:09or at least talking about it,
21:12it is shocking.
21:15Everything falls on me to carry this whole family
21:18all the time, I'm just over it, like.
21:20♪♪♪♪
21:35♪♪♪♪
21:37All right, we're going to do a house tour.
21:39I love my front porch.
21:41And my plants.
21:42Love my plants.
21:44Here we go.
21:45My name is Emily, I am 32 years old,
21:49and I live in Salina, Kansas.
21:52I am Kobe from Cameroon.
21:54I am 37 years old.
21:56Live with my beautiful wife.
21:58In our own house.
22:00You want to give the house tour?
22:02Okay, come take the phone.
22:04Okay, come over here, hold the phone.
22:06Hi, we have...
22:07This is the basement.
22:09This is not the basement!
22:11What is it?
22:11It's the living room.
22:12This is the living room.
22:14Okay.
22:15This is my sister's room.
22:18She's getting her clothes on.
22:20Yeah, with daddy.
22:21Show us the bed.
22:23This is our bed.
22:24It's so comfy.
22:27Kobe finally got his wish.
22:29We bought a home with five bedrooms,
22:32three bathrooms.
22:33I don't have to give him all the details.
22:35Yeah, I need him to know that we bought
22:37a big enough home to fill with children.
22:41Kobe and I met in Xi'an, China.
22:43It was supposed to be a one-night stand,
22:46but a few weeks later, I found out I was pregnant.
22:50I came back to the U.S.
22:51and I immediately started the K-1 visa process.
22:54But because of COVID,
22:56it took Kobe almost two years to get to America.
22:59So he didn't meet our son, Kobe,
23:01until he was a year and a half.
23:05Who's that?
23:06You see Papa?
23:07You see Dada?
23:08Oh, my.
23:09Hi.
23:10Hi.
23:11Can you give them a hug together?
23:12Oh.
23:16And then 90 days later, we were married.
23:18I now pronounce you husband and wife.
23:23Last time you guys saw us,
23:25we only had two beautiful babies,
23:27and now we have...
23:29Three.
23:32Gotta go get the babies now.
23:34Hi.
23:36Bubba.
23:37I get you.
23:38I get...
23:39Hi.
23:43You're brushing your hair?
23:45Let me get Bubba's help.
23:46Hi.
23:47Oh.
23:48Okay.
23:51Can Bubba go to Myrtle Beach?
23:52Yeah.
23:53I love you.
23:55Kobe, from the jump, was like,
23:56I want to name him a Tim,
23:58after his friend who didn't really like me
24:00that much in Cameroon.
24:02Kobe was like,
24:03look, the name's really important to me,
24:04and I gave in.
24:07His name is A-Tim.
24:08He's so cute.
24:08He's so cute.
24:10He's so...
24:12He's like the chillest baby.
24:13I would have seven of him.
24:15Nope.
24:16Yep.
24:20So we're here and getting ready for the bone house party.
24:23I can't wait.
24:24Okay, Bubba.
24:25Okay, Bubba.
24:27Okay.
24:28Back home, we always have something called bone house party
24:31when you have a baby.
24:33Just like a baby shower,
24:35there's going to be lots of food.
24:37Goat meat, pepper soup goats, barbecue goats,
24:40some fried rice for the Americans.
24:46We're all coming to experience a cultural event.
24:49Wait, how many chairs did we get?
24:5125.
24:53Okay.
24:53But we have more than 25 chairs.
24:56Dad's coming to help.
24:58This is very important for me that I get to understand,
25:00okay, my dad is from Africa,
25:01he's from Cameroon,
25:02and a little bit of Cameroon history.
25:04Is all this going to fit?
25:06Mm-hmm.
25:07Of course.
25:09Okay.
25:10I've been wanting to help Kobe plan for this party,
25:12but he wants it to be the true Cameroonian bone house party,
25:16and so I'm totally hands off.
25:18It scares me, but this is Kobe's thing.
25:21This is what he wants, and I respect that.
25:23Yeah, why don't you guys pick up like seven at a time?
25:27What's the plan?
25:28I'm just kidding.
25:33I mean...
25:37Still on?
25:39I'm stressing out.
25:42Why?
25:44I feel like there's like 70 people
25:47coming in a couple days,
25:48and like I have no idea what's going on.
25:52When I plan a party,
25:53like I literally have it down to a T,
25:56so the most stressful part about this party
26:00is I have absolutely no idea what's going on.
26:03I still don't really know like the itinerary
26:06or who's coming or what's happening.
26:08I know a lot of people are coming from all over.
26:11I know there's going to be Cameroonian food and dancers,
26:14and that's like basically it.
26:16I mean, that's a lot.
26:19Everyone's gonna come in town.
26:20Nobody knows when they're coming to our house.
26:23What time is the party?
26:26I just ask everybody to come over around five.
26:29Over where? Here or mom and dad's?
26:31Mom and dad's.
26:32So the cooking's gonna happen all day at mom and dad's?
26:34Not only, there's cooking that are gonna be done here.
26:39So people are gonna cook all day,
26:41but we're gonna be in separate houses,
26:42and then everyone's gonna come at five to mom and dad's?
26:45Yeah.
26:48So who's gonna be here when people are cooking here?
26:50As of now, I don't know.
26:51I can't tell you that.
26:54Kobe's never thrown a party while we've been married,
26:57so we will see.
27:03What?
27:05Oh, yeah.
27:13We are getting ready for the Born House today.
27:17It looks good.
27:18I'm really nervous.
27:19The party's in 30 minutes.
27:21We have 70 people showing up to my parents' house.
27:25There's people in my kitchen, in my mom's kitchen.
27:32I know I'm not helping plan anything,
27:34but I'm still a host,
27:36so I just wanna make sure the party goes smoothly.
27:39So right now, we are going down to the in-laws' place
27:42with the guys around.
27:44We wanna go make sure that everything looks good so far.
27:47I trust these guys.
27:49Got it, bro.
27:50All right, are we ready?
27:51Rio, are we set?
27:54All right, let's go.
28:04It looks good.
28:06We still have a lot more?
28:08Yeah. Yes.
28:09Oh, my gosh.
28:10We are with the guys,
28:11and making sure that everything is looking good.
28:16So we're mounting the canopies.
28:18And this is the main man.
28:19What?
28:21We'll make sure that the event is a successful one.
28:23It's hot out.
28:23It is hot out here.
28:25Thank you so much.
28:26Yeah.
28:28Look how pretty mom looks in her outfit.
28:30I do, too.
28:31So beautiful.
28:32It's a Thames party.
28:34Yeah, it is.
28:35Okay, what are we making?
28:37We're cooking an arrow.
28:38Arrow.
28:39Oh, I love it.
28:41Oh, my goodness.
28:43Yee!
28:51I'm so happy, man,
28:52to know there's so many people over here.
28:54That means that we have a lot of people
28:56who are really out here to support us.
28:59And the whole family's in town.
29:02Everybody say hello!
29:03Hello!
29:09I'm not gonna talk very much,
29:10but I just wanna say that we are deeply blessed
29:12to have you all.
29:14It's such a special moment for us.
29:16I never thought I could get this emotion,
29:17but I've already getting very emotional.
29:20I know you guys would have been somewhere else.
29:22America, time is money.
29:24But you choose to make this moment
29:25a very special one for us,
29:27to celebrate our son, Atem, with us.
29:32I just wanna say thank you guys so much for showing up.
29:34I mean, there's so much traditional meal over there.
29:36If you can go three, four, five times,
29:38if your stomach can handle that, just keep going.
29:41All right, thank you guys so much
29:43for over there and the drinks as well.
29:48It's really a beautiful thing
29:49to see that there's so much support
29:51and love going on over here.
29:53And this is a beauty of Cameroon culture.
29:56Everybody who came in town for the Bornhouse party
29:58is really putting an effort to making sure
30:01that everything is a success.
30:05I'm just really, really happy
30:06that we were able to do it here,
30:08you know, in Salina.
30:16I made it happen, babe.
30:17It's okay.
30:18You did.
30:19You did.
30:20I wanna do it again.
30:21I'll do it.
30:22I promise you.
30:23I'm next, baby.
30:25Ready?
30:26Cheese.
30:41Since we're not gonna be able to go on a tropical trip,
30:45I wanted to make us a tropical snack.
30:47Okay.
30:48Okay.
30:49Thank you so much.
30:51Annie and I met in Thailand while I was working in Asia.
30:54We got married seven years ago
30:55and now we are trying to have a baby.
31:01That's good.
31:04You know what?
31:04I want Annie to have one final cocktail
31:07before the embryo transfer
31:08because if everything goes well,
31:10it'll be nine months before you have your next dink.
31:12Maybe a year.
31:13Maybe a year.
31:14It depends.
31:15It's up to you.
31:16I'm not gonna put any pressure on you.
31:21I am.
31:43I mean, I understand and I can appreciate their concerns
31:46because, you know what?
31:47I even had to ask myself those same questions.
31:51I had a vasectomy at the age of 32
31:53after having three children.
31:55Had I not met Annie,
31:56I honestly wouldn't be thinking about having kids.
31:59I said to you,
31:59I would never deny you the right to motherhood.
32:02Didn't mean that I was gonna forget that being a father
32:05because we're in this together.
32:07But I'm not gonna deny you the right to motherhood.
32:10I'm not gonna deny you the right to have a baby.
32:13But I don't want you to worry or to fear.
32:16Matter of fact, I even have this paper.
32:18We can have a little schedule.
32:20All right.
32:22Night one will be your night.
32:26No, night one should be you.
32:27Night one, night two, night three should be you.
32:30We're gonna rotate.
32:31But I'll take night one.
32:32You can have night two.
32:33Okay.
32:34And then for diaper duty,
32:36I'm gonna put you date time.
32:38Yeah.
32:39I'll do night time.
32:41You sign your name.
32:42I sign my name.
32:44We make a deal.
32:45The notary signs here.
32:58You ready, my love?
32:58I'm so ready for today's date.
33:00Maybe when you walk out, you'll be with Chad.
33:04So excited.
33:05All right.
33:06Long time no see.
33:07Hello again.
33:08Today is the embryo turn for the day.
33:11There's so much riding on this.
33:13I just can't wait.
33:13So scared, so nervous, so excited.
33:18Can't believe it's been seven months
33:19and we're finally at this point.
33:21I know, I go through a lot.
33:23A lot of shot, blood work, ultrasound.
33:26These thing go to my vagina like many, many time.
33:30And not even for fun?
33:31Not even for fun.
33:34I have no idea
33:37what it look like.
33:39You know, it's so exciting and so emotional.
33:43It's like no words to explain.
33:49Good morning.
33:49You got your team.
33:50David, are you gonna do anything here?
33:53You paying the bill?
33:54What's happening?
33:55We're gonna dim the lights.
33:57I'm gonna put a speck element.
33:58We're gonna do the ultrasound.
33:59And then Michelle's gonna go ask the embryologist
34:01to bring the catheter in
34:03and transfer will happen right after.
34:07Deep, slow breaths.
34:09Just relax.
34:11Here we are.
34:12One normal embryo for Annie Swan for Rossi.
34:15Yes.
34:17Good.
34:18Go into the uterus.
34:19We gently pass a soft, flexible catheter
34:23through her cervix into the uterine cavity
34:26with an embryo that was brought to me
34:28with an inner sheath.
34:30Breathe.
34:30When we place that under ultrasound guidance,
34:33we're then able to gently place that embryo
34:35inside her uterus.
34:37Perfect.
34:38Do you see that little fluid flash going in?
34:40That's it, I'm done.
34:41Amazing.
34:4210 out of 10.
34:43Ah, okay.
34:45You did awesome.
34:46I'm so proud of you.
34:49There is so much anxiety and so much going through my mind.
34:52Will this work?
34:53We're gonna know everything in eight days, okay?
34:56Okay.
34:56All right.
34:57Good luck, guys.
34:58We're gonna get you a picture of the embryo.
35:00Yes.
35:01Yes.
35:05All right.
35:06Hello.
35:07Here's your personal picture.
35:09Congratulations.
35:14We don't know what the outcome is.
35:15We're just gonna keep following the protocols
35:18and pray for the best.
35:23I can't sleep well last night.
35:25Nervousness?
35:26Mm, I'm excited.
35:29Well, today is the day that we are going to see
35:31if you're going to be a mom.
35:35I'm so nervous.
35:37I prepare for every outcome,
35:40but wish for the best.
35:42In the morning, get my blood test
35:45to see was I am pregnant or not.
35:50So they're doing a stat,
35:51so it's a four to six hour turnaround.
35:54Can't come fast enough.
35:56We're still waiting for confirmation from Dr. Bustanfar,
35:59and we're going to do a call
36:00to find out the results of the embryo transfer.
36:05David, Annie, can you see me okay?
36:07Hi, how are you, doctor?
36:09So I know you're really anxious about it,
36:12but I'm beyond happy to report
36:15that your pregnancy test was positive today.
36:19Congratulations.
36:21Look at it.
36:22We really did it.
36:23Just over four weeks pregnant.
36:25Can you believe that?
36:26Four weeks?
36:27What?
36:28So the embryo's already
36:29at about the three week stage, approximately.
36:32Oh!
36:34Isn't that cool?
36:35That's why I feel the kicking.
36:38No, that's David.
36:42It's been an amazing journey
36:44just to get to this point, T-Doc.
36:45Yes.
36:46And now we have a long eight and a half months ahead of us.
36:49I couldn't wait.
36:50Thank you so much for being in this together.
36:53There's nobody else in this world
36:55that I would want to share a life with,
36:58a journey with, than you.
37:02Don't forget you have to help me
37:04changing the diapers sometime.
37:06We have signed the contract.
37:07Yes.
37:08And I know you had it notarized.
37:21Good morning, everybody.
37:23What a beautiful day.
37:27Yeah.
37:28Trying to be excited for everything.
37:30I don't, you don't look that excited.
37:32I'm not.
37:33I think you need to be a little more excited.
37:34I'm happy that you're happy,
37:35but not sold, not sold on it yet.
37:39Guillermo and I met in Dominican Republic.
37:42We got married three years ago
37:43and now we have a beautiful son named Nico.
37:45But things have been a little rocky
37:47since Guillermo decided that he wants to change careers.
37:50If they take us actually up in a plane,
37:52I might poop my pants.
37:56What if he decides to give me the control?
37:59No, no, I'm jumping.
38:01You're jumping.
38:02Parachute all day.
38:03You're jumping.
38:04You have like the worst thoughts ever.
38:08You're not a pilot.
38:10I have my mind focused.
38:13After our fight at the lake,
38:14Guillermo apologized for not consulting me
38:16prior to making such a large decision.
38:18And I've had a little bit more time to just cool off a bit.
38:21While I'm still skeptical about Guillermo being a pilot,
38:24he has convinced me to do an informational tour
38:27at a local pilot school.
38:30Here we are.
38:31Oh, look at this cute little plane.
38:33It's so cute.
38:34It's so cute.
38:35It's so cute.
38:36It's so cute.
38:37It's so cute.
38:37It's so cute.
38:38It's so cute.
38:39It's so cute.
38:40It's so cute.
38:41Look at this cute little plane over there.
38:43You have to keep it up in mind, babe.
38:46Keep it open mind.
38:48Sure.
38:50So, Guillermo, what made you wanna pursue flying?
38:57I work in a hotel,
39:00and we receive a lot of pilots.
39:03Oh, really?
39:04Like many different pilots every single time.
39:06And I haven't heard from one person saying like,
39:08oh, being a pilot is a b****.
39:11You know what I mean?
39:12Right, you don't hear me say it.
39:15Yeah, one of the cool aspects of it
39:17is there's so many different avenues that you can go down.
39:19You know, there's airline jobs, crop dusting.
39:22You know, I'm running a flight school right now
39:24and working as a flight instructor.
39:26My questions are like, how much does it cost to do it?
39:30I'd say there's some variables there too,
39:34but in the $45,000 to $50,000 range
39:38to go all the way through to the commercial rating.
39:42$50,000.
39:44You think your job, whatever job you're gonna get,
39:45is gonna be able to pay for your flight school
39:47and all the bills that we currently have?
39:49Yes.
39:50But just like stop making the thing like it's a problem.
39:53Just think about like everything is gonna be real.
39:55So you want me to just go through life
39:56and not think about the pros and cons
39:58or the good and bad or how it may work
40:00or how it may affect our family?
40:02Yes.
40:02Yeah, that's the life you live.
40:04That's the lane that you live in.
40:05I don't live that way.
40:06I don't live in any land.
40:07I live in my-
40:08No, you live in a fairytale land.
40:10Fairytale.
40:12There's the cockpit.
40:16There you go.
40:17You wanna run through some of the flight instruments?
40:20Yeah.
40:21Top left here is the airspeed indicator,
40:24altimeter, vertical speed indicator,
40:28heading indicator, and turn coordinator.
40:32If you want, we can pull it out of the hangar
40:34and show you a little bit more.
40:36All right.
40:38Seeing Guillermo in the cockpit
40:39and the expression on his face,
40:41I can't help but feel really excited and happy for him,
40:44but I'm a little apprehensive.
40:47I just don't know if he's really thinking
40:49about what that looks like in real life.
40:52I just feel like you look really excited about it.
40:54Yeah.
40:55And I feel like there's no going back.
40:57Mm-mm.
40:58And you're gonna pay for this.
40:59Exactly.
41:00Okay.
41:01I'm still not convinced
41:02that this is the right career path for Guillermo.
41:05I'm worried about the money
41:06and I'm worried about the time away from our family,
41:08but he's my husband and I love him.
41:10And I feel like I don't have any choice but to support him.
41:14I'm gonna be the most sexy pilot ever.
41:19You should buckle up
41:20because I'm gonna take you for a ride.
41:22Really?
41:25Let me out.
41:32We are not in our-
41:33I don't know.
41:36Like it's happening, girl.
41:38It's happening.
41:39Yeah, yeah.
41:40Try to get her coordinated,
41:42get some body awareness, a little bit of strength.
41:45Uh-oh.
41:47Hey, look that way.
41:49I've really been thinking a lot about what my family said
41:52about dating a country boy.
41:53So while I'm here,
41:54I need to create a whole new profile to show them
41:56I love to do farm stuff.
41:58How do I get this?
41:59Oh my goodness.
42:01I'm just gonna pose like this.
42:04I want the guys to think like I'm a local.
42:06Yeah, I hope these guys out here love it.
42:08Kiss the chicken.
42:13I'm about to make a huge leap in my transition process.
42:18I am going to have my first gender affirming surgery.
42:21Obviously I'm really excited to get it done,
42:23but I'm really scared.
42:24Any kind of surgery is scary,
42:27especially because I'm having it on my face.
42:30I'm terrified.
42:34When he left, he did not go to China directly.
42:38He went to Arizona.
42:40Johnny had finally been able to save up enough money
42:42to come visit me in America.
42:44Then I learned some lies
42:46that he was telling about his departure.
42:49I don't think you need to worry about him,
42:51and I don't think I would.
42:52I would let him go.
42:55So I really want to talk about Arizona.
42:58You really want to talk about that?
43:00Yes.
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