90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 12 -Dear Diary, I Think I'm Ready...
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00:00I'm really nervous, I haven't been on a date in like two years, let's see what happens.
00:16Ready to go to the plane, ready to head out, let's go.
00:19I have like a serious question, can I pee in the shower?
00:24Hi, the wow factors together.
00:29When I think of the wow factors, I think wow, they're dirty, it's been quite a lot.
00:35How are things with you and Jason?
00:37Yeah, how is my boy?
00:39He is going to be restationed.
00:42Would you do long distance?
00:44Um, I don't know.
00:49Oh my god.
00:51I haven't been on a date in forever, so got the little butterflies in the stomach.
00:56So I grab the balls, right?
00:58When you haven't had sex in two years, every single thing seems like an innuendo.
01:04Are you going to go with me?
01:05Yeah, I'm going to come with you, I'm coming with you, I'm coming with you.
01:09There she is.
01:12Shannon drove down from LA to hang out with me, she gave me my first kiss, about to tell all.
01:18I'm hoping that if today goes well, we can take things further.
01:21I'm trying to open my mouth and say something, but nothing's coming out.
01:38Just made it to the airport, got my bags.
01:43Got 20 minutes to check in.
01:47So let's see if I can do it.
01:50My name is Tyray, I'm 34 years old and I live in Modesto, California.
01:55Okay, just made it through security at the bar.
02:01A little bit of fizzle before I fly.
02:05So yeah.
02:07Cheers.
02:09I'm on my way to San Diego to visit some friends and have some fun,
02:13but also I want to see if I can potentially move there.
02:16Getting ready to get on the plane.
02:18It's hot, I shouldn't have worn this big old sweater, but oh well.
02:22In two months I'm scheduled to have major weight loss surgery,
02:25and I'm thinking maybe it's time to make another big change in my life
02:28and move to a different city for a fresh start.
02:31I love San Diego.
02:33It's beautiful, it's by the ocean, it has the mountains,
02:36but I also have some pretty cool friends out there.
02:38Made it on the plane, ready to head out.
02:41Let's go.
02:43My journey began four years ago when I received a message
02:46from a beautiful girl named Carmela from Barbados.
02:49Carmela and I talked almost every day, and she became my online girlfriend.
02:54And we decided to meet.
02:56I flew to Barbados and she never showed up.
03:00And then later on I found out that I was being catfished.
03:04The person you've been messaging with for the last several years
03:10is a man.
03:12Wow.
03:14And then I ended up meeting Shannon.
03:17Shannon is super cool, I met her when I was in New Orleans,
03:20and then we hit it off.
03:22She ended up coming to the tell-all, and she gave me an amazing first kiss.
03:26I don't know what to do.
03:28I'm so intrigued.
03:30All right.
03:32I don't know what to do.
03:35Oh God.
03:37We stayed in touch a little bit, but things kind of stalled out,
03:41mainly because she's in L.A. and I'm at my desktop.
03:44Right now I'm currently single.
03:46I am still a virgin, but we're trying to figure that out, so stay tuned.
03:53Just landed in San Diego.
03:56Hopefully my ride is here.
03:58Let's see.
04:01Oh, I see someone.
04:05Hey!
04:08My San Diego buddy.
04:10What's up, Kimberly?
04:11Good, how you doing?
04:12Long time no see.
04:13I know, man.
04:14Are you ready to go?
04:15I'm ready.
04:16Oh my God, I'm so excited to see you.
04:17Let's go.
04:19My name is Kimberly, I'm 54 years old, and I live in San Diego, California.
04:24I met Tyrae last year at the Single Life Tell-All,
04:27and we became really close ever since.
04:30I'm so excited.
04:31Tyrae is here for a visit.
04:33Tyrae in San Diego.
04:36So now we're going to go to brunch.
04:37I'm excited because I have a surprise special friend.
04:40Oh, and thank you for picking me up.
04:42Yeah, I got you.
04:43Deliveries are crazy.
04:44Hey, I do San Diego pickups, ask anybody.
04:46Well, I don't do it for everybody, just my friends.
04:49My 90-day journey began when I met Usman, a.k.a. Soldier Boy, on social media.
04:56I really liked his charm.
04:57I thought he had a really cute smile.
04:59And then I went to Nigeria, and I just fell in love with Usman.
05:06You're so crazy.
05:11We just had this weird connection that was really hard to explain to people,
05:16and we had this love, but I feel like it was just way too many sacrifices I was making.
05:22We were arguing all the time, we couldn't agree on anything,
05:25and I just felt it was better for me just to walk away.
05:29I don't even want to be around you, seriously.
05:30And until you do, you won't get this s*** back.
05:32When you prove it to me, then you'll get it back.
05:34I'm not giving it back.
05:35Oh, my God, this is funny.
05:37Oh, is it funny?
05:38Very funny.
05:39Is this f***ing funny too?
05:40F***.
05:42The mind games were just, like, blew me away,
05:45and it took me the whole two years to find my worth again
05:48and to find what kind of woman Kimberly is.
05:52So what are your plans while you're in town?
05:54I'm going to look at some apartments, hopefully.
05:55Okay.
05:56I'm thinking of moving out here, actually.
05:57Really?
05:58Yeah.
05:59All right.
06:00All right.
06:01I've dropped the bombs already.
06:02Let's go.
06:03Tyree in San Diego.
06:04All right.
06:11Ooh, the bar.
06:12Why would you say, ooh, the bar?
06:14Of course you would say that.
06:15Of course you would say that.
06:18Hi!
06:19What's up?
06:22What's up, man?
06:23How are you doing?
06:24What's up?
06:25Hey!
06:26What's up?
06:27How are you?
06:28Hi, I'm Liz.
06:29I am 32, and I'm from San Diego, California.
06:34How was your flight?
06:35It was nice.
06:36I had a little bit of champagne.
06:38We're going to come to the bar.
06:39Yeah, I'm ready.
06:41The wow factors consist of me, Kim, and Tyree.
06:46I met Liz at our season of Happily Ever After at the Tell All,
06:51and she's a San Diego girl.
06:53Kim and I both live in San Diego,
06:54so it was very easy to become friends.
06:58Tyree and I met at a party.
07:01I went to San Diego last year for my birthday,
07:04and we all just kept saying, wow.
07:06Because we're all like, wow, we're all so amazing.
07:09When I think of the wow factors, I think about, wow, their journeys.
07:14Oh, I'm so happy you guys made it.
07:15I know.
07:17I did order us a surprise.
07:19A surprise.
07:20Oh, my gosh.
07:21Oh, my gosh.
07:22Oh, my gosh.
07:24My 90-day journey started four years ago when I met Ed at waiting tables.
07:29We fell in love quickly and very soon got engaged.
07:33Will you marry me?
07:39Wow. Yes, I will marry you.
07:42I upgraded my life for him.
07:44We both moved to Arkansas,
07:46and one month before we were supposed to get married,
07:48Ed called off the wedding.
07:49I just...
07:51I want to be single.
07:54Work on my career and...
08:00I'm stuck with you through everything.
08:04I was devastated.
08:06Then I moved back to San Diego,
08:08and about a month later, I met Jason.
08:12When Ed and I broke up and I met Jason,
08:15I went through a transformation.
08:16I lost a ton of weight,
08:18and I feel so much better about myself.
08:20My confidence is up.
08:22I'm smiling,
08:24and I let no man tear me down anymore.
08:26Jason is in the military.
08:28We met at a run club.
08:30We hit it off very well,
08:32and then we have been dating for the last 11 months.
08:38I don't have much to say to you.
08:40First of all, you're in the past.
08:42We're going to move forward.
08:44Starting today, you will never disrespect her again,
08:46otherwise you're going to have to deal with me.
08:49I finally made it back.
08:51It's been almost a few months.
08:53Last year was fun.
08:55How's your sex life?
08:57Your dating life?
08:59I haven't really been
09:01putting myself out there, you know?
09:03And...
09:05None.
09:07None.
09:09I've been talking to Shannon on and off.
09:11That's a blast from last year.
09:13You're close to her here in San Diego.
09:15You think so?
09:17Yeah.
09:19So Shannon and I tried to start dating,
09:21but because I live six hours away in Modesto,
09:23we just didn't see each other.
09:25And we couldn't figure out a way to make it work,
09:27which is sad because I felt like
09:29we could have had something.
09:31This could have been my real first relationship.
09:33But maybe if I do decide to move to San Diego,
09:35we could make things work.
09:37It's good dating practice.
09:39You need to get out there, sir.
09:41I know I'm preaching to the choir over here.
09:43I'm not doing anything.
09:45It's just so crazy.
09:47No dating apps?
09:49No.
09:51There's a guy from my past I used to date
09:53that we've been, like, DMing,
09:55but now he wants to go out,
09:57and I'm just like, ugh.
09:59I just don't want to go.
10:01The guy that's slid into my DMs,
10:03his name is Benjamin,
10:05but he likes to be called B.
10:07We dated before I met Usman,
10:09so I've known him five, maybe six years.
10:10He is very handsome.
10:12And the sex is good.
10:14So there's that.
10:16Ooh, he's cute.
10:19He's cute.
10:21I really just don't want to go out with him
10:23because I don't know if Benjamin
10:25is, like, husband material right now.
10:28Like, he doesn't have any kids.
10:30You know, he's like a bachelor, you know?
10:32And I really just don't want to get
10:34my heart broken again.
10:36I say hang out.
10:38You hang out with Shannon.
10:40I would be, see where it goes.
10:42You've already gotten the D before.
10:44Please get the D in.
10:47I gotta wax up some stuff first,
10:49but yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
10:51I'll spread it right now.
10:53I'm gonna get you slippery.
10:55I'm gonna make you, like,
10:57a slip and slide for your date.
10:59Oh, God, I would love it, yeah.
11:01Oh, my God, that's so funny.
11:03How are things with you and Jason?
11:05Yeah, how is my boy?
11:07That's my boy, you know?
11:08You guys look like a whole different woman.
11:10I know, yeah, you look fantastic.
11:12I wasn't expecting a relationship like this at all.
11:14I've almost been together for a year,
11:16but he is going to be re-stationed.
11:20Really?
11:22Oh, wow.
11:24And there's no option of him staying in San Diego.
11:26Yeah, so it's, like, it's a gamble.
11:28He's leaving.
11:30You don't know where.
11:32Yeah.
11:33Would you do long distance?
11:35I will not do long distance.
11:36I feel like even though I love him so much
11:38and I've grown, things are good,
11:40and I feel like that would mess it up.
11:42I'm really hoping that Jason's gonna be
11:44stationed somewhere close by,
11:46because if that isn't the case,
11:48I really have to figure out
11:50if I wanna hang on to this relationship.
11:52This is the happiest I've been in years,
11:54and right now I don't even know
11:56if it's gonna work out anymore.
11:58You've been through so much.
12:00Yeah.
12:07I'm thinking about taking water aerobics.
12:09I think it would be fun for me.
12:11I actually used to do that.
12:13Really?
12:14I used to go, yeah, there would be, like,
12:16a lot of, like, older ladies there.
12:18Hey, hey!
12:20No, I'm just joking.
12:22I'm trying to decide if I wanna live here,
12:24so Kim and I are on our way
12:26to look at a potential apartment for me.
12:28I've spent my whole life
12:30living in Central California,
12:32and I feel like I need to leave my hometown
12:34in order to grow as a person.
12:36It's beautiful here.
12:38Ty-Ray, look!
12:40Oh, my God, wow.
12:42The type of apartment I'm looking for
12:44is, you know, at least a studio,
12:46you know, something nice and clean,
12:48hopefully something new and modern.
12:50You know, right now I have a white refrigerator,
12:52and I would love something that doesn't have that.
12:54Hello!
12:56Wow!
12:58Wow!
13:00Wow!
13:02This is your prospective renter right here.
13:04Oh, hey, Ty-Ray, nice to meet you.
13:06Spacious 857 square foot studio.
13:08Okay.
13:10Wow.
13:12Okay.
13:15Compared to the apartment I live in now,
13:17this apartment in San Diego
13:19is just out of this world.
13:21Oh, this is nice.
13:23Wow, Ty-Ray, look!
13:25Oh, this is perfect.
13:27Shoes and other stuff.
13:29Oh, God, this would be perfect for me.
13:31I like this.
13:33I see you here, though.
13:34I really like you.
13:36Ty-Ray really does not want to push himself
13:38out of his comfort zone.
13:40So I'm proud of him for taking the first step
13:42to leave his hometown
13:44and explore life out of Modesto.
13:46I can imagine myself here, you know,
13:48having family and friends over,
13:50maybe some ladies.
13:52I think being here away from his family
13:54is going to give him so much more confidence.
13:56He's going to become so independent,
13:58and he can focus on being in a real relationship.
14:01How much is this a month?
14:02So this is $2,050.
14:04Oh, $2,050? Wow.
14:06I rise on the 15th floor in downtown San Diego.
14:08That's a steal.
14:11Where I live, the normal, like,
14:13average, like, one bedroom is, like, $1,600.
14:15So I would like to stay under, like,
14:17the $2,000 if I can, you know?
14:19Is there a lot of units available here?
14:21This was the only vacant one that we have.
14:23Oh, okay.
14:25I know rent is higher in San Diego
14:27than it is in Modesto,
14:29but I really don't want him to use that.
14:30I really don't want him to use that as an excuse
14:32or to make it an obstacle,
14:34because I feel like he has trouble
14:36following through with things,
14:38and I don't want anything to hamper him
14:40not coming here or just living his own life.
14:43Now with the price where it's at,
14:45I think we're getting a lot more interest.
14:47Yeah, of course. Yeah, you better.
14:49Listen, you need to make some life decisions.
14:51You're right.
15:00Hey.
15:02Hi, baby.
15:04Are you eating without me?
15:06I did. I started eating already on Sunday.
15:08What'd you make?
15:10Caldo de pollo.
15:12Uh-oh.
15:14I made soup.
15:16Soup?
15:18Caldo de pollo.
15:20Caldo.
15:22Caldo.
15:24Caldo.
15:26Cal-do.
15:28Where did the day come from?
15:30Caldo de pollo.
15:32It's fine.
15:34It's fine.
15:36Dating Liz has definitely been a journey.
15:39It's been a great one.
15:41I love everything about her. She's funny.
15:43We can be ourselves.
15:45We can be super silly together.
15:47We just have a great time together,
15:49and I love her.
15:51I really do see a future with us.
15:53So...
15:55I remember that thing about work,
15:57about finding out where I might be getting moved,
16:02happened today.
16:10Do you have options?
16:16I've got three options.
16:19Japan, Spain, or Seattle.
16:24So...
16:25I mean, Seattle could work.
16:28It's only, like, a two- or three-hour flight from San Diego.
16:31Right, but that's still long distance.
16:35Obviously, I have to go to one of those three.
16:37I can't just, like, not go, so...
16:41I think Seattle would be the most beneficial
16:46in case you wanted to move with me.
16:50I feel like our relationship is so healthy
16:52to where we're always supporting each other, whatever it is,
16:55that this move for both of us would be very healthy.
17:01But is that something you're willing to do?
17:06It being stateside makes it a lot easier
17:09because I just don't feel like there's any way
17:11I can move to another country.
17:14But ultimately, I have to talk to Riley about this.
17:19She's my daughter.
17:21She's my daughter, and this impacts her as well.
17:25I can't just move and...
17:29Like, the relationship fail.
17:32I just want to make sure I'm not going to be making a decision
17:36for another, like, man again just to, like, get my heart broken.
17:45If I move, I need to know that you're...
17:47not just giving me words, that you actually mean a future.
17:53I wouldn't be asking you if I didn't see a future with you, so...
17:58Love you.
18:01I made a lot of mistakes for Ed, like, uprooting my life for him,
18:05and I'm very worried to do that again with my relationship with Jason.
18:10Not only was I affected in my relationship with Ed,
18:14so was my daughter Riley.
18:15So Riley's opinion really does matter to me
18:18with the decision that I'll be making for the both of us.
18:22If Riley does not approve of this move,
18:24then my relationship with Jason is not going to work.
18:46♪ Daydream of you and me ♪
18:49♪ Learning to make history ♪
18:52Mommy?
18:54Yes, baby?
18:56Where are we going?
18:58We are on our way to a bridal store to donate Mommy's wedding dress.
19:04I'm donating my wedding dress today.
19:06It has been in the back of my trunk for months
19:09from the moment I left Arkansas.
19:11It's going to be a bittersweet moment for sure.
19:14Even though it's for the best that Ed and I are over,
19:18I had a lot of hopes and dreams for this dress.
19:21But it's also a big trigger for a tough time in my life.
19:24I don't want to hold on to a dress
19:26that I was going to wear for somebody else
19:29when I am madly in love with somebody new.
19:33I wonder who's cleaning Ed's dishes.
19:36It's not Mommy.
19:39It's not Mommy.
19:42Are you happy we're together?
19:44Yes.
19:46Just happy to move on?
19:47Yes.
19:48Me too.
19:51I'm bringing Riley with me to donate my wedding dress.
19:56I would like her to see that that chapter is closed.
20:00It will not be reopened again.
20:02Ready, baby?
20:03Yeah.
20:04Riley deserves to see her mom in a healthy relationship,
20:08to be loved.
20:10Riley just saw the worst.
20:18I do want her to know that she'll never see that again.
20:23We're going to move forward together.
20:26I have the dress.
20:30I'm just ready to let go of the past.
20:35Brides for a Cause.
20:38Hi.
20:40Welcome to Brides for a Cause.
20:43Do you have a donation for me today?
20:45I do.
20:47I'm donating this.
20:49Can I take a look?
20:50Yes.
20:56Oh, that's beautiful.
20:59Oh, you must have looked so gorgeous in it.
21:01Well, it's actually never been worn before,
21:04so only when I tried it on.
21:07Yeah, we did not go through with the wedding.
21:09Oh, I'm so sorry.
21:10That's okay.
21:11We're good.
21:13So, I hope to make another bride happy.
21:16Yeah, no, it's a really nice dress.
21:18Oh, I know.
21:19I'm so excited about this.
21:20I know.
21:22It feels absolutely amazing to get rid of this dress.
21:26This was the last piece of mine and Ed's relationship,
21:28and it's gone.
21:30It feels just like another fresh start
21:32of just starting my life for myself
21:34and with Jason and with Riley.
21:36Do you want to go look around the store?
21:39Over there, we have like a bunch of jewelry.
21:41If you want to just play, just look at them.
21:44Yeah, you're welcome.
21:46So,
21:50mommy has something to talk to you about.
21:54So,
21:55mommy and Jason are getting serious,
21:58and
22:01Jason's asked mommy to move with him to Washington.
22:08How would you feel about that?
22:15It would be fun,
22:17because Washington does have a lot of vegan food.
22:20Vegan food?
22:21You're in it for the vegan food?
22:22Yes.
22:23Yeah?
22:26Okay.
22:28Yeah.
22:30You don't have any questions for me?
22:32Nope.
22:33No, no concerns?
22:35I miss my friends, but
22:38other than that, not really.
22:40He's nice.
22:41Yeah?
22:43You got good vibes around him?
22:45Mm-hmm.
22:46If not, we'll kick him to the curb.
22:48I'm kidding.
22:50I'm kidding.
22:51I'm kidding.
22:53Yeah, mommy's pretty happy right now.
22:55And you tell me if you're not comfortable with that, okay?
22:57Okay.
22:58Okay.
23:06All right, so today,
23:09I'm going to meet Tyree and Liz at my spa.
23:12I'm so excited to show them where I work.
23:15So, it'll be nice to have a little relaxing day,
23:18talk about our love lives.
23:20It'll be fun.
23:22I got a new job,
23:23and I'm a spa manager at a wonderful spa.
23:26I told Tyree and Liz to come to the spa
23:28because I wanted them to see where I'm working.
23:32Hello!
23:33What's up?
23:34Hi!
23:35How are you?
23:37Hi, Tyree.
23:39Since Tyree is considering moving to San Diego,
23:42I thought, what better way to convince them than a spa day?
23:46Who doesn't love to be pampered and spoiled?
23:50All right.
23:51So, I picked out some robes for you guys.
23:54Yeah, I need to give you a pink one after a big boy.
23:57Okay, thanks.
23:58If it doesn't fit, I might be naked.
23:59Oh, God.
24:03So, I've never been to a spa like this before.
24:05It's a totally new experience to me.
24:07Oh, the lockers.
24:09I'm not sure what to do.
24:10Like, do I just put this robe on?
24:11Do I keep my underwear on?
24:12Do I take it off?
24:13I have no idea.
24:15This is so weird.
24:16I feel a little anxious.
24:17So, this is the spa.
24:19Look how beautiful it is.
24:20I know.
24:22That is our jacuzzi.
24:24Isn't it beautiful?
24:26Yeah.
24:27Then we have the dry sauna.
24:30Okay.
24:31And this is our wet sauna right here.
24:33It's beautiful.
24:34I've done some things in the wet sauna before.
24:38I have.
24:40The sauna sex campaign story was
24:44with Ed.
24:46And it was a couple hours.
24:48Long story short, it ended with a UTI.
24:52I'm not as innocent.
24:53I haven't had sex in two years.
24:54Let's don't rub it in.
24:55No, you have not.
24:56No.
24:57Two years?
24:58Two years.
25:00Girl.
25:01I'm ready to throw up there, though.
25:02We need to catch up on this.
25:04Smack it, flip it, rub it down, something.
25:06I don't know.
25:07I have not been this celibate since high school.
25:11I'm starting to think, like, am I turning into a nun?
25:13When is this dry spell going to end?
25:15It's been two years.
25:16But hopefully, my dry spell will end soon.
25:19So, I got us these, like, bold masks.
25:22Here you go.
25:23Put these under your eyes, and we can just relax, yeah?
25:29Like a sardine.
25:31I have no idea what I'm doing.
25:33Hurry.
25:34Like slime.
25:38Stop moving!
25:39Sorry.
25:40Don't you feel pretty?
25:41Yeah.
25:43It's not wrong to relax.
25:45And I'll come by your office.
25:47How is everybody doing?
25:49I feel good, actually.
25:50Yeah?
25:51It smells so good in here.
25:52And this thing will make my eyes sexy.
25:54So, here.
25:55OK.
25:56OK, sexy eyes.
25:57So, what's going on, then?
25:59I'm officially moving to Washington.
26:05That's good, though.
26:06I'm happy for you.
26:07That's good.
26:08You know, it's showing that the relationship is going somewhere.
26:11You know me, I'm older, right?
26:12So, you know, I got to stop a little bit of...
26:14Mama can't.
26:15Mama can't.
26:16Like, you moved to Arkansas to be with that, right?
26:20Like, do you feel like you're moving for the man,
26:23or do you feel like you're moving because you want to move?
26:28I guess there's no waiting in sugarcoating it.
26:30I am moving for Jason, but I'm still looking for myself, too.
26:37Mm-hmm.
26:38I think Liz moving all the way to Washington with Jason is a little too soon.
26:44And I really don't want her to rush into another bad situation
26:48where she has to come back to San Diego with her tail between her legs.
26:53I just...
26:54He just makes me want to be such a better person.
26:57I'm excited for you.
26:59Speaking of, I took your guys' advice,
27:02and I'm going to go on a date tonight.
27:04Ooh!
27:05Yeah, I'm really, like, excited.
27:07I am excited.
27:08So, I haven't seen him in, like, a couple years, you know?
27:11That's going to be good.
27:12I'm black.
27:13The light to the fullest.
27:14I know.
27:15I deserve it, too.
27:16I went through so much with my heartache and gaslighting,
27:20and I went through a lot of self-worth stuff, you know?
27:26And I really had to, like, check myself and be like,
27:28you're better than this.
27:29Like, you're flawless.
27:30You're beautiful.
27:31I deserve the love.
27:33Look at it as a whole new opportunity.
27:35Yeah.
27:38Speaking of that time.
27:39Speaking of that.
27:40Any dating life for you?
27:42Uh, you know, kind of.
27:45You know, me and Shannon have been talking on and off.
27:48Have you asked her out yet?
27:50No.
27:53I think you should text her and be like,
27:55hey, what's your bandwagon?
27:56Let me send you some gas money and take you out to dinner.
27:59Yeah, say that.
28:00Okay.
28:01Okay.
28:02I'm going to go.
28:03Let me text her.
28:04Oh!
28:05The texting!
28:07Vegetable teddy bear is growing up.
28:11Because I don't have a lot of experience dating,
28:13I always think the worst.
28:14Like, oh, maybe she's not interested.
28:16Maybe she's with someone else.
28:18Maybe she's too busy.
28:20Is she texting back?
28:21Let me see.
28:25So Kim is right.
28:26I'm not going to find love if I don't take risk
28:28and put myself back out there.
28:30I'm going to continue shooting my shot
28:31and hoping it pays off.
28:35Okay, she texted back.
28:36She said, yeah.
28:38She said, yeah.
28:39Yeah!
28:41I love it.
28:43Look at all of us right now, though.
28:45Like, we're all doing this just, like, cool stuff.
28:47You know what I mean?
28:48Like, we came from such, like, despair, honestly.
28:51Yeah.
28:53We've all had our struggles and heartbreaks.
28:55And it's great that we're all here to support
28:57and push each other to move on.
28:59But if I'm being honest, in the back of my mind,
29:01I really hope we just didn't push each other too far.
29:05All right, let me go.
29:06If I can get Becky.
29:07I got to get Becky.
29:08Oh, that's right.
29:10It's so scary, because anything can happen.
29:12Liz has been with Jason for 11 months,
29:15and they could be moving too fast,
29:16and that ends in disaster.
29:18Tyree could go out and get hurt again.
29:20Hell, I could get hurt again.
29:22But I guess we'll have to see.
29:25Wow.
29:26Wow, Liz.
29:27I love you guys.
29:28I love you guys so much.
29:44Okay, so I'm a little nervous going on my date with Benjamin.
29:50I knew him before I met Usman,
29:53and we just kind of reconnected.
29:55So we have to see what's going on.
29:57But I'm really nervous.
29:58I haven't been on a date in, like, two years.
30:01So we'll see what happens.
30:06There he is.
30:07There's the man of the hour.
30:10Hey.
30:11Oh, my gosh.
30:12It's been, like, two years.
30:13Oh.
30:14Hi, honey.
30:15How are you?
30:16Good.
30:17You look good.
30:22I remember you liked margarita.
30:24Yes.
30:25So I got you one.
30:27Cheers.
30:28To reconnecting.
30:30Yes.
30:31Me and Kim, we met on social media about five and a half, six years ago.
30:36We talked briefly.
30:38She started dating me.
30:40Life happens.
30:42You got the same?
30:43You got better.
30:44You got more glow.
30:45Really?
30:46Glow.
30:47You're glowing a lot.
30:49You're so beautiful.
30:50You're so sweet.
30:52Yeah.
30:53Just recently, I slid into Kim's DMs.
30:55So I was trying to see what she's been up to.
30:58And she hasn't been up to nothing lately.
31:00And so I asked her to come out on a date.
31:02And here we are.
31:03Are we going to bowl?
31:05You know we're going to bowl.
31:06I'm going to bowl.
31:07I'm going to beat your ass at bowling.
31:08Let's go bowling.
31:09Let's go bowling.
31:10Let's just get our stuff, okay?
31:12I don't think B knows what he's getting himself into, bowling with me.
31:15I'm quite the competitor.
31:17I love competition.
31:18I love racing.
31:19I love bets.
31:20And, you know, I used to be quite the bowler back in the day.
31:23It's all in the wrist, and it's all in the nails.
31:25You've got to kind of claw the ball a little bit.
31:27Bloop.
31:28Just one, two, three, bowl.
31:31That's my technique.
31:33How are you?
31:34Good.
31:35Good.
31:36We're bowling in the private dining room first.
31:41How long do we want to go for?
31:44You mean bowling.
31:45Bowling.
31:46Bowling, Benjamin.
31:47When you haven't had sex in two years, every single thing seems like an innuendo.
31:52Anyway, let me go play with some balls.
31:58I shouldn't have said that.
31:59What are you going to do here?
32:00Better, better, better, better, better.
32:02Hey, better, better, better.
32:04Strike.
32:05Hey, better, better.
32:06Oh, my God.
32:10You made me laugh.
32:11You suck.
32:13It's all right.
32:14It's all right.
32:15You want me to walk you up there?
32:17Why don't you help me bowl?
32:18Yeah, I was about to say, girl.
32:19Okay, you show me.
32:21I could walk you up there.
32:24Okay.
32:25You know what I'm saying?
32:26So I grab the balls, right?
32:27Ball, ball.
32:28You grab the instrument.
32:30Are you going to go with me?
32:31Yeah, I'm going to come with you.
32:32I'm coming with you.
32:33I'm coming with you.
32:37I'm coming with you.
32:38I'm coming with you.
32:39Okay, ready?
32:40Yeah, I'm ready for you.
32:41I'm ready for you.
32:42One, two, three.
32:43Yeah.
32:45Look at that.
32:46Look at it.
32:47Look at it.
32:48Look at what we got.
32:49Look at what we got.
32:50Oh, that was good, B.
32:53It's really fun to be around B again.
32:55We always did have a good time when we would go out.
32:57He likes to make me laugh.
32:58He's very touchy.
32:59He's holding my hand.
33:00He's hugging me.
33:05Oh, my God.
33:08And I like that.
33:09I mean, I kind of missed that male attention for a couple of years,
33:12so it's nice to have it back.
33:15Thank you for being my first date.
33:16Absolutely.
33:17Absolutely.
33:18How do you feel?
33:19I feel good.
33:20Yeah, I'm happy to see you.
33:21I'm always happy to see you.
33:22Do you think we should go out again?
33:23Absolutely.
33:24Absolutely.
33:25I love being around you.
33:27I love your energy.
33:28I love the chemistry we have.
33:30I know.
33:31It's crazy, right?
33:32It's like being a kid again.
33:33Oh, you're so sweet.
33:34All the time.
33:35All right, so how about you come over to my house,
33:37and I'll cook you a traditional Italian dinner.
33:39Can I dinner go to breakfast?
33:42We'll have to wait and see what happens.
33:44But I'm happy to see you, though.
33:46I'm happy to see you, too.
33:48It's amazing to me to be 54 years old
33:52and, like, just finding, like, I'm excited for my future.
33:55I don't want to get all teary-eyed,
33:56but I'm excited for my future,
33:58and I just feel like the best I've ever felt,
34:00and I want that to continue with someone.
34:03All right, here's my car.
34:05Here's your car.
34:06All right.
34:07I don't know if it's going to be with B.
34:09I hope it is, because he knows me so well, you know?
34:11But we have to get to know each other, too,
34:13and I need to know that, like, he appreciates me,
34:16and I deserve that.
34:17I totally deserve that.
34:19Good to see you.
34:20Good to see you, too.
34:24I'll see you soon.
34:25Always.
34:26All right, bye.
34:28When you get a little older,
34:30you get a little bolder.
34:33And you don't really care
34:34what the people got to say to you.
34:37Heading to the cafe right now to meet Shannon.
34:41We shall see what happens.
34:44This is a cute spot.
34:46Let's check it out.
34:50Just two?
34:51Oh, yeah, just two.
34:53Shannon drove down from L.A. to hang out with me
34:55before I go back to Modesto tomorrow.
34:57She and I met in New Orleans
34:59and hung out at the Tell All,
35:00where she gave me my first kiss.
35:03I'm hoping that if today goes well
35:06and I end up moving to San Diego,
35:07we can take things further.
35:09So, yeah, there's a lot riding on today.
35:11I'm nervous as hell.
35:13There she is.
35:16Hello.
35:18Hi.
35:19How you doing?
35:22How you doing?
35:23Good, how are you?
35:24Good to see you.
35:27Oh, thanks.
35:28You're welcome, my friend.
35:30Let me know when you decide on lunch, okay?
35:31Okay, thanks.
35:32You're welcome.
35:36How was your drive down here?
35:39It was pretty good.
35:40Yeah, that's good.
35:43Okay, this is so awkward.
35:45I'm trying to open my mouth and say something,
35:47but nothing's coming out.
35:49There's so many questions in my head.
35:51Does she like me?
35:52Does she not like me?
35:53I'm just kind of a mess.
35:55I have one more story.
35:57Oh, boy, we'll just see.
35:59I have one more story.
36:01I have one more story.
36:03I have one more story.
36:05I have one more story.
36:07I have one more story.
36:09I have one more story.
36:11I brought you a little gift.
36:13Oh, thank you.
36:14I appreciate it.
36:15I brought you something.
36:17Let me see.
36:18Let me see.
36:19Let me see.
36:20Let me see.
36:21Let me see.
36:22You just wrapped me.
36:23Yes, you know.
36:24Oh, okay.
36:25Oh, let me see.
36:26Let me see.
36:27Oh, that's for Jordan, right?
36:29Oh, it's for Jordan.
36:31Oh, come on.
36:32Grab it.
36:33You're welcome.
36:36You're welcome.
36:40Thank you so much.
36:41You're welcome.
36:46That's really sweet that she gave me a gift.
36:48You know, maybe she does like me.
36:50I'm just getting into a negative head space.
36:52I just need to breathe and enjoy the moment and not get too much into my head.
36:58I don't even know.
36:59I'm actually so excited.
37:01I know.
37:02I'm actually thinking of moving out here.
37:04You're thinking of moving out here?
37:06Yeah.
37:08That is the right thing to do.
37:10Yeah.
37:13To be closer to me.
37:14So, that's perfect.
37:16That is perfect.
37:17Like, how long are you going to be here?
37:19Oh, you know, maybe like the next, like, four to six months.
37:22That's actually really tight.
37:24Yeah.
37:25I'm going to need some down here.
37:26When we move out here, like, that's a drive.
37:28Like, I'm just going to need some space.
37:32I'm feeling really good about Shannon.
37:34She seems so excited about me potentially moving here.
37:36It seems like she genuinely wants to get to know me and hang out more.
37:39It's making me really happy and also helping me in making the decision to move here.
37:45This was fun, though.
37:46I guess we should try to plan something else.
37:49Yeah.
37:52We had so much fun.
37:53We had so much to catch up on.
37:55We better get out of here.
37:57I'm going to go back.
37:58Let's do it.
37:59He also let me know that he's considering moving to San Diego, and I love that.
38:04He's going to be closer to me.
38:05I'm really excited for what the future holds, you know?
38:08Thank you so much for this.
38:10I got you.
38:11Now you'll remember me forever.
38:25You have to let me know when to turn.
38:26I think we're going to go.
38:27We have to go right here.
38:28Right here?
38:29Right.
38:30Right.
38:31Woman.
38:33The light's right there.
38:34You can't tell me last second.
38:37Jason and I are on our drive to Seattle.
38:39It's about 16 to 20 hours long.
38:42I don't know how I'm going to get through it, but I definitely brought a lot of snacks.
38:53Riley is with her father at the moment.
38:55This is allowing Jason and I to move and get settled in before she comes up and puts together her bedroom.
39:03I have a serious question.
39:05Now that we're officially living together, how long can I go without having to shave my legs?
39:20Two to three days.
39:22I'm not trying to feel like a tarantula or anything.
39:26It's so much work, and Washington is cold.
39:29Nope.
39:30Am I allowed to pee in front of you or leave the bathroom door open?
39:33Yeah, that's fine.
39:35Can I pee in the shower?
39:39No, absolutely not.
39:40It's disgusting.
39:41Okay.
39:46I'm so excited to create a home.
39:47I'm so excited to put it together, and I love that I get to call it home.
39:52And with Jason.
39:54We're here.
39:56We did it.
39:57We are in our spots.
40:00You ready for this?
40:01I'm ready.
40:02Let's do it.
40:03Boom.
40:04Okay.
40:05When I think about the past year and a half, I cannot believe where I'm at today.
40:10I went from being dumped by my fiancé in Arkansas to moving back to San Diego and falling in love with Jason.
40:17We're home.
40:22That's pretty nice.
40:23It's real.
40:24Now we're starting our lives in a new city, in a new state.
40:27It's a huge risk for me to leave everything behind in San Diego again.
40:31I have already dealt with the consequences of it.
40:34What I'm going to do is I'm going to move back to San Diego.
40:37I'm going to move back to San Diego.
40:39I'm going to move back to San Diego.
40:41I'm going to move back to San Diego.
40:43I'm going to move back to San Diego.
40:45I've dealt with the consequences of it once before, and I don't want to have to deal with that again.
40:50But I know right now in this moment, it feels like the right move.
40:55Let's do it.
41:07Here we go.
41:11Hello.
41:12Hey, Kim. What's up? How are you?
41:14What are you doing?
41:16Nothing. Drinking something.
41:18Oh, I'm drinking coffee. I'm being good today.
41:24Liz, what's up?
41:26Hey, what's up, girls?
41:28How are you?
41:30I'm good. How are you guys?
41:32I'm good. Liz got the hair changed up. I love it.
41:35Oh, yeah. I like it. I like it.
41:37It's a lot blonder.
41:39I know. So what's been going on?
41:41Well, let me tell you guys about my date first, and then we'll get into this, too.
41:45So it was really good. It was the first time I've had male attention in two years.
41:51Do you know what I mean?
41:52So being with somebody like, what's his name?
41:56And then going to a date where he opens the door.
41:59Not saying Usman wasn't a gentleman, because he was.
42:01But it was nice. I always felt like we just had this chemistry.
42:05That's awesome. So the feelings never left. That's good.
42:08We've been texting and calling ever since then.
42:10We're supposed to go for a walk on the beach tomorrow, actually.
42:14So we'll see how that goes.
42:17I'll keep my wow factors posted.
42:19Good thing you work at a spa.
42:22You can get your, you can make yourself all beautiful and snatched up there right before.
42:28They're waxing. I know.
42:30See, that's where I was getting at.
42:32I keep it tight and right.
42:36What's going on with you, Tyrae? How was your date?
42:39You know, it was chill. You know, we talked a lot.
42:41And then she actually got me a gift.
42:44What'd she get you?
42:45Let me go get it real quick.
42:48What the ****? Did he sleep with her? Did he lose virginity?
42:57I haven't unpacked yet.
42:58Damn.
42:59I know.
43:02I can't with you, Tyrae. We need to be as momless.
43:05I know.
43:06All the time.
43:07Oh, it has my name on it.
43:09Oh, how cute!
43:12That is very thoughtful.
43:14It says, nothing happens by chance.
43:17And then she has the exact location where we met at in New Orleans on here.
43:21How cute and thoughtful is that?
43:24That's cute.
43:25Yeah.
43:26So give us details. Did you kiss her? Did you, did she stay the night?
43:31Did you get any...
43:34Did you kiss her at least?
43:36Did you get any...
43:37No.
43:38Oh, Tyrae!
43:39I was just talking to her about San Diego.
43:41She was saying how it's closer to Long Beach and whatnot.
43:44Like 90 minutes?
43:45Yeah, she was like, oh, I can come down anytime.
43:47I'm like, okay, maybe.
43:49What about the move down here? Have you given any more thought?
43:52Yeah, so I'm going to do it.
43:54I decided, you know, I thought about it.
43:56Yeah, I'm definitely going to come to San Diego.
44:00I'm so happy, but I'm so sad because I'm not there anymore.
44:03I know, right?
44:04I'm really excited to move to San Diego.
44:06And once I get my feet on the ground,
44:08I'm going to hit up Shannon's and hang out again.
44:10And who knows, maybe there's a future here for us.
44:12So what's going on with you, Liz?
44:14Yeah, what is going on?
44:16It's an adjustment being out here,
44:19but I love it because I love waking up and cooking
44:23and having dinner ready when he comes home.
44:26Riley was like, mommy, like, you're so different.
44:29She goes, mommy, like, you don't cry anymore.
44:32Liz, I got so tired of seeing your damn face cry.
44:34I was, this poor girl. Is she me?
44:38I love this little support bubble.
44:41Who would have thought that the three of us would be so cool?
44:44We're making all these big life changes and go team wow factor.
44:50Look at our wow glow.
44:52I know, it's so crazy. We do have the glow.
44:55Kim, you're almost smiling like you got it in, but.
45:02Okay, there she is.
45:03It was just a hype talk.
45:05I'm like, are we sure they didn't play?
45:07Not yet. Not yet. It's coming.
45:09Ha ha!
45:10It's coming.
45:11It's coming.
45:14I'm really excited for the next catch up.
45:16Let's make a pact. Put the pinky up.
45:18Y'all know how I am with the pinky swear.
45:20All right, guys. I love you.
45:22Tell Jason I said hi.
45:23Love you guys. Love you guys so much.
45:25Bye. Love you.
45:26Love you guys.
45:27Bye.
45:31Bye.