90 Day Diaries - Season 6 Episode 2 -Dear Diary, I'm Stressing Out
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00:00I'm so excited, nervous.
00:13I don't know what's next.
00:16What's next is sleeping on the plane.
00:18The whole family is in town.
00:20Everybody say hola.
00:21Hola.
00:22Hola.
00:23Hola.
00:24Hola.
00:25Hola.
00:26Hola.
00:27Hola.
00:28Hola.
00:29Holo.
00:30Holo.
00:31Holo.
00:32Hola.
00:33Hola.
00:34Hola.
00:35I can't believe it's been seven months and we're finally at this point.
00:36I know I go through a lot.
00:37Today is embryo time for the, it's so exciting.
00:39This thing go through my vagina.
00:42Bye, bye.
00:43Hi.
00:44Last time you guys saw us, we only had two beautiful babies and now we have…
00:54Three.
00:55I love you.
00:57Back home, we always have something called
01:00bone house party when you have a baby.
01:03It's just like a baby shower.
01:04There's going to be lots of food.
01:06Goat meat, pepper soup, goat, some fried rice
01:09for the Americans.
01:13We have decided to have a baby.
01:15Are you kidding?
01:18You have to spend time with him.
01:19You've got to remember that.
01:20My childhood with my father was very distant.
01:26I would go out and see him for months on end.
01:28Past mistakes don't want to repeat themselves.
01:33I'm very, very serious with being a pilot.
01:35I already put my two weeks notice in my job.
01:38You're going to quit your job?
01:40You're going to go to school, make $0?
01:42For him to make this decision without consulting his wife
01:47is shocking.
01:49Everything falls on me to carry this whole family all the time.
01:51I'm just over it.
01:56It's OK.
02:08Well, we're at the airport heading to California,
02:11and today is the beginning of what could be an amazing
02:14journey.
02:15Yes.
02:16We are going to the Fertility Clinic.
02:18It's definitely a life-changing moment.
02:20Wish us luck because we're definitely going to need it.
02:23I am David.
02:24in Fountain Hills, Arizona, with my amazing wife, Annie.
02:28I am Annie, 31 years old, originally from Thailand.
02:31And this is my sweet potato king husband, David.
02:36Aw, I love you.
02:39Well, that was pretty quick.
02:41Made it through security on our way to the gate.
02:43And life is about to change as we know it.
02:47So excited, nervous.
02:49I don't know what's next.
02:51What's next is sleeping on the plane.
02:55When I was 40 years old, I was divorced
02:58after 20 years of marriage.
03:01At the age of 45, I moved to Asia to take a job.
03:04And I met and fell in love with Annie
03:07and proposed after just 10 days.
03:13After we were approved for the K-1 visa,
03:15we moved to the United States, where I hoped
03:17to be closer to my family.
03:19That didn't work out so great.
03:21You walked out of his life and left him with mom.
03:24You got with her.
03:25You did this.
03:26You be-bopped around China.
03:27He's 18 years old.
03:30Come on, bitch.
03:33It was not an easy transition.
03:35Yeah, David's family didn't welcome me,
03:38but we still got married.
03:40I now pronounce you husband and wife.
03:42You may kiss your bride.
03:50After Mary, I am ready to start a family.
03:52But David keep putting it off.
03:55I had a vasectomy 24 years ago after Jacob
03:58was born, my youngest son, never thinking
04:01that I would be divorced and remarried to somebody
04:03of childbearing years.
04:05I told David that he need to have a vasectomy
04:08reversal right away, or I can have it someone else.
04:12No, that will not happen.
04:14Oh.
04:17We're on our way to the HRC clinic
04:19to see Dr. Maison, who is going to do this sperm extraction
04:22which is, yes, not the fun way to have a child.
04:26When I looked into having the vasectomy reversal,
04:29they said it would really be virtually impossible
04:31because it's been 24 years.
04:33And the scar tissue buildup would not
04:35allow for a proper reversal.
04:37Good morning.
04:39Dr. said there's one of two places
04:41that we can get the sperm from, either the epididymis
04:44or the ball sacs.
04:45You really want it from the epididymis
04:47because they don't have to cut into your balls
04:49and it's less painful.
04:50Let's hope they can do it from the epididymis.
05:20So we're good.
05:21All right, good stuff.
05:22Yeah.
05:23We'll do any fine-tuning back there, OK?
05:26See what it is.
05:28Well, I'm just a few minutes away from being
05:29wheeled back there in pre-op.
05:32My nerves are off the chart.
05:34Hopefully, the outcome is what is desired.
05:37But we'll see.
05:43Hello, doctor.
05:43Hi, how's it going?
05:45So everything went well?
05:47Everything went great.
05:48Oh, that's amazing.
05:50So the quality?
05:51We found some good swimmers.
05:53Oh, yes.
05:54Hopefully, I find some Olympic.
05:55Yeah.
05:56Olympic.
05:57More than enough to please.
05:58Hopefully, this will help you guys go with your family.
06:03Thank you so much.
06:05My pleasure.
06:11Oh, your days of coffee are done.
06:15How do you feel, Tina?
06:17I was excited.
06:19And yeah, let's see what they're going to do to me today.
06:26Hey, good morning.
06:27Good morning.
06:28Annie, good morning.
06:29How are you feeling?
06:30Good.
06:31OK.
06:32So here's our plan this morning.
06:34We're going to go in there in a few minutes
06:36and extract the eggs before the ovulation occurs.
06:39And what's the next step after the egg retrieval?
06:43They'll thaw the sperm and do the fertilization process.
06:46Tomorrow, we'll update you.
06:47Let you know how many fertilized.
06:48Awesome.
06:49Wow.
06:50That's awesome.
06:51All right.
06:51Great.
06:52Yep, thank you, doctor.
06:54I'm interested to find out how many eggs that you've had.
06:57I know.
06:57How many viable ones.
07:00Well, let's keep our fingers crossed.
07:01So much riding on this today.
07:08How are you feeling?
07:09I'm done again.
07:10You're done?
07:11I'm done.
07:12That's amazing.
07:14The doctor was able to extract 20 eggs.
07:16And the next day, they were able to be
07:18fertilized with my sperm.
07:20We got some embryo.
07:21We have some embryos.
07:22Of the 20 eggs, we had 12 embryos,
07:26of which, after genetic testing, four are viable.
07:30Now we are waiting for my next period
07:33for the embryo transfer.
07:35And just waiting for the best.
07:39Oh my god, I'm so tired.
07:42Tired.
07:43We are heading to New Jersey to my niece's wedding.
07:47My only niece's wedding.
07:50Oh my god, Tito, we made it to Michelle's wedding.
07:53So beautiful.
07:54I'm so excited.
07:57We're at my niece Michelle's wedding,
07:59and it's absolutely amazing.
08:03Gorgeous wedding.
08:07They do Jewish national dancing.
08:10Qua-la, qua-la-la-ha, qua-la-la-la-ha,
08:13la-ga-la-la-ga-la.
08:14You sound like you're in Hawaii, not New Jersey.
08:18It's ha-ba, na-gi-la, ha-ba, na-gi-la, ha-ba,
08:22na-gi-la-ba, mish-ba-ha-hoo.
08:24Zip-zip, zip-zip.
08:26I'm in love with you.
08:34After you.
08:35Oh my god, what a wedding.
08:36I'm so excited.
08:38Hey, guys.
08:39Hi, everybody.
08:42We made it.
08:42We got everyone here.
08:44We're going to be talking to my family today
08:45to give them an update about the IVF process.
08:48Mom, hi.
08:50Long time since last night.
08:51I'm most nervous to tell Jacob that Annie and I are trying
08:54to have a baby, because we haven't had
08:56the smoothest relationship.
08:58Oh, what a night we had last night.
09:00It was beautiful.
09:01Gorgeous.
09:03I have to say, I think Ma was out to see the dancers.
09:06She was.
09:07She was the best dancer.
09:08With two titanium hips, you should be the best dancer.
09:11It is.
09:20You know, the energy of family is so important.
09:24And with that being said, I wanted
09:27to let you know where we're at, what is happening.
09:31Over the last several months, Ma is familiar with it.
09:34We've been going through the IVF process.
09:37We have decided to have a baby.
09:43What?
09:45Congrats.
09:47Are you kidding?
09:48Are you off the hook?
09:49No, I am not kidding.
09:51To actually be honest with you, we are very
09:53close to the embryo transfer.
09:58Wow.
10:00Very close.
10:01I haven't heard this family so quiet in a long time.
10:03Oh, dear.
10:07I don't want to miss the opportunity to be a mom.
10:12I understand, like, yeah, your clock is ticking real loud.
10:17You're 31 now, right?
10:19And you want a kid.
10:21But you are not 31 now.
10:23That is correct.
10:24Yeah.
10:2456.
10:25That is correct.
10:26OK.
10:27You had your kids.
10:29I worry about your health.
10:34I mean, you have valid concerns.
10:35But, you know, I don't want to deny
10:38Andy the right to motherhood.
10:39It would be unfair.
10:41And you look at several other celebrities, 81 years old,
10:44they just had a child.
10:47Ultimately, this is a decision we've made,
10:50and we are going through this.
10:53It will be very interesting to see David be a father,
10:56because I never see that.
10:58I mean, you seem to be a parent then, but not to a baby.
11:01You have to spend time with them to get on their path.
11:03I've been a lot of years without a child.
11:09It's hard to hear Jacob say he's concerned how
11:12David's going to be a dad.
11:14And it's not the first time that I heard that.
11:17Do you want kids?
11:18Yeah.
11:19You see the relationship he has with us, right?
11:22Do you expect that it would be different for your child?
11:25I don't know.
11:27Maybe you should think about that.
11:30That was a different chapter in life.
11:32I can't change what was.
11:35Just worried about what ifs, what's the possibilities,
11:37because past mistakes don't want to repeat itself.
11:41Absolutely.
11:43My childhood with my father was very distant.
11:48I mean, the few times that I would see him,
11:50it would be maybe an hour or two,
11:52and I wouldn't see him for months on end.
11:54So I do have concerns with my father raising the child.
11:59Words can only mean so much.
12:00He can say he wants to do better, he can do better,
12:02but you got to prove it.
12:04He's there, wonderful, hip-hop, kind of pretty good.
12:08Well, hopefully, I think everything works out much
12:11better than it did last time.
12:12I can't change what was, you know?
12:14But I will do everything I can to make
12:16a stronger, better family.
12:30Nico, you ready to play?
12:32Me, me, me, me.
12:33Say, yeah!
12:35Go, go!
12:37Wow.
12:39My name is Kara.
12:40I am 32 years old.
12:42My name is Guillermo.
12:43I'm 26 years old.
12:44And we have been married for three years.
12:47I want one!
12:49You want to see my papa?
12:50You want him on there?
12:52I'm, like, drunk.
12:54Woo-hoo!
12:56Guillermo and I met six years ago.
12:59In the Dominican Republic, when I was on a work trip.
13:02It all went hard and fast.
13:03And he came over on a K-1 visa to start our lives
13:08in Charlottesville, Virginia.
13:10Bienvenidos a los Estados Unidos!
13:14Oh, mi amor.
13:17We made it.
13:18And 90 days later, we decided to get married.
13:20Ah!
13:21Ah!
13:22Oh, my God.
13:23What is that?
13:24Woo-hoo!
13:27Wow, look at that.
13:29Shortly after we got married, I got pregnant
13:32and gave birth to our son, who is wonderful and beautiful.
13:37And he is growing so fast.
13:41Nico is 20 months old.
13:43He loves playing, he loves screaming, he loves music.
13:46And he always goes, cheers, with his water bottle.
13:48Cheers.
13:49So we're just trying to keep up and navigate
13:52all the twists and turns of a growing family.
13:54Woo!
13:56Woo!
13:57Woo!
13:58But trying to balance all of it is incredibly
14:02overwhelming at times.
14:03Go, go, go, go, go.
14:08Did you get the list of houses that I had sent to you?
14:10Oh, thank you.
14:12Nico.
14:15Chicken.
14:17Awesome.
14:18Yeah, did you get the list of houses that I had sent to you?
14:20I've been a realtor now for three years.
14:23I've been able to build up a really solid real estate
14:26business, which has been great.
14:27But during that time, I've also had a child.
14:29But if you want, I can definitely
14:30look into that property and just see
14:31what the sowing instructions are.
14:33See if the time works.
14:34Wow.
14:35For you and me.
14:37And then we'll go to the property, if that's OK.
14:39Is there anything else that wasn't super clear on my list?
14:42Got it.
14:44So it's definitely been a push to try to grow a business
14:49and also be a mom and a stay-at-home mom.
14:53Hey, hey, what's going on?
14:55Usually Guillermo's at work all day managing a hotel.
14:58But even when he's around to help with Nico,
15:00I do feel like I'm bearing the brunt of everything.
15:02There's never an uninterrupted moment in this house.
15:05You know I'm trying to work here.
15:06Fine.
15:08Oh, I just need a second, you know, to do the things.
15:11I didn't know.
15:12I didn't know you were in a call.
15:14That's it.
15:15I mean, look, Nico is crying and needing your help.
15:20Crying and needing your help.
15:23My help, but you're here.
15:24Yeah, because he gets happier when he's with you.
15:26I just feel like, apart from our regular jobs,
15:30I'm also managing the house and getting the groceries
15:33and cooking the food and, like, making sure
15:34that he hits his nap times on schedule.
15:36He'll be snoring.
15:37He'll be snoring as well.
15:38I know.
15:40You know, as a supervisor, you've got to be managing
15:41people, dealing with people, taking the time.
15:46You know, it's a lot of mental stress as well.
15:51I'm very happy to be working and actually very happy
15:54to be contributing financially to my family.
15:58But having a demanding job, a one-year-old,
16:03and a relationship, it's definitely
16:05been a huge roller coaster.
16:07And I'm not proud of this, but sometimes I
16:10bring the work stress home.
16:12It's unfair for Kira and Nico.
16:15So I need to change.
16:17I need to change something on here.
16:20Mommy.
16:21Mommy, mommy.
16:23Nico, Nico, hey, listen.
16:24It's very obvious to me that you've not pooped your pants
16:26because it smells really strong.
16:28So we're going to go, ah, clean your butt.
16:30Let me help you.
16:31How about that?
16:32Oh, my god, stop it.
16:33How about that?
16:34Vincent, I help you.
16:45Good morning!
16:46Good morning.
16:47Today's the day.
16:48Today's the day.
16:49I'm finally going to put her in a kayak,
16:52and she's going to get wet, vertical, horizontal.
16:55I can't say that I'm, like, super pumped,
16:58but I'm excited to share the day with you and reconnect.
17:03Oh, my god.
17:03We dropped Nico off.
17:04We have child care.
17:05We took the day off.
17:06We blocked our schedule.
17:07I'm so thankful with you.
17:09All right, get in.
17:13Nice.
17:14Bye.
17:18It's going to be a good day.
17:20I'm going to tell myself that I really like water.
17:22I feel like recently Guillermo and I haven't really
17:24been seeing eye to eye.
17:26There you go.
17:29Feel it good?
17:30Nice.
17:30Good girl.
17:32This is the coolest I've ever felt. And I love my husband,
17:36and I want us to connect.
17:38And I want us to try to get back to where we used to be.
17:41So we're just going to go with the flow.
17:43Thank you so much.
17:44You're so welcome.
17:46Are you feeling good?
17:48I feel like I'm sitting in a kayak.
17:51All right.
17:52I feel like, ah!
18:02Oh, I like it.
18:06All right.
18:12To me, this is a perfect day between us
18:15because I can finally show her what I like to do.
18:18and the beauty of the river.
18:20Whoo! You nailed it!
18:22Water, trees, birds, and us.
18:25I mean, it's actually, if you think about it,
18:27very romantic.
18:31Oh, my God.
18:38Are you okay?
18:39Yeah!
18:49I'm gonna be honest.
18:50It looks like you're drowning.
18:52Can we go, like, over there?
18:57I'd really like to spend
18:59this beautiful time in the river
19:01with Keira,
19:02but I brought her actually
19:04to tell her something important.
19:06The past few weeks
19:07have been tough between us,
19:09and I've made a big change
19:12in my life.
19:14And, honestly, I don't know
19:15how she is gonna take it.
19:18Well, that was cute.
19:19How do you feel?
19:21Excited.
19:22Yeah? That was so nice.
19:24In your new boat.
19:26So...
19:30I need to talk to you about something.
19:35I'm getting very serious
19:36with being a pilot.
19:38You want to be a pilot?
19:39I've been getting in contact
19:41with some people,
19:43and, yeah,
19:44I think I'm actually
19:45very serious about it.
19:48My father was an
19:49aeronautical engineer,
19:51but because of the
19:53economical crisis in Venezuela,
19:55that was never an option for me.
19:58In America,
19:59becoming a commercial pilot,
20:01it's something that I can pursue.
20:03But I cannot do it alone.
20:06I need her to be my side.
20:10Have you...
20:11I mean, isn't it expensive?
20:15Yeah, but I can get a loan.
20:17I can, you know...
20:18I don't...
20:19You know, logistically,
20:21it might be a big undertaking.
20:23Why? Why not?
20:24Well, a big fat student loan
20:25that's in our name.
20:26Uh-huh, and?
20:27Time.
20:28Holding down your full-time job
20:29while going to pilot school
20:31simultaneously.
20:32Well, that's gonna end
20:33in two weeks, actually.
20:35Maybe before that.
20:36What?
20:37I already put my
20:38two-weeks notice in my job.
20:42Are you joking?
20:43No.
20:44You're not joking.
20:45Have you thought about this?
20:47Yeah.
20:48So you're gonna quit your job?
20:50You're gonna go to school,
20:51make zero dollars?
20:52What's your plan?
20:54How are we gonna pay the bill?
20:57I'm furious because
20:59he is one of the two people
21:01contributing to our household
21:03and the only one that has
21:04given our family insurance.
21:06And so for him to
21:07make this decision
21:09without consulting his wife
21:11or at least talking about it,
21:13it is shocking.
21:16Everything falls on me
21:17to carry this whole family
21:19all the time.
21:20I'm just f***ing over it.
21:21Like...
21:32Follow me like a rainbow
21:34You don't know my name
21:35You're gonna know
21:36You're gonna know it
21:37Alright, we're gonna do
21:38a house tour.
21:39I love my front porch
21:41and my plants.
21:42Love my plants.
21:44Here we go.
21:45My name is Emily.
21:47I am 32 years old
21:49and I live in Salina, Kansas.
21:51I am Kobe from Cameroon.
21:53I am 37 years old.
21:55Live with my beautiful wife.
21:57In our own house?
22:00You wanna give the house tour?
22:01Yes.
22:02Okay, come take the phone.
22:04Okay, come over here.
22:05Hold the phone.
22:06Hi Reba.
22:07This is the basement.
22:09This is not the basement.
22:11What is it?
22:12It's the living room.
22:13This is the living room.
22:14Okay.
22:15This is my sister's room.
22:17She's getting her clothes on.
22:20Show them the bed.
22:22This is our bed.
22:24It's so comfy.
22:27Kobe finally got his wish.
22:29We bought a home with
22:31five bedrooms, three bathrooms.
22:33I know how to give all the details.
22:35Yeah, I need him to know that
22:37we bought a big enough home
22:38to fill with children.
22:41Kobe and I met in Xi'an, China.
22:43It was supposed to be a one-night stand
22:46but a few weeks later
22:47I found out I was pregnant.
22:49I came back to the U.S.
22:51and I immediately started
22:52the K-1 visa process.
22:54But because of COVID,
22:56it took Kobe almost two years
22:58to get to America.
22:59So he didn't meet our son, Kobe,
23:01until he was a year and a half.
23:05Who's that?
23:06You see Papa?
23:07You see Dada?
23:08Oh my.
23:09Hi.
23:10Give them a hug together.
23:16And then 90 days later
23:17we were married.
23:18I now pronounce you
23:19husband and wife.
23:21Last time you guys saw us
23:23we only had two beautiful babies
23:26and now we have...
23:27Three.
23:30Gotta go get the babies now.
23:32Hi.
23:35I'll get you.
23:36Hi.
23:42You're brushing your hair?
23:43Let me get Bubba's hat.
23:45Hi.
23:51Can Bubba go to Myrtle Beach?
23:52Yeah.
23:53I love you.
23:55Kobe from the jump was like
23:56I want to name him Atem
23:58after his friend who
23:59didn't really like me
24:00that much in Cameroon.
24:01Kobe was like,
24:02look the name's really important to me
24:04and I gave in.
24:06His name is Atem.
24:07He's so cute.
24:08He's so cute.
24:10He's so cute.
24:11He's like the chillest baby.
24:12I would have seven of him.
24:15Nope.
24:16Yep.
24:18So we're here and
24:19getting ready for the
24:20Bornhouse party.
24:21I can't wait.
24:22Okay Bubba.
24:23Okay Bubba.
24:26Back home
24:27we always have something
24:28called Bornhouse party
24:29when you have a baby.
24:32Just like a baby shower
24:33there's gonna be lots of food.
24:35Goat meats,
24:36pepper soup goats,
24:37barbecue goats,
24:38some fried rice
24:39for the Americans.
24:44We're all coming to
24:46experience a cultural party.
24:49Wait, how many cheers
24:50did we get?
24:5125.
24:52Okay.
24:53But we have more
24:54than 25 cheers.
24:56Dad's coming to help.
24:57This is very important for me
24:58that I get to understand
24:59okay my dad is from Africa,
25:00he's from Cameroon
25:01and a little bit of
25:02Cameroon history.
25:04Is all this gonna fit?
25:05Mm-hmm.
25:06Of course.
25:08Okay.
25:10I've been wanting to help
25:11Kobe plan for this party
25:12but he wants it to be the true
25:14Cameroonian Bornhouse party
25:16and so I'm totally hands off.
25:18It scares me
25:19but this is Kobe saying
25:20this is what he wants
25:21and I respect that.
25:23Yeah, why don't you guys
25:24pick up like seven at a time?
25:28What'd you say?
25:29I'm just kidding.
25:33Hey babe.
25:37Still up?
25:39I'm stressing out.
25:42Why?
25:44I feel like there's like
25:4570 people
25:47coming in a couple days
25:48and like I have no idea
25:49what's going on.
25:52When I plan a party
25:53like I literally
25:54have it down to a T
25:56so the most stressful part
25:58about this party
25:59is I have absolutely
26:01no idea what's going on.
26:03I still don't really know
26:04like the itinerary
26:06or who's coming
26:07or what's happening.
26:08I know a lot of people
26:09are coming from all over.
26:10I know there's going to be
26:12Cameroonian food
26:13and dancers
26:14and that's like
26:15basically it.
26:16I mean, that's a lot.
26:18Everyone's going to
26:19come in town.
26:20Nobody knows when
26:21they're coming to our house.
26:23What time is the party?
26:25I just ask everybody
26:26to come over around 5.
26:28Over where?
26:29Here or mom and dad's?
26:30Mom and dad's.
26:31So the cooking's going to
26:32happen all day
26:33at mom and dad's?
26:34Not only,
26:35there's cooking that
26:36is going to be done here.
26:39So people are going
26:40to cook all day
26:41but we're going to be
26:42in our houses
26:43and then everyone's going
26:44to come at 5 to mom and dad's?
26:45Yeah.
26:48So who's going to be here
26:49when people are cooking here?
26:50So for now,
26:51I don't know.
26:52I can't tell you that.
26:54Kobe's never thrown a party
26:56while we've been married.
26:57So we will see.
27:03What?
27:05Oh, yeah.
27:07We are getting ready
27:09for the Bourne house today.
27:11It looks good.
27:12I'm really nervous.
27:14The party's in 30 minutes.
27:16We have 70 people
27:17showing up to my parents' house.
27:19There's people in my kitchen,
27:21in my mom's kitchen.
27:26I know I'm not
27:27helping plan anything
27:28but I'm still a host.
27:30So I just want to make
27:31sure that I'm ready
27:32for the party.
27:33I know I'm not
27:34helping plan anything
27:35but I'm still a host.
27:36So I just want to make sure
27:37the party goes smoothly.
27:39So right now,
27:40we are going down
27:41to the in-laws' place
27:42with the guys around.
27:44We want to make sure
27:45that everything looks good so far.
27:47I trust these guys.
27:49Got it, bro.
27:50All right, are we ready?
27:51Rio, are we set?
27:54All right, let's go.
28:04It looks good.
28:06We still have a lot more?
28:08Yes, a lot.
28:09Oh my gosh.
28:10We are with the guys
28:11and making sure that's normal.
28:14Making sure that
28:15everything is looking good
28:16so we're mounting the canopies.
28:17And this is the main man.
28:19What?
28:20The person who makes sure
28:21that the event is successful.
28:22It's hot out.
28:23It's hot out here.
28:24Thank you so much.
28:26Yeah.
28:27Look how pretty
28:28Mom looks in her outfit.
28:30Hi, you too.
28:31So beautiful.
28:32It's a Thames party.
28:34Yay, Thames.
28:35Okay, what are we making?
28:36We are cooking an arrow.
28:38Arrow.
28:39Oh, I love it.
28:40Oh my goodness.
28:51I'm so happy, man.
28:52There are so many people
28:53over here.
28:54That means that
28:55we have a lot of people
28:56who are really out here
28:57to support us.
28:59And the whole family is in town
29:01Everybody say hola!
29:03Hola!
29:08I'm not going to talk very much
29:09but I just want to say that
29:10we are deeply blessed
29:11to have you all
29:13make such a special
29:14moment for us.
29:15I never thought I could
29:16get this emotion
29:17but I've already
29:18gotten very emotional.
29:19I know you guys
29:20would have been
29:21somewhere else.
29:22America, time is money.
29:23But you choose to make
29:24this moment a very special one
29:25for us to celebrate,
29:27you know, our son
29:29at him with us.
29:31I just want to say
29:32thank you guys so much
29:33for showing up.
29:34I mean, there's so much
29:35traditional meal over there.
29:36If you can go three,
29:37four, five times,
29:38if your stomach
29:39can handle that,
29:40just keep going.
29:41All right, thank you guys
29:42so much.
29:43Put it over there
29:44in the drinks as well.
29:47It's really a beautiful thing
29:49to see that there's
29:50so much support
29:51and love going on
29:52over here.
29:53And this is a beauty
29:54of Cameroon culture.
29:55Everybody who came in town
29:57for the Barnhouse Party
29:58is really putting
29:59an effort to making sure
30:00that everything
30:01is a success.
30:04I'm just really,
30:05really happy
30:06that we were able
30:07to do it here,
30:08you know, in Salina.
30:17I made it happen, baby.
30:18It's OK.
30:19You did.
30:20You did.
30:21I want to do it again.
30:22I'll do it.
30:23All right, next baby.
30:26Ready?
30:27Go!
30:41Since we're not going
30:42to be able to go
30:43on a tropical trip,
30:44I wanted to make us
30:45a tropical snack.
30:47OK, OK.
30:48Thank you so much.
30:50Annie and I met in Thailand
30:51while I was working in Asia.
30:53We got married
30:54seven years ago,
30:55and now we are trying
30:56to have a baby.
31:01That's good.
31:03You know what?
31:04I want Annie
31:05to have one final cocktail
31:06before the embryo transfer
31:08because if everything
31:09goes well,
31:10it'll be nine months
31:11before you have
31:12your next dink.
31:13Maybe a year.
31:14Maybe a year.
31:15It depends.
31:16Up to you.
31:17I'm not going to put
31:18any pressure on you.
31:19Are you ready for this?
31:21I am.
31:22Because I have to
31:23count on you too, you know.
31:25David's family in New Jersey
31:26brought up some good points
31:27for David being a dad.
31:29Our lives have been traveling
31:30and having fun
31:31up to this point.
31:33So I kind of worry
31:34you might not be up
31:35for responsibility again.
31:37You know, even though
31:38I'm in this thousand percent,
31:39I just want to make sure
31:40are you in this with me.
31:42You know, are you ready?
31:44Because it seems like
31:45your family has some concerns,
31:46you know.
31:49I mean, I understand
31:50and I can appreciate
31:51their concerns
31:52because you know what?
31:53I even had to ask myself
31:55those same questions.
31:57I had a vasectomy
31:58at the age of 32
31:59after having three children.
32:01Had I not met Annie,
32:02I honestly wouldn't be
32:03thinking about having kids.
32:05I said to you,
32:06I would never deny you
32:07the right to motherhood.
32:08Didn't mean that I was
32:09going to forget
32:10that being a father
32:11because we're in this together.
32:13But I don't want you
32:14to worry or to fear.
32:16Matter of fact,
32:17I even have this paper.
32:18We can have a little schedule.
32:20All right?
32:22Night one
32:24will be your night.
32:26No, night one should be you.
32:27Night one, night two,
32:28night three should be you.
32:30We're going to rotate.
32:31But I'll take night one.
32:32You can have night two.
32:33Okay.
32:34And then for diaper duty,
32:36I'm going to put you daytime.
32:38Yeah.
32:39I'll do nighttime.
32:41You sign your name.
32:42I sign my name.
32:44We make a deal.
32:45The notary signs here.
32:52Na-na-na-na-na-na-na
32:54Na-na-na-na-na-na-na
32:56Na-na-na-na-na-na-na
32:57You ready, my love?
32:58I'm so ready today.
33:00Maybe when you walk out,
33:01you'll be with Chad.
33:03So excited.
33:05All right.
33:06Long time no see.
33:07Hello again.
33:08Today is the
33:09embryo turn for the day.
33:11There's so much riding on this.
33:12I just can't wait.
33:13So scared, so nervous,
33:14so excited.
33:18Can't believe it's been
33:19seven months and we're
33:20finally at this point.
33:21I know.
33:22I go through a lot.
33:23A lot of shots,
33:24blood work,
33:25ultrasound.
33:26These things
33:27go to my vagina
33:28like many, many times.
33:30And not even for fun?
33:31Not even for fun.
33:35I have no idea
33:37what it looks like.
33:39You know,
33:40it's so exciting
33:42and so emotional.
33:44It's like
33:45no words to
33:47explain.
33:49Good morning.
33:50You've got your team.
33:51David, are you going to do
33:52anything here?
33:53Are you paying the bill?
33:54What's happening?
33:55We're going to dim the lights.
33:57I'm going to put a speculum in.
33:58We're going to do the ultrasound
33:59and then Michelle's going to go
34:00ask the embryologist
34:01to bring
34:02the catheter in
34:03and
34:04transfer will happen
34:05right after.
34:09Deep, slow breaths.
34:11Just relax.
34:13Here we are.
34:14One normal embryo
34:15for Andy,
34:16so I'm from Rossi.
34:17Yes.
34:21We gently pass
34:22a soft, flexible catheter
34:24through her cervix
34:25into the uterine cavity
34:27with an embryo
34:28that was brought to me
34:29with an inner sheath.
34:31Breathe.
34:32When we place that
34:33under ultrasound guidance,
34:34we're then able to
34:35gently place that embryo
34:36inside her uterus.
34:38Perfect.
34:39Did you see that little
34:40fluid flash come in?
34:41Yes.
34:42That's it. I'm done.
34:43Amazing.
34:44Ten out of ten.
34:46Okay.
34:47You did awesome.
34:48I'm so proud of you.
34:51There is so much anxiety
34:52and so much going through my mind.
34:54Will this work?
34:55We're going to know
34:56everything in eight days.
34:57Okay?
34:58All right.
34:59Good luck, guys.
35:00We're going to get you
35:01a picture of the embryo.
35:05All right.
35:07Here's your personal picture.
35:09Congratulations.
35:13We don't know
35:14what the outcome is.
35:15We're just going to
35:16keep following
35:17the protocols
35:18and pray for the best.
35:23I can't sleep well
35:24last night.
35:25Nervousness?
35:27Excited.
35:29Well, today
35:30is the day that we are going
35:31to see if
35:32you're going to be a mom.
35:35I'm so nervous.
35:37I prepare for every outcome
35:40but wish for the best.
35:42In the morning,
35:43I get my blood test
35:45to see
35:47if I am pregnant or not.
35:50They're doing this down
35:51so it's a four to six
35:52on the camera.
35:54I can't confess enough.
35:56We're still waiting
35:57for confirmation
35:58from Dr. Bustanfar
35:59and we're going to do a call
36:00to find out the results
36:01of the embryo transfer.
36:05David, Annie,
36:06can you see me okay?
36:07Hi.
36:08How are you, doctor?
36:09I know you're really
36:10anxious about it
36:12but I'm beyond happy
36:14to report
36:15that your pregnancy test
36:16was positive today.
36:19Congratulations.
36:21We did it.
36:22We really did it.
36:23You're just over
36:24four weeks pregnant.
36:25Can you believe that?
36:26Four weeks?
36:28So the embryo is already
36:29at about the three week stage
36:31approximately.
36:34Isn't that cool?
36:35That's why I feel the kicking.
36:38That's David.
36:42It's been an amazing journey
36:43just to get to this point, T-Doc.
36:45Yes.
36:46And now we have a long
36:47eight and a half months
36:48ahead of us.
36:49I couldn't wait.
36:50Thank you so much
36:51for being in this together.
36:53There's nobody else
36:54in this world
36:55that I would want to share
36:57a life with,
36:58a journey with,
36:59than you.
37:02Don't forget
37:03you have to help me
37:04changing the diapers sometime.
37:06We have signed the contract.
37:07Yes.
37:08And I know you had it notarized.
37:11Yes.
37:21Good morning, everybody.
37:24What a beautiful day.
37:28Yeah.
37:29I'm trying to be excited
37:30for you.
37:31I don't,
37:32you don't look that excited.
37:33I'm not.
37:34I think you need to be
37:35a little more excited.
37:36I'm happy that you're happy,
37:37but not sold,
37:38not sold on it yet.
37:40Guillermo and I met
37:41in Dominican Republic.
37:42We got married three years ago,
37:44and now we have a beautiful son
37:45named Nico.
37:46But things have been
37:47a little rocky
37:48since Guillermo decided
37:49that he wants to change careers.
37:53If they take us
37:54actually up in a plane,
37:55I might poop my pants.
37:58What if he decides
38:00to give me the control?
38:01No.
38:02No.
38:03I'm jumping.
38:04You're jumping.
38:05Parachute all day.
38:06You're jumping.
38:07You have, like,
38:08the worst thoughts ever.
38:11You're not a pilot.
38:12I have my mind focused.
38:21After our fight at the lake,
38:22Guillermo apologized
38:23for not consulting me
38:24prior to making
38:25such a large decision,
38:26and I've had
38:27a little bit more time
38:28to just cool off a bit.
38:29While I'm still skeptical
38:31about Guillermo being a pilot,
38:32he has convinced me
38:33to do an informational tour
38:35at a local pilot school.
38:37Here we are.
38:39Aw, look at this
38:40cute little plane over there.
38:42You have to keep
38:43it up in mind, babe.
38:44Mm.
38:45Keep it open mind.
38:47Sure.
38:49So, Guillermo,
38:51what made you
38:53want to pursue flying?
38:56I work in a hotel,
38:59and we receive a lot of pilots.
39:02Oh, really?
39:03Like, many different pilots
39:04every single time.
39:05And I haven't heard
39:06from one person saying, like,
39:08oh, being a pilot is a b----.
39:11You know what I mean?
39:12You don't hear me say it.
39:14Yeah.
39:15One of the cool aspects of it
39:16is there's so many
39:17different avenues
39:18that you can go down.
39:19You know, there's airline jobs,
39:20crop dusting.
39:21You know, I'm running
39:22a flight school right now
39:24and, you know,
39:25working as a flight instructor.
39:26My questions are, like,
39:27how much does it cost to do it?
39:30I'd say there's
39:32some variables there, too,
39:34but in the $45,000 to $50,000 range
39:38to go all the way through
39:39to the commercial rating.
39:41$50,000.
39:43And you think your job,
39:44whatever job you're going to get,
39:45is going to be able to pay
39:46for your flight school
39:47and all the bills
39:48that we currently have?
39:49Yes.
39:50But just, like,
39:51stop making the thing
39:52like it's a problem.
39:53Just think about, like,
39:54everything's going to be good.
39:55So you want me to just
39:56go through life
39:57and not think about
39:58the pros and cons
39:59or the good and bad
40:00or how it may work
40:01or how it may affect our family?
40:02Yeah, that's the life you live.
40:03That's the lane that you live in.
40:05I don't live that way.
40:06I don't live in any land.
40:07I live in my brushes here.
40:08No, you live in a fairytale land.
40:10Fairytale.
40:12There's the cockpit.
40:16There you go.
40:17You want to run through
40:18some of the flight instruments?
40:19Yeah.
40:20Top left here
40:21is the airspeed indicator,
40:23altimeter,
40:25vertical speed indicator,
40:27heading indicator,
40:29and turning coordinator.
40:31If you want,
40:32we can pull it out of the hangar
40:33and show you a little bit more.
40:35All right.
40:37Seeing Guillermo in the cockpit
40:38and the expression on his face,
40:40I can't help
40:41but feel really excited
40:42and happy for him.
40:43But I'm a little apprehensive.
40:46I just don't know
40:47if he's really thinking about
40:49what that looks like
40:50in real life.
40:52I just feel like
40:53you look really excited about it.
40:54Yeah.
40:55And I feel like
40:56there's no going back.
40:57Uh-uh.
40:58And you're going to pay for this.
40:59Exactly.
41:00Okay.
41:01I'm so not convinced
41:02that this is the right career path
41:03for Guillermo.
41:04I'm worried about the money,
41:05and I'm worried about the time
41:06away from our family.
41:07But he's my husband,
41:08and I love him,
41:09and I feel like
41:10I don't have any choice
41:11but to support him.
41:14I'm going to be
41:15the most sexy pilot ever.
41:18You should buckle up
41:19because I'm going to
41:20take you for a ride.
41:22Really?
41:25Let me out!
41:31It's...
41:32We are not in our...
41:33I don't know.
41:34Ah!
41:35I must have handled
41:36a lot of it in my life.
41:37Like, it's happening, girl.
41:38It's happening.
41:39Yeah, yeah.
41:40Go, Lucy!
41:41Try to get her coordinated.
41:42Get some body awareness.
41:43A little bit of strength.
41:45Uh-oh.
41:47Hey, look that way.
41:49I've really been thinking
41:50a lot about what my family said
41:51about dating a country boy.
41:53So while I'm here,
41:54I need to create
41:55a whole new profile
41:56to show them
41:57I love to do farm stuff.
41:58How do I get...
42:00Like, you're gonna...
42:01I'm just gonna pose like this.
42:02Yes.
42:03Ah!
42:04I want the guys to think
42:05like I'm a local.
42:06Yeah, I hope these guys
42:07out here love it.
42:08Kiss the chicken.
42:13I'm about to make
42:14a huge leap
42:15in my transition process.
42:17I am going to have
42:19my first
42:20gender-affirming surgery.
42:21Obviously, I'm really excited
42:22to get it done,
42:23but I'm really scared.
42:24Any kind of surgery
42:25is scary.
42:27Especially because
42:28I'm having it on my face.
42:30I'm terrified.
42:34When he left,
42:35he did not go
42:36to China directly.
42:38He went to Arizona.
42:40Johnny had finally
42:41been able to save up
42:42enough money to come
42:43visit me in America.
42:44Then I learned
42:45some lies
42:46that he was telling
42:47about his departure.
42:48I don't think
42:49you need to worry
42:50about him,
42:51and I don't think I would.
42:52I would let him go.
42:55So...
42:56I really want to talk
42:57about Arizona.
42:58You really want to
42:59talk about that?