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Lerin Gaines

The Mask I Can't Afford Anymore | DISC 5: Restoration | 411 Podcast🍾Reading Between The Wines (Episode 38)   Featuring: Mental Monday, Mentorship Series   Monday | July 21st, 2025   Streaming LIVE on all social media platforms @LERINGAINES   https://leringaines.com  https://linktr.ee/leringaines  https://www.facebook.com/leringaines  http://instagram.com/leringaines  https://www.tiktok.com/@leringaines  http://twitter.com/leringaines  https://www.youtube.com/@leringaines  https://www.twitch.tv/leringaines  https://dlive.tv/LerinGaines  https://dailymotion.com/LerinGaines   Song of The Day: "Song Cry" by Jay-Z  Released 2001 | The Blueprint   Burning Questions: Is your mental health suffering because you're living for respect... or because you've forgotten how to live for yourself?   I would love to hear from you! Share your response to tonight's Burning Questions:   Text: (609) 200-1098 | Email: Info@LerinGaines.com   DM on any social media platform @LERINGAINES (Facebook, Instagram, X, TikTok, YouTube, DLIVE, Twitch, DailyMotion)   Sign up for my FREE Monthly Newsletter 'Whispers of Wisdom' for updates, exclusives, and inspiration!   Subscribe now at LerinGaines.com   #Facebook #Instagram #TikTok #X #YouTube #DLIVE #Twitch #DailyMotion #ParentalAdvisory #ExplicitContent #LerinGaines #411Podcast #RBTW #ReadingBetweenTheWines #BurningQuestions #BlackDiamondConsultations #VacationWithMe #WhispersofWisdom #DISC5 #Restoration   DISCLAIMER: The content and information provided by Black Diamond Consultations are intended solely for educational and entertainment purposes. We do not guarantee the accuracy or completeness of the materials, and any reliance you place on them is strictly at your own risk. Our content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice or judgment. Black Diamond Consultations shall not be liable for any errors or omissions in the educational and entertainment content or for any actions taken based on the information provided.   411 Podcast🍾Reading Between The Wines  DISC 5: Restoration  Track 38: The Mask I Can't Afford Anymore  ©️ 2025 Black Diamond Consultations Network  LerinGaines.com

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00:04:29Every episode is part of a journey across our weekly mentorship series, Spiritual Sundays, Mental Mondays, Transformational Tuesdays, Wind Down Wednesdays, Coaching Sessions Thursdays, and Financial Fridays.

00:04:43Each day holds space for wisdom, clarity, and real conversation.

00:04:48So grab your journal, and prepare to go beyond the surface.

00:04:54Because here, we'll be right back.

00:05:01And founder of Black Diamond, what's going on, what's going on, what's going on, what's going on, everybody?

00:05:08Everybody, welcome to the 4-in-1 podcast, another week, another episode, another opportunity to get this thing right.

00:05:17I want to say thank you so much.

00:05:19I want to say thank you so much to everybody out there who is listening.

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00:05:25How are you doing?

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00:05:40We have a great show tonight.

00:05:41Welcome to Mental Mondays, where we dive into the mental pillar of debt-free living through Diamond Consultation.

00:05:51So we're here.

00:05:53We're up.

00:05:54We're getting ready to do this thing.

00:05:56But before we go ahead and move on, I want to give a very special thank you to my executive producer.

00:06:02I want to thank God for giving me another opportunity to come out here and do the 4-in-1 podcast, another opportunity.

00:06:11To make this thing right.

00:06:13This has been nothing but a journey.

00:06:16And I want to be very clear as we continue on this journey to let each and every one of you know out there that I am just like you.

00:06:28Going through the same scenarios that we go through night after night, I find myself in some of these scenarios.

00:06:36I find that I have been through some of these things.

00:06:41And that's exactly why I'm here doing what I'm doing.

00:06:45And with that, I never want to come across as if I have made it.

00:06:51I never want to come across as if I am 100% because with pride, soon after comes destruction.

00:07:01So I never want to get out here acting as if I know more than I know.

00:07:10But with that, as I stated earlier, I have been through some of these things.

00:07:15These are real life situations that we go through.

00:07:19And I can't help but put the emotion and put the passion in to what I do.

00:07:26But I just want to be very clear that as you learn, I learn and we all learn together.

00:07:35So, yes, there is some emotion behind it.

00:07:38Yes, there is.

00:07:39Sometimes it gets a little heated.

00:07:41Sometimes it gets a little uneasy in here because we're speaking about some topics that sometimes might not be all roses and flowers and things beautiful.

00:07:53Because this is life and in life things happen.

00:07:58So I just want to make sure that, you know, I put that out there.

00:08:02And we're here.

00:08:04Track 38.

00:08:06The mask I can't afford anymore.

00:08:07This five restoration off of the 4-in-1 podcast Black Diamond Consultations Mentorship Series.

00:08:15If you would like to have a seat at the table and go through some of these scenarios with me as well, night after night here, please do me a favor and email me at info at laryngaines.com.

00:08:30And I will give you the information to be able to help you sit at this table here and dissect and go through some of these scenarios night after night.

00:08:41All right, so we're here.

00:08:45I first want to give a very special thank you to everyone out there on Daily Motion.

00:08:53I have noticed some interest over on the Daily Motion side, and we have been working on that piece for a long time.

00:09:03So thank you all so much to everyone out there who watches the replay on Daily Motion.

00:09:09I do want to apologize to the people out there on X.

00:09:14We did have a good system going for a minute, but technical difficulties caused us a little bit of setbacks.

00:09:21But keep our fingers crossed.

00:09:24Hopefully we are rocking tonight.

00:09:27And also for the audio version, we had some technical difficulties a couple nights ago, but it has been restored.

00:09:35So the last episode of Reading Between the Wines has been posted today.

00:09:42So check us out wherever you listen to your podcasts.

00:09:46And again, if you cannot find the 4-in-1 podcast, Reading Between the Wines, just holla at your boy, and we will try to get that situated for you.

00:09:56Last episode, we helped out Mr. Marcus, 30-year-old from Detroit, Michigan, and Marcus seemed to have his stuff together.

00:10:07He is a barber.

00:10:10He has a small business with his cousin.

00:10:13But he got caught up with this woman and basically was bending over backwards, people-pleasing, doing everything he could possibly do, and trying to help somebody heal themselves from their past situations and trying to do it with money.

00:10:31And as you all know, especially if you've been around here for a minute, that money cannot fix things, especially when it comes to the healing journey that people need to go on, healing from past relationships.

00:10:45That scenario or I guess I want to say verbiage or however you want to call it, to get over somebody is to get under somebody.

00:10:56Okay, that's not going to work, and it shows time and time again that it doesn't work.

00:11:02I truly believe that we all need to get with ourselves.

00:11:08We need to sit back, reevaluate our situation, and ask ourselves, what role did I play in this?

00:11:15Instead of trying to get under somebody in order to get over the next, and then there's this vicious cycle over and over and over again.

00:11:22Now, again, I never claimed to be a genius, but I lived long enough to see that this situation that Marcus had going on with Amber, and she does the disappearing act, and then comes back, and then he spends more money, and then she does the disappearing act again, and then all of a sudden she pops back out of nowhere, and then he starts to spend more money.

00:11:47Yeah, something ain't right there.

00:11:48Okay, so we did help out Mr. Marcus.

00:11:54If you want to find out exactly how that played out, you can go ahead and watch that replay.

00:12:00But this whole ghosting thing, you only got to do that and show me one time.

00:12:04Like Maya Angelou said, when people show you who they are, believe them the first time, you would only have to do that one time today.

00:12:11Key word, what I said is, you would only have to do that one time today, because I was a Marcus before.

00:12:17People would be able to just show up and do whatever they want to do and wreak havoc, and then I would just step back and draw that line in the sand and say, don't do it again.

00:12:27And then when they did it again, I just backed up and drew another line in the sand and said, and don't do it again.

00:12:34And then about the third time, I would just black out on them, and then still would back up for the umpteenth time and draw another line in the sand and say, please don't do that again.

00:12:44When people show you who they are, believe them the first time, not the second, third, fourth, fifth, or sixth.

00:12:51They already showed you and told you the first time, when we're going to start believing them.

00:12:58Let's get into this tonight.

00:13:00The Mask, I Can't Afford Anymore, track 38.

00:13:04We have Song of the Day, Song Cry by Jay-Z, released in 2001 off of the Blueprint album.

00:13:15So now, this is a very popular song.

00:13:17I love this song.

00:13:18And I just want you to think about the song.

00:13:22If you're familiar with it, if you're a Jay-Z fan, if you know what I'm talking about with this song, I want you to just think about this.

00:13:30Now, picture all the possibilities, because that's how it starts off.

00:13:34Picture all of the possibilities.

00:13:37Picture all of the possibilities if you all of a sudden started to look at your life differently.

00:13:44Differently, because you finally realized that you are different.

00:13:49You are not like your mother, your father, your cousins, uncles, brothers, aunties, sisters, whoever.

00:13:57You don't talk like them.

00:14:00You don't walk like them.

00:14:02And maybe you don't even look like them.

00:14:06And when that starts to happen, you start to think to yourself, something deep down inside might have you questioning if you are really even naturally from this tribe.

00:14:17You hear the song to their album, and your song cries on repeat when you repeat the generational cycles that you have been programmed to play.

00:14:32Now, picture all of the possibilities.

00:14:38Picture all of the possibilities of you having your own record, your own soundtrack to your own album.

00:14:44Now, that's the real blueprint.

00:14:48That's the blueprint to your life when you start to live for you and not for others.

00:14:56Remember, everything starts with self.

00:15:00And you will picture all of the possibilities and you will realize that your life will begin when you choose to live for yourself.

00:15:11Instead of sitting exactly where you are, playing that same record on repeat, watching that song cry, feeling that song cry, and in that case, you're not living for yourself, but you're just sitting there waiting to die for others.

00:15:28I don't know who I'm talking to.

00:15:30I'm only speaking from real life experiences.

00:15:33Song of the day, song cry by Jay-Z, released in 2001 off of the Blueprint album.

00:15:41So the question that I have to ask for you is, when are you going to start living for yourself?

00:15:48When are you going to start living for yourself and doing the things that work for you?

00:15:52And when you realize that you are different, when you realize that you don't fit in, when you realize that it is what it is, something is off.

00:16:01If something is different, something is strange, embrace who you are, accept who you are, and realize that you have been put on this planet and you have been put in this exact situation and location to be able to do the thing that you know how to do best.

00:16:16And that is being authentically you.

00:16:20Took me a long time to figure it out, but I am here.

00:16:25I am thankful.

00:16:26I am blessed.

00:16:27And on that note, again, I can't help it but say thank you to each and every one of you out there who makes it possible.

00:16:37Because the 4-in-1 podcast would not be here, and I wouldn't be here without each and every one of you supporting, liking, commenting, sharing, stopping by, hanging out.

00:16:48And again, I want to say thank you.

00:16:50Song of the day, Song Cry by Jay-Z, off of the Blueprint album.

00:16:57Things change when you start to live for yourself, and things change when you stop worrying about what everyone else around you has to say.

00:17:05No longer are we going to be people pleasers.

00:17:08No longer are we going to get along just to get along.

00:17:11No longer are we just going to go ahead and get in where we can fit in just so that somebody can like us.

00:17:19Someone can accept us.

00:17:23Accept you.

00:17:24Like you.

00:17:25Don't worry about what people have to say.

00:17:27Now, we're going to go ahead and get into this scenario.

00:17:33Again, if you want to chime in, if you want to have a seat at the table, email me, info at laryngaines.com,

00:17:41and I can give you all of the information that you need so that you can be right here going through these scenarios with me.

00:17:47So, we have Anthony.

00:17:49We head out to Chicago, Illinois tonight, so shout out to anybody out there from Chicago.

00:17:57Anthony is 42 years old, and he is a project manager in construction.

00:18:03He grew up in a household where men didn't cry.

00:18:06They didn't vent, and they definitely didn't talk about depression.

00:18:10My dad used to say, suck it up.

00:18:13Life's hard for everybody.

00:18:14I took that advice into adulthood like gospel.

00:18:21I provide for my family, wife, two boys, house in the suburbs.

00:18:26All of the boxes are checked.

00:18:28But what nobody sees is how mentally exhausted I am behind closed doors.

00:18:33I don't sleep well.

00:18:34I don't drink more than I should.

00:18:37Excuse me.

00:18:38Let me back this thing up.

00:18:39I don't sleep well.

00:18:40I drink more than I should to wind down.

00:18:43And I feel like I've been performing like this perfect life for so long that I don't even know how to be honest about how empty I feel.

00:18:52I've built up this image of strength, but I'm realizing it's costing me my peace, my marriage, and my health.

00:19:01My wife said to me last week, you don't even know how to be vulnerable without alcohol.

00:19:07And that hit me.

00:19:09My question is, how do men like me begin to take off the mask without losing the respect we fought so hard to earn?

00:19:17I'm going to take that to the top.

00:19:20We're getting ready to get deep in here tonight.

00:19:25My name is Anthony.

00:19:26I'm 42 years old, living in Chicago, Illinois, and working as a project manager in construction.

00:19:33I grew up in a household where men didn't cry.

00:19:36They didn't vent and definitely didn't talk about depression.

00:19:39My dad used to say, suck it up.

00:19:42Life's hard for everybody.

00:19:43And I took that advice into adulthood like gospel.

00:19:47I provide for my family, wife, two boys, house in the suburbs.

00:19:53All of the boxes are checked.

00:19:55But what nobody sees is how mentally exhausted I am behind closed doors.

00:20:00I don't sleep well.

00:20:01I drink more than I should to wind down.

00:20:04And I feel like I've been performing like this perfect life for so long that I don't even know how to be honest about how empty I really feel.

00:20:13I've built up this image of strength, but I'm realizing it's costing me my peace, my marriage, and my health.

00:20:21My wife said to me last week, you don't even know how to be vulnerable without alcohol.

00:20:26And that hit me.

00:20:27My question is, how do men like me begin to take off the mask without losing the respect we fought so hard to earn?

00:20:37All right, let's take this to the top here.

00:20:42This is a, remember what I said in the beginning about how I don't want to come across as, but some of these things, I have been through some of these things.

00:20:53So I'm sure each and every one of you out there, somebody out there has been through this as well.

00:20:58So we're going to go through this as delicate as possible tonight, but while keeping it real.

00:21:06How many of us have grew up in a household where people have said what goes on in this house stays in this house?

00:21:12That's the first part.

00:21:13How many of us have grew up in situations where what goes on in this house stays in this house?

00:21:20That enough alone is enough.

00:21:24We can just close the show out right there.

00:21:27And then as we take it a little further, how many of us have grew up in households where you have been told, sit down, shut up, and stay in a child's place?

00:21:37I'll repeat that again.

00:21:40Sit down, shut up, and stay in a child's place.

00:21:42Your voice was missing.

00:21:44You didn't have a voice.

00:21:45Go on.

00:21:48When things like that happen, sit down, shut up, stay in a child's place.

00:21:55So you can get things like welcome to the 411 podcast because now we have a voice.

00:22:00Just keeping it real.

00:22:01Not always was I able to be vocal about just life in general, just things in general.

00:22:10And again, no fault to how I grew up.

00:22:13That's how they were taught and how they were taught and how they were taught.

00:22:17And here we go speaking about these generational cycles here.

00:22:23Now we get to one extreme to another because nowadays some of these kids out there, they just say a little bit too much.

00:22:32And it's like we took the Band-Aid off, we took the filter off, and now we don't know how to reel them back in.

00:22:37So there's a delicate dance that needs to happen.

00:22:40Let's not get too extreme where you tell a child to sit down, shut up, and stay in a child's place.

00:22:44But then also let's not be disrespectful.

00:22:45So because of that, I guess that's the reason why things happened back in the day because there's nothing new under the sun.

00:22:54So these cycles have repeated and something has happened where somebody said, okay, we're going to have to reel this in.

00:23:01But did you really have to reel it in that much?

00:23:04So I get it.

00:23:10And then, yeah, we all know that boys don't cry.

00:23:13That has gone on forever.

00:23:14And then where does that get people?

00:23:18I can't say what it does, but you just turn on the news.

00:23:23That's all you got to do is just turn on the news.

00:23:25And you'll see what happens when you don't allow people to express who they really are.

00:23:29I don't care, boy, girl, whatever.

00:23:32But that notion that boys don't cry.

00:23:36Here's another thing, especially from the black community.

00:23:42Do we talk about depression?

00:23:45Or do we pretend that it don't happen?

00:23:47So last time I checked, I didn't know that depression only works for certain races.

00:23:54But again, we have a lot of people who are suffering with mental health and because they were told, first of all, shut up.

00:24:02Don't say a word.

00:24:03Stay in a child's place.

00:24:04So now you blocked that child.

00:24:07You blocked that individual.

00:24:08You blocked that teen from being able to express exactly what's on their mind and what you teach a child between the ages of zero to seven sticks.

00:24:18So then you wonder why when they become teenagers, they want to do some things that I can't say on here because we'll get blocked.

00:24:27Because you program them and condition them to shut up and stay in a child's place.

00:24:31And I don't care about what your feelings are.

00:24:34You don't say anything because I'm not listening.

00:24:36And if you do, sometimes it's in one ear and out the other.

00:24:39And then the dads, again, I don't know who I'm speaking to, are harder on the boys.

00:24:50And then don't let a single mother, a single black mother have to raise a boy or children in general.

00:24:57Because then that becomes a whole nother scenario and a whole nother dynamic.

00:25:00Like I said, we could shut it down right now just when we didn't even get that deep.

00:25:13So, Marcus, I understand.

00:25:15Excuse me, Marcus, Anthony.

00:25:17Anthony, I understand why you would take that stuff into your adulthood.

00:25:23And why you would show up the way you are saying in this letter here.

00:25:29And anybody out there who has taken something into your adulthood that has poured in from your childhood, I get it.

00:25:38But as my mentor says, as we learn things, we can unlearn things.

00:25:46As we like things, we can unlike things.

00:25:49As we invite people in and we invite things into our environment, we can uninvite.

00:25:54Easier said than done.

00:26:00I know it ain't easy and it'll take some work.

00:26:03But yes, we can break these cyclical cycles that we have.

00:26:08We didn't sign up for this.

00:26:10Somebody signed us up for it.

00:26:11now you provide for your family wife two boys and you have a house in the suburb all of the boxes

00:26:21are checked so that line right there i have no idea what your childhood was like but we always

00:26:30want to level up and for parents out there you want your children to do a heck of a lot better

00:26:36than what you um were able to do for for them so when they get older you naturally you would want

00:26:43them to do better for their family and to produce something bigger and better that's just evolution

00:26:49and that's just life but how many of us try to make this picture perfect life because we didn't

00:26:58experience it when we were growing up i know so many people who try to do something different

00:27:07because of what happened as a child and i would submit that everybody out there that's listening

00:27:15people who are coming across this replay there is something that you experienced as a child

00:27:20that you may still be running from today have ran from it and tried to change something

00:27:27so that it doesn't show up in your environment today

00:27:30i'll give you some examples i know people who grew up and they did not have the best clothes

00:27:40now as an adult they are the flyest thing out there maybe you didn't have the nicest sneakers growing up

00:27:48but i bet you got every pair now my issue that i had back in the day was cars growing up we didn't

00:27:57have the best cars so when i was able to purchase cars and i was able to make moves i made sure that

00:28:04i had nice cars then if it wasn't that it was how does my house look on the outside because that was

00:28:12something i grew up in a neighborhood where everyone's home tend to look a little bit better

00:28:19than ours not that our house was anything it was just plain and normal but you know all of the

00:28:26decorating and all of the making it look nice outside planting the flowers and all of that good

00:28:32stuff i got addicted to that as well because we just had a plain house we didn't have anything extra

00:28:38going on the bells and the whistles and all that great stuff so i want you to think back as we go

00:28:47through this scenario here and help out mr anthony what are there some things that you might have been

00:28:52trying to run from and change in your environment based off of what you've dealt with growing up as a

00:28:59child and you got to be very careful when we start to go down this path here because once you start to

00:29:09sign up for this once you start to do this once you start to get overly concerned about what somebody

00:29:15else thinks of you that's the ego stepping up thinking that you have to be something and let me

00:29:22tell you that is one all on its own defeating ego and getting your ego in check

00:29:27you can start to get stuck into this cycle and it seems like anthony is stuck in this cycle and you feel

00:29:36that you need to keep up with whatever you created in your mind because that's what's basically happening

00:29:42all of these things that we no one cares about what car you drive nobody cares about what you got on

00:29:49nobody cares about what your house looks like nobody cares about any of these things you care about it

00:29:55your ego cares about it and the people that you think care about it even if they do care about it

00:30:00they can't do nothing for you anyway the question that i have to ask is are they paying your bills

00:30:06are they going to make it or break it for you whether they like it or they don't like it

00:30:12and this is it you we do all of these things we've done all of these things

00:30:21and you've said it right here but what nobody sees is how mentally exhausted i am behind closed doors

00:30:30and this is when we speak about trying to impress people

00:30:35keeping up with the joneses what you see somebody else have you think that you have to have it

00:30:43and we know that spirit of wanting what somebody else has needing you don't need it you want it

00:30:57wanting what somebody else has can get us into a situation and then we wonder why

00:31:03like anthony here we can't sleep we toss and turn we're not eating properly

00:31:10because we put ourselves through it trying to live a life that was not naturally ours

00:31:18this one here is very disturbing and how mystical is it that i just posted something tonight about

00:31:30you can have a little bit of everything you want in life you just can't get too crazy over any one thing

00:31:36so we sample wine here on this podcast and i bring that information

00:31:45to the public but i don't want to get the wrong message out there about what we do here so

00:31:55you got to be responsible about it and this next line here lets me know that anthony

00:32:02might not be responsible

00:32:04i drink more than i should to wind down

00:32:14and i feel like i've been performing like this perfect life for so long that i don't even know

00:32:20how to be honest about how empty i feel

00:32:22drink more than you should to unwind

00:32:28that's a problem

00:32:29and drinking more than you should

00:32:34and you don't know how to be honest about how empty you feel inside

00:32:39so when do we know when to stop

00:32:42i've built up this image of strength

00:32:52but i'm realizing it's costing me my peace my marriage and my health

00:32:55this this is this is uh this is deep

00:32:59and as it goes on and says my wife said to me last week you don't even know how to be vulnerable

00:33:06without alcohol that's a problem when you can't verbally speak up and say what you want to say

00:33:14without taking a drink and then going down memory lane and then feeling sorry for yourself

00:33:20and then replaying old records and going over and over and over again

00:33:25and making

00:33:26your life miserable

00:33:29and making the people who you are connected their lives miserable

00:33:33and you have

00:33:34children involved in this situation

00:33:36i don't know the ages

00:33:37but this does not look like a good situation here

00:33:40one thing that i can say

00:33:44i've always been told and i don't know if i got this right

00:33:47they say a drunk mind speaks the truth

00:33:53i want you to pay attention

00:33:57the next time somebody has something to say

00:34:00when they're under the influence

00:34:02and there's a reason why they call

00:34:05because that spirit takes over

00:34:07and then starts to speak the truth

00:34:09now we should not hold these people

00:34:14accountable

00:34:16when they are under the influence of this spirit

00:34:20the spirit starts to take over and speaks the truth

00:34:22what we need to do is sit back and listen during this moment

00:34:26however

00:34:28the next day once we sober up

00:34:32we can make a decision if we want to continue to go down this path again

00:34:38this is deep

00:34:45and this is nothing

00:34:50to be taken lightly here

00:34:52his question is

00:34:58how do men like me begin to take off the mask without losing the respect we fought so hard for

00:35:03and i think that that's the biggest thing

00:35:05is that we have a lot of ego wrapped up into this

00:35:09and it's a lot of what somebody else thinks

00:35:12and it's a lot of

00:35:13respect

00:35:15i'll say this

00:35:19everything starts with self

00:35:20so first of all have respect for yourself

00:35:22have respect for yourself

00:35:24to where you don't start to do that comparison game

00:35:27because i think that if you don't do this comparison game

00:35:30a lot of these things could be

00:35:32fixed

00:35:33sounds like there might be

00:35:37if this if i was in this situation

00:35:40i would probably seek some professional help

00:35:42because there's some childhood trauma

00:35:45there's a lot involved when

00:35:47a child does not have

00:35:49the ability to have the

00:35:52support groups

00:35:56this letter here could be

00:36:00a start

00:36:01to a breakthrough

00:36:03because

00:36:03number one

00:36:05you're opening up

00:36:05and you're starting to speak about it

00:36:07things

00:36:09in my world didn't change

00:36:11until i decided to start to speak about it

00:36:14and then you start to get things off of your chest

00:36:16and you can heal

00:36:17and you can move forward

00:36:18so

00:36:18this is a good start to it

00:36:21but there still is more

00:36:22definitely

00:36:28if i was in this situation

00:36:30i would

00:36:31seek some professional help

00:36:34counseling

00:36:37something or the other to

00:36:39hold a family unit together

00:36:41whatever

00:36:43you went through

00:36:46as a child

00:36:47unfortunately if we don't

00:36:49fix these

00:36:49generational

00:36:51cycles

00:36:52they tend to pour out

00:36:55into the next generation

00:36:56and more is caught

00:36:58than more is taught

00:36:59you don't necessarily have to teach your children

00:37:01anything

00:37:02all they have to do is observe

00:37:04and watch exactly how you show up in the world

00:37:07and they'll basically

00:37:08repeat the same thing until they know otherwise

00:37:10either they're going to

00:37:12dislike it so much

00:37:14that they're going to say

00:37:15when i grow up

00:37:15i'm never going to do that

00:37:17or

00:37:17they're just going to go ahead and take it

00:37:19and repeat the cycle

00:37:20and sometimes

00:37:21if they don't

00:37:22know any better

00:37:24it can get even worse

00:37:25now from a financial aspect

00:37:36we're going to

00:37:37bring this thing

00:37:38because we're speaking about

00:37:39mentally

00:37:40so a lot of these things

00:37:42are being put on to ourselves

00:37:43mentally

00:37:45because of the things

00:37:47that we sign up for

00:37:48where we can't even sleep

00:37:51we can't even think

00:37:52because we got this going on

00:37:53we got that going on

00:37:55think about

00:37:55your own situation

00:37:57as we go here

00:37:57how many things are you attached to

00:37:59that you gotta have this

00:38:02and you gotta have this app

00:38:04you gotta go here

00:38:05this is buzzing

00:38:06that's buzzing

00:38:07this is blinking

00:38:08that's blinking

00:38:09i gotta go

00:38:09i gotta do this

00:38:10because i've signed up for so many things

00:38:12i'm so important

00:38:13and i'm so this

00:38:14and i'm so that

00:38:15a lot of times

00:38:19the mental anxiety

00:38:20stress

00:38:21the bs

00:38:22and the drama

00:38:23that we have going on

00:38:24in our world

00:38:24is because we signed up for it

00:38:26now because of that

00:38:32because we've signed up for this

00:38:33we want to be it

00:38:35we want to be that person

00:38:36we have to go do this

00:38:38we have to go do that

00:38:39because we do that

00:38:41sometimes there's a financial cost

00:38:44that's associated with that

00:38:46so not only

00:38:48do we

00:38:49wear ourselves down mentally

00:38:51but if we're not careful

00:38:53we can wear ourselves down

00:38:55financially as well

00:38:56one key thing here

00:39:00i want to ask

00:39:01how many apps

00:39:02are you signed up for

00:39:03do you know

00:39:06how many apps you have

00:39:07do you know

00:39:08how many reoccurring bills

00:39:10that you are being billed for

00:39:13based on the different apps

00:39:15that you have to have

00:39:16and

00:39:17can you use them all

00:39:21on a monthly basis

00:39:22is there something

00:39:25that you could possibly

00:39:26get rid of

00:39:27do you really need that

00:39:29again

00:39:33i don't know who i'm speaking to

00:39:34i'm only speaking from

00:39:35experience but

00:39:36what attachments

00:39:43do we have going on

00:39:44in our world

00:39:45now i just spoke about

00:39:48apps

00:39:50because that's like

00:39:51the going thing now

00:39:52the cell phone

00:39:53that we have

00:39:54attached to our hip

00:39:55that's in our pocket

00:39:57that can drain us

00:39:59mentally

00:40:00and that can also

00:40:01drain us financially

00:40:02because of the things

00:40:05that we sign up

00:40:05that we have going on

00:40:07scrolling on social media

00:40:08seeing what everybody

00:40:10else has

00:40:10thinking that

00:40:11we need to go

00:40:12and get that too

00:40:13not to mention

00:40:16when i we see

00:40:18or since we're on

00:40:19this attachment thing

00:40:20because it sounds like

00:40:21anthony has a lot

00:40:22of different things

00:40:23going on

00:40:23signed himself up

00:40:25for a lot of

00:40:25different things

00:40:26to try to run away

00:40:28from

00:40:28childhood trauma

00:40:31childhood drama

00:40:32what about

00:40:34we attach ourselves

00:40:35to people

00:40:36because we're running

00:40:38from

00:40:38what we're running

00:40:41from

00:40:42you know

00:40:43you know what

00:40:43you're running

00:40:44from

00:40:44you know

00:40:45what you can't

00:40:46deal with

00:40:46you know

00:40:47what you didn't

00:40:47like

00:40:47growing up

00:40:48you know

00:40:49what you don't

00:40:49like

00:40:50when you

00:40:50get with

00:40:52yourself

00:40:52if there's

00:40:53something that

00:40:54you don't like

00:40:55when you spend

00:40:56that time alone

00:40:56with yourself

00:40:57that's a key

00:40:58indication that

00:40:59maybe we might

00:40:59need to work

00:41:00on that

00:41:00and change

00:41:01that

00:41:01and fix

00:41:01that a little

00:41:02bit

00:41:02people

00:41:06we attach

00:41:07ourselves

00:41:08to people

00:41:08and we are

00:41:11only an average

00:41:12of the five

00:41:14closest people

00:41:15that we surround

00:41:16ourselves with

00:41:16only an average

00:41:18it didn't say

00:41:18you are like them

00:41:19just like them

00:41:21just an average

00:41:23of the five

00:41:24closest people

00:41:25that you surround

00:41:26yourself with

00:41:26that you talk

00:41:27to

00:41:27that you

00:41:27interact with

00:41:28on a daily

00:41:29basis

00:41:30think about

00:41:31your circle

00:41:31who do you

00:41:32interact with

00:41:33whether you're

00:41:33texting them

00:41:34whether you're

00:41:35talking to them

00:41:36on the phone

00:41:36whether you're

00:41:37actually interacting

00:41:38with them live

00:41:39up front in person

00:41:40you are only an

00:41:41average of the

00:41:42five closest

00:41:44people that you

00:41:45have attached

00:41:46yourself to

00:41:47so here we go

00:41:50as we go down

00:41:51this journey

00:41:51so that means

00:41:53that if you

00:41:53have attached

00:41:54yourself to

00:41:55somebody who

00:41:56has an

00:41:56impulsive

00:41:56spending habit

00:41:57ladies and

00:41:59gentlemen what

00:42:00do you think

00:42:00you're going

00:42:00to have

00:42:01association

00:42:03brings on

00:42:04participation

00:42:05show me who

00:42:06your friends

00:42:06are and I'll

00:42:07show you who

00:42:07you are

00:42:08if you are

00:42:11attached to

00:42:12somebody who

00:42:12is promiscuous

00:42:13and you might

00:42:14be in a

00:42:16nice loving

00:42:17sweet relationship

00:42:18or marriage

00:42:19and you can

00:42:20to go around

00:42:21this individual

00:42:21time after

00:42:22time and

00:42:23they continue

00:42:23to tell you

00:42:24the stories

00:42:25of what they

00:42:26have going

00:42:27on here

00:42:28and there

00:42:29everywhere

00:42:29hmm what

00:42:34do you think

00:42:34could happen

00:42:35over a period

00:42:35of time

00:42:36the enemy

00:42:37is going

00:42:38to creep

00:42:38in and

00:42:39infiltrate

00:42:40your mental

00:42:41system and

00:42:42start to

00:42:43have you

00:42:43question

00:42:44of how you

00:42:46can get

00:42:47around

00:42:47to get

00:42:50around

00:42:50hmm

00:42:53you have

00:42:56to be

00:42:57very careful

00:42:57of what

00:42:59who and

00:43:00what you

00:43:01allow to

00:43:01enter into

00:43:02your personal

00:43:02space

00:43:03your mental

00:43:05space

00:43:05what we

00:43:07program

00:43:07ourselves with

00:43:08what we

00:43:09attach

00:43:10ourselves to

00:43:11can affect

00:43:12it can

00:43:14affect us

00:43:15financially

00:43:15now

00:43:18Anthony

00:43:19did not

00:43:20get into

00:43:21any details

00:43:21as far

00:43:22as

00:43:23money

00:43:25he's

00:43:27basically

00:43:27speaking about

00:43:28the things

00:43:30he's attached

00:43:30to the

00:43:31lifestyle

00:43:31that he

00:43:31wants

00:43:32and trying

00:43:33to keep

00:43:33up with

00:43:34the Joneses

00:43:34and how

00:43:35he has

00:43:36everything

00:43:36set up

00:43:37and how

00:43:37it's wearing

00:43:37him down

00:43:38and he's

00:43:39unable to

00:43:40verbally say

00:43:41I need

00:43:42help

00:43:42this is

00:43:43too much

00:43:43what can

00:43:44I do

00:43:44is this

00:43:46what I

00:43:46really want

00:43:46he has

00:43:47no voice

00:43:48he it's

00:43:48been put

00:43:50on mute

00:43:50it's there

00:43:51he has a

00:43:51voice he

00:43:52just doesn't

00:43:52know how

00:43:52to use

00:43:52it because

00:43:53he was

00:43:53programmed

00:43:54not to

00:43:54use it

00:43:55looking at

00:43:57this from

00:43:58the outside

00:43:59I wouldn't

00:44:02be surprised

00:44:03if there's

00:44:03some financial

00:44:04issues going

00:44:05on here

00:44:05because of

00:44:06what we're

00:44:06trying to

00:44:07accomplish

00:44:07what we're

00:44:08trying to

00:44:08make people

00:44:09think about

00:44:09us

00:44:09and feel

00:44:10about us

00:44:11so if

00:44:12you

00:44:12are

00:44:13anything

00:44:14or

00:44:14experiencing

00:44:15this

00:44:15know

00:44:16somebody

00:44:16who's

00:44:16experiencing

00:44:17this

00:44:17came out

00:44:18of this

00:44:19if you

00:44:23can relate

00:44:23to this

00:44:24there's a

00:44:29way that

00:44:29we can

00:44:29fix this

00:44:30I say

00:44:38I say

00:44:38I would

00:44:39submit

00:44:40and say

00:44:41that

00:44:41we need

00:44:42to take

00:44:42a deep

00:44:43breath

00:44:43we need

00:44:43to take

00:44:44a deep

00:44:44breath

00:44:44we need

00:44:44to pause

00:44:45we need

00:44:46to back

00:44:46up

00:44:47and look

00:44:48at the

00:44:49things that

00:44:49we're

00:44:49attached

00:44:50to

00:44:50and just

00:44:50start

00:44:50unplugging

00:44:51things

00:44:52start

00:44:53unplugging

00:44:53things

00:44:53start deleting

00:44:54things

00:44:55start to

00:44:55clean

00:44:55things

00:44:56up

00:44:56a little

00:44:56bit

00:44:56and

00:44:57with

00:44:59this

00:44:59situation

00:45:00here

00:45:00based off

00:45:00of the

00:45:01childhood

00:45:01trauma

00:45:02drama

00:45:02I get

00:45:05some

00:45:06professional

00:45:06help

00:45:06tied

00:45:07into

00:45:07this

00:45:07but

00:45:07in

00:45:07the

00:45:08process

00:45:08I

00:45:09start

00:45:09to

00:45:09clean

00:45:10some

00:45:10things

00:45:10up

00:45:10Coco

00:45:12Jones

00:45:12has a

00:45:13song

00:45:13called

00:45:13sweep

00:45:14it

00:45:14up

00:45:14and

00:45:15that's

00:45:15exactly

00:45:15what I

00:45:16would

00:45:16start

00:45:16doing

00:45:16cleaning

00:45:16things

00:45:17up

00:45:17and

00:45:17sweeping

00:45:17it

00:45:18up

00:45:18because

00:45:18if

00:45:18you

00:45:18don't

00:45:20that

00:45:20nice

00:45:21wife

00:45:22and

00:45:22house

00:45:23and

00:45:23family

00:45:24situation

00:45:25that

00:45:25you

00:45:25have

00:45:25sweep

00:45:26it

00:45:26up

00:45:27somebody

00:45:27else

00:45:28might

00:45:28and

00:45:30we

00:45:30definitely

00:45:30don't

00:45:30want

00:45:31to

00:45:31go

00:45:31down

00:45:31that

00:45:31road

00:45:32let

00:45:33me

00:45:33know

00:45:33what

00:45:33you

00:45:33think

00:45:34about

00:45:34tonight's

00:45:35scenario

00:45:35here

00:45:36we're

00:45:37focusing

00:45:37on the

00:45:38mental

00:45:38realm

00:45:39but

00:45:40looking

00:45:41at this

00:45:42thing

00:45:42from a

00:45:42deeper

00:45:43level

00:45:43I

00:45:44feel

00:45:45that

00:45:45we're

00:45:46dealing

00:45:46with

00:45:46both

00:45:47mental

00:45:47financial

00:45:49we

00:45:51could

00:45:51even

00:45:51take

00:45:52it

00:45:52to

00:45:52the

00:45:53spiritual

00:45:55realm

00:45:55too

00:45:55as

00:45:56well

00:45:56but

00:45:56definitely

00:45:57the

00:45:58top

00:45:58two

00:45:59I

00:45:59would

00:45:59say

00:45:59is

00:45:59mental

00:46:00and

00:46:00financial

00:46:00here

00:46:01because

00:46:01all

00:46:02of

00:46:02these

00:46:03attachments

00:46:03definitely

00:46:04has a

00:46:04repercussion

00:46:05when it

00:46:05comes to

00:46:05the

00:46:06financial

00:46:06aspects

00:46:07yeah

00:46:12definitely

00:46:14is

00:46:14pretty

00:46:14deep

00:46:15here

00:46:15tonight

00:46:15and

00:46:16I

00:46:16don't

00:46:16know

00:46:16who

00:46:16I'm

00:46:17speaking

00:46:17to

00:46:17I'm

00:46:17only

00:46:17speaking

00:46:18from

00:46:18experience

00:46:18bits

00:46:19and

00:46:19pieces

00:46:19in

00:46:20this

00:46:20situation

00:46:21here

00:46:21either

00:46:23I've

00:46:23lived

00:46:24it

00:46:24I've

00:46:25had

00:46:25friends

00:46:26growing

00:46:26up

00:46:26who

00:46:26have

00:46:27experienced

00:46:28stuff

00:46:28like

00:46:28this

00:46:29family

00:46:30members

00:46:31all

00:46:32of

00:46:32this

00:46:32bits

00:46:33and

00:46:33pieces

00:46:34here

00:46:34I

00:46:34could

00:46:34definitely

00:46:35relate

00:46:35top

00:46:35to

00:46:35bottom

00:46:36here

00:46:36if

00:46:39you

00:46:40want

00:46:40to

00:46:40go

00:46:40ahead

00:46:40and

00:46:40chime

00:46:40in

00:46:41and

00:46:41let

00:46:41me

00:46:41know

00:46:41what

00:46:41you

00:46:41think

00:46:42about

00:46:42tonight's

00:46:42assignment

00:46:43tonight

00:46:43you

00:46:44can

00:46:45reach

00:46:45out

00:46:45to

00:46:45me

00:46:45on

00:46:46the

00:46:46official

00:46:46411

00:46:46podcast

00:46:47reading

00:46:47between

00:46:48the

00:46:48wines

00:46:48hotline

00:46:48that

00:46:49phone

00:46:49number

00:46:50is

00:46:50609-210-98

00:46:52again

00:46:53that number

00:46:53is

00:46:54609-210-98

00:46:57that is

00:46:58the official

00:46:58411

00:46:59podcast

00:47:00reading

00:47:00between

00:47:01the wines

00:47:01hotline

00:47:02and

00:47:03on this

00:47:04note

00:47:04we're

00:47:05getting

00:47:05ready

00:47:05to

00:47:05get

00:47:05into

00:47:05burning

00:47:06questions

00:47:06again

00:47:07chime

00:47:08in

00:47:08you

00:47:08can

00:47:08dm

00:47:08me

00:47:09on

00:47:09any

00:47:09of

00:47:09my

00:47:09social

00:47:10media

00:47:10platforms

00:47:11to

00:47:11let

00:47:11me

00:47:11know

00:47:12how

00:47:12you

00:47:12feel

00:47:12about

00:47:13tonight's

00:47:13burning

00:47:13question

00:47:14I am

00:47:15on

00:47:15Facebook

00:47:16Instagram

00:47:17X

00:47:18YouTube

00:47:18TikTok

00:47:19D

00:47:20Live

00:47:20Twitch

00:47:21and

00:47:21Daily

00:47:22Motion

00:47:22and

00:47:23I want

00:47:23to

00:47:23I want

00:47:23to

00:47:23say

00:47:23thank

00:47:24you

00:47:24for

00:47:24hanging

00:47:25out

00:47:25there

00:47:25with

00:47:26me

00:47:26tonight

00:47:26burning

00:47:28question

00:47:29is

00:47:30your

00:47:30mental

00:47:31health

00:47:31suffering

00:47:31because

00:47:32you're

00:47:32living

00:47:32for

00:47:33respect

00:47:33or

00:47:34because

00:47:34you've

00:47:35forgotten

00:47:35how to

00:47:35live

00:47:35for

00:47:36yourself

00:47:36take

00:47:38this

00:47:38moment

00:47:39to

00:47:39use

00:47:40this

00:47:40as

00:47:40a

00:47:42journal

00:47:42prompt

00:47:43a

00:47:44reflection

00:47:45a

00:47:45moment

00:47:45of

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00:55:23of

00:55:24spiritual

00:55:25mental

00:55:26physical

00:55:27and

00:55:27financial

00:55:28well-being

00:55:28I

00:55:30believe

00:55:30to

00:55:32start

00:55:32off

00:55:33we

00:55:33need

00:55:33to

00:55:33focus

00:55:33on

00:55:34our

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00:55:34realm

00:55:34we

00:55:35need

00:55:35to

00:55:35focus

00:55:35on

00:55:36understanding

00:55:36and

00:55:36knowing

00:55:36who

00:55:37we

00:55:37are

00:55:37from

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00:55:42personal

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00:55:43is

00:55:43my

00:55:43journey

00:55:43that

00:55:44I

00:55:44focused

00:55:45on

00:55:45to

00:55:46get

00:55:47into

00:55:47the

00:55:48debt

00:55:48free

00:55:49living

00:55:49lifestyle

00:55:50and I

00:55:51put it

00:55:51into

00:55:51a

00:55:51program

00:55:52from

00:55:54there

00:55:54I

00:55:56believe

00:55:57that

00:55:59it's

00:55:59so

00:55:59powerful

00:55:59and

00:56:00it's

00:56:00so

00:56:00crucial

00:56:00to

00:56:01get

00:56:03rid

00:56:03of

00:56:03all

00:56:03of

00:56:03the

00:56:03things

00:56:04that

00:56:04we

00:56:04were

00:56:04programmed

00:56:05that

00:56:05no

00:56:05longer

00:56:05serves

00:56:06us

00:56:06today

00:56:06like

00:56:07what

00:56:07we're

00:56:08speaking

00:56:08about

00:56:08here

00:56:08tonight

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00:56:10out

00:56:10our

00:56:10mental

00:56:10space

00:56:11reprogramming

00:56:12ourselves

00:56:13because

00:56:14listen

00:56:14if you

00:56:15don't

00:56:15program

00:56:16your

00:56:16mind

00:56:16you're

00:56:17going to

00:56:17you're

00:56:17basically

00:56:18setting

00:56:18yourself up

00:56:19for somebody

00:56:19else to

00:56:20program

00:56:20it

00:56:20so

00:56:21what

00:56:23makes

00:56:24more

00:56:24sense

00:56:24than you

00:56:24programming

00:56:25your

00:56:25own

00:56:26mind

00:56:26programming

00:56:27your

00:56:27own

00:56:27life

00:56:28rather

00:56:28than

00:56:28letting

00:56:29somebody

00:56:29else

00:56:29do

00:56:30it

00:56:30after

00:56:34we

00:56:35focus

00:56:35on

00:56:35the

00:56:35spiritual

00:56:36and

00:56:36we

00:56:37get

00:56:37our

00:56:37mental

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00:56:38and

00:56:38we

00:56:38discard

00:56:39some

00:56:39of

00:56:39the

00:56:40things

00:56:40that

00:56:40no

00:56:40longer

00:56:40serve

00:56:41us

00:56:41we

00:56:42stop

00:56:42living

00:56:42in

00:56:43lack

00:56:44we

00:56:44stop

00:56:44living

00:56:45in

00:56:45negativity

00:56:46we

00:56:47stop

00:56:48living

00:56:48in

00:56:48scarcity

00:56:49we

00:56:50stop

00:56:50thinking

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00:56:50a

00:56:51poor

00:56:51mentality

00:56:51we

00:56:52can

00:56:52focus

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00:56:53move

00:56:54towards

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00:56:55lifestyle

00:56:55of

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00:56:59we

00:57:00step

00:57:01into

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00:57:01physical

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00:57:03start

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00:57:03show

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00:57:06treat

00:57:06ourselves

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00:57:08others

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00:57:11up in

00:57:11the world

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00:57:14differently

00:57:14take

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00:57:17give

00:57:19differently

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00:57:20replenish

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00:57:25focus

00:57:25on

00:57:26that

00:57:26then

00:57:27we

00:57:27start

00:57:27to

00:57:27build

00:57:28wealth

00:57:28then

00:57:30we

00:57:30can

00:57:30see

00:57:30a

00:57:31big

00:57:31difference

00:57:31from

00:57:32the

00:57:32financial

00:57:32aspect

00:57:33but

00:57:34I

00:57:34truly

00:57:35believe

00:57:35that

00:57:35everything

00:57:35starts

00:57:36with

00:57:36self

00:57:36and

00:57:38there's

00:57:39a

00:57:39journey

00:57:39to

00:57:39this

00:57:40process

00:57:40here

00:57:40and

00:57:43I

00:57:43have

00:57:44it

00:57:44all

00:57:44lined

00:57:45out

00:57:48and

00:57:48I

00:57:48have

00:57:48it

00:57:48all

00:57:49set

00:57:49up

00:57:49in

00:57:50a

00:57:50program

00:57:50focused

00:57:52on

00:57:52debt

00:57:52free

00:57:52living

00:57:53so

00:57:53if

00:57:53you

00:57:53want

00:57:54to

00:57:54find

00:57:54out

00:57:54more

00:57:54about

00:57:54that

00:57:55head

00:57:55on

00:57:55over

00:57:55laryngaines

00:57:56dot

00:57:56com

00:57:56again

00:57:57you

00:57:57can

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00:57:58up

00:57:58for

00:57:58my

00:57:58free

00:57:5915

00:57:59minute

00:58:00consultation

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00:58:02apply

00:58:05to see

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00:58:05qualify

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00:58:06this

00:58:07journey

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00:58:08for

00:58:08everybody

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00:58:09had a

00:58:09conversation

00:58:10yesterday

00:58:11and I

00:58:12had a

00:58:12conversation

00:58:13again

00:58:13today

00:58:13I

00:58:16believe

00:58:16personally

00:58:17that this

00:58:18program

00:58:18is for

00:58:18people

00:58:19who

00:58:19has

00:58:20absolutely

00:58:20hit rock

00:58:21bottom

00:58:21and have

00:58:22had

00:58:22enough

00:58:22they've

00:58:24had

00:58:24enough

00:58:24of

00:58:24robbing

00:58:25Peter

00:58:25to

00:58:25pay

00:58:26Paul

00:58:26they've

00:58:26had

00:58:26enough

00:58:27of

00:58:27being

00:58:28stuck

00:58:28on

00:58:28a

00:58:28hamster

00:58:29wheel

00:58:29they've

00:58:30had

00:58:30enough

00:58:31of

00:58:31the

00:58:31merry-go-round

00:58:32and round

00:58:33and they're

00:58:34just done

00:58:34going to

00:58:35do it

00:58:35anymore

00:58:36can't

00:58:38do it

00:58:38anymore

00:58:38won't

00:58:39do it

00:58:39anymore

00:58:39to the

00:58:40fact

00:58:40that

00:58:40you

00:58:41were

00:58:41just

00:58:41going

00:58:41to

00:58:41grind

00:58:42so

00:58:42hard

00:58:42to

00:58:42make

00:58:43a

00:58:43difference

00:58:43because

00:58:43you

00:58:44know

00:58:44that

00:58:45this

00:58:46is

00:58:46it

00:58:46if

00:58:48I

00:58:48continue

00:58:48to go

00:58:49down

00:58:49this

00:58:49path

00:58:49it

00:58:50is

00:58:50going

00:58:50to

00:58:51be

00:58:51disastrous

00:58:51and

00:58:52I

00:58:53would

00:58:54be

00:58:54horrified

00:58:56I

00:58:56would

00:58:56be

00:58:56mortified

00:58:57by

00:58:58what

00:58:58the

00:58:59outcome

00:58:59would

00:58:59be

00:58:59those

00:59:00are

00:59:00the

00:59:00people

00:59:01who

00:59:01benefit

00:59:01most

00:59:02from

00:59:02this

00:59:02if

00:59:03you

00:59:04are

00:59:04not

00:59:04done

00:59:04playing

00:59:05games

00:59:05if

00:59:07you

00:59:07are

00:59:07still

00:59:07robbing

00:59:08Peter

00:59:09to

00:59:09pay

00:59:09Paul

00:59:09and

00:59:10you

00:59:10might

00:59:10find

00:59:10joy

00:59:10out

00:59:11of

00:59:11it

00:59:11you're

00:59:12looking

00:59:12for

00:59:12the

00:59:12next

00:59:13best

00:59:13breakthrough

00:59:14of

00:59:15what

00:59:15you

00:59:15can

00:59:15do

00:59:15to

00:59:16get

00:59:16how

00:59:17to

00:59:17make

00:59:17things

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00:59:18chasing

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00:59:19bag

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00:59:19this

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00:59:20that

00:59:20this

00:59:21is

00:59:21not

00:59:22for

00:59:22you

00:59:22it's

00:59:24only

00:59:24for

00:59:25a

00:59:25few

00:59:25select

00:59:26individuals

00:59:26and

00:59:27I

00:59:27understand

00:59:28that

00:59:28as

00:59:28I

00:59:29started

00:59:29this

00:59:29journey

00:59:30that

00:59:31there

00:59:31might

00:59:34there

00:59:34might

00:59:34be

00:59:34some

00:59:34lost

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00:59:35might

00:59:35be

00:59:35some

00:59:35people

00:59:36who

00:59:36drop

00:59:36off

00:59:36there

00:59:37might

00:59:37be

00:59:37some

00:59:37people

00:59:37who

00:59:38can't

00:59:38hang

00:59:39and

00:59:41that's

00:59:41okay

00:59:41because

00:59:42this

00:59:42is

00:59:43not

00:59:43for

00:59:43everybody

00:59:43when

00:59:47we

00:59:47say

00:59:47a

00:59:47different

00:59:49group

00:59:50like

00:59:51I

00:59:51spoke

00:59:51about

00:59:51being

00:59:52different

00:59:52think

00:59:53of

00:59:53all

00:59:53the

00:59:53possibilities

00:59:54and

00:59:54how

00:59:54different

00:59:55your

00:59:55life

00:59:55can

00:59:55be

00:59:56because

00:59:56you

00:59:56want

00:59:56to

00:59:56be

00:59:57different

00:59:57those

00:59:58are

00:59:58the

00:59:58folks

00:59:59I'm

00:59:59speaking

00:59:59about

01:00:00people

01:00:02who

01:00:02don't

01:00:03want

01:00:03do

01:00:03the

01:00:03same

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01:00:09know

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01:00:46know

01:00:46it

01:00:46and

01:00:47I

01:00:47have

01:00:47to

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01:00:48to

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01:00:49words

01:00:50into

01:00:50my

01:00:50situation

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01:00:51my

01:00:51life

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01:00:52have

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01:01:15a

01:01:15little

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01:01:20hard

01:01:20today

01:01:20I'm

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01:01:21what

01:01:21I need

01:01:21to

01:01:21do

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01:01:24a

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01:01:25want

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01:01:25to

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01:01:26have

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01:01:43to

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01:01:49life

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01:01:54for

01:01:54example

01:01:55I'm

01:01:55going to

01:01:55break

01:01:55it

01:01:55down

01:01:56if

01:01:56you're

01:01:56in

01:01:57your

01:01:57twenties

01:01:57the

01:01:59choices

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01:02:00experiences

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01:02:02shape

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01:02:05again

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01:02:06thirties

01:02:06the

01:02:07choices

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01:02:07decisions

01:02:08the

01:02:08actions

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01:02:12whether

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01:02:15forties

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01:02:17people

01:02:18who

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01:02:18like

01:02:18me

01:02:18if

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01:02:19forties

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01:02:22hustle

01:02:22however

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01:02:23flow

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01:02:26whether

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01:02:26out

01:02:27excuse

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