முடிவுகள் எடுக்க தயங்கும் வயதா 40 + ? | Dr. Poorna Chandrika | HTT - video Dailymotion

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முடிவுகள் எடுக்க தயங்கும் வயதா 40 + ? | Dr. Poorna Chandrika | HTT

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00:00 You must have seen many times, 5-6 people in the park, enjoying and smiling.

00:05 And exercise.

00:06 In the marathons, when you see good aged people with good fitness,

00:10 with good running speed,

00:13 you feel like, "Oh, it's okay, we should also be that age."

00:17 So, we should go to the age where we feel this desire.

00:22 Likewise, the elders in our home should also have that kind of

00:25 beautiful, good physical and mental health.

00:30 It's our duty.

00:31 Next is an important thing for us women.

00:44 Our career, our identity, who we are.

00:49 We look back at ourselves at the age of 40,

00:53 we wonder what we have done, what we are doing, what we are going to do.

00:59 A father is a big identity for all women.

01:04 Most of the time.

01:06 A mother likes her father, a mother likes her husband.

01:10 How would a father like that have brought us up?

01:13 Let's leave the current generation.

01:15 It's our time.

01:16 Because, when it comes to women who are 40 or 50 years old,

01:19 we will study how to become like that.

01:22 At the same time, when we have to do something,

01:27 we say "No".

01:28 I see so many women,

01:30 I see women in the medical field.

01:32 When I ask them, "Why didn't you do this post?"

01:35 "No, no, I got married at that time, I had a child.

01:39 I couldn't see that post, so I didn't take it, so I said no."

01:44 So, I still say, "No" even if I get a big promotion in this field.

01:52 There are so many women in this field.

01:54 That sacrifice, we are standing there after overcoming all that.

01:58 There are so many sacrifices in that travel.

02:03 So many mental problems.

02:05 Sometimes, my husband has gone somewhere for a promotion.

02:07 I have to go with him, leave that job and travel with him.

02:12 I have traveled with my husband and now I am standing here.

02:15 Then, a life that is in demand of the wishes of the father and mother.

02:19 If that life is well, I will be happy.

02:21 Sometimes, it is not well.

02:23 Unstable addiction.

02:25 That is also a part of the addiction.

02:27 Many people say that you have a husband and wife relationship.

02:29 You have some sort of a desire.

02:31 There are some women like that.

02:33 There are many women who are in this life for the sake of their child.

02:37 When I ask them, "What do you say to them?"

02:41 When I ask them, "Who am I?"

02:43 When I look back, I wonder why sometimes I feel like that.

02:46 Why don't they take a decision?

02:48 I know what the problem is.

02:50 I know that this is the solution.

02:52 Why don't they take a decision?

02:54 Why are you still in that life?

02:56 I have read and heard this somewhere.

03:00 All the women have grown up.

03:04 A beautiful bird that is going to fly with its wings spread wide.

03:08 Cutting, cutting, cutting, cutting, cutting the wings.

03:12 The wings are not able to spread.

03:14 There is a desire to spread.

03:16 There is a desire to spread.

03:18 There is a barrier.

03:20 Even if the wings are cut,

03:22 the bird has to fly.

03:24 It takes time.

03:26 But at that age,

03:28 at the age of 40,

03:30 we have tried so much.

03:32 We have tried everything.

03:34 What is there to do more than this?

03:36 We have tried.

03:38 This marriage is our

03:40 body, soul, and everything.

03:42 We have tried.

03:44 We cannot do it.

03:46 It is time to take a decision.

03:48 It is time to make a decision.

03:50 Let's look at another example.

03:52 When we go to school,

03:54 they ask, "Nirmala Amma, Vimala Amma."

03:56 No one knows our name.

03:58 We know that we are the mother of this child.

04:00 When we go to school,

04:02 even the teachers didn't have the opportunity to know our name.

04:04 They don't know our name.

04:06 They don't know our name.

04:08 They don't know our name.

04:10 They see us as a symbol of our child.

04:12 We grow up as their mother.

04:14 We grow up as their mother.

04:16 When we grow up,

04:18 we don't have a place to go to school.

04:20 What do we do next?

04:22 Another example is

04:24 my co-worker.

04:26 When I was talking to many people,

04:28 he said,

04:30 "I cannot take these decisions

04:32 because of some things that I was brought up with.

04:34 I cannot take these decisions because of some things that I was brought up with.

04:36 When I was brought up,

04:38 I was in the first rank of my class.

04:40 When I was in the first rank,

04:42 I had to stand outside my house

04:44 until 3 in the morning.

04:46 I had to stand outside my house

04:48 because I felt bad about it."

04:50 I asked him,

04:52 "How is he now?"

04:54 He said, "He is still in the first rank.

04:56 He still says that I am not doing the right thing.

04:58 But I am doing this

05:00 for my satisfaction."

05:02 So, we have to go through

05:04 many experiences and feelings

05:06 and stand up now.

05:08 and stand up now.

05:10 I like this.

05:12 I like this job.

05:14 You may not like it.

05:16 Don't compare me with others.

05:18 I am going to take a decision now.

05:20 Let it be now.

05:22 You may feel like you are leaving the marriage

05:24 because you don't like the marriage life.

05:26 I would have had a career break.

05:28 Let it be a decision to start the career again.

05:30 Let it be a decision to start the career again.

05:32 There will be some opposition in everything.

05:34 You have to take it as a decision

05:36 that can be taken beyond the opposition.

05:38 Don't feel like you are old.

05:40 Don't feel like you are old.

05:42 Show your youth again.

05:44 Because it is always mental age.

05:46 Even though my biological age is this much,

05:48 they say, "I feel young."

05:50 They say, "I feel young."

05:52 Thank you.

05:54 The position we are going to see today

05:56 is a very important position.

05:58 Everyone can say,

06:00 "Yes, it is true."

06:02 "Yes, it is true."

06:04 "Yes, it is true."

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