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00:00Mohit Bajpayee comes up with the next and the last question for the evening.
00:13And he's saying, Namaste, sir.
00:19I want to try for India and the defense services, but my family and friends scare me.
00:28They say, when you can easily get a good and safe job in Delhi or Bangalore, why do you
00:36want to risk your life and become a soldier?
00:43What will you get?
00:45So how do I reply to them?
00:48Mohit Bajpayee.
00:52Mohit, you have to go to the fundamentals and when I say you have to go to the fundamentals,
01:07I'm not trying to assure you that you will be able to convince those who are trying to
01:13scare you away from the life of a soldier.
01:20No argument is so absolutely persuasive that it can move even a die-hard person committed
01:37to falseness, but it is for your own understanding that you must know the fundamentals.
01:49Who are you and what do you live for?
01:56That's the question to be asked.
02:00When those around you say that you can have a nice, cozy, comfortable job in Delhi or Bangalore,
02:07they are basing their argument upon a certain view of the self.
02:16They think of the self as entirely physical, as entirely bodily and they think therefore
02:24that the purpose of life is physical, carnal gratification.
02:34These two things go together.
02:35When you will say that you are fundamentally just the body, then you will have to say in
02:49the next breath that the purpose of your life is just the gratification of the body.
03:00So far so good.
03:03But now this raises an important question, what do you get by defining yourself as the body?
03:12Do you get love?
03:13Can the body really love?
03:15Does the body know love?
03:20The body is just a biological equipment.
03:28As a machine brought to the current state by the processes of evolution.
03:40All that you call as the nectar of life relates to your consciousness, not really your body.
03:57Equally, all that which you call as your deepest suffering, again relates to your consciousness, not to your body.
04:10Think of the highest that you have ever attained in life.
04:19Was it really bodily?
04:20Was it really bodily?
04:22I hope the answer is no.
04:24Else it would mean that you probably haven't been living a very deep or rich life.
04:33Equally think of the deepest suffering you have ever experienced.
04:40Is it bodily?
04:41Chances are your answer will be no.
04:47Your joys, your elations are mental and so is your suffering.
04:53That which you call as mental does not really relate to your brain.
04:59What relates to your consciousness.
05:01Are you getting it?
05:04Therefore you get nothing by defining yourself incorrectly as merely a body out in this world
05:13to gratify itself through consumption.
05:18This definition is not only incorrect but actively harmful to you.
05:28You will find going by this definition that you are able to do nothing about your deep sufferings.
05:40Going by your definition of yourself as the body, you will find that you are not able to pursue
05:50any high joy.
05:54Because alleviation of suffering as well as attainment of joy are not things that can happen in a physical
06:06way.
06:07Are you getting it?
06:10So you are unnecessarily condemning yourself to a wasted life by defining yourself incorrectly.
06:17Are you getting it?
06:24The purpose of life therefore has to be the sublimation of consciousness.
06:32Our consciousness is an incomplete and suffering consciousness.
06:39Our consciousness is something in bondage that is continuously crying out for liberation.
06:48And that's the purpose of life.
06:53If that is the purpose of life, how should you choose a job or vocation for yourself?
07:01Should you choose a job going just by the kind of money it offers?
07:07Or the kind of place, geographical location you would be finding yourself at?
07:18Or should you consider what that job will give to you as a man of consciousness?
07:28Are you getting it?
07:32The way you define yourself completely changes your choices in life.
07:41Define yourself as just a body and you will find that you are choosing one particular job.
07:47Define yourself as just a body and you will find that you are choosing one particular place
07:53person to be with or marry.
08:02And realize yourself as consciousness and you will find that your choices have totally changed.
08:13So you need to have a correct basis for choice.
08:17If the basis for choice is correct then life will be correct otherwise you will be leading
08:25a very false life.
08:27And that's all that you have.
08:28One opportunity to live.
08:31If you squander it then what do we have to talk about?
08:39So I do not really know why you want to be a soldier.
08:47But I can probably see why those around you want you to have a comfortable and conventional
08:55job in Delhi or Bangalore or some other metro or abroad.
09:03They want you to have all the safety and security that a job can give you.
09:12But how safe and secure can the body be?
09:18You know what your body is continuously inching towards.
09:24What's the point in trying to secure something that is destined to disintegrate?
09:35Or isn't it better to make the best use of that thing before it disintegrates, tell me.
09:48You have a perishable item with you.
09:52It could be a food item or it could be some other consumable stuff.
10:00What do you want to do with it?
10:01Secure it?
10:03Probably you can secure it but for how long?
10:06It has come with an expiry date like all perishables.
10:14Maybe you can secure it for one more day.
10:17But then the day after that you will have to throw it away because it would have reached
10:21its expiry date.
10:23What's the point in continuously trying to secure it?
10:27Why don't you rather make use of it?
10:32That's the body.
10:33A perishable thing that has been given to you for three days.
10:38Don't secure it, it will last two days.
10:40Secure it, it will last a maximum of three days.
10:45Don't you rather want to use the body for your benefit?
10:49Remember you cannot say you want to use the body for your benefit if you say that you are
10:53the body.
10:55To say that you can use the body for your benefit, first of all you will have to acknowledge difference
11:01or separation between you and the body.
11:04Unless you are separate from the body, how can you use the body?
11:07I can use this pen, I can use this mic because I am not the mic.
11:13If I am the mic, how will the mic use itself?
11:17So to say that you can make best use of your life, you first of all have to understand that
11:26you are not the entity who lives.
11:29Who lives?
11:30The body lives.
11:31The body takes birth, the body dies.
11:35You are someone else.
11:37You are someone else related to the body.
11:41Probably contained in the body.
11:45Probably welded to the body in a very inexorable way.
11:52But surely there is some difference between you and the body.
11:58You have very definite objectives and your objective is liberation.
12:02The body has no such objective.
12:05Your ways and the ways of the body are dimensionally different.
12:10Therefore, what relationship can you have with the body?
12:14Your relationship with the body must be to put the body to the optimum use, best use before
12:20it reaches its expiry date.
12:25Are you getting it?
12:27Therefore, the argument that your dear ones are putting forward are very insubstantial.
12:33They are saying, be safe, be secure, gratify yourself.
12:37It doesn't make much sense.
12:41Instead of securing this perishable thing called body, make the best use of it.
12:48It is in this light that you must search for a job.
12:53Now you say you want to become a soldier.
12:55Why do you want to become a soldier?
12:59If you want to become a soldier because it somehow fascinates you or it is fashionable in the part
13:06you come from or it somehow feeds your ego and makes you feel more manly, then the basis
13:19of your choice is not really very different from that of your parents or near ones.
13:28Your parents or near ones are telling you, you are just the body.
13:33You do not agree with them and you are saying, no, I am not the body.
13:38Instead, I am the subtle body, the ego and therefore I want to be a soldier.
13:45If that is the reason you want to be a soldier, then there is not much difference between you
13:53and those you are contesting.
13:58They are asserting you are the gross body and you are asserting that you are the subtle body.
14:05Not much difference.
14:07Instead, if you want to become a soldier because you want to uphold something high, something
14:16worthy, something sublime, then it is a different matter altogether.
14:22If you want to become India's soldier because you understand the soul of India and you think
14:28that the soul of India is worth defending, then it is auspicious that you are thinking of becoming
14:37a soldier.
14:39Otherwise not.
14:43It is not really the action that counts.
14:47One has to look at the intention.
14:49One has to look at the constitution of the actor.
14:54What makes you inclined towards the defense services?
15:00What exactly would you be defending?
15:03If you are defending just a piece of land or your own self-worth or ego, then there is
15:10not much in this choice.
15:14But if you know the great principles that India stands for, if you understand their worth,
15:24and if you realize that those principles are worth defending, that those principles are
15:29worth laying down your life for, then I would wholeheartedly recommend to you that you should
15:36definitely become a soldier.
15:39Right?

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