- 7/5/2025
Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 1
#PrimeUSTV
🎞 Please join
https://t.me/CinemaSeriesUSFilm
#PrimeUSTV
🎞 Please join
https://t.me/CinemaSeriesUSFilm
Category
😹
FunTranscript
00:00The first couple travelling to open house this year are Tanith and Mark from West Yorkshire.
00:29We met in the most lovely little pub, the Red Lion.
00:34Yeah, like a typical old man's pub where you would not expect to meet anybody in there.
00:38The only attractive looking lady I've ever seen in there to be honest.
00:41He took his chance, he got it, he got it.
00:46This is definitely the best relationship I've had.
00:49I like Tan's smile.
00:50Aw, it's not the evening bush.
00:52She's just a fun personality, she's always bubbly and...
00:56Aw, you softy.
00:58They share a house, a chihuahua and big plans.
01:03Me and Mark, we are like family now and we are thinking about, you know, the future with kids and that kind of stuff too.
01:12Potentially a ring.
01:14But like all relationships, this one has its ups and downs.
01:19And some old habits are hard to shake.
01:22I tend to have a bit of one red eye.
01:25I've always wanted to just do what I want to do when I want to do it and sometimes when you find yourself in relationships you feel a bit trapped.
01:36I think I've always felt very much trapped.
01:39So today, Tanith and Mark are setting out to discover whether an open relationship could be right for them.
01:45Before this relationship I've never thought of non-monogamy.
01:48Yeah, there's always that stigma around that and, you know, it's quite taboo for someone to even think about it.
01:54Two friends, two lovers, but you're still kind of free.
02:01Can we hear?
02:04That's insane!
02:06Oh my God!
02:08You ready?
02:10I'm ready.
02:18Here to help the guests on their journey are the open house residents, who are experienced in the extraordinary world of non-monogamy.
02:26actually being non-monogamous is more natural to our human nature than being monogamous
02:34the open lifestyle for me is just about embracing your own sexuality and who you are as a person
02:43it's a very empowering feeling
02:45I like men I like to have more than one like three five sometimes
02:54you see the the orgasm of the men really turn me on
02:59we offer new couples some fun and a bit of experience
03:06I'm a cracking pair of tits
03:07how's it going honey
03:22he's so fit anyone who looks like a drummer
03:31Markentown is completely my type I love a man with strong hair as you can tell by the facial hair
03:38I think fancy is too weak a word I think we absolutely love their vibe
03:44I love a guy with long hair to give me surfer vibes and she would just a little pocket of energy absolutely brilliant impression
04:03very nice welcome in
04:08so the worst case scenario would be that you would risk your relationship
04:16and yeah of course it would be devastating
04:19hello welcome I'm Effie nice to meet you
04:24Guiding all new arrivals on their journey is non-monogamy coach Effie Blue
04:34I think it's important to have a retreat like this
04:36because it provides a space that you don't have anywhere else
04:40you can play
04:42you can connect
04:43you can explore
04:45you can experiment
04:46and you have a support network around you to take care of you
04:49to make sure that your experience is the right one for you
04:52I'm looking forward to challenging people to get out of their comfort zone
04:57and really explore non-monogamy
05:03so how long have you been together
05:05two and a half years
05:06two and a half years
05:07okay how is it going
05:08like we've had a we had a turbulent start
05:11okay
05:11but
05:12I think there were insecurities and trust issues
05:14you know at the very beginning
05:16and then I ended up cheating
05:19okay
05:21and done
05:22caught in vigilance
05:23caught me
05:23I think
05:25we've been together
05:27I think
05:28a year
05:29yeah just like
05:31tore my world apart
05:32it was really hard
05:33feeling it
05:34feeling we were in a good place
05:35and it's all to be shattered I guess
05:38and we had it like
05:40I think took time for ourselves
05:42and I realized in that time
05:44like he was worth
05:47worth it
05:48Dan how are you feeling
05:51it's like it's just a lot of emotion isn't it
05:53it's all right
05:54last year
05:54it's all right
05:55we're good
05:55we're good
05:56okay
05:59and was there cheating in your previous relationships
06:01so you have like a history of cheating
06:02I've always had a tendency to be
06:05a bit unfairful in the past
06:10and what were you getting out of those cheating experiences
06:14I guess it's the feeling of feeling like you wanted or somebody is attracted to you
06:18it's probably like not feeling good within yourself
06:21so you're looking at getting that through other people
06:24maybe maybe it was sent from childhood or there was some some insecurities within myself
06:28maybe I didn't feel like we're good enough and I was seeking attention elsewhere
06:32yeah there's lots of different reasons why people do what they do
06:37so how much of sort of your history of infidelity has impacted your decision
06:43to potentially open up your relationship
06:45so I think I was the one that brought it up
06:48okay
06:48yeah
06:49I knew I wanted to be with Mark and I thought maybe this is the right path
06:53that we should go down and explore
06:55I think it's just I think for me we're just
06:58monogamy how we're just failing at relationships
07:01I couldn't wish to make a better person than Tan
07:03you know she's just a great human you know
07:06not nothing negative about her you know really good energy and I don't want to lose that person
07:12yeah
07:14so do you have something in mind that you want to explore
07:17so we thought about just bringing like a woman in and then going separately
07:26okay
07:27we have thought about opening up our relationship separately obviously we've had trust issues in the
07:32past and I think playing separate would build that extra level of trust and in our relationship
07:40if we do this separately I think it could build our trust
07:44because you you've gone through you've gone through accepting that someone's gone off somewhere
07:50you you're aware that it's consensual and you both consented to it and there's no dishonesty or deceit
07:57okay so this is about trust right yeah you're going to lean into that a lot
08:02so how about we create two separate socials for you
08:07where you get to socialize connect with people
08:09um if you want to escalate things we have beautiful spaces for you to go and do whatever
08:14you want to do with the little bit of separation a little bit of independence from one another to
08:19to have your own experiences with other people you're going to you're going to come back here
08:23tomorrow and we're going to unpack it together we're normally joined at the hip-hop yeah okay
08:29well we're here to challenge you and help you understand yeah that's what we're here for you
08:34know we're just to try new things i'm excited for you um have a great time don't forget to have fun
08:40and i'll see you tomorrow yes you tomorrow beautiful yeah yeah let yourself out thank you
08:48trust is key to the success of their exercise tonight they will be going apart separately
08:53and socializing and potentially connecting and escalating things with somebody oh my god
08:59and in those moments they're going to have to lean back on trust to have a good time
09:04are you nervous about anything i'm nervous about it it's about throwing in deep end isn't it you know
09:09i mean that's what you boost me up single scenarios about each other it's completely new to me and mark
09:15so i guess it's a big step and something that would be difficult for me in this is definitely
09:20if one of us did something and the other didn't you know i think that would be the hardest thing
09:33next to arrive at this unique retreat are chloe and paul from liverpool and where are we getting
09:38led to it's like the start of a scary movie where everything's all well so me and chloe are the same
09:44i mean we're longer here we do go like bread and butter yeah
09:48yeah we met at six one college didn't we yeah we've been together for nearly 10 years now
09:54and married for three like we're like two best mates going on holiday do you know what i mean
09:59that's what it's like
10:05soulmates from the start chloe and paul have always been each other's one and only paul was actually my
10:12first relationship i hadn't been with anyone else before paul like he was literally my first everything
10:19yeah we've only slept with each other yeah so it is a fact that we have missed out on some experiences
10:26i just feel like there's this like part of me that i kind of haven't unlocked yet
10:31i think we'll find out if we're good kisses or no yeah when i end up like clashing teeth and
10:50everyone is going is this not how you do it i feel a bit nervous be sad we'll be all right there's
10:58just that little bit of nervousness that's what makes it all worth it yeah imagine you were numb
11:02to it you'd be like oh like what's the point i think chloe might be a little bit more nervous than
11:08me but i'm self-confident i've always felt secure i'm not gonna lie i'm excited so we're opening up our
11:14relationship and he's like my best friends it's not just my husband i think that's what makes me
11:19nervous a lot of things could go wrong oh my god
11:33tanis and mark are preparing for a big night tonight they'll be going to different socials
11:40meals mark will be having fireside drinks with the retreat's female residents
11:52and tanis will attend a cocktail party where she will get to meet some of the residents men
12:02don't worry you're not being there yeah i think that's the big thing for me is you're not actually
12:06being there it's a big thing doing it apart so i guess you never know until you're in there
12:16yeah beautiful my game plan tonight is is to relax and and just go and enjoy it just want to go out
12:23there and have fun here to collect mark for his soiree is resident marie i do this uh sexy
12:34lifestyle since yeah seven years now sex it's healthy so i do a lot of healthy stuff
12:48hello how are you guys i am here to collect
12:51so now is that okay take good care of everything yes we will oh god see you later see you later
12:58it's gonna be fun have fun too yeah enjoy yourself see you soon bye love you bye
13:21having only ever been intimate with one another childhood sweethearts chloe and paul are arriving at the
13:30retreat to explore opening up their relationship look at me with my backpack it's like my first day in
13:38first day in school or something hey sounds any what's that accent are you okay hi this is chloe
13:46nice to meet you lovely to meet you i think they've got a good energy
13:52i would spend some more time with them she's very cute she's got this beautiful kind of innocent
14:04cute smile and i like that a lot i think worst case scenario for me she runs off into the sunset with
14:19someone else that's kind of a worst case scenario for me too and you prefer it with other women
14:31hello guys hi i'm ethy so i want to hear from you what brings you here today like over the last two
14:37years during sex we've opened up a lot more and obviously our sex life improved and then it comes to a
14:42point where we're like chloe started opening up about her like being like curious how long this idea
14:49of by curiosity has been with you it's been quite a few years i did like have the thoughts when i was
14:57younger i think about it all the time growing up it was said all the time like oh girls who are
15:04bisexual like bisexual are greedy some family members i've spoke to they're really supportive
15:10but a few of them i've tried speaking to and they just like blow it off i think if i ever met paul
15:18i might not have been as open about it like obviously now like i just need to
15:26try it and then i'll know who i am as a person
15:32okay so i want to hear from you what what normal agony might look like like for me like i'm excited
15:39like to explore a woman's body but like for paul to also be exploring the same person as me
15:51like my amazing reaction was like oh that's cool that like i've like i've hit the jackpot and my
15:56wife like wants to like experiment it's like digging for treasure together
16:00yeah and clearly did you ever consider exploring women on your own i think it'd be more like
16:06bisexual than say like like lesbian tendencies yeah yeah you might enjoy it with me and the girl yeah
16:12not just maybe not on your own with the girl you guys are a wonderful couple clearly love each other
16:18you're very close um one of the dynamics i notice is that sometimes you talk for chloe ball i apologize it's
16:26okay there's nothing to apologize i just want to explore it i'm confident you know what i mean and
16:30chloe if she like isn't confident a situation then i'll help her out to find the words but i don't
16:36necessarily mean to like if she's got something to say i don't mean to get in first so you are here
16:42to explore normal agony you have no experience and you're like we want to do this thing let's explore
16:46i'm going to start you off lightly tonight there's a social if you can at some point
16:54for a short period of time separate go the opposite way yeah chat chat chat yeah you know look for
17:01connections right yeah get back together and maybe invite somebody and just have that that sort of
17:07first experience do you think you can do that yeah yeah yeah sounds like a plan so this is really
17:14about you just feeling your way around yes yeah i can't wait it's going to be magical can't wait yeah
17:20does that feel good yeah just ready ready to go beautiful beautiful okay go out there have fun
17:26and i'll look forward to speaking to you guys more awesome yeah thanks very much you're very welcome
17:30thank you you're welcome let's go
17:37paul and chloe's relationship is almost old-fashioned they've met really young and they really haven't had
17:41any chance to sow their wild oats this is it now like what we came for yeah the encouragement today
17:50is for her to socialize separately without paul being there talking for her it'll be interesting
17:54to see how well she does oh my god i'm excited but i'm nervous because i've only ever been with paul like
18:04but i just feel like there's this like part of me that i kind of haven't unlocked you but a lot of
18:10things could go wrong ladies first i know they're sad of course i'm excited to see chloe with another
18:17woman i'll be there to support her but really i'm going to have fun too do you know what i mean
18:21some confidence but every boxer has a plan until they get in the ring and get punched in the face
18:26can't wait to see what's in store yeah at the retreat's camping area mark joins the ladies who
18:40are eager to make his acquaintance it's all right by the fire isn't it yeah a little bit weird at first
18:46you know it's just all a little bit nerve-wracking mark i can't remember your girlfriend wife are you
18:53married it's my girlfriend girlfriend what's her name she's called tanith how are you feeling not
18:59having her with you is that a little bit weird we'll look after you yeah i can show you well
19:09escorting tanith to her social is aaron one of the retreat's single males i think i've always been
19:16the more sexual person in a relationship i love sex i've always loved sex
19:21hello hello are you okay are you ready yeah i think so
19:33we're gonna go and have a really fun pie tanith is attending a cocktail party
19:39laid on just for her i'm feeling nervous i guess it's gonna be a bit like well there's a lot of
19:44people to talk to oh yeah just gonna take it as it comes really and go in there with an open mind
19:51it's gonna be a bit weird and strange without him yeah cheers everyone cheers everybody
20:12so how long have you been together two and a half years now it's the first time being apart there is
20:17no like my little wingman more than i think but we are each other's person like we're best mates
20:22like you know just like soul mates and stuff obviously this is the first little trend in the
20:27waters with everything and then yeah
20:29this is a good service efficient efficient service how old are you now mark don't mind me asking
20:43uh 34 i'm 40. okay you look great thank you what's your secret my secret i'm just moisturizing
20:57but you look incredible for 40 man oh thanks thank you he was really easy going and down to earth
21:03and i think that's what i found really attractive about him as well we just seemed like just
21:08such a genuine person with mark proving to be a hit the ladies are keen to move things on
21:16we dare you to
21:19i feel like he's just one of them guys that you think yeah you're good looking and then the more
21:38you spend time with him you're like you're sexy as
21:40fun i'm having a great time tonight yeah i'm excited i like meeting new people ultimately all i
21:52want out of this experience is is for us both to just have fun and enjoy it
22:07yang
22:10chloe and paul are preparing for their social
22:20tonight they'll be attending an 80s themed party
22:24with the aim of potentially meeting a female resident for their very first threesome
22:30just thinking of it it makes me nervous
22:35I think the nerves are starting to settle in a bit.
22:38If I'm not comfortable, then it's just going to be anxiety for me
22:42and a lot of pressure that I don't want.
22:45Are you not nervous or anything?
22:47No.
22:49Chloe's more nervous than me.
22:52I honestly think it's all going to be fine and it's going to be fun.
23:00Give us a kiss.
23:02Let's rock and roll. Yeah.
23:07I do rely on Paul a lot when it comes to, like, group situations.
23:10Like, he'll talk the back legs off a donkey,
23:12whereas me, I do get anxious.
23:14I think I prefer to hold a hand.
23:19I hope I can form out my comfort zone and, like, challenge myself
23:22because that's what we're here for.
23:24But, to be honest, I don't know if I can.
23:28As instructed by Effie, for a short time, Chloe and Paul will separate,
23:40so the less socially confident Chloe can try making connections of her own.
23:44Hi!
23:45I think it's weird because I feel a bit too relaxed about the situation.
23:52Paul can wake in any room.
23:53I need to make friends so quick.
23:55Hi, you all right?
23:56You all right, strangers?
23:57How can I do?
23:58There are times where I don't really lead a conversation.
24:01That's just my anxiety.
24:03That's what I need to work on.
24:04So, is it the girls' side that you're looking to explain?
24:07Yeah.
24:08Yeah, when it comes to girls and stuff,
24:09I think you have a lot of the same body parts.
24:11Yeah, yeah.
24:12You know your way around a bit and it's not as alien.
24:15Yeah.
24:16So, yeah, it should be, yeah, fairly...
24:19Yeah.
24:20I've never really had any experience flirting with girls.
24:25There's just a lot of pressure.
24:27It's kind of like imposter syndrome.
24:34You're still dancing, I love it.
24:36I'm just feeling the vibe, do you know what I mean?
24:39Just bouncing around the room.
24:40So, are you here for her experience?
24:42We're here for her, but it'd be nice for me to just, like, enjoy the situation too.
24:46Yeah.
24:47But I'm just looking for, like, another girl to, like, bring her out of the shell.
24:51She is, like, a wild card once you get to know her.
24:54Yeah.
24:55But it's getting her out of her.
24:56What's the situation with you?
24:57So, I've got a partner as well.
24:59He's also a Scouse.
25:00Must be a Scouse magnet then.
25:01Yeah, maybe.
25:02Come on.
25:03How are you far for that?
25:04Yeah, it's going great.
25:06Yeah, it's going better than expected.
25:08But I'm also like, I wonder how she's getting on.
25:14What's the crack?
25:15Nothing.
25:16We're here now.
25:17This is it.
25:18It's fun, isn't it?
25:19I am on the good time.
25:20I think it's just over around, like, talking to so many people.
25:23It's still brand new.
25:24Like, how long have we, like, been doing this?
25:26An hour?
25:27Not even, like...
25:28A lot of these people have been doing this for, like...
25:30Yes.
25:31Two years, five years, ten years.
25:33For us, we've been doing it an hour.
25:34So, I think, even if we do this for a year, it'll still feel new.
25:37Yeah.
25:38You overthink it and then it passes.
25:39You're like, all right, I'll do it.
25:40Take that opportunity again.
25:41Yeah.
25:42You need to strike whilst the iron's hot.
25:45As a man and as a husband, it's my duty to look after Chloe and to push Chloe and to help her, like, explore anything she needs and give her what she needs.
25:56And if this is something that she needs, then I'm only going to support her.
26:00I'm nervous, but I'm OK.
26:02Let's kiss.
26:05So, let's go.
26:06Let's crack on.
26:08It's good.
26:09It's exciting.
26:10Yeah.
26:16How old are you guys, by the way?
26:17I didn't even ask.
26:1827.
26:19Same age.
26:20Yeah.
26:21I'll just...
26:22Shall I just go, OK?
26:24Too old.
26:25You've got, like, a gentle Scouts accent, though.
26:27Like, some of my friends in Liverpool, they'll be like...
26:30Yeah, I've been around so many Nova that it's actually picking out different twang from like,
26:33Oh, I love it.
26:34Yeah.
26:35I love it.
26:36I love it.
26:37I love it.
26:38I love it.
26:39You have such a cute face.
26:40Really?
26:41Yeah.
26:42You're black.
26:43That's what we have to do.
26:44Once I started talking to Emily and Holly, anxiety was, like, lowered and I got more into the
26:50vibes.
26:51So, I'm very bipolar.
26:53Like, like yours.
26:54Okay.
26:55Say, like, my types of, like, punky tattoos.
26:56I know.
26:57I don't know.
26:58I don't want to put you into it.
27:00She's lovely.
27:01She's so sweet.
27:02So cute.
27:03So cute.
27:04Yeah.
27:05Very attractive.
27:06Really good vibes, yeah.
27:07Like, considering she came into it so nervous, like...
27:08Really good energy.
27:09Just so you know, we're down.
27:11Yeah.
27:12So just...
27:13So that makes me make sure that I feel natural.
27:14Yeah.
27:15Yeah.
27:16Yeah.
27:17I think, with me, it's a lot about, like, vibes.
27:20So if you make me feel comfortable, I'm, like, it's just going to feel natural to me.
27:25Like, I'll have everyone, like, on the vibe, only with you.
27:28Hey, that's fun.
27:29I'm totally down.
27:30Yeah.
27:31Yeah.
27:32Okay, hold your hands.
27:33Go.
27:34Yeah.
27:35I'm ready.
27:50How was that?
27:51Nice.
27:53So you just loved a girl.
27:54I know.
27:55I've never kissed a girl before, no.
27:57That was my first time.
27:58I got, like, the butter.
27:59Like, I got a feeling.
28:00So...
28:01I'm hoping it leads to good things, so we'll see.
28:13How's that making you feel?
28:14It's weird, isn't it?
28:17I've only ever saw it, well, like, kiss me.
28:25Yeah, I'm not going to lie.
28:26I'm not going to lie.
28:27Like, this is weird.
28:30I don't know how I would feel.
28:31Earlier, Chloe surprised herself and husband Paul by kissing a girl for the very first time.
28:51and since she started she can't stop with things moving so fast
29:19Paul takes Chloe aside
29:27what's going on Ian? I know
29:29you're beating me
29:30I know
29:31makes a change but
29:33isn't it mad how like all of a sudden it's went from nothing to like
29:37full on this
29:38because I know we spoke about doing it as a pre-symbal
29:41I feel like I kind of want to go on my journey
29:44I mean not on my, like not on my after-symbal
29:48even though like I'm obviously exploring this side of myself
29:52you can explore
29:53too
29:55just literally don't even overthink it
30:00yeah
30:01I came in like to experience it all before
30:06but I kind of felt like
30:08it was kind of shifting
30:10from experiencing
30:13something together
30:14to like take like our own like separate journeys
30:18like there was a shift
30:21having made the decision to go their separate ways
30:29Chloe wastes no time
30:31I wanted to know if you wanted to go to the youth
30:37yes absolutely
30:38love to
30:39yeah
30:39love to
30:40yeah
30:40sure
30:40let's do it
30:41let's go
30:42let's go
30:42let's go
30:43let's go
30:43and I feel like the way it's been tonight
30:48yeah
30:48I don't think anyone expected like
30:50I don't know where Chloe is now
30:51where's my girl
30:56oh
30:57right
30:58here we go
30:59where's Emily
30:59can we find her
31:00Emily's gone too
31:02so I don't know what that
31:03she's gone with the two girls
31:04she's gone with both
31:05she's
31:07she looked so happy
31:09shocked
31:09like I'm not gonna lie
31:10I'm shocked
31:10like
31:10thought it'd be
31:14baby step, baby step, baby step
31:16and for it to happen so quick
31:17caught me like off guard
31:19let's all just get cozy
31:25let's have a slumber party, guys
31:28cheers, girls
31:29cheers
31:30it's weird, it's like the tables are flipped
31:35and I wasn't
31:36I wasn't expecting that
31:37has she ever had like a girl experience at all
31:40oh, really?
31:41just me, like, yeah, yeah
31:42women's lips just feel so much better
31:47yeah
31:47yeah
31:48yeah
31:48oh, cozy cozy
31:51oh
31:51oh
31:52I'm gonna have to step up my game now
31:58not to be outdone
32:01you just wanna go on the outdoor jacuzzi
32:03Paul arranges his own afterparty
32:05then he's off for that
32:07a little chat and a little laugh
32:08and see where it goes
32:09yeah
32:10that'd be nice
32:10yeah, I'd like that
32:11sounds awesome
32:12right, let's have it
32:13let's go do it
32:13let's have it
32:14ooh, you got essential massage oil
32:21would you like a little massage from me and Emily?
32:23to be honest, I'm so nervous on the insides
32:26but I'm pushing
32:27I know if I don't
32:29like, I want it
32:31but I know if like, I shy away
32:32like, I'll shut myself off to it
32:35two women instead of one
32:37I know
32:37I don't know if it's too much
32:39like, more than what I bargained for
32:41at the festival area
32:50Mark is enjoying his dating experience
32:53away from partner Tanith
32:54and as the fireside games heat up
32:59give a french kiss to Lily
33:01for me
33:02I'm 100% over
33:04there he is
33:05there he is
33:06there he is
33:07there he is
33:08there he is
33:09there he is
33:10that's hot
33:11ooh la la
33:12ooh la la
33:13for sure
33:14kissing without my partner felt a little bit
33:17erm
33:18strange at first
33:19but
33:20I think I loosened up a little bit
33:22it was quite fun
33:24yeah
33:25yeah
33:26that's my life
33:28it's not cold on this calmer fire
33:30Mark is definitely my type
33:31yeah
33:32such a vibe
33:33and just fucking attractive
33:35you're a great kisser by the way
33:36oh my god
33:37oh thank you
33:38I want to try now
33:40there's a lot of names
33:41I'll get there
33:42I'll get there
33:43meanwhile
33:44at the cocktail party
33:45say hello to everyone
33:46open couple
33:47Lou and Ellie
33:48have taken Tanith
33:49under their wing
33:50well we've both been
33:51in the lifestyle
33:52for like
33:53we've been
33:54in different leadership
33:55yeah yeah
33:56over ten years
33:57but together four years
34:00yeah so erm
34:01so erm
34:02have you got like any
34:03like what
34:04like I was looking at your legs
34:05and everything when you came here
34:06oh
34:07I know
34:08like a little
34:09little pocket rocket
34:10but she's still thinking about Mark
34:12yeah that's what Mark used to call it
34:14me and Mark
34:15we're quite good at the gym
34:16we go to the gym together
34:17yeah
34:18he's my uh
34:19inspiration
34:20because I wouldn't go for him
34:21I don't think
34:22it's a bit like
34:23oh my partner's gone now
34:24like
34:25it's a bit weird
34:26but
34:27I'm sure he's in good hands
34:29yeah
34:30yeah
34:31yeah it's going
34:32it's going good
34:33I think for me the next step would be to obviously get to know the girls a little bit more
34:37I'm gonna go back to the yurt now and if you ladies want to follow me then you're welcome to
34:50yeah we love to
34:51we all want to follow you
34:52get warm
34:53let's go
34:54let's do this
34:55let's go
34:56let's do this
34:57take us to your yurt
34:59I didn't expect it'd be going like this
35:03what about Tana?
35:04are you thinking about Tana for Todd?
35:05do you think she's having a good time?
35:07I'm not really thinking too much about Tana
35:08otherwise that'll distract me from what I'm doing here
35:11do you think it was thinking about Tana for Todd?
35:12do you think she's having a good time?
35:13I'm not really thinking too much about Tana
35:15otherwise that'll distract me from what I'm doing here
35:18do you think it was thinking about Tana?
35:21no
35:22yeah
35:23he didn't seem to be worried
35:25but he's the one coming into this experience
35:27and this is him
35:28pushing his own boundaries
35:30I'm eager to get out there and have a good night
35:32just looking forward to having fun
35:34and seeing what happens
35:36welcome to my place
35:38since wife Chloe went it alone
35:48Paul's found himself in the hands of Grace and Naomi
35:51I'm driving straight
35:52both eager to become his non-monogamy guides
35:57I think here we've just been raised haven't we
35:59with one idea of what a relationship looks like
36:01yeah
36:02there's a million ways to navigate a relationship
36:04and you're in control of how you want to do that
36:08it's just like
36:10it's exciting yeah
36:14yeah it's good
36:15how do you think she's feeling?
36:17hopefully amazing right now
36:18probably on top of the world yeah
36:20we'll take our clothes off
36:23make you feel more comfortable
36:24yeah let's do it
36:25your body's phenomenal
36:29going into it I was really nervous
36:39because I'd never done anything like that before
36:41but the girls like really like
36:44they make me feel so comfortable
36:46and they lower me anxiety straight away
36:48and you think it's ever too much just tell us
36:55yeah
36:56if you want to stop just say
37:00I surprised myself because
37:02like I pushed myself way out of my comfort zone
37:05my very first like opening up like
37:18exploring me by curiosity
37:20it felt really good
37:22such a nice pussy
37:24yes
37:25yes
37:41oh my gosh
37:42oh my gosh
37:43have you got kids together?
37:44no no
37:45no
37:46Take your gum, you started that.
37:48Here's the thing, we've struggled to have kids.
37:53We had a house, we were like,
37:55this is the next step now, to have a kid.
37:57We're trying, trying, trying.
37:58No one hasn't happened yet, trying again, trying again.
38:01Still hasn't happened, this is like nine months.
38:03Oh, wow.
38:04She just got investigating the life.
38:06We've got endometeosis.
38:07This year, she's getting a surgery,
38:09so we could have kids, possibly next year.
38:11You've obviously had a lot of experience in this life,
38:16this lifestyle, so, compared to vanilla, mate.
38:18Still very new to it.
38:19Vanilla's fine.
38:21I could definitely sense Paul's nerves.
38:23I think it was extra daunting,
38:25because then there wasn't just one girl there,
38:27there was two.
38:28So it was probably difficult for him to make that first move.
38:32You were born to be like a girl.
38:35You were born to be like a girl.
38:37You were born to be like a girl.
38:39You were born to be like a girl.
38:40You were born to be a lesbian.
38:41You were born to be a lesbian.
38:42You were born to be a lesbian.
38:43You were born to be a lesbian.
38:44You were born to be a lesbian.
38:45Should we try to do a little triangle, girl?
38:48Yeah.
38:49Yeah.
38:50Yeah?
38:51It was like, kind of a triangle.
38:53I don't think about it, yeah.
38:56Where we each, like...
38:59Yeah, it was really good.
39:05Like, I pushed myself way out of me comfort zone.
39:10I've had my hands under water, so I am actually a friend.
39:20Yeah, same.
39:21It was just out of me death.
39:24Right, shall we go?
39:26Yeah, ma'am.
39:27It's like you've got a face full of bump.
39:29I know.
39:30Here we go.
39:33It didn't feel right tonight to just jump straight in like that because it's a marathon, not a sprint.
39:43Wow.
39:44That was really fucking hot.
39:45Honestly, you're just natural at it.
39:48You're in that.
39:49Definitely bisexual?
39:50I think so.
39:51Yay!
39:53Big night, yeah.
39:54A lot of firsts.
39:56I enjoyed it, so I feel like I wouldn't have enjoyed it as much as I did if only bisexual.
40:04You did pretty fucking good.
40:06There was definitely fireworks for Chloe, yes.
40:08Yeah.
40:09Yeah.
40:10We were all having a good time.
40:11We had great chemistry.
40:13Yeah.
40:14It's like completely different to being with a man.
40:16It's all good, yeah.
40:17Yeah.
40:18It is a lot more like sensual.
40:19Yes.
40:20Yeah.
40:21A little cuddle if you like.
40:22Yeah!
40:23Get in the middle.
40:24I think it was the, yeah, right decision for Chloe to take that step and what she felt
40:31she needed from us and for that to be separate from Paul.
40:36You just made me feel so comfortable to be honest.
40:38Aww.
40:39Thank God.
40:40I felt like something has been missing.
40:42I feel like I've unlocked that part of myself that I feel like it's been missing type thing.
40:47So yeah, it's just like, I can learn about who I am now.
40:52My relationship with Chloe is everything to me.
40:55I think worst case scenario for me, Chloe can meet a woman and a woman can fulfill her needs more
41:01and she can leave me.
41:02And I'd have to deal with that.
41:04We are broken.
41:06I'm not.
41:07I'm not.
41:08It's definitely a woman.
41:09I'm not.
41:10I'm not.
41:11I'm not.
41:12I'm not.
41:13You're not.
41:14I'm not.
41:15I'm not.
41:16I'm not.
41:17I'm not.
41:18Paul hasn't seen wife Chloe since her surprise disappearance
41:29with residents Holly and Emily over four hours ago.
41:38Hello.
41:39Hi.
41:40Yeah.
41:42You OK?
41:43Yeah.
41:45Will you come and tell me about it?
41:47What did you do then?
41:48They went down on me.
41:50Oh, God.
41:51Yeah.
41:51Did they?
41:52Yeah.
41:53And then, I went down on Emily.
41:59Did you?
42:00Yeah.
42:01And then, we did like kind of like a triangle.
42:06What?
42:07A triangle?
42:08Yeah.
42:09What does that even look like?
42:12It's like, Holly let down was eating Emily out and then Emily let down was eating me
42:17who like you.
42:18Can I?
42:21Fucking hell.
42:23What?
42:24I know.
42:27Felt right.
42:29I yeah.
42:32Do you think you'd all a bisexual then?
42:33Yeah.
42:34definitely do yeah that's like impressive but it's all it's like what
42:38I'm just like mental sorry I'm just trying to deal with the stuff you just
42:42told me like what yeah that is mental I know what about you I went to the hot tub
42:48with Naomi and Grace we were just like to be honest we was talking but then
42:54literally like that was it and really we were just thinking about you and talking
42:57about you's you know what I mean like metal what you got off to it was nice it
43:03is different being with a man than me like to be with a woman more like
43:06sensual does that mean that like you're still like attracted to me and you still
43:18want to have sex with me and stuff yeah wow that is metal no ironically I was the
43:27one out my comfort zone tonight whoa I can't this is this is information overload
43:34that isn't I'm just like in shock but that was not the plan and like it
43:45wasn't even something we'd like give forward to
43:51when you're doing it and now all of a sudden it's like it's on me and I don't know
43:57if I can't like have sex with you you I'm sorry now
44:04Yeah, Mark is getting cosy in the yurt with six female residents.
44:31Meanwhile, partner Tanith's feet remain firmly on the ground.
44:36It is very nerve-wracking, but everyone's so lovely.
44:39No, no, it's just overwhelming, but it's just us.
44:43It's just so free and happy and, you know, just excited to be here and be involved.
44:48Kind of got a good vibe from all the people, but I don't think there's that kind of romantic spark.
44:54Yeah, it's just been quite, you know, getting to know everyone.
44:58I think that one's yours.
45:01Is that mine? Oh, thank you.
45:02Sorry, what do you do for work?
45:03I've got my own business, I do like dog walking.
45:05Really? Do you not ever just get pulled over?
45:08I'm quite strong.
45:10I think Tanith is great.
45:13She's got loads of energy, bubbly.
45:16I would look to explore it further.
45:18So, my strength is giving.
45:20I normally just give, okay?
45:22So, that's kind of my thing.
45:24If that was something that would interest you, did you want to, like, continue this maybe somewhere a bit more private?
45:32I guess our vibes are, like, the same.
45:38But, like, I think you're, like, top lad, honestly.
45:41You'd be, like, brilliant.
45:42It's literally a total to you.
45:43Yeah, yeah.
45:44Don't worry.
45:51Do you think you can handle all of us?
45:53Yeah.
45:54Didn't expect it to be going like this, but I'm just kind of going with Flo.
46:09And, you know, if everybody's comfortable and happy, then, you know, what will be, will be.
46:14I have a proposition.
46:15I think we can all kiss to make you a little bit more...
46:20Relaxed.
46:21Yes.
46:22Oh, she's going in.
46:29Frenchy.
46:32As Mark's night intensifies...
46:35Bye, guys.
46:37...Taneth's has come to an end.
46:39I'm going to head up, but it's been lovely.
46:41I'm sad to see you all go, but I'll see you.
46:44I'll see you all hopefully soon.
46:46I just decided to call it a night, really, because I didn't feel that sexual chemistry,
46:50that connection with anyone to, like, go any further.
46:58You're so cute.
47:02Oh, it smells so good.
47:03What is that?
47:04Really good.
47:05It's great.
47:06You've got to recognise it.
47:08I don't know what Mark's been up to.
47:10I think if I thought about that, it would be...
47:12Yeah.
47:13Yeah.
47:14Yeah.
47:15No.
47:24Yeah, I'll say to you, girls.
47:25Oh, thank you.
47:26Oh, fuck.
47:27Oh, fuck.
47:28Ooh, ooh, ooh.
47:29I'm sorry, baby.
47:30Oh, fuck.
47:31Ah...
47:32Ah...
47:37Fuck a second!
47:39Oh, fuck Mark.
47:40Oh, fuck.
47:42Oh.
47:45Oh, God.
47:46Oh, God.
47:47I think the unknown is hard.
47:53Oh, my God.
47:56Oh, my God.
47:58Having fun?
48:00Having fun.
48:01Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha.
48:16Next time on Open House...
48:24Open House.
48:26I need you to get it.
48:28Do you think there were any boundaries crossed?
48:31It's massively important that we can invite another woman into the relationship.
48:41Now I need to step out my comfort zone.
48:44I think if we don't do it now, then I don't think we ever going to.
48:47Oh, I'm going to burn this off.
48:50It's absolute bonkers.
48:52Literally, like, what are we doing?
48:54If you are a curious couple or single and interested in being part of the next Open House series, visit channel4.com forward slash take part.
49:04A label carrying fear of judgment in an over-sexualized society.
49:11Can intimacy be redefined in a safe space?
49:14Brand New Virgin Islands starts Monday at 9pm.
49:16For some lovers, it's all about dating the reverse way.
49:19Apps off and clothes off for naked attraction.
49:21All episodes are streaming now.
49:23Next night, don't hand Joe Lice at your chips.
49:25Stand-up comedy that'll leave your a-ha, a-ha-ings on the way.
49:28.
49:30.
49:31.
49:32.
49:33.
49:34.
49:35.
49:36.
49:37.
49:38.
Recommended
46:29
|
Up next
21:58
47:00
40:53
47:00