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00:00Oh, he's so fit. Anyone who looks like a drummer.
00:08I ended up cheating.
00:11OK.
00:12And tongue.
00:13I call him red-handed.
00:15So this is about trust, right? You're going to lean into that.
00:18I am here to collect your mark, if that's OK.
00:21Take good care of everything.
00:22Yes.
00:23Enjoy yourself. Love you.
00:24Love you.
00:25It's a bit weird. My partner's gone now, but I'm sure he's in good hands.
00:29Oh, wow.
00:31Yeah.
00:32Did you want to, like, continue this maybe somewhere a bit more private, or...?
00:37I guess our vibe's not, like, the same.
00:40I'm going to head up, but it's been lovely. I just had to see you all go.
00:44No, I just decided to call it a night, really,
00:47because I didn't feel that connection with anyone to, like, go any further.
00:51Mum!
00:53Mum!
00:54Mum, come get on the bus.
00:56Yeah.
00:57Something that would be difficult for me in this is definitely
01:00if one of us did something and the other didn't.
01:03No!
01:05Good girl.
01:06Having fun?
01:07Having fun?
01:08Oh, my God!
01:09Oh, my God!
01:11Oh, you're going to come!
01:14Yes, Lily.
01:15Mum!
01:16Oh, my God.
01:17Oh, my God.
01:19Oh, yeah!
01:20Oh, I'm going to come.
01:21Yes, Lily.
01:22Mum!
01:23Mum!
01:24Oh, my God.
01:30Oh, fuck, Mark.
01:32Oh, I'm going to come.
01:34Yes, Lily.
01:37Great view, guys.
01:39Yes, really nice.
01:43Mark has just spent three hours in the yurt
01:46with four female residents.
01:49I think, yeah, I've probably been living every guy's dream
01:52to have been embracing, you know, four attractive-looking women
01:55on my own, being involved in that,
01:57it was a bit of an eye-opener for me.
01:59It's been fantastic, yeah.
02:06Unaware his girlfriend, Tanith, turned in early,
02:09Mark's heading back to their room to swap notes.
02:12You OK?
02:23Did you have some fun?
02:25Yeah.
02:26Did you?
02:27Yeah, no.
02:28I didn't go back for anyone or anything.
02:30Yeah, I came back here.
02:31Did you?
02:32Yeah, yeah.
02:33How long have you been back?
02:34Ages.
02:35What have you been?
02:36What have you been?
02:37What have you been?
02:38Yeah.
02:39Good job.
02:40Yeah.
02:41What are you feeling about it?
02:42What are you?
02:43What are you?
02:44What are you doing?
02:45Four.
02:46Are you joking?
02:47No.
02:48Oh, God.
02:51Are you joking?
02:52No, I'm joking.
02:53Oh, God.
02:54I've been four, four girls.
02:56Pretty much, yeah.
02:57Oh, my God.
02:59I don't feel good. It's like, you know, if you could, if I knew she were going to feel like that before, you know, I would have never done it.
03:20You know, if there was someone that you met that was better than me, you know, I mean, I don't know.
03:46You should know that I would never leave you.
03:49So Mark in the yurt last night, that was pretty wild.
04:10Yeah. Just felt like he really wanted to push his boundaries.
04:15But I do think, I do worry, what does his partner think? And I did think, you know, I wonder if she's all right with it.
04:22We'll see.
04:24I think I'm a bit just trying to take it all in and it was a lot.
04:39When you realise you're upsetting your partner, that's the last thing you really want.
04:48Yeah, I think there's some things that we need to sit down and have a chat about and see where we want to go, really, from here.
05:03With last night triggering unexpected emotions, the couple are meeting non-monogamy coach Effie to figure out if being open can still work for them.
05:18Come in. Hello, hello, welcome, welcome. How are you doing?
05:24Good, thank you.
05:25When I say good, we're not that good.
05:27Okay. Okay, you're not that good. Tell me. Tell me how your social was.
05:32I think, because my social went a little bit further than the times, I think.
05:36Okay.
05:37And I kind of find myself, like, get involved with some sort of an orgy.
05:43Okay.
05:44I asked if anybody wanted to follow me into the air and then six girls followed me in.
05:49So...
05:50Is it six or four?
05:51It's six, two left.
05:52Yeah, yeah.
05:53Okay.
05:54I don't really know how I feel about it, to be honest.
05:57Do you think there were any boundaries crossed?
05:59We didn't even speak about if this happened or what, you know.
06:02Yeah, like a multiple girl situation never even, like, came to mind.
06:06Ooh, just a shock, isn't it, I guess?
06:08Of course, yeah.
06:09Especially when...
06:10Yeah, sorry.
06:12I'm sorry.
06:13It's okay.
06:14I'll be okay.
06:16And tell me how your social was.
06:22I didn't find anyone that I felt that thing with, but I think that's because I'm not with Mark.
06:28Mm.
06:29It just didn't feel right.
06:30It's just not for me.
06:32So, for you, doing separate things is not ideal.
06:35No.
06:36You're like, I now know that.
06:37No.
06:38How do you feel about it, Mark?
06:40About doing separate things?
06:41Yeah.
06:42I'm not...
06:43I don't need to do it.
06:44Mm-hmm.
06:45Do you want to?
06:46No, it's not something I want to do.
06:47Do you like it?
06:48That's...
06:49I think that's the question.
06:50You know what I mean?
06:51Just answer it, honestly.
06:52I enjoyed the experience, but I don't need it.
06:55If Tan would have been there with that experience, it would have been...
06:59And I could have seen that she were enjoying.
07:01It would have been totally a much better experience for me.
07:04I'm curious.
07:05Does the separating part bring up any past the cheating stuff at all?
07:10Erm...
07:11Yeah, I just felt a bit like, oh...
07:13Just, like, never ever been good enough for anyone.
07:17I guess.
07:19Mm.
07:20That's hard.
07:21It's okay.
07:22Just stay with it for a minute.
07:24It's fine.
07:25Yeah.
07:26What was the most upsetting thing for you?
07:38Was there someone that...
07:41He connected more than me.
07:43I don't know.
07:44You just don't know, do you?
07:45Mm-hmm.
07:46All these thoughts, like...
07:47Bob, Bob, Bob, thinking I'm going to lose him.
07:49I don't want to lose what we have.
07:54Tanith, I want to ask you this, because I want to know the answer.
07:58Does non-monogamy still appeal to you?
08:02Is that something that you want in your life?
08:04Yeah, I think so.
08:06Yeah, I'd like to explore it a bit more.
08:08Especially with us together.
08:10Honesty, truly.
08:11Honestly, truly.
08:12Okay.
08:13That's great.
08:14So we know that.
08:15Clarity.
08:16I'm ready for Tan to make some decisions.
08:18Okay, tell me more about that, Mark.
08:19Yeah, as a joint.
08:20I feel like we just stumbled into something.
08:21I think she's always, like, trying to...
08:24Always put me before herself, I think.
08:26Okay, so you don't hear from her what she wants and what she wants to experience?
08:31Not always, no.
08:32I think she can be quite people-pleasing at times.
08:35Mm-hmm.
08:36Mm-hmm.
08:37Mm-hmm.
08:38Nail on the head.
08:39The idea of losing him makes you so scared inside that you go into a people-pleasing
08:46mode to feel safe.
08:49Is that...?
08:50Yeah, that sounds right.
08:51That's exactly right.
08:52Yeah.
08:53So, let's figure out what is gonna work for you.
08:56I would like for you to experience a healthy, non-monogamous relationship together with
09:02Mark.
09:03Okay.
09:04Today, you'll have a picnic with some of the residents, but Tanith, I'd like you to take
09:08the lead.
09:09Okay.
09:10I want you to focus on, truly, deep down, this is what Tanith wants, and let things escalate
09:15as it feels natural to you.
09:17How does that feel?
09:18Yeah, it feels...
09:19That makes sense.
09:20Thanks for your time.
09:21Appreciate everything you've said.
09:22Take care.
09:23The truth is, people-pleasing is dishonesty, because you're not being honest with your feelings
09:28to yourself, often, and to your partner.
09:32When you're honest with your emotions and the things that you want, it also helps your
09:37partner make better choices.
09:39Tanith just needs to find a voice and talk about what she wants.
09:44When I'm not true to you, it's when you're gonna hurt yourself.
09:48Yeah.
09:49Yeah.
09:50Because of that too, that's how I grew up, I think.
09:52I came from a place where it wasn't good to speak, I didn't feel like I could speak
09:56my feelings.
09:57This I'm okay tends to amuse me, then.
09:58I'm not okay?
09:59It's like, I'm fine, I'm fine.
10:00It's not okay, either.
10:01No.
10:02But it's about that person who's gonna be true to themselves.
10:03Yeah, exactly.
10:04You've got to learn to do that.
10:05I just want her to be real with me.
10:06It's all right to say no, yeah, you know, I like this idea of being non-monogamous.
10:07But I kind of need to know that she's saying it because she really likes it.
10:43It's so good.
10:44You have one life.
10:46Enjoy the moment.
10:47Less stress, more sex.
10:50Yeah.
10:51You're a new experience, love.
10:53I know.
10:54Are you ready?
10:57Still on shaky ground after yesterday, Tanith and Mark are joining a group of residents
11:02for a picnic to explore whether opening up together is a better fit.
11:07Right, I'm gonna actually fall in.
11:09No, you're not.
11:10Yeah.
11:11I will.
11:12Got ya.
11:13Got ya.
11:14Amongst the group are some of the women from last night's orgy.
11:17They were saying this last night.
11:19Obviously, I'm a bit apprehensive.
11:21I'm just, like, seeing everyone.
11:22I guess my worry is me not being myself in that scenario.
11:26Hey, guys.
11:27Hi.
11:28Are you okay?
11:29How are you doing anyway?
11:30Yeah, I can see you.
11:31Oh!
11:32That is typical, me.
11:35Making it in, James.
11:38I think Tanith was a little bit nervous because, you know, she was moving all the time
11:44and loved a lot.
11:47Can we say love?
11:48Can we say love?
11:49Can we say love?
11:50Today, on Effie's advice, Tanith will attempt to take the reins.
11:55I've always struggled, I think, with being honest with how I feel.
11:59I get in my head a lot, but it's trying to deal with that and being able to overcome it.
12:04So, how's your day been this morning?
12:07Yeah, it was quite emotional, sorry, I think.
12:09But, obviously, it's all new to us with everything like this.
12:13It's like the unknown, isn't it?
12:15Yeah.
12:16That kind of stuff.
12:17You have the fantasy, but then when you do it, it's not for you.
12:20Yeah, yeah.
12:21So, are you single?
12:23Are you in a couple or single?
12:25So, I've got a partner.
12:27He's not here, unfortunately.
12:29Aw.
12:30Riding solo?
12:31Are you loving it, though?
12:32That's the thing.
12:33Aw, good.
12:34Yeah, it's nice.
12:35You've got a lovely vibe.
12:36It's actually very nice.
12:38Yeah.
12:39So, like, when I saw you, I was like, deluxe, my...
12:44Like people.
12:45Yeah, my vibe, too.
12:46So, that's why I really wanted to meet you.
12:49Ooh la la.
12:50Aw, you too.
12:51So, Marie is absolutely drop dead gorgeous.
12:56Yeah, she's just a really nice vibe.
12:58I didn't expect it, but it's really nice that she was that flirty, I guess,
13:02because it made me feel comfortable.
13:04Okay.
13:05I bet.
13:06I bet.
13:08I do, like, look at women and find them attractive.
13:11But, yeah, I've never took that step.
13:17Definitely, I think, Marie is...
13:20Right.
13:21It's really cute.
13:22Don't you?
13:23Yeah, I think so.
13:24So, I think she might be a good...
13:25Get on with her quite loud and...
13:27I think she likes both of us.
13:29Yeah?
13:30Might be a good experience.
13:31Maybe.
13:32Is it what you want?
13:33Yeah, yeah, I think...
13:34Definitely.
13:35For once, I'm actually thinking about what I want in this.
13:37Good.
13:38Like, let's kiss.
13:39Ready?
13:40Yeah.
13:41Perfect.
13:42I love you.
13:43Right, I'll speak to you in a bit.
13:45Coming down.
13:46Okay.
13:47Can I tell you?
13:48Yeah.
13:49Good.
13:50Thanks.
13:51Haha.
13:52Good.
13:56Oh, I love it.
13:57Marie.
13:58Yeah.
13:59Would you like to join us later?
14:02With you and mine?
14:03Ah!
14:04I love it.
14:05Cheers, girl.
14:06Woohoo!
14:07Yeah, I love it.
14:08Brilliant.
14:09I'm excited.
14:10I know that she was attractive to women, so I'm very happy, beautiful, very nice.
14:19I love her lips.
14:20Eyes, blonde hair.
14:21Yeah.
14:22Love it.
14:24Yeah, just plucking up the courage to do that was really liberating, I guess, and that
14:30was my choice, so I'm doing it for what I like this time.
14:33You do.
14:34You do.
14:35Yeah.
14:36It's your turn to have some fun now.
14:37No, I'm excited.
14:38Yeah, exactly.
14:39It was quite a surprise to me, to be honest.
14:41But, you know, as long as that's what she wants and she's happy doing that.
14:44Bye, bye, bye, bye, guys.
14:45Bye, bye, guys.
14:46Bye, bye, guys.
14:47But I will see how it all unfolds tonight.
14:50I think we'll find out if we're good kisses or not.
15:02We'll end up, like, clashing teeth and everyone will go, Chloe only likes this.
15:06We've only had sex with each other.
15:08I maybe want to explore it to see if I am bisexual.
15:11I think about it all the time.
15:13And, Chloe, did you ever consider exploring women on your own?
15:17Yeah.
15:18You might enjoy it with me and the girl, but not...
15:20Yeah, but just maybe not.
15:21...on your own with the girl.
15:22I don't know where Chloe is now.
15:23She's gone.
15:24Where's my girl?
15:25She's gone with the two girls.
15:26She's gone with me.
15:27She's gone with me.
15:28Mmm.
15:29It was, like, kind of a triangle.
15:32Oh, yeah.
15:33Nice, nice, nice.
15:34She's really dove in at the deep end, like...
15:36Yeah, yeah.
15:37Oh, my God.
15:39Well, it's just out of my depth.
15:42It didn't feel right tonight.
15:43I enjoyed it, so I feel like I wouldn't have enjoyed it as much as it did.
15:46I've only been bisexual.
15:49Does that mean that you're still, like, attracted to me?
15:52Yeah.
15:53You're still, like, sex with me?
15:55I think worst-case scenario for me...
15:58A woman could fulfil her needs more and she could leave me,
16:01and I'd have to deal with that.
16:03We are broken.
16:04I don't even know what to expect from today,
16:14because yesterday was so unexpected.
16:16Still coming to terms with how last night played out
16:20are childhood sweethearts Chloe and Paul.
16:23I think it's almost like the power dynamic shifted.
16:26I think I'm the more nervous one now.
16:31Yeah, it was a big night.
16:32Like, I feel like a new, like, woman.
16:34Like, I feel like a totally different person.
16:36Like, my confidence, I can feel my confidence has gone up a lot.
16:40I like the ladies.
16:44Even now, I can't wrap my head around it.
16:47What if I can't open up?
16:50Right now, I'm questioning, like, everything.
16:57Come in.
16:58Make yourself comfortable.
17:00How are you feeling?
17:02Way to start.
17:03What?
17:04Do you think this question, that am I bisexual,
17:06is answered for you?
17:08Yeah, definitely.
17:09I'd say I'm bisexual.
17:10Definitely, yeah.
17:11There was, like, an aura from her.
17:13She was, like, she was glowing.
17:14Wow.
17:15What happened?
17:16Do share.
17:18Well, we went in together, didn't we?
17:20I kind of felt like it was kind of shifting
17:24from experiencing something together
17:27to, like, taking, like, our own, like, separate journeys.
17:30And that caught me off guard,
17:32because I didn't come into this expecting any of that.
17:34Can you put words to how you were feeling?
17:38With me?
17:39I just felt shocked and a bit, like, blindside.
17:41So, a little overwhelmed, maybe?
17:43Yeah, possibly, yeah.
17:44I think the best way to say it was I weren't ready,
17:46compared to what, like, like, Chloe experienced.
17:49Okay.
17:50So, you feel like you haven't had the growth opportunity
17:52that Chloe had.
17:54Is that what's happening?
17:55Yeah.
17:56Like, having a threesome like that would be, like,
17:57that's what we wanted to happen.
17:59But after, like, last night,
18:01I was kind of feeling like maybe I'm not ready.
18:03Okay.
18:04So, you feel like you've not done anything
18:05and suddenly you're on a threesome, it's a lot.
18:07Yeah.
18:08Yeah, it's mad, isn't it?
18:09It's just, like...
18:10Yeah.
18:11I was coming in for you,
18:12and now all of a sudden I'm here for me.
18:14Mm.
18:15I want to get to how comfortable Chloe is.
18:17I want to get to that confidence level.
18:19What I have in mind is, Paul,
18:22you get to, like, spend some one-on-one time
18:24with somebody of your choosing
18:26and see how that works for you.
18:29Mm.
18:30And have that experience
18:31and also have in the back of your mind,
18:33maybe when you're ready, you can invite Chloe.
18:37Mm.
18:38I want to get there.
18:39I want to do it.
18:40Like, I want to do that.
18:41And that's really all that matters.
18:42Is that good?
18:43Yeah.
18:44Okay.
18:45Yeah.
18:46Lovely. Okay.
18:48Thanks very much.
18:49Let's go.
18:58Anything you want to, like, boundaries today?
19:01For me?
19:02Yeah.
19:03I've no boundaries, darling.
19:04As long as everyone's in their own side.
19:06Earlier, Tanis invited Marie to join her and Mark for the evening.
19:11Wow, I'm sure we're all talking, aren't we?
19:14In the hope that opening up together will suit them better.
19:18I guess we'll find out if non-monogamy is right for us.
19:22Hopefully this is the dynamic that we're looking for.
19:26You look fucking hot.
19:28You don't look the best.
19:30You look beautiful.
19:35Marie's a very attractive-looking woman.
19:37And, you know, Tanith is very nervous.
19:40I think she's just got a good front.
19:42Let's see how she handles it.
19:53Hello.
19:54Of course you can.
19:55Hello.
19:56Hello.
19:58I'm the waiter.
19:59Oh, wait.
20:00My expectation for this evening, I want to make them come.
20:05Maybe if we can come all together, that will be fantastic fireworks.
20:15She's a little bit younger than I, and I can see she's maybe need a little bit more confidence.
20:22Lingerie model Marie has just the thing to add a little va-va-voom.
20:27I bring some lingerie with me for Tan.
20:29It's going to be amazing.
20:32Yes.
20:33If you want to.
20:34Yeah.
20:36You can relax yourself.
20:37I'll just chill.
20:41How are you doing?
20:42Hello.
20:43This is alright, isn't it?
20:44Oh, dear.
20:45Wow.
20:46Look at that.
20:47This is my first time with a woman.
20:50Yes.
20:51Overwhelming.
20:52Oh, my God.
20:53Hi.
20:54You are beautiful.
20:56I love that you all see the way.
20:57It's, like, stuff like this.
20:59Keep the eyes intact, you know?
21:01It's so nice.
21:02It's so nice.
21:03It's so nice.
21:04It's so nice.
21:05It's so nice.
21:06It's so nice.
21:07It's so nice.
21:08It's so nice.
21:09It's so nice.
21:10It's so nice.
21:11It's so nice.
21:12It's so nice.
21:13It's so nice.
21:14It's so nice.
21:15It's so nice.
21:16And go very slow.
21:25Obviously, it was a bit apprehensive, I think, to start with.
21:28Yeah, it's kind of a big deal, fully being with a woman.
21:31But it made me feel really good.
21:34I love her lips.
21:35They're very smooth, very nice.
21:37Are you ready?
21:39Are you ready?
21:40Let me turn off a little satellite.
21:41Yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:42Yeah, yeah.
21:47That's for me.
21:48Oh, yes.
21:49Oh.
21:50And you're allowed to lick my blood.
21:57Take it off, baby.
21:58It was nice to take a bit of control of the situation, definitely.
22:02Oh, it looks exactly the same.
22:03Actually listening to myself, trusting myself, and believing in myself.
22:08Yeah.
22:09How's that town?
22:10I love it.
22:11Yeah.
22:14Oh, my God.
22:15It is, yeah.
22:16Very good.
22:17It's not that many times I had a good pussy.
22:21I had a big smile on my face.
22:23No, honestly, it just was, it just got better and better throughout the night.
22:28Nothing very much.
22:34I've got, like, the best connection ever.
22:37Oh, yes, I love it.
22:40Good girl.
22:44Two beautiful figures.
22:46It was your...
22:47Dream.
22:48Yeah.
22:49My dream.
22:50Oh, my God.
22:53How is it your dream?
22:54Yeah, honestly.
22:56What?
22:57I never would have thought of a better experience than that, honestly.
23:00Wow.
23:01Mind blown.
23:17I'm going to miss this bed.
23:18There's lots of good memories on this bed.
23:21I learned quite a few things about myself.
23:23I'd rather be with Tan.
23:24It was a much better experience, you know.
23:26It's nice to see her happy.
23:28Woo-hoo!
23:30And there we go.
23:32I do have a voice, and I'm just ready to own it now.
23:35It was a big, it was a big thing for me.
23:37Whee!
23:39She's being real and honest with herself, so, yeah, I'm grateful for that.
23:43You are my cherie!
23:45Bonjour!
23:46Bonjour!
23:47My cherie!
23:48And please, I would love us to meet in the real world after.
23:53Absolutely.
23:54I look forward to it.
23:55See you soon!
23:56Ciao!
23:57Au revoir!
23:58Au revoir!
23:59Au revoir!
24:00Au revoir!
24:01Me and Mark are definitely on the same page with opening up our relationship.
24:05Yeah, I can't wait.
24:08Our next adventures and experiences.
24:10I can't wait.
24:15So nervous.
24:16Ah!
24:17I feel a bit overwhelmed.
24:19En route to the retreat, our newcomers, Sarah and Johnny.
24:23There's no one else who could do this with.
24:25No, see.
24:26No one else.
24:27With a large blended family and a cleaning business, life is non-stop.
24:32Busy, haptic, but it's brilliant. I wouldn't change it.
24:35Our relationship's one in a million.
24:37To me, the best relationship I've ever had.
24:40Sarah, she's amazing, to be fair. She is.
24:42She's one of a kind.
24:43You don't make women like that any more.
24:45Oh, I love you so much.
24:48You've got this.
24:49Don't cry.
24:51Never a dull day, is it, love?
24:53No.
24:54Never a dull moment.
24:55We're always laughing.
24:56I'm having a rubbish day and I give you a bit of grief.
24:59He doesn't hold it against me, do you?
25:01No, I'm just there.
25:02He's there.
25:03Like an emotional punchbag.
25:04Don't say that.
25:05I knew you were going to say that.
25:06Yeah.
25:07Having found each other a little later in life, Sarah is determined not to let this relationship
25:13fail.
25:14I've had past relationships where things got very stale in the bedroom, a bit boring,
25:18lost the spark and lost the connection.
25:21I want to keep the spice alive to make sure we have an amazing future.
25:27I'm really excited.
25:28Nervous as well though, yeah.
25:31Unlike most of the retreat's guests, this isn't their first go at opening up, but rather a last-ditch attempt.
25:38We've been to sex party clubs and we've been adamant we're going to do something.
25:42Yeah, and just not actually doing it and then getting home and kicking ourselves.
25:46The amount of times we've been over the years to try and do this, we are here to push ourselves.
25:50It's crunch time.
25:51I think if we don't do it now, then I don't think we have a gunna.
25:55I'm here.
25:56No, go back now.
25:57Bloody shit.
25:59Oh, I'm going to blame myself.
26:04Here we go.
26:06She's got tattoos.
26:07Here we go.
26:08How are you going?
26:09Scared!
26:10I think Sarah was a bit nervous for sure. Yeah, bless her.
26:21Hi, you okay? Nice to meet you, Sarah.
26:25I'm literally shaking. Sorry.
26:27When they came to us, I could feel him shaking.
26:30So I think Johnny and Sarah are very nervous.
26:33You're nervous?
26:34Yes, just a bit.
26:35Hiya, you okay?
26:36Hello.
26:37It is a difficult situation really, isn't it?
26:39If I see Sarah flirting with someone, it's going to be tough.
26:42I mean, it would probably be easier if it was a woman than it would be a man.
26:45But, you know, it is going to be tough.
26:47Hi! Nice to meet you, Sarah.
26:49Nice to meet you.
26:50What's at stake? So, everything really, isn't it?
26:53Your relationship's at stake.
26:55To lose it would be to lose everything.
27:09I feel like I'm 18 again.
27:14Yeah.
27:15Married couple Chloe and Paul came to open up together.
27:20But after Chloe went it alone with two girls last night,
27:24Paul is questioning if non-monogamy is for him.
27:28So I'm going to have to toughen up now and get out there and...
27:34Get your big blue pants on.
27:36Determined to give it another shot,
27:38he's going on a date with resident Grace, who he met last night.
27:42You could definitely tell that there was sexual chemistry between me and Paul,
27:47but he was very reserved.
27:50So I'm finished business.
27:53I'm just trying to compose myself.
27:55Yeah.
27:57I might be bad and bad, you just don't know.
28:00When you're together this long, you just don't know.
28:03I'm scared.
28:04Give us a hug, then.
28:07This is it?
28:08Yeah.
28:09Who knew I'd be excited for my husband to go on a date with another woman?
28:13Not me.
28:16It's weird for her to give her husband the pep talk.
28:18But Chloe knows that she is bisexual.
28:22So it's massively important that we can invite other women into the relationship.
28:27Now I need to step out my comfort zone.
28:30See you later.
28:35I've been out the game for ten years,
28:37because me and Chloe have always been together.
28:39I'm not going to lie.
28:40I am quite nervous.
28:41You all right, stranger?
28:42Oh my God.
28:43You okay?
28:44Just making sure of them falls out of the hill.
28:46I didn't think you were going to get here so soon.
28:49You okay?
28:50Yeah, yeah.
28:51You all right?
28:52Yeah.
28:53Thank you for joining me.
28:54Paul definitely needs a bit more reassurance.
28:57He just needs to come out of himself a little bit more.
29:00Do you want to go in there?
29:02Yeah, yeah.
29:03Let's go.
29:04Don't need to ask me twice.
29:07Yeah, man.
29:09It's up to me now and how I feel, so we'll see how we get on.
29:17But if something materialises from this, that would be very exciting for me and for Chloe.
29:22Our life could be different because we could have, like, I don't know, multiple partners.
29:26We can have fun with other people who knows where the road's going to go.
29:29I want you to know, like, I definitely have, like, a deep attraction to you.
29:32Like, I think you're absolutely gorgeous and I felt that vibe with you straight away.
29:35Oh, really?
29:36So, let's cheers that we're here.
29:37Cheers.
29:38I'm really happy that you're here.
29:39Is there something that you would like to...?
29:43To be honest, I'd just like to probably just get comfortable.
29:47Yeah.
29:48Yeah?
29:49You just tell me how you want me.
29:51Butt naked!
29:53I can tell that he's not been in this situation before, so it was really nice to kind of give
29:58him a little bit more confidence and help him explore his next steps into their new adventure.
30:03How do you feel if I, like, gave you a massage?
30:06Sure.
30:07How do you want me?
30:08Lay down.
30:09Oh, you are bossy.
30:12I love massages.
30:13You are?
30:14It's, like, one of my favourite things, yeah.
30:16I'm very touchy-feely and love a lot of...
30:20Yeah.
30:22Like being hands-on.
30:23Yeah, I love all that.
30:25Although you're just facing the wrong way for me.
30:27I know we are.
30:28Shall I flip round?
30:30Yeah.
30:33Yeah, ma'am.
30:38It was weird kissing someone else.
30:53But I enjoyed her too.
30:56She's a gorgeous girl.
30:58At that point, like, all the, like, nerves and all the, like, giggles are gone.
31:04We were just there in the moment.
31:07Yeah, you really turned it on.
31:09Yeah.
31:10Yeah, I think you've got the charm.
31:13There you go.
31:15It was getting hot, but she also knows that I'm in this experience to spend it with Chloe, to share it with Chloe.
31:27I definitely think now that, like, we've started doing this that, like, I am ready to, like, introduce you to me and Chloe.
31:36Yeah.
31:37If you were able to afford it, like...
31:39I would love to carry on exploring, like, with you and your wife, like...
31:42Yeah.
31:43I think before I get any more into her, I should probably go and get her.
31:46Save me energy.
31:49Now I've got to go up to Chloe and I've got to present her with that.
31:53As you can tell, I am, like, nervous.
31:56Chloe wanted me to do it, but it's another thing when they go, when someone goes ahead and does it.
32:02All right.
32:03Time to face the music.
32:10Come on.
32:11No, you're warm.
32:13Blame me.
32:14Blame me.
32:15I didn't get a pillow when we go.
32:20Despite numerous attempts, Johnny and Sarah have previously failed to open up their relationship
32:26and are now looking to Effie for direction.
32:30Hi.
32:31Hi.
32:32Nice to meet you. I'm Effie.
32:33Hi, Effie.
32:34Come through.
32:35Come on my sofa, get comfy. How are you feeling?
32:38Um, excited, nervous.
32:40Do you want to start with what brings you here today?
32:42We've talked about this for a long, long time.
32:44Obviously opening up, but, you know, we are looking to bring another girl into the equation.
32:50It sounds really, really weird, but I have fantasized many times about seeing Johnny with a female.
32:58I think it's because it is so wrong that it's right.
33:01How am I feeling?
33:02Be honest.
33:03How excited.
33:04What man wouldn't be that his missus wants to open up with a girl.
33:08You know, what more can I say?
33:11Were you able to actually, at any stage of this fantasizing, kind of think about the reality of it?
33:16Yes, we have.
33:17We've gone along to these ringers parties.
33:19We've been there and we have a great time.
33:21We, you know, we talk to everyone.
33:23Too much sometimes.
33:24We end up getting probably maybe too drunk and too nervous to approach anybody.
33:29We just don't know how to make that first move.
33:32Okay.
33:33When it actually comes to the crunch, we just sort of...
33:37You can't close the deal as well.
33:39Yes!
33:40Okay, okay.
33:41What are the nerves?
33:42Tell me about the nerves.
33:43The nerves, for me personally, are, are they going to like me?
33:46And all these doubts just sort of fly around my head and it just puts me off taking that step.
33:52Rejection.
33:53That's a nerve of fear, isn't it?
33:54I think that's another fear is rejection.
33:57So I think it's important for you to realize that when you do, when you are out there, rejection is a thing.
34:01But it's not personal.
34:02It's like that person isn't into whatever is happening in that moment.
34:06Johnny, I want to see your, your sort of the whispers in the back of your head are...
34:11With my side, it's, I don't want to upset Sarah.
34:14What I've got with Sarah, I've touched 40 years to find this type of love.
34:19And the last thing I want to do is, is blow it out of the water.
34:22Oh, okay, okay.
34:23So, the idea of how to, if you connect with somebody to take it to the next level, because that's where you struggle, right?
34:30So, some of the lines that work is, you can say, we want to go somewhere a little cozier.
34:36Would you like to join us?
34:37Okay, that sounds good.
34:38Right?
34:39Yeah.
34:40And that's a good opportunity to ask them things like, what are you into?
34:42What do you like?
34:44One of my favorite questions to ask is, how do you like to be touched?
34:48Okay.
34:49What I'd love to do is, throw you guys into a beautiful social.
34:54When you find connection, think about the tips that I've given you and to actually escalate things.
34:59Okay.
35:02See you tomorrow.
35:04Our session with Effie was really interesting actually.
35:07She gave us some good, really helpful advice.
35:10Oh, wow!
35:12I'm hoping we're going to be very successful, yeah.
35:15We are here to push ourselves.
35:17Obviously, that's the way we've got to do and the advice of Effie is, you know, she knows the stuff.
35:22Do you think we're going to be all right?
35:25Yeah, we'll be soon, aren't we?
35:27Don't worry.
35:28You're doing a number on yourself, aren't you?
35:30Is Effie going to be okay?
35:31Yeah, it is.
35:32I'm so nervous.
35:33Are you?
35:34I love you.
35:35I love you.
35:36I love you.
35:37I love you.
35:44After a successful date with Grace, Paul is about to ask his wife, Chloe, if she's still open to a threesome.
35:57Hi.
35:58Hello.
35:59Sel?
36:00Sel?
36:01Sel?
36:02Sel what?
36:03Have you got on?
36:04Have you sniffed the shot?
36:05Oh, no.
36:06Oh, yes.
36:07Holy mess.
36:08Sure, oh.
36:09How'd it go?
36:10Welcome, sit down.
36:11Yeah, welcome, sit down.
36:12Move over, let me sit under.
36:13Okay, go.
36:14I'm ready.
36:15Yeah, no, we obviously went for our, like, little date.
36:20We went in for a kiss.
36:21Like, we were getting into a cuddling kiss and, like, a bit of, like, grinding in there.
36:27Put a pin in there.
36:28Put a pin in there.
36:29I just wanted to see how you felt about, like, about it and, like, see how we get on as, like, a three and see where that goes.
36:34So, obviously, if you're up for it later, we all, like, three of us get together.
36:39Yeah?
36:40Yeah.
36:41Yeah.
36:42That would be nice, yeah.
36:43Sounds.
36:44It would be good, like, doing it together.
36:48I want to go for it, yeah.
36:49That's what we're here for, to, like, kind of push our boundaries.
36:52Yeah, but it's also, like, nerve wracking.
36:55It's a new experience again.
36:56Like, now it's me, you and another girl, so it's another...
36:59Yeah.
37:00Another dynamic.
37:01Yeah.
37:02Now I know that Chloe's comfortable enough with going all the way and Grace is so confident
37:07and so now I'm just... that's why the nerves are coming in now.
37:15That was another thing, like, I weren't really, like, getting, like, hard.
37:19Really?
37:20Yeah.
37:21I didn't.
37:22Like, I felt it like I was about to and then it stopped.
37:24My body was like, nope.
37:25Yeah.
37:26We're not ready.
37:30I've only ever slept with Chloe and who knows, like, I might not perform, like, with another
37:34girl and it's easy thinking about it, but when you're there, you're there.
37:41You ready for this then?
37:43Yeah?
37:44Yeah.
37:45Let's copy it now.
37:47Let's kiss then.
37:49Yeah.
37:50Yeah.
37:51Yeah.
37:52This will make them all break.
37:53Ready?
37:54Yeah.
37:55You ready for this then?
37:56Yeah.
37:57Yeah.
37:58Yeah.
37:59Yeah.
38:00Yeah.
38:01Yeah.
38:02Yeah.
38:03Yeah.
38:04Yeah.
38:05Yeah.
38:06Yeah.
38:07Yeah.
38:08Yeah.
38:09Yeah.
38:10Yeah.
38:11Yeah.
38:12Yeah.
38:13Yeah.
38:14Yeah.
38:15Yeah.
38:16Yeah.
38:17Hi.
38:18There she is.
38:19Oh, you're so nice.
38:20Wow, aren't you lucky.
38:21I know.
38:22Sounds an Ian, isn't it?
38:23Yeah.
38:24Oh, wow.
38:25Tonight, Chloe and Paul hope to finally open up together with Resident Grace.
38:26With threesomes, you have to be, like, so verbal with each other because it is so easy for the other person to get left out.
38:32I need to be super, like, comfortable and relaxed in order to perform.
38:33I'd say, best case scenario, I'll take it, like, to a duck and water. But worst case scenario, I'll feel like, my son is going to be a duck and water.
38:39With threesomes, you have to be, like, so verbal with each other because it is so easy for the other person to get left out.
38:47I need to be super, like, comfortable and relaxed in order to perform.
38:56I'd say, best case scenario, I'll take it, like, to a duck and water. But worst case scenario, I'll feel like, my spare part.
39:03Wow.
39:08I just thought I'd guess they did.
39:12Yeah.
39:13Should we kiss?
39:23I literally come back out and need started without me already and I was like, alright.
39:33Yeah.
39:34Yeah.
39:35Yeah?
39:36Yeah.
39:37Um, did you want to do messages or anything?
39:40Just get everyone involved or?
39:41Yeah.
39:42What are you about to do?
39:43Just like a battle in my head and it leaves me, like, getting stuck in the middle and taking no action.
39:48I feel like I need to decide.
39:50Yeah.
39:51I just thought, I've just got to trust the process.
39:54Shall we massage Chloe?
39:55Yeah.
39:56That feels really nice.
39:57You have such a nice balm.
39:58And you two are smashing it.
39:59Hey, your turn.
40:00Hands up.
40:01My turn?
40:02Yeah.
40:03Well, lucky me.
40:04How are you feeling?
40:05Feel good?
40:06Yeah.
40:07Yeah.
40:08Yeah.
40:09Yeah.
40:10Yeah.
40:11Yeah.
40:12Yeah.
40:13Yeah.
40:14Yeah.
40:15Yeah.
40:16Yeah.
40:17Yeah.
40:18Yeah.
40:19Yeah.
40:20Yeah.
40:21Yeah.
40:22Yeah.
40:23Yeah.
40:24Yeah.
40:25That felt really good.
40:26How are you feeling?
40:27I'm so happy to be part of your experience.
40:28Yeah.
40:29It's so cool.
40:32Oh, fuck you.
40:40Oh, fuck you.
40:48And that was hot.
40:49Yeah.
40:50Yeah.
40:51It'd be nice now if I started to fuck on you.
40:53Yeah.
40:54Do you want to have one, Chloe?
40:55Yeah.
40:56Yeah.
40:57Yeah.
40:58Yeah.
40:59Yeah.
41:00Yeah.
41:01Yeah.
41:02You guys want me to go home?
41:03Oh, I would?
41:04Yeah.
41:05Oh.
41:06We've never done nothing like this before.
41:07We've not even half of this.
41:09Oh, come.
41:10Oh, so am I.
41:11Oh, so am I.
41:13Me and me feel so comfortable.
41:14And I've got, like, me mojo back.
41:15And that's when I'm at me best.
41:17Oh!
41:18Oh!
41:19Oh!
41:20Oh!
41:21Oh!
41:22Oh!
41:23Oh!
41:24Oh!
41:25Oh!
41:26Oh!
41:27Oh!
41:28Oh!
41:29Oh!
41:30Oh!
41:31Oh!
41:32Oh!
41:33Oh!
41:34Oh!
41:35Oh!
41:36Oh!
41:37Oh!
41:38Oh, my God!
41:39I can't, I can't.
41:49Good build-up. Yeah, man.
41:54So good.
41:56So it was really beautiful to kind of be in that almost love triangle.
42:01Everyone was very happy, everyone got to the finish line.
42:05And it was fucking sexy, wasn't it? Yeah.
42:07Yeah. Yeah, that was amazing.
42:09See you later.
42:11See you later.
42:13That was crazy.
42:15We both came at the same time.
42:17I know. Is she triggered by anything?
42:19It's just a lot better, like, with Paul there.
42:22There's no jealousy, if anything, like, I enjoyed watching it.
42:26It's just a nice experience and something new.
42:28Like, I think it's just contentment.
42:31It's exciting because it's like we've opened up a new world.
42:36I feel reborn.
42:38I'm just missing a cigar.
42:40Yeah.
42:42You slept with four people this weekend?
42:56Yeah.
42:57Yeah, including you.
42:58Yeah.
42:59We went from, like, a virgin couple.
43:01Yeah.
43:02To now, like, the complete opposite.
43:04Yeah.
43:05A lot more experience.
43:06100%.
43:07Especially here.
43:08It blew my mind, like, how much I've done this weekend.
43:10I kind of know who I am now.
43:12Sad to be going.
43:13I know.
43:14Hi.
43:15Hi.
43:16Hi.
43:17And applause.
43:18We're good to be going.
43:19I know, so sad to be going.
43:20I know, so sad to be going.
43:21I know, so sad to be going.
43:22I'd 100% consider this to be in a relationship.
43:23Over a relationship, yeah.
43:24I think next chapter's going to be more exploration together.
43:25I heard it was you who took me wife's decent virginity.
43:26This is literally just the start.
43:27It's almost felt like it's been missing from our life.
43:31This is great.
43:32Where's it been?
43:33And it's just going to make us stronger for years and years and years to come.
43:36Yeah, definitely.
43:37Bye, guys.
43:38Bye.
43:39See you later.
43:40Bye.
43:41Bye.
43:42Bye.
43:43See you later.
43:44Bye.
43:45It looks like heaven on earth.
43:58I know.
44:08Yeah, put your brakes on quick.
44:11Newcomers Sarah and Johnny are preparing for their first social event.
44:14for their first social, where they hope to finally pluck up
44:17the courage to open up their relationship.
44:19Don't tighten it.
44:21No, don't tighten it.
44:22A little bit.
44:22And I can lose now.
44:24It pulls me pants up, all right?
44:25You just helped me put them on.
44:27But I'm so stressed.
44:28Come on, quick.
44:29We've got to go.
44:30I was going to take a waistcoat, but I don't think I need it.
44:32No, I think you look nice at that.
44:34Well, smart.
44:35Dapper.
44:37It is a big risk, you know?
44:38You know, it is nerve-wracking.
44:40It is a nerve-wracking thing to do, especially when you love
44:42someone so much.
44:44Ready?
44:45No.
44:46OK.
44:47Let's do this.
44:48You look amazing, anyway.
44:49You do, too.
44:50Oh, God.
44:55Yeah, I'm feeling nervous.
44:56Obviously, it's a big, big, daunting place out there,
44:58and there's a lot of people that are experienced that we're not,
45:01so, yeah, that's very overwhelming.
45:03Cheers!
45:04We're just, like, an average couple, normal average couple
45:08from a small town.
45:10It's absolutely bonkers, literally, like, what are we doing?
45:13What are we doing?
45:23Next time on Open House...
45:25So, Marie, we just wanted to, like, spend some time with us.
45:29It just wasn't what we talked about.
45:31No, it's not, but nothing goes to plan, ever, does it?
45:33No.
45:34I was literally ready to fucking go,
45:35right, oh, fucking see you later.
45:37Hi, Marie.
45:38Hi, Marie.
45:39Oh, my God, these guys are stunning.
45:41I want multiple people in my life at all times.
45:44Even though it's all consensual,
45:46it still makes me feel guilty.
45:50If I couldn't achieve that with Claude,
45:52it would definitely be something that put a spanner in our relationship.
45:56If you are a curious couple or single,
46:09and interested in being part of the next Open House series,
46:24visit channel4.com forward slash take part.
46:28Bye.
46:29Bye.
46:58Bye.
46:59Bye.
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