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Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 5
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00:00Okay, now I'm getting bugs.
00:10En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:15It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:21Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:25We've known each other for 16 years.
00:26Lauren's brother is one of my best mates, and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:34Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:38Look at that rock on your finger.
00:40She just makes me, basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:44The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:49I'm a huge adrenaline junkie, and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:54Tom fully understands what I'm like, and to be honest, joins me.
01:00Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
01:04The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:11I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:17We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:23Yeah.
01:24I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open, because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:31With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:49How are you guys doing, all right?
01:52They're a good-looking couple.
01:54Yeah.
01:54You look lovely.
01:55Very lovely.
01:57Hi, guys.
01:57You're right?
01:58Hey!
01:59Come on, love your shirt. We're almost matching.
02:03Yeah, these guys look great.
02:05One girl, a bit of you.
02:12I'm excited, but nervous.
02:14Oh, I'm nervous now. Yeah.
02:15Yeah.
02:15Definitely nervous now.
02:16I'm so excited to be here. I really am. I am like, come on.
02:22Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need. It's just a real big push.
02:29Guiding couples on their journey.
02:32Hello, come in.
02:33Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:37Take a seat.
02:39I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:41So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:44I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:49Mm-hmm.
02:50I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt, if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:56We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:06Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:08I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:12Mm-hmm.
03:13I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:21When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:24If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all.
03:32And then that's, for me, game over.
03:34I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't get him up.
03:39I can't perform.
03:40And it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:44I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:51There's been a couple of times, there's been in the past, even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:56I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:59When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
04:05I can't take the top off.
04:07I absolutely hate looking at myself.
04:10I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:12When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappie.
04:18Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom.
04:24It was terrifying.
04:26The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down, die at any point.
04:33It was so, so scary.
04:36He got really down.
04:37He obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:40Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that is basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:50You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:54Yeah, definitely.
04:56Definitely.
04:56It's like you're not going to get a hard on because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
05:08Hey, you're okay?
05:09Yeah, I'm good.
05:10I wasn't expecting that.
05:15Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:19The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:24So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right?
05:31Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:40And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:44It's what I want as well.
05:48Lauren, what do you want to achieve?
05:50What would be your ideal situation?
05:51I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap.
05:56And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
06:02And the same for women as well.
06:04But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:09Sure, yeah, no, exactly.
06:10Hopefully, here is the place we can help you get over those things, starting with a good old party.
06:16Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:18Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:21I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:31This is about sensuality.
06:33That's about cuddles and touches.
06:36I want you to focus on one person, and I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:47Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:55And then, be open to things escalating.
07:02That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
07:04When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight to sex.
07:07Yeah.
07:08Right.
07:09It sounds really exciting.
07:11Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
07:12Beautiful.
07:13Yeah.
07:19Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:25So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like, and to be more embodied.
07:33If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:41Oh, wow.
07:43I do worry for me and Lauren, because if I can't, if I can't do the whole open relationship, I feel like we go a separate ways.
07:55I'm hoping it won't get to that stage.
08:05Previously on Open House.
08:07Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple, but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
08:19What's at stake is Alana's, like, feelings and emotions.
08:22I've been cheated on quite a lot.
08:25Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
08:27So, we kind of want you to face that threat.
08:32Would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome?
08:36That scenario wasn't in my head, don't want to do it, like, I want to live.
08:42If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
08:47Who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie.
08:50She's gorgeous.
08:52Would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us?
08:55Yeah.
08:56If it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
09:06I did not think this is where we were going to be on, like, our first night.
09:12And here you are.
09:13This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
09:15Really?
09:16If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
09:18I'd be like, no.
09:19We didn't think that we would be in a hot tub if we were there.
09:22And here you are.
09:22How would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss?
09:33How do you feel?
09:36I'm OK.
09:36Yeah?
09:36In that moment, watching Alex and Georgie kiss, I thought, oh, no.
09:49I was like, yeah, look, almost a bit turned on by it.
10:19I really want you on me.
10:22Can I, like, want you on me?
10:25I can't believe this.
10:26Are you proud of me?
10:27Yeah.
10:29Like, what the hell?
10:31Yay.
10:31Yeah.
10:38I've never seen a lot of kiss another woman.
10:42I knew it was part of her life, like, long, long ago.
10:45But to see that, like, reopen that door was such a huge turn on for me to see that.
10:49It was, like, really hot.
10:52Oh, my God.
10:54I'm obsessed.
10:54Stop it.
10:57Can we just take you home with us?
11:01Well, it all flowed very naturally.
11:05You've got three weeks.
11:06Yeah.
11:06I think we've got to have thought we'd have been here.
11:15I honestly don't know what's happening right now.
11:18I feel like this is normal.
11:23I think, like, things are feeling good.
11:27Mm-hmm.
11:28Do you maybe want to come back to our room?
11:30I would love that.
11:31Yeah, just explore things a little bit more.
11:34Yeah, let's take the next step.
11:36We'll do baby steps.
11:37Let's do it.
11:39I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in, like, a single female.
11:44I thought that would be way too intimidating.
11:47I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned on.
11:50Yeah.
11:53Yeah, like, this has been insane.
11:56Honestly, I can't believe it.
11:57Like, it's such a change.
11:58You can't do anything.
11:59And now we're inviting...
12:02I still have to come back to our room.
12:03Back to our room.
12:19Oh, my God, they're short, short.
12:20I know, I did say my ass, like, eats them.
12:23New arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night.
12:27Oh, that's bad.
12:29They'll be attending a sexy barn dance, where they hope to meet residents who could help
12:38Tom overcome his physical stumbling block when it comes to opening up.
12:45Whenever we've dipped our toes into being open, Tom felt he just couldn't perform, felt really uncomfortable.
12:52They've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience, where the focus is only on foreplay.
13:03Hey, babe.
13:04What?
13:04I look fucking ridiculous.
13:06With no pressure to perform, the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion.
13:12I do foresee hurdles.
13:14The residents are all very beautiful.
13:16The problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious.
13:20If I went in there on my own, I think I'd probably walk straight back out.
13:33How are you guys doing?
13:35Yeah, great.
13:37Shit's good.
13:38This is out of my comfort zone.
13:55The heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room.
13:58So, what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them.
14:06I feel sick inside.
14:07I don't think they can.
14:08Okay, so listen, there's no pressure.
14:09That's what we're saying.
14:11Like, let's just give it a really good go.
14:13This is what we're here for.
14:15First to meet them are married couple, Jem and Daz.
14:18What are you looking for, then?
14:21That's the question.
14:22So, for me, I need that conversation.
14:24Yeah, and for you, it's obviously just about feeling body confident around.
14:28Yeah, I'm a bit, yeah.
14:30Yeah.
14:30Just lacking in confidence a little bit.
14:32That's understandable.
14:33You know, it's really nerve-wracking.
14:36If there's any environment where personality matters more than looks, it's this environment.
14:41We'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey.
14:45Hello, you all right?
14:46I'm Tom.
14:46How are you doing?
14:47All right.
14:47How are you doing?
14:47I'm Gage.
14:48This is my wife, Olivia.
14:49Why is she dynamic?
14:51So, we...
14:51That's a big word, that is.
14:53Dynamic.
14:53That's a very big one, isn't it?
14:55My favorite word is that.
14:55Dynamic.
14:56I don't want it.
14:57Why am I saying we babble in it before?
14:59We're really good at reading people's body language and kind of, like, how they're feeling.
15:03You know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared.
15:07But when you have that, you know, responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression
15:11of the lifestyle, you want to make it the best.
15:14I used to be, like, really, like, outgoing, going gym seven days.
15:17I used to have, like, the abs.
15:18And I basically comfort eat and drink and, of course, I put on the weight now, so...
15:22You can just, like, kiss and you can, like, you can go down on them and you can touch them.
15:28And you don't necessarily just have the build-up, but I think it is the point where you think
15:32you've got to go through that natural process.
15:35Olivia and Gage, they made me feel so, like, it just felt natural just talking to her.
15:40After a confidence boost from Gage, Tom moves on to single resident Aaron, who's no stranger
15:48to open conversation.
15:50Do you have an idea of, kind of, what you want from the experience?
15:54Basically, have fun, relax and try and let my hair down.
15:58To a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up, I think the best
16:03thing they can do is talk to, talk to us.
16:06You know, you've come here for the sex, but don't forget that the sex comes from a person.
16:11I'm a single guy.
16:12I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women.
16:15Oh, wow.
16:16At the same time for two years.
16:17That's crazy.
16:18Split 50-50.
16:19Yeah.
16:20There'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence.
16:24Yeah.
16:24And I'll go and play, and I won't even get half.
16:27But that's okay, because if you're around people, you're comfortable around.
16:31That's, that's what I'm, that's what we're trying to get through to talk.
16:35Speaking to Aaron, he made it easy for me to basically say, I don't need my penis, basically.
16:42I've got my hands and I've got my tongue.
16:44And I think Lauren really likes him as well.
16:47Aaron has given me fanny futters.
16:50So I've never had more than two men at once.
16:54So my ideal situation would obviously be more men.
16:57Fresh from meeting Aaron, Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite
17:07to their sensual soiree.
17:10Aaron, because he was on the same page as you, and even he doesn't get hard.
17:13Yeah.
17:13Because I feel like he would understand you as well.
17:17Yeah.
17:19Aaron made me feel really at ease.
17:21He, yeah, he was absolutely brilliant.
17:22I'm so scared of the rejection, mainly for Tom, rather than for me, because is he then going
17:30to be really nervous going forward?
17:33That little bit inside, that if they say no, it'll feel like shit, yeah, but, you know, you just
17:40have to wait and see and see what happens.
17:42We just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just...
17:45Maybe some games, some teasing, some fuddling, if it escalates, escalates, and it doesn't, it doesn't, and that doesn't matter.
17:56Okay, guys, I'm not going to say that I'm going to play.
17:59It's, it's for me at the moment, I take a lot more to get to that point.
18:07I was surprised by Aaron, because he said he doesn't want to play.
18:13Aaron, without being rude, obviously we have to move along with being honest.
18:17Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea, but for me, I don't obviously want to put Tom off
18:21even more with this process.
18:24It's like rejection.
18:26I'm just, yeah, I'm shocked.
18:29Right, move all the things of the beds, put them all on the, here.
18:39In their bedroom, Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie.
18:44Are we going to be weird and go, are you okay if we get protection just in case?
18:49We'll just have it on the side.
18:52They're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap,
18:58by having a threesome.
19:01I don't know how this is going to go.
19:03Seeing Alex being with another woman.
19:07With where we are now, look, I'm definitely open to...
19:12Season two.
19:14Just seeing how it goes.
19:15But as much as this is a really big step for me, it's also a really big step for him,
19:21because he's going to potentially be with another woman.
19:25This is all new, and it's starting to feel very real.
19:29So my worries going into this is me being with another woman and how that might make Alana feel.
19:35I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have, but equally it could not be.
19:38Hello, come here, come here, come in, are you all right?
19:47Oh, it's so nice!
19:49It would be devastating if anything went wrong here, for sure.
19:57So much better.
19:58Okay, cool.
19:59This is a bit more chill.
20:00Yeah.
20:01If you don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum.
20:04No, I like that.
20:04Let's just pick up on my laptop.
20:06The sexual chemistry was insane.
20:18The fact that I could, like, just let go of everything and just really enjoy it, like...
20:26I never thought that would have happened in this experience.
20:36But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies,
21:00Alex retreats to the sideline.
21:04I think, like, I was overwhelmed.
21:15It was, like, from zero to 100 and it called me off guard really.
21:20Although I was, like, turned on an idea, I wasn't, like, turned on.
21:32I can't quite match that right now.
21:44I've had, like, the best evening, like...
22:00Give me a little kiss.
22:01Yeah.
22:02Bye.
22:06I'll see you soon as well.
22:10Yeah, we'll see you soon.
22:11I'll see you soon.
22:11I'll see you soon.
22:18I love you so much.
22:20I loved it.
22:21I genuinely loved every minute of that.
22:23There wasn't any part where I thought I feel uncomfortable or, like,
22:28oh, I don't know how I feel about this.
22:29Like, I literally loved every single second of that.
22:33Did you enjoy it?
22:34I loved seeing you, like, enjoy it.
22:39Yeah.
22:40I loved it.
22:46Oh, it might always seem to get the wet patch.
22:56Maybe I could have done more,
22:59but I think I was a little bit, like,
23:01overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.
23:03At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:26It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome
23:30with a female resident, Georgie.
23:35You're so quiet.
23:39Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened,
23:42but I could feel there was something a little bit off.
23:55What are you thinking about?
23:59I'm just thinking, processing.
24:01Are you sure you're okay?
24:06Yeah.
24:10When we first came in here, obviously,
24:12our aim and our kind of end goal
24:14was to be able to do a full couple swap.
24:17I knew Alex was in his head a little bit.
24:24Even at home, like, he can go a bit quiet sometimes,
24:27but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.
24:35Hello.
24:36Come in.
24:36Take a seat, take a seat, get comfy.
24:39Oh, yeah, you're right.
24:41How was last night?
24:43Like, I'm really happy.
24:45Yeah.
24:45It just, it felt right.
24:48Beautiful breakthrough.
24:50Absolutely.
24:50I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie
24:54that said, like, would you be okay if I kissed Alex?
24:58She kind of, like, led it a little bit, which was nice.
25:02And, like, I actually enjoyed watching it,
25:05which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.
25:09What are you thinking, Alex?
25:11I don't, I don't know.
25:13I don't want to take away, because I loved last night.
25:16It was incredible.
25:17But I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:24Yeah, tell me about that.
25:25I don't know, like, I don't think I was,
25:27I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like,
25:30so that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:32Okay, okay, okay.
25:35The couple thing I definitely want to do,
25:37but again, I don't know if I go all the way, so...
25:39Okay.
25:40That's where, I think that's why I've been quiet this morning,
25:42because I wasn't sure.
25:43For me, there was, like, something missing,
25:45and I don't know what it was.
25:45I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection-based,
25:48like, when it comes to sex.
25:50Like, deep, deeper connections.
25:54Intimacy?
25:55Is that what you're seeking?
25:56Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:59I do find it better if there's a connection,
26:03and that's where I am right now.
26:04Like, I'm trying to figure that out.
26:05The thing that I want to understand is,
26:09how do you feel about that?
26:16Um...
26:16I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:20Sure.
26:20Now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:24Like, what if you build, like,
26:27this really great connection with someone else
26:29that you then feel is...
26:32like...
26:34That's never, ever going to be the thing.
26:40You okay?
26:41Yeah.
26:43It's okay.
26:43You're really challenging some of the things
26:47that you're the most afraid of,
26:49and stuff is coming up.
26:50Like, that's all about that.
26:53So, that's scary to you right now.
26:54So, let's just look at it in the face.
26:56Tell me, what do you mean by connection?
26:59Let's just like...
26:59I think it's definitely not, like,
27:02deep connection with what I have with you.
27:04It's...
27:04It's a lot less than that.
27:06It's more familiarisation.
27:08Like, you almost want to be friends
27:09with that person before it...
27:11Okay.
27:11I've never been, like,
27:13a one-night guy.
27:15You know what I mean?
27:15To be fair, like, yeah,
27:16even we didn't sleep together,
27:18like, straight away.
27:20So, I get that.
27:21I know that's not necessarily, like,
27:23how you work.
27:25Mm-hmm.
27:26So, what would that look for you
27:28in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:29Like, do you want to have, like,
27:30one couple friend
27:31that you date and play with?
27:37Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:40Like, what does that look like for you?
27:41We did say, like,
27:42it would be nice to have, like,
27:44one couple that we're, like,
27:46best friends with.
27:47Mm-hmm.
27:47And we get on really well with them
27:48and, like, play together as well.
27:51So, what I have in mind is
27:53I want you to have a taste
27:55of the couple experience
27:56that you want.
27:59But I feel like
27:59the next challenge for you
28:01is to navigate the connection piece.
28:03For you to actually go there
28:04and start making a connection
28:05and for you to feel like,
28:07to figure out what it feels like
28:09when it's happening
28:09and spend a bit of time
28:11connecting with the couple.
28:12And then,
28:13once you feel like
28:14you have a connection in place,
28:16then you can escalate things
28:18in your own time
28:19and take it from there
28:20and you see how it goes for you.
28:21How does that sound?
28:22I hope that sounds good.
28:24I'm fine with that.
28:26Are you definitely fine?
28:27Yeah, I feel relaxed.
28:28OK.
28:29I think that the biggest thing
28:31off my chest
28:31was what we've spoken about now.
28:33That was, like,
28:33just something I need to understand.
28:39You're welcome.
28:40You're welcome.
28:40Enjoy.
28:40I'm excited to meet
28:48some couples today.
28:51But, um,
28:52this moment,
28:52I don't know
28:54if I can go all the way.
28:56We'll have to see.
29:01We love each other, right?
29:03Yeah, we do.
29:04At the Sexy Barn Dance,
29:16Lauren and Tom
29:17are coming to terms
29:18with being rejected
29:19by resident Aaron.
29:25Let your hair down.
29:27Let my hair down.
29:27I'm going to make you lie down.
29:29I am not lying down.
29:30That is not happening.
29:31Oh, my God.
29:43Hi, Lauren.
29:47I used to do
29:48quite a lot of dancing
29:49with Lauren.
29:49It's what I used to really enjoy.
29:51So I feel a lot more comfortable,
29:53yeah.
30:00When I was around Tom,
30:01we had a little mini dance battle
30:03and, like,
30:04the fact that he was just
30:05busting out the robot
30:06and, like,
30:06just having so much fun with it
30:07and I was like,
30:08let's do this,
30:08let's do that
30:09and he was just like,
30:10yeah, let's do it.
30:10It's the last.
30:16I'm buzzing.
30:18I'm literally buzzing
30:18from how happy he is.
30:24He's so relaxed now.
30:25Rejection behind them,
30:30thoughts return to their objective,
30:32finding residence
30:33for a sensual after-party.
30:36I feel a lot more comfortable,
30:37yeah,
30:37so I think it's a lot more easier
30:39to invite people
30:40and to see if they say yes or no.
30:42You lead the way.
30:43But it was basically,
31:03we're just wondering
31:03if you'd like to be,
31:06to, like,
31:07come back with us
31:07and just basically
31:08cuddle, kiss, touch.
31:13Well,
31:13I'm ready whenever you guys are.
31:15I'll be at the bar.
31:16I wasn't expecting that.
31:17I wasn't expecting the fact
31:19that I was actually
31:20waiting for a no.
31:21As Tom's confidence grows.
31:24And I was just wondering
31:25if you guys want to come back.
31:27Yeah.
31:27Yeah.
31:28Yeah.
31:28Oh, wow.
31:29Yeah, I've realized, yeah.
31:30So does the after-party.
31:33Wondering
31:33if you want to come.
31:36I love that.
31:36That's quick.
31:37That's so easy.
31:40And a guest list
31:41swells to five.
31:43We were pleasantly surprised.
31:45And it actually feels
31:46kind of, like, nice,
31:47like, feeling,
31:48I know it sounds
31:49way a bit wanted.
31:51I would say
31:52I'm definitely attracted to him,
31:53for sure.
31:55They're a vibe,
31:56100%.
31:56I'm just really excited
31:57just to get to know them
31:58a bit more.
32:01Lauren and Tom's
32:02next challenge
32:03will be their biggest yet,
32:05as the five residents
32:06will be joining them
32:07to attempt to help Tom
32:08overcome his performance anxiety
32:10and successfully open up.
32:15We're basically,
32:16we'll go back to the bedroom
32:18and basically see what happens.
32:21Not promising anything.
32:23I've still got them hurdles,
32:24I've still got them
32:24body confidence
32:25and all that.
32:26The worst thing
32:27that can happen
32:27is going into shock
32:30and walking out.
32:43Having been in two minds
32:44as to whether he's ready
32:46to open up,
32:47Alex has agreed
32:48to try to make connections
32:49with couples.
32:53Oh, this looks so cute.
32:56We're just looking
32:57for like good vibes.
32:58Obviously,
32:59going into the couple scenario
33:01is slightly different
33:02because it's both of us
33:03have got to have an attraction
33:04to two different people then.
33:08We'll see,
33:09you know,
33:10if it's the right people
33:11then it'll be there.
33:12We'll see you next time.
33:16Hello.
33:17Hello.
33:18I'm Joe.
33:19Joe, love to meet you.
33:20Love to meet you.
33:20How are you doing?
33:21You all right?
33:21How's it just on the walk-in?
33:22Literally on the walk-in.
33:24Both Alex and Alana
33:25really want to get to know them,
33:27don't we?
33:28Yeah, they're definitely
33:29good-looking.
33:29They're super hot.
33:30Who was the one
33:31who instigated
33:32sort of coming here
33:33and stuff then?
33:33I think coming here
33:34might have been more me.
33:36Did you guys come in
33:37initially looking
33:38to bring in
33:40a single lady?
33:41What were you
33:42initially looking for?
33:43Connections with couples
33:44is where we were
33:45looking at.
33:46The hardest part
33:47was obviously
33:48for me to kind of
33:49get over insecurities
33:50with having another
33:52female,
33:52like being physical
33:54and like
33:55smash that
33:56on the first note
33:57so we're like
33:57yay!
34:01One thing I'd say
34:02is I'll do
34:03threesomes is easiest.
34:04You guys have actually
34:05done probably
34:05one of the harder things
34:06like threesomes
34:06are sort of easier
34:08because everyone's
34:08got something to do.
34:09Hi, I'm Alana.
34:13Hi, Alana.
34:14Lovely to meet you.
34:16So, how are you?
34:18Today, tonight?
34:19You're looking for
34:19a couple swap?
34:21Yeah.
34:21Just trying to like
34:22find our way
34:23into it though.
34:24It's definitely
34:24been a space
34:25that's just
34:25finding our like
34:26place.
34:27Big thing
34:27letting someone else
34:28into your relationship.
34:30But it's nice
34:31because like you say
34:32everyone's like
34:34scenarios are different.
34:35Well, it's about you
34:36guys.
34:36That's the thing.
34:37It's like you're not
34:37here to please
34:38someone else.
34:39Yeah.
34:40It's what's best
34:40for you.
34:42I didn't know
34:42how I was going
34:43to feel about it.
34:44Yeah.
34:45But actually like
34:46I shocked everyone
34:47and ended up being
34:48absolutely fine with it.
34:51Alex and Alana
34:52were quite attractive
34:53actually.
34:53There was definitely
34:54a vibe there.
34:56I think we'd
34:57definitely be into
34:58them if they wanted
34:59to kind of spend
35:00a bit more time
35:01with us.
35:04Can I go
35:05to your chat?
35:06Yes.
35:12How have you found it?
35:20Um, like it's been
35:22nice to speak
35:24to couples today.
35:25Like obviously
35:26that was
35:27what we wanted
35:28to do.
35:29For me I feel like
35:30um, Jem and Daz
35:32I just feel like
35:32they would be like
35:33a really great couple
35:35to get to know.
35:35I feel like they've
35:36got a similar
35:36vibe to us.
35:40How are you feeling?
35:41Is there anyone
35:41that you felt like
35:42might have had
35:43a connection with?
35:49I've like um
35:50I've honestly
35:51at the moment
35:52I just don't know
35:55right now
35:55if I can
35:58go any further.
36:05Okay.
36:07How do you
36:08how are you feeling
36:09about that?
36:10Um
36:11yeah like
36:13I'm a little bit
36:13surprised.
36:15what is it
36:19that's making
36:19you feel that way
36:20is it that you
36:21don't feel like
36:21you want to go
36:23any further at all
36:25or do you feel like
36:25it's just maybe
36:26been a little bit
36:27too much too soon
36:29like it's just
36:30got a bit
36:30overwhelming?
36:34Mate
36:35I don't know
36:35like
36:36it's more of a
36:39me thing
36:39this now
36:40like for now
36:44that's as far
36:46as I can go
36:46you've hit like
36:48a bit of a wall
36:48with it
36:49yeah
36:49okay
36:50I do want to
36:54really do this
36:55okay
36:55that makes me
36:59happy
37:00with Alex
37:11unable to
37:12continue
37:12the couple
37:13stay at the
37:14retreat
37:14has come to
37:16an end
37:16going forward
37:22I do think
37:23open up the
37:23relationship
37:24is for
37:25me and Alana
37:26but
37:26it's going to
37:27take time
37:28it will take
37:29more time
37:29for me
37:29I don't
37:48know
37:48I feel
37:48like
37:49emotional
37:49now
37:50what
37:56does
37:56happen
37:56I don't
37:57know
37:58it's just
38:00the whole
38:01thing's
38:01like
38:01just
38:01very
38:02overwhelming
38:02isn't
38:03it
38:03like
38:03I don't
38:07know
38:08I don't
38:08know
38:09what to
38:09say
38:10it's
38:14it's just
38:14it's just
38:14like
38:14a very
38:15emotional
38:16few days
38:16isn't
38:16it
38:17the future
38:19will
38:20at some
38:21point
38:21be
38:22a full
38:23open
38:23relationship
38:23but at
38:24the moment
38:24it's
38:25baby steps
38:25still
38:26it's just
38:32been a very
38:33overwhelming
38:34process
38:35but
38:35I don't
38:37want to
38:37keep
38:37crying
38:37but I'm
38:38actually
38:38really proud
38:39of myself
38:40opening up
38:43our relationship
38:44is a lot
38:45harder than I
38:46first thought
38:46I really thought
38:48it was going to be
38:48a straight line
38:49but it's curves
38:50and angles
38:51and everything
38:51that goes with it
38:52is not easy
38:53but like
38:54we've absolutely
38:55got the ability
38:56to do it
38:56I absolutely
39:01love you to pieces
39:01and I'm happy
39:02and glad
39:03and I love you
39:03so much
39:04I love you so much
39:06just goes to show
39:17that you're saying
39:18that you haven't
39:18got it
39:19however
39:19if you hadn't
39:21then
39:21why is everyone
39:22saying yes
39:23Lauren and Tom
39:25have invited
39:25a small group
39:26back for an
39:27intimate party
39:28in the
39:28residence playroom
39:29even though
39:32they've said yes
39:33and all that
39:33kind of stuff
39:34it doesn't mean
39:35like you know
39:36they see me
39:36and go
39:37actually no
39:37what the fuck
39:38is that
39:38it's what goes
39:39to my head
39:39I know
39:41so that's why
39:42we're going to
39:43go take it
39:43one step
39:44at a time
39:44okay
39:46yeah
39:47no pressure
39:49they hope
39:50that by focusing
39:51on touch
39:52and foreplay
39:52Tom will manage
39:54to get an erection
39:55a stumbling block
39:57that's stopping
39:58the couple
39:58from opening up
39:59I'm hoping to leave
40:03knowing the fact
40:05that I don't have
40:06to worry about
40:07for my dick
40:09not to hug
40:09yeah I don't quite know
40:33how I'm feeling
40:34right now
40:34being shocked
40:36to be fair
40:37my biggest concern
40:39is obviously
40:39making sure
40:40Tom is comfortable
40:41because I will
40:42get naked
40:42and run around
40:43like I am
40:44the opposite
40:45of Tom
40:46I know
40:51I want to be open
40:52and I'm not planning
40:53on changing that
40:54I'm not the person
40:55that struggles
40:56with this lifestyle
40:56and it's Tom
40:57it is
40:58should we make
40:59the lighting
41:00a little bit more
41:00sexy guys
41:01oh yeah
41:02let's do it
41:03yeah
41:04put blindfold on
41:08man
41:08nice nice nice
41:09is there any areas
41:11that you genuinely
41:11want us to avoid
41:12it's basically
41:13just taking
41:13the top of
41:14I can't see
41:18but
41:19I definitely
41:21want to make
41:22Lauren happy
41:23we'll try anything
41:25and jump this
41:26hurdle basically
41:27but once it's
41:29in my head
41:29I can't
41:30before
41:30I freeze
41:31once I'm in that rut
41:33I can't get out
41:34of the rut
41:34how are you feeling
41:36mate
41:36it's weird
41:38but
41:38you're getting worshiped
41:40you're getting all
41:40the attention
41:41this is my favourite
41:43thing
41:43despite Effie's
41:47advice to actively
41:48engage in foreplay
41:49Tom lets the
41:51ladies lead
41:52just let us know
41:53that it gets
41:54a bit too
41:54overwhelming
41:55it was putting
42:09shivers down
42:10my spine
42:10I could feel
42:12everything
42:13I feel absolutely
42:22petrified
42:23and sick
42:24next time
42:30on open house
42:31are you ready
42:32for the next level
42:32I feel absolutely
42:37petrified
42:38is it okay to kiss
42:42it's two guys
42:45back in the net
42:46I have identified
42:49as gay
42:50today
42:51I don't know
42:52I've been feeling
42:53very naughty
42:55never had
42:56any experience
42:57with gaming
42:58before
42:58but the worst
43:00the worst case
43:00I would be reacting
43:02in a way
43:02which I'm not
43:03expecting
43:03this is
43:05out of my
43:06comfort area
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