- 5/31/2025
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00:00The first couple travelling to open house this year are Tanith and Mark from West Yorkshire.
00:29We met in the most lovely little pub, the Red Lion.
00:34Yeah, like a typical old man's pub where you would not expect to meet anybody in there.
00:39The only attractive looking lady I've ever seen in there to be honest.
00:42He took his chance, he got it, he got it.
00:46This is definitely the best relationship I've had.
00:49I like Tan's smile. Aw, it's not leaving me bush.
00:53She's just a fun personality, she's always bubbly and...
00:56Aw, you're softy.
00:58They share a house, a chihuahua and big plans.
01:03Me and Mark, we are like family now and we are thinking about, you know, the future with kids and that kind of stuff too.
01:12Potentially a ring.
01:14But like all relationships, this one has its ups and downs.
01:19And some old habits are hard to shake.
01:22I tend to have a bit of one red eye.
01:29I've always wanted to just do what I want to do when I want to do it.
01:32And sometimes when you find yourself in relationships, you feel a bit trapped.
01:36I think I've always felt very much trapped.
01:38So today, Tanith and Mark are setting out to discover whether an open relationship could be right for them.
01:45Before this relationship, I've never thought of non-monogamy.
01:48Yeah, there's always that stigma around that and, you know, it's quite taboo for someone to even think about it.
01:54Two friends, two lovers, but you're still kind of free.
01:58Kind of free.
02:05That's insane.
02:07Oh my God.
02:09You ready?
02:11I'm ready.
02:18Here to help the guests on their journey are the open house residents who are experienced in the extraordinary world of non-monogamy.
02:29Actually, being non-monogamous is more natural to our human nature than being monogamous.
02:37The open lifestyle for me is just about embracing your own sexuality and who you are as a person.
02:44It's a very empowering feeling.
02:48I like men.
02:49I like to have more than one, like three, five sometimes.
02:54You see the orgasm of the man really turn me on.
03:01We offer new couples some fun and a bit of experience.
03:06I'm a cracking pair of tits.
03:07I like to have a pair of tits.
03:22How's it going, honey?
03:24Are they here?
03:26Yeah.
03:27They're really bad.
03:29He's so fit.
03:30Anyone who looks like a drummer.
03:33Mark and Tan is completely my type.
03:36I love a man with strong hair, as you can tell by the facial hair.
03:39I think fancy is too weak a word.
03:41I think we absolutely love their vibe.
03:45Yep.
03:46Oh, wow, the energy.
03:47She's cute.
03:48I like her.
03:51Hi.
03:53Nice to meet you.
03:54I love a guy with long hair to give me surfer vibes.
04:01And she with just a little pocket of energy.
04:04Absolutely brilliant impression.
04:08Very nice welcome in.
04:12So the worst case scenario would be that you would risk your relationship.
04:17And yeah, of course it would be devastating.
04:19Hello.
04:21Hi.
04:22Welcome.
04:23I'm Effie.
04:24Nice to meet you.
04:25Hi, Effie.
04:26Nice to meet you.
04:28Guiding all new arrivals on their journey is non-monogamy coach Effie Blue.
04:34I think it's important to have a retreat like this.
04:37Because it provides a space that you don't have anywhere else.
04:41You can play.
04:43You can connect.
04:44You can explore.
04:45You can experiment.
04:46And you have a support network around you to take care of you.
04:49To make sure that your experience is the right one for you.
04:53And I'm looking forward to challenging people to get out of their comfort zone.
04:58And really explore non-monogamy.
05:03So how long have you been together?
05:06Two and a half years.
05:07Two and a half years, yeah.
05:08Okay, how is it going?
05:09Like we've had a, we had a turbulent start.
05:11Okay.
05:12There were insecurities and trust issues at the very beginning.
05:15Yeah.
05:16And then I ended up cheating.
05:19Okay.
05:21And done.
05:22Caught in vigilance.
05:23Caught me, yeah.
05:26We've been together, I think, a year.
05:30Yeah, just like, tore my world apart.
05:32It was really hard.
05:33For feeling it, feeling we were in a good place.
05:35And it's all to be shattered, I guess.
05:37And we had it, like, I think, took time for ourselves.
05:41And I realised in that time, like, he was worth, worth it.
05:48Dan, how are you feeling?
05:50It's like, it's just a lot of emotion, isn't it?
05:52Yeah, yeah, yeah.
05:53It's all right.
05:54Bless you.
05:55It's all right.
05:56We're good.
05:57Okay.
05:59And was there cheating in your previous relationships?
06:01Do you have, like, a history of cheating?
06:02I've always had a tendency to be a bit unfairful in the past.
06:07Okay.
06:10And what were you getting out of those cheating experiences?
06:13I guess it's the feeling of feeling like you wanted or somebody is attracted to you.
06:18It's probably, like, not feeling good within yourself.
06:21So you're looking at getting that through other people.
06:25Maybe it stemmed from childhood or there was some insecurities within myself.
06:28Maybe I didn't feel like we were good enough and I was seeking attention elsewhere.
06:33There's lots of different reasons why people do what they do.
06:37So how much of your history of infidelity has impacted your decision to potentially open up your relationship?
06:45So, I think I was the one that brought it up.
06:48Okay.
06:49Yeah.
06:50I knew I wanted to be with Mark and I thought maybe this is the right path that we should go down and explore.
06:56I think, for me, monogamy and I were just failing at relationships.
07:01I couldn't have wished to make a better person than Tan.
07:04But she's just a great human.
07:06You know, nothing negative about her.
07:08You know, really good energy.
07:10And I don't want to lose that person.
07:12Yeah.
07:15So do you have something in mind that you want to explore?
07:17So we thought about just bringing, like, a woman in and then going separately.
07:26Okay.
07:27We have thought about opening up our relationship separately.
07:30Obviously, we've had trust issues in the past and I think playing separate would build that extra level of trust in our relationship.
07:40If we do this separately, I think it could build our trust.
07:44Because you've gone through accepting that someone's gone off somewhere.
07:50You're aware that it's consensual and you're both consented to it.
07:54And there's no dishonesty or deceit.
07:57Okay.
07:58So this is about trust, right?
07:59Yeah.
08:00You're going to lean into that a lot.
08:01Yeah.
08:02So how about we create two separate socials for you?
08:07Where you get to socialize, connect with people.
08:10If you want to escalate things, we have beautiful spaces for you to go and do whatever you want to do.
08:15With a little bit of separation, a little bit of independence from one another to have your own experiences with other people.
08:22So, you're going to come back here tomorrow and we're going to unpack it together.
08:27We're normally joined at the hip, aren't we?
08:29Okay.
08:30Well, we're here to challenge you and help you understand.
08:33That's what we're here for, you know.
08:34We're here to try new things.
08:37I'm excited for you.
08:38Have a great time.
08:40Don't forget to have fun.
08:41And I'll see you tomorrow.
08:42Yeah, see you tomorrow.
08:43Beautiful.
08:44Yeah, yeah.
08:45Let yourselves out.
08:49Trust is key to the success of their exercise tonight.
08:51They will be going apart separately and socializing and potentially connecting and escalating things with somebody.
08:57Oh, my God.
08:58That's gorgeous.
08:59And in those moments, they're going to have to lean back on trust to have a good time.
09:04Are you nervous about anything?
09:06More nervous about it?
09:07Yeah.
09:08It's about a friend in the deep end, isn't it?
09:09You know what I mean?
09:10You boost me up.
09:11Single scenarios about each other.
09:13It's completely new to me and Mark, so I guess it's a big step.
09:16And something that would be difficult for me in this is definitely if one of us did something and the other didn't, you know, I think that would be the hardest thing.
09:29Next to arrive at this unique retreat are Chloe and Paul from Liverpool.
09:38Where are we getting led to?
09:39It's like the start of a scary movie where everything's all well.
09:42So, me and Chloe are the same.
09:44I'm in.
09:45We belong here.
09:47We do go like bread and butter, yeah.
09:50We met at sixth form college, didn't we?
09:52Yeah.
09:53We've been together for nearly ten years now.
09:54We're married for three.
09:57We're like two best mates going on holiday, do you know what I mean?
10:00That's what it's like.
10:01Soulmates from the start, Chloe and Paul have always been each other's one and only.
10:11Paul was actually my first relationship.
10:14I hadn't been with anyone else before Paul.
10:16Like, he was literally my first everything.
10:18Yeah, we've only slept with each other, yeah.
10:20So, it is a fact that we have missed out on some experiences.
10:24I just feel like there's this, like, part of me that I kind of haven't unlocked yet.
10:32Now the curious couple are looking to expand their horizons by having sex with other people.
10:39When it comes to monogamy, why can't we have fun with multiple people and still have one partner?
10:45I think we'll find out if we're good kisses or not.
10:47Yeah.
10:48We're going to end up, like, clashing teeth and everyone will go, is this not how you do it?
10:52I feel a bit nervous.
10:56Be sad, we'll be all right.
10:58There's just that little bit of nervousness.
11:00That's what makes it all worth it.
11:01Yeah.
11:02Imagine you were numb to it, you'd be like, oh, like, what's the point?
11:05I think Chloe might be a little bit more nervous than me.
11:08But I'm self-confident.
11:10I've always felt secure.
11:11I'm not going to lie, I'm excited.
11:13So, we're opening up our relationship and he's, like, my best friend.
11:16He's not just my husband.
11:18I think that's what makes me nervous.
11:19A lot of things could go wrong.
11:21Oh, my God.
11:33Tanith and Mark are preparing for a big night.
11:36You look beautiful.
11:38Tonight, they'll be going to different socials.
11:43Mark will be having fireside drinks with the retreat's female residents.
11:47And Tanith will attend a cocktail party where she will get to meet some of the residents' men.
12:01I feel weird you're not being there.
12:03Yeah.
12:04I think that's the big thing for me is you're not actually being there.
12:10It's a big thing doing it apart.
12:12So, I guess you never know until you're in there.
12:15Yeah, beautiful.
12:17My game plan tonight is to relax and just go and enjoy it.
12:22I just want to go out there and have fun.
12:24Here to collect Mark for his soiree is resident Marie.
12:31I do this sexy lifestyle since, yeah, seven years now.
12:36Sex is healthy.
12:37So, I do a lot of healthy stuff.
12:39Hello.
12:40How are you guys?
12:41How are you?
12:42I am here to collect for Mark.
12:43Is that okay?
12:44Take good care of everything.
12:45Yes.
12:46We will.
12:47Oh, God.
12:48See you later.
12:50See you later.
12:51It's going to be fun.
12:52Have fun too.
12:53Yeah.
12:54Enjoy yourself.
12:55See you soon.
12:56Bye.
12:57Love you.
12:58Bye.
12:59Bye.
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13:26Having only ever been intimate with one another, childhood sweethearts Chloe and Paul are arriving
13:35Look at me with my backpack, it's like my first day in school or something.
13:40What's that accent?
13:42Are you OK?
13:43Hi!
13:44This is Chloe.
13:46Nice to meet you.
13:47Lovely to meet you.
13:48I think they've got a good energy.
13:52Are you all right?
13:53Are you OK?
13:54Yeah, I'm so good.
13:55Yeah, Sarn, Sarn, I'm one of your lights.
13:57Lovely, yeah.
13:58Are you all right?
13:59I would spend some more time with them.
14:01She's very cute.
14:02She's got this beautiful, kind of innocent, cute smile, and I like that a lot.
14:06Whenever I hear this girl's accent, I'm like, right, party for you.
14:09We know who's there.
14:10Yeah.
14:11It was lovely, aren't it?
14:12Yeah?
14:13It smells so nice, has it?
14:15I think worst case scenario for me, she runs off into the sunset with someone else.
14:20That's kind of worst case scenario for me too.
14:23And you prefer it with other women.
14:26Yeah.
14:31Hello, guys.
14:32Hi.
14:33I'm Effie.
14:34So, I want to hear from you.
14:35What brings you here today?
14:36Like, over the last two years, during sex, we've opened up a lot more, and obviously
14:41our sex life improved, and then it comes to a point where, like, Chloe started opening
14:45up about her, like, being bi-curious.
14:47How long this idea of bi-curiosity has been with you?
14:53It's been quite a few years.
14:55I did, like, have the thoughts when I was younger.
14:59I think about it all the time.
15:02Growing up, it was said all the time, like, oh, girls who are bisexual are greedy.
15:07Some family members I've spoke to, they're really supportive.
15:10But a few of them I've tried speaking to, and they just, like, blow it off.
15:16I think if I hadn't met Paul, I might not have been as open about it.
15:21Like, obviously, now.
15:22Like, I just need to try it, and then I'll know who I am as a person.
15:32OK.
15:33So, I want to hear from you what normal agony might look like.
15:37Like, for me, like, I'm excited, like, to explore a woman's body.
15:42Mm-hm.
15:43But, like, for Paul to also be exploring the same person as me.
15:48Yeah, basically.
15:51Like, my immediate reaction was, like, oh, that's cool, that.
15:54Like, I've hit the jackpot here.
15:56My wife, like, wants to, like, experiment.
15:58It's like digging for treasure together.
16:00Yeah.
16:01And, Chloe, did you ever consider exploring women on your own?
16:05I think it'd be more, like, bisexual than, say, like, lesbian tendencies.
16:09Yeah, yeah.
16:10Like, you might enjoy it with me and the girl, but not...
16:12Yeah, but just me, you know?
16:13On your own with the girl.
16:14Yeah.
16:15You guys are a wonderful couple.
16:16Clearly love each other.
16:18You're very close.
16:19Um, one of the dynamics I notice is that sometimes you talk for Chloe, Paul.
16:25I apologise.
16:26It's okay.
16:27There's nothing to apologise.
16:28I just want to explore it.
16:29I'm confident, you know what I mean?
16:30And Chloe, if she, like, isn't confident in a situation, then I'll help her out to
16:35find the words.
16:36But I don't necessarily mean to, like, if she's got something to say, I don't mean to
16:39get in first.
16:40So, you are here to explore non-monogamy.
16:43You have no experience and you're like, we want to do this thing.
16:45Let's explore.
16:46I'm going to start you off lightly.
16:48Tonight, there's a social.
16:51If you can, at some point, for a short period of time, separate.
16:57Go the opposite way.
16:58Yeah.
16:59Chat, chat, chat.
17:00Yeah.
17:01You know, look for connections, right?
17:02Yeah.
17:03Get back together and maybe invite somebody and just have that sort of first experience.
17:09Do you think you can do that?
17:10Yeah.
17:11Yeah?
17:12Yeah.
17:13Sounds like a plan.
17:14So, this is really about you just feeling your way around.
17:16Yeah.
17:17It's exciting, can't we?
17:18It's going to be mad, can't we?
17:19Yeah.
17:20Does that feel good?
17:21Yeah.
17:22Just ready to get out there and have fun.
17:23Beautiful, beautiful.
17:24Okay.
17:25Go out there, have fun.
17:26And I'll look forward to speaking to you guys tomorrow.
17:28Awesome.
17:29Yeah.
17:30Thanks very much.
17:31You're very welcome.
17:33You're welcome.
17:34Let's go.
17:37Paul and Chloe's relationship is almost old fashioned.
17:39They've met really young and they really haven't had any chance to sow their wild
17:44oath.
17:45This is it now, like, what we came for.
17:48Yeah.
17:49The encouragement today is for her to socialise separately without Paul being there talking
17:53for her.
17:54It'll be interesting to see how well she does.
17:56Oh my God.
17:58I'm excited but I'm nervous.
17:59Because I've only ever been with Paul, like, but I just feel like there's this, like, part
18:05of me that I kind of haven't unlocked her.
18:09But a lot of things could go wrong.
18:11Ladies first.
18:12I know they're sad.
18:13Of course I'm excited to see Chloe with another woman.
18:17I'll be there to support her but really I'm going to have fun too, do you know what I mean?
18:21Some confidence.
18:22But every boxer has a plan until they get in the ring and get punched in the face.
18:26Can't wait to see what's in store.
18:34Yeah.
18:35At the retreat's camping area, Mark joins the ladies who are eager to make his acquaintance.
18:42It's all right by the fire, isn't it?
18:44Yeah.
18:45A little bit weird at first, you know.
18:47It's just all a little bit nerve-wracking.
18:50Mark, I can't remember your girlfriend, wife.
18:53Are you married?
18:54It's my girlfriend.
18:55Girlfriend.
18:56What's her name?
18:57She's called Tanith.
18:58How are you feeling not having her with you?
19:00Is that a little bit weird?
19:02We'll look after you.
19:03Yeah, I can show you well.
19:05Escorting Tanith to her social is Aaron, one of the retreat's single males.
19:15I think I've always been the more sexual person in a relationship.
19:18I love sex.
19:20I've always loved sex.
19:23Hello.
19:27Hello.
19:28Are you okay?
19:29Are you ready?
19:30Yeah, I think so.
19:31We're going to go and have a really fun party.
19:36Tanith is attending a cocktail party, laid on just for her.
19:40I'm feeling nervous.
19:42I guess it's going to be a bit like, well, there's a lot of people to talk to.
19:45Yeah, just going to take it as it comes, really, and go in there with an open mind.
19:54Hey, everyone.
19:55How are you all right, guys?
19:56Hey, guys.
19:57Hi.
19:58How are you?
19:59This is the first time me and Ma.
20:00You've done anything socially without each other.
20:02So, obviously, it feels a bit weird and strange without him.
20:06Yeah, cheers, everyone.
20:07Cheers, everybody.
20:08Cheers, cheers, cheers, cheers.
20:12So, how long have you been together?
20:13Two and a half years now.
20:16It's the first time being apart.
20:17There is no, like, a little wingman, more than I think, but we are each other's person.
20:21Like, we're best mates, like, you know, just, like, soul mates and stuff.
20:24Obviously, this is the first little trend in the waters with everything, and then...
20:29Yeah.
20:34A second, please.
20:35OK, I'll bring you that to the back.
20:37This is, er, good service.
20:38Isn't it?
20:39Efficient, efficient service.
20:40Yeah.
20:41How old are you now, Mark?
20:42Do you mind me asking?
20:43Er...
20:4434?
20:45I'm 40.
20:46Are you?
20:47I'm a secret.
20:48OK, you look great.
20:4940, thank you.
20:50What's your secret?
20:51My secret?
20:52I'm just moisturising.
20:57But you look incredible for 40, man.
20:59Aw, thanks.
21:01He was really easy going and down to earth, and I think that's what I found really attractive
21:05about him as well.
21:06He just seemed like just such a genuine person.
21:10With Mark proving to be a hit, the ladies are keen to move things on.
21:16We dare you to...
21:19Two little lap turns for Mark.
21:21Oh, yeah!
21:22Oh, wow!
21:23Yeah!
21:24I feel like he's just one of them guys that you think, yeah, you're good looking, and
21:37then the more you spend time with him, you're like, you're sexy as fuck.
21:42I'm having a great time tonight.
21:47Yeah, I'm excited.
21:49I like meeting new people.
21:51Ultimately, all I want out of this experience is for us both to just have fun and enjoy it.
22:10Chloe and Paul are preparing for their social.
22:14Hi.
22:15Tonight, they'll be attending an 80s-themed party, with the aim of potentially meeting
22:26a female resident for their very first threesome.
22:29Just thinking a bit makes me, like, nervous.
22:35I think the nerves are starting to settle in a bit.
22:38If I'm not comfortable, then it's just going to be anxiety for me and a lot of pressure that
22:44I don't want.
22:45Are you not nervous or anything?
22:47No.
22:48Chloe's more nervous than me.
22:51I honestly think it's all going to be fine and it's going to be fun.
23:00Give us a kiss.
23:02Let's rock and roll.
23:03Yeah.
23:04Let's give it.
23:05Let's give it.
23:06I do rely on Paul a lot when it comes to, like, group situations.
23:10Like, he'll talk the back legs off a donkey, whereas me, I do get anxious.
23:14I think I'd prefer to close my hands.
23:19If I can form up my comfort zone and, like, challenge myself, because that's what we're
23:24here for.
23:25But, to be honest, I don't know if I can.
23:29I don't know if I can.
23:35As instructed by Effie, for a short time, Chloe and Paul will separate, so the less
23:41socially confident Chloe can try making connections of her own.
23:45Hi!
23:46I think it's weird, because I feel a bit too relaxed about the situation.
23:52Paul has a room.
23:53They make friends so quick.
23:55Hi, you all right?
23:56You all right, strangers?
23:58There are times where I don't really lead a conversation.
24:01That's just my anxiety.
24:03That's what I need to work on.
24:04So, is it the girls' side that you're looking to explain?
24:07Yeah.
24:08When it comes to girls and stuff, I think you have a lot of the same body parts.
24:11Yeah.
24:12Yeah.
24:13You know your way around a bit, and it's not as alien.
24:15Yeah.
24:16Yeah.
24:17It should be, yeah, fairly easy for your time.
24:20Yeah.
24:22I've never really had any experience playing with girls.
24:25It's just a lot of pressure.
24:27It's kind of like imposter syndrome.
24:32Okay.
24:34You're still dancing.
24:35I love it.
24:36I'm just feeling the vibe, do you know what I mean?
24:38Just bouncing around the room.
24:40So, are you in here for her experience?
24:42We're here for her, but it'd be nice for me to just enjoy the situation too.
24:46Yeah.
24:47But I'm just looking for, like, another girl to, like, bring her out of the shell.
24:50Yeah.
24:51She is, like, a wild card once you get to know her.
24:53Yeah.
24:54Yeah.
24:55But it's getting that out of her.
24:56What's the situation with you?
24:57So, I've got a partner as well.
24:58He's also a Scouse.
24:59Must be a Scouse magnet then.
25:00Yeah.
25:01Maybe.
25:02Hi, baby.
25:03Come on.
25:04Hi, bye for that.
25:05Yeah.
25:06It's going great.
25:07Yeah.
25:08It's going better than expected.
25:09But I'm also like, I wonder how she's getting on.
25:11Oh, good.
25:12Yeah.
25:13Yeah.
25:14What's the crack?
25:15We're here now.
25:16This is it.
25:17It's fun, isn't it?
25:18It's the midnight.
25:19I am on the good time.
25:20I think it's just over, like, talking to so many people.
25:23It's still brand new.
25:24Like, how long have we, like, been doing this?
25:26An hour?
25:27Not even, like...
25:28I know.
25:29A lot of these people have been doing this for, like...
25:30Yes.
25:31Two years, five years, ten years.
25:32For us, we've been doing it an hour.
25:34So, I think, even if we do this for a year, it'll still feel new.
25:37Yeah.
25:38You overthink it and then it passes.
25:40You're like, oh, I'll do it.
25:41Take that opportunity again.
25:42Yeah.
25:43We need to strike whilst the iron's hot.
25:45As a man and as a husband, it's my duty to look after Chloe
25:50and to push Chloe and to help her, like, explore anything she needs
25:55and give her what she needs.
25:56And if this is something that she needs, then I'm only going to support her.
26:01I'm nervous, but I'm OK.
26:03Let's kiss.
26:05So, let's go.
26:06Let's crack on.
26:08It's good.
26:09It's exciting.
26:10Yeah.
26:11How old are you guys, by the way?
26:12I didn't even ask.
26:1327.
26:14Same age.
26:15Yeah.
26:16I'll just...
26:17So, I'll just go, OK?
26:18Too old.
26:19You've got, like, a gentle Scouts accent, though.
26:20Like, some of my friends in Liverpool, they'll be like...
26:21Yeah, I've been around so many northerners, like, picking out different twang from it.
26:22Yeah.
26:23I love it.
26:24I love it.
26:25I love it.
26:26I love it.
26:27I love it.
26:28I love it.
26:29I love it.
26:30I love it.
26:31I love it.
26:32I love it.
26:33I love it.
26:34I love it.
26:35I love it.
26:36I love it.
26:37I love it.
26:38I love it.
26:39I love it.
26:40You're flying with me.
26:41That's what we're supposed to do.
26:43Once I started talking to Emily and Holly, anxiety was, like, lowered and I got more into
26:50the vibes.
26:51So, I'm very, like, cured.
26:54OK.
26:55Say, like, my type of, like, punky tattoos.
26:57I know.
26:58I don't want to quote you.
27:00She's lovely.
27:01She's so sweet.
27:02So cute.
27:03So cute.
27:04Yeah.
27:05Very attractive.
27:06Really good vibes, yeah.
27:07Like, considering she came into it so nervous, like...
27:09Really good energy.
27:10Just so you know, we're down.
27:12Yeah.
27:13So just...
27:14Yeah.
27:15Yeah.
27:16Yeah.
27:17I think, with me, it's a lot about, like, vibes.
27:20So if you make me feel comfortable, I'm, like...
27:23It's just going to feel natural to me.
27:25Like, I'll to bed when I come by.
27:26We'll, like, with you.
27:27Hey.
27:28That's fun.
27:29I'm totally down.
27:30Yeah.
27:31OK, close your hands.
27:33Yeah.
27:34Yeah.
27:35I'm ready.
27:36Yeah.
27:37Yeah.
27:38Yeah.
27:39How's that?
27:40Nice.
27:41So you've snobbed a girl.
27:42I know.
27:43I've never kissed a girl before now.
27:44That was my first time.
27:45I got, like, the butter.
27:46Like, I got a feeling.
27:47So I'm hoping it leads to good things.
27:48So we'll see.
27:49How's that making you feel?
27:50It's weird, isn't it?
27:51I've only ever sort of, well, like, kiss me.
27:54I've only ever sort of, well, like, kissed me.
27:56I've never kissed a girl before now.
27:57That was my first time.
27:58I got, like, the butter.
27:59Like, I got a feeling.
28:00So...
28:01I'm hoping it leads to good things.
28:03So we'll see.
28:04How's that making you feel?
28:05It's weird, isn't it?
28:06I've only ever sort of, well, like, kissed me.
28:25Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.
28:26Like, this is weird.
28:28I don't know how I would feel.
28:31Earlier, Chloe surprised herself and husband Paul
28:48by kissing a girl for the very first time.
28:54And since she started...
28:58She can't stop.
29:00What are your names?
29:01Starting necking on.
29:02So you can catch her something out of her photo.
29:04And Emily.
29:13I got the ball.
29:18With things moving so fast, Paul takes Chloe aside.
29:23What's going on, Ian?
29:24I know.
29:25You're beating me.
29:26I know.
29:27Makes a change, but...
29:28Isn't it mad how, like, all of a sudden it's went from nothing to, like, full-on this?
29:38Because I know we spoke about doing it as a pre-some, but I feel like I kind of want to go on my journey.
29:47I mean, not on my, like, not on my afternoon, but even though, like, I'm obviously exploring this side of myself, you can explore too.
29:55Just literally don't even overthink it.
29:56Yeah.
29:57I can't even like to experience it all, Paul, but I kind of felt like it was kind of shifting from experiencing something together to, like, taking, like, our own, like, separate journeys.
30:16Like, there was a shift.
30:26Having made the decision to go their separate ways, Chloe wastes no time.
30:31Hi.
30:32Hi.
30:33Hello.
30:34How are you doing?
30:35Of course, I wanted to know if you just wanted to go to the U.
30:37Yes, absolutely.
30:38Love to.
30:39Yeah.
30:40Love to.
30:41Sure.
30:42Let's do it.
30:43Let's go.
30:44Well done.
30:45And I feel like the way it's been tonight, I don't think anyone expected, like, I don't know where Chloe is now.
30:56Where's my girl?
30:57Oh, right.
30:58Here we go.
30:59Where's Emily?
31:00Should we find her?
31:01Emily's gone too, so I don't know what that.
31:03She's gone with the two girls.
31:04She's gone with both.
31:07She's, she looked so happy.
31:09Shocked.
31:10Like, I'm not gonna lie, I'm shocked, like.
31:11I thought it'd be baby step, baby step, baby step.
31:16And for it to happen so quick, it caught me, like, off guard.
31:24Let's all just get cosy.
31:25Let's have a, let's have a slumber party, guys.
31:28Cheers, girls.
31:29Cheers.
31:30We got to put a bit together.
31:33It's weird, it's like the tables are flipped.
31:35And I wasn't, I wasn't expecting that.
31:38Has she ever had, like, a girl experience at all?
31:40Oh, really?
31:41Just me, like, yeah, yeah.
31:45Women's lips just feel so much better than that.
31:47Yeah.
31:48Yeah.
31:49Yeah.
31:50Oh, cosy cosy.
31:51Oh.
31:52I'm gonna have to step on my game now.
31:59Not to be outdone.
32:00Do you just wanna go on the outdoor jacuzzi?
32:03Paul arranges his own after-party.
32:05Then he's off for that.
32:06Yeah, yeah.
32:07A little chat and a little laugh and see where it goes, yeah.
32:09Yeah, that'd be nice.
32:10Yeah, I'd like that.
32:11Sounds awesome.
32:12Right, let's have it.
32:13Let's go do it.
32:14Let's have it.
32:15Ooh, you got essential massage oil.
32:21Would you like a little massage from me and Emily?
32:24To be honest, I'm so nervous on the insides, but I'm pushing.
32:27Yeah.
32:28I know if I don't, like, I want it, but I know if, like, I shy away,
32:32like, I'll shut meself off to it.
32:36Two women instead of one, I know.
32:38I don't know if it's too much, like, more than what a bargain for.
32:45Yeah.
32:49At the festival area, Mark is enjoying his dating experience away from partner Tanith.
32:56And as the Fireside games heat up...
32:59Give a French kiss to Lily.
33:02For me.
33:03I'm 100% right with her.
33:11That's her!
33:12Ooh la la.
33:13Ooh la la.
33:14Kissing without my partner felt a little bit strange at first,
33:20but I think I loosened up a little bit.
33:23It was quite fun.
33:26Yeah!
33:27Yeah!
33:28That's nice.
33:29It's not cold around this campfire.
33:31Mark is definitely my type.
33:32Yeah.
33:33Such a vibe and just fucking attractive.
33:35You're a great kisser, by the way.
33:37Oh, my God.
33:38Oh, thank you.
33:39I want to try now.
33:40There's a lot of names.
33:42I'll get there.
33:43I'll get there.
33:44I'll get there.
33:45Meanwhile, at the cocktail party...
33:46Say hello to everyone.
33:47...open couple Lou and Ellie have taken Tanith under their wing.
33:51Well, we've both been in the lifestyle for, like...
33:54We've been in different leadership.
33:56Yeah, yeah.
33:57Over ten years.
33:58But together, four years.
33:59Oh!
34:00Yeah.
34:01Yeah, so, um, have you got, like, any, like, what...
34:04Like, I was looking at your legs and everything when you...
34:06Oh!
34:07I know.
34:08Like a little...
34:09Yeah.
34:10Little pocket rocket.
34:11But she's still thinking about Mark.
34:13Yeah, that's what Mark used to call it.
34:15Me and Mark, we're quite good at the gym.
34:17We go to the gym together.
34:18Yeah, yeah.
34:19He's my, uh, inspiration,
34:20cos I wouldn't go for him, I don't think.
34:22It's a bit like, oh, my partner's gone now, like, it's a bit weird, but...
34:27I'm sure he's in good hands.
34:35Mmm!
34:36I'm still finished, that.
34:39Woo!
34:40Yeah!
34:41Yeah, it's going, it's going good.
34:43I think, for me, the next step would be to obviously get to know the girls a little bit more.
34:47I'm gonna go back to the yurt now, and if you ladies wanna follow me,
34:51then you're welcome to.
34:55Yeah, we loved it.
34:56We all want to follow you.
34:57Yeah, get warm.
34:58Come on, then.
34:59Let's go.
35:00Let's do this.
35:01Take us to your yurt.
35:03Who is us?
35:04It's funny anymore, though.
35:06Didn't expect it'd be going like this.
35:10What about Tana?
35:11Are you thinking about Tana for Todd?
35:13Do you think she's having a good time?
35:14I'm not really thinking too much about Tana.
35:16Otherwise, that'll distract me from what I'm doing here.
35:18Do you think it was thinking about Tana?
35:21No.
35:22Yeah.
35:23He didn't seem too worried, but he's the one coming into this experience,
35:27and this is him pushing his own boundaries.
35:30I'm eager to get out there and have a good night.
35:32Just looking forward to having fun and seeing what happens.
35:36Welcome to my place.
35:46Since wife Chloe went it alone, Paul's found himself in the hands of Grace and Naomi,
35:52both eager to become his non-monogamy guides.
35:56I think here we've just been raised, haven't we, with one idea of what a relationship looks like.
36:01Yeah.
36:02You know, there's a million ways to navigate a relationship,
36:05and you're in control of how you want to do that.
36:10It's just, like, it's exciting, yeah.
36:16Yeah, it's good.
36:17How do you think she's feeling?
36:19Hopefully amazing, I know.
36:20Probably on top of the world, yeah.
36:21We'll take our clothes off, make you feel more comfortable.
36:25Yeah, let's do it.
36:29Your body's phenomenal.
36:38Going into it, I was really nervous because I'd never done anything like that before.
36:42But the girls, like, really, like, they make me feel so comfortable
36:46and they lower me anxiety straight away.
36:51And you think it's ever too much, just tell us.
36:56Yeah.
36:57If you want to stop, just say.
37:01I surprised myself because, like, I pushed myself way out of my comfort zone.
37:06My very first, like, opening up, like, exploring me by curiosity.
37:21It felt really good.
37:23Such a nice pussy.
37:25I was a baby.
37:26That was so nice.
37:27Oh, my God.
37:28Yeah, that was such a nice…
37:29Ugh.
37:30I feel so aggressive.
37:35Oh, my God.
37:41Have you got kids together?
37:42No, no.
37:43No.
37:44Do you plan on having children?
37:45Yeah, so, like, here's the thing, like, you're going to be starting now.
37:48Here's the thing, it's like, we've struggled to have kids.
37:53Like, we had a house, we were like, this is the next step, now, to have a kid.
37:56Yeah.
37:57Like, we're trying, trying, trying.
37:58No one hasn't happened, yeah, trying again, trying again, trying again.
38:01Still hasn't happened.
38:02Like, this is, like, nine months.
38:03Oh, wow.
38:04She just got investigating, like, you've got endometeosis.
38:07This year, she's getting a surgery, so we could have kids, possibly next year.
38:11Yeah.
38:15Yous have obviously had a lot of, like, I've experienced in this life, this lifestyle, so.
38:20Yeah.
38:20Compared to vanilla, mate.
38:21Still very new to it.
38:22Vanilla's fine.
38:25I could definitely sense Paul's nerves.
38:28I think it was extra daunting because then there wasn't just one girl there, there was two.
38:32So, it was probably difficult for him to make that first move.
38:39You were born to be a lesbian.
38:45Shall we try to do a little triangle, girl?
38:48Yeah.
38:49Yeah.
38:49Yeah?
38:50It was, like, kind of a triangle.
38:54I don't think I'm happy, yeah.
38:56Where we each, like...
38:58Yeah, it was really good.
39:04Like, I pushed myself way out of me comfort zone.
39:10Oh, my God.
39:13I've had my hands under water, so I am actually a prone.
39:20Yeah, same.
39:22I was just out of me death.
39:25Right, shall we go?
39:26Will I?
39:27Yeah, ma'am.
39:28It's like he's got a face full of bump.
39:29Oh, no.
39:30It's so nice.
39:32Here we go.
39:38It didn't feel right tonight to just jump straight in like that because it's a marathon, not a sprint.
39:44Wow.
39:44That was really fucking hot.
39:46And was she just natural at it?
39:49You're in that.
39:49Definitely bisexual?
39:51I think so.
39:51Yay!
39:52Yay!
39:54Big night, yeah.
39:55A lot of firsts.
39:56I enjoyed it, so I feel like I wouldn't have enjoyed it as much as I did if only a bisexual.
40:05You did pretty fucking good.
40:06I am.
40:07There was definitely fireworks for Chloe, yes.
40:09Yeah.
40:09Yeah, we were all very...having a good time.
40:11We had a great chemistry.
40:13Yeah.
40:14It's, like, completely different to being with a man.
40:16Oh, God, yeah.
40:17Yeah.
40:18It is a lot more, like, sensual.
40:19Yes.
40:20Yeah.
40:21A little cuddle for that.
40:22Yeah.
40:22Yeah.
40:23Get in the middle.
40:24Get in the middle.
40:27I think it was the, yeah, right decision for Chloe to take that step and what she felt
40:31she needed from us and for that to be separate from Paul.
40:36You just made me feel so comfortable, to be honest, so...
40:38Aww.
40:39Oh, God.
40:40I felt like something has been missing.
40:42I feel like I've unlocked that part of myself that I feel like it's been missing type thing.
40:47So, yeah, it's just, like, I can learn about who I am now.
40:51My relationship with Chloe is everything to me.
40:55I think worst case scenario for me, Chloe can meet a woman and a woman can fulfill her needs
41:01more and she could leave me and I'd have to deal with that.
41:04It's fine.
41:04I don't know.
41:05It's fine.
41:06It's fine.
41:07It's fine.
41:07It's fine.
41:08It's fine.
41:09It's fine.
41:09It's fine.
41:10Yeah.
41:10It's fine.
41:11It's fine.
41:12I'm sorry.
41:13We're all broken.
41:14Paul hasn't seen wife Chloe since her surprise disappearance
41:29with residents Holly and Emily over four hours ago.
41:38Hello.
41:39Hello.
41:39Hi.
41:40Yeah?
41:42You OK?
41:43Yeah.
41:44You come and tell me about it.
41:47What did you do then?
41:48They went down on me.
41:50Oh God.
41:51Yeah.
41:51Did they?
41:52Yeah.
41:53And then I went down on Emily.
41:59Did you?
42:00Yeah.
42:01And then we did like kind of like a triangle.
42:06What?
42:07A triangle?
42:08Yeah.
42:09What does that even look like?
42:11What does that even look like?
42:11Like Holly last time I was eating Emily, and then Emily last time I was eating meals.
42:18What could I do?
42:21What could I do?
42:22what I know felt felt right yeah do you think you're all bisexual then yeah
42:33definitely do yeah that's like impressive but it's all it's like what
42:38yeah like metal sorry I'm just trying to deal with the stuff you just told me
42:43like what yeah that is mental I know what about you I went to the hot tub
42:48with Naomi and Grace we were just like to be honest we was talking but then
42:54literally like that was it really was thinking about you and talking about you
42:57you know what I mean like metal what you got off to it was nice it is different
43:03being with a man than me like to be with a woman more like sensual does that mean
43:12that like you're still like attracted to me
43:17you're still going to have sex with me and stuff yeah wow that is metal no
43:26ironically I was the one out my comfort zone tonight
43:30whoa I can't this is this is the information overload
43:38that is me I'm just like in shock that was not the plan and like it weren't even
43:45something we'd like give thought to when you're doing it and now all of a sudden
43:52it's like it's on me and I don't even know if I can like have sex with you you know
43:59it's all right now
44:06Mark is getting cozy in the yurt with six female residents meanwhile partner Tanith's feet remain firmly
44:13on the ground it is very nerve-wracking but everyone's so lovely it's just overwhelming but yeah
44:21it's just us it's just so free and happy and you know it's just excited to be here and be involved kind of got a good vibe from all the people
44:28but I don't think there's that kind of romantic spark any yeah it's just being quite you know getting to know all the people
44:35but I don't think there's that kind of romantic spark any yeah it's just being quite
44:40you know getting to know everyone I think that one is yours what do you do for work
44:52really do not ever just get pulled over
44:55yeah I'm quite struggling to be here yeah and people out there
44:59I have time to go to a lot of people out there
45:02Sorry, what do you do for work?
45:04I've got my own business and I do like dog walking.
45:06Really? Do you not ever just get pulled over?
45:09I'm quite strong.
45:11I think Tanith is great. She's got loads of energy, bubbly.
45:16I would look to explore it further.
45:19So my strength is giving. I normally just give.
45:22Okay, so that's kind of my thing.
45:25If that was something that would interest you,
45:28did you want to, like, continue this,
45:31maybe somewhere a bit more private, or...?
45:36I guess our vibe's not, like, the same,
45:39but, like, I think you're, like, top lad, honestly.
45:42It really is literally to talk to you, like...
45:51Do you think you can handle all of us?
45:53What about what do you girls think?
45:58Do you girls always think you can handle me?
46:00Yeah.
46:02I didn't expect it to be going like this,
46:07but I'm just kind of going with flow,
46:09and, you know, if everybody's comfortable and happy,
46:11then, you know, what will be, will be.
46:13I have a proposition.
46:14I think we can all kiss
46:16to make you a little bit more...
46:19Relaxed.
46:21Yes.
46:22Oh, she's going in.
46:26Frenchy.
46:32As Mark's night intensifies...
46:35Bye, guys.
46:36Tanith's has come to an end.
46:38I'm going to head up, but it's been lovely.
46:40I've had to see you all go, but...
46:42I'll see you. I'll see you all...
46:44Hopefully, soon.
46:45I just decided to call it a night, really,
46:48because I didn't feel that sexual chemistry,
46:50that connection with anyone, to, like, go any further.
46:57You're so cute.
47:01Oh, you smell so good.
47:03What is that?
47:04Really good.
47:05It's great.
47:06She's got to recognise it.
47:09I don't know what Mark's been up to.
47:10I think if I thought about that, it would be...
47:13Yeah.
47:14Yeah, no.
47:25Yeah, I'll say to you, girl.
47:30Oh!
47:36I think...
47:38I...
47:40Fuck a second.
47:41Oh!
47:42I'm so sorry.
47:43Oh, my God.
47:47Oh!
47:50Oh, my God.
47:51Oh, my God.
47:52I think the unknown is...
47:53Hard.
47:54Oh, fuck.
47:55Oh, fuck.
47:56Oh, fuck.
47:57Oh, fuck.
47:58Oh, fuck.
47:59Oh, fuck.
48:00Oh, fuck.
48:01Oh, fuck.
48:02Oh, fuck.
48:03Oh, fuck.
48:04Oh
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48:34It's massively important that we can invite another woman into the relationship
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