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Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 5
Open House The Great Sex Experiment S03 E05
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00:00Okay, now I'm getting bugs.
00:08En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:15It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:21Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:25We've known each other for 16 years.
00:27Lauren's brother is one of my best mates, and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:34Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:39Look at that rock on your finger.
00:41She just makes me, basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:45The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:50I'm a huge adrenaline junkie, and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:55Tom fully understands what I'm like, and to be honest, joins me.
01:00Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
01:04The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:11I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:17We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:22Yeah.
01:24I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open, because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:31Here they go!
01:41With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:49How you guys doing, alright?
01:51Hey!
01:52A good-looking couple.
01:53Yeah.
01:54You look lovely.
01:55Very lovely.
01:56Hi, guys.
01:57You alright?
01:58Hey!
01:59Come on, I love your shirt.
02:00It almost matches.
02:01Yeah, these guys look fit.
02:02One girl, bit of you.
02:03I'm excited, but nervous.
02:04Oh, I'm nervous now.
02:05Yeah.
02:06Definitely nervous now.
02:07I'm so excited to be here.
02:08I really am.
02:09I am like, come on!
02:10Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need,
02:13it's just a real big push.
02:28Guiding couples on their journey.
02:31Hello, come in.
02:33Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:37Take a seat.
02:38I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:41So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:44I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:48Mm-hmm.
02:49I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:56We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:06Okay.
03:07Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:09I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:12Mm-hmm.
03:13I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:20When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:24If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that, it's not that at all.
03:32And then that's, for me, game over.
03:34I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:47I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:50Yeah, it's been a couple of times, it's been in the past even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:56I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:59Party.
04:00When you've attempted to open up for other women, what is the story in your head?
04:05I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking, looking at myself.
04:09Mm-hmm.
04:10I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:14When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
04:18Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom.
04:24It was terrifying.
04:26The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:33It was so, so scary.
04:36He got really down, he obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:40Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that is basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:51You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:54Yeah, definitely.
04:55Definitely.
04:56Yeah.
04:57It's like you're not going to get a hard on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
05:04Hey, you're okay?
05:05Yeah, I'm good.
05:06I wasn't expecting that.
05:07Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:19The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:27So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:40And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:45It's what I want as well.
05:48Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:52I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap. And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
06:02Mm-hmm.
06:03And the same for women as well.
06:04Yeah.
06:05But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:09Sure, yeah, no, exactly. Hopefully, here is the place where we can help you get over those things.
06:14Starting with a good old party.
06:16Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:18Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:22I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:31This is about sensuality. That's about cuddles and touches.
06:36I want you to focus on one person, and I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:47Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:56And then, be open to things escalating.
07:02That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
07:04When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight sex.
07:07Yeah.
07:09Right.
07:10It sounds really exciting.
07:11Yeah, okay.
07:12Beautiful.
07:13Yeah.
07:14So, by the way, Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:26So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:32if you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis it's amazing how quickly one
07:39will appear I do worry for me and Lauren because if I can't if I can't do the whole open relationship
07:51I feel like we go a separate ways I'm hoping it won't get to that stage
08:02previously on open house ultimately why we're here is to bring in another couple but I've got to be
08:13okay with Alex being with another woman what's at stake is Alana's like feelings and emotions
08:22I've been cheated on quite a lot yeah I've seen women as more of a threat so we kind of want you
08:29to face that threat would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome that scenario
08:37wasn't in my head don't want to do it like I want to leave if this is gonna work it has to be the
08:44right person who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie he's gorgeous would you like to come and spend some
08:54time in what's up with us if it does go wrong is it something I'd be able to get over I did not
09:10think this is where we're gonna be on like our first night this would have literally been my
09:14worst nightmare really if someone was like how would you feel about doing this up like no you we didn't
09:19think that would it be in a hot tub of how would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss
09:27how do you feel I'm okay yeah
09:36in that moment watching Alex and Georgie kiss I thought oh no
09:50how did that make you feel like fine I was like yeah look always bit turned on by it
10:18I really want you on me can I like can I like you on me I can't believe this are you proud of me
10:27yeah like what the hell yeah yeah
10:32I've never seen a lot of kiss another woman I knew it's part of her life like long long ago but to
10:45see that like reopen that door was such a huge turn on for me to see that it was like really hot
10:51oh my god
10:53I'm obsessed
10:55stop it
10:56can we just take you home with us
10:59well it all flowed very naturally
11:03I honestly don't know what's happening right now I feel like this is normal
11:20I think like things are feeling good do you maybe want to come back to our room
11:30I would love that yeah
11:32just explore things a little bit more
11:34yeah let's take the next step we'll do baby steps
11:37let's do it
11:38I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in like a single female I thought that would be way
11:45too intimidating I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up yeah
11:51yeah like this has been insane honestly I can't believe what like it's such a change
11:58and you wouldn't can do anything and now we're inviting
12:02I still have to come back to our room
12:03to our room
12:04oh my god that's show show
12:20I know I did say my ass like eats them
12:23new arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night
12:27oh
12:28they'll be attending a sexy barn dance
12:35where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block
12:40when it comes to opening up
12:42whenever we've dipped our toes into being open
12:49Tom felt he just couldn't perform felt really uncomfortable
12:52they've been tasked with finding residents
12:56interested in joining them for a group experience
12:59where the focus is only on foreplay
13:02hey babe
13:04what
13:04I look fucking ridiculous
13:06with no pressure to perform
13:08the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion
13:12I do foresee hurdles
13:14the residents are all very beautiful
13:16the problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious
13:20if I went in there on my own
13:26I think I'd probably walk straight back out
13:28how are you guys feeling?
13:35yeah great
13:36shit scared
13:38this is out of my comfort zone the heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room
13:58so what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them
14:06I feel sick inside I don't think I can
14:08okay so listen there's no pressure that's what we're saying
14:10like let's just give it a really good go this is what we're here for
14:14first to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz
14:18what are you looking for then?
14:21that's the question so for me I need that conversation
14:24yeah
14:25and for you it's obviously just about feeling body confident around
14:28yeah I'm a bit yeah
14:30just lacking in confidence a little bit
14:32that's understandable you know it's really nerve wracking
14:34if there's any environment where personality matters more than looks it's this environment
14:40we'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey
14:44hello you alright I'm Tom
14:46how you doing me alright
14:47how you doing I'm Gage this is my wife Olivia
14:49what's your dynamic?
14:50so we when we find it
14:52that's a big word that is
14:53dynamic
14:54that's a very big word isn't it?
14:55dynamic
14:56I love it
14:57like I say we've babbled in it before
14:59we're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're
15:03feeling you know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared
15:07but when you have that you know responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression
15:11of the lifestyle you want to make it the best
15:14I used to be like really like outgoing going gym seven days I used to have like the abs and I basically comfort eat and drink and of course I put on the weight now so
15:23you can just like kiss and you can like you can go down on them and you can touch and you don't necessarily just have the build up but I think it is the point that you think you've got to go through that natural process
15:34Olivia and Gage they made me feel so like it just felt it just felt natural just talking to her
15:41after a confidence boost from Gage Tom moves on to single resident Aaron who's no stranger to open conversation
15:49do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience?
15:53basically have fun relax and try and let my hair down
15:57to a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up
16:01I think the best thing they can do is talk to talk to us you know you've come here for the sex but don't forget that the sex comes from a person
16:10I'm a single guy I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women
16:15at the same time for two years
16:17oh wow that's crazy
16:18split 50-50
16:19yeah
16:20there'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence
16:24and I'll go and play and I won't even get hard
16:27but that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around
16:31that's what I'm sure
16:32this is what we're trying to get through to talk
16:34speaking to Aaron he made it easy for me to basically say I don't need my penis basically
16:41I've got my hands and I've got my tongue
16:43and I think Lauren really likes them as well
16:47Aaron has given me fanny photos
16:51so I've never had more than two men at once
16:54so my ideal situation would obviously be more men
16:57fresh from meeting Aaron
17:03Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite to their sensual soiree
17:09Aaron
17:10because he was on the same page as you and even he doesn't get hard
17:13because I feel like he would understand you as well
17:16yeah
17:18Aaron made me feel really at ease
17:20yeah he was absolutely brilliant
17:22I'm so scared of the rejection
17:27mainly for Tom rather than for me
17:29because is he then going to be really nervous going forward
17:33that little bit inside that if they say no
17:35it'll feel like shit yeah but you know
17:38you just have to wait and see and see what happens
17:41we just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just
17:45maybe some games, some teasing, some fuddling
17:48if it escalates it escalates
17:50if it doesn't
17:51it doesn't
17:52and that doesn't run
17:53yeah
17:54okay guys I'm not going to say that I'm going to play
18:00it's for me at the moment
18:03I take a lot more to get to that point
18:07I was surprised by Aaron
18:10because he said he didn't want to play
18:12Aaron without being rude obviously we have to move along
18:15with being honest
18:16not everyone is everyone's cup of tea
18:18but for me I don't obviously want to put Tom off
18:21even more with this process
18:23it's like rejection
18:25I'm just yeah I'm shocked
18:27right move all the things of the beds
18:36put them all on the here
18:38in their bedroom Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie
18:44are we going to be weird and go are you okay if we get protection just in case
18:49or just have it on the side
18:52they're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap
18:59by having a threesome
19:01I don't know how this is going to go
19:03seeing Alex being with another woman
19:06with where we are now look I'm definitely open to
19:12it's easy to
19:13just seeing heart goes
19:15but as much as this is a really big step for me
19:18it's also a really big step for him
19:20because he's going to potentially be with another woman
19:24this is all new and it's starting to feel very real
19:28so my worries going into this is me being with another woman and how that might make Alana feel
19:35I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have but equally it could not be
19:38Hello, come here, come here, come in, you all right?
19:46Oh, it's so nice
19:49It would be devastating if anything went wrong here, for sure
19:56So much better, okay, cool, okay
19:58This is a bit more chill
19:59Yeah
20:00If you don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum
20:03No, I like that, let's just pick up on my laptop
20:05The sexual chemistry was insane
20:18The fact that I could like
20:21just let go of everything and just really enjoy it like
20:28I never thought that would have happened in this experience
20:35No, I don't think so
20:36**Square Llanes playing**
20:37**Square Llanes playing**
20:38**Square Llanes playing**
20:47Oh my god, it's crazy
20:48Oh my god, it tastes
20:49Oh my god, that's crazy
20:50Oh my god
20:52What have you got in taste?
20:53It's...
20:54Mmm
20:57But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies
21:00I think, like, I was overwhelmed.
21:15It was, like, from zero to 100, and it caught me off guard, really.
21:21Although I was, like, turned on an idea, I wasn't, like, turned on.
21:30I can't quite match that right now.
21:44I've had, like, the best evening, like...
22:00Give me a little kiss. Bye.
22:08Speak to you soon. I'll see you soon as well.
22:10Yeah, we'll see you soon. Bye.
22:14I love you so much.
22:19I loved it. I genuinely loved every minute of that.
22:22There wasn't any part where I thought, I feel uncomfortable,
22:26or, like, oh, I don't know how I feel about this.
22:28Like, I literally loved every single second of that.
22:32Did you enjoy it?
22:35I loved seeing you, like, enjoy them.
22:38Yeah. I loved it.
22:44Oh, it might always seem to get the wet patch.
22:56Maybe I could have done more,
22:58but I think I was a little bit, like,
23:00overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.
23:03At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:08I can open up the relationship.
23:10It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome,
23:28with a female resident, Georgie.
23:31You're so quiet.
23:36Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened,
23:41but I could feel there was something a little bit off.
23:45What are you thinking about?
23:55I'm just thinking. Processing.
24:04Are you sure you're okay?
24:05Yeah.
24:10When we first came in here,
24:11obviously our aim and our kind of end goal
24:14was to be able to do a full couple swap.
24:21I knew Alex was in his head a little bit.
24:24Even at home, like, he can go a bit quiet sometimes,
24:26but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.
24:35Hello. Come in.
24:36Hi.
24:37Take a seat. Take a seat.
24:38Get comfy.
24:39Yeah, you're right.
24:41How was last night?
24:43Like, I'm really happy.
24:45It just, it felt right.
24:48Beautiful breakthrough.
24:49Absolutely.
24:51I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie
24:54that said, like, would you be okay if I kissed Alex?
24:58Mm.
24:59She kind of, like, led it a little bit, which was nice.
25:01And, like, I actually enjoyed watching it,
25:04which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.
25:09What are you thinking, Alex?
25:11I don't, I don't know.
25:14I don't want to take away, because I loved last night.
25:16Sure.
25:17It was incredible.
25:18But I was a little bit, like,
25:21overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:23Yeah, tell me about that.
25:24I don't know, like, I don't think I was,
25:27I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like.
25:29Okay.
25:30So that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:31Okay, okay, okay.
25:34The couple thing I definitely want to do,
25:36but again, I don't know if I go all the way.
25:38Okay.
25:39So, that's where.
25:40I think that's why I've been quiet this morning,
25:41because I wasn't sure.
25:42For me, there was, like, something missing,
25:44and I don't know what it was.
25:45I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection-based, like,
25:48when it comes to sex.
25:49Mm-hmm.
25:50Like, deep, deeper connections.
25:51Sure.
25:53Intimacy?
25:54Is that what you're seeking?
25:55Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:58I do find it better if there's a connection,
26:02and that's where I am right now.
26:03Like, I'm trying to figure that out.
26:05The thing that I want to understand is,
26:08how do you feel about that?
26:14Um...
26:16I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:19Sure.
26:20Now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:23Like, what if you build, like,
26:26this really great connection with someone else
26:28that you then feel is...
26:30like...
26:31That's never ever going to be the thing.
26:36You okay?
26:37Yeah.
26:38It's okay.
26:39You're really challenging some of the things
26:41that you're the most afraid of,
26:42and stuff is coming up.
26:43Like, that's all about that.
26:45So that's scary to you right now.
26:46So let's just look at it in the face.
26:47Tell me...
26:48What do you mean by connection?
26:49Let's just, like...
26:50I think it's definitely not, like,
26:51deep connection with what I have with you.
26:52It's...
26:53It's a lot less than that.
26:54It's more familiarization.
26:55Like, you almost want to be friends
26:56with that person before it...
26:57Okay.
26:58I've never been, like,
26:59a one-night guy, if you know what I mean?
27:00I've never been, like,
27:01a one-night guy, if you know what I mean?
27:02Yeah.
27:03I've never been, like,
27:04a one-night guy, if you know what I mean?
27:05Yeah.
27:06Yeah.
27:07I've never been, like,
27:08a one-night guy, if you know what I mean?
27:09To be fair, like, yeah,
27:10even...
27:11we didn't sleep together, like,
27:12straight away.
27:13So I get that.
27:14I know that's not necessarily, like,
27:15how you work.
27:16Mm-hmm.
27:17So what would that look for you
27:18in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:19Like, do you want to have, like,
27:20one couple friend that you date and play with?
27:23Or do you sort of meet...
27:26a bunch of couples?
27:27Like, what does that look like for you?
27:29Like, what does that look like for you?
27:30We did say, like,
27:31it would be nice to have, like,
27:32one couple friend that you date and play with.
27:36Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:39Like, what does that look like for you?
27:40We did say, like,
27:41it would be nice to have, like,
27:42one couple that we're, like,
27:44best friends with.
27:45Mm-hmm.
27:46And we get on really well with them
27:47and, like,
27:48play together as well.
27:50Mm-hmm.
27:51So what I have in mind is I want
27:53you to have a taste of the couple experience.
27:55of the couple experience that that you want but I feel like the next challenge
28:00for you is to navigate the connection piece for you to actually go there and
28:04start making a connection and for you to feel like to figure out what it feels
28:09like when it's happening and spend a bit of time connecting with a couple and
28:12then once you feel like you have a connection in place then you can
28:17escalate things in your own time and take it from there and you see how it
28:21goes for you how does that sound no that sounds that sounds good okay I'm fine
28:26okay I think that the biggest thing on chest was what we've spoken about now
28:33that was like just something to understand thank you thank you you're
28:39welcome you're welcome enjoy I'm excited to meet some couples today
28:51but um this moment I I don't know if I can go all the way we'll have to see
29:01we love each other right yeah we do
29:06at the sexy barn dance Lauren and Tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident Aaron
29:20let your hair down let my hair down I'm gonna make you like that I'm not that is not happening
29:31I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren this is what I used to really enjoy so I feel a lot more comfortable yeah
29:53when I was around Tom we had a little mini dance battle and like the fact that he
30:04was just putting out the robot and like just having so much fun with it and I was
30:08like let's do this let's do that and he was just like yeah let's do it it's the last
30:11I'm buzzing I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is
30:19he's so relaxed now
30:26rejection behind them thoughts return to their objective finding residents for a sensual after
30:35party I feel a lot more comfortable yeah so I think it's a lot more easier to invite people and
30:40to see if they say yes or no you lead the way
30:43but it was basically we're just wondering if um if you'd like to be to like come back with us and
31:08just basically cuddle kiss touch well I'm ready whenever you guys are I'll be at the bar I wasn't
31:17expecting that I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a no as Tom's confidence
31:23grows and I was just wondering if you guys want to come back yeah yeah yeah yeah so does the after
31:32party wondering if you want to come quick that's so easy thank you and the guest list swells to five
31:42we were pleasantly surprised and it actually feels kind of like nice like feeling I know it sounds way
31:49but wanted I would say I'm definitely attracted to him for sure they're a vibe 100% I'm just really
31:57excited just to get to know them a bit more Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet
32:04as the five residents will be joining them to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance anxiety and
32:11successfully open up but basically we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens not
32:21promising anything I've still got them hurdles still got them body confidence and well the worst thing
32:27that can happen is going into shock and walking out having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to
32:46open up Alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples oh this looks so cute we're just looking
32:57for like good vibes obviously going into the couple scenario is slightly different because it's both of
33:03us have got to have an attraction to two different people then we'll see you know if it's the right
33:11people then it will it will be there
33:17hello hello I'm Joe Joe love to meet you love to meet me how are you doing you all right
33:22how's it just on the walk-in literally on the walk-in both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them don't we
33:28yeah they're definitely they're super hot who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then I think coming here might have been more me so did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady
33:39to bring in a single lady what were you initially looking for connections with couples yeah yeah is
33:45where we were looking at the hardest part was obviously for me to kind of got over like insecurities with having another female like being physical and like smash that on the first note so we're like yeah
33:57one thing I'd say is oh I'll do threesomes is easiest you guys have actually done probably one of the harder things like foursomes are sort of easier because everyone's got something to do
34:07Hi I'm Alana
34:13Hi Alana lovely to meet you
34:17so tonight today tonight you're looking for a couple swap yeah just trying to like find our way into it though
34:23we're definitely in a space it's just finding our like place
34:25big thing letting someone else into your relationship but it's it's nice because like you say everyone's like scenarios are different
34:35well it's about you guys that's the thing it's like you're not here to please someone else yeah it's what's best for you
34:41I didn't know how I was gonna feel about it yeah um but actually like I shocked everyone ended up being absolutely fine with it
34:49Alex and Alana were quite attractive actually there was definitely a vibe there
34:55I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us
35:01Can I go for a chat? Yes!
35:07Hi
35:19How have you found it?
35:21Um
35:22Like it's been nice to speak to couples today like obviously that was what we wanted to do
35:29for me I feel like um Jem and Daz just feel like they would be like a really great couple to get to know
35:35I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us
35:39How are you feeling? Is there anyone that you felt like might have had a connection with?
35:49I've like um honestly at the moment I just don't know right now if I can go any further
36:01Okay
36:07How do you how are you feeling about that?
36:09Um
36:11Yeah like I'm a little bit surprised
36:15Um
36:17What is it that's making you feel that way? Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?
36:25Or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon? Like it's just got a bit overwhelming?
36:31Yeah
36:35Mate I don't know like
36:39It's more of a me thing this now
36:43For like for now
36:45That's as far as I can go
36:47You've hit like a bit of a wall with it
36:49Yeah
36:50Okay
36:51I do want to redo this
36:55Okay
36:57Okay
36:59That makes me happy
37:01With Alex unable to continue
37:13The couple stay at the retreat
37:15Has come to an end
37:21Going forwards I do think open up the relationship is for me and Alana but
37:27It's going to take time it will take more time for me
37:47Um I don't know I feel like emotional now
37:49What just happened then?
37:51I don't know
37:53I don't know
37:55It's just the whole thing is like just very overwhelming isn't it like
37:59What's that?
38:01I don't know
38:03I don't know
38:05I don't know
38:07I don't know what to say
38:09It's just like a very emotional few days isn't it?
38:13It's just like a very emotional few days isn't it?
38:17The future will at some point
38:21Be a full open relationship
38:23But at the moment it's baby steps still
38:29My house
38:31It's just been a very overwhelming process
38:33But um
38:35I don't want to keep crying
38:37But like I'm actually really proud of myself
38:39Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought
38:45Like
38:47I really thought it was going to be a straight line
38:49But it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it
38:51It's not easy
38:53But like we've absolutely got the ability to do it
38:59I absolutely love you to pieces and I'm happy and glad and I love you so much
39:03I love you so much
39:05It just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it
39:19However, if you hadn't then why is everyone saying yes?
39:23Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom
39:29Ooh
39:31Even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff
39:33It doesn't mean like you know they see me and go actually no what the fuck is that?
39:37It's what goes to my head
39:39I know
39:41So that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time
39:45Okay?
39:47Yeah
39:49No pressure
39:51They hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay
39:53Tom will manage to get an erection
39:55A stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up
39:59I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about
40:07For my dick not to hug
40:17Oh
40:19Oh
40:21Oh
40:23Oh
40:25Oh
40:27Oh
40:29Oh
40:31Oh
40:33Yeah I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now
40:35I'm feeling shocked to be fair
40:37My biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable
40:41Because I will get naked and run around
40:43Like I am the opposite of Tom
40:51I know I want to be open and I'm not planning on changing that
40:54I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle and it's Tom that is
40:58Should we make the lighting a little bit more sexy guys?
41:00Oh yeah
41:02Let's do it
41:04Yeah
41:06Put a blindfold on
41:08Nice nice nice
41:10Is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid?
41:12It's basically just taking the top off
41:14Yeah
41:16It feels weird that I can't see you
41:20I definitely want to make Lauren happy
41:22And we'll try anything
41:24Like jump this hurdle basically
41:26But once it's in my head I can't before I freeze
41:30Once I'm in that rut I can't get out of the rut
41:32How are you feeling mate?
41:34It's weird but
41:36You're getting worships
41:38You're getting all the attention
41:40This is my favourite thing
41:42Despite Effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay
41:46Tom lets the ladies lead
41:48Just let us know if it gets a bit too overwhelming
42:09It was putting shivers down my spine
42:11I could feel everything
42:18I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
42:28Next time on Open House...
42:31Are you ready for the next level?
42:36I feel absolutely petrified.
42:39Yeah.
42:41Is it okay to kiss?
42:44It's two guys.
42:45Back in the net.
42:48I have identified as gay.
42:50Today, I don't know.
42:52I've been feeling very naughty.
42:56Never had any experience with gay men before.
42:59The worst case now would be reacting in a way which I'm not expecting.
43:04This is out of my comfort area for sure.
43:07Anyway, I can't do this...
43:09But thanks to Jack Connor, you can talk to this table.
43:15I don't want to blow down
43:16Are you in a случае?
43:18All right.
43:18That's so cool.
43:20You buddy.
43:20That's so cool.
43:21I forgot to switch this camera.
43:21I don't know if you're here for tomorrow.
43:22But...
43:23I do need to get you pretty in there.
43:24I don't know if you step in there until VIP can.
43:24But there's still this naturally going to take out the adventure.
43:26And there are stillлемาย NEWS.
43:27Never quem is in charge of gaming anymore.
43:28Back in the time of this station,
43:28I think we'll bes studios love heading into assistance to this situation.
43:31So it was mostly in a 3-year episode.
43:31It could make me посheinter games,
43:32This is very good, yeah.
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