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00:00Ooh, very nice.
00:06Oh, she's really pretty.
00:08I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
00:12We have tried swinging in the past and had issues.
00:18When it comes to having sex with a different lass,
00:22my dick doesn't grow, basically.
00:24My dick literally does not grow.
00:26When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
00:31Then Tom got his heart diagnosis.
00:33The doctors told me I can die at any point.
00:36To sit by and watch someone you love spiral, it is really scary.
00:40I've let myself go. Don't love myself.
00:43For you, tonight is about taking the lead.
00:46OK.
00:49Hello, everyone.
00:51The residents are all very beautiful.
00:53This is out of my comfort zone.
00:55I don't even know what to say.
00:56Just wondering if you'd like to, like, come back with us.
00:59Do you know what? I'm down for that. I'd love to.
01:01If you want some...
01:03The heart palpitations I've got right now are through the roof.
01:07Whoa!
01:08I love him, but monogamy is not for me.
01:11So if Tom can't do this, I'm not sure, to be honest, what's going to happen.
01:16If I can't do the open relationship, we go our separate ways.
01:21The penis was not working.
01:24I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
01:28How are you feeling, Mark?
01:29It's real.
01:30Lauren and Tom are in the playroom with a group of residents, hoping for the breakthrough
01:41their relationship needs.
01:42But Tom's struggling.
01:43I feel, like, out of place.
01:44And then I'm thinking of my body again.
01:48It's a hard one, that is.
01:50Having disregarded Effie's advice to take control, now blindfolded, his fate is in the hands
02:09of the residents.
02:14residents. We call this the princess treatment. Just lose yourself. I'm praying that today
02:23is the start of being open. How are you feeling? Yeah, it's still weird. I want to do this.
02:32I got to the point where they were sort of like stroking my stomach and then sort of
02:36going up my stomach. And then it got to the point where I was like, I can't, I can't do
02:41that. The penis was not working. But the women aren't ready to call it a night.
02:51For me, I really loved that before you've even taken your clothes off, that tension, that
02:57eagerness and like you just start kissing and you can feel it all in your body.
03:01Oh, it's happening. It's so hard. It was like really hard, but I think it's on softy hair.
03:17It's okay. It's no pressure. Let's go with the flow. It's like really weird. It's like going
03:22up and down the waves. I didn't think the penis was going to work. And then it started making
03:32me feel horny. He was just fully enjoying himself and we were enjoying ourselves.
03:48Tom, how do you feel like I'm sleeping or fuck? That's fine. Yeah?
04:00I've finished this now, so I've got an excuse.
04:03You're so good. Oh my God, you're coughing. You're so good.
04:15It was amazing seeing Tom so turned on and I get turned on watching him be turned on and
04:21I absolutely loved it.
04:22Oh, shit. Come together, baby. Come together. Come, come, come, come.
04:30Oh my God. Did you just come together?
04:35Yeah. You both came to the same time.
04:38Yeah. That was so fucking hot. Wow.
04:42That was amazing. Because obviously our difficulties that we've had to go this far is incredible.
04:50Yeah. Like the energy is there and that's so hard. Yeah. He surrendered.
04:55Yeah. He allowed us to be able to touch him and make him, you know, in a kind of vulnerable
05:01position. And he allowed us to do that and trusted us enough, which was really lovely.
05:05Success. Dream team.
05:11Clean up an aisle three, please.
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05:31But hopefully it shows you that, you know, you have still got it.
05:35Both.
05:36Both.
05:37Look.
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05:49Next morning, and despite the highs of last night,
05:54for Lauren, it only scratched the surface.
05:59We were really buzzing from last night,
06:01but on the flip side, I want to push ourselves,
06:04break out of our comfort zone.
06:06I would like to know if it would change things
06:09if I had another guy that had been kind of more involved properly.
06:13I know I'm probably sounding greedy here,
06:15but this is why we're here.
06:17My head's, like, all over the place.
06:22I just saw last night was baby steps already.
06:26I still got high news to cry now.
06:31To help Lauren and Tom figure out where they go from here,
06:35they're checking in with non-monogamy coach Effie.
06:38You take a seat, get comfy.
06:42Nice.
06:44Welcome, welcome back.
06:45How was last night?
06:46It's nerve-wracking.
06:47I didn't know what to do.
06:50Basically, I got blindfolded.
06:52Straight away?
06:53Yeah.
06:54And then things just advanced.
06:55They were kissing my stomach, and I was like,
06:57what the fuck's happening?
06:58I felt, I think I felt a bit dumb.
07:01So there were a lot of women that were dominating you
07:03and telling you what to do.
07:04What I'm hearing is it feels like kind of everybody took charge of the situation.
07:10I didn't take charge.
07:11But you were, yeah.
07:12Yeah, I didn't take charge.
07:14But my penis did get hard, and I did have sex as well.
07:17Nice, okay.
07:18Yeah.
07:19Well, I was with one of the single girls, and Tom was with the others.
07:23The only thing I did say to Tom is, I know he's more relaxed around women, and I love women.
07:28So suddenly, it's all the women.
07:31And maybe that is something we can look at involving more men.
07:36Okay.
07:36So, in this experience so far, you've been dominated by the women that were playing with you,
07:43and Lauren, who always takes care of you.
07:45And I think the dynamics here also needs to change a little bit.
07:49Lauren is your wonderful support crutch person.
07:54I always go back to her.
07:56But I want to remove that from you as well.
07:57So, I want you to have an experience independent of Lauren.
08:02Take charge and embrace your body.
08:05And Lauren, I would like Lauren to have her own experience, this time with a man.
08:10So, the invitation is to do a couple swap, but separate.
08:18Oh, shit.
08:19Okay.
08:20Okay.
08:22Just thinking a bit, making me feel sick.
08:25The discomfort will hit you.
08:27And at some point, you will go through the discomfort.
08:30It's normal.
08:31If you weren't nervous, I'd be more worried.
08:33The more you rely on Lauren, the more you're getting away from your own gut instinct.
08:39And the scarier it is.
08:41Right?
08:41It's not about a crutch or a help.
08:47It's going to be collaboration.
08:49It's like a bit nerve-wracking, isn't it?
08:53We've got this.
08:55Today is about challenging Tom to be independent.
08:58I'm curious to see how that will affect the dynamics they have between them.
09:02Lauren needs to be a partner to Tom, not a caretaker.
09:06Oh, my goodness.
09:08Oh.
09:09Don't be nervous.
09:10Honestly, you've absolutely got this.
09:13It was my idea.
09:14It has been from the start.
09:16Yes, it's throwing me and Tom in at the deep end.
09:18But I want to be able to have him have the confidence that we can just go off, have our fun, come back to each other at the end of the night.
09:23And it's been absolutely insane.
09:25But the thought of flying solo, entirely naked, isn't sitting well with Tom.
09:37Do you want some water?
09:41This is going to be horrible.
09:43I just want to cuddle you.
09:45I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
09:49All anyone can ask is that you just try, OK?
09:51Oh, the nerves, babe.
09:55I'm not even joking.
09:58You got this?
10:04I'm shitting myself.
10:05Oh!
10:21Well, here we are.
10:23Here we are.
10:24It's fine.
10:25Everything's going to be fine.
10:26Next to arrive at the retreat are Simon and his partner, Chris.
10:32When I first met Simon, I realized I was going to have to come out because he was so handsome.
10:37And I was determined to make him my boyfriend.
10:40I thought he was very goofy.
10:46He was very funny.
10:47He didn't take himself too seriously.
10:49Jumbo, you said to me.
10:51You said I had meaty thighs.
10:52Meaty thighs.
10:53I did, yeah.
10:54You nervous?
10:55I am nervous.
10:56Me too.
10:59The pair met seven years ago and recently got engaged.
11:03I wanted to propose to Chris and he wanted to propose to me.
11:08I took us to an ancient oak forest, which I thought was very romantic.
11:12And then we proposed to each other on the same day.
11:16It was beautiful.
11:18And now for Simon, there's another big question that needs answering.
11:23I have question marks over my sexuality.
11:26I have identified as gay since I came out when I was 18.
11:33Today, I don't know.
11:38Just two normal gay men doing a very normal thing.
11:43Yeah.
11:44What the hell are we doing?
11:46Luckily, Chris has agreed to join Simon on this voyage of self-discovery.
11:52Simon brought up the idea of exploring a sexual relationship with a woman.
11:55And I was, like, open to exploring that side of my sexuality.
12:00But equally, I wouldn't be exploring this if Simon hadn't, like, brought up initially.
12:05I will be, I will try and be as open as possible.
12:07And hopefully that goes well.
12:10How different could it be?
12:12Which I was just a clean bum.
12:17Yeah, exactly.
12:20Oh, wow.
12:21Is it two gay guys?
12:26Yes.
12:29It's two guys.
12:31Get in.
12:32Back in the net.
12:33Wasn't expecting it to, but.
12:39So lovely and refreshing to see, like, a gay couple come into open house.
12:44Because we haven't had that before, which is amazing.
12:46This is amazing.
12:47Hello.
12:48Fucking lovely.
12:51Oh, my goodness.
12:52This is sick.
12:53Hello.
12:54Hiya.
12:55Welcome.
12:56Hello.
12:57How we doing?
12:58Good.
12:58How are you?
12:59Hello.
13:00How are you?
13:00Chris.
13:01Nice to meet you.
13:01How are you?
13:02Welcome, guys.
13:03We haven't had a guy go.
13:04I know.
13:04Have you not?
13:05No.
13:06Yeah.
13:06This is very exciting.
13:07It's why you've got a big cheer.
13:08I know.
13:08I'm like, what a reception.
13:10Well, I mean, did you hear the cheers?
13:13I think everyone's super excited to have the first ever male-male couple coming in.
13:18Hi, Simon.
13:18Hello.
13:19I'm great.
13:19Hello, Grace.
13:20I'm Simon.
13:20How are you?
13:21Good to meet you.
13:21Gorgeous.
13:23My first impressions, I think they're a bit easy on the eye.
13:26Yeah, we're really excited to have you guys here as well.
13:29I wasn't expecting a round of applause, but I appreciated it nonetheless.
13:32Simon.
13:33Simon.
13:33Nice to meet you.
13:34How are you?
13:34You too.
13:34Yeah, you good?
13:35I'm Joe.
13:36Joe.
13:36Nice to meet you.
13:37I think there were a few surprised faces, maybe, to see a couple of guys walking
13:40and it was a bit overwhelming.
13:42I wasn't really too sure like where to look or what to do.
13:44Nice to meet you.
13:45Do you want two kisses?
13:46Yes, I'm right.
13:47Simon, nice to meet you.
13:48Hello.
13:49Hi.
13:50Marie, nice to meet you.
13:51Never had any experience with gaming before and I think it's one of my fantasy actually.
13:58I'm feeling very naughty actually.
14:03That's a very good turn on.
14:05Another round of applause, guys.
14:06Woo!
14:10Oh, that's nice.
14:11Oranges.
14:15I thought, I didn't think we were going to be meeting people straight away.
14:17No, neither did I.
14:20It's important to know exactly who I am as a person.
14:24So that's why I'm here.
14:26First gay couple.
14:28Yeah.
14:29Two guys.
14:31The shock.
14:33Chris and Simon, welcome.
14:34Effie.
14:35Hello.
14:36Nice to meet you.
14:36Come in.
14:38Jump on the couch.
14:39Get comfy.
14:41Cozy?
14:42Yeah.
14:43Be cozy.
14:43Oh, this is a lovely sofa.
14:44So tell me what brings you here today.
14:46I guess ultimately we're here because we both want to explore parts of our sexuality that
14:55we haven't really had the opportunity to explore before.
14:58Like, I don't want to ruin my, like, end my relationship with Chris to explore with women.
15:04It's just that it feels like now is a time in my life where, like, I want to explore.
15:08Since I came out as gay, I've put myself in a box and only really allowed myself to find
15:17men attractive.
15:18It's hard to explain, but it's just so much pressure that you're dealing with internally
15:25and you get externally as well every day of your life.
15:32And it sucks.
15:33What's happened is I've just not entertained those feelings towards women.
15:50So I think it's there.
15:52I just haven't acted on it.
15:54Sure.
15:54Okay.
15:55Do you find women attractive?
15:57I do find women attractive, but I think I don't know what I find in the bedroom sexy
16:03about a woman.
16:04Okay.
16:05I understand that.
16:07I just feel like I need to be in a situation where, like, I'm allowing myself to feel aroused
16:14by being with a woman.
16:15Mm-hmm.
16:16Going to dig into that for sure.
16:18Sure.
16:19But I want to hear from Chris first.
16:22Do you find women attractive?
16:24Yeah, I think so.
16:25But it's just not something which I actively seek out.
16:28You're not seeking.
16:28Okay.
16:29I get it completely.
16:29Okay.
16:30Any concerns about the experience?
16:38Yeah, I mean, I'm just sort of coming here thinking, well, I'm not very sexually experienced.
16:43I consider myself particularly, like, social and outgoing.
16:47Okay.
16:47I'm really battling against my own demons in that sense.
16:50Any other concerns?
16:52Concerns about the relationship?
16:53But it, you know, if you ask me what the worst case scenario would be, it would be reacting
16:58in a way which I'm not expecting.
17:00And, like, feeling jealous about silent OPF with women, which I guess is always the thing.
17:06You've not explored a female body.
17:10Hmm.
17:11Do you know what you're doing?
17:14I do not know what I'm doing.
17:15Okay.
17:16We don't know what we're doing.
17:16I didn't want to assume, but, okay, we don't know what we're doing.
17:19Okay.
17:20How do you feel about that?
17:21It's very nerve-wracking.
17:23I'm huge on communication.
17:24And I just think, like, having it all out there in the open and just, like, this is what I said about, like...
17:27Learning on the job.
17:28Well, yeah, basically.
17:29It's just like learning a new skill, isn't it?
17:31You know, if I took up painting, I'm not going to be painting masterpieces straight away.
17:35Sure.
17:36So, tonight, there's a social.
17:38It's a black tie soiree.
17:42And I think, Chris, my challenge for you is to kind of socialize solo for a little bit.
17:47Great.
17:48Yeah, yeah, all right.
17:49And then see where both your connections take you.
17:52Ultimately, you want it to get physical, but this will only happen if you are both relaxed and open.
18:00How does that feel?
18:01I'm excited.
18:02I'm excited for you.
18:03I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
18:04Good, good. Excellent.
18:05This is massive.
18:07I know.
18:08You can often get a couple where one party is super clear about what they want and the other party is going on for the ride.
18:13But if Simon and Chris react differently to opening up, this could cause a rift.
18:21This is a situation where we have said that we wanted to come into this together, hand in hand, and walk out of this hand in hand.
18:28Did you see anyone that you like that would come in?
18:32So, yeah, there were a couple of girls for sure.
18:34But I could come out of this entire experience and realize that I actually really prefer to have sex with women.
18:41If anything were to ever jeopardize our relationship, that terrifies me.
18:51Lauren?
18:58Yeah, very smart.
19:00Yeah?
19:01I like it.
19:02Yesterday, Lauren and Tom took their first step towards non-monogamy.
19:07This evening, they'll attempt to push things further by way of a couple swap.
19:12Oh, my God, that bruise is massive.
19:16It's because I've got a really bony knee and it was like a wooden floor.
19:19With husband and wife Gage and Olivia, who they met at last night's social.
19:24So, we're excited to spend some more time with them.
19:26Hopefully, I have that little bit more of a flirt and see where things go.
19:30But are we having drinks with friends or drinks with friend friends?
19:35If tonight goes to plan, Lauren and Tom will experience having sex with other people separately for the first time.
19:42So, the idea of, it seems like more of a tease for me because I can't see you with this other woman.
19:49But I know that you're going to be with her.
19:52I don't know how to explain it.
19:53It just really makes me so horny.
19:55Are you nervous?
19:57Yeah.
19:58Going in there together first.
20:00Yeah, but then literally only having a couple of drinks and then going to the bedroom.
20:04Working first.
20:05I've got loads of shit going from my head.
20:08If they do say, yes, I'm not going to be in the room with Lauren and she's not going to be in the room with me.
20:14It's a big thing.
20:15If I can do this, I can do anything else.
20:17So, just, again, I have to wait and see.
20:21I can't, yeah.
20:22Other than that, I'm shitting it, yeah.
20:24I'm nervous.
20:26Really?
20:26Yeah.
20:29Because it's one on one, isn't it?
20:31I really want it to be a success today, but I'm really nervous, yeah.
20:35The idea of being completely separate.
20:40There is a real worry, you know, if it doesn't go to plan.
20:43Going forward, looking at our future.
20:45I honestly don't know what we'll do.
20:49Oh!
20:51Thanks for inviting us.
20:53No, no, thank you.
20:55It was really nice that you actually are here now.
20:57Cheers!
20:57Yeah, definitely.
20:58Cheers.
20:59Thanks for joining us.
21:00You missed your wife.
21:02Told you.
21:03Told you.
21:03Tom was really nervous.
21:06I think the initial nerves and feeling like that, it's always going to be there because
21:11it is outside the box.
21:12It is unusual.
21:1612 years.
21:17I remember 12 years.
21:18I think I remember.
21:18Yeah, we've been married 12 years.
21:22Wow.
21:23Yeah.
21:24And still strong?
21:25Yeah.
21:25If you'd have met me eight years ago and you said swinging or non-monogamy, I'd have
21:31to Google it.
21:31But it's like, it's a bug that gets you.
21:35And once you kind of like taste that rainbow and get a feeling for it, you go, I get why
21:40people are non-monogamous.
21:41Down to the swinging side of it, obviously, like, every situation is completely different.
21:49Separate room stuff and you're always thinking, what's Gage doing?
21:53Like, you're lying to us, like, you're always doing that.
21:55Yeah.
21:56And that's that, yeah, well, like, we've never actually been apart.
22:02I'm really fucking nervous because I find it really intimidating.
22:05So, I'm always, like, thinking, just, I overthink a lot of things and then it's in my head.
22:15This is literally out of my comfort zone.
22:17We'd love to know how different it feels to be separate.
22:23We play together and separately, but there's also a dynamic to it where you know they're
22:27only down the corridor and sometimes you can hear what they're saying and it, you know,
22:30fuels a bit more of that adrenaline and nervous energy.
22:34Just talk more and just see what happens, basically.
22:37Yeah.
22:38All that's in the back of my mind is the next step and I'm going.
22:43I'm a bit intimidated, but in a good way.
22:49I was actually going to ask you if it's okay if we can take this somewhere else.
23:00I'm happy.
23:02That's only if you're, that's only if you're okay with it.
23:07Yeah.
23:07Let's do it.
23:08Here we go.
23:10What's most important for me tonight would be that we, we ended up in separate rooms with
23:15separate people and we're comfortable and we're happy.
23:19We're literally kind of a few doors down from each other.
23:22So, this is our room.
23:24Stop thinking about everything else and go from there.
23:32You've got to take charge this time and no blindfolds.
23:36Yeah, I didn't really think of that, but yeah.
23:41Of course, of course.
23:42I can tell by just the way he looks at me if he's feeling uncomfortable.
23:46I'm really scared that tonight he is not going to be able to perform and he's going to really
23:53beat himself up about it and therefore be put off completely from opening up properly.
23:59You're nervous now, aren't you?
24:01I'm freaking out.
24:11Last one.
24:13Are you nervous now?
24:14I'm absolutely shitting it.
24:16Why are you shitting it?
24:17I don't know.
24:18It's because you're attractive and I'm like, wow.
24:21Lauren and Tom are one step closer to their dream of a fully open relationship.
24:27Tom and me have not been apart.
24:29But having now parted ways for a separate couple swap, Tom is wavering.
24:35In my head, it's like, I know what I want to do.
24:37Yeah.
24:38And it's just, it's like the start of what to do.
24:40Like, if you have a negative first experience, it could then change their whole opinion about it.
24:48This is, this is our first.
24:50This, you are our first.
24:51Oh, shit!
24:55I'm just sort of like tiptoeing around.
24:57I'm trying to find conversation.
24:59I'm trying to, because it's going in my head now.
25:02Like, you know, we're in the room together and it's just me and Olivia and Lauren's not here.
25:08What do you prefer then?
25:09Do you prefer, like, this or do you prefer it in the dark?
25:15Um, this is very bright.
25:24What about now?
25:26Hmm.
25:26Is that better?
25:27Hmm.
25:29I know it sounds strong, but I feel petrified.
25:34Yeah, I'm happy with that.
25:35Are you sure?
25:36Are you a good kisser?
25:40I don't know.
25:41I've been told I am.
25:42I'll tell you the truth right now.
25:43Okay.
25:44Go ahead.
25:44I like to say I'm here for a good time, not a long time, when it comes to sex life.
25:50Anything that kind of really gets my heart rate going, I love.
25:55Definitely happy?
25:56Yeah, not, not quite.
25:58And kissing-wise, is it okay to kiss?
26:00Okay to kiss?
26:01Like, my head's a bit scrambled.
26:04My head, it goes, am I doing it the right way?
26:08Is she enjoying it?
26:09Is she not enjoying it?
26:11It's, like, timidated.
26:12I feel shit, I feel shit, I'm gonna be shit in bed.
26:28Gage was amazing.
26:30It was mad.
26:32It was, it was really, really good.
26:33I'm not getting naked until you're naked.
26:48Oh, fuck, you're gonna make me do that, aren't you?
26:50Yeah.
26:51Really?
26:52Yeah, we're getting there.
26:55I don't usually do that.
26:56Mm-hmm.
26:57Okay.
26:58I want to do it for Lauren, and for me.
27:05Really, I should do it for me.
27:07But, yeah, doing it takes a lot of balls.
27:11Stop getting in your head.
27:15The only way I feel like to get over that hurdle
27:17is to jump in the deep end.
27:20Mm-hmm.
27:24Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:25Ha-ha-ha!
27:28I think you're in my head right now, so...
27:29Ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:30Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:32Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:32Ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:33Ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:34You're making me hard already.
27:37Mm-hmm.
27:41Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:43Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:45Ha-ha-ha!
27:49Ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:51Ha!
27:54Ha-ha-ha-ha!
27:55Those came off they weren't flying pillows went flying. I was making a move of her
28:03I was being the one in control. It's got even stronger. It was amazing
28:19Okay
28:25Hello
28:33Hello gorgeous
28:35Oh my god
28:37Do you hear us?
28:38Yes, and that's when I was like, I've had an amazing time. It sounds like you just did too
28:42I've got my top off
28:44As you can tell the smile on my face. Yeah, it's a happy ending
28:52Don't know what happened. It just felt right
28:58Now we are definitely going to be open to a couple swaps. It has always been my dream
29:04Yeah, I think I've nailed it to be fair. Yeah
29:08You did
29:10Yeah, that was great
29:12Cheers
29:14Hey guys
29:18Sorry
29:20I really enjoyed myself
29:22It was really good
29:24Yay
29:26Stood on the balcony
29:28Naked
29:29And it was just a moment and you're kind of like
29:32This is it. This is what the lifestyle is about
29:34Guys, I love you all to bits, but I am not freezing
29:36It's cold
29:37It's cold
29:38It's cold
29:39I'm built for coffee, I'm not screaming
29:40I'm a new person
29:44I was leaving naked tonight
29:45Do it
29:46Honestly, like the changes in you in like the last 12 hours have been nuts
30:08I just, I love sex
30:10Are you horny, Kat?
30:14I am so horny
30:16Buzzing
30:18Buzzing
30:19Giddy
30:22When you couple swap
30:24It's the after effect, it's the love that it brings you closer
30:27And that's what I love
30:33It gets me horny
30:34Yeah, we literally, we haven't been able to keep our hands off each other since last night
30:40Happy that we're here
30:42Happy that we're here
30:43Happy that we're here
30:44Don't wanna go home
30:45Don't wanna go home
30:47Best experience ever
30:49And to be fair, for me, it's helped massively
30:53I'm on the right track to being what I want in life
30:57My room
30:59I'm gonna miss this place
31:03Good morning
31:04Good morning
31:05Hi
31:06Co-ordinating in your face
31:08How are you doing?
31:10How are you doing?
31:11You all right?
31:12How are you doing?
31:13I had such a blast
31:14We were buzzing last night, wasn't we?
31:15Yeah
31:16We literally had sex straight after
31:17It was like, wow
31:19It was basically magical
31:21To the point where I'm hoping on the outside of this
31:24We can have that connection with them too
31:26So you're on the outside all right?
31:27Definitely
31:28Yeah
31:29Yeah, yeah, make sure you're back safe
31:30Another co-ordinating
31:31Yeah
31:32We met our people
31:33Mm-hmm
31:35You all right?
31:36Hi, guys
31:37Everyone, it's been amazing
31:38Thank you
31:39We're now excited about leaving here
31:41And continuing with the non-monogamy
31:43Yeah, definitely
31:44Thank you very much, everyone
31:46Take care
31:47Lovely to meet you all
31:48Thank you
31:49Yeah
31:50It's been amazing, isn't it?
31:51Yes
31:53We're now excited more than ever about the wedding
31:56And of course, knowing both of us, it's going to be a huge party
31:59Yeah
32:00And the after-after party might be quite naughty
32:02It'll be different, yeah
32:06One of the best experiences I've ever had in my life
32:08And it's because of you
32:10What a handsome man
32:27What a handsome man
32:28Newcomers Simon and Chris are about to make their debut at a black tie social on the terrace
32:35Where they hope to find a female resident to explore their sexuality with
32:43I don't know how to flirt with a girl
32:46Flirting is with men
32:48Always has been with men
32:52I don't know how to flirt with women
32:53I don't think I know how to flirt with men though
32:55So hopefully that goes well
33:00Let's do it
33:05I've definitely come here looking for answers
33:11I'm hoping that tonight
33:13Helps me find those answers
33:16But I think Chris might struggle
33:19But sometimes I end up panicking in social situations
33:22I feel nervous
33:24I'm suddenly getting a big rush of butterflies in my stomach
33:28I've questioned the decision to do this
33:30This could open doors for us
33:32Or close them
33:34Have fun
33:47You too
33:48See you later
33:53Hello
33:55Evening
33:56Good evening
33:57Wasting no time
33:59Simon makes a beeline for seasoned resident Jen
34:02Hello
34:04Hello Mark
34:05How are you?
34:06Who's at the retreat with her partner Mark
34:09It's one of her big fantasies is having sex with
34:12Bye guys
34:13Bye guys
34:14Be bi?
34:15Yeah
34:16Every morning I wake up and she's looking at me like
34:19I wish you were bi
34:21Give us a bit of this
34:22Give us a bit of this
34:24Bit of that
34:25James Bond
34:26Yeah get one of those out
34:28Tell us your story
34:29We've heard that you may be looking at exploring bi with a girl
34:34Correct
34:35Okay
34:36Hot
34:37Yeah
34:38Yeah
34:39The thing is like I'm a very confident person
34:42I'm not the kind of person to really give a fuck what people think about me
34:45I'm like very like this is me
34:46Well I think you're great
34:47Thank you
34:48I care about that opinion
34:49Jen instantly made me laugh
34:52She put me at ease
34:54Jen's gorgeous
34:57Simon seemed forwardly flirty
35:00Yes
35:01I also noticed Simon's eyes
35:02Very intense
35:03Very amazing
35:04Lovely chatting with you
35:05Cool
35:06We'll see you later on
35:07As Simon works the room
35:09How are you?
35:10Very good and you?
35:11Fantastic
35:12Yeah good thank you
35:13It's lovely to meet you
35:14Chris homes in on residents Georgie and Emily
35:18How are you guys?
35:19Yeah
35:20Good
35:23Full moon have you seen the movie?
35:24Mmm
35:25It is beautiful
35:28So what's your goals for this evening?
35:30Erm
35:31Er
35:32I don't know
35:33Try and talk to people
35:34Make your blush
35:35Yeah
35:36Try and talk to people
35:37And er
35:38I'm nervous about being on my own
35:39Yeah it's new
35:40It's not like my strength
35:41I don't know
35:43I don't know
35:44We're erm
35:45The reason we're here
35:46Is erm
35:47We're interested in experimenting with women
35:49So what brings you guys here?
35:52We love to play
35:53Oh yeah
35:54Basically
35:55Yeah
35:56So how do you think the night rule turned out?
35:57Just one girl
35:58Or are you gonna
35:59Are you playing together with one girl, two girls?
36:01I'm a really picky person
36:02Oh okay
36:03When it comes to like
36:04Like guys and girls
36:05I'm like
36:06I just
36:07I don't know
36:08I have to like get to know people
36:09Of course
36:10I'm able to be attracted to them
36:11Yeah
36:12I was thinking if it was like one girl
36:16Or maybe two or three
36:17Oh yeah
36:18That's the question
36:19Yeah yeah yeah
36:20Erm
36:21I think like
36:22It depends who we're attracted to I guess
36:23We'd happily do something just like
36:24The two of us like
36:25With one girl
36:26Or two
36:27Or three
36:28And we'd just keep chucking them in the pile
36:29Yeah
36:30Er
36:31My biggest fear is just like
36:33Not
36:34Having enough to say
36:35Er
36:36Running out of conversation topics
36:37Er
36:38Repeating myself
36:39I feel very awkward
36:40I feel awkward right now
36:41I'm struggling for conversation
36:42The worst thing is like
36:43If I don't vibe with anyone
36:44I think when people are nervous
36:48I'm not super like pushy
36:51And like you know
36:52I'm not gonna take someone
36:54Into a situation
36:55They don't want to be in
36:56I mean we feel like we shouldn't
36:59Take too much of your time
37:00Yeah we don't
37:01I'm gonna go
37:02Grab a little drink
37:03I love it
37:04A red flag that I see
37:05When couples are trying to open up
37:07Is when one is really into it
37:09I've got the connection
37:10And I can see naughty eyes
37:12One's just going along with it
37:16This is mortifying
37:23I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for Simon
37:25So this is out of my comfort area for sure
37:28Sure
37:44How are you?
37:45Good how are you?
37:46Lovely to see you
37:47Naomi
37:48Yeah
37:49Lovely
37:50Simon and his fiance Chris
37:52Are one hour into their first social
37:55Where they hope to find a woman to open up with
37:58Before anything
37:59You look absolutely stunning
38:00Your hair is gorgeous
38:01And your eyes are absolutely beautiful
38:03Thank you
38:04Hands down
38:05I'm actually blushing
38:06While Simon has quickly found chemistry
38:09With the female residents
38:11Flirting with the opposite sex
38:13Hasn't come as naturally to Chris
38:15I take a while to come out of my shell
38:17So I'm someone who like holds myself back
38:19Fantastic
38:20I feel the same way
38:21So I quite
38:22Yeah
38:23Okay we're the same in the relationship then
38:24I'm going to high-brand in the side of this table
38:25Yeah
38:26We'll just look at each other sort of indirectly
38:27Yeah
38:28Come back and stand here
38:29We can get close
38:30I'll help you
38:31With Chris
38:32I could definitely sense nerves
38:34He's a little bit goofy
38:35But I love that
38:36Because I can get a bit like that as well
38:38A bit more of a reactive conversation
38:40I'm not like I'm terrible
38:41That's why I sort of hang on with Simon
38:42Conversation starter's terrible
38:43Me as well
38:45I would say I'm attracted to Grace
38:47She seems like me
38:48In the sense that like
38:49She's a bit more reserved
38:50Yeah you're me
38:51You're me
38:52Okay
38:53That's good though
38:54Good luck
38:55Chris has found a kindred spirit in Grace
38:58And Simon's connection with resident Naomi
39:01Is growing ever stronger
39:02I'm going to put that there actually
39:04Just keep playing with it
39:05Hands Simon hands
39:07It's okay you can play with like my coat
39:09I mean yeah I'm just going to like
39:10I'll just yeah
39:11Leave my hand here
39:12Did you pick that one as well
39:13So you could get stroked?
39:14Yeah
39:15If I did
39:16Is that a problem?
39:17No never
39:18Never
39:19Do you want to stroke my arm?
39:20I'm like a texture person
39:21Go on that's fine
39:22I'm such a texture person
39:23And I can't keep my hands still
39:25You can absolutely keep your hands on my arm
39:27If you would like so that's completely okay with me
39:28Thank you
39:29Please tell me about
39:31Anything about you
39:32I know that I can love more than one
39:35And I want to fill my life with love
39:37But society tells me I have to choose right?
39:39So then it was
39:40You are yep
39:41Yeah you get it
39:42Keep going I'm with you
39:43You're on it
39:44I'm on it
39:45I'd say I'm attracted to Naomi
39:46The hair, her eyes
39:47She's just a beautiful girl
39:49Honestly like I would love to chat with you more
39:50Yeah that would be nice
39:51Naomi
39:52Well
39:53Thank you
40:02With the night drawing on
40:03You were over here?
40:04It's time for Simon and Chris
40:06To decide if they're ready to take things further
40:09With any of the women
40:11How's it going?
40:15So what are your thoughts?
40:16I don't know
40:20If you are not open to like doing like larger group stuff
40:24Mm-hmm
40:25As in like an awardee for example
40:27Yeah
40:28So if we went to two girls
40:30How do we feel about that?
40:33I don't know
40:34I don't know
40:35I guess it depends like
40:38Doing it is what I need to do to get more clarity
40:42On the question marks that I have in my hair
40:45How do you feel about that?
40:46How do you feel about that?
40:47How do you feel about that?
40:48How do you feel about that?
40:49How do you feel about that?
40:50How do you feel about that?
40:51Well we need to make a choice
40:54Make a decision
40:55Make a decision
40:56Um
40:58Ultimately
41:00I'm here to like
41:02Explore
41:03I think there's nothing wrong with extending an invitation
41:13To
41:14To
41:15A hot tub
41:16Cool
41:17Okay
41:18See who's your fancy
41:20I had such an amazing connection with Naomi
41:23She is like a front runner for me
41:28I was talking to
41:29Grace
41:30She's quite a shy person
41:31Yes
41:32And I was like well I'm also quite a shy person
41:33Yeah
41:34But yeah she was very nice
41:35What about Jen?
41:36She was really funny
41:37Super helps
41:38How about we maybe go and have a chat with Naomi, Grace and Jen
41:46Yeah
41:47Let's fucking do it
41:48Cool
41:49We've got something to say
41:53Ladies
41:54First to get an invite is Grace
41:57Oh this is terrifying isn't it?
41:59Oh thank you
42:00Yeah
42:01Hello
42:02Grace
42:03Yes darling
42:04Simon I want to give you like to draw us in the heart
42:08Do you know what I would absolutely love to
42:10Because you two are like my type of guys
42:12I think you would be absolutely great
42:14Like for what you're looking for
42:16I don't think I'm the right person
42:17That's okay
42:19I don't even talk to me about this
42:21It makes me so sad that I said no
42:23I turned them down because they like are not people that I would see sexually
42:28So I knew I wouldn't be the right person
42:31I don't know what to do now
42:34What do you say?
42:35She doesn't think that what we're looking for is what she can provide
42:40Cool that's absolutely fine
42:44Hey darling
42:45Hello ladies how are we?
42:46Hello
42:47I was just going to ask Jen
42:48If you would like to spend some more time with us this evening
42:50We were planning on going to the hot tub and then see how things go
42:54I'm a yes
42:55Check in
42:56Cool alright we'll catch up with you in a bit
42:57See you in a bit
42:58Yeah Chris and I were both wondering if you would like to spend some more time with us this evening
43:02We were going to go and hang out in the hot tub for a bit
43:04Oh my gosh I love the hot tub
43:05And then just see how the evening goes
43:06Yeah?
43:07Yeah
43:08That sound good?
43:09That would be lovely
43:10Cool fantastic
43:11I'm looking forward to developing more of a connection
43:13But yeah if I feel it I'll definitely lean into it and see where it goes
43:17Are you happy with that?
43:18Yeah
43:19Yeah
43:20Take the two wins
43:21Yeah
43:22Right what else do we need?
43:25It's a big deal in the fact that it's definitely a step further towards figuring out what exactly
43:33what I came here to figure out
43:35Are you with me?
43:36I am with you
43:37But I'm nervous because I have never had sex with a woman
43:43I don't know what I'm doing
43:45I have no idea what to do with one woman let alone what to do with two women
43:53Oh hell yeah
43:54Is it good?
43:55Oh it's just so much warmer than anything else
43:58I guess it's new
43:59I guess it's new
44:00This is a new experience for us
44:01I haven't put any thought into the seduction side of it
44:04What are you feeling?
44:05I'm definitely interested in taking things a little bit further but we'll see
44:19The worst thing that I can think of is just one of us like reacting badly to something
44:25that happens
44:26But you know here we are
44:29Yeah
44:30Yeah
44:31Uh
44:32Well
44:33Here comes some of the girls
44:39This is definitely a very big moment in our relationship because this is a doorway
44:45towards something which could be like a huge change for us
44:52Next time on Open House
44:54Would you be willing to have two separate experiences?
45:01I just like having Simon around
45:04Hi
45:05Hello
45:06Got butterflies I'm feeling a bit like giddy
45:09Oh
45:10Yeah
45:13He's not here
45:18I feel like we're walking into a lion's den to be honest
45:21Oh my god they're so cute
45:23Neither of us have had that many sexual partners in the past
45:26How are you feeling?
45:28This whole experience is obviously completely alien to us
45:32It's just a bit much for me
45:33Like I just don't want to go back in
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