Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 1 Episode 1
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00:00We are completely in love, but it doesn't mean you can't screw around.
00:05British couples are increasingly questioning monogamy.
00:09The biggest contraception of knowing to man is wedding cake.
00:15But is it possible to open up your relationship without harming it?
00:19It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:23These curious couples are about to find out.
00:26Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:27They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:30Hello, you all right?
00:32Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:36Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:41...and a group of single, available and sexually liberated residents...
00:46It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:50They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:54Oh, jeez!
00:57...can become a reality.
00:59It would be like the idea of group sex.
01:02We were just wondering if you'd like to spend a night with us.
01:04And whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos.
01:09Ah!
01:10I should have been thinking about the man that I love and how he was feeling.
01:15And have sex with other people.
01:18Oh, my God! Ah!
01:19Wow! I was not expecting that.
01:23Wow!
01:24This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:36I've got mad butterflies.
01:37I'm not nervous. I'm more excited.
01:39The first couple checking into this unique retreat is Maddy and Nathan from Swansea.
01:46Yeah, I'd say we're Welsh and proud, yeah.
01:47The best thing about Will is, like, the people.
01:49Like, no matter where you go, you can kind of, like, have a laugh, have a crack.
01:53Nathan is my first proper boyfriend.
01:55I've always wanted, like, a serious relationship since I was 16.
01:58And then, like, the minute I stopped looking, I met Nathan.
02:01My stomach's literally doing circles.
02:05I get it, like, more and more nervous, like, the closer you get.
02:08Maddy and Nathan have been committed to each other for a year and a half.
02:13And now live together.
02:14Though he's got, like, really hard exterior, he's a bit of a softie.
02:17I think he's got a magic power, to be honest.
02:20Women do just, like, fall in love with him.
02:24Maddy's very supportive and nurturing.
02:26And when I first see her, she just looked good, and she's looked good ever since.
02:29Aw, that's really cute.
02:31Corrie's, like, quite out the way.
02:36Both see themselves as adventurous in the bedroom.
02:39If we do have any, like, sexual fantasies that we want to try out,
02:42or, like, new things that we want to try,
02:44like, we're very much open to trying it, which is really cool.
02:47We try almost anything.
02:48Yeah.
02:48We've got a nice sex toy collection.
02:52Like all monogamous couples, they've only ever slept with each other.
02:56Oh, wow!
02:59But now they want help to try and open their relationship,
03:03starting with their very first threesome.
03:06I think monogamy is just a social concept, like, completely.
03:10There's seven billion people in the world.
03:11It is kind of weird to think that you'd be restricted to just one person
03:15for the rest of your life, you know what I mean?
03:18Let's go now.
03:19Let's do it!
03:20Here to welcome them are hosts Jess and Tom.
03:24Hi!
03:25Who are in a long-term open relationship themselves.
03:28Follow on through.
03:29It's lush, I need.
03:31We've been in an open relationship for a couple of years now.
03:35We're completely in love.
03:36I think you could be happy with one partner for the rest of your life,
03:39but there's definitely no harm in trying them all at the same time.
03:43It just multiplies the fun.
03:45The retreat is packed with experienced, sexually open residents,
03:50eager to get to know the freshman couple.
03:55It's really surreal at the minute.
03:56Because we've talked about it for so long,
03:58and, like, we're finally here and it's finally happening,
04:00it's just really exciting that we're actually going to be opening up
04:03our relationship, or trying to, anyway.
04:07You're welcome!
04:09Ready to help the couple brave their first few steps
04:12into this extraordinary sexual experiment
04:14is intimacy therapist, Dr. Laurie Beth.
04:19I've got more than 30 years' experience
04:21helping couples who want to open up their relationships.
04:25And in order to do that and have it really work,
04:28the couple needs to be trusting,
04:31have fantastic communication,
04:32and be emotionally resilient.
04:34It can be incredibly successful,
04:37and I've seen couples come out
04:38actually with stronger relationships.
04:42Hiya!
04:43Grab yourself a seat!
04:49So why don't you tell me
04:51what has brought you here?
04:53You just kind of, like, just started talking about, like,
04:55inviting another woman into the relationship.
04:57We were just in bed one night,
04:59and I think the idea just kind of came to us.
05:01But, like, we definitely want to try threesomes
05:04and see if it's something that would suit us, definitely.
05:07OK.
05:07And, uh, sexuality?
05:09I'm bisexual.
05:10He's straight.
05:12Great.
05:13What we're looking for is kind of like a throuple-type situation
05:16where we can bring somebody into our relationship,
05:18sexually and emotionally.
05:20But we want to try threesomes first
05:22to see what would happen and if I can handle it.
05:25As long as I'm in a bedroom with two girls,
05:27I'd be enjoying myself.
05:29I'm most excited just to find out about myself,
05:31find out about us.
05:33I'm most excited for tits.
05:38I believe that these guys are the ones that are gonna, you know,
05:40add a bit of spice to the retreat.
05:41You reckon?
05:42They seem like they're so much fun about for anything.
05:44So free.
05:45Free spirit.
05:46Yeah, definitely.
05:47They're free spirit.
05:48Would you both be interested?
05:49Me?
05:50Yeah.
05:51Everyone should be interested.
05:52Would you both be interested in going together?
05:53Because she's open to that.
05:54Yeah!
05:55Right on my street.
05:56No, definitely.
05:57You can see that he's just quiet.
05:58Like, he always, like, make his move when he needs to.
06:00You know what I mean?
06:01You're, like, in a chokehold.
06:02She'll be, like, eating your pussy,
06:03and you'll be like...
06:06Maddie, why are you looking for an emotional connection?
06:08I would find a different connection with a woman
06:11than I have with Nathan.
06:13It's me kind of pushing this a little bit more than Nathan.
06:16Okay.
06:17So what are you most afraid of?
06:19I do have a little bit of a jealousy side to me.
06:22Mm-hmm.
06:23Jealousy is really common emotion in general anyway,
06:26and certainly an open relationship is an emotion that comes up a lot.
06:30It often comes from insecurity in the self,
06:33so you're worried you're not good enough,
06:35or you're worried you're going to be replaced,
06:37and then somebody getting more time and attention
06:40than you're getting.
06:41And hopefully we work towards the time
06:45when you're really just getting joy out of your partner's joy.
06:48My jealousy is something I've been battling with
06:51for a year and a half, basically.
06:53So to be able to overcome that would be really, really good for me.
06:58Tonight, Maddie and Nathan will have the chance
07:01to try to arrange a threesome.
07:03Okay.
07:04This evening, you're going to have a social,
07:07and then you're going to have the opportunity
07:09to choose yourself a girl to spend time with.
07:12This is the place where people do have sex with other people,
07:15and it's facilitated so you're in a safe space.
07:17Yeah.
07:18So have a blast tonight.
07:20We will.
07:21Yeah, thank you so much.
07:24Threesomes is a really popular way of opening up a relationship,
07:27but actually it's one of the hardest combinations,
07:30because you don't know how you're going to feel
07:32seeing your partner pleasuring someone else until you do it,
07:36and jealousy and insecurity can be the result of that.
07:39I'm trying to think, like, my biggest concerns are my reach.
07:48Hmm.
07:49Like, you've got to see me with a girl.
07:51Ah, yeah.
07:52Without you involved first.
07:54I feel like me and Marty, we're about to take a big step now.
07:58I mean, if it ever is going to happen, it would be no.
08:01Marty's jealousy issues,
08:03it has caused one or two problems in the past,
08:06but I feel like if anyone's going to be able to help with it,
08:09it's talk to Laurie.
08:10I think I do want you to kiss one of them as well,
08:12like, in front of me or, like, without me,
08:14and kind of, like, flirt and stuff.
08:16I'm so excited for the socials.
08:18Thinking about going to this party with Nathan just to find a girl
08:22it makes me really scared.
08:24So I think this would be really interesting to see if I can handle it.
08:28If you kissed a girl, like, would you feel like you're cheating?
08:32Maybe.
08:33Hmm.
08:34I suppose that's what we're here to find out.
08:44It should be good.
08:46It's going to be fun.
08:47Next to arrive at the retreat are married couple,
08:50John and Danielle from Bolton.
08:52The north is absolutely the best.
08:53Well, they're going to say, I don't know, just prices.
08:54I don't know how people can afford to live.
08:56Not just prices at all.
08:57It is!
08:58Eight pound 30 for a glass of wine in that hotel the other day.
09:02It's going to go a million miles an hour,
09:03and it will be gone and dusted in the blink of an eye.
09:06A bit like the wedding day.
09:08The pair have four children together.
09:10Scared to death.
09:11Really nervous, yeah.
09:12Yeah.
09:13And were youngsters themselves when they first locked eyes on each other.
09:17The first time I met Danielle, I thought she was absolutely fit.
09:20Wearing a little white blouse and a little red tartan skirt.
09:23Was that the first time we met at the school disco thing?
09:25That was the very first time we met, yeah.
09:27Come on!
09:28Ah!
09:29Look!
09:30Oh, my God!
09:31From the second I did start fancying him, I've never stopped.
09:33I'm gorgeous now.
09:34Like, it's weird.
09:35Now?
09:36So, we've come out for a nice family meal.
09:39Bring all the rabble.
09:40Cheers, Danielle.
09:41I love this driveway.
09:43Well, them trees, it's like a scene out of Gladiator.
09:47After 16 years and counting...
09:49Oh, that is gorgeous.
09:51...the relationship hasn't lost its spark.
09:54I think our sex life is pretty damn good.
09:57Yeah, we don't really have sex life.
09:58Don't get me wrong.
09:59Sometimes it can be five times in one day.
10:00Yeah.
10:01As much as we can, really.
10:02On a batting average, I'd definitely say more than 20 a month.
10:07Let's hope it goes well.
10:09And it's a bit like pulling a Band-Aid off.
10:12After the best part of two decades committed to each other...
10:18The couple have come to seek help to try and open their relationship,
10:22starting by taking part in an orgy.
10:25I don't think you could ever be well prepared for this situation.
10:28I think it's one of those things that you've just got to kind of...
10:31take it as it comes.
10:33You've got me the wrong trousers.
10:34What do you mean?
10:35These ain't my trousers.
10:36How would you bring my wrong ones?
10:37I don't know.
10:38I'm not sure I would.
10:39I should tidy up a little bit in case we bring somebody back.
10:54Maddy and Nathan are hoping that tonight they'll have their first ever threesome.
11:00I'm sorry.
11:01I'm really excited.
11:02Sorry.
11:03I don't want to rush you.
11:04Sorry.
11:05I feel like me and Maddy, we're about to take a big step now.
11:08To meet some of two girls, it's going to be so good.
11:10More women.
11:11More pleasure.
11:12Can you see my umbrella?
11:13Let's go.
11:14The pair are attending a social.
11:24Welcome.
11:25Hello!
11:26Hosted by open couple Tom and Jess, where they can try to find someone to invite back to
11:31their bedroom.
11:33There you go Evie.
11:35This is for you.
11:36You want to get to know everyone?
11:37Yeah.
11:38Just give them a shout if you need anything.
11:39in attendance are the retreats unique residents all here because they believe that monogamous
11:49relationships belong in the history books cheers to a good night girl cheers yeah i think that we
11:55were raised to be monogamous but i feel that we should actually break out of that box and make
12:02those decisions for ourselves i love how you're wearing the red and just in case i start blushing
12:07again you know cheers my love cheers i feel like exploring is what a modern relationship is like
12:18being able to explore with each other or multiple people and doing all these crazy things it's just
12:24natural to have sex with multiple people i want to experience everything i want to be a part of
12:30everything i want to see different things and non-monogamous relationships is another one of
12:33those things that's like oh it's interesting let's be a part of it so do you have a physical type
12:37yourself i like my terrible yeah that's like my thing really isn't it cheers for that
12:43so has she ever seen you kiss another girl no how do you think if she if she did i don't know it could
12:53be bad you guys are just throwing yourself in here aren't you okay to help ease nathan and maddie
13:00into being intimate with people outside of their relationship dr laurie has included erotic group
13:06games in the social severe whipped cream across your lips and then kiss your lover
13:12so i'm gonna pick nathan you're okay with that yeah yeah i don't know like how i'd react to seeing
13:21nathan kiss another girl in front of me whether i can put my jealousy aside
13:25oh my god quick quick quick quick quick
13:30he even closed his eyes and everything
13:39i'm so proud of myself for not even feeling like a slightest bit jealous when i watched
13:49um nathan kiss another girl it just makes me more confident and um i'm just more sure that this is the
13:55right path to us now that's the first time i've ever kissed anyone apart from maddie in like the last
14:00year and a half so it was quite nerve-wracking the chemistry between me and nathan in that kiss
14:05we would just go with the flow and see where it goes and i feel like it would go pretty far
14:11gently tug on your lover's nipples while offering a sensational kiss
14:16go on
14:16okay
14:17yeah
14:18loose around the nipples
14:20hey yes girl
14:23amazing thank you very much
14:28i think see my girlfriend making up with hot girls i was living more people's dreams
14:41i mean it's quite surreal i can only believe it out because i was there
14:44game's over the couple have decided to invite someone back to their bedroom
14:50can we follow you for a little chat yeah i wonder if you'd like to spend the night with us
14:55yeah that would be amazing i'm so excited it's just going to be a natural chemistry between us
15:03and it's going to go off it is our first time doing anything like this are you excited yeah
15:08dr laurie suggested to us if we did feel any like kind of jealousy feelings just kind of be
15:12really like open and communicative let's go the thought of having sex with someone in front of
15:18maddie i might be nervous in the bedroom
15:19but you know about that tomorrow
15:21we'll find out
15:23amazing look at this
15:31deep in the english countryside an extraordinary experiment is taking place
15:44so guys what do you think about anu have you ever done it oh yeah what are your thoughts on it yeah
15:50i think it's like turkey and ham like they're both kind of like a source of meat but they just kind
15:54of feel different you know what i mean yeah they're just they're the same they're just kind
15:58of different textures you know what i mean in a luxury retreat people are rebelling against
16:04thousands of years of tradition by opening up their monogamous relationships in a safe space
16:10most people often think that non-monogamy is a threat to relationships but actually affairs
16:18are a far bigger threat and nearly half of marriages end in divorce in many cases opening
16:24up is more likely to save and improve your relationship you've got to change your mindset
16:29and you have to learn some skills in order for it to work well married parents john and danielle
16:36are at the retreat wanting to try out group sex within the confines of their committed relationship
16:42out of our comfort zones aren't we properly we always say we want to try new things but then
16:46they're being brave and actually trying the completely new things like this is uh yeah scary
16:50so tell me about what brought you here well we started looking into like sex parties and clubs like
16:56that group sex right because we decided that's something we want to try uh and then that's
17:01somehow led to this and uh i just like sex you know as a couple we want to explore that opportunity
17:09together in terms of an ability to have sex with other people but in an open and honest way
17:18so have you either of you had affairs well i had a i cheated like 10 years ago
17:26but i wouldn't call it an affair it was like a one-time thing john was living away at the time
17:30um i was living at home with two young kids i was quite lonely it was very public it was very hurtful
17:37yeah i was very angry how long did it take before you began to trust her again um
17:47i didn't fully recover until i had an affair more recently i'd had i suppose a bit of resentment for a
17:56number of years with danielle and i'd been unable to kind of relate suddenly i could relate so how
18:03does it feel talking about it now it's it still feels difficult it's still difficult it's so much
18:10harder to open a relationship up when there's been an affair because the trust is broken and it's
18:17actually the lying not the sex that caused the problem so you're really asking for something hard
18:23when you want to bring another person into your relationship when you don't trust your partner
18:29because of the affair so why now why are you here now finally like admitted to each other that we do
18:37still both want to have sex with other people in the future and we need to find a way to do this
18:41otherwise we're not going to work one of us is going to end up having an affair and hurt each other again
18:44in the future because we will definitely okay you're not ready for group sex at this point in my
18:52opinion you need to take things one step at a time the first thing you need to do is to deal properly
19:00with the hurt from the affairs and really confront it and work it through i don't want to open up that
19:07hurt from the first time well that's what i that's what i don't we're going to open up that hurt from
19:12the first time deliberately because if we don't then you're going to have a bad experience as a
19:18result not of what was going on then but what was going on in your past before encouraging john and
19:23danielle's plans for group sex dr lori wants to test how the couple cope with being intimate with
19:29other people when they aren't together i'm going to send you on separate socials and you'll get the
19:34opportunity to spend time and meet a whole group of people and then you'll get the opportunity to spend
19:40some one-on-one time with somebody that you choose at the end of the evening but actual sex will be
19:46strictly off limits we want to have some agreements about where the lines are drawn so i'm actually
19:52going to give you an agreement for this right i'm going to say no full-on intercourse
20:00so i mean normally i'm encouraging people to go further further but this time i want to put in stuff
20:06there so you don't have to worry about what she's doing i'll be i'll be worrying no matter what thank
20:12you very much
20:16when a couple have had affairs and they haven't fully dealt with this
20:22i don't recommend them having group sex in that situation i recommend that actually they take their
20:29time and work on re-establishing their trust before stepping out and having sex with other people
20:38because you want them to have a great first experience not be triggered into the trauma that
20:44they've already experienced john and danielle hadn't expected to be split up from each other
21:03i'm really nervous about the separate socials to be honest i am just going to go with the flow and
21:07just try and jump into the experience as much as i can do really and i i don't like really going into
21:13social events without danielle i'll be worrying about danielle and what she's doing and all the
21:26demons that'll be in my head but i think i've just got to throw myself into it and hope it comes out
21:33okay in the end
21:45yay i love that sound cheers to a fun night yeah nathan and maddie are hoping to try their first ever
21:56threesome with resident precious do you want to give me a kiss because i felt like you're a good
22:01kisser really yeah he's a really good kisser he is a good kisser
22:14it's weird like i really genuinely thought i'd be like super like possessive and like wanting to stop i
22:20don't want you to stop at all it's hard to watch you i'm not gonna lie
22:33my vagina's just been like this ding ding
22:36i'm ready i'm like
22:41but one of them isn't ready are you hot no oh okay
22:46i think if he watches us i think that was your new one what do you think yeah
23:04i know you're gonna get out
23:17oh oh
23:23maddie and i really bonded well i feel like we connected on a few levels which is really nice
23:33as the night went on i ended up being a bit of a spare part
23:36was that good
23:40i don't think it was all it cracked up to be
23:42not good for you
23:44nathan tries to get more involved
23:46do you want to swap all of them
23:49yeah
23:56you okay
23:57You're good.
23:58It's, uh, it's on my mind.
24:00Yeah, it's OK.
24:01That's fine.
24:04I'm not a married girl, eh?
24:06So, Nathan's clocked out.
24:08It's a shame we can't, like, go off and, like, leave him sleep, you know?
24:12No, you can't do it.
24:13Do you want to sleep in the bath?
24:16That's not fair.
24:17You're supposed to be in a couple.
24:19She's like, no, Nathan, see you later.
24:22It just wasn't, like, a vibe.
24:24My feelings at that point didn't really matter.
24:26That's what pissed me off, really.
24:45Good night, precious.
24:46Good night, baby.
24:50Do you want a couch?
24:52Yeah.
24:54For a little bit.
24:56I'm sorry.
24:58I'm sorry.
25:00I'm sorry.
25:01I'm sorry.
25:02I'm sorry.
25:03I mean, like that?
25:05What do you want to do?
25:20You've made me feel like this made me feel like this made me feel like this made me feel like this.
25:33I just don't know what to say.
25:43I don't know what to say.
25:53It's like that sometimes. I know he's overtired, but...
26:03I just feel really, really bad.
26:06It has been a fantasy of ours for like months, but of course it's not a porno, it is real life.
26:12It's people's feelings can get hurt, egos can get bruised.
26:16It just really upset him.
26:19He feels like I've kind of like neglected him.
26:22That's how he's feeling right now and he doesn't really want to talk about it.
26:26How are you feeling?
26:54Last night, devoted couple Maddy and Nathan tried their first ever threesome, but things didn't go to plan.
27:08Everyone's capable of being around themselves and each other is.
27:12It's a whole thing that is really new for me.
27:16We kind of went into this knowing that we're both strong enough to like kind of overcome anything that happened.
27:23I think it's better.
27:27I don't think I know.
27:30Can't be gone.
27:35I had such a good time last night and I'm sure Precious had a great time as well.
27:44The hardest thing I think is just like seeing how quickly it can all change just by not being fully aware of everybody's emotions and needs.
27:54Initially, I thought there was going to be no negatives.
28:00Three summer, two girls.
28:01It's going to be a good crack no matter what happens.
28:03But then I suppose the situation has like brought out a different side of man than I didn't know was there.
28:09Having made the best decision, maybe like this isn't for us.
28:18Nathan was saying, you know, he doesn't know if this like relationship is right for him anymore.
28:26Which he said in the past, you know, but I feel like this time he means it.
28:32I just hope not.
28:46Dr. Laurie is keen to see the couple and address the fallout from last night.
28:51Opening up your relationship when you and your partner have been together forever can be really challenging because it's just been the two of you.
28:59Actually seeing your partner with somebody else can feel really difficult.
29:03But you can be helped to actually open up as long as you've got a good trusting relationship and a good bond and great communication skills.
29:16Good morning. Grab a seat.
29:21Alrighty.
29:23You give me a summary of last night, please.
29:26During the experience, it was quite apparent that those who are enjoying it getting like more intimate than I was.
29:31And they both are more into each other than into me.
29:35Right.
29:37Did feeling insignificance scare you?
29:42Just felt like, you know, let's go five minutes and it's like, man, is this girl's feelings really more important than mine at this point?
29:49I saw a different side of Madison I've never seen before. She was so worried about herself about, like, being left out.
29:55I bet she would have been more, like, intuitive of the situation.
29:58To expect somebody to be intuitive in that, in that situation, big ask.
30:03I thought I was going to be the problem. I feel so bad because we were so focused on my jealousy and, like, how I was going to think.
30:09Like, we didn't really take the time to think about what, how you would, like, I think he was an afterthought.
30:16And I'm really sorry for that.
30:18You should have that.
30:19You should have that.
30:20You need to build in check-ins.
30:22Yeah.
30:23Right? Even though that might seem awkward. This is part of the process. Just because you're having sex doesn't mean you don't talk.
30:30Yeah.
30:31You know, it's complex.
30:32Mm.
30:34But it can be amazing.
30:35Yeah.
30:36You just need the skills.
30:39Do you want to continue?
30:41Yeah.
30:42Yeah, definitely.
30:43Okay, so this evening, what I want to do is send you a date with somebody else.
30:47Okay.
30:48And potentially spend the night with them.
30:50Yeah.
30:51Once you've selected somebody, you actually talk about what things you guys might do so that you're all on the same page.
30:56Yeah.
30:57And so there's always negotiation. There's always communication.
31:00Thank you so much.
31:02No problem.
31:03I feel so much better now.
31:04Go enjoy yourselves, and I'll see you later.
31:07It's quite normal for a first threesome to go a bit awry.
31:12What matters is how the couple deal with it and how they work it through.
31:16If it happens the same way a second time, then I would be quite worried about them.
31:24Love you.
31:25Love you too.
31:26And I'm sorry.
31:27No.
31:28A lot of men have the dream of, oh, a threesome or two girls.
31:30It's going to be so good.
31:31Everyone is forward to it.
31:32But it's not as easy as you think it is.
31:34I'd like to hope after talking with a doctor and talking to a man that I would be able to communicate better.
31:39But I do struggle with it, so it might be a big step for me.
31:43I always thought it was going to be complex, but not this difficult.
31:47I think it's going to make us stronger now moving forward because we've done it.
31:51We can get through it, which means we can get through anything.
31:54I'm more than like you, I love you.
32:06Married couple John and Danielle came to the retreat hoping to take part in an orgy together.
32:11I feel like I'm going to spend all night just saying, sorry, what was your name again?
32:15Sorry, what was your name again?
32:17But tonight, Dr. Laurie has asked them to separate so she can test how they handle the idea of their spouse spending time with the opposite sex.
32:26I don't think it's normal to be monogamous, no.
32:29Certainly not from our perspective, anyway.
32:32For us, it's more group sex, friends.
32:35Playing with people together.
32:37Yeah.
32:38Yeah, well, and group sex.
32:40Like, yeah.
32:42Yeah.
32:43The couple will be mingling with the retreat's sexually liberated residents.
32:48What's going on?
32:49I've never seen you.
32:51And although Dr. Laurie has banned actual sex, she wants them to try kissing other people.
33:00Well, I can tell you now, you look absolutely fucking mint.
33:04It feels so weird, like, saying to you, you look lovely when you're going out and seeing somebody else, but yeah, you do look lovely.
33:09Yeah.
33:10Well, you are.
33:11We actually can both be really jealous, can't we?
33:13Absolutely.
33:14Erm.
33:15I get very possessive.
33:16Even particular.
33:17And jealous.
33:18Yeah.
33:19I don't like not knowing either.
33:20Yeah.
33:21I almost want to know every detail in my head of everything.
33:24not to control the situation, but because then I don't manifest things in my own mind and make a situation worse in my own mind.
33:31Literally, you're going to be snogging people for the next two hours.
33:35I'm nervous and a lot of anticipation.
33:39I'm sure if there's a drink, I'll feel better after I've calmed my nerves.
33:44I've not gone out on my own for 16, 17 years to meet guys, so it feels very weird.
33:49And I'm really nervous about John getting jealous.
33:53That's the worry for me.
33:54You ready for this?
33:55No.
33:56Yes.
33:57I love you so much.
33:58I love you.
33:59I'll be over here.
34:00All right.
34:01I shall see you after the social.
34:12Love you.
34:13Have fun.
34:14You too.
34:15And we'll see you.
34:16All right.
34:17You in a bit.
34:18Love you.
34:19Bye-bye.
34:20Danielle's social is in the courtyard.
34:33Do you want a party?
34:34Oh, wow.
34:35Hi, gorgeous!
34:42Are you OK?
34:43While John's party is by the pool.
34:46Look who's up.
34:47Hey.
34:48Hello.
34:49Hello.
34:50Welcome.
34:51Hello, everybody.
34:52How are you doing, Danny?
34:53You look lovely.
34:55Host Jess is on hand to make sure things run smoothly.
35:00It's me and you.
35:01A big-ass sausage party.
35:04Have a good night.
35:06How are you doing?
35:07Nervous as hell?
35:08You're looking good.
35:09You're beautiful.
35:10Thank you very much.
35:11Allow yourself to have some fun.
35:13Yeah?
35:14And then she's not supposed to.
35:15You guys look amazing.
35:16Cheers.
35:17On his first date for the best part of 20 years, John is keen to make a good impression.
35:22You and your wife came for...?
35:24Generally, we like the idea of group sex.
35:27Ah.
35:28So...
35:29More than three, then?
35:30More than four.
35:31More than five.
35:32More than six.
35:33More than seven.
35:34Oh, yeah.
35:35What about?
35:36More than Mary.
35:37Super friendly.
35:38They're all really nice to speak to.
35:40Really nice to get on with, to be honest with you.
35:42So many beautiful girls up there, like, it's mind-blowing, really.
35:45I've not gone out on that guy separately for, like, 17 years.
35:46You're not shitting your pants?
35:47Yes.
35:4817?
35:49OK, so before you were married.
35:50So, yeah, so it's...
35:51It's a trial test, yeah.
35:52And even then, I never really went out on dates.
35:53It was always friends and groups.
35:54When you're younger, that's how you meet people, isn't it?
35:55Well, your perspective, I see how it's going.
35:56Yeah.
35:57It's an unusual situation to go in and not know anyone.
35:58So it's a bit of a completely new experience.
35:59So, erm, I'm really nervous.
36:00So what do you want from this, then?
36:01What?
36:02Extra man, extra woman?
36:03Everything.
36:04I want it all.
36:05Everything.
36:06All of you guys were invited.
36:07Let's go back to the room.
36:08Let's go.
36:09We're done, guys.
36:10Cut.
36:11Wrap this up.
36:12Hi.
36:13Pleasantry's over.
36:14Dr. Laurie is looking to put this couple's emotions to the test, with an intimacy game.
36:33We're going to play a little game called Suck and Blow.
36:37It's a person on this, then.
36:39Blow, just blow, blow, blow, blow.
36:40Now stop, now stop.
36:41Yeah.
36:42Kissing another woman, it's a hard thing, but, I think once the busyness stops, see how
37:01the night takes us, really.
37:04And then, Cliff.
37:06of kissing somebody else it's terrifying really have not have not been out and
37:11dated over guys within almost 20 years it's ridiculous so the part of doing
37:15that is scary dr. Laurie wants to gauge the couple's ability to be intimate with
37:21other people and also to not worry what their partner is up to like kissing
37:31going really good to be honest with the girls are all absolutely stunning I'm
37:35rolling with it social was a fun I enjoyed it best it was it's not loads of hot
37:42guys it's always a winner
37:50I think it's gonna hide my bonus sorry guys don't mind me for now the couple
37:57seemed to have passed dr. Laurie's test I'm really open John's not jealous but I
38:02just keep like thinking I hope he's okay and I hope it's going well for him I hope
38:05he's having a good time so my mind's a complete wash really in terms of
38:09everything and I don't know everything's going at a million miles an hour really
38:13I think I think she'll have a good time I think I just need to try and get out of my head and not
38:21think about it maddie and Nathan are preparing for a romantic rendezvous don't know why it's doing that stay in the hope that this time they'll enjoy a successful threesome I'm still a little bit nervous about spending the night with someone new because I mean it didn't quite go as planned
38:29last time don't think it can go much worse than it did last night really so excited to try again restart
38:38go from there you're excited
38:45you're excited
38:47yeah I'm excited what about you yeah super excited I feel like Madison's taking things on board I've taken things on board I've taken things on board
38:53and I think if communication stays key we'll be able to have a good night tonight
39:00okay let's go
39:05the couple have asked
39:10dancer Grace to join them in the hot tub and she agreed we've definitely decided on Grace haven't we we really got on with her in the social we nearly picked it yeah so I think she's just a great fit I think
39:35I'm very excited they picked me personality wise they nail it they're definitely my type and then physically they're both beautiful
39:44what we cheer you into we are cheering to new experiences
39:51I like that
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39:56oh how exciting
39:58what do you like actually enjoy like is it just penetration for you that's like the biggest thing or
40:03yeah pretty much just penetration I don't need to be kind of like two of you working on me that I'm not into that
40:10what position is it that makes you climax
40:12what is it I think it's missionary sometimes
40:14missionary but in the right angle
40:16yeah because he's got like quite a curve to it
40:18so if it's the curve it's in the right place
40:20you're Captain Hook
40:21Captain Hook
40:22Captain Hook
40:23okay cool
40:24and it fits well I think it fits well
40:26yeah
40:27from my experience curved dicks are like the best dicks
40:31so that's really nice to know
40:33yeah
40:34we're in for a good night clearly
40:35like
40:36you might be a tired guy after today
40:38yeah
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40:57yeah
40:58I am very excited about tonight
41:00thank you
41:01I feel like it's just gonna be really natural which is great
41:04I think tonight might be a little bit different than last night
41:07because Grace is very much into Nathan
41:09whereas he wasn't really feeling that before
41:11I'm hoping this is gonna be the redemption of last night
41:14and I mean you'll see in the morning but it's good vibe so far
41:17thank you
41:34May 이건
41:35and Nathan
41:36have invited Grace to their bedroom
41:39threesome thought me and grace had a really good connection so i think it's gonna be a great night
41:49for all involved asking grace to spend the evening with us was like kind of like the next step i
41:57guess in our journey oh yeah just so excited let us know like what you want us to do that will help
42:03make it easier for you last time around nathan struggled to perform not tonight
42:18like you said you're gonna have trouble but i'm having a great time of your day
42:48wow i was not expecting that he's really guilty today he is
42:57how do you feel yeah how do you feel i absolutely love that
43:07cheers to free sex yeah cheers you guys sleep well
43:14it's awesome i'll sleep for a week
43:18hey come on in
43:39grab seats hi how are you guys doing today yeah amazing much better uh-huh i'm quite
43:48elated okay i mean it was night and day experiences because you didn't feel jealous because there was
43:53constant communication and then because i was communicating more i felt more comfortable
43:57yeah yeah so how are you feeling about all this at this point
44:00i feel like after the way the second night went i think i'm definitely looking towards the future
44:06and perhaps opening it up yeah definitely i mean yeah hundred percent hundred percent it's been
44:11such a good experience we've learned so much about ourselves and our relationship as well and i feel
44:16like i feel so much closer to you i feel like i trust you more i feel like our relationship's better for
44:21so do you want to open up your relationship based on your experience here yes definitely i think
44:28yeah that's brilliant yeah i hope you have a wonderful time thank you i hope so too take care
44:35thank you lovely to meet you you too
44:38ah bless
44:42my views at the start with consensual non-monogamy was it was just all going to be good i mean there's
44:52going to be no downsides it was going to be more women more pleasure more enjoyment but obviously
44:56you can get double the stress because double the people so doesn't necessarily mean it's going to be
45:01a good thing but it can also be double the joy yeah i mean we definitely we've come and
45:05leaps and bounds haven't we from when we arrive like it's benefited our relationship by bringing
45:10somebody else in
45:11i feel like we're a stronger couple for it i'm so forward to see where the future holds i mean
45:19we're better than we were so we've grown it's not just a little thing we had sex with other people
45:24and um yeah to come out really positive about it and like looking forward to the future in
45:31contention on monogamy it's just exciting it's just really exciting
45:34next time
46:02john and danielle opened their relationship
46:05and some old wounds
46:10stop trying to calm me down because you can't undo what's already been done
46:14and retreat newbies jess and mike
46:18we've never done anything like this excited for it to be honest
46:23get off on the right foot
46:25yeah
46:31i we won't tuck you in the shin
46:34it's just a bit of a istem
46:38my head