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00:00The word virgin, people see it as a joke, it's quite obsessing.
00:13In a world where sex is everywhere, the truth is surprising, there are more adult virgins
00:20than ever.
00:21Being a young adult in this day and age, it's difficult.
00:25Social media.
00:26Dating apps.
00:27TV shows.
00:28Porn.
00:29It's just everywhere.
00:30Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other?
00:33Now?
00:34Yeah.
00:35At this radical retreat, intimacy experts are offering a very hands-on solution.
00:42She's a miracle worker.
00:43Woohoo!
00:44Like that?
00:45I like that.
00:46To help Britain's virgins lose the one thing they feel is holding them back.
00:54I want to lose my virginity.
00:56It's now or never.
00:59But when the moment arrives...
01:01Would you like to move to bed?
01:04Who will be ready...
01:05I just don't want anyone to touch me.
01:08To go all... the way.
01:22On the previous phase of the course...
01:24This is my body.
01:26The group faced their body hang-ups.
01:30This is my body.
01:32And had an anatomy lesson.
01:35Down here is the vaginal opening.
01:38It inspired Dave to begin intimate touching.
01:41I think today was the biggest thing I've done so far.
01:45While Zach...
01:46I would love to have sex with you.
01:48Is eager to move things on with surrogate partner Kat.
01:52I'm feeling a little bit of frustration.
01:55And even though Emma is finding her flirty side...
01:57Oh, that's so sweet.
01:58You're turning me on a little bit.
02:01Really?
02:02One thing eludes her.
02:03I've never masturbated or experienced an orgasm.
02:07Now...
02:08You can just start with your fingers and then work your way up to the vibrator.
02:14The course is heading towards its climax.
02:18Orgasms can come in different ways.
02:20If you don't know how to orgasm,
02:22you just won't be able to share erotic energy with someone else.
02:26Morning, boys.
02:27You all right?
02:28Yeah, you all right?
02:29Was that French toast?
02:30No, it's not.
02:41It's another morning on Virgin Island.
02:43Oh, no, my cheese.
02:45And the next phase of the course will be a first for some of the group.
02:50They're learning about the elusive orgasm.
02:53Great.
02:54Oh, Mum.
02:55So far, I found the course actually quite life-changing.
03:02But I think it's going to be difficult for me
03:05because I've never experienced an orgasm.
03:08Oh, my.
03:11I'm ready for it.
03:14Part of my own sort of ego, I guess,
03:18is actually knowing how to please a woman.
03:22In order to reach that sexual peak...
03:25Good morning.
03:27Good morning.
03:29..Celeste and Danielle are first going to teach them a few positions
03:33to raise confidence in the bedroom.
03:37So in this next exercise,
03:39we're going to help you get skilful moving bodies around
03:44in a smooth, fluid way.
03:47And we'll also add a little bit of passionate talk.
03:52So just one sentence somewhere along the line,
03:55you can say, you're so sexy, or I love touching you,
03:58or you're so hot.
03:59Just something that has passion in it.
04:02You ready to see the demo?
04:07First, there's a sideways missionary.
04:10You're so gorgeous.
04:13Then they switch to cowgirl.
04:19Next, it's the secondary missionary.
04:27And finally, the leapfrog.
04:38And that's how it's done.
04:40So, who wants to try it?
04:43I'll do it.
04:44Yay!
04:47So far, Zak has been the most eager in the group.
04:51Right, starting position.
04:53Starting position is relaxing.
04:57All right.
04:58Yeah, all right.
04:59Yeah, just stand for a moment to connect.
05:02Good.
05:04Sexy.
05:05Very.
05:06Yeah.
05:07Good.
05:08You're a lucky boy.
05:09Yeah, I like that.
05:11Good.
05:12And with you.
05:14Fantastic.
05:15Ah.
05:18Oh, that feels good.
05:20All right.
05:21Oh, that feels good.
05:23All right.
05:24All right.
05:25All right.
05:26All right.
05:27All right.
05:28All right.
05:29All right.
05:30All right.
05:31All right.
05:32All right.
05:34Ah.
05:45Can I have a little smack?
05:48Woohoo!
05:49Yeah!
05:50Woohoo!
05:53Okay, who's next?
06:01I yelled it.
06:02Yes!
06:03As the course progresses,
06:05Davy's slowly but surely learning the skills to turn his love life around.
06:10I've gotten to a point where I'm staying at home every weekend
06:13just doing nothing.
06:15I want to go out and meet someone.
06:17I want that level of intimacy with someone.
06:21Ah.
06:22It feels really nice to be here with you.
06:27You've got great eyes.
06:28Oh.
06:29You are very sexy.
06:33Okay.
06:39That feels really good.
06:45Oh, I like that.
06:54Yes.
06:55Oh, yes.
06:59Exactly.
07:03Woo!
07:06You rocked it.
07:09It was surprisingly comfortable.
07:11In my head, I thought it was going to be a little more awkward.
07:15When the group arrived on the island...
07:17Yes, fantastic.
07:19..they were too self-conscious to relax into intimacy.
07:23Okay.
07:24This is another good one.
07:25Like that?
07:26Oh, yeah.
07:27I like that.
07:29I love your lips.
07:33Now...
07:34And then you flip me over.
07:36Exactly.
07:38..they're gaining the knowledge to enjoy themselves.
07:42Fucking sexy.
07:43Oh, God.
07:44Love that.
07:46You don't like compliments.
07:47No.
07:48You can tell me I'm doing well.
07:49That's different.
07:50Okay.
07:51Like, you're such a good girl.
07:53No.
07:55Anyone else ready?
07:57Yeah, fuck it, let's do it.
07:58Yeah.
08:01So far on the course,
08:02Emma hasn't embraced many of the physical exercises.
08:06I am uncomfortable with the idea of sex.
08:11I would like to be able to have the confidence
08:14to be able to overcome my fear,
08:16but it's not going to be easy.
08:18It's not going to be easy.
08:19It's not going to be easy.
08:20It's not going to be easy.
08:21It's not going to be easy.
08:22It's not going to be easy.
08:23It's not going to be easy.
08:24It's just so awkward.
08:25If I ever experienced sex,
08:26I would be so lost.
08:28I wouldn't have a clue.
08:34You can tell me when you feel ready.
08:37Yeah.
08:39Take your time.
08:40I'm ready.
08:41You're ready?
08:42Yeah.
08:43Okay.
08:44We're going to do it nice and slow.
08:46Yeah?
08:47Mm-hm.
08:48Right.
08:49Woo-hoo.
08:51Okay.
08:55So get yourself settled there.
09:00You can touch back.
09:01You're holding.
09:02Yeah, feel free.
09:04Okay.
09:05Come down here to me.
09:07Down here.
09:09There we go.
09:13Perfect.
09:21Okay.
09:24You want another tap?
09:25Mm-hm.
09:26Why not?
09:33Wow.
09:36You all right?
09:37It's the most awkward thing in my life.
09:39Oh, you're good.
09:45That was a massive step up from what we usually do.
09:47Yeah.
09:48Of you.
09:49You were definitely the dominant one.
09:51Exactly.
09:52I was having a good time as well.
09:53All that being thrown around.
09:55You.
09:56Yours was the hardest to watch only because of how intimate it was.
09:59Do you know what I mean?
10:00Yeah.
10:01I see.
10:02That's proper, like, softcore porn.
10:03Yeah.
10:05Did you get a bowl knock?
10:06Yeah, of course I did.
10:07You did?
10:08Yeah.
10:10I found the workshop a little bit tough.
10:13I thought that I was ready for it, but once I was on the bed with Celeste,
10:18I don't think I was.
10:19I mean, I'm glad that I gave it a go, but I just think I was like a dead limp fish.
10:25I think with Emma, I was a little bit surprised when she said she wanted to do
10:29the positions.
10:30It was still a little bit too much for her.
10:32I also think that she maybe doesn't know what she likes, so maybe some work
10:37supporting her to discover more of her body.
10:40Yeah.
10:41We're going to talk with all the women about their masturbation practices
10:46because my mission is for all of them to have orgasms before they leave
10:50the island.
10:53To do that, the experts decide to give the girls a lesson in pleasuring.
10:57Hey, Bea!
10:58Hi!
11:00Self-pleasuring.
11:02So here we have a box of toys.
11:06This is an opportunity to find pleasure with yourself.
11:10A lot of times women don't even know that self-pleasure is for them.
11:14They don't even think about masturbating and a lot of women are like hesitant
11:17to even try it.
11:19If you learn the experience of orgasm for yourself, you actually have a much
11:22easier time doing it with a partner.
11:25These little pulse vibrators, you have quite even distribution of vibration.
11:29These tongue-like toys are for moving up and down the front of your vulva.
11:36Don't just hold the toy there and lie limp.
11:39In order to have an orgasm, the blood has to move to your genitals.
11:44And moving makes a huge difference.
11:47I do it.
11:48I miss my box at home.
11:52Your pleasure box.
11:54It's an opportunity to explore what feels good for you.
11:57And being able to build an association of I have fun with my body.
12:03So are we keeping these, taking them back to our cabins?
12:05Yeah, babe!
12:06You can choose between you which one you want to take.
12:09I want this one.
12:11Questions?
12:12Tell me.
12:13Like, um, whether this would work for me?
12:16Like, could I get pleasure from this?
12:18This will work for you.
12:22OK.
12:23See you later.
12:24Have fun.
12:26Bye.
12:27What are you having tea?
12:28I haven't decided.
12:29Ooh!
12:30That one works.
12:31It's like a little fan.
12:33It is like a little fan.
12:35Right.
12:36OK.
12:37I'm going to go and read my book.
12:41With batteries charged, the girls head off for some privacy.
12:45And Emma prepares to attempt her first ever orgasm.
12:50Emma, it's Aisha.
12:51Hello.
12:52With one last tip from Aisha.
12:54Self-pleasuring without lube is like trying to tongue kiss without saliva.
12:58Oh, my God!
13:00Someone's going to walk past and just hear loads of noise.
13:14Do it!
13:15Do it!
13:16It's too cold!
13:17On this private island retreat...
13:19SHE SCREAMS
13:21..12-year-old Aisha...
13:23SHE SCREAMS
13:24..12-year-old Aisha...
13:26SHE SCREAMS
13:27..12-year-old Aisha...
13:28SHE SCREAMS
13:30..12 virgins have jumped in at the deep end.
13:33When you go on the rocks, be very careful you don't get cut off.
13:35I'm not going on the rocks.
13:36OK.
13:37I'm not as brave as Viraj.
13:42And Emma has taken her first steps into the world of self-pleasure.
13:47I did experiment with my vibrator for the first time.
13:50It was a little bit uneasy at first.
13:54I think I was just getting used to the rhythm of my body
13:59and how things work,
14:01but I don't think I actually experienced an orgasm.
14:04I think I just need to make myself feel more sexy in some sort of way.
14:10As Emma works on her technique, Dave and Zak discuss it.
14:15I reckon there's loads of people who've had sex
14:17who are doing it horribly.
14:19Yeah, right, I think so.
14:21Because there's no way my mates know all the shit that I've been taught.
14:26And one of the key tips for getting in the mood
14:28is good communication.
14:30Does that feel nice or not?
14:31Yeah, it does.
14:32Could you do it a little bit lower as well?
14:34Like, that's really nice, but a bit lower as well.
14:36Look at this, communicating.
14:38Why won't Danielle and Celeste be proud?
14:40Oh, yeah, that's it, that's really nice.
14:42Oh, yeah.
14:44Now that Taylor has come out as gay,
14:46Celeste and Danielle have a new plan for her.
14:49It's all about de-shamifying what turns her on.
14:54I remember liking a praise king.
14:56She loved to be called a good girl,
14:58which was very embarrassing for her.
15:00So all of her work is to explore
15:02pleasure and sensation with a woman.
15:04Yeah, I think in session today,
15:06we'll just keep normalising her desire.
15:08So she can learn what she likes
15:10and have a chance to just experience it.
15:14But first, surrogate partner Kat
15:16must help Taylor overcome her fear of intimacy and rejection.
15:21My fear is that I finally have sex with someone
15:23and I'm really bad at it.
15:25Are they going to then turn around
15:27and it'll be my fault?
15:29And, yeah, it's one of those
15:31where you just, you don't want to do it
15:33in case it goes wrong.
15:37I was thinking we could maybe
15:39try, like, something a little bit more organic,
15:41like maybe some, like, kissing and, like...
15:43Oh, well...
15:45Erm...
15:47We can start slow.
15:49I've never kissed anyone sober, so...
15:51Never?
15:53No.
15:57Is that OK?
15:59Mm-hm.
16:01You sure?
16:03Mm-hm.
16:05I just feel like this is, like, really nice
16:07and we're really close, but I also feel like...
16:09I feel really not pretty, and I don't,
16:11like, I know, but, like...
16:13I think you're beautiful.
16:18I just feel, like,
16:20big and kunky and...
16:22It feels so good.
16:24Like, I promise you,
16:26it feels so good.
16:28Mm.
16:30Do you want to go on top of me?
16:32Erm...
16:34Can't try.
16:36It feels like you would be too pretty for me.
16:38I understand what you're thinking.
16:40Mm-hm.
16:42But I feel like you're wrong.
16:44You don't know what I like.
16:47And what I'm thinking is, I'm wondering
16:49what's comfortable for you,
16:51and I'm wondering what you feel safe with.
16:53And I don't want my desire to be too much.
16:55Yes.
16:57LAUGHTER
16:59Sorry, I panicked.
17:01Excellent.
17:03More?
17:05I want more.
17:07I don't know.
17:17Am I doing it right?
17:19You're doing great.
17:21I'm feeling a lot more erotic energy.
17:23Can I kiss you?
17:25I kind of really want to,
17:27but I also am kind of afraid to.
17:29It feels hot in my stomach.
17:31That's good.
17:33Fuck it.
17:35LAUGHTER
17:47KISSING
18:09How'd it go?
18:11Really good.
18:13And we kissed.
18:16We were, like, sat this far apart,
18:18literally just whispering at each other,
18:20like, really, really close.
18:22And that's when I started to feel really connected.
18:24I really, like, enjoyed it.
18:26When I arrived at the island, I felt scared.
18:28I felt scared of sex,
18:30I felt scared of my sexuality,
18:32and I felt scared of just everything to do with sex.
18:34But now I feel a lot more confident,
18:36I feel like I've learnt a lot,
18:38and obviously I feel a lot more gay.
18:40LAUGHTER
18:42So, what's a prostate?
18:44Is that a favour up?
18:46Oh, I thought your prostate was your testicles.
18:48No.
18:50Oh, shit. I've got bean biology.
18:52After Taylor experienced her first meaningful kiss...
18:54The only thing I haven't done it for is kissing.
18:56That's the only thing I want to do now.
18:58Yeah, kissing.
19:00..Jason hopes to follow suit.
19:02I've never kissed anyone.
19:04In my adult life, never kissed anyone.
19:06Ever.
19:08I know my first kiss is going to be sloppy and weird
19:11and get my tongue out and...
19:13That kind of thing.
19:15I can only imagine the horror of the first one.
19:17Having arrived at the retreat unable to even hug,
19:19Jason is conquering his fear of intimacy.
19:23So now expert Joy wants to raise the stakes.
19:31What I want to do today
19:33is continue to feel the present moment
19:35while we connect
19:37and we can practise also.
19:40Taking a close-off if you feel comfortable.
19:42I can do that, yeah.
20:06Do you want to lie down?
20:08I do, yeah.
20:10Sounds good.
20:16As Joy escalates the intimacy,
20:18Jason isn't holding back.
20:22So, is he ready for another first?
20:24God, yes.
20:38SILENCE
21:02LAUGHTER
21:04I've come a long way.
21:07You have, you really have.
21:09Seriously.
21:11I never thought I'd get this far.
21:13Wow, you kiss good.
21:15You touch good.
21:19I hope I kiss as half as good to you.
21:21It's beautiful connecting with you.
21:23You're a beautiful man.
21:25You're a beautiful woman.
21:31Goodbye.
21:33It's hard putting into words.
21:36It's the best feeling in the world.
21:38All my life I've been wondering
21:40how my first kiss will go on a woman, on the lips.
21:42I know it's not safe, but still.
21:44It feels great.
21:46I thought it'd be crap, but apparently I'm a natural.
21:50How'd it go?
21:52Great.
21:54What happened?
21:56We just kissed on the lips and shit.
21:58On the lips?
22:00Oh, shit.
22:02I thought we were meant to kiss on the lips.
22:05Mine already have.
22:07What, your therapist has sucked you off?
22:09No, not yet, but they might do today.
22:11I might ask her for that.
22:13She'll probably do it.
22:15Zach feels he's made such good progress
22:17that he's ready for more.
22:19I might fucking lose my virginity tonight.
22:21I reckon tonight, I don't think I'll get it tonight.
22:23I think it'll be the next one.
22:25Because I think there's still...
22:27What, for you?
22:29Well, I mean, I would know better than you.
22:31I'm not trying to assume what you want.
22:33I'm saying what they will do.
22:35Yeah, they might think it's too fast.
22:41As evening falls...
22:43See you later, Zach.
22:45Have fun.
22:47..Zach's confidence is still playing on Emma's mind.
22:49The thing is,
22:51Zach reckons he's going to lose his virginity tonight,
22:53and I'm like, fair play.
22:55I really like his ambitious thinking,
22:57but if you go into it thinking that,
22:59are you setting yourself a false expectation
23:02and then are you going to be upset if it doesn't happen?
23:04Mm.
23:06Hello. Hello.
23:08And also, I feel like therapists,
23:10if they don't think someone's ready
23:12for something that severe,
23:14they're not going to let it happen.
23:16No.
23:18How have you been feeling since our last session?
23:20I'm feeling good.
23:22Excited, actually. Yeah.
23:24Yeah.
23:26I'm keen to move forward, definitely.
23:28Do you want to get going?
23:31Best please. Yeah.
23:33So we're just going to start standing.
23:35If it feels OK,
23:37we're going to take off our clothes.
23:39Does that feel OK?
23:41Yeah, it's OK.
23:43Surrogate partner therapy
23:45is definitely about way more than sex.
23:47It's about
23:49teaching really basic relationship skills,
23:51like connections,
23:53how to relate to others,
23:55being more organic.
23:57So I think people need to connect
23:59in a therapeutic way.
24:03Kat has an exercise to build that bond.
24:05She wants them to look
24:07into each other's eyes
24:09and share their honest, unspoken feelings.
24:19Kat, you want to move forward?
24:21When's that mean?
24:23I want to touch you
24:25and be touched by you.
24:28I think there's something
24:30in, like, emphasis
24:32on wanting to connect through touch
24:34that makes me feel like an immediate,
24:36like, oh, wait, I'm here.
24:40I'm feeling
24:42a little
24:44coldness
24:46from you.
24:48I'm just not feeling
24:50that desire from you.
24:54Yeah.
24:57I'm being totally honest
24:59and I feel that, like,
25:01emphasis on that physical part.
25:03That's when I get a little
25:05protective.
25:13I think I came in here,
25:15you know, confident
25:17and excited.
25:19I don't know if
25:21you're as used to that
25:23in this line of work
25:26or if you find that intimidating.
25:34I'm trying to help you learn
25:36how to, like, attune.
25:40But I don't know.
25:42I'm feeling blocked
25:44and I'm trying to understand why.
25:48Maybe it's just
25:50doesn't work between you and me.
25:52Maybe.
25:56Okay,
25:58then I think we'll get dressed
26:00and that's enough for today.
26:02Okay.
26:14Hey.
26:16Hey.
26:18You all right?
26:20No.
26:22What's up?
26:24We're here to support each other, yeah?
26:28I can't even get a word
26:30of the person who's there to teach me
26:32how to do it.
26:42Morning.
26:44Morning.
26:46It's morning on day ten
26:48of the retreat.
26:50What do you think was on the cards today?
26:53Oh, God, what if today is, like,
26:55just whack it off or something?
26:59Zach is feeling reflective.
27:01My session with Kat yesterday
27:03went terribly.
27:05It caused me a lot of distress
27:07that I would have rather do without.
27:11I'm feeling a lot more reserved
27:13and cautious.
27:17And everyone has noticed.
27:19Who do you think is actually going to sleep
27:22I would have said Zach,
27:24but after his little tumble yesterday,
27:26now I'm not so sure.
27:28He wasn't good this morning.
27:30He walked past my cabin.
27:32I was like, how are you?
27:34He's shit.
27:36Yeah.
27:38Damn.
27:40Issues inevitably arise
27:42in surrogate partner therapy
27:44as it's such a unique relationship,
27:46which is why a clinical therapist
27:48is on hand to help solve problems.
27:51All righty.
27:53So I'm going to kind of open it up.
27:55I want to hear a little bit from you both
27:57of what's been going on.
27:59So can you kind of share a little with me?
28:05So I left our session last night
28:07feeling very confused.
28:09It's not that I felt like
28:11I did anything wrong,
28:13but I felt like maybe
28:15I might have made you uncomfortable
28:17or I might have made you uncomfortable
28:19and, you know,
28:21I'm sorry if that's the case.
28:23Can you, you know,
28:25give me a little bit about
28:27your experience, Kat?
28:29So we undressed and we were standing
28:31across from each other.
28:33Do you remember exactly what you said?
28:35Yeah, I said that I thought
28:37you might feel maybe intimidated.
28:39That's what it was,
28:41saying I felt intimidated by it.
28:43That was definitely the point
28:45at which I was like,
28:48sort of did that.
28:50What were you noticing
28:52inside of yourself?
28:56I was trying to figure out what was
28:58I think going inside your head,
29:00but I'm not a mind reader.
29:02I wasn't expecting you to be a mind reader.
29:04I was telling you what was going on
29:06and I felt like
29:08instead of meeting that vulnerability
29:10with vulnerability, you met it with blame.
29:17Is it okay if I touch your knee?
29:21Yeah.
29:23Talk to me about what's coming up.
29:29You know, I find it hard
29:31to trust others emotionally
29:33and be vulnerable.
29:37That's something I can't do.
29:39Can I challenge your
29:41language there?
29:43I think it's something you can do
29:45and I think it's okay
29:47to work with Kat
29:49building that muscle.
29:51She's willing to meet you and your humanity
29:53and your vulnerability and your fear
29:55because that's what a partnership is.
29:59I want to be more vulnerable.
30:01I want to share
30:03that with you.
30:07I want that connection.
30:15See you soon.
30:19I understand a little bit more
30:21how perhaps
30:23things could have gone better
30:25and how I should shape my expectations
30:27as well.
30:29Maybe just slow it down,
30:31go at a better pace,
30:33try again next time.
30:37Hello, beautiful people.
30:39Feeling any better?
30:41Yeah.
30:43A lot better, actually.
30:45Good.
30:47I feel like I have a plan of what I need to do.
30:51While Zak is feeling positive again...
30:53Spray the boobs.
30:5523-year-old Pia
30:57hopes to overcome the one issue
30:59standing in the way of losing her virginity.
31:01I struggle a lot with, like,
31:03penetration, that side of things.
31:05So it's just, like, figuring out
31:07what's going on down there.
31:09I haven't had sex.
31:11I'm worried about it hurting.
31:13I'm worried about having an uncomfortable, painful experience.
31:15I've gotten to the point
31:17where I think this might be the person
31:19I lose my virginity to,
31:21but my chest gets tight.
31:23I feel like I can't breathe.
31:25I just get so anxious.
31:27I just feel like I can't do it.
31:29So I really want to get past these anxieties,
31:31but I'm not sure how.
31:33Sorry.
31:35Just a second.
31:37It was really hard.
31:39Hello, Pia.
31:41The experts have sent Pia to meet Thomas,
31:43who may be able to help
31:45through sensual massage.
31:47So,
31:49I would be curious to know,
31:51before we start,
31:53what's your intention for the session?
31:55What's your goal?
31:57Yeah, so, because of my issues
31:59with, like, penetration,
32:01I've never really been able to explore it.
32:03Every time I've done it, even, like, with myself,
32:05I've kind of just, like,
32:07panicked and freaked out and stuff,
32:09because it just felt, like, uncomfortable.
32:11So, yeah, if I could just understand myself a bit better.
32:13Yeah, like, learn how to be relaxed
32:15while receiving touch, maybe.
32:17Exactly, yeah.
32:19Great.
32:21So, basically, the session will do, like,
32:23step-by-step exploration of your genitals.
32:25Okay.
32:27What's pleasant, what's pleasurable,
32:29and if you wish so,
32:31you can be fully naked,
32:33as you prefer.
32:35Any more questions before we start?
32:37I don't think so.
32:39Sounds good.
32:41Thomas will use a technique
32:43known as genital mapping,
32:45an erotic exploration of the vagina
32:47through touch that releases tension.
32:49Pia really struggles
32:51with vaginismus.
32:53Vaginismus is basically, like,
32:55your vagina really being so clenched
32:57that it cannot
32:59let anything in.
33:01Usually, the source is both
33:03physical and mental,
33:05and I feel she's really anxious,
33:07so it might be really useful to do some body work
33:09in order to release the tension.
33:11So...
33:13Ready?
33:15Yeah, ready.
33:17She's going really slow.
33:19Can you tell me, like, how much pressure I need?
33:21Oh.
33:23Is it painful?
33:25A little bit, yeah.
33:27I can feel a bit of clenching in your vagina.
33:29Yeah.
33:31Just try to breathe into it and see, like,
33:33if it moves, if it changes,
33:35just being really welcoming with the sensation.
33:43That feels less uncomfortable.
33:45Yeah, that feels nice.
33:47Perfect.
33:49Now I will just apply a bit more pressure
33:51for you to feel it.
33:53Yeah, that feels OK.
33:57And apply some motion
33:59to see if it helps with the tightness.
34:01That's nice.
34:03It's nice? Yeah.
34:17Oh, my God.
34:19That's beautiful.
34:21I don't feel scared of it anymore.
34:23I feel, um...
34:25more like I have a better understanding
34:27of myself and my vagina.
34:29So I'm very happy.
34:31As Pia basks in the glow
34:33of her first successful penetration...
34:35Jason.
34:37Look at my little pet.
34:39Oh, my God.
34:41There's one thing on Jason's mind, too.
34:43It takes men
34:4530 seconds, two minutes, I think,
34:47for a man to get a erection still
34:49and basically ready for sex.
34:51But you can take women
34:5330 to 40 minutes.
34:55Fuck off.
34:57Jason has dived
34:59headfirst into somatic therapy.
35:01In some ways, I feel like he gets the most pleasure
35:03out-of-touch experiences
35:05of anybody who arrived.
35:07And this is somebody who couldn't even receive a hug.
35:09But there's definitely
35:11still things for him to work on.
35:13After his first kiss,
35:15the experts think Jason is ready to experience
35:17a whole new level of intimate touch.
35:19Hello, you all right?
35:21So he's having another session with Joy.
35:23So...
35:25Do you feel ready to
35:27take your clothes off into the bath?
35:29Yeah.
35:31Yeah, cool, OK.
35:37Can we connect?
35:39Yes, just...
35:41Really nice.
35:47See,
35:49we don't even have to try.
35:53Am I roused?
35:55Yeah.
35:57Yeah, I noticed.
35:59Can I give you a kiss?
36:01Yeah.
36:11OK.
36:17Gorgeous.
37:05OK, now I'm going to stop.
37:08That's amazing.
37:10I feel great.
37:12Yeah.
37:14Thank you, Joy.
37:16I seriously mean it. Thank you.
37:18There's Jason.
37:20Hello. Still a virgin.
37:22Aw, damn it.
37:24But we went on the bed, rolled around in there.
37:26Fuck off.
37:28Was this in a teepee?
37:30In a teepee. Kissing and stuff.
37:32And then I climaxed.
37:34Wow.
37:36But just being in the moment really helps.
37:39I'm ready for the real world now,
37:41but I'm really uncomfortable.
37:43Can I go to my tent?
37:45I need to change my boxes.
37:47Please.
37:54It's the afternoon on Virgin Island.
37:57You're working it all off, all of it?
37:59Yeah, all of it's going.
38:01Who's shaving it?
38:03Me.
38:05Step back with Kat.
38:07Zak's ready for a fresh start.
38:10Do you want all these bits on your button to go as well?
38:13Yeah, honestly, I want everything to go.
38:15Ready? I'm ready.
38:17Do you want to say anything?
38:19No. Do it.
38:21Do it.
38:23Yay!
38:25OK, here you go.
38:27Brilliant.
38:29What does this symbolise for you?
38:31New beginnings.
38:33Yay!
38:35It's been a long time coming.
38:37Oh, we're going to slap this head so hard.
38:40Can't wait till it's proper smooth.
38:42It looks so good.
38:44This is a good head. I'd like rubbing this head.
38:46Like a genie in a lamp.
38:48Feel the fuzz.
38:50Feel the fuzz.
38:56Feeling good.
38:58It's like a fresh fade, honestly.
39:00It is, isn't it? It's really good.
39:02Whilst the group admire Zak's new look,
39:04Viraj and Emma are talking orgasms.
39:07So you didn't go back to your tent and have a wank?
39:09No, no, we...
39:11Have you had one since being here?
39:13Do you want to know?
39:15Yeah, the fact you're no answer is definitely an answer.
39:18Have you?
39:22Really? No comment.
39:24Come on.
39:26Maybe.
39:28I have a little bit, but I haven't orgasmed yet.
39:32After Emma's unsuccessful attempt to reach orgasm,
39:35Celeste wants to teach her how to get the most out of her vibrator
39:39so that she can climax for the first time.
39:42Can you bring out your toy and I can just show you a little bit
39:45how to use it? Yes, of course you can.
39:47Cos I think that might help you. Yeah.
39:49That's the kind I use too, so I'm very familiar.
39:51OK, brilliant. The first time, you kind of have to hold it down.
39:54Right. See, to me, that feels quite, like, vicious.
39:57OK, so, actually, you can just start,
39:59like, with your fingers,
40:01and then work your way up to the vibrator.
40:04The hands, I'm just a bit unsure on how to approach it.
40:08So, at first, you can just, like, do, like, very light.
40:12OK.
40:14And then just explore and see where the place feels like
40:17the most sensation. Right.
40:19And then you might just make, like, little circles there.
40:21OK. Sometimes you have to get kind of fast... Right.
40:24..in order to actually get to orgasm, and, like, when I masturbate,
40:27it's like, who cares what my body looks like or what it's doing?
40:30I'm just thinking, how do I get that sensation more?
40:33With an orgasm as such, is it, like, an instant, like, climax,
40:38and then it drops, or when you're up there, does it last?
40:41It'll be, like, a slow build.
40:43Once you're up there, you'll probably feel, like, a release.
40:45Like, sometimes you feel your muscles sort of go, like, that.
40:48Right, OK.
40:49Because that's what actually happens in your body.
40:51Different women are different. Yeah.
40:53So, I was thinking, today, maybe we could have a rite of passage...
40:58Yeah. ..where you become an adult in the erotic realm.
41:01Yes. Yes? OK, yeah. OK? Yeah.
41:03I want you to think of this self-pleasuring experience like,
41:07this is Emma... Yeah.
41:09..becoming a powerful, wise woman in the world. Yeah.
41:15We've made a special space... OK.
41:18..for you to be able to have that alone time. Right, OK.
41:21Ready? Oh, my God, is it going to happen now?
41:25Oh, my God! Yeah, I'm taking you over to the room.
41:28OK, OK.
41:30Oh, thank you, thank you.
41:32Right, OK.
41:33This is scary.
41:52After an hour of alone time, Emma emerges.
41:55I think I managed to achieve my first orgasm ever.
41:59It's such a weird feeling because it's kind of unpredictable
42:04and it's hard to explain.
42:06Kind of left me speechless a little bit.
42:08It just... I feel like everything makes sense.
42:10Like, that sounds so weird, but I just feel a lot more at peace.
42:14I couldn't even imagine the feeling of it.
42:18All this build-up and how have I only just done that sort of thing?
42:22Like, how have I not explored this before?
42:24And I think I'm just looking forward to the next one.
42:33But it's not just Emma that's learning more about the female anatomy.
42:37First time I touched a vagina, a cat started laughing at me
42:40because I made a really weird face because I didn't expect it to feel...
42:44It's so, like, jelly-like, I didn't expect that.
42:46Hang on, have you felt it then?
42:48Yeah.
42:49What, a certain cat? Yeah.
42:51Really? Cool.
42:54After touching a vagina, Dave's a changed man.
42:58But he still hasn't had any sex with a partner.
43:01I just want to actually get over these difficulties I have.
43:06That could be really, really life-changing.
43:10Hi. Hello, how are you?
43:13Good.
43:14I'm really scared of that.
43:15I could just be too awkward and I could blow it.
43:23So on the orgasm face of the course, cat escalates.
43:28My suggestion for today would be to do turn-taking,
43:32more erotic genital touch, with, like, a soft goal of orgasm.
43:37Um...
43:42I feel obviously slightly nervous.
43:44About escalation?
43:46Yeah. Yeah.
43:50Like...
43:54Do you know what I mean?
43:55I wouldn't be hard on yourself about it.
43:58Try just relaxing. Yeah.
44:00Yeah? OK. Are you ready to get going?
44:03Yeah, sure.
44:04So we're going to undress.
44:11So you can go ahead and lie down.
44:15And I want you to just direct my touch.
44:18OK. Yeah.
44:21Would you be able to just start on my eyeballs?
44:26Like that? Yeah.
44:29And maybe move up to...
44:31..at the bottom of...
44:34..my neck.
44:40Yeah, that's nice.
44:42That feels good? Yeah, it feels good.
44:44I mean, all of it feels good.
44:50Just close your eyes.
45:01Yeah? Yeah.
45:06But this session is all about taking turns.
45:09Oil is there. Yep.
45:12And go for it. OK.
45:18Mm, a little slower.
45:22Yeah.
45:25OK.
45:26Mm, a little slower.
45:30Yeah, and then just do a little more pressure.
45:43I had a little orgasm.
45:48It's OK to go to, like, Codwin.
45:50Codwin? Yeah.
45:53Yeah.
45:57Well, what would you like to do with the next session?
46:00I would like to meet Virginia.
46:02You would? Yeah. Yay!
46:07Next time...
46:08Would you like to move to the bed?
46:11Yeah, sure.
46:12..who, out of the group...
46:14You are a fucking goddess.
46:18..will make the most of...
46:20OK, I've got this.
46:22..their last days on Virgin Island.
46:26HE GROWLS
46:56MUSIC FADES

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