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00:00Heading to the retreat, our married couple, hairdresser Tanya and window cleaner Ashley from Leeds.
00:16I hope people come and talk to us and we're not just kind of left in a corner.
00:22Yeah, me too.
00:23When we first met each other, it was just literally in the street, outside.
00:29He had a puppy. You know, I'm an animal lover and I'm like, wow, perfect package, puppy and a man.
00:34And since that day, we just knew that we were meant to be together and then I moved in a couple of days later.
00:41And then found out puppy was never his. He tricked me.
00:46So luckily he's got his good looks and charisma of ours, yeah.
00:53So within 18 months, we'd met each other, moved in, got married, had a child, done all those things really fast.
01:01But a whirlwind romance of marriage and children wasn't enough for Tanya. She wanted more.
01:08Tanya brought up the idea of having an open relationship and letting other women join us, which was a bit of a shock at first.
01:15I didn't know if it was like a trap to see what I would say, but it wasn't a trap.
01:20Tanya and Ashley have been having sex with other people for five years.
01:26I think everyone always presumes that it's the male that wants to push it on the partner.
01:29But no, it was all me, much to the shock of my mum.
01:32She was like, oh, I bet it was Ashley. I was like, no, it was all me.
01:35All their sexual experiences with other people have been governed by one strict rule.
01:44We do everything together. We're always together. We've only ever played in the same room together.
01:49It's a nice honour, isn't it?
01:52But now they're coming to the retreat to push their boundaries even further.
01:59So we're coming in to venture off our own separate ways to have sex separately from each other.
02:06I'm hoping it will only strengthen further the bond that we already have.
02:11I'm hoping it goes that way.
02:14I'm more nervous with this than I've ever been with starting it from the beginning.
02:19Because we're both used to relying on each other.
02:23Playing separately is a huge risk because it could go wrong.
02:26And what if I do this? And then Ashley becomes jealous or he decides it's not for him.
02:31Oh, cute dress.
02:37Hey, mate. You okay?
02:39Hi, guys. Nice to meet you.
02:41Hi.
02:44Are you feeling okay?
02:45Good.
02:46Hi.
02:47Hello.
02:48We're both sides.
02:49Tanya definitely seems maybe a little bit more confident.
02:51There's definitely potential to play. I do like a blonde.
02:55What's your name?
02:56Ash.
02:57Ash, nice to meet you.
02:58Hi, Tanya.
02:59I thought you were probably going to get personal.
03:02I think I said it's more nerves from him than her.
03:04He looks quite innocent.
03:06She looks quite feisty.
03:08Hi.
03:09Hi.
03:10Nice to meet you.
03:11Hi.
03:12Hi.
03:13My first impression was more her come to my eyes.
03:16And she looks chic.
03:18But yeah, maybe I will discover something nice with him too.
03:22I think I'm the more anxious one in social situations.
03:25Whereas Tanya is a bit more relaxed.
03:28Emily.
03:29Emily.
03:30What's your name?
03:31Ash.
03:32Sorry.
03:33Ash.
03:34You too.
03:35The guy, I know he's nervous, obviously.
03:36That's a given.
03:37Just wasn't really giving me the energy.
03:41All of the residents are gorgeous.
03:43The women are all beautiful.
03:44The guys obviously all look after themselves.
03:46So, yeah.
03:47Bit nervous now that we've actually met him.
03:49Yeah, my heart's resting a little bit.
03:53You know, the decor is beautiful.
03:56Wow.
03:57To help the couple navigate their desire to have separate sexual experiences.
04:01Hi, I'm Effie.
04:02Come in.
04:03Non-monogamy coach Effie Blue.
04:05Make yourselves comfortable in the sofa.
04:07What?
04:08Will offer her insight.
04:13I'd love to start with what brings you here today.
04:16So, we're already in the lifestyle.
04:18But we would like to open it up a bit further and play separately.
04:21So, we're not in the same room as each other.
04:24So, we're going off completely separate.
04:26Okay.
04:27Okay.
04:28And whose idea was it to explore this world?
04:31I think it was Tanya's.
04:33Okay.
04:34Okay.
04:35So, tell me about this desire to separate.
04:37It's major.
04:38We've been talking about this for well over a year.
04:39So, it's been like a long time that we've sort of discussed and been like,
04:42Oh, what about this?
04:43Going for all scenarios and discussing it, but never actually.
04:47Mm-hmm.
04:48We're just not sure about how to do it properly.
04:50Okay.
04:51Without upsetting the other person.
04:52And I'm worried that she would meet with somebody and then he's disrespectful or...
04:56Okay.
04:57I can't, there's nothing I can do to stop it.
05:00So, why is it such a big deal for you to actually separate?
05:05We do spend a lot of time together.
05:07Ash is very, very affectionate.
05:10He's quite a clingy person.
05:12He does need to be touched, stroked and needs to be sat next to me all the time.
05:17When I'm at work, I have my earphones in and we just speak.
05:19All the time.
05:20So, even when we're not together, we're still pretty much on the phone together.
05:23To sort of be around each other even when we're not.
05:25I do have a job, you know.
05:26I do have to work too.
05:27I have to remind him because he just wants to talk to me all the time.
05:30The thought of doing something else is quite a big thrill as well.
05:34There's like that element of excitement.
05:36Yeah, we really want to give it a go.
05:37Okay.
05:38Okay.
05:39What about if you get rejected?
05:41I hope that don't happen.
05:43Tell me about that.
05:44I would never get rejected when I go out because it's Tani that does the talking.
05:48I like a shield.
05:49A beautiful shield.
05:50Okay.
05:51I say you go over and I'll be over in five minutes.
05:53So, this is going to be a first for you?
05:55Yeah.
05:56I just don't know how to say to somebody, do you want to go?
06:01Okay.
06:02Yeah.
06:03Okay.
06:04I feel like there's a big challenge here, right?
06:07So, it's beyond just the separating and doing your own thing, but there's a lot of relational
06:12dynamics that you're kind of stirring up.
06:14Yeah.
06:15Right?
06:16Like, Ash, there's a protective aspect of you over Tania and you've never actually connected
06:23with anybody, like first off for yourself.
06:25No.
06:26I really want Ash to go and talk to people and kind of overcome that confidence barrier.
06:31The whole experience here is to challenge you, right?
06:34There's a party tonight.
06:36So, separate.
06:39Socialize and see if you can connect with somebody, right?
06:44Experience what you want to experience and get back together at the end of the evening
06:49and debrief and see what it feels like.
06:51Go out there, have a great time.
06:54Take care.
06:58Yes.
06:59Oh, my God.
07:01Oh, my God.
07:02Look how pretty it is.
07:03No.
07:04It's got the bath that you like.
07:06Oh, wow.
07:08I think if I do pull someone and he doesn't, I think I will feel really guilty.
07:13I don't know where you're sleeping.
07:15This is mine.
07:16Are you sleeping in the bathroom, then?
07:19I think it's going to be a bit hard just letting her do her own thing, but I hope that tonight
07:23I won't be thinking, oh, I wonder if she's with someone I don't like.
07:30I do put you in some situations, I don't know.
07:35Hello.
07:36Welcome.
07:37Already staying at the retreat.
07:39Hello.
07:40Our married couple, Charmaine and Jamie.
07:42Neither of us have been with, like, lots of previous sexual partners, so we want to
07:47explore that together.
07:48I feel like the social aspect of it will be the biggest barrier.
07:52I'm a bit worried because I feel like my self-confidence can sort of hold Charmaine back.
08:01Hi.
08:02How are you feeling?
08:05I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed.
08:07This whole experience is obviously completely alien to us.
08:10It's just a bit much for me.
08:12Like, I just don't want to go back in.
08:14I just wish they weren't so nervous.
08:16Yeah.
08:18I'm glad you feel a little more of this now.
08:20I was wondering if you'd like to spend a bit more time in the hot tub.
08:23I definitely would, yeah.
08:24Would you?
08:25I'd like to spend a bit more time in the hot tub.
08:30Thanks.
08:33Ready?
08:34Yeah.
08:36After nearly walking out of this evening's social, Charmaine and Jamie are hoping that
08:41a date in the hot tub with Jen and Mark will be more successful.
08:45The idea of opening up, it just seemed like the right sort of thing for us.
08:49But my main concern is that will we enjoy the reality of it?
08:53Or is it something that should have stayed a fantasy?
08:58I'm curious about having sex with other people.
09:01But I have worries that I hope it might have fixed me in the trauma.
09:08Woo!
09:09It's a bit of a dip.
09:10I felt like I was like...
09:11It is.
09:12...sink.
09:14So I was a little surprised when they asked us to go hang in the hot tub with them.
09:18The way we're going to approach this is we should be affectionate with each other and show them that it is okay and see if that helps them relax a little more, see if it gets them in the mood.
09:32Oh!
09:33How are we doing?
09:34You look cosy there.
09:35I know, yeah.
09:36He looks moulded into it, don't he?
09:37He's moulded into it.
09:38Right.
09:39Cheers, guys!
09:40Yeah, cheers!
09:41Cheers!
09:42Right, I'm going to give you a question now.
09:44I'm going to give you some spicy questions, see how you handle it.
09:47Let's spice it up.
09:49What's like your wildest fantasies?
09:52You could take loads of these.
09:54Next one's yours, then.
09:56I like to be dominated.
09:58Oh, yes.
09:59Bit of powerplay.
10:00Bit of powerplay.
10:01I think that's probably because I'm so bossy outside of the bedroom.
10:04Yeah, yeah.
10:05So it's kind of nice to let that go a little bit in the bedroom.
10:09Sorry, I'm playing footsie with you guys.
10:14I'm not really sure how it's going.
10:16We're just trying to gauge where they're at.
10:18Yeah.
10:19What are you feeling this evening, then?
10:21Do we want to...?
10:22Are we happy how things are?
10:24Chatting?
10:25Do we want to...?
10:31I know that's a really hard question.
10:32It is hard.
10:33Yeah, I don't know.
10:34Sorry.
10:38I'm feeling anxious.
10:39Slightly vulnerable.
10:40But I tend to sort of hide behind me.
10:43How are your feelings brought to me?
10:45For what time?
10:46Yeah.
10:47You're the boss.
10:49Yeah, I know.
10:50No pressure.
10:54I think, deep down, the worry is there.
10:56That, obviously, doing this is a big step.
10:58Like, I don't feel like your relationship is ever going to be the same
11:01once you've opened up.
11:03Yeah, I don't know.
11:04I don't know how I'm feeling.
11:05I think I'm just very overwhelmed from the whole day.
11:07Yeah.
11:08Yeah, yeah, yeah.
11:10We couldn't work out whether they wanted to take it further or not.
11:13We certainly would have.
11:16Well, listen, we're around tomorrow.
11:18We're available.
11:19Yeah.
11:23See you later.
11:25See ya.
11:26See ya.
11:31I feel like the longer we leave it, the more difficult it is to sort of, you know, take that leap.
11:37It's something that we want.
11:39But I think it took me by surprise this evening, like, how I sort of reacted.
11:45That definitely held us back.
11:48We are the worst flares ever.
12:05Jamie.
12:06Yeah.
12:09If you don't give a flying fuck, goodness me.
12:16I think that's what I find so intimidating.
12:18Like, everybody's so sure of themselves and we're just, like, floating around.
12:23Yeah.
12:27Charmaine is hoping that opening up her relationship with Jamie will spice up their sex life.
12:34I'd love to get to a point where we can be that free.
12:37Is that the goal for you?
12:39Yeah.
12:41But first they have to get over the confidence barrier.
12:44Both Char and Jamie are definitely introverts.
12:49I think that makes it harder.
12:51What?
12:52Opening up?
12:53Yeah.
12:54Like, in our situation, you're definitely an introvert.
12:58But I'm an extrovert.
12:59Yeah.
13:00So that I help.
13:01Do you know what I mean?
13:02Yeah.
13:03If it was two me's, nothing would ever happen.
13:07We were technically still dating when we decided to try our first swinger club or sex party.
13:13We had our first experience on the Friday night, which was the threesome.
13:16The following day, we had a married person orgy.
13:19And I think from there, we kind of realised that we really enjoy an orgy.
13:25Lots of people at the same time.
13:27I would have liked to have kissed them both.
13:29Would you?
13:30Yeah.
13:34Before Charmaine and Jamie attempt to mingle with the residents again, they check in with Effie for some advice.
13:41Sit down, get comfy.
13:45How did it go?
13:47I struggled interacting with people.
13:49Yeah.
13:50Which I didn't think I would struggle as much, but maybe I obviously rely on Jamie a lot more than I thought.
13:54You're able to maybe speak and connect more because you're doing for him a lot of the time.
13:59Yeah.
14:00And when you had to do it for yourself, it was a little bit more difficult.
14:03Yeah.
14:04Yeah, I think so.
14:05I think I'm worrying about what the end goal will be.
14:07So, like, how I'm going to take it from just a conversation to that step further.
14:14Okay.
14:15Sliding from social into sensual to potentially to sexual.
14:18Yeah.
14:19Is that what...
14:20Okay.
14:21I think that's what it is for both of us, to be honest.
14:22You decided on a couple that you both connected with.
14:25Like, did you want to kiss them?
14:26Yeah.
14:27I can say confidently that, yeah, I did.
14:28What would it take for you to kiss them last night?
14:32For me to know that neither one of us are doing something that we're not sure about.
14:38Mm-hmm.
14:39Whether Charmaine's comfortable with this, that holds me back.
14:43Okay.
14:44Okay.
14:45And for you as well?
14:46Yeah, I think we're definitely in our heads a little bit with that.
14:50Mm-hmm.
14:51Okay.
14:52Okay.
14:53So...
14:54Um...
14:55First of all...
14:56This is very normal.
14:57You don't know because you haven't done it before.
14:58Yeah.
14:59So until you take those steps, you're just not going to know how the other person feels,
15:03because the other person doesn't know how they feel.
15:06Yeah.
15:07Does that make sense?
15:08That makes a lot of sense.
15:09Yeah.
15:10I want to move you guys from the social to the sensual to the sexual, if it makes sense.
15:17Yeah.
15:18Right?
15:19I want to start with the social.
15:20Hanging out by the swimming pool.
15:21Water's always fun.
15:23Connect with some couples.
15:25And then from that, you can...
15:27Can I kiss you?
15:28Does this feel good?
15:29Yeah.
15:30I feel like it'll be challenging, but...
15:31Will you ever move forward if you don't challenge yourself?
15:33Exactly.
15:34Obviously.
15:35All we can do is try.
15:36Got steps to move forward with now.
15:37Have fun.
15:39You're welcome.
15:42Yeah.
15:47You've got to stop worrying about how I'm feeling, because I will make it known if I'm
15:51not feeling a certain way.
15:53I feel like everything is put on me.
15:57Everything's...
15:58I'll do what Shah wants.
15:59I'll do what Shah wants.
16:00It's sort of my day follow, isn't it?
16:02It's sort of like blending.
16:03It's going to be...
16:04Yeah.
16:05Years of, like, self conditioning that I'm going to have to break through.
16:08Yeah, no, I think so.
16:18Down on the terrace, the residents are kicking off a masquerade ball in anticipation of the
16:24new arrivals.
16:25Ooh-la-la!
16:26Married couple Tanya and Ashley from Leeds.
16:29Are you completely done?
16:31I've got 15 minutes to finish getting ready.
16:33Do my hair and finish my make-up.
16:34You need to calm down.
16:35It's only about two minutes to get ready.
16:39Awesome.
16:40How's it look?
16:41Not really good.
16:46Are you scared now?
16:47No, I just wish that I would have had, like, an extra 20 minutes to get ready.
16:56The couple are no strangers to non-monogamy.
16:59But tonight, they're going to do something very different.
17:03I'm scared.
17:04I'm scared.
17:05You're all scared?
17:06Yeah.
17:07They will attempt to have separate sexual experiences, choosing their own partners without the other's
17:12approval.
17:13Trying something totally separate is over-racking because we can't see what a silver person's doing when the other person's not there.
17:20And I'm not there to make sure she's okay.
17:22Yes.
17:23As ready as I'm going to be.
17:28I'm really excited to meet the other residents, see whether we click, who we vibe with.
17:33Yeah, absolutely can't wait.
17:39Obviously, there's always a worry about rejection, but I'm hoping that that doesn't actually happen.
17:43Tanya finds someone, she sort of goes off, and I just sit in her room, clock-watching, waiting to come back.
17:49It'll be pretty horrible.
17:51How are you going?
17:52Have fun.
17:53See you soon.
17:54And with the pep talk out of the way, Tanya and Ashley are flying solo.
18:20Should we grab a seat?
18:21Sure.
18:22But Tanya's not alone for long.
18:23What would be your one thing that you would do?
18:24Maybe two.
18:25Um, yeah, just to make sure that there's a good amount of foreplay and a good amount of people, yeah, before you kind of have sex.
18:26So for me, I'd really like to be able to see someone's face, hear their breathing, kind of see what if I'm doing something right, and then vice versa if they're playing with me.
18:30Sounds like we like similar things.
18:31Yeah.
18:32Yeah.
18:33Yeah.
18:34Yeah.
18:35Yeah.
18:36Yeah.
18:37Yeah.
18:38Yeah.
18:39Yeah.
18:40Yeah.
18:41Yeah.
18:42Yeah.
18:43On the terrace, quick to spot Ashley's nerves, Rochelle comes to the rescue.
18:44I like your little dimples.
18:46I've only got one.
18:47Yeah, I've only got one.
18:48Yeah, I've only got one.
18:49Yeah, I've only got one.
18:50Yeah, I've only got one.
18:51Yeah, I've only got one.
18:52Yeah, I've only got one.
18:53Yeah, I've only got one.
18:54Yeah, I've only got one.
18:55Yeah, I've only got one.
18:56Yeah, I've only got one.
18:57What do you do for a living?
18:58A window cleaner.
18:59Oh, yeah, vision technician.
19:00I like that.
19:01Oh, I've got one.
19:02I think I'm the funniest person in the world, and sometimes I'm not.
19:17Yeah.
19:18Yeah.
19:19Yeah.
19:20He seemed a little bit shy, but I think once he's done a little bit more, he'll probably
19:23be a bit more confident.
19:24I bet you see all sorts.
19:25You see all sorts.
19:26I don't use the ladders.
19:27I've got, like, a pole system.
19:28Oh, yeah, of course.
19:29I do.
19:30But still...
19:31I'm hoping Ash has a good evening.
19:36Hopefully whoever he's picked pulls him out of his shell a little bit.
19:41Windy.
19:42Okay.
19:45Never have I ever had sex in a public place.
19:53I mean...
19:54Maybe had sex in a public place.
19:57Yeah, like, yeah, a lot of times we ended up with, like, a police marker on the car.
20:00We got caught.
20:01So it taps on the window, and I wound it down, and it's like, you all right?
20:06I'm like, yeah.
20:07And then I realised it was police, and they're like, are you having a good time?
20:10Well, I was.
20:11So...
20:12Like, you need to leave.
20:13I'm like, oh, okay.
20:14Everyone's really, really welcoming and really, really friendly.
20:17It's hot.
20:21How do I choose?
20:24What do you do for fun?
20:26What do I do?
20:27For work.
20:28I'm a yoga teacher, and I'm vegan as well.
20:30Classic.
20:31Oh, really?
20:32I was vegan for about...
20:33Oh, really?
20:34Nine months, yeah.
20:35Oh, wow.
20:36Okay.
20:37It didn't really work out for me, so...
20:38Shall I let you go and you can, like, mingle with my lady?
20:41Yeah, sorry.
20:42Yeah.
20:43Because I've never really done this before on my own, it's been very much more of a struggle.
20:47How are you?
20:48I'm good.
20:49Bit nervous.
20:50I'm Olivia.
20:51It's lovely to meet you.
20:52Is Tanya, like, your comfort blanket?
20:54Yep.
20:55Yeah.
20:56My husband, too.
20:57He's in there, and I'm like, where is he?
21:00I've been more nervous about coming out and just talking to people on my own.
21:03It's a social aspect, isn't it, isn't it?
21:05Yeah.
21:06Ash is so quiet and reserved and not confident about himself.
21:10I definitely feel like there's some nervousness around there, like, the first time that they're
21:14separating.
21:15I'd rather have sex with someone than have to talk to them.
21:18Is that enough?
21:20Yeah.
21:21The whole night has been, like, yeah, really nerve-wracking.
21:24It just feels awkward.
21:25What are you most nervous about?
21:28Erm, possibly that Ash doesn't interact with everyone and doesn't end up asking someone,
21:34I think.
21:35I don't think he'd be out there on his own in the corner, will he?
21:37Surely not.
21:38I don't think these trousers are gonna go.
21:52I will.
21:53Charmaine and Jamie are getting ready for their afternoon social at the pool.
21:57I just don't feel comfortable in this.
22:03I'm kind of running out of options at this point.
22:07Ultimately, it's whatever you're comfortable in.
22:09I'm not comfortable in anything.
22:10I'm not comfortable going down there.
22:12This is the issue.
22:17I'm just not comfortable in my body at the minute.
22:19And that's really a barrier for me.
22:22I get that.
22:24I really, like, I can't tell you.
22:26I don't want to go in the pool.
22:27I don't want to be in the pool.
22:28I feel like Charmaine might be questioning what we're doing.
22:36Why we're here.
22:37Despite her wobble, Charmaine has decided to persevere with opening up their relationship.
22:51I think anybody that knows us would never imagine that we would do anything like this.
22:58Hey guys!
22:59Hey!
23:00Sit, take a seat, take a seat.
23:02How are you feeling about Jen and Mark today?
23:04I think Jen and Mark are a lovely couple.
23:06It would be nice to get to know them a bit more.
23:08My only fear is that we've sort of friend-zoned them because, you know, we didn't take that next step.
23:14So, obviously, it would be nice to see how they feel and what they want to do as well.
23:20How's your morning been?
23:21What have you been up to?
23:22It's been very up and down, I'm going to be honest.
23:24Hasn't it?
23:25Oh, OK.
23:26We've struggled a lot with the social aspect of it more than anything.
23:31Yeah.
23:32Yeah, yeah, yeah.
23:33I sort of try and blend in and sort of hide in the corner.
23:36Probably not giving the right sit-ups to what I'm saying.
23:39I think, actually, your quietness and your sort of shine is actually really endearing.
23:45Oh, thank you.
23:46I know it is quite hard, like, trying to step things forward.
23:50What do you feel about, like, playing games and stuff like that?
23:52Yeah, no, I'm not opposed to it.
23:54I think that's what we need.
23:55Yeah?
23:56Give us a good spin.
23:57Hey!
23:58Jamie?
23:59I think you should snog Lily, my fiancée.
24:05It was my idea to open up our relationship,
24:09and Jamie was sort of very apprehensive, but very quickly.
24:14Curiosity took over.
24:17Is that all right?
24:18Yeah, I'm OK.
24:20I need to see this.
24:21I need a good view, guys.
24:29Yay!
24:30That was a good one, guys.
24:31I think that was the sort of icebreaker that we needed to sort of throw us in a little bit more.
24:44Me and Shabalai.
24:45With Jamie taking the first step, the residents are keen to turn up the heat.
24:50Does anyone want to get in the pool?
24:51I'm ready to go.
24:52Let's get in!
24:53It's actually lovely and warm.
25:01I'm starting to feel a bit more confident and sure of myself.
25:06I feel good.
25:07Right, beach ball, keep your happy game.
25:12You snogged the last person that touched it before you.
25:20That's one of you two.
25:22You're sick.
25:23You're sick.
25:24You're sick.
25:25You're sick.
25:26You're sick.
25:27You're sick.
25:28You're all right.
25:29Seeing a charmer with another man, it's quite uncomfortable for me.
25:33But I do want us to share the same experiences.
25:36We just got rid of the roads and now we're on the side.
25:41Incoming.
25:42Oh!
25:43Oh!
25:44Oh!
25:45Maybe I did it on.
25:46Oh, OK.
25:48Why is it sexier in the pool?
25:50Kissing everyone was good.
25:52It was good to sort of come away from that feeling good about myself.
25:59Jamie and Charmaine's kissing game is...
26:01Yeah, she was a great kisser.
26:02I think at the end we had a little circle where it was kiss somebody that you hadn't kissed.
26:12I think that went better than I expected.
26:15I think Jamie and Charmaine really opened up a little more.
26:20Yeah.
26:21They really came out of the shell a bit more today, didn't they?
26:23They're both really good kissers.
26:24Yeah.
26:25I mean, I didn't kiss Jamie but...
26:26Oh.
26:27She...
26:28She has beautiful lips.
26:29Charmaine's a great kisser, yeah.
26:30Oh!
26:31Three way!
26:32Oh!
26:33Yeah, baby!
26:34We had a great time in the pool.
26:35I'm proud that we managed to get past the many blips that we have had so far in the retreat.
26:42Yeah, we thought we finally broke that barrier without touching.
26:45She was a really positive experience for us.
26:47Yeah.
26:49The couple have agreed to meet Jen and Mark in a more intimate setting later this evening,
26:55as they look to build on their experience in the pool.
26:58We were both interested in a date.
27:00It was good to get a bit back and I think that's what we needed from them, really.
27:04Yeah.
27:05Last night I made sure I reserved some of my energy back.
27:08Yeah.
27:09We could maybe relax a little bit and just be ourselves a little more
27:11because, yeah, they've kind of softened now, aren't they?
27:22At the Masquerade Social, Tanya is going down well with the residents.
27:27What would be the ideal scenario?
27:29Probably, like, everyone, or just sit in the middle.
27:32So an orgy then!
27:36But Gage is keen to secure top spot.
27:39Hi!
27:40Hey!
27:41I bet it's been an absolute whirlwind from walking down when we first saw you.
27:45Yeah.
27:46And he's not the only one.
27:49Can I just try something?
27:50What would you like?
27:57I like your little moan.
28:02Now you know how to give a French kiss.
28:04Yeah!
28:05That's my first French kiss!
28:06Awesome!
28:07I like that.
28:08Yeah.
28:09Yeah.
28:10Do you feel confident that you've kind of got your hand on somebody, or...?
28:14There's a few...
28:15I narrowed it down to, like, six.
28:16Six!
28:21Do you feel, like, confident that you can just go in and go,
28:23I'm ready for this, or do you need someone that's, like, done it before?
28:26I don't want someone who's not done this before.
28:31Yeah.
28:32Because, obviously, I do want some guidance.
28:34I feel like you're going to like my comfort blanket now.
28:37I'm sorry, you've got it.
28:38You've got it.
28:39Is this you asking me back, is it?
28:41Potentially.
28:42Yeah.
28:43I'm interested.
28:44I'm definitely interested.
28:45Yeah, I'm definitely interested.
28:46You're not going to reject me.
28:47I'm not going to reject you, no.
28:48Because if you do, honestly, I'll hunt you down.
28:49No, no, no.
28:53No, but I am interested, yeah.
28:55Yeah.
28:57When you make that initial attraction with somebody,
28:59you can make the eye contact, and you get the vibe,
29:02and I feel like we've both definitely had that.
29:15All right.
29:16Oh, wow, guys, do you know how good she's looked when you kiss?
29:20Yeah, I was like, okay.
29:22I think it was a good kiss as well, so...
29:24I feel like I'm having the more successful night out of me and Ash, but I've not spoke to him.
29:29You down for it?
29:30Yeah.
29:31Yeah, me too.
29:32There we go.
29:33I don't want these to go grow.
29:34Just colour it.
29:35No, no, no.
29:36You colour it?
29:37No.
29:38No.
29:39Hi.
29:40Hello.
29:41Nice to meet you.
29:42Nice to meet you.
29:43Am I okay to borrow time?
29:44No, absolutely.
29:45Yeah, yeah.
29:46Yes, I'll see you soon.
29:47Any good time?
29:48Yeah.
29:49I was so nervous when I first came in, but...
29:51Not as bad as me.
29:52Now I feel okay.
29:53I think I've spoken to everyone here now, but...
29:55Yeah, it was pretty hard, but...
29:57You clicked with anyone?
29:58No.
29:59I really struggled to narrow it down.
30:01I've narrowed it down now.
30:02Who?
30:03Gage.
30:04We clicked together so well.
30:06Okay.
30:07How do you feel?
30:08I feel a bit more nervous now, knowing that you're going to be going off without me there.
30:14Bit scared.
30:15Not going to see you pretty much after this conversation.
30:20I felt just like a bit more thrown off that Tanya's gone and asked somebody first.
30:24Would you ask anybody?
30:25Have you had that discussion?
30:26No, no.
30:27No?
30:28No.
30:29I believe that having found out that I have actually...
30:31Yes, I've clicked and I've chosen someone.
30:33I think that was maybe like a kick up the bum, like, oh, I've actually got to ask a woman now.
30:40You need to do this by yourself.
30:41Right.
30:43A little part of me is thinking, you know, if Tanya enjoys this, that might be what she wants to do more and more often.
30:48But it might not be my thing.
30:50So that might throw our relationship a bit.
30:52Do you feel?
30:54Yeah, it's just a bit scary what might happen next.
31:04Should I put heels on?
31:06I should, shouldn't I?
31:08This evening, Charmaine and Jamie have invited Jen and Mark for a second date.
31:13You have to get on the floor.
31:15No.
31:16But after a few hurdles, will the couple embrace the full opening up experience?
31:21I feel like we've already broken past quite a few mental barriers now and hopefully this evening we can break past a few more.
31:28Ready?
31:34I feel excited about this evening.
31:36So I think it's a good, good way to experiment going a little bit further.
31:40Perhaps, maybe.
31:41I'll have the margarita.
31:42Margarita?
31:43Yeah.
31:44Now you've got to re-rim the glass.
31:45Don't spill it.
31:46Thank you!
31:47To help Charmaine and Jamie progress from social to sexual, the couple start up a game of truth or dare.
32:03Who wants to roll first?
32:04Truth.
32:05Go on.
32:06Was you always okay?
32:07Introducing another guy.
32:08We only kind of got into this because I was interested in seeing Jen with another guy.
32:16It was never the other way around.
32:18Jamie, you're not necessarily turned on by the idea of me with another man.
32:23I don't like the idea of you enjoying yourself.
32:25Yeah.
32:26Yeah, that's what I'm like.
32:27It's still like that now.
32:28But also, like, how many times are you going to be watching?
32:33Not that you're going to be busy.
32:35Yeah, you're going to be busy as well.
32:37Well, I mean, that's to start with, eventually.
32:40I'd like to give Charmaine that fantasy of introducing other guys.
32:46You choose.
32:47You choose.
32:48Are you picking your own dare?
32:51Lick a neck.
32:53Lick a neck.
32:54Lick a neck.
32:55Lick a neck.
32:56Lick a neck.
32:58Lick a neck.
32:59Lick a neck.
33:00Lick a neck.
33:01Lick a neck.
33:02Goosebumps.
33:04Ooh.
33:05Okay.
33:06Guys!
33:07I've been so horny all day.
33:08It's just killing me!
33:14You choose.
33:16Okay, let's go dare.
33:17Okay.
33:18Kiss.
33:19Kiss what?
33:20Who?
33:21Char, I guess.
33:22Not me.
33:23It sure might look like she was enjoying herself, that's the goal.
33:37If she's enjoying herself, then I'm okay with it.
33:45That's nice.
33:48With the game nearing its end, there is one final question.
33:53Putting Charmaine and Jamie on the spot once and for all.
34:00Say what you want for tonight.
34:03That's a difficult...
34:04That is tough, guys. That is tough.
34:06We can shut our eyes if you want. No pressure.
34:10Do you know what, though? We came into this evening with no real expectations.
34:13We've said that all along, haven't we?
34:15We just wanted to see how, obviously, things went.
34:17That's a really boring answer.
34:19But, yeah. What about you?
34:21Again, no expectations. I mean, I'm liking the vibe and...
34:25Yeah?
34:26Yeah, I just...
34:28But what...
34:30Not talking expectations, what do you want to happen?
34:39Do you want to take a minute to check in with each other?
34:40Yes.
34:41Take a minute.
34:43Again, faced with the ultimate question,
34:46can the pair take the leap and have sex with another couple?
34:50Obviously, I really like Jen and Mark.
34:54I will be somewhat disappointed if we don't.
34:56Yeah.
35:01But...
35:01Charmaine and Jamie are considering whether or not to open up their relationship with Jen and Mark.
35:26How do you feel?
35:30I will not get into it, knowing that you don't feel confident.
35:38I'll be a pro.
35:43Are you okay?
35:46Yeah, no, we've had a discussion.
35:49And, obviously, we both think that you are...
35:52We're both attracted to both of you, basically.
35:56I feel like it's my own confidence still holding me back.
36:00Okay.
36:00Yeah.
36:02Yeah.
36:03Oh, okay.
36:03Oh, babes, you're gorgeous.
36:06I just wanted to make sure it was on the table if you wanted it.
36:09Yeah, no, of course.
36:09Because I know that's...
36:10It's helpful to know, isn't it?
36:12So.
36:13It is a lot.
36:16Shall we go to the room?
36:17Yeah, it was nice to meet you.
36:18Yeah, it was nice to meet you, guys.
36:20See you later.
36:21See you, guys.
36:22See you later.
36:23Bye.
36:23Bye.
36:26I don't know what's going on in Jamie and Char's head.
36:30They seem to want to take that next step.
36:33Just something's holding them back.
36:35And it's hard to say what it is.
36:38I don't think they're ready to open their relationship.
36:42No, not right now.
36:45I'd like them to be.
36:46But they're not, I don't think.
36:48I really can't do this.
37:03I think this whole experience has been an emotional roller coaster.
37:09However, I'm glad that we've done it because I think we've got a lot to take away from
37:18the retreat.
37:18Tanya has left tonight's social with her date for the evening, leaving husband Ashley to
37:39find his own partner for the night.
37:41I'm more nervous now without having Tanya there to sort of help me out.
37:45And whilst Gage tends to Tanya's needs, his wife Olivia is also left alone on the terrace.
37:54You all right?
37:54Yeah, I'm good.
37:55How are you?
37:56I'm good.
37:57It's got all really quiet.
37:58I know.
38:01This Prosecco's nice.
38:03Yeah.
38:03On the Prosecco or the Prosecco?
38:05No, it's the Prosecco, yeah.
38:07Which one do you want?
38:07Are you had yours?
38:08I've had mine, yeah.
38:09Okay, good.
38:12Yeah.
38:12I wonder if you wanted to go spend a bit more time together?
38:15Yeah, I would like to get to know you more.
38:19Yeah, that's good to hear.
38:20Yeah?
38:20Yeah.
38:21Do you want to sit down?
38:21Yeah, I'll sit down, yeah.
38:22Oh, God, I lost my shoe.
38:26What do you do for work?
38:27I'm with cabin crew.
38:28Oh, really?
38:29Fly around.
38:30Fly around.
38:31Oh, my God, my worst nightmare.
38:32Why is it your worst nightmare?
38:33I travel sick.
38:35Like, really bad.
38:37Taking my shoes off.
38:38Yeah, take your shoes off.
38:39Let's get comfortable.
38:40Meanwhile, in the bedroom, Tanya's all for reaching new heights.
38:45This is, like, immense.
38:47So I'm going to go and I'm going to sleep with someone and Ash is not going to be there.
38:51Now I'm going to do this on my own.
38:53It's crazy.
38:54Yeah.
38:55I'm hoping that everything goes OK with Ash and that this doesn't cause any issues in
39:08our relationship.
39:16What do you want to do now, then?
39:17Do you want to have chats?
39:20Do you want to...
39:21Do you want to have fun?
39:21We can go to the URT if the URT's available.
39:25Let's go.
39:29Olivia's really outgoing and confident, whereas I'm a bit more reserved and shy, so I don't
39:35know.
39:36See how it goes.
39:40Oh, it's nice.
39:43Oh, it looks so big.
39:49You awkward?
39:50Yep.
39:50It's our very first time being separate from each other, so I'm trying to put out my mind
39:56what Tanya's doing right now.
39:57Ash was still on my mind.
40:02Ash was still on my mind, but I was still able to kind of switch off and stay in the
40:29moment.
40:32Having sex with somebody else without my partner being there was intense, but it was exciting
40:48as well.
40:56Do you have pineapple pizza?
40:58No, no pineapple pizza.
41:00Do you have pineapple on your pizza?
41:01Pineapple and jalapeno.
41:02Do you?
41:03Yeah, like the two opposites.
41:06What's the best pizza?
41:08Pineapple jalapeno.
41:10Try it.
41:11I don't like jalapenos.
41:12It's too spicy for me.
41:13The pineapple fixes it.
41:16Okay, next time I'll try it.
41:18Just try it.
41:18It went really, really well.
41:31It went really, really well.
41:37I would say tonight it was like losing my virginity because it was something so new, something
41:43so different, the complete unknown.
41:46Are you good?
41:48Hey, I'm great.
41:49It went well.
41:50I'm great, yeah.
41:50I think still in the back of my mind, I'm like, oh my gosh, it's doing under me, it's okay.
41:59Yeah.
42:00How do you forget Barker?
42:01It's like, oh, I'm just going to go, like, amazing.
42:02He goes, oh, I've changed my mind, I came back.
42:04Right, shall we get this awkwardness out of the way, because this is making me cringey.
42:14Definitely think Tanya's going to be in my head.
42:16If it goes wrong, it might put us off forever.
42:19These buttons are really hard.
42:20Look at the tiniest buttons ever.
42:23But I often try to concentrate on myself.
42:26Just take it off.
42:29Have it.
42:34I feel pretty good, but my instant thought is, I want to find Ash.
42:58I want to find him, I want to speak to him.
43:00Playing solo, it's still very, very hard to kind of switch off from thinking about your
43:08partner and what's your partner doing it, are they okay?
43:24There's always a possibility that maybe he is having a better time, maybe he's enjoying
43:28it more with somebody else than what he is with me, maybe he's going completely wild
43:33because I'm not there.
43:43Are you happy now?
43:44Yeah.
43:44Do you enjoy yourself?
43:46Yeah.
43:46How's the nerves now?
43:49Yeah, it's felt good.
43:50Yeah, it's felt good.
43:51I felt like I was going to feel like I'm doing something wrong, but, yeah, I'm not.
43:56Being solo has been really fun, exciting, something totally new.
44:00It was, like, just as exciting as I imagined it would be.
44:03I know if Ash was to not come back to me, that would be crossing a hard boundary.
44:13That's crossing over from sex to, like, lovey-dovey.
44:16Hello.
44:31Hello.
44:31All right?
44:33Did you have a good time, then?
44:34Yeah.
44:35Did you have a good time?
44:36Yeah, I did.
44:37Oh, you're scared?
44:38At first, yeah.
44:39And then it was felt, like, really natural.
44:42Normal.
44:43When Ash came back with a big smile on his face, it was like, relief, he's had such
44:47a good time as well.
44:48So it just made me feel happy.
44:50I worried you were going to be mad when I got back?
44:52I had, why?
44:53Don't know.
44:54I was thinking worst-case stuff.
44:56A nice guy?
44:57Yeah.
44:58Yeah, it was good.
44:59Kept checking in, you know, like, used, like, the tickle thing, like,
45:03interchanged it, like, the kissing and the touching, and it was quite good.
45:07We've finally been able to separate and, you know, fulfil a fantasy that we've had for
45:14a long time.
45:16Breakfast.
45:17We don't have to rely on Tanya anymore.
45:20And we can be our own people and do our own thing.
45:25Guess what?
45:27Just work.
45:29Really?
45:29Yeah.
45:30Oh, no.
45:31I'm fine.
45:32If you are a curious couple or single,
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