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Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 6
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00:00Ooh, very nice.
00:06Oh, she's really pretty.
00:08I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
00:12We have tried swinging in the past and had issues.
00:18When it comes to having sex with a different lass,
00:22my dick doesn't grow, basically.
00:24My dick literally does not grow.
00:26When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
00:31Then Tom got his heart diagnosis.
00:33The doctors told me I can die at any point.
00:36To sit by and watch someone you love spiral, it is really scary.
00:40I've let myself go. Don't love myself.
00:43For you, tonight is about taking the lead.
00:46OK.
00:49Hello, everyone.
00:51The residents are all very beautiful.
00:53This is out of my comfort zone.
00:55I don't even know what to say.
00:56Just wondering if you'd like to, like, come back with us.
00:59Do you know what? I'm down for that. I'd love to.
01:01If you want some...
01:03The heart palpitations that I've got right now are through the roof.
01:07Whoa!
01:08I love him, but monogamy is not for me.
01:11So if Tom can't do this, I'm not sure, to be honest, what's going to happen.
01:16If I can't do the open relationship, we go our separate ways.
01:21The penis was not working.
01:24I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
01:28How are you feeling, Mark?
01:45It's good.
01:47Lauren and Tom are in the playroom with a group of residents, hoping for the breakthrough their relationship needs.
01:55But Tom's struggling.
01:57I feel, like, out of place.
01:59And then I'm thinking of my body again.
02:01I'll just take the top off.
02:04It's a hard one, that is.
02:06Having disregarded Effie's advice to take control, now blindfolded, his fate is in the hands of the residents.
02:14We call this the princess treatment.
02:18Just lose yourself.
02:21I'm praying that today is the start of being open.
02:26How are you feeling?
02:28Yeah, it's still weird.
02:30I want to do this.
02:32I got to the point where they were sort of, like, stroking my stomach and then sort of going up my stomach.
02:37And then it got to the point where I was like, oh, I can't, I can't do it.
02:42The penis was not working.
02:45But the women aren't ready to call it a night.
02:48For me, I really loved that before you've even taken your clothes off.
02:55That tension, the, that eagerness.
02:58And, like, you just start kissing and you can feel it all in your body.
03:03Oh, it's happening.
03:05It's just so hard.
03:14It was, like, really hard, but I think it's on soft again.
03:17It's OK.
03:18It's OK.
03:19It's OK.
03:20It's OK.
03:21It's OK.
03:22It's OK.
03:23It's, like, really weird.
03:24It's, like, going up and down like waves.
03:28I didn't think the penis was going to work.
03:30And then it started making me feel horny.
03:34Oh, OK.
03:37You got a pretty fucking turn up.
03:40Oh, yeah.
03:41Oh, your coughs are fucking hard.
03:45He was just fully enjoying himself, and we were enjoying ourselves.
03:49Mum, how do you feel? Let me see.
03:50That's fine.
03:51Yeah?
04:00I've finished this now, so I've got an excuse.
04:04It was amazing seeing Tom so turned on, and I get turned on watching him be turned on, and I absolutely loved it.
04:27Come together, baby! Come together! Come, come, come, come!
04:31Oh my god! Oh my god!
04:35Did you just come together?
04:37Yeah! You both came to the same time.
04:40That was so fucking hot!
04:43Wow! That was so hot!
04:46That was amazing, because obviously our difficulties that we've had, to go this far is incredible.
04:51The energy is there, that's so hot.
04:54Yeah, he surrendered. Yeah, he allowed us to be able to touch him, and make him, you know, in a kind of vulnerable position.
05:02And he allowed us to do that, and trusted us enough, which was really lovely.
05:06Success. Dream team.
05:12Clean up an aisle three, please!
05:15Stay, stay, stay, stay.
05:19Babe.
05:21Is that up?
05:27I love you.
05:29Hopefully it shows you that, you know, you have still got it.
05:34It's just, it's overwhelming.
05:36I'm so shocked.
05:51Next morning, and despite the highs of last night, for Lauren, it only scratched the surface.
05:57We were really buzzing from last night, but on the flip side, I want to push ourselves, break out of our copper zone.
06:06I would like to know if it would change things if I had another guy that ever kind of more involved properly.
06:14I know I'm probably sounding greedy here, but this is why we, um, this is why we're here.
06:19My head's, like, all over the place.
06:22I just feel last night was baby-stepped, really.
06:25I've still got hurdles to climb at.
06:31To help Lauren and Tom figure out where they go from here, they're checking in with non-monogamy coach Effie.
06:38You take a seat, get comfy.
06:42Nice.
06:44Welcome, welcome back.
06:46How was last night?
06:47It's nerve-wracking. I didn't know what to do.
06:50Basically, I got blindfolded.
06:53Straight away?
06:54Yeah.
06:55And then things just advanced.
06:56They were kissing my stomach and I was like, what the fuck's happening?
06:59I felt, I think I felt a bit dumb.
07:01So there were a lot of women that were dominating you and telling you what to do.
07:05Yeah.
07:06What I'm hearing is it feels like kind of everybody took charge of the situation.
07:11I didn't take charge.
07:12Yeah, you were, yeah.
07:13Yeah, I didn't take charge.
07:14But my penis did get hard and I did have sex as well.
07:18Nice, okay.
07:19Yeah.
07:20Well, I was with one of the single girls and Tom was with the others.
07:23The only thing I did say to Tom is I know he's more relaxed around women and I love women.
07:28Oh, definitely.
07:29So suddenly it's all the women.
07:31Maybe that is something we can look at.
07:33Yeah.
07:34Involving more men.
07:36Okay.
07:37So, in this experience so far you've been dominated by the women that were playing with you and Lauren who always takes care of you.
07:46And I think the dynamics here also needs to change it a little bit.
07:49Mm-hmm.
07:50Lauren is your wonderful support crutch.
07:54I always go back to her.
07:56But I want to remove that from you as well.
07:58So, I want you to have an experience independent of Lauren, take charge and embrace your body.
08:05And Lauren.
08:06I would like Lauren to have her own experience this time with a man.
08:10So, the invitation is to do a couple swap but separate.
08:18Oh, shit.
08:19Okay.
08:20Okay.
08:22Just thinking a bit, man.
08:24Can we feel sick?
08:25The discomfort will hit you and at some point you will go through the discomfort.
08:30It's normal.
08:31If you weren't nervous, I'd be more worried.
08:33The more you rely on Lauren, the more you're getting away from your own gut instinct.
08:38Mm-hmm.
08:39And the scarier it is.
08:40Right?
08:41It's not about a crutch or a help.
08:47It's going to be collaboration.
08:49It's exciting but nerve-wracking, isn't it?
08:53We've got this.
08:54Today is about challenging Tom to be independent.
08:58I'm curious to see how that will affect the dynamics they have between them.
09:02Lauren needs to be a partner to Tom, not a caretaker.
09:06Oh, my goodness.
09:08Oh.
09:09Don't be nervous.
09:10Honestly, you've absolutely got this.
09:13It was my idea.
09:14It has been from the start.
09:15Yes, it's throwing me and Tom in at the deep end.
09:17But I want to be able to have him have the confidence that we can just go off, have our fun, come back to each other at the end of the night.
09:23And it's been absolutely insane.
09:25But the thought of flying solo, entirely naked, isn't sitting well with Tom.
09:38Do you want some water?
09:41This is going to be horrible.
09:43I just want to cuddle you.
09:46I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
09:49All anyone can ask is that you just try, OK?
09:53Oh, the nerves, babe. I'm not even joking.
09:58What's that?
10:02You got this?
10:04I'm shitting myself.
10:06Oh!
10:22Well, here we are.
10:23Here we are.
10:24It's fine.
10:25Everything's going to be fine.
10:27Next to arrive at the retreat are Simon and his partner, Chris.
10:33When I first met Simon, I realised I was going to have to come out because he was so handsome and I was determined to make him my boyfriend.
10:42I thought he was very goofy.
10:46He was very funny.
10:47He didn't take himself too seriously.
10:50Jumbo, you said to me.
10:51You said I had meaty thighs.
10:52Meaty thighs.
10:54I did, yeah.
10:55You nervous?
10:56I am nervous.
10:57Me too.
10:59The pair met seven years ago and recently got engaged.
11:04I wanted to propose to Chris and he wanted to propose to me.
11:08I took us to an ancient oak forest, which I thought was very romantic.
11:13And then we proposed to each other on the same day.
11:16It was beautiful.
11:18And now for Simon, there's another big question that needs answering.
11:23I have question marks over my sexuality.
11:27I have identified as gay since I came out when I was 18.
11:33Today, I don't know.
11:38Just two normal gay men doing a very normal thing.
11:43Yeah.
11:44What the hell are we doing?
11:47Luckily, Chris has agreed to join Simon on this voyage of self-discovery.
11:52Simon brought up the idea of exploring a sexual relationship with a woman.
11:56And I was, like, open to exploring that side of my sexuality.
12:01But equally, I wouldn't be exploring this if Simon hadn't, like, brought up initially.
12:05I will be, I will try and be as open as possible.
12:08And hopefully that goes well.
12:11How different could it be?
12:13Majority's a clean bum.
12:14Yeah, exactly.
12:15Oh, wow.
12:16Is it two gay guys?
12:17Yes.
12:18It's two guys.
12:19Get in.
12:20Back in the net.
12:21Wasn't expecting two bucks.
12:22Woo!
12:23So lovely and refreshing to see, like, a gay couple come into open house, because we haven't had that before, which is amazing.
12:32This is amazing.
12:33Hello.
12:34Fucking lovely.
12:35Oh my god, this is sick.
12:36Hello.
12:37Hiya.
12:38Welcome.
12:39Hello.
12:40How are you?
12:41How are you?
12:42How are you?
12:43Good.
12:44How are you?
12:45Hello.
12:46Nice to meet you.
12:47How are you?
12:48How are you?
12:49Welcome, guys.
12:50We haven't had a guy-guy kind of before.
12:51Have you not?
12:52No.
12:53Yeah.
12:54This is very exciting.
12:55It's why you've got a big cheer.
12:56I know.
12:57What a reception.
12:58Well, I mean, did you hear the cheers?
12:59I think everyone's super excited to have the first ever male-male couple coming in.
13:17Hi, Simon.
13:18Hello.
13:19I'm Grey.
13:20Hello, Grace.
13:21I'm Simon.
13:22How are you?
13:23My first impressions, I think they're a bit easy on the ice.
13:27Yeah, we're really excited to have you guys here as well.
13:29I wasn't expecting a round of applause, but I appreciated it nonetheless.
13:32Simon.
13:33Hello.
13:34How are you?
13:35You too.
13:36Yeah, you're good?
13:37I'm Jo.
13:38Jo, nice to meet you.
13:39I think there were a few surprised faces maybe to see a couple of guys walking in.
13:41It was a bit overwhelming.
13:42I wasn't really too sure like where to look or what to do.
13:44Nice to meet you.
13:45Marie.
13:46Do you want two kisses?
13:47Yes, I'm Bryce.
13:48Simon, nice to meet you.
13:49Hello.
13:50Hi.
13:51Marie, nice to meet you.
13:52I've never had any experience with gaming before and I think it's one of my fantasy actually.
13:58I'm feeling very naughty actually.
14:02That's a very good turn on.
14:05Another round of applause guys.
14:06Woo!
14:07Oh, that's nice.
14:08Oranges.
14:09I didn't think we were going to be meeting people straight away.
14:10No, neither did I.
14:11It's important to know exactly who I am as a person.
14:12So that's why I'm here.
14:13First gay couple.
14:14Yeah.
14:15Yeah.
14:16Two guys.
14:17The shock.
14:18Hello.
14:19Hello.
14:20Hello.
14:21Hello.
14:22Hello.
14:23Nice to meet you.
14:24Nice to meet you.
14:25Nice to meet you.
14:26Come in.
14:28Jump on the couch.
14:29Get comfy.
14:30Cozy.
14:31Yeah.
14:32Cozy.
14:33Oh, this is a lovely sofa.
14:34So tell me what brings you here today.
14:35I guess ultimately we're here because we both want to explore parts of our sexuality that
14:55we haven't really had the opportunity to explore before.
14:58Like I don't want to ruin my, like, end my relationship with Chris to explore with women.
15:02It's just that it feels like now is a time in my life where, like, I want to explore.
15:11Since I came out as gay, I've put myself in a box and only really allowed myself to find men attractive.
15:18It's hard to explain, but it's just so much pressure that you're dealing with internally and you get externally as well every day of your life.
15:32It sucks.
15:46What's happened is I've just not entertained those feelings towards women.
15:50So I think it's there.
15:52Mm-hmm.
15:53I just haven't acted on it.
15:54Sure.
15:55Okay.
15:56Do you find women attractive?
15:57I do find women attractive, but I think I don't know what I find in the bedroom sexy about a woman.
16:04Okay.
16:05I understand that.
16:07I just feel like I need to be in a situation where, like, I'm allowing myself to feel aroused by being with a woman.
16:16Mm-hmm.
16:17Going to dig into that for sure.
16:18Sure.
16:19Um, but I want to hear from Chris first.
16:22Do you find women attractive?
16:24Yeah, I think so.
16:26But it's just not something which I actively seek out.
16:28You're not seeking.
16:29Okay.
16:30Any concerns about the experience?
16:38Yeah, I'm just sort of coming here thinking, well, I'm not very sexually experienced.
16:43I consider myself particularly, like, social and outgoing.
16:47Okay.
16:48So I'm really battling against my own demons in that sense.
16:50Any other concerns?
16:51Concerns about the relationship?
16:53Yeah, if you ask me what the worst case scenario would be, it would be reacting in a way which I'm not expecting.
17:00And, like, feeling jealous about silent opening up with women, which I guess is always the thing.
17:07You've not explored a female body.
17:10Hmm.
17:11Do you know what you're doing?
17:13I do not know what I'm doing.
17:15Okay.
17:16We don't know what we're doing.
17:17I didn't want to assume.
17:18No, no, no.
17:19We don't know what we're doing.
17:20Okay.
17:21It's very nerve-wracking.
17:23I'm huge on communication.
17:24And I just think, like, having it all out there in the open and just, like, this is what I said about, like...
17:28Learning on the job.
17:29Well, yeah, basically.
17:30It's just like learning a new skill, isn't it?
17:31You know, if I took up painting, I'm not going to be painting masterpieces straight away.
17:35Sure.
17:36So, tonight, there's a social.
17:39It's a black tie soiree.
17:41And I think, Chris, my challenge for you is to kind of socialize solo for a little bit.
17:46Great.
17:48Yeah, yeah.
17:49All right.
17:50And then see where both your connections take you.
17:52Ultimately, you want it to get physical.
17:55But this will only happen if you are both relaxed and open.
18:00How does that feel?
18:01I'm excited.
18:02I'm excited for you.
18:03I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
18:04Yeah.
18:05Good. Good. Excellent.
18:06This is massive.
18:07Hello?
18:08You can often get a couple where one party is super clear about what they want and the other
18:12party is going on for the ride.
18:14But if Simon and Chris react differently to opening up, this could cause a rift.
18:22This is a situation where we have said that we wanted to come into this together, hand
18:27in hand, and walk out of this hand in hand.
18:29Did you see anyone that you liked that would come in?
18:32So yeah, there were a couple of girls for sure.
18:34But I could come out of this entire experience and realize that I actually really prefer to
18:40have sex with women.
18:41If anything were to ever jeopardize our relationship, that terrifies me.
18:58Lauren?
18:59Yeah.
19:00Very smart.
19:01Yeah?
19:02I like it.
19:03Yesterday, Lauren and Tom took their first step towards non-monogamy.
19:08This evening, they'll attempt to push things further by way of a couple swap.
19:13Oh my God, that bruise is massive.
19:16It's because I've got a really bony knee and it was like a wooden floor.
19:19With husband and wife Gage and Olivia, who they met at last night's social.
19:24So we're excited to spend some more time with them.
19:26Hopefully have that little bit more of a flirt and see where things go.
19:30But are we having drinks with friends or drinks with friend friends?
19:35If tonight goes to plan, Lauren and Tom will experience having sex with other people separately
19:41for the first time.
19:43So the idea of, it seems like more of a tease for me because I can't see you with this other
19:49woman, but I know that you're going to be with her.
19:52I don't know how to explain it, it just really makes me so horny.
19:55Are you nervous?
19:57Yeah.
19:58Going in there together first?
20:00Yeah, but then literally only having a couple of drinks and then going to the bedroom.
20:04Going first.
20:05I've got loads of shit going through my head.
20:08If they do say yes, I'm not going to be in the room with Lauren,
20:11she's not going to be in the room with me.
20:13It's a big thing.
20:15If I can do this, I can do anything else.
20:18So, just again, I have to wait and see.
20:21I can't, yeah, at the minute I'm shitting it, yeah.
20:24I'm nervous.
20:26Really?
20:27Yeah.
20:28Because it's one on one, isn't it?
20:32I really want it to be a success today, but I'm really nervous, yeah.
20:36The idea of being completely separate.
20:40There is a real worry, you know, if it doesn't go to plan.
20:43Going forward, looking at our future.
20:45I honestly don't know what we'll do.
20:51Thanks for inviting us.
20:53No, no, thank you.
20:55It was really nice that you actually are here now.
20:57Cheers.
20:58Yeah, definitely, cheers.
20:59Thanks for joining us, thank you.
21:01You missed your wife.
21:02Tom was really nervous.
21:06I think the initial nerves and feeling like that,
21:09it's always going to be there because it is outside the box.
21:12It is unusual.
21:1612 years, I remember 12 years, right?
21:18I think I remember that.
21:19Yeah, we've been married 12 years.
21:22Wow, yeah.
21:23And still strong?
21:25Yeah.
21:26If you would have met me eight years ago and you said,
21:29swinging or non-monogamy, I'd have to Google it.
21:31But it's like, it's a bug that gets you.
21:34And once you kind of like taste that rainbow and get a feeling for it,
21:37you go, I get why people are non-monogamous.
21:42Down to the swinging side of it.
21:44Obviously, like, every situation is completely different.
21:49Separate room stuff and you're always thinking, what's Gage doing?
21:53Like, you're always doing that.
21:55Yeah.
21:56And that's, yeah, well, like, we've never actually been apart.
22:02I'm really fucking nervous because I find it really intimidating.
22:06So I'm always, like, thinking, just, I overthink a lot of things and then it's in my head.
22:15This is literally out of my comfort zone.
22:18We'd love to know how different it feels to be separate.
22:21Yeah.
22:24We play together and separately, but there's also a dynamic to it where, you know,
22:27they're only down the corridor and sometimes you can hear what they're saying
22:30and it, you know, fuels a bit more of that adrenaline and nervous energy.
22:35Just talk more and just see what happens, basically.
22:37Yeah.
22:38All that's in the back of my mind is the next step and I'm going.
22:43I'm a bit intimidated, but in a good way.
22:49I was actually going to ask you if it's okay if we can take this somewhere else.
23:00I'm happy.
23:03That's only if you're okay with it.
23:07Yeah.
23:08Let's do it.
23:10What's most important for me tonight would be that we ended up in separate rooms
23:14with separate people and we're comfortable and we're happy.
23:19We're literally kind of a few doors down from each other.
23:22So this is our room.
23:29Stop thinking about everything else and go from there.
23:33You've got to take charge this time.
23:35And no blindfolds.
23:37Yeah, I didn't really think of that, but yeah.
23:41Of course, of course.
23:43I can tell by just the way he looks at me if he's feeling uncomfortable.
23:47I'm really scared that tonight he is not going to be able to perform
23:52and he's going to really beat himself up about it
23:54and therefore be put off completely from opening up properly.
23:59You're nervous now, aren't you?
24:01Oh, frickin' it.
24:11Mother.
24:12Last one.
24:14Are you nervous now?
24:15I'm absolutely shitting it.
24:16Are you all right?
24:17Why are you shitting it?
24:18No, it's because you're attractive and I'm like, wow.
24:21Lauren and Tom are one step closer to their dream of a fully open relationship.
24:27Tom and me have not been apart.
24:30But having now parted ways for a separate couple swap, Tom is wavering.
24:34In my head, it's like, I know what I want to do.
24:37Yeah.
24:38And it's just, it's like the start of what to do.
24:41Mm-hm.
24:42Like if you have a negative first experience, it could then change their whole opinion about it.
24:48This is, this is a first.
24:50You are a first.
24:51Oh, shit!
24:52Oh my God.
24:55I'm just sort of like tiptoeing around.
24:57I'm trying to find conversation.
24:59I'm trying to, because it's going in my head now.
25:02Like, you know, we're in the room together and it's just me and Olivia and Lauren's not here.
25:08What do you prefer then?
25:09Do you prefer like this or do you prefer it in the dark?
25:18This is very bright.
25:22What about now?
25:25Mm.
25:26Is that better?
25:27Mm.
25:29I know it sounds strong, but I feel petrified.
25:34Yeah, I'm happy with that.
25:35Are you sure?
25:39So, are you a good kisser?
25:40I don't know.
25:41I've been told I am.
25:42I'll tell you the truth right now.
25:43Okay.
25:46I like to say I'm here for a good time, not a long time.
25:49When it comes to sex life, anything that kind of really gets my heart rate going, I love.
25:56Definitely happy?
25:57Yeah, not quite.
25:58And kissing wise, is it okay to kiss?
26:00Okay to kiss.
26:01I like it.
26:03My head's a bit scrambled.
26:05My head, it goes, am I doing it the right way?
26:08Is she enjoying it?
26:09Is she not enjoying it?
26:11It's like timidated.
26:12I feel shit.
26:13I'm going to be shit in bed.
26:15Gage was amazing.
26:30It was mad.
26:32It was really, really good.
26:34Okay.
26:35I'm not getting naked until you're naked.
26:36Oh, fuck.
26:37You're going to make me do that, aren't you?
26:38Yeah.
26:39Really?
26:40Yeah.
26:41We're getting there.
26:42Don't usually do that.
26:43Mm-hmm.
26:44Okay.
26:45I want to do it for Lauren.
26:46And for me.
26:47Really?
26:48Really?
26:49Yeah.
26:50We're getting there.
26:51Don't usually do that.
26:52Mm-hmm.
26:53Okay.
26:54I want to do it for Lauren.
26:55And for me.
26:56Really, I should do it for me.
26:57But, yeah, doing it takes a lot of balls.
27:00Stop getting in your head.
27:02The only way I've had to do it for Lauren,
27:04and for me.
27:05Really, I should do it for me.
27:07But, yeah, doing it takes a lot of balls.
27:10Stop getting in your head.
27:12The only way I've had to do it for Lauren,
27:15the only way I feel like to get over that hurdle
27:18is to jump in the deep end.
27:28I think you're in my head right now.
27:34You're making me hard already.
27:45What a nice weight.
27:46No.
27:47What I know?
27:48Oh, that's so ugly.
27:49You.
27:50Yeah.
27:59The clothes came off.
28:00They went flying.
28:01Pillows went flying.
28:02I was making a move with her.
28:04I was being the one in control.
28:06It just got even stronger.
28:07It was amazing.
28:19You okay? Feel comfortable?
28:20I feel amazing.
28:21Good!
28:22You're actually great.
28:29Hello?
28:32Hello, gorgeous.
28:34Oh, my God!
28:36Do you hear us?
28:37Yes, and that's when I was like,
28:39I've had an amazing time.
28:40It sounds like you've missed it, too.
28:41No, I mean, I've cut my top off.
28:51As you can tell, the smile on my face, yeah,
28:52it was a happy ending.
28:57Don't know what happened.
28:58It just felt right.
29:00Now we are definitely going to be open to a couple swaps.
29:04It has always been my dream.
29:06Yeah, I think I've nailed it, to be fair.
29:09Yeah.
29:10You did?
29:11Yeah, that was great.
29:12Cheers, cheers.
29:13Cheers!
29:14What?
29:15What?
29:16What?
29:17Hey, guys.
29:18I really enjoyed myself.
29:19It was really good.
29:20Yay!
29:21Stood on the balcony, naked, and it was just a moment, and you're kinda like, this is it.
29:33This is what the lifestyle is about.
29:35Guys, I love you all to bits, but I wasn't freezing.
29:37It's cold, it's cold.
29:38It's cold.
29:39I'm not freezing.
29:41I'm not freezing.
29:42LAUGHTER
29:43I'm not a new person.
29:47Honestly, I've been naked tonight.
29:48Do it.
29:49Honestly, like, the changes in you in, like, the last 12 hours have been nuts.
29:53I just, I love sex.
29:54Are you horny, Dad?
29:55I'm so horny.
29:56Buzzing.
29:57Buzzing.
29:58Giddy.
29:59When you couple swap, it's the after effect, it's the love that it brings you closer, and
30:28that's what I love.
30:29It gets me horny, Dad.
30:30Yeah, we literally, we haven't been able to keep our hands off each other since last
30:36night.
30:37Happy that we're here.
30:38Happy that we're here.
30:39Don't want to go home.
30:40Don't want to go home.
30:41Best experience ever.
30:42And to be fair, for me, it's helped massively.
30:43I'm on the right track to being what I want in life.
30:48Bye, room.
30:49I'm going to miss this place.
30:50Good morning.
30:51Good morning.
30:52Good morning.
30:53Good morning.
30:54Good morning.
30:55Co-ordinating.
30:56How are you doing?
30:57You all right?
30:58How are you doing?
30:59Sorry.
31:00I had such a blast.
31:01We were buzzing last night, wasn't we?
31:02We literally had sex straight after, it was like, wow.
31:03It was basically magical.
31:04To the point where I'm hoping on the outside of this, we can have that connection with them
31:10too.
31:11So you're on the outside or right?
31:12Yeah.
31:13Definitely.
31:14Yeah.
31:16Thank you, yeah.
31:18Yeah, make sure you get set up.
31:19It was good.
31:20Yeah.
31:21We met our people.
31:31You all right?
31:32Hey, guys.
31:33You all right?
31:34Again, everyone.
31:36It's been amazing.
31:38thank you we're now excited about leaving here and continuing with the non-monogamy yeah definitely
31:45thank you very much everyone guys lovely to be cool take care it's been amazing isn't it yes
31:53we're now excited more than ever about the wedding and of course knowing both of us
31:58it's going to be a huge party and the after after party might be quite naughty it'll be different
32:02one of the best experience i've ever had in my life is because of you
32:26what a handsome man what a handsome man
32:28newcomers simon and chris are about to make their debut at a black tie social on the terrace
32:38where they hope to find a female resident to explore their sexuality with
32:43i don't know how to flirt with a girl flirting is with men always has been with men
32:52i don't know how to flirt with women i don't think i know how to flirt with men though so hopefully
32:56that goes well
33:00let's do it
33:09i've definitely come here looking for answers i'm hoping that tonight helps me find those answers
33:17but i think chris might struggle
33:20but sometimes like i end up panicking in social situations
33:23i feel nervous i'm like i'm suddenly getting a big rush of butterflies in my stomach
33:29i've questioned the decision to do this this could open doors for us or or close them
33:36oh
33:45what have fun you too see you later
33:48hello
33:54evening good evening wasting no time simon makes a beeline for seasoned resident jen
34:02hello mark how are you who's at the retreat with her partner mark it's one of her big fantasies is
34:11having sex with my guys my guys and be bi yeah every morning i wake up and she's looking at me
34:18like i wish you were bi
34:20let's get to those give us a little bit of this bit of that change from yeah get one of those
34:26tell us your story we've heard that you may be looking exploring bi with a girl correct
34:35okay yeah hot yeah yeah the thing is like i'm a very confident person i'm not the kind of person
34:43to really give a fuck what people think about me i'm like very like this is me thank you
34:48i care about that opinion jen instantly made me laugh she put me at ease jen's gorgeous
34:55simon seemed forwardly flirty yes i also noticed simon's eyes very very intense very amazing
35:05lovely chatting with you we'll see you later on as simon works the room how are you very good
35:11fantastic yeah good thank you it's lovely to meet you chris homes in on residents georgie and emily
35:18how are you guys yeah good
35:20full moon have you seen the movie it is beautiful
35:25so what's your what's your goals for this evening
35:30um uh i don't know try to talk to people yeah try and talk to people and uh i'm nervous about
35:38being on my own yeah it's new it's not like my strength
35:41i don't know we're um like the reason we're here is um we're interested in experimenting
35:48with women so what what brings you guys here we love to play
35:53yeah basically yeah how do you think the night will turn out just one girl or are you gonna
35:59are you playing together with one girl two girls i'm a really picky person okay when it comes to like
36:04like like guys and girls i'm like i just i don't know i i i have to like get to know people
36:09like before i'm able to be attracted to them
36:11yeah i was thinking if it was like one girl or maybe two or three oh yeah that's the question
36:19yeah yeah um i think like it depends who we're attracted to i guess we'd happily do something
36:23just like the two of us like with one girl or two or three and we just keep chucking them on the pile
36:28yeah
36:28uh my biggest fear is just like not having enough to say uh running out of conversation topics uh repeating
36:38myself i feel very awkward i feel awkward right now i'm struggling for conversation the worst thing
36:43is like if i don't vibe with anyone i think when people are nervous i'm not super like pushy and like
36:51you know i'm not gonna take someone into a situation they don't want to be in i mean we feel like we
36:58shouldn't take too much of your time i'm gonna go yeah grab another drink a red flag that i see when
37:05couples are trying to open up is when one is really into it i've got the connection and i can see naughty
37:11eyes one's just going along with it
37:15this is mortifying i wouldn't be here if it wasn't for simon so this is out of my comfort area for sure
37:28how are you good how are you lovely to see you naomi yeah lovely
37:50simon and his fiance chris are one hour into their first social where they hope to find a woman to
37:57open up with before anything you look absolutely stunning your hair is gorgeous and your eyes
38:02absolutely beautiful hands down i'm actually blushing while simon has quickly found chemistry
38:09with the female residents flirting with the opposite sex hasn't come as naturally to chris i take a while
38:16to come out of my shell so i'm someone who like holds myself back fantastic so i quite yeah okay we're
38:23the same i'm gonna hide around in the side of this table yeah we'll just look at each other sort of
38:26indirectly yeah we can get close i'll help with chris i could definitely sense nerves he's a little bit
38:34goofy but i love that because i can get a bit like that as well a bit more of a reactive conversations
38:40i'm not like i'm terrible that's why i sort of hang out with simon yeah me as well
38:45i would say i'm attracted to grace she seems like me in the sense that like she's a bit more reserved yeah
38:51you're me you're me it's good though good luck chris has found a kindred spirit in grace
38:59and simon's connection with resident naomi is growing ever stronger i'm going to put that
39:03there i should just keep playing with it hands simon hands i mean yeah i'm just gonna like i'll just
39:10yeah leave my hand here did you pick that one as well so you could get stroked
39:15if i did is that a problem no never do you want to stroke my arm go on that's fine i'm such a
39:22texture person and i can't keep my hands still you can absolutely keep your hands on my arm if you
39:27like that's completely okay with me thank you please tell me about anything about you i know that i can
39:33love more than one and i want to fill my life with love but society tells me i have to choose right
39:39so then it was you are yep yeah keep going i'm i am with you yeah i'm on it yeah i'd say i'm attracted
39:46to naomi the hair her eyes she's just a beautiful girl honestly like i would love to chat with you more
39:50yeah that was naomi well thank you with the night drawing on you were over here it's time for
40:05simon and chris to decide if they're ready to take things further with any of the women how's it going
40:12yeah so what are your thoughts i don't know if you are not open to like doing like larger group
40:24stuff as in like an orgy for example so if we went to two girls how do we feel about that
40:32i don't know i guess depending like doing it is what i need to do to get more clarity
40:43on the question marks that i have in my head
40:45well would you need to make a choice yeah make a decision um
40:57um ultimately i'm here to like explore
41:11i think there's nothing wrong with extending an invitation
41:14to a hot tub cool okay see who's your fancy i had such an amazing connection with naomi
41:23she is like a front runner for me that was talking to grace she's quite a shy person yeah
41:31and i was like well i'm also quite a shy person yeah she was very nice what about jen she was really
41:36fun which super helps how about we maybe go and have a chat with naomi grace and jen yeah let's
41:47fucking do it we've got something to say ladies first to get an invite is grace
41:58oh this is terrifying isn't it hello uh grace yes darling
42:03simon i wonder if you'd like to join us in the heart
42:08do you know what i would absolutely love to because you two are like my type of guys i think
42:13you would be absolutely great like for what you're looking for i don't think i'm the right person
42:17that's okay i don't even talk to me about this it makes me so sad that i said no i turned them
42:24down because they like are not people that i would see sexually so i knew i wouldn't be the right person
42:31i don't know what to do now
42:34be very sad um yeah she doesn't think that what we're looking for is what
42:38she can provide cool that's absolutely fine
42:44hey darling hello ladies hello hello i was just gonna ask um jen if you would like to spend some
42:49more time with us this evening we were planning on going to the hot tub and then see how things go
42:54i mean yes check in cool all right we'll catch up with you in a bit yeah chris and i were both
42:59wondering if you would like to spend some more time with us this evening we were gonna go and hang out
43:03in the hot tub for a bit and then just see how the evening goes yeah yeah that sound good that would
43:08be lovely cool fantastic i'm looking forward to developing more of a connection but yeah if i feel
43:14it i'll definitely lean into it and see where it goes yeah happy with that yeah take the two wins yes
43:23right what else do we need it's it's a big deal in the fact that it's definitely a step further
43:30towards figuring out what exactly what i came here to figure out you're with me i am with you
43:39but i'm nervous because i have never had sex with a woman i don't know what i'm doing i have no
43:46idea what to do with one woman let alone what to do with two women
43:49oh hell yeah is it good oh it's just so much more than anything else i guess it's new this is a new
44:00experience for us um i hadn't put any thought into the seduction side of it
44:04i'm definitely interested in taking things a little bit further but we'll see the worst thing
44:21that i can think of is just one of us like reacting badly to something that happens but you know here we
44:29are yeah uh well here comes some of the girls this is definitely a very big moment in our relationship
44:41because this is a doorway towards something which could be like a huge change for us
44:47next time on open house would you be willing to have two separate experiences
45:01i just like having simon around hi got butterflies i'm feeling a bit like giddy oh yeah
45:13he's not here
45:17i feel like we're walking into a lion's den to be honest oh my god they're so cute neither of us
45:24have had like many sexual partners in the past how are you feeling this whole experience is obviously
45:30completely alien to us it's just a bit much for me like i just don't want to go back in
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