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00:00The first couple travelling to open house this year are Tanith and Mark from West Yorkshire.
00:29We met in the most lovely little pub, the Red Lion.
00:34Yeah, like a typical old man's pub where you would not expect to meet anybody in there.
00:39An attractive looking lady I've ever seen in there to be honest.
00:42He took his chance, he got it, he got it.
00:46This is definitely the best relationship I've had.
00:49I like Tan's smile.
00:51Aw, it's not even blush.
00:53She's just a fun personality, she's always bubbly and...
00:56Aw, you're softy.
00:58They share a house, a chihuahua and big plans.
01:03Me and Mark, we are like family now.
01:06And we are thinking about, you know, the future with kids and that kind of stuff too.
01:12Potentially a ring.
01:14But like all relationships, this one has its ups and downs.
01:19And some old habits are hard to shake.
01:22I tend to have a bit of one red eye.
01:24I've always wanted to just do what I want to do when I want to do it.
01:32And sometimes when you find yourself in relationships, you feel a bit trapped.
01:36I think I've always felt very much trapped.
01:39So today, Tanith and Mark are setting out to discover whether an open relationship could be right for them.
01:45Before this relationship I've never thought of non-monogamy.
01:48Yeah, there's always that stigma around that and you know, it's quite taboo for someone to even think about it.
01:54Two friends, two lovers, but you're still kind of free.
02:03That's insane.
02:06Oh my God.
02:09You ready?
02:10I'm ready.
02:12Here to help the guests on their journey are the open house residents who are experienced in the extraordinary world of non-monogamy.
02:30Actually being non-monogamous is more natural to our human nature than being monogamous.
02:34The open lifestyle for me is just about embracing your own sexuality and who you are as a person.
02:43It's a very empowering feeling.
02:48I like men.
02:49I like to have more than one, like three, five sometimes.
02:55To see the orgasm of the men really turn me on.
03:00We offer new couples some fun and a bit of experience.
03:06Like cracking pair of tits.
03:22What's going on, honey?
03:24Are they here?
03:27They're always bad.
03:29He's so fit.
03:30Anyone who looks like a drummer.
03:33Mark and Tan is completely my type.
03:35I love a man with strong hair, as you can tell by the facial hair.
03:39I think fancy is too weak a word.
03:41I think we absolutely love their vibe.
03:46Oh, wow, the energy.
03:47She's cute. I like her.
03:51Hi.
03:53Nice to meet you.
03:54I love a guy with long hair to give me surfer vibes and she with just a little pocket of energy.
04:04Absolutely brilliant impression.
04:05Very nice welcoming.
04:07Very nice welcoming.
04:08So the worst case scenario would be that you would risk your relationship.
04:17And yeah, of course it would be devastating.
04:19Hello.
04:20Hi.
04:21Welcome.
04:22I'm Effie.
04:23Nice to meet you.
04:24Hi, Effie.
04:25Nice to meet you.
04:26Come in.
04:28Guiding all new arrivals on their journey is non-monogamy coach Effie Blue.
04:33I think it's important to have a retreat like this because it provides a space that you don't have anywhere else.
04:41You can play, you can connect, you can explore, you can experiment and you have a support network around you to take care of you to make sure that you experience is the right one for you.
04:53I'm looking forward to challenging people to get out of their comfort zone and really explore non-monogamy.
05:03So how long have you been together?
05:05Two and a half years.
05:06Two and a half years, yeah.
05:07Okay.
05:08How is it going?
05:09Like we've had a, we had a turbulent start.
05:11Okay.
05:12But...
05:13There were insecurities and trust issues at the very beginning.
05:16And then I ended up cheating.
05:19Okay.
05:21And done.
05:22Caught in vigilance.
05:23Caught me, yeah.
05:26We've been together, I think, a year.
05:30Yeah, I just like, tore my world apart.
05:32It was really hard.
05:33Feeling it, feeling we were in a good place and it's all to be shattered, I guess.
05:38And we ended up like, I think, took time for ourselves and I realised in that time, like, he was worth, worth it.
05:48Dan, how are you feeling?
05:50It's like, it's just a lot of emotion, isn't it?
05:53Yeah, yeah, yeah.
05:54It's all right.
05:55It's all right.
05:56We're good.
05:57Okay.
05:59And was there cheating in your previous relationships?
06:01Do you have like a history of cheating?
06:02I've always had a tendency to be a bit unfairful in the past.
06:07Okay.
06:10And what were you getting out of those cheating experiences?
06:13I guess it's the feeling of feeling like you wanted or somebody is attracted to you.
06:18It's probably like not feeling good within yourself.
06:21So you're looking at getting that through other people.
06:25Maybe it stemmed from childhood or there was some insecurities within myself.
06:28Maybe I didn't feel like I was good enough and I was seeking attention elsewhere.
06:33There's lots of different reasons why people do what they do.
06:37So how much of your history of infidelity has impacted your decision to potentially open up your relationship?
06:45So I think I was the one that brought it up.
06:48Okay.
06:49Yeah.
06:50I knew I wanted to be with Mark.
06:51I thought maybe this is the right path that we should go down and explore.
06:56I think for me, monogamy, I was just failing at relationships.
07:01I couldn't wish to make a better person than Tan.
07:04But she's just a great human.
07:06You know, nothing negative about her.
07:08You know, really good energy.
07:10And I don't want to lose that person.
07:12Yeah.
07:15So do you have something in mind that you want to explore?
07:17So we thought about just bringing, like, a woman in and then going separately.
07:26Okay.
07:27We have thought about opening up our relationship separately.
07:30Obviously, we've had trust issues in the past, and I think playing separate would build that extra level of trust in our relationship.
07:40If we do this separately, I think it could build our trust.
07:44Because you've gone through accepting that someone's gone off somewhere.
07:50You're aware that it's consensual, and you're both consented to it.
07:54And there's no dishonesty or deceit.
07:57Okay.
07:58So this is about trust, right?
07:59Yeah.
08:00You're going to lean into that a lot.
08:01Yeah.
08:02So how about we create two separate socials for you?
08:07Where you get to socialize, connect with people.
08:09If you want to escalate things, we have beautiful spaces for you to go and do whatever you want to do.
08:15With a little bit of separation, a little bit of independence from one another to have your own experiences with other people.
08:22You're going to come back here tomorrow, and we're going to unpack it together.
08:26We're normally joined at the hip, aren't we?
08:28Yeah.
08:29Okay.
08:30Well, we're here to challenge you and help you understand.
08:33That's what we're here for, you know.
08:34We're here to try new things.
08:36I'm excited for you.
08:38Have a great time.
08:40Don't forget to have fun.
08:41And I'll see you tomorrow.
08:42Yeah, see you tomorrow.
08:43Beautiful.
08:44Yeah, yeah.
08:45Let yourselves out.
08:48Trust is key to the success of their exercise tonight.
08:51They will be going apart separately and socializing and potentially connecting and escalating
08:55things with somebody.
08:57Oh, my God, that's cool.
08:58Wow.
08:59And in those moments, they're going to have to lean back on trust to have a good time.
09:03Are you nervous about anything?
09:05Am I nervous about it?
09:06Yeah.
09:07It's about a friend in the deep end, isn't it?
09:09You know what I mean?
09:10You boost me up.
09:11Single scenarios about each other.
09:13It's completely new to me and Mark, so I guess it's a big step.
09:16And something that would be difficult for me in this is definitely if one of us did something
09:22and the other didn't, you know, I think that would be the hardest thing.
09:33Next to arrive at this unique retreat are Chloe and Paul from Liverpool.
09:38Where are we getting led to?
09:39It's like the start of a scary movie where everything's all well.
09:43So, me and Chloe are the same.
09:44I'm in.
09:45We belong here.
09:46We do go like bread and butter, yeah.
09:49We met at sixth form college, didn't we?
09:52Yeah.
09:53We've been together for nearly ten years now.
09:54Married for free.
09:56We're like two best mates going on holiday, do you know what I mean?
09:59That's what it's like.
10:00Yeah.
10:01Soulmates from the start, Chloe and Paul have always been each other's one and only.
10:11Paul was actually my first relationship.
10:14I hadn't been with anyone else before, Paul.
10:16Like, he was literally my first everything.
10:18Yeah, we've only slept with each other, yeah.
10:20So, it is a fact that we have missed out on some experiences.
10:24I just feel like there's this, like, part of me that I kind of haven't unlocked yet.
10:31Now the curious couple are looking to expand their horizons by having sex with other people.
10:38When it comes to monogamy, why can't we have fun with multiple people?
10:42And still have a partner?
10:44I think we'll find out if we're good kisses or not.
10:47Yeah.
10:48We're going to end up, like, clashing teeth with everyone and going,
10:50Is this not how you do it?
10:55I feel a bit nervous.
10:56Be sad. We'll be all right.
10:58There's just that little bit of nervousness.
11:00That's what makes it all worth it.
11:01Yeah.
11:02Imagine you were numb to it.
11:03You'd be like, oh, like, what's the point?
11:05I think Chloe might be a little bit more nervous than me.
11:08But I'm self-confident.
11:10I've always felt secure.
11:11I'm not going to lie. I'm excited.
11:13So, we're opening up our relationship.
11:15And he's, like, my best friend.
11:16He's not just my husband.
11:18I think that's what makes me nervous.
11:20A lot of things could go wrong.
11:24Oh, my God.
11:25Oh, my God.
11:33Tanith and Mark are preparing for a big night.
11:36You look beautiful.
11:38Tonight, they'll be going to different socials.
11:43Mark will be having fireside drinks with the retreat's female residents.
11:48Thank you, Tanith.
11:49Cheers!
11:50And Tanith will attend a cocktail party where she will get to meet some of the residents' men.
12:02I feel weird you're not being there.
12:03Yeah, I think that's the big thing for me, is you're not actually being there.
12:10It's a big thing doing it apart, so I guess you never know until you're in there.
12:16Yeah, beautiful.
12:17My game plan tonight is to relax and just go and enjoy it.
12:22I just want to go out there and have fun.
12:26Here to collect Mark for his soiree is resident Marie.
12:31I do this sexy lifestyle since, yeah, seven years now.
12:39Sexy, it's healthy.
12:42So, I do a lot of healthy stuff.
12:48Hello, how are you guys?
12:50How are you?
12:51I am here to collect for Mark.
12:52Is that okay?
12:54Take good care of everything.
12:55Yes, we will.
12:58See you later.
12:59It's going to be fun.
13:00Have fun too.
13:01Enjoy yourself.
13:03See you soon.
13:04Bye, love you, bye.
13:05Having only ever been intimate with one another, childhood sweethearts Chloe and Paul are arriving at the retreat to explore opening up their relationship.
13:23Wow.
13:24Look at me with my backpack.
13:25It's like my first day in school or something.
13:26It's fine, isn't it?
13:27What's that accent?
13:28Are you okay?
13:29Hi.
13:30Hi.
13:31Oh, okay.
13:32This is Chloe.
13:33Nice to meet you.
13:34Lovely to meet you.
13:35I think they've got a good energy.
13:37I would spend some more time with them.
13:38She's very cute.
13:39She's got this beautiful kind of innocent cute smile and I like that a lot.
13:41I feel whenever I hear this girl's accent I'm like, right, party for you.
13:42We know who's there.
13:43Yeah.
13:44It's lovely.
13:45It's lovely.
13:46It's nice to meet you.
13:47It's nice to meet you.
13:48Lovely to meet you.
13:49I think they've got a good energy.
13:52Are you all right?
13:53Are you all right?
13:54Are you all right?
13:55Are you all right?
13:56Are you all right?
13:57Are you all right?
13:58I would spend some more time with them.
14:01She's very cute.
14:02She's got this beautiful kind of innocent cute smile and I like that a lot.
14:06I feel whenever I hear this girl's accent I'm like, right, party for you.
14:09We know who's there.
14:10Yeah.
14:11It was lovely, aren't it?
14:12Yeah.
14:13It smells so nice, hasn't it?
14:15I think worst case scenario for me, she runs off into the sunset with someone else.
14:20That's kind of worst case scenario for me too.
14:23And you prefer it with other women.
14:31Hello, guys.
14:32Hi, you're OK?
14:33Hi, I'm Effie.
14:34So I want to hear from you.
14:35What brings you here today?
14:36Like, over the last two years, during sex, we've opened up a lot more and obviously
14:41our sex life improved and then it comes to a point where we're like, Chloe started opening
14:45up about her like, being bicurious.
14:47How long this idea of bicuriosity has been with you?
14:52It's been quite a few years.
14:55I did, like, have the thoughts when I was younger.
14:59I think about it all the time.
15:01Growing up it was said all the time, like, oh, girls who are bisexual are greedy.
15:06Some family members I've spoke to, they're really supportive.
15:10But a few of them I've tried speaking to and they just, like, blow it off.
15:16I think if I hadn't met Paul, I might not have been as open about it.
15:20Like, obviously, now.
15:22Like, I just need to try it and then I'll know who I am as a person.
15:29OK.
15:30So, I want to hear from you what normanegomy might look like.
15:36Like, for me, like, I'm excited, like, to explore a woman's body.
15:42But, like, for Paul to also be exploring the same person as me.
15:47Like, my amazing reaction was, like, oh, that's cool, that.
15:53Like, I've hit the jackpot here and my wife, like, wants to, like, experiment.
15:58It's like digging for treasure together.
16:00Yeah.
16:01And clearly, did you ever consider exploring women on your own?
16:05I think it'd be more, like, bisexual than, say, like, lesbian tendencies.
16:09Like, you might enjoy it with me and the girl, but not...
16:12Yeah, but just me, you know?
16:13On your own with the girl.
16:14You guys are a wonderful couple.
16:16Clearly love each other.
16:17You're very close.
16:19Um, one of the dynamics I notice is that sometimes you talk for Chloe.
16:24I apologise.
16:25It's OK.
16:26There's nothing to apologise.
16:27I just want to explore it.
16:28I'm confident, you know what I mean?
16:30And Chloe, if she, like, isn't confident in the situation,
16:33then I'll help her out to find the words.
16:35But I don't necessarily mean to, like, if she's got something to say,
16:38I don't mean to get in first.
16:40So, you are here to explore non-monogamy.
16:42You have no experience and you're like, we want to do this thing.
16:45Let's explore.
16:46I'm going to start you off lightly.
16:48Tonight, there's a social.
16:51If you can, at some point, for a short period of time, separate.
16:57Go the opposite way.
16:58Yeah.
16:59Chat, chat, chat.
17:00Yeah.
17:01You know, look for connections, right?
17:02Yeah.
17:03Get back together and maybe invite somebody and just have that sort of first experience.
17:08Do you think you can do that?
17:09Yeah.
17:10Yeah?
17:11Yeah.
17:12Sounds like a plan.
17:13So, this is really about you just feeling your way around.
17:16Yeah, it's exciting.
17:17Can't wait.
17:18It's going to be mad, but I can't wait.
17:19Yeah.
17:20Does that feel good?
17:21Yeah.
17:22Just ready to get out there and have fun.
17:23Beautiful, beautiful.
17:24Okay.
17:25Go out there, have fun.
17:26And I'll look forward to speaking to you guys tomorrow.
17:28Awesome.
17:29Thanks very much.
17:30You're very welcome.
17:33Let's go.
17:37Paul and Chloe's relationship is almost old fashioned.
17:39They've met really young and they really haven't had any chance to sow their wild oats.
17:45This is it now, like, what we came for.
17:47Yeah.
17:48The encouragement today is for her to socialise separately without Paul being there talking
17:53for her.
17:54It'll be interesting to see how well she does.
17:56Oh my god.
17:59I'm excited but I'm nervous.
18:01Because I've only ever been with Paul, like, but I just feel like there's this, like,
18:06part of me that I kind of haven't unlocked you.
18:10But a lot of things could go wrong.
18:12Ladies first.
18:13I know they're sad.
18:14Of course I'm excited to see Chloe with another woman.
18:17I'll be there to support her but really I'm going to have fun too, do you know what
18:21I mean?
18:22Some confidence.
18:23But every boxer has a plan until they get in the ring and get punched in the face.
18:26Can't wait to see what's in store.
18:35Yeah.
18:36At the retreat's camping area, Mark joins the ladies who are eager to make his acquaintance.
18:42It's alright by the fire, isn't it?
18:44Yeah.
18:45A little bit weird at first, you know, but it's just all a little bit nerve wracking.
18:50Mark, I can't remember your girlfriend, wife, are you married?
18:54It's my girlfriend.
18:55The girlfriend.
18:56What's her name?
18:57She's called Tanith.
18:58Are you feeling not having her with you?
19:00Is that a little bit weird?
19:02We'll look after you.
19:03Yeah, sure you will.
19:09Escorting Tanith to her social is Aaron, one of the retreat's single males.
19:15I think I've always been the more sexual person in a relationship.
19:19I love sex.
19:20I've always loved sex.
19:23Hello.
19:24Hey, are you okay?
19:28Are you ready?
19:29Yeah, I think so.
19:33We're going to go and have a really fun party.
19:35Tanith is attending a cocktail party, laid on just for her.
19:40I'm feeling nervous.
19:42I guess it's going to be a bit like, well, there's a lot of people to talk to.
19:45Yeah, just going to take it as it cooks, really, and go in there with an open mind.
19:50Hey, everyone, are you all right, guys?
19:56Hey, guys.
19:57Hi.
19:58How are you?
19:59This is the first time me and Mum have done anything socially without each other.
20:02So, obviously, it feels a bit weird and strange without him.
20:06Yeah, cheers, everyone.
20:07Cheers, everybody.
20:08Cheers, cheers, cheers.
20:12So, how long have you been together?
20:13Two and a half years now.
20:15It's the first time being apart.
20:17There is no, like, a little wingman more than I think, but we are each other's person.
20:21Yeah.
20:22Like, we're best mates, like, you know, just, like, soul mates and stuff.
20:24Obviously, this is the first little trend in the waters with everything, and then...
20:28Yeah.
20:29Yeah.
20:34A second, please.
20:35Oh, okay.
20:37Oh, good service.
20:38Oh, isn't it?
20:39Efficient, efficient service.
20:40Yeah.
20:41How old are you now, Mark?
20:42Don't mind me asking.
20:43Er...
20:4434?
20:45I'm 40.
20:46Are you?
20:47Okay.
20:48Okay, you look great.
20:4940, thank you.
20:50What's your secret?
20:51My secret?
20:52I'm just moisturising.
20:54But you look incredible for 40, mate.
20:59Oh, thanks.
21:01He was really easy going and down to earth, and I think that's what I found really attractive
21:05about them as well.
21:06We just seemed like just such a genuine person.
21:10With Mark proving to be a hit, the ladies are keen to move things on.
21:16We dare you to...
21:20Can I have, please?
21:23Two little lap turns for Mark.
21:25Oh, yeah!
21:26Oh, yeah!
21:28Oh, wow!
21:31Yeah!
21:32I feel like he's just one of them guys that you think, yeah, you're good looking, and
21:37then the more you spend time with him, you're like, you're sexy as fuck.
21:42I'm having a great time tonight.
21:47Yeah, I'm excited.
21:48I like meeting new people.
21:50Ultimately, all I want out of this experience is for us both to just have fun and enjoy it.
21:57Chloe and Paul are preparing for their social.
22:16Tonight, they'll be attending an 80s-themed party, with the aim of potentially meeting a female
22:26resident for their very first threesome.
22:30Just thinking a bit makes me, like, nervous.
22:35I think the nerves are starting to settle in a bit.
22:38If I'm not comfortable, then it's just going to be anxiety for me and a lot of pressure that I don't want.
22:45Are you not nervous about anything?
22:47No.
22:48Chloe's more nervous than me.
22:52I honestly think it's all going to be fine and it's going to be fun.
23:00Give us a kiss.
23:02Let's rock and roll.
23:03Yeah.
23:04Let's do it.
23:05Let's do it.
23:06I do rely on Paul a lot when it comes to, like, group situations.
23:10Like, he'll talk the back legs off a donkey.
23:12Whereas me, I do get anxious.
23:14I would, I think I'd prefer to hold a hand.
23:19If I can form up my comfort zone and, like, challenge myself, because that's what we're here for.
23:24But, to be honest, I don't know if I can.
23:28As instructed by Effie, for a short time, Chloe and Paul will separate.
23:40So the less socially confident Chloe can try making connections of her own.
23:44I think it's weird to feel a bit too relaxed about the situation.
23:49Paul can wake any room.
23:53They make friends so quick.
23:55Hi, you all right?
23:56You all right, strangers?
23:57There are times where I don't really need a conversation.
24:01That's just my anxiety.
24:03That's what I need to work on.
24:04So is it the girls' side that you're looking to explain?
24:07Yeah.
24:08Yeah, it comes to girls and stuff.
24:09I think you have a lot of the same body parts.
24:11Yeah, yeah.
24:12You know your way around a bit and it's not as alien.
24:15Yeah.
24:16Yeah.
24:17It should be, yeah, fairly easy for your time.
24:20Yeah.
24:21I've never really had any experience playing with girls.
24:24It's just a lot of pressure.
24:26It's kind of like imposter syndrome.
24:28Okay.
24:29You're still dancing, I love it.
24:30I'm just feeling the vibe, do you know what I mean?
24:32Just bouncing around the room.
24:33So are you here for her experience?
24:34We're here for her, but it'd be nice for me to just enjoy the situation too.
24:38Yeah.
24:39But I'm just looking for another girl to bring her out of the shell.
24:40Yeah.
24:41She is like a wild card once you get to know her.
24:42Yeah.
24:43But it's getting her out of her.
24:44But it's getting her out of her.
24:45What's the situation with you?
24:46So I've got a partner as well.
24:47He's also a Scouse.
24:48Must be a Scouse magnet then.
24:49Yeah.
24:50Hey, mate.
24:51Come on.
24:52High five of that.
24:53Yeah, it's going great.
24:54Yeah, it's going better than expected.
24:55But I'm also like, I wonder how she's getting on.
24:57What's the crack?
24:58We're here now.
24:59This is it.
25:00It's fun, isn't it?
25:01I am.
25:02I'm a good time.
25:03I think it's just over here.
25:04I'm talking to so many people.
25:05It's still brand new.
25:06How long have we been doing this?
25:07An hour?
25:08Yeah.
25:09Yeah.
25:10Yeah.
25:11Yeah.
25:12Yeah.
25:13Yeah.
25:14Yeah.
25:15Yeah.
25:16Yeah.
25:17Yeah.
25:18Yeah.
25:19Yeah.
25:20Yeah.
25:21Yeah.
25:22Yeah.
25:23Yeah.
25:24Yeah.
25:25Yeah.
25:26We've been doing this an hour.
25:27Not even like...
25:28I know.
25:29A lot of these people have been doing this for like...
25:30Yes.
25:31Two years, five years, ten years.
25:33For us, we've been doing it an hour.
25:34So I think even if we do this for a year, it'll still feel new.
25:37Yeah.
25:38You overthink it and then it passes.
25:40You're like, I'll take that opportunity again.
25:42Yeah.
25:43You need to strike whilst the iron's hot.
25:45As a man and as a husband, it's my duty to look after Chloe and to push Chloe and to help
25:52her, like, explore anything she needs and give her what she needs.
25:56And if this is something that she needs, then I'm only going to support her.
26:01I'm near and support her.
26:02I'm okay.
26:03Let's kiss.
26:04Yeah.
26:05So, let's go.
26:06Let's crack on.
26:08It's good.
26:09It's exciting.
26:10Yeah.
26:11How old are you guys, by the way?
26:12I don't even know.
26:1327.
26:14Same age.
26:15Yeah.
26:16I'll just...
26:17Shall I just go?
26:18Too old.
26:19You've got, like, a gentle Scouts accent though.
26:20Like, some of my friends in Liverpool, they'll be like...
26:21Yeah, I've been around so many northerners, actually picking up different twang.
26:22I'm like, oh, I love it.
26:23Yeah.
26:24I love it.
26:25I love it.
26:26I love it.
26:27I love it.
26:28I love it.
26:29I love it.
26:30You're such a cute face.
26:31Really?
26:32Yeah.
26:33You're black and white.
26:34Yeah.
26:35You're black and white.
26:36I love it.
26:37I love it.
26:38I love it.
26:39Yeah.
26:40I love it.
26:41You're black and white.
26:42That's what we used to do.
26:43Yeah.
26:44Once I started talking to Emily and Holly, anxiety was, like, lowered and I got more into
26:50the vibes.
26:51So, I'm very like yours.
26:53Okay.
26:54Say, like, my type of, like, punky tattoos.
26:56I know.
26:57I know what it is.
26:59She's lovely.
27:00She's so sweet.
27:01So cute.
27:02So cute.
27:03Yeah.
27:04Very attractive.
27:05Really good vibes, yeah.
27:06Like, considering she came into it so nervous, like, really good energy.
27:09Just so you know, we're down.
27:10Yeah.
27:11So just...
27:12It's like that makes a great show of you.
27:13Yeah.
27:14Yeah.
27:15Yeah.
27:16I think, with me, it's a lot about, like, vibes.
27:20So if you make me feel comfortable, I'm, like, it's just going to feel natural to me.
27:25Like, out of everyone, like, I'm bad, but, like, with you.
27:28Hey, that's fun.
27:29I'm totally down.
27:30Yeah.
27:31Yeah.
27:32Okay, hold your hands.
27:33Go.
27:34Yeah.
27:35I'm ready.
27:50How's that?
27:51Nice.
27:52Yeah.
27:53So you've snobbed a girl.
27:54I know.
27:55I've never kissed a girl before, no.
27:57That was my first time.
27:58I got, like, the flutter.
27:59Like, I got a feeling.
28:00So...
28:01I'm hoping it leads to good things, so we'll see.
28:13How's that making you feel?
28:14It's weird, isn't it?
28:15I've only ever saw her, well, kiss me.
28:24Yeah, I'm not going to lie.
28:26Like, this is weird.
28:29I don't know how I'll feel.
28:31This is better, isn't it.
28:45Here's back.
28:46Two minutes of the flow of the flow of the flow of the flow of the flow of the flow.
28:51Um-oh, we double fire.
28:52But how close people have feelings to be.
28:55Thank you very much.
28:56Tell you more.
28:57Just a moment.
28:58It seems to be clear.
28:59I saw the rain of the heat massage,
29:00All your names, starting neck and on.
29:02So you can catch something out of my photo.
29:04And Emily.
29:11I got the ball.
29:13OK, OK.
29:14OK, OK.
29:15With things moving so fast, Paul takes Chloe aside.
29:27What's going on, Ian?
29:29I know.
29:30You're beating me.
29:31I know.
29:32Makes a change, but...
29:34Isn't it mad how, like, all of a sudden it's went from nothing to, like,
29:38full-on this?
29:39Because I know we spoke about doing it as a pre-sum, but...
29:41Yeah, no...
29:42I feel like I kind of want to go on my journey.
29:46I mean, not on my... like, not on my action, but...
29:50even though, like, I'm obviously exploring this side of myself,
29:53you can explore... too.
29:57I just literally don't even overthink it.
30:00Yeah.
30:04I came in, like, to experience it all, Paul, but...
30:07I kind of felt like it was kind of shifting from experiencing something together
30:14to, like, take, like, our own, like, separate journeys.
30:20Like, there was a shift.
30:26Having made the decision to go their separate ways,
30:29Chloe wastes no time.
30:31Hi.
30:32Hi.
30:33Hello.
30:34Good morning.
30:35Of course, I wanted to know if you just wanted to go see you.
30:37Yes, absolutely.
30:38Love to.
30:39Yeah.
30:40Love to.
30:41Let's do it.
30:42Let's go.
30:43Let's go.
30:46And I feel like the way it's been tonight...
30:48Yeah.
30:49I don't think anyone expected, like...
30:50I don't know where Chloe is now.
30:52Where's my girl?
30:53Oh, great.
30:54Here we go.
30:55Where's Emily?
30:56Shall we find out?
30:57Emily's gone too, so I don't know what that...
30:58She's gone with the two girls.
30:59She's gone with both.
31:00She looked so happy.
31:01I'm shocked.
31:02Like, I'm not gonna lie, I'm shocked, like...
31:03I am.
31:04I thought it'd be baby step, baby step, baby step.
31:06And for it to happen so quick, caught me, like, off guard.
31:09Let's all just get cosy.
31:10Let's have a slumber party, guys.
31:11Cheers, girls.
31:12Cheers.
31:13We've got to put a bit together.
31:14It's weird, it's like the tables are flipped.
31:15And I wasn't expecting that.
31:16Has she ever had, like, a go-to?
31:17Yeah.
31:18I'm shocked.
31:19I'm shocked.
31:20Like, I'm not gonna lie, I'm shocked.
31:21Like...
31:22I thought it'd be baby step, baby step, baby step, baby step.
31:24And for it to happen so quick, caught me, like, off guard.
31:26Let's all just get cosy.
31:27Let's have a slumber party, guys.
31:29Cheers, girls.
31:30Cheers.
31:31It's weird.
31:32It's like the tables are flipped.
31:34And I wasn't...
31:36I wasn't expecting that.
31:37Has she ever had, like, a girl experience at all?
31:40Oh, really?
31:41Just me, like...
31:42Yeah, yeah.
31:43Women's lips just feel so much better.
31:46Yeah.
31:47Yeah.
31:48Yeah.
31:49Yeah.
31:50Oh, cosy cosy.
31:51Oh.
31:56I'm gonna have to step on my game now.
31:58Not to be outdone...
32:00Do you just want to go on the outdoor jacuzzi?
32:03Paul arranges his own after-party.
32:05Then he's off for that.
32:06Yeah, yeah.
32:07A little chat and a little laugh and see where it goes, yeah?
32:09Yeah, that'd be nice.
32:10Yeah, I'd like that.
32:11Sounds awesome.
32:12Right, let's have it.
32:13Let's go do it.
32:14Let's have it!
32:15Oh, you got a central massage oil.
32:21Would you like a little massage from me and Emily?
32:24To be honest, I'm so nervous on the insides, but I'm pushing.
32:27Yeah.
32:28I know if I don't, like...
32:30I want it, but I know if, like, I shy away, like, I'll shut myself off to it.
32:36Two women instead of one, I know.
32:38I don't know if it's too much, like, more than what I want to bargain for.
32:49At the festival area, Mark is enjoying his dating experience away from partner Tanith.
32:55And as the Fireside Games heat up...
32:59Give a French kiss to Lily.
33:02For me.
33:03I'm 100% over.
33:04What she is!
33:10That's hot!
33:12Oh la la.
33:13Oh la la.
33:14For sure.
33:15The kissing without my partner felt a little bit strange at first, but I think I loosened up a little bit.
33:23It was quite fun.
33:26Yeah!
33:27Yeah!
33:28That's nice.
33:29It's not cold on this campfire.
33:31Mark is definitely my type.
33:32Yeah.
33:33Such a vibe and just fucking attractive.
33:35You're a great kisser, by the way.
33:37Oh my gosh.
33:38Oh, thank you.
33:39I want to try now.
33:40There's a lot of names.
33:42I'll get there, I'll get there.
33:44Meanwhile, at the cocktail party...
33:46Say hello to everyone.
33:47Open couple Lou and Ellie have taken Tanith under their wing.
33:51Well, we've both been in the lifestyle for, like...
33:54We've been in different leadership.
33:56Yeah, yeah, over ten years, but together four years.
34:01Yeah, so, um, have you got like any, like, what...
34:04Like, I was looking at your legs and everything when you...
34:06Oh!
34:07I know, like a little...
34:09A little pocket rocket.
34:10..but she's still thinking about Mark.
34:13Yeah, that's what Bobby's got with.
34:15Me and Mark, we're quite good at the gym.
34:17We go to the gym together.
34:18Yeah.
34:19He's my, uh, inspiration,
34:20cos I wouldn't go for him, I don't think.
34:23It's a bit like, oh, my partner's gone now.
34:25Like, it's a bit weird, but I'm sure he's in good hands.
34:29Yeah!
34:30Yeah!
34:31Yeah, it's going, it's going good.
34:32I think for me the next step would be to obviously get to know the girls a little bit more.
34:47I'm going to go back to the yurt now.
34:49And if you ladies want to follow me, then you're welcome to.
34:55Yeah, we love to.
34:56We all want to follow you.
34:57Get warm.
34:58Come on, then.
34:59Let's go.
35:00Let's do this.
35:01Take us to your yurt.
35:03Who is us?
35:04I can't eat any more, though.
35:06Didn't expect it'd be going like this.
35:10What about Tana?
35:11Are you thinking about Tana for Todd?
35:13Do you think she's having a good time?
35:14I'm not really thinking too much about Tana.
35:16Well, Tana lies out to distract me from what I'm doing here.
35:20Do you think he was thinking about Tana?
35:22No.
35:23Yeah, he didn't seem too worried.
35:26But he's the one coming into this experience, and this is him pushing his own boundaries.
35:31I'm eager to get out there and have a good night.
35:33Just looking forward to having fun and seeing what happens.
35:37Welcome to my place.
35:46Since wife Chloe went it alone, Paul's found himself in the hands of Grace and Naomi.
35:52I'm driving straight.
35:53Both eager to become his non-monogamy guides.
35:58I think here we've just been raised, haven't we, with one idea of what a relationship looks like.
36:01Yeah.
36:02You know?
36:03There's a million ways to navigate a relationship, and you're in control of how you want to do that.
36:10It's just like, it's exciting, yeah.
36:16Yeah, it's good.
36:17What do you think she's feeling?
36:19Hopefully amazing right now.
36:20Probably on top of the world, yeah.
36:23We'll take our clothes off, make you feel more comfortable.
36:25Yeah, let's do it.
36:29Your body's phenomenal.
36:38Going into it, I was really nervous, because I'd never done anything like that before.
36:42But the girls, like, really, like, they make me feel so comfortable, and they loan me anxiety straight away.
36:54And you think it's ever too much, just tell us.
36:56Yeah.
36:57If you want to stop, just say.
37:01I surprised myself, because, like, I pushed myself way out of my comfort zone.
37:12My very first, like, opening up, like, exploring me by curiosity.
37:22It felt really good.
37:24Such a nice pussy.
37:30I feel so nice.
37:31I feel so nice.
37:41Have you got kids together?
37:42No, no.
37:43You plan on having children?
37:44Yeah, yeah.
37:45So, like, here's the thing, like, you're going to be starting.
37:49Here's the thing, is, like, we went through, we've struggled to have kids.
37:53Like, we had a house, we were like, like, this is the next step now, to have a kid.
37:56Yeah.
37:57Like, we're trying, trying, trying.
37:58Oh, it hasn't happened.
37:59Yeah, trying again, trying again, trying again.
38:01Still hasn't happened.
38:02Like, this is, like, nine months.
38:03Oh, wow.
38:04She just got investigating, like, you've got endometeosis.
38:07This year, she's getting a surgery, so we could have kids, possibly next year.
38:11Yeah.
38:15You've obviously had a lot of, like, experience in this life, this lifestyle, so.
38:19Yeah.
38:20Compared to vanilla, mate.
38:21Still very new to it.
38:22Vanilla's fine.
38:23I could definitely sense Paul's nerves.
38:28I think it was extra daunting because then there wasn't just one girl there, there was
38:31two.
38:32So, it was probably difficult for him to make that first move.
38:40You were born to be a lesbian.
38:45Shall we try to do a little triangle gas?
38:48Yeah.
38:49Yeah.
38:50It was, like, kind of a triangle.
38:54I don't think I'm happy yet.
38:56Where we each, like...
39:03Yeah, it was really good.
39:08Like, I pushed himself way out of my comfort zone.
39:10I've had my hands under water, so I am actually a prone.
39:20Yeah, same.
39:22I was just out of me death.
39:25Right, shall we go?
39:26Shall we go?
39:27Yeah, ma'am.
39:28Yeah.
39:29It's like he's got a face full of bump.
39:30I know.
39:32Here we go.
39:38It didn't feel right tonight to just jump straight in like that because it's a marathon, not a
39:43sprint.
39:44Wow.
39:45That was really fucking hot.
39:46Honestly, you just natural at it.
39:49You're in that.
39:50Definitely bisexual?
39:51I think so.
39:52Yay!
39:54Big night, yeah.
39:55A lot of firsts.
39:56I enjoyed it, so I feel like I wouldn't have enjoyed it as much as I did if only bisexual.
40:05You did pretty fucking good.
40:07I am.
40:08There was definitely fireworks for Chloe, yes.
40:09Yeah.
40:10Yeah.
40:11We were all having a good time.
40:12We had great chemistry.
40:13Yeah.
40:14It's like completely different to being with a man.
40:16It's all good, yeah.
40:17Yeah.
40:18Yeah.
40:19It is a lot more like sensual.
40:20Yes.
40:21Yeah.
40:22A little cuddle for that.
40:23Yeah!
40:24Get in the middle.
40:28I think it was the, yeah, right decision for Chloe to take that step and what she felt
40:32she needed from us and for that to be separate from Paul.
40:37You just made me feel so comfortable, to be honest.
40:39Aw.
40:40Oh, God.
40:41Like, something has been missing.
40:42I feel like I've unlocked that part of myself that I feel like it's been missing type thing.
40:47So, yeah, it's just like, I can learn about who I am now.
40:52My relationship with Chloe is everything to me.
40:55I think worst case scenario for me, Chloe can meet a woman and a woman could fulfill her needs more
41:01and she could leave me and I'd have to deal with that.
41:04Be heartbroken.
41:06Yeah.
41:08Hope is my, like, heartbroken.
41:09Yeah.
41:17Swish off like me wasn't.
41:19Johann Starman's Gospel
41:20æ½® dot com Pol Hasn't seen wife Chloe since her surprise disappearance with residents Holly and Emily over
41:31Emily over four hours ago okay yeah come tell me about what did you do then they
41:48went down on me oh yeah and then I went down on Emily did you yeah and then we did
42:03like kind of like a triangle what a triangle what does that even look what's
42:11that even look like it's like Holly let down was eating Emily out and then Emily
42:16what I know felt felt right yeah do you think you're all bisexual then yeah
42:33definitely do yeah that's like impressive but it's also like what yeah like mental
42:39sorry I'm just trying to deal with the stuff you just told me like yeah that is
42:45mental well yeah I went to the hot tub but I am Naomi and grace we were just
42:51like to be honest we was talking but then let's say like that was it really was
42:56thinking about you and talking about you's you know what I mean like metal you
43:00got off to it was nice it is different being with a man than me like to be with
43:05the woman more like sensual does that mean that like you still like attracted to me
43:17you still have sex with me and stuff yeah wow that is metal no ironically I was the one out my comfort
43:28zone tonight well I can't this is this is information overload that isn't I'm just like in shock that was
43:43it was not the plan and like it wasn't even something we'd like give thought to
43:50when you're doing it and now all of a sudden it's like it's on me but I don't know if I can't like how sexual you know
43:59hmm sorry now
44:06mark is getting cozy in the yurt with six female residents meanwhile partner Tanith's feet remain firmly on the ground
44:35it is very nerve-wracking but everyone's so lovely no no it's just overwhelming but yeah it's just
44:42it's just so free and happy and you know just excited to be here and be involved kind of got a good vibe from
44:50all the people but I don't think there's that kind of romantic spark any yeah it's just been quite you
44:57know getting to know everyone I think that one's yours thank you what do you what do you do for work
45:03I've got my own business I do like dog walking really do you not ever just get pulled over
45:08I'm quite strong I think Tanith is great she's got loads of energy bubbly I would look to explore it further
45:17so my strength is giving I normally just give okay so that's that's kind of my thing and if that was
45:25something that would interest you did you want to like continue this maybe somewhere a bit more private
45:32I guess our vibes are not like the same but like I think you're like top bad honestly you'd be
45:41like it really is literally to talk to you like do you think you can handle all of us
45:53yeah didn't expect it'd be going like this but I'm just kind of going with flow and you know if
46:10everybody's comfortable and happy then you know what will be will be I have a proposition I think
46:15we can all kiss to make you a little bit relaxed a Frenchie as Mark's night intensifies
46:34bye guys Tanith's has come to an end I'm gonna head up but it's been lovely I'll have to see you all go
46:42but I'll see I'll see you all hopefully soon
46:45I just decided to call it a night really because I didn't feel that sexual chemistry
46:50that connection with anyone to like go any further
46:57you're so cute
47:01oh it smells so good
47:03what is that?
47:04really good
47:05it's great
47:06you've got to make a laugh
47:08I don't know what Mark's been up to I think if I thought about that it would be
47:11yeah
47:13yeah no
47:14I'm sorry to you girls
47:26Oh, shit.
47:39Fuck, that's so good.
47:50I think the unknown is hard.
47:57Oh.
48:05Oh.
48:07Oh.
48:09Oh, my God.
48:12Having fun?
48:13Having fun?
48:20Next time on Open House...
48:23Open House.
48:26And he would get it.
48:28Do you think there weren't any boundaries crossed?
48:36It's massively important that we can invite another woman into the relationship.
48:41Now I need to step out my comfort zone.
48:44I think if we don't do it now, then I don't think we ever going to.
48:47Oh, I'm going to bring this off.
48:50It's absolute bonkers, literally, like, what are we doing?
48:53If you are a curious couple or single and interested in being part of the next Open House series,
49:00visit channel4.com forward slash take part.
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