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Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 3
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00:00So nervous, are you?
00:03We're just like a normal average couple from a small town.
00:07I want to keep the spice alive and be together for life.
00:14We are looking to bring another girl into the equation.
00:19I'm worried maybe Johnny being with someone else,
00:22maybe she'll turn him on more than I do.
00:25We've talked about this for a long, long time, obviously opening up.
00:28We just don't know how to make that first move.
00:31You can't close the deal as they say.
00:33Yes!
00:36What's at stake?
00:37Everything really, isn't it?
00:39Your relationship's at stake.
00:41To lose it would be to lose everything.
00:43I'm so stressed.
00:46It's absolutely bonkers, literally.
00:49Like, what are we doing?
00:58In the retreat summer garden, a masked ball is in full swing,
01:11and the sexually liberated residents are eagerly awaiting Sarah and Johnny's arrival.
01:16I am known as Orgy Jen, very known for orgies.
01:22Generally for us, the more the better, really.
01:25That's kind of how we live our non-monogamous way.
01:33We can do this.
01:34I'm in here.
01:36I'm not going to blame myself.
01:40After years of trying to open up,
01:42Sarah and Johnny are hoping to night's the night
01:45they finally find the courage to invite a woman into their bedroom.
01:49When you get into that social, what do you need to do?
01:51Don't be afraid to approach people and be confident
01:55and ask the person to see if they'd like to spend some time with us
01:58because that's what we haven't done before.
02:00Ready?
02:03I approached Johnny first about opening up our relationship.
02:06I've given him so much reassurance that everything's going to be OK.
02:10And I eventually, he was like, yes, this is like a dream.
02:16Hi, guys.
02:17Hi, are you OK?
02:19You guys look good.
02:21Hi, Libby, are you OK?
02:23Very good.
02:24Are you OK?
02:26Oh, that's my drink.
02:28How are you doing?
02:28OK, Johnny, nice to meet you.
02:32I've been taking my mask off.
02:33Oh, yeah.
02:34It's definitely...
02:35Do you know what?
02:35I won't get it up on if I take it off.
02:37So tell us anyway, like, what brings you guys to open house?
02:41Well, I think we're looking for a girl to join us, really.
02:43The person has a connection with you two at the same time.
02:46Yeah.
02:46Which is sometimes, you know...
02:47It could be a bit hard for two people.
02:49It is.
02:50What advice I will give to this couple?
02:54Keep something intimate for you two.
02:57It can be kissing, it can be anal sex, it can be...
03:01Nobody touched my feet except my husband.
03:05You know, just a little, like, thinks it's yours.
03:10Where's that accent?
03:10French?
03:11Oh, yes.
03:12French.
03:12Oh, it was, yeah?
03:13Yeah.
03:13It's a French.
03:15Yeah, it's very strong.
03:16Yeah.
03:16We've all been drooling over it.
03:18Very, very sexy, very sexy.
03:22Welcome in here.
03:23Hey.
03:25By all means, we're around if you ever want to call for a chat.
03:27But, yeah, get to know.
03:28Cheers.
03:28We will.
03:29Cheers.
03:29Link, link, link, link.
03:30Cheers.
03:32Enjoy yourself.
03:35Hi, guys.
03:35Hi.
03:36Sarah and Johnny's focus is to try and find a female to join them tonight.
03:41But as the couple work the floor, they catch the attention of married couple Jem and Daz.
03:48We've been together ten years.
03:50Wow.
03:51We've been in the scene five, but we took it really slowly.
03:55Yeah.
03:55Just did a bit of soft swapping to start with, with couples.
03:59Same room, sort of swapping.
04:01Always same room.
04:01Always.
04:02We always play together.
04:03We really enjoy it that way.
04:06We will do a bit of everything, really.
04:09Guys, girls, groups.
04:12All of it.
04:14Good to meet guys.
04:15You know, good.
04:16We'll be really interested.
04:18We'll be the MV couples like yourselves.
04:20We can help.
04:21Join us.
04:22Join us.
04:23I can see why it would be easier as a couple for another couple.
04:30You know, three is an odd number.
04:32And it is always a worry.
04:33Is one person going to feel left out?
04:35No, no.
04:36Not sure about that.
04:39Thank you so much.
04:41Can't do well now.
04:42They seem like a lot of fun.
04:44They seem like our kind of people.
04:45We'd love to spend some more time with them and just see if that builds some more.
04:51Just coming for here.
04:52But Johnny wants to stick with the plan and continue pursuing a threesome with one of the female residents.
04:59Come on.
04:59Tell me.
05:00French.
05:01I can't remember her name.
05:02I can't remember.
05:03Is it Matt, Matt?
05:04Matt, Moneer.
05:05Mary.
05:05Matt.
05:06Oh, God.
05:06French, Marie.
05:08Oh, yeah.
05:09There's the accent, I think, here.
05:10It's going to be hard, this.
05:13In the past, when we've been in situations where we've had, you know, it's been there on a plate, we just can't between us just do it.
05:21It's like, she's too good looking for us.
05:23I'm just going to put myself out there.
05:25I'm going to step out outside my comfort zone.
05:27I'm getting goosebumps just thinking about it.
05:31Hello.
05:33I'm ditching her some friends.
05:34I've noticed.
05:37Is it only bonjour that I know?
05:38Hello.
05:39So, Marie, we were just having a little chat, and we have a mutual attraction to you, and we just wanted to, like, make some time with us.
05:52Um, I'm feeling like I don't have the connection.
05:57We understand that, yeah.
05:58Thank you so much.
05:59It's okay.
06:00It's very nice.
06:04Sweet to see.
06:05Sweet to see.
06:05Okay, yeah.
06:06We're going to get an invite.
06:08Yeah.
06:08I wasn't ready for that.
06:13Sarah and Johnny, for me, it's not the right things to do.
06:17Because I didn't have any physical or brain connection with them.
06:23I'm feeling like I'm all right.
06:24I'm all right.
06:25It's lovely that you're doing it, Johnny.
06:28Yeah.
06:30Yeah.
06:30Nice little car, mate.
06:31Thanks so much.
06:34Cheers.
06:35Cheers.
06:35What are you doing?
06:39I'm not sure.
06:40Oh, God.
06:43Shit, shit, shit, shit, shit.
06:44Yeah.
06:45How are you doing?
06:55Yeah.
06:56Fun.
06:56No, no, I'm a little bit nervous.
06:59But when I went skydiving, my hands a little bit clammy.
07:01Yeah, I freaked it.
07:02Next into the retreat are builder Claude and full-time mum, Amy.
07:14When we first met, I just thought, this moment is perfect for me.
07:18All I can think about is how much I want to be with her forever.
07:20I kept saying, he can ask me to marry you.
07:24And then, yeah, he did.
07:27Between them, Claude and Amy have six children.
07:31Two children together and four from Amy's previous marriage.
07:35Our home life is busy.
07:37It's actual games.
07:37So I try to live in every single moment.
07:40The chaos, the ups, the downs, the shouting, the laughter.
07:43But it doesn't stop them from having fun.
07:46I think mine and Amy's sex life is fantastic for me.
07:50It's the best.
07:51We don't have all of the time in the world.
07:53So the opportunity arises, we'll take it.
07:56We'll fit it in with chores.
08:02Amy is no stranger to the world of non-monogamy.
08:06So I was introduced to the lifestyle when I was in my late teens.
08:10Those were the best times of my life.
08:12So when I did get with Claude, I made it clear I'd like to bring other people into our relationship.
08:17And now she wants to return to non-monogamy with her husband by her side.
08:22I want multiple people in my life at all times.
08:26I think it was spoilt as a child.
08:28I just want it all.
08:30Not just sex.
08:31Something more serious.
08:34It's like a fairy garden.
08:36Yeah.
08:36Feel free.
08:37It's expanding your family.
08:39Like to have more people to love.
08:41Open up the relationship was definitely Amy's idea.
08:46I'm still a bit like in the air of what I want.
08:50Like worst case scenario happened and I realised I didn't want any of this lifestyle and she still did.
08:56I would be gutted.
08:57I'd be heartbroken.
08:57Oh my God, these guys are stunning.
09:03Since I've been in open relationships, I'm probably the most confident now that I've ever been in my life.
09:10What part of the lifestyle do you think you enjoy the most?
09:14Anal.
09:16Oh my God.
09:19She's cute.
09:20Yeah.
09:21Hey guys, welcome.
09:22My first impressions of Amy and Claude, they seem to be all in it and they looked really good.
09:28Got a good vibe about them.
09:29How are you doing?
09:30Lovely to meet you.
09:32How are you feeling?
09:33Hi.
09:33Hi, I'm Naomi.
09:36Lovely to meet you.
09:37They had a very mellow vibe.
09:39That intrigues me.
09:41Like that makes me want to get to know them more.
09:42Guys look amazing.
09:43Come on, Claude.
09:44We'll see you guys later.
09:45See you later.
09:47He sounds so cool.
09:50Like I'm Claude.
09:51My name's Claude.
09:53Like, wow.
09:56How do you feel?
09:58Yeah, I'm fine now.
10:00Yeah.
10:00I'm excited.
10:01Yeah.
10:04Bringing somebody in long term is a huge thing for me.
10:08It's a deal break.
10:09If I couldn't achieve that with Claude, it would definitely be something that put a spanner in our relationship.
10:17I love one.
10:19Amy, I think, is brilliant.
10:22She's an amazing mum.
10:23She's an amazing wife.
10:25So losing her, I would be lost.
10:27I love you.
10:31Claude and Amy.
10:33Hi, I'm Effie.
10:34Come in.
10:34Here to help Claude and Amy navigate the complex world of non-monogamy is relationship coach, Effie Blue.
10:41Come in.
10:42How are you feeling?
10:43Good.
10:44Really good, thank you.
10:44Excited.
10:45Good.
10:45So I am curious, what brings you here today?
10:49We want to build on our family, but in a relationship way.
10:54Like, you have multiple people to trust and take care of, and they take care of you.
10:59Okay, so you're curious to find out if polyamory is right for you.
11:03Polyamory is really about having multiple, loving, ongoing relationships as a relationship structure.
11:09Claude, what does it mean to you to have multiple relationships?
11:12For me, the thought of it sounds amazing, but maybe in, like, in practical terms, it ain't as good as it sounds.
11:21Where do you think it might fail?
11:24You don't feel like you can love anybody else, do you?
11:26Yeah, not, like, yeah, not the way I love you.
11:29That's huge, right?
11:31Yeah.
11:32Because I've been monogamous my whole life, doing something with another woman, even with consent, makes me feel like it's wrong.
11:42I would really, really enjoy it if he'd gone out and just done something by himself with someone I don't know about.
11:48Okay, wow.
11:49But he has a lot of guilt.
11:51Okay, and is there any infidelity in your past?
11:54No, no.
11:55At all? Okay.
11:57So, what are the whispers in your, in the back of your mind that is keeping you worried about Amy?
12:05Even though it's all consensual, it still makes me feel, like, a bit guilty.
12:09Do you know where it's coming from?
12:10Probably just the way, obviously, everyone grows up thinking monogamy is the only way to be.
12:15Yeah.
12:15Do you really want this?
12:22Everything about it seems like a man's perfect dream, I guess.
12:26Not every man's.
12:27Not every, yes, you're right, no, yeah, no, you are right, not every man's.
12:30Yeah.
12:30Is it your dream?
12:31That's what we're here to find out, I guess.
12:33Yeah, okay.
12:34So, we're going to organize a social.
12:38You know, you go and check in with yourselves, and then separate.
12:42Claude, I want you to see if you can push through your guilt.
12:45Lean into the connections with another woman, and see if you can escalate it to inviting the person to your bedroom.
12:53Um, Amy, I know I don't need to tell you, but this is safe.
12:58Have fun.
12:59Yeah, have fun.
13:00Um, the invitation for you is the same.
13:03Yeah.
13:04Hopefully, this experience will give us insight.
13:08All right, thank you so much.
13:09Nice to meet you.
13:10Have fun.
13:11Yeah, yeah, take care.
13:12Later.
13:16Not being together is a strange thing for us.
13:18Yeah, yeah.
13:20I understand that Amy wants this lifestyle.
13:23She wants it to happen.
13:25So, I don't understand it, why I still feel guilty.
13:29I'm excited.
13:31Yeah.
13:31It's going to be fun.
13:33But, hopefully, after this, I won't feel like that anymore.
13:36No, I'm just going to say, let's see what happens.
13:39Yeah.
13:40I've asked him, is it what you really want?
13:42I do ask him a lot, and he's always said yes.
13:47He is my soulmate, but I don't ever want to lose me.
13:52And to open up the relationship, it's a massive part of who I am.
13:54No!
14:06Despite finally gathering the courage to take the first steps towards opening up, Sarah
14:19and Johnny have been knocked back by resident Marie.
14:23Not to be there.
14:24I'm not sure.
14:26It is what it is.
14:27She's lovely, but it can't happen, and it's fine, isn't it?
14:30We've got our options open.
14:32At least we've put it out there.
14:33Something we haven't done before.
14:35That's massive progress.
14:36I haven't got it, really, because it's been a long time since I've been rejected.
14:41I'm not used to my confidence being knocked.
14:43It just hit me a little.
14:45Whilst Johnny is still recovering from the sting of rejection, Sarah shakes things up by
14:50re-approaching Jem and Daz.
14:52Well, if you did want to get to know us a bit better, we think you're great.
15:06So, just to say, if you did fancy jumping in the hot tub, we'd be more than happy to.
15:12We wouldn't have to do anything, but, you know, you and me could have a little kiss.
15:16Yeah!
15:18Have a lovely little chat, and we will go back to you.
15:20Sure, yeah, no worries.
15:21All right, guys, thank you.
15:22See you later.
15:23Bye!
15:26A couple swap is definitely something we've discussed, but I worry of Johnny getting really
15:31upset and maybe thinking, you know, is she enjoying this more than she enjoys us being
15:37together?
15:38So, a couple was not what we were.
15:42No.
15:43Not what we were.
15:43Not what we talked about, no.
15:45But, she's beautiful.
15:48Yeah.
15:48And she's, they're so, they just get her.
15:51No, yeah.
15:52Am I right by saying that you're nervous, like, in case I go near a man or...
15:56No.
15:57What is it?
15:57Because I can see, I know you're inside out, Johnny, and I know right now there's something
16:01you just feel a little bit uncomfortable about.
16:02Yeah.
16:03Is that right?
16:04Yeah.
16:05Yeah.
16:06It just wasn't what we talked about.
16:07No, it's not.
16:08But nothing goes to plan, I mean, does it?
16:09No.
16:10Let's be honest.
16:11It wouldn't hurt to just...
16:12Yeah, it wouldn't hurt to just...
16:13Yeah, it wouldn't hurt to...
16:14Yeah.
16:15See what happens, yeah.
16:17Yeah.
16:18It's going to be tough.
16:19To have a man in a sexual setting, obviously it's my alpha male that comes out and I'm like,
16:28do I want another man around my girl?
16:30Hey!
16:31We're back, we're back.
16:32Yeah.
16:33You're back!
16:34We're back!
16:35We would like to spend some more time with you, wouldn't we?
16:36Yeah.
16:37I just think it'd be nice.
16:38Yeah, I think it'd be really fun, we'd love to.
16:40Yeah, thank you.
16:41Oh, cool.
16:42Oh, exciting!
16:43Oh, great.
16:44See you there!
16:48Bye!
16:49Bye!
16:50Bye!
16:51See you guys!
16:52Bye!
16:53Are you okay?
16:55Just don't worry, okay?
16:56I love you.
16:57Just honestly, there's no other man there or anywhere that I've fond of or you.
17:12Okay?
17:13So please just don't feel insecure or...
17:14For what?
17:15Got you, you got me, okay?
17:18I can tell that Johnny's a bit nervous about potentially seeing me kiss another guy, but
17:25really want him to relax. I want him to enjoy it. I want him to enjoy the experience.
17:28I don't know.
17:29What, ma'am?
17:30I don't know. I'm worrying about you.
17:32I don't know.
17:33I'm worrying about you.
17:34I don't know.
17:35Are you OK?
17:36Yeah.
17:37Yeah.
17:38If it's usually you worry about me, I'm worried about you.
17:42It's my woman, isn't it? And I protect her with everything I do, so...
17:47No, I'm not jealous, but, you know, I am protective of my girl.
17:56The whole thing is, like, I don't know, it's difficult, isn't it? It's different, like,
18:00what I thought and imagined, so...
18:06We came here to open our relationship and play with a girl, so to be diving straight into
18:12a couple, he's not happy, but now it's crunch time.
18:19I don't know how many...
18:27You look...
18:29Retreat newcomers Claude and Amy are getting ready for their first social.
18:35You think I should have my hair up or leave it in a ponytail?
18:38In a ponytail, absolutely.
18:40Cheers.
18:41Cheers.
18:42They'll be joining some of the retreat's residents for a burlesque evening in the grounds.
18:47Cheers.
18:48Cheers.
18:49Cheers.
18:50Amy's dream is to live a life with multiple partners, and she wants her husband Claude
18:57to get on board.
18:58What if I, like, go with a girl when you are upset about it?
19:02Yeah, no, yeah.
19:03We've not done it before, so do it and find out.
19:07I'm a little bit apprehensive.
19:09We're going to push ourselves to be uncomfortable.
19:11Let's go.
19:12Tonight's challenge is for Claude and Amy to socialise with residents separately and escalate
19:17any connections to the bedroom without the comfort of each other.
19:25Amy definitely knows what she wants more than I do. Like, I'm still a bit, like, in the
19:29air of what I want.
19:36The couple take their first steps into unknown territory.
19:40So my preference is always above three, or foursomes and upwards, or not together.
19:48Like, Claude goes off and finds someone he likes, and I do the same.
19:52Bye.
19:53Woo!
19:54Woo!
19:55Woo!
19:56Hello!
19:57Hello!
19:58Oh, I did try a thing.
19:59All right.
20:00Do it.
20:01Love you.
20:02Mwah.
20:03Amy heads straight for single resident Georgie, who's been exploring the world of non-monogamy
20:15for ten years.
20:16He did cheat.
20:17Running.
20:18He's running off.
20:19Claude has, like, a guilt thing in his head.
20:24So he's trying to push just going off on his own and seeing how it feels.
20:29So you look amazing as well.
20:31I was meant to be in a lingerie set, but I'll show you later.
20:34Mm.
20:35And I'll show you non-laundre.
20:37Oh, that's nice.
20:39What do I love in the bedroom?
20:41Well, like I said, I'm quite greedy.
20:43My favourite is definitely threesomes.
20:46Do you think you would ever, like, join a couple?
20:48That is my dream reality, is to be part of a triple, because I'm very much bisexual.
20:51Yeah.
20:52If you didn't know.
20:54Georgie's fun.
20:56I love it.
20:57I love her energy.
20:58She makes me feel really comfortable, so that's, like, a really key thing for me.
21:02Sometimes I say to Claude, I feel like I might be a lesbian with a husband.
21:06Whilst Amy gets comfortable, Claude sparks a conversation with single residents Holly and Gracie.
21:12Hey.
21:13How are you?
21:14How are you?
21:15How are you?
21:16I love the shirt.
21:17Fantastic.
21:18Nice.
21:19So how have you settled in?
21:20You're all good?
21:21I'm much more nervous than Amy was.
21:22Yeah?
21:23Yeah, definitely.
21:24So is this your first time, like, trying out the lifestyle?
21:27Yeah.
21:28Turning up is the first time.
21:29Exactly.
21:30Yeah.
21:31So how long have you two been in, like, this sort of lifestyle?
21:33About nine years ago, I was with my first boyfriend.
21:36We introduced a girl, then a couple, and...
21:38Did you come into any, like, problems because of that?
21:41Um, yes, we did, because I...
21:43We ended up playing with this couple, and it was really awful that then I ended up leaving
21:48my guy for him.
21:50I really regret it, but, you know, I did learn from it, so...
21:54Mm-hmm.
21:55Everything's a learning curve.
21:56This is definitely an out-of-my-comfort-zone feeling.
22:00It's definitely weird for me.
22:01Yeah.
22:02So what is it that brings you guys to open house?
22:04For me, it's getting past that process of, like, going out and meeting girls separately.
22:09I feel nervous about not being with Amy.
22:13I just enjoy being with her all the time.
22:16I miss her.
22:17I even know she's so close.
22:19So...
22:20We won't keep you, because we can chat all night.
22:22Yeah.
22:23So, yeah, work the room.
22:24But, yeah, we'll see you around.
22:25Yeah.
22:26See you later.
22:27See you later.
22:28See you later.
22:30Whilst Claude tries to find someone to bond with, Amy's found a kindred spirit.
22:35I've navigated non-monogamy, polyamory specifically, for eight years.
22:39Wow.
22:40As a mum, as well.
22:41How many foods are there?
22:42I just got one.
22:43Oh, I've got six.
22:44Oh, well done you, you little saint.
22:46I have a wonderful partner, who has been my partner in rock for eight years.
22:52My co-parent.
22:53I also have a beautiful relationship with a man in the US.
22:56I'm happy, and I just think, small people to love.
23:00I've just got too much love for one person.
23:03Yeah.
23:04Yeah.
23:05That's so nice.
23:06I think the most difficult thing about polyamory is determining who you're going to spend your
23:10nights with, who you're going to have dinners with, and it's just getting used to managing
23:14separate lives.
23:15I didn't think I was going to find anybody who had exactly the same sort of mindset.
23:21So it's nice.
23:22It's really nice.
23:23Yeah.
23:24I think it's rare.
23:25My entire polyamory journey, I've never met someone who just understood everything
23:31I was saying and reciprocated.
23:33For me, if I connect with a couple, I want to know, okay, the connection is so real that
23:37they don't mind that I'm not willing to go or jump into it.
23:40Yeah.
23:41She's definitely on my wavelength.
23:42It's so nice to talk to someone that feels the same.
23:44I've not really thought about Claude.
23:46He could have met someone and been like, yep, that's the one.
23:50I just don't know.
23:51Yeah.
23:52On TV.
23:53Like I'm just, I'm just not.
23:54Yeah.
23:55Are you guys okay?
23:56Yeah.
23:57Should I give you a little jacket?
23:58Shall I give you a moment?
23:59Yeah.
24:00Shall I have a second?
24:02Are you going to go back?
24:03No.
24:04No.
24:05Why?
24:06I don't know.
24:07You're in a good connection.
24:08Yeah, we do, yeah.
24:09But I feel like it's maybe more of a real connection.
24:10Like she's someone that potentially would like a future.
24:23Met anyone you like.
24:24Yeah, well there's a few girls that obviously nice looking but no one I've had that connection.
24:31Yeah.
24:32Yeah.
24:33But you should go and completely finish off your adventure.
24:37I don't know.
24:38I don't know.
24:39Yeah, maybe.
24:40Claude will overthink.
24:41He'll be like, should I do this?
24:44Can I do that?
24:45For him to be able to go off and have sex with other women, that's really a big thing for
24:50us.
24:51All right.
24:52Where are you going?
24:53I don't know.
24:54I'm going to go up there.
24:55From there.
24:56Fractal with action.
24:57I love you.
24:58How do you feel about it though?
24:59Do you like?
25:00No.
25:01No.
25:02No.
25:03No.
25:04No.
25:05No.
25:06No.
25:07No.
25:08No.
25:10No.
25:11I don't know.
25:12How do you feel about it though?
25:13Do you like?
25:14I feel...
25:15Despite entering the retreat seeking a threesome with a girl, Sarah has invited resident couple
25:24Jem and Daz to the hot tub for a potential foursome.
25:28Tell me what's going through the hood.
25:30But her partner, Johnny, is not happy.
25:33It's not catching my buttons, if I'm honest.
25:36No.
25:37No, I'm going to be honest, no.
25:40I didn't say this before.
25:43It's just not fair.
25:45The couple thing, I don't know, I don't know.
25:48It's not what we had in mind, but...
25:51We never came here for a couple swap.
25:57Hey, guys!
25:58Hey, guys!
26:03Is it hot?
26:09Well, no.
26:10Is it?
26:11Amazing.
26:20How are you feeling?
26:21I'm OK.
26:22Are you shitting your pants?
26:24Is it written all in my face?
26:26No.
26:27Cheers, guys!
26:28Cheers!
26:29Cheers!
26:30So, for you guys,
26:32obviously you wanted a girl.
26:34Yeah.
26:35Has that always been the only thing you've thought about?
26:37Is there something about couple slopping that makes you uneasy?
26:41Um...
26:42Yeah, tell us.
26:43If you think about it too much, it could be a right job.
26:45Yeah, you can't overthink it.
26:47I think definitely the rails make Johnny a bit insecure.
26:49Massively, massively.
26:51I'm exactly the same.
26:52For me, it can...
26:53You don't want it to become competitive.
26:54No.
26:55Like it does with guys.
26:56All that shit.
26:57Yeah.
26:58How do you feel like that?
26:59Yeah, all that shit.
27:00You don't want to be in that situation and kind of being like,
27:02shit, this guy's doing some music.
27:03Yeah.
27:04Yeah, yeah, yeah.
27:06You've got to be comfortable enough to be like,
27:08hey, man, do your thing like you're doing...
27:09Yeah, yeah, yeah.
27:11I suppose that comes from experiences as well, doesn't it?
27:13Exactly.
27:14What's your reason for wanting to open up your relationship?
27:18I think when we met, we'd both come out with really serious relationships
27:22and really unhappy relationships.
27:24And plus, you know, I haven't experienced anything with a girl,
27:26so I am a bit curious as well.
27:28So, are I going to help you with that?
27:30So, it just makes sense.
27:35I don't know, so you guys are going to kiss.
27:37So.
27:54Wow, how was it for you guys?
27:56Oh, did it!
28:01And you're going to remember it.
28:04Exactly.
28:06Oh, wow.
28:08Would you like me to kiss Johnny?
28:10Yes, I'd love you too.
28:12Would you like to kiss Johnny?
28:14Until I got over.
28:24How did you feel?
28:26I like it. It's hot.
28:32Do you want to take it to the next level?
28:36I don't think I'm ready yet.
28:40That's fine.
28:42I'm so sorry.
28:44I just hope you're ready yet.
28:46No, that's fine.
28:48I just didn't feel like I was ready to take that next step.
28:52You guys have helped us down.
28:54You have helped us so much.
28:56I'm so pleased.
28:58He's a cool guy.
29:00I appreciate the way you are.
29:02It takes a lot.
29:04Like you said, it's a massive thing.
29:06You're a cool guy.
29:08Guys, we're going to leave you now
29:10because we've had loads of fun
29:12and I think you should have a little moment.
29:14A little hot tub solo time.
29:16I'm going to have another little kiss.
29:18It's a great pleasure.
29:20Thank you so much.
29:26Being in the hot tub with Gemma and Daz
29:28has really changed my thoughts on things.
29:30They've really put my mind at ease.
29:32See you later, guys.
29:34It's been really good.
29:36My God.
29:38How do you feel?
29:40My head was all over the gaff before.
29:42I was literally ready to fucking go right over.
29:44Fucking see you later.
29:46See you later.
29:48Is it that bad?
29:50Do you believe it?
29:52The night hasn't gone as we originally thought it would go.
29:56I'm so happy.
29:58Good.
29:59So, we've got some talking to do.
30:01See what tomorrow brings.
30:03Do we want to push the boat out that little bit more?
30:06Who knows?
30:18Despite her husband Claude's uncertainty,
30:21Amy wants to bring new partners into their relationship.
30:24I'm Emily.
30:26Hi, I'm Emily.
30:27Yeah.
30:28Tonight, they have been tasked with going it alone,
30:31but Claude has struggled to connect with any of the female residents,
30:34unlike Amy, who is very much at ease.
30:38Like, if I really think deep inside myself,
30:40I want to love multiple people.
30:42I want to open up my home, people coming in and out.
30:44Yeah.
30:45But what about you?
30:46So, yeah, like, polyamory was, like,
30:48my first introduction to this lifestyle.
30:50Right now, single.
30:52Yeah.
30:53And just sort of exploring the lifestyle,
30:54like, going to parties and stuff.
30:56Me and Amy come from that idea of just, like, loving everyone
31:01and sort of just making people family that aren't your stereotypical family.
31:06It's obviously quite unique, but fun.
31:10But you're open to actually joining a relationship rather than just the sex?
31:14Yeah, 100%.
31:16Six babies, eh?
31:17Yeah.
31:18It's crazy.
31:19It's crazy, crazy.
31:20Yeah, it's a crazy, crazy.
31:21But I love that.
31:22Yeah, 100%.
31:23Very close family.
31:24Yeah.
31:25Georgie, she's definitely a vibe.
31:28Like, she seems fantastic.
31:29She seems fun.
31:30Being without Amy, for me, like, we've been together, like, 24-7
31:35for, like, the last four years.
31:37How does it make you feel?
31:39Like, I'm, like, I'm missing something.
31:45I think, have you found it all right?
31:47Yeah.
31:48Yeah, have you?
31:49No, no, no.
31:50I've found it more difficult.
31:51Do you want to have a quick chat with me?
31:53It's all right.
31:54Are you OK?
31:55We're going to go up here and have a little chat.
31:57Did you struggle?
31:58Yeah, yeah, yeah.
31:59I think...
32:00With Claude unable to fly solo, Amy has a plan.
32:04I would like to carry on with Emily talking and stuff.
32:08Me and Emily, I have the same sort of upbringing,
32:10that, like, community, like, family.
32:13So, what, do you want to go?
32:15And we'll go together?
32:16Yeah, that sounds perfect.
32:17What about the other one?
32:18Do you want to bring her as well?
32:19Yeah, I do, but I feel like to get a better connection with her,
32:23it would be a longer...
32:25Yeah, yeah.
32:26..a much longer process.
32:27And Georgie's obviously just a fantastic vibe.
32:30She's definitely a vibe.
32:32If you want to carry on with Georgie,
32:34then we can just see how it goes from there.
32:38This is the ideal scenario for me,
32:40like, what's the point in going separately
32:43when we can go together?
32:45The couple join forces and ramp things up a notch.
32:51Would you like to come to the hot tub with both of us?
32:55That sounds really good.
32:56I'd like to hang out with both of you guys.
32:58Yeah, maybe spend some time alone.
32:59Yeah!
33:00Get a bit warmer.
33:01Yeah, definitely.
33:02They'll be nice and cosy.
33:03We just won't get out of the hot tub.
33:04Yeah.
33:05Ever.
33:06Ever.
33:07OK.
33:08We might be going to the hot tub.
33:10Would you want to go?
33:11Easily.
33:12OK.
33:13Yeah, yeah, down.
33:14Yeah.
33:15I understand that the dynamic thereafter
33:17is more of an emotional connection.
33:20I've been in this world for a long time
33:22and for me it has just been the physical
33:24and I'm definitely looking for something deeper and meaningful
33:27and it looks like they're looking for it too.
33:37I just wanted to see if there's anything more both of them want.
33:40For me, like, I haven't got that connection with them yet.
33:44But I feel like sometimes I have, like, it's good when you talk to someone
33:47and then you, like, kiss and then you feel like, oh, yeah, it is there.
33:51Yeah.
33:53We're coming!
33:59This is the first time we've done anything like this.
34:03I'm a little bit apprehensive.
34:05Oh, yeah.
34:06Yeah.
34:07Oh, God, that's really nice.
34:08Really?
34:09Toasty.
34:10So, your youngest baby, is it, what did you say, one?
34:12One.
34:13Yeah, she's one.
34:14How old are the children?
34:16I don't know if I've got it right.
34:17So, how old are my children?
34:18I don't know if I've got it right.
34:1912, 11, 9, 7, 3, 1.
34:25Oh, I'm definitely in a weird spot.
34:26I think I'm on a leg rest, you know?
34:28Yeah, I feel like I'm...
34:29I'm, like, hovering.
34:30Maybe if I sit there, is that okay?
34:31Yeah.
34:32Yeah.
34:33Should we have a little kiss, Skye?
34:37That'll be cute.
34:49Yeah.
34:50Yeah.
34:55Wow.
34:56That was so, like, soft and gentle.
34:59It was fun.
35:02For me, seeing my moving on a woman is definitely out of my comfort zone.
35:08You enjoyed that?
35:09Yeah.
35:10I've got the thing that's...
35:11Oh, well, I'll kiss you all the time.
35:12I'll kiss you all the time.
35:13All right, yeah, fine.
35:14Mm-hmm.
35:15I think the only thing that is holding him back is how much he loves me and that society
35:28tells us that this is just not the normal.
35:32In the back of his mind, he's like, if I hurt her, I can't undo what I've done.
35:48I think if Claude was like, okay, this is not the lifestyle for me,
35:53it would definitely be something that, you know, stopped us moving forward.
35:58I can't get past ten. I've fucking only got ten fingers.
36:16Hey, we've got ten fingers.
36:18Sarah and Johnny have woken up eager to see what their second day brings.
36:23If it goes really well, we'd like to have a non-monogamy relationship.
36:26Ideally, that's where we'd like this to go to.
36:28And just for me to gain the confidence to be able to live a non-monogamous life.
36:34My toes, it's 20.
36:35I can't see my toes.
36:37We've got one, you've got...
36:38See my knickers underneath?
36:39You've got 11 toes.
36:42All right, love.
36:44We haven't actually, I've got...
36:45You have?
36:46We've got ten and a camel toe.
36:47Last night, Sarah was keen to invite a couple to the hot tub.
36:56All right, let's go.
36:58Just one more looking mirror.
37:00Much to her partner Johnny's initial discomfort.
37:03Go again.
37:05So they're hoping a chat with the retreat's non-monogamy coach Effie will iron out some confusion.
37:11Hello.
37:12Hello.
37:13Welcome, welcome.
37:14Come in.
37:15Jump on the couch, get comfy.
37:17So your first, first date to retreat?
37:20Yes.
37:21How was it?
37:22Well...
37:23Surprising, really.
37:24Okay, tell me all.
37:25It's shifted a little bit.
37:26We actually met a really nice couple.
37:29Okay.
37:30And so we ended up having a bit of time with a couple.
37:32With Johnny.
37:33I could tell he just completely froze.
37:36I was ready to go.
37:37And what was scary?
37:38It's an alpha male thing, isn't it?
37:40You know, are you competing with another man?
37:42Well, you know, that's how I feel about it.
37:45Okay.
37:46Kind of...
37:47Yeah.
37:48A man-to-man out of competition.
37:49It's a man thing, I'd say, yeah.
37:51I've stuck with my guns and I...
37:53I'm proud of it.
37:54Yeah, I'm really proud of it.
37:55I felt a bit emotional, yeah.
37:57It does make me emotional now because it's just such a big thing.
38:00What's coming up for you now?
38:01I don't know.
38:02They're not sad tears.
38:03They're just like, yeah, relief tears, if anything.
38:06Okay.
38:07What's the relief from?
38:08That we finally made that step in the right direction.
38:12And, yeah, what's to come, it's just like...
38:15I'm excited but I'm obviously still a bit apprehensive,
38:18a bit nervous as well.
38:19Okay.
38:20Tell me more about that.
38:21Um...
38:22So, obviously, last night, it was just a kiss and stuff.
38:25Because a guy was never the plan, so, you know,
38:28in a short space of time, we could sort of get our heads around
38:30that I could possibly be kissing a guy later,
38:33or even take it further, and it just makes me a little bit nervous.
38:36Okay.
38:37First of all, you don't have to do anything you don't have to.
38:39No, I know about that, yeah.
38:40Uh-huh.
38:41And, at the same time, you are here to push boundaries
38:44and have these experiences in this beautiful, safe space
38:46that we create for you.
38:47Yeah.
38:48What do you think that you might want to explore going forward?
38:51For the first time, I actually feel maybe it was...
38:54that a couple was bad for us.
38:56Actually, I find more the merrier.
38:58I think when... as the numbers get bigger,
39:02the pressure goes down a little bit
39:04because the attention kind of spreads.
39:06Yeah.
39:07Does that make sense?
39:08Yeah.
39:09And what do you think about the idea of a moresome
39:11or a potentially...?
39:12Scattered shit on me.
39:13Yeah.
39:14Okay.
39:15I think it's a bit much, actually, to get my head round.
39:17Yeah.
39:18A little...
39:19Yeah, yeah, yeah.
39:20Just a little baby steps.
39:21Sure.
39:22So, it just depends...
39:23Yes, baby steps, but towards what?
39:25Right, is the question.
39:26Yeah.
39:27Yeah, I don't... I'm not sure.
39:28Yeah, no.
39:29Okay.
39:30Okay.
39:31Keep it in your mind.
39:32Keep having conversations.
39:33And I want you to at least mentally be prepared
39:35for all the different things that happen...
39:37Yeah.
39:38...that you can get involved in.
39:39Just don't be one-track minded.
39:40Exactly.
39:41Yeah.
39:42And it's really up to you which path you go down on.
39:44Okay.
39:47One of Effie's suggestions was that possibly more people
39:51joining the experience would be easier.
39:53Go forth, have fun.
39:55Take care.
39:56We're not quite sure about that, are we?
39:58It sort of freaks us out a little bit, scares us, doesn't it?
40:01Yeah.
40:02Yeah.
40:03Yeah.
40:04Yeah.
40:05Yeah.
40:06Yeah.
40:07Yeah.
40:08Yeah.
40:09Yeah.
40:10Yeah.
40:11Yeah.
40:12Yeah.
40:13Yeah.
40:14Yeah.
40:15Yeah.
40:16Yeah.
40:17Yeah.
40:18Yeah.
40:19Yeah.
40:20Yeah.
40:21Yeah.
40:22Yeah.
40:23Yeah.
40:24Yeah.
40:25Yeah.
40:26Yeah.
40:27Yeah.
40:28Yeah.
40:29Yeah.
40:30Yeah.
40:31Yeah.
40:32Yeah.
40:33Yeah.
40:34Yeah.
40:35Yeah.
40:36Yeah.
40:37Yeah.
40:38Yeah.
40:39Yeah.
40:40Yeah.
40:41Beautiful
40:43I think if we don't do it now then I don't think we ever going to we're gonna go in and we're gonna
40:48Just be ourselves be confident and it's just a hair down a bit like your head on
40:53I'm
41:09I'm taking you over here, okay
41:12It's difficult for me because I've not been it before with seeing up my message with another man
41:27I'm just like how do you guys you know the first time you dealt with it?
41:31You know I was worried how I'd feel you know seeing it initially seeing it happening, but you know I
41:37Immediately loved it. It doesn't mean me and Jen love each other any less
41:42It just really works for us if we were to delve into like couple swapping
41:46I will I always think in your head over like I'm with the other girl
41:49And I am I gonna be with that other girl but thinking what's going on over there?
41:54Do you know I mean that type of thing you want her to have a good time just don't focus on it
41:58You know enjoy the moment and just stop thinking it in a negative way
42:02There you go. I'm bad boys. Here we go girls. Who wants the burger?
42:07It's not long before the residents suggest a game of spin the bottle
42:18Who wants to start?
42:20Go on Sarah, here's a good spin
42:22If Sarah does kiss someone it's something new to me, so I'm not sure how I'm gonna feel
42:35But we are here to push us out
42:37Yeah
42:38Good woman
42:39Good girl
42:40Yeah
42:41Good girl
42:42Good girl
42:43Good girl
42:44Good girl
42:45Good girl
42:46Good girl
42:47Is that you okay babe?
42:48It's alright
42:49Good girl
42:50You got me
42:51I know you see you
42:52Got you guys feeling?
42:53Yeah, really good you know
42:54We have to have to have a fun aren't we?
42:55Oh good
42:56That's our aim
42:57Yeah
42:58We're on a high right now, aren't we?
42:59Yay
43:01Yay
43:02Ehm
43:03Schön
43:04I'm coming
43:06Yeah
43:07They're on a high right now, aren't we?
43:08Yay
43:08So I do want to take it now, so yeah, we don't want to call it
43:29Yeah, if you suggested why don't you guys like going to more of a more people sat in
43:38You know, we're open-minded and we're going to go with the flow, yeah
43:43Things might start to progress with everyone in it and if they want to join in the camp. I
43:48Don't know nothing. Yeah, I'm I'm also fancy her. Yeah
44:08We're gonna play some fun. Naughty games aren't we? Yeah
44:32She's a good
44:38On the clitoris couch
44:48The clitoris couch
44:49The clitoris couch
44:50The clitoris couch
44:51not
44:56she slides
44:59They sleep
45:01that's
45:03and
45:05points
45:07and
45:09Come on, we're going to have a lot to hold.
45:13See you guys in a bit, guys.
45:18So, right now, I know Johnny's not himself.
45:20He's anxious, he's uptight, he's worried about potentially what's going to happen.
45:27Right, babe, how are you feeling?
45:29Yeah, I'm good.
45:30I'll tell you how I'm feeling.
45:31Tell me how you feel.
45:32It's just overwhelming for all the people there.
45:35Yeah.
45:35I'm just like, what?
45:37It's too much for me, you know?
45:38I'm struggling with it.
45:40And it's just hit me.
45:41It's just hit me.
45:47Next time on Open House...
45:49I feel like I made a mistake last night.
45:54I never want to see her upset.
45:59I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
46:04Are you okay if I, like, put my hand on you, like...
46:08Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
46:11I don't understand why it is an issue, but it is.
46:14We had a tour, and we'd rather, like, have a few less people, so...
46:18That's fair enough.
46:19It is weird, isn't it?
46:22Fuckers!
46:22If you are a curious couple or single and interested in being part of the next Open House series,
46:30visit channel4.com forward slash take part.
46:37From the sex-berts to the more intact-er types to see how their loins are warming up on Virgin Island.
46:43Stream or watch Monday at 10.
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