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00:00How are you, KarsP?

00:07In this episode of Wow!

00:09We will talk about the benefits of wellness and well-being.

00:14In particular, we will talk about our mental health.

00:17We will be joined by the multi-awarded life coach of the city, Coach Mike Celis.

00:22Good morning, Coach Mike!

00:24Good morning, Dianne!

00:26Every Friday is all about life and wellness.

00:29Adding knowledge for yourself is more important.

00:33As part of National Women's Month,

00:35in our first episode of Wow!

00:37Coach Mike will clarify some of the popular myths or opinions

00:41that have to do with the perception of women.

00:44And Coach Mike will explain that

00:46by answering if this is Wow!

00:49or Ow!

00:51This might be different, Coach Mike.

00:53No, it needs to be controversial.

00:56Or bad, right?

00:58So, basically, if it's Wow!

01:01it means we agree with the myths or opinions.

01:06And if it's Ow!

01:07it means we disagree.

01:09And we will explain afterwards.

01:11So, we will give the reasons why it's Ow! or Wow!

01:15And as a woman, I will also answer that.

01:17And to our hosts here at RSP,

01:21Are you ready?

01:22Ow! or Wow!

01:24Let's hear their opinions.

01:27So, again, Wow! if we agree

01:30and Ow! if we disagree.

01:32So, let's start, Coach Mike.

01:34Myth number one about women.

01:37Only women cry.

01:40So, RSP, is it a Wow! or Ow!

01:44Only women cry.

01:46They're the same.

01:48Our answers are the same.

01:50Fifi is an Ow!

01:51Meiji is an Ow!

01:52Audrey is also an Ow!

01:54So, we're all just Ow!

01:56Coach Mike, we're also Ow!

01:57Why?

01:58Yes.

01:59Because, in reality, crying doesn't mean you're weak.

02:04It actually means it's a sign of strength

02:07because you are releasing what you're really feeling.

02:10So, regardless of gender,

02:12it's okay to express yourself and your emotions.

02:14And it's okay to cry,

02:16to let go of whatever holds you back.

02:18Do you agree that crying is also a sign of emotional intelligence?

02:22True.

02:23Because you're acknowledging what you're really feeling

02:26and with authenticity, you're able to set yourself free.

02:29So, if you really want to release, why not?

02:31Crying is okay.

02:33It's not a sign of weakness.

02:34When we were kids,

02:36men and women, regardless of gender,

02:38we cried.

02:39It's just associated with women.

02:41Alright.

02:42Myth number two.

02:43A woman is not just the light of the house.

02:47RST, wow or ow?

02:49Yes.

02:50She's not just the light of the house.

02:52I'm also a wow.

02:54Oh, okay.

02:55So, both are ow.

02:56No, I'm sorry. I'm a wow.

02:58Okay.

02:59I'm a wow.

03:00I'm a wow.

03:01Why did you say ow?

03:04That she's not just the light of the house?

03:06Because when a man looks at a woman,

03:08what is the light of the house?

03:11What we're looking at are just women.

03:13It's a traditional perspective, baby.

03:16But now, there are a lot of single mothers.

03:20But there are more wows.

03:22And Coach Mike, you also say wow.

03:24Why?

03:25What do you think about that opinion of Audrey?

03:27Regardless of gender,

03:29anyone can be anyone he wants to be.

03:33So, basically, you're a woman.

03:35You're not just limited to being a housewife or a mother.

03:38Your roles do not define you.

03:40But instead, whatever your dreams and aspirations may be,

03:43know that you are deserving to become just that.

03:46Okay. So, you actually have a choice.

03:48Yes.

03:49If you want to be a career woman, why not?

03:51But if you also want to be a full-time mom, that's okay.

03:54You can balance it for as long as you take responsibility for it.

03:58And there's also this notion,

04:00that women are focused on their family.

04:05They say it's also a noble profession.

04:08It's also difficult.

04:09Don't be late.

04:11You shouldn't just be a housewife or a mother.

04:15You shouldn't be like that.

04:16You should be proud because those choices are actually nurturing

04:19not only your future, but the ones around you.

04:22But then again, this bottom line,

04:24we all can extend beyond our role.

04:27Yes.

04:28It's multifaceted.

04:30Audrey, take note.

04:31Okay, myth number three.

04:33Being a beautiful woman depends on marriage and having a child.

04:39RSP, is it a wow or aw?

04:42Being a beautiful woman, marrying and having children.

04:46It's a meow.

04:48Okay, I think all of us are in unison.

04:51We don't agree with that.

04:53That's where being a beautiful woman depends, Coach Mike.

04:56Strongly disagree, right?

04:58Yes.

04:59Strongly disagree because again, that's a choice.

05:02You shouldn't put down a woman because at a certain age,

05:06she doesn't have a child or a husband.

05:08The happiness or worth of a person doesn't depend on that.

05:12But rather, on her choices,

05:14if she's happy, if she's complete, and if she's fulfilled.

05:16Yes, because sometimes we hear this in social settings.

05:19When are you getting married?

05:21When are you having a child?

05:23And sometimes it puts pressure.

05:25Is there a deadline?

05:26Yes.

05:27Is there a deadline?

05:28It's so sad.

05:29No, no.

05:30Because everyone has their own timeline.

05:32For women, we should not compare, right?

05:35As long as you're happy,

05:36regardless of what other people may say about your status,

05:39it's okay.

05:40Correct.

05:41For me, it's mom.

05:42Hey!

05:43Is that okay, friends?

05:45Let's go!

05:46It's okay.

05:47Again, we always have a choice.

05:49Correct.

05:50If you don't feel like getting married,

05:52don't put yourself under social pressure.

05:54That is okay.

05:55That is your choice.

05:56Alright, myth number four.

05:58Can a woman stand on her own?

06:01Or is it a wow or an aw?

06:05Okay, so Fifi is a wow,

06:07and then Meiji is an aw.

06:10She's in the middle.

06:11Audrey is an aw also.

06:12Why, Meiji?

06:13Why do you think?

06:14Well, I've been...

06:16I'm still a strong, independent woman.

06:19I can stand on my own.

06:20I'm self-sufficient, I would say.

06:22But you know what?

06:23At the end of the day,

06:24I need someone.

06:26I need a man in my life.

06:28Alright.

06:29And in God's perfect timing.

06:30So, I'll call him.

06:33Fifi, what can you say about that?

06:35See, I would say...

06:38Audrey, you're also an aw.

06:40Okay, because...

06:42I believe in the nuclear family.

06:44A man needs a woman,

06:46and a woman needs a man.

06:48Fifi, I want to ask.

06:49Have you changed, Fifi?

06:51What's your answer? Wow?

06:52Yes.

06:53What's the question?

06:54A man can have a woman.

06:56Yes, a man can have a woman.

06:58Yes.

06:59I love the belief.

07:01Coach Mike.

07:02So, regardless of gender,

07:04we have our own choices

07:06and how we take responsibility

07:08for our actions.

07:09We are entitled to that.

07:11Your gender does not define

07:12on what you can be

07:14and what you cannot be.

07:15It's actually how you see yourself.

07:17So, it's very important

07:19that you love yourself fully

07:21and embrace yourself whole.

07:22So, regardless of what happens

07:24around you,

07:25you have your own decisions to make.

07:27Maybe, I just want to dig deeper

07:30to what Meiji said earlier.

07:32She also needs someone.

07:34Maybe, social support is also possible.

07:37That's good.

07:38No man is an island.

07:39Let's clarify that part.

07:41It's okay to have someone,

07:43but don't be entirely dependent

07:45on the relationship.

07:46You are your own person.

07:48You should always remember that.

07:50So, depending on someone

07:52is not really good?

07:53Yes.

07:54Even when it comes to making decisions.

07:56Alright.

07:57Well, thank you very much, Coach Mike,

07:59for debunking some popular opinions

08:02and also for agreeing

08:03on the right perceptions about women.

08:05And also, thank you to our RSV Barcada

08:07for joining us here in Usapang Wow.

08:09Let's always remember

08:11to make our lives a wow.

08:13If there's a wow,

08:14let's not ignore it

08:15because our wellness and well-being,

08:17especially our mental health, matter.

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