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90 Day Fiancé Uk - Season 4 Episode 4 - Full Movie
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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.
00:13Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance.
00:18But he's so hot.
00:20I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.
00:26Everyone just falls in love with this man.
00:29He makes me feel amazing.
00:31She's perfect for me in every single way.
00:33She's beautiful, she's smart.
00:37I am really excited now.
00:39Hello. Oh my God.
00:48We are the party people.
00:50We're really, really party people.
00:56It's true love.
00:59What could go wrong?
01:01Shit.
01:04I'm not ready to be a stepdad.
01:06The idea actually makes me feel a little bit sick.
01:09I just want everyone to be happy.
01:11Are we supposed to live together if you can lie?
01:13Oh, come on.
01:14Don't even bother.
01:15Don't even bother.
01:16It's almost game over, isn't it?
01:18Do you think she's real?
01:19Maybe she's dragging me along.
01:20Wifers ain't real.
01:22Is your sister really your wife?
01:25I'm a Muslim.
01:26She is Christian.
01:27You don't drink alcohol.
01:29I've got nothing to hide.
01:30You don't open the phone.
01:31It's a suspect.
01:32I didn't answer the phone to Jay because I was just trying to avoid another row.
01:44It is still in my head.
01:56This is it.
01:57I'm going out to meet Sandra and I'm so excited.
02:01Hugging her feels like the first time all over again.
02:05I will be now spending so much time with the kids.
02:08This is all new.
02:09He does not want to be a stepfather with your kids.
02:12How are you going to deal with that?
02:14They need a father.
02:15Abraham's been keeping secrets from me.
02:18He said he never had one.
02:20Look at his friends on Facebook.
02:22Do you know her?
02:23No.
02:24I'm going to go to the Gambia and get these questions answered.
02:27I'm worried that she's going to be heartbroken.
02:29Have you got a social media or not?
02:31No.
02:32You're lying, man.
02:33You've put single.
02:34It's just a joke, man.
02:35Ain't really no joke.
02:36And I ain't happy about that.
02:37Babe.
02:38Babe, this is a joke, man.
02:39Come on.
02:59Oh, hi, Ibrahim.
03:00Hi, babe.
03:01I'm all right?
03:02Mm-hmm.
03:03Yeah.
03:04Have you thought about what's happened?
03:05The deception?
03:06Yes.
03:07Well, I left the room to have a bit of space for Ibrahim because he's put single in his social
03:20network.
03:21I don't know if he's the man who he says he is.
03:24Is he playing me?
03:26You know, I don't know what to think at the moment.
03:28Yeah, I'm sorry you were upset.
03:31Mm-hmm.
03:32The last time you left, you said I should leave you alone.
03:36So that's why I tried to go on Facebook and try to annoy you and try to convince you to
03:43come back to me.
03:44I did it as a joke.
03:47It doesn't seem a very good sort of joke, does it?
03:51Why did you say you didn't have social media?
03:54Yeah, because it was temporarily.
03:57I don't know, one month or something like that.
04:00So it was not there permanently.
04:03Or maybe I didn't delete it properly.
04:06It does sound a bit cock and ball.
04:09I'm not very good on the phone.
04:11Can you check and see?
04:13Yeah.
04:14No social media there.
04:16No, really, I don't have anything to hide.
04:20See?
04:23Not in there.
04:24Oh, it has gone then.
04:26Oh, good.
04:27It's a trust thing now, so how do I know I can trust you in the future?
04:31Yeah, you can trust me because...
04:33How do I know though?
04:34You put a doubt in my mind now and it's upset me a lot because I really love you and I don't
04:40want to jeopardise my time, my effort, my energy into you if you're not trustworthy.
04:48Yeah, of course.
04:49Forgive me for these times.
04:51I think I will because I'm a forgiving person and I think we should start afresh from now on.
04:57What do you think?
04:58Yeah, of course it will be okay.
04:59But I will be keeping an eye out.
05:01If there's any more inaccuracies with any social medias then you could be in a lot of trouble.
05:08Trouble.
05:09So be careful.
05:11I need to confront Ibrahim about these disgusting photos that I found on his social media of women scantily clad.
05:22Now I was holding off because these photos are my prime ammunition and as a woman I'm a little bit devious and I always hold back the best till last.
05:34So I'll be confronting them about that at the right time.
05:38We'll wait and see.
05:40I don't want to be in any trouble again.
05:43Tomorrow I'll take you to the village, to the family, to try to convince you to forgive me and then we go back to good times.
05:50Yeah.
05:51Yeah, that would be good.
05:52It's all right.
05:53Ibrahim's taking me to meet his family and that does mean a lot.
05:56I'm going to enjoy my time in the village but I'm also going to be looking for any other discrepancies that might come to light.
06:04One of the best moments of my life has definitely been reconnecting with Sandra.
06:33When I first met Sandra 17 years ago there was a spark but I never thought that spark would stay alike.
06:40And now I'm in Brazil after spending eight months apart so this trip will be a real test for me and for her.
06:48It's going to be the first time that I'm going to be beating all of her extended family.
06:53Embarrassing.
06:55It's also the longest time that we'll be together.
06:59Yay! Saved one!
07:01Come on then.
07:02Let Julia play.
07:03Sandra's sister was meant to be looking after the kids but somehow we've ended up looking after her kid.
07:09Buy two get one free.
07:12And straight out big.
07:15Ah!
07:16Come on.
07:21He's going old.
07:22It's good.
07:23What's this name?
07:24What's his name?
07:25It's so scary to me to be a parental-like figure.
07:28But if that's what Sandra wants I'm ready to give that a go.
07:31One.
07:32Two.
07:33Three.
07:34I should count and import skis.
07:35Uno.
07:36Dos.
07:37Tres.
07:38Quatro.
07:39Quick.
07:40Five.
07:41Five.
07:42So I'll try and embrace it and we'll play a game of hide and seek.
07:45That's all I can think of.
07:47They're not here in the washing machine.
07:49Hopefully not.
07:50No.
07:52Could one of them fit under?
07:54Oh that was good.
07:55Oh you hid behind there.
07:56So you won.
07:58Well you're meant to stay.
07:59You're meant to hide.
08:03Running around with the kids in a tiny apartment.
08:05It is chaos.
08:08It's just exhausted me.
08:12And I've got to ask myself, do I want this life?
08:17We've had two hours of this and I guess it makes me miss some aspects of normal life.
08:22It's normal for me.
08:24I think I've sort of numbed myself to it and just, you know, a bit stoic about everything.
08:30Finn's being over the top.
08:33He needs to do things like stepfather.
08:40Um, I didn't choose this.
08:42This is the reality.
08:43There we go.
08:44Done.
08:45I chose the love of Sandra, sure, but I didn't choose anything else that came with it.
08:52Could I do this day to day?
08:53The answer is definitely not.
09:00Good morning.
09:18Good morning darling.
09:21Me and Mete have got a fiery relationship.
09:24We argue, we make up.
09:25We argue, we make up.
09:26That's us.
09:28But I'd like to have less arguments.
09:31There's just a lot of tension this morning.
09:35Mete's being so quiet.
09:37I can tell he's still thinking about me not picking up the phone to Jay.
09:41I just want to get this resolved once and for all.
09:45I need to apologize.
09:47I should have just answered the phone.
09:49But I just worry.
09:50I want you to get along.
09:52I want you to be good.
09:54Maybe this morning we call Jay.
09:56If you want darling.
09:58I don't want to make you upset.
10:00My first priority to you.
10:02We can talk.
10:04I do worry about the doubts that could be in Mete's mind.
10:08But I just want to prove to him that I've got nothing to hide.
10:11Let's talk.
10:13Okay.
10:15If you want you talk first.
10:18No problem.
10:19We talk together.
10:21And I think the best thing to do is just call Jay and get this over and done with.
10:26Hello.
10:28Hello.
10:29Yeah, Mete is here.
10:30Hello.
10:35Yeah.
10:38Erm.
10:40Yeah.
10:41Okay.
10:47It has upset me.
10:49What you think about me.
10:52Yeah.
10:54How awkward is this?
10:59Do I really have to be here?
11:01I don't think about the visa any time.
11:04You know, it was only out of concern for Shannon and making sure that she was all right.
11:09Jay, I don't understand why you worry.
11:14Shannon is my girlfriend.
11:16It is my work.
11:17It is my job.
11:19I am worried about Shannon.
11:20Why would he want the visa to come to England anyway?
11:23Just looking out for you.
11:24I appreciate it.
11:26I need to explain myself.
11:28You think me wrong.
11:31Shannon my priority.
11:33I don't want to get upset Shannon.
11:36I love really Shannon.
11:38You know, I...
11:40Obviously I've...
11:44To be honest that sounds...
11:46To be honest that sounds really nice.
11:48Seeing that makes me go, yeah, everything's fine.
11:51Yeah.
11:53Everything's good.
11:55That not knowing bit, which gets to see you sometimes.
11:58Yeah, that's it. Like, no one's ever met him.
12:01Same time, you and Shannon are really good friends.
12:05I don't want to damage your friendship.
12:09I want everyone is happy.
12:11Yeah.
12:12All we needed to really do was sit and talk and we've done that and it's been great.
12:17I feel better.
12:19I am explaining myself.
12:21You can't talk about me this style now.
12:23We're gonna get off.
12:25Have fun.
12:26Thank you very much.
12:28Bye.
12:30Now we forgot about everything.
12:33Shannon seems now happy.
12:35Okay, if you're happy, I am happy.
12:37I love the Shannon.
12:39I once spent all my life together.
12:43Now I know what I do.
12:45It is the really big decision of my life.
12:50I am asked her.
12:52Shannon, will you marry me?
12:55It is what I want.
12:59Smiley face.
13:01I'm hoping we can just put all this behind us now and enjoy our time together.
13:06Mete's planned a little trip for us, so it'll be nice to get away for a few days.
13:11Let's go get packed.
13:14Let's go, let's go, let's go.
13:16But there are a few worries.
13:18We've managed to communicate better today, but who knows how long that's gonna last.
13:22Do you pack the bags? I am coming.
13:25What the fuck? I unpack the bags.
13:27Help me.
13:28I know we've managed to resolve this issue with Jay, but we need to keep this up.
13:32If me and Mete keep arguing, I don't know how we're gonna move forward.
13:36We can't sustain such a rocky relationship.
13:39Really, look. Everything yours here.
13:42Not everything mine. Really, what's your problem?
13:58The tree, don't get the tree.
13:59Yes!
14:00My name is Andrew. I'm 36 years old, and I'm from Watford.
14:12I'm a software engineer.
14:13Sorry, can I stop a second? I've got really boring jobs.
14:17I don't know, how do I spice that up?
14:19Well, my job definitely doesn't suit my personality.
14:21I love flying drones.
14:22I love flying drones.
14:23I love being around nature.
14:24Out in the wilderness.
14:25I love flying drones.
14:26I love being around nature.
14:27Out in the wilderness.
14:28Any chance I get to have an adventure, I'm always up for it.
14:29I love flying drones.
14:30I love flying drones.
14:31I love being around nature.
14:32Out in the wilderness.
14:33Any chance I get to have an adventure, I'm always up for it.
14:34I'm probably a bit crazy, impulsive.
14:35I actually sort of like a lot of things.
14:36I love flying drones.
14:37I love flying drones.
14:38I love being around nature.
14:39Out in the wilderness.
14:40Any chance I get to have an adventure, I'm always up for it.
14:57I'm probably a bit crazy, impulsive.
15:02I actually spent a year as a busker.
15:05But it's worth all of the risk for the adventures that I've had.
15:09We are recording.
15:14Nice.
15:15Welcome, everybody.
15:16How are you doing, Andy?
15:17Yeah, I'm not too bad.
15:18My job may be boring, but my podcast is bonkers.
15:22How many bones would you have at a guess that you've broken it?
15:24I've lost count.
15:26I have brittle bones.
15:28They x-rayed my spine once and I had 118 micro fractures.
15:33The podcast is really just two idiots in wheelchairs.
15:37Yeah.
15:38Talking about everything from dating and relationships.
15:41I literally spent like a whole weekend with this girl.
15:43And then she told me she was a lesbian.
15:45Shit.
15:47To the mad adventures we've had together.
15:49Like when was the last time you've broken a bone?
15:51Went to the bar, got my two rum and cokes.
15:54And as I was walking back, tripped over my own feet.
15:56Now, here is slightly drunk Andy's logic.
16:00I've got a skeleton that could break very easily.
16:02What am I going to save?
16:03Obviously.
16:04Obviously the rum and cokes.
16:05It's got to be the rum.
16:06So I like supermanned as I fell to try and balance these strings.
16:10Landed face first on the floor.
16:12I don't really walk anymore.
16:14My condition hasn't held me back in life.
16:17But it's definitely held me back in finding true love.
16:23I wanted somebody to share my life with.
16:25And I started thinking about these memories of being in hospital
16:29with these amazing Filipino nurses
16:31who were just the kindest, most caring people.
16:33So I went specifically on a website that was for meeting Filipino people.
16:37And then I met Ara.
16:40The first thing I noticed was her deep brown eyes.
16:43I just thought she looked really beautiful.
16:46There was something that pulled me in.
16:48And when we started talking, she was genuinely interested in who I was.
16:52She was asking me loads of questions about my life, about my job.
16:57I told her about my disability.
16:59And her first response was, I don't care.
17:01And she was okay with it, which is, I've never experienced that before.
17:07It was very unexpected.
17:09I mean, I wasn't sure if it was genuine or just catfishing me or something.
17:13There were all these different thoughts going through my head.
17:15How are you? How was your day?
17:17Fine.
17:19What are you up to now?
17:22Nothing.
17:25But I really have fallen hard for Ara.
17:28So I have to just trust her.
17:31Your mum okay?
17:32Um, yeah.
17:34I'll be going there once this fall has ended.
17:38Yeah.
17:39Yeah.
17:40We've never met in person before.
17:41We've only known each other for just a short amount of time.
17:44But completely in love with her.
17:48All right.
17:49Okay.
17:50Mm-hmm.
17:51You wanna go?
17:52I need to take care of my mum outside.
17:56All right.
17:57How about beautiful?
17:58Okay.
18:00I love you.
18:11I told my friends and family as little as possible.
18:15A few of my close friends, I said that I'd met this person and I kind of downplayed it.
18:20Today, I'm meeting with my friend, Abby.
18:23Hey.
18:24Hey.
18:25You all right?
18:26Oh, yeah.
18:27I really value Abby's opinion.
18:30Thanks so much.
18:31Goodness for you.
18:33How have you been?
18:34Busy.
18:35Yeah.
18:36Yeah.
18:37How's Ara?
18:38She's good.
18:39Yeah, she's amazing.
18:40I'll be honest, like, when you first said that you were dating someone online from the
18:45Philippines, we were a bit like, oh, is this okay?
18:50Like, a bit worried.
18:51A lot of people thought that, I think.
18:52Yeah.
18:53I've watched a lot of, like, catfish TV.
18:55Yeah, me too.
18:57Yeah, it does make me a little bit worried.
19:00Everyone's saying that.
19:02So, do you think she's real?
19:05I mean, I was a bit worried.
19:06Really?
19:07Yeah, I just thought, like, what if this person doesn't exist?
19:10But, you know, I just saw her and I thought, this is the person for me.
19:14So, I'm going to go out to the Philippines to meet her in person.
19:22Yeah.
19:23I don't know if it's brave or stupid.
19:25Uh-huh.
19:26I mean, going out to the Philippines, it is objectively mental.
19:32How long was the flight?
19:33In total, it's about 30 hours of travel.
19:3730 hours?
19:38Yeah.
19:39Andy.
19:43So, Andy and I both have brittle bones.
19:45We have had similar issues with our spines.
19:48And personally, I would never, ever go on a 30-hour flight.
19:52What's the access like?
19:54It's not great.
19:57I can't imagine going there and just trusting someone that I've never met before.
20:02I have often been worried about Andy because he does make reckless decisions and he takes risks.
20:09I just feel like all of this is happening very quickly.
20:12I mean, it's kind of what I've always been like.
20:15I know.
20:16Yeah.
20:17I think she's understandably a bit worried that I'm travelling 30-plus hours across the world,
20:24on my own, in a wheelchair, to go and meet somebody that I've never met in person before, but...
20:32So much that could go wrong and so many risks.
20:37Is it worth it?
20:39Yeah.
20:41I know that sounds crazy, but...
20:44Yeah.
20:45If you love somebody, you love somebody.
20:47You can't help that, no matter how crazy it is.
20:54I think tonight will be fun, though. Did you get a cake?
21:09I think I also got a cake.
21:11Tonight, we're going to a family barbecue. It's her sister's birthday.
21:15I'm going to be beating lots of family members for the first time.
21:18I do have some nerves here because I've got to try and speak some Portuguese.
21:22I know very little.
21:24I am really worried about it and I don't want to let you down.
21:27That's the main thing in the whole world.
21:30I really love Sandra.
21:32She brings an awful amount of joy, happiness, and I want to impress Sandra's family.
21:38Ten minutes, and we'll be there.
21:41Ten minutes?
21:42Si.
21:43When coming here, I want him to spend time with my family and my kids.
21:53Hello.
21:54At the end of this trip, I hope he can decide this is the place he wants to be.
22:00Hello.
22:01Good to see you.
22:02Good to see you.
22:03Hello, hello.
22:04I have a huge family.
22:07I wish him all good luck.
22:11CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
22:16Jiggy!
22:18Jiggy!
22:19Jiggy!
22:20Jiggy!
22:22Jiggy!
22:23Jiggy!
22:25Jiggy!
22:26Wow!
22:28What are they singing?
22:30It's her birthday.
22:31Yes.
22:33that's everyone right there's no one else or it's another one you know there's the walls
22:42it's just a sea of people I don't know the place I don't know the language this is totally not my
22:53world whatsoever and breathe it's unusual this there's a lot of people
23:01when I'm with my family I like to spend time with him I and Finn just sit on the sofa I don't want to
23:15do that what's the Wi-Fi password and he is here in Brazil he needs to communicate with my family
23:31the brother yep Erasmus he is full-on and we've got a whole night of this
23:40absolutely humiliating I didn't expect it I didn't want it
24:10and the sooner we forget about that the better can you stay for a little bit it's quite hard work
24:21but it's I'm really not feeling comfortable enough to interact with everyone so far our brother's come
24:27along he's picked me up there's a lot just dealing with him I just need to take stuff and breathe
24:32you should learn Portuguese yes I know but at this stage it's difficult saying that now I can't just
24:39learn Portuguese in a night I'm in the city I'm not really struggling is I need you like I've never
24:46needed you so this is how it's gonna be no but I don't think I have a choice yes just stay for a
24:59little bit because really my heart rate is still going there's a lot going on Finn's being very
25:05dramatic he didn't try and I didn't like that it's either sink or swim and at the moment I'm sinking
25:15don't leave me I'm properly scared I use laughter as a defense mechanism when I feel uncomfortable I
25:22laugh when I think something's funny I laugh there's no difference oh dear Sandra's just run away
25:34which is genuinely annoying because gotta fend for myself I'm annoyed with Sandra that she's just done
25:41that I need her if I could get off this sofa now and run I would
25:47oh my days everyone rushing late I'm so busy oh my days we're on the ferry to meet Ibrahim's
26:16family I'm meeting them for the first time so I'm really excited but I'm also on a mission looking
26:23for anything that would lead me to believe that he's not been honest with me I can't wait to see
26:30my room my room that you made for me because I'm excited Ibrahim's built me a room in his house
26:44and I think that's really sweet and I can't wait to see it
26:48let me show you Xena's room
26:55it's going to be amazing
27:01as you can see it's still not really a lot of things to do
27:09but God is great maybe very soon I'll able to finish it
27:14Inshallah
27:16oh isn't it lovely oh look
27:24I'm glad we're here it's a long journey on that boat
27:33does your family speak English though English no
27:36oh wow this is good
27:42I've never had such a warm welcome
27:56they seem so lovely
28:03I can see my family they are very happy to see Xena and I think she will like it in the village
28:12so can I give you a tour tour around the house please
28:16yes yes definitely
28:18let's have a look
28:19let's go ahead yeah
28:20not many boyfriends would build a room would they for their girlfriend
28:24I'm really excited to see my room I can't wait
28:28where is it
28:29let's go that's it
28:30what this one
28:31yes this one
28:33oh were you joking
28:35is that it
28:38sorry it's not ready
28:40when it's finished it's going to be perfect
28:44are you upset
28:48I am a bit
28:49it's just like a shack
28:51why hasn't it got a roof
28:53why hasn't it even got a window
28:55is it going to have a window
28:57of course yeah
28:58I wasn't expecting Buckingham Palace or anything like that
29:02but
29:03when are you going to get it finished
29:06when
29:08it looks like ages
29:11finances was the main issue man
29:19I know let's see what we can arrange financially
29:21maybe
29:22I still need
29:252,000 pounds
29:27windows, roof
29:29the bathroom there behind
29:31what en suite
29:32I think she can
29:34help me a bit
29:36to finish the room
29:37you're just going to have to get your finger out and get it finished
29:40ASAP
29:41because
29:41this is a huge disappointment for me
29:44oh
29:44very sorry babe
29:46can you show me where the toilet is
29:51yeah
29:51follow me
29:52okay
29:53is it a long way
29:55no
29:55oh that's the toilet
29:58toilet
30:02toilet yeah
30:02oh
30:03you're joking
30:05what do you think
30:06no
30:08I can't
30:10this is a
30:11this is a local toilet man
30:13local
30:13why did
30:14if I sit down
30:16I won't be able to get up again
30:17what if a gecko comes crawling around
30:20nibbling up my bum
30:21what do I do then
30:23first impression
30:25no
30:26didn't know it was like this
30:27opposite man
30:28okay
30:28I like authentic
30:29but that's
30:30I'm thinking of
30:32what is going to be my backup plan
30:34really
30:35my best bet
30:36would be for me to go
30:37wee in a jug
30:37because I can't sit down
30:39or stand over that
30:40I would need a jug
30:41wee in a jug
30:42and tip it down
30:43so have you got a jug
30:45a jug
30:47a jug
30:47you know like a jug
30:48what you cook with
30:49or you tip with
30:50if I had known
30:51I'd have brought one with me
30:52I am a lady of a certain age
30:54and I don't know
30:56how
30:56I'm going to manage
30:58because I will need
30:59to go to the toilet
30:59more than once
31:00in the night
31:01I'm not feeling it
31:04no
31:26it's pissing it down
31:28it's not a really good start
31:30to the trip
31:31me and Messe are going on a trip
31:34he's organised it all
31:36so I have no idea
31:37what he's got in store for us
31:38I am
31:40scared
31:41I love all inclusive hotels
31:44spas
31:45all that kind of thing
31:46I'd love to be on a beach right now
31:49sipping a cocktail
31:49in the sun
31:51I just went
31:52where is he
31:53oh
31:54ah here
31:56hello
32:03I know this
32:05oh my god
32:08look at this
32:09she is absolutely
32:11like the caravan
32:12this is the really good way
32:14the holiday
32:16amazing
32:17amazing
32:18yeah can I see inside
32:19yeah
32:20okay
32:22oh my god
32:25this is not my cup of tea
32:29small though
32:32how we had together
32:33this space
32:33we're going to have to keep
32:35each other happy
32:36and positive
32:36if we have an argument
32:39there's nowhere to go
32:41no problem darling
32:43we make good holiday together
32:45let's go co-pilot
32:49please don't crush this caravan
32:53why you say it in our negative
32:56just I want this holiday
32:57we make the good holiday
32:59you don't make me arguing
33:00I make us arguing
33:02I don't make an argument
33:03I don't
33:04we don't argue this
33:05this trip okay
33:06promise
33:07promise
33:08yeah
33:08okay
33:10okay
33:10we see
33:11be careful
33:17I am careful
33:18I don't think you understand this map
33:23how you know
33:25huh
33:26right
33:27it's a turn right here
33:31okay okay
33:32you are the boss
33:33I am listening you
33:34you say to turn around
33:36do this
33:37do this
33:37do this
33:38methe's not helping me at all
33:40okay look the fucking map
33:42methe
33:43I don't know
33:44he's not listening to me
33:46really you fuck this map
33:50okay
33:50at this rate
33:53I don't think we're ever
33:55gonna get there
33:55what
33:58ah
33:58if you don't look this map
34:01really don't
34:02use this map
34:03hey
34:07who is that
34:08the arguing
34:09first
34:09I am
34:10glad
34:10I am
34:12glad
34:12God
34:13maybe we find a good area
34:18here
34:18we look
34:18yeah
34:19no one here
34:21what
34:22yeah
34:22we don't need anyone
34:23this camparelle looks really great
34:31fishing jump
34:32amazing wheel
34:35calm
34:36no anyone here
34:37just Shannon and me
34:40okay
34:41okay
34:41okay
34:44when I imagined a caravan trip in Turkey
34:48I thought of beaches
34:49sun
34:50this isn't what I thought of at all
34:53oh
34:54you've got to get your ass off
34:56pardon pardon
34:57pardon
34:57it's tiny in here
35:00Shannon going to mood slowly slowly
35:03because smaller there
35:05she's stressed now
35:07if you know
35:08if we booked the hotel
35:09they already make the bed
35:11calm down darling
35:12we are here just
35:14on the nature
35:15calm
35:15relax
35:16please
35:16you don't like the camping life
35:19if there's no rain
35:20it's not muddy
35:21really good
35:23I don't like the rain
35:25I'm coming to Turkey
35:26for no rain
35:27I'll just eat behind here
35:45this barbecue has gone from bad to worse
35:49Sandra's left me to fend for myself
35:52I'm really struggling
35:53he needs to communicate with my family
35:59and my sister wants to have a chat with him
36:02she wants to know what he's really in tension with me
36:07hey
36:09hello
36:10can I have a conversation with you
36:12depends what about
36:12I'm a little bit worried
36:15because she's gonna tell him a lot of things
36:17that he doesn't want to hear
36:19you know I'm very protective with Sandra Wright
36:22I just want you to be sure
36:24that what do you want with her
36:25this is Sandra's closest sister
36:32and
36:33Heloise are coming in like that
36:35it's now put me right on edge
36:37you don't like kids
36:39and she has two kids
36:40well
36:40I think my reservations
36:42around having kids
36:43are
36:44just
36:45so many
36:47I've never had that desire
36:50or drive
36:51like I would never see myself
36:53as
36:54Lorenzo
36:55and
36:55Elisa's dad
36:56what's that father
36:58I don't think I would want that either
37:00but
37:00you
37:01need to accept her
37:02with her kids
37:03as with her kids
37:03okay
37:03you are going to be responsible
37:05for them as well
37:06the most important thing
37:10is to think about
37:11that she has kids
37:12but I don't know
37:13if he's going to embrace this
37:14it's not only about you
37:16I feel like this is becoming a grilling
37:20and I'm not ready for this
37:22I'm very worried about
37:23how it would pan out
37:24there's also culture difference
37:26there's a language
37:27I don't see too much effort
37:29for me to learn
37:30you only speak in English
37:31yeah
37:32even with my family
37:33I'm really worried about it
37:35you know our history right
37:38yes
37:38and my mother had
37:40nine
37:40nine
37:41nine children
37:42and so
37:43I think Sandra would like to have more kids with you
37:46really
37:48has she said that
37:50yes she did
37:51that's a surprise to me
37:53yeah
37:53but she said
37:54I feel like I've signed up to something
37:59I didn't know I'd been signed up to
38:00the impression I got is
38:02is just different
38:03I don't think I can make any decisions now
38:06this relationship has taken a step back
38:08Heloise has put a lot of doubts in my head
38:11you've been with her for two years
38:14and you're not sure about what you really want
38:17but
38:18you are in doubt
38:19but I think that I can't give
38:21what everyone wants straight away
38:23because it wouldn't be realistic
38:24I can't be rushed in a situation like this
38:27and I feel like the more people that rush me
38:29the worse it will get
38:31it will push me away
38:32Sandra is more decided
38:34that's why I don't want her to suffer
38:36there is no rule book for this
38:39it's small stages
38:41need to
38:41more efforts
38:43if you cannot
38:44I don't think our family will accept you
38:46okay
38:47you're not convincing
38:50us
38:51my family and I
38:52that you really accept our culture
38:54Sandra's kids
38:56it's not a relationship
38:57I don't believe in this guy
38:59to be honest
39:01I don't believe him
39:02think about it
39:06this feels like
39:10judgment day
39:12she's saying that I've made no effort tonight
39:15and that's tough
39:17because I think I've put in enough
39:19the biggest thing that's come from all this
39:22is Heloisa drops the bombshell
39:24that Sandra actually wants more kids
39:26there's a lot to think about
39:28and if I'm honest
39:29I'm not sure how I feel about
39:31where this relationship is going to go
39:32you think there's rain
39:59it is the fire
40:00it's raining
40:04the sky's gray
40:06it's miserable and depressing
40:07I just feel like I'm back in England
40:09what?
40:10do I look like the barbecue expert?
40:12no
40:13maybe you will watch anyone
40:15here we go again
40:16why has everything got to be an argument?
40:19oh fire stop
40:20it is dying
40:22it is dying because you are really talking too much
40:26what the fuck?
40:27medium
40:30medium
40:31yeah medium
40:32you think you are in the steakhouse
40:34yeah
40:35oh my god
40:36oh my god
40:37really
40:37Shannon going to stress
40:39darling what are you doing?
40:42one's a boot
40:42one's a shoe
40:43really good idea
40:44I think this is hard for Shannon
40:47it is really wet
40:48it is really cold
40:50it is coming off
40:51but we are together now
40:55cheers
40:56we will be happy
41:00do you know
41:01would you rather
41:02no
41:04basic one
41:05would you rather
41:06have
41:07bad sex
41:08all your life
41:10when you want
41:10yeah
41:11or
41:11other one
41:13what is the other one
41:13I am choosing
41:14or
41:17best sex of your life
41:20really amazing sex
41:21ooh
41:22but
41:22every
41:23five years
41:24oh
41:25can we make cheating?
41:29me and Mete
41:29have so much more fun
41:31when we are not arguing
41:32I wish it would always be like this
41:34car coming
41:38he has flashed his lights
41:42look
41:42look look look
41:44yeah
41:44you know what this mean in England
41:46no
41:46we call dogging in England
41:50dogging?
41:52what?
41:54really I don't know
41:55I am think just dogs
41:57woof woof
41:58this mean
41:59car sex
42:00that's lighter than the sex any
42:02yeah we're not doing that
42:03now I am show you
42:05my flashing light
42:07better than your flashing light
42:09we don't want to join them
42:12turn your light off
42:13it means that we want to join them
42:15you want the chamois
42:17no
42:17turn off our light
42:19that's mean in Turkey
42:21not the sex anything
42:22just we are doing the doggies
42:27does it count if it's in a caravan?
42:35really cold now
42:37maybe we go inside this
42:40you don't want to make it
42:45no I don't want to make it
42:47too cold
42:49holy shit
42:51you turn off this light
42:55that's mean that
42:57what does mean this
42:59stop
43:00we're not doing that tonight
43:03turn off
43:05today I'm flying halfway across the world to the Philippines
43:26Aro and I have never met
43:29I'm terrified
43:34but I need to know
43:37if it's real
43:38the accessibility in the Philippines
43:42outside of Manila
43:43is not great
43:45all right gov
43:47Heathrow
43:48yeah
43:48it's a less developed country
43:52very provincial
43:53the roads are barely good enough for cars
43:56so they're definitely not good enough for wheelchairs
43:57ever been to the Philippines before?
44:01no
44:01I think a lot of people were very cautious
44:05and I've never had that in me
44:07the kind of life I've lived with having a disability and everything
44:10you sort of take chances when you can
44:12because you don't know when your next chance is going to be
44:15can't wait to be there
44:23my parents were always worried because of my condition
44:26and they don't want me to have any fractures or accidents away from home
44:30but I think as I've got older they've learned that they can't really stop me from going anywhere
44:34so
44:35I'm
44:36coming to the Philippines
44:38this is all a bit mad
44:43I have no idea if Aro's going to be there when I get there
44:46I don't know what I'm going to do if she's not there
44:49she'll probably thought this through a little bit more before I jump to play
44:53bless me not
45:00it's taken me forever to get through customs and baggage
45:23the airport's insane
45:30it's noisy chaotic
45:35and I can't find her anywhere
45:40nothing and there's no wifi at the airport
45:43my phone won't connect to any of the networks
45:47no free wifi, no signal
45:53so I can't call her
45:55absolute nightmare
45:56I've been on two planes and nearly 30 hours of travel
46:15yeah I can't see her
46:19I have no hotel
46:24I am
46:25screwed basically
46:29what the fuck is she
46:32I can't see Aro
46:38I'm really worried that she's not going to show up
46:41maybe she was stringing me along the whole time
46:43what happened?
46:45Shorna, don't respect me
46:47like a partner, like a boyfriend
46:48that she's so fucking rude
46:50this is extremely hard for me at the moment
46:51I don't want to lose
46:53for me everything is done
46:55what are you doing?
46:57saying to you stop
46:59I am really angry
47:00Mathe doesn't listen to me
47:02my toes nearly under the wheel
47:04if you don't have the good communication
47:06I can't ask her
47:07will you marry me?
47:08what does your nephew call you?
47:10he called me father
47:11what the fuck?
47:12certain things I don't think are adding up
47:15oh
47:16I'm struggling
47:16oh mate
47:19ah
47:20there's a cockroach
47:21that could have gone right up my vagina
47:23long enough
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