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00:00coming up on the three-part Valley reunion thank you ready for this nervous
00:10I'm everything derby day hi guys love you look like burnt hair in here hello no I'm at the
00:19Valley reunion it's gonna be great what's up Andy how you doing I'm gonna lose a nipple today
00:24no one told me when mine was out wow you already have makeup on I know how do you got seen you
00:30know who yet all right we're ready to go to war I'm a nervous wreck I'm hopefully gonna be seated
00:40in the back so that nobody talks to see how it's falling I want that oh you want yeah yeah let's
00:47get into it it's gonna be a long day Jax are you and Brittany gonna get a prenup no
00:54no why not because I'm gonna be with her from she's gonna be with you forever yeah I would
01:02not touch that dirty dick with a 10-inch pole it's not what you said four months ago you knew we were
01:07filming whenever you did these things I'm not gonna play a role I'm not an actor you degraded
01:12me constantly you made me literally lose my sparkle I want to be in love with you but I don't know if
01:21I can she went this way and I'm trying to make my way to her and she's going further that way come
01:29on a married woman with a child asking a single guy for advice about her husband that's wildly
01:34inappropriate wildly inappropriate you told our clients that you wanted to eat her out get that
01:39sale Janet you have transformed yourself how'd you do that Adderall and Pilates I want to know about
01:46the gay guy that was selling Jesse money I can tell you all about it were you like blowing him
01:51for money don't look at me who on this stage is still in the boys chat you are a clown dude you're a
01:57total clown are you kidding me you were like snake liar they have that footage they should show it they
02:01will crazy you're like kind of the Stassi Schroeder and you're kind of the Lala Kent and you're kind
02:06of the Sheena are you doing this right now this man put me down body shamed me believe it or not
02:11I know some people think I'm not human I'm the devil are you still in love with Brittany
02:15are you still in love with Jax
02:20hey everybody welcome to the Valley season two reunion I'm Andy Cohen reuniting for the first time
02:32with the stars of everyone's favorite SoCal soap opera wow this is going to be fun uh Brittany
02:40great to see you you too will tonight be the longest time that you've spent with Jax in the
02:46last year yes wow Jax how does it feel to be wearing clothes that aren't merch from your bar
02:53good is that a conscious decision on your part you know you got to support the bar okay Michelle I
02:59heard you moved in with your boyfriend Aaron how's it going amazing good we have Isabella 50% of the
03:06time and she really is happy excellent that's not true uh hey Jesse hi we saw you in your
03:14tighty-whities this season I've since ordered new underwear Zach told me they're a little too baggy
03:20droopy drawers oh yeah what's going on high cut brief now Calvin's obviously very good hi Kristen
03:26hi you look so beautiful pregnant thank you how far along are you 33 weeks and three days wow don't
03:34stress me out my water could break okay how are you feeling about being here Luke good actually I'm
03:40feeling a little unprepared because we don't have a go bag for the hospital with us no we don't
03:43yeah you and Danny went for it we went for it number four baby number four will be here soon
03:51yes how far along are you I'm almost 34 weeks congratulations wow Danny how many times are we
03:57going to hear you say four under four four under four quite a bit quite a bit Zach how did Benji enjoy
04:03your scrotox um I bet he would have noticed it more but apparently he didn't okay hi Jasmine hi
04:12you're engaged congratulations thank you when is the big date uh next summer love a long engagement
04:18hi Janet hi you have transformed yourself lost a lot of baby weight how'd you do that Adderall and
04:25Pilates that's really hey Jason hey Eddie you wearing your wedding ring today I am wearing my
04:33wedding ring yes I want to dive in uh you know Kristen you have called yourself an empath I have to say
04:43you may have been the voice of reason this season who would have thunk how does that feel I had one
04:51moment that I was not proud of okay so if I can just start this off with an apology to Janet for
04:58just the crap that was flying out of my mouth about like beat your ass or knock you out I've never been
05:04so mad don't make me knock your ass out knock me out Kristen knock me out I would never ever and that
05:13was just so not my best moment and also calling you a whore because that's just obviously not true
05:18um but the decibels of my voice that high-pitched screaming I looked at Luke right after we watched
05:24it and I said was that crazy and he goes yeah kind of I was like thank you for your honesty okay note
05:29to self so okay I appreciate the apology that's a good way to start well I wonder you know Jackson
05:35Brittany um what is the status of your divorce hopefully it's happening soon he called me the other
05:42day and said that he didn't know if he was going to get kicked off the show so he was prolonging it
05:47in case he needed to get alimony from me
05:49that's somewhat true don't act like you didn't say that to me then we'll agree with you what you
05:59said see all right um Jesse and Michelle what are your goals for tonight anything more shaking
06:09you should well you know I think there was this you know constant battle of who's going to win
06:16who's going to win I never was trying to win there's no winning with you well you were trying
06:21no I wasn't let's be honest you were trying to win win what um well a lot happened this season on
06:29the valley it was full of high highs and dramatic lows it was divorce dysfunction but also a surprise
06:37engagement and two new babies on the way through everything this group faced it all together and I
06:45want to start by talking about the two new additions to the family that are going to be here soon
06:50Kristen we followed along with your struggles in your fertility journey tell me about the
06:55experience of being pregnant now that you're about to have your first baby well now that I'm near the
07:00end I'm like it's going to be so strange to not be pregnant I feel like I've been pregnant forever
07:05but watching back to episodes it was really difficult like seeing how distraught we were yeah and then I
07:13just feel so lucky how soon after the show wrapped did you find out that you were pregnant two weeks
07:19later that sounds about right yeah so about two weeks later that's great Luke how have Kristen's moods been
07:26better than honestly right first trimester wasn't fun second trimester was hell was pretty okay and now
07:34she's just in a lot of pain and uh we had like a good 10 weeks like 20 to 30 weeks I was just like
07:40life is great baby's kicking yes so in the end what was it that that you think helped you get
07:47pregnant the hormones for sure and then the decision to do IUI came really at the last minute it was just
07:53like an extra 10 percent chance that would help us so we decided let's why not you have a wedding to
08:00plan as well where are we with that she hates stuff like that not till after the baby yeah well if we
08:09want to enjoy being engaged to do that right Janet you and Kristen have obviously had your ups and
08:15downs how's she gonna do as a mom I think she's gonna be a great mom she's the best dog mom in the
08:20world and that I think is the first big test you know of taking care of something and loving something
08:24and I think she's gonna do a great job thank you well there must have been something in the water in
08:30the valley that week because just as Kristen and Luke were conceiving their fertile friends Danny and
08:36Nia were getting pregnant with baby number four what uh Nia this is your third pregnancy how has the
08:43third time been for you my second pregnancy had so many complications and so many scares that this
08:49in comparison is just very peaceful and I I'm grateful because I get to enjoy it and it's the
08:55last one instead of having all the ups and downs like I did before Danny we heard you complain a lot
09:02about how little sleep you were getting with the three kids yes why do this to yourself
09:07I put yourself through it I didn't she leg locked me that's a joke by the way he's a fourth degree
09:14black belt is a vasectomy in your future are you gonna go for five under five I was just gonna say
09:21if anybody else wants you guys want to be a part of a vasectomy uh Danny and I are gonna hold
09:27hands you wouldn't even do scrotox with me I'm not gonna do a vasectomy with you we're gonna hold
09:31hands and go right you want to get a vasectomy oh yeah you do yeah really he's gonna have 20 baby
09:35mamas if he doesn't oh do you use birth control yeah do I use birth control yeah for you uh condoms
09:43are birth control oh uh I'm not really it's like what's the count he's disgusting I would not touch
09:49that dirty dick with a 10-inch pole okay that's not what you said four months ago when we were out
09:57at the aquarium and you're like do you think we should hook up one more time you said that at
10:01Hooters four months ago doubtful so you were drunk but now that I know everything that you've done
10:07everything you got going on down there there's no possible way I'm hooked up with a guy who was
10:10hooked up with porn stars you did it too you're with only food models and porn stars yourself
10:15the condoms all over the floor and the hey at least I use them amen safe sex
10:20coming up next my life is a mess I spoke to my attorney wait aren't you representing yourself
10:31yeah so you spoke to yourself
10:33you and jackson saying it what jenna looks great yeah thanks you look amazing if you count
10:43the baby I lost 70 pounds that's amazing I put on 35 so
10:47welcome back to the valley season two reunion
10:56Kristen have you and Nia bonded a lot during your pregnancies oh yes I don't know what I would
11:02do without her well like from just like the fertility journey alone which everyone got to
11:06see on the show yeah through the whole pregnancy and already she's telling me helping me with like
11:12postpartum giving birth like it's the best thing I can ask for Nia you were really open about your
11:18struggles with postpartum depression are you nervous that that that could be a reality for you again
11:25no I'm like where's the wood to knock on um I didn't have any postpartum depression with my
11:31first pregnancy I think it was just twins and like all the extra hormones maybe with the second
11:37so I'm hoping I don't have to deal with it again but I know that's also something that's chemical and
11:41can be out of your control but I know I have a great support system and great friends so either way
11:46we'll be okay regarding your body image it seems like you put so much pressure on yourself
11:51and it kind of breaks my heart my number one focus would be my breasts they used to be
11:57beautiful and perky and great and now I feel like they're down to my belly button um and then like my
12:02next concern is kind of my stomach oh um I mean just being completely honest like we live in LA I've
12:10been in the entertainment industry for quite some time so I do still feel that pressure um and I think
12:16it's okay to want to feel good in your skin um and also give yourself grace like I really do try to
12:22find the balance Nia are you planning a uh mommy makeover I can't wait I'll do it with you thank
12:29you I'll do it with you okay great we can all go together I'll do it with you
12:33Michelle seeing Kristen and Nia is it giving you baby fever sometimes yes sometimes no
12:42I remember not sleeping in your back hurting I don't miss that have you and Aaron talked about
12:48having children or getting married he's always mentioned it and he's amazing with Isabella
12:54he wants multiple I said that wasn't going to happen I said that from the beginning
12:58but yeah I think you'll get engaged um there's no rush but that's the goal
13:06well this season we saw not one but two married couples reach their breaking point and file for
13:14divorce I want to start with Jesse and Michelle Michelle last season we saw your relationship
13:19on the rocks and Jesse fighting to keep the marriage together what was the tipping point
13:25that made you leave it was not one specific thing it was a lot of things it was just I was so tired
13:33of every day being the same thing with you you're always diminishing me and putting me down and
13:41there was so many other things that's just the bare minimum and I was just like why do I want to be
13:48married to somebody that talks to me and treats me like this every single day and finally we had
13:54an anniversary and I said am I gonna feel like this until the day I die no and so I was scared but I
14:02asked him for a divorce Jesse we saw you and Michelle struggling uh to co-parent this season
14:09has it gotten any better I think we're pretty good when it comes to decisions for Isabella I know that
14:16she weaponizes Isabella I weaponize Isabella I really don't yeah you do no I don't read comments
14:23online you weaponize your daughter no excuse me it's not up to the commenters no I know I get it
14:28and I do I love my daughter and I have never used our daughter explain to me what you said to my mom
14:34I said if you're not gonna allow Isabella to see my mom who's going to die she will not be flying to
14:41Boston for Christmas and spending a week in Boston ever again yeah is how you ended exactly I would
14:47feel the same way though if my mom was dying I would feel the same way well find a way to have empathy for
14:52her I know I understand and she knows the truth of that story and and then what happened it worked
14:57and that's how I have to talk to you I have to treat you but you still weaponized Isabella by using
15:03her to her mother was dying I understand the truth is I never said she couldn't see her dying mother
15:09she planned a trip to go to Italy with her boyfriend for two weeks yeah but even before that
15:15her to take the baby for a week and then me take her for a week I hired a behavioral therapist we
15:20hired a behavioral therapist teach us how to talk about mortality with a four-year-old yes and they
15:26told you that she needed to see my mom and they needed and they had to tell you that you needed to
15:31give me grace and you had to do all these things which you didn't do okay Michelle what's the status of
15:37the divorce um so we have a custody agreement we've been trying to work on a settlement I have a
15:44lawyer he does not it has been you don't have a lawyer no it's been very expensive for me the last
15:51six months representing himself he represents himself so he thinks he knows the law I've watched
15:57suits right now I was about to say you watch suits you think Jesse could pass the bar it should be a
16:05relatively clean divorce there's no assets so what's the issue he got mad that I spent any
16:11money during marriage so he wanted me to pay him back money I spent during marriage no that's not
16:17how that's actually exactly how it went our entire divorce sadly and this is what I was going to say
16:23has become tit for tat sounds like you know she wants me to pay her back for a napa trip I don't
16:28want you to pay anything back why don't you guys just call it even can I just say that she's been asking
16:34that let me just let me just finish let me finish at least say the truth when you're speaking yes
16:40what I was working on this week when I got her discovery I was like I am I this war of attrition
16:46yes exhausting okay I'm done so I reached out to her attorney about how to move forward because I want
16:54her to move forward with Aaron my life is a mess I want to start putting out fires where I can okay I
17:01spoke to my attorney you don't have no there's uh wait aren't you representing yourself yeah so you
17:07spoke to yourself no I have I have a team of consultants that I work with all right we're
17:18gonna be right back coming up next Jax do you think it's gonna be hard for you when Britney starts dating
17:27a man and she introduces him to Cruz I forgot Jax you were down there you're so quiet well can I run
17:39the restroom I'm scared that's why we are back Jesse how are things with your girlfriend in Orange County
17:48uh they're good do you two watch Baywatch together uh we do not no
17:54Michelle how is your relationship with Jesse's girlfriend do you know her do you intersect with
18:02her at all I don't have any sort of relationship with her nor do I want to my girlfriend made the
18:10decision probably about I don't know maybe a month after we started dating to reach out to Michelle to
18:15set boundaries mother to mother I mean a month into the relationship that seems pretty new you've
18:23been dating her for a month yeah because we were like we were together for a month and she was spending
18:28a lot of time with Isabella so she wanted to know and what I told Jesse and our agreement was Aaron
18:33doesn't need to be involved she doesn't need to be involved the decisions are between us you guys had
18:38agreed to not have anyone around your child yeah and Michelle did not have Aaron around Isabella
18:43ever and you had Isabella around her and never told Michelle and then try to get mad at Michelle
18:49because she finally wanted to have Aaron around and you said no because he was a man yeah so you had
18:54her stay the night with Isabella and Isabella tells her that she's braiding her hair the next day
18:59so you were the one that messed up first I'm glad that you guys have the one side of the narrative
19:03but is that not what happened so the story is Jesse's story if you want if you want the other side
19:10you want the other side well I just I know Michelle came up Michelle came up to me and said I will
19:16never put my daughter in an unsafe position I can introduce her to whoever I want and I said okay
19:22that's what I can do I'm is right and and you can even meet him if you want because you were trying
19:27to tell me you're never gonna introduce a man to our daughter what I said is I felt it was different
19:35introducing a little girl to a girl who's also a mother as opposed to a little girl meeting a
19:4135 35 year old guy who had a roommate exactly the frustration the rules are not the same I don't
19:48think there's different rules for men and women I just thought it was different seems sexist what did
19:52you make of the rumors that your girlfriend was saying negative things about you I don't believe
19:59it you know what I mean she kind of holds my feet to the fire and I love that Janet you you mentioned
20:04in Santa Barbara that she was threatening legal stuff that's where it turned for me she wanted
20:09to silence Michelle from talking about the Baywatch thing and a lot of other bullet points so it was a
20:14cease and desist letter not a lawsuit she didn't sign a contract she didn't take money like Aaron did
20:20Aaron didn't take a dollar okay but he certainly certainly showed up quite a bit which is great if
20:25you're gonna date somebody on reality TV it's important nobody's holding a gun to her head to
20:29date you and Jason's advice was don't date somebody who agreed to share their life on camera feels very
20:36private about it sheena called my girlfriend and said no one will like you as long as you're with
20:40Jessie that's what she said Jessie do you think Michelle is anxious to finalize her divorce with
20:47you so she can get married to Aaron and start a new family if that's the next step that's fine
20:53Jack's hearing all of this do you think it's gonna be hard for you when Brittany starts dating a man
21:00and she introduces him to Cruz yeah yes how are you gonna deal with that I don't know and he starts
21:07a fight with me every single day about who I talk to and who I'm around every day why do you have any
21:12jurisdiction about I don't she's talking I don't it's just this is just my mentality I'm trying to work
21:17on it I really am just keep it to yourself don't say it to her I know yeah I get triggered and I just
21:22do you have a therapist I do do you go to that yeah every Monday really yeah I've been to four
21:27different therapists and they don't work out this is the first one that's actually worked out there
21:30were many that you weren't shut up yeah let's do that no I was going to a lot of them I went from
21:35going to a community college working two jobs and being a normal guy to now I'm living this rockstar
21:41lifestyle I can't be faithful I'm ashamed about this is like this is like a sexual problem for me
21:47of all the savior so I burst out so I burst out and I hurt people I hurt people I'm on the right
21:52path and I'm not talking about it I'm not like well I'm changed I'm this I'm just doing it for
21:56myself yeah I do I trust him again but there's still like a little bit of me that doesn't trust him
22:01actually we if you remember through the years of Vanderpump I had like two or three going to the
22:07rehab was very eye-opening I wish I would have done it a long time ago I'm not saying it would have
22:12helped my marriage but it would have helped me have his Monday therapy sessions she's
22:17approved that I go anything for you Brittany no no Jesse I want to talk about your budding
22:26bromance with Kristen and Luke you reached out to Kristen with an apology at the beginning of this
22:32summer why Kristen sent me the most gracious text message I was like wow that's very very big of her
22:38to take the first step and I started to just think about what my role played in and what
22:44happened last year shut the up you walked into my house you get your shut the up Jesse you can get
22:52your down right now what did you say to me what do you say to me what do you say to me
22:58Kristen what did you seen in Jesse prior to the apology that made you open to a friendship
23:07I mean when he asked me to come over that was just sheer curiosity like I had to know when I had
23:13to go and especially because it was just me and Luke was kind of like do you want me to go for
23:19support and I said like I can handle it you want me to call security yeah but within our conversation
23:24something else that he said to me that really I think hit me the hardest was that he didn't realize
23:31how triggering certain things can be for people example like him putting his fists on the table
23:36do you know what she should not have brought it up everybody shut the up Michelle's gonna talk
23:42to him didn't mean very much but he was like I didn't realize with my past with exes that could
23:48be something that totally sets me off for like almost no reason I was like wow that's so genuine you
23:54really are listening and there was no I'm sorry but so it made it really easy to give him a chance
24:00Michelle you told Jesse that he loves to cry so people think that you are a cold insensitive
24:05person yeah well I am naturally just like very guarded and it's very hard for me to cry
24:11he can cry on demand whatever power I have left I like give it to you to do whatever you want with
24:20it say whatever you want about me because I'm just so tired it's it's overwhelming right now
24:27it's going to be easier to connect with somebody if you see a crying man being vulnerable I think the
24:34conversation was one of the most raw vulnerable honest from both of you in that moment yeah that
24:42conversation was real south like so yeah did Jesse have you always been a big crier
24:48I've seen Rudy 40 times and I cry every single time they carry him off the field at the end so
24:54yeah it's just how I've always been I will say it was interesting seeing a conversation between you
24:59guys you started crying and then she said like come on and you it they dried up rather quickly what
25:03conversation was that uh scheduling I don't want to be away for two holidays from Isabella I just
25:10don't you love to cry I might get aggravated and I might get like resentful but you're so angry I was
25:19like oh suddenly the tears are gone we could say the same those tears were like the first holidays
25:25since we separated that we wouldn't be together at the time we were filming you guys had only been
25:30separated for less than a year at that point right yeah I think it's pretty reasonable that months
25:33unless you're saying or people are saying Jesse's a total sociopath that like he would have tears
25:38like it's an emotional situation for anybody right I agree
25:41coming up Michelle you told the girls that Jesse had spent all your money and is broke yeah
25:49I mean I seem to be living fine right now just paying your rent
25:53we are back with the gang from the valley
26:04Nia I heard about your new house in Santa Clarita
26:06oh he got me he won yeah how was Danny able to convince you you know it's the house and the
26:13space anytime I think about like oh we're in Santa Clarita I kind of get down but we have five bedrooms
26:20Danny keeps saying it's 20 minutes away how far is it from me it is no it's not when we went to
26:27Brittany's house for Christmas birthday from our house in Santa Clarita it took 18 minutes okay we're
26:35closer to that was a Saturday on a Friday afternoon 18 minutes Jasmine did you sell them the house
26:42no no he was going fast I don't work that territory you don't work all right as multiple marriages were
26:51coming apart at the seams a thread known as the boys chat was going strong fueled by drama scandal and rumors about Michelle
27:03Jax for all of us who are not lucky enough to be on the boys chat pull back the curtain for us
27:10what what kinds of topics are y'all discussing well we started dirty we started at Schwartz's wedding
27:18that's where it started no you're gonna make me cry oh yeah let's try not quite just yet
27:25look good I get to man you're doing okay cute
27:32we did it oh puppies it kind of just started out as like you know uh all the guys talking to
27:38each other because we're all like living in little I think it was like little houses on the property at
27:42the time so we're just all communicating versus each other okay pictures of like like stripper vaginas
27:46not not in the beginning women 24-7 yeah okay who on this stage is still in the boys chat well I
27:53was on it at one point and I literally got out because of exactly what she's saying one vagina Zach's
27:58out okay so really it's only Jesse and you that are in the boys chat here Danny you're not in it
28:06anymore uh no did you get kicked out didn't you guys kick me out after you do Jesse was trying to
28:12say that Michelle was hooking up with a billionaire for money this was sad it's okay we know it's not
28:21true Michelle Brittany uh when you and Jax were together what kinds of things did you see in the
28:29boys chat oh he showed me everything he would show me Jesse's messages he would talk about how
28:34horrible Jesse was and all this and that like he did not like Jesse I don't think like at all he
28:41was showing like all these naked girls and everything and there was just a lot of dirty
28:44nasty things in there it's locker room talk okay yeah Danny you broke the first rule of the boys chat
28:51don't speak about the boys chat um why did you tell Luke that Jesse said Michelle was sleeping with a
28:59billionaire for $1,500 a night hand to God I obviously had my mic on we were talking and having
29:16a conversation about Jesse Michelle it was wrapped you thought it was right I didn't know that there
29:22the camera behind me that's why literally I'm whispering after we were talking about Jesse
29:27we all know how bikes work he's an actor Jesse did you really believe it the second I sent it I regretted
29:35it Michelle you told the girls that Jesse had spent all your money and is broke yeah I mean I seem to
29:44be living fine right now and you're right and she is uh I am paying my rent and have been since you
29:51moved out who has been lending you money to pay your rent you talked to the Zen party about being
29:57overwhelmed financially yeah it's okay it's um it's okay to admit it it's double the expenses with half the
30:05income and we sat down in the living room talked about her moving out and we had actually talked about
30:12the two of us finding a new place what happened was you said I had to leave the house and you were
30:18never going to leave because it was your house even though we never once rent the house and you said
30:23I'm not leaving over my dead body and you sleep downstairs it was unbearable so finally I found a place
30:29I bought new furniture and I was paying two rents that's what happened okay Jesse Michelle said that
30:38through the course of your marriage the more money you got the douchier you got did money make you
30:44douchey um I don't to be honest I think I was pretty douchey when I was a caddie at the golf course
30:50making $150 a loop he used to have a tongue ring so I think he's always I had a tongue ring yeah
30:56when you married him no oh no I had one too now I can't make fun of Jesse it was popular then
31:04we need to take a break we'll be right back I was like 18 or 19. coming up next when you're in a
31:12toxic relationship for so long you you just don't have any interest anymore we barely had sex for like
31:18the past three years of our relationship that's why would I be like yeah he's breaking bad
31:22you want in the voice chat no it's an HR issue I don't leak anything you told everyone when we
31:36gave birth oh I'm talking about the show I'm talking about the show I don't do that why would I do that
31:41I don't know you guys you guys are the ones that go on and live on reddit and get sleek I don't
31:45I don't read things I read so we're gonna start with a buffet let everybody look towards candy
31:51we are back with the valley reunion and this season opened with the shock of Jax checking himself into
31:59a mental health treatment facility so I want to start at the beginning and talk about what led up to
32:07that so Brittany just days before filming started this season you and Jax were separated but talking
32:13about getting back together then you had a fight at your house that changed everything I want to
32:21discuss what set Jax off the text messages between you and Julian uh Jax's friend and Lala's ex right
32:30Julian and I were friends we were hanging out all the time so how soon after your separation from Jax
32:36did you start seeing Julian probably like a month and pretty quick Jax what were the rules no it wasn't
32:43what were the rules that you and Brittany established about dating inside your friend group I mean I
32:51honestly we I don't think we really set a rule on the friend thing you just automatically assume I
32:56think it was a little sooner than a month I don't know but I just think it was just hurtful and I went
33:01against what I said too I had somebody at my house multiple people I'm not trying to start a war here
33:07it was just that's what was hurtful to me and this is what made me spiral he was extremely aggressive yes
33:11he threw the coffee table it landed on my knee it turned black immediately he threw both barstools
33:17he threw my Stanley cup and broke it he threw my phone and broke it he threw my laptop and broke it
33:22he threw me into the rose bushes he I didn't throw you in the rose bushes yes you did it's on my ring camera
33:27I never throw you in the rose bushes yes you did yes you did everybody yes my close friends up here
33:31have seen the videos yeah how long sorry it makes me mad how long did you date Julian we never like
33:37dated we were just like hooking up like a couple times a week and I will another thing I need to say
33:42about that whatever maybe it was weird that I hooked up with somebody that was around the friend group
33:46but my confidence was at an all-time low this man degraded me put me down body shamed me constantly
33:53okay Julian gave me attention that I needed in that moment he made me feel sexy he made me feel
34:00beautiful he gave me some call while he was dating five other girls it doesn't matter he was what I
34:04needed because you made me literally lose my sparkle I lost a lot of my personality being with you
34:10and everybody knows it I'm not arguing with me did you see me arguing with you you're going
34:15gosh your sparkle and but I just enough with the sparkle word it's like come on
34:19because that's how I feel like that's how I talk about myself I know I know I am very very sorry
34:24I mean I had your son and then you body shamed me for stretch marks I didn't like yes you did
34:29yes you did yes you did I had your child your beautiful child down there all right
34:34no no no why are we seen the text message we've seen it and that was you there
34:39literally called me a tree trunk always because I had stretch marks
34:44no I didn't maybe apologize I am very sorry are you very sorry about your I'm sorry about all of
34:50this to be honest this is not how I wanted this the last thing I wanted for anybody to see was how
34:55this all got and I couldn't control it on watch what happens live Britney didn't give your sexual
35:04prowess the highest marks checks there was times when he was about a seven or an eight but majority of the
35:12times no stamina no nothing why would she though it's your excess so I didn't say always when
35:23you're when you're in a toxic relationship for so long and there's just you you just don't have
35:27any interest anymore like and he did not touch me for years and did not make me feel good about
35:34myself he put me down we barely had sex for like the past three years of our relationship that's
35:38why would I be like yeah he's great in bed I pushed my wife away I pushed her away and I
35:45I did everything in my power to make her leave me and and you know I caused so much pain and and so
35:54much drama over the years and the alcohol and the drugs was just the icing to the cake and I think and
36:02I don't know if you agree with me but when it really started to get bad was when I lost my job
36:07with Vanderpump because not only that happened COVID happened my wife's pregnant and I'm freaking
36:11out financially what am I going to do how am I going to handle this and Britney was turning on
36:16me because I was the one making money yeah I was happy for me he held it over my head and held it
36:22against me 100 percent so I started she was making money happy that she was bringing yes yes but as I
36:26was like as a man you just want to be able to support your family and I was but we weren't in
36:30competition we were a team I know and I loved him so much and I was trying to make our marriage work
36:35for years that I brushed it off and I forgave him every time that he apologized and promised me he
36:41would change promised me he would get better I really believed him because I loved him so much
36:45like you can never deny that I tried everything I possibly could to make this relationship work and
36:50you treated me worse than anybody else and I was the only one that loved you enough to make you get
36:54help it's really sad what is the agreement you have about co-parenting I have full custody
37:02and but our divorce is not final yet but whenever the divorce is final I'm going to allow him to
37:09have him every Wednesday and every other weekend and then like if I need to go get my nails done
37:14or something like that like he can watch him like I'm not going to ever not let him have his son as
37:19long as he's passing his drug test and I agree has Cruz been to your new condo she allows me to see him
37:24now it took some time which I totally understand another thing too is I really and I think
37:28really can agree with me I don't want to uproot my son from his house so a lot a lot of the times
37:34a lot of I had to be the one to take our autistic son and move him from Airbnb and Airbnb because you
37:39would not move the house no knowing that he needs stability knowing everything but your ego was so big
37:44that you made me and Cruz move out and then you didn't pay the mortgage for seven months not the
37:49mortgage I didn't pay my car note I didn't pay anything I just let it all go and I was like I'm done
37:53coming up after the break he went through my trash cans went through drawers counting condoms your
38:02personality is so sporadic so if it isn't the drugs if it isn't alcohol if it isn't this why are you
38:08still just as crazy as before give a Kleenex there's a box in them somewhere all right thank you oh I'm
38:16nervous shaking shaking get so angry and yell so much yeah I want to be able to let control me
38:22don't give him your power yeah it's so effective when you insult someone in a calm voice five four
38:29three to the jib two we are back with the valley reunion after the explosive fight with Brittany
38:37Jax made the decision to seek help at a mental health treatment facility Jax what made you decide to
38:44seek help many reasons my job was on the line my son your job with the show yeah I was such in a bad
38:53place and I didn't want to go I didn't think I needed help but thank God because my job and my son those
38:58are the two most important things to me so yeah when you start taking those away it's like Jesus you
39:03need a you need to go Jax you actually went to rehab twice yeah I relapsed yeah when did you relapse
39:09I was two weeks after no it was like it was like the week of the week he got out okay but the thing
39:15was with the first time is he acted like drugs and alcohol were not a problem drugs and alcohol I believe
39:20are not the big problem I feel like you're masking hurt whatever you're going through fighting and
39:25walking like all the stuff that I was doing to Brittany and I was angry and I just I would use drugs and
39:30alcohol to take it away for a couple hours you have been sober for how long 156 days today
39:35congratulations thank you sober from everything everything except for weed which is fine I'm not
39:40even I don't care about that I can't stop smoking weed it's not going to happen we're all okay with that
39:45and you believe that he is sober so he does pass his drug test I've given him I've got like a pack of
39:51100 drug tests and I have given them to him sporadically and twice yeah but you also I get a text
39:58every Monday so I made it a point to make sure they call Brittany every Monday when I take my test
40:03because I want her to know that I'm passing but who is the person that made that happen nobody made
40:09it happen it was the right thing to do are you on steroids I'm not on steroids your attitude and
40:14your personality is so sporadic so if it isn't the drugs if it isn't alcohol if it isn't this why are
40:20you still just as crazy as before you're saying his anger is not just as crazy and so you you worked
40:26on your anger apparently in I'm trying to work on my anger okay I'm still very trying but if it sounds
40:31like what she's saying is it hasn't changed um I think it's gotten a lot better you do you agree
40:37it's got a lot better some days it's okay and then the next day it is absolute hell the disrespect is
40:42insane I would assume that you would agree that if you were on steroids it would be detrimental to
40:48your anger issues that's why I'm worried yes I'm not on anything keep testing me and I want you to
40:53test me it holds me accountable in my head if I ever try to slip again I know that you're going to
40:58test me anytime you want and I want you to test me it's not only for you but for me to hold me
41:03accountable because I don't want to touch drugs and alcohol again it's up my life yeah
41:08it's tough like it's hard and I know it's hard for her and I'm not she's the victim here not me
41:20okay but I'm I'm a human being too believe it or not I know some people think I'm not human I'm the
41:25devil I get it but I still have feelings too I do this is the hardest thing to do this in front of
41:31God and everybody and everyone's gonna see this you knew we were filming whenever you did these
41:35things yeah I knew that but I'm not I'm not thinking about filming that's why our show is
41:38the real because I put everything out there
41:41next week it's part two of the valley reunion if you're apologizing to me and you made it you
41:56should be able to look me in the eye because I'm embarrassed and ashamed of who I am cheating
42:01and cheaters that's my one thing that's really interesting because as soon as I asked for a
42:06divorce you started sleeping with a married woman oh your apology to me felt like I thought we were
42:12you are a clown dude the fact that you won't even admit that you have any issues
42:16blame everybody for you being a douchebag
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