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The Real Housewives of Miami Season 7 Episode 6
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00:00Previously on The Real Housewives of Miami.
00:05I have my two little sons, two brothers.
00:10One is three, one is a year and a half.
00:13How are you feeling?
00:14Confused.
00:15Moving the house.
00:16Hello.
00:17Hello.
00:18Goodbye.
00:19I don't want you to feel like you're in a caretaking role
00:24and not see me for what you used to see me as.
00:27My sisters, they haven't touched base with us in like two years.
00:29And I said, I miss you guys.
00:31Like what's going on?
00:32Tell me.
00:33And then dead silence.
00:34I love him anyway.
00:35From my part at least, I would like us to move forward.
00:38If somebody will ask me, how did it go?
00:42It's between you and I.
00:44I thought it would be great to have like a greeting party.
00:47And I have like somebody that's going to be like talking to us.
00:49He's been helping me a lot.
00:51And I like to share him with you girls.
00:52I'm going to speak to the girls about what it is to have narcissistic traits.
00:56Are you ready for that?
00:57How's everybody doing today?
00:59I'm waiting for you, goddess.
01:01Lisa, do you think your time is more important than all of ours?
01:04Do you think of how rude it is to make everybody wait?
01:06I think you're rude.
01:08Let's just start fresh.
01:18Goddesses have arrived.
01:23Let's do this.
01:26Oh my God.
01:27Welcome.
01:28Welcome.
01:29Hello.
01:30Hello.
01:31Hello.
01:32Hi.
01:33Welcome beautiful goddesses.
01:36Thank you for joining us.
01:37This is my friend Danielle.
01:38He's originally from Melbourne, Australia.
01:41And he is an author.
01:43I got to know him.
01:44And he's helped me along in my own personal journey.
01:47And I hope that today you girls can also learn from him.
01:50I mean, that guy's hot.
01:53If I wasn't with Frenchy, I'm sure we'll be going for Australian tonight.
01:58We have a lot of fun activities planned for you girls.
02:01Ooh, games.
02:02Love that.
02:03They're mental exercises.
02:04And I know you're all really good at that.
02:06You're going to find me down under.
02:08Okay.
02:09All right.
02:10Let's go.
02:11So anyways, walk this way.
02:14This is so beautiful.
02:15Wow.
02:16I want to get married here.
02:18I don't know who the guy is, but I like the venue.
02:21So as you enter this area, you will see mirrors where you can take a look.
02:26And it's about self-reflection.
02:27Nobody gets angrier than a narcissist being accused of something they did.
02:31Mm-hmm.
02:32You just made us wait two hours waiting on you.
02:34It's like the grand Lisa entrance.
02:36It's very rude.
02:37You're being very rude right now.
02:38Oh, you want me to say thank you for showing up?
02:40The point of this is for everybody to read the quotes and see if it can resonate with them.
02:44Uh-huh.
02:45That's very cool.
02:48Let's go to the bar.
02:49I love it.
02:50Let's go read.
02:51We have the last two reads, guys.
02:52Never try to defend yourself against a narcissist.
02:55They already know you're right.
02:57Is the whole theme narcissism?
02:58Yeah.
02:59This is the whole thing how Todd treated Alexia.
03:02But I don't even want to talk about Todd so much.
03:04No, no, Alexia.
03:05We're not here because of Todd.
03:06Alexia, you've been saying how Todd is narcissistic.
03:10You don't think you guys need help?
03:12Like professional help.
03:13And you?
03:14Oh, no.
03:15You're Mr. Perfect.
03:16I'm not part of this.
03:17Oh, you're an attorney too?
03:18I am.
03:19He doesn't plaster billboards across and fix leaky pipes.
03:20Okay.
03:21He certainly doesn't need your Godiva chocolate.
03:23That night at the house and you had that party.
03:25I know I stressed you out by hiding out downstairs in the gym.
03:28It was tough for me.
03:29Thank you for supporting me.
03:30I appreciate that and understanding.
03:32How is this party not for Todd?
03:34Good people get tired of being good to ungrateful people.
03:36It's true.
03:37I think it's funny that all the girls think it's all about Todd.
03:42But they don't know that the joke's on them too because I feel that we're all narcissists.
03:47Can we all agree everyone out here is a narcissist?
03:51I'm not.
03:52I'm confident.
03:53I think self-confident is the big, is the best trait.
03:57The problem with being empathetic is that you feel sorry for the people that hurt you.
04:01That's actually, that's a good one.
04:04The fact that this is a narcissist theme party says a lot obviously because I think that we have a lot amongst us.
04:10I look crazy right now.
04:13When we look deeper we find that sometimes we aren't really angry at them but more angry at ourselves for allowing them to treat us that way.
04:21I think I'm a narcissist.
04:22A little bit.
04:23A lot of business people have narcissism.
04:26It's really not that bad.
04:28Do we have to have a party for it?
04:30What are we celebrating?
04:31That's beautiful.
04:32Tell me when you're ready.
04:33Oh wow.
04:34Oh wow.
04:35We're such narcissists.
04:36Here we are in the narcissist.
04:37Stop talking.
04:38I'm not getting good pictures.
04:40Lisa being Lisa, she's like oblivious.
04:45She's making it a whole full blown photo shoot.
04:48It's all about me.
04:49I think I got a lot of good ones.
04:52Lisa you should be reading the notes on the mirror.
04:55I think some of these notes are applying to you my friend.
04:58Oh I'm just swinging away.
05:01This is totally for me.
05:05What?
05:06You don't always have to tell your side of the story.
05:09Time will.
05:10Time will.
05:11That actually suits you too.
05:12It does.
05:13Me too.
05:14For different reasons.
05:15But yeah.
05:16Oh seriously.
05:17What's your reasons?
05:18I'm not going to tell you right now.
05:19Why?
05:20But you like to tell me a lot on the bus.
05:22Lisa!
05:23Lisa!
05:24Just don't.
05:25I love you.
05:26I'm sorry.
05:27I apologize.
05:28And I have no problem apologizing again.
05:31I'm sorry.
05:32That was a nice one.
05:33That's all I wanted.
05:34I'm definitely not going to be late with Stephanie again.
05:36Because I don't want to hear that again.
05:41There's no way she's going to do it again right?
05:42She learned her lesson.
05:43No?
05:45Lars.
05:46Yes.
05:47Where are you with Lisa?
05:48I've tried to talk to her, communicate with her.
05:50So it's like at this point we're obviously going to have to have a conversation.
05:54Like Gertie and I, we took time and we had dinner and we talked like to people.
05:59I wouldn't like that dinner way before that to Marisol's reception.
06:02Absolutely.
06:03But it didn't happen that way.
06:04And that's okay.
06:05That was her process.
06:06That was her process.
06:07You know what I mean?
06:08Because that was her beef to have with me.
06:09And I had to accept whatever was coming my way.
06:11I was like what the is going on?
06:12There was no beef.
06:13There was feelings.
06:14That's what I'm saying.
06:15But it was your way of handling it.
06:16That's it.
06:17You know?
06:18She just keeps talking and talking about it.
06:20I thought we moved forward or at least tried to agree to move forward.
06:24But apparently not.
06:25Are you girls ready to play some Greek games?
06:28Let's go.
06:29Yeah, yeah.
06:30Let's go.
06:35Oh my God.
06:37Wow.
06:39This is so pretty, Alexia.
06:42Yeah.
06:43Wow.
06:44Who's sitting in the throne?
06:45Um, thank you.
06:46How do you want us to sit, Alexia?
06:48I don't need to name names about the narcissistic people in this group, but there will be signs.
06:53Like, we are supposed to be on the same level.
06:56Well, if you feel like you have to be above, then it's not narcissistic.
07:01All right, ladies.
07:02We're going to get into exercise two.
07:04This exercise reflects how others might see us.
07:07Okay.
07:08You're going to get a red flag.
07:09I'm going to read out a statement.
07:10Put it in the vase that you think the person has that trait the most.
07:14Oh, okay.
07:15I like this.
07:16By the way, you thought I played dirty games?
07:19This is extra dirty.
07:20This game in itself is a red flag.
07:23All right, ladies.
07:24We ready?
07:25Constantly talking about themselves.
07:29Oh, that's easy.
07:31Okay, Marisol, you go, because that was easy for you.
07:33You go.
07:34You go.
07:35You go.
07:37You go.
07:38I'll try it.
07:39You go.
07:40You go.
07:41But when you get in there, let's go.
07:42Sorry, monkey.
07:43Sorry.
07:46All right.
07:47I have to agree.
07:49Lisa.
07:50It's just the fuck.
07:52Lisa.
07:53Okay, nice.
07:57I'm going to put myself.
07:58Myself?
07:59Myself.
07:59I think Lisa, yeah.
08:02Lisa!
08:05Lisa.
08:09Monkey by a landslide.
08:22So, ladies, Lisa had an overwhelming number of six.
08:27Monkey for the win!
08:28So, I want to know how you feel about that, Lisa.
08:31Maybe I tell my problems to the wrong people.
08:34This was supposed to be a goddess party.
08:36I expected fun.
08:37I expected to be treated like a goddess.
08:40This isn't a goddess party.
08:42It's a witch hunt.
08:43And I am not a witch.
08:45You're annoying people talking about yourself.
08:47You feel like your problems are the biggest ones in the room.
08:50Well, I also feel that you blame me for not knowing your problems,
08:55but you also don't tell me your problems.
08:57Sometimes we feel that we're not heard, but we're not talking.
09:00I know, but the problem is when you call and the person doesn't answer the phone,
09:03you're not going to be heard.
09:05I also think you should tell the truth and stop saying lies.
09:10You're the lie detector test?
09:11I have, like, receipts, so...
09:13Baby girl, I am the receipt.
09:15Is that your Halloween costume for this year?
09:19Try getting a dress in your size.
09:21Okay.
09:22Ladies?
09:23The whole world know not to mess with Larsa, because she's going to come for you.
09:27I didn't hear that.
09:28Can you repeat that?
09:29It is so stupid.
09:30But we're mature.
09:32There's a reason she calls herself the Larsonist.
09:35The next one.
09:36Quick to take offense.
09:38All right.
09:39Let's go.
09:40Lisa is quick to take offense.
09:44Larsa is quick to take offense.
09:46Bro.
09:47Marissa.
09:48Sorry, Marty.
09:49Oh, you pick me?
09:50Yes.
09:51I don't know.
09:52I don't care.
09:53Maybe Alexia.
09:55Oh, Kiki.
09:57Lisa.
09:58Yeah, you pick Lisa?
10:00Yeah.
10:01I pick Lisa, too.
10:02Oh, she's very offended with me.
10:04That one was quick to take offense, and Lisa got the most with three.
10:08I win again.
10:09This is like a whack game with some whack people.
10:13Everybody, by the way, has narcissistic traits.
10:16For God's sakes, Larsa has a Larsa light, and I guarantee you her phone is filled with 99%
10:23selfies.
10:26More of just her.
10:28Her.
10:29Oh, there's one with the family, but that's an ad.
10:34The next one is lack of accountability.
10:37Oh, jeez.
10:40It's going to get ugly.
10:46Larsa.
10:47Larsa.
10:48Uh-huh.
10:49Guess who is Larsa speaking now?
10:51Larsa.
10:54Of course.
10:55Wow!
10:56Petty Pippin!
10:57In the house!
10:59Well, that's how I feel.
11:02I'll go Mari again.
11:04She keeps picking me.
11:06All right, let's go.
11:07You want to move forward?
11:09Okay, just understand that this is an exercise for everybody to grow and evolve.
11:14It's not about attacking each other.
11:16Can I please ask you a question?
11:17Yes.
11:18Like, if somebody tells you something very painful and hurtful that hurts you deep in
11:22the heart.
11:23Yeah.
11:24What is your recommendation?
11:25How to move forward and how to move past?
11:28And did they apologize?
11:30Partially, yes.
11:31Partially.
11:32Partially.
11:33Good enough.
11:34All right, so who are you talking about in that situation?
11:36I was talking about my friend Gertie, who hurt me very, very much when somebody calls
11:44you horrible names.
11:45Oh.
11:46And it's kind of stick in your head, but you want to move past it.
11:49How do you forget it?
11:50One of them is time, because I believe time is the only thing that heals.
11:53Yeah.
11:54And a willingness to want to rekindle a relationship that you once had with Gertie.
11:58Yeah.
11:59So this is after that I've been physically assaulted.
12:01And there's too much context to discuss this.
12:03Okay.
12:04And there is a lot of context.
12:05Yeah.
12:06But I will say that if you have a willingness to reconnect with her.
12:09Absolutely.
12:10I have to forgive this physical assault too.
12:12Yeah.
12:13What is this going to solve by bringing this up to the group?
12:16She is breaking the pact.
12:18I see you for who you are.
12:20Stupid me.
12:21All right.
12:22So the last one is playing the victim.
12:28Sorry.
12:29Sorry.
12:32Lisa.
12:33Oh boy.
12:34Well, you guys aren't moving forward tonight.
12:37That's for sure.
12:38I mean, you keep saying that, but you were talking about a photo from four months ago that
12:44I wasn't involved with.
12:45Guys, guys, this is not about...
12:46No, no.
12:47This is not about...
12:48Excuse me.
12:49I'm gonna talk right now.
12:50Okay.
12:51Can you take control, Daniel, please?
12:53Ladies.
12:54Ladies.
12:55You are mad about a photo my boyfriend took with your ex four months ago.
12:59I am not mad at that.
13:00We're playing a game.
13:01Yes.
13:02It's not a game.
13:03You are a narcissist, Larsa.
13:04You gotta move forward, guys.
13:05You're not apologetic about anything you've done.
13:08You think everything's okay.
13:09I apologize for that.
13:10When I was in Toronto, you text me after you knew my dad was dying and then dead.
13:14I never text you.
13:15It's just because I'm praying for you.
13:16Yes.
13:17Yes.
13:18And then you're talking about, not about my dad, about my boyfriend.
13:21Lisa.
13:22Your boyfriend shouldn't yell at women.
13:24You didn't.
13:25You're a liar.
13:26I'm not used to a man yelling at me.
13:27Lisa.
13:28You're a liar about him being cheap.
13:29He's so cheap.
13:30Oh, my God.
13:31Larsa.
13:32Larsa's going on and on and all I'm really thinking about is work.
13:36How many emails am I getting?
13:37What Zooms do I have?
13:39I'm thinking about making money.
13:41I have so much I can say about you and I don't say it.
13:44Go ahead.
13:45You are very lucky.
13:46I am not lucky, honey.
13:47Say it.
13:48You told me Marcus doesn't have it like that.
13:50You don't want your tits to be down to your knees before you guys get married.
13:54You told me that.
13:55I what?
13:56How did she talk about the tits to the floor?
13:59It's getting dark.
14:00It's getting dark.
14:01Tits to the floor.
14:02Maybe Lisa should stop worrying about my boobs and start worrying more about how everyone
14:05in this group thinks she's a narcissist.
14:08Lisa.
14:09Lisa.
14:10And P.S.
14:11My boobs are sky high, so I don't know what she's talking about.
14:14You know what I told you?
14:15I don't need a man.
14:16You know what I told you?
14:17I'm independent.
14:18You know what I told you?
14:19I'm teaching my kids to be independent.
14:20I don't know what you're doing.
14:21I know what I'm doing.
14:22John.
14:23I know what you're doing.
14:24Let's count the flags.
14:25I know what you're doing.
14:26You can throw it, but you can't take it, right?
14:27Count the flags.
14:28I'm good.
14:29We are better than this.
14:30The overwhelming score for the trait of playing the victim was Lisa with five.
14:35Who picked Lisa?
14:36So did you raise your hand for Lisa?
14:37I did.
14:38Okay, so let's explain.
14:39I can relate to Lisa.
14:40I'm also going through a very difficult time in my life.
14:43But I choose not to play victim.
14:45I'm not playing a victim.
14:46I'm not playing a victim.
14:48Okay.
14:49I have a few people that are my safe space.
14:51You, Adriana.
14:52You?
14:53No, I'm sorry.
14:54Look, I don't think they say anything.
14:56Oh, my God.
14:57You guys know I haven't talked about a thing since Kiki went Lenny, Lenny, Lenny, Lenny.
15:02Like, start talking about Lenny already.
15:04Like, it's so much Lenny, Lenny, Lenny, Lenny, Lenny, Lenny.
15:07It's becoming a song.
15:08I haven't brought up Lenny, Lenny, Lenny at all.
15:12Even though I'm still dealing with it.
15:14I wish somebody else had more problems than I had.
15:16We do have more problems than you, Lisa.
15:18I'm talking and you're interrupting me again.
15:21Everybody has problems.
15:22I'm very compassionate, and I know what you've been going through.
15:25But sometimes you have, like, a lack of accountability.
15:31But it's not an attack, Lisa.
15:32It's coming through.
15:33This is feeling like a gang up again.
15:35Everybody's having that narcissistic moment right now
15:38because none of you are taking into consideration the fact
15:40this girl just lost her father.
15:42So where is the empathy?
15:44this .
15:45I am leaving this bull stupid party.
15:49Oh, let's make Lisa the punching bag all the time.
15:53Bull .
15:55Larsa, you really need to make up with her at some point.
16:23Babe, I literally was playing the game.
16:25I was not the only one that felt like that.
16:27We all felt the same thing.
16:28When we actually tell the truth and tell how we feel,
16:31we get punished for this.
16:33How is that fair?
16:34Like, I'm sorry, but Larsa has done
16:36the to all of you guys at one point or another.
16:39You should go there now.
16:40I can't. I can't.
16:41This is stupid.
16:42I'm, like, done.
16:43You have a choice to behave the way you have,
16:46and you have to take control of your emotions.
16:48I don't know.
16:49Did everybody have such a problem with the game?
16:51I'm going to the bathroom.
16:52I think it was a beautiful game.
16:54Where is Larsa?
16:55She's in the bathroom.
16:56She's upset.
16:59I think she's extremely upset.
17:01She got all the flags at every game.
17:04Lisa, are you there?
17:06Sorry, babe.
17:07I hate these people.
17:10Like, I don't want to be,
17:11I don't even really enjoy hanging out with this group.
17:14That's how people perceive her,
17:16and sometimes it's hard, like, when it's only by yourself.
17:19You know, it feels like we're ganging up on her.
17:21It was a lot. It was rough.
17:22But if you guys all said that,
17:23maybe when I went home,
17:24I would be like, maybe they're right.
17:26Larsa has no clue.
17:28He's just, just leave me the alone,
17:30and leave my boyfriend alone.
17:31Stop talking about my family he doesn't know about.
17:34How does everyone conveniently forget all the things
17:36that Larsa did to them?
17:39I heard crazy things about you.
17:41I heard you hooked up with every doctor in the hospital.
17:44I swear to God.
17:45I swear to God.
17:46Someone called me a week ago
17:48and told me you were making out with a man.
17:52Someone that was at your wedding
17:53said a few of the girls at your wedding
17:55were doing things at your wedding.
17:57What kind of thing?
17:58Drugs.
17:59Okay.
18:00I went to meet with Gertie.
18:01She's like, I have breast cancer.
18:03What?
18:04Who the hell do you think you are to talk about
18:06my news to tell people?
18:08Who are you?
18:11Larsa can totally bash you one by one, like,
18:15but I'm being called a narcissist
18:17because I talk about myself too much.
18:20I thought we were here to talk about our problems as friends.
18:25I just want to thank you all for participating today.
18:27I think the exercises will be positive in the end,
18:29and you did a great job.
18:32Thank you, Alexia.
18:33No, thank you.
18:34This is Hocus Pocus TikToker.
18:40Um, I'll be right back.
18:41Thanks.
18:42As I'm having my issues with Julia,
18:45all I wanted to have is someone to say,
18:48you know what?
18:49I have empathy,
18:50and let me help you make it right with the other.
18:52I need you to find a way to rise above it.
18:55Someone's got to rise above it.
18:57So I'm going to apply it to other people
18:58and say, hey guys,
18:59I want you guys just to be better.
19:00Where are you coming?
19:01You're coming from a place of peace, right?
19:02Yes.
19:03Okay, peace.
19:04Peace.
19:05Okay, peace.
19:06One second.
19:07One second.
19:08Okay, Joanna, can you stand up?
19:09Please?
19:10Okay.
19:11Just the two of you,
19:12and listen to each other.
19:14Listen.
19:20Listen.
19:21I know you and I have to talk.
19:22I know you and I have to talk.
19:23This has been going on since summer.
19:24No, we're not.
19:25I'm saying thank you.
19:26I'm a moderator.
19:27I feel like I've been a really good friend to you.
19:29She starts with that.
19:30It never goes well.
19:31I know.
19:32I'm out of here.
19:33You've admitted that.
19:34You've told everyone,
19:35I have been a very good friend to you.
19:36Am I wrong?
19:37Am I wrong?
19:38Have I not been a good friend to you?
19:39Larsa?
19:40Not lately, no.
19:41Have I not been a very good friend to you?
19:42I'm gonna, no.
19:43Nope.
19:44Sorry.
19:45Mediating.
19:46No, no.
19:47Gertie, we don't need you to mediate.
19:48No, we do.
19:49We do.
19:50We do.
19:51You need me that all the time.
19:52No, no, no.
19:53Gertie, I need to speak to Lisa alone.
19:54I think it needs to be the other way around for her to tell her what hurt her.
19:57I guess we'll leave the girls here.
19:59We can get going.
20:00I know it's been a long day.
20:01Yeah.
20:02I really thought when we were making progress at your house,
20:04I really thought, I was like, we're gonna be fine.
20:06But you never spoke to me and said, whatever your issues are, I'm sorry you're going through this.
20:10I've got your back.
20:11That's all I ever wanted you to do.
20:12All she wanted you to do is just say, hey, I've got your back.
20:17I honestly didn't want to come and have a conversation at all with you at his birthday.
20:21But you did and it hurt her.
20:23So say sorry.
20:25The last thing Lisa and I need right now is a referee.
20:28You were mad at me because Marcus took a selfie with Jody.
20:32Don't let him win.
20:34Who does Gertie think she is?
20:36Dr. Phil?
20:37Let's just get together one on one.
20:39We're not in this environment with a bunch of people that have opinions and all that stuff.
20:43A hundred percent.
20:45I just want to have a moment alone with Lisa.
20:48I don't need Gertie or anyone else getting involved in our conversation.
20:51We're gonna figure out our issues.
20:53We're gonna solve our problems, figure out our issues.
20:55But it's not gonna be tonight.
20:56Come on.
20:57So much love.
20:58So much love.
20:59My work is done here.
21:01You're welcome, ladies.
21:12Clinical features of personality disorders.
21:15Yes.
21:16According to the DSM-5, behavior must be pervasive and inflexible.
21:22Are you inflexible, Pasqui?
21:24Are you inflexible with your peeing on my furniture?
21:31She loves this place so much.
21:34Oh.
21:35Oh.
21:36Oh, she's ready.
21:37She freaking love you.
21:38Right?
21:39Stop.
21:40Try again.
21:41Try again.
21:42A little warm up.
21:43Bravo, Tati.
21:44Stay active so you can go to sleep in two hours.
21:47Gosh.
21:49I love this.
21:50How many squats is this equivalent to?
21:52So this is equivalent to 20,000 squats.
21:5520,000 squats.
21:56Yeah.
21:57Turn it all the way up.
21:58All right.
21:59Ooh.
22:00Ooh.
22:01Ooh.
22:02You're gonna pass me a donut?
22:06That's not for you, baby boy.
22:17No.
22:18Back off.
22:19Move your butt.
22:20Move your butt.
22:21Hi.
22:22Welcome.
22:23How are things going?
22:26I'm slightly sleep deprived.
22:28How are you?
22:29I'm like saying hello to you in a twilight zone.
22:32We are not yet official parents of Jackson and Luca.
22:37The state needs to make sure that we are meeting all the needs of the boys.
22:42So this is our main visit.
22:45Yes.
22:46Yes.
22:47And we'll have one next month.
22:48So we're adoptive parents on the way.
22:50Yes.
22:51We are only a few weeks away from becoming the official parents.
22:55But honestly, like Martina and I, we are already their parents from the day one.
23:01So I would love to know what has been the hardest moment for you, bringing the boys home.
23:07I forgot what the diaper situation is, you know?
23:10Oh no.
23:11And it's like really funny.
23:13Four in the morning, 4.30, he's calling me.
23:16And then we have this deal with Martina.
23:19It's you tonight.
23:20It's you.
23:21Or it's me.
23:22It's this and this.
23:23She gets up.
23:24She wants to bond with them more.
23:25She feels, you know, she's a second parent and she loves doing it.
23:30I like that.
23:31I just cannot stop smiling because Martina is spoiling the boys so much.
23:37They have this incredibly cute relationships.
23:40Martina is good at everything.
23:42Of course, she would be a great mom.
23:44I'm a single mom who adopted boys.
23:46Mm-hmm.
23:47Where are you going to have the male role model?
23:50Well, I'm very close with my brother who's 12 years younger than me.
23:54And I FaceTime with him maybe like, I don't know, three times a week.
23:58So they know my brother.
24:00But in the beginning, like maybe 10 days after we had them, we had some friends come into the house.
24:06And the boys froze.
24:09And that's one of the reasons why I don't, like, invite people to my house to see them.
24:14Because I remember, like, that reaction.
24:16They froze and it reminded me about changing homes.
24:20Oh, yes.
24:21It's probably when they felt safe.
24:22Somebody came in.
24:24Think about it.
24:25They don't know, right?
24:26And they say, you're coming with me.
24:27You're changing.
24:28Who can even as an adult comprehend what that feels like?
24:32Oh, my God, look.
24:35Oh, my God.
24:36Thinking of that makes me so sad.
24:38At times, I feel almost hopeless and helpless.
24:41Like, I don't know what to do, how to help them.
24:45But I know it's just time, patience, and love.
24:49But I feel now it's the time I can introduce them outside to my friends.
24:53Yes.
24:54You are so nurturing and you have so much nurture to give.
24:57And these boys need all of that.
25:00I feel so strict.
25:01Hi.
25:02Thunder Stephanie, I think?
25:15Welcome, welcome, welcome.
25:16Thank you so much.
25:17Hi!
25:19Thunder's Stephanie, I think.
25:21Welcome, welcome, welcome.
25:23Thank you so much.
25:24You want a glass of wine?
25:26You're getting a margarita?
25:27Yeah.
25:28Okay, perfect.
25:29Three margarita and one opening star.
25:30Perfect.
25:31But it was very scary.
25:48It was very scary.
25:49Anything that has to do with my parents worries me.
25:52If they have the migraine, I worry.
25:54If a hurricane's coming, I am devastated.
25:56Oh, this is nice.
25:57How do you say it?
25:58Thank you so much.
26:00I installed their nest and ring cameras in their house
26:03and haven't told them that I can see them in their house.
26:07Is that weird?
26:08I think that might be criminal.
26:10It's not criminal, right?
26:11If it's your parents, what if they fall?
26:13I want to know.
26:14I'm turning 40 this year,
26:17and my parents are going to be together.
26:23They are turning 50 years together.
26:27Yeah, yeah.
26:28Tengo corona.
26:29And you guys are the best parents.
26:34I love you.
26:35I love you.
26:36When I decided to introduce my parents to Massoud, I planned a dinner.
26:41My dad didn't say a word.
26:42He was shocked.
26:44He was so close in age to my dad.
26:47Mi papa.
26:48Mi papa.
26:49Mi papa.
26:50And then the second time, they hit it off.
26:52And ever since then, they FaceTime each other during work hours.
26:56And they always, always hang out.
26:59Massoud is a son my parents never had.
27:01That is if my dad had Massoud when he was one.
27:04The way that you raised Tata.
27:07Tata.
27:08Tatika.
27:09Tatika.
27:10She's tough as nail in the office.
27:12She does better job than I do.
27:15But I feel like a lot of what I am as a business woman comes from my dad.
27:20It really does.
27:21I was literally raised like a boy.
27:23It's true.
27:24It's very strict.
27:25It's very rigid.
27:26Learn to ride the bike.
27:28Don't cry.
27:29You can do it.
27:30You're not quitting.
27:31Keep going.
27:32That's it.
27:33And he told me, weak people will never survive.
27:37That's my last sentence.
27:38Put the knife in the mouth and let's go.
27:40I'm not sensitive.
27:42My sisters, they are very, very sensitive.
27:46A lot.
27:47A lot.
27:48My sister's tense relationship with my parents had nothing to do with my fallout with them.
27:52However, my fallout with them made their relationship even worse.
27:55Pareciera que estuviéramos en otro planeta.
27:58They can't talk for two minutes.
28:00It's literally like war.
28:01Es una guerra.
28:02Ya me van a hacer de orar.
28:04No, no llore.
28:05No llore.
28:06No llore.
28:07No llore.
28:08No llore.
28:09No hable con ellos.
28:10No contestan.
28:11No.
28:12Muy poco.
28:13Muy poco más yo.
28:14No, mami.
28:17I want to mend the relationship with my sisters because
28:21I truly, truly miss them.
28:23The day my sisters signed the employment papers at Shoma,
28:27it's almost like if they signed our relationship away.
28:32No, I want to fix it.
28:33Okay.
28:34But it's very hard.
28:35But one day we will all be a complete family.
28:44I feel like my pants are wrinkled.
28:45Does it look wrinkled?
28:46No.
28:47No.
28:48Hey.
28:49Hello.
28:50Hi.
28:51How are you?
28:52I'm Russell.
28:53Hello.
28:54Hello.
28:55Hello.
28:56Hello.
28:57Hello.
28:58How are you?
28:59I'm Russell.
29:00Hello.
29:01Hello.
29:02Hello.
29:03How are you?
29:04How are you?
29:05How are you?
29:06How are you?
29:07How are you?
29:08How are you?
29:09Hello.
29:10How are you?
29:11How are you?
29:12How are you?
29:13How are you?
29:14How are you?
29:15How are you?
29:16How are you?
29:17How are you?
29:18Good to see you in person.
29:19Oh my goodness.
29:20It's so nice meeting you.
29:21It's very cozy.
29:22Have a seat.
29:23Oh my gosh.
29:24That's mean.
29:25Either one of you have been in couples therapy before?
29:27No.
29:28This is a first.
29:29A first for everything here.
29:31Yes.
29:32Talk to me about how y'all met.
29:34So we were in high school, 10th grade.
29:36Okay.
29:37We met.
29:38She fell in love with me at that point.
29:40And the end, right?
29:42That's it.
29:43Boy, bye.
29:44Okay.
29:45So fast forward, you're married.
29:47Yes.
29:48Two sons.
29:49Yep.
29:50Okay.
29:51And then I got cancer.
29:54It's been over a year and a half since my cancer diagnosis,
29:56and now we have to live with the post-cancer trauma.
30:00You have had a major disruption in your marriage.
30:05We went through the cancer together and Russell was by my side through the whole thing.
30:09But I don't want him to see me as like my caretaker because we need to now turn the page and move forward as to being a couple again.
30:17So Russell, I want to hear your wife, this phenomenal woman in a very vulnerable time of her life.
30:24Talk to me about what that was doing to you.
30:33That was hard.
30:35Okay.
30:36You know, when I, when I was at my lowest, like when I was just like in the bed, like just wanted to, I, I, I actually told him I wanted to get, like, I didn't want him more.
30:57Pick chemo.
30:58I want, I don't care what happens.
30:59Maybe it's my time to go.
31:05Take a moment.
31:07Breathe.
31:08And there was one time that I did that and he said, you cannot, you can't do this to me and the kids.
31:20And then he said, I need you.
31:25Then I just fought, completely switched off and never talked about it again.
31:30You see someone that's so powerful, has so much energy, has so much life shut down for, you know, a time, you know, luckily we're, we're able to get over that.
31:46But sometimes she, she feels self-conscious.
31:49He doesn't play into the emotional side that I need him to play into so that I, I don't, so that I don't feel like a patient.
31:57Okay.
31:58So Russell, for you, what do we need to do to turn off that first responder?
32:04Well, I feel like we're getting to that point where I've, I've turned it off, that aspect.
32:14Okay.
32:15You know, we're going through these ups and downs, but you know, you joke about it.
32:19Oh, you always say I'm traumatized.
32:21I'm not traumatized.
32:23I'm amazed.
32:24I'm proud of you.
32:26I'm like, that's my wife.
32:28My God.
32:29I, wow.
32:30Okay.
32:35I, I, I never heard you say like this at all.
32:36Wow.
32:37I would encourage you both, since this is your first time in therapy, consider individual.
32:42I've always wanted her to go on her own because she has issues in the past, like traumatic events that pop up all the time.
32:52The way I came to this country, you know, there's a sense of isolation and abandonment.
32:58I'm one of seven kids.
33:00And then my father decides to come to Miami to start with the church career.
33:04So I came here at the age of nine.
33:06He took only me and my brother.
33:08All the other siblings got to stay in France.
33:11When I get triggered, when somebody like excludes me from something in a mean way.
33:15Let me tell you what happened on the cruise.
33:17Julia clearly used me as a seat filler.
33:20When I brought that up, we said, why didn't she have her seat with you for dinner?
33:24And she said, because Sandy had given the seat to somebody else when she realized Martina wasn't coming.
33:31Who would say, no, you can't bring her?
33:33But she knows me.
33:34I get triggered by my new little thing.
33:38To be brought to the US, not speaking English, dropped off at some cousin's house and told, we'll be right back.
33:46We're going to get the other siblings.
33:47We'll be back.
33:48And not seeing my parents for three months.
33:50I had no control.
33:51And I think that could maybe be the reason why.
33:54Wow.
33:55I just, that could maybe be the reason why I am the way I am right now.
33:59Oh my God.
34:00It's part of the traumatic experience.
34:03I would highly encourage that you speak to your own therapist.
34:08Welcome.
34:09Hi.
34:10Hi.
34:11What's going on?
34:12How are you?
34:13Good.
34:14How are you?
34:15I'm okay.
34:17You just said your hair looks good.
34:31I feel like we are coordinated.
34:33Neutrals.
34:34Oh, does that mean it's a good sign?
34:36I hope so.
34:37There's no reason why Lisa and I should have been fighting for this long.
34:41Like, we were best friends.
34:43Can I do Casamigos Reposado Soda?
34:45I'll do the same.
34:46Same one.
34:47I'm hoping that Lisa comes today with an open mind and heart and accepts some responsibility.
34:54So.
34:55Yeah.
34:56Um.
34:57Excuse me ladies.
34:58Reposado over here.
35:00Thank you so much.
35:01You.
35:03Thank you lady.
35:04I wasn't actually looking forward to this.
35:07We're not.
35:08No.
35:09With Larissa, I need to figure out where her mind is at.
35:12We're going to either resolve our issues or just be done with her.
35:18Malone kidding me before we like sit down.
35:19Like honestly.
35:20Like.
35:21There's a lot.
35:22There's a lot to dive into.
35:23You know what?
35:24We've been having these like crazy like issues since summer.
35:28I've never been thrown out of anyone's house.
35:30The whole world knows what you are.
35:31Get out.
35:32You loser.
35:33Get out.
35:34And I've never been swore at like that in my house.
35:36Yes you have.
35:37Jody and I left a real party for your fake breakup.
35:39You're a fake bitch to say that.
35:41Things kind of like snowballed after that.
35:43I was really hurt when I left Milan, just so you know.
35:46The last night of Milan, Jody gets so crazy.
35:49He doesn't want us to talk anymore.
35:51He's yelling over us.
35:52What?
35:53You got heated because of Marcus.
35:54It's a touchy subject.
35:55No.
35:56He said to me, you're the one that had the paparazzi take the photo of him in the south of France.
36:00And I said, me?
36:01What am I?
36:02And that's what started it all.
36:03Well, the paparazzi guy told us that.
36:05Okay.
36:06Well, you're full of .
36:10Why are you saying I'm full of .
36:11Okay.
36:12That's not what happened.
36:13Your boyfriend lies.
36:14I don't want to like escalate this.
36:15We're trying to, I'm trying to deescalate.
36:16Okay.
36:17I'm just a better friend.
36:20Do you hear yourself?
36:21Yeah, you're running low on friends.
36:23I'm the only friend that literally would take time to meet you for lunch.
36:26You change friends like I change underwear.
36:28You need to learn how to be a better friend.
36:30You'd be a better friend.
36:31I think the same about you.
36:32I'm not the only one.
36:33Because you saw when you got all the red flags.
36:35Oh, right.
36:36Constantly talking about themselves.
36:38Sorry, monkey.
36:39I think Lisa, yeah.
36:40Lisa.
36:41Quick to take offense.
36:44Lisa is quick to take offense.
36:46Lisa.
36:47Lisa.
36:48Lisa.
36:49Playing the victim.
36:50Lisa.
36:51Lisa.
36:52Lisa.
36:53Lisa.
36:54Oh, boy.
36:55Do I regret putting all those flags in Lisa's face?
36:59No.
37:00Do I regret making her feel bad?
37:03Yes, I do.
37:04That was a complete dogpile.
37:07You're a narcissist.
37:08I'm a narcissist.
37:09You're a larsisist.
37:10Okay, everyone is against you.
37:12All the girls in our group.
37:13It's just the truth.
37:14Why do you have a hard time dealing with the truth?
37:16No.
37:17I'm dealing with the truth.
37:18You have a hard time dealing with the truth.
37:19No.
37:20I'm dealing with the truth.
37:21He's in the bathroom.
37:22That's insane.
37:23Dude, we're not getting anywhere with this.
37:41Okay, everyone is against you.
37:42All the girls in our group.
37:43It's just the truth.
37:44Alexia.
37:45She goes, look at the flags.
37:46Everybody hates you.
37:47They're not your friend or whatever.
37:48Oh, my gosh.
37:49Well, that's not true.
37:50I know, but it's really gross that she's saying that no one is my friend and everyone thinks
38:07I'm terrible.
38:08No.
38:09Lisa, I'm so sorry, babe.
38:11I'm telling you, please don't not believe that.
38:13I know.
38:14I don't want to believe that.
38:15But, like, she's throwing all, she's like, she's so terrible.
38:19Any African American or Hispanic that votes for Kamala, you gotta have your headaches.
38:26You know how it appears when I have everybody piling up?
38:27I just left my dad.
38:28I just left my dad.
38:29I mean, it's just so mean and hurtful to think, like, this group of girls.
38:31Like, what Lars is saying is true.
38:32That no one likes me.
38:33Like, no one likes me.
38:34It's so mean.
38:35Like, it's so mean.
38:36Esau, it's not true.
38:37Esau, it's not true.
38:38It's so mean.
38:39Esau, it's not true.
38:40Esau, it's not true.
38:41It's so mean.
38:42And she's calling me a narcissist.
38:43It's messed up.
38:44Hi, ma'am.
38:45Hi.
38:46I'm sorry.
38:47You look very loud.
38:48Oh, I'm sorry.
38:49Oh, yeah, sure, sure.
38:50Yep, yep.
38:51I'm sorry.
38:52It's so mean.
38:53It's not just a bad thing.
38:54I'm not kidding.
38:55We'll be seeing equestrian sheets like never before.
38:57You know how it appears when I have everybody piling up?
38:58I just left my dad.
38:59I mean, it's just so mean and hurtful to think, like, this group of girls, like, what Lars is
39:01saying is true, that no one likes me.
39:02Like, it's so mean.
39:03Esau, it's not true.
39:04Esau, it's not true.
39:05And she's calling me a narcissist.
39:09It's messed up.
39:11Hi, ma'am.
39:12Hi.
39:13I'm sorry.
39:14You look very loud.
39:15Yeah, sure, sure.
39:16Yep, yep, yep.
39:17Thank you so much.
39:18Sure.
39:19I'm sorry about that.
39:20Sorry.
39:21Yeah.
39:22But I just want you to go out there and tell her, we're not talking about any other girls
39:25right now.
39:26This is between you and I.
39:27Okay, please take a hold of yourself and go out there and do it.
39:30Okay.
39:31I am to the point, I'm to, like, .
39:34I'm, like, to, like, my last hair.
39:35These girls gonna, like, fix it.
39:37So, .
39:38It's like, I'm just, like, tired of it.
39:41I don't, I don't know.
39:42I don't even know what to say.
39:43Like, I'm really hurt.
39:44And I think maybe you wanted that.
39:46I think that you.
39:47How am I trying to hurt you by telling you to be a better friend?
39:50Yeah.
39:51What have I done to you besides be there for you?
39:52You're saying.
39:53Stay up with you all night whenever we travel.
39:55You always say this stuff.
39:56You can call me at any time.
39:57I always answer.
39:58The more the story is I was looking for you to be a better friend to me.
40:02That's all.
40:03That's where this all stemmed from.
40:04I love you.
40:05I'm sorry I came to Jodi's party in college.
40:07You a bitch.
40:08I'm sorry you lost your dad and felt like I wasn't there for you the way maybe you feel like I should have been.
40:14Can you accept some responsibility in some of this, too?
40:17Yeah, in hindsight, if I would have known all of the stuff that was happening and I would have known your true emotions and your feelings, we wouldn't be here today.
40:26So I'm sorry for that.
40:27That I didn't know, but I really just didn't know.
40:30I didn't know.
40:31And I wish that I could, like, sometimes pull it out of you, like, to get your feelings, to get how you feel.
40:37But you have this tough exterior and it's hard to, like, get in there.
40:41You know, it's hard to, like...
40:42No, I get it.
40:44I think we both have to do a better job of, like, communicating and, like, picking up the phone and not having things go on as long as this situation has lasted.
40:54It's gone on forever.
40:55That's terrible.
40:56I hate it.
40:57I don't like having conflicts.
40:58Just be able to call your friends and know that your friends have your back and always have your back.
41:05I know deep down we have love for each other.
41:07Larsa is really there for me and she would always take my phone calls and listen to me and, like, going out and just...
41:14We have mutual friends.
41:15I would give anything to go back to that.
41:17I don't want to be fighting with her.
41:19I literally looked at our Instagram, our photos, and I was like, some of my best pictures are with you.
41:24So I was like, we've had so many fun times and fun memories.
41:27And I love you.
41:29And if we have problems, Lisa, we can't let her go this long.
41:32I do miss hanging out with Lisa.
41:33We used to laugh about the silliest things together.
41:36You know, I don't want to be in the same room with Lisa where I'm feeling something in the pit of my stomach instead of being super excited to see her like I used to be.
41:44Can we be with best friends again?
41:46I don't know, we need, like, couples therapy or something.
41:48Okay.
41:49You know?
41:50I think we should do that.
41:51Like, serious, like, therapy, you know?
41:53Okay.
41:54Well, I don't want to fight with you.
41:55I love you.
41:56I know, like, you go through things.
41:57I'm going through things.
41:58I don't want to fight with you.
41:59I love you.
42:01Next time on The Real Housewives of Miami.
42:02Hold on, this necklace?
42:03I can smell money and that's money.
42:04I smell it too.
42:05My husband smells delicious.
42:06Oh, yeah.
42:07I'm going to shed some clarity on the situation that has cast a cloud on my character.
42:20Oh, my God.
42:21What?
42:22Oh, my God.
42:23Maybe this is your norm because you're married to a crazy guy.
42:28Leave my husband out of it.
42:30You need to shut the up.
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