Why Painful Relationships Are Actually Accelerating Your Growth

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What if your heartbreak is a deliberate step in your evolution? 🌱 In this video, we dive into the hidden purpose of “initiation relationships” — the connections that feel incompatible but exist to TRANSFORM you. Learn how to: ✅ Stop wasting time trying to “fix” these relationships ✅ Use friction as fuel for self-discovery ✅ Walk away with gratitude (not resentment)  🔔 Subscribe for weekly spiritual growth strategies – your future self will thank you. 👇

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00:00There's a third reason why people get together that's not only about love and compatibility

00:05and that is initiation. Sometimes we find people in our lives and on a soul level we know that only

00:12they are going to be able to give us the exact friction that is required in order for us to

00:17finally break free from patterns or habits or have some kind of fast track transformation.

00:23And one of the ways that we waste this experience is by trying to make an initiation relationship

00:29a relationship of love and compatibility. It's inherently without compatibility that's what

00:36creates the friction and so when we're able to face this relationship at face value of what it's

00:41here to do and what it's here to offer we don't waste the experience because we're not staying

00:46in this victim mindset. Sometimes we can end up in a victim mindset if we try to make this something

00:52that it is not because we'll sit here and we'll think oh if only they tried harder or if only I

00:57acted differently or if only blah blah blah blah and feeling like a victim. I'm a victim because

01:02this is not going to end in a happy ending and I deserve a happy ending. Well what if it's this

01:07exact relationship that transforms you into the person you are meant to be for the rest of your

01:12entire life. When you're able to approach it that way then you can start to look at it with grace and

01:17you can walk away with love still intact in your heart. We can have so much love for the people that

01:22have entered our lives for what they brought rather than hating them for what they couldn't bring.

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