If you’re a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) stuck in a cycle of “pathological kindness” with a narcissist or emotionally immature partner, this video is your lifeline. Learn: ✅ Why HSPs attract narcissists (and vice versa) ✅ The #1 mistake that keeps you trapped ✅ How to set boundaries WITHOUT guilt
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00:00So often the highly sensitive person finds himself with the narcissistic or incredibly emotionally immature person and they form this human magnet and sometimes it can almost feel breakup resistant because the highly sensitive person is going to continually try to take care of or manage the emotions of the narcissistic or emotionally immature person.
00:16So they're going to diffuse their anger, their discomfort into the relationship and the highly sensitive person will say, OK, well, I'll take blame. I'll take ownership. I'll continue to work on things. And that can be really tough. The pathologically kind is what I call it. And if you know the concept around pathology, it means that you are kind to your detriment.
00:32So kindness in itself is an amazing thing. But when it's taken advantage of, it can actually hurt you. And so I will often have people that are coming out of these emotionally abusive, narcissistic relationships.
00:41And then they'll say things like I need to just change my whole personality. And I say, no, you need to really lean into your personality, your character, but then learn how to set boundaries or really keep yourself out of these relationships with emotionally immature, narcissistic people.
00:53And then when you've been playing a role in the relationship, like I'm always the one that's going to take it. I'm always the one that's going to try to fix it.
00:58And then you all of a sudden don't and you stand up for yourself, then it will disrupt the relationship dynamic.
01:02And the emotionally immature, narcissistic person is now going to try to push every button they can to get you back into the position you were because that was comfortable for them.