Feeling lost in your relationship? This isn’t a crisis—it’s a breakthrough. In this video, I unpack why being “lost” is the first step to radical self-discovery (and how my own relationship became a mirror for everything I’d repressed). 🔥
👉 Key Takeaways:
Why “performing” in relationships keeps you stuck
How to turn confusion into clarity
The question that rewired my self-worth
Smash 👍 and subscribe if you’re ready to stop chasing love and start building it from within. Let’s grow together. 🔔
👉 Key Takeaways:
Why “performing” in relationships keeps you stuck
How to turn confusion into clarity
The question that rewired my self-worth
Smash 👍 and subscribe if you’re ready to stop chasing love and start building it from within. Let’s grow together. 🔔
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00:00People who are lost are actually in the process of finding who they are.
00:03So if you felt lost in the relationship, you're finding who you are.
00:07I know for myself that being in a relationship, for the first time, I recognized that there
00:10wasn't really a loss.
00:11And I was like, well, how could there be a loss?
00:13I found who I am.
00:14Well, what did I find?
00:14I found everything about me that I repressed on a daily basis.
00:17And the relationship was a giant red flag of everything I'm not addressing.
00:22And so now I realize, well, then what was I when I was single?
00:24It's not this.
00:25My single me is a performance to attract someone, someone.
00:29I'm not looking for someone.
00:30I'm looking for the person for me.
00:32Now that's particular.
00:33And then you might go, well, I don't know what I need.
00:35If you asked yourself that you don't know what you need, you're half the way there.
00:39Because if you accepted that you don't know what you want, then you could discover that.
00:42And you'll be lost for a little.
00:43And then you'll be found.