Before You Fall in Love… Watch This (Attachment vs. Love Explained)

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00:00Your advice for someone who's about to fall in love?

00:03Don't do it. No, I'm joking. Of course, fall in love. It's the most important thing ever.

00:08My advice would be to have a look at how your own personal insecurities might turn that love into

00:13attachment. And what you don't want is an attachment. What you really want is love.

00:20And what the difference is, is attachment is what this person provides for me, how this person can

00:26fill that void in my life. What love is, is how can we both contribute to each other's well-being

00:31and only fall in love with somebody that you feel you provide value for, but equally they do it for

00:38you as well. We are both providing for equal value. If you are falling in love with someone and you're

00:43hoping and praying that they solve all your problems, that's not going to work. Or if you're

00:46hoping and praying that you solve all their problems and therefore they're going to be so impressed by

00:49you, that's not going to work either. So make sure that you have a healthy understanding of what love

00:54really involves before you do it.

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