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  • 6/4/2025
This one might challenge you — but it's the kind of real talk we need more of.
Men, your partner isn't asking you to guess what she needs.
She's showing you every day. What she's really craving is intentionality, presence, and thoughtful action.

In this video, I break down what it actually looks like to be emotionally attuned and how paying attention to the small things changes your relationship — and your growth — for good.

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Transcript
00:00hey this one might piss you off but it's okay if it does because if you actually listen and pay
00:04attention and implement what i'm about to share with you your marriage likely gets a whole lot
00:08better she doesn't need you to read her mind i know that that's like a circulating idea amongst
00:14men it's like a joke like hey why do women expect us to read their mind they don't they just want
00:20you to pick up on what they have been showing you for the amount of time that you've been together
00:26and then utilize that information to spontaneously or in a calculated way share with them give to
00:34them show up for them in thoughtful mindful appreciative and loving ways like if she always
00:40buys the same bottle of wine same brand every time and you notice that it's run out grab some on your
00:46way home from work without her asking or if she always wants takeout from one particular place
00:51every time she's been stressed out it's been a long week when you notice that things are a bit
00:56off and she's feeling that type of way just let her know that you took care of it or if she always
00:59like raves about one particular experience that you guys have had together it was a weekend away it was
01:04a day trip to somewhere and she talks about it often just like on a whim book that thing don't wait
01:11for a birthday or an anniversary or a christmas present just take a look at your schedules and pick
01:15a weekend and put it on the calendar she doesn't want you to read her mind she wants you to show that
01:21you're paying attention and you're paying attention and you understand her and you're willing to take
01:25action in ways that align with that understanding so hope that helps
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