Why can’t some men love the woman who stands right in front of them, giving everything? The painful truth is this: when men haven’t healed, vulnerability feels like a threat, not a bridge to intimacy.
In this video, I dive into the psychology behind why emotionally unavailable men pull away from powerful, loving women. It’s not you—it’s their fear of losing you, their competition with other men, and their own shame. This clarity helped me stop blaming myself and start healing.
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00:02Like, I look back on certain relationships where I really, I genuinely gave my best and tried and did everything and like overcompensated, like I've said.
00:11But it's like, why can't you, why can't a man in that situation that has a good woman in front of him, why can't you put that ego aside for just a second?
00:20Why?
00:20Because it's scary.
00:23Terrifying.
00:24If you're an amazing woman that's doing a lot of the great things and that means other people can see that, that means other men can see that.
00:33And I'm in competition with other men.
00:35So I need to stop you from seeing that other men can be an option.
00:40I need you to focus on me.
00:42And I'm scared because if I become vulnerable to you and let's say you like someone else or you do something with someone else and I lose you, then how am I going to live with myself?
00:51But they lose you anyway.
00:53Well, we don't expect it.
00:55And then if we do lose you on that account, then it's because of something wrong with you.
