Second Date Update - Dirty Laundry

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00Well, Nina is in the dark about what's going on with her and Justin.

00:04It's our second date update right now.

00:05We are trying to match them back up on another date.

00:07It's commercial-free New Country, 99.5, QYK.

00:11Justin has agreed to talk to us, which I'm pumped about.

00:13And let's just get to it right now.

00:14Justin, you there?

00:15I'm here.

00:16Hey, man, thanks for agreeing to talk to us.

00:19You know, Nina told us a little bit about your guys' date,

00:21how you guys went to downtown St. Pete.

00:23You guys actually have been on two dates, which is a good sign.

00:25You guys shared a kiss at the end of that second date.

00:28So we would think things are going well between you two.

00:31But I guess the communication between you has stopped.

00:35What's going on?

00:36Dude, that girl is a hot mess.

00:39I'm surprised she got together enough to call you guys and, like, organize a phone call.

00:44Really?

00:44Why do you say that?

00:46I went to her house, and, I mean, it was just a mess.

00:49It looked like a bomb went off in there.

00:51There were trash bags everywhere, clothes everywhere.

00:55I mean, you know, the kitchen was cluttered.

00:58You know, cups all over the countertop.

01:00It was a lot.

01:02So whatever.

01:04Maybe it was a bad day for her, although that must have taken many days.

01:09But, you know, we made it to my car, and, you know, she's just all over the place.

01:14She's very frantic.

01:15Like, she's got a stack of mail with her, like, opening her mail.

01:18She's on her phone the whole time.

01:21Like, it's just very strange and not put together.

01:27Yeah.

01:28It was not what I expected.

01:29You know, you expect a woman to keep her home night, you know, and it was just, it was a little much to deal with.

01:37Now, was this at the end of the day, or was this, like, when you went and picked her up or something?

01:40This is when I went and picked her up.

01:42Oh, okay.

01:42So she, you're, like, in her house for how long?

01:46Um, long enough.

01:47Too long.

01:48Wow.

01:50And this is the sole reason you're not calling her back.

01:53Yeah.

01:53At the end of two dates, I realized that I just can't work with this person.

01:58Well, you must be a very neat and clean person.

02:01I am very neat and clean.

02:02I mean, I don't think I'm, you know, anal about it.

02:05But definitely need more organization than she does.

02:10Okay.

02:11Well, Justin, we do have Nina on the phone.

02:13That's how we got your number.

02:13You knew that.

02:14Um, I want to bring her back on right now.

02:16Nina.

02:17Yeah.

02:17Wow.

02:18I'm honestly, I'm shocked.

02:20I'm shocked.

02:21I don't know.

02:21You know, I don't know, Justin, if you think all women should be Suzy Homemakers, but that's

02:27certainly, you know, not what I am.

02:29I work a lot and you caught me in on a really bad day.

02:32And for you to come, first of all, go on the radio and say that I'm frantic.

02:37I'm chaotic.

02:38I'm all these things.

02:39Like I'm messy is insane.

02:41You caught me at a bad time.

02:43I can't, you know, I can't do everything.

02:45Plus I agreed to go out with you because I like you.

02:47So I put that on the back burner to go out with you.

02:50It looked like you put your house on the back burner for like a year and a half.

02:54Okay.

02:55Well, you know, sometimes days get away from us and we can't do, you know, we can't do

02:59things right away.

03:00I had to pay my bills in the car.

03:03The bills got away from me.

03:04I work night shifts sometimes.

03:05Like I can't keep up with all of the housework all of the time.

03:09I don't necessarily like doing these things.

03:11So sometimes it's a little bit just easier to leave it on the counter and get to it later.

03:16Well, yeah, it's always easier.

03:18There are easier things to do in life, but they don't always benefit us.

03:21Right.

03:22So it looks like it's easy.

03:22Well, I mean, it benefits me.

03:24It benefited us.

03:25We went out on a date and we had a great time.

03:28I mean, you didn't strike me as the type of person who would come in and just start judging

03:31me based on all my stuff.

03:33I don't think your organization skills would really work in the long run with me.

03:39I mean, you call me at a bad time.

03:41If you're OCD and like super anal, I don't really want to be with you anyway.

03:45So that's fine.

03:46How long did that bad time last for?

03:49Was it like a few years, a decade?

03:50No, not a few years.

03:53I mean, you don't need to be rude about it.

03:54Sometimes time get away from us.

03:56We have other things to do.

03:58We don't keep up our home every day.

04:00Yeah, Justin.

04:01I mean, listen, anybody's house can get away from them or whatever.

04:04I mean, but the point is, let's focus on the dates.

04:06You had a good time on the dates, right?

04:08I had a good time.

04:09But the thing is, like, you know, eventually I got the picture that like her personality

04:14sort of mirrors her cleanliness skills.

04:18Like, she's just a very chaotic person.

04:21She's just, she's all over the place, you know?

04:24That sort of vibe, that energy was a lot.

04:28She's never really focused, you know?

04:31So this is going to be a deal breaker for you?

04:33She's a hot mess.

04:34I think it's a deal breaker.

04:35You know what I mean?

04:37That's all I can say.

04:38You don't file it under hot mess.

04:40It's so weird because usually it's reversed.

04:42It's usually like guys are more messier and the girls are more cleaner.

04:45So that's so weird.

04:47All right.

04:47Well, Nina, it sounds like Justin's not looking for another date.

04:50I'm sorry.

04:51You know, Alyssa just caught you on a bad day, you said.

04:54And he's kind of a little worried about it.

04:57So maybe too worried about it.

04:59It's his loss.

05:00Yeah.

05:00Thanks for coming on, guys.

05:02Nina, sorry we couldn't help you out more.

05:03Justin, I appreciate your time.

05:05You have a great day.

05:06You too, thanks.

05:07All right.

05:07See ya.

05:08Listen, if you have completely different personalities like that,

05:11one where you just don't care and your house goes to whatever and then you're someone who

05:17is super OCD about things, that's never going to work.

05:21Even as shallow and kind of jerky as he sounded, I kind of, it would not have been a good match

05:27at all.

05:28No.

05:29I mean, you could use your OCD skills and maybe help her with her non-OCD skills.

05:35It might frustrate him even more.

05:38Right.

05:38Absolutely.

05:39So, yeah, it's probably best they don't go back out again.

05:41All right.

05:41I want to see what you think, though.

05:42800-992-1099.

05:44800-992-1099.

05:47What do you think of these two?

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