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Second Date Update - Declined
Beasley Digital
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4/23/2025
Second Date Update - Declined
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00:00
it is a second date update right now we are trying to help out eric he wants to get on
00:04
another date with lisa we're gonna see if we can make that happen right now um they went out to a
00:09
nice restaurant boulon in downtown tampa great place but he has not heard from her since that
00:14
date and we're gonna try to get to the bottom of what's going on right now uh we have lisa on hold
00:18
let's bring her on lisa you there yeah hi hey thanks for talking to kevin off the air and uh
00:25
agreeing to come on with us we do appreciate that you just kind of heard us talking about
00:29
your date that you went on with eric and you guys went to boulon and i'll tell you what he thought
00:35
things were clicking and that he would definitely be seeing you again i guess he even asked if it
00:41
was okay if he hit you up to go out again and you seem to be open to that but has not heard anything
00:46
from you since the date is confused about what's going on we were just wondering if you could let
00:51
us know what's happening or maybe we can help out and and set up another date for you guys oh well
00:56
first off let's clear up a little something here did he actually tell you what happened at the end
01:01
of our date uh he just told us that you guys talked about maybe hanging out again oh my god so this is
01:07
so embarrassing so at the end of our date our check comes and he wanted to pay which is fine
01:13
but his card got declined and they brought it back to the table and everyone around us heard and i have
01:19
never been so embarrassed in a public place in my life like i was so upset i was like oh my like oh
01:25
my god how dare you put me in this position and it was super awkward and you know the thing is just
01:32
don't take me to a nice restaurant if you can't afford it it's really that simple but he put me in such
01:36
an awkward position okay um did you end up paying no i didn't end up paying he paid with another card
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but you know what this kind of shows me is he's just not responsible with his financial planning
01:49
and the thing is like you know now going into a date i'm gonna have this notion about him that he's
01:56
not responsible with his money and i don't think that's something i can handle that's a huge red flag
02:01
for me wow all right just because his card got declined huh yeah i mean again i just don't need to
02:07
be embarrassed like that especially on a first date all right well uh it's a lot um because i
02:15
mean that's happened to me before and it wasn't because i didn't have money it's just because
02:18
something happened with my card but um we do have eric on the phone with us lisa i was wondering it'd
02:23
be cool if we could bring him back on with us oh yeah sure i'm surprised he can pay his phone bill
02:29
oh okay um uh eric you there yeah i'm here uh you heard what lisa had to say i'm just gonna
02:36
kind of let you respond i'm just like so confused by the whole thing yeah my card got frozen because
02:41
it was apparently there was fraud fraud fraudulent charges on the car earlier in the week which it
02:47
does happen to people and i had another card and i and i paid with the other card it wasn't a big deal
02:51
like it was all said and done in five minutes so i guess i'm really just like taken back right now
02:57
like this is really that big of a deal i mean if you really don't understand like the type of
03:03
position you put me in i don't really know what else to say to you because it was so awkward and
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honestly really rude of you okay you didn't pay though so it's not like i was stuck i didn't have
03:14
another card to use and i had to say hey this is weird can you pay for this like i ended up paying
03:20
it with another card so it was handled pretty pretty rapidly and so you're blowing this out of
03:25
proportion for no reason no no i'm not blowing this out of proportion this is your credit card and i
03:31
honestly need someone who's very responsible and on top of everything so i mean even if your card
03:37
like had fraudulent charges your bank would have reached out to you and you would have already
03:40
known ahead of time and honestly like eric if you can't afford to take me out you just don't take me
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out like that's fine but don't put me in that position again you're being completely unfair yes i
03:53
can afford to take you out for dinner it was just that one card it was just frozen because like i said
03:59
something happened that was an accident by the way i can't control that either i couldn't control
04:04
that situation and so i gave him the card it was still frozen okay no big deal here try this one
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and then it was handled this has happened to me at a fast food place before my car had been declined
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and so i don't know if it's about him not being able to afford something his card had fraudulent
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charges it got fixed does your card work now eric yes it's fixed like the next day i called the bank
04:25
and they fixed it right so i mean this happens to everybody this has never happened to you lisa
04:29
actually no this has never happened to me before so you know i just don't understand how this would
04:36
happen and you wouldn't know about it ahead of time and i know you've used another card but again
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it was just so humiliating like everybody around us could hear what was going on so that put me in a
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position where you know everyone around us was like honestly pitying me and i really don't need that
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first of all the people around us are strangers who does accept what they think number one and the
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fact that you're like hung up on what people thought around you do you know them you think
05:03
they're laughing at you and going on facebook and making posts about it like they don't care
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i really don't know how to stress this to you but if i have to again this also shows me that you are
05:13
just not being on top of your life these are things like your credit card being declined that you
05:18
really need to be on top of and frankly you need to take responsibility okay
05:22
hey like i really enjoyed our day and i really liked you but like hearing you now i'm like
05:28
shaking my head and and i don't know even what to say to be honest my question i guess would be to
05:35
lisa is lisa this is going to be a deal breaker for you because his card got declined really
05:39
listen like i'll give him another chance and eric i'll go out with you but if this happens again
05:44
this is a major red flag and i just would not feel comfortable moving forward with a relationship with
05:49
you you know beginning of this conversation i was all about it but honestly i don't know like i need
05:56
to kind of step back at the moment and see if this is even worth my time because if she's losing her
06:01
mind about this like what other little thing will she blow up about like i don't need that kind of
06:06
drama honestly i don't know all right all right whatever it's your loss if you don't want to hang out
06:12
again honestly like i don't even think that you're worth the embarrassment i thought wow
06:19
really my love my goodness okay well listen guys um i'll let you guys handle that you know uh lisa's
06:28
down to hang out again eric but that's totally going to be up to you now so i'll let you guys
06:32
contact each other if you want to do that but i do appreciate you both coming on uh lisa thanks for
06:37
your time eric thanks for your time you guys have a great day okay all right thank you you got it
06:43
thanks a lot uh wow yeah that was uh that did not go the direction i thought was gonna go well
06:49
especially at the end there when he decided i don't really want to go out with this girl again and i
06:53
kind of don't blame him i mean that was pretty harsh i mean that happens to people their cars can
06:58
get frozen fraudulent charges whatever but he really took that personal all right do you think it's a
07:03
good idea for them to go back out or is this a good idea that maybe they don't go back out
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